Ali Dawah - SECOND GIRLFRIEND EXPERIMENT - HILARIOUS

00:00:00.000 Asalaamu Alaikum Warahmatullahi Barakatuh

00:00:14.420 Brothers and sisters and dear friends

00:00:15.820 Before we go to the experiment

00:00:17.300 And find the reactions of these people

00:00:19.680 The question that we're going to ask today is the following

00:00:21.900 We're dealing with the misconception of polygamy

00:00:24.480 We're going to go out there and ask males and females

00:00:26.560 If your husband or your wife was told you were okay with it 0.98

00:00:29.200 You had the money, you had the time

00:00:30.660 Everything was okay, would you want a second husband 0.88

00:00:32.860 A second wife, or a second girlfriend, or a second boyfriend

00:00:35.520 That's what we're going to find out inshallah as well

00:00:37.420 Also we're going to be talking about polygamy 0.72

00:00:39.240 The pros and the cons

00:00:40.520 And also, also, I will be talking about in my marriage documentary

00:00:44.080 Which you'll find out very soon about this

00:00:46.180 Because I was personally, when I was getting to know a sister for marriage

00:00:48.740 Being told in actually a few times

00:00:50.480 That, do you want to get married again?

00:00:52.740 And I said, well, you're going to find out what I answered in the marriage documentary

00:00:55.800 And also, can you stipulate in the contract?

00:00:57.780 All this will be answered in my marriage documentary

00:00:59.560 But that's something else

00:01:00.420 Let's go to Birmingham

00:01:01.440 Where we'll carry down the experiment

00:01:02.600 And come right back

00:01:04.020 And inshallah, learn some beautiful lessons about polygamy 0.89

00:01:07.460 All praise you belong to Allah

00:01:08.820 We'll be right back

00:01:10.440 Is this your girlfriend?

00:01:11.920 Yeah, yeah

00:01:12.440 Okay, she can't look at this

00:01:13.520 Because she'll end up uppercutting you 1.00

00:01:15.500 Yeah

00:01:16.100 So, sister, just ten seconds

00:01:18.180 Don't be scared, yeah?

00:01:21.860 Have you guys got girlfriends?

00:01:23.100 Yeah

00:01:23.300 Okay, imagine, yeah?

00:01:24.560 Your girlfriend is totally okay with it

00:01:26.580 Yeah?

00:01:27.280 Yeah, she's totally fine with it

00:01:28.380 Yeah, okay?

00:01:28.940 You've got the money

00:01:29.680 You've got the time

00:01:30.480 You've got everything, yeah?

00:01:31.240 She's okay with it, yeah?

00:01:33.220 Would you want a second girlfriend? 0.99

00:01:34.980 If she

00:01:35.860 Say it again, mate

00:01:36.700 She's okay with it, fam

00:01:37.820 Okay, she's saying to you

00:01:38.660 Look, you can get married again

00:01:39.620 You can do whatever

00:01:40.400 Like, get another girlfriend

00:01:41.500 She's saying it's calm

00:01:42.600 Would you want a second girlfriend? 0.99

00:01:45.100 I'll put one each

00:01:46.320 If she gets to my nerves

00:01:47.800 I'll put it in a corner

00:01:49.040 Okay, okay

00:01:50.840 Yes, yes

00:01:51.980 Yes, okay

00:01:53.060 Ever, imagine if your husband's totally okay with it, yeah?

00:01:55.800 Would you want a second husband? 1.00

00:01:58.040 No

00:01:58.260 Do you see a reason why?

00:02:01.020 Want enough?

00:02:01.880 Would you want a second boyfriend?

00:02:03.220 No

00:02:03.560 No

00:02:04.140 Okay

00:02:04.480 Just answer no

00:02:05.960 Why not?

00:02:09.180 Because I don't have time for that

00:02:10.940 So, so

00:02:12.500 Once enough

00:02:13.460 Okay, what if you had time?

00:02:15.820 No

00:02:16.340 Still, still not

00:02:17.580 I'd love one

00:02:19.480 I'd love a second one

00:02:21.480 Okay, uncle, uncle

00:02:23.420 You just need to press the end

00:02:24.420 I'd love you

00:02:25.920 I'm talking, okay

00:02:28.140 I just order in the end

00:02:29.260 I just feel

00:02:29.860 It's just wrong up here

00:02:31.720 Why not?

00:02:32.700 Like, you just want to

00:02:33.640 You just love one guy

00:02:35.820 Yeah, I feel like you can only

00:02:37.060 Like, you can't have two husbands and love one

00:02:39.760 You can't love them equally in my opinion

00:02:41.660 Okay

00:02:41.960 I feel like you'd always love one more than ever

00:02:43.960 Okay, show the second one

00:02:44.700 Second one?

00:02:46.540 Yes

00:02:46.800 Yes, really?

00:02:47.620 Yes

00:02:48.580 Yes or no?

00:02:49.320 So what?

00:02:50.320 Yes

00:02:50.760 Yes

00:02:51.320 Yeah, okay

00:02:51.920 Yes, yeah, okay

00:02:53.420 How many?

00:02:54.340 Two, three, four

00:02:55.280 I think two is

00:02:56.600 Two is enough

00:02:57.400 Two is enough, yeah?

00:02:58.760 Yes

00:02:59.280 Okay, how many?

00:03:02.460 Two, three, four

00:03:03.320 Two, three, four

00:03:05.000 Five

00:03:05.560 And how many extra?

00:03:10.720 Two, three, four

00:03:11.500 No, no, no, I just want to

00:03:12.960 You're next, you're next

00:03:14.460 Oh, I'm trying to say

00:03:15.380 Oh, I'm turning

00:03:17.080 Okay

00:03:17.660 You got the money

00:03:22.740 You got the time

00:03:23.640 Your wife is okay with it 0.98

00:03:25.260 Yeah, so take those factors out

00:03:26.540 But if you think her wife is okay with it, then yeah 0.96

00:03:27.760 We should look at it

00:03:28.300 It prevents you from it

00:03:29.700 Press it

00:03:30.160 Yeah

00:03:30.700 Do you want a second girlfriend?

00:03:33.460 Answer here

00:03:33.980 Just answer here

00:03:34.700 I'll be happy that one I've got

00:03:40.500 Okay

00:03:41.100 If it was acceptable

00:03:44.020 But it's not going to be acceptable

00:03:45.820 If it was, would you want two boyfriends?

00:03:47.580 No

00:03:48.000 No

00:03:48.100 Would you want a second husband? 1.00

00:03:54.320 No

00:03:54.640 Ew, why would you?

00:03:56.140 No, because the first one can't even act right

00:03:58.180 Okay, alright, alright

00:03:59.200 Why, why, why

00:03:59.960 Like, males give kind of a different answer 0.97

00:04:02.660 But as females, why 0.99

00:04:04.400 Why can't you have more than one husband? 1.00

00:04:05.960 Like, we're not talking about Islamic ruling

00:04:07.660 Obviously we know it's not permissible

00:04:08.520 But what I'm saying in general

00:04:09.420 Is why can't a female 1.00

00:04:11.060 Be married to two husbands? 0.98

00:04:13.440 Is there any

00:04:13.740 Because you can't look at somebody else

00:04:15.760 While you're in love with the person you did

00:04:17.480 Okay, so is it more emotional

00:04:18.700 Like you're more emotionally attached to one?

00:04:20.760 Do you agree?

00:04:21.540 Yeah

00:04:21.860 Alright, thank you

00:04:23.060 May Allah bless you guys

00:04:23.660 Would you ever want a second husband? 0.78

00:04:25.900 No

00:04:26.200 No

00:04:26.860 No

00:04:27.420 You wouldn't?

00:04:28.860 No

00:04:29.140 Okay, one second 0.99

00:04:29.920 My first husband might get jealous and kill us 0.96

00:04:32.220 Just in the social experiment

00:04:33.620 May Allah bless you guys

00:04:34.560 You know, it's actually quite interesting

00:04:37.960 Okay guys

00:04:38.860 Now, that was quite interesting

00:04:40.300 As you saw for yourself

00:04:42.020 The different reactions, etc

00:04:43.300 Right now we're going to find out the results

00:04:45.720 Yeah, okay

00:04:46.160 We're going to cut to the chase

00:04:47.020 We're going to find the results out

00:04:48.200 I carry this experiment out on both Instagram

00:04:51.180 And also in person in Birmingham

00:04:53.340 So

00:04:54.400 What we're going to do now is

00:04:56.020 We're going to go to

00:04:56.800 The survey, inshallah

00:04:58.400 And we're going to see

00:04:59.480 So when we asked

00:05:01.020 Males 0.97

00:05:02.180 We're going to find out now

00:05:04.020 What the results were

00:05:06.060 Yeah, okay

00:05:06.780 So

00:05:07.460 Are you guys ready?

00:05:09.520 So we asked about

00:05:10.500 26

00:05:11.400 Males 0.97

00:05:13.060 If I'm not mistaken

00:05:13.700 Yeah

00:05:13.960 Shockingly

00:05:15.500 This was actually very, very shocking to me

00:05:17.460 Yeah, because

00:05:18.100 I'm a man as well

00:05:19.580 And I know a lot of

00:05:20.340 Brothers around in me as well

00:05:21.640 35% of them said yes

00:05:24.840 65% said no

00:05:26.860 So I came to the conclusion

00:05:28.840 That there are no men left in Birmingham

00:05:30.440 Sadly

00:05:30.840 But besides that

00:05:32.520 The ones who said yes

00:05:34.100 67% said they would want

00:05:36.840 One extra co-wife 0.99

00:05:38.340 Or co-girlfriend

00:05:39.440 Because we are both Muslims and non-Muslims 0.95

00:05:41.700 11% said free

00:05:43.140 They would want three partners 0.79

00:05:44.540 11% said four

00:05:46.180 And another 11% said

00:05:47.640 They want four plus

00:05:48.700 So there were some

00:05:49.900 Greedy brothers out there

00:05:50.980 So what we did is

00:05:51.860 We said okay

00:05:52.380 That kind of

00:05:54.020 You know

00:05:54.280 Give and take

00:05:54.820 Because some of the questions

00:05:55.800 The brothers

00:05:56.320 They didn't really understand

00:05:57.060 The way I was saying

00:05:57.540 Even though I said

00:05:58.140 If you had no money

00:05:59.880 I mean if you had the money

00:06:02.140 If you had the time

00:06:02.760 And your wife or girlfriend

00:06:03.820 Was totally okay with it

00:06:04.740 Would you want to go and do this?

