Ali Dawah - October 05, 2020REACTING TO TURKISH WOMAN MURDERED - ALI & MUM
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Summary
In this episode, we will be reacting to a recent case of a woman being killed by her husband in Turkey. We will also be raising awareness to the fact that this is happening more and more often in Turkish culture.
Transcript
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As-salamu alaykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh to you brothers and sisters and dear friends, hope you guys are well inshaAllah.
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So as you guys requested highly for my mum to do another video with my mum.
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The first one was about the evil eye, we did about evil eye and the blue things Turkish people have in their culture.
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Today we're going to be reacting to something a bit more important which is costing people's lives, especially females.
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Innocent females are being killed and this is happening a lot when I sometimes go to visit my mum or when she visits us.
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I open Turkish TV for her and I can hear in the background this woman got killed because of that reason.
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The husband wanted to or the boyfriend wanted to reconcile because don't forget Turkey is half secular, half religious.
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So that's why you have a lot of people in premarital relationships.
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So that's why the boyfriend, it's mainly the corporates of men.
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So that's the reason why we want to raise awareness to this and put a stop to this if we can or at least raise awareness to it.
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I'm very thankful for watching them and for what I want to do.
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And if you guys want more videos, let us know in the comment section.
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Now we're going to do it straight into this video.
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In this video, this is another case of a killing.
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And I'm going to be reacting with my mum, inshaAllah.
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11 ay önce boşanmak isteyen karısına son kez konuşalım dedi.
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Zavallı kadını öldürüp cesetle 2,5 saat İstanbul turu attı.
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Boşanmak isteyen karısını son kez görüşelim diye kandırdı.
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Tüm bunlara rağmen cezası 11 aydır belli olmadı.
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Arzu Sabancıoğlu, kocası Deniz Sabancıoğlu'dan boşanmak.
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O cesetle de tam 2,5 saat boyunca İstanbul sokaklarında tur attı.
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Sence neden bu kadar rahatlar kadınları öldürmek için Türkiye'de?
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Mesela bir kadını böyle yaptığında o cani mesela yapan insan ceza almış olsa bir daha bunu yapmazlar.
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Çünkü gerçekten yazık bak o hapse gidecek bu ilk ve son değil.
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Bunun gibi her gün dinliyorum Türk televizyonlardan.
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Boşandığı kocası yıllar sonra geliyor kadını öldürüyor.
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But I'm just saying they have this, you know, kind of obsession that even if the wife after divorce moves on,
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to them it's like, oh, now another man is with my ex-wife.
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But we're going to be speaking about certain verses in the Quran which talks about this.
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My mum said that she wants like capital punishment.
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You're going to, obviously, the Islamic system, yeah, we have courts and legislation in place for this,
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Through the courts, the courts will ask the family an eye for an eye.
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But the thing is, it's at the discretion of the family.
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You will owe them this way. You will give us a way!
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on a few verses because this is very important brothers sisters it's these men sadly you know
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today's times that we live we have these weird cultural things one of the reasons why islam
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came down is to abolish these weird cultural uh you know um things you know uh cultural values yeah
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i don't know what the value is behind that and the different people have different things like
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in saudi in arabia arabian peninsula they used to bury girls alive why because it was you know
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it's the grades one etc um and they used to bury their own daughters alive um
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now the thing is this brothers and sisters allah subhanahu wa ta'ala says in the quran in surah
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he says and when you divorce women and they have nearly fulfilled their term either retain them
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accordingly in peace to acceptable terms or release them accordingly in peace to acceptable terms and
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do not keep them intending harm to transgress against them and whoever does that has certainly
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wronged himself and do not take the verse of allah in jest and remember the favor of allah upon you
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and what has been revealed to you of the book and the wisdom by which it instructs you so allah
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saying don't take my words as in jest yeah and feel that i know that allah is knowing all things
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allah quran'da diyorkin surah bakara eğer um ayrılmak istiyorsanız kadınlarla güzel bir şekilde
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ayırın tabi ki eğer barışmak istiyorsanız güzel bir şekilde barışın tabi ki an medene bir şekilde
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yani diyor ki onlara zarar vermeyi karkışmayın one thing that's really important promises is allah subhanahu
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wa ta'ala when you legislated for example the free talaq in in the quran what we need to understand is
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you see a lot of people think this is like some kind of the powerful men yeah the reason why it was limited to
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three it was actually in favor of women why because back in those days in arabian peninsula
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what the uh what they used to do is that they would divorce their wives and they were divorced
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many times three times four times five times and what they would do is as the woman is about to
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uh it's a similar thing as to move on with their life they'll say no i'll take you back
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so they were just taking basically the mick you know they were not allowing their ex-wives to move on
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so allah subhanahu wa ta'ala came and limited it to three meaning you have three options three times
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if you do it three times she's not coming back it's haram and we know that it's a man so if you
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look at it from that perspective it's actually death there to own a woman because it's saying
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after you give free divorce it's enough you can't keep playing around with her and stopping her from
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moving on and calling her back and that's what the arab men uh back in those days in jahili used to do
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so the thing is brothers and sisters the reason why sadly these men because they don't have islam i
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believe islam is a solution to whole mankind if implemented properly you can see here that even
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my mom said that there should be capital punishment with these kind of people and women are getting
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killed left right center in turkey and as a person of influence and my platform i want to raise awareness
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to this because you know like these are like our sisters mothers daughters you know and allah subhanahu
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wa ta'ala told us the best amongst you is the one that is best to his family brothers and sisters and
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we know how the prophet's character was with his own wives we know how he was subhanahu wa ta'ala these
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men kill their wives over something petty the person to send them there was an instance where once he came
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and aisha and his wife was angry yeah because peygamberin um eşi geldi um sinirliydi biliyon
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bir yemek yaptı peygamberin öbür eşi de bir yemek yaptı baktı ki o öbür eşinin yemeğini yiyor tamam kıskandı aldı yemeği yere böyle
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pat diye çarptı peygamber ne kızdı ne bağırdı ne dövdü dedi ki ne dedi dedi anneniz
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sinirlendi bana anion tek dedi şey oydu so the prophet that's all he said when aisha
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he smashed the plate on the floor he said look your mother got angry yeah subhanallah imagine us if
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it was us today our wife coming and smashing the plate so brothers and sisters it's important for
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us to understand if you're not getting on move simple as allah's legislated divorce for a reason
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move on it's as simple as that to go and commit murder which is one of the major sins murder to
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take somebody's life you know and somebody will wrongly so you know you're not even you're taking
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subhanallah for what what have they done to you nothing yeah and i'm not saying that there are
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some women yes there are some women subhanallah awudu billah amina shaitana rajim yeah awudu billah
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you cannot live with them yeah it's the same goes with men so i'm not trying to take one side but in
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turkey specifically women are being killed left right center and we need to put a stop to this
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inshallah and it was to raise awareness with my mom um rightly so to have a female here and said you know
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you know why i was talking about female issues so başta söylemek istediğin şey var mı
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yes sadece bunları zaten her gün izlediğimizde gerçekten içimizde o kadar yani eee öfkeleniyoruz ki
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çünkü ceza verilmiyor adam gidiyor rahat at bak düşün ölen insana bir de ceza olarak arabasına
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gezdiriyor yani bu büyük cesaret nedir bu ne demek oluyor diyor ki tekrar yapacağım yani o
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anlama geliyor yani meydan okuyorsun yani bunlara gerçekten bir ceza verilsin çünkü her gün izlemekten
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kadın olarak ben çok üzülüyorum çok çok çok yani çünkü eee hem cinsimdir bir de insan olarak bir de
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vicdani olarak ve insan hiç rahat olmuyor ııı böyle yani erkeklerin kendine yediremediği için bunları
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yapıyorlar çoğu erkekler kıskançlığında yani ne de o ne diyorum islam islamı takip etseler is Allah
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kuranda diyor yani sen hakkın yok evlen eğer boşandıysa boşandı sana ne büyük sebep odur that they cannot they
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them that um their wife is just going to move on with another one because in their head they see
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the woman as a like you know like a perverted i don't know what god knows how they see it like oh
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no another man's going to be intimate with my ex-wife so what bro she's your ex-wife if you did
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not and and this is one of the wisdoms of Allah and i'll finish on this note it's very important i'll
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finish on this note the reason why that you after the first talaq you give her you cannot take her
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back and this is a a consequence for the males because a lot of sisters think oh man so lucky you
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can give talaq when he likes no because if after the third talaq the man has to realize and understand
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after i give this the rule is what that she has to move on and be intimate with another man and then
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if she divorces then you can take her back so if a man has calculated and understood that that's going
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to take place and he's willing to give the third talaq that means he doesn't care it means like the game
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Because when you stand behind them, you don't stand behind them.
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When it comes to marriage and the solutions to that, inshallah.