Ali Dawah - MUSLIM ANDREW TATE VS ALI DAWAH - MENS NEEDS

00:00:00.000 If a woman genuinely repents, she has a right to ask for a virgin guy in Islam, just to make that 1.00

00:00:05.240 clear. She has a right, but I'm going to say something. She doesn't have the same ability.

00:00:09.260 I'm giving advice to a girl on how to get married. She's very overweight and I told her to lose 1.00

00:00:13.320 weight in a very respectful and nice way. I told that to some girl I went to meet for a rishta.

00:00:17.760 She was like, you should tell her to just love herself. It's complete BS.

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00:00:41.660 or is it underrated? Assalamualaikum guys. I have here the Muslim Andrew Tate.

00:00:46.580 As you can say, I'm joking. This guy, we believe you're much better than him because you're a

00:00:55.760 Muslim. You know, because you don't commit shirk. So let me ask you a question. You were

00:01:00.940 talking about that things, people have got things muddled up. Yeah. So let me ask you

00:01:06.700 a question. You know, you look a bit sharp here. You look like you're looking for a second

00:01:10.140 wife. Maybe one day, maybe one day. Okay. Are you married? No, not yet. Would you say

00:01:16.540 you're polygamous by nature? I think to an extent, if all men tapped into like the real 0.98

00:01:23.220 desires and if they could have the power, not all men, lots of men, if they could tap into

00:01:28.380 the desires, they would actually go for that. But the thing is, lots of men cannot do that

00:01:32.220 because they're not strong enough or powerful enough. Right. But if you look at kings of old,

00:01:36.880 for example, some of these kings had 500 girls or harems, right? I'm not saying that that's

00:01:42.660 islamically right. You know, obviously we have our own take on that. But as far as I'm aware,

00:01:47.880 I'm not the best at Muslim knowledge. I do have quite a bit there. But as far as I'm aware,

00:01:52.840 it's up to four. And that's open to debate, obviously. Yeah. But yeah, if you were really

00:01:58.700 strong and you had a lot of money, and that's why lots of, for example, these Arab guys do 0.96

00:02:01.820 it, right? They're Islamic, they're religious, but they can do it. And they do it.

00:02:05.580 There's a lot of people, there's a lot of men who don't have the money do it as well. But

00:02:08.680 are you polygamist by nature? Meaning, would you say, would you agree that most men are

00:02:13.660 polygamist by their nature? That if they could, they would have a second or third wife or fourth

00:02:17.300 wife? Yeah. So am I right or wrong saying that? I would say you're right. And I'm a big fan

00:02:21.300 of biology. People ignore biology and people ignore science. But I think science and religion

00:02:25.880 can go hand in hand. And the reality is, you know, I'm going to be very crude. Men like to spread 0.87

00:02:33.120 their seed, right? They like to have lots of children, when possible and if possible.

00:02:36.660 Yeah. And that might, Genghis Khan, example, he had 12,000 women, right? And 12,000? Yeah. And

00:02:45.780 that, any animal in the animal kingdom, we're not animals, right? But obviously, we're part

00:02:50.540 of nature and we have very similar tendencies, right? And in line with that, lots of men would

00:02:56.120 love to have lots of children by lots of different women to differentiate the genetic pool. 1.00

00:02:59.940 And this is factual, based on scientific evidence. But again, it's just that lots of men can't 0.76

00:03:05.720 because it costs a lot to manage a wife. Okay, okay, look, can't and won't are two separate

00:03:10.500 discussions, yeah? Yeah. Every man would want to. They would not say, I won't or I wouldn't

00:03:17.860 do it. I think there's a very rare man. It's, I can't. Yeah, look, look, there's exceptions

00:03:21.380 to the rule. Yeah, yeah. I agree. I agree. I agree. Majority of men are polygamists by nature.

