Ali Dawah - November 18, 2024


MUFTI MENK LEFT HER SPEECHLESS - WILL SHE ACCEPT ISLAM？

Topics
Mufti Meng good manners
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Ali Dawah
Mentioned
Mufti Meng Prophet Muhammad Aisha Mercedes Brom Sisters Brahman Sis Ahmed Dira Mufti Malkin Quraysh Wallahi Jannah Salam
HIJABI GIRLS PUT ME OFF ISLAM - EX CHRISTIAN GIRL THE GIRL BEHIND BLACK MAGIC ON QURAN - CHILLING CONFRESSION

Episode Stats


Length

8 minutes

Words per minute

213.9

Word count

1,851

Sentence count

207

Harmful content

Hate speech

17

sentences flagged


Summary

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In this video, Aisha's mother, who is a non-Muslim, reacts to Mufti Meng's rapping of her daughter, Ayesha Mercedes, as she is shocked by what her daughter is saying.

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00:00:00.000 Oh my God! Oh my God! Oh my God! Oh my God!
00:00:09.680 This video was sponsored by Muslim Mastery, inshallah, to build confidence in speaking.
00:00:17.300 Confidence is very important. Confidence was one of the things that led me to this time.
00:00:21.120 Not my own confidence, but the confidence of Zakhir Naik, Ahmed Dira.
00:00:24.160 The confidence that he had in his religion made me realize, why is he so sure about what he's speaking?
00:00:27.980 And he made me listen to him attentively.
00:00:29.420 So guys, when it comes to confidence and how to speak, you need this in marriage, work, colleagues, friends, giving dawah.
00:00:35.040 So brothers and sisters, many dais have also taken this course, inshallah.
00:00:37.580 Please check in the link below. Let's get straight to the video.
00:00:42.380 Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh, brothers and sisters and dear friends.
00:00:44.640 I came across a video on Instagram of sister Aisha Mercedes.
00:00:48.660 Her mom reacting, her mom's a non-Muslim, reacting to Mufti Meng. 0.91
00:00:53.440 So here's a video we're going to watch for ourselves, inshallah.
00:00:54.880 I find it very profound because a lot of the times when it comes to dawah and how we make Islam look, 0.59
00:01:00.260 some of the things about how much Qur'an you know, how much you recite, etc.
00:01:04.500 But it boils actually back down to how one carries himself, akhlaq and adab, character.
00:01:09.820 And the Prophet said so much important stuff about this.
00:01:11.600 So here's the video we're going to be reacting where Mufti Meng surprises Aisha's mother,
00:01:16.220 who's a non-Muslim, who's watching the videos.
00:01:17.980 And let's see what we can take from this because I think there's some really important reminders, inshallah.
00:01:20.780 So here is the video. Let's get into it, inshallah.
00:01:22.500 He's obviously been doing it for a long time because...
00:01:24.900 It's okay.
00:01:25.660 But I don't know if I kept that one. He was really, really young.
00:01:29.120 But you said you joined the group, didn't you?
00:01:30.380 Yeah.
00:01:31.440 He said about temper.
00:01:33.100 I kept it. Controlling the temper.
00:01:35.620 Or not get angry or something, which I thought that'd be good for you.
00:01:38.540 Me?
00:01:40.380 Where did you come across Mufti Meng?
00:01:41.680 You just popped up. I get a lot of things. But what goes with you?
00:01:45.400 Mufti Meng, though.
00:01:46.160 Mufti Meng, not Mufti Meng.
00:01:47.360 Yeah, he's really good. He's got a good personality. He's fun with it and stuff.
00:01:51.560 Yeah, you see, I take it to people straight away, otherwise not.
00:01:53.740 Yeah, yeah.
00:01:54.140 So he's one of those people.
00:01:55.220 People like him, the way he tells whatever he's telling, it would attract a lot of people, I would think.
00:02:00.980 It definitely does me. I would listen to him.
00:02:03.280 There's a lot that I hear and I think, yeah, you're probably talking to him.
00:02:05.840 Not many of them would I listen to, no matter what we're talking about.
00:02:08.800 I like the way he speaks. It's simple.
00:02:11.100 It's not like, I can't understand, like, he's talking so much.
00:02:14.880 I speak long words that I can't understand while he's talking, but he's very, very full of people and talking like everybody could understand.
00:02:22.280 And he sounds very genuine to me and believes in what he's saying.
00:02:25.920 He's not just preaching it. He's explaining things.
00:02:28.340 So anything of this that comes on, I like to listen to.
00:02:30.200 Salam alaykum wa rahmatullah. Salam alaykum.
