Ali Dawah - January 22, 2019


SECOND GIRLFRIEND EXPERIMENT - HILARIOUS


Episode Stats

Length

20 minutes

Words per Minute

190.75809

Word Count

3,985

Sentence Count

2

Misogynist Sentences

41

Hate Speech Sentences

86


Summary

Would you want a second husband, a second wife, or a second girlfriend? Would you want to have a second boyfriend, and would you want another girlfriend? Would you like to be polyamorous with more than one partner, etc. In this episode, we are going to carry down the experiment and find out the answer to these questions.


Transcript

00:00:00.000 Asalaamu Alaikum Warahmatullahi Barakatuh
00:00:14.420 Brothers and sisters and dear friends
00:00:15.820 Before we go to the experiment
00:00:17.300 And find the reactions of these people
00:00:19.680 The question that we're going to ask today is the following
00:00:21.900 We're dealing with the misconception of polygamy
00:00:24.480 We're going to go out there and ask males and females
00:00:26.560 If your husband or your wife was told you were okay with it
00:00:29.200 You had the money, you had the time
00:00:30.660 Everything was okay, would you want a second husband
00:00:32.860 A second wife, or a second girlfriend, or a second boyfriend
00:00:35.520 That's what we're going to find out inshallah as well
00:00:37.420 Also we're going to be talking about polygamy
00:00:39.240 The pros and the cons
00:00:40.520 And also, also, I will be talking about in my marriage documentary
00:00:44.080 Which you'll find out very soon about this
00:00:46.180 Because I was personally, when I was getting to know a sister for marriage
00:00:48.740 Being told in actually a few times
00:00:50.480 That, do you want to get married again?
00:00:52.740 And I said, well, you're going to find out what I answered in the marriage documentary
00:00:55.800 And also, can you stipulate in the contract?
00:00:57.780 All this will be answered in my marriage documentary
00:00:59.560 But that's something else
00:01:00.420 Let's go to Birmingham
00:01:01.440 Where we'll carry down the experiment
00:01:02.600 And come right back
00:01:04.020 And inshallah, learn some beautiful lessons about polygamy
00:01:07.460 All praise you belong to Allah
00:01:08.820 We'll be right back
00:01:10.440 Is this your girlfriend?
00:01:11.920 Yeah, yeah
00:01:12.440 Okay, she can't look at this
00:01:13.520 Because she'll end up uppercutting you
00:01:15.500 Yeah
00:01:16.100 So, sister, just ten seconds
00:01:18.180 Don't be scared, yeah?
00:01:21.860 Have you guys got girlfriends?
00:01:23.100 Yeah
00:01:23.300 Okay, imagine, yeah?
00:01:24.560 Your girlfriend is totally okay with it
00:01:26.580 Yeah?
00:01:27.280 Yeah, she's totally fine with it
00:01:28.380 Yeah, okay?
00:01:28.940 You've got the money
00:01:29.680 You've got the time
00:01:30.480 You've got everything, yeah?
00:01:31.240 She's okay with it, yeah?
00:01:33.220 Would you want a second girlfriend?
00:01:34.980 If she
00:01:35.860 Say it again, mate
00:01:36.700 She's okay with it, fam
00:01:37.820 Okay, she's saying to you
00:01:38.660 Look, you can get married again
00:01:39.620 You can do whatever
00:01:40.400 Like, get another girlfriend
00:01:41.500 She's saying it's calm
00:01:42.600 Would you want a second girlfriend?
00:01:45.100 I'll put one each
00:01:46.320 If she gets to my nerves
00:01:47.800 I'll put it in a corner
00:01:49.040 Okay, okay
00:01:50.840 Yes, yes
00:01:51.980 Yes, okay
00:01:53.060 Ever, imagine if your husband's totally okay with it, yeah?
