Ali Dawah - MESSAGE TO SISTER BODMON ZAID

00:00:00.000 Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh brothers and sisters and dear friends

00:00:03.420 hope you guys are doing well welcome back to my channel on this video I'll be

00:00:07.880 talking about a sister who is I think she's a youtuber from Canada if I'm not

00:00:14.000 mistaken how I came across this video is one sister messaged me on Instagram

00:00:17.940 which you can see on the screen I'll show you guys so then you guys don't

00:00:21.080 think you know I'm going you know stalking sisters anyway this is the

00:00:25.320 message man said that I think she watches she's maybe a fan of this sister her

00:00:28.680 name is I think her name is Bodmon Zaid but I don't think that's a real name

00:00:32.280 anyways this sister said to me that look there's this youtuber and she feels a

00:00:36.300 bit down upset etc and she maybe maybe he would be a bit of advice and I thought

00:00:39.740 you know why not you know definitely be something you know we are Muslim brothers

00:00:43.780 and sisters in the religion and it's our duty to help each other whatever it may

00:00:47.100 be you know and every single one of us go through this so I thought you know the

00:00:50.440 Prophet peace be upon him said that indeed advice benefits a believer so I thought

00:00:54.180 let me advise her and I did watch the video just to grasp and understand where

00:00:58.060 she's coming from and uh to be honest like you know she seems like a good

00:01:02.100 sister but anyways let's just quickly watch some snippets just quickly snippets

00:01:04.840 I'm not gonna do like a reaction video just snippets of certain things and we

00:01:07.400 will address each other yeah sometimes I feel very alone even though I'm not alone

00:01:11.800 you know what I mean I just don't have like another outlet that I could turn to

00:01:15.700 I feel like lost I have this constant feeling in my heart and like in me like in my

00:01:22.160 body that I am missing something like that I'm truly truly missing something

00:01:28.080 like I feel like I have no guidance which is so like bizarre I haven't prayed for a

00:01:32.980 while and this is something that I've been wanting to especially since I've been

00:01:38.300 feeling like the feeling that I have is not something a person can solve um the

00:01:44.580 feeling of being empty the feeling of being lost the feeling of having no

00:01:49.140 guidance is not something that a person can solve not the most religious person 0.99

00:01:53.820 but I do believe in a lot of things so I feel like I'm not good enough you know

00:01:59.160 what I mean my personal life is not doing that well and I don't know why a lot of

00:02:05.140 it just has to do with me not praying I feel like I can't find peace and like

00:02:09.320 nothing that bad has happened I don't know so on my way to the gym let it all

00:02:14.520 out like do an ugly cry like I will just let out everything everything that you

00:02:20.040 see on social media is not true you know the beauty gurus including myself we

00:02:24.800 only show you guys what we want to show you like the only thing at this point

00:02:30.180 that I haven't done is I just start praying I feel like I'm not worthy which I

00:02:35.700 know is not the case so I 100% agree that I feel like I should pray and I do want to

00:02:40.340 start like I I've fallen off you know and I shouldn't have and then it's to the

00:02:44.760 point when when I think about going and praying

00:02:47.840 so it's to the point where when I go and think about praying I feel

00:02:55.460 let's just switch topics for one second back to the issue so it's gotten so bad

00:03:05.840 that when I think about praying it's like I I almost feel like ashamed and I feel

00:03:15.140 like I'm not like worthy

00:03:16.340 yeah Hands in the world

00:03:17.640 yeah and I think about tomorrow

00:03:20.900 yeah Isaiah

00:03:22.720 yeah Iallah

00:03:27.340 yeah Ừ

00:03:40.640 ordinary three artists who had an invited somebody who was neighbouring himself

00:03:47.620 So theyú Him not قدعون من رحمة الله

00:03:52.280 إن الله يغفر الذنوب جميعا

00:03:57.500 إنه هو الغفور الرحيم

00:04:04.640 Now, guysied since we got an understanding of everything the�� has been gone through

00:04:08.800 now this is something that's happening with a lot of youtubers that big youtubers whatever it may be

00:04:13.040 they're going through this phase this emptiness comes and kicks in and obviously i'm not gonna

00:04:17.600 this is this i've done this video for like fuzzy tube as well so sister if you're watching this

00:04:20.960 firstly uh go watch my video on my reaction video to fuzzy tube when he was going through that that

00:04:26.160 will really benefit you i just want to repeat the same thing again not that i can't it's just i've

00:04:29.360 done it before just for the viewers you watch that but i'm just going to repeat a few things insha

00:04:32.960 allah so one thing that we need to understand says allah says in the quran indeed if you forget

00:04:37.920 my remembrance you will have a depressed life so now we need to understand that allah has set that

00:04:42.720 law in place meaning that our hearts only find peace in the remembrance of allah it's programmed it's

00:04:48.080 there there is you can't break that that programming is there meaning for example like gravity when i

00:04:52.800 let go of something it's going to fall no matter what it's going to fall it's a it's a law that's

00:04:57.200 in place so that's what allah says indeed if you forget his remembrance you're going to have a

00:05:01.760 depressed life and then in another verse allah says indeed with my remembrance do hearts find

00:05:07.680 peace so saying that if you forget me you'll have a depressed life if you remember me your heart

00:05:12.000 will find peace now sister when we attach ourselves to anything besides allah subhanahu wa ta'ala our

00:05:18.720 hearts will always be broken and we will always never find happiness if it's a car if you make our

00:05:25.440 car our happiness and our life when when our car disappears our love and happiness disappears with

00:05:29.840 it when we put our heart and love into a human being a person who might be this doesn't mean you don't

00:05:34.720 love your spouse no but not you don't love them more than you love allah do you get what i'm trying

00:05:38.160 to say so when you put your happiness into this person whatever it may be and they your life and

00:05:43.520 whatever when they leave and go your happiness leaves and goes with them and this goes with

00:05:48.160 everything whatever you like you know whether it is if you like mango and you love it so much

00:05:52.960 and it disappears whatever it may be do you get what i'm trying to say in your life so this is something

00:05:56.640 that we need to understand so the emptiness that's where it's coming from because your heart is

00:06:00.960 yearning for the remembrance of allah for the liquor of allah subhanahu wa ta'ala so that's why you

00:06:05.120 sometimes you feel this emptiness when you move away and things are not right and then you get this

00:06:08.800 temporary happiness where some people go through alcohol drugs uh whatever it may be but eventually

00:06:13.360 they're just like it's just this void inside me one thing that i would say sister is that we need to

00:06:17.840 we should concentrate about coming closer to allah with every action remember allah as much as you can

00:06:25.200 even if you're alone for example i was preparing to do with this video let's say for example you're a youtuber

00:06:30.560 you're prepared to do your video set up while you're doing that remember allah say you know

00:06:34.000 astaghfirullah alhamdulillah la ilaha illallah um subhanallah just just remember allah on your tongue

00:06:41.440 this is something that's heavy this is something that's light on the tongue saying allahu akbar

00:06:45.360 astaghfirullah doing dhikr but it's heavy on the scales of good deeds on the day of judgment so try to

00:06:49.200 do little things like this inshallah now other point that you said sister was one thing that i i really

00:06:54.800 really and and really really touched me is that when you meant when you mentioned salah like prayer

00:07:02.000 and you couldn't carry on you was you felt like crying now to me sister wallahi that shows your

00:07:07.120 sincerity and it shows your genuinity and it shows your uh love for allah subhanahu wa ta'ala and when

00:07:12.720 i've seen that sister wallahi i as your brother i make dua for you and your family that inshallah that 0.79

00:07:18.320 allah gives you the best in this life and hereafter inshallah makes you closer to him

00:07:21.600 um what i've seen that well uh what i've seen there sister wallahi i can testify in front of

00:07:25.680 allah on the day of judgment that you are a sister that loves allah and his messenger wallahi i

00:07:30.080 testify that seeing that that's not fake i believe that you love allah and his messenger and let me

00:07:34.800 tell you a story and by the way sorry about my accent if i'm speaking too fast and this goes to

00:07:39.200 everyone that's watching there was a man and he used to drink alcohol all the time and the

00:07:44.960 companions would have a go at him you know like don't you feel allah you're drinking alcohol etc and i think

00:07:50.480 this instance happened near the prophet this happened once and they were flogging this happened

00:07:54.560 too they'll they'll flog him okay that was that was like the punishment yeah and this happened three

00:07:58.640 times and then i think one of the companions said umar ibn qattab uh said to the man may allah like

00:08:04.160 curse you what kind of a person are you you know you're drinking alcohol in front of the messenger 0.97

00:08:08.720 etc along those lines and the prophet peace be upon him corrected him and he said yes he might be a 0.95

00:08:13.760 sinner but indeed this man loves allah and his messenger meaning now we are all going to sin yeah we are all

00:08:20.080 going to sin but it's about always having that connection with allah and seeing that in your

00:08:24.880 sister you have that love for allah anytime you feel that little this goes to anyone anyone that

00:08:29.440 feels a little regret when they sin you have iman in your heart you have the love for allah and his

00:08:34.080 messenger it's there because you have this consciousness and a part and a part of repentance

00:08:39.120 is there's three conditions you stop the sin you regret the sin and you don't go back to the sin yeah

00:08:44.880 so for one of the parts is that you regret it so the fact that you felt bad and he was crying shows

00:08:50.240 that you have that in your heart and i believe you love allah and his messenger so that's one thing

00:08:54.880 that i would say sister now one thing that you said which i want to touch upon and a lot of people go

00:08:59.520 through this is that you said that you feel ashamed and not worthy etc now this is one of the tricks of

00:09:07.120 shaytan this is one of the ways shaytan attacks our sister so now what we need to understand is that

00:09:15.280 no matter what sin you commit for any of us to think that allah will not forgive us is a bigger

00:09:23.440 sin than the sin you're committing for example if i go and drink alcohol that's a sin or whatever it may

00:09:30.080 be it's a major sin for example however the moment i think to myself allah's never going to forgive me i've

00:09:35.760 just committed a bigger sin why because allah says in the quran every single chapter except one

00:09:40.320 and one of his attributes is that he's the rahman rahim is the most merciful the very merciful

00:09:44.240 yeah so for me to come and say for allah to say he's the most merciful and then for me to turn around

00:09:49.120 and say no no you're not going to forgive me you're actually negating one of allah's attributes

00:09:53.680 he is the most merciful so what you need to understand sister is that no matter what sin you commit

00:09:58.640 whatever it is even if it's shirk associating partners to allah is the biggest sin yeah for 0.98

00:10:05.680 example associating partners to allah for example thinking okay you know what this gem can protect

00:10:12.960 me or going to somebody and asking praying to them etc long story short yeah any sin that you commit

00:10:20.800 sister do not ever let the shaytan make you think you are not worthy because i know these folks come and 0.97

00:10:26.800 say you know you're a hypocrite you've done this and that now you're going to go pray to allah you 0.99

00:10:30.000 hypocrite no this is from shaytan automatically ignore it yeah there's things that allah has set 1.00

00:10:36.400 in place yeah these things do not let go of them no matter what the shahada obviously the salah is 0.97

00:10:43.840 very key sister the salah paying zakat giving charity going hajj if you can and fasting ramadan

00:10:50.080 these are the pillars yeah what is more beloved allah is the things that he's ordered that you do

00:10:55.200 yeah and these are your key to jannah yeah for you to open that door you have to have those keys yeah

00:11:02.880 now and also abstaining from major sins away from alcohol uh haram relations zina yeah uh murdering 0.89

00:11:09.600 anyone yeah not that i think you don't know anyone but etc keeping away from major sin if you stick to

00:11:14.960 the things that allah's ordered you to do like the salah etc abstain from major sins allah subhanahu 0.63

00:11:20.000 ta'ala says that he will wipe away your minor sins yeah and allah is the most merciful yeah we're

00:11:25.120 going to have faults we're going to have ups and downs this is a part of iman some companions came

00:11:29.040 to the prophet peace be upon him and said oh rasulullah when we're with you our iman is so high

00:11:32.960 that we feel so great but when we leave your gathering we feel so low and the prophet muhammad 0.98

00:11:37.360 peace be upon him said if you were to feel that high iman all the time the angels would have come and

00:11:41.680 give salam to you so meaning that we're going to have have our ups and downs sister but do not ever let

00:11:46.960 shaitan make you think that you are not worthy or you're this the first thing that you need to 1.00

00:11:53.040 understand no matter what you commit sister you need to say stop okay regret you hate the sin you

00:12:00.480 make uh you take it off and you repell and don't go back to the sin you need to acknowledge this stop

00:12:05.440 okay this is a sin i've committed yeah acknowledge that say you know what i have a lord that's most

00:12:11.440 merciful now this doesn't mean you commit sins i say okay what we're trying to see is that

00:12:16.880 you understand that you have a lord that's often given most merciful so you need to always

00:12:21.520 acknowledge that and say you know my lord's forgiven turn back repent and try not to go back to this

00:12:25.920 sin stop the sin even if you fall back into it 50 times million times repent sincerely sincerely

00:12:32.640 and try your best to fix your ways and not fall back into it but do not ever let your sins whatever

00:12:37.520 it may be to cause an impact on your life where you let go of your salah and there's a cat and the

00:12:41.600 fasting and the obligatory um deeds yeah do not ever let that happen yeah because none of us are

00:12:49.600 perfect and we're going to fall into sin and it's about learning the best of sinners are those who

00:12:54.640 repent and don't go back to it so sister this is like a little reminder for me to you just acknowledge

00:12:59.760 that and have gradual steps to work your way up and know sister that when you go into your grave

00:13:05.600 on the day of judgment sister there's going to be no there no one with you

00:13:08.480 do not try to please anyone not that i'm saying you are brothers and sisters yeah do not try to

00:13:13.600 please anyone believe me none of these people none of these people your own mother is not going to

00:13:20.400 go in the grave with you if if they ask your own mother would you come in the grave instead of her

00:13:24.640 she'll say no no because allah says on that day on that day of judgment nobody knows nobody it's just

00:13:29.920 going to be you so sister don't let this temporary life distract you from the eternal paradise from the

00:13:37.040 hereafter don't let that do that and like i said to you before i sincerely believe you love allah

00:13:41.440 and his messenger sister may allah bless you may allah make it easy for you inshallah uh and protect

00:13:46.320 you and one thing that i would say sister is obviously we as youtubers sometimes the things that

00:13:50.400 we should not put out in public which you know yourself is that because the prophet peace be upon

00:13:54.400 him said that envy envy this is a big big thing sister yeah so to protect yourself from envy and evil

00:14:00.960 magic all these kind of stuff yeah read surah class surah and uh and the surah nas yeah and the

00:14:08.000 prophet muhammad peace be upon him before he would go sleep he would put his hands together recite those

00:14:12.400 free surahs and blow and wipe it over his body and after salah he would read that so inshallah you get 0.55

00:14:19.440 back into your salah uh uh sister may allah make it easy for you do these precautional measures and sister

00:14:24.480 get to know allah get to know his messenger get another companions meet female companions spend

00:14:29.600 more time like yes it's good that that you know um you're physically active etc uh that you go gym

00:14:37.360 whatever it may be however sister if we train and look if we we give nutrition to our body if we starve

00:14:43.440 our soul what's gonna happen why do people kill their self because they've starved their soul their

00:14:47.600 soul needs that food their soul food you know and that's the remembrance of allah feed your soul

00:14:54.880 because this body that we're training well if nobody's saying don't train you can train but this

00:14:58.400 body is eventually going to perish it's eventually going to perish it's your soul that you need to

00:15:03.360 make sure that your soul is alhamdulillah in shape yeah like your soul is strong and that's what i would

00:15:09.680 say about uh sister may allah bless you brothers and sisters hope you guys have benefited as well inshallah

00:15:13.680 share this with sister uh hashtag maybe bodmon zaid i don't know what this name is may allah bless

00:15:18.640 and make it easy for me make to offer as well inshallah sister um for uh for our brothers and sisters

00:15:23.280 indeed we are brothers and sisters in the religion and we should help one another and we should be less

00:15:26.800 judgmental everybody has their own troubles in different ways uh that's about it may allah bless you

00:15:30.880 guys um yeah take care assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh

Ali Dawah - August 12, 2017

MESSAGE TO SISTER BODMON ZAID

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