Ali Dawah - KHALED NEW HINDU WIFE？ - MUSLIM REACTS

00:00:00.000 look i'm not afraid of anything in this world other than not being there because how could it be

00:00:04.120 that in a matter of three months you are married to a woman of 15 years and you just get married

00:00:09.800 again just imagine the people back in the day when they would have to travel certain distances

00:00:16.540 for months or even years what is one thing that they would carry with them the quran why because 0.89

00:00:22.740 they did not have it on their mobile devices or their gadgets brothers and sisters imagine you

00:00:27.440 have a app the quran app which not only shows you how much rewards you get but reminds you to read

00:00:33.880 the quran gives you reminders download the quran app now and let it testify for you on your

00:00:39.020 that you read it wherever you was assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh brothers and sisters

00:00:44.720 and dear friends as you guys know me and my wife done a reaction video to brother khalid and sister

00:00:48.140 salama's divorce sad news which we don't want on any family unit because it breaks the breakdown

00:00:52.220 the family unit has an impact a ripple effect on communities so subhanallah in this video i wanted

00:00:56.240 to touch upon a few doubts or rumors spreading but mainly the question i wanted to ask was why did

00:01:01.840 brother khalid move on so fast and mention to you sisters inshallah to understand from a man's

00:01:06.800 perspective three to four reasons why a man moves on so fast and we want to tackle these issues why

00:01:12.180 my dear sisters i'm not here to make you upset anxious worried you know look at marriage in a 0.70

00:01:16.440 way that you know you're scared of getting married no rather i want to inform you and inform you so that

00:01:20.220 you can make rational decisions i know you guys are emotional that's how you guys are created you have

00:01:24.680 your hormones imbalances etc many other things alhamdulillah we have those hormonal issues as

00:01:28.100 well with testosterone so you know it uh it affects us in a different way it affects you guys in a

00:01:31.720 different way but if you listen and listen to learn rather than listen to reply we will all benefit from

00:01:35.440 this inshallah so in a recent podcast there's some things that brother khalid said that he really fears

00:01:39.520 so i want to touch up on this because it's very very important because for him to make this decision

00:01:43.120 of going their separate ways and then moving on so fast despite the fears that he had let's watch what

00:01:48.520 could be the causes of a man moving so fast and to me i found it a bit bizarre that the fact that he

00:01:54.040 moved on so fast after being married for 15 years but again we'll come to any minute like religion is

00:01:58.020 a big part of my life spencer for those for those who don't know and for me like the five daily prayers

00:02:01.800 being able to center myself being able to you know just remember why i'm here being able to feel safe

00:02:07.000 that and all those protection you know for me that's probably the most important thing in my life

00:02:11.100 yeah and alhamdulillah just being able to sort of center myself in prayer and get away from the chaos and

00:02:15.360 the noise and everything that's going on for me that's probably the most important thing i journal

00:02:18.800 every night so for me just writing down the three things i'm grateful for the one thing that i want

00:02:23.000 to let go of so just reminding myself constantly about what it is you know alhamdulillah it keeps me

00:02:28.720 focused i do struggle with some things sometimes like life is not perfect i struggle a lot with you

00:02:34.260 know overthinking about things i struggle a lot with you know getting anxious about things like

00:02:38.520 every day i want to let go of something and you know every day there's a different struggle that

00:02:41.480 might pop up at some point in time so for me it's just about being able to write that

00:02:45.260 down and be like you know i'm gonna let go of you today that fear of my kid's future like i'm

00:02:50.380 not afraid of anything in this world other than not being there for my kids so i was always afraid

00:02:54.340 will someone take care of my kid the way i would that's a child of determination will society

00:03:03.660 treat him in the way that i would in this country yes he will be protected he will be taken care

00:03:11.260 he will get opportunities there will be resources for him it gives me peace so guys you saw that for

00:03:16.460 yourself subhanallah every man's worst nightmare is what that another man is going to raise their

00:03:20.660 kids you know who this man is you don't know how is he is he is he safe you know is is my kid safe

00:03:25.460 around him etc any man's fear is that that's why if you notice subhanallah majority of the time a lot

00:03:29.420 of men do not initiate divorces sadly it's made well in non-muslim statistics is 80 to 90 percent

00:03:34.100 women initiate divorces and we know that in the muslim community as well that men have the power

00:03:37.520 of talaq for this very reason allah subhanallah has the wisdom and he is giving the power of talaq to

00:03:41.800 the man because a man can make rational decisions uh rather than just ask talaq every two seconds or

00:03:46.460 give talaq every two seconds now one of the reasons brothers sisters the first reason for a man to go his

00:03:51.480 separate ways and move on so fast can be that he is married to someone who is really really bad and

00:03:57.160 he tries his best over and over again subhanallah brothers sisters and like i said before we need to deal

00:04:01.400 with the reality yes okay sometimes we know a lot of cases men are quite violent in marriages both men

00:04:05.660 and women are as violent but men use more lethal force so we know that's a fact yeah so what i'm

00:04:09.580 going to mention to you next shouldn't really bother you sisters yeah women are known to initiate divorces 1.00

00:04:13.060 majority of the time sadly that's a reality when women carry on you know oh i want to divorce i want 1.00

00:04:17.540 to divorce i want to divorce i want to divorce a man has enough a point where he's enough or if the woman 0.88

00:04:20.760 is a really you know an evil woman who's making his life hell now again i'm not saying that sister 0.95

00:04:25.260 salama is like that i'm not saying that i'm just saying generally for men this can be a reason for him to not

00:04:29.900 only get divorced but move on so fast in a matter of months that's number one number two when issues 0.99

00:04:34.260 happen in the household when people get arguments etc whatever you need to understand something

00:04:37.780 sometimes couples take their space etc whatever or they just don't want to see each other's face for

00:04:41.700 whatever reason but one thing you need to understand my dear sisters is a man a man's sexual desire is

00:04:46.400 not the same as a woman yes okay it's very rapid it's very instant and it's it's uh you know quite 1.00

00:04:51.500 hard and we know from the evidences from the quran and sunnah the fitna of a man towards a woman this

00:04:55.780 it's our biggest weakness to me the thing that i want to mention is that for a man if you boycott

00:05:01.400 him or whatever you don't want to talk to him etc and he's waiting a month and two months and three

00:05:04.780 months and four months and he's thinking hold on a second there's no contact and maybe she's just

00:05:07.900 thinking you know what i don't know i'm waiting for him to message first etc no no no no no you don't

00:05:11.340 do that to a man let me tell you something because that's the reason why the hadith says if a man calls

00:05:14.620 his wife the bed and she refuses the angel cursor why because she is actually blackmailing him with sex 0.99

00:05:20.160 one of his biggest weaknesses it's like a man using his power that he has as a he's more physically

00:05:25.120 stronger to put his wife in a dangerous position and then defend her she's at her most vulnerable

00:05:29.280 and weak and she needs your help and aid if a guy's got a knife or whatever trying to harm her and you

00:05:33.800 are there just watching and thinking so do you see how vulnerable each one is in different situations

00:05:38.260 so for sisters to think that you're going to let your husband go without intimacy and think that he's 0.99

00:05:43.000 not going to get married again have a second wife end it with you and get married again you are 0.53

00:05:47.040 absolutely deluded reason number three could be polygamy it can be a possibility it's a speculation and the

00:05:52.060 reason i'm saying this speculation is because obviously you guys know sisters know me you know

00:05:54.920 i'm one of the most hated brothers in the dao scene for speaking this truth i don't really care i'm not

00:05:58.340 here to you know please any or anyone this is the haq every man is polygamous by nature please

00:06:02.460 understand that do not hate it do not fight it it's a testosterone plays a big role in our sexual drive

00:06:06.620 you need to understand we don't choose to do this we are created in this manner you can look at people

00:06:10.100 who are married to you know really beautiful woman you know beyonce kim kardashian you know and they

00:06:14.300 still cheat on them why because it is like that's in our biology if a woman marries a man who is her dream man

00:06:19.520 she will never ever think of another man ever a new woman know that if you get your man that you 0.55

00:06:24.760 really want whatever it is tall duck and hamster whatever your criteria is for that matter but it's

00:06:28.820 not the same with a man a man can be married to his dream girl and yet he will still want another 0.98

00:06:33.700 woman so this might be the case in this situation brother khalid and salama's situation that he opened

00:06:38.360 up to her he wanted to get a second wife and etc and she said over my dead body etc because women 1.00

00:06:43.060 don't understand this they're emotional understandable it's painful again though what happens is you destroy

00:06:47.400 your marriage and then what happens what's going to happen after you've got two free kids it is

00:06:51.000 it can be difficult for you to get married and the thing is why destroy your family because of this

00:06:54.720 and what happens for us men is we try to reason we try to say look we want to do it openly we don't

00:06:58.080 want to hide it this one of the reasons brothers men sadly go down the roof hiding their secret second

00:07:02.120 wives etc this is the reason why because the first wife causes problems you're not going to see the 1.00