00:06:06.480 But after we asked them

00:06:07.520 Some of them said

00:06:07.960 Oh but I might not have the time

00:06:08.940 So they didn't really understand

00:06:09.760 My question

00:06:10.220 So

00:06:10.900 I would give it a ratio

00:06:12.940 Of 60 to 40% 0.72

00:06:14.880 Yeah

00:06:15.080 After speaking to them

00:06:16.680 Now

00:06:17.300 Going to sisters

00:06:18.940 So we asked

00:06:19.700 We asked the females 1.00

00:06:20.500 Okay

00:06:20.820 We asked the females 1.00

00:06:21.400 The very same question

00:06:22.760 Your husband is totally okay with it

00:06:24.840 Would you want a second partner

00:06:27.140 A second husband

00:06:27.740 Or a second boyfriend

00:06:28.380 Yeah

00:06:28.620 We asked 25 of them

00:06:30.000 And here was the result

00:06:31.320 It's quite expected really

00:06:33.140 88% said no

00:06:35.500 12% said yes

00:06:37.480 Right

00:06:38.140 Now even that 12%

00:06:39.720 That said yes

00:06:40.360 There were some

00:06:41.020 That were like just giggling

00:06:41.900 And I think they saw it

00:06:42.740 Kind of as a joke

00:06:43.480 But let's go with it

00:06:44.140 No problem yeah

00:06:44.860 We'll say 90% said no

00:06:46.460 10% said yes

00:06:47.740 Okay

00:06:48.460 Now there's a little twist

00:06:49.860 To this whole experiment

00:06:50.720 I said to myself

00:06:51.500 Hold on a second

00:06:52.020 This is quite interesting

00:06:53.320 Because

00:06:53.600 Why would

00:06:54.960 Because

00:06:55.640 Majority of the men

00:06:56.740 Obviously there's some men

00:06:58.180 Who are happy with their wife 0.99

00:06:59.840 Or just their girlfriend

00:07:00.600 Whatever it may be

00:07:01.300 Generally

00:07:01.940 But the results that I got

00:07:03.540 Were a bit shocking

00:07:04.060 And I was very honest with them

00:07:05.220 Yeah

00:07:05.460 As you can see

00:07:06.020 I didn't play around with it

00:07:06.920 I'm very honest with it

00:07:07.760 Inshallah

00:07:08.080 So I said

00:07:08.980 Let's add a little twist

00:07:10.040 To this

00:07:10.320 So we said

00:07:11.040 Okay

00:07:11.260 We're going to go back

00:07:11.840 To the males

00:07:12.320 We're going to ask them

00:07:13.380 A very similar question

00:07:15.560 In a little bit of a different way

00:07:16.600 And we thought

00:07:17.220 What would the results be

00:07:18.400 So this was quite interesting

00:07:19.820 We asked them

00:07:21.600 So we did this off camera

00:07:22.620 Went to a variety of people

00:07:24.280 Called some people

00:07:25.560 And we asked them the question

00:07:26.920 We said

00:07:27.340 Look

00:07:27.580 There is a lady

00:07:29.560 Or a woman 0.99

00:07:31.120 Who comes and says

00:07:31.760 Look

00:07:32.000 All I want

00:07:33.080 Is 0.98

00:07:33.800 Just sexual

00:07:34.680 Pleasure 0.84

00:07:35.780 That's it

00:07:36.260 I don't want nothing else from you

00:07:37.520 No strings attached

00:07:38.960 Yeah

00:07:39.440 We made this very very clear

00:07:40.640 And we asked about 20 males

00:07:43.580 Yeah

00:07:44.060 And we said to them

00:07:45.240 Look

00:07:45.440 No strings attached

00:07:47.140 Would

00:07:48.260 If this was the case

00:07:49.520 And this lady

00:07:50.620 Or this girl

00:07:51.340 Whoever she is

00:07:51.820 She just said

00:07:52.200 Look

00:07:52.440 This is what I want from you

00:07:53.540 I'm a very busy woman

00:07:55.200 I'm

00:07:55.760 You know

00:07:56.720 I'm misindependent

00:07:57.720 You know

00:07:58.080 I don't need a man in my life 1.00

00:07:59.480 That's

00:07:59.980 This is all I need him for

00:08:00.940 Would you do it

00:08:02.480 Now this was very shocking

00:08:04.080 Look at the results

00:08:05.540 95% of those men

00:08:10.200 Said yes

00:08:11.360 5% said no

00:08:13.900 So now the question

00:08:15.420 That we all need to ask ourselves

00:08:16.940 Is this

00:08:17.440 Why is it that when we said

00:08:19.640 A second wife 1.00

00:08:21.180 A second girlfriend

00:08:22.940 Even some Muslim men

00:08:25.120 Even though they're allowed

00:08:26.300 Yeah

00:08:26.720 And we know a lot of religions

00:08:27.620 Mormonism

00:08:28.120 Hinduism

00:08:28.600 Sikhism 0.96

00:08:29.120 Christianity

00:08:29.660 Judaism

00:08:30.000 They allow it as well

00:08:31.080 Why is it that

00:08:32.540 60% said no

00:08:34.960 But when it came to

00:08:36.380 No strings attached

00:08:37.460 There was a paradigm shift

00:08:39.020 And they were saying

00:08:40.080 Yes yes

00:08:40.580 That kind of yes

00:08:41.340 Well

00:08:42.260 I want to take you guys

00:08:44.160 To a little experiment

00:08:45.460 That was also done

00:08:46.140 A little research

00:08:46.740 That was done

00:08:47.200 Yeah

00:08:47.340 And I want to read this out

00:08:48.340 For you guys

00:08:48.720 Because this kind of

00:08:49.940 Brings me back to this point

00:08:51.380 Yeah

00:08:51.760 Science has yet definitely

00:08:53.380 To pronounce on whether

00:08:54.360 Humans are naturally

00:08:55.400 Monogamous

00:08:55.980 Or polygamous 0.52

00:08:57.320 The human male body

00:08:58.940 Provides ambiguous clues

00:09:00.060 To the answer

00:09:00.540 But the balance

00:09:01.360 Of the evidence

00:09:03.840 Indicates that we are

00:09:04.940 Biologically inclined

00:09:06.020 Towards monogamy

00:09:07.520 Now hear this out

00:09:08.560 Yeah

00:09:08.700 While retaining

00:09:10.940 An urge to sleep

00:09:12.560 Around

00:09:13.220 Now that's quite interesting

00:09:16.040 So

00:09:16.900 There is this urge

00:09:18.740 Yeah

00:09:19.220 To sleep around

00:09:19.960 Now

00:09:20.440 Connecting that with

00:09:22.160 The twist that we had

00:09:23.920 That we've done

00:09:24.800 That kind of

00:09:25.960 Tells me

00:09:27.160 That men

00:09:28.780 They prefer to have 0.78

00:09:30.720 A partner

00:09:31.360 A mistress

00:09:32.280 A side chick

00:09:33.080 Side chick 1.00

00:09:33.680 Or a girlfriend

00:09:34.900 With no strings

00:09:37.680 Attached

00:09:38.760 So it still shows me

00:09:40.460 That men 0.65

00:09:41.180 Have that high sex drive 0.93

00:09:43.680 That they're all 0.93

00:09:44.880 They want another partner

00:09:46.580 With no commitments

00:09:47.640 Now

00:09:48.440 Before I come to

00:09:50.220 The issue of

00:09:50.820 Polygamy

00:09:51.340 And its pros and cons

00:09:53.340 I just want to

00:09:54.440 Prove to you guys

00:09:55.380 That this study

00:09:57.120 There was another study

00:09:57.900 That was taken

00:09:58.440 That was done

00:09:59.300 Okay

00:10:01.020 So this was

00:10:01.840 The biggest experiment

00:10:03.520 That was done

00:10:04.020 With 200,000 participants

00:10:06.380 Across cross-cultural

00:10:08.100 With 50 free nations

00:10:10.640 50 free nations

00:10:12.320 And they came to the conclusion

00:10:13.920 That men have a higher sex drive

00:10:16.600 Than women 1.00

00:10:17.520 And a man

00:10:18.980 Thinks about sex

00:10:20.200 More often

00:10:21.460 Than a woman 0.99

00:10:22.480 Now just

00:10:23.040 Just to further prove my point

00:10:24.760 That

00:10:25.860 For example

00:10:26.820 Men spend 0.68

00:10:28.020 Billions of pounds

00:10:30.040 On pornography

00:10:31.400 Males magazines

00:10:32.660 Where there's 0.68

00:10:33.360 Half naked

00:10:34.000 Naked 0.96

00:10:34.380 Woman 0.99

00:10:35.040 Yes 0.62

00:10:35.780 Woman's legs 1.00

00:10:36.760 But you will never see 0.93

00:10:38.280 A woman 0.57

00:10:39.880 Spending that amount of money

00:10:41.540 Be it on

00:10:42.560 You know

00:10:43.180 Oh I want to go

00:10:44.020 And buy a magazine

00:10:44.720 That shows me

00:10:45.340 A man's hairy legs 1.00

00:10:46.320 And I get turned on

00:10:47.160 It doesn't happen

00:10:48.060 Strip clubs

00:10:48.920 A majority of the strip clubs

00:10:50.520 Disproportionately

00:10:51.720 Are

00:10:52.640 Female strip clubs 0.95

00:10:54.880 Yeah

00:10:55.060 They're for males 1.00

00:10:56.200 They call them

00:10:57.320 Gentlemen's club

00:10:57.860 Yeah

00:10:58.020 But when it comes to

00:10:59.440 Females 0.96

00:11:00.020 For females 0.53

00:11:00.860 That do go to these

00:11:02.300 Men's strip clubs 0.92

00:11:02.960 Majority of them

00:11:03.980 Studies show that

00:11:04.960 They go there

00:11:06.240 Because usually their friend goes

00:11:07.560 You know

00:11:07.780 They have like

00:11:08.260 You know

00:11:08.440 Girls night out

00:11:09.040 Wherever that may be

00:11:09.900 And also

00:11:11.740 Like I said to you before

00:11:12.600 Billions of pounds

00:11:13.560 Is being spent

00:11:14.320 On these things

00:11:15.700 And not only that

00:11:16.300 Advertisements

00:11:17.000 What has a chocolate bar

00:11:18.380 A water

00:11:19.200 Grass

00:11:20.400 Lighting

00:11:22.140 Whatever you may call it

00:11:22.920 A car

00:11:23.380 What on earth

00:11:24.280 Has that got to do

00:11:24.880 With a female 0.99

00:11:25.340 That they always have to put

00:11:26.500 A female 0.98

00:11:27.200 Dressed up

00:11:28.000 In a certain way

00:11:29.080 Why

00:11:29.700 Because a man

00:11:31.480 Is born in that way

00:11:33.400 He's visual

00:11:34.080 Yeah

00:11:34.540 He gets

00:11:34.940 You know

00:11:35.320 Sexually stimulated

00:11:36.160 Visually 0.63

00:11:36.860 But with a female 1.00

00:11:37.860 That's not the case

00:11:38.640 What that does is

00:11:40.160 That proves me further

00:11:41.840 That a man 0.85

00:11:43.020 Has a higher sex drive

00:11:44.840 And not only that

00:11:46.320 But also

00:11:47.280 He is naturally

00:11:48.680 Polygamous 0.61

00:11:49.400 Now you can't

00:11:49.980 You can say

00:11:50.460 You know what

00:11:50.740 Brother Ali

00:11:51.100 We're not taking a word for it

00:11:52.060 However

00:11:52.500 I just want to make something clear

00:11:53.460 I am not endorsing

00:11:54.460 That you get into polygamy or not

00:11:55.560 I'm just trying to show you

00:11:56.700 The fact

00:11:57.200 My aim here is

00:11:58.900 In the wife house 1.00

00:11:59.620 To debunk

00:12:00.360 Claims

00:12:01.380 Misconceptions about Islam

00:12:02.320 And to prove that

00:12:03.180 This Quran is from Allah

00:12:04.300 Because it's reality

00:12:05.720 Now let's go to

00:12:06.720 Non-Muslims 1.00

00:12:07.360 Yeah

00:12:07.500 There are two books

00:12:08.620 That support this claim

00:12:09.700 Backed by scientific studies

00:12:11.160 And analysis

00:12:11.680 Sex at dawn 0.54

00:12:12.940 That's what it's called

00:12:13.600 The Prehistoric Origins of Modern Sexuality 0.69

00:12:15.900 By Christopher Ryan

00:12:16.820 And Cecilda Jether

00:12:18.160 And The Myth of Monogamy

00:12:20.060 By David P. Barash

00:12:22.080 And Judith Eve Lipton

00:12:23.300 Both of these books

00:12:24.440 Are available online

00:12:25.440 And in bookstores

00:12:26.720 So non-Muslims 1.00

00:12:28.000 Even testify

00:12:28.960 To this reality

00:12:30.540 Recent study shows

00:12:31.680 That British men 1.00

00:12:32.480 Are much more likely

00:12:33.480 Than British women 0.99

00:12:34.180 To believe that humans

00:12:35.140 Are naturally polygamous 0.99

00:12:36.160 According to new research

00:12:37.380 Despite the majority

00:12:38.580 Of the country's population

00:12:39.680 Believing that polygamy 0.91

00:12:41.060 Is morally wrong

00:12:41.860 Almost half of men

00:12:43.120 46% think that

00:12:44.220 It is not natural

00:12:45.000 To have only one sexual partner

00:12:47.200 Now

00:12:47.800 Moving swiftly on

00:12:49.520 Guys

00:12:51.420 Now

00:12:52.060 There's a phrase

00:12:54.380 That I've come across

00:12:55.060 Yeah

00:12:55.300 Polygamy has been

00:12:56.980 Polygamy

00:12:57.760 Not this phrase

00:12:58.240 Polygamy has been practiced 0.99

00:12:59.440 In history

00:13:00.440 With all kinds of nations

00:13:01.500 Yeah

00:13:01.860 It has been practiced

00:13:03.060 All the time

00:13:03.780 Men can reproduce

00:13:05.320 In their 60s

00:13:06.100 Their 70s

00:13:06.560 And their 80s

00:13:07.200 Women generally 0.98

00:13:08.260 Get into their menopause

00:13:09.160 Around their 50s

00:13:10.200 Yeah

00:13:10.420 That's another evidence

00:13:11.920 Why they should be polygamy 1.00

00:13:12.860 And also we know

00:13:13.780 A lot of men die

00:13:14.820 More often

00:13:16.700 Women live 1.00

00:13:17.480 A bit longer

00:13:18.540 Also majority of the

00:13:19.900 Prison occupants 0.99

00:13:21.700 Are males

00:13:22.740 And also we know

00:13:23.760 That back in those days

00:13:24.460 They didn't have DNA

00:13:25.200 So if a woman 1.00

00:13:26.540 Had four husbands 0.99

00:13:27.260 And had sex with all of them 0.96

00:13:28.720 You don't know 0.98

00:13:29.360 Who the baby is

00:13:30.060 But if a man

00:13:31.080 Had four wives

00:13:31.660 You know who the father

00:13:32.280 You know who the mother is

00:13:33.380 There's a lot of

00:13:34.100 Hikmah behind it 0.96

00:13:35.040 Yeah

00:13:35.260 Okay

00:13:35.860 So sisters

00:13:36.880 Just hold on

00:13:37.580 Before you guys

00:13:38.220 Go crazy

00:13:38.660 I'm gonna drive

00:13:39.460 This point home

00:13:40.080 It's gonna be beneficial

00:13:40.800 For all of us

00:13:41.580 Yeah

00:13:41.740 There is a phrase

00:13:43.820 Called serial monogamists

00:13:45.300 Now I've heard of

00:13:46.120 Serial murderers

00:13:47.520 And serial killers 0.67

00:13:48.620 But a serial monogamist

00:13:50.140 And it says

00:13:50.920 Donald Trump

00:13:51.740 Larry King

00:13:52.560 Hugh Hefner

00:13:53.380 The playboy

00:13:53.980 The guy who owns

00:13:54.500 That playboy thing

00:13:55.140 Charlie Sheen

00:13:56.280 Live openly

00:13:57.260 With multiple girlfriends

00:13:58.260 Now

00:13:59.040 They are called

00:13:59.880 Serial monogamists

00:14:00.760 Why

00:14:01.060 Because they are not

00:14:02.320 It's illegal to get married again

00:14:04.160 So they are serial monogamists

00:14:05.760 They get married

00:14:06.240 Divorce

00:14:06.580 Married divorce

00:14:07.120 Married divorce

00:14:07.580 Their wife becomes like 1.00

00:14:08.840 That's what

00:14:09.440 Donald Trump and Larry King did

00:14:11.280 When their wife

00:14:12.220 Became older

00:14:13.160 They replaced

00:14:14.120 The old wife 0.99

00:14:15.140 To a new wife

00:14:17.080 And what happens

00:14:18.020 Is coming at the cost

00:14:19.260 Of destroying

00:14:20.220 One relationship

00:14:21.300 Totally abandoning

00:14:22.720 Abandoning

00:14:23.540 And moving on to another one

00:14:25.160 This is a harm

00:14:26.300 And this happens in our society

00:14:27.680 Why

00:14:28.260 Because a man

00:14:29.040 Wants to get married again

00:14:30.040 But because it's illegal

00:14:31.060 What he does

00:14:32.040 Is he says

00:14:32.540 Okay

00:14:33.080 I have to divorce you 0.99

00:14:34.060 You ruin and destroy a marriage 1.00

00:14:35.860 Yes

00:14:36.820 You ruin and destroy a marriage

00:14:37.980 Now I know

00:14:38.940 Sometimes

00:14:39.420 If polygamy is not done 0.99

00:14:40.340 In the right way

00:14:40.880 It can also

00:14:41.820 Destroy and ruin marriages

00:14:43.440 Also

00:14:43.800 We're going to come to that

00:14:44.880 Later

00:14:45.440 But these athletes

00:14:46.920 These rock stars

00:14:47.660 They sleep around

00:14:48.720 With hundreds

00:14:49.440 And thousands

00:14:50.340 Of women

00:14:51.180 Why

00:14:52.300 So Allah

00:14:53.280 Has sent this legislation

00:14:54.620 For it to be done

00:14:55.920 In an ethical way

00:14:57.180 Not in an

00:14:57.820 Unethical way

00:14:58.680 Where you go

00:14:59.400 And abuse it

00:15:00.240 And sleep around

00:15:01.100 With girls

00:15:01.800 Mistresses

00:15:02.260 Side chicks 0.98

00:15:02.780 And girlfriends 0.98

00:15:03.300 And abuse them

00:15:04.020 And give them no rights

00:15:05.240 It actually

00:15:06.380 Puts them

00:15:07.480 In a vulnerable position

00:15:09.200 Because you're using

00:15:10.180 And abusing them

00:15:10.920 Allah says

00:15:11.540 No

00:15:12.000 If you're going to do it

00:15:13.220 You do it in the right way

00:15:14.420 Marry in Surah Nisa 0.88

00:15:15.440 Verse 3

00:15:16.020 Marry in 2's

00:15:17.140 3's and 4's

00:15:18.160 But if you cannot be just

00:15:19.780 Marry only one 0.82

00:15:20.860 And the Prophet

00:15:21.540 Sallallahu alayhi wa sallam

00:15:22.600 Told us

00:15:23.260 That

00:15:23.800 On the day of judgment

00:15:24.880 A man will come 0.65

00:15:25.820 Leaning on one side

00:15:26.820 Why is he leaning on one side?

00:15:28.500 Because he was unjust

00:15:29.640 To one of the wives 0.97

00:15:30.580 So this is not a joke

00:15:31.860 This is a serious matter

00:15:32.860 And we just want

00:15:33.780 The whole point of this video

00:15:35.020 Is once again

00:15:36.020 Not to promote

00:15:36.780 Polygamy

00:15:37.540 I believe it's a solution

00:15:39.080 But I'm not here to do that

00:15:40.140 Do it or not do it

00:15:40.940 I'm trying to show you

00:15:41.780 Why the Quran 0.97

00:15:42.300 Is from Allah

00:15:43.380 And this misconception

00:15:44.560 That I'm trying to answer here

00:15:46.000 This is a man

00:15:47.440 This is a man

00:15:48.400 Who has come to the morning show

00:15:50.160 He's come to the morning show

00:15:51.340 We have the perfect

00:15:52.700 Polygamous relationship 0.78

00:15:53.500 He's got two girlfriends 0.73

00:15:54.780 Now this is hypocrisy

00:15:56.640 Not these people

00:15:57.840 You are allowed to have

00:15:59.580 Two girlfriends

00:16:00.320 It's fine

00:16:01.600 You can have two girlfriends

00:16:02.320 It's good

00:16:02.640 Come to the morning show

00:16:03.580 It's all good

00:16:04.020 Look

00:16:04.460 Me and my two girlfriends

00:16:05.620 But can you get married again?

00:16:07.180 Oh no

00:16:07.440 Married?

00:16:07.940 You cannot get married again

00:16:08.800 No sorry

00:16:09.200 You cannot get married again

00:16:10.440 And treat both the women equally

00:16:11.760 And give them rights

00:16:12.720 And honour them

00:16:13.380 And speak to the father

00:16:14.220 No no no no

00:16:14.960 You cannot do that

00:16:15.920 But two girlfriends

00:16:16.780 It's fine

00:16:17.360 You know what's 0.98

00:16:18.060 More pathetic than this? 0.99

00:16:19.860 Well this lady 1.00

00:16:21.100 Says that I sleep

00:16:22.880 With men to save their marriages 1.00

00:16:24.740 She's a prostitute 1.00

00:16:27.280 She sells herself 1.00

00:16:28.700 She sleeps around 0.83

00:16:29.760 With men

00:16:30.380 And she actually

00:16:31.000 I watched the video

00:16:32.060 She says

00:16:33.000 That these men go home

00:16:34.440 Happy

00:16:35.060 She goes

00:16:35.740 Because their sex life is dead

00:16:37.760 Their wives don't want to have sex 1.00

00:16:38.960 With them anymore 0.96

00:16:39.520 So he's saying

00:16:40.480 Look

00:16:40.720 She's saying

00:16:41.080 I'm coming to save their marriages

00:16:42.140 So in another way

00:16:43.180 It's polygamy 1.00

00:16:44.420 Done in an unethical way 0.96

00:16:46.060 You're using and abusing a woman 1.00

00:16:48.020 Emotionally

00:16:48.620 In all kinds of ways

00:16:49.820 And this is allowed

00:16:51.820 Okay

00:16:52.400 Cheating is not a crime

00:16:53.720 Yeah

00:16:54.300 Cheating is not a crime 0.98

00:16:54.820 Being a prostitute

00:16:55.980 To serve other men 1.00

00:16:57.060 Married men 0.66

00:16:57.700 Is not a crime

00:16:58.600 Having two girlfriends

00:16:59.720 It's fine

00:17:00.760 Side chicks 0.98

00:17:01.620 Girlfriends

00:17:02.320 Mistresses

00:17:03.120 Beautiful

00:17:04.000 Yeah

00:17:04.740 A lot of these

00:17:05.520 Rich people

00:17:06.560 That they have

00:17:07.620 Yeah

00:17:07.820 But if you want to get married again

00:17:09.940 In the right way

00:17:10.720 And treat them both equally

00:17:12.120 No no

00:17:13.720 You can't do that

00:17:14.620 No sorry

00:17:15.060 That's not allowed

00:17:16.260 This is the pinnacle 0.72

00:17:17.920 Of hypocrisy

00:17:19.000 And that's why we have

00:17:20.140 The Y Files 0.94

00:17:20.720 Brought to you by

00:17:21.480 Salaam Studios

00:17:22.040 To debunk this very claim

00:17:23.580 Polygamy

00:17:24.180 Obviously

00:17:24.780 Is legislated by Allah 0.96

00:17:25.860 Subhanahu wa ta'ala

00:17:26.520 And you have a lot of brothers

00:17:27.540 That get gassed and hype

00:17:28.740 They're not even doing the fart

00:17:29.920 Brother you're not even

00:17:30.440 Waking up for fajr 0.98

00:17:31.300 But you're too busy

00:17:32.140 Concentrated on

00:17:32.940 Fulfilling the sunnah

00:17:34.460 Yeah

00:17:34.620 Because you love Allah

00:17:35.820 And his messenger so much

00:17:36.660 You know

00:17:36.820 I have to fill the sunnah

00:17:37.620 Brother go

00:17:38.320 Do your fart first 0.93

00:17:39.300 Before you talk about this

00:17:40.260 And a lot of the time

00:17:41.800 Not a lot of the time

00:17:42.600 Sometimes

00:17:43.220 Men abuse this

00:17:44.660 How?

00:17:45.200 They get married

00:17:45.680 Divorce

00:17:46.000 Married divorce

00:17:46.500 Married divorce

00:17:46.980 Married divorce

00:17:47.320 They marry sisters 0.99

00:17:48.860 With the intention of divorcing

00:17:50.340 Yeah

00:17:51.200 It's being abused

00:17:52.620 This has happened

00:17:53.280 Yeah

00:17:53.780 Non-Muslims 1.00

00:17:55.020 That's why we say

00:17:56.320 Brothers and sisters

00:17:57.000 It's very important

00:17:58.560 That our brothers

00:17:59.740 Fear Allah

00:18:00.380 Subhanahu wa ta'ala

00:18:01.040 And also our sisters

00:18:02.660 Because I hear a lot of

00:18:03.880 Horror stories

00:18:04.600 Where a brother

00:18:05.540 Comes

00:18:06.220 Maybe not in this country

00:18:07.780 In another country

00:18:08.380 Where it's legal

00:18:09.040 It's allowed

00:18:09.500 Comes and says

00:18:10.200 Look I want to get married again

00:18:11.320 Yeah

00:18:11.880 And the sister 0.94

00:18:13.700 Disappeared with the kids

00:18:14.600 Boycotted him

00:18:15.480 Ruined his life

00:18:16.620 He can't see his kids

00:18:17.400 Why?

00:18:18.480 Basically telling him

00:18:19.260 Get lost 1.00

00:18:19.680 Go to hell 1.00

00:18:20.620 Literally 0.99

00:18:21.740 Not metaphorically

00:18:22.720 Literally go to hell

00:18:23.720 Meaning 0.99

00:18:24.200 Look

00:18:25.000 Instead of you hurting

00:18:25.920 My feelings

00:18:26.520 I'd rather you

00:18:27.600 Go and disobey

00:18:29.060 Allah's legislation 0.97

00:18:29.700 Go commit zina

00:18:30.900 Sisters have to fear 1.00

00:18:33.040 Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala 0.81

00:18:33.800 His war

00:18:34.080 We have to be balanced

00:18:35.180 This is a reality

00:18:36.660 If we go with the premise

00:18:37.980 If we agree

00:18:38.940 That different things

00:18:40.020 Should be treated

00:18:40.580 In different ways

00:18:42.060 Catered different ways

00:18:43.180 The evidence

00:18:44.000 And the science

00:18:44.660 And the Quran

00:18:45.180 And the sunnah

00:18:45.720 Firstly

00:18:46.780 Science comes after

00:18:47.960 Proves to us

00:18:49.360 That men are created

00:18:50.420 In a different way

00:18:51.200 Now we can either

00:18:52.400 Either

00:18:53.400 Accept this reality

00:18:54.760 Or

00:18:55.700 Reject it

00:18:57.000 And live it in a lie

00:18:57.660 And this is

00:18:59.040 One of the reasons

00:18:59.740 Why I've done this video

00:19:00.560 To show why polygamy 0.97

00:19:01.800 Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala 0.81

00:19:02.500 Has legislated it

00:19:03.300 When it's done the right way

00:19:04.880 Otherwise

00:19:05.420 It's done in an unethical way

00:19:07.140 Where non-Muslims 0.99

00:19:08.640 Practice this

00:19:09.340 They have girlfriends

00:19:10.540 Multiple

00:19:11.120 Sleeping around

00:19:12.260 Like it's happy days 1.00

00:19:13.200 Abusing women 1.00

00:19:14.800 No rights

00:19:16.220 They have no rights

00:19:17.040 But when it's done

00:19:18.400 The right way

00:19:18.960 If you want to get married again

00:19:19.820 You go and honour that woman

00:19:20.760 My dear sister

00:19:21.820 I want to get married again

00:19:24.240 This is what I can offer

00:19:25.560 Bang bang bang

00:19:26.120 Speak to the father

00:19:27.040 Give her wulema 0.98

00:19:28.020 Give her her maher 1.00

00:19:28.840 In a right way

00:19:30.060 Wallahi

00:19:30.620 This is something

00:19:31.900 That is from the religion 0.97

00:19:33.000 And any man

00:19:34.520 I admire the man

00:19:35.880 I admire the man

00:19:36.840 Wallahi

00:19:37.080 I'll say this very clearly

00:19:37.820 And I discussed this

00:19:39.080 In my marriage documentary also

00:19:40.480 I discussed this

00:19:41.160 In my marriage documentary

00:19:41.840 Because

00:19:42.380 I was set with these conditions

00:19:44.140 Of for example

00:19:44.940 I wanted to get to

00:19:46.160 Get to know a sister

00:19:47.180 For a marriage

00:19:47.620 But she said

00:19:48.280 That you're not allowed

00:19:48.760 To get married again

00:19:49.560 She wanted to stipulate

00:19:50.160 Into the contract

00:19:50.760 Yeah

00:19:50.980 Now me

00:19:52.060 I'm not saying

00:19:52.600 I wanted to get married again

00:19:53.380 The issue is though

00:19:54.100 Stipulating the contract

00:19:54.860 Is this allowed

00:19:55.720 Is this not allowed

00:19:56.540 All this we talk about

00:19:57.460 In the marriage documentary

00:19:58.140 Inshallah

00:19:58.440 This is a very important question

00:19:59.780 But

00:20:00.400 Just to drive the point home

00:20:02.260 That

00:20:03.060 This polygamous relationship 0.98

00:20:05.140 Is a solution

00:20:06.120 To mankind

00:20:07.200 So in a nutshell

00:20:08.160 This proves once again

00:20:09.800 Once again

00:20:10.780 For those who

00:20:11.840 Some who leave Islam

00:20:13.540 Because oh no

00:20:14.160 This is a man's religion 1.00

00:20:15.040 Etc

00:20:15.660 Once again

00:20:16.560 Islam has been proven right 1.00

00:20:17.960 Once again

00:20:18.880 Islam is there

00:20:19.920 As a solution

00:20:20.440 And you have left your religion 0.94

00:20:21.680 Because of something

00:20:22.280 That

00:20:22.560 Just because it's bitter truth

00:20:23.860 It's a bitter truth

00:20:24.680 And it's there

00:20:25.400 And some of these

00:20:26.120 Females who have left

00:20:27.540 They're in relationships

00:20:28.660 Where their boyfriend

00:20:29.980 Has got mistresses

00:20:31.120 And girlfriends

00:20:31.480 And cheating

00:20:31.880 So you've left this time

00:20:32.700 For something that

00:20:33.320 Your boyfriend's doing anyway

00:20:34.200 So that's your loss

00:20:35.680 So brothers and sisters

00:20:36.860 Hope you guys enjoyed this

00:20:37.760 If you would like me

00:20:38.880 To carry on doing more

00:20:40.000 Social experiments

00:20:40.560 With the survey monkey 0.89

00:20:41.820 Want me to ask

00:20:42.880 Specific questions

00:20:43.600 Comment in the section below

00:20:44.760 I would use that

00:20:45.480 Go out there

00:20:46.080 And do the same survey

00:20:47.060 Hope this has been

00:20:48.000 Beneficial for you guys

00:20:48.920 And answered your doubts

00:20:50.060 And until next time

00:20:51.380 Brothers and sisters

00:20:51.860 Asalaamu Alaikum

00:20:52.760 Wa Rahmatullahi

Ali Dawah - January 22, 2019

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