REACTING TO SON HITTING MUM - DISTURBING
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Summary
Brothers and sisters and dear friends, in this very moment in this capitalistic times that we live in, it is very common to see a man hit his own mother with the force and rage of a sword or a gun. What would you do if your own mother was coming to you with a sword and you needed to defend her?
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assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh brothers and sisters and dear friends
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there was a video that was circulating that was sent to me and i avoided watching it
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today i came to visit brother azishan and we was talking about this
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and it came to my attention and i'm going to try to watch it i haven't seen it before
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um and we want to elaborate on it because i think there's big lessons for us to learn
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okay guys so i don't know what was being said but um
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i don't know sometimes you get lost for words with
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you know there's no excuses you know it reminds me of a narration from abdul ibn umar
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and he saw a yemeni man carrying his mother on his shoulders doing tawaf
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and he was doing tawaf and as he was doing that he was repeating a chant he was saying
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you know i'm my mother's humble camel or i'm like my mom's donkey like he was belittling himself
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and he came to abdul ibn umar and he said did i repay back my mom because i've carried her all this
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time etc doing tawaf have i repaid her back for what she's done for me abdul ibn umar radiyallahu an
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he said you didn't pay her back for one off she said when she was giving birth to you
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you did not repay her back for one off you she gave she did when she was giving birth to you
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now to see this vile man to hit his mom with that force and rage wallah to me it's
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this man i personally believe these kind of people brothers sisters wallah i believe their
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hands should be broken and i'll be honest with you and you might say it's harsh wallah i don't
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think it's harsh at all the one who's looked after you and brought you to this age for you to
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no matter what wallah if your mom is coming to you with a sword you know what you need to do
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you need to run she's coming to you with a gun you need to hide to justify and people do this
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wallah you'll be shocked i hear stories people beating their own mothers hitting their own
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mothers swearing out their own mothers calling police on their own mothers brothers and sisters
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wallahi don't ever expect any barakah in your life wallahi you're looking be it marriage be it
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business be it whatever if you see that there is problems always arising nothing
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going right question certain things your relation with others if you can't even wrong a cat
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what about the one who has bared you for nine months and sometimes don't get it twisted with
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my mom sometimes yes i upset my mom how sometimes she wants something i'm like mom this let's do this
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is better and then i realized i had a realization two days ago and i said to myself you know what
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ali you're giving a recommendation but maybe your mom doesn't want that recommendation
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maybe what she wants and i'll give you the example if my mom says to me go and get milk and i say mom
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she says to me go and get milk from this shop let's suppose yeah okay sainsbury's or tesco whatever
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you want to call it yeah and i go mom but they sell the same milk here brother if your mom saying go
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tesco go tesco if your mom is or parents or dad is telling you to do something do it oh no i no no no
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i'm telling you i'm guilty sometimes my dad asks me for certain things and i'm like okay i'll do it and
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says oh you always say you do it you don't do it well like it's embarrassing if this is embarrassing
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if this we should question ourselves and ask ourselves subhanallah what about the one who
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raises his hand to his mother wallahi don't i'm telling you do not ever think you're going to
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smell the fragrance of jannah if you are beating your own mom hitting your own mom insulting your
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own mom swearing at your own mom wallahi you know what is the biggest biggest worst thing that
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your mom reaches her old age and you put in a care home and your dad and this is happening in
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this very moment in this capitalistic um times that we live in oh nuisance i can't look after it's
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too much wife doesn't want it and you take them and put them in care homes lonely you don't go to
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visit them wallahi wallahi how would you answer allah subhanahu wa ta'ala on the day of judgment
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this video shows to you an extreme scenario brothers and sisters we need to work on smaller smaller things
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because our parents and you're going to be a parent you know if you're a mom a dad that's what my mom
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would always say to me say to me you will know my mom would say to me the day you have your own child
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you say to me mom you haven't loved me enough that's what mom would say to me they will say once
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you have your own child you say you know what mom you haven't loved me enough because yeah you would
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understand the love one has towards their child brothers and sisters imagine you bringing a child to this age
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and he's like this anyways this person doing this brothers and sisters cherish your parents because
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wallahi i know people whose parents have died they will give the entire globe and world to have them
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here for a split second subhanallah we ask allah to deal with this guy guide him inshallah i'm not
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going to say much um and inshallah we learn a lesson from this brothers and sisters cherish your mom
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wallahi if you're watching this video go and kiss your mom's feet obey your parents wallahi go get them
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flower whatever it may be best wallahi and one thing that i'll tell you do not leave the house
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without your mom's blessings if i ever upset my mom i say mom wallahi wallahi i'm not trying to sound
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humble wallahi i fear i go and something happens to me i fear because i've upset you mom please forgive
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me i was wrong i was i was wrong forgive me you have to honor and one thing is what brothers sisters kiss
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the forehead of your parents your mom or your dad honor them when they come we've done this from
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when your dad comes you get up from him do not ever ever call him by his name when he's walking
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do not walk in front of him when he's talking do not ever subhanallah brothers and sisters obey your
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parents allah says in the quran after i command you to worship me you obey your parents wallahi this is
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what we should do inshallah and for those people and i'll finish on this note subhanallah some people
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they want a certain game or they want to play something their parents they get off it they insult their
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parents wallahi your young kids who are playing games and stuff like this fear allah wallahi that
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very game that you're so addicted to a day would come you would die and give all those games in
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return for your mother to be there cherish your parents before it's too late because once they're
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gone no regrets gonna bring them back assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh