Ali Dawah - January 06, 2020


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In this episode of the Salam Corner, we are joined by a very special guest who is a brother of the Messenger of Allah. He has been a long time member of our brotherhood and is a good friend of ours. He is also the founder of The Salam Corner which is a place where we discuss all matters related to our faith and our faith in Allah and His Messenger.

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00:00:00.000 As-salamu alaykum
00:00:30.000 Speakers come here, they throw all these things at them and they go, oh, I have no answer for this
00:00:35.080 Where you in turn say, hold on, hold on one second
00:00:37.460 You take a step back
00:00:38.460 You say, well, if my scriptures say this, what about your scriptures?
00:00:43.160 They say this
00:00:43.820 And then they have no answer to this
00:00:45.720 Then I realized that, you know, you, yourself and other brothers here
00:00:49.780 Very, very forceful
00:00:51.840 And I'm thinking, are they doing the right thing?
00:00:53.760 Because the dava should be done in a practical way, in a humble way
00:00:57.880 So it comes across
00:00:59.040 But when I realized some of the brothers here or the other speakers here 0.90
00:01:02.460 How they are very, very rude and arrogant
00:01:04.440 I think maybe you have to take the same approach to them 0.64
00:01:06.840 And that's the only way to come across to them
00:01:08.760 That if you can talk loud, I can talk louder
00:01:11.220 And sometimes you have to do this, you know
00:01:14.320 But, you know, I've been meaning to come down here because of my health
00:01:18.320 I've not been able to come here, but I made a special effort
00:01:20.760 I came here at half past ten this morning
00:01:22.720 And they said, don't start until eleven o'clock
00:01:26.120 So we went around and looked around and everything else
00:01:28.540 And it's quite busy now
00:01:30.020 But I didn't realize you lot come here about three o'clock afternoon
00:01:32.540 Yeah, like half one
00:01:34.040 Half one, yeah, yeah, yeah
00:01:35.720 So I saw you debating with the other brothers
00:01:37.500 I couldn't make out what he was saying about the hand and the thing
00:01:40.660 I think it was just going too extreme, you know
00:01:42.600 But you made a very, very good point
00:01:44.500 About, you know, the clock has a hand
00:01:46.280 And the door handle has a hand
00:01:47.380 It doesn't mean it literally has a hand
00:01:48.800 It's a figure of speech
00:01:50.380 You know, when God is running towards you
00:01:51.900 It's not literally running towards you
00:01:53.440 It's a figure of speech
00:01:54.860 And plus, it's a way for the humans to understand
00:01:58.900 You know, because Allah SWT is 1.00
00:02:02.680 We can't imagine
00:02:04.480 Because there's nothing like him
00:02:06.060 Exactly, that's what we say
00:02:07.080 You know, and Allah's wisdom
00:02:08.920 He explains things
00:02:10.140 That we can understand
00:02:11.920 Yeah
00:02:12.220 If there was, like, something was in French
00:02:14.660 And you read and you say
00:02:15.660 I don't know what this means
00:02:16.740 Yeah, yeah, yeah
00:02:17.400 But I think what the brother was trying to just nitpick
00:02:19.520 Yeah
00:02:19.960 And go to extreme
00:02:20.920 Yeah, he was trying to compare it to the real, like
00:02:24.240 You know, saying, oh, that means Allah has limbs
00:02:26.960 But that was the idea for the topic
00:02:28.360 But who was he?
00:02:29.140 Was he Christian?
