Ali Dawah - REACTING TO TURKISH WOMAN MURDERED - ALI & MUM

00:00:00.000 As-salamu alaykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh to you brothers and sisters and dear friends, hope you guys are well inshaAllah.

00:00:29.000 So as you guys requested highly for my mum to do another video with my mum.

00:00:32.420 The first one was about the evil eye, we did about evil eye and the blue things Turkish people have in their culture. 1.00

00:00:37.660 Today we're going to be reacting to something a bit more important which is costing people's lives, especially females. 0.90

00:00:44.660 Innocent females are being killed and this is happening a lot when I sometimes go to visit my mum or when she visits us.

00:00:51.320 I open Turkish TV for her and I can hear in the background this woman got killed because of that reason. 0.92

00:00:55.800 The husband wanted to or the boyfriend wanted to reconcile because don't forget Turkey is half secular, half religious.

00:01:04.200 So that's why you have a lot of people in premarital relationships.

00:01:08.120 So that's why the boyfriend, it's mainly the corporates of men.

00:01:10.980 So that's the reason why we want to raise awareness to this and put a stop to this if we can or at least raise awareness to it.

00:01:15.840 So I'm here with my mum.

00:01:18.000 As-salamu alaykum.

00:01:18.880 As-salamu alaykum.

00:01:19.720 As-salamu alaykum.

00:01:20.160 How are you?

00:01:21.000 Fine, thank you.

00:01:22.360 Try and send me a video at my mum.

00:01:24.400 I'm very thankful for watching them and for what I want to do.

00:01:29.020 I'm speaking like a famous.

00:01:30.400 Thank you.

00:01:31.220 Thank you for requesting me and watching me.

00:01:34.300 Yes, my mum is thanking you guys.

00:01:37.760 And if you guys want more videos, let us know in the comment section.

00:01:42.000 Now we're going to do it straight into this video.

00:01:43.120 In this video, this is another case of a killing.

00:01:46.120 Let's see how it unfolded.

00:01:48.020 And I'm going to be reacting with my mum, inshaAllah.

00:01:51.280 Let's do it, inshaAllah.

00:01:52.180 Hazur mısın? 0.89

00:01:52.900 As-salamu alaykum.

00:01:53.580 11 ay önce boşanmak isteyen karısına son kez konuşalım dedi.

00:01:58.600 Arabaya bindiler. 0.95

00:01:59.660 Sonra o cani korkunç planını gerçekleştirdi.

00:02:02.500 Zavallı kadını öldürüp cesetle 2,5 saat İstanbul turu attı.

00:02:06.960 Arada 11 ay geçti.

00:02:08.860 O cani hala ceza almadı.

00:02:14.700 Annesini çok soruyor.

00:02:16.620 5 tane hayat mahvoluyor burada.

00:02:18.400 Çocuğun, babamın, benim, ablamın, annemin.

00:02:21.600 Biz zaten acı yaşıyoruz.

00:02:23.580 Bu acının son bulmasını istiyoruz artık.

00:02:26.300 Boşanmak isteyen karısını son kez görüşelim diye kandırdı.

00:02:30.660 Pompalı tüfekle öldürdü.

00:02:32.360 Arabadaki cesetle 2,5 saat dolaştı.

00:02:35.400 Tüm bunlara rağmen cezası 11 aydır belli olmadı.

00:02:39.440 Özlüyorum.

00:02:40.300 25 yaşındaydı.

00:02:41.520 6 sene evli kaldı.

00:02:42.880 5 yaşında çocuğum var.

00:02:44.680 Yani bir tane ablam vardı benim.

00:02:46.400 Korkunç cinayetin adresi Sancaktepe.

00:02:49.340 Arzu Sabancıoğlu, kocası Deniz Sabancıoğlu'dan boşanmak.

00:02:52.420 Kısa süre sonra aralarında tartışma çıktı.

00:02:55.440 Cani koca karısını önce bıçakladı.

00:02:57.760 Sonra da pompalı tüfekle öldürdü.

00:02:59.560 O cesetle de tam 2,5 saat boyunca İstanbul sokaklarında tur attı.

00:03:03.920 Sence neden bu kadar rahatlar kadınları öldürmek için Türkiye'de?

00:03:07.920 Çünkü kadın hakları Türkiye'de yok maalesef.

00:03:11.000 Yani sözde var ama aslında yoktur.

00:03:13.460 Mesela bir kadını böyle yaptığında o cani mesela yapan insan ceza almış olsa bir daha bunu yapmazlar.

00:03:20.080 Sence ne tür bir ceza öldürür?

00:03:22.840 Bence böyle bir cezaya idam gelsin.

00:03:25.860 Tecavüzculara, bunlara idam gelsin.

00:03:28.200 İdam gelsin ki bir daha tekrarlanmasın.

00:03:30.780 Çünkü gerçekten yazık bak o hapse gidecek bu ilk ve son değil.

00:03:34.900 Bunun gibi her gün dinliyorum Türk televizyonlardan. 0.83

00:03:37.600 Her gün bir kadın mesela kadın boşanıyor. 0.79

00:03:40.760 Boşandığı kocası yıllar sonra geliyor kadını öldürüyor.

00:03:43.600 Ya böyle bir hakkı kendine nasıl bulabiliyor?

00:03:45.340 Ben onu anlamıyorum gerçekten.

00:04:15.340 I'm not generalised.

00:04:16.560 I'm not saying all of them are like that.

00:04:17.580 But I'm just saying they have this, you know, kind of obsession that even if the wife after divorce moves on,

00:04:22.540 to them it's like, oh, now another man is with my ex-wife.

00:04:26.520 They can't fathom that.

00:04:27.820 And I don't know where that comes from.

00:04:29.060 I don't know if it's culture.

00:04:29.800 I don't know where it comes from.

00:04:31.020 But we're going to be speaking about certain verses in the Quran which talks about this.

00:04:34.760 And let's talk about a bit of a solution.

00:04:36.560 My mum said that she wants like capital punishment. 1.00

00:04:39.120 And I agree.

00:04:39.940 Because Islamically, you have three options.

00:04:42.320 Yeah? 0.98

00:04:42.860 If you kill someone, it's an eye for an eye.

00:04:44.660 You're going to, obviously, the Islamic system, yeah, we have courts and legislation in place for this,

00:04:53.180 not just anybody, yeah?

00:04:54.380 Through the courts, the courts will ask the family an eye for an eye. 0.99

00:04:57.260 He killed, yeah, you want death for him.

00:04:59.380 Or you can ask for blood money or forgive.

00:05:01.420 And Allah says it is better that you forgive.

00:05:03.300 But the thing is, it's at the discretion of the family.

00:05:05.580 They are the ones that are hurt.

00:05:06.820 Because the family get killed again.

00:05:08.580 How?

00:05:08.780 Because, that's the one.

00:05:10.160 Of experience isu że

00:05:13.540 She died the age

00:05:15.540 Just a while

00:05:23.240 So even in luck

00:05:24.700 T

00:05:26.000 The

00:05:27.920 My father

00:05:28.540 Let do

00:05:29.760 I

00:05:30.160 I

00:05:32.160 I

00:05:32.460 I

00:05:33.420 I

00:05:34.300 See

00:05:36.680 So

00:05:38.640 You will owe them this way. You will give us a way!

00:05:51.160 Exactly.

00:05:51.820 Let's carry my破. It's nearly finished.

