Ali Dawah - KHABIB DID THIS TO HER - REACTION

00:00:00.000 looked at me like i had done the worst thing that i could ever do on the face of the earth

00:00:04.960 i was like and i remember thinking to myself i was like wow he really doesn't like me this is so weird

00:00:09.960 which is a true story that happened of a brother that i know subhanallah he went to a um a car

00:00:17.300 dealership yeah he went to a car dealership with his wife and as he was walking in he was trying

00:00:22.880 his best yeah and he was trying his best he's a human being he's trying yeah and sometimes he

00:00:26.940 doesn't lower his gaze but he's trying his best at that moment in time he avoided looking at the

00:00:30.600 one he realized that you know um there was a woman then he avoided her his wife was speaking he sat

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00:00:53.580 assalamualaikum warahmatullahi barakatuh brothers and sisters and dear friends hope you guys are

00:00:58.980 well inshallah today i wanted to do a little reaction video to a mma fighter a female mma fighter 0.71

00:01:04.620 um called what's her name her name is the megan anderson so basically she's an mma fighter she's a 1.00

00:01:12.560 female um and she had an interesting interaction with khabib the first time so we're going to react

00:01:17.000 on the first time she met khabib and khabib did something that you know kind of got her

00:01:23.560 a bit angry we're going to find out what that was we're going to find out why as a female she got 1.00

00:01:28.100 angry about that so much so that she actually went up to him and find out what she did let's watch

00:01:33.380 together inshallah one of our guys bobby cooper fought in the car and i was cornering him

00:01:37.940 and he was fighting a guy that was under khabib nomagomedov and uh so khabib was there cornering him

00:01:49.580 with his team and then uh so normally after the fight finishes uh the corner goes in we shake each

00:01:59.760 other's hands we shake the fighters hands so like i shook i shook the opposing fighter shook two of the

00:02:05.520 coaches hands but khabib just completely ignored me and uh at the time at the time i feel like a

00:02:14.460 horrible person okay guys i have to stop that because my dad's calling

00:02:17.440 my parents always called me at the time i did not know that he was muslim so i just want to put that

00:02:30.040 out there so i didn't know he's muslim and he just completely ignored me so i'm like standing there

00:02:35.780 while they're announcing the winner i was like wow like did i do something did i say something like

00:02:41.200 i don't think i like i didn't say anything to him so it couldn't be i said something like he

00:02:45.320 really just doesn't like me okay this is this is weird interesting did i do something wrong

00:02:51.020 does he not like me this is weird yeah now you need to respect where she's coming from but we're

00:02:56.560 just going to learn something very important here she thought he doesn't like me did i do something

00:03:01.560 wrong this is weird this is very important for us to keep those phrases those specific words in mind

00:03:09.060 let's carry on bong sisters very interesting um so they announced the announcer winner uh his guy won

00:03:17.860 our guy lost so we're walking out the cage and we shook each other shook everyone's hand again

00:03:22.100 i shook the coach's hand and i went up to khabib and like i was like i'm just gonna shake his hand

00:03:28.000 like i'm just gonna go up to him so i went up to him i just grabbed his hand and shook it and he

00:03:33.120 looked at me like i had done the worst thing that i could ever do on the face of the earth i was like

00:03:39.140 and i remember thinking to myself i was like wow he really doesn't like me this is so weird um okay

00:03:43.860 and i walked out and then later on someone told me that he was muslim and that it was like a respect

00:03:53.500 thing that they didn't shake other women's hands uh and all my goodness i felt like the worst person

00:04:04.600 like on earth i was like oh my god i feel like a horrible person um i just i just did what you don't

00:04:12.060 do and i felt so bad and i remember like one of my friends a couple years later went and trained at

00:04:17.920 aka with with dc and with khabib and he'd mentioned it to khabib he's like no like i remember um like

00:04:26.860 tell her it's it is no it wasn't a i wasn't meant to be rude like it was a respect thing and like tell