00:02:29.920 No, no, no
00:02:30.340 He's a Muslim
00:02:30.940 He just followed his asher 1.00
00:02:32.120 So there's certain attributes they negate to Allah
00:02:34.520 Yeah
00:02:35.260 But, yeah, no, like
00:02:36.760 Like, first thing, may Allah bless you for coming
00:02:39.060 Because, like, mashallah, you know 0.69
00:02:40.100 Alhamdulillah, you know, you're using well
00:02:42.020 Etc
00:02:42.420 So it's an honour for us
00:02:43.520 To have you
00:02:44.500 To come here, mashallah
00:02:45.420 To just even show you support
00:02:46.680 So that's why you came
00:02:47.920 And Allah, I mean, it's hot for us
00:02:49.440 Because
00:02:49.720 And then they sometimes, like you said before
00:02:51.760 Like, even in the park here today
00:02:52.880 Like, I think 0.65
00:02:53.920 Yes, some people are arrogant
00:02:55.700 Some people are harsh
00:02:56.520 But sometimes we should not drop to their level
00:02:58.660 Yes, sometimes we can be firm
00:03:00.080 We can be firm
00:03:00.800 Because if somebody's, you know
00:03:02.040 Insulting the Prophet, etc
00:03:04.080 I would say, don't talk to this person
00:03:05.280 You can be firm
00:03:06.300 But sometimes a lot of people go down the route of arrogance
00:03:08.700 You know, and thinking like
00:03:10.080 You're better
00:03:10.620 And this attitude we don't like
00:03:11.600 That's the reason why we started this
00:03:12.840 Salam Corner
00:03:13.360 Because we want to have nice discussions
00:03:14.980 Civilised discussions
00:03:15.820 No shouting
00:03:16.660 No ego
00:03:17.260 No, I'm better than you
00:03:18.880 You're, you're, you know
00:03:20.420 You're misguided
00:03:21.460 You're this, you're that
00:03:22.320 You're better than you're God
00:03:23.120 Exactly, you know
00:03:23.840 We don't want to have that
00:03:24.500 But also what
00:03:25.420 I found important
00:03:26.480 That I thought I wanted to talk to you, Uncle
00:03:27.740 Is that
00:03:28.840 Do you want tea or coffee, by the way?
00:03:29.940 No, exactly
00:03:30.380 Okay
00:03:30.660 May Allah bless you firstly
00:03:31.580 Yeah, for coming
00:03:32.320 Do you think today
00:03:34.600 Our youngsters
00:03:35.780 They respect all their elders
00:03:37.320 What do you think?
00:03:39.320 Like
00:03:39.540 See, what happens is
00:03:42.180 Respect their elders
00:03:43.000 They do
00:03:43.420 They do respect their elders
00:03:44.660 Yeah
00:03:45.020 But then it's not the same for everybody
00:03:46.780 Yes
00:03:47.200 It depends on our elders
00:03:48.360 Do we respect our children
00:03:49.920 Going into a mosque 0.99
00:03:51.920 When we're sitting down in a mosque
00:03:53.100 And you have children coming down
00:03:54.720 Yeah
00:03:55.020 You know
00:03:55.360 And the father brings the children
00:03:57.040 And everything else
00:03:57.640 And they run around
00:03:58.260 They see an old man like me
00:03:59.520 Sitting there
00:04:00.120 You look young, Uncle
00:04:00.960 Allah
00:04:01.500 MashaAllah
00:04:02.980 And they come up to me and say
00:04:04.540 Assalamualaikum
00:04:05.260 And I say
00:04:05.620 Waalaikumsalam
00:04:06.260 This is not the way to do it
00:04:07.960 The child goes
00:04:08.620 I'm not going there anymore
00:04:09.780 But the child comes in the mosque 1.00
00:04:11.780 He says
00:04:12.200 Assalamualaikum
00:04:12.620 He says
00:04:12.800 Waalaikumsalam
00:04:13.500 How are you?
00:04:14.800 Maybe you have some sweets
00:04:15.580 And they say
00:04:16.800 I want to go back
00:04:17.620 Yes
00:04:18.060 So
00:04:19.240 It's our parents
00:04:20.680 Our elders
00:04:21.300 That should teach our children
00:04:22.620 How to behave
00:04:23.940 How to respect their elders
00:04:25.480 And at the same time
00:04:26.680 The elders should respect the children as well
00:04:28.500 Not just say
00:04:29.540 Oh
00:04:29.900 I'm older
00:04:30.640 I have a beard
00:04:31.240 I'm more knowledgeable than you
00:04:32.380 Then you don't know nothing
00:04:33.140 This is the wrong attitude
00:04:34.360 This is not what Islam teaches us 1.00
00:04:35.740 You are only higher in God's eyes
00:04:39.960 If you have taqwa 1.00
00:04:40.600 Taqwa
00:04:41.000 Yes
00:04:41.300 Not because I have more white beard than you
00:04:43.220 That I know more knowledge
00:04:44.120 No
00:04:44.380 Because you are younger than me
00:04:45.800 You have more knowledge than me
00:04:46.920 No
00:04:47.280 No
00:04:47.480 No
00:04:48.380 Maybe me
00:04:49.340 Alhamdulillah
00:04:50.140 No you have
00:04:50.720 You have
00:04:51.020 Let's be
00:04:51.380 Fact is fact
00:04:52.380 You have more knowledge
00:04:53.020 So your status is more high than me
00:04:55.380 No no we don't know
00:04:56.220 We don't know
00:04:57.060 We don't know
00:04:57.400 In the eyes of subhanallah
00:04:58.820 We don't know
00:04:59.960 Maybe one deed you did
00:05:01.680 Is better than everything I did
00:05:03.540 Because I might have intentional problems
00:05:05.060 We don't
00:05:05.380 We don't
00:05:05.940 May Allah bless you
00:05:06.800 But the fact remains
00:05:08.860 But the fact remains of the knowledge that I have
00:05:10.080 Or you have
00:05:10.640 In the eyes of Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala 0.98
00:05:12.300 You have more knowledge
00:05:13.040 So your taqwa is more than me
00:05:14.500 That's what I'm trying to say to you
00:05:15.920 Maybe I have more
00:05:17.020 I don't know
00:05:17.560 Allah knows
00:05:17.980 Allah knows
00:05:18.280 Allah knows
00:05:19.080 But yeah you're doing a great great job
00:05:22.360 And you know
00:05:23.040 You raise a very very vital point
00:05:25.480 So because today I was talking about
00:05:26.840 For example
00:05:27.400 That I said
00:05:28.600 How to respect your elders
00:05:29.960 But that was actually very beautiful
00:05:31.480 What you said
00:05:31.980 That you said
00:05:32.340 You know what
00:05:32.660 Hold on a second
00:05:33.200 As elders
00:05:34.060 Do we have respect
00:05:35.520 Towards our
00:05:36.260 Or treat our young as well 0.94
00:05:37.920 Because sometimes
00:05:38.720 When young kids come to the masjid
00:05:40.200 Don't shout
00:05:41.680 Don't that
00:05:42.160 And the Prophet
00:05:42.520 They didn't have this attitude
00:05:43.760 You know
00:05:44.100 Because why
00:05:44.780 Because sadly
00:05:45.700 A lot of our elder uncles
00:05:47.540 May Allah bless them
00:05:48.160 Inshallah
00:05:48.440 Sometimes they make hard
00:05:50.200 Things hard to their children
00:05:51.520 And the perspective that you came from
00:05:53.580 Was actually brilliant
00:05:54.340 It was very beautiful
00:05:55.180 Because I do believe
00:05:56.380 A lot of youngsters
00:05:56.900 They do not have as much
00:05:57.880 Respect to their elders
00:05:59.020 In today's time
00:05:59.680 But also it works
00:06:00.440 Vice versa as well
00:06:01.360 That it needs to work
00:06:02.320 In both ways
00:06:02.760 Inshallah
00:06:03.020 So
00:06:03.240 For me
00:06:04.480 It's like
00:06:04.840 You know
00:06:05.100 I believe
00:06:05.780 That we should always
00:06:06.820 Respect our elders
00:06:07.900 You know
00:06:08.400 Whatever it may be
00:06:09.220 Like I was reading
00:06:10.300 Al-Adab al-Mufrad
00:06:11.080 It talks about
00:06:11.520 The Akhlaq 1.00
00:06:11.940 The manners of Bukharim 0.99
00:06:12.720 Imam Bukharim
00:06:13.620 One of the second books
00:06:15.260 That he made
00:06:15.640 If I'm not mistaken
00:06:16.280 And it says that
00:06:17.840 For example
00:06:18.280 Your father
00:06:18.880 You know
00:06:19.620 You should never walk
00:06:20.300 In front of your father
00:06:21.080 You should never call
00:06:22.160 Your father by his name
00:06:23.240 You do not sit down
00:06:24.760 Before your father sits down
00:06:25.720 These are basic
00:06:26.940 Adab
00:06:27.300 Manners
00:06:27.800 That one should have
00:06:28.960 With his father
00:06:30.800 And people that are older than him
00:06:32.040 You know
00:06:32.280 And I think that respect
00:06:33.440 Has been lost
00:06:34.140 And we need to
00:06:34.900 Regain that
00:06:35.920 Both from the young person 0.92
00:06:37.680 To the uncle
00:06:38.400 To the auntie
00:06:39.800 Or vice versa
00:06:40.760 It's very important
00:06:41.820 Because otherwise
00:06:42.660 Subhanallah
00:06:43.520 We live at times
00:06:44.180 Where there's people
00:06:45.420 Taking and putting
00:06:46.440 Their parents in care homes
00:06:47.660 And wallah
00:06:48.820 Today
00:06:49.120 There was study showing
00:06:50.120 That 9 million
00:06:51.280 Elderly people 0.99
00:06:52.700 Are lonely
00:06:53.340 They are depressed
00:06:54.300 And that is so sad
00:06:55.800 And that is so sad
00:06:55.820 And it's a massive sin
00:06:57.820 If I'm not mistaken
00:06:58.460 It's mentioned in Hadith
00:06:59.940 That the man
00:07:01.400 Who doesn't take care
00:07:03.820 Of his parents
00:07:04.740 Who looked after him
00:07:06.140 And just put him in a care home
00:07:07.640 Why?
00:07:07.880 Because he's too busy
00:07:08.520 And wallah
00:07:09.120 It's a very sad state
00:07:10.820 That we live in
00:07:11.440 So yeah
00:07:12.280 I just wanted to share
00:07:12.860 Is there anything else
00:07:13.400 You would like to add
00:07:13.900 A little reminder to
00:07:14.660 You made a good
00:07:15.640 Suggestion that you said
00:07:17.980 You know
00:07:18.240 Like I came here
00:07:19.340 I shook a hand
00:07:20.000 And said
00:07:20.200 Brother it's nice to meet you
00:07:21.240 And you're guiding me here
00:07:22.480 Let's have a little chit chat
00:07:23.500 You know
00:07:23.820 And you offered me the chair
00:07:24.740 And you offered me tea and coffee
00:07:25.740 Your parents support you this
00:07:27.660 To respect your elders
00:07:28.840 And I said to you
00:07:30.160 Oh no
00:07:30.600 I don't want to sit down
00:07:31.400 Yes I want tea
00:07:32.160 I want tea
00:07:32.640 This is the wrong attitude
00:07:33.940 You know
00:07:34.700 And this is what we have to get across
00:07:36.100 Into the media
00:07:36.880 All the brothers and sisters here
00:07:38.480 That sit down
00:07:39.440 Talk
00:07:39.920 Yes
00:07:40.280 We must talk to each other
00:07:41.740 With humbleness
00:07:42.860 And try to understand them
00:07:44.140 And let Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala 1.00
00:07:45.360 Guide them
00:07:45.920 Exactly
00:07:46.360 We can't guide them
00:07:47.360 We can only tell them
00:07:48.280 Look this is the truth
00:07:49.060 Exactly
00:07:49.420 Whether you accept
00:07:50.100 You don't accept
00:07:50.740 Yes
00:07:50.980 We do our bit
00:07:52.300 We do our bit of dawah
00:07:53.300 Exactly
00:07:53.800 And the rest
00:07:54.400 We leave to Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala 1.00
00:07:55.400 Exactly
00:07:55.480 And also inshallah
00:07:56.700 Our parents that are watching
00:07:57.900 To make it easy
00:07:58.920 On to their children as well
00:08:00.000 Because when it comes to like
00:08:01.180 Marriage and stuff like this
00:08:02.340 There is not that connection
00:08:03.420 And it's very sad
00:08:04.200 Because when the children
00:08:04.980 Don't find that connection
00:08:05.800 They go down the wrong route
00:08:07.340 Wrong path
00:08:08.140 It's very important
00:08:09.040 For the daughter
00:08:09.680 Or the son
00:08:10.640 To have a good relationship
00:08:11.400 With the parent
00:08:11.820 That they can turn to you
00:08:12.720 And speak to you
00:08:13.460 Because if they're not going to talk to you
00:08:14.460 And if you shun them away
00:08:15.480 They're going to go and talk to their bad friends
00:08:17.180 So inshallah
00:08:18.160 If there's parents watching this
00:08:19.140 Uncle
00:08:19.300 What advice would you give them
00:08:20.180 Well
00:08:20.740 I'm glad you mentioned that
00:08:22.820 Because my son-in-law
00:08:23.820 Is here with me 0.89
00:08:24.540 He's deaf and mute
00:08:26.640 And my daughter said 0.59
00:08:27.340 I want to marry him
00:08:28.120 Now if I said to her
00:08:29.660 What do you mean
00:08:30.540 You want to marry him 0.62
00:08:31.300 The boy can't hear
00:08:32.240 The boy can't speak
00:08:33.120 He has no house
00:08:34.460 He has no money
00:08:35.140 No car
00:08:35.620 No job
00:08:36.100 How can you marry somebody like that
00:08:37.660 But
00:08:38.720 And our prophet
00:08:39.460 He says
00:08:40.100 First of all
00:08:41.040 You don't look at how high he is
00:08:42.800 Fair skin
00:08:44.080 Lots of money
00:08:45.120 Cars
00:08:45.520 Bangalows 0.82
00:08:46.100 I said
00:08:47.040 He read five times
00:08:47.740 Namaz 0.71
00:08:48.180 He straight up
00:08:49.420 Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala 0.81
00:08:50.100 Yes
00:08:50.480 He smoke not drinking
00:08:51.300 No
00:08:51.580 Bismillah
00:08:52.340 And I do do niqah myself 0.99
00:08:54.480 Can I kiss your forehead
00:08:56.360 No
00:08:57.240 No
00:08:57.400 No
00:08:57.800 May Allah bless you
00:09:00.300 What you said
00:09:01.480 Wallahi
00:09:02.080 It's absolutely profound
00:09:03.440 What you said
00:09:04.520 Wallahi
00:09:05.040 Cut you off there again
00:09:07.900 And then people
00:09:08.660 We do the niqah 1.00
00:09:09.540 We have got to go to Malvi 1.00
00:09:11.140 We have got to go to the imam
00:09:12.380 He will make duah
00:09:13.660 And he will do this
00:09:14.720 And then the ceremony
00:09:15.460 Will be complete
00:09:16.160 No
00:09:16.480 Every father should marry 0.85
00:09:17.880 His daughter or son
00:09:18.760 It's very very simple
00:09:19.620 To do niqah 1.00
00:09:20.220 But because we don't have
00:09:21.360 Knowledge
00:09:21.700 Simple knowledge
00:09:22.720 Not even simple knowledge
00:09:24.260 How to do niqah 1.00
00:09:25.020 Even how to read namaz 0.97
00:09:26.460 How to lead the namaz 0.99
00:09:28.100 How to do janaz
00:09:28.800 These are basic things
00:09:29.820 That all muslims 1.00
00:09:30.720 Should know
00:09:31.200 Not just stand behind the imam
00:09:33.780 And let him do everything
00:09:34.660 It's not his responsibility
00:09:35.720 It is your responsibility
00:09:37.140 Yes
00:09:37.540 As well
00:09:38.120 So my daughters
00:09:39.440 All alhamdulillah 0.99
00:09:40.240 And then other things
00:09:41.140 Sorry
00:09:41.420 You know you get your daughters married
00:09:43.140 I have four daughters
00:09:43.820 Alhamdulillah
00:09:44.300 And all of my son-in-law
00:09:45.840 They are very very good
00:09:46.920 People get married
00:09:47.960 Limousines
00:09:49.020 Helicopters
00:09:50.000 I don't know
00:09:51.800 Waste of money
00:09:52.320 And then send them to Hollywood
00:09:54.620 Las Vegas
00:09:55.920 Bollywood
00:09:56.600 I send my daughters
00:09:57.680 Alhamdulillah
00:09:58.200 She come to Umrah
00:09:59.140 Do it in the car
00:10:00.280 Go to Umrah
00:10:01.180 Say money up
00:10:02.620 Go and do hajj
00:10:03.160 I do my first finish
00:10:04.200 Now it's up to them
00:10:05.420 And this is
00:10:06.860 The islamic way of doing it 1.00
00:10:08.480 It's the easiest way
00:10:09.640 And a simple way
00:10:10.560 And Allah inshallah
00:10:11.540 Put barakat in this
00:10:12.600 Exactly
00:10:13.040 Subhanallah
00:10:13.740 Allah guides us all inshallah
00:10:15.440 I mean I mean
00:10:15.920 You gave some beautiful
00:10:16.880 That's the reason why
00:10:17.440 I wanted to call you here
00:10:18.120 Because I could see you
00:10:18.860 When you know
00:10:19.280 You came and spoke to me
00:10:20.200 You know
00:10:20.880 Beautiful advice inshallah
00:10:21.860 May Allah bless you
00:10:22.600 And you know
00:10:23.300 There's a hadith of the Prophet 0.99
00:10:24.180 He said that
00:10:24.860 If a righteous man comes to ask
00:10:26.020 For your daughter's hand
00:10:26.660 If you reject him
00:10:27.780 Then we fitna in the land 0.93
00:10:28.660 You know
00:10:28.960 And this is what we have
00:10:30.040 Inshallah
00:10:30.280 If our parents are watching this
00:10:31.440 Please inshallah
00:10:32.360 Inshallah
00:10:33.200 Make it easy for your children
00:10:34.260 May Allah bless you uncle
00:10:35.480 And you do it
00:10:36.120 It was a pleasure inshallah
00:10:37.100 And we've got his son in law
00:10:38.360 Where's his son in law?
00:10:39.800 Adnan
00:10:40.140 Where's Adnan?
00:10:41.960 Adnan
00:10:42.260 Do you want to be on camera?
00:10:44.120 Camera?
00:10:44.580 Camera?
00:10:45.660 Come sit down
00:10:46.280 Calm, calm, calm
00:10:47.460 No, no, you sit down
00:10:48.140 Sit down
00:10:48.360 No, no, you sit down
00:10:48.920 No, sit down
00:10:49.420 Sit down, sit down
00:10:50.220 I'm here
00:10:50.660 I'm here
00:10:51.540 I'll explain to you
00:10:52.500 Don't worry
00:10:52.800 Yeah, uncle
00:10:53.200 You sit down
00:10:53.620 No, you sit here
00:10:55.240 Sit here
00:10:57.440 Sit here
00:10:57.460 Yeah
00:10:58.600 I'll just do this
00:11:00.340 Yeah, so
00:11:00.900 Can he communicate?
00:11:03.840 Yeah, a little bit
00:11:04.420 Yeah
00:11:04.820 Inshallah
00:11:05.540 Move the language 1.00
00:11:06.180 Lips very slowly
00:11:07.260 Inshallah
00:11:07.820 Yeah
00:11:08.420 Can he hear at all or not?
00:11:10.220 No, no
00:11:10.560 Yeah, tell him I love him
00:11:11.700 For the sake of Allah
00:11:12.380 Is there anything
00:11:19.800 Maybe he would want to tell me?
00:11:25.020 Tell him does he love me?
00:11:29.780 You love me?
00:11:33.420 May Allah bless you guys
00:11:34.500 Brothers and sisters
00:11:35.040 It's absolutely beautiful
00:11:35.940 We had a beautiful uncle here
00:11:37.060 Beautiful son in law inshallah
00:11:38.540 May Allah bless them
00:11:39.640 And this is the spirit
00:11:40.440 That we should have
00:11:41.140 You know
00:11:41.800 Respect to our elders
00:11:43.660 Having discussions
00:11:44.540 And a beautiful role model
00:11:46.280 That when a person
00:11:47.820 Who's
00:11:48.200 Wallahi
00:11:48.480 I would not even call him disabled
00:11:49.600 I called
00:11:50.460 I called the one who
00:11:51.500 I believe who's disabled
00:11:52.340 Is the one who doesn't follow
00:11:53.600 The Quran and the sunnah 0.95
00:11:54.440 So
00:11:55.060 Wallahi
00:11:55.500 We had a disabled brother
00:11:56.360 Who came here
00:11:56.860 Who couldn't walk
00:11:57.480 And he was looking to get married
00:11:59.500 And he went through a lot of struggles
00:12:00.400 And he said
00:12:01.140 He wanted to marry his sister 0.99
00:12:02.820 And they would say 0.90
00:12:03.420 Oh, but you're disabled 1.00
00:12:04.180 I said
00:12:04.760 Wallahi
00:12:05.080 I believe they were disabled 0.99
00:12:06.100 And then people like in the Quran
00:12:07.260 He said
00:12:07.540 Yeah
00:12:07.840 They hear, they hear not
00:12:09.380 See, they hear not
00:12:10.580 Speak, they speak not 0.99
00:12:11.460 Yeah, exactly
00:12:11.940 You know
00:12:12.200 Just because he can't hear
00:12:13.220 He can't speak
00:12:13.820 Doesn't mean he's not there
00:12:16.220 He has more knowledge than me
00:12:17.820 Wallahi
00:12:18.460 And maybe he's closer to Allah
00:12:19.620 In all of us
00:12:20.240 He's more pious than me
00:12:21.000 Yeah, yeah, yeah
00:12:22.200 So
00:12:22.340 It does not mean that
00:12:23.220 You can't be disabled 1.00
00:12:24.480 People think
00:12:24.960 Maybe you're disabled 1.00
00:12:25.940 Because you can't walk
00:12:26.780 Yeah, disability is the heart
00:12:28.580 People who read the Quran
00:12:29.640 And don't follow the Quran 1.00
00:12:30.520 I think they're the people
00:12:31.260 Who are disabled
00:12:31.660 Exactly
00:12:32.120 You can have all your limbs not working
00:12:34.240 But somebody who has his limbs working
00:12:36.420 Might be more disabled than you 1.00
00:12:37.500 In the heart
00:12:37.940 Yes, yes
00:12:38.620 And that's what we need
00:12:39.380 To understand inshallah
00:12:40.000 Brothers and sisters
00:12:40.760 May Allah bless you guys
00:12:41.520 It was absolutely beautiful
00:12:42.740 I think one of the most beautiful discussions
00:12:44.060 I've had in this park
00:12:44.900 For a long time
00:12:45.760 As-salamu alaykum
00:12:46.520 Wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh
00:12:47.420 Wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh
00:12:48.000 Wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh
00:12:48.620 Thank you
00:12:49.120 Thank you