Ali Dawah - November 29, 2019


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Episode Stats

Length

13 minutes

Words per Minute

195.50899

Word Count

2,612

Sentence Count

208

Misogynist Sentences

4

Hate Speech Sentences

10


Summary

In this episode, we talk about how important it is to take care of your family when it comes to shahada. We also talk about what it means to be a good role model for your family and how to deal with the pressures of being a religious leader.


Transcript

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00:00:11.180 One day I'm checking my messages on Instagram and randomly I just see this message.
00:00:17.400 And it's a sister who is interested in Islam. So this is what she sent me.
00:00:21.760 And obviously at first I was thinking, okay, it could be a fake account, etc.
00:00:25.980 So I was talking and she was saying that she's ready to accept Islam.
00:00:29.960 So just talking to her a little bit, I decided that, okay, let's meet.
00:00:35.860 Obviously before I did, I had to ask her to prove that it's not a fake account.
00:00:39.460 So she sent a voice note. You know, I could hear a voice that it's a female.
00:00:43.180 Okay. I said, okay, excuse me.
00:00:45.860 So yeah, we met and this is how it went. Enjoy it. This was an emotional story.
00:00:58.960 That's what you're saying.
00:01:16.120 Yeah. So yeah, basically the thing with Shahada is when you take it and the person assists you in doing it, then it's an equal reward.
00:01:27.360 Red camels.
00:01:28.000 But I see it as this is a team type of thing.
00:01:33.960 And also what is very important is for you, I want you to understand that if you take your Shahada, that it doesn't stop there.
00:01:42.600 So we like an extended family for you.
00:01:45.000 You live down the road if you have any questions.
00:01:46.840 Because we know how difficult it can be sometimes at the beginning.
00:01:51.100 But the more support you have, the easier it gets.
00:01:55.460 And you said that you pretty much have done your research.
00:01:59.420 Yeah, that's what I was saying.
00:02:00.060 Because when I was there with the sister, basically I thought, you know, okay.
00:02:03.240 Because I got hot chocolate. It might be a long conversation.
00:02:06.480 And she was like, no, you know, she watches my videos, Mufti Meng's, a few other brothers as well, etc.
00:02:13.900 So, and she said, look, I'm actually ready.
00:02:17.140 And I thought, okay, subhanAllah, let's just get the coffee and takeaway and come and see Brother Dawood's wife, inshallah.
00:02:23.580 Because, you know, she can help him.
00:02:26.000 Because obviously, we're brothers, you know, sister to sister, I can show her how to pray.
00:02:29.640 And I was just giving her a reminder, I was just telling the sister that, you know, if you think about it, like, I'm a revert to Islam.
00:02:34.540 Dawood is, his wife is, and inshallah, this sister is going to accept Islam now as well.
00:02:39.260 If you think about it, it's like Allah chooses specific people.
00:02:42.380 Because a lot of revers, if you think about it, sister, it's like, you're chosen to bear that flag.
00:02:46.900 Do you get it?
00:02:47.380 And you're representing it to your family, you know.
00:02:49.720 And a lot of people, like you said, your siblings came to Islam, right?
00:02:52.500 Yeah.
00:02:52.840 Yeah, like my mum did, my brother did.
00:02:54.740 Your wives?
00:02:56.080 Any family members?
00:02:57.040 Yeah.
00:02:57.960 Exactly, few.
00:02:58.640 Do you get what I'm trying to say?
00:02:59.440 So bear that in mind that Allah has chosen you, sister, to be that representative, yeah.
00:03:04.360 And now, along the lines, it's going to be ups and downs.
00:03:07.740 Because Allah says in the Quran, do you not think that you're going to say, I believe and not be tested.
00:03:10.840 You are going to be tested.
00:03:11.680 Why?
00:03:12.340 To see the true for ones compared to the false ones.
00:03:16.600 And I would say the best representation that you could do, and I said this to you as well when it was coming here,
00:03:20.780 is your behaviour, your akhlaq, your character, your manners, the way you carry yourself.
00:03:25.500 Because a lot of the time, sometimes, you know, you might be hot-headed like Daoud, like his dad used to say.
00:03:30.500 And his dad said that he was very proud of him.
00:03:32.900 Why?