00:02:33.600 Oh my gosh.
00:02:36.540 Oh my gosh.
00:02:39.140 Amazing. Nice to see you.
00:02:40.400 Oh my gosh.
00:02:44.740 And you know I'm not listening, obviously, but I really find the way you talk.
00:02:49.240 How do you, how do you get so open-minded and wise?
00:02:57.180 Yeah, that's it.
00:02:58.520 How do you get like that?
00:03:00.020 Because I have watched quite a few people and I haven't really, they haven't stood out for me.
00:03:07.020 You know, to be honest with you, they are, they are a few of them.
00:03:09.200 They are quite a lot.
00:03:10.140 But each person's temperament is different.
00:03:12.900 So maybe what you're saying, perhaps there is some form of a connection between us.
00:03:17.380 I don't mean, you know, it's attractive.
00:03:20.080 It kind of, the way you say things, it's believable.
00:03:24.980 It so hits me like, yeah, I could listen to this person.
00:03:30.120 I'm really fussy about, you know, because not everyone tells the truth.
00:03:34.080 Not everyone talks things.
00:03:35.580 We all make mistakes.
00:03:37.100 Sometimes I have to improve on some of the, maybe some of the stuff.
00:03:43.520 Within myself, I'm a relatively strict person.
00:03:46.180 I follow my faith quite strictly.
00:03:49.400 But we have to put ourselves in the shoes of others when we're talking to them.
00:03:54.000 And we can't really preach down on someone.
00:03:56.040 Okay guys, subhanAllah.
00:03:59.040 That was pleasant to see because at the end of the day, I have non-Muslim family members.
00:04:02.760 And if, I mean, I would be really happy if, I mean, if my dad was to watch someone that's an Islamic influence or whatever, which he doesn't. 0.98
00:04:11.680 But if he was like, you know, touched by someone who was like, you know what, okay, look, I have my opinions about Islam and whatever it is.
00:04:17.360 But this one person, yeah, you know, I would try my best to get that person at all costs to speak to my dad.
00:04:23.020 Because to me, that's like, maybe that is the missing key to my dad accepting Islam or any other family member for that matter.
00:04:29.120 So to me, I would have done exactly the same thing.
00:04:32.880 So we hope this means that she accepts Islam.
00:04:35.360 But there's a few things we need to understand because the Prophet Muhammad, peace be upon him, said,
00:04:38.300 I came for nothing but a perfect good character.
00:04:40.600 I recommend one book, it's quite big.
00:04:42.720 It's from Imam Khari when it comes to, it's called Al-Adab al-Mufad.
00:04:45.760 It talks about the akhlaq and manis of your dealings with variety of things.
00:04:50.020 Yes.
00:04:50.560 And it's so important because many times we are told that a person of good etiquette, good akhlaq.
00:04:55.660 So this is so profound, subhanAllah. 0.90
00:04:57.320 A person who'd be praying qiyam, fasting, extra fasting and doing all the extra stuff, but has ill manners, will enter the fire.
00:05:06.820 They can.
00:05:07.840 And a person who does the basics, but has good akhlaq and manis, will enter Jannah.
00:05:13.060 The Prophet, peace be upon him, said, the two things that be heavy on your maqiyamah are tawheed and one's good manners.
00:05:18.320 What does good manners mean?
00:05:20.420 This is where we don't understand.
00:05:21.580 Good manners is not saying, oh, please, thank you, how are you?
00:05:23.840 No.
00:05:24.020 The Prophet had the utmost brilliant character.
00:05:27.900 So much so, it was an evidence to the wahee being sent to him. 1.00
00:05:32.120 It has to be an evidence.
00:05:32.960 Why?
00:05:33.360 Because people are like, how could it be this person who doesn't lie?
00:05:35.540 His character is so amazing.
00:05:37.080 That's why when he got the revelation and he came down and he said, cover me, cover me, I don't know what's going on.
00:05:40.860 Khatija said, what?
00:05:42.520 He said, for you, you do not break kinship.
00:05:45.280 You feed the orphan, the poor.
00:05:47.160 He said, Allah will never let you down.
00:05:48.540 Do you see how she connected his character, his akhlaq, his adab, the way he carries himself, to Allah has got your back.
00:05:55.320 This is so important.
00:05:56.320 In today's time, you have Muslims who pray, who read Quran, who wear hijab, who grow beard, who wear thaw, etc.
00:06:02.500 You look at the akhlaq and adab, it's got nothing to do with Islam, bro. 0.79
00:06:06.000 It's so far away from Islam. 1.00
00:06:07.320 And then you look at certain non-Muslims.
00:06:10.460 You look at the adab and adab, you think to yourself, if this person became a Muslim, wow, amazing. 1.00
00:06:16.960 That's why manners are so profound.
00:06:18.880 And how does one start manners?
00:06:20.040 You start to have good manners with Allah by not associating partners to him, by not saying Allah has a son. 0.50
00:06:25.060 Allah is one of the trinity. 1.00
00:06:26.420 Allah this, Allah that.
00:06:27.540 Or like the Quraysh said, Allah has dootahs. 0.85
00:06:29.960 Why?
00:06:30.180 Because they saw dootahs as inferior.
00:06:31.500 They said, the angels of Allah are dootahs.
00:06:33.520 This is having ill, bad manners with Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala. 1.00
00:06:37.320 Having good manners with Allah is what? 0.99
00:06:38.700 You obey him.
00:06:39.960 You say he is one and you worship him.
00:06:41.380 That's good manners with Allah. 0.77
00:06:42.600 How do you have good manners with?
00:06:44.040 Who's after that?
00:06:44.780 The Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam.
00:06:47.000 By saying sallallahu alayhi wa sallam is showing your good manners to the Messenger of Allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam.
00:06:51.180 That you follow his sunnah.
00:06:53.080 Not, yeah, it's our Quran, only Muslim sunnah, whatever it is.
00:06:55.720 No, you follow his sunnah.
00:06:57.380 You try to abide by his sunnah to the best of your ability.
00:06:59.740 Then who do you have good manners with?
00:07:01.580 Your community at large.
00:07:02.640 Your neighbors.
00:07:03.640 When is the last time you checked on your neighbors?
00:07:05.100 When is the last time you went to your neighbors and said,
00:07:07.400 Do you need something?
00:07:08.060 An elderly neighbor.
00:07:08.700 Do you want me to do shopping for you?
00:07:10.200 Wallahi.
00:07:11.540 Indonesia.
00:07:12.320 I think it's Indonesia.
00:07:13.700 One of the biggest populated Muslim countries.
00:07:16.040 Do you know how they came to Islam?
00:07:17.500 They came to Islam via Yemeni traders who would go and trade with them.
00:07:20.760 And they were so upholders of honesty and transaction.
00:07:24.920 So honest.
00:07:26.120 And not cheating people.
00:07:27.280 It was a ripple effect of people coming to Islam.
00:07:29.200 People look at your actions.
00:07:31.080 They don't care what you say, bro.
00:07:32.100 How good you speak.
00:07:34.720 So, and then after that, one's good manners is with their self.
00:07:38.060 When you are committing sin.
00:07:39.420 How's my relationship with the Quran?
00:07:40.820 I'm committing major sins.
00:07:41.820 I'm drinking alcohol.
00:07:42.580 I'm committing zina. 1.00
00:07:43.460 I'm gambling.
00:07:44.160 I'm doing this.
00:07:44.940 I'm bad to my spouse.
00:07:45.960 I'm bad to my brother.
00:07:46.840 I'm bad to my mom.
00:07:48.300 You say to yourself, is this good manners within myself?
00:07:51.080 Good manners is what?
00:07:51.700 That's what Allah says.
00:07:52.960 The ones, have you seen the ones who, they wrong their self.
00:07:55.220 How do you wrong yourself?
00:07:56.480 By having ill manners with yourself.
00:07:58.420 So, all I want to say, Brahman Sis, I want to wrap up on this, inshallah, is.
00:08:00.860 I am happy.
00:08:01.800 May Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala guide her mother, inshallah, because at the end of the day,
00:08:04.680 I know how it is to have a parent that's a non-Muslim and you're scared. 1.00
00:08:07.940 If they die in that, I'm not going to make dua for them.
00:08:09.540 Whatever it is for that matter.
00:08:10.900 I understand that.
00:08:11.780 I truly relate to that.
00:08:13.200 So, the full video is on Sis Aisha Matej's channel.
00:08:15.100 You can go check that, inshallah.
00:08:16.120 But in the meantime, Brahman Sisters, let's have good manners, good akhlaa, good adhaf, inshallah.
00:08:19.680 And may Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala bless Mufti Malk and the works that he's doing.
00:08:23.860 And forgive him for the shortcomings that we all do, inshallah.
00:08:26.040 And that's what I want to say.
00:08:26.940 And make dua for the sisters, mother, inshallah, she accepts Islam. 0.73
00:08:29.360 And for all of us and my father as well.
00:08:31.080 That's all I want to say, inshallah.
00:08:32.040 May Allah make us uphold this of good akhlaaq and good adhaf.
00:08:34.540 That people see Islam in us rather than hear it.
00:08:36.660 Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh.