Ali Dawah - MESSAGE TO MY DAUGHTERS IF I PASS AWAY

00:00:00.000 Today, fathers are preparing their daughters for divorce.

00:00:08.000 They're preparing.

00:00:09.000 Make sure you got your career.

00:00:10.000 If he does this, that you don't rely on him.

00:00:12.000 It is all based on what?

00:00:14.000 Prepare for divorce. 0.53

00:00:15.000 Not prepare for marriage.

00:00:30.000 As-salamu alaykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh, brothers and sisters and dear friends.

00:00:36.000 Let's get straight into this video.

00:00:37.000 This video for some might be disturbing.

00:00:39.000 For some, it will be enlightening.

00:00:41.000 And for some, it's damn about time that we advise our daughters and also our sons.

00:00:47.000 But in this very instance, it's the father advising the daughter.

00:00:51.000 I have three daughters.

00:00:52.000 And I would say, if they happen to see this video, and they've reached the age that they're married,

00:00:56.000 and in my life to see that, I would love to say these words to her myself.

00:01:00.000 Or if, for example, I've passed away, that they become my Sadaqah Jariah.

00:01:05.000 May Allah bless them and grant them righteous partners.

00:01:07.000 That they watch this video and that they know their father Ali,

00:01:10.000 yep, Ali Dawah, condones every single word. 0.99

00:01:13.000 This man says, we're going to come to one specific bit, but let's watch it for ourselves, inshaAllah.

00:01:17.000 Because I do not say anything to anybody unless I do it for myself.

00:01:21.000 Like the Prophet said, if I caught Fatima stealing, I would cut her hand off. 0.99

00:01:26.000 Because this is what the Deen teaches us.

00:01:27.000 Not one rule for someone else or another, or something for another.

00:01:30.000 No way. Let's watch this video for ourselves, inshaAllah.

00:01:32.000 Viewer discretion might be advised.

00:01:34.000 Thank you for your extreme care, inshaAllah.

00:01:40.000 Here we are.

00:01:41.000 You may have甚麼 to gamble on myputi and banere.

00:01:45.000 But what I do not charge...

00:01:48.000 I do not charge because of or anything.

00:01:52.000 This is my wife.

00:01:53.000 I do not charge my relationship.

00:01:55.000 Until one year, I will start pong, so they should be healthy.

00:01:59.000 Thank you, everybody.

00:02:01.000 Amen.

00:02:31.000 all right guys now let's understand and put some context to this now you heard that for yourself

00:02:42.240 now brothers and sisters you need to understand something today fathers are preparing their

00:02:46.760 daughters for divorce they're preparing make sure you got your career if he does this that you don't

00:02:50.960 rely on him it is all based on what prepare for divorce not prepare for marriage prepare for

00:02:56.920 divorce not only the father also the mother we are nurturing the next generation of our daughters or

00:03:02.160 our sons yes and i'm going to be talking about why i'm talking about the sisters here specifically

00:03:05.400 you're going to find out why are we preparing our next generation our daughters for divorce why this 0.97

00:03:11.540 is devastating catastrophic the biggest threat to the omar right now is divorce rates why now i said

00:03:17.760 to you guys i would say the same words to my daughter now you might be watching this and saying

00:03:21.920 very disturbing i'll say you're disturbed you're tapped in the head yes why because he has said

00:03:27.580 nothing wrong there and that is what the deen says i dare anybody that's watching this to come and tell

00:03:34.060 me that what he said is haram no because allah says in the quran in surah nisa that means that the men

00:03:38.600 are the maintainers and protectors and obedience yes that word obedience which nobody likes but to who

00:03:44.060 now if i give my daughter's hand in marriage to a man best believe and best know that i am saying that

00:03:50.440 i trust her decision she's made to take him as a leader as a man who's going to provide

00:03:54.780 protect love her care for her good now does this mean that if my daughter comes and complains to me

00:04:00.100 i'm going to say shh go back to your husband no because i know women are born emotional by their 1.00

00:04:05.500 nature so therefore my daughter comes to me complaining about certain matter of course i'm

00:04:09.560 going to listen to her of course i'm going to hear out but if it's an issue which is petty yes and that

00:04:14.440 varies from place to place if it's an issue where somebody else is involved where her friend or someone else

00:04:19.080 or even be it my own wife involved if she was involved in her marriage dispute i will tell her 0.55

00:04:25.080 is your husband providing for you okay does he protect you yes does he do the shopping yes is he

00:04:30.500 loving to you yes to the kids yes good does he pray yes has taqwa yes the disputes that you have

00:04:37.320 keep them to yourself unless it is something severe unless he's violating the laws of allah unless he's

00:04:42.780 violating your rights come and see me if any of those are not happening stay in your marriage 0.79

00:04:48.080 do not let anyone destroy it why because 80 of the time we studied show that women are initiating 1.00

00:04:55.360 divorce and these women most of the time end up regretting it women can be emotional they could 0.88

00:05:00.500 say things that they don't mean that is within their nature understandable so if women are initiating 1.00

00:05:06.280 divorce 80 of the time that means that they are prone to initiate a divorce the man has to be the

00:05:12.080 leader and say no and take things in control not be emotional like her so what this man is saying

00:05:18.080 i'm asking a question to all the fathers out there specifically which you guys know which i'm

00:05:22.520 known for the second wife the same goes again she's telling her he's telling his doota that if 0.76

00:05:28.140 he happens to do that yes it can be like okay if he gets another one supports him of course a woman

00:05:31.820 is jealous of course she's not going to be happy that it's all well and good the best of the woman

00:05:35.780 were not happy the best of the woman smash plays the best of the believers our mothers got angry

00:05:40.740 and done all kinds of stuff subhanallah yes and some of the scholars even say that they were not

00:05:46.060 even blameworthy of that so therefore we understand the woman's nature of being upset however asking for 1.00

00:05:52.780 a divorce because your husband like again a good man who's protecting who's providing who loves you

00:05:57.900 cares about you getting married again i would say the same thing to my doota and for those of you guys

00:06:04.020 who think this is abnormal if there's anyone abnormal it is you because i am following what the deen

00:06:09.300 says if my doota comes to me and says my husband has decided to get married again i'll ask the same

00:06:15.440 questions again is he a good man yes he is practicing yes loves you yes takes care of you yes

00:06:20.740 looks after the kids yes spends time with you yes praise to allah yes does his fard yes yes yes i will

00:06:25.960 say you my doota which i love and i want the best for you you might hate something which is good for you

00:06:31.400 and you might love something which is bad for you this is what the deen teach does not the liberal

00:06:35.160 principles of the the god of good and the good of god of evil yes the pleasure and pain no no no no

00:06:40.860 no we say my dear daughter you might dislike it but there is goodness in you because if that is the

00:06:47.300 case that he's a good man do not lose him because don't think for a second that the next man you're

00:06:52.220 going to marry is going to be anyway any shape different no he's going to come in a different

00:06:57.520 form like the second law of thermodynamics which you're going to be thinking what has this got to do

00:07:01.180 anything yeah i'll wrap up with this is that energy cannot be created or destroyed meaning if i

00:07:05.320 set this watch on fire it's going it's not going to it's not going to disappear if the energy is

00:07:09.680 going to change into a different form yes disintegrate uh to the clouds or whatever it's going to happen

00:07:14.040 but it is still there it's just change form therefore anything allah subhanahu wa ta'ala has legislated

00:07:19.700 we need more fathers like this man who entrusts his daughter to a good man and if the man violates

00:07:27.720 the woman in her feminine energy which the man crumbles to your femininity is your biggest power 1.00

00:07:34.300 against the man i'm telling you sisters your femininity is the greatest mass destructional 1.00

00:07:39.920 weapon that you have against your husband he will crumble trust me and anytime you have a dispute

00:07:45.980 this is what allah says in the quran get family members involved alhamdulillah but in a nutshell if 0.85

00:07:51.540 anybody's watching this the feminists they would be ripping their hair out is she a property shut up 1.00

00:07:56.820 shut up you get get lost it's you woman that have destroyed the woman of today that they have 1.00

00:08:03.300 become anything anything something small happens divorce and we will be reacting to a video pertaining 0.98

00:08:08.580 to this with sister naima roberts and myself of another sister who is advising women to go their

00:08:14.060 separate ways because of something so minor that's all i'm going to say may allah subhanahu wa ta'ala preserve

00:08:19.060 this father and his daughter and their marriage and their husband nobody in any way shape or form is

00:08:24.140 saying in this video that if this woman is being violated where her rights are not being given that 0.88

00:08:28.820 she's not second be quiet no islam has given the woman the right that even if she is sexually not 0.99

00:08:34.420 satisfied she has a right to ask for divorce the point here is this that a man deals with a man and

00:08:40.600 if my daughter came to me and her husband was violating her i will be dealing with him in a way that

00:08:46.380 befits him so may allah subhanahu wa ta'ala allow us to go back to our traditions go back to our

00:08:50.680 islamic values and have trust and tawakkul in allah subhanahu wa ta'ala's legislation that we do not put

00:08:55.680 our trust in what we think we know but rather what allah subhanahu wa ta'ala's legislated only we will be

00:09:00.160 then successful only then these divorce rates won't be happening only then we won't have abundance of 1.00

00:09:05.180 single fathers and single mothers and corrupt broken down children who are psychologically affected by 0.96

00:09:11.060 the breakdown of the family unit may allah bless you guys insha'Allah we will be probably reacting to this

00:09:15.140 on the bitter truth show when we're recording our next episode till next time assalamualaikum

00:09:18.700 wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh please do give me your comment and thoughts on the comment section insha'Allah

00:09:22.640 i'll see you guys soon

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Ali Dawah - May 28, 2023

MESSAGE TO MY DAUGHTERS IF I PASS AWAY

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