00:03:33.060 Because he saw the change, the responsibility.
00:03:34.660 And I've seen that in him as well, alhamdulillah, after I came to Islam and, you know, being a father himself.
00:03:39.580 But it's very important for us to understand that.
00:03:42.300 Because sometimes you get caught with certain groups, and these groups can take you on a road to destruction.
00:03:48.680 And what will happen is you will start despising your family.
00:03:50.780 Trust me.
00:03:51.280 And sister, my advice to you, do not ever fall for that.
00:03:54.720 If you have a group of people like, oh, these people are innovators, these people are disbelievers,
00:03:59.740 what happens is you're going to build this hate.
00:04:01.460 Because what they're doing is you're sincere, you're still young, yeah?
00:04:04.260 You're going to be thinking to yourself, yeah, you know, I've got, and you're going to get an imam boost, a faith boost, yeah?
00:04:09.180 So when you come to Islam, it's going to be all lovely, yeah?
00:04:12.020 Everything is rose, you see roses everywhere, yeah?
00:04:14.860 But what's going to happen is people take advantage of that.
00:04:17.240 And then what happens is that you come home and you start despising your family.
00:04:20.900 Oh, you guys are Christian, you guys are this, or you guys are Buddhists, or you guys are whatever, whatever.
00:04:25.560 And you start being harsh to them.
00:04:27.160 And now they're going to be looking at you and thinking, okay, so this is the beautiful Islam that you've been telling us about.
00:04:32.040 And they're going to judge you based on your behavior.
00:04:35.220 And that's the reason why the Prophet, peace be upon him, said to us, he said this, and it's very profound.
00:04:39.480 He said, I did not come for nothing but to perfect good character.
00:04:43.000 And that is profound because Islam should beautify one, you know?
00:04:47.240 And this is how manners are, you know?
00:04:49.880 It's very important for you to understand that it's going to be a struggle, yeah?
00:04:53.000 When I came to Islam, I don't know about you, I got kicked out of my house.
00:04:55.380 I had to live in Musa's house for about three weeks.
00:04:57.240 I lived in Brother Imran's house as well, yeah?
00:04:59.220 They looked after me like their own family.
00:05:01.240 And it's a gradual step.
00:05:02.480 And one thing that I noticed with my dad, every time he would come to me and see Bin Laden on the TV and say,
00:05:08.100 Hi, look, there's your friend there, and take the mick out of me, I realized that instead of, at the beginning, I was, I didn't have the mentality of,
00:05:15.040 Oh, these guys are kafir, nothing.
00:05:16.760 But I was angry because of the way he was treatment.
00:05:18.920 I was thinking, like, what am I doing wrong?
00:05:20.060 I just want to worship God.
00:05:21.320 And he even slapped my face once.
00:05:22.860 Actually, he actually slapped my face.
00:05:24.300 And my dad's not an evil person.
00:05:25.360 He just has a concern.
00:05:26.800 You need to understand from their perspective, Islam, ISIS, they're thinking, oh my gosh, she's going to travel.
00:05:31.780 So understand their worries.
00:05:33.460 Just say to them, look, it's not like that.
00:05:35.460 That's not going to happen.
00:05:36.260 And reassure them.
00:05:37.380 One thing that I realized how it works with my family, sorry for the long lecture, guys.
00:05:41.460 But it's that every time he will insult me, I'll just go and kiss him in the forehead.
00:05:47.440 And what I realized with that, Aki, is that he would just be, like, dumbfound.
00:05:51.840 Because he'll think, imagine somebody swearing at you, that slaps you in your face, and you go and kiss him in the forehead.
00:05:55.880 You're either going to think he's lost his mind, or do you get what I'm trying to say?
00:05:59.040 It had that effect.
00:06:00.300 But anyways, I don't want to keep it any longer, inshallah.
00:06:03.100 And sister, I think you should, inshallah.
00:06:07.700 Yeah, let's do this thing, inshallah.
00:06:09.880 So you're already, sister, nobody's got, you're not held hostage, yeah?
00:06:13.920 Okay, there's no guns.
00:06:15.720 Yeah, we're not, you know, we're not giving any kind of promises or cookies or anything like that, are we?
00:06:19.940 Yeah?
00:06:21.140 Yeah?
00:06:21.660 Yeah, I think, Ali, just before we start, it's amazing what he said, this religion, it's just about perfecting yourself and becoming a better person.
00:06:31.820 Yeah.
00:06:32.020 And being a benefit to your surroundings.
00:06:35.420 If you do these two things, and you keep at it, and you put no partners aside to Allah,
00:06:42.600 Wallahi, your life is going to lead you, and it's going to fill you with the happiness that you're looking for.
00:06:49.220 So, the religion is based upon revelation, which is the Quran, sent down from Allah.
00:07:02.140 So, it's the speech of Allah, and it's sent down through the Gabriel, and through the angel Gabriel.
00:07:07.680 I mean, if you're Christian, you kind of know about angel Gabriel as well.
00:07:10.440 Yeah.
00:07:10.580 And then it is, so it's brought to him, to the Prophet Muhammad, salallahu alayhi wa sallam.
00:07:18.800 But he's not unique in that sense, because Gabriel brought all the message and revelation to all other prophets as well.
00:07:26.000 Yeah.
00:07:26.060 And so, there are different books.
00:07:29.580 So, we believe that the Bible, some parts of the Bible are divine, from Allah, and the Sabur, and the Torah.
00:07:39.620 And we believe in angels, clearly, and the last day of judgment.
00:07:45.200 Yeah.
00:07:45.420 So, there will be judgment.
00:07:46.740 And we believe that there's destiny.
00:07:49.120 Yeah.
00:07:49.220 So, things are destined.
00:07:50.980 Yeah, good and bad.
00:07:51.820 Good and bad.
00:07:52.640 Yeah.
00:07:52.800 And the more you learn, you find out, actually, that there's certain things you can do to kind of affect your destiny and things like that.
00:08:00.000 But that's, top of a different time.
00:08:01.920 Yeah.
00:08:02.280 Which we accept.
00:08:03.360 Yeah.
00:08:03.580 The five pillars and six pillars.
00:08:04.600 So, these are basically now the six pillars of faith.
00:08:07.120 So, do you accept, do you understand them and accept them?
00:08:10.620 Okay, cool.
00:08:11.360 Then, so, the shahada goes.
00:08:15.360 I'm so excited.
00:08:15.900 Do you want to say the shahada then?
00:08:18.260 Mm-hmm.
00:08:18.520 So, shahada, Allah, ilaha, illallah, wa shahadu, anna, muhammadin, rasulullah.
00:08:32.600 Takbir.
00:08:33.280 Allahu akbar.
00:08:34.220 And in English or read English?
00:08:35.340 In English, yeah.
00:08:36.080 Do you want to do a...
00:08:37.320 Oh, she's crying.
00:08:38.540 Wow.
00:08:39.300 She's crying.
00:08:40.400 Wow.
00:08:40.800 Do you want me to do a...
00:08:42.060 I can translate.
00:08:43.900 Yeah.
00:08:44.320 Do you do translate as well so you get some results?
00:08:46.320 Wow, she's...
00:08:47.200 Mashallah, mashallah.
00:08:49.080 It's a lot of emotions up here.
00:08:52.660 Yeah, it's not...
00:08:53.700 That's beautiful.
00:08:54.960 Sorry, I didn't ask you to want to drink something.
00:08:57.800 Sorry, we're just excited.
00:08:58.900 So, we're just, yeah.
00:08:59.660 So, basically, what that means is that, after me in English, it means I bear witness that
00:09:04.900 there is nothing worthy of worship except Allah and the Prophet Muhammad is his slave
00:09:12.980 and his messenger.
00:09:15.160 Okay, so, sister, now what you've done is just like, imagine it that there was a
00:09:18.140 door in front of you, you've got the keys, you've opened that door.
00:09:22.500 This is where your journey starts.
00:09:24.420 And we ask, inshallah, for it to, you know, be on our scale of good deeds as well, inshallah,
00:09:28.180 on the day of judgment.
00:09:28.740 And we ask Allah to keep you firm.
00:09:30.660 And as a sister, I'll give you a reminder as well, inshallah, that be very careful in
00:09:36.600 the context of, and to be honest, every time I give this reminder, I feel sad that I have
00:09:40.720 to, but I have to.
00:09:42.640 You have to be careful.
00:09:44.200 Don't trust anybody.
00:09:45.600 Yeah?
00:09:46.040 You will have a lot of people, Muslims, you know, they might be going something in their
00:09:49.820 life and they just want to, you know, take it out on people in a variety of other ways,
00:09:53.860 you know?
00:09:54.800 Be very careful.
00:09:55.760 Yeah?
00:09:56.800 When it comes to marriage, you're still young.
00:09:58.660 Yeah?
00:09:58.840 We know you're still young.
00:09:59.560 Still, again, you will have Dawud's wife, our sister here, to consult.
00:10:05.520 Anything like that, you know, just make sure, inshallah, you consult because there are people
00:10:08.980 out there.
00:10:09.340 There's good and bad in everyone, yeah?
00:10:10.720 So you need to be careful because what happens is sometimes people have innocence in them
00:10:15.240 and people take advantage and this can affect your faith, you know?
00:10:18.760 And believe us, you can be a witness.
00:10:20.580 Sometimes, sadly, Muslims have themselves put us to test and Allah will test people with
00:10:25.780 people.
00:10:26.600 So these are going to be tests.
00:10:27.740 Right now, Allah just wants to see, okay, your statement, you've said it.
00:10:30.960 He knows, you know, that what you said you mean.
00:10:34.560 But he's going to, it's like a seal or they'll say like a goat, you know?
00:10:37.920 You have to purify goat.
00:10:39.400 And how do you do it?
00:10:40.120 With fire, you know?
00:10:41.380 And we're not asking you to jump in the fire, yeah?
00:10:43.220 The way it's done is that Allah's going to test you in different ways.
00:10:46.160 And believe me, I've been through stuff.
00:10:47.500 Dawud knows, yeah?
00:10:48.580 Dawud knows.
00:10:49.140 I've been through stuff and I've had my up and downs.
00:10:51.100 And every time I've been through something where I said, you know what?
00:10:54.000 Oh Allah, why are you doing this to me?
00:10:56.360 Wallahi, I tell you, within four to five days, Wallahi, I just click and say, you know
00:11:00.840 what?
00:11:01.220 Thank you for doing that to me.
00:11:02.460 Like, thank God.
00:11:03.580 Because at that moment in time, I was thinking, why?
00:11:05.320 Like, what have I done?
00:11:06.040 What sin have I done?
00:11:07.140 But what it is, sister, believe me, Allah tests you.
00:11:10.640 And he's going to test you to purify you and bring you step by step closer to you.
00:11:14.120 And believe me, when I looked at myself, when I first came to Islam, and you would testify
00:11:17.360 to this, and I was sisterhood as well, is that, you know, I was thinking, where was I?
00:11:20.820 What was I doing?
00:11:21.240 I didn't even know what I was doing.
00:11:22.040 I was just all over the place.
00:11:23.120 But you see how Allah takes you by stages and stages and purifies you and purifies you
00:11:26.980 and purifies you till the day you die, you know?
00:11:29.740 Because he wants you to be at that specific level, inshallah, yeah?
00:11:33.080 And raise your ranks in the hereafter.
00:11:35.600 And we ask Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala to grant you Jannah.
00:11:37.740 And inshallah, on the day of judgment, sister, if you do not see us in paradise, ask Allah,
00:11:42.440 you know, and maybe this little deed that we did, maybe Allah would have accepted.
00:11:46.320 And wallahi, we're here for you.
00:11:47.660 We're like your family.
00:11:49.500 If you have anything, please, like, feel free, get the sister's number as well.
00:11:53.960 Anything else you guys want to say?
00:11:56.160 Is there anything you want to say, sister?
00:11:57.680 Like, if there's anyone out there, because you reached out to me on Instagram.
00:12:03.080 So, is there any advice that you would give to sisters or brothers out there
00:12:07.100 who may know Islam is the truth or they're scared?
00:12:10.100 Is there any advice that you can maybe give them?
00:12:12.760 I would say just, it's always that thinking you're not ready.
00:12:17.140 You kind of have to just put that to one side and just reach out and just try it.
00:12:22.060 You just have to do it.
00:12:22.940 You just have to take that first step.
00:12:24.300 Exactly, exactly.
00:12:25.340 And, yeah, that's it, guys, inshallah.
00:12:26.620 So, may Allah bless you guys.
00:12:28.760 And we're going to get sister in contact with Revert to Reality as well.
00:12:32.140 Yeah, they're quite good.
00:12:33.260 They're connected.
00:12:34.140 And that's it, may Allah bless you guys.
00:12:35.140 If there's anyone watching this, brother or sister, and you want to accept Islam,
00:12:38.300 feel free.
00:12:38.860 We're not judgmental.
00:12:39.680 We're not here to judge anybody.
00:12:41.100 We're just here to help, inshallah.
00:12:42.280 She got in contact with me through Instagram.
00:12:44.300 I thought, no problem, sister.
00:12:45.080 Let's meet in Costa.
00:12:46.020 We met.
00:12:46.440 We came here.
00:12:47.420 And, alhamdulillah, she's accepted Islam.
00:12:48.960 Keep in your du'as.
00:12:50.120 Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh.
00:12:51.620 We'll be right back.