Ali Dawah - December 18, 2022


LGBQT GIRL SAYS HOMOSEXUALITY ISN'T HARAM


Episode Stats

Length

15 minutes

Words per Minute

199.58646

Word Count

3,121

Sentence Count

248

Misogynist Sentences

10

Hate Speech Sentences

67


Summary

Jummah Kutbahaykum: Is it required for a Muslim woman to wear a hijab? In this episode, we discuss the issue of whether or not the hijab is required in the Quran.


Transcript

00:00:00.000 Um, yeah, I don't believe that acting on homosexuality is a sin at all.
00:00:06.020 Bro, there's ijmaa. Anybody that says the act of homosexuality is not a sin, it's a kafir.
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00:00:33.280 As-salamu alaykum guys and welcome to another episode of Ali Dawah smiling to Jannah, inshallah.
00:00:39.640 Come on guys, don't forget to unsubscribe and dislike the video.
00:00:43.460 That's right, you know everyone keeps saying that. I'm going to say unsubscribe, don't comment and dislike. How about that?
00:00:48.700 Yeah, let's start the video again.
00:00:50.220 Let's do it, let's watch it inshallah. So this is a video that I watched and I was nearly pulling my hair out.
00:00:54.700 due to one of the individuals there.
00:00:58.380 A good Muslim woman wears a hijab.
00:01:07.120 I think that one of the main reasons why I disagreed is because of the statement,
00:01:10.760 a good Muslim woman, I think that you can be a bad Muslim woman as well and wear the hijab.
00:01:15.460 And then also the hijab is not just limited to the headscarf, it's how you dress and how you carry yourself as well.
00:01:21.400 Where do you see in the Quran that it requires hijab?
00:01:24.200 So Allah Subh'anaHu Wa Ta-A'la says,
00:01:25.880 وَقُولِ الْمُؤْمِنَاتِ يَغْلُدْنَ مِنْ أَبْصَارِهِنَّ وَيَحْفَضْنَ فُرُوجَهُنَّ وَلَا يَبْدِينَ زِيَتَهُنَّ إِلَّا مَا ظَهْرَ مِنْهَا
00:01:30.620 وَلْيَضُرِبْنَ بِخُمُورِهِنَّ عَلَىٰ جُيُبِهِنَّ
00:01:33.200 So here the word khimar, it doesn't use the exact word hijab, but the word khimar means headscarf.
00:01:38.840 Yeah, yeah, that makes sense.
00:01:40.600 I guess for me in how I've read the Quran, the translation that I have, the word isn't required, it should.
00:01:48.220 That women should cover their heads and cover their chests.
00:01:51.240 And so that's why I hesitate with saying that it's an obligation.
00:01:55.380 Because it's more of a, I would say, should isn't must.
00:01:59.900 So the first thing to understand is we don't take our laws only from the Quran.
00:02:03.680 Yeah, we have a hierarchy.
00:02:04.880 You've got the Quran, you've got the sunnah, then you've got ijma'ah and you've got qiyas.
00:02:09.280 So there's a four-pronged approach.
00:02:11.120 So to solely say that, oh, the Quran doesn't mention this is not good enough.
00:02:15.560 You have to then refer to the sunnah, then ijma'ah, qiyas.
00:02:18.900 Islam is not just based upon the Quran.
00:02:20.960 So that's a fundamental mistake that that view doesn't take into consideration.
00:02:27.260 Yeah, and she was like, oh, where does it say that?
00:02:29.660 And he brings the evidence and he goes, okay.
00:02:32.540 That's good, she's taken it, but then...
00:02:34.640 No, no, no, but why would she not?
00:02:35.420 It's as if she had something and it just backfired, like, okay, he knew what he was talking about,
00:02:39.740 which the brother did know what he was talking about.
00:02:41.560 And she was like, oh, okay, all right, let's be glad.
00:02:42.820 It could just be her tone, the benefit of the doubt, that she just wants him to kind of give the proof.
00:02:48.540 But then I think the issue was...
00:02:50.220 Why would you do that?
