Ali Dawah - REACTING TO ONE NIGHT STAND

00:00:00.560 Assalamu alaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh

00:00:02.000 Brothers and sisters and dear friends, welcome to another episode of the house show

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00:00:53.400 Anyway, so basically, today we're going to be reacting to a comment about a one night stand

00:00:58.380 So this is something that I saw, and personally, I felt a bit, as a man, I felt a bit like

00:01:06.520 Not just uncomfortable, but hurt, I felt like hurt, yeah

00:01:11.580 So what I'm going to do is, I'm going to show it to you guys

00:01:13.420 Are you guys ready?

00:01:14.840 Yeah

00:01:15.200 So this is not a video that we're reacting to, we're reacting to a comment, yeah, of somebody

00:01:18.440 Yeah, okay, so

00:01:19.460 Okay, we've got, here's it on the screen, yeah

00:01:21.740 So this is some guy called Trap, I don't want to mention his name, I'm going to probably blur it out, yeah

00:01:26.660 So he goes, so I had sex with this girl, and after we got done, she closed her eyes

00:01:32.220 Started crying, I asked her, what's wrong?

00:01:37.780 She said, you're going to leave me after this

00:01:39.600 And then he goes, bro, that, whatever, almost made me cry

00:01:45.720 Because she was right, yeah

00:01:47.720 So I don't know, now, I don't know if he, the last comment, he means it in a sarcastic way

00:01:52.440 Or he actually means that, you know, actually, that is what I'm going to do, yeah

00:01:55.020 Yeah, that's what I was going to ask, yeah

00:01:56.120 So now, I don't know how you guys feel about this, but me personally, I felt very distraught, yeah

00:01:59.880 The reason being is, like, like, this guy is giving a reality

00:02:05.300 So if he's not being sarcastic, he's basically saying, yeah, that's what I'm going to do

00:02:08.680 I'm going to go

00:02:09.580 So, like, I'm going to assume it's not sarcastic, because we've got this face there, yeah

00:02:13.440 But, the reason I felt, like, a bit, you know, disgusted, and it really affected me

00:02:19.540 Is because it's just sad, you know

00:02:21.080 Because the thing is, if you look at society today, it's so mash-up, yeah

00:02:24.560 You know, somebody might come and say to me, you know what, she's a female, she has a right, you know

00:02:28.200 She has a right to do this, you know, she feels like that

00:02:30.660 No, they don't, I don't think it's within a female's nature, I'll be honest with you

00:02:34.440 I don't think it's within a female's nature

00:02:35.780 To just be messed around, you know, just be messed around

00:02:39.680 That, you know, they might act strong and be like, oh no, you know, I'm an independent woman

00:02:43.760 You know, I choose who I want to sleep with, etc

00:02:45.840 But, the fact that, like, this is going on

00:02:50.720 This is a reality that, within a woman's nature, it needs security

00:02:54.300 Do you get what I'm trying to say?

00:02:55.720 So, I don't know, personally, I feel really, really upset, man

00:02:57.940 Like, you know, some people might say, look, you know, like, come on, what's wrong with you?

00:03:01.580 Acting like a woman

00:03:02.120 No, it's sad

00:03:02.880 The fact that she feels like, you're going to leave me as well

00:03:06.140 It shows that this happened to her before

00:03:08.360 You know, even to mention that

00:03:09.620 Yeah

00:03:10.320 They're both of them acknowledge that this is the reality

00:03:13.500 Yeah, exactly

00:03:15.080 Both of them, so that she acknowledges prior to doing it

00:03:18.060 Yeah

00:03:18.280 And after the act

00:03:19.560 Yeah

00:03:19.920 That he's going to leave her

00:03:21.060 And he acknowledged after that, yeah, this is the face

00:03:23.200 That's quite profound, see, that's why I like getting new people on the show

00:03:25.340 That was quite profound, exactly

00:03:26.520 So, you're telling me, knowing

00:03:28.440 Knowing, yeah, knowing the reality before it's happened

00:03:31.000 And they still doing it

00:03:31.660 And still accepting it

00:03:32.580 So, she's, obviously, she knows

00:03:34.780 They didn't mention anything, they didn't speak

00:03:36.580 It was after the act, she started crying

00:03:38.240 Yeah

00:03:38.740 So, prior to the act, they knew what was going to happen

00:03:41.160 She knew that after the act, he's going to leave me

00:03:43.220 So, what does that, what does that really say?

00:03:44.660 Because the thing is, if somebody knows it's going to happen

00:03:46.680 And they're still doing it

00:03:47.520 Are they a victim?

00:03:49.480 Are they, what is it?

00:03:50.300 What I would say is acceptance of reality

00:03:53.060 So, her crying shows that, obviously, she doesn't want him to leave her

00:03:58.000 She's kind of, there's some emotion

00:04:00.220 Attachment

00:04:01.740 Yeah, there's some attachment towards her

00:04:03.080 Yeah

00:04:03.740 Whether it be towards her dignity

00:04:06.040 Or whether there's something going on

00:04:07.820 So, after that, she's accepted the fact

00:04:11.100 That he's going to leave her

00:04:13.500 And her crying shows that she's emotionally responding to it

00:04:17.160 She dislikes it

00:04:18.220 So, I would say it shows acceptance

00:04:20.960 Because she doesn't do anything about it

00:04:22.940 Yeah

00:04:23.240 She just allows it to happen to her

00:04:25.300 But that can be for two reasons, yeah

00:04:27.480 That could be either

00:04:28.240 She's just a fake person, for example

00:04:31.380 She just likes doing it and just cries after

00:04:32.980 Or, which I believe, the other, the latter

00:04:35.620 Is that she's trapped in a system

00:04:38.760 Yeah

00:04:39.160 And the system is like this

00:04:40.540 And she has no choice but to do it

00:04:43.800 Now, you might come and say, no, come on

00:04:44.940 Do you get it?

00:04:45.420 No one's forced her

00:04:46.020 But what I'm saying is

00:04:46.760 That you need to understand

00:04:47.880 Just because you haven't got a gun to your head

00:04:49.560 Doesn't mean you're not forced

00:04:51.340 In a way

00:04:52.180 Because if the system is letting the people down

00:04:55.060 Where she's thinking, okay, look

00:04:56.280 I want to get married

00:04:57.220 I don't want to be in this room

00:04:58.100 I want to have one man that I can love

00:04:59.500 And have children with, etc

00:05:00.500 But the system that we live in today

00:05:02.480 Men are about there

00:05:03.420 They don't want that

00:05:03.960 Do you get it?

00:05:05.280 So I'm falling victim to the system, yeah

00:05:07.920 So this is what I see

00:05:09.120 I see like somebody crying out

00:05:10.280 Because it's like somebody who's sinning

00:05:12.100 And then they cry because they hate the sin

00:05:14.760 But they're doing it because maybe

00:05:16.120 They fall into their desires

00:05:17.220 Or whatever it may be

00:05:18.080 But it's like

00:05:19.000 It reminds me of the man

00:05:19.980 The companion of the Prophet

00:05:21.460 Where he was drinking alcohol, yeah

00:05:23.280 And the companions would say to him

00:05:25.140 What's wrong with you, yeah

00:05:26.160 Imagine the Prophet, peace be upon him

00:05:28.680 The messenger of Allah is there

00:05:30.040 And you're doing something

00:05:31.360 You know, in front of him

00:05:32.600 And the companions would one, like, whip him, yeah

00:05:34.560 And they would curse him

00:05:35.880 At one point one companion started cursing him

00:05:37.420 Like, you know, may Allah do this

00:05:38.520 And so the Prophet, peace be upon him, is there

00:05:39.820 And he said, don't say that to him, you know

00:05:41.260 I know he loves Allah and his messenger, yeah

00:05:43.200 So deep inside

00:05:44.580 I know man, Ibn Amr

00:05:45.180 Yeah, you know, yeah

00:05:46.020 I know man, Ibn Amr

00:05:48.240 Yeah, exactly

00:05:48.800 It's like a joker

00:05:49.720 Yeah, is it?

00:05:50.840 Okay, yeah, yeah, yeah

00:05:51.920 It was a funny one

00:05:53.240 Yeah, exactly

00:05:53.980 So yeah, man

00:05:54.980 It just seems like somebody who's doing it out of

00:05:57.100 I don't know, what do you think, man?

00:05:59.440 You know, basically, when I read the tweet

00:06:02.540 It's actually quite shocking

00:06:04.100 Because, I mean, look at what he says at the start

00:06:06.400 He says, so I had sex with

00:06:08.300 Yeah

00:06:09.000 This girl

00:06:09.660 This girl

00:06:10.220 Very casual

00:06:11.340 It's very

00:06:12.340 So it really shows you where our society is

00:06:16.460 How culture has developed

00:06:17.780 Yeah

00:06:18.220 Where, you know, you would kiss and tell to, like, a friend

00:06:22.980 And then maybe that friend would tell another friend

00:06:25.280 Yeah

00:06:25.680 But it would kind of remain in a circle

00:06:28.080 Now you don't know who this guy is, right?

00:06:31.600 But you were able, through technology, you were able to have a window into someone's life

00:06:36.860 And how they lived their life

00:06:38.180 So what shocks me, actually, is the way he says it

00:06:41.000 He says it very casually

00:06:42.080 Well, so, the other day, I was walking in the park

00:06:45.420 Yeah, yeah, yeah

00:06:46.700 Right, that's how he starts it

00:06:48.340 And then he says

00:06:49.040 That's how normalised it's become

00:06:50.240 Yeah, it has normalised, right?

00:06:52.600 And then he goes on and says

00:06:53.700 We got done

00:06:54.820 So she closed her eyes

00:06:56.580 So

00:06:57.380 And then

00:06:59.460 So from one, like

00:07:01.300 This casual thing that he was doing the other day

00:07:03.740 It gets very intense

00:07:05.340 Because now

00:07:06.060 He's confronted with her

00:07:07.840 Emotions

00:07:08.640 Emotions

00:07:09.300 And then

00:07:10.020 Strange enough, that touches him

00:07:12.060 To me, if you were to ask me

00:07:13.580 Do you think he's done that once?

00:07:15.120 No

00:07:15.380 He seems to someone

00:07:16.200 He's been doing it

00:07:17.400 And I feel like this time was the time that really hit him

00:07:20.840 Something hit him

00:07:21.660 And it was the honesty of this girl

00:07:24.800 Because like you were saying early on

00:07:26.120 A lot of these girls

00:07:27.340 Or for the fact, men as well

00:07:30.440 A lot of men

00:07:30.960 Yes

00:07:31.280 Or humans

00:07:32.060 Who are involved in that type of lifestyle

00:07:34.240 Tend to pretend that they're fine

00:07:36.920 And they don't need anyone

00:07:38.060 And they move on after whatever happens

00:07:40.880 But the reality is that

00:07:42.720 You know, you bond

00:07:44.480 Like you bond energies

00:07:47.400 You know, that act

00:07:49.080 I believe really in that

00:07:50.180 In this stuff

00:07:50.680 When you

00:07:51.120 You're in the act of intercourse

00:07:53.880 You are exchanging energies

00:07:56.540 Which is supposed to be

00:07:57.840 This act is supposed to be positive energy

00:07:59.400 Which, yeah, it's positive

00:08:00.520 It's sacred

00:08:01.280 Right

00:08:02.120 We know of the hadith where it says

00:08:03.900 What the sahaba said to the Prophet

00:08:06.040 Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam

00:08:06.560 Oh Rasulullah

00:08:07.640 Do we get punished?

00:08:10.120 For having intercourse?

00:08:12.160 No, do we get rewards

00:08:14.560 Oh yeah

00:08:15.040 For sleeping with our wives?

00:08:16.080 And then the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said

00:08:16.940 You get punishment for sins

00:08:20.020 No, he said

00:08:20.700 Oh yeah, he said

00:08:21.180 The way you get a sin

00:08:22.460 For committing zinnah

00:08:23.420 Zinnah

00:08:23.740 The way you get reward for marriage

00:08:25.740 Yes

00:08:25.960 Doing it in a halal way

00:08:27.620 Yeah

00:08:27.840 So

00:08:28.340 The act of intercourse in a halal way

00:08:32.640 Is a sacred

00:08:33.440 It's very sacred

00:08:34.620 And it's something

00:08:35.580 That is supposed to be

00:08:36.680 Between husband and wife

00:08:37.900 Yeah

00:08:38.220 Now we live in a time

00:08:39.880 Where it's become

00:08:41.040 Like drinking water

00:08:42.060 To be honest

00:08:43.200 This act

00:08:43.700 If you look in history

00:08:44.460 It's always been the case

00:08:45.540 Even

00:08:45.820 If you follow love films

00:08:48.120 From recent

00:08:48.820 They say every time

00:08:49.520 Someone's exposed themselves

00:08:50.680 To someone else

00:08:51.360 They've lost a part of themselves

00:08:52.460 Yeah

00:08:52.960 So they say for example

00:08:53.740 The best relationship

00:08:54.540 Will be the one

00:08:55.440 With your first relationship

00:08:56.960 And if you have several relationships

00:08:58.620 You now for example

00:08:59.740 Protect yourself

00:09:00.800 You don't trust the person

00:09:02.080 You don't expose yourself

00:09:03.360 To the first issues

00:09:04.000 Of course

00:09:04.540 Well it comes with a lot of madness

00:09:05.720 Now one of the things

00:09:06.540 Like I'm just going to bring it in here

00:09:07.660 Is like

00:09:07.920 Like my marriage documentary

00:09:08.940 Which is the whole fundamental thing

00:09:11.140 Behind it

00:09:11.780 And the reason why

00:09:12.600 It's a bit late

00:09:13.140 Is because I'm trying to perfect it

00:09:14.540 In a way where

00:09:15.080 The whole point behind it

00:09:16.400 Is to avoid the zinnah

00:09:17.520 It's my journey of

00:09:19.140 This is what I went through

00:09:20.580 To avoid zinnah

00:09:21.620 Yeah

00:09:21.820 The ups and downs

00:09:22.620 And the madness

00:09:23.140 And all that crazy stuff

00:09:24.040 That you were watching

00:09:24.600 Inshallah

00:09:24.900 Is this is the struggle

00:09:26.860 Because it's so destructive

00:09:28.560 Zinnah is so destructive

00:09:29.820 To the soul

00:09:30.680 If I'm not mistaken

00:09:31.340 Zinnah is

00:09:32.380 For the English speaking people

00:09:34.480 Oh yeah sorry

00:09:35.240 Like

00:09:35.580 Sex outside of marriage

00:09:37.360 Yeah

00:09:37.600 It's so destructive

00:09:38.520 And if I'm not mistaken

00:09:39.660 Saladin Ayubi

00:09:40.620 He said

00:09:40.780 If you want to destroy a nation

00:09:41.640 Make

00:09:42.380 Promiscuous

00:09:43.700 Promiscuous

00:09:45.700 Promiscuous

00:09:46.420 Stuff

00:09:48.320 Like within the community

00:09:49.560 Make it happen

00:09:51.140 Like basically

00:09:51.540 That will ruin

00:09:52.120 The communities

00:09:53.740 Yeah

00:09:54.140 So the thing is

00:09:54.980 That's why

00:09:55.340 It's really really important

00:09:56.420 You know

00:09:57.160 That

00:09:57.540 It just shows you

00:09:59.640 How destructive it is man

00:10:00.760 It just really shows

00:10:01.640 How destructive it is

00:10:02.140 And it's

00:10:03.240 It's really sad man

00:10:04.200 Like I said before

00:10:04.700 You know

00:10:04.880 I don't think

00:10:05.280 And I'll ask you both

00:10:06.480 Now

00:10:08.140 Just

00:10:08.720 I'm assuming

00:10:10.240 This person

00:10:10.740 He's known

00:10:11.400 Right

00:10:11.900 The guy who's tweeting

00:10:12.600 I don't

00:10:13.360 I don't even know

00:10:13.880 To me it seems like

00:10:14.680 A random

00:10:15.000 He just sounds like

00:10:15.540 A random guy

00:10:16.000 It's just being retweeted

00:10:16.920 Oh for the tweet

00:10:17.380 Okay

00:10:18.060 So if

00:10:19.920 If you is in the female's position

00:10:22.580 Even the tweet

00:10:24.080 See this is why

00:10:25.000 Islam protects

00:10:25.660 Protects the woman

00:10:26.640 In all angles

00:10:27.280 Because even the tweet

00:10:28.360 Now for example

00:10:29.880 Imagine it's something

00:10:30.600 That she's now bypassed

00:10:31.880 She's now over the situation

00:10:33.420 Now it's exposed

00:10:35.100 Yes

00:10:35.720 Even if no one knows

00:10:36.620 Who it is

00:10:37.120 She's now

00:10:37.940 Remembering the situation

00:10:39.000 Again

00:10:39.680 And if it's posted again

00:10:41.320 She's remembering it again

00:10:42.600 Very profound

00:10:42.960 So even in

00:10:44.020 Islamic perspective

00:10:45.160 When you think of protection

00:10:46.100 Even in this aspect

00:10:47.320 She's being protected

00:10:48.080 Because even though

00:10:49.760 He's not mentioned anything

00:10:50.820 But like you said

00:10:52.320 Now it's become

00:10:52.800 It's our video right now

00:10:53.860 People who know him

00:10:54.740 And know her

00:10:55.300 Might know

00:10:55.840 Yeah might know the situation

00:10:56.720 She might have spoken

00:10:57.400 To her friend about it

00:10:58.380 Yeah

00:10:58.720 And then to see that

00:10:59.620 Okay her friend

00:11:00.200 Found out through elsewhere

00:11:01.140 But you see also

00:11:02.200 What this shows me

00:11:03.040 This tweet

00:11:03.640 It really shows me

00:11:05.160 Where we're going

00:11:05.700 As humans

00:11:07.140 And that we're totally

00:11:08.360 Losing our humanity

00:11:09.160 Because

00:11:10.660 I mean

00:11:12.380 This is

00:11:13.540 This was given birth

00:11:14.860 By the sexual revolution

00:11:16.080 Of the 60s and 70s

00:11:17.640 Yeah yeah

00:11:17.920 Where females

00:11:19.460 And in particular

00:11:21.260 Because you know

00:11:22.220 Females have always been

00:11:23.440 Kept in like this cage

00:11:25.300 Apparently

00:11:25.860 Not that I

00:11:27.360 From different aspects

00:11:29.520 I agree

00:11:30.000 Yeah

00:11:30.420 But from a sexual

00:11:31.420 Perspective

00:11:32.600 This is what has happened

00:11:34.500 50 years after

00:11:36.120 After this revolution

00:11:37.960 You know

00:11:38.320 I can sleep with whoever I want

00:11:39.800 I can do whatever

00:11:40.720 I want with my sexuality

00:11:42.140 But you see

00:11:43.400 Fast forward to 2018

00:11:45.280 You have

00:11:45.900 Humans

00:11:47.080 Crying

00:11:48.160 After an act

00:11:49.500 Where you should actually

00:11:50.720 Feel more relaxed

00:11:51.740 You should

00:11:52.320 Yeah

00:11:52.660 You should feel

00:11:53.540 Relieved

00:11:54.780 You should feel loved

00:11:56.020 And there's a lot of people

00:11:56.880 She feels the opposite

00:11:57.920 And that's

00:11:59.060 That's the birth

00:12:00.200 Of

00:12:00.540 Being free

00:12:02.400 And do whatever you want

00:12:03.320 It has consequences

00:12:04.200 Exactly

00:12:04.640 You see

00:12:05.420 For the young people

00:12:06.300 That are thinking

00:12:07.560 Everything is

00:12:08.280 You know

00:12:09.420 Excitement

00:12:10.040 Yeah

00:12:10.440 Everything is play

00:12:11.360 Everything is joy

00:12:12.600 And

00:12:13.680 Whether he's a young boy

00:12:15.100 Whether he's a young girl

00:12:16.260 This is an example

00:12:16.980 For the young females

00:12:17.860 She's supposed to be

00:12:19.240 Doing something

00:12:20.140 That is supposed to be

00:12:21.400 A desire

00:12:22.320 It's supposed to be exciting

00:12:23.360 It's supposed to be fun

00:12:24.220 You know

00:12:24.720 All the girls

00:12:25.520 Are being directed

00:12:26.800 Towards that

00:12:27.340 She's now come

00:12:28.700 After that act

00:12:29.560 And she's crying

00:12:30.200 Yeah

00:12:30.560 Now when someone's crying

00:12:31.940 Out of

00:12:32.440 Feeling bad

00:12:33.280 Normally it's

00:12:34.800 A dire situation

00:12:35.840 Yeah

00:12:36.220 It's not something

00:12:36.760 That's normal

00:12:37.720 You don't get shouted

00:12:38.420 At your teacher

00:12:38.960 And you cry

00:12:39.400 And this works

00:12:40.340 In different ways

00:12:41.120 There is situations

00:12:43.220 Where there's girls

00:12:44.000 There's sisters

00:12:44.940 Who are

00:12:45.780 Good sisters

00:12:47.120 Good people

00:12:47.680 But because

00:12:48.620 You know

00:12:49.040 Sometimes I blame

00:12:49.740 A lot of the time

00:12:50.500 The brothers

00:12:51.040 You know

00:12:51.380 Some brothers say to me

00:12:52.300 Why

00:12:52.500 Because I believe

00:12:53.360 You know

00:12:55.180 Like

00:12:55.920 No

00:12:57.860 I blame the brothers

00:12:58.980 Because you know

00:12:59.480 They give false hopes

00:13:00.280 And stuff like that

00:13:01.000 But at the end of the day

00:13:02.280 It's sisters in control

00:13:03.600 Like in a way where

00:13:04.380 Sister if you do not allow it

00:13:05.500 It's not going to happen

00:13:06.040 Yeah

00:13:06.500 Unless it's rape

00:13:07.220 The situation you need to understand

00:13:09.120 That you're in control

00:13:10.240 Now you might come and say

00:13:11.120 You manipulate me

00:13:11.660 Yes

00:13:12.040 Okay

00:13:12.640 But you're still in control

00:13:13.700 To say no

00:13:14.520 I fear Allah

00:13:15.420 And that's the reason

00:13:16.140 Why Allah

00:13:16.460 Subhanahu

00:13:16.640 Legislated that your wali

00:13:17.840 Your father's in that place

00:13:19.740 As your protector

00:13:21.060 Why

00:13:21.420 Because a man knows a man

00:13:22.940 Everything that Allah

00:13:24.420 And his messenger have said

00:13:25.320 Believe me

00:13:25.900 The Prophet

00:13:26.240 Doesn't talk

00:13:27.400 Or utter

00:13:28.160 But there is wisdom behind it

00:13:29.940 There is nothing

00:13:30.800 Even today when we had food

00:13:31.760 Usually he orders his own food

00:13:33.680 I order my own food

00:13:34.400 Today we went and said

00:13:35.400 You know what I'm going to eat

00:13:36.060 I order some stuff

00:13:37.120 Where we share together

00:13:37.860 But that plate was clean

00:13:39.300 And the Prophet

00:13:40.600 Said

00:13:41.260 And the Prophet

00:13:44.080 Said

00:13:44.400 What's enough for one

00:13:45.040 Is enough for two

00:13:45.660 And you live it

00:13:46.960 It's a sunnah

00:13:47.960 And the Prophet

00:13:48.500 Whatever he says

00:13:49.540 He says it's for a reason

00:13:50.300 Like the man who came

00:13:51.160 And said

00:13:51.320 The Prophet

00:13:52.200 The Messenger of Allah

00:13:53.200 Make zina permissible for me

00:13:54.720 And the Prophet

00:13:55.600 Obviously if it was

00:13:56.680 You get a few brothers

00:13:58.240 Who studied the religion here

00:13:59.240 They would have done

00:13:59.840 Bathurst would probably

00:14:00.560 Beat the crap out of the guy

00:14:01.300 But look at the Hikm

00:14:02.320 Of the Prophet

00:14:02.640 He's reasoned with him

00:14:04.440 And some of the comments

00:14:05.260 Probably were going to beat him up

00:14:06.080 And he's asking

00:14:07.180 The Messenger of Allah

00:14:08.100 To make something

00:14:08.780 Haram

00:14:09.480 He said

00:14:10.440 Would you like that

00:14:10.860 For your sister

00:14:11.320 He made him realise

00:14:12.380 And this guy

00:14:13.420 If you're watching

00:14:13.940 I don't know whoever he is

00:14:15.100 I don't know if you watch it

00:14:16.060 But would you like that

00:14:17.200 For your sister

00:14:17.560 Imagine someone doing that

00:14:18.500 To your sister

00:14:19.000 Yeah

00:14:19.480 So the act is wrong

00:14:21.420 We're not saying

00:14:21.900 Don't do it

00:14:22.740 Because it's going to be done

00:14:23.300 To your sister

00:14:23.620 The act from the get go

00:14:25.100 Is wrong

00:14:25.400 So I'm going to wrap up

00:14:27.040 Is there any last words

00:14:27.560 You guys want to say

00:14:28.100 I think

00:14:28.840 This is a very interesting topic

00:14:30.980 And also what is very interesting

00:14:32.820 Is that it's showing you

00:14:34.560 Humans

00:14:35.660 Yeah

00:14:36.220 This

00:14:36.700 This is what happens

00:14:38.180 When for

00:14:39.480 For 50 years

00:14:41.160 You have a diesel car

00:14:42.760 And you put petrol into it

00:14:44.060 Yeah

00:14:44.640 Eventually

00:14:45.600 The engine will crack

00:14:47.460 Yes

00:14:47.960 And that's exactly what's happening

00:14:49.340 She is a human

00:14:50.680 She's acting the way

00:14:51.980 A human would act

00:14:52.880 Yes

00:14:53.280 If you're doing something

00:14:54.600 That humans are supposed to do

00:14:56.300 In a certain way

00:14:56.980 Yeah

00:14:57.360 You're doing it the wrong way

00:14:58.920 That's the reaction

00:15:00.500 To everyone

00:15:01.580 And also another thing

00:15:02.560 I just wanted to correct you

00:15:03.660 Early on you said

00:15:04.420 Females feel

00:15:06.020 In a certain way

00:15:07.180 Man's

00:15:08.480 Man feel

00:15:09.660 Equally

00:15:10.780 In a certain way

00:15:12.560 They feel vulnerable

00:15:13.500 If a man gets rejected

00:15:15.240 By a girl he likes

00:15:16.600 Or he knows that

00:15:17.880 The girl is playing him

00:15:18.820 Yeah

00:15:19.240 Man are very hurt by that too

00:15:20.980 No of course

00:15:21.500 Of course

00:15:21.820 But I don't

00:15:22.160 Do you think it's on the same level

00:15:23.220 Where it's like

00:15:23.820 A woman is actually

00:15:24.580 Being used for a certain act

00:15:26.040 Because for men

00:15:26.460 It's like sometimes

00:15:27.000 Pleasure

00:15:27.460 Do you get it?

00:15:28.380 The culture

00:15:29.160 The culture that we're in

00:15:30.200 Nowadays

00:15:30.720 I mean

00:15:31.740 I don't want to

00:15:32.760 Reference him

00:15:33.500 But Drake

00:15:34.140 But Drake came out

00:15:35.320 With a type of music

00:15:36.720 For men

00:15:37.880 To like

00:15:39.100 He has songs

00:15:40.020 Where he talks about

00:15:40.860 How Femo played him

00:15:42.100 Yeah

00:15:42.720 Do you know what I mean?

00:15:43.720 That type of

00:15:44.280 It didn't exist before

00:15:46.540 But now in 2018

00:15:47.840 You have that

00:15:48.660 Yeah

00:15:49.200 So it's

00:15:49.620 What I want to say

00:15:51.300 Is very important

00:15:51.940 That people need to understand

00:15:52.920 That this act here

00:15:54.400 Has been rapped about

00:15:56.280 Or has been sung about

00:15:57.400 You know like

00:15:58.620 The

00:15:59.080 The side chick thing

00:16:00.760 A few years ago

00:16:01.720 It was very big

00:16:02.440 Side chick

00:16:02.920 They were being accepted

00:16:03.640 Oh I'm number two

00:16:04.920 I'm number

00:16:05.500 I'm number two

00:16:06.360 I'm the side chick

00:16:07.740 I'm going to do another video

00:16:08.700 On that as well

00:16:09.200 So it's things

00:16:10.840 That are in culture

00:16:11.840 And they're sung by artists

00:16:13.840 They're shown

00:16:14.960 On these reality shows

00:16:16.260 Love and hip hop

00:16:17.560 So it normalises things

00:16:19.380 And then you see people

00:16:20.420 Talking about it

00:16:21.440 Like it's nothing

00:16:22.000 You see again

00:16:22.920 This whole tweet

00:16:24.100 You've got

00:16:24.960 One minute

00:16:26.660 This whole tweet

00:16:27.640 I mean

00:16:28.060 How it shows

00:16:29.500 What it shows is

00:16:30.200 If you just follow

00:16:31.620 Completely your desires

00:16:32.760 And you don't think

00:16:34.260 And you don't follow your brain

00:16:35.880 Then the act of following

00:16:37.900 Your desires

00:16:38.460 Is going to lead to self-harm

00:16:39.660 Yeah

00:16:40.040 Just by doing the desire itself

00:16:41.960 Yes

00:16:42.280 Now if you fulfil your desire

00:16:43.920 But you start thinking of how

00:16:45.360 You think okay

00:16:46.340 Is this person right for me

00:16:47.440 Is this person

00:16:47.880 Is he going to leave me

00:16:49.200 Okay

00:16:49.560 If he's going to leave me

00:16:50.340 I don't need him

00:16:50.920 Is this person going to stay with me

00:16:52.160 Can I have kids with him

00:16:53.060 Yeah

00:16:53.500 And you do the act

00:16:54.300 It's long term

00:16:54.860 It's self-development

00:16:56.060 So it's not like a fix

00:16:56.860 Yeah yeah of course

00:16:57.680 Of course

00:16:58.020 You become a better person

00:16:59.260 When you do the right things

00:17:00.400 When you

00:17:01.100 This is

00:17:01.740 Islam doesn't stop your desires

00:17:03.780 Yeah

00:17:04.160 Yeah

00:17:04.540 It's not to stop your desires

00:17:06.020 No of course not

00:17:06.680 It's to

00:17:07.360 Fulfill them

00:17:08.060 Fulfill them in the right way

00:17:08.860 Control them

00:17:09.340 Fulfill them

00:17:09.880 In the right way

00:17:10.680 So what is the moral of the story then

00:17:12.180 The moral of the story is

00:17:13.640 Like Allah says in the Quran

00:17:15.380 You know

00:17:16.200 Wala taqrabu zina

00:17:17.280 I say right yeah

00:17:19.800 Just have to check with my teacher

00:17:21.920 Do not even come close to zina

00:17:24.040 Very simple

00:17:24.800 This is

00:17:25.680 Very very simple

00:17:26.660 It's very simple

00:17:27.320 In front of you guys

00:17:27.980 And like I said before

00:17:29.180 The difference between us

00:17:29.940 The animals and the angels

00:17:31.320 If you follow your desires

00:17:32.880 What's the difference between you

00:17:33.980 And that cataw animal

00:17:34.720 He eats like you

00:17:35.580 And goes toilet like you

00:17:36.360 And he's following his desires

00:17:37.220 There's no difference

00:17:38.280 If you want to be better than the angels

00:17:39.960 Allah has given you a free will

00:17:41.400 Yeah the angels have to do as they're told

00:17:42.740 You have the free will

00:17:43.940 To abstain from it

00:17:44.920 That's it brothers and sisters

00:17:46.240 Hope you guys have enjoyed this video

00:17:47.340 Inshallah

00:17:47.660 Once again Inshallah

00:17:49.200 I want to say

00:17:49.740 Thank you to the Muslim Box Company

00:17:52.280 May Allah bless them

00:17:53.120 Check out their products as well

00:17:54.180 Inshallah

00:17:54.980 The marriage documentary

00:17:55.760 We are working very hard on it

00:17:57.000 With it

00:17:57.580 Hard on it

00:17:58.600 Inshallah

00:17:59.000 It's going to come out at the end

00:18:00.320 Soon Inshallah

00:18:01.280 Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh

00:18:02.760 Thank you

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