Ali Dawah - January 10, 2021
MUSLIMS REACT TO GIRLS ON TIKTOK - REACTION VIDEO
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Summary
In this episode, we will be reacting to girls dancing on TikTok. In my culture, we do not allow women to dance in front of us. In this video, I will not allow my mother to see this and she will react to it. She will tell me every time she sees a girl in the same situation.
Transcript
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Brothers who drive around all day, working all day, looking at every woman that comes his way,
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admiring and lusting, and Allahu Akbar, it comes around me, sister, man, I'm sick of my wife.
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Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh, brothers and sisters and dear friends.
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We're actually going to be reacting to girls dancing on TikTok.
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I hope you guys are ready, inshaAllah, and ready for a shock.
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Before I start, I want to praise Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala.
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All praise is glory and gratitude belong to you.
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Okay guys, so basically I'm here with my mum again.
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So what's going to happen is my mum is going to be scrolling through the TikTok.
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She's going to tell me every time she sees an inappropriate girl.
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Because obviously, I'm not going to be doing that.
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And this is actually the whole point of the video.
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Because this is a very important reminder for brothers specifically.
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Because a lot of the issues that happen in relationships and marriages,
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She's wearing a coat and she's a little bit open.
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And just notice how many times my mom's coming across girls,
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This one, oh, this woman is, oh my god, very different.
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One is open, when she's open, she's open, but she's wearing a stretch.
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There's no one, she's open, but she's wearing a little.
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There are three-four women who are wearing a shirt.
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So now, what we're going to do guys is, I want to play a video.
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Yeah, we're going to watch that with my mom and I'm going to translate to it after.
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Brothers who drive around all day, working all day, looking at every woman that comes
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his way, admiring and lusting and Allahu Akbar, he comes around and he says, man, I'm sick
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Had you spent 10% of the time you spent looking at other people's women, had you just
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spent that time looking at what Allah gave you, maybe you would appreciate her as well.
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You're looking at the things that don't belong to you.
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You're trying to live the life that is not yours.
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You know, I, I, Wallahi, forgive me man, but I, I, you know, I struggle with these things.
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For those who think that I'm doing this video because I don't suffer from this in the context
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of like, I don't have my days where lowering the gaze becomes a problem, etc.
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For those who praise me, I want to make very clear.
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I ask Allah to forgive me for what you do not know about me.
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And I ask Allah to make me better than the assumptions you have of me.
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Then this video, Brothers and Sisters, eee, ÅŸey diyor burada.
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Diyor ki ne, gidip, eee, yani gidip başkalarının kadınlarına bakıyorsun.
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Sosyal medyada olsun, dışarıda olsun, orada burada olsun.
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Ondan sonra eve geldiğin zaman diyorum karınla mutlu değilim.
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Eğer gidip başkalarının karınlarına bakarsan, mutlu olacağını mı sannediyorsun?
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Şimdi dışarıda o şeyini gidiyor, yani göz hakkını alıyor.
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Bakacağı yerde sadece, başka karılara baktığı zaman o hevesini dışarıda zaten alıyor.
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Geliyor evde ihtiyaç duymuyor ki, zaten yeterince kadınlara bakıyor.
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O da yani, eee, şeyini, ilgisini o kadınlar çekiyor.
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İlgisini karısının çekeceği yerde bir insan karısına mesela sadece Allah'ın helal kıldığı, karısına sadece bakması gerekiyor.
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Dışarıda baktığın zaman zaten gerek duymasın karıya ki, eve bile gelmesen umurunda olmaz.
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So what I'm saying is the same thing that as you guys heard for yourself here.
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The heart doesn't desire what the eyes don't see.
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If I brought you, if you, if you was a caveman, argument's sake.
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Or if you've never ever in your life come across a strawberry.
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A strawberry that has maybe not the, your, your, your traditional way of what you think strawberry looks like.
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Let's suppose this is how a strawberry usually looks like.
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You're like, wow, this is very delicious fruit.
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You're just like, oh, this is how a strawberry looks like.
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And I'm not trying to say women are strawberries by me.
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If I bring you a thousand different strawberry cut, strawberries with different shapes.
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You are not going to appreciate the first strawberry.
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That's, this is the reason why Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala says in the Quran.
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He's told the believing men first to lower their gaze.
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If you don't lower your gaze, you're not going to be happy with your wife.
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But for the men out there who do not lower their gaze.
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Your solution is never going to be getting a second wife or a third wife or a fourth wife.
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When you're watching pornography and all this kind of stuff.
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And you're looking at them so much that they, we hear stories.
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If there's kids watching this, please switch off.
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They can't even get direction to please their wife, which is the rights.
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Because you're too busy watching pornography and all kinds of stuff.
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If you go to TikTok and all you're doing is scrolling.
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And you're not going to find your wife attractive.
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Because you're too busy comparing it to other girls.
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You are never going to be happy with your wife.
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You know what's your criteria going to be for marriage?
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Another issue I discussed in the marriage documentary.
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And the app that we're developing for this very purpose.
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Comfortable to go out the house without makeup.
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How women are starving themselves to look a certain way.
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The person that you're going to choose for marriage.