00:02:51.160 It might be for the purpose of the video, knowing it's a non-Muslim audience, kind of...
00:02:54.560 Oh, okay, all right, all right, no problem.
00:02:56.140 Just to check the prompt to literally, I mean, I consider myself a good Muslim, alhamdulillah,
00:03:01.040 but I don't wear the hijab, obviously.
00:03:04.140 Even if the Quran doesn't specifically say that this is required,
00:03:08.440 the interpretation of the Quran has said that it is required, and I do believe that.
00:03:14.300 I know it seems kind of contradicting that I'm a conservative Muslim and I don't wear the hijab.
00:03:19.440 I just, I don't think I'm ready to kind of wear the hijab yet.
00:03:24.960 I want to wear the hijab.
00:03:26.240 I need to wear the hijab.
00:03:27.840 Well, you know, it's so profound, bro.
00:03:29.960 She doesn't wear the hijab, yeah?
00:03:32.440 And look at her mentality, bro.
00:03:33.800 And then you've got someone on the other side, a liberal, who got some sort of hijab on,
00:03:38.080 or the one with the niqab, who believes she's liberal, yeah?
00:03:41.040 Bro, it just shows you again, bro.
00:03:42.560 Do not judge people from their outer garment.
00:03:46.000 Wallahi, bro.
00:03:46.600 She doesn't wear hijab and is abiding.
00:03:48.400 Yep, that's what Allah says, even though I'm not wearing it.
00:03:51.520 Yeah, wallahi.
00:03:52.300 I believe she's 100 times better than the one who's questioning, like,
00:03:57.200 oh, is it? Does it?
00:03:58.660 You know?
00:03:59.920 Acting on homosexuality is a sin.
00:04:02.440 I believe that acting on homosexuality is a sin,
00:04:06.900 especially like if you were expressing sexual desire,
00:04:09.600 because that should take place between a man and a woman under the sanction of marriage.
00:04:13.940 So that is the reason why I do feel as though it is a sin.
00:04:17.060 And it's pretty clear in the Quran.
00:04:18.700 Allah SWT says,
00:04:19.840 Do you guys prefer men over women?
00:04:24.660 When he's talking to the people of Lut.
00:04:26.900 And the Prophet, peace be upon him,
00:04:28.440 he says that one of the biggest problems for the ummah
00:04:34.800 is the sin of Lut, the people of Lut.
00:04:38.100 Again, we could just all agree, you know,
00:04:39.440 this is not our personal opinion or anything.
00:04:41.720 Just in any way, when it comes to religion,
00:04:43.400 our personal opinion doesn't matter, right?
00:04:44.660 It doesn't matter.
00:04:45.480 This is what God ordained for us.
00:04:46.860 You know, this is the natural way.
00:04:48.780 What should she shake in the head?
00:04:49.600 If we start diving in and wanting whatever we want,
00:04:52.260 it just, where is the end at that point?
00:04:54.440 When is it going to come to incest next?
00:04:56.520 For instance, in America or in the West,
00:04:58.680 homosexuality 30 years ago wasn't accepted.
00:05:01.020 You preach, my brother.
00:05:02.340 And now it's acceptable.
00:05:03.260 This is the liberal idea, right?
00:05:05.100 Subjective morality just shifts.
00:05:07.380 It shifts based on the time.
00:05:08.580 We don't shift in our religion.
00:05:10.260 Yeah, I don't believe that acting on homosexuality
00:05:14.340 is a sin at all.
00:05:16.860 There's so much to get into.
00:05:19.420 In the story of Prophet Lut itself,
00:05:21.420 you see that they weren't condemned
00:05:23.880 because the people of Prophet Lut
00:05:26.240 were coming to his house
00:05:27.800 to have sex with the men
00:05:29.860 who were disguised as angels.
00:05:31.760 But you can look at it
00:05:33.800 as a condemnation of rape
00:05:35.860 and abuse itself
00:05:37.540 and mistreatment of strangers.
00:05:39.380 And the Quran verse that you cited as well,
00:05:43.120 within that verse,
00:05:44.340 Allah uses the prefix al,
00:05:46.580 which means the,
00:05:47.620 and there's interpretations that exist
00:05:50.060 that say that specifically
00:05:51.700 is talking about those men specifically
00:05:53.960 who leave those women specifically.
00:05:55.940 So meaning that those men who did that
00:05:57.860 had wives that they left
00:06:00.000 to go rape these
00:06:01.700 or try to attempt to rape these guests
00:06:03.720 in an attempt to bring humiliation
00:06:07.240 upon the Prophet
00:06:08.180 and to,
00:06:09.300 sorry, I'm getting a little emotional.
00:06:12.720 No, it's not emotional.
00:06:13.640 She's not getting emotional.
00:06:15.520 You can see from her tone,
00:06:16.740 voice,
00:06:17.700 she has heard this story.
00:06:20.780 Yeah, it's a story, by the way.
00:06:21.680 It's a made-up story.
00:06:22.640 Yeah, from God knows who.
00:06:24.120 And she is so nerve-wracked
00:06:25.800 because it's a nerve-wracking moment for her
00:06:27.660 because it's the first time she can use
00:06:28.820 that kind of evidence
00:06:29.580 and now she's thinking
00:06:30.840 she's making some kind of point
00:06:31.960 and realizing that she has no point.
00:06:34.200 You can see it's not emotional.
00:06:35.380 She's not emotional.
00:06:36.000 She's,
00:06:36.500 it's a nerve-wracking moment for her.
00:06:37.880 Do you get it?
00:06:38.540 Because she knows,
00:06:40.260 what were you talking about?
00:06:41.380 It was for that specific person.
00:06:42.340 Who are you?
00:06:43.480 Who are you?
00:06:44.580 Which Shaykh are you?
00:06:49.080 Subhanallah,
00:06:49.640 ajeeb haki.
00:06:50.280 The way she stretched the story.
00:06:52.840 The question is,
00:06:53.880 is she Alusi,
00:06:56.240 the famous Quran exegete?
00:06:59.820 No,
00:07:00.360 because he's of the opinion.
00:07:01.860 Ibn Kathir, maybe?
00:07:03.100 Kirtabi?
00:07:05.180 All of these,
00:07:06.340 Alusi,
00:07:07.120 Ibn Kathir,
00:07:08.280 Kirtabi,
00:07:08.920 and Tabari.
00:07:09.780 All the Quranic mufassirin
00:07:12.500 are unanimous
00:07:13.660 that homosexuality,
00:07:15.160 this is referring to homosexuality,
00:07:17.180 the act of homosexuality,
00:07:18.300 and homosexuality is a sin.
00:07:20.660 It's not referring to rape.
00:07:22.920 None of the mufassirin,
00:07:24.880 the major mufassirin,
00:07:26.840 say this.
00:07:27.620 This is not an opinion.
00:07:30.500 If there was leeway here and there,
00:07:32.360 there is no leeway.
00:07:33.820 There is unanimity on this point
00:07:36.360 that this is referring to a homosexual act,
00:07:39.500 and that homosexual act is haram,
00:07:42.300 it is forbidden,
00:07:42.960 and then again,
00:07:44.860 it's because certain people
00:07:46.060 just rely on the Quran.
00:07:47.520 That's why we said
00:07:48.200 it's a four-pronged approach.
00:07:49.240 You then go on the hadith,
00:07:50.720 the tirmizi hadith.
00:07:51.960 Actually,
00:07:52.740 I don't know how clear-cut
00:07:54.380 you can make it.
00:07:56.220 Put in your private part
00:07:57.700 in the anus of a man
00:07:59.120 and a woman
00:07:59.880 is not permitted.
00:08:02.140 Allah doesn't even look at that person.
00:08:04.420 That's the hadith of tirmizi.
00:08:06.040 Exactly.
00:08:06.300 So this is something
00:08:07.380 you can't even do with your wife,
00:08:08.960 which is permissible for you.
00:08:10.460 Yeah?
00:08:10.980 And you can't.
00:08:11.500 And by the way,
00:08:11.980 you can be Muslim
00:08:12.820 and gay
00:08:14.080 in the context of
00:08:15.160 it's a sin.
00:08:16.900 Someone could be an adulterer.
00:08:18.640 He's a Muslim.
00:08:19.080 Someone could be a person,
00:08:20.580 an alcoholic.
00:08:21.720 Yeah?
00:08:21.820 Somebody can be a murderer.
00:08:23.140 Being Muslim,
00:08:24.280 those acts
00:08:25.200 do not take out the fault of Islam.
00:08:26.560 That's not what we're talking about.
00:08:27.300 And I've had many discussions
00:08:27.980 with homosexuals on this matter.
00:08:29.800 The point is where
00:08:30.480 you're trying to make a permissible.
00:08:31.420 There's bil-ijma.
00:08:32.360 Yes.
00:08:32.640 That anyone,
00:08:33.860 bil-ijma meaning
00:08:34.480 there is no
00:08:35.200 difference of opinion.
00:08:36.620 Period.
00:08:37.420 Yeah?
00:08:37.960 That to say
00:08:39.460 that the act of homosexuality
00:08:41.180 is not a sin.
00:08:42.200 Yeah?
00:08:42.560 And let's listen to it.
00:08:43.640 I'll go further.
00:08:44.280 There's different interpretations
00:08:46.520 of the story of Prophet Lut.
00:08:48.100 One interpretation
00:08:48.660 is that
00:08:49.480 it's about homosexuality
00:08:50.660 and there are other interpretations
00:08:51.780 throughout history
00:08:52.620 that says it wasn't
00:08:53.380 about homosexuality
00:08:54.200 but for some reason
00:08:55.020 the interpretation
00:08:55.560 that it is condemning homosexuality
00:08:57.600 is the dominant narrative
00:08:58.660 and I think that narrative
00:09:00.040 seriously needs
00:09:00.860 to be contended with
00:09:01.780 because we're saying
00:09:03.020 that, you know,
00:09:03.740 being homosexual
00:09:04.300 or being bisexual
00:09:06.560 or being anything
00:09:07.220 other than heterosexual
00:09:08.080 is a sin
00:09:08.680 but Allah creates you like that.
00:09:10.700 Allah creates people
00:09:11.520 who are intersex.
00:09:12.480 Like intersex people
00:09:13.160 exist in this world.
00:09:13.960 And so I think
00:09:14.560 there's a lot of different...
00:09:16.160 What did she mean?
00:09:16.780 Look, I don't know.
00:09:17.340 Look, I'll be honest with you.
00:09:18.060 She's saying Allah created
00:09:18.960 those people.
00:09:19.780 So, okay.
00:09:20.460 Well, Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala
00:09:21.340 sent magic down
00:09:22.380 via Harut and Marut.
00:09:23.840 Sihr.
00:09:24.380 Sihr, which is something
00:09:24.940 that takes you
00:09:25.480 at the fold of Islam.
00:09:27.100 The act of homosexuality
00:09:28.540 doesn't take you
00:09:29.020 at the fold of Islam
00:09:29.520 but involving in Sihr
00:09:31.520 can take you
00:09:32.460 at the fold of Islam.
00:09:33.420 Yeah?
00:09:34.060 So now
00:09:34.520 they were sent down
00:09:36.460 and the angels told them
00:09:37.400 we are sent down
00:09:38.700 as a test.
00:09:40.800 What are you going to say?
00:09:41.380 But Allah sent down Sihr.
00:09:42.720 But Allah sent down Sihr.
00:09:43.460 But Allah sent it.
00:09:45.020 Allah sent it
00:09:45.620 and Allah gave me the inclination
00:09:46.480 that I want to do Sihr.
00:09:47.760 What kind of justification is this?
00:09:48.960 You can't use this justification
00:09:49.980 of we are created like this.
00:09:51.720 That's fine.
00:09:52.260 I spoke to a homosexual
00:09:53.020 who is a brother
00:09:55.560 who had these tendencies.
00:09:56.940 And bro,
00:09:57.380 his attitude was totally different.
00:09:59.340 I submit to Allah.
00:10:00.500 This is how,
00:10:01.020 yes, I have this inclination
00:10:01.860 but I will fight it.
00:10:03.000 Yeah?
00:10:03.280 Married couple,
00:10:04.100 they'll be spending time
00:10:04.880 with their family,
00:10:06.620 children.