00:01:55.800 Would you want a second husband?
00:01:58.040 No
00:01:58.260 Do you see a reason why?
00:02:01.020 Want enough?
00:02:01.880 Would you want a second boyfriend?
00:02:03.220 No
00:02:03.560 No
00:02:04.140 Okay
00:02:04.480 Just answer no
00:02:05.960 Why not?
00:02:09.180 Because I don't have time for that
00:02:10.940 So, so
00:02:12.500 Once enough
00:02:13.460 Okay, what if you had time?
00:02:15.820 No
00:02:16.340 Still, still not
00:02:17.580 I'd love one
00:02:19.480 I'd love a second one
00:02:21.480 Okay, uncle, uncle
00:02:23.420 You just need to press the end
00:02:24.420 I'd love you
00:02:25.920 I'm talking, okay
00:02:28.140 I just order in the end
00:02:29.260 I just feel
00:02:29.860 It's just wrong up here
00:02:31.720 Why not?
00:02:32.700 Like, you just want to
00:02:33.640 You just love one guy
00:02:35.820 Yeah, I feel like you can only
00:02:37.060 Like, you can't have two husbands and love one
00:02:39.760 You can't love them equally in my opinion
00:02:41.660 Okay
00:02:41.960 I feel like you'd always love one more than ever
00:02:43.960 Okay, show the second one
00:02:44.700 Second one?
00:02:46.540 Yes
00:02:46.800 Yes, really?
00:02:47.620 Yes
00:02:48.580 Yes or no?
00:02:49.320 So what?
00:02:50.320 Yes
00:02:50.760 Yes
00:02:51.320 Yeah, okay
00:02:51.920 Yes, yeah, okay
00:02:53.420 How many?
00:02:54.340 Two, three, four
00:02:55.280 I think two is
00:02:56.600 Two is enough
00:02:57.400 Two is enough, yeah?
00:02:58.760 Yes
00:02:59.280 Okay, how many?
00:03:02.460 Two, three, four
00:03:03.320 Two, three, four
00:03:05.000 Five
00:03:05.560 And how many extra?
00:03:10.720 Two, three, four
00:03:11.500 No, no, no, I just want to
00:03:12.960 You're next, you're next
00:03:14.460 Oh, I'm trying to say
00:03:15.380 Oh, I'm turning
00:03:17.080 Okay
00:03:17.660 You got the money
00:03:22.740 You got the time
00:03:23.640 Your wife is okay with it
00:03:25.260 Yeah, so take those factors out
00:03:26.540 But if you think her wife is okay with it, then yeah
00:03:27.760 We should look at it
00:03:28.300 It prevents you from it
00:03:29.700 Press it
00:03:30.160 Yeah
00:03:30.700 Do you want a second girlfriend?
00:03:33.460 Answer here
00:03:33.980 Just answer here
00:03:34.700 I'll be happy that one I've got
00:03:40.500 Okay
00:03:41.100 If it was acceptable
00:03:44.020 But it's not going to be acceptable
00:03:45.820 If it was, would you want two boyfriends?
00:03:47.580 No
00:03:48.000 No
00:03:48.100 Would you want a second husband?
00:03:54.320 No
00:03:54.640 Ew, why would you?
00:03:56.140 No, because the first one can't even act right
00:03:58.180 Okay, alright, alright
00:03:59.200 Why, why, why
00:03:59.960 Like, males give kind of a different answer
00:04:02.660 But as females, why
00:04:04.400 Why can't you have more than one husband?
00:04:05.960 Like, we're not talking about Islamic ruling
00:04:07.660 Obviously we know it's not permissible
00:04:08.520 But what I'm saying in general
00:04:09.420 Is why can't a female
00:04:11.060 Be married to two husbands?
00:04:13.440 Is there any
00:04:13.740 Because you can't look at somebody else
00:04:15.760 While you're in love with the person you did
00:04:17.480 Okay, so is it more emotional
00:04:18.700 Like you're more emotionally attached to one?
00:04:20.760 Do you agree?
00:04:21.540 Yeah
00:04:21.860 Alright, thank you
00:04:23.060 May Allah bless you guys
00:04:23.660 Would you ever want a second husband?
00:04:25.900 No
00:04:26.200 No
00:04:26.860 No
00:04:27.420 You wouldn't?
00:04:28.860 No
