Ali Dawah - MY WIFE REACTS TO KHALID & SALAMAS DIVORCE - LESSONS

00:00:00.000 But why is the default that the woman is innocent and the man is always guilty? 0.58

00:00:05.580 Okay, that's something my wife wants to say. 0.97

00:00:07.840 Salama probably had enough as women give a lot of chances, has zero tolerance now. 1.00

00:00:14.820 Okay, this is why I want you here.

00:00:16.980 It's very important for you to be here.

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00:00:58.040 Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh, brothers and sisters and dear friends.

00:01:01.000 This video will be a very unique video, a very special video, should we want to say.

00:01:05.140 It's a video that if it does come out public, it means that I have spoken to people of knowledge, spoken to my peers, my friends, and got some nasir from them and gone ahead with it.

00:01:15.920 And why am I saying this? Because I have my wife on my right.

00:01:19.620 Assalamualaikum.

00:01:21.460 Hope you are, inshallah.

00:01:22.620 We're going to come to why my wife is here. 0.97

00:01:24.320 Why is she in the video?

00:01:25.320 She's not going to be in the video, but she's going to have her say with this whiteboard that I bought her.

00:01:31.100 We'll come to what that is about in a minute.

00:01:33.640 So I'll be doing a reaction video pertaining to the issue of Sister Salama and Baba Khalid, if I'm not mistaken.

00:01:39.180 Is that what they're called?

00:01:40.000 Yeah.

00:01:40.220 Okay, so basically, what we've heard is that they have divorced, or they've gone their separate ways.

00:01:47.640 We don't know the matter.

00:01:48.280 We don't know the ins and details out of it.

00:01:50.120 But the biggest threat, one of the biggest threats, shall I say, we have to the Umar in today's time is divorce rates.

00:01:55.880 Divorce is something that is breaking the family unit. 1.00

00:01:58.260 It is destroying households.

00:01:59.720 It has an effect on kids.

00:02:01.640 It has an effect on the mental well-being of the wife, the mental well-being of the husband. 0.75

00:02:06.380 Women, usually with these things, men tend to suffer more because we don't have the coping mechanism that our wives do, which is, you know, crying, expressing.

00:02:14.740 Women tend to speak more than men. 0.98

00:02:17.160 They express themselves more than men.

00:02:18.400 They use more words than we do.

00:02:19.800 So they have that mechanism.

00:02:20.760 With us men, we keep it inside, bottle it, bottle it until it explodes.

00:02:24.220 And when we look at suicide rates, men and women equally harm themselves, but men take more lethal force, which causes them to end their life.

00:02:31.980 So this is the reason I'm doing this video, and I thought it's very, very important that to have the female perspective.

00:02:38.960 As you guys know, on the Bitter Truth Show, and this has been something that I've always done.

00:02:42.280 I always want to understand the point from a sister's point of view.

00:02:45.940 So that's the reason why I brought my wife into this. 0.93

00:02:48.160 How?

00:02:48.940 She's going to be expressing herself, and that's out of her choice.

00:02:52.060 Not that there's anything wrong with her being on camera, but I don't like my private life.

00:02:55.740 Not that I'm sharing my private life with you guys anyways.

00:02:57.420 But the point is that she's going to be writing some points down, which she may disagree with me, or she might add on to a point.

00:03:03.220 She's going to write it down, and she will present that to me after I have had my take on this matter, inshallah.

00:03:07.980 And then we can talk about what are the key lessons we can learn of this issue, and we are going to make du'a for them that Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala brings them back together, inshallah.

00:03:14.840 Because we don't want to see any Muslim couple for that matter divorcing, or even non-Muslims, because it affects the society that we live in at large.

00:03:21.140 Everything, life.

00:03:26.340 I don't know if I chose Khlyifah Abdullah or Khlyifah Abdullah chose me.

00:03:32.140 If Khlyifah, but, inshallah, the only way to age 18, what did you say to him?

00:03:38.280 I know the love of you when I saw you.

00:03:40.320 Yeah, it's the same thing.

00:03:43.260 I knew you loved twice.

00:03:44.340 This is something very, very important.

00:03:56.420 I'm a master of my life.

00:03:58.620 Because my life is a life.

00:04:02.180 I need to get married.

00:04:03.540 I need to get married.

00:04:04.920 If my life is a life, I will be miserable when they leave me.

00:04:09.180 I need a very strong mom to say that. 0.99

00:04:14.340 If I had a psychiatrist's help, I was a human, I'm a man.

00:04:19.100 Why, my life is a nice woman?

00:04:20.980 Why would I be married? Why would I be married?

00:04:23.580 No, no, no, no.

00:04:25.500 You did that to me.

00:04:27.580 Thank you so much.

00:04:29.940 I'm not sorry.

00:04:31.860 But...

00:04:32.380 Heidi, when you said I'm accountable, I want to fix myself.

00:04:35.720 I'm not.

00:04:37.620 I'm not going to change my life.

00:04:42.840 I can't change people.

00:05:11.100 is I can change people.

00:05:13.480 You can't change people, but?

00:05:15.020 I can change people.

00:05:16.360 How?

00:05:17.180 Remove them.

00:05:18.480 Replace them.

00:05:19.600 My energy, I have to protect it.

00:05:21.680 That's why I'm isolated 24-7.

00:05:25.340 People think I have social life.

00:05:26.980 I don't want to go to the house.

00:05:28.600 Because there's no part of peace I'm going to show up.

00:05:31.300 People can't sit with themselves because they're scared.

00:05:35.460 They don't want to face themselves.

00:05:38.420 I've been there.

00:05:39.000 In my life, it's necessary.

00:05:42.420 And I just sit with myself and I know who I am.

00:05:46.100 At the same time, a lot of people are sitting with themselves.

00:05:48.680 They know that they're sitting with themselves and thinking they're what they like.

00:05:52.320 So guys, we've watched that video with my wife, as you can see, inshallah.

00:05:55.800 There's a few things that I want to mention, subhanallah, to you guys.

00:05:58.580 So a lot of us, we look at these public figures.

00:06:01.360 And we have this dream world that we set for ourselves.

00:06:04.440 You know why?

00:06:04.780 Because we want.

00:06:05.420 The reason we project that is because this is something we want to believe.

00:06:09.260 We want to believe that marriage is all hunky-dory, happy.

00:06:12.020 Like you will see the videos, you know, it's all like jokey.

00:06:14.460 Oh my gosh.

00:06:15.160 You know, and then we carry those false expectations onto our marriages and think that that's how

00:06:19.400 it's supposed to be.

00:06:20.040 And when it is not, then we get disappointed.

00:06:22.040 It's like me going to a Ferrari and saying, can you produce strawberry cheesecakes?

00:06:26.600 And it doesn't.

00:06:27.280 I get angry at the Ferrari.

00:06:28.100 I'm like, what is wrong with you?

00:06:29.620 The Ferrari is not programmed or created to make strawberry cakes.

00:06:33.860 So my expectation is always going to be in disappointment.

00:06:36.840 So that is the reason why I totally disagree with public figures, specifically showing their

00:06:41.840 private life on camera.

00:06:43.820 Even having my wife here on the right, on my right-hand side, may Allah bless and preserve

00:06:47.880 her, it was so much for me.

00:06:49.440 Should I do it?

00:06:49.960 Should I do it?

00:06:50.400 Because I'm not even mentioning my private life.

00:06:51.820 You know nothing about my private life.

00:06:53.080 And I don't want to know anything about it.

00:06:54.600 It's nothing to do with you.

00:06:56.780 Zero.

00:06:57.100 Girl, because I might come and do a gesture to my wife here and you sister might watch 1.00

00:07:01.080 and be like, oh my gosh, she's so romantic.

00:07:03.180 Why don't you do that?

00:07:04.220 Or brothers might watch and have different expectations with their wives.

00:07:07.000 Oh, but look how Ali's wife, listen, I'm not here to do that. 0.99

00:07:10.500 I'm here because I genuinely want to hear if my wife has an input that is, that I would

00:07:15.120 like to hear it from a female perspective because I might be wrong and I want to hear that. 0.99

00:07:18.800 That's the reason why she is here.

00:07:20.660 Now guys, this is the biggest problem we do.

00:07:23.360 We look at people and public figures are to blame for this.

00:07:27.360 The marriages that have been destroyed, I'm so sorry.

00:07:30.220 Indirectly or directly, you are playing a role in destroying marriages.

00:07:34.000 Because believe me, I can do a vlog with my wife.

00:07:36.480 Oh, we're going on holiday here.

00:07:37.820 Oh, the best version of our life.

00:07:39.800 Oh my gosh, look at our kids and we went out today and we had strawberry desserts.

00:07:42.680 Why would I show you a 10 second glimpse of fun that I had in my family, my wife, and then

00:07:50.860 you're going to take that and stretch it into my marriage of how many years and be like,

00:07:55.200 you know nothing about my marriage.

00:07:57.180 So as public figures, we have to have a responsibility and take each other to account of the things

00:08:03.220 that we show.

00:08:04.100 That's number one.

00:08:04.980 Number two, evil eye, magic and sihr. 0.96

00:08:08.200 Before we started this, me and my wife did our adhkar.

00:08:11.140 Why?

00:08:11.840 Because it protects us.

00:08:13.280 We're public figures.

00:08:14.140 Sadly, there are people out there who are jealous.

00:08:16.260 Whatever it is for that matter, I don't know what they're jealous about for that matter.

00:08:18.900 And they are just envious.

00:08:20.460 People are in bad places.

00:08:21.900 No problem.

00:08:22.660 That's the reason why we are very, very careful to how I am with my wife here.

00:08:27.560 Like I'm not artificial.

00:08:29.260 I'm not adding something or taking away.

00:08:30.480 But I don't want to give a misconstrued idea of how my dynamics with my wife is.

00:08:35.460 And actually me and my wife, we prefer that you guys think that my wife is not happy

00:08:39.140 and she's being oppressed.

00:08:41.740 Yeah?

00:08:42.280 It's good.

00:08:42.760 You know why?

00:08:43.200 Keep it.

00:08:43.540 We don't need the evil eye.

00:08:44.700 We're not happy at all.

00:08:46.360 It's all good.

00:08:47.100 No problem.

00:08:47.520 You know why?

00:08:48.100 I don't need that from you guys.

00:08:49.980 Alhamdulillah.

00:08:50.760 The worst you think that is, there were some comments like, oh my gosh, I feel sorry

00:08:54.880 for his wife.

00:08:55.860 Brilliant.

00:08:56.360 Just keep it going.

00:08:57.120 My wife is happy about that as well.

00:08:57.920 Just carry on feeling sorry for her and feeling sorry for me, whoever it is for that

00:09:00.740 matter.

00:09:01.360 Number one.

00:09:01.900 Now we're going to go to Surah Yusuf in the Quran.

00:09:04.320 Why?

00:09:04.500 Because Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala tells us, Yusuf, when he saw the sun and the moon

00:09:08.100 and the stars and he came to his father and spoke of that dream and his father obviously

00:09:12.820 may have had some inspiration of understanding dreams.

00:09:16.460 Yusuf alayhi salam was gifted with that.

00:09:18.160 And he said what to his son?

00:09:20.480 Do not tell who?

00:09:23.080 Your friends.

00:09:24.400 People that are watching you, whatever it is, yeah?

00:09:27.100 If you live in today's time, don't tell your followers, yeah?

00:09:30.100 Don't tell your neighbors.

00:09:32.500 Don't tell your brothers.

00:09:34.680 Blood, blood, blood.

00:09:37.000 Yes?

00:09:37.580 Do not tell them.

00:09:38.760 Why?

00:09:39.860 Because brothers and sisters, envy and jealousy and hasad, these things are real.

00:09:45.480 When you expose yourself to the people, it is bound to have an effect.

00:09:50.640 The Prophet peace be upon him said, the evil eye is haqq. 1.00

00:09:53.180 And he pointed to the graves and he said, do you know how many people are dead in their

00:09:56.960 graves because of evil eye?

00:09:59.840 So point number one, which can harm your marriage is what?

00:10:02.840 Evil eye.

00:10:04.620 Number two.

00:10:05.580 In Surah Bahra, Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala says what?

00:10:08.040 That when Harut and Marut was given, when they brought sihr down with the permission 0.99

00:10:12.860 of Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala.

00:10:13.800 What does Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala say?

00:10:15.140 Let's read it for ourselves.

00:10:17.080 But the devil's disbelief, teaching people magic and which was revealed to two angels

00:10:22.280 at Babylon, Harut and Marut.

00:10:24.700 But they, the two angels, did not teach anyone unless they say, we are a trial, so do not

00:10:31.340 disbelieve by practicing magic.

00:10:33.460 And yet they learn from that which they cause separation between a man and his wife, but

00:10:38.800 they do not harm or cause separation between, but they do not harm anyone except from the

00:10:44.180 permission of Allah.

00:10:45.080 Another issue that we have, sihr, black magic, as if it is more powerful than Allah. 1.00

00:10:48.660 Allah's saying, it is a test and a trial. 0.95

00:10:50.540 Do not become disbelievers by practicing it.

00:10:52.980 Number two, isn't it unique and specifically, I don't know how you think about this, yeah?

00:10:56.360 So profound that the sihr, it's not used for stopping someone praying salah, stopping them

00:11:02.620 from giving sadaqah, stopping them from umrah, stopping them from doing anything, but it

00:11:06.760 is specifically used to cause divorce between man and his wife.

00:11:09.880 I found that so profound.

00:11:12.040 That is the one of the reasons why I started the Bitter Truth Show, to combat this disease.

00:11:15.900 The reason I'm here today doing this video, it's to combat that.

00:11:19.240 Because when the family unit breaks down, Sister Salama and Khalid, we want to see you guys

00:11:23.880 back together.

00:11:24.400 Wallahi, I make sincere dua that Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala reunites you guys.

00:11:27.400 Because I've seen some of Khalid's video, I've seen some of your videos, I don't care

00:11:30.940 what kind of picture you guys put on, smiling, et cetera.

00:11:32.700 But I genuinely believe, believe deep down, you both miss each other and you guys are

00:11:37.620 not happy.

00:11:39.200 That's what I see.

00:11:40.300 Okay, now I don't know the inner dynamics of your marriage, what happened, I don't know.

00:11:44.380 And yes, in the video you said that, you know, I can't change people, but I can change people.

00:11:48.080 Meaning, if you cannot change somebody's personality, then you replace them.

00:11:51.960 This is another, which I don't know if you're going to disagree with me or not, please, you

00:11:55.380 can voice it on your whiteboard, inshallah, yeah?

00:11:57.520 And that's by her choice, yeah?

00:11:58.460 I don't want people to say, you know, you're forced and not allowed to speak, et cetera.

00:12:00.820 Or, you know, you have a right to speak if you want to, yeah?

00:12:03.160 Okay, anything you say will be used against me in court.

00:12:05.060 So, the point is what?

00:12:06.400 That when we're talking about this, this attitude that we carry on, which is dangerous, and sadly,

00:12:12.680 a lot of sisters have this, 80% of the time, divorces are initiated by men, women. 0.81

00:12:16.960 Now, there's a whole psychology behind that.

00:12:19.400 I don't really want to get into it.

00:12:20.800 However, this attitude of Amazon Prime, fast cars, fast hand drives, fast food, Amazon Prime,

00:12:26.480 I like it, I don't like it, I'll send it back.

00:12:27.780 And I'm not seeing a sister done that.

00:12:29.040 But, as our sisters, please, we know you get emotional, we know you say things you don't mean,

00:12:34.000 and in this instance, look, it might be a case where, there might be instances where a sister is

00:12:37.420 genuinely unhappy with her husband, her husband is genuinely, it can be, or a man can be genuinely

00:12:42.400 unhappy as well.

00:12:43.480 But the point is this, we need to get rid of this habit of replace.

00:12:48.540 Now, I understand what she's saying, it can be that it's very, in her situation,

00:12:53.220 which we do not know the inner dynamics, by the way, yeah?

00:12:54.780 It can be, but we really need to get rid of this habit of, I don't like it, I'll replace it.

00:13:00.580 Who said the one that's going to come after is going to be better than the one that went?

00:13:04.520 Why do we have this assumption of the grass is greener on the other side?

00:13:07.700 The grass is maybe astroturf, maybe it's not.

00:13:10.880 And another issue that I see in the comment section is, and sisters do this a lot, I'm so sorry.

00:13:16.000 Again, you can disagree with me, sister here, my wife.

00:13:21.040 The point is this, is that always blaming the man.

00:13:26.380 Oh, I wonder what he did.

00:13:28.960 Oh, I could see he was like this.

00:13:31.040 Oh, she looks more happier.

00:13:32.660 Have you seen her pores have gone, her skin is shining better since they've divorced.

00:13:37.960 You guys are little shaitans. 1.00

00:13:39.980 You guys are little shaitans that break down and destroy the marriage. 1.00

00:13:43.820 Sisters, a lot of sisters that do this, you guys are sadly, I'm so sorry, I don't care what anyone says.

00:13:48.680 I'm not here to please anybody.

00:13:50.020 Dislike me, hate me.

00:13:51.160 The point is this though, I always see this in the comment section.

00:13:53.740 I don't see it from men.

00:13:54.760 I always see it sadly from sisters who are criticizing that as if, how do you know she was not the perpetrator?

00:14:00.680 Again, I'm not saying she was.

00:14:02.140 How do you not know she was the one that was bullying Khalid, for example?

00:14:07.240 Or she was the one, I'm just saying that it can be, it can be that Khalid was doing that.

00:14:11.060 But why is the default that the woman is innocent and the man is always guilty? 0.58

00:14:16.800 Okay, that's something my wife wants to say. 0.97

00:14:19.100 Salama probably had enough as women give out, give a lot of chances, has zero tolerance now. 1.00

00:14:25.900 Okay, this is why I want you here.

00:14:28.160 Yeah, it's very important for you to be here.

00:14:30.120 And I'm happy that you are here.

00:14:31.600 Thank you very much.

00:14:32.600 Now, again, the assumption that you're making, and maybe a lot of sisters might be making, is the following.

00:14:38.440 That Salama has had enough. 1.00

00:14:41.100 Can I just ask you a question, my dear wife?

00:14:44.140 Why is it that maybe it's not that Khalid gave her a lot of chances and he has zero tolerance?

00:14:51.420 I would like to hear that if you can express it, please.

00:14:52.880 Because the assumption that you've made now is literally that Salama has been fed up and she's been going through a lot.

00:15:00.480 And that's exactly the point I mentioned.

00:15:01.980 So can you please just vocalize to me, why is it that Khalid hasn't had enough?

00:15:06.460 Why isn't it that Khalid?

00:15:07.920 Just from, like, if we were neutral, because I just believe that you're coming from one-sided.

00:15:12.360 Yes, I know you're a woman and you can be something emotional and you can more connect with her.

00:15:17.020 And these things can happen.

00:15:18.340 But the thing is, a lot of sisters make these mistakes. 0.53

00:15:19.900 So my wife is writing probably a refutation for me now.

00:15:22.040 But the point is what?

00:15:22.880 As sisters, sometimes we take our past traumas.

00:15:25.360 Yeah, sisters take the past traumas of their father or ex-husband, etc.

00:15:28.140 And project it on other people.

00:15:30.560 So, okay, she's saying, she made the video, not him.

00:15:34.800 I don't know his opinion.

00:15:36.540 Well, exactly, there you go.

00:15:37.480 Okay, but the point is this, is that just because one decided to express a feeling,

00:15:42.260 and again, it proves my point, which is what?

00:15:44.600 She is expressive and she's talking about it.

00:15:47.740 Has he made any video about it?

00:15:49.620 Zero.

00:15:50.580 This is the point I'm saying.

00:15:52.300 So just because she has made that vocalize, and a lot of people say this,

00:15:55.300 and I'm going to end on this note, I don't want this video to go too long, yeah?

00:15:56.980 But just because women are more expressive, 1.00

00:16:00.660 I know of situations of people in marriage councils,

00:16:03.280 Islamic councils, like Shaheitham,

00:16:04.960 which tell me stories of a woman coming and crying,

00:16:08.560 literally crying, yes?

00:16:11.520 And saying, my husband did this, my husband did that.

00:16:13.600 And the brothers there are like, bro, we feel so different.

00:16:15.880 We're like, we can't wait to see him,

00:16:17.320 and stick it on him and say, look.

00:16:19.060 And that's what Ali Rahat did on set.

00:16:20.600 If you want to be a just judge,

00:16:22.600 never make a judgment until you hear the other side.

00:16:25.340 That's why with me, I'm trying to keep it more neutral.

00:16:28.380 Some people are biased, yeah?

00:16:30.120 I'm joking, yeah?

00:16:31.480 But the point is what?

00:16:32.980 When you, this is what I was told to him about Shaheitham, yeah?

00:16:35.880 That when the man comes and says, hold on a second,

00:16:39.000 that's not true, or that's not how that happened, etc.

00:16:41.260 When you hear both sides, you realise that the wife was in an emotional place,

00:16:46.980 she was saying things, etc.

00:16:48.580 And then things are more clear.

00:16:49.960 I'm like, hold on a second.

00:16:51.100 There is a part to blame here, and they're both of you.

00:16:53.580 So that is why it is so important that we don't just look at somebody's emotions,

00:16:58.500 even if it's a man.

00:16:59.400 If he comes and says, yeah, my wife did this,

00:17:00.920 my wife's like, hold on a second, bro. 1.00

00:17:02.620 But why would your wife do that? 1.00

00:17:03.920 Like, why would your wife just randomly go and do that? 1.00

00:17:05.920 Did you do something?

00:17:07.460 We have to.

00:17:08.680 So, any last words you want to say?

00:17:09.960 I personally, on this matter, there's nothing else I have to say.

00:17:13.320 Anything you'd like to say?

00:17:14.060 If you do, just let me know, inshallah.

00:17:15.500 The Prophet, peace be upon him, said,

00:17:16.460 and I want to give this advice to our sisters, okay?

00:17:18.480 Because it's very, very important.

00:17:20.400 Again, the Prophet, peace be upon him, told us.

00:17:22.600 He went to the hellfire.

00:17:23.500 Again, I know you guys are going to be like,

00:17:24.900 oh, it's a reality trick, okay?

00:17:27.560 And he saw a majority of the women of the hellfire. 1.00

00:17:29.820 Why?

00:17:30.360 He said, not because they are ungrateful to Allah,

00:17:33.360 because they are ungrateful to their husbands.

00:17:35.560 Now, when I'm talking about a husband, 0.98

00:17:36.800 please take your evil dad who beat up your mom, 1.00

00:17:40.480 your evil ex-husband. 0.99

00:17:41.860 I am not talking about them. 1.00

00:17:43.420 Throw them in the bin.

00:17:44.800 I'm talking about a good man. 1.00

00:17:46.400 Women in their nature have ingratitude, sadly. 1.00

00:17:49.480 So, the point is what?

00:17:50.360 The Prophet, peace be upon him, gave a solution.

00:17:52.080 Because this is from the Prophet.

00:17:52.880 Don't blame me.

00:17:53.920 So, the point is what, guys?

00:17:55.540 Sometimes, bear patience.

00:17:57.440 On what?

00:17:58.200 Not matters that violate your religion.

00:18:00.240 Not matters that he's oppressing you.

00:18:01.840 No, I'm not talking about that.

00:18:04.060 The Prophet, peace be upon him, said,

00:18:05.760 a man, a woman, listen to this carefully,

00:18:08.180 and I don't know this now,

00:18:09.200 a woman who protects her chastity, 0.85

00:18:13.440 guards her chastity,

00:18:14.640 does her basic salah, her fard, minimum, 0.98

00:18:18.000 and her husband is pleased with her.

00:18:20.900 Brothers and sisters, look at the reward.

00:18:24.060 She will be told to enter Jannah, 0.87

00:18:26.960 not from a specific door,

00:18:28.100 from any door she wishes.

00:18:33.320 The reason I'm saying this, guys,

00:18:34.560 is as men, we need to know our responsibilities

00:18:37.200 and how we need to be with our wives. 1.00

00:18:39.740 And the Prophet, peace be upon him,

00:18:40.420 has made that clear,

00:18:40.900 and Islam has made it clear.

00:18:42.360 Loving them.

00:18:43.600 Affection.

00:18:44.600 Repeating it.

00:18:45.120 There's a lot of things men don't do.

00:18:46.500 But what I'm saying is, guys,

00:18:47.560 in a nutshell,

00:18:48.560 both of us complete each other.

00:18:50.500 So, all I'm going to say is to the sisters,

00:18:53.040 that men,

00:18:54.840 if he's a good man,

00:18:55.620 if he's a good husband,

00:18:56.680 he prays, he fears Allah,

00:18:57.700 he looks after you,

00:18:58.960 please don't compare him to others.

00:19:00.900 Please don't go and say,

00:19:01.800 but he does that, he does that.

00:19:03.020 Because this ingratitude,

00:19:04.280 like I said before,

00:19:05.500 all we're saying is the following,

00:19:07.240 that if your husband is pleased with you,

00:19:08.760 that is your daughter Jannah.

00:19:09.880 If you have a good man,

00:19:11.460 hold on to him.

00:19:12.340 And it is only that

00:19:13.360 if we both come together in our religion,

00:19:15.640 get close to Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala,

00:19:16.800 and prioritize that,

00:19:17.700 rather than the worldly things,

00:19:18.600 I believe things will get better.

00:19:20.640 Anything that I said wrong

00:19:21.780 is from shaitan and myself.

00:19:23.780 Anything good is from Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala. 0.98

00:19:25.520 There's anything you disagree on?

00:19:26.660 Nope.

00:19:27.300 Okay.

00:19:27.920 Are you under any duress?

00:19:29.080 You can blink twice.

00:19:30.260 No.

00:19:31.040 Okay, that's fine.

00:19:32.340 That's all I have to say,

00:19:33.260 inshallah, brown sisters.

00:19:34.560 Again, me and my wife

00:19:36.040 have done this initiative

00:19:37.080 and come together, brown sisters,

00:19:38.740 genuinely with the intention

00:19:40.100 of helping or avoiding

00:19:41.700 the breakdown of the family unit.

00:19:43.680 I hope it benefited you guys.

00:19:45.400 It might be something

00:19:46.220 that I might regret and take down.

00:19:47.780 Not that my wife,

00:19:48.280 we're not talking about private life,

00:19:49.340 anything.

00:19:50.060 She has her takes. 0.99

00:19:50.700 It's the first time we're doing this,

00:19:51.660 inshallah.

00:19:52.380 You might see this video

00:19:53.420 deleted one day, maybe.

00:19:54.880 I don't know.

00:19:55.740 But what I'm just saying is, guys,

00:19:57.120 that we need to be careful

00:19:58.120 and stop looking at public figures

00:19:59.740 as our role model, inshallah.

00:20:01.180 That's all I wanted to say,

00:20:02.200 brown sisters.

00:20:03.320 Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh

00:20:04.460 for myself and my dear wife.

00:20:05.820 May Allah bless you

00:20:06.300 for your contributions.

00:20:07.760 It's a pleasure and an honor

00:20:08.860 to have you here, inshallah,

00:20:10.720 and hope you guys

00:20:11.480 like the idea.

00:20:12.840 If you want us to improve it,

00:20:14.280 whatever,

00:20:15.180 please say it, inshallah.

00:20:15.860 Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh.

Ali Dawah - April 19, 2024

MY WIFE REACTS TO KHALID & SALAMAS DIVORCE - LESSONS

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