00:10:07.120 I get to spend time
00:10:07.980 with Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala alone.
00:10:09.280 It's like,
00:10:09.540 wow.
00:10:10.460 You can see
00:10:11.080 how you can view it also.
00:10:12.860 So there are people
00:10:13.520 like that out there.
00:10:14.440 So all we're just saying is,
00:10:15.260 my dear sister,
00:10:16.000 I'm not trying to be
00:10:16.740 harsh on you
00:10:17.620 but please don't come
00:10:18.580 and try to change the religion.
00:10:19.680 With all due respect,
00:10:20.420 look,
00:10:20.560 you want to be like that,
00:10:21.780 at least come and say it's haram.
00:10:23.280 Like that sister who,
00:10:24.200 when it came to the hijab,
00:10:24.880 she said,
00:10:25.060 look,
00:10:25.140 I don't wear it.
00:10:26.020 But this is what Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala said.
00:10:27.660 At least be honest.
00:10:29.760 This is what annoys me.
00:10:30.700 If you make something
00:10:31.660 that's haram,
00:10:33.140 halal,
00:10:33.720 or you make something
00:10:34.380 that's halal,
00:10:35.020 halal,
00:10:35.820 that's a problem.
00:10:37.120 Bro,
00:10:37.400 there's ijma,
00:10:38.460 anybody that says
00:10:39.740 the act of homosexuality
00:10:41.620 is not a sin,
00:10:42.320 it's a kafir.
00:10:43.620 Kafir.
00:10:44.080 I'm not talking about her.
00:10:45.920 I'm talking anybody
00:10:47.040 that comes and says
00:10:48.260 an act of homosexuality
00:10:50.020 is not a sin,
00:10:50.560 you are a kafir.
00:10:52.160 It's as simple as that.
00:10:53.280 Because you are doing istihlal.
00:10:55.100 What Allah deemed to be halal,
00:10:56.520 like the Prophet ﷺ
00:10:57.340 said to one of the companions.
00:10:58.820 He was a Jew.
00:10:59.660 He said,
00:10:59.880 did you not used to worship rabbis?
00:11:01.060 He said,
00:11:01.160 we never used to worship rabbis.
00:11:02.720 He said,
00:11:02.920 did you not used to,
00:11:04.200 when they used to make something halal,
00:11:05.520 haram,
00:11:05.840 haram,
00:11:06.580 halal?
00:11:07.080 He said,
00:11:07.280 yeah.
00:11:07.520 He said,
00:11:07.720 that's how you made them,
00:11:08.480 you know,
00:11:09.140 that's how you made them,
00:11:09.920 you know,
00:11:10.460 a form of worship.
00:11:11.440 Because you're taking what they're saying,
00:11:12.460 like Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala said.
00:11:13.560 And you're here with no qualifications,
00:11:15.700 with all due respect,
00:11:16.700 yeah,
00:11:17.240 and you are nervous
00:11:18.860 or something came on you
00:11:20.000 that you can't even speak properly,
00:11:21.060 subhanAllah.
00:11:21.860 And you are there
00:11:22.980 trying to make these verdicts.
00:11:24.340 Oh,
00:11:24.840 the general view needs to be questioned.
00:11:26.620 No,
00:11:26.740 you need to be questioned.
00:11:27.560 Just because you feel like
00:11:29.520 in today's time,
00:11:30.720 it's a norm.
00:11:31.320 Okay,
00:11:31.520 no problem.
00:11:32.000 If you have these tendencies,
00:11:33.080 we're not saying to you,
00:11:33.820 these tendencies take you out
00:11:34.640 the fold of Islam.
00:11:35.380 You can be a Muslim,
00:11:36.700 but don't come and say
00:11:37.560 it's not a sin
00:11:38.600 because that takes you
00:11:39.180 out the fold of Islam.
00:11:40.360 Yeah.
00:11:41.240 And when you are making points like this
00:11:42.980 and you're saying
00:11:43.540 an interpretation,
00:11:45.120 who,
00:11:45.380 who,
00:11:45.660 who's saying this?
00:11:46.560 And where's this interpretation?
00:11:47.820 The brothers,
00:11:48.260 when they spoke,
00:11:48.840 they gave evidence from the Quran.
00:11:50.340 Yes.
00:11:50.560 You're saying,
00:11:51.180 oh,
00:11:51.400 there's an who,
00:11:52.440 who,
00:11:52.800 because I've just given you
00:11:53.800 all the main names
00:11:55.740 that are referred to.
00:11:56.700 Say who,
00:11:57.120 bro,
00:11:57.280 who.
00:11:57.900 Where's the evidence for this?
00:11:59.320 There is no evidence for this.
00:12:02.380 It's very weak.
00:12:03.600 It's conjecture.
00:12:04.800 There's no peer-reviewed study
00:12:06.340 that says that you were born gay.
00:12:08.260 That's just,
00:12:08.900 it's completely false.
00:12:10.600 And she hasn't brought anything
00:12:12.540 to the table.
00:12:13.160 Again,
00:12:13.840 she just started getting emotional.
00:12:15.960 She's queer herself.
00:12:17.700 And she's actually brought
00:12:19.380 nothing of credibility.
00:12:21.400 There's nothing that you can actually
00:12:22.660 take from what she said.
00:12:24.440 And there's nothing
00:12:25.220 that's actually got me thinking,
00:12:26.820 I need to look into this
00:12:28.080 or that as well.
00:12:30.480 Bro,
00:12:31.160 there are certain people
00:12:32.160 that have inclinations
00:12:33.440 towards animals,
00:12:34.400 towards small children,
00:12:35.820 towards dead bodies.
00:12:37.800 No problem.
00:12:38.260 Incest,
00:12:38.560 yeah,
00:12:38.680 necrophilia,
00:12:39.240 incest.
00:12:39.760 Can you allow them,
00:12:41.560 if they came and said to you,
00:12:42.480 look at me,
00:12:43.220 go to this woman,
00:12:44.880 this woman,
00:12:45.440 and tell her
00:12:46.240 that I have,
00:12:47.800 if a man came and said,
00:12:48.720 I have inclination of necrophilia,
00:12:49.700 I like having intimacy
00:12:50.800 with dead people
00:12:51.380 or incest.
00:12:52.680 What would you say?
00:12:53.660 What would you say?
00:12:54.540 You say,
00:12:55.000 ugh,
00:12:55.760 ugh,
00:12:56.120 you disgusting person.
00:12:58.200 Why are you saying that?
00:12:58.880 I thought love is love.
00:12:59.940 I thought they're born like this.
00:13:01.140 I thought Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala
00:13:01.880 created them like that.
00:13:02.540 They can come and make that argument,
00:13:03.940 I'm created like this,
00:13:04.780 I have these desires.
00:13:05.800 That's what Allah says,
00:13:06.500 have you seen the one
00:13:07.240 who takes his desire
00:13:08.280 as his ilah,
00:13:09.220 as his God?
00:13:10.020 You know what that means?
00:13:10.900 We as human beings,
00:13:11.900 we can go to all kinds of lengths
00:13:13.120 of all kinds of stuff.
00:13:14.300 Yeah?
00:13:14.700 Okay,
00:13:15.200 but the thing is what?
00:13:16.060 It's about taming.
00:13:17.720 And it's about for the sake of Allah.
00:13:19.480 And Allah says,
00:13:20.100 if you fear me,
00:13:21.100 I will give you a way out
00:13:22.920 from places you can never imagine.
00:13:24.400 Do you know what that means?
00:13:25.460 That guy that I spoke to in the park,
00:13:26.860 yeah?
00:13:27.100 And I'll put the video there.
00:13:28.580 That,
00:13:29.140 I said to him,
00:13:29.700 bro,
00:13:29.840 once you put your trust in Allah,
00:13:32.000 there is nothing
00:13:32.840 that Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala
00:13:33.920 cannot get you out of.
00:13:34.940 Even if you're born
00:13:35.720 with certain tendencies,
00:13:36.680 yeah?
00:13:37.080 Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala
00:13:39.160 can get you out
00:13:40.240 and you will have the pleasure
00:13:41.500 of this life.
00:13:42.340 You might say,
00:13:42.760 yeah,
00:13:42.860 but I can't get married.