00:04:29.140 Okay, one second
00:04:29.920 My first husband might get jealous and kill us
00:04:32.220 Just in the social experiment
00:04:33.620 May Allah bless you guys
00:04:34.560 You know, it's actually quite interesting
00:04:37.960 Okay guys
00:04:38.860 Now, that was quite interesting
00:04:40.300 As you saw for yourself
00:04:42.020 The different reactions, etc
00:04:43.300 Right now we're going to find out the results
00:04:45.720 Yeah, okay
00:04:46.160 We're going to cut to the chase
00:04:47.020 We're going to find the results out
00:04:48.200 I carry this experiment out on both Instagram
00:04:51.180 And also in person in Birmingham
00:04:53.340 So
00:04:54.400 What we're going to do now is
00:04:56.020 We're going to go to
00:04:56.800 The survey, inshallah
00:04:58.400 And we're going to see
00:04:59.480 So when we asked
00:05:01.020 Males
00:05:02.180 We're going to find out now
00:05:04.020 What the results were
00:05:06.060 Yeah, okay
00:05:06.780 So
00:05:07.460 Are you guys ready?
00:05:09.520 So we asked about
00:05:10.500 26
00:05:11.400 Males
00:05:13.060 If I'm not mistaken
00:05:13.700 Yeah
00:05:13.960 Shockingly
00:05:15.500 This was actually very, very shocking to me
00:05:17.460 Yeah, because
00:05:18.100 I'm a man as well
00:05:19.580 And I know a lot of
00:05:20.340 Brothers around in me as well
00:05:21.640 35% of them said yes
00:05:24.840 65% said no
00:05:26.860 So I came to the conclusion
00:05:28.840 That there are no men left in Birmingham
00:05:30.440 Sadly
00:05:30.840 But besides that
00:05:32.520 The ones who said yes
00:05:34.100 67% said they would want
00:05:36.840 One extra co-wife
00:05:38.340 Or co-girlfriend
00:05:39.440 Because we are both Muslims and non-Muslims
00:05:41.700 11% said free
00:05:43.140 They would want three partners
00:05:44.540 11% said four
00:05:46.180 And another 11% said
00:05:47.640 They want four plus
00:05:48.700 So there were some
00:05:49.900 Greedy brothers out there
00:05:50.980 So what we did is
00:05:51.860 We said okay
00:05:52.380 That kind of
00:05:54.020 You know
00:05:54.280 Give and take
00:05:54.820 Because some of the questions
00:05:55.800 The brothers
00:05:56.320 They didn't really understand
00:05:57.060 The way I was saying
00:05:57.540 Even though I said
00:05:58.140 If you had no money
00:05:59.880 I mean if you had the money
00:06:02.140 If you had the time
00:06:02.760 And your wife or girlfriend
00:06:03.820 Was totally okay with it
00:06:04.740 Would you want to go and do this?
00:06:06.480 But after we asked them
00:06:07.520 Some of them said
00:06:07.960 Oh but I might not have the time
00:06:08.940 So they didn't really understand
00:06:09.760 My question
00:06:10.220 So
00:06:10.900 I would give it a ratio
00:06:12.940 Of 60 to 40%
00:06:14.880 Yeah
00:06:15.080 After speaking to them
00:06:16.680 Now
00:06:17.300 Going to sisters
00:06:18.940 So we asked
00:06:19.700 We asked the females
00:06:20.500 Okay
00:06:20.820 We asked the females
00:06:21.400 The very same question
00:06:22.760 Your husband is totally okay with it
00:06:24.840 Would you want a second partner
00:06:27.140 A second husband
00:06:27.740 Or a second boyfriend
00:06:28.380 Yeah
00:06:28.620 We asked 25 of them
00:06:30.000 And here was the result
00:06:31.320 It's quite expected really
00:06:33.140 88% said no
00:06:35.500 12% said yes
00:06:37.480 Right
00:06:38.140 Now even that 12%
00:06:39.720 That said yes
00:06:40.360 There were some
00:06:41.020 That were like just giggling
00:06:41.900 And I think they saw it
00:06:42.740 Kind of as a joke
00:06:43.480 But let's go with it
00:06:44.140 No problem yeah
00:06:44.860 We'll say 90% said no
00:06:46.460 10% said yes
00:06:47.740 Okay
00:06:48.460 Now there's a little twist
00:06:49.860 To this whole experiment
00:06:50.720 I said to myself
00:06:51.500 Hold on a second
00:06:52.020 This is quite interesting
00:06:53.320 Because
00:06:53.600 Why would
00:06:54.960 Because
00:06:55.640 Majority of the men
00:06:56.740 Obviously there's some men
00:06:58.180 Who are happy with their wife
00:06:59.840 Or just their girlfriend
00:07:00.600 Whatever it may be
00:07:01.300 Generally
00:07:01.940 But the results that I got
00:07:03.540 Were a bit shocking
00:07:04.060 And I was very honest with them
00:07:05.220 Yeah
00:07:05.460 As you can see
00:07:06.020 I didn't play around with it
00:07:06.920 I'm very honest with it
00:07:07.760 Inshallah
00:07:08.080 So I said
00:07:08.980 Let's add a little twist
00:07:10.040 To this
00:07:10.320 So we said
00:07:11.040 Okay
00:07:11.260 We're going to go back
00:07:11.840 To the males
00:07:12.320 We're going to ask them
00:07:13.380 A very similar question
00:07:15.560 In a little bit of a different way
00:07:16.600 And we thought
00:07:17.220 What would the results be
00:07:18.400 So this was quite interesting
00:07:19.820 We asked them
00:07:21.600 So we did this off camera
00:07:22.620 Went to a variety of people
00:07:24.280 Called some people
00:07:25.560 And we asked them the question
00:07:26.920 We said
00:07:27.340 Look
00:07:27.580 There is a lady
00:07:29.560 Or a woman
00:07:31.120 Who comes and says
00:07:31.760 Look
00:07:32.000 All I want
00:07:33.080 Is
00:07:33.800 Just sexual
00:07:34.680 Pleasure
00:07:35.780 That's it
00:07:36.260 I don't want nothing else from you
00:07:37.520 No strings attached
00:07:38.960 Yeah
00:07:39.440 We made this very very clear
00:07:40.640 And we asked about 20 males
00:07:43.580 Yeah
00:07:44.060 And we said to them
00:07:45.240 Look
00:07:45.440 No strings attached
00:07:47.140 Would
00:07:48.260 If this was the case
00:07:49.520 And this lady
00:07:50.620 Or this girl
00:07:51.340 Whoever she is
00:07:51.820 She just said
00:07:52.200 Look
00:07:52.440 This is what I want from you
00:07:53.540 I'm a very busy woman
00:07:55.200 I'm
00:07:55.760 You know
00:07:56.720 I'm misindependent
00:07:57.720 You know
00:07:58.080 I don't need a man in my life
00:07:59.480 That's
00:07:59.980 This is all I need him for
00:08:00.940 Would you do it
00:08:02.480 Now this was very shocking
00:08:04.080 Look at the results
00:08:05.540 95% of those men
00:08:10.200 Said yes
00:08:11.360 5% said no
00:08:13.900 So now the question
00:08:15.420 That we all need to ask ourselves
00:08:16.940 Is this
00:08:17.440 Why is it that when we said
00:08:19.640 A second wife
00:08:21.180 A second girlfriend
00:08:22.940 Even some Muslim men
00:08:25.120 Even though they're allowed
00:08:26.300 Yeah
00:08:26.720 And we know a lot of religions
00:08:27.620 Mormonism
00:08:28.120 Hinduism
00:08:28.600 Sikhism
00:08:29.120 Christianity
00:08:29.660 Judaism
00:08:30.000 They allow it as well
00:08:31.080 Why is it that
00:08:32.540 60% said no
00:08:34.960 But when it came to
00:08:36.380 No strings attached
00:08:37.460 There was a paradigm shift
00:08:39.020 And they were saying
00:08:40.080 Yes yes
00:08:40.580 That kind of yes
00:08:41.340 Well
00:08:42.260 I want to take you guys
00:08:44.160 To a little experiment
00:08:45.460 That was also done
00:08:46.140 A little research
