Ali Dawah

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00:00:23.520 Be so iconic if Ali Dower's wife divorced him now. Who is Ali Dower's wife? Sister, get 0.99

00:00:33.660 your husband under control. Why are you not lowering your gaze? Why are we looking at the

00:00:39.260 opposite gender? No man has ever loved me like you do. This guy needs a psychiatrist. He needs 1.00

00:00:51.820 therapy. Bro, you are demonic as F.

00:01:01.260 So his woman can't sit next to him and talk with him. She has to write on a whiteboard and give it 1.00

00:01:07.000 to him. And most of these, bro, if you look at them, they don't look like nice people. They look

00:01:11.800 like demons. They look evil. And subhanAllah, like, I don't think they, it doesn't look like they treat

00:01:17.020 women nicely. They've got faces, subhanAllah, if I dare to say this, but they've got faces of people 1.00

00:01:22.400 that would do some very bad things to women. In Islam, marriage is a deeply sanctified act. 0.90

00:01:29.020 When Ali was shown Sister Ayah's videos, it truly infuriated him. How could someone so casually tell

00:01:33.000 people, take that baby and leave? Your divorce is your self-worth. Do not marry religious men and 1.00

00:01:37.040 all men are the same. For this reason alone, a hateful smear campaign full of slander and lies

00:01:40.940 against not only him, but also his wife began under the pretense of disliking his delivery,

00:01:44.000 which was merely an excuse to avoid accountability. And I'm a homewrecker. So let's start wrecking

00:01:50.800 some homes. So I've decided to finally help you girlies out and start this new series, 1.00

00:01:54.500 How to Wreck Your Home 101. Whatever your reason may be, I am here to help you leave that bum once 1.00

00:01:58.540 and for all. I am going to be giving you girlies step-by-step advice on how to leave that man 1.00

00:02:02.540 so you too can have your poster voice blow up and have the chance to marry rich again. So follow along. 0.60

00:02:07.160 This narration, every time I read it, I think about the imagery of it.

00:02:15.960 قال رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم

00:02:17.360 إِبْلِيسَ يَضَعُ وَعَرْشَدُوا عَلَى الْمَاءِ

00:02:19.120 Iblis sets up his throne upon water. And then he starts to call his followers to him.

00:02:23.360 فَأَدْنَاهُم مِّنْهُم مَنْزِلًا أَعْضَمُهُمْ فِتْنَةً

00:02:25.320 The closest shayateen to Iblis when he talks to his followers are the ones that cause 1.00

00:02:28.660 the most fitna. He says, tell me what you all did.

00:02:31.280 يَجِئُ أَحَدُهُمْ فَيَقُولُ فَعَلْتُ كَدَا وَكَدَا

00:02:33.520 So one of them says, I did this and I did that.

00:02:35.780 And Iblis says, مَن صَلَعْتَ شَيْهَا

00:02:37.380 It's nothing.

00:02:38.420 Next, what did you do?

00:02:39.620 So the Shaykhine start to tell Iblis the corruption that they caused on the earth. 1.00

00:02:43.300 And then he says, ثُمَّ يَجِئُ أَحَدُهُمْ فَيَقُولُ مَا تَرَكْتُهُ حَتَّى فَرَّقْتُ بَيْنَهُ وَبَيْنَ مْرَأَتِهِ

00:02:48.600 قَالَ فَيُدْنِيَهُ فَيُدْنِيهِ مِنْهُ وَيَقُولُ نِعْمَ أَنْتُ

00:02:52.320 Slash Shaykhine says, I kept on him until I caused him to split from his family.

00:02:56.380 I caused the breakup.

00:02:57.680 And then Iblis says, come here.

00:02:58.720 He says, what a good follower you are.

00:03:00.500 What a good Shaykhine you are.

00:03:01.760 And he embraces him.

00:03:02.900 I like you the best.

00:03:03.780 Messed up the marriage, messed up the relationship.

00:03:05.580 And that's not to say to your brothers and sisters that there aren't real reasons sometimes for splits.

00:03:09.220 And that's not to escape responsibility when we do the things and we say,

00:03:11.780 Shaykhine, he was telling his follower, didn't you hear the hadith?

00:03:13.760 No, I mean, take responsibility.

00:03:15.040 But that's to say, how happy he becomes when he pollutes that, when he messes up families,

00:03:20.360 tears us apart from each other.

00:03:21.880 Don't fall for it.

00:03:25.500 As-salamu alaykum dear sister Aya and to those participating in this smear campaign against my husband.

00:03:31.340 All this because his main message was not to glorify something as serious as divorce.

00:03:36.080 Also, it seems that my husband's decision to keep our marriage, relationship and personal life private

00:03:41.380 has led some people who dislike Islam, who have hidden agendas and even some sisters to make false assumptions and accusations.

00:03:49.300 They've spread rumours of feeling sorry for me for being married to Ali.

00:03:53.380 Let me make this very clear.

00:03:55.500 I don't know which Ali they're referring to, but the man I married is not the man they are slandering.

00:04:01.020 The Ali I know is a loving husband, devoted father,

00:04:04.100 a man whose character is respected by dozens of sisters who can vouch for him.

00:04:09.020 Of course he isn't perfect.

00:04:10.700 No one is.

00:04:11.380 Our marriage, like any other, has its ups and downs.

00:04:14.080 But to portray him as some kind of misogynist is a complete fabrication.

00:04:18.240 No one knows a man better than his wife, the one who shares his home, sees his flaws and witnesses to his true self behind closed doors.

00:04:27.440 A man can lie to the world, put on a false image and pretend to be righteous.

00:04:31.580 But Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala always exposes hypocrisy and falsehood.

00:04:36.220 Ironically, this campaign of lies has now forced us to reveal parts of our personal life,

00:04:40.960 to show this side of my husband no one has ever seen.

00:04:43.760 But we live to see every day, alhamdulillah.

00:04:45.640 Ali is not someone who likes to brag or display his private life.

00:04:49.880 But I have shared a few pictures and videos that reflect the love, stability and care he provides for his family.

00:04:56.380 Alhamdulillah, we are blessed.

00:04:58.820 What's truly concerning about this whole entire situation is not only reckless posts and generalising men,

00:05:04.920 based on your personal experience,

00:05:07.040 but the way you publicly encourage women to seek divorce without context or understanding.

00:05:11.880 You claim your posts are about abusive men.

00:05:14.000 Yet you've personally suggested that I should divorce that bum. 0.75

00:05:18.240 Let me be clear.

00:05:19.740 Your ex-husband or the men who genuinely harm women are one thing,

00:05:23.440 but my husband is nothing like that.

00:05:25.580 To call him a bum or to encourage me, a woman whose marriage you know nothing about, 0.97

00:05:29.840 to leave a husband is not only irresponsible, it's dangerous.

00:05:32.760 If you could push a married woman without knowing her reality to divorce her husband for your own personal ego,

00:05:39.960 then you are not helping women.

00:05:41.480 You are harming marriages and becoming a danger to the very women you claim to protect. 0.98

00:05:45.540 And lastly, you claimed Ali deeply embarrassed not only himself, but also myself.

00:05:50.900 I just want to let you know, sister, Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala will always reveal the truth.

00:05:56.240 And this video and message will be a proof on the day of judgement

00:05:59.180 that the only ones who truly got embarrassed were those who backbited,

00:06:03.120 slandered, falsely accused and intentionally gaslit my husband

00:06:06.340 just because he wanted to protect the one most sacred thing in Islam, marriage.

00:06:11.260 I forgive you for your digs, remarks and inappropriate behaviour towards myself

00:06:17.100 and a married man, my husband.

00:06:20.040 Take care.

00:06:20.780 As-salamu alaykum.

00:06:41.260 As-salamu alaykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh brothers and sisters and dear friends.

00:07:07.540 Before I start, I want to praise Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala, the most merciful, the most just

00:07:10.720 or praise His glory and gratitude belong to Him.

00:07:13.320 Brothers and sisters, inshallah, I'm going to get straight into it.

00:07:14.940 Before I do though, I just want to remind for those who are watching me,

00:07:17.300 who are my absolute die fans, who love me, who like me, who are mediocre in the middle,

00:07:21.980 who hate me, who despise me, who want me to die. 0.81

00:07:23.880 Whatever can be your reign, inshallah, please listen carefully and renew your intentions.

00:07:27.400 Don't watch with a preconceived notion or a judgment.

00:07:31.080 Let the Quran, Sunnah and facts speak for themselves.

00:07:34.520 It's not about my emotions, how I feel, all this kind of stuff.

00:07:36.940 No, no, no, strictly the Quran and the Sunnah and evidences, pure evidences.

00:07:42.340 That's what we're going to do, inshallah.

00:07:43.000 Not, I think this thing, I think that person is that.

00:07:44.960 No, no, we're going to bring evidence, inshallah.

00:07:46.120 We have to be those who stood up for justice and truth.

00:07:49.340 Not this camp or that camp.

00:07:50.560 Don't be on my side or his side or anyone's side or her side.

00:07:53.240 No, no, no.

00:07:53.940 Be, your loyalty should be to Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala and His Messenger.

00:07:56.680 Now, since that is clear, inshallah, let's get straight into the apology.

00:08:04.460 I want to sincerely apologize.

00:08:06.300 Number one, as a person in the Dawah, a person who represents Islam, somebody else can make that joke, but not myself. 0.95

00:08:11.920 Yes, it doesn't befit for me to make that joke.

00:08:14.120 It was all a joke with a dick, okay?

00:08:15.340 About the eyelashes and the makeup.

00:08:16.880 Alhamdulillah, I've never done a video advising another woman about her makeup because it's something that everyone struggles with.

00:08:21.900 This doesn't mean that it's not a sin.

00:08:23.260 Of course, it's a sin.

00:08:24.240 Beautifying yourself, going outside or in the cameras or whatever, you are actively committing a sin.

00:08:28.840 I want to apologize for using those digs.

00:08:31.080 Second point, which was the most important one, that it took away from the main message of this sister glorifying divorce.

00:08:37.260 Take your baby and leave. 1.00

00:08:38.680 You'll devote to your self-worth.

00:08:40.160 Men are all the same.

00:08:41.280 Don't marry, marry on the deal. 1.00

00:08:42.280 It took away from that.

00:08:43.280 So in this video, that mistake is not going to happen.

00:08:45.780 I apologize and let's get straight into the video now.

00:08:50.740 For those who know me, know that I've been doing YouTube for 13 years and I'm not someone that likes to share my private life with anybody.

00:08:56.660 And those who know who know, and there's a couple of reasons for that.

00:08:58.580 My wife is here and she knows.

00:09:00.200 We try our best not to share our private life.

00:09:03.580 Why?

00:09:04.040 Number one, I don't need to prove nothing to anyone.

00:09:06.460 If I was to, if I wanted to do this, I would have done a whole channel with me and my wife and the holidays we go to and the things that we get up to and whatever.

00:09:11.740 It's irresponsible behavior.

00:09:14.460 Nobody needs to know.

00:09:15.540 I don't need to prove myself to anybody.

00:09:17.220 How I treat my wife or how she treats me. 0.98

00:09:19.120 It's none of your business.

00:09:21.120 Alhamdulillah.

00:09:21.900 And it's ayn, evil eye, all this kind of stuff.

00:09:25.000 Alhamdulillah.

00:09:25.200 We do our adhkar.

00:09:26.360 Yeah.

00:09:31.580 Oh yeah.

00:09:34.240 True.

00:09:34.580 Yes.

00:09:34.760 So, my wife is going to have her input by telling me, and once again, she does not want to talk.

00:09:41.880 That's her privacy. 0.98

00:09:42.820 That's her right.

00:09:43.500 I respect that.

00:09:44.420 Okay.

00:09:45.100 Yes.

00:09:46.140 She does not want to talk.

00:09:48.400 Unless you want me to be an abuser like your ex-husbands or your fathers or aunts, whoever it is.

00:09:54.720 I'm sorry.

00:09:55.300 I'm not that man.

00:09:55.980 With all due respect.

00:09:56.620 She doesn't want to talk and I cannot force her not to talk.

00:09:59.480 Okay.

00:10:00.880 Is that your choice?

00:10:02.180 Good.

00:10:02.480 Thank you.

00:10:02.820 She doesn't want to talk.

00:10:03.700 It's simple as that.

00:10:04.240 She doesn't want to.

00:10:04.680 Even with a whiteboard thing.

00:10:05.420 That was her idea.

00:10:06.380 She does not want to talk.

00:10:08.460 Do you want me to abuse her and force her to talk? 1.00

00:10:10.760 Hello?

00:10:11.160 It's against Islam, Alhamdulillah. 1.00

00:10:12.340 Yes.

00:10:12.480 I'm not going to be doing that.

00:10:13.200 Please, yeah?

00:10:13.700 Okay.

00:10:13.900 Your ex-husbands may have done that.

00:10:14.900 Not me.

00:10:15.560 Okay.

00:10:16.060 With all due respect.

00:10:16.680 So, going back to this.

00:10:18.280 We do not mention our private life.

00:10:19.640 Yes?

00:10:20.560 However, on this very instance, and again, my wife is here.

00:10:23.840 She can stop me if there are certain things I'm going to mention.

00:10:26.560 If she doesn't like it, she can tell me.

00:10:28.040 But I'm only doing this not to prove anything.

00:10:31.160 But the Prophet, once he was walking with his wife, and a group of companions walked past.

00:10:36.200 And he ran to them and said, this is my wife.

00:10:38.780 And they said, oh, message of Allah.

00:10:39.660 Of course we know it's your wife.

00:10:40.620 And he said, no.

00:10:41.360 Iblis runs through the veins of Adam. 0.98

00:10:43.880 Which means what?

00:10:44.360 People can perceive things the wrong way.

00:10:46.060 And this is what's happened.

00:10:47.120 Because we don't talk about our private life, people have this assumption as, I'm an abuser,

00:10:51.000 a wife beater, I mistreat my wife, etc.

00:10:53.260 And you know, I'll be honest with you.

00:10:54.740 My wife, do you not prefer for them to think like that? 1.00

00:10:56.800 That, you know, you've been mistreated, etc.

00:10:58.200 You know why?

00:10:59.120 Because we don't want your evil ayin. 1.00

00:11:01.600 However, after doing shura, speaking to my wife, there are certain things, since you

00:11:05.580 guys have this perception, that, you know, sister ayah, you know, let's go with the argument

00:11:09.500 and say, your husband, I don't know the story.

00:11:10.940 Your husband was a very bad person.

00:11:12.580 He traumatized you, etc.

00:11:13.600 Okay, you say that he was not a man on deen.

00:11:15.820 Okay, a man that doesn't fear Allah, sadly, yes. 0.95

00:11:17.980 Okay, I'm not your ex-husband.

00:11:20.020 All of those toxic feminists that are watching, I'm not your ex-husbands. 1.00

00:11:23.080 Okay, please, with all your respect.

00:11:24.500 Okay, let me start off with this.

00:11:26.420 And if you don't want me to say it, you can say it.

00:11:27.620 I'm just going to mention this.

00:11:28.500 Okay, because it's the truth.

00:11:29.720 And uqsun billah, Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala is my witness. 0.74

00:11:31.740 Give me your hand.

00:11:33.020 Wallahi billahi wa tillahi.

00:11:34.360 If I'm lying, I want you to call me out and say to me, Ali, you're a munafik. 1.00

00:11:38.680 Treat me like this in private, but look what you're saying in the camera, just to show

00:11:43.620 yourself to be a good husband, which I don't need to.

00:11:45.640 I'm mentioning this, you know why?

00:11:46.900 Because this is the thing that is the most terrifying to toxic feminists and toxic femininity 1.00

00:11:53.900 and sister Aya.

00:11:54.940 You know why?

00:11:55.520 Because if they were to give, and I'll ask you this question, be honest with me, yeah?

00:11:58.600 Okay, come close.

00:11:59.880 Yeah?

00:12:00.160 Okay.

00:12:01.240 If they were to give two options to these toxic feminists or sister Aya, and they said, 1.00

00:12:05.480 the first option is the following.

00:12:06.940 We find out information that Ali Dawah is a good husband and a good father and he treats

00:12:10.740 his wife well.

00:12:11.880 Option number two.

00:12:12.820 Okay, so one or two.

00:12:13.740 I want you to say one or two with your finger.

00:12:14.880 Okay, option two, we would rather know that Ali Dawah mistreats his wife, hits his wife, 0.64

00:12:22.240 abuses his wife, religiously abuses him, and all that kind of stuff.

00:12:25.400 Which one do you think they will go with?

00:12:26.600 One or two?

00:12:28.400 Okay, two.

00:12:29.380 You know why?

00:12:29.900 Because we've discussed this before.

00:12:31.060 Because they...

00:12:31.880 Okay, so the reason why they will go with that is because it fits their narrative.

00:12:39.800 They don't care about woman empowerment or how my wife is being treated well, which you're 1.00

00:12:43.720 going to find out in a minute, inshallah.

00:12:44.580 Okay, it's not that.

00:12:46.080 They would rather know or want to believe that I am like their ex-husbands or their ex-partners,

00:12:51.460 whatever for that matter, or their fathers or whatever, rather than knowing that I treat

00:12:55.320 my wife well.

00:12:55.940 That is how toxic they are, that they would rather go with number two than know number

00:13:00.480 one.

00:13:00.820 They would be like, no.

00:13:01.460 And this is why I give a disclaimer, whoever watching this.

00:13:04.060 What I'm about to say is going to debunk your whole claims.

00:13:07.000 And guess what?

00:13:07.960 I swear from the rab of the Kaaba, wallahi billahi watillahi, uqsun billahi.

00:13:12.300 If anything I'm saying is a lie, and my wife is here.

00:13:14.280 Do you pay for anything in the house?

00:13:17.540 Like when it comes to shopping?

00:13:19.200 Do you pay for shopping?

00:13:21.460 Electric?

00:13:23.280 Gas?

00:13:25.000 Water bill?

00:13:25.620 Petrol?

00:13:27.780 The car?

00:13:29.180 Holidays?

00:13:32.480 Which one is that?

00:13:34.500 For which one?

00:13:35.900 For which one?

00:13:38.620 Which one?

00:13:40.080 Which one?

00:13:41.940 Which one?

00:13:42.800 Which one was that?

00:13:43.220 Was he joking?

00:13:44.480 Oh, he was joking.

00:13:45.200 Okay.

00:13:45.640 So, do you pay for the car?

00:13:47.320 No.

00:13:47.800 Do you pay for holidays?

00:13:49.920 Do you pay for any food that we eat outside unless you want to treat me?

00:13:54.980 No, no.

00:13:55.320 This house treats me.

00:13:55.920 This is how my wife treats me, by the way. 1.00

00:13:57.180 We go out here and she's like, I want to treat everybody today.

00:13:58.720 I'm like, okay, yeah, she doesn't want to cook. 1.00

00:13:59.700 Okay, good.

00:14:00.160 We go out and eat.

00:14:01.360 She pays, argument's sake, £55, yeah?

00:14:03.340 Next thing I know, the next day after, I look at my bank account and £55 has been taken out.

00:14:07.120 Yeah?

00:14:07.360 Okay.

00:14:08.180 Yeah?

00:14:08.600 Is it true?

00:14:09.380 Yeah, exactly.

00:14:10.000 Thought so.

00:14:10.300 Yeah?

00:14:10.420 That's how she treats me. 1.00

00:14:11.480 Alhamdulillah.

00:14:12.120 Do you pay for your clothing?

00:14:13.880 Kids' clothing?

00:14:15.060 You name it.

00:14:15.600 The list goes on.

00:14:16.160 Okay.

00:14:16.340 Should I tell them how much your mahr was?

00:14:20.940 Huh?

00:14:24.520 She's not allowing me.

00:14:25.680 She's not allowing me.

00:14:26.200 Because I think some of you guys might get a cardiac arrest.

00:14:28.100 Yeah?

00:14:28.840 So I can't mention it.

00:14:30.920 Okay, can I mention, not the mahr, but the other gift that I got you on top of it.

00:14:35.320 Okay, she's not allowing me.

00:14:36.160 Okay, that's fine.

00:14:36.660 Okay.

00:14:37.420 Have I missed any, if I'm not mistaken, correct me.

00:14:40.520 Have I missed any of the scans when you were going to scans, etc., the baby, etc.?

00:14:46.340 Did you have to tell me?

00:14:49.020 I think it's so damn stupid that a woman has to tell her, tell his husband, tell her husband, 1.00

00:14:57.080 oh, are you going to be at my scan?

00:14:59.120 Are you going to be at my first scan?

00:15:00.320 Are you going to be when I give birth?

00:15:02.340 The fact that you need to even, the fact that you have to tell that to your husband shows it problematic.

00:15:07.460 Now, if your husband chooses not to be there for whatever reasons, because it can affect a man.

00:15:12.380 Look, I'm not trying to put everyone down.

00:15:15.320 I'm not trying to make this a thing where it says it's going to use it against the husband.

00:15:17.940 No, no, no.

00:15:18.380 That's the reason I don't talk about my private life.

00:15:20.700 Okay?

00:15:21.280 Okay.

00:15:21.940 The only reason I'm doing this is to dispel the enemies of Islam using this video and many other videos, etc.,

00:15:27.360 to portray that I treat my wife in a different way.

00:15:30.480 Alhamdulillah.

00:15:30.740 And let me put it like this, guys, yeah?

00:15:36.500 My wife knows, okay?

00:15:37.720 There was a time where she was feeding, like, I would look, okay, order the food, and she's too busy feeding the kids. 1.00

00:15:43.120 I would feed her with my own hands.

00:15:45.080 So much so, there was a woman behind who would come and say, oh, mashallah, etc., look, why am I mentioning this?

00:15:50.660 And she even just mentioned, my wife had mentioned to me, there was another time at Nando's.

00:15:53.660 I forgot.

00:15:54.800 I'm not trying to, look, I'm not trying to come here and be like, oh, look at me, I'm such a good husband.

00:16:00.740 So did you guys see that?

00:16:15.300 So Pana, that is a mother who's coming to see a child, and she is crying, saying, Mommy, I missed you so much.

00:16:22.060 Are you going to see me?

00:16:23.560 And look how she cries. 1.00

00:16:24.640 And the statistics speak for themselves how harmful, how harmful divorce is.

00:16:31.520 And look how she trivializes it. 1.00

00:16:33.320 Now, check these statistics out, guys, yeah?

00:16:35.020 Kids from single households.

00:16:36.820 Okay, it says single mother homes.

00:16:37.980 I'm not saying single mothers are to blame.

00:16:40.340 I'm just saying the catastrophic impact it has on kids.

00:16:43.520 It's not something, look, you cannot blame women if they are not to blame.

00:16:47.400 There are a lot of women who end their marriages for no damn good reason. 1.00

00:16:50.880 And there are women who end their marriage for good damn reason. 1.00

00:16:52.740 I'm not talking about those.

00:16:54.060 I'm talking about the impact divorce has.

00:16:56.380 Okay, 63% of all youth suicides are from single households.

00:17:01.660 63% of all youth suicides.

00:17:03.760 90% of homeless and runaway children are from single households.

00:17:07.560 85% of behavioral disorders are from single households.

00:17:10.180 85% of rapists with anger issues are from single households, yes?

00:17:15.660 71% of high school dropouts are from single households.

00:17:18.420 80% of all youth in prison is because of that.

00:17:21.620 According to U.S. Census Bureau, in 2017, 19.7 million children, more than one in four,

00:17:28.760 lived without the father in the home.

00:17:30.360 Okay, now check this out.

00:17:31.540 Research shows when a child is raised in a father absent home,

00:17:35.180 he or she is affected in the following way.

00:17:36.920 Okay, poverty.

00:17:38.680 Four times greater risk of poverty.

00:17:40.480 Behavioral problems, more likely to have behavioral problems.

00:17:43.120 Teen pregnancy, seven times more likely to become pregnant as a teen.

00:17:47.540 Child abuse, more likely to face abuse in the home, yes?

00:17:50.300 And this is what?

00:17:50.880 Our sister is divorced, divorced, divorced, divorced, divorced, yeah? 1.00

00:17:54.440 She's not even coming out and saying,

00:17:55.660 oh, if you're in an abusive marriage, alhamdulillah.

00:17:57.920 And this is one of the biggest lies she said.

00:17:59.960 Not once did I say, if you're in an abusive marriage, stay in it.

00:18:02.800 Which shows you what kind of a narcissist she is. 1.00

00:18:06.000 This campaign of Aya, yes?

00:18:08.860 With her trauma that she's going, whatever it is,

00:18:10.360 it's not directed towards me.

00:18:11.520 If you've noticed, she's directing it towards my wife. 0.92

00:18:15.340 And believe me, my wife is a bigger person, yeah?

00:18:17.600 Believe me, if I wanted, if I was toxic like you,

00:18:21.740 I could track down your ex-husband and I could find out what really happened, etc.

00:18:24.220 Look, I'm not, I would have been like, I haven't got time for that.

00:18:26.520 And my wife is forgiving.

00:18:27.340 My wife is forgiving you, yes?

00:18:28.560 Because those videos that you do when you're trying to flirt with me,

00:18:31.580 and you know, this, you know, the sexual, you know, innuendos, etc.

00:18:34.880 With your finger, all that kind of disgusting stuff.

00:18:37.480 You know what that shows me?

00:18:38.640 And it shows my wife.

00:18:40.140 If I have a problem with you and you're a married woman, 1.00

00:18:42.180 if I start going and saying, you know what, this woman is interested in me, 0.71

00:18:45.020 what would your husband do?

00:18:46.500 Your husband will come for me.

00:18:47.740 There'll be, there'll be, there'll be a bloodbath.

00:18:49.760 Because I'm trying to indirect him.

00:18:52.560 So when you do these videos, you know very well,

00:18:54.880 you're not a feminist. 1.00

00:18:56.000 You're not someone that stands up to woman empowerment. 0.98

00:18:58.520 Because you're actually trying to dishonor and degrade my wife. 0.99

00:19:01.820 Alhamdulillah.

00:19:02.420 Yes?

00:19:02.800 And let me tell you, Sister Aya,

00:19:03.800 you can't be the dust underneath my wife's feet. 1.00

00:19:05.820 I'll tell this to your face and I'm not saying it,

00:19:07.000 wallahi, because my wife is here.

00:19:08.280 May Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala give every man a good woman.

00:19:11.220 Wallahi, may Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala give every man a good woman.

00:19:14.840 Because your dishonor and disrespect wasn't towards me.

00:19:17.560 That's one of the reasons I'm doing this video,

00:19:18.780 is towards my wife.

00:19:20.100 And you know what psychologists say?

00:19:21.520 Let's read it for ourselves.

00:19:23.040 And this is what you call, excuse my language,

00:19:25.240 slut shaming. 0.59

00:19:25.920 You know, it's very interesting.

00:19:27.140 Narcissistic, abusive men actually use slut shaming

00:19:30.040 to dishonor and degrade women.

00:19:32.200 And guess what you was doing?

00:19:33.780 The same thing.

00:19:34.980 How?

00:19:35.500 I'll tell you.

00:19:35.980 You're using the same strategy of these men that you hate

00:19:38.820 that are narcissistic, abusing men. 0.76

00:19:41.400 Look what it says.

00:19:42.520 Okay.

00:19:43.020 Unfortunately, female slut shaming, other females, 1.00

00:19:45.220 is all too common.

00:19:46.320 In 2016, we worked in conjunction with

00:19:48.260 social intelligence company Brandwatch

00:19:50.860 to gain insight into how misogynistic language

00:19:53.780 is being used across social media.

00:19:55.880 Looking specifically at the dialogue on Twitter,

00:19:58.880 we analyzed about 19 million public tweets

00:20:01.540 from both the UK and US over a four-year period

00:20:04.240 to get a broad understanding of the landscape.

00:20:07.020 And we found women to be the largest perpetrators 0.99

00:20:10.700 of misogynistic language on the social network.

00:20:14.560 Projection.

00:20:15.260 Remember one of the 10 signs you said about a narcissist?

00:20:17.520 It's projection.

00:20:18.900 Check this out, guys.

00:20:20.440 52% of all misogynistic tweets were offered by women.

00:20:24.160 And psychologists talk about the ruthlessness

00:20:25.940 women have towards each other. 0.99

00:20:27.540 It seems we must not only challenge

00:20:29.700 how men view and treat women,

00:20:31.480 but also how women view and treat one another. 1.00

00:20:34.460 The way he was treating my wife

00:20:36.140 is because you was trying to get to my wife, 0.98

00:20:38.220 not me,

00:20:38.980 by trying to dishonor her,

00:20:40.460 by trying to say, you know,

00:20:41.700 this and that,

00:20:42.320 and doing side dicks, etc.