00:13:44.020 Wallahi,
00:13:44.580 Allah will put you in a situation
00:13:45.760 where he will get you out.
00:13:47.300 But put your trust in him,
00:13:48.280 not taking your own desires
00:13:49.500 as your Lord.
00:13:50.380 It's like we're told
00:13:51.080 to control ourselves.
00:13:52.160 We have a tendency
00:13:52.960 to cross a red light.
00:13:53.840 We have a tendency
00:13:54.680 to, you know,
00:13:56.300 ogle at women
00:13:57.440 or whatnot.
00:13:58.120 As human beings,
00:13:58.960 if somebody's shaking
00:14:00.100 their bits and bobs about,
00:14:01.220 you're naturally going to look.
00:14:02.380 But you have to avert your gaze.
00:14:03.740 You can't touch.
00:14:04.720 There's control involved
00:14:06.580 in any aspect
00:14:07.400 and any aspect of life.
00:14:08.840 We're naturally inclined
00:14:10.120 not to wait.
00:14:11.540 Like our body
00:14:12.340 is inclined towards rest
00:14:13.400 but we have to go to work.
00:14:14.520 You can't use this argument
00:14:15.800 that, oh,
00:14:16.260 we were born like this.
00:14:17.160 It's not a act
00:14:18.380 which is beneficial
00:14:19.880 and conducive
00:14:20.800 to the procreation of life
00:14:23.560 or to other things as well.
00:14:26.440 Exactly.
00:14:27.180 And I mean,
00:14:27.760 in a nutshell,
00:14:28.260 that's all I'm going to say.
00:14:30.380 Look, again, sister,
00:14:31.520 you can be a Muslim
00:14:32.200 but don't come and say
00:14:33.300 it's not a sin.
00:14:34.420 Yeah?
00:14:34.720 You might feel strong about it.
00:14:35.960 What we're just saying is
00:14:36.760 don't cross that line, please.
00:14:39.280 Okay?
00:14:40.020 We, as Muslims,
00:14:41.520 as Islam,
00:14:42.160 Islam accepts you
00:14:43.000 with your sins
00:14:43.520 even if they reach the skies
00:14:45.200 and mountains.
00:14:46.060 I would say to the sister
00:14:46.980 that she needs to speak
00:14:48.160 to somebody of knowledge
00:14:48.980 and possibly say a shahada again.
00:14:50.500 No, 100%, bro, 100%,
00:14:52.140 I'm so sorry.
00:14:53.020 You know, your statements
00:14:53.660 are statements that take one
00:14:54.760 at the fault of Islam.
00:14:55.700 Again, I'm just talking
00:14:57.040 generally here, yeah?
00:14:58.060 Please be careful
00:14:58.720 and if you see it,
00:14:59.700 Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala
00:15:00.280 destroyed many nations
00:15:01.160 because of shirk.
00:15:02.540 The Qawm al-Lut
00:15:03.220 is the only generation
00:15:04.580 where the shirk
00:15:05.820 is not mentioned
00:15:06.420 as much, yeah?
00:15:07.600 Yeah.
00:15:08.000 And they were destroyed
00:15:08.580 just for their act, yeah?
00:15:10.140 There was a sahaba who said
00:15:11.340 if, I can't remember
00:15:13.040 if it was Abdullah ibn Masul
00:15:13.780 or Abdullah ibn al-Pas
00:15:14.280 he said if I,
00:15:15.220 if someone didn't come
00:15:15.840 and told me
00:15:16.400 that people do this act
00:15:18.620 he was not in a million years
00:15:19.480 or I think this act exists.
00:15:21.800 And that's all, like,
00:15:22.420 I mean, that's all I want to say.
00:15:23.540 Nothing else.
00:15:24.580 And my dear sister,
00:15:25.640 please, we want the best for you.
00:15:27.660 Accept it as a sin.
00:15:28.620 It's a sin.
00:15:29.080 No problem.
00:15:29.780 We're not saying you are evil.
00:15:31.100 All we're saying is
00:15:31.520 accept it as a sin.
00:15:32.420 Like many people commit sins
00:15:33.360 and just say it's a sin.
00:15:34.120 I ask Allah to help me
00:15:34.860 and I'm working.
00:15:35.340 That's what we're saying.
00:15:36.400 Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh.