Ali Dawah - January 18, 2022


MY MUM BANNED ME - HERE IS WHY


Episode Stats

Length

4 minutes

Words per Minute

177.2278

Word Count

771

Sentence Count

27

Misogynist Sentences

1

Hate Speech Sentences

5


Summary

In this episode, I talk about the time I called my mum to ask her permission to ride my scooter and she said no. This is a reminder to all of us to be obedient to our parents even if they are disbelievers.


Transcript

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00:00:04.200 DEL bild roller
00:00:30.000 My name's Ali Dower.
00:00:35.220 Well, that's not my real name, but that's what people call me.
00:00:37.680 I'm 32 years old.
00:00:39.900 I've got two kids.
00:00:42.240 A family.
00:00:43.800 I'm a grown man.
00:00:45.040 I'm 6'2", something along those lines.
00:00:47.620 Medium built.
00:00:48.700 Can be scary.
00:00:49.400 No, I'm joking.
00:00:50.380 The point I'm doing this video with my sister is because I'm riding the scooter.
00:00:53.620 But before I did, I had to call my mum.
00:00:57.880 And I had to ask her.
00:01:00.000 Thank you.
00:01:02.740 Hello, what are you, drive?
00:01:04.400 I'm your home.
00:01:05.440 What are you doing today?
00:01:06.060 I'm gonna drive here to respects妳.
00:01:09.340 What do you doing?
00:01:09.940 Lycastica a bus guides for 10 dash light.
00:01:12.980 Just a fewTIC blocks.
00:01:14.940 But not hard to walk in the bus.
00:01:16.280 If you don't enter the bus's, take the bus's.
00:01:18.320 Ok ok, don't enter.
00:01:19.580 Czy continue?
00:01:20.920 The bus's have to walk without a bus's.
00:01:23.180 Ok, don't enter the bus's, do you understand again?
00:01:24.920 Don't leave.
00:01:25.600 Use me.
00:01:26.520 Ok, I'm sorry.
00:01:27.900 I can't forgive, let's do that.
00:01:28.240 I don't have any time, I don't have any time
00:01:58.240 I totally disagree, because the lifestyle that I came from
00:02:00.780 Before, all my friends used to disobey their parents
00:02:02.920 They didn't give a damn about their parents
00:02:04.280 I used to know people who would hit their parents
00:02:06.720 Insult their parents
00:02:08.080 So when people come and say to me, you don't need religion to be a good person
00:02:11.080 I totally disagree
00:02:12.220 Because the customs of the lifestyle that we live culturally
00:02:14.620 Can change you
00:02:17.440 And can cause you to disrespect your parents
00:02:19.340 So much so, there are people who are leaving
00:02:21.200 Their family, their mum and dad
00:02:22.940 In care homes, the Prophet ï·º said
00:02:25.020 May his face be rubbed on dust
00:02:26.580 May his face be rubbed on dust
00:02:29.060 May his face be rubbed on dust
00:02:31.080 For the one whose parents reach old age
00:02:33.780 And they don't take care of them
00:02:35.040 This is a reminder to myself first and you guys
00:02:37.240 The point I'm trying to make here is this
00:02:39.000 The reason I called my mum to ask for permission
00:02:40.900 Is because she said to me
00:02:42.780 Ali, it's dangerous
00:02:44.240 I care about you, I don't want you to ride them
00:02:46.500 So I was just about to get onto this
00:02:48.060 Because we did some filming here
00:02:49.800 I said, oh, I just remembered
00:02:51.780 And my friend was like, what happened?
00:02:53.380 What's going on? The brother is recording this
00:02:55.060 May Allah bless him
00:02:56.040 So I was like, bro, I just remembered
00:02:57.800 You know what?
00:02:58.320 My mum said, I'm not allowed to ride this
00:02:59.600 So I rang him
00:03:01.340 Obviously he had a little bit of a smirk in his face
00:03:02.540 But then he was like, you know what?
00:03:03.880 It's true
00:03:04.240 I rang my mum and I said, mum
00:03:05.020 I need to go from A to B
00:03:06.860 It's a bit far, okay?
00:03:08.260 I said, can I ride it?
00:03:09.020 And she said, yes
00:03:09.980 Just this time, etc, yeah?
00:03:12.120 The point I'm trying to make is this
00:03:13.400 I'm proud of this
00:03:14.260 I'm not ashamed of this
00:03:15.080 If my mum
00:03:16.020 And like, I look up the Khabib
00:03:17.360 Khabib is the same
00:03:18.280 His mum said to him
00:03:19.300 No more UFC
00:03:20.460 The guy is 29
00:03:21.780 He would have wanted to make that
00:03:23.360 Maybe 30
00:03:24.000 My mum said that
00:03:25.340 It's not happening
00:03:26.540 This is how we need to honour our parents
00:03:28.720 That's what Allah says in the Quran
00:03:30.160 After I tell you to obey me
00:03:32.080 And worship me
00:03:33.000 Be obedient to your parents
00:03:34.520 Even if they are disbelievers
00:03:36.300 Be gentle with them
00:03:37.500 And if you're going to disagree
00:03:38.320 In good terms
00:03:39.320 That's all I wanted to say
00:03:40.340 Brothers and sisters
00:03:40.740 It's a little subtle reminder
00:03:41.880 But wallahi
00:03:42.860 This is a reminder to me
00:03:44.160 Myself first
00:03:44.800 I'm not trying to have a high horse
00:03:45.960 I'm better
00:03:46.320 Trust me
00:03:47.060 I still have shortcomings
00:03:47.980 But the point I'm trying to make is
00:03:49.380 Be obedient to your parents
00:03:50.620 There are people who regret it
00:03:51.920 Their parents have died
00:03:53.040 And they're like
00:03:53.800 Oh, I wish I could do this
00:03:54.800 It's too late
00:03:55.380 It's too late
00:03:56.420 Just as death reaches you
00:03:57.720 There's no
00:03:58.060 When I go back
00:03:58.660 I'm going to do this
00:03:59.360 Honour your parents
00:04:00.700 They are your daughter Jannah
00:04:01.960 If you disobey them
00:04:03.480 Wallahi
00:04:04.140 Do not ever expect any good in life
00:04:06.240 That's all I can say to you guys
00:04:07.600 I'm going to go
00:04:09.560 And hopefully you can take
00:04:10.860 These guys on board
00:04:11.640 If your parents have passed away
00:04:13.160 The Prophet peace be upon him
00:04:14.400 Said there's three things
00:04:15.200 Sadaqah Jariah
00:04:16.060 Making dua
00:04:17.040 And visiting their friends
00:04:18.320 May Allah bless you guys
00:04:19.520 Inshallah
00:04:19.840 I'm off