Ali Dawah - May 31, 2024


MO DEEN REPENTS FOR MUTAH MARRIAGE


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10 minutes

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2,220

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178

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Misogyny

7

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23

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In this podcast, I talk about the recent video of Abdurrahman Deen's muta marriage and how it can be seen as a mockery of Jummah Kutbah. I do not promote temporary marriages. I only promote permanent marriages.

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00:00:00.000 They say to me, I'm going to marry you for X amount of money or present for X amount of time.
00:00:07.220 If you're watching this and you've done temporary marriages because of me, I am in front of the world.
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00:00:39.180 As-salamu alaykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh, brothers and sisters and dear friends.
00:00:42.140 Somebody sent me this video of Mo Deen.
00:00:44.400 Now, obviously, when it comes to videos, I usually try not to watch it because, yes, you know, people use it as like he's a comedian, etc.
00:00:50.640 It just makes people laugh, etc. for that matter.
00:00:52.060 But some things are brothers and sisters, he's mocking the Deen.
00:00:54.420 And this can mount to kufr.
00:00:55.860 I'm not saying it's a careful.
00:00:56.700 I'm just saying the action itself can be kufr.
00:00:58.280 You know, mockery of praying and doing this, that kind of stuff.
00:01:00.740 However, the video was actually quite serious.
00:01:02.460 I was quite shocked to hear Mo Deen dead serious.
00:01:05.120 What was he talking about?
00:01:06.100 He was talking about muta marriage, which is temporary marriage, which is forbidden in Islam.
00:01:10.620 It was allowed at one moment of time.
00:01:12.260 Here is the video of him actually conducting a muta marriage. 1.00
00:01:14.860 And then we're going to see him repenting.
00:01:16.660 And we applaud him for his repentance.
00:01:18.620 Here's the video.
00:01:19.220 Let's watch the first one of him conducting the marriage.
00:01:20.840 Well, an invalid marriage.
00:01:24.300 And then we'll see his repentance video.
00:01:27.060 Wait, wait.
00:01:27.780 Cover this.
00:01:28.440 Cover.
00:01:29.200 Where's the album?
00:01:30.620 Let's put the window.
00:01:32.020 This is my muta bride, isn't it? 1.00
00:01:33.960 This is it.
00:01:34.580 All right.
00:01:35.380 Say to me in Arabic.
00:01:37.240 Say to me in Arabic right now.
00:01:39.580 You're going to say to me, I'm going to marry you for X amount of money or present for X amount of time.
00:01:46.380 I will respond in Arabic saying that I accept.
00:01:48.780 One second, darling.
00:01:50.580 Please don't interrupt the marriage ceremony.
00:01:52.460 Sorry.
00:01:52.740 Sorry.
00:01:54.220 We're getting married.
00:01:55.420 And you're talking while we're getting married.
00:01:56.840 Please, yeah.
00:01:57.920 So I'm going to say to you in Arabic, I will marry you for X amount of time, for X amount of da'wari. 0.99
00:02:04.580 Da'wari means a present.
00:02:06.360 Okay.
00:02:06.920 You will say that to me in Arabic.
00:02:08.040 I will respond to you in Arabic saying I have accepted the marriage.
00:02:11.480 Okay.
00:02:12.660 What is it that you want as a present for your muta marriage? 0.99
00:02:15.920 Smart whip.
00:02:17.380 If you're watching this and you've done temporary marriages because of me, I am in front of the world.
00:02:23.420 I am saying I repent to God.
00:02:25.960 I suffer Allah. 0.99
00:02:27.480 I ask God to forgive me.
00:02:28.960 I only promote permanent marriage.
00:02:31.120 If you've ever seen any videos of me temporary marriage or promoting or talking about it, I take everything back.
00:02:36.780 I'm not involved in any of that.
00:02:39.160 All I know is permanent marriage.
00:02:40.580 All I promote is permanent marriage.
00:02:41.940 And that's the best thing to do in life.
00:02:44.600 I'm not involved.
00:02:45.320 I ask Allah to forgive me on the day of judgment.
00:02:47.060 I ask Allah to forgive me.
00:02:48.200 I hope the world see this.
00:02:49.500 I hope anyone who's doing it because of me or whatever, they see that I've taken back everything I say.
00:02:55.040 I'm not involved on the day of judgment.
00:02:56.700 If you try and say, oh, Maudin told us to do this.
00:02:59.160 I'm saying right now, I'm clarifying myself.
00:03:01.540 I'm making it clear to the world.
00:03:02.980 I only promote permanent marriage.
00:03:04.440 I do not promote temporary marriage.
00:03:06.060 God forgive me for all my sins.
00:03:07.920 And I can only make a video and say, I don't know what else to do.
00:03:11.660 If there's anything else I can do, let me know in the comments.
00:03:14.700 And I suffer Allah. 0.95
00:03:16.320 That's all I can say.
00:03:17.940 So, guys, you heard that for yourself, Subhanallah.
00:03:19.440 The first one is obviously, again, it's kind of mockery.
00:03:21.920 But, again, he is repenting.
00:03:24.220 Now, there's a few things I want to mention for specifically sisters who are listening to this.
00:03:27.940 Some people try to equate misyar marriage with muta.
00:03:30.500 Okay, muta is a temporary marriage.
00:03:32.140 And it is void in Islam. 0.99
00:03:33.540 And it's very ironic, actually, when it comes from the Shias. 1.00
00:03:36.140 Again, I don't want this to be a conflict thing.
00:03:38.260 I'm not here to cause, you know, conflict between the Shias and Sunnis.
00:03:43.140 I'm just stating facts.
00:03:44.300 The irony is that this is narrated by Ali Radulan.
00:03:46.340 where he talks about how it was made forbidden.
00:03:49.960 So, it's very, very clear, Subhanallah, it's in Sahih Muslim, in Bukhari as well,
00:03:53.840 that it was abrogated.
00:03:54.700 It was allowed at one specific time because Islam is a pragmatic religion.
00:03:57.160 It deals with the reality of the world.
00:03:58.660 At one point, it was allowed.
00:03:59.760 And, like I said before, it was made forbidden.
00:04:02.300 Why?
00:04:02.540 For many reasons.
00:04:03.320 Even when it comes to misyar marriage, brothers and sisters,
00:04:05.040 there's a big misconception as if it's the same as muta.
00:04:07.700 Muta is something that is done temporarily.
00:04:10.120 Okay, so you are having an agreement.
00:04:11.820 Again, this is haram in Islam.
00:04:12.940 For two people to get married, even if it's misyar marriage, 1.00
00:04:15.020 to give it a time, to give it a time, it's not permissible.
00:04:18.120 Yes, if somebody has the intentions that they are going to divorce the girl,
00:04:21.420 or the woman has the intention that she's going to ask for divorce whenever, 1.00
00:04:24.840 this is not necessarily permissible.
00:04:26.920 Why?
00:04:27.380 Because you are innately, the nikah is valid, 1.00
00:04:30.500 but you are doing an action that is haram.
00:04:32.000 So, you will be sinful for that.
00:04:34.080 And not only that, you are dealing with human beings.
00:04:35.620 These are emotions that people have.
00:04:37.180 You cannot just jump into things.
00:04:38.740 Misyar is something where, again, people look at it very oddly,
00:04:41.380 but for some reason, a woman, a non-Muslim woman, a Western woman,
00:04:43.960 can choose to consent to have one night stand with an absolute stranger that they don't know.
00:04:48.000 But a misyar marriage where the woman forgoes her rights, 1.00
00:04:50.660 and it is at her discretion.
00:04:52.160 She can choose and say, you do not need to provide for me,
00:04:54.460 or you don't need to spend this much nights with me,
00:04:56.100 or you don't have to do this, A, B.
00:04:58.660 She can stipulate it as long as it's at her discretion.
00:05:01.360 She's happy, and then it is go ahead.
00:05:02.920 So, it's not the same as a temporary marriage,
00:05:05.060 like a girlfriend, boyfriend, like a dinner session or whatever, you know.
00:05:08.640 Oh, I'm just going to be with you for a couple of weeks, etc.,
00:05:10.180 and then I'm going to leave.
00:05:12.880 Misyar marriage is not the same. 1.00
00:05:14.180 Misyar marriage is a big, big solution to many, many problems. 0.94
00:05:18.520 However, if it's done correctly.
00:05:20.440 But, again, my dear sisters, who I need to speak to is the following,
00:05:23.620 that this is the reason why I always stipulate and say,
00:05:27.080 my dear sisters, ask for a decent amount of mahr. 1.00
00:05:30.560 Have your guardian, a true guardian,
00:05:33.400 especially for our river sisters,
00:05:34.780 not somebody who is like, here, I'll be your guardian, you know.
00:05:38.500 This is not a true individual.
00:05:39.740 Why?
00:05:40.220 You want somebody that genuinely cares about your well-being,
00:05:43.020 like their own sisters, their own mother, their own wife, 0.52
00:05:45.300 their own daughters.
00:05:46.100 Not somebody who says, I'm just going to be your guardian there for a little bit,
00:05:49.120 and then I'm going to do whatever.
00:05:51.280 Do you get what I'm trying to say?
00:05:51.760 You need somebody who is genuinely going to care for you,
00:05:53.920 warn you, and say, look, are you sure about this man?
00:05:55.800 Do due diligence of this man?
00:05:57.180 And ask for a decent mahr.
00:05:58.880 Again, look, I'm just giving my, I'm a nobody,
00:06:01.500 3,000, 4,000.
00:06:02.440 Why?
00:06:02.860 Because if a man has ill intentions,
00:06:05.020 and he wants to be with you for just intimacy or for whatever,
00:06:09.000 the mahr, being small, is going to be,
00:06:10.920 it's not going to be a deterrent.
00:06:12.100 You having a guardian, that is not a true guardian,
00:06:14.340 it's his friend,
00:06:15.420 or it's somebody that he knows, etc., whatever,
00:06:17.620 again, it's not going to.
00:06:18.520 I'm being genuinely honest,
00:06:19.500 if he was my own daughter, whoever it is.
00:06:21.380 Sisters, you are putting yourself in this mess 0.96
00:06:23.420 if you go ahead with that.
00:06:24.720 Now, coming to Mawdin.
00:06:26.560 Mawdin, again, like Allah says in the Quran,
00:06:28.240 A'udhu Billahi Minash Shaitan Ar-Rajim.
00:06:30.200 Bismillahirrahmanirrahim.
00:06:31.260 Say, yea, gentlemen, who blood down on their hearts,
00:06:39.760 yea, gentlemen, who blood down on their hearts,
00:06:45.280 do not fall from mercy, troubling Allah,
00:06:48.420 إِنَّ اللَّهَ يَقْفِرُ الدُّنُوبَ جَمِيْئًا
00:06:53.380 إِنَّ اللَّهَ يَقْفِرُ الدُّنُوبَ جَمِيْئًا
00:06:57.780 إِنَّهُ هُوَ الْغَفُورُ الرَّهِيمُ
00:07:02.360 So for Maudin, or anyone for that matter, Allah SWT says
00:07:05.580 All my servants who have transgressed against themselves, 1.00
00:07:07.920 do not ever despair the mercy of Allah, indeed Allah is the most forgiving, very merciful.
00:07:13.180 So again, look Maudin, you're a human being, whoever it is for that matter,
00:07:17.520 we all sin, yes?
00:07:19.560 That's why it's so important that we do not judge people based on their past.
00:07:23.160 Islam is a religion that says, no matter how sinful past you have,
00:07:26.360 you've repented, you've acknowledged, it's done and dusted.
00:07:29.140 However, Maudin, I'm just being real with you.
00:07:32.280 I spoke to you in the park, joking, this, that, etc.
00:07:34.520 Like, you know, but put that to a side, I'm having a real discussion with you.
00:07:36.840 Okay, let's put jokes to a side, yeah?
00:07:38.480 Is this, bro, that you need to understand there's violations against Allah SWT
00:07:43.260 and there's violations against human beings.
00:07:44.420 That's why the conditions, our free conditions, the one who wrongs, 0.89
00:07:47.660 does the sin against Allah SWT.
00:07:49.140 You hate the sin, you stop the sin and you don't go back to the sin, inshallah.
00:07:51.680 You try not to go back to the sin.
00:07:52.680 The fourth condition, if you violated somebody's rights,
00:07:54.820 you came out and said something which is not, Allah has not legislated.
00:07:59.160 You made something that is haram, halal.
00:08:01.400 Okay, now, even to your religion, again, I'm not going to say religion,
00:08:05.600 the sect that you follow.
00:08:06.860 So, still, now, you can repent.
00:08:10.880 But those people who followed your suit, followed you,
00:08:14.180 who, I don't know what kind of aql they have, 1.00
00:08:15.520 because you're not personal knowledge.
00:08:16.560 I mean, it's like me talking, I'm not trying to be literal.
00:08:18.540 It's like me saying a fatwa or whatever, yeah? 0.99
00:08:20.560 Is, again, they are brought on your maqiyama, you might be responsible.
00:08:24.520 I'm not trying to make you feel bad, but at the end of the day,
00:08:26.360 you made a statement, an irresponsible statement,
00:08:29.180 that may have, maybe you're doing this video,
00:08:30.600 because a sister called you and said her life was destroyed,
00:08:32.600 because somebody came and used it, whatever it is for that matter.
00:08:34.180 I don't know what happened, because you seem very serious,
00:08:36.400 and you seem very scared.
00:08:37.360 So, you're making a disclaimer,
00:08:38.320 is there something about to come out?
00:08:39.280 We don't know.
00:08:40.100 So, the point is what?
00:08:41.860 That's why the Salaf would say, 0.97
00:08:43.180 we would rather commit 70 sins between us and Allah, 0.99
00:08:45.820 than one sin violating the rights of somebody else.
00:08:47.860 And Islam is very, very severe when it comes to this matter. 1.00
00:08:49.960 So, please, please understand,
00:08:51.660 that when you're making stuff and saying stuff,
00:08:53.720 it's not a joke.
00:08:54.560 Yes?
00:08:55.060 It is not a joke.
00:08:55.800 It is heavy, especially when it involves the rights of others.
00:08:57.900 How many people, how many women, 1.00
00:08:59.580 how many females were probably used and abused 1.00
00:09:02.080 because of something that you said?
00:09:03.400 Yeah?
00:09:04.020 Again, the people who follow this,
00:09:05.380 they are to blame themselves.
00:09:07.000 But the point is,
00:09:07.580 be very, very careful, guys,
00:09:08.840 what you say,
00:09:09.420 because the rights of another person is severe in Islam.
00:09:11.840 Very severe.
00:09:12.840 So, I'm going to say,
00:09:13.460 brother and sister,
00:09:13.840 inshallah, when it comes to this stuff,
00:09:15.320 alhamdulillah,
00:09:15.840 there are things that the permission of Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala
00:09:17.200 is allowed and legislated.
00:09:18.500 Again, in Islam, 0.99
00:09:19.440 we have a beautiful concept,
00:09:20.480 which is misyar.
00:09:21.860 That is,
00:09:22.360 at a woman's discretion, 0.91
00:09:24.180 if she is happy and says,
00:09:25.340 I am a doctor, full-time doctor,
00:09:26.400 I have one day a week for myself,
00:09:28.320 I would like a man in my life.
00:09:29.740 I've got kids, whatever.
00:09:30.760 Islam has a beautiful solution.
00:09:31.900 And if it is done correctly,
00:09:34.000 alhamdulillah,
00:09:34.500 it is a solution where
00:09:35.360 an individual can get married,
00:09:37.340 alhamdulillah,
00:09:37.600 in a halal way.
00:09:38.600 Again,
00:09:39.560 zina is something that is punishable. 0.62
00:09:41.440 Alhamdulillah,
00:09:41.760 we have something permissible.
00:09:42.920 And I just want to say,
00:09:43.500 inshallah,
00:09:43.780 also be careful,
00:09:44.820 especially revert sisters,
00:09:46.140 when it comes to this stuff,
00:09:47.020 have a guardian who cares about you.
00:09:49.200 Please do not jump to anything.
00:09:50.880 Number two,
00:09:51.280 have a decent mahr
00:09:52.100 and make sure
00:09:53.100 that he does things in a decent way.
00:09:54.720 You have a wedding,
00:09:55.280 you have a waleema,
00:09:55.820 whatever it is for that matter,
00:09:56.640 inshallah.
00:09:57.640 It's a must,
00:09:58.700 but it will be better.
00:10:00.080 And may Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala 1.00
00:10:00.960 forgive Mawdin inshallah
00:10:02.720 and I will tell him to look,
00:10:04.800 inshallah,
00:10:05.520 look into Sunni Islam inshallah
00:10:06.560 and see that,
00:10:07.480 alhamdulillah,
00:10:07.740 this is the truth
00:10:09.020 and the haq,
00:10:10.180 inshallah.
00:10:11.440 As-salamu alaykum
00:10:12.080 wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh.