Ali Dawah - May 12, 2023


MESSAGE TO FRESH & FIT - STOP IT


Episode Stats

Length

7 minutes

Words per Minute

219.0198

Word Count

1,725

Sentence Count

145

Misogynist Sentences

17

Hate Speech Sentences

24


Summary

Jummah Kutbahaykah on sex outside of marriage. Why is it not allowed in the Quran? What is the difference between monogamy and polyamory? What does the Quran say on this matter?


Transcript

00:00:00.000 Why is this acceptable?
00:00:01.580 What acceptable?
00:00:02.560 Like, why do you guys feel like we as women should be like,
00:00:05.720 okay, it's fine, you guys.
00:00:07.280 You should read the Quran.
00:00:09.200 Allah Akbar!
00:00:10.420 What?
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00:00:30.360 So, guys, we're going to be reacting to a video
00:00:32.140 from Fresh and Fit.
00:00:33.300 I shall call it Haram and Fitna.
00:00:35.340 Why?
00:00:35.860 Because there are a lot of things
00:00:36.840 that they are saying on that program,
00:00:39.140 which is very, very absurd
00:00:40.740 because they are misrepresenting Islam
00:00:42.240 as if Islam says or allows these things,
00:00:44.880 which is absolutely wrong.
00:00:46.640 Now, Sikho came to Islam,
00:00:48.040 Andrew Tate came to Islam,
00:00:49.240 may Allah preserve them.
00:00:50.540 And Myron is a born Muslim himself,
00:00:52.600 but he himself says some very outrageous stuff
00:00:54.780 and I'm being just here.
00:00:55.860 Now, is there a lot of facts Myron speaks?
00:00:58.300 Yes, he does.
00:00:58.920 I've bought his book called,
00:01:00.320 I think it's called
00:01:01.600 Why Women Deserve Less
00:01:03.460 or something along those lines.
00:01:04.760 Okay, just to see what he said.
00:01:06.800 Now, there is a lot of facts in there
00:01:08.380 and there's some extreme things that he says.
00:01:10.340 We follow Islam.
00:01:11.140 We don't follow the red pill or the feminism.
00:01:12.720 Both man-made, woman-made laws.
00:01:14.380 Let's watch this video
00:01:15.200 and let's see what they are saying on the show
00:01:18.320 and how it is absolutely false
00:01:20.460 and a big fat lie in slander
00:01:21.860 against what Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala
00:01:23.560 sent in his kitab,
00:01:24.420 which is the Quran.
00:01:24.860 That's what you call yourself.
00:01:26.180 Hey, I want to know this.
00:01:26.760 Why wouldn't that work?
00:01:27.380 I want to know this.
00:01:27.800 Well, I mean, I would think,
00:01:29.280 I don't know if I'm speaking for the majority here or not,
00:01:31.400 but my man is my man.
00:01:33.700 Like, I don't care if you thought that
00:01:35.120 you wanted to do things with multiple women,
00:01:37.140 like, then we're not meant to be together, I feel.
00:01:39.480 Okay, do you think that men actually
00:01:41.300 really want to be monogamous to one girl?
00:01:43.040 Some do, yes.
00:01:43.840 No, they don't.
00:01:44.540 The answer is no.
00:01:45.140 No, you can't speak on behalf of everyone.
00:01:46.220 I can tell you, here's the thing.
00:01:47.340 Maybe the majority is.
00:01:48.260 If I lined up 100 dudes
00:01:49.180 and I told them, listen,
00:01:50.460 you can have four girls or one girl
00:01:52.280 and I promise you that girl won't get mad.
00:01:54.100 She'll let you have sex with other girls.
00:01:55.180 She won't get mad.
00:01:55.840 They'll take the four girls.
00:01:56.540 Yep.
00:01:56.740 Most guys are monogamous
00:01:57.520 because of women like you
00:01:58.380 that tell them,
00:01:58.920 if you f*** a girl, I'm leaving.
00:02:00.100 I'm leaving.
00:02:00.600 That's why most guys are monogamous
00:02:01.520 because most girls like you two right now
00:02:02.740 can't take the truth.
00:02:03.540 And also, just after that point as well,
00:02:05.100 that's why they lie.
00:02:05.920 If they tell you the truth,
00:02:06.820 you're going to leave.
00:02:07.420 So it's like, you know what?
00:02:08.200 I tell her what she wants to hear
00:02:08.920 so I can stay in the good grace.
00:02:10.600 But on the side,
00:02:11.540 I'm going to head at Betty
00:02:12.040 at four in the morning
00:02:12.720 while you're sitting.
00:02:13.240 Why is this acceptable?
00:02:14.360 Why is it what acceptable?
00:02:15.360 Like, why do you guys feel like
00:02:17.000 we as women should be like,
00:02:18.520 okay, it's fine, you guys.
00:02:20.060 You should read the Quran.
00:02:22.000 Allah Akbar!
00:02:23.380 So guys, you saw that for yourself.
00:02:25.300 Yeah?
00:02:25.860 This notion, this perception,
00:02:28.200 this thing that they are propagating,
00:02:30.100 which that a man can commit zinnah,
00:02:32.340 a man can have as many, you know,
00:02:34.240 sleep around, do whatever he likes.
00:02:36.040 But if it's a woman, uh-uh-uh.
00:02:37.280 Now, there's two angles to this
00:02:39.340 which we need to understand.
00:02:40.360 Number one, in Islam,
00:02:42.300 in the Sharia,
00:02:43.860 categorically clear,
00:02:45.940 Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala says in the Quran,
00:02:47.440 for those who commit sex outside of marriage,
00:02:51.280 if they are both unmarried,
00:02:53.460 there is the punishment of a hundred lashes
00:02:55.820 for them having sex outside of marriage.
00:02:58.060 If they are married,
00:02:59.540 there is a capital punishment,
00:03:02.160 clear-cut capital punishment
00:03:04.180 because we know how
00:03:05.440 the breakdown of the family unit
00:03:07.080 has an impact on the whole society as a whole.
00:03:11.020 So therefore,
00:03:12.140 the capital punishment is the same
00:03:13.500 for a man and a woman.
00:03:14.200 It doesn't say just for a man,
00:03:15.780 but not for a woman,
00:03:17.600 but not for a man.
00:03:18.140 No.
00:03:18.700 In the hereafter,
00:03:19.660 the Prophet Muhammad,
00:03:20.260 peace be upon him,
00:03:21.060 he saw,
00:03:22.460 some say it was a dream,
00:03:23.360 some say it wasn't a dream,
00:03:24.460 that he saw a group of people in an oven.
00:03:27.300 Yes?
00:03:27.700 And they were burning.
00:03:29.640 And who were these?
00:03:30.360 These were men and women,
00:03:31.680 not women who committed adultery,
00:03:34.300 yes,
00:03:34.700 sex outside of marriage,
00:03:35.780 both men and women.
00:03:38.060 Islam does not differentiate
00:03:39.420 when it comes to the act of haram,
00:03:41.460 zina,
00:03:42.100 if it's done by a man or a woman.
00:03:43.980 Now,
00:03:44.900 if we're seeing the consequences socially,
00:03:48.260 it's different,
00:03:48.920 of course.
00:03:49.900 It is different,
00:03:50.880 sadly.
00:03:51.420 It shouldn't be like that.
00:03:52.460 Sadly,
00:03:52.800 it's different.
00:03:53.420 Because if a woman,
00:03:54.660 for example,
00:03:55.720 has intimacy with more than one man,
00:03:57.720 that will have an impact
00:03:58.700 on the man that chooses to marry her.
00:04:01.100 That's the reality.
00:04:01.780 That is a sad reality
00:04:03.500 that we live in,
00:04:04.120 that how men are created,
00:04:05.520 when they make this decision,
00:04:06.420 they don't give a damn about her career.
00:04:08.280 She's a millionaire.
00:04:09.020 They don't give a damn.
00:04:09.660 I've even done a social experiment about this.
00:04:11.500 A man doesn't give a damn.
00:04:13.280 You've slept with
00:04:14.100 around the block of 10, 20 men.
00:04:17.040 No man wants to marry you.
00:04:18.820 Simple as that.
00:04:19.680 But for a man,
00:04:20.720 sadly,
00:04:21.300 the other way is true.
00:04:22.460 However,
00:04:23.560 this does not give a Muslim man
00:04:25.880 or anyone for that matter
00:04:26.760 to say,
00:04:27.040 yeah,
00:04:27.140 I can go and commit zina
00:04:27.940 because there's no social implications,
00:04:29.860 et cetera.
00:04:30.600 No,
00:04:31.060 this is fault.
00:04:32.720 So,
00:04:33.600 I want to make a category clear
00:04:34.760 to Myron.
00:04:36.660 I don't know if Sneakon said
00:04:37.440 anything like that.
00:04:38.200 Yeah,
00:04:38.380 okay.
00:04:38.780 And they're putting these buzzers there
00:04:39.980 like Allahu Ekber,
00:04:40.700 et cetera.
00:04:40.980 It's not a joke.
00:04:41.460 It's not funny,
00:04:41.960 guys.
00:04:42.280 Okay,
00:04:42.840 there's a lot of truth
00:04:43.460 you guys speak.
00:04:44.240 I understand.
00:04:44.900 However,
00:04:45.260 this propagation
00:04:46.820 that you're propagating
00:04:47.800 of,
00:04:49.000 yeah,
00:04:49.200 in Islam,
00:04:49.640 it's okay.
00:04:50.080 No,
00:04:50.360 it is not.
00:04:51.480 It is not.
00:04:52.560 However,
00:04:53.280 can a man have four wives?
00:04:54.760 Yes,
00:04:55.080 he can.
00:04:55.980 And he's not criminalized for that.
00:04:57.520 He's not guilty for that.
00:04:58.580 That is in his biology.
00:05:00.720 So,
00:05:01.020 he is created like that.
00:05:01.900 A hundred percent.
00:05:02.820 A man has,
00:05:03.980 can have more than one wife,
00:05:05.360 two,
00:05:05.600 three,
00:05:05.840 four wives.
00:05:06.560 And why?
00:05:07.280 This is sent down to protect the woman.
00:05:09.520 This is sent down,
00:05:10.400 so a man who has this inclination,
00:05:12.420 this propensity to do these things,
00:05:14.220 of having more than one woman in his life,
00:05:16.540 he does it the right way.
00:05:18.820 He doesn't have mistresses,
00:05:19.940 side chicks,
00:05:20.380 and girlfriends.
00:05:21.180 He can use and abuse like their toilet.
00:05:23.460 You know a toilet when you feel like
00:05:24.960 you need to go use the toilet
00:05:25.900 and relieve yourself,
00:05:26.580 and you find the toilet
00:05:27.640 and you just go in.
00:05:29.200 I mean,
00:05:29.480 number one,
00:05:29.860 number two,
00:05:30.260 woof,
00:05:30.720 yeah?
00:05:31.120 Stink up the whole place.
00:05:32.160 Yeah?
00:05:32.680 So,
00:05:33.620 the same with a man.
00:05:34.440 He has these propensities
00:05:35.360 and these inclinations.
00:05:36.400 So,
00:05:36.640 he's using this woman by,
00:05:38.640 you know,
00:05:39.200 penetrating her,
00:05:40.540 you know,
00:05:41.040 ejaculating inside her
00:05:42.040 like she's a toilet.
00:05:43.420 Islam says no.
00:05:44.660 If you are going to do it,
00:05:46.680 you are going to do it
00:05:47.720 in an honorable way
00:05:48.720 by honoring the second wife.
00:05:50.520 Number one,
00:05:51.420 speaking to her father.
00:05:52.620 Number two,
00:05:53.220 getting to know her in a halal way.
00:05:54.540 Not let me test drive.
00:05:55.720 If I don't like it,
00:05:56.480 then you can go,
00:05:57.100 no.
00:05:57.500 Not use an abuser,
00:05:58.680 then you marry her.
00:05:59.980 Then you do a wedding.
00:06:01.000 Then you give her a dowry,
00:06:03.280 which you can choose.
00:06:03.900 Money,
00:06:04.260 gold,
00:06:04.540 car,
00:06:04.680 whatever she wants.
00:06:05.260 It's totally up to Islam.
00:06:06.080 Gives her the right to ask
00:06:06.920 for whatever she likes.
00:06:07.940 That is her security.
00:06:09.380 And announce the marriage.
00:06:10.600 It's not hidden.
00:06:11.800 It is announced
00:06:12.340 and then you are the protector
00:06:13.460 and the provider
00:06:13.980 for the second wife as well.
00:06:15.460 And you do not favor
00:06:16.520 one over the other
00:06:17.600 because the Prophet Muhammad
00:06:18.500 said,
00:06:19.560 the man who favors
00:06:20.540 one wife over the other
00:06:21.560 will come on the day of judgment,
00:06:22.760 his body leaning on one side.
00:06:24.360 It is not a joke.
00:06:25.300 It's a serious matter.
00:06:26.480 So for anybody
00:06:27.340 in fresh and fit
00:06:28.320 who is propagating
00:06:29.880 that Islam allows a man
00:06:31.540 to go sleep around,
00:06:32.680 this is a big fat lie.
00:06:35.100 And it's a slander.
00:06:36.220 One of the biggest sins
00:06:36.940 in Islam
00:06:37.340 equate to shirk
00:06:38.660 is what?
00:06:39.440 For you to say a statement
00:06:41.000 about Allah
00:06:41.560 that Allah didn't say for himself.
00:06:42.960 Yes,
00:06:43.580 you do not say it.
00:06:44.500 And we know it
00:06:45.020 from the narration
00:06:45.580 of the Prophet Muhammad
00:06:46.260 peace be upon him,
00:06:47.060 I think it's from Bani Israel
00:06:48.000 that there was a man
00:06:49.540 who saw his brother
00:06:50.480 sinning over and over again.
00:06:52.880 And one day
00:06:53.420 he would always scold his brother,
00:06:54.480 don't stop sinning,
00:06:55.260 stop sinning.
00:06:55.920 And this brother of his
00:06:56.960 himself was very righteous.
00:06:59.040 So he would keep warning him.
00:07:00.680 And one day
00:07:01.140 he came to him and said,
00:07:02.100 you are going to go hellfire.
00:07:03.620 You're never going to go Jannah.
00:07:05.060 They both die
00:07:06.020 and they both come
00:07:06.700 to the presence
00:07:07.160 of God Almighty.
00:07:08.380 And Allah says to the man,
00:07:10.580 did you tell him
00:07:11.460 that he's going hellfire?
00:07:12.960 Yes.
00:07:13.620 He says,
00:07:14.080 indeed you're going hellfire.
00:07:15.640 Because you have said
00:07:16.800 a statement about me
00:07:18.180 without no knowledge.
00:07:20.020 You're going hellfire.
00:07:21.220 And that man
00:07:21.860 who he said to his brother
00:07:23.100 he's going hellfire,
00:07:24.080 went to paradise.
00:07:25.240 Why?
00:07:25.920 Because you cannot utter
00:07:27.420 a statement on behalf of God
00:07:29.380 that God Almighty hasn't said.
00:07:31.480 So Myron
00:07:32.080 and Sneeko,
00:07:33.240 whoever your brothers are,
00:07:34.480 with all due respect,
00:07:35.800 please do not say this statement.
00:07:37.540 You can say a man
00:07:38.340 in Islam has a right
00:07:39.400 to marry one, two, three, four wives.
00:07:41.700 True.
00:07:42.340 Haq.
00:07:42.840 But to say that
00:07:43.620 he can go sleep around
00:07:44.400 is false.
00:07:45.680 That man will get
00:07:46.480 the capital punishment
00:07:47.400 just as a woman would.
00:07:49.760 Till next time.
00:07:50.420 Asalaamu Alaikum
00:07:51.000 Wa Rahmatullahi Wa Barakatuh.