Ali Dawah - September 29, 2025


OUT OF CONTROL SINGLE MOTHERS - £1,000 CHALLENGE!


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26 minutes

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Word count

5,882

Sentence count

426

Harmful content

Misogyny

41

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Hate speech

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In this episode, I talk about the dangers of single motherhood and the role of single mothers in our society. I also talk about my views on feminism and how it has affected me and my opinion on the matter.

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00:00:00.800 So I used to be one of those Muslim women who were like, I'm not a feminist, we don't need feminism, feminism, Islam gave us rights before feminism, we just need Islam. 0.80
00:00:12.340 They had me, like, they got me, they got me, they got me.
00:00:20.200 Everything you own, from your clothes to your car, to your wife or your husband, is going to forget you and move on and be replaced the moment you die.
00:00:28.360 That's what Allah says,
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00:01:14.620 Let's get to the video.
00:01:15.260 Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh, brothers and sisters and dear friends, it is your local misogynist Ali Dawah, as known as the Dawah Broads, and you know us, the Dawah Broads and the whole Dawah scene, corrupt individuals, you know, like I said before, we're always getting caught out doing haram stuff, you know, you name it, we've done it, alhamdulillah.
00:01:32.200 Anyways, before I start this video, guys, I'm sure the sister had a question here, and many of them are going to watch it, you know, some of them come to my Dawah team and go, you're a misogynist, I go, interesting, sister, what?
00:01:41.620 Can you name me one thing I've said misogynistic, please?
00:01:43.400 And just, you know, I look at them and just be like, you know, yeah, oh, no, no, no, no, sister, can you just mention what is it that I've said misogynistic?
00:01:52.140 And they're like, I don't know, I heard, oh, you heard, okay, it all starts like this, this victim mentality of sisters, they actually, wallahi lazeem, yeah, okay, genuinely, they have this victim mentality of their asal and their origin is, they are the victims, and their ex-husbands and men are the culprits. 0.96
00:02:09.820 Yes, so sorry, without your respect, sisters, yes, and I'm not talking about all, by the way, these are just like a couple of them, yes, sadly, there's a lot of sisters affected by feminism, but we're going to be reacting to so many videos, 0.99
00:02:18.880 and the reason why I wanted to do this video is to show the danger, yes, the danger of women like them who are single mothers, and I don't blame them, there are many single mothers who are, mashallah, may Allah bless and preserve them,
00:02:29.040 I've been doing videos about this 12, 13 years ago, picking up single mothers, I'm not saying all of them, I'm not saying all of them, yes, a lot of them, alhamdulillah, were married to very tapped in the head men, etc.,
00:02:38.960 but in today's time, brothers and sisters, we're dealing with a whole different kind of woman, a whole different kind of woman, and I'm not going to generalise it,
00:02:44.120 we're going to watch a video, and in this video, brothers and sisters, before I start, obviously, I want to give a little condition, anyone that's watching this and deems me to be a misogynist,
00:02:51.340 I am ready to delete my YouTube channel, give £1,000 of my money to you, sisters, if you can prove and show me one place that I have said something misogynistic,
00:03:02.160 one place, £1,000 cash, and my YouTube is going to get deleted, DAO bro, one of these DAO bros is going to get rid of me in an instant,
00:03:08.280 if you can't and you never can, because I have done more for sisters and speaking more for sisters than any of the sisters can ever in your life, inshallah, yes,
00:03:16.020 I've given a voice to the sisters in the Bitter Truth Show, even if I had people who I've disagreed with, okay, many people,
00:03:20.480 like Mahdi Tijani, who's one of her brother, that's a lot of stuff that he said, yes, but because I had him on the show, I won't be so jurynistic,
00:03:25.460 no, I'm so sorry, the show is for everybody, but let's get on to the videos, this is very interesting, yeah,
00:03:30.180 this is why I say it is so detrimental for women to get advice from other women, specifically single mothers like this sister, yes, okay, 1.00
00:03:38.860 let's watch for ourselves and let's see what is the tantrum that she has, she's gone on a tantrum, let's see what it is, 1.00
00:03:44.800 and you can see she's so fixated, she's a single mother who's left her husband,
00:03:49.080 why are you so obsessed with him, I, genuinely, firstly, we don't know his side of the story,
00:03:54.140 we don't know what kind of a woman you was, I don't know what kind of a man he was, 1.00
00:03:57.020 but the way you come out as if you are the victim, how do I know you as a narcissist, 0.63
00:04:01.340 a manipulating, gaslighting individual, how do I know you was not the problem,
00:04:05.060 how do I know, I don't know if he was not the problem, he may have been the problem,
00:04:08.680 but you come across, and because you're more vocal, we men, we don't talk, we hold it in, yes, okay,
00:04:12.500 okay, so because of that, you act like you are the victim, here's the video, inshallah, let's watch the first video,
00:04:17.500 inshallah, guys, and let's get straight into it, because it gets very, very interesting,
00:04:21.020 and I'm sure you can enjoy this video from a misogynist like me.
00:04:25.000 So I used to be one of those Muslim women who were like, I'm not a feminist, we don't need feminism,
00:04:30.200 feminism, Islam gave us rights before feminism, we just need Islam, 1.00
00:04:34.200 they had me, like, they had, they got me, they got me, they got me, they got me, they got me,
00:04:46.200 de-centering men from your deen, that is something, everyone's talking about de-centering men,
00:04:53.340 when you de-centering men from Islam, when you de-centering men from your deen,
00:04:59.420 they had me for a long time, they keep you so, they're so loud, so loud, about how
00:05:10.180 feminism is so anti-Islamic, feminism has destroyed society, feminism, 1.00
00:05:14.160 well, they completely hijacked Islam with their misogyny, completely... 0.86
00:05:20.640 I mean, they're right, there you go, there you go, you're typical, they had me, they had me,
00:05:24.800 they had me, okay, like, I even believe that this here is a bit masculine, like, I'll be honest with you,
00:05:29.400 like, what is this, like, as a woman, they had me, I don't understand, and then at the end,
00:05:33.580 what is it, misogyny, close the chapter, anything, you know, feminism, again, 1.00
00:05:37.580 there's a lot of things that are in line with Islam and feminism, I've said this in my university
00:05:40.780 talks, wherever I go, when I speak to it, as Muslims, we don't need feminism, okay, 0.99
00:05:44.840 why do we need to go, if a man doesn't fear Allah, if you're married to a man who doesn't fear Allah,
00:05:47.680 do you think it's going to give a crap about a man, sorry, a woman made law, okay, a woman made law, 1.00
00:05:52.320 no, it's not, so that's in the angle, but there's a lot of similarities between feminism and Islam, 1.00
00:05:56.440 alhamdulillah, that Islam gave the rights of the woman a long time ago, before feminism were throwing
00:05:59.320 themselves in front of king's carts to get it, you know, on suicide missions, so,
00:06:03.920 these centre, not just men, these centre men and women, your centre focus should be Allah, 0.98
00:06:07.600 if you centre and bring men to a level where you, like, you know, as if, like, you worshipped them,
00:06:11.780 Allah would humiliate you with it, if you bring a woman to a level where you worshipped them, 1.00
00:06:14.780 Allah would humiliate you with that, so, I agree with you, these centre men and women, 1.00
00:06:17.880 you know, in that instance, let's go to the next video, inshallah, because it gets very interesting,
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00:06:50.720 let's go back to the video.
00:06:51.540 It feels a little fake and gay, gotta tell you guys, it feels a little fake and gay, 0.96
00:06:56.520 and there will be no fakeness and no gayness. 0.84
00:06:58.680 Okay, good, so you can see what we're dealing with here, okay, so it feels gay that they're 0.99
00:07:03.740 hyper-masculine Tao guys, so you see they see that as a threat. Masculinity, when we come
00:07:08.600 and tell the brothers, brother train, look after your family, you're the protector, you're
00:07:11.640 the provider, it's a threat to them. Masculinity is only a threat to a woman who has masculine 1.00
00:07:15.800 traits. A feminine woman will see that nothing but as goodness, like do we ever talk about toxic 1.00
00:07:20.440 femininity? What is toxic masculinity? What does that mean? Like, for example, you know,
00:07:26.280 one, to provide for his family, protect his family, look after his family, be the protector
00:07:30.380 and provider, someone who leaves his family, who has a final say in a marriage, oh, am
00:07:34.660 I being misogynistic now? Oh, am I controlling my wife? Yes, in my marriage, I have the last
00:07:38.760 say. Yeah, oh, you feel sorry for my wife? Oh, that's deep, man. I'm so sorry, Mrs. Misogynistic
00:07:44.360 single woman that you're going to stay single for the rest of your life. What do you deem 1.00
00:07:49.740 that? So now it's gay. Look at the words, it's gay because Tao Bros, what was it? Hyper-masculine 0.80
00:07:54.920 Tao Bros, what does that mean? Let's carry on. It gets interesting, guys. It really gets
00:07:58.720 interesting. The reason I'm doing this video is because a woman like her, who is a single 1.00
00:08:02.380 mother, wants misery-likes company. Yes? They want other women to be single. And that's 1.00
00:08:06.840 the reason why you can see, which we're going to go through some hadiths, and let's see how
00:08:10.780 misogynistic the Prophet Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam was. Okay, forget us. We are misogynistic
00:08:14.820 Tao Bros. Okay, we're going to get there, inshallah. And I would love for this sister to tell
00:08:19.400 me and reply, like, not to me, these hadiths that I'm going to mention. Are they misogynist?
00:08:23.420 Like, is the protestant misogynist? Let's carry on.
00:08:31.600 I'll be honest with you, this kind of reaction, okay, somebody commented saying you're going
00:08:34.040 to be a single mother forever. And look, again, look, you're our sister in this time. I don't
00:08:37.680 want you to be single forever. You need a masculine man, but you need to be in a feminine energy. 1.00
00:08:41.160 If you're moving masculine, yes, with your body language and the way you're behaving and
00:08:44.420 the way you're talking, I'll be honest with you, I don't know a brother who's sane, who's
00:08:49.120 on his deed, which we're going to come to, by the way, you're advising people that you
00:08:51.440 do not want someone on the deed, which I was mind-boggled, by the way. Yes? Okay, if you
00:08:55.860 behave like this, sister, you're going to be single for the rest of your life. I do not 1.00
00:08:58.340 know what any sane man in his head, who's a man who fears God, to be with someone like
00:09:03.140 you, with all due respect. And I don't wish that to you. I wish you the best that a good
00:09:05.860 man who fears God, like, we're going to come to you talking about your husband, or apparently
00:09:10.340 he was religious, or whatever. I don't know what you mean by that, okay? Now, you're warning
00:09:13.240 against, you're basically saying you will never marry a man that is on his deed. You're
00:09:17.800 tapped. With all due respect, sister, you are tapped. If that's what you're saying,
00:09:20.580 you've gone, it seems like you're so traumatized. You're so traumatized, you don't even know
00:09:24.840 what you're talking about. You don't even know what you're talking about. Okay, this one
00:09:28.080 is icon. She's a legend, and she is the moment. Okay, interesting. Look at the thing she does. 0.93
00:09:33.540 She's an icon, she's a legend. You know, feminism, brilliant. Look what she's done. And nothing 1.00
00:09:37.920 terrifies them more than a woman learning her worth and leaving them, so they try to demonize 0.98
00:09:43.420 it. This is what I'm doing now. I'm demonizing. I'm so threatened by, you know, you destroying
00:09:46.800 your marriage, or whatever reason it got me. We're so threatened by it. And he says,
00:09:50.300 those divorce peeps are a proof of your self-worth. Look how disgusting this is. You are out there 0.97
00:09:56.040 encouraging divorce. Something that is hated. Yes? Dislike. Of course, it's halal. Out there. 1.00
00:10:02.460 Why? And who's it coming from? A single mother. You are telling us about, oh, okay, it's what? 0.97
00:10:08.000 It's divorce peeps are proof of your self-worth. What an irresponsible person you are.
00:10:12.080 What an irresponsible person you are. Let's go to the next video, inshallah.
00:10:20.300 Inshallah. Amazing. I've got another brilliant advice from this sister. Yes? And by the way,
00:10:25.100 with all your respect, and I'm not trying to be disrespectful, with those eyelashes that
00:10:28.460 you have, which I'll be honest with you, do you, like, like, I don't mean to be disrespectful
00:10:33.460 sister, but do you think that looks attractive? Like, well, like, oh, let me guess. Oh, brother,
00:10:36.760 lower your gaze. Oh, my bad. My bad. You know, when your video's popped up, yeah, we're fully
00:10:40.840 maked up and caked up. Yes, not that you should not wear makeup and be public and cake yourself
00:10:44.700 up. No, no. It's my fault that you popped up on my screen and I should have been that.
00:10:47.900 You know, what is those eyelashes? With all due respect, what is those eyelashes? And hear
00:10:52.880 what she says? Beauty tip. Have that baby and leave. What an amazing advice, a responsible 0.99
00:10:59.940 advice for my single mother, advising other Muslim women, have that baby and leave. Amazing. 1.00
00:11:07.240 Beautiful advice. Wallahi, she just proves my point furthermore. Do not go to other women 1.00
00:11:13.160 like her. Wallahi, she'll destroy your marriage. Misery loves company. Okay. She seems still
00:11:19.800 traumatized and all she's talking about is divorce, divorce, divorce, divorce. And it
00:11:23.220 gets worse. Check this next one out. Somebody says, so what do you rather then? A man who's 1.00
00:11:31.380 not on his deed? Listen carefully to what she says, guys. Wallahi, I was like, man, you
00:11:35.460 cannot drop that law. No, no, no. Check this out. Absolutely. Absolutely. Um, I have no
00:11:43.460 desire to be with the men again. Sorry, sister. With all due respect, I don't know which man
00:11:47.400 would want to be with you. She goes, oh, I don't have desire to be with a man. Okay.
00:11:50.720 She's saying basically, absolutely that I do not want to be with a man who's on his deed.
00:11:57.380 Um, but if, I don't know, I smacked my head really hard one day and I decided to get married.
00:12:01.800 Sister, I think you've already smacked your head somewhere already. I think that statement,
00:12:05.760 there's more of a chance you've smacked your head before you've done the video than you
00:12:08.560 are going to smack it after you've done the video. Um, absolutely. Absolutely. Let me
00:12:13.720 put this into perspective, guys. There's two options about your ex because we don't know
00:12:17.340 nothing about him. He hasn't said nothing. And if he's watching this, bro, reach out to
00:12:20.220 me. Firstly, I want to know because I don't, I'm not anybody's side here, but is she even
00:12:24.320 allowing you to see your child? Yes, because we know there are some evil scum dirtbag of sisters 1.00
00:12:29.140 out there. I'll say it to their faces who use the kids. And it's a major sin in Islam 1.00
00:12:33.880 to not show the kids. It's vice versa. If a husband was doing the same, I would say the
00:12:38.220 same thing. Firstly, are you seeing your children? Which is number one. Number two, she's so hostile
00:12:42.380 against religious people. That's why she brings this Dawah bros. Bro, what are you talking 1.00
00:12:45.480 about Dawah bros? What are you on about? Like, just keep attacking us. She's got this vengeance. 1.00
00:12:50.560 She's scorned after Dawah guys. For what? What's she looking for? She's looking for a slip 1.00
00:12:54.200 up. Okay. So she's saying she doesn't, she would not ever go for someone who's on his
00:12:58.900 deed. Wow. So I put it into two perspectives. Number one, he was married to a man who deemed
00:13:05.020 religious. Yes. And there are brothers who do this by the way. I advise sisters, do not 0.72
00:13:09.280 marry a man who's over, like he looks religious. He sounds religious, but the things he's saying
00:13:14.400 is not permissible. Oh, you can't go to here. Or you can't like, like these weird rules because
00:13:20.020 he's insecure within himself. Like, oh, you can't go there. Or you can't go and study.
00:13:24.340 Hold on a second, bro. Shut the hell up, man. Brother, with all due respect, there was
00:13:26.640 a case that came to me. I was shocked. Yeah. So there's either one situation that you was
00:13:31.500 married to a brother who was super religious. And I'm looking and I'm thinking if you was
00:13:34.860 dressed up how you was and with the eyelashes and this, that, I don't know what religious
00:13:37.800 brother would have married you. With all due respect. Number two, you was married to a
00:13:43.860 brother who was on his deed. Like I said before, I don't know. And this is scenarios
00:13:46.640 that happen. Sisters think they want religious, man. You don't want religious, man.
00:13:49.880 You can't deal with a religious man because religious man, they don't mess around. Yes.
00:13:53.840 A religious man is somebody who has boundaries, who is secure in himself, who is masculine. 0.64
00:13:58.440 Okay. Who has, comes to you with traditional values and you and your feministic masculine 1.00
00:14:03.340 energy don't like that because when he tells you those eyelashes can fly, you say, you can't
00:14:08.980 tell me what to do. You're not wearing lipstick. You can't tell me what to do. You're not dressed
00:14:13.400 up like that. You can't tell me what to do. I am the protector and provider, etc. You can't
00:14:18.160 tell me. So when they're dealing with someone like yourself, I'm assuming, most likely, I
00:14:22.380 don't know, with this energy that you're showing, that religious brother's thinking, bro, mind
00:14:25.660 this. This is the type of woman that I'm married. So that sister, or for example, he wants to,
00:14:30.180 God forbid, want to get married again. Oh, hell break loose. Even if he's the protector,
00:14:35.060 provider, good, bad, emotionally intelligent, who shows love, a genuine man that takes care.
00:14:40.660 The moment you mention, you want to get married again in a Islamic way. Nada, brother. 1.00
00:14:45.100 You are finished. You become what? Never marry a religious guy. So islamically, in the sight 1.00
00:14:49.460 of Allah, has he done something wrong? No. But you've reduced him down to what? Religious 1.00
00:14:53.800 men are bad. Why are they bad? Because they come with traditional values that are islamic 1.00
00:14:57.460 and I can't deal with it because I've been brainwashed with feminism and that's why I'm 1.00
00:15:00.880 kicking back. The issue is not with the religious man. The issue is with yourself. Not just you 0.62
00:15:05.960 and lots of sisters. That's the issue. That's why you guys are not ready for a religious 1.00
00:15:08.640 man. Go marry a jahil who looks a bit religious, who go and cheat on you with side chicks 1.00
00:15:12.880 and girlfriends and missions at left, right, center. Okay. Who doesn't remind you to
00:15:16.020 pray salah. Who doesn't need to read Quran. Who doesn't tell you anything. And then you
00:15:19.220 say, yeah, I want that kind of man who looks religious. You're not ready for a religious 1.00
00:15:22.360 man. And when a genuine religious man comes into your life, you can't deal with it because 1.00
00:15:26.700 you don't want that. You're not about that life. You want your nails done every week. 0.98
00:15:29.960 You want to go on holidays. You want to have fine dining and this, that. And you just
00:15:33.420 want someone that wears a robe and looks good. You don't want a religious man. 1.00
00:15:36.000 So I agree with that in that sense. Like Allah says in the Quran, bad men are for bad
00:15:39.740 women. This quote talking about zina and I'm not equating that to the sister here.
00:15:42.860 I would have been at all. Alhamdulillah. Yeah. What I'm saying is this. You can see
00:15:47.000 what kind of a woman you are without your respect sister to come and say, if I came 1.00
00:15:51.240 and said, nah, I'm not, I don't want a woman in her deen. It shows what kind of a man 1.00
00:15:56.140 I am. A man like me, I would say, for example, if I'm not practicing star, I don't want a
00:16:00.520 woman in her deen. It doesn't interest me. I don't have any shared values. It shows 0.99
00:16:04.500 where you are at life. Subhanallah. Okay. It shows. It might be that you was married to
00:16:08.280 a very good man. Yes. That you didn't understand his value. It can be. Or it can be a
00:16:11.960 Dalim. He could be an oppressor for that matter. So this is absolutely disgusting. 0.64
00:16:16.100 Let's go to the next video.
00:16:17.660 Happened to me last year. I exposed a predator and they turned me into a heretic. The men
00:16:21.640 who turn these conversations into, but it's not all us men. Don't generalize. It's not
00:16:26.520 all us thower bros. They are worse than the abusers themselves. Let me explain why.
00:16:31.460 Interesting. When we come and say, don't generalize. It's not all us. We are the problem.
00:16:36.700 Interesting. Let's carry on. Abusers rely on silence, denial, and minimization to continue
00:16:44.080 their harm. Interesting. I like this. I like the way she broke it down. Those terminologies,
00:16:48.100 et cetera. She's dissected it, guys. Let's carry on. So these men who derail the conversation
00:16:53.100 by centering themselves, they become complicit enablers. Interesting. Just by saying we shouldn't
00:16:58.900 generalize because that's what a lot of people do with us Muslims and we're terrorists. No, no, no, no,
00:17:03.860 we are doing this because we are trying to justify it. The abuse and, you know, all these men for
00:17:08.460 some odd reason are narcissists, abusers, and gaslighters. Never the woman. It's always these 0.99
00:17:12.600 men. They are reinforcing the very structures that protects abusers and stops survivors from
00:17:19.620 speaking out. This is exactly what happened to me last year. I exposed a predator and they turned
00:17:24.020 me into a heretic. She exposed an abuser. Who's the abuser? A brother who proposed to her for a second
00:17:29.440 marriage, et cetera. Yes, some things he said was distasteful and the way he went about it was
00:17:33.300 distaste 100%. Did he call you to haram? Did he say let's commit zina? Did he say no? No, it was a
00:17:39.400 marriage. That's an Islamically valid marriage, which of course it was distasteful. I even 1.00
00:17:43.780 personally told it myself. But no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no. But you
00:17:48.380 know, she's sorry, abuser. How do you become an abuser? Without your respect? On what paradigm? But let's
00:17:53.900 carry on. Instead of addressing the actual situation, they took that as a chance to say, it's not all men.
00:17:59.300 I got attacked and threatened and silenced by the good ones. Why? To remind us women that if we dare
00:18:07.360 try to expose, if we dare try to speak up against, if we dare try to empower each other, we will be
00:18:13.900 met with so much backlash. It's better just to keep quiet. Interesting. I don't remember any time or
00:18:19.520 anyone doing a video saying you should not talk about it because I'll be honest with you, I've done
00:18:22.980 videos warning sisters long time ago about certain men who use their religious powers. So sister, you're
00:18:29.300 new to this. I've been talking about this a long time ago, a long time ago. So there's nothing new. You're
00:18:33.080 not a victim without due respect. You are not a victim. Stop playing the victim game, okay?
00:18:37.040 Instead of accepting and acknowledging and speaking against what happened, they chose to deny and deflect, which is
00:18:44.660 what creates the environment that makes abuse possible. And if you as a man truly can't see what's happening
00:18:51.200 right in front of your face, it's because you're a part of the problem. Okay, interesting. So we should come and
00:18:56.180 generalize everybody. We should come and say, it's like me saying, every hijabi woman is like her. Do not marry 1.00
00:19:02.320 hijabis. Every hijabi is like that. Every Muslim woman is like that. Can you imagine me coming and making massive 1.00
00:19:08.420 bog statements and saying, every hijabi is that. Do not marry. What are you on about? Are you okay? You're basically 1.00
00:19:15.280 saying that they should generalize all men. All men are predators. All men are this, that. Without your respect, I'm so
00:19:20.000 sorry. I'm so sorry. Like, if you're going to talk about that, for example, bring evidence on the
00:19:23.920 Quran and Sunnah. You have none. I'll give you some, inshallah, and you can maybe mention some of these. 1.00
00:19:27.880 Okay, all right, let's go. Let's see. Misogyny. Let's see, is the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam
00:19:31.120 a misogyny? Awadu billah. Okay, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam narrated by Ibn Abbas, and I'll end on this
00:19:34.440 video like this, inshallah, yeah? The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, I was shown the hellfire. Oh, now this is what she's
00:19:38.500 saying. Oh, here we go. It's a reality. And the majority of the dwellers were women who were ungrateful. 1.00
00:19:44.220 It was asked, do they disbelieve in Allah? Are they ungrateful to Allah? He replied, they are
00:19:49.060 ungrateful to their husbands, and are ungrateful for the favors and the good charitable deeds done to
00:19:53.720 them. If he was always being good, benevolent to one of them, and she says something in front of her
00:19:59.480 liking, in you, not of her liking, she will say, what? I have never received any good from you.
00:20:05.720 With all your respect, sister, I'm a married man. Okay? And there are many married men that we know.
00:20:10.280 Okay? Women have this in their nature. Now, do they mean it? No. But imagine as a man, 0.98
00:20:17.500 I go to my wife, alhamdulillah, may Allah bless her and preserve her, and I say, I've seen no good in
00:20:21.900 you. That's a bold statement. Now, the thing is, what is the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam
00:20:25.680 telling us? That this is in the nature of a woman. The way she behaves, she's ingratitude. You go to, 1.00
00:20:30.700 I've spoken to non-Muslim men. Some of them, they hear this and they go, whoa, he's definitely the best
00:20:35.460 of Allah. He's the best of God. Okay? This shows you what? But the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam
00:20:39.440 give solution. The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam were not dealing with feministic,
00:20:42.500 masculine women like you, with all due respect. The Ansari women, the women who listen to this,
00:20:46.240 they look for solution. Okay? They understood. Okay, that's a shortcoming in ours. We should
00:20:50.020 be more grateful. Okay? Is the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam misogynist? I would not be
00:20:54.100 surprised if they said yes. So, narrated by Qais ibn Sa'd. Okay? I went to Al-Hira and saw that
00:21:00.180 the people were prostrating themselves before a satrap of theirs. So I said, the Messenger of Allah
00:21:05.620 has most right to have prostration made before him. When I came to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, 0.86
00:21:09.540 I said, I went to Al-Hira and saw them prostrating themselves before a satrap. I don't know what that 0.99
00:21:14.660 means. Of theirs. But you have more right, the Messenger of Allah, to have people prostrating
00:21:18.320 themselves before you. He said, tell me, if you were to pass by my grave, would you prostrate
00:21:23.320 yourself before it? I said, no. He then said, do not do so. If I were to command, oh my gosh,
00:21:29.140 they're going to have a fit now. They're going to rip their hair out, bro. These Muslim 1.00
00:21:32.260 feminist women are going to rip their hair out. Command anyone to prostrate before another 1.00
00:21:36.260 one, I would have commanded the woman, the wife, to prostrate themselves before the husband 1.00
00:21:40.680 because of the special right over them. Now, am I a misogynist? Am I a woman hater? I've
00:21:45.700 got three dooters. I have a wife. I have a brother. No. This is a reality. Men, we have
00:21:52.980 a responsibility. It's not a perk. It's a responsibility that we have one darajah, like Allah says in the
00:21:57.980 Quran in Surah Nisa, we have a darajah of a woman. We are your full-time bodyguard. We 0.88
00:22:02.240 are ready to die and put our life on the line for you. We are the protector and provider
00:22:05.760 for you. Okay. We have to lead you because you have emotional imbalances. Allah has created 0.99
00:22:09.540 you. You're not blameworthy. This is how Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala has created you. And
00:22:13.800 if you have those deficiencies, okay, which is absolutely normal because as men, we have
00:22:17.920 the deficiencies. Allah tells in the Quran, if you turn your back in warfare, it's made you
00:22:22.060 send in a hellfire. Brother, the natural thing to do in war is sometimes turn your back.
00:22:25.600 We are threatened with it. So why? Because Allah knows we can have weaknesses in the battlefield.
00:22:30.360 It's not deficiency. We can be scared. So therefore, Allah gives us a reminder. We
00:22:34.300 don't have a fit over it. So let's go to the next hadith. Now, the Prophet said, isn't the
00:22:39.920 witness of a woman equal to half of the man? The woman said, yes. He said, this is because 0.72
00:22:43.620 of the deficiency, even though the word, some say it's not the correct word, deficiency
00:22:46.740 of a woman's mind. But one thing that's clear and it talks about the religion is because
00:22:50.520 of the menstrual cycle. This is not something you're blameworthy because if you connect
00:22:53.360 the hadith together, the deficiency of the mind and the deficiency of the religion, 0.88
00:22:57.620 the religion is not the woman's fault if she's an amensis. So surely then that means
00:23:01.480 that the scholars say, even in Bintamia, that they're not blameworthy of it. It just shows
00:23:06.680 that in that area, that is not their expertise when it comes to finances or certain specific
00:23:11.760 things. But which shows what? If you're created in that delicate way, you need a man to protect
00:23:16.980 you, guard you, and look after you. That's why the Prophet said, if I was to ask anyone
00:23:20.820 to prostrate to anybody, it will be the woman to the husband because of his right. He's 0.98
00:23:25.640 out there providing and protecting for you and dealing with an ungrateful, oh gosh, how
00:23:28.900 many men are dealing with an ungrateful woman? Okay. And look, look at the rewards. Abu Huraira 0.86
00:23:32.820 reported in the Meshwallah said, if a woman prays her five prayers, fast the month of Ramadan,
00:23:38.000 guards her chastity and obeys her husband. Have you ever come across a hadith that says the
00:23:42.420 opposite? If a man does da da da da da and his wife is pleased with her. Yes? You never find 0.93
00:23:48.560 it. It says she will enter paradise from any gate wishes. That is such an amazing reward.
00:23:53.020 Why? Because it shows the responsibility of a man. It's not a perk. It's a responsibility.
00:23:58.760 That's the reason why you don't see the opposite hadiths pertaining to a woman. You don't. It
00:24:02.780 doesn't mean you don't treat your wife well. Okay. And this one, like for example, Al-Husayn
00:24:09.160 Ibn Mahsan reported his aunt came to Prophet peace be upon him with a need. And when she finished
00:24:14.440 explaining her need, the Prophet said to her, do you have a husband? She said, yes. The
00:24:18.540 Prophet said, how are you with him? She said, she didn't say, how is he with you? She said,
00:24:23.600 how are you with him? She said, I do not neglect him unless I am unable. The Prophet said, look
00:24:28.700 to yourself regarding him, verily he is your paradise or hellfire. Is he a misogynist? Is
00:24:35.140 he a misogynist? Our religion is clear. A man, of course, we have to look after our wives,
00:24:41.280 alhamdulillah. Take care of them. Because when they're pregnant, they're vulnerable. Yes, 0.94
00:24:44.980 when they're on their menses, yes, they have hormonal imbalances. They say things, man. The
00:24:48.860 Prophet said, why smash plays in front of him. But look how the Prophet said, dealt with it
00:24:52.660 gracefully. He said, your mother's upset. We have to excel to be like that, brothers.
00:24:57.600 We take each other's account. But you women don't take each other's account. You play a victim 1.00
00:25:01.060 mentality. You ex-husbanders are always narcissists, manipulators, gaslighters. Get out of
00:25:05.700 here. With all your respect. To come and say all the time the men are the fault is nonsense.
00:25:09.700 The reason I'm doing this video is, guys, to say women like this are homewreckers, destroyers. 1.00
00:25:15.000 You're a single mother. Fix your act. Stop acting masculine. Yes, okay. Islam has given 0.99
00:25:19.260 you your rights. Turn back to your deen. Okay. As much time that you focus on your eyelashes,
00:25:24.940 your makeup, sister, if you gave some of the effort to studying your religion, you wouldn't 0.57
00:25:29.300 be going out and saying, I'm never going to marry a man on his deen. What kind of jahil 1.00
00:25:32.720 statement is that? Okay. I ask Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala to rectify your affairs, deal with 1.00
00:25:36.760 your trauma. And if this man, I haven't taken his word. I haven't heard his story. I don't
00:25:41.700 know nothing about him. You're the one who's just talking. Okay. If he's oppressed you,
00:25:44.480 may Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala deal with him. And if he hasn't, and you was the rebellious
00:25:48.340 one who was an ungrateful woman, and you caused divorce, whatever it is, may Allah subhanahu 1.00
00:25:52.500 wa ta'ala allow you to rectify your affairs that you don't do that in your next marriage.
00:25:55.160 Okay. But again, like I said before, I'm doing this because I hate to see divorces happening.
00:25:59.940 And I hate to see people like this woman who are encouraging divorces till next time. 1.00
00:26:04.160 Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh from your day to day Dawa bros misogynist. Goodbye.