00:03:25.240 Yeah. Now, you, if a woman's watching this, if she's came and said, oh, you're a misogynist

00:03:31.300 or etc. Why are men polygamists? Where does this come from? Well, if you, if you was to 0.71

00:03:36.960 say you're a misogynist, I think that's just an emotional response. It's very easy to label

00:03:42.140 someone something very quickly. Yeah. And the bar to call someone a misogynist is very low

00:03:46.380 these days, right? True, true. But again, going back to the why, you see a burger, you

00:03:52.880 start salivating, you feel hungry. Why could they have... Oh, you're creating women's burgers 1.00

00:03:56.280 now. No, no, no, no, no. You're finished. No, no, no, no. Or anything, anything. Let's

00:03:59.380 say fresh air. If you didn't have fresh air for a long time, you would crave it because

00:04:03.360 that's our natural human instinct. Yeah. Women tend to like one guy. Yeah. They're monogamous. 1.00

00:04:10.000 They're more, they're a lot more. Well, it depends on the circumstances, right? If you break

00:04:13.960 it down. So these days in the Western world, women are cheating as much as men, if not 1.00

00:04:18.440 more. And that is a fact. They're what? They're cheating more than men. Why is that? Official

00:04:23.420 studies, by the way. Yes, yes, yes. And the reason is, one, it's very easy. There's things

00:04:27.180 like no-fought divorce, right? There's things like dating apps and Instagram, right? Even

00:04:31.840 Muzmach, you know, allows things like that. Back in the day, if you were someone's wife, you 0.97

00:04:37.200 were under hijab, you were in his house, you would not leave without his permission. I'm not 1.00

00:04:41.380 saying that that's the optimal scenario, religiously. But that's just how the world

00:04:44.820 was, right? These days, if your wife has Instagram, I'm sorry to say, there's lots of people siding

00:04:50.740 into her DMs. And they're better than you. They can offer her more money than you. And

00:04:55.540 under those circumstances, women are not monogamous at the same time. 0.52

00:05:00.780 I have a theory. Yes. I believe women are still monogamous by nature. The reason they are 1.00

00:05:06.360 becoming polygamous is the following reason. It's a theory. Yeah. And I believe it's quite 1.00

00:05:11.720 a strong theory. If anyone can demand me, please come ahead. Yeah, go ahead. When men are polygamous, 0.83

00:05:17.000 what happens is usually, so let's imagine a man and a woman. They're in a relationship,

00:05:21.800 yeah? Outside, let's not put Islam, are non-Muslims. Yeah. That guy is there for one reason. Yeah. 1.00

00:05:27.160 She thinks he loves her. He doesn't. He's there for one reason. Once he gets what he wants,

00:05:32.440 he says, you know what? I don't think we're compatible. A lot of arguments happen. He breaks

00:05:36.460 the relationship up. Yeah. She is under the assumption of what? I was in a relationship

00:05:41.640 and we was not compatible, so he moved on. Yeah. She meets another guy. Yeah. The guy has the same

00:05:47.160 agenda. Yeah. She meets another guy. The guy has the same agenda. By now, she's got three body counts. 1.00

00:05:52.260 Yeah. And it's going up. Yeah. What she doesn't realize is that because she sees men acting in that way,

00:05:57.480 then they start rebelling and saying men are trash. Yeah. Why are men trash? Because you have made 0.99

00:06:02.360 yourself so accessible so easily that men are, there's no responsibility. I can just go ask you,

00:06:08.520 I'll take you the first day, couple of days, and have what I want. So why on earth would I stay with

00:06:13.160 you or be committed to you? Yeah. So therefore, men, the woman's body counts are quite not as bad as a 0.60

00:06:19.800 man's, but I believe it stems from this. Because women are monogamous by nature, and they are looking for 1.00

00:06:25.400 that Romeo, and they realize every Romeo they come across is not Romeo, but a fraud. So therefore,

00:06:29.720 what they're doing is they're thinking, you know what? I've had four body counts, and all of these

00:06:33.800 men have come and used me. I'm going to become a, excuse my language, a H-O-E. So therefore, 0.99

00:06:39.080 I'm going to go do what they're doing. But what they don't understand is that the more you do that,

00:06:42.680 the more your pair bonding reduces. Because when women have intimacy, they release a hormone called 1.00

00:06:47.400 oxytocin. Yeah. Which is, which helps pair bonding. And studies show that women who have 0.98

00:06:52.280 one partner, or one, yeah sure, you can have one. So a woman who has, who is married, who is a virgin, 0.68

00:06:58.840 has 80% more likely to have a relationship lasting more than a decade. Yeah. So what women don't 1.00

00:07:03.880 understand is that the way men sleeping around, and by the way, it's both haram in Islam. Yes.

00:07:09.720 They're both, it's capital punishment, don't get twisted. Yeah. But you, the reason you're doing that,

00:07:15.160 you are shooting yourself on the feet. It doesn't affect the man as much, because in his biology,

00:07:19.480 and the way he's programmed, he can have multiple wives. Yeah. So the point I'm trying to say is,

00:07:23.720 I believe it stems from there. You know what? I agree with you a lot, a lot. In fact, almost like

00:07:29.480 98%. The only thing is firstly, yeah, is firstly, a lot of people aren't very smart, yeah, in society.

00:07:37.720 And the way I think we need to understand the underlying principles of why things are, you know,

00:07:42.760 people take a religious side. I'll give you a small example. Every girl, when she married these days,

00:07:46.600 she says, we were created in pairs. That's like a catchphrase these days. Yeah. Yeah.

00:07:50.200 It's on, it's on, it's on wedding cards. It's on wedding cakes everywhere. Soulmates.

00:07:55.160 And she will have had lots of guys. And she's going to say, this new guy, guy number 134. Yeah.

00:08:01.320 Is my new soulmate. That's not how it works. And that, that ayah doesn't even necessarily mean that,

00:08:05.880 for example. Which ayah? We were, and we created you in pairs, right? Okay, yes.

00:08:10.040 I think the Quran is very poetic. It is very metaphorical. It does not necessarily mean that,

00:08:14.040 okay? And it does not mean that there was some special soulmate created for you. Soulmate myth

00:08:19.720 is romanticism. But that's an example of how societal conditioning- Pairs can mean male and female.

00:08:25.640 As in, it could, it could literally be referring to chromosomes. It could be-

00:08:28.600 No, it can. It can even mean, refer to a man and a woman. We were in pairs. Yeah.

00:08:32.280 It doesn't mean it's, because otherwise you've got to marry in two, threes and fours. Yeah, exactly.

00:08:36.040 It doesn't contradict that, or it doesn't abrogate it. Yeah, it doesn't, it doesn't necessarily mean

00:08:39.480 there's one special guy out there for you, right? And vice versa. But the point is-

00:08:43.480 Not that there might be, but that one special guy can also be special for other women as well,

00:08:47.240 because by getting married again. You know, you know, here's an interesting fact.

00:08:49.880 So he can be special for a couple of women. Here's an interesting fact. More people believe

00:08:53.160 in a soulmate myth- Yes. Than God. Yeah? Like in the Western world. Okay.

00:08:57.880 Official studies again. Interesting. And a lot of these things are official studies,

00:09:01.240 but we listen to societal messaging. I'll give another example of societal messaging.

00:09:05.320 The body positivity movement. I'm giving advice to a girl on how to get married. She's 0.90

00:09:11.320 very overweight and I told her to lose weight in a very respectful and nice way. Yeah. 0.98

00:09:14.840 I told that to some girl I went to meet for a Rishta. Yeah.

00:09:18.440 She was like, you should tell her to just love herself. That is complete BS.

00:09:23.320 No matter how much she loves herself, she cannot get a guy by staying fat and loving herself a lot. 1.00

00:09:28.840 That's just not how reality works. Next time you visit his Rishta, tell her that next time she 1.00

00:09:33.560 meets a guy for marriage, if he's five foot four. Yeah, exactly. And she tells him, oh,

00:09:38.040 I think you're a bit short for me. Tell him to love himself too. Yeah. There's a lot of double

00:09:42.520 standards out there. Some are wrong and some are right. And one thing is men hate hoes. It's a fact. 1.00

00:09:49.480 No one will say this to you. Men hate hoes. Oh, sorry. Okay. So men, men do not like women 1.00

00:09:54.600 that have slept around a lot. And again, that is rooted in biology because that would put the risk

00:09:59.880 of paternity. Yes. It would increase the risk of paternity, right? So for example, if,

00:10:05.560 if a girl's been with 10 guys biologically, you're like, there's a good chance. That's not my kid. 0.96

00:10:11.640 I should not invest in her. I do not like her. Your feelings of love and romance do not come.

00:10:15.640 Exactly. One of the quickest ways to turn a guy off is to be a ho, right? And that is a fact of 1.00

00:10:21.720 life. A guy sleeping around and a girl sleeping around in a practical sense has very big differences. 0.51

00:10:26.920 It is both a sin. Both a sin. Let's make it very clear. Yeah. What we're saying is that

00:10:32.760 biologically and the way Allah has created us, one has a greater impact on females than the males. 0.91

00:10:39.640 This doesn't mean that the sin is not the sin. And by the way, just to make it clear that the ayah 0.97

00:10:44.200 in the Quran where Allah talks about that chaste women are for chaste men is not talking about

00:10:48.760 virgin girls. If a woman genuinely repents, she has a right to ask for a virgin guy in Islam. 0.99

00:10:54.280 Just to make that clear. She, she has a right, but I'm going to say something. She doesn't have the

00:10:58.280 same ability that so if you, if you've been with 20 guys and you've magically turned religious and this

00:11:06.120 is, this happens a lot. And the reason is girls realize their mistakes, but your, your emotional 0.97

00:11:12.200 tendencies are going to be worsened. If you tell someone honestly that you've been with 20 guys

00:11:18.200 and you told them that you've changed religiously. We would advise not to. Lots of guys will not

00:11:22.600 put up with that. Right? Because. Why though? Why? I'm going to ask you a question. Let me be

00:11:26.360 people's advocate. Why is it okay for a man to sleep around? But when it comes to a woman, 0.93

00:11:32.440 it's not the same. Why does a man reject something? There are lots of, again, it all goes back to

00:11:36.440 biology. As a woman, it's very easy to sleep around. As a guy, it requires a lot of skill, money, looks, 1.00

00:11:43.080 health, etc. But that's not even a base reason. The reason is men don't get pregnant. So women get 0.96

00:11:48.360 pregnant. So if she's sleeping around with 20 guys, what's the chances of you being the father 0.98

00:11:52.200 of that child? Five percent. If you're sleeping around with lots of girls. Yes, I don't. Yeah, 1.00

00:11:58.120 I'm just giving an example. But you know who the father is and you know who their brother is. But

00:12:00.600 again, it is, it comes down to biology. I'll give a small example of biology. People respect a strong

00:12:05.960 physical man. That doesn't necessarily have much to do with religion. I don't think you should talk

00:12:10.600 about me. Yeah. I like that. I like that. But as in, if you were, if you were to see a guy who's

00:12:16.680 six foot six and has huge muscles, you will not get rude to him. That had nothing to do with religion.

00:12:20.680 Exactly. But that's in a woman's nature. She's hypergamous by nature. So she looks for, 1.00

00:12:24.600 the thing is very interesting. We accept the woman the way they are. They're hypergamous by nature. 0.98

00:12:29.160 They look for a man who is tall, strong, leader, provides, protects. But then when it comes to our

00:12:35.240 nature of being polygamous. We get shamed. No, when it's like, okay, I'm polygamous by nature.

00:12:39.640 And for example, I believe everyone is polygamous by nature. We're blamed for it. The same goes with 1.00

00:12:43.800 fat shaming. If I went to a girl and I said, you know what? I think you should lose a bit of weight 1.00

00:12:46.600 in a respectful way and be like, you know what? I'll be like, how dare you say that to her?

00:12:49.880 But she can be the same girl that come and say, I want a guy that's middle of six foot two. 1.00

00:12:53.640 So the thing is, why is it double standards? Why is it when it comes to a woman's weight? 0.96

00:12:57.480 Because you can control your weight. I can't control my height.

00:13:00.040 I think there's two reasons. One is women are more emotional, right? It's true. 1.00

00:13:04.120 Are you being misogynist now? No, it is true. It is absolute fact. Men go to war. They fight,

00:13:09.400 they fight their emotions and they go to war. Bullets flying by and you will still charge to

00:13:13.800 the front line if you believe in the cause. Yes. A woman cannot do that to the same extent. 1.00

00:13:18.040 Some women can. There's exceptions to the rule. There's exceptions to the rule. So if you, 1.00

00:13:21.160 I went LSC, so I'm kind of smart, yeah? Yeah. But if you look at like normal distributions,

00:13:25.160 the normal distribution for male bravery is way higher than female bravery. It's just how it is.

00:13:29.880 Of course you might get exceptions. It's true. So when a woman hears you need to lose weight, 1.00

00:13:34.200 she takes that personally, she gets more emotional. When I hear that, I'm a bit chubby nowadays.

00:13:39.160 I'll be like, okay, you know what? I need to go to the gym. Yeah. It's as simple as that.

00:13:42.760 I get told that's how it is. I have to do it. I'm a doer. I'm not, I'm not going to try and be a talker

00:13:47.800 or go like, oh no, you know what? You shouldn't have that preference. That's your preference.

00:13:50.760 Okay. And that's how it works. So that's thing number one. And the second thing is the sisterhood. 0.77

00:13:54.680 Okay. The sisterhood. Feminism. It's an echo chamber. Yeah. All these girls. 1.00

00:13:59.400 I think it's a cancel. All these girls telling each other, just accept yourself. Just love yourself.

00:14:04.120 It's not good. Yeah. Now, feminism is so strong. We have somehow convinced 1.00

00:14:09.400 fashion outlets to put pictures of big, beautiful women. I'm not saying that's allowed or whatever.

00:14:13.960 Obviously it's around. You should not have pictures out there in society anyways. Yeah.

00:14:17.000 In a religious sense. But that's told, we managed to convince, the sisterhood has managed to convince

00:14:23.080 some people that big is beautiful these days. No, no, no. Complete BS. No, no, no. I disagree with you.

00:14:27.960 It can be. Yeah. Because you need to understand, there are different men.

00:14:30.920 Generally. Generally. Generally, I understand. But there's occasions in the rule, some women 0.99

00:14:35.800 can't control their weight for a variety of health reasons. No, let's be real. Let's be real.

00:14:39.000 There are medical reasons, yeah? Yeah. Okay. So that can happen. But I understand where you're

00:14:43.160 coming from. There are exceptions to the rule. We don't want our sisters who are watching. 0.57

00:14:46.520 Some might be overweight. They should work on it. Yeah. But if they can't, they shouldn't be made to feel...

00:14:50.360 Sorry for being a bit rude. Yeah. No, it's fine. But they shouldn't be made to feel ugly.

00:14:53.560 There is someone for everyone. Just to make that clear. I know where you're coming from. I know where you're coming from.

00:14:57.320 If you want to increase your marital success in terms of choosing someone, you have to cultivate

00:15:02.920 yourself according to the other gender. It's just how it is. As a guy, if you're poor and you're fat,

00:15:08.920 you're not going to get a lot of options. You have to work on yourself to become educated,

00:15:13.560 good looking, have some money, have some assets, be able to provide a good lifestyle, have a sense of

00:15:18.280 leadership. Okay. On the female side, it's the same. If all men go... No, it's not the same. 0.93

00:15:22.680 Because we don't look... I don't... When I look for her potential, I don't care how much money she makes. 1.00

00:15:27.160 Yeah. No, no, no. I was going to say, it's the same logic in the sense that you have to improve.

00:15:31.640 Okay. So if a guy wants a feminine woman. Yeah. If a guy wants a girl who's not a whole. Yeah. 1.00

00:15:36.920 Yeah. If a guy wants a girl who's sweet and smiley. Yeah. Yeah. Whenever some girl asks me,

00:15:42.280 what do you want? I say, I just want a sweet and smiley woman. No, obedience. We look for obedience. 1.00

00:15:46.120 Let's get real here. We look for a woman who's obedient. And when I'm in obedient,

00:15:49.080 people get this notion of like, I go home and I punch you in the face. Agreeable. I loved it. 0.99

00:15:52.840 I'm not talking about that. I'm talking about, for example, as a man, if I come and say, I would not

00:15:56.680 like you to go to a holiday with your friends. For example, the way you dress is maybe a bit

00:16:00.440 provocative. Do you get what I'm trying to say? I would look for that. And every man looks for that.

00:16:04.360 So it's okay because at the end of the day, that's what I look for. But some woman will say, 0.99

00:16:08.680 well, hold on a second. Who are you to give those rules? But you're the same woman who within your 1.00

00:16:12.600 nature, you look for a guy who's taller, protector, provider. You look for these things. I don't blame you for that,

00:16:17.160 but you're blaming me for the things that I look for. You know what? I'll tell you guys a quick

00:16:20.200 story. So the internet is amazing and it's really bad. The internet has caused this cancer in many

00:16:26.760 ways, right? Because it's an echo chamber. People can share lots of messages really quick. And we

00:16:30.920 all have a confirmation bias where we look at things that align with our views and we go like, you know

00:16:36.040 what? This is right. This person is 100% right. But that's just because we think we're right.

00:16:40.360 Right. So back in the day, I used to be a very like romantic person. I used to think women are all 1.00

00:16:45.160 sweet, nice and everything spice or whatever the phrase is. Did someone hurt you?

00:16:50.200 See, that's the thing that gets brought up. The first phrase that gets thrown at you.

00:16:55.160 Yes. Did someone hurt you?

00:16:56.280 Yes. The answer is yes. And the reason is, that's what helps you learn.

00:16:59.320 Yes. But let me tell you something. I will tell you, I was like, before Islam, I lived in 0.98

00:17:04.280 two decades of Jahiliyyah, yeah? Yeah, yeah.

00:17:05.800 There was a time in my life where, for example, some girls hurt me. 1.00

00:17:08.040 Yeah. Do you get what I'm trying to say? And I didn't look the way I looked or was in the path.

00:17:11.000 Do you get what I'm trying to say? Yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:17:11.880 So the reason I'm asking it is because sometimes what happens is, you can use it in a healthy way

00:17:15.880 and channel that energy into making yourself a better man.

00:17:18.920 And that's what you have to be 100%. Do you get what I'm trying to say?

00:17:21.240 So it's understandable. But again, the reason I'm asking you that is because these women 0.99

00:17:25.880 get upset and they are the same woman who have caused, for example, when you was a good guy. 0.99

00:17:30.040 Yeah. Yeah.

00:17:31.000 Like say the good guys finished last, etc. They didn't want to know you.

00:17:33.640 Yeah. Do you get what I'm trying to say? So they, it's like they caused that spiral.

00:17:36.520 Yeah. And then when they make a man, 0.59

00:17:37.960 like, and I believe Andrew Tate is a bad product of that. I believe he was hurt when he was young.

00:17:43.000 I don't think you have to get hurt, right? It's just seeing reality for what it is.

00:17:47.320 I'll give an example. If you get rejected by an assessment center, like an interview or something,

00:17:52.040 you don't have to get hurt, but you learn from it. Next time, the chances of you doing that

00:17:57.080 successfully is a lot higher. It's all it is. You just have to learn from whatever your experiences

00:18:01.800 are, what your mistakes are. Any, any endeavor in life, you mess up, you learn.

00:18:05.400 Yes. You fail at a business, you mess up, you learn. Yes. You fail at squatting,

00:18:08.440 right? You're failing at a hundred kgs, you go again and you learn, right? So it doesn't

00:18:11.960 necessarily mean you have to get hurt. Yeah. But all it is, is where we come,

00:18:15.800 especially when we're younger, we, we have lots of social conditioning around us. Oh,

00:18:19.960 buy her flowers. Oh, take her to a 200 pound date, whatever. And then one day, 0.56

00:18:23.800 200 pound date, mad bro. 30, 40 pounds, mad.

00:18:25.800 You realize that doesn't even work. Mad.

00:18:27.560 That doesn't even work. It's about who's taking you on a date, brother.

00:18:30.280 See, and it's nuances. It's a small, it does work, but after a certain point,

00:18:33.320 after a certain point in time, one thing, for example, yeah, I learned that at the start,

00:18:39.400 it doesn't matter about how much money you have. At the start, it's about how, how much of a good

00:18:43.080 leader you are. And then the money thing kicks in. Okay. But girls, girls do like generally,

00:18:47.880 they look at money. Yeah. Yeah. I agree. And it's been, for us, like if I get your foot in the door,

00:18:52.120 for example, like me, like I love my wife. Yeah. I mean, she's the most beautiful woman on this planet.

00:18:56.200 Yeah. Yeah. If she was, if her job was collecting like dustbin, for example. Yeah. I wouldn't care.

00:19:01.000 I don't care. I would not care. But for a woman, it's not the same. If you was collecting dustbin, 1.00

00:19:05.000 To all the sisters watching at home. Best appreciate telling her friends,

00:19:07.880 Hey, my husband-to-be is a dustbin collector. To all the sisters, believe our words. To all

00:19:13.560 the sisters watching at home. We do not care if you work at McDonald's. To all the sisters that said

00:19:17.320 no to him. No, no, no, no, no. Look where he is now. No, no, no, no. What we care about,

00:19:20.520 what we care about is you being smiley, agreeable. Exactly. Handsome like this guy,

00:19:24.920 and not being, and not being, not being a H.O.E., right? Yes. Um, and, but what about men? Why

00:19:32.680 when men do it, they get away with it? This is, this is what Assis is going to be asking. Why is it why

00:19:36.760 when men do it, they get away with it? Because we don't get impacted the same way. It's a fact,

00:19:41.000 it's a fact. Yeah. At the end of the day, again, this doesn't mean, because in the sight of Allah,

00:19:44.680 you commit a sinat, you're a man or a woman, you die on it, it's peak for you. If you're in an Islamic state, 1.00

00:19:49.720 yes. Madness, man getting lashed like his happy days. Yeah. Yes. Slash, slash, yeah. Okay. 0.72

00:19:55.320 It's peak, you get me? There's official studies that are done on this. So there is no, that doesn't

00:19:58.200 differentiate. In Islam, the impact might affect a woman more, but in the Sharia, if you get caught,

00:20:03.800 man's getting lashed nicely. Yeah. In Islam, obviously, obviously, they're both huge sins, 1.00

00:20:09.400 male or woman. That's what, maybe alcohol. But on a, on a scientific level, there's studies,

00:20:15.240 a woman sleeping with three men is equivalent to a man sleeping to 60 women in terms of emotional 0.77

00:20:20.600 impact. Obviously, that is difficult to measure. But that's just what one study says.

00:20:27.320 That is an insight. Yes. Yes. When it comes to pair bonding, like we said before, a woman,

00:20:31.240 release oxytocin, which is, which helps to pair bonding. And the more intimate partner she has,

00:20:35.640 it's like a knife going numb. It doesn't work. Not numb. Blunt, blunt. It's going blunt. Yeah.

00:20:41.320 It doesn't do the job anymore. And that is the reason why women tend to, when they're in these 1.00

00:20:45.800 marriages or things, they do not know how to love anymore. They don't know. And it hasn't

00:20:50.040 greater impact on it. I mean, that's it. I mean, the Muslim, I mean, you're better than Andrew Tate, 1.00

00:20:54.440 but I'm better than Andrew Tate. You get me? So what should we call you? What's your name?

00:20:57.000 Moomin. Moomin. Moomin. Moomin. Moomin. Moomin. Moomin, Mashallah. He's a Moomin, bro. You get me? 0.59

00:21:01.880 Inshallah, may Allah make you a Moomin. Any last points you want to give, you know, if there's 1.00

00:21:04.920 this, they want to marry you, you know, you know, how should they approach you? And maybe you have to speak to

00:21:08.520 their Wally, the father, of course. Yes, yes. So tell us a bit about yourself. Maybe somebody wants

00:21:12.200 to marry you. Sisters, sisters out there. How tall are you? I'm six foot, six foot one with

00:21:15.720 shoes on. Sisters out there. I'm six, two. You're amazing, man. Okay.

00:21:20.840 Sisters out there. How old are you? I'm 23. 23? Mashallah, you're young. Yeah. Sisters

00:21:25.480 out there, genuinely. Biceps. Tense it, tense it. Not yet. It's not amazing. One day, one day,

00:21:30.600 one day, one day. Genuinely, sisters out there. Yeah. Stop relying on your instincts. Stop relying on

00:21:36.520 the internet. And feminism. And feminism. And stop relying on your friends. Yes. Right. Follow 1.00

00:21:41.880 your dad. Genuinely. And I think, I think, I think, I follow Islam. Yes. But I think, you know,

00:21:48.920 in Islam, we have the system of the Wali or the brother. Yes. Your dad wants the best for you.

00:21:53.160 Your dad is not your enemy. My sister got married. Alhamdulillah, she's in a great marriage.

00:21:56.280 Alhamdulillah. The reason is, one, she didn't, she never put herself out there too much. So she never got

00:22:01.720 that much more attention. Now, when she's with her husband and her husband gives her attention, it's amazing.

00:22:06.920 It's amazing. So, a woman's beauty is in protection. She should be protected. She wants 0.67

00:22:11.320 to be protected by her nature. She wants to be protected, yes. A woman that is protected by her 0.90

00:22:15.480 father, by her brother, whatever. And then transferred to her husband. Yes. Yes. Is something we really

00:22:22.280 value. We are looking for that woman who's been protected from all this weird social conditioning. 0.99

00:22:26.760 Not only that, we want a woman to protect. I'll give an example. I'm doing a decent job. You know,

00:22:31.480 I have lots of money stored away in investments and stuff. Oh, is it now?

00:22:34.760 How many wives do you want? No, one second. I'm not trying to be arrogant.

00:22:38.360 Listen, listen. How many wives do you want? Be honest. I think if I get really rich, 0.68

00:22:41.800 I'll maybe be able to afford two. But for now, it's just one. It's just one.

00:22:44.440 I think that's good. It's in a halal way. And you're going to do it in the right way. 1.00

00:22:47.880 You're not going to have a side chick or a mistress or a girlfriend. You're going to do it in the right

00:22:51.160 way. I was going to give an example, yeah. Lots of student girls can outspend me. They're going 1.00

00:22:56.440 to Hakkasan. You know, it goes with a hijab on and everything. It's student loan money. You know,

00:23:00.760 they just get money thrown at them. They haven't even worked a day in their life.

00:23:03.640 They get money thrown at them. But it's like that. It's easy for a woman. 1.00

00:23:07.560 You have a head start. You have a head start. And if you abuse it, right, it's going to catch up to you.

00:23:13.400 And honestly, I think, you know, the career myth is a bit of a lie. Yeah. Like, you know,

00:23:18.200 everyone, I'm a guy. I don't even like my career. There was a study done. This book,

00:23:21.720 yeah. It's called Miseducation of Women. Yeah. There was a study done of 100,000 men and women

00:23:26.040 in UK and USA over 30 years. They found out that women are less happier since the rise of feminism.

00:23:32.520 Yeah. What does that show you? Women prefer, bro, not to work. They don't want to work. Yeah. 1.00

00:23:37.080 I don't want to work. No, you have to work. I have to work.

00:23:40.200 You have to work to provide and protect. Yeah. Yeah. The point is this. You'll be told the massive

00:23:44.120 lie of a career woman. You're going to reach the age of 30, 35, where you cannot have kids anymore 1.00

00:23:49.080 because you're not as fertile as you was when you were young. And now it's harder to find somebody.

00:23:53.320 And on top of that, this whole notion of career, your career is not going to be there.

00:23:57.240 Don't fall for this massive lie. Buy this book. I recommend two books for the sisters, Beauty Sick and James

00:24:03.160 Dooley, The Miseducation of Women. It really exposes that anytime you look for solutions outside the Quran and the Sunnah, 0.97

00:24:09.320 you're bound to suffer. And now we are seeing men go into red pill. You're going to suffer as well.

00:24:13.640 Yeah. You're going to suffer. Trying to be Andrew Tate, bro. Who the hell is Andrew Tate? He's a no-value man.

00:24:17.160 I've said this before. The guy is a no-value man. To a Muslim man, he's got nothing to offer. 1.00

00:24:21.160 He commits shirk. Yeah. He's the worst of the worst. Unless he accepts Islam and repents, 1.00

00:24:25.240 you know, he might be better than us. So I think that's it. Thank you, bro.

00:24:29.000 If you get married, call me to your nikah. Yeah. Make sure there's lobster in the wedding, please. Yeah. 0.99

00:24:32.520 Inshallah. Okay. I'm king bronze. To next time. As-salamu alaykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh.

Ali Dawah - September 07, 2022

MUSLIM ANDREW TATE VS ALI DAWAH - MENS NEEDS

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