00:04:34.000 her not to worry about all that kind of stuff but like i swear like so i'm glad that he is okay

00:04:39.000 with it but still to this day i feel like the worst person okay now that's really interesting now

00:04:45.200 brother and sister i just want to touch upon a few things yeah it's very important because we're

00:04:48.920 living at times where things have all changed everything has changed everything the opposite

00:04:55.120 yeah for example just having rulers uh that are not fit for the position and that's one of the signs

00:05:00.700 of the day of judgment the prophet said that people that are not befitting of that you know job are

00:05:07.280 doing that liars are believed we live at times where um subhanallah to be chased

00:05:14.400 as a man or a woman is something wrong ajib you know uh not to not to have intimacy before marriage

00:05:21.220 etc this is a no no oh no and there's people out there who go and just so they can have some kind

00:05:26.800 of sexual experience in their life go out and do these things men and women you know so they don't

00:05:32.520 disappoint their husband can you imagine so or their or their wife a future wife or husband you know so

00:05:37.040 they are good in the bedroom section they would go and sleep with multiple people subhanallah and it's

00:05:42.260 the opposite how it was before so whatever we look at today brothers and sisters everything is ajib 0.97

00:05:46.220 like back in the days for example if you look at the british the history british history 100 years

00:05:51.580 ago how women were covered up and how you look at them now and and this goes with muslim communities 0.99

00:05:56.740 as well brothers and sisters everything is flipped on its head so the things that are supposed to be

00:06:01.640 the norm have become the abnorm yeah and we don't blame individuals because this is a society that we're

00:06:06.880 living through and that's the reason why islam has come to guide us and this very interesting as a

00:06:11.420 female megan yep megan anderson as a female she felt as if that the actions that he did even though

00:06:19.240 it was not like i i i don't believe that megan or anybody else that wants to shake another person's hand

00:06:23.620 see as something as a sexual uh thing i'm sure they don't yeah but the thing is that the fact that

00:06:28.560 she found it weird and she started doubting herself does he not like me this this is that did i say

00:06:33.920 something wrong and it's actually the opposite you it's not that he doesn't like you it's it's not

00:06:40.840 weird in the context of to him it's not weird and it's because he honors you because he believes that

00:06:46.660 you are another man's husband wife daughter sister not only that even if that was not the case

00:06:54.160 he respects you as a woman respects you as a woman and those things brothers and sisters have changed

00:07:01.340 so much so that you know she she went and grabbed his hand i'm thinking that you know what no i'm

00:07:06.520 you're not going to disrespect me like this so brothers and sisters it's very important for us

00:07:11.360 to understand and acknowledge subhanallah how these things have changed and it shows you the subjective

00:07:18.060 worldview of people that are going to change continuously and if you fall into these brothers and sisters

00:07:23.360 you're just you're just going to lose out you know and uh subhanallah it's very very sad that in

00:07:29.200 today's time females are made to be just sexual sexual uh sexualized objects it's like so much so 1.00

00:07:36.260 brothers and sisters that catcalling is normal if a woman's walking down the road whistling at her

00:07:41.280 calling her names or trying to chirp sir this has been intrinsically yani um entered into females so much so 1.00

00:07:52.160 that they think that they are worthy or they are respected if you catcall in the context of i'm not

00:08:00.500 saying everyone wants it i'm saying that for example when they you know i he likes me i'm pretty i'm

00:08:05.080 self-worth you know increases thinking you know what oh he's interesting he comes and asks for my number

00:08:09.980 and so many men what they do not understand is that as men i'm a man i know i know my psychology

00:08:16.480 you know when a man is doing that is he really after you for the right reasons that's the reason

00:08:20.640 why we are told to honor women in islam in such a way that when you want to go and marry you go and 0.55

00:08:25.260 do it the right way allah says in the quran tell the believing men and the believing women to lower 0.60

00:08:29.580 their gaze why because brothers and sisters men are visual creatures we are visual yeah that's the reason

00:08:35.380 why you'll see sales of magazines of women that are half naked uh be it strip clubs uh be it uh brothels 0.98

00:08:42.360 prostitution these are a booming pornography you name it why because men are visual that's the reason 0.67

00:08:49.200 why it's important for us to lower our gaze because one gaze this is very important and a lot of females 1.00

00:08:53.800 understand this and they think oh come on really yes really just the way you're created in a way

00:08:58.160 where i can say wow like really does that get to you as a woman yes if for a man simple one gaze

00:09:06.840 can ruin a man's whole day whole life one gaze looking at a very attractive woman yeah if he's

00:09:14.460 a married man and it looks like a very attractive woman doesn't lower his gaze etc this can cause

00:09:18.820 corruption so much so that it can impact the heart that's why i cannot remember which scholar it was

00:09:23.840 but he said for example subhanallah when allah subhanahu wa ta'ala says in the quran that man

00:09:28.320 created this created weak and obviously it might be talking about man or female but he was talking

00:09:33.360 about specifically as a man he was saying how weak can you be can you be more weak than a man who

00:09:39.400 was staring at a woman that neither he is not getting anything from her except causing corruption

00:09:45.840 in him his desires and all he's doing is getting ideas in his head and it's causing him nothing but

00:09:51.500 problems yeah how weak can you be that you're looking at something that brings you no benefit and you and

00:09:56.520 you can't even control yourself lowering the gaze is one of the things that is really really hard for

00:10:01.820 men brothers and sisters very very hard that's the reason why it's so important for us brothers to try

00:10:08.440 our best to lower our gaze because allah says in the quran um indeed with hardship comes ease

00:10:16.160 verily with hardship comes ease lowering the gaze is hard but wallahi the ease that will follow you in

00:10:22.500 your life is greater that is the reason why today there are married men who have problems in their marriage 0.53

00:10:28.720 why because they're too busy comparing their wife to others and when they're doing that they're not happy

00:10:33.940 and when they're not happy it affects the family unit do you see the ripple effect so that's the reason

00:10:39.080 why sister megan if i would like to send this to her inshallah as muslims god almighty tells us to own a woman 1.00

00:10:44.740 in a way where we should even lower our gaze so that's the reason why even when i'm watching this

00:10:49.080 i try my best to not look too much you know in the context yeah i'm trying to understand what she's

00:10:54.940 saying you know but the thing is why because out of respect not that there's anything wrong with you

00:10:59.920 not that there's anything wrong with you but it's to protect myself and if you was to come and shake

00:11:04.580 my hand you try to shake khabib's hand the reason he did not want to is because as a man look we are

00:11:10.140 weak it doesn't mean we're perverted yeah like oh my gosh i'm going to touch your woman's hand i'm going to 0.99

00:11:13.120 look that there might be the case that's the reason why in today's time you have even in

00:11:18.100 certain companies um in certain workforces obama sisters they have even they're even talking about

00:11:25.740 touching a woman's knee as you're talking to or something don't touch it because being alone with

00:11:30.280 a woman in a workspace the door has to be open these are islamic values you know why because we're 0.84

00:11:35.180 understanding psychology of male and females and we're seeing that this is not working because a man and a

00:11:40.820 woman cannot just be friends it doesn't work like that so that's the reason why it's there to honor 1.00

00:11:45.620 my dear sister megan and when we're looking to get married we go and do it the right way i'm interested

00:11:50.960 in a woman yes of course i'm going to see her and if i'm interested i go and speak to her father why do

00:11:55.800 i speak to her father because that's her guardian if i come and say let's go on a date etc you don't

00:12:00.020 know my intentions i could be a player i could be a sweet talk and say all the things that you want to

00:12:04.100 hear for one thing and that's the reason why you have a lot of females who are going through so much 1.00

00:12:09.340 distressed why because they've been broken again again and again false promises they don't even know

00:12:15.980 how to trust and love anymore because men who have come into their lives have done nothing but given

00:12:21.460 them false promises and broken them so much so that when they do move on and a genuine guy does come

00:12:27.040 along she ends up breaking him because she doesn't know how what self-worth self-love and trust is 0.65

00:12:33.280 that's the reason why my dear sister megan and all females out there watching this 1.00

00:12:37.100 islam has come to honor women in a right way for us to go about things in an islamic way so that

00:12:43.280 we honor you that we don't even want to look at you neither touch you in any way shape or form and

00:12:49.220 that is the beauty of islam and we hope that every single muslim man that watches this implements this 0.99

00:12:56.420 in their life brothers and sisters well as a muslim man we've got a lot of work to do sadly you know

00:13:01.880 um and i thought this was a very interesting video uh to just show subhanallah that how things

00:13:08.780 have changed brothers and sisters and in today's time where we live uh that's made to be strange but

00:13:13.860 we want you guys to know inshallah that we respect and honor every single woman be it our relative or

00:13:20.340 not our relative yeah relative or not our relative and i will end on this the hadith of the prophet

00:13:27.120 peace be upon him where a man came and he said i want to have sexual intimacy with this woman 0.87

00:13:31.520 give me permission yeah and the prophet's character he didn't scold him and say hey 0.55

00:13:36.960 shame on you and the companions were there and they're thinking what the hell is this guy talking 0.65

00:13:41.060 about you're asking the prophet of god to allow having a sexual intimacy uh uh with a woman and the 0.99

00:13:48.360 prophet wanted you know to make him understand and he said would you want that you know for your

00:13:53.040 sister i said oh never i want no one doing that to my sister what about your mother he said no by

00:13:59.100 allah i'll never want that for my mother and your auntie never why do you want to do this to other

00:14:03.240 people's sisters and mothers and daughters and that is where the pain dropped let's be amongst those

00:14:09.960 who honor women brothers and sisters and let non-muslim women and muslim women see how as muslim men

00:14:17.760 we honor them brothers and sisters and it is very very important for us to do that and i'll give you

00:14:24.380 guys a story as well which is a true story that happened of a brother that i know subhanallah he went

00:14:29.880 to a um a car dealership yeah he went to a car dealership with his wife and as he was walking in

00:14:37.440 he was trying his best yeah and he was trying his best he's a human being he's trying yeah and

00:14:41.460 sometimes he doesn't lower his gaze but he's trying his best at that moment in time he avoided looking

00:14:45.680 at the woman he realized that you know um there was a woman then he avoided her his wife was speaking 0.96

00:14:49.620 he sat down and um and as she came she was you know she recently came like um to check the temperature 0.73

00:14:55.440 you know and he wasn't doing eye contact and um this brother this sister came after and he said you

00:15:02.420 know what i really really appreciate the fact that your husband or whoever he is they didn't even make

00:15:07.960 eye contact with me and it shows and she felt so honored and she was like it amazed me because i've met so

00:15:14.380 many muslim men that they would just check me out up and down etc try to talk to him and this is sad

00:15:19.840 this is sad that it it caught it one of maybe one of the reasons she she was having some conflict 0.65

00:15:25.220 she used to wear hijab and she took you off etc so what does it show you brothers and sisters it shows

00:15:29.580 you that she felt honored and she felt you know what there are some and i'm not praising this brother

00:15:35.140 his brother has many faults and trust me you know i know him he has many faults but the thing is at

00:15:40.460 this very instance where he said you know what i'm gonna lower my gaze the impact that it had on

00:15:44.660 that female so much so that the brother said that she came to his wife and started crying and said look 0.93

00:15:51.380 you know i used to wear the hijab and etc one little thing made such a great impact on somebody's life

00:15:58.520 and gave islam in a better way image brothers and sisters that's all i wanted to say inshallah

00:16:03.500 till next time assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh

Ali Dawah - October 14, 2020

KHABIB DID THIS TO HER - REACTION

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