00:06:08.640 on a few verses because this is very important brothers sisters it's these men sadly you know

00:06:13.980 today's times that we live we have these weird cultural things one of the reasons why islam 1.00

00:06:18.500 came down is to abolish these weird cultural uh you know um things you know uh cultural values yeah

00:06:26.600 i don't know what the value is behind that and the different people have different things like

00:06:30.260 in saudi in arabia arabian peninsula they used to bury girls alive why because it was you know 1.00

00:06:35.620 it's the grades one etc um and they used to bury their own daughters alive um

00:06:41.060 now the thing is this brothers and sisters allah subhanahu wa ta'ala says in the quran in surah

00:06:49.000 he says and when you divorce women and they have nearly fulfilled their term either retain them 0.94

00:06:55.100 accordingly in peace to acceptable terms or release them accordingly in peace to acceptable terms and

00:07:01.460 do not keep them intending harm to transgress against them and whoever does that has certainly

00:07:06.800 wronged himself and do not take the verse of allah in jest and remember the favor of allah upon you

00:07:11.980 and what has been revealed to you of the book and the wisdom by which it instructs you so allah

00:07:16.500 saying don't take my words as in jest yeah and feel that i know that allah is knowing all things

00:07:21.420 allah quran'da diyorkin surah bakara eğer um ayrılmak istiyorsanız kadınlarla güzel bir şekilde

00:07:28.380 ayırın tabi ki eğer barışmak istiyorsanız güzel bir şekilde barışın tabi ki an medene bir şekilde

00:07:32.300 yani diyor ki onlara zarar vermeyi karkışmayın one thing that's really important promises is allah subhanahu

00:07:38.860 wa ta'ala when you legislated for example the free talaq in in the quran what we need to understand is

00:07:44.060 you see a lot of people think this is like some kind of the powerful men yeah the reason why it was limited to

00:07:48.620 three it was actually in favor of women why because back in those days in arabian peninsula

00:07:54.540 what the uh what they used to do is that they would divorce their wives and they were divorced

00:08:01.020 many times three times four times five times and what they would do is as the woman is about to 0.96

00:08:04.940 uh it's a similar thing as to move on with their life they'll say no i'll take you back

00:08:08.540 so they were just taking basically the mick you know they were not allowing their ex-wives to move on

00:08:13.980 so allah subhanahu wa ta'ala came and limited it to three meaning you have three options three times

00:08:18.380 if you do it three times she's not coming back it's haram and we know that it's a man so if you

00:08:23.260 look at it from that perspective it's actually death there to own a woman because it's saying

00:08:27.100 after you give free divorce it's enough you can't keep playing around with her and stopping her from 0.95

00:08:30.620 moving on and calling her back and that's what the arab men uh back in those days in jahili used to do 1.00

00:08:35.580 so the thing is brothers and sisters the reason why sadly these men because they don't have islam i

00:08:45.500 believe islam is a solution to whole mankind if implemented properly you can see here that even 1.00

00:08:51.100 my mom said that there should be capital punishment with these kind of people and women are getting 1.00

00:08:54.460 killed left right center in turkey and as a person of influence and my platform i want to raise awareness

00:09:00.940 to this because you know like these are like our sisters mothers daughters you know and allah subhanahu

00:09:06.460 wa ta'ala told us the best amongst you is the one that is best to his family brothers and sisters and

00:09:12.460 we know how the prophet's character was with his own wives we know how he was subhanahu wa ta'ala these

00:09:17.100 men kill their wives over something petty the person to send them there was an instance where once he came

00:09:22.220 and aisha and his wife was angry yeah because peygamberin um eşi geldi um sinirliydi biliyon

00:09:30.460 bir yemek yaptı peygamberin öbür eşi de bir yemek yaptı baktı ki o öbür eşinin yemeğini yiyor tamam kıskandı aldı yemeği yere böyle

00:09:37.900 pat diye çarptı peygamber ne kızdı ne bağırdı ne dövdü dedi ki ne dedi dedi anneniz

00:09:45.660 sinirlendi bana anion tek dedi şey oydu so the prophet that's all he said when aisha 0.98

00:09:50.540 he smashed the plate on the floor he said look your mother got angry yeah subhanallah imagine us if

00:09:54.380 it was us today our wife coming and smashing the plate so brothers and sisters it's important for

00:10:02.940 us to understand if you're not getting on move simple as allah's legislated divorce for a reason

00:10:08.460 move on it's as simple as that to go and commit murder which is one of the major sins murder to

00:10:14.460 take somebody's life you know and somebody will wrongly so you know you're not even you're taking

00:10:18.460 subhanallah for what what have they done to you nothing yeah and i'm not saying that there are

00:10:23.340 some women yes there are some women subhanallah awudu billah amina shaitana rajim yeah awudu billah

00:10:27.580 you cannot live with them yeah it's the same goes with men so i'm not trying to take one side but in

00:10:32.300 turkey specifically women are being killed left right center and we need to put a stop to this

00:10:37.980 inshallah and it was to raise awareness with my mom um rightly so to have a female here and said you know

00:10:42.700 you know why i was talking about female issues so başta söylemek istediğin şey var mı

00:10:47.580 yes sadece bunları zaten her gün izlediğimizde gerçekten içimizde o kadar yani eee öfkeleniyoruz ki

00:10:54.540 çünkü ceza verilmiyor adam gidiyor rahat at bak düşün ölen insana bir de ceza olarak arabasına

00:11:00.300 gezdiriyor yani bu büyük cesaret nedir bu ne demek oluyor diyor ki tekrar yapacağım yani o

00:11:05.580 anlama geliyor yani meydan okuyorsun yani bunlara gerçekten bir ceza verilsin çünkü her gün izlemekten

00:11:10.700 kadın olarak ben çok üzülüyorum çok çok çok yani çünkü eee hem cinsimdir bir de insan olarak bir de

00:11:17.500 vicdani olarak ve insan hiç rahat olmuyor ııı böyle yani erkeklerin kendine yediremediği için bunları

00:11:23.180 yapıyorlar çoğu erkekler kıskançlığında yani ne de o ne diyorum islam islamı takip etseler is Allah 0.76

00:11:28.460 kuranda diyor yani sen hakkın yok evlen eğer boşandıysa boşandı sana ne büyük sebep odur that they cannot they

00:11:35.580 them that um their wife is just going to move on with another one because in their head they see

00:11:39.820 the woman as a like you know like a perverted i don't know what god knows how they see it like oh 1.00

00:11:44.060 no another man's going to be intimate with my ex-wife so what bro she's your ex-wife if you did 1.00

00:11:48.620 not and and this is one of the wisdoms of Allah and i'll finish on this note it's very important i'll

00:11:52.060 finish on this note the reason why that you after the first talaq you give her you cannot take her

00:11:57.660 back and this is a a consequence for the males because a lot of sisters think oh man so lucky you 1.00

00:12:02.540 can give talaq when he likes no because if after the third talaq the man has to realize and understand

00:12:08.300 after i give this the rule is what that she has to move on and be intimate with another man and then 1.00

00:12:14.940 if she divorces then you can take her back so if a man has calculated and understood that that's going

00:12:20.220 to take place and he's willing to give the third talaq that means he doesn't care it means like the game

00:12:24.140 is off so your name is off so

00:12:27.260 you know actually I have a certain

00:12:28.380 uhины of the 3rd calendar

00:12:29.820 in october internationals

00:12:30.960 you know of course

00:12:32.040 out of marathon

00:12:33.180 you know of course

00:12:35.420 I don't think that one has at all

00:12:37.760 look at size

00:12:38.760 the dirk 0.99

00:12:39.280 are you 0.97

00:12:40.520 judge

00:12:41.820 yeah

00:12:42.380 F

00:12:44.300 me

00:12:45.900 Y

00:12:46.020 there

00:12:47.400 maybe

00:12:48.800 you

00:12:50.700 probably

00:12:51.460 I

00:12:53.260 Because when you stand behind them, you don't stand behind them.

00:13:01.260 When you stand behind them, there is no law.

00:13:04.260 They don't go inside, they don't give them.

00:13:06.260 That's why every day there is one person.

00:13:23.260 When it comes to marriage and the solutions to that, inshallah.

00:13:25.260 Divorce in peace or reconcile in peace.

00:13:27.260 Until next time.

00:13:28.260 Assalamu alaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh.

00:13:31.260 Ad kaisa salam.

Ali Dawah - October 05, 2020

REACTING TO TURKISH WOMAN MURDERED - ALI & MUM

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