00:07:05.660 kids i'm going to make your life hell i'm going to get the government against you there are sisters who 0.98

00:07:08.660 accuse and falsely accuse their ex-husbands of being connected to some terror group because of this this is how 0.98

00:07:14.820 wild it gets and that's why muslim men are thinking i have these desires i'll be married 0.99

00:07:18.720 for 15 years i have the desire of another woman and she's telling me she's gonna make me no problem 0.55

00:07:22.460 i'm gonna keep it hidden this could be a reason that he had a discussion with her she said over

00:07:25.580 a dead body it's a speculation again and he thought okay no problem go our separate ways whatever is for

00:07:29.240 that matter and then for him to get move on that fast i'll be honest which i was a bit shocked to move

00:07:33.560 on that fast it's it's not right if i was married to my wife for 15 years i'll be honest with you i would

00:07:37.160 not move on that fast not that fast i mean is it haram no it's totally halal and i wish the best and may

00:07:41.840 allah protect his marriage and give him the best in this life and the hereafter his new marriage

00:07:45.200 alhamdulillah but this is what you need to understand sisters when you go down this route of being

00:07:49.000 irrational emotional and push your husband to that level he is gonna look look that's his desire that

00:07:53.880 he has he's either gonna commit zina or he's gonna be high go behind your wife and a real man a coward 0.71

00:07:57.720 would go commit zina a fear in his wife a real man would go and get married again and if you leave 0.92

00:08:01.420 the picture or threaten leave the picture he's gonna say okay no problem i'm so sorry i want you in my

00:08:04.240 life i can still look after you take care of you but i want to get married again getting married

00:08:08.400 again doesn't mean he doesn't love you okay we don't operate the way you guys operate just because

00:08:11.460 you think oh my gosh if i was thinking of another man i don't love him anymore we don't operate the

00:08:15.280 way you operate we can love our wives die for them and still want to get married again which i've been

00:08:19.700 telling our sisters that's the third reason could be and the fourth reason is that it happens rarely

00:08:24.200 but a man falls in love with another woman and sadly this is not right again you know especially

00:08:28.300 that if he is going to abandon his first wife and even again it's not haram but you have polygamy i mean

00:08:34.000 you can choose both options but some men are like you know what um no i don't despise or whatever and i just

00:08:38.240 want to move on with another woman these are the four reasons it might be the reason because to me 0.99

00:08:41.400 to see brother halid i really wanted to find out why did he move on so fast it doesn't add up

00:08:46.660 allah subhanahu wa ta'ala knows best but to me i'll be honest with you men should take time heal men need

00:08:51.420 to heal as well don't make rational decisions decisions but again as men we have this sexual

00:08:56.360 drive and we have to protect ourselves from zinnah i know many brothers who were divorced and like bro

00:08:59.680 i can't like it's been five months six months etc i need a woman in my life and that's why and i'll end 0.97

00:09:03.820 on this note most of the times you see single mothers who have not been married for years you will

00:09:08.560 never find a single father a single man a single father who goes on for years without getting

00:09:13.380 married this shows you that this is how we are created and these rumors of him marrying a hindu

00:09:17.260 woman it's just speculation and rumors and he i'm sure very knows he's a religious man which you saw

00:09:21.580 on the podcast he clearly said that he's a practicing person and i doubt he knows that you know marrying a

00:09:26.400 mushyic woman is it's haram committing zinnah it's not allowed for a muslim man and a muslim woman for 1.00

00:09:30.320 that matter that's all i wanted to say inshallah may allah subhanahu wa ta'ala correct their affairs and give

00:09:33.740 him the best in his life in the hereafter inshallah divorce happens it's a part of life there's nothing wrong with that

00:09:37.140 learn lessons and move on that was my two points piece the reason why not to touch up on this is

00:09:40.640 for sisters to best understand the psychology of their husbands and not fight the hormone just as 0.99

00:09:45.660 i would not tell her why a husband to divorce his wife because she talks a lot and she's emotional

00:09:49.480 she gives him a hard time my friend the next man you're going to marry the next woman you're going 0.98

00:09:52.480 to marry is going to be the same issue so that's the reason why i tell my sisters you divorcing your 0.94

00:09:55.840 husband because he wants to get married again you're going to run away from the problem it's going to come

00:09:58.680 back in a different form and another man who's going to do in a different way that's all i want to say

00:10:01.680 assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh

Ali Dawah - July 17, 2024

KHALED NEW HINDU WIFE？ - MUSLIM REACTS

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