00:20:43.240 and trying to flirt with me

00:20:44.920 and trying to say,

00:20:45.580 oh, your husband's in love.

00:20:46.300 You know why?

00:20:46.900 It was a textbook narcissist way

00:20:49.880 of trying to use the issue,

00:20:52.740 which is not personal.

00:20:53.900 Alhamdulillah.

00:20:54.480 It's all pertaining to the evil

00:20:55.700 that you're calling the marriage,

00:20:56.760 the breakdown of the marriages

00:20:57.920 towards my wife.

00:21:00.200 My name is Aya and I'm a homewrecker.

00:21:03.200 So let's start wrecking some homes. 0.83

00:21:05.340 I get DMs from married women 1.00

00:21:07.140 asking me advice on how to leave their husbands

00:21:09.600 more than anything else.

00:21:11.860 Divorce on who? 0.68

00:21:12.800 Who are these people?

00:21:14.060 On what basis are they asking for divorce?

00:21:15.880 This is the question to be asked.

00:21:17.820 Anyone that's in an abusive marriage game,

00:21:19.700 be it not,

00:21:20.000 be you a man or a woman, by the way,

00:21:21.420 women do it as well, 1.00

00:21:22.180 with all due respect,

00:21:23.080 you have a right for divorce.

00:21:24.200 But look how she generalised. 0.98

00:21:25.600 She doesn't even give context.

00:21:26.780 Woman come to me for divorce 1.00

00:21:27.760 and look what she had to say now.

00:21:29.940 So I've decided to finally help you girlies out 1.00

00:21:32.460 and start this new series,

00:21:34.220 How to Wreck Your Home 101.

00:21:35.800 Whether that man is abusive,

00:21:38.040 maybe he can't pleasure you in bed,

00:21:40.000 or maybe he just keeps embarrassing you

00:21:42.100 by being weirdly obsessed

00:21:43.720 with dragging down beautiful women online,

00:21:46.400 whatever your reason may be,

00:21:47.940 I am here to help you

00:21:49.180 leave that bum once and for all. 1.00

00:21:51.360 I am a trauma-informed coach,

00:21:52.860 so I am...

00:21:53.540 Trauma-informed coach.

00:21:56.000 What does that mean?

00:21:57.340 I've been seeing videos of Aya,

00:21:59.380 who presents herself as a trauma-informed coach.

00:22:01.200 Number one, behaviour matters.

00:22:02.340 If you're in a role

00:22:03.020 where people look to you

00:22:03.720 for emotional development,

00:22:04.640 the language you use,

00:22:05.540 the approach you take,

00:22:06.420 the tone you present,

00:22:07.320 all of that communicates a message.

00:22:08.740 Videos that are overly vulgar,

00:22:10.100 sarcastic in ways people may not recognise as satire,

00:22:12.080 disrespectful in how they treat people who are hurting,

00:22:14.060 these can all raise red flags,

00:22:15.640 just from a professional standpoint.

00:22:16.640 Number two, qualification and transparency.

00:22:17.920 In the UK, for example,

00:22:18.820 there's certain titles that are protected,

00:22:20.260 especially in the welfare fields,

00:22:21.360 such as specialisms in psychologists

00:22:22.820 or a registered nurse.

00:22:24.240 Titles like a life coach

00:22:25.300 or trauma-informed coach are not protected.

00:22:27.440 So it's reasonable to ask,

00:22:28.680 what training do you have?

00:22:29.560 What accreditation do you have?

00:22:30.520 Are you supervised?

00:22:31.140 Do I have a way to verify your work?

00:22:32.840 What is your experience?

00:22:33.560 Number three, power and responsibility.

00:22:34.720 When you step into a role

00:22:35.680 in helping people in emotional

00:22:36.860 or trauma-related spaces,

00:22:37.960 you carry a certain amount of responsibility.

00:22:39.620 If your platform is large

00:22:40.720 and mashallah, Aya, yours is,

00:22:42.060 so what you say and how you say it

00:22:43.480 can ripple widely,

00:22:44.220 especially with the power of social media.

00:22:45.520 So if someone is upset,

00:22:46.380 emotionally broken, or ready to change,

00:22:47.780 how you approach them matter.

00:22:49.260 Number four, practice what you preach.

00:22:50.480 If your brand is healing and transformation,

00:22:52.660 my immediate thought as someone

00:22:53.580 that follows other people

00:22:54.680 in the mental health field,

00:22:55.540 I want to watch your content and think,

00:22:56.780 okay, what have I learned from this?

00:22:57.620 How am I being inspired?

00:22:58.360 How am I being lifted?

00:22:59.080 If those questions aren't answered,

00:23:00.520 then I will certainly raise some questions

00:23:01.980 about what you're representing.

00:23:03.300 If someone was to pose those questions to me

00:23:04.940 and I can't answer them,

00:23:06.060 then for me personally,

00:23:07.060 the mismatch is concerning.

00:23:17.780 Look at, guys,

00:23:36.200 this is irresponsible behavior.

00:23:37.660 You're a trauma-informed coach

00:23:39.240 that people are contacting you for divorce

00:23:41.680 and you are actively saying,

00:23:44.040 yes, I promote divorce,

00:23:44.960 and you're sending a message to my wife 0.98

00:23:47.620 who's sat next to me,

00:23:49.240 Alhamdulillah, yeah? 0.94

00:23:50.060 Okay.

00:23:51.640 That, contact me so you can divorce her. 1.00

00:23:53.920 And why should you,

00:23:56.220 why should my wife or anybody,

00:23:57.520 why should they divorce me?

00:23:58.920 Look at the crime.

00:23:59.520 What's my crime?

00:24:00.280 They should divorce you. 1.00

00:24:01.060 Why?

00:24:01.300 Because you gave Naseer to a sister.

00:24:04.720 Yes?

00:24:05.280 Put the whole eyelash,

00:24:06.000 make up to yourself.

00:24:06.480 That was not the main point.

00:24:07.260 Okay.

00:24:07.760 You gave Naseer to a sister 0.94

00:24:08.800 that she should not generalize divorce

00:24:10.140 and not generalize men.

00:24:11.300 Don't say take your baby and leave

00:24:12.380 and say,

00:24:12.940 no, I don't want a man on Dean.

00:24:16.140 That's the reason.

00:24:17.960 Do you know how dangerous you are?

00:24:20.280 ...on how to leave that man

00:24:23.020 so you two can have your post-divorce glow up 0.98

00:24:26.100 and have the chance to marry rich again.

00:24:28.700 So follow along.

00:24:30.000 Do you see,

00:24:30.660 instead of accepting accountability

00:24:32.320 and saying,

00:24:33.320 this is such a dangerous thing to say,

00:24:35.540 no,

00:24:36.140 she is going full force

00:24:37.660 and telling women,

00:24:38.960 do you know how dangerous

00:24:40.160 and unprofessional that is?

00:24:46.400 Okay.

00:24:47.260 My wife said,

00:24:48.440 Naseer,

00:24:49.060 she's seen your video

00:24:50.600 where two years ago

00:24:52.460 where you was crying.

00:24:53.760 Yeah?

00:24:54.140 And it is going to be

00:24:55.320 my first Ramadan

00:24:56.080 as a single mum.

00:24:58.260 And I have had

00:24:59.540 a lot of feelings around this.

00:25:00.720 So when I got divorced,

00:25:01.920 I don't know why,

00:25:02.980 but this was actually

00:25:03.840 one of the first things

00:25:04.820 I thought about.

00:25:05.640 Even though it was so far away

00:25:06.760 at that time,

00:25:07.160 one of the first things

00:25:08.260 that came to my mind

00:25:08.740 is how is it going to be

00:25:10.300 going through Ramadan

00:25:11.120 on my own,

00:25:12.120 having fun on my own every night?

00:25:13.400 How is it going to be aid?

00:25:14.500 Like just me and her.

00:25:15.300 How is it going to be for my daughter?

00:25:16.260 You know,

00:25:16.880 growing up,

00:25:17.320 experiencing aid

00:25:17.820 without her mum and dad together.

00:25:19.360 It was just one of the first things

00:25:20.400 that came to mind

00:25:21.280 and honestly,

00:25:22.580 I was dreading it.

00:25:23.340 Like just the thought of

00:25:24.540 being a single mum

00:25:25.400 going through Ramadan

00:25:26.240 and aid on my own

00:25:26.800 with my daughter

00:25:27.180 would just make me cry.

00:25:28.540 It was just such a sad thought for me.

00:25:29.820 And I'll be honest with you,

00:25:31.020 like my wife

00:25:31.880 was not happy seeing that.

00:25:33.220 Do you think we was happy

00:25:34.540 watching that,

00:25:35.760 seeing you two years ago

00:25:37.520 moved into a new place,

00:25:39.180 I think newly divorced

00:25:40.100 with your daughter?

00:25:41.480 Do you think

00:25:42.060 it was nice watching that?

00:25:44.120 It was sad watching that.

00:25:45.400 And you know what's more sad,

00:25:46.280 sister,

00:25:46.740 is that my wife is saying

00:25:48.020 you went through that

00:25:49.360 and said,

00:25:49.820 I'm going to wake up

00:25:50.460 for Sahara alone.

00:25:51.480 I'm going to break my fast alone.

00:25:53.040 I'm going to be my daughter.

00:25:55.080 Sometimes I have to,

00:25:56.520 her dad will take

00:25:57.140 and I will feel lonely.

00:25:58.640 And at the same breath,

00:25:59.900 sister,

00:26:00.200 look what you've turned into.

00:26:01.160 My wife's saying

00:26:01.760 in a nutshell

00:26:02.440 that you want

00:26:04.120 the same thing

00:26:05.380 for me and my family.

00:26:08.980 Like,

00:26:09.700 sister,

00:26:10.100 if this is not evil,

00:26:12.400 sister,

00:26:12.840 how are you

00:26:13.660 someone

00:26:14.700 who's to be a coach?

00:26:16.640 You're talking about

00:26:17.360 trauma coach.

00:26:18.020 Sister,

00:26:18.320 you yourself are traumatized

00:26:19.600 and you're here

00:26:20.760 asking my wife

00:26:22.320 to divorce me,

00:26:23.040 which look,

00:26:24.200 it doesn't note that,

00:26:25.160 Alhamdulillah,

00:26:25.420 I've got a solid woman behind me. 1.00

00:26:26.880 That's why I have,

00:26:27.800 Alhamdulillah,

00:26:27.880 a successful project,

00:26:28.700 et cetera,

00:26:28.880 from Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala 0.60

00:26:29.820 and a solid woman

00:26:30.960 behind my back.

00:26:31.860 Like they say,

00:26:32.320 behind every successful man,

00:26:34.260 yes,

00:26:34.460 and I define success

00:26:35.740 not by money in this,

00:26:36.800 by deen,

00:26:37.700 is a solid woman,

00:26:38.900 Alhamdulillah.

00:26:39.480 And we have our ups and downs.

00:26:40.380 Don't get it twisted.

00:26:41.300 Trust me,

00:26:41.600 you do not want to see us

00:26:42.220 in a fight.

00:26:42.620 Oh hell no,

00:26:43.220 you don't want to see us

00:26:43.680 in a fight.

00:26:44.180 I don't want to give you

00:26:44.600 a false impression of reality.

00:26:47.440 You want the same thing

00:26:48.680 for me and my family.

00:26:50.840 Isn't that shameful?

00:26:52.500 Do you not think to yourself,

00:26:53.580 subhanahu wa ta'ala,

00:26:53.760 what an irresponsible thing to say.

00:26:55.700 And this is what I called you out for,

00:26:57.000 sister.

00:26:57.300 I have,

00:26:57.480 Wallahi,

00:26:58.260 I have nothing personal against you.

00:27:00.480 Did you see my money?

00:27:01.660 Did you come and try to stab my wife 1.00

00:27:02.940 or try to kidnap my kids?

00:27:04.340 No.

00:27:05.020 I have nothing personal against you

00:27:06.560 about this.

00:27:07.060 But you know what,

00:27:07.540 brothers and sisters,

00:27:07.900 it gets worse.

00:27:09.420 Check these next videos out

00:27:10.380 because look at the very people

00:27:12.440 who is following them.

00:27:14.440 This was the most shocking one

00:27:15.680 of all of them.

00:27:16.500 Check this out, guys.

00:27:17.120 It would be so iconic

00:27:18.080 if Ali Dawah's wife

00:27:19.200 divorced him now.

00:27:22.700 That would be such a diva move. 0.73

00:27:25.100 This is the most perfect time

00:27:26.540 to do this,

00:27:27.220 by the way.

00:27:27.920 If your husband is obsessed

00:27:29.540 with a certain type of woman,

00:27:32.060 be that type.

00:27:33.600 And Ali Dawah is obsessed

00:27:34.660 with divorced women,

00:27:35.900 so why not become a divorced woman? 0.99

00:27:38.020 Think about it, girl.

00:27:39.880 Trust me.

00:27:42.720 Iconic move.

00:27:43.440 Look at her face

00:27:45.160 of the satisfaction she has

00:27:47.980 when she puts her tongue 1.00

00:27:49.440 in her cheek.

00:27:50.360 It's like she's dying

00:27:52.240 for that to happen

00:27:53.080 to break a family.

00:27:56.480 And not that, look,

00:27:57.320 not that your words mean anything,

00:27:58.780 not that you're any threat.

00:27:59.840 It's not the point.

00:28:00.760 It's the message.

00:28:01.600 That's what I'm saying.

00:28:02.240 I don't have anything personal

00:28:03.980 with any of your sisters.

00:28:05.920 And then we've got

00:28:07.160 this other sister.

00:28:08.400 Let's go to her.

00:28:09.160 If you're a man of God,

00:28:10.480 why are you acting like Iblis?

00:28:12.040 Because I swear to God,

00:28:12.900 Iblis was sent down 1.00

00:28:14.100 from heaven

00:28:14.880 because of pride.

00:28:16.000 And you're out here

00:28:16.720 with your pride self

00:28:18.000 putting a woman down 0.99

00:28:18.920 because she has

00:28:19.580 a difference of opinion.

00:28:20.660 I am putting a woman down 1.00

00:28:21.740 because she has

00:28:22.080 a difference of opinion.

00:28:23.220 What's the difference of opinion?

00:28:25.140 Can you tell me

00:28:25.500 what's the difference of opinion?

00:28:26.560 Advocating for divorce?

00:28:27.960 All men are the same. 1.00

00:28:29.380 Imagine if I said

00:28:30.060 all Muslim women

00:28:31.080 are this.

00:28:32.580 All Muslim women

00:28:33.420 are evil.

00:28:35.040 What difference of opinion

00:28:36.060 sister are you talking about?

00:28:36.820 And I am evil

00:28:38.080 because what?

00:28:39.800 Because I said

00:28:40.160 sister don't generalize divorce. 1.00

00:28:42.400 Don't say stuff like that

00:28:43.580 that is wrecking homes.

00:28:45.460 And then she goes out

00:28:46.380 and doubles down

00:28:46.880 and goes I'm a homewrecker

00:28:47.460 and I'm going to do it.

00:28:48.140 And she's saying

00:28:48.480 yeah, yeah, become it.

00:28:49.600 Can you imagine

00:28:51.080 how terrifying it is?

00:28:52.860 I'm telling you brothers

00:28:53.560 please protect your wives

00:28:55.380 against me.

00:28:55.900 I'm telling you

00:28:56.520 I have to say this to you.

00:28:57.740 I have no shame about this.

00:28:59.060 I am not apologetic about this.

00:29:00.600 Imagine your wife

00:29:01.460 going to her.

00:29:02.620 Somebody who you have to be

00:29:03.840 professional in your career.

00:29:05.120 We don't even know

00:29:05.520 if she has a qualification.

00:29:06.260 Where's your diploma?

00:29:06.940 Just watch this for yourself.

00:29:08.340 Look, I was embarrassed

00:29:10.200 and ashamed

00:29:11.000 hearing this coming from her.

00:29:12.580 A satanic song

00:29:13.740 and look what she says. 0.91

00:29:15.360 And you're telling me

00:29:16.260 I'm not going to warn

00:29:17.000 a woman against you? 1.00

00:29:18.680 I will lie.

00:29:19.280 I will die.

00:29:20.560 I will till the last breath

00:29:21.560 I will warn against anybody

00:29:22.920 who is following you

00:29:24.620 and the misguidance that you're doing.

00:29:25.580 Look at this.

00:29:25.980 Look at what you're singing.

00:29:26.680 Look at what's coming out of your mouth.

00:29:27.700 You're a woman in hijab. 1.00

00:29:28.820 You made a deal with this devil

00:29:30.740 turns out my dick's bigger. 0.87

00:29:32.700 You want to fight your founder?

00:29:34.400 I love abortion 0.96

00:29:35.080 and trans people

00:29:36.040 and migrants

00:29:37.100 and birth control 0.75

00:29:38.380 and immigrants

00:29:39.500 and gay people.

00:29:40.600 I can't even repeat that.

00:29:42.880 You're?

00:29:43.320 Look, look, look.

00:29:43.880 Why are they so vulgar?

00:29:45.800 Her and the other sister

00:29:46.820 that I advised

00:29:47.480 who was talking about

00:29:48.420 my private part.

00:29:49.060 why are you guys so sexual 0.78

00:29:52.760 and vulgar

00:29:53.480 and accusing married men

00:29:55.680 of being in love with you?

00:29:58.320 I do not understand.

00:29:59.680 I was defending divorced sisters 1.00

00:30:01.240 a decade ago,

00:30:03.280 10 years ago.

00:30:04.420 Here is the video.

00:30:05.120 You can watch it for yourself,

00:30:06.000 inshallah.

00:30:06.540 And I'll give you,

00:30:07.440 I even had the playlist,

00:30:08.920 okay?

00:30:09.480 Does he really love you?

00:30:10.660 Exposing men.

00:30:11.300 Okay?

00:30:12.400 How men really think.

00:30:13.660 Exposing the way men think

00:30:14.520 and trick women 1.00

00:30:15.140 to break their heart.

00:30:16.700 Shaitan's good deed.

00:30:17.520 I interviewed a sister

00:30:18.820 who fell into zina

00:30:20.780 defending her.

00:30:22.200 I want a pious wife

00:30:23.200 exposing men

00:30:24.420 who had double standards.

00:30:26.000 They want a pious wife 0.99

00:30:26.820 where they go and commit zina 0.96

00:30:27.980 and do all kinds of stuff.

00:30:29.140 I was exposing them.

00:30:30.600 Convert to hijab. 0.87

00:30:32.240 I have no shame.

00:30:33.560 Interviewing a player

00:30:34.740 who would tell me

00:30:35.900 how he would lure women in 0.78

00:30:37.400 to expose him

00:30:38.400 so women don't fall into it. 1.00

00:30:39.440 I was the first one

00:30:40.320 who talked about

00:30:40.720 men's hijab tutorial.

00:30:42.160 How men should talk 0.91

00:30:42.860 about their hijab.

00:30:44.000 And in this video,

00:30:45.220 this,

00:30:45.760 look single mothers, 1.00

00:30:46.440 10 years ago,

00:30:47.940 and I stand by this,

00:30:49.200 10 years ago,

00:30:49.720 look what I was saying.

00:30:50.460 As we know

00:30:50.700 with the matters of

00:30:51.580 divorced sisters

00:30:52.180 and how they're treated

00:30:52.820 in the society,

00:30:53.740 I feel ashamed

00:30:54.720 to use this word.

00:30:55.480 I really feel ashamed

00:30:56.180 to use this word

00:30:56.580 but they are treated

00:30:57.120 like prostitutes. 1.00

00:30:58.020 There's something filthy,

00:30:58.860 disgusting.

00:30:59.440 When you say,

00:30:59.800 oh, you're a divorcee. 1.00

00:31:00.980 It's like,

00:31:01.280 oh, okay,

00:31:02.300 I might marry you

00:31:03.120 as a second

00:31:04.500 or I might want to do this.

00:31:06.460 And I genuinely know

00:31:07.200 there's brothers out there

00:31:07.660 who do it for genuine reasons.

00:31:08.680 I'm talking about

00:31:09.120 those individuals

00:31:09.380 who look down

00:31:09.860 on divorced sisters

00:31:10.400 and not only divorced sisters

00:31:11.300 who get divorced

00:31:12.580 without things that work out

00:31:13.760 which is normal.

00:31:14.400 But also,

00:31:14.920 the sisters who are divorced

00:31:15.520 and they have a child

00:31:15.960 which is even worse now.

00:31:16.600 They're like,

00:31:16.880 oh, you know,

00:31:17.480 that excess baggage, etc.

00:31:18.580 And it's so sad,

00:31:19.220 because when we look

00:31:19.780 at the Surah of the Prophet

00:31:20.240 majority of his wives

00:31:21.940 were divorced.

00:31:22.520 He's on widows.

00:31:23.700 Alhamdulillah.

00:31:24.080 And I'm proud of you.

00:31:24.680 You know why?

00:31:25.160 Because I've never been

00:31:26.300 one side or the other.

00:31:27.620 Anyone that calls to evil,

00:31:28.940 you will see me in front of you.

00:31:29.680 Wallahi,

00:31:30.040 let me tell you something,

00:31:30.640 Sister Aya.

00:31:31.380 Not you,

00:31:32.240 not 100,000 feminist sisters. 0.63

00:31:35.580 Wallahi,

00:31:35.980 none of you,

00:31:37.500 and not that,

00:31:37.840 if I was refuting

00:31:38.340 a bit of truth,

00:31:39.000 sorry,

00:31:39.860 the Red Pill Brothers.

00:31:41.300 None of you

00:31:41.960 will stop me ever.

00:31:45.900 Let's watch this video

00:31:46.920 where Sister Aya

00:31:48.220 says something very strange.

00:31:50.700 She changes the whole narrative

00:31:52.220 and that narrative

00:31:53.160 backfires on her. 0.99

00:31:54.320 Why?

00:31:54.940 Let's watch it for ourselves, guys,

00:31:56.020 because when you watch it,

00:31:57.380 you're going to be

00:31:57.780 absolutely shocked.

00:31:58.860 She's claiming

00:31:59.480 that she's not talking

00:32:01.100 about her ex

00:32:01.640 or she's not traumatized.

00:32:02.960 Let's watch it for ourselves

00:32:03.700 because then,

00:32:04.660 if that's the case,

00:32:05.440 then there's something

00:32:06.120 that you missed out

00:32:07.040 that you have to point out.

00:32:08.880 Like,

00:32:09.200 let's hear his side of the story.

00:32:10.660 Guys,

00:32:10.960 I wasn't talking

00:32:11.580 about my ex-husband.

00:32:14.580 Especially when I'm talking

00:32:15.340 about a religiously abusive man.

00:32:16.920 Like,

00:32:17.000 I'm not,

00:32:17.520 he's not even religious.

00:32:18.720 Like,

00:32:18.880 I'm not even talking

00:32:19.500 about him.

00:32:21.900 I was talking about the...

00:32:23.480 You can clearly see

00:32:24.120 how uncomfortable she gets.

00:32:26.760 From what it looks like,

00:32:27.900 it's,

00:32:28.180 she's not telling the truth

00:32:28.920 because it's very clear

00:32:29.720 to everyone.

00:32:31.140 Even the brothers

00:32:31.780 I spoke to,

00:32:32.280 or sisters,

00:32:32.680 they know

00:32:33.080 you're talking about your ex.

00:32:34.800 This is the reason

00:32:35.380 why you're doing this,

00:32:36.260 Sister Aya.

00:32:36.660 Because you're traumatized

00:32:37.980 by your ex,

00:32:38.880 you know that

00:32:39.760 tarnishes your image

00:32:40.980 of being a coach,

00:32:41.740 etc.

00:32:42.160 So you're changing

00:32:43.120 the narrative

00:32:43.580 and saying,

00:32:44.280 oh no,

00:32:44.540 no,

00:32:44.640 I wasn't talking

00:32:45.040 about my ex.

00:32:46.000 Now,

00:32:46.300 let's go

00:32:47.000 with what she said.

00:32:48.600 And listen carefully,

00:32:49.220 I don't know if you picked up

00:32:49.880 on this,

00:32:50.220 yeah?

00:32:50.640 Sister Aya,

00:32:52.100 and tell me if I'm wrong.

00:32:53.660 You said that

00:32:54.700 you're trying to say

00:32:55.360 your husband,

00:32:56.260 now you're saying

00:32:56.860 he was not on Dean

00:32:58.080 just to save your image.

00:33:00.300 It gets worse for you.

00:33:01.760 So you're saying

00:33:02.400 you married a man

00:33:03.260 who's not on Dean.

00:33:04.780 Well,

00:33:04.940 hold on a second,

00:33:05.460 sister.

00:33:05.940 Why did you marry

00:33:06.780 a man who's not on Dean?

00:33:08.340 A man who's not on Dean

00:33:09.260 who doesn't fear Allah 1.00

00:33:09.980 subhanahu wa ta'ala,

00:33:11.000 of course he's going to hurt you.

00:33:12.380 Of course he's not going

00:33:13.040 to give you your right.

00:33:13.760 A man who doesn't give 0.98

00:33:14.600 the right of Allah

00:33:15.160 subhanahu wa ta'ala,

00:33:16.040 would he give you your right?

00:33:17.320 So now,

00:33:18.100 what gets here is worse

00:33:19.380 because people can make mistakes.

00:33:20.520 Look,

00:33:20.620 I can say,

00:33:21.060 you know what,

00:33:21.400 somebody can make a mistake

00:33:22.840 and marry the wrong person 0.97

00:33:24.140 and think they're going

00:33:24.680 to get better.

00:33:25.120 No problem.

00:33:26.020 But it gets worse

00:33:26.980 because sister Aya said,

00:33:28.260 what,

00:33:28.380 in my original video?

00:33:30.120 She said,

00:33:30.620 going forward,

00:33:32.120 I will not never ever,

00:33:34.000 if I bumped my head,

00:33:35.720 marry a man on Dean.

00:33:38.120 Sister,

00:33:38.960 if I married a woman

00:33:40.020 who's not on Dean,

00:33:41.200 going forward,

00:33:42.180 I want a woman 0.96

00:33:42.780 on her Dean,

00:33:44.400 extra pious on her Dean

00:33:45.720 because I learnt my lesson,

00:33:46.760 I bit my tongue,

00:33:47.400 I burnt my tongue.

00:33:48.780 You're saying,

00:33:50.000 look,

00:33:50.320 whichever one you go,

00:33:51.040 it doesn't help you.

00:33:52.440 Your ex was religious, 0.98

00:33:53.720 he traumatized you,

00:33:54.300 that's why you're doing all this

00:33:54.940 and you traumatized yourself.

00:33:55.960 I don't think you should be

00:33:56.380 a trauma coach.

00:33:57.640 Number one.

00:33:58.040 Number two,

00:33:58.480 you're saying now that

00:33:59.200 he was not on Dean,

00:34:00.440 if he's not on Dean,

00:34:02.000 then did you not learn a lesson?

00:34:03.520 Now you're saying,

00:34:04.060 going forward,

00:34:04.440 I'm going to marry a man 0.99

00:34:05.360 who's not on Dean,

00:34:05.840 which is preposterous and crazy.

00:34:08.960 Sister,

00:34:09.440 then I'm going to have to blame you.

00:34:10.960 Yes,

00:34:11.340 I'm going to have to come and say,

00:34:12.020 what kind of men are you picking? 1.00

00:34:14.220 Can you blame me?

00:34:15.100 If I said,

00:34:15.980 I married a woman who's not on Dean,

00:34:18.020 I married a woman who's not on.

00:34:18.800 Wallahi,

00:34:19.280 every single one of you feminists 1.00

00:34:20.200 will hang me upside down

00:34:21.140 and say,

00:34:21.660 look at the kind of woman you're picking 1.00

00:34:22.840 and then you come and take it on us.

00:34:24.660 That's what you're doing.

00:34:25.820 This is why it's your fault.

00:34:27.220 A Muslim's brother is more sanctified

00:34:28.720 than the Kaaba.

00:34:30.020 And casually,

00:34:31.000 people are lying against me,

00:34:34.220 accusing me,

00:34:35.240 slandering me,

00:34:36.580 and you are doing nothing about it.

00:34:39.040 Why?

00:34:39.400 Because I said to you

00:34:41.420 that what you're doing is wrong.

00:34:42.840 Yes?

00:34:43.240 And Bint Athina,

00:34:44.380 shame on you.

00:34:45.800 Shame on you.

00:34:47.120 Yes?

00:34:47.280 And many sisters

00:34:48.520 who are staying silent.

00:34:50.460 If this was a sister's honor,

00:34:51.800 you guys would have ripped

00:34:53.100 your hijabs off. 1.00

00:34:55.720 But when it's a man, 0.60

00:34:57.260 who cares?

00:34:58.260 I have a family.

00:34:59.340 I have daughters.

00:35:00.180 I have my wife.

00:35:01.880 Look how you're dishonoring me

00:35:03.240 because I gave you an Asiyah.

00:35:05.040 Stop generalizing.

00:35:06.560 Not all men are the same. 0.99

00:35:07.480 Man,

00:35:07.940 this is common sense.

00:35:09.240 Stop saying,

00:35:09.660 I don't want a man on Dean.

00:35:10.900 Stop saying,

00:35:11.900 take your baby and leave. 1.00

00:35:13.520 Yeah.

00:35:17.380 Oh! 0.60

00:35:20.240 Where's your hand?

00:35:20.960 I can't see.

00:35:21.400 I can't see.

00:35:22.140 If I win,

00:35:23.260 I pay for food.

00:35:24.040 If you win,

00:35:24.980 I pay for food.

00:35:26.200 Because I'm going to do 50-50. 0.68

00:35:27.380 Well,

00:35:28.420 not with it.

00:35:30.840 Rock,

00:35:31.400 paper,

00:35:31.780 scissors,

00:35:32.140 shoot.

00:35:32.300 It's ironic

00:35:38.340 that the one brother

00:35:39.400 that I would say

00:35:39.960 who is so careful

00:35:40.800 in how he interacts with sisters

00:35:42.000 is the one whose honor

00:35:42.760 is being tarnished

00:35:43.480 and targeted.

00:35:44.680 But I mean,

00:35:45.160 this is what happens

00:35:45.720 when he calls to Allah.

00:35:47.080 You know,

00:35:47.280 in Prophet ﷺ,

00:35:47.780 he was the most,

00:35:48.880 you know,

00:35:50.060 he was known as being truthful,

00:35:51.400 Al-Ameen,

00:35:51.960 and Al-Siddiqa,

00:35:52.620 and the trustworthy,

00:35:53.400 and the truthful,

00:35:53.960 and he was given all these,

00:35:55.260 you know,

00:35:55.480 beautiful titles,

00:35:56.260 yet he was the one

00:35:57.420 who was defamed

00:35:58.020 by the very people

00:35:58.760 that gave him that title.

00:35:59.780 So, you know,

00:36:00.480 out of all the,

00:36:01.160 like,

00:36:01.380 you know,

00:36:01.480 over the years,

00:36:02.340 you know,

00:36:02.480 in the Dawah,

00:36:02.840 you do have interactions

00:36:03.520 with brothers and stuff,

00:36:04.200 and for me,

00:36:04.980 like,

00:36:05.460 one thing I did actually notice

00:36:06.540 about Brother Ali

00:36:07.020 is that,

00:36:07.560 do you remember,

00:36:07.980 like,

00:36:08.100 when I was invited

00:36:09.380 to run the Salah Plus project

00:36:13.040 and Brother Ali was like,

00:36:13.920 I want you to oversee it,

00:36:14.960 and then I was bringing sisters

00:36:16.000 that can,

00:36:17.220 you know,

00:36:17.520 be a part of the team,

00:36:18.520 and every time

00:36:19.220 we've had interactions,

00:36:19.900 it's like,

00:36:20.200 okay,

00:36:20.340 I'm going to put you in a group,

00:36:21.060 and then you're in the group,

00:36:22.080 right?

00:36:22.420 When we met the sisters,

00:36:23.740 and I said,

00:36:24.440 come to the Meschid,

00:36:25.140 and,

00:36:25.320 you know,

00:36:25.900 these sisters will be a part 0.96

00:36:27.020 of the team

00:36:27.460 of teaching Salah,

00:36:28.460 you were there.

00:36:29.360 When I was in Stratford

00:36:30.620 doing that project

00:36:31.620 for Hijab,

00:36:32.240 my husband was there,

00:36:32.940 my husband was there

00:36:33.520 with Brother Ali.

00:36:34.300 So,

00:36:34.840 there's always been that,

00:36:35.760 you know,

00:36:36.220 like,

00:36:36.720 trying to avoid

00:36:37.820 being alone,

00:36:39.060 having alone conversations,

00:36:40.400 making sure that our wives

00:36:41.380 or our husbands

00:36:41.880 are aware of what's going on.

00:36:43.260 He's actually,

00:36:43.840 like,

00:36:44.040 goes to that,

00:36:44.960 does the extra step

00:36:45.880 in tightening those areas

00:36:47.380 where Shaytan possibly could,

00:36:49.060 you know,

00:36:49.240 even though I'm an older sister,

00:36:50.220 I'm older than him,

00:36:50.880 you know,

00:36:51.260 I've got my own family,

00:36:52.020 I've got my own kids,

00:36:52.900 but even still,

00:36:53.720 even with me,

00:36:54.540 Allahumma'alaikum,

00:36:55.000 like,

00:36:55.160 he's actually been so careful,

00:36:57.440 you know,

00:36:57.780 and that's how he's been,

00:36:58.940 like,

00:36:59.040 the sisters were like,

00:36:59.740 yeah,

00:36:59.940 we don't have conversations

00:37:01.400 with Brother Ali,

00:37:02.480 you know,

00:37:02.720 even when I've seen

00:37:03.600 sisters have gone down

00:37:04.520 for filming or studios,

00:37:06.300 there's no,

00:37:07.000 like,

00:37:07.540 he's actually very formal,

00:37:08.620 Allahumma'alaikum,

00:37:09.000 and I was like,

00:37:09.420 if only people knew

00:37:10.340 how he actually is,

00:37:11.260 and I see that,

00:37:11.780 and I see,

00:37:12.080 obviously,

00:37:12.380 like,

00:37:12.560 I've got a friendship,

00:37:13.220 I've got a relationship with you,

00:37:14.180 I need some things done,

00:37:15.080 or,

00:37:15.260 you know,

00:37:15.460 I'll speak,

00:37:16.140 you're there,

00:37:16.540 you know everything

00:37:16.980 that's going on,

00:37:17.980 and I thought,

00:37:18.600 you know what,

00:37:18.920 Allahumma'alaikum,

00:37:19.380 like,

00:37:19.560 I've actually seen him,

00:37:20.500 and that's also giving you

00:37:21.840 that honor of a wife,

00:37:23.920 that,

00:37:24.100 you know,

00:37:24.220 subhanAllah,

00:37:24.560 how he has involved you,

00:37:25.380 people don't know you,

00:37:26.000 people don't know your face,

00:37:26.680 people don't know your name,

00:37:27.340 people don't know your voice,

00:37:28.260 because you chose not to put yourself

00:37:29.560 out there like that,

00:37:30.600 but,

00:37:31.300 you know,

00:37:31.520 subhanAllah,

00:37:32.000 sometimes I see things,

00:37:33.120 like,

00:37:33.360 being said about him,

00:37:34.440 I just think,

00:37:34.780 if only people knew

00:37:35.320 the truth of the matter,

00:37:37.540 so,

00:37:38.240 you know,

00:37:38.980 but,

00:37:39.200 anyways,

00:37:39.560 we don't live for the people,

00:37:40.280 we live for Allah,

00:37:46.540 upholding the laws

00:37:48.700 and the advice

00:37:49.320 that's been set out

00:37:50.000 by Allah and the Prophet,

00:37:51.200 sallallahu alayhi wa sallam,

00:37:51.820 so,

00:37:52.420 okay,

00:37:56.040 let's carry on,

00:37:56.700 watch this now,

00:37:57.100 now,

00:37:57.580 she's making accusations, 0.52

00:37:58.980 now,

00:37:59.180 Sister Aya,

00:37:59.780 you have to bring evidence to this,

00:38:01.360 and this is what you talk,

00:38:02.700 cool,

00:38:03.440 narcissistic behavior,

00:38:04.920 yes,

00:38:05.480 because she doesn't want to be proven wrong,

00:38:06.840 yeah,

00:38:07.680 to be corrected,

00:38:08.680 manipulation and gaslighting

00:38:10.100 at its finest,

00:38:10.820 watch and tell me I'm wrong,

00:38:11.920 if I'm wrong,

00:38:12.380 I'm going to repent,

00:38:13.160 you dower bros 0.99

00:38:13.660 are going to need some consequences

00:38:14.640 in order to act right,

00:38:15.620 for so long,

00:38:16.540 you have all gotten away

00:38:17.560 with creating these smear campaigns

00:38:18.820 against women,

00:38:19.640 silencing women,

00:38:20.240 forcing them to delete their socials,

00:38:21.380 forcing them to disappear,

00:38:22.420 making other women scared to speak up,

00:38:23.680 okay,

00:38:23.860 good,

00:38:24.060 so,

00:38:24.320 the claim is what,

00:38:24.960 we have gone and bullied women, 0.95

00:38:26.940 because they are women, 1.00

00:38:28.980 Sister Aya,

00:38:30.340 we don't buy it,

00:38:31.740 genuinely,

00:38:32.480 nobody buys it,

00:38:33.940 do you have any evidence,

00:38:35.640 show me one video of mine,

00:38:37.600 look,

00:38:37.680 here's a challenge for you,

00:38:39.580 an open challenge,

00:38:41.660 and then put it on,

00:38:42.280 I will borrow money,

00:38:43.280 I will give you 10,000 pound sister, 1.00

00:38:46.520 I,

00:38:47.040 wallahi,

00:38:47.680 I will borrow that body,

00:38:48.740 please tell me,

00:38:49.720 a single video I've done,

00:38:50.760 a single Instagram post,

00:38:51.820 that is me attacking a sister,

00:38:54.400 or bruh,

00:38:54.800 whoever it is,

00:38:55.940 just because of their gender,

00:38:57.160 not because of what they've said,

00:38:58.340 which we're going to find out now,

00:38:59.320 look,

00:38:59.540 this is what I'm going to prove to you guys,

00:39:01.740 her manipulation,

00:39:02.720 and narcissistic behavior,

00:39:04.260 full blown gaslighting,

00:39:05.940 she warping reality,

00:39:07.460 hear it for yourself,

00:39:08.180 you guys have continued oppressing women this way,

00:39:09.920 because you've had to face no consequences,

00:39:11.680 so this is the last time Ali,

00:39:13.000 every time you use your platform now,

00:39:14.960 to attempt to destroy a woman's reputation, 1.00

00:39:17.100 destroy her mental health, 0.88

00:39:18.000 destroy her peace, 0.50

00:39:18.880 you are going to be faced with the same kind of backlash that you're facing,

00:39:20.640 she's basically saying,

00:39:22.620 you cannot take us to account,

00:39:24.420 and I'm saying sister,

00:39:25.200 over my dead body,

00:39:26.380 I don't care the entire nation,

00:39:28.300 of feminist radical came to me, 1.00

00:39:30.340 wallahi,

00:39:30.840 you're never going to stop me,

00:39:31.580 let me just make that clear,

00:39:32.340 wallahi,

00:39:33.400 you're never going to stop me,

00:39:33.980 if you come out again,

00:39:34.820 and do some,

00:39:35.800 mad video against Islam,

00:39:38.100 I'm going to do the same thing again,

00:39:38.980 nothing's going to stop me,

00:39:39.980 so now,

00:39:40.940 let's see,

00:39:41.860 what's the evidence she has,

00:39:42.500 because she's claiming,

00:39:43.280 we just want a woman not to talk etc, 1.00

00:39:45.160 let's see what's the evidence she produces, 0.99

00:39:46.980 right now,

00:39:47.420 the same way you tried it with me last year,

00:39:48.900 the same way you tried it with Jamila,

00:39:49.960 the same way you tried it with,

00:39:50.640 the same way you tried it with Modest Street's daughter,

00:39:52.480 oh okay,

00:39:53.240 Jamila,

00:39:53.980 good,

00:39:54.460 okay let's play this step by step,

00:39:55.920 Jamila,

00:39:56.400 okay yep,

00:39:57.140 the same way you tried it with Modest Street's daughter,

00:39:58.700 a little child,

00:39:59.480 the same way you tried it with Dina Tokyo,

00:40:00.820 all those years ago,

00:40:01.540 and Dina Tokyo,

00:40:02.340 good,

00:40:02.680 let's analyse them one by one,

00:40:04.800 let's see if there's basis,

00:40:06.600 and she will never answer this,

00:40:08.660 number one,

00:40:09.260 Jamila,

00:40:09.720 she rejects Hadith,

00:40:10.680 anyone that rejects Hadith is a kafir, 1.00

00:40:12.220 Jamila is somebody who was doing videos about me,

00:40:14.720 look she,

00:40:15.320 me and Mohammed Ijian were on her timeline,

00:40:17.720 for years,

00:40:18.560 I didn't even know who she was,

00:40:19.500 until I found out she rejects Hadith,

00:40:21.120 she insults Imam Bukhari,

00:40:22.720 but Imam Bukhari,

00:40:24.780 some perverts,

00:40:25.900 waited,

00:40:26.560 until the Prophet has passed away,

00:40:28.440 and then he came up,

00:40:29.700 with,

00:40:30.120 with some books,

00:40:32.680 trying to make things halal again,

00:40:35.460 Imam Bukhari,

00:40:36.120 she's rejecting a Hadith,

00:40:38.540 she's indirectly insulting the Prophet,

00:40:40.560 are you going to talk about that,

00:40:42.080 no you're not,

00:40:42.900 okay,

00:40:43.280 so did I go and just say,

00:40:44.140 I'm going to pick on Jamila, 0.55

00:40:44.820 why,

00:40:45.060 I'm just bored bro,

00:40:46.600 I just want to attack some sisters, 1.00

00:40:48.460 no,

00:40:49.220 bring me evidence,

00:40:49.740 no,

00:40:50.260 I refuted her wife, 0.99

00:40:51.460 because I had Hadith rejection,

00:40:52.820 she was talking to me,

00:40:54.140 a married man,

00:40:54.820 in a sexual way,

00:40:55.940 all of her videos are sexual,

00:40:57.540 they're all sexual,

00:40:58.300 man's penis, 1.00

00:40:59.000 this,

00:40:59.200 that,

00:40:59.400 etc,

00:40:59.620 all she's doing is a sexual tension, 1.00

00:41:01.940 this,

00:41:02.360 I can come,

00:41:03.580 why would a woman, 0.99

00:41:05.500 why would a woman say, 0.99

00:41:06.780 I can come,

00:41:08.140 unlike your wife, 0.98

00:41:10.140 why is it you always,

00:41:11.480 whenever I call you guys out,

00:41:12.280 you either attack my wife, 0.73

00:41:13.560 or,

00:41:14.300 have something sexual with me, 0.70

00:41:16.020 what is it,

00:41:17.640 now Jamila was because of that,

00:41:18.860 so,

00:41:19.460 that was not true,

00:41:20.660 that I didn't attack her,

00:41:21.480 for the,

00:41:22.060 etc,

00:41:22.280 I gave her Naseya,

00:41:23.020 and warned against her,

00:41:23.620 and I'll tell you clearly,

00:41:24.360 number two,

00:41:24.860 you talked about Kay,

00:41:25.960 the very sister,

00:41:27.340 calling the Prophet,

00:41:28.240 Disgusting,

00:41:30.780 would you ever mention that,

00:41:32.240 no you wouldn't,

00:41:33.240 cause his wife to bed, 1.00

00:41:34.580 and she refuses,

00:41:35.860 and he goes to sleep,

00:41:37.180 angry with her,

00:41:37.960 the angels curse her, 0.95

00:41:39.060 until morning,

00:41:40.060 this is disgusting,

00:41:41.600 cause you back up sisters, 1.00

00:41:42.700 this is back up sisters,

00:41:43.620 against even,

00:41:44.380 our loyalties,

00:41:45.100 came out,

00:41:45.660 and was attacking Hadith,

00:41:47.360 Hadith,

00:41:48.460 attacking the Prophet,

00:41:49.100 so did we attack her,

00:41:50.100 cause she's a woman, 1.00

00:41:50.860 no we didn't,

00:41:52.000 okay good,

00:41:52.520 you talked about Mother Street's,

00:41:53.780 daughter,

00:41:54.460 she left the house,

00:41:56.100 she left the house,

00:41:57.040 and turned against her mum,

00:41:58.560 do you know it's a major sin,

00:41:59.520 you have a daughter,

00:42:00.860 you have a daughter,

00:42:01.740 and I know you're not gonna like this video,

00:42:02.920 cause you've been called out,

00:42:04.040 and evidence is in fact,

00:42:05.320 Quran and Sunnah,

00:42:06.680 the Prophet,

00:42:07.100 Allah says in the Quran,

00:42:08.280 you should not even say,

00:42:09.220 uff to your mother, 0.98

00:42:10.420 yes,

00:42:11.120 Jannah is under the feet of your mother, 0.99

00:42:12.860 your mother,

00:42:13.360 your mother,

00:42:13.760 your mother,

00:42:14.140 your father,

00:42:15.000 yes,

00:42:15.680 okay,

00:42:17.060 and I advised her,

00:42:18.880 and you're telling me,

00:42:20.440 that I was wrong for telling her,

00:42:22.200 respect your mum,

00:42:22.940 and go back,

00:42:23.520 are you okay,

00:42:26.100 your duty towards your mother,

00:42:27.700 as great as,

00:42:28.200 so you're telling me,

00:42:30.400 no no no no,

00:42:31.000 so you see the way she manipulates, 0.71

00:42:32.820 and gaslight,

00:42:33.180 and says,

00:42:33.500 oh you just picked up on a child,

00:42:34.820 where's the context,

00:42:35.660 there you go,

00:42:36.040 did I attack her,

00:42:37.980 because she's a female, 1.00

00:42:39.040 no,

00:42:39.880 Dina Tokyo,

00:42:40.580 you know what I find very interesting,

00:42:41.780 we've done three or four videos,

00:42:43.180 regarding Dina Tokyo,

00:42:44.900 and subhanallah,

00:42:46.400 and she was a narcissist like you, 0.85

00:42:48.100 by the way,

00:42:48.480 yeah,

00:42:48.620 we've done a video supporting her,

00:42:50.000 when she was like on the verge,

00:42:50.840 of taking a hijab off,

00:42:51.860 me and Musa done a video,

00:42:52.720 saying sister,

00:42:53.540 may Allah make it easy for you,

00:42:54.820 bro she came,

00:42:55.580 we did not even attack her,

00:42:56.900 but we've done a video,

00:42:57.640 just saying sister,

00:42:58.580 you know,

00:42:58.780 may Allah make you,

00:42:59.680 you know,

00:42:59.960 allow you to,

00:43:00.520 you know,

00:43:00.840 overcome this obstacle,

00:43:01.740 whatever,

00:43:02.320 brother,

00:43:02.660 she started insulting us,

00:43:03.920 okay,

00:43:05.460 just like yourself,

00:43:06.600 now,

00:43:07.040 what's really interesting is this,

00:43:08.240 you mentioned Dina Tokyo,

00:43:09.700 but we also attacked Sid,

00:43:11.120 her husband,

00:43:12.100 but you don't mention that,

00:43:13.800 it goes back to this claim,

00:43:15.260 where you generalize all men,

00:43:17.120 do you see the pattern,

00:43:18.300 you keep talking about men,

00:43:19.580 men,

00:43:20.000 men,

00:43:20.280 men,

00:43:20.600 sister you have a trauma,

00:43:22.400 may Allah heal you,

00:43:23.500 but you have trauma,

00:43:24.680 and you're a trauma coach,

00:43:25.760 that's a trauma within itself,

00:43:27.860 that's,

00:43:28.320 it's traumatizing me to know,

00:43:29.680 that a trauma coach,

00:43:30.500 who has a trauma,

00:43:31.820 is a trauma coach,

00:43:33.540 please think about,

00:43:35.600 and you are not even talking about Sid,

00:43:38.360 we've done videos,

00:43:39.740 actually,

00:43:40.700 attacking Sid,

00:43:41.560 and defending Dina,

00:43:42.300 where she had more Hayat,

00:43:43.060 than her own husband,

00:43:44.120 talking in a vogue way,

00:43:44.880 in front of his wife,

00:43:46.320 and his Qafri statement,

00:43:47.460 which he said,

00:43:48.120 oh,

00:43:48.400 I was a better person,

00:43:49.280 before I came to Islam,

00:43:50.880 or something along those religion,

00:43:51.960 those parts,

00:43:52.860 and,

00:43:53.600 you don't even give a context to Dina,

00:43:54.980 Dina was saying,

00:43:56.120 that a non,

00:43:57.080 she was promoting a page,

00:43:59.200 that promotes homosexuality, 0.98

00:44:00.760 and she was saying,

00:44:01.640 Muslim women can marry non-Muslim men, 0.52

00:44:04.900 so I thought we attacked them,

00:44:05.980 because we just don't want their voice,

00:44:07.660 it's very bizarre,

00:44:08.500 I don't want women to speak, 1.00

00:44:09.540 I take their voice,

00:44:10.460 but I'm the one who got attacked,

00:44:11.560 accused of being free mixing,

00:44:12.520 when I had a bit of truth show,

00:44:13.460 and I gave women a voice,

00:44:14.920 uh-uh,

00:44:15.780 narcissistic,

00:44:16.620 manipulating,

00:44:17.260 grasslighting women, 1.00

00:44:18.080 like Sister Aya,

00:44:18.960 sadly,

00:44:19.640 does this,

00:44:20.240 and I've just proved to you,

00:44:21.480 with evidences,

00:44:23.000 she made four people, 0.99

00:44:24.300 as an example,

00:44:24.840 Jameela,

00:44:25.580 that Bengali sister,

00:44:26.540 Kay,

00:44:26.980 the Mother Street's daughter,

00:44:28.240 and who?

00:44:28.760 Dina Tokio,

00:44:29.600 she doesn't even mention us attacking men,

00:44:31.620 you know what that means,

00:44:32.360 she's like,

00:44:32.740 attack them,

00:44:33.840 she doesn't care,

00:44:49.620 we have put together,

00:44:50.720 and compiled,

00:44:51.700 10 things that she says,

00:44:53.020 that makes a narcissist,

00:44:53.800 and she ticks every single one of those boxes,

00:44:57.140 don't take my word for it,

00:44:58.620 watch it for yourself.

00:45:02.620 ...is actually someone who had an inflated sense of self-importance.

00:45:05.200 I think that I may be,

00:45:06.600 the voice of my generation.

00:45:09.800 They have a deep need for admiration,

00:45:11.600 genuinely because they are so wildly attracted to me,

00:45:13.160 and that might sound like a joke,

00:45:13.720 but I'm being very serious here,

00:45:14.560 pay close attention to the kinds of women,

00:45:16.200 these men are so adamant on dragging down,

00:45:17.780 and making videos about,

00:45:18.340 they are always very beautiful,

00:45:19.300 stunning women, 0.99

00:45:19.780 these guy beautiful women, 1.00

00:45:20.600 ultimately these beautiful women, 0.97

00:45:21.400 that they would normally objectify,

00:45:22.220 and desire,

00:45:22.680 are angry,

00:45:23.140 that I'm not playing the role,

00:45:23.880 that they accept from maybe school women,

00:45:24.880 that they desire,

00:45:25.400 and they have a complete lack of empathy.

00:45:26.740 Just talk about it,

00:45:27.420 because I know that I'm pretty,

00:45:28.440 and you know it's children,

00:45:29.460 babies will give me all I don't need,

00:45:31.140 when I want to give,

00:45:32.120 just talk about it,

00:45:32.700 because I know that I'm pretty,

00:45:33.760 and you talk about it,

00:45:34.440 because I know that I'm pretty,

00:45:35.440 and you...

00:45:35.660 My wife is saying,

00:45:36.280 you went through that,

00:45:36.860 and said,

00:45:37.140 I'm going to wake up for so far alone,

00:45:38.100 I'm going to break my past alone,

00:45:39.040 sometimes her dad will take an hour to alone me,

00:45:40.520 and at the same breath,

00:45:41.360 sister,

00:45:41.520 look what you've turned into,

00:45:42.200 my wife's saying,

00:45:42.540 you want the same thing,

00:45:44.360 for me and my family.

00:45:46.480 Like,

00:45:46.840 sister,

00:45:47.120 if this is not evil,

00:45:48.120 they thrive on control,

00:45:49.500 and when that control slips,

00:45:50.620 they will lash out.

00:45:54.460 And we certainly do not meet,

00:45:55.400 your permission,

00:45:56.120 or approval,

00:45:56.760 to take up space.

00:45:57.340 And I know what you're going to say,

00:45:58.200 but I gave you my message to speak,

00:45:59.080 I have you on my code card.

00:45:59.960 No,

00:46:00.300 that's not what we're talking about,

00:46:00.960 when you say,

00:46:01.180 when you're allowed to have space.

00:46:01.820 We're not talking about space,

00:46:02.580 that you create,

00:46:03.240 and you control,

00:46:03.760 and you moderate.

00:46:04.260 We're not talking about,

00:46:04.940 being invited to sleep,

00:46:05.640 under your supervision.

00:46:06.220 That's not what we mean by,

00:46:07.020 when you're allowed to take up space.

00:46:07.700 We don't need you to create out the space.

00:46:08.940 We don't need you shutting down the space,

00:46:09.920 that we are creating ourselves,

00:46:10.840 to replace it with a filtered,

00:46:11.840 censored,

00:46:12.480 male approved panel.

00:46:13.240 We don't need you deciding,

00:46:14.080 who sits at the table.

00:46:20.360 Some of the typical tactics,

00:46:21.700 that a narcissist will use,

00:46:22.540 when they lash out,

00:46:23.280 are things such as projection.

00:46:24.720 So,

00:46:25.120 accusing others of being,

00:46:25.880 the very thing,

00:46:26.600 that you know about yourself.

00:46:33.500 Accusing others of being,

00:46:34.180 the very thing,

00:46:34.680 that you know about yourself.

00:46:37.700 Whether that man is abusive,

00:46:39.780 maybe he can't push you in bed,

00:46:40.700 or maybe he just keeps embarrassing you,

00:46:41.600 by being really obsessed with,

00:46:42.480 dragging down people with no mind.

00:46:43.480 Whatever your reason may be,

00:46:44.140 I'm here to help you,

00:46:44.760 leave that bum once and all. 1.00

00:46:45.640 Gaslighting,

00:46:46.300 so twisting reality,

00:46:47.400 to make people question the truth.

00:46:48.800 Just like Ali did, 0.95

00:46:49.880 when he accused Jamila,

00:46:50.820 of inappropriately messaging him,

00:46:52.080 when Jamila actually proved on her page,

00:46:53.600 that he had been DMing her,

00:46:54.900 dozens and dozens of times,

00:46:55.980 mocking her,

00:46:56.420 taunting her,

00:46:56.840 criticizing her,

00:46:57.560 before she had even accepted,

00:46:58.520 the DM request.

00:47:03.480 It will use shaming and humiliation,

00:47:05.100 just like Ali has tried to mock,

00:47:06.380 every single one of our looks.

00:47:07.100 I've got emotional states,

00:47:08.180 in order to try and discredit us.

00:47:09.280 So no,

00:47:09.980 and what I'm not gonna do,

00:47:10.820 is make you emotionally frail men, 0.76

00:47:12.660 feel better about yourselves,

00:47:13.580 by saying,

00:47:14.280 yeah they're good men.

00:47:14.960 The fact that some of you men,

00:47:15.820 are getting so angry,

00:47:16.960 at a single mother on TikTok,

00:47:17.960 warning women about using them,

00:47:19.060 it's really just telling me,

00:47:19.720 you guys have very full numbers,

00:47:20.440 to explain to you.

00:47:21.380 And honestly,

00:47:21.740 the audacity needs to be funny,

00:47:22.400 because it's the way that they,

00:47:23.380 are putting themselves,

00:47:24.560 in the same sentence,

00:47:25.620 as the Prophet Muhammad,

00:47:26.540 so that was a good one.

00:47:27.080 I have to order you my clothes guys,

00:47:27.960 because the men are very angry,

00:47:29.620 and this is serious business.

00:47:30.780 This is actually a really good example,

00:47:31.520 of what an emasculated man looks like,

00:47:32.660 and I'm pretty sure this person,

00:47:33.520 is still a child.

00:47:34.120 So it's really sad,

00:47:34.980 to see boys so young,

00:47:36.200 already feel,

00:47:36.960 that deeply insecure,

00:47:37.780 and emasculated within themselves.

00:47:38.700 They also use victimhood,

00:47:39.620 such as taking a topic,

00:47:40.400 that had absolutely nothing to do with him,

00:47:41.780 feeling the need to defend himself,

00:47:42.840 to make it look like,

00:47:43.360 he's being criticized for no reason.

00:47:44.460 You've already already seen some consequences,

00:47:45.240 in the fact right.

00:47:45.580 For so long,

00:47:46.060 you have all gone away with creativity,

00:47:46.760 smear hands against women, 0.64

00:47:47.360 silencing them,

00:47:47.680 force them to be a social,

00:47:48.120 force them to disappear, 0.71

00:47:48.600 make other women see a secar, 0.98

00:47:49.180 can I continue your person in this way,

00:47:49.900 because you have to face those consequences.

00:47:50.520 So this is the last primary,

00:47:51.300 every time you use your path now,

00:47:52.180 to attempt to destroy everyone's reputation,

00:47:53.140 destroy women's health, 1.00

00:47:53.520 destroy people's health,

00:47:53.720 and have to be done such deep in a work,

00:47:54.560 that was so deeply rooted in themselves,

00:47:55.760 that isn't bothered by the opinions of others.

00:47:56.860 Imagine I wasn't in this good mental state,

00:47:58.320 and here is a dower bro,

00:47:59.060 a religious figure,

00:47:59.800 who has incited a hate campaign,

00:48:00.980 against a single mother,

00:48:02.240 because he didn't like my opinions,

00:48:03.140 that had nothing to do with him.

00:48:03.940 Sighted hate.

00:48:04.360 I have received so much hate,

00:48:05.300 so,

00:48:05.480 such a huge like,

00:48:06.240 threats,

00:48:06.560 and men like threatened,

00:48:07.300 you know,

00:48:07.700 neither has bothered me,

00:48:08.220 but that doesn't mean it's okay.

00:48:09.220 It doesn't mean it's okay,

00:48:09.900 you know,

00:48:10.100 I have made a peace report,

00:48:11.140 I've already had to go to the peace

00:48:11.840 and make a peace report,

00:48:12.500 because of some of the threats I've gotten.

00:48:15.120 Of course they will come with their same campaigns,

00:48:16.260 because when they can't control people,

00:48:17.560 they will then try to control

00:48:18.260 how other people see them.

00:48:19.060 They will try to destroy someone's reputation,

00:48:20.760 by outright lying about them,

00:48:22.080 twisting and manipulating their words,

00:48:23.360 telling people that they have left the fold of Islam,

00:48:24.740 just some of the exact things

00:48:25.920 that Mr. Ali Dower has said against women.

00:48:32.360 Now are so angry at me,

00:48:34.220 are trying so hard to drag me down,

00:48:36.000 are coming for my eyelashes,

00:48:37.680 it's genuinely because they are so wildly attracted to me,

00:48:40.100 I know you have desperately been waiting

00:48:42.200 to hear your name come out of my lips,

00:48:43.760 and so here it is Ali,

00:48:45.120 this video is for me.

00:49:03.440 Allah subhanAllah says in the Quran,

00:49:04.660 you might hate something which is good for you,

00:49:05.780 and you might love something which is bad for you.

00:49:06.880 This is a key lesson in this situation,

00:49:08.540 one sister subhanAllah.

00:49:09.440 You know why?

00:49:10.300 Because,

00:49:10.900 alhamdulillah,

00:49:11.360 I know,

00:49:11.920 yes,

00:49:12.300 the whole situation,

00:49:13.000 the way it panned out,

00:49:13.700 yes,

00:49:13.900 how everyone jumped on the bandwagon,

00:49:15.120 et cetera,

00:49:15.680 slandering me,

00:49:16.200 smear campaign,

00:49:16.740 you name it.

00:49:17.560 Okay,

00:49:17.780 this individual,

00:49:18.640 I'm going to be talking about right now,

00:49:19.560 Kez,

00:49:19.880 okay,

00:49:20.060 I know you've been Bradford,

00:49:20.900 I know your date of birth,

00:49:21.400 I know your full name,

00:49:21.920 okay,

00:49:22.200 I'm only saying this because you know what,

00:49:23.080 you're a coward,

00:49:23.540 I messaged you on TikTok,

00:49:24.180 you blocked me,

00:49:24.960 I messaged you on WhatsApp,

00:49:25.580 I've got your number by the way,

00:49:26.200 okay,

00:49:26.480 I know where you live,

00:49:27.260 and subhanAllah,

00:49:27.700 let me tell you something,

00:49:28.280 me and you are going to meet,

00:49:29.080 why?

00:49:29.400 Because you brought my wife into this,

00:49:30.920 out of everybody,

00:49:31.580 I have dealt with the enemies of Islam for 13 years, 0.97

00:49:33.280 the ones that I even hate the most,

00:49:34.560 okay,

00:49:34.900 let me tell you something,

00:49:35.440 okay,

00:49:35.680 I try my best to ever not get the woman, 1.00

00:49:37.660 a wife,

00:49:38.020 et cetera,

00:49:38.380 okay,

00:49:38.840 there might be people that have really been hostile towards Islam,

00:49:40.740 okay,

00:49:41.140 whose wives may have got involved,

00:49:42.900 that's why maybe I'll just mention it,

00:49:44.080 but I'm very careful to not mention other people's wives,

00:49:46.480 because they've got nothing to do with this,

00:49:47.180 okay,

00:49:47.420 unless they include themselves,

00:49:48.360 okay,

00:49:48.540 so my friend,

00:49:49.600 you are a coward,

00:49:50.460 you know why?

00:49:50.980 Because you mentioned my wife's name,

00:49:52.360 look at this video guys,

00:49:52.960 in this video,

00:49:53.260 he's trying his best to laugh,

00:49:54.800 you know,

00:49:54.960 trying to react to it with his fake laugh,

00:49:56.200 you can see it on his face,

00:49:56.780 okay,

00:49:56.960 what kind of a fake person he is,

00:49:58.200 and look at what he said about my wife,

00:49:59.620 and his wife's probably in the closet somewhere,

00:50:01.140 he's like,

00:50:01.740 which woman would allow this to happen, 1.00

00:50:03.100 except this,

00:50:03.480 like your man,

00:50:04.120 your man,

00:50:04.800 in the name of Dawah,

00:50:06.080 in the name of religion,

00:50:07.080 he's obsessing over a woman,

00:50:08.760 like,

00:50:09.100 you know,

00:50:09.340 like when a man's got high testosterone,

00:50:10.860 and he's not getting it from his wife,

00:50:12.000 he's not getting any actions,

00:50:12.940 and he's just frustrated,

00:50:14.080 this is frustration,

00:50:15.000 so he's just,

00:50:15.380 so you find me moving,

00:50:16.100 you know,

00:50:16.860 it's very interesting,

00:50:17.400 you project,

00:50:17.760 you project just like Aya,

00:50:19.460 you sound like an artist,

00:50:20.200 just like her,

00:50:20.740 you know why?

00:50:21.200 Because you're here saying,

00:50:22.420 that,

00:50:22.800 and I think you're single,

00:50:23.420 you're not even married,

00:50:24.100 yes,

00:50:24.400 you're single,

00:50:24.720 you're not even married,

00:50:25.300 and not only that,

00:50:25.580 you're selling these shilajit things,

00:50:26.900 testosterone,

00:50:27.280 abuse,

00:50:27.440 whatever it is for that matter,

00:50:28.080 if you're a bit frustrated,

00:50:28.960 because your wife's ain't sleeping with you, 1.00

00:50:30.160 bro,

00:50:30.600 maybe it's because she hasn't got energy,

00:50:32.340 so what you need to get her,

00:50:33.200 bro,

00:50:33.380 is this shilajit,

00:50:34.560 probably flavour,

00:50:35.480 it's got your shilajit and your honey,

00:50:37.420 wow,

00:50:38.580 mm,

00:50:39.100 oof,

00:50:39.820 mm,

00:50:40.380 oof,

00:50:41.100 mm,

00:50:41.660 oof,

00:50:42.380 mm,

00:50:42.960 oof,

00:50:43.280 my friend,

00:50:44.040 are you projecting,

00:50:44.600 like seriously,

00:50:44.940 are you,

00:50:45.240 are you,

00:50:45.520 what is it that with you guys,

00:50:46.620 every accusation is a confession,

00:50:48.560 and Allah will expose you, 0.99

00:50:49.240 and you got exposed,

00:50:49.920 look how it backfired,

00:50:50.680 oh he looks evil,

00:50:51.540 he looks evil,

00:50:51.880 whatever that means,

00:50:52.460 oh therefore it makes me evil,

00:50:53.640 you had an issue with me,

00:50:54.880 and you made 25 videos like Aya,

00:50:56.420 20 videos about me,

00:50:57.220 okay,

00:50:57.560 obsessed with me,

00:50:58.040 you made these videos about me,

00:50:59.260 and you're saying what?

00:51:00.200 You're saying that subhanAllah, 0.98

00:51:01.240 that apparently caused me,

00:51:02.060 mention the eyelashes and the makeup,

00:51:03.460 can you imagine,

00:51:04.000 that's the reason why I'm a bad dawa guy, 1.00

00:51:05.520 why,

00:51:05.800 because I mentioned that,

00:51:06.760 but at the same ref,

00:51:07.420 you mentioned my wife,

00:51:08.040 which one is worse,

00:51:08.560 you shameless slimy man,

00:51:10.020 okay,

00:51:10.300 you're a coward,

00:51:10.940 okay,

00:51:11.340 which one is worse,

00:51:12.020 me mentioning makeup and lashes,

00:51:12.960 which is not that deep,

00:51:13.720 you mentioning that indirectly,

00:51:15.120 I don't get intimacy from my wife, 1.00

00:51:16.540 that's what I'm mentioning,

00:51:17.000 which one's worse,

00:51:17.700 you hypocrite, 0.79

00:51:18.800 you're a hypocrite bro,

00:51:19.840 you're a hypocrite,

00:51:20.540 when the people called you and said,

00:51:21.440 why are you not calling that Aya,

00:51:22.280 yes,

00:51:22.640 you said,

00:51:22.920 oh don't talk about it,

00:51:23.680 I'm not going to,

00:51:24.280 et cetera,

00:51:24.960 you're a coward,

00:51:25.820 and let me just give you an advice,

00:51:26.620 before I end this,

00:51:27.000 okay,

00:51:27.440 let me tell you something,

00:51:28.360 listen,

00:51:28.640 if you think,

00:51:29.020 I came from a jahiliya,

00:51:29.980 nothing that I'm proud of,

00:51:30.580 alhamdulillah,

00:51:30.940 yes,

00:51:31.160 and Islam as well,

00:51:31.780 I have some understanding of female psychology, 1.00

00:51:33.160 if you think bro,

00:51:33.760 this is going to get you a wife, 1.00

00:51:34.980 the way you're moving bro,

00:51:35.460 let me tell you something bro,

00:51:35.940 they're all going to come and say,

00:51:36.520 you're the man et cetera,

00:51:37.400 but none of them will take you as a husband,

00:51:38.520 let me tell you,

00:51:38.740 you know why,

00:51:39.060 because you look weak,

00:51:39.520 you look like you have a backbone,

00:51:40.380 you don't understand,

00:51:40.740 you're just someone who's just sucking up to woman bro, 0.96

00:51:42.420 you look like that and it's clear,

00:51:43.660 you behave like a simp bro,

00:51:45.020 I'm telling you to your face,

00:51:45.740 if you think,

00:51:46.540 you have a chance,

00:51:47.340 with any of these sisters,

00:51:48.080 and maybe you're after marrying sister Aya,

00:51:49.200 which is fine,

00:51:49.520 you can get married,

00:51:49.940 alhamdulillah,

00:51:50.220 but bro,

00:51:50.480 I'm genuinely telling you bro,

00:51:51.340 you're not batting an eye at you,

00:51:52.160 without your respect,

00:51:52.580 if you think this is going to get you a wife brother,

00:51:54.520 it's not going to work,

00:51:55.480 and finally on this chapter guys,

00:51:56.640 what I want to say to follow,

00:51:57.560 this is not about sister Aya,

00:51:59.200 this issue is far bigger than sister Aya,

00:52:01.160 this is something that's becoming a trend,

00:52:02.780 okay,

00:52:03.060 and we can see this through our dawah tables,

00:52:04.660 we can see on social media,

00:52:06.060 and it is growing,

00:52:07.080 sadly,

00:52:07.580 okay,

00:52:07.880 and it is toxic femininity, 1.00

00:52:09.000 and toxic masculinity, 1.00

00:52:09.960 both extremes of red pill,

00:52:11.200 and feminism, 1.00

00:52:11.960 okay,

00:52:12.280 and we're there to battle both of that,

00:52:13.360 because the middle path is what,

00:52:14.720 is Islam,

00:52:15.580 and brothers,

00:52:16.120 and I'm telling you guys,

00:52:16.820 you guys are the leaders,

00:52:17.520 Allah has made you to be leader,

00:52:18.320 we need to know better,

00:52:19.040 and it's a message to me first,

00:52:19.920 there's a lot of things that I need to learn,

00:52:20.960 but let me tell you something,

00:52:21.740 okay,

00:52:22.020 if there's one thing,

00:52:23.100 abusing,

00:52:23.820 I do not,

00:52:24.680 alhamdulillah,

00:52:25.440 yes,

00:52:25.900 be it physically,

00:52:26.960 yes,

00:52:27.440 and I'm telling it,

00:52:27.980 okay,

00:52:28.200 be it physically,

00:52:29.180 yes,

00:52:29.520 verbally,

00:52:29.980 religiously,

00:52:35.980 I'm a husband as a leader,

00:52:36.660 it's okay,

00:52:37.060 there might be times when me and my wife, 0.98

00:52:38.220 I shout at each other,

00:52:39.100 it can happen,

00:52:40.080 as long as certain boundaries are not crossed,

00:52:41.840 this happens with everyone,

00:52:42.740 and let me tell you something guys,

00:52:43.440 okay,

00:52:43.720 and I say this to the men,

00:52:44.580 yes,

00:52:44.920 you claim protecting the provider,

00:52:46.180 protecting and providing,

00:52:47.360 okay,

00:52:48.040 it's not just money,

00:52:49.200 you have to,

00:52:49.720 sometimes a physical touch,

00:52:50.720 when I'm with my wife,

00:52:51.580 I try my voice,

00:52:52.060 when I'm in,

00:52:52.880 wherever I'm going outside,

00:52:53.840 I make sure I try to hold her hand,

00:52:55.220 my arm around her,

00:52:56.020 or her waist,

00:52:56.580 okay,

00:52:57.040 I make sure in the car,

00:52:58.260 I touch her neck,

00:52:58.720 she likes,

00:52:59.140 my wife personally likes a neck massager in there, 0.98

00:53:00.940 okay,

00:53:01.120 Alhamdulillah,

00:53:01.440 she likes,

00:53:01.960 Alhamdulillah,

00:53:02.340 and it's not transactional,

00:53:04.020 do it for the sake of Allah,

00:53:04.600 okay,

00:53:05.080 physical touch,

00:53:05.900 say kind words,

00:53:06.720 your wife wakes up in the morning,

00:53:07.720 you think she looks,

00:53:08.300 oh,

00:53:08.460 like she got electrocuted,

00:53:09.260 say the most beautiful thing,

00:53:10.300 that I've seen in my life,

00:53:11.060 I just walked in,

00:53:11.900 say kind words,

00:53:12.640 and the same goes back sister,

00:53:13.840 obedience to your husband,

00:53:14.960 if you've got a good man,

00:53:15.900 I'm not talking of a bad man,

00:53:16.980 if you've got a good man,

00:53:17.860 sister,

00:53:18.200 there has to be obedient,

00:53:19.060 the Prophet said to the woman,

00:53:20.440 how are you with your husband,

00:53:21.540 she said,

00:53:22.040 I try my best to please him,

00:53:23.300 to the best of my ability,

00:53:24.300 so radical feminist,

00:53:25.020 don't get angry at me,

00:53:25.900 this is the Quran,

00:53:26.700 and we will die on this,

00:53:27.580 yes,

00:53:27.920 he said,

00:53:28.320 and what did the Prophet said,

00:53:29.180 that's good,

00:53:30.140 for verily he is your nar,

00:53:31.580 hellfire,

00:53:31.960 and he is your jannah,

00:53:32.580 okay,

00:53:33.280 and the Prophet told us,

00:53:33.880 something so beautiful,

00:53:34.580 a woman who does her basics, 1.00

00:53:36.020 salah,

00:53:36.880 yes,

00:53:37.420 guards her chastity,

00:53:38.280 and her husband is pleased with her,

00:53:40.260 yes,

00:53:40.920 she can enter jannah from any door,

00:53:42.780 sisters,

00:53:43.140 just think for a second,

00:53:44.000 forget your abusive husband,

00:53:45.000 I'm not talking about them,

00:53:46.480 the right of a husband is adeem, 0.88

00:53:48.800 it's great,

00:53:49.760 and the Prophet said emphasized on that,

00:53:51.020 and for men,

00:53:52.000 you guys talk about being a protector,

00:53:53.140 protector against your foul language,

00:53:55.220 protector against the abuse that you give her,

00:53:56.840 protector against the physical abuse you towards her,

00:53:58.860 protector against the dhulm you do on her,

00:54:01.420 protector against yourself at first,

00:54:03.240 okay,

00:54:03.660 protector against yourself against you bro,

00:54:05.940 before anybody else protect herself against you,

00:54:07.740 she isn't a man under you, 0.99

00:54:09.000 okay,

00:54:09.380 and it's so sad that in today's age,

00:54:10.740 I see men who give the haq of their wives, 0.99

00:54:13.180 through everything,

00:54:14.440 through everything,

00:54:15.500 and yet they're still calling abusers,

00:54:16.580 because they're married to an ungrateful woman, 0.97

00:54:18.180 yes,

00:54:18.460 their in-laws abuse them,

00:54:19.700 in-laws abuse them,

00:54:20.480 I've seen them in my own eyes,

00:54:21.240 yes,

00:54:21.540 why,

00:54:21.720 because they heard one side of the story,

00:54:23.800 because their sister-in-law, 0.52

00:54:24.540 which is,

00:54:24.760 I've tackled in the bitter truth show for a reason,

00:54:26.700 don't share things at home,

00:54:28.560 with your family members,

00:54:29.700 you know why,

00:54:30.180 because I see the scenarios,

00:54:31.320 and the couple are lovey-dovey,

00:54:32.680 and the in-laws hate their guts,

00:54:34.500 yes,

00:54:34.740 okay,

00:54:35.020 I've seen,

00:54:35.340 why,

00:54:35.720 because they only heard one side,

00:54:37.820 only heard one side,

00:54:38.620 and see him as an abuser,

00:54:39.340 and the guy treats his wife like princess, 0.97

00:54:41.720 but all she does is, 1.00

00:54:42.260 when an argument happens,

00:54:42.940 in the moment of the heat,

00:54:43.900 whatever it is,

00:54:44.540 yes,

00:54:44.840 okay,

00:54:45.000 her hormones are flying,

00:54:45.620 whatever it is,

00:54:46.040 subhanAllah,

00:54:46.640 and she goes and says something,

00:54:47.520 and I want to end on,

00:54:49.660 the whole Dow Bros thing,

00:54:50.540 that has been coined,

00:54:51.260 Dow Bros terminology has been coined,

00:54:53.780 by those sisters,

00:54:54.740 and some men out there as well,

00:54:55.660 who,

00:54:55.980 subhanAllah,

00:54:56.440 may have a traumatic experience,

00:54:57.420 with their religion,

00:54:58.020 etc,

00:54:58.220 whatever it is for that matter,

00:54:59.120 and they are using it,

00:54:59.880 okay,

00:55:00.220 what's a Dow Bros,

00:55:00.780 and who's a Dow Bros,

00:55:01.460 bro,

00:55:01.640 I'm seeing people who do gym,

00:55:02.940 yes,

00:55:03.280 gym bros have become Dow Bros, 1.00

00:55:04.360 charismatic guys have become,

00:55:05.220 charismatic bros have become Dow Bros,

00:55:06.980 there's some people who do food reviews,

00:55:08.360 and food become Dow Bros,

00:55:09.380 okay,

00:55:09.740 I'm seeing people who do comedy become Dow Bros,

00:55:11.340 guys who do reaction videos become Dow Bros,

00:55:12.800 everyone's become a Dow Bros,

00:55:13.660 you know why,

00:55:17.520 this is a cop-out,

00:55:18.880 no,

00:55:19.200 it's a coin that's made,

00:55:20.280 so you know why,

00:55:20.900 they can degrade and reject,

00:55:22.060 the message that we give,

00:55:22.920 we have a lot of improvements to do,

00:55:23.840 and we will inshallah,

00:55:24.380 and myself personally,

00:55:25.600 but let me tell you something,

00:55:26.380 we are not monaphics,

00:55:27.480 we are not something that says something,

00:55:28.500 we are,

00:55:28.840 say something to you,

00:55:29.580 and behind you do something else,

00:55:30.900 Assalamualaikum,

00:55:31.460 wa alam wa alam wa barakatuh,

00:55:32.060 brothers and sisters and dear friends,

00:55:33.260 welcome to the Salah Pro Studios,

00:55:34.240 you're thinking,

00:55:34.460 brother Ali,

00:55:34.680 what is going on,

00:55:35.020 this is a unique video isn't it,

00:55:35.920 why are you sitting,

00:55:36.760 on this box of tools,

00:55:38.080 well brothers and sisters,

00:55:38.600 I'm about to hurt out with you guys,

00:55:40.160 what you see behind me,

00:55:40.820 brothers and sisters,

00:55:41.260 is the set three in Salah Pro Studios,

00:55:42.880 and it is specifically dedicated to,

00:55:45.200 doing dawah,

00:55:46.300 now,

00:55:46.660 therefore that means,

00:55:47.180 the funds are limited,

00:55:48.000 because we have,

00:55:48.780 the funds for Salah Pro,

00:55:49.500 but we cannot use those funds to use here,

00:55:51.020 so brothers and sisters,

00:55:51.480 we're a bit stuck,

00:55:51.940 because we need,

00:55:52.780 £11,600 for what,

00:55:54.460 so on the screen you can see,

00:55:55.480 the set we're planning to do,

00:55:56.540 hey,

00:55:57.140 you're like,

00:55:57.460 oh,

00:55:57.600 okay,

00:55:58.420 now you're excited,

00:55:58.920 now you know what we're about to do,

00:55:59.600 okay,

00:55:59.920 now brothers and sisters,

00:56:00.620 this set,

00:56:00.980 as you can see on the floor,

00:56:01.860 this is the markings for the tables,

00:56:03.340 okay,

00:56:03.480 so the table that's going to be here,

00:56:04.540 why am I mentioning this guys,

00:56:05.680 the enemies of Islam, 0.99

00:56:06.500 are spending,

00:56:07.500 hundreds of thousands,

00:56:08.320 if not millions of pounds,

00:56:10.820 to disrespect Allah,

00:56:12.180 to insult Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala,

00:56:13.300 yes,

00:56:13.880 and brothers and sisters,

00:56:14.520 we're not asking for our own pockets,

00:56:15.380 I'm not asking you to buy me a car,

00:56:16.320 I'm not asking you to pay for my holiday,

00:56:17.440 brothers and sisters,

00:56:17.880 what I'm saying is,

00:56:18.280 and for this charity,

00:56:18.740 that's not only trustee,

00:56:19.520 and a volunteer,

00:56:20.200 so I'm pleading for any brothers,

00:56:21.820 who have the means,

00:56:22.240 or sisters,

00:56:23.020 this set here,

00:56:23.640 which you can see,

00:56:24.080 as you can see,

00:56:24.400 they've already started,

00:56:24.980 before I came here,

00:56:25.520 before I went to Juma,

00:56:26.260 it wasn't there,

00:56:26.640 this guy,

00:56:27.080 I'm actually working really fast,

00:56:28.520 we're going to have neon lights,

00:56:29.540 we're going to have a table here,

00:56:30.520 Patrick David,

00:56:31.520 the con artist,

00:56:32.340 the Ponzi scheme con artist,

00:56:33.320 yes,

00:56:33.660 is doing what?

00:56:34.520 Refusing to have Muslims on his platform, 1.00

00:56:35.980 while he spreads the lies of Islam, 1.00

00:56:37.260 on the screen,

00:56:37.800 we're going to have our logo here,

00:56:38.940 which is,

00:56:39.420 the show's name is going to be here,

00:56:40.740 we're going to have a TV here,

00:56:41.520 we're going to have two chairs on each side,

00:56:42.820 people like Muhammad Hijab,

00:56:43.900 Samael to Jannah,

00:56:44.640 Sabur Ahmed,

00:56:45.280 Mansur,

00:56:45.900 Hashim,

00:56:46.620 brother Imran,

00:56:47.400 brother Abbas,

00:56:48.520 Jake,

00:56:49.200 you name it,

00:56:49.700 the list of people,

00:56:50.900 who are going to come to the Dawah scene,

00:56:52.120 who will come and visit our studios,

00:56:53.420 who will come here,

00:56:54.120 and we will discuss these pertinent issues,

00:56:55.900 and answer the doubts of Islam,

00:56:57.400 and not only that,

00:56:57.840 brothers and sisters,

00:56:58.120 propagate Islam,

00:56:58.780 we don't need Patrick David's,

00:57:00.120 that little pet platform,

00:57:01.660 we have our own,

00:57:02.680 so brothers and sisters,

00:57:03.500 I know in one day we can raise that,

00:57:04.900 in £11,600,

00:57:06.000 I will show you guys the invoice,

00:57:07.080 and brothers and sisters,

00:57:07.540 the brothers are already working on the table,

00:57:08.840 as you can see,

00:57:09.600 and what we've heard there,

00:57:10.280 the brothers are working,

00:57:10.860 we want this to be first hand,

00:57:12.240 that the Dawah brothers,

00:57:13.060 have a platform that they can use,

00:57:14.420 without going and paying,

00:57:15.400 it is for everybody,

00:57:16.320 this is not just for me,

00:57:17.500 it is for all the Dawah scene,

00:57:18.580 who can come here,

00:57:19.200 Sheikh Uzman Farooq,

00:57:19.760 he's going to come back into the country, 0.92

00:57:21.040 he's going to be coming here,

00:57:21.780 he can use it,

00:57:22.680 and talk about whatever he wants,

00:57:23.520 people can call him,

00:57:24.000 we're going to have live shows,

00:57:24.800 so brothers and sisters,

00:57:25.420 defending the Kalam of Allah, 0.67

00:57:26.520 is our aim here,

00:57:27.440 and we urge you guys,

00:57:28.240 whatever you want to donate,

00:57:29.160 it is a Sadat Ha'jariah,

00:57:30.160 that it goes towards the set,

00:57:31.040 and anything that's done in this set,

00:57:33.000 pertaining to defending Allah,

00:57:34.040 answering Shubah Had,

00:57:34.940 talking about Epstein-A'idahs, 0.94

00:57:35.940 exposing the double standards,

00:57:36.940 exposing the stuff that will be,

00:57:38.400 coming to you at home,

00:57:39.420 that will affect your family members,

00:57:40.220 that are walking down the street,

00:57:41.020 and get an attack,

00:57:41.620 to debunk those claims,

00:57:42.360 brothers and sisters,

00:57:42.660 I don't want to go any further,

00:57:43.680 you can see,

00:57:44.300 and I want to do another video,

00:57:45.220 when we raise those funds,

00:57:45.860 and show you guys,

00:57:46.460 how amazing it looks,

00:57:47.120 brothers and sisters,

00:57:47.400 inshallah,

00:57:47.860 till next time,

00:57:48.440 assalamualaikum,

00:57:49.020 wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh,

00:57:49.800 let's try to get that,

00:57:50.600 11,600 pounds exactly,

00:57:52.160 in the next 24 hours,

00:57:52.900 inshallah,

00:57:53.420 and may Allah bless,

00:57:54.120 and preserve you guys,

00:57:54.660 and make it Sadat Ha'jariah,

00:57:55.540 and accept it from us,

00:57:56.180 brothers and sisters,

00:57:56.760 that we will defend the Kalam of Allah,

00:57:57.900 and make the Kalam of Allah,

00:57:59.020 greater,

00:57:59.560 inshallah,

00:57:59.740 brothers and sisters,

00:58:00.360 be a part of the Sadat Ha'jariah,

00:58:01.480 till next time,

00:58:02.000 assalamualaikum,

00:58:02.620 wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh.

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