00:08:46.740 That was done
00:08:47.200 Yeah
00:08:47.340 And I want to read this out
00:08:48.340 For you guys
00:08:48.720 Because this kind of
00:08:49.940 Brings me back to this point
00:08:51.380 Yeah
00:08:51.760 Science has yet definitely
00:08:53.380 To pronounce on whether
00:08:54.360 Humans are naturally
00:08:55.400 Monogamous
00:08:55.980 Or polygamous
00:08:57.320 The human male body
00:08:58.940 Provides ambiguous clues
00:09:00.060 To the answer
00:09:00.540 But the balance
00:09:01.360 Of the evidence
00:09:03.840 Indicates that we are
00:09:04.940 Biologically inclined
00:09:06.020 Towards monogamy
00:09:07.520 Now hear this out
00:09:08.560 Yeah
00:09:08.700 While retaining
00:09:10.940 An urge to sleep
00:09:12.560 Around
00:09:13.220 Now that's quite interesting
00:09:16.040 So
00:09:16.900 There is this urge
00:09:18.740 Yeah
00:09:19.220 To sleep around
00:09:19.960 Now
00:09:20.440 Connecting that with
00:09:22.160 The twist that we had
00:09:23.920 That we've done
00:09:24.800 That kind of
00:09:25.960 Tells me
00:09:27.160 That men
00:09:28.780 They prefer to have
00:09:30.720 A partner
00:09:31.360 A mistress
00:09:32.280 A side chick
00:09:33.080 Side chick
00:09:33.680 Or a girlfriend
00:09:34.900 With no strings
00:09:37.680 Attached
00:09:38.760 So it still shows me
00:09:40.460 That men
00:09:41.180 Have that high sex drive
00:09:43.680 That they're all
00:09:44.880 They want another partner
00:09:46.580 With no commitments
00:09:47.640 Now
00:09:48.440 Before I come to
00:09:50.220 The issue of
00:09:50.820 Polygamy
00:09:51.340 And its pros and cons
00:09:53.340 I just want to
00:09:54.440 Prove to you guys
00:09:55.380 That this study
00:09:57.120 There was another study
00:09:57.900 That was taken
00:09:58.440 That was done
00:09:59.300 Okay
00:10:01.020 So this was
00:10:01.840 The biggest experiment
00:10:03.520 That was done
00:10:04.020 With 200,000 participants
00:10:06.380 Across cross-cultural
00:10:08.100 With 50 free nations
00:10:10.640 50 free nations
00:10:12.320 And they came to the conclusion
00:10:13.920 That men have a higher sex drive
00:10:16.600 Than women
00:10:17.520 And a man
00:10:18.980 Thinks about sex
00:10:20.200 More often
00:10:21.460 Than a woman
00:10:22.480 Now just
00:10:23.040 Just to further prove my point
00:10:24.760 That
00:10:25.860 For example
00:10:26.820 Men spend
00:10:28.020 Billions of pounds
00:10:30.040 On pornography
00:10:31.400 Males magazines
00:10:32.660 Where there's
00:10:33.360 Half naked
00:10:34.000 Naked
00:10:34.380 Woman
00:10:35.040 Yes
00:10:35.780 Woman's legs
00:10:36.760 But you will never see
00:10:38.280 A woman
00:10:39.880 Spending that amount of money
00:10:41.540 Be it on
00:10:42.560 You know
00:10:43.180 Oh I want to go
00:10:44.020 And buy a magazine
00:10:44.720 That shows me
00:10:45.340 A man's hairy legs
00:10:46.320 And I get turned on
00:10:47.160 It doesn't happen
00:10:48.060 Strip clubs
00:10:48.920 A majority of the strip clubs
00:10:50.520 Disproportionately
00:10:51.720 Are
00:10:52.640 Female strip clubs
00:10:54.880 Yeah
00:10:55.060 They're for males
00:10:56.200 They call them
00:10:57.320 Gentlemen's club
00:10:57.860 Yeah
00:10:58.020 But when it comes to
00:10:59.440 Females
00:11:00.020 For females
00:11:00.860 That do go to these
00:11:02.300 Men's strip clubs
00:11:02.960 Majority of them
00:11:03.980 Studies show that
00:11:04.960 They go there
00:11:06.240 Because usually their friend goes
00:11:07.560 You know
00:11:07.780 They have like
00:11:08.260 You know
