NAS DAILY MUM MUST KNOW!!
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Nasif al-Dilani's relationship with his mother and how he deals with her is a must listen. He is a man of many talents but his mother is the most important person in his life. She is a loving mother, a loving wife, a devoted daughter and a loving sister. He is not a bad human being and we should all be kinder to our own children.
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And I don't want to be rude or crude here, but in my culture, they say the following.
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Some mothers, when they get upset with their sons or their daughters,
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I wish I'd done a big, massive fart rather than giving birth to a child like you.
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Brothers and sisters, just imagine for a second that you give £10 in donation
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and that £10 is used to buy food or bricks or whatever to help the people in Gaza.
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But then just imagine this amazing deed that you want to do,
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but we turn it into a money-making machine. How?
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They take your money and the money that we are going to put in this waqf, this building.
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And every single time, the money generated from that waqf, that building,
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is going to go to our Palestinian brothers and sisters for the next 20, 30, 40, 50, 60, 100, 150 years.
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And this will be a form of true Sadaqah Jariah.
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I myself will be donating for that, inshaAllah.
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May Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala bless and preserve you guys.
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As-salamu alaykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh, brothers and sisters and dear friends.
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Nas Daili, this despicable individual, backstabber of his own people, his religion.
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We want to know a little bit about him and his relationship with his mom.
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Because this message is actually to his mother.
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I mean, I contain nothing against her in the sense where, you know, whatever it may be.
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But the message is very directly to her, to our auntie, Nas Daili's mother.
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Now, before we do that, let's watch some videos and understand the relationship Nas Daili has with his mother.
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And then there are some powerful, powerful ayahs in the Qur'an,
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which will really, really make you, brothers and sisters, understand how your relationship with your kids should be.
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Because it's not that at any cost or anything, whatever they do, you turn a blind eye.
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If I had a son like Nas Daili, wallahi billahi watillahi, I would spit in his face and kick him out of the house.
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My wife might have more mercy, et cetera, whatever for that matter.
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But someone like that who sees these people being massacred, babies being blown into pieces,
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and then he comes and says, I'm an Israeli first, I'll say, you are a scum first.
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Actually, you might even say Israeli first, then scum.
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But it will tell you the dynamics that he has with his wife.
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And I'm going to, inshallah, after that, give you some powerful verse from the Quran and the story of Khidr.
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Wallahi, Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala is giving us such a powerful message with the story of Khidr.
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And two eyes directly telling you that your spouse, husband or wife, and your children are a fitna for you.
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And how we should, inshallah, deal with our own kids in this matter, inshallah.
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Here in my Arab community, it is expected for the parents to pay for the kids.
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To pay for their car, for their wedding, for their school, college education, and even for their house.
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And in many of these cases, parents have to take loans.
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My parents and everyone's parents here are so loving, well-meaning, and generous, and I feel lucky to have them.
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But maybe the best gift they can give us is not a car or a house, but the gift of love and independence.
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My mom just called me and told me the craziest story.
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At the security check, she was asked, out of many, to step aside and go for a private room for inspection.
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As they were searching her, my mom with limited English jokingly said that she has no power.
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The M-16 rifles were in the room searching her.
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This elementary school teacher mom who wouldn't hurt a fly was treated like a terrorist.
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I understand the need for security, but what happened to humanity?
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And my teacher mom who rarely travels loves to joke.
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What my mom said was a joke, but was also a fact.
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So guys, from the relationship we see, subhanAllah, number one, giving your kids everything.
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I don't want to say it's an Arab culture thing, yeah?
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But in no way, shape or form, I'm going to blame that their parents giving him whatever he wants
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and paying for his wedding in the car is a cause for him to turn out the way he turned out.
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So he turned out very, I mean, he should be ashamed.
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Wallah, I would be ashamed to have a son like him.
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I'm so sorry, I'm going to be very direct and to the point, yeah?
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What does Allah subhanAllah tell us in the Quran?
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Let's read for ourselves, brothers and sisters, yeah?
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Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala says in the Quran, chapter 64, verse 14.
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Is your loyalty to Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala and what is the haqq?
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And in the next ayah, Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala says,
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إِنَّمَا أَمْوَالُكُمْ وَأَوْلَادُكُمْ فِتْنَةً
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O you who believers, indeed among your wives and your children,
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not wives, spouses, and children, there are some trial fitna.
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So beware of them and if you pardon and overlook and forgive them their faults,
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then surely Allah is all forgiven and very merciful.
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Your wealth and your children are only a temptation and a fitna trial.
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And another verse in the Qur'an where Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala says,
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Another verse in the Qur'an, Surah Anfal, Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala says what?
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وَأْلَمُوا أَنَّمَا أَمْوَالُكُمْ وَأَوْلَادُكُمْ فِتْنَةً وَأَنَّ اللَّهَ إِنْدَهُ أَجْرٌ عَذِيمٌ
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And know that your wealth and your children are but a trial
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Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala is reminding us all
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When you look at the story of Nuh alayhi salam,
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when his son, when Nuh alayhi salam made dua and said save me and myself and my family,
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when his son did not come on the boat, Nuh alayhi salam questioned.
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He said, oh Allah, did you not say you're going to save me and my family?
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Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala rebukes Nuh alayhi salam and tells him that his family is who?
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The believers. The believers are a true family.
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Because on that day, I'll be honest with you,
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the way Nas Daly is behaving, this absolute dirtbag,
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do you think when a true war happens between Israel and real Muslims and Islamic nations, whatever,
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whose side do you think this guy is going to be?
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I have no shadow of a doubt. Do you think the Muslim armies are going to trust him?
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They're going to think he's going to, is he a traitor?
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Is he going to, he's probably going to be on the Israel side.
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I promise he's going to be on the Zionist side.
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So your true allies is what, even in the battle of Badr,
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there were people who had the other family members on the other side.
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This is when push comes to shove, that's when you know the reality.
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And Allah's telling you, do not take them.
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SubhanAllah, Allah's warning you against that.
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And if you look at the story of Khidr, in the story of Khidr,
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when he was going with Musa alayhi salam, and he went and he killed a boy.
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And I just want to give a disclaimer, nobody's asking to kill anybody here.
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It's just the same, it's the story, it's the hikman behind the story.
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And Musa alayhi salam said, why would you kill somebody who's innocent?
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Some even scholars say he was a prophet, Khidr.
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He says, indeed, he was going to grow up and be a wretched person
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That when a child dies, and it's one of the most painful things for our parents.
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Just imagine, if this man, with his wretchedness,
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and God knows, SubhanAllah, will lead his family astray.
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On your maqayama, you're going to wish that never, a son like that never existed.
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Some mothers, when they get upset with their sons or their daughters,
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they say, I wish I'd done a big fart instead of giving birth to you.
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I'll repeat again, I wish I'd done a big, massive fart, yes?
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Rather than giving birth to a child like you.
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And, you know, if the shoe fits, I'm sure it does.
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That, SubhanAllah, sometimes we think that we know.
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Yes, our child, SubhanAllah, for them to die,
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God knows, SubhanAllah, were they going to be a child,
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If Allah took them, and, SubhanAllah, is going to,
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InshaAllah, maybe they're going to pass the test on your maqayama,
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and leading you astray, and both in the fire of fire.
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That is the hikm and the story of Khidr, SubhanAllah.
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I would be so ashamed to have a son like this vile individual,
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I don't want to talk about this issue for whatever reasons.
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To now go against your people when a massacre is happening.
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Nastily, I wish I come across face to face with you one day.
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You are our sister, and so is your husband, is our uncle.
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If you guys were not Muslims, I'd be very, very harsh.
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But Wallahi, your son, may Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala guide him.