00:11:08.440 Girls night out
00:11:09.040 Wherever that may be
00:11:09.900 And also
00:11:11.740 Like I said to you before
00:11:12.600 Billions of pounds
00:11:13.560 Is being spent
00:11:14.320 On these things
00:11:15.700 And not only that
00:11:16.300 Advertisements
00:11:17.000 What has a chocolate bar
00:11:18.380 A water
00:11:19.200 Grass
00:11:20.400 Lighting
00:11:22.140 Whatever you may call it
00:11:22.920 A car
00:11:23.380 What on earth
00:11:24.280 Has that got to do
00:11:24.880 With a female
00:11:25.340 That they always have to put
00:11:26.500 A female
00:11:27.200 Dressed up
00:11:28.000 In a certain way
00:11:29.080 Why
00:11:29.700 Because a man
00:11:31.480 Is born in that way
00:11:33.400 He's visual
00:11:34.080 Yeah
00:11:34.540 He gets
00:11:34.940 You know
00:11:35.320 Sexually stimulated
00:11:36.160 Visually
00:11:36.860 But with a female
00:11:37.860 That's not the case
00:11:38.640 What that does is
00:11:40.160 That proves me further
00:11:41.840 That a man
00:11:43.020 Has a higher sex drive
00:11:44.840 And not only that
00:11:46.320 But also
00:11:47.280 He is naturally
00:11:48.680 Polygamous
00:11:49.400 Now you can't
00:11:49.980 You can say
00:11:50.460 You know what
00:11:50.740 Brother Ali
00:11:51.100 We're not taking a word for it
00:11:52.060 However
00:11:52.500 I just want to make something clear
00:11:53.460 I am not endorsing
00:11:54.460 That you get into polygamy or not
00:11:55.560 I'm just trying to show you
00:11:56.700 The fact
00:11:57.200 My aim here is
00:11:58.900 In the wife house
00:11:59.620 To debunk
00:12:00.360 Claims
00:12:01.380 Misconceptions about Islam
00:12:02.320 And to prove that
00:12:03.180 This Quran is from Allah
00:12:04.300 Because it's reality
00:12:05.720 Now let's go to
00:12:06.720 Non-Muslims
00:12:07.360 Yeah
00:12:07.500 There are two books
00:12:08.620 That support this claim
00:12:09.700 Backed by scientific studies
00:12:11.160 And analysis
00:12:11.680 Sex at dawn
00:12:12.940 That's what it's called
00:12:13.600 The Prehistoric Origins of Modern Sexuality
00:12:15.900 By Christopher Ryan
00:12:16.820 And Cecilda Jether
00:12:18.160 And The Myth of Monogamy
00:12:20.060 By David P. Barash
00:12:22.080 And Judith Eve Lipton
00:12:23.300 Both of these books
00:12:24.440 Are available online
00:12:25.440 And in bookstores
00:12:26.720 So non-Muslims
00:12:28.000 Even testify
00:12:28.960 To this reality
00:12:30.540 Recent study shows
00:12:31.680 That British men
00:12:32.480 Are much more likely
00:12:33.480 Than British women
00:12:34.180 To believe that humans
00:12:35.140 Are naturally polygamous
00:12:36.160 According to new research
00:12:37.380 Despite the majority
00:12:38.580 Of the country's population
00:12:39.680 Believing that polygamy
00:12:41.060 Is morally wrong
00:12:41.860 Almost half of men
00:12:43.120 46% think that
00:12:44.220 It is not natural
00:12:45.000 To have only one sexual partner
00:12:47.200 Now
00:12:47.800 Moving swiftly on
00:12:49.520 Guys
00:12:51.420 Now
00:12:52.060 There's a phrase
00:12:54.380 That I've come across
00:12:55.060 Yeah
00:12:55.300 Polygamy has been
00:12:56.980 Polygamy
00:12:57.760 Not this phrase
00:12:58.240 Polygamy has been practiced
00:12:59.440 In history
00:13:00.440 With all kinds of nations
00:13:01.500 Yeah
00:13:01.860 It has been practiced
00:13:03.060 All the time
00:13:03.780 Men can reproduce
00:13:05.320 In their 60s
00:13:06.100 Their 70s
00:13:06.560 And their 80s
00:13:07.200 Women generally
00:13:08.260 Get into their menopause
00:13:09.160 Around their 50s
00:13:10.200 Yeah
00:13:10.420 That's another evidence
00:13:11.920 Why they should be polygamy
00:13:12.860 And also we know
00:13:13.780 A lot of men die
00:13:14.820 More often
00:13:16.700 Women live
00:13:17.480 A bit longer
00:13:18.540 Also majority of the
00:13:19.900 Prison occupants
00:13:21.700 Are males
00:13:22.740 And also we know
00:13:23.760 That back in those days
00:13:24.460 They didn't have DNA
00:13:25.200 So if a woman
00:13:26.540 Had four husbands
00:13:27.260 And had sex with all of them
00:13:28.720 You don't know
00:13:29.360 Who the baby is
00:13:30.060 But if a man
00:13:31.080 Had four wives
00:13:31.660 You know who the father
00:13:32.280 You know who the mother is
00:13:33.380 There's a lot of
00:13:34.100 Hikmah behind it
00:13:35.040 Yeah
00:13:35.260 Okay
00:13:35.860 So sisters
00:13:36.880 Just hold on
00:13:37.580 Before you guys
00:13:38.220 Go crazy
00:13:38.660 I'm gonna drive
00:13:39.460 This point home
00:13:40.080 It's gonna be beneficial
00:13:40.800 For all of us
00:13:41.580 Yeah
00:13:41.740 There is a phrase
00:13:43.820 Called serial monogamists
00:13:45.300 Now I've heard of
00:13:46.120 Serial murderers
00:13:47.520 And serial killers
00:13:48.620 But a serial monogamist
00:13:50.140 And it says
00:13:50.920 Donald Trump
00:13:51.740 Larry King
00:13:52.560 Hugh Hefner
00:13:53.380 The playboy
00:13:53.980 The guy who owns
00:13:54.500 That playboy thing
00:13:55.140 Charlie Sheen
00:13:56.280 Live openly
00:13:57.260 With multiple girlfriends
00:13:58.260 Now
00:13:59.040 They are called
00:13:59.880 Serial monogamists
00:14:00.760 Why
00:14:01.060 Because they are not
00:14:02.320 It's illegal to get married again
00:14:04.160 So they are serial monogamists
00:14:05.760 They get married
00:14:06.240 Divorce
00:14:06.580 Married divorce
00:14:07.120 Married divorce
00:14:07.580 Their wife becomes like
00:14:08.840 That's what
00:14:09.440 Donald Trump and Larry King did
00:14:11.280 When their wife
00:14:12.220 Became older
00:14:13.160 They replaced
00:14:14.120 The old wife
00:14:15.140 To a new wife
00:14:17.080 And what happens
00:14:18.020 Is coming at the cost
00:14:19.260 Of destroying
00:14:20.220 One relationship
00:14:21.300 Totally abandoning
00:14:22.720 Abandoning
00:14:23.540 And moving on to another one
00:14:25.160 This is a harm
00:14:26.300 And this happens in our society
00:14:27.680 Why
00:14:28.260 Because a man
00:14:29.040 Wants to get married again
00:14:30.040 But because it's illegal
00:14:31.060 What he does
00:14:32.040 Is he says
00:14:32.540 Okay
00:14:33.080 I have to divorce you
00:14:34.060 You ruin and destroy a marriage
00:14:35.860 Yes
00:14:36.820 You ruin and destroy a marriage
00:14:37.980 Now I know
00:14:38.940 Sometimes
00:14:39.420 If polygamy is not done
00:14:40.340 In the right way
00:14:40.880 It can also
00:14:41.820 Destroy and ruin marriages
00:14:43.440 Also
00:14:43.800 We're going to come to that
00:14:44.880 Later
00:14:45.440 But these athletes
00:14:46.920 These rock stars
00:14:47.660 They sleep around
00:14:48.720 With hundreds
00:14:49.440 And thousands
00:14:50.340 Of women
00:14:51.180 Why
00:14:52.300 So Allah
00:14:53.280 Has sent this legislation
00:14:54.620 For it to be done
00:14:55.920 In an ethical way
00:14:57.180 Not in an
00:14:57.820 Unethical way
00:14:58.680 Where you go
00:14:59.400 And abuse it
00:15:00.240 And sleep around
00:15:01.100 With girls
00:15:01.800 Mistresses
00:15:02.260 Side chicks
00:15:02.780 And girlfriends
00:15:03.300 And abuse them
00:15:04.020 And give them no rights
00:15:05.240 It actually
00:15:06.380 Puts them
00:15:07.480 In a vulnerable position
00:15:09.200 Because you're using
00:15:10.180 And abusing them
00:15:10.920 Allah says
00:15:11.540 No
00:15:12.000 If you're going to do it
00:15:13.220 You do it in the right way
00:15:14.420 Marry in Surah Nisa
00:15:15.440 Verse 3
00:15:16.020 Marry in 2's
00:15:17.140 3's and 4's
00:15:18.160 But if you cannot be just
00:15:19.780 Marry only one
00:15:20.860 And the Prophet
00:15:21.540 Sallallahu alayhi wa sallam
00:15:22.600 Told us
00:15:23.260 That
00:15:23.800 On the day of judgment
00:15:24.880 A man will come
00:15:25.820 Leaning on one side
00:15:26.820 Why is he leaning on one side?
00:15:28.500 Because he was unjust
00:15:29.640 To one of the wives
00:15:30.580 So this is not a joke
00:15:31.860 This is a serious matter
00:15:32.860 And we just want
00:15:33.780 The whole point of this video
00:15:35.020 Is once again
00:15:36.020 Not to promote
00:15:36.780 Polygamy
00:15:37.540 I believe it's a solution
00:15:39.080 But I'm not here to do that
00:15:40.140 Do it or not do it
00:15:40.940 I'm trying to show you
00:15:41.780 Why the Quran
00:15:42.300 Is from Allah
00:15:43.380 And this misconception
00:15:44.560 That I'm trying to answer here
00:15:46.000 This is a man
00:15:47.440 This is a man
00:15:48.400 Who has come to the morning show
00:15:50.160 He's come to the morning show
00:15:51.340 We have the perfect
00:15:52.700 Polygamous relationship
00:15:53.500 He's got two girlfriends
00:15:54.780 Now this is hypocrisy
00:15:56.640 Not these people
00:15:57.840 You are allowed to have
00:15:59.580 Two girlfriends
00:16:00.320 It's fine
00:16:01.600 You can have two girlfriends
00:16:02.320 It's good
00:16:02.640 Come to the morning show
00:16:03.580 It's all good
00:16:04.020 Look
00:16:04.460 Me and my two girlfriends
00:16:05.620 But can you get married again?
00:16:07.180 Oh no
00:16:07.440 Married?
00:16:07.940 You cannot get married again
00:16:08.800 No sorry
00:16:09.200 You cannot get married again
00:16:10.440 And treat both the women equally
00:16:11.760 And give them rights
00:16:12.720 And honour them
00:16:13.380 And speak to the father
00:16:14.220 No no no no
00:16:14.960 You cannot do that
00:16:15.920 But two girlfriends
00:16:16.780 It's fine
00:16:17.360 You know what's
00:16:18.060 More pathetic than this?
00:16:19.860 Well this lady
00:16:21.100 Says that I sleep
00:16:22.880 With men to save their marriages
00:16:24.740 She's a prostitute
00:16:27.280 She sells herself
00:16:28.700 She sleeps around
00:16:29.760 With men
00:16:30.380 And she actually
00:16:31.000 I watched the video
00:16:32.060 She says
00:16:33.000 That these men go home
00:16:34.440 Happy
00:16:35.060 She goes
00:16:35.740 Because their sex life is dead
00:16:37.760 Their wives don't want to have sex
00:16:38.960 With them anymore
00:16:39.520 So he's saying
00:16:40.480 Look
00:16:40.720 She's saying
00:16:41.080 I'm coming to save their marriages
00:16:42.140 So in another way
00:16:43.180 It's polygamy
00:16:44.420 Done in an unethical way
00:16:46.060 You're using and abusing a woman
00:16:48.020 Emotionally
00:16:48.620 In all kinds of ways
00:16:49.820 And this is allowed
00:16:51.820 Okay
00:16:52.400 Cheating is not a crime
00:16:53.720 Yeah
00:16:54.300 Cheating is not a crime
00:16:54.820 Being a prostitute
00:16:55.980 To serve other men
00:16:57.060 Married men
00:16:57.700 Is not a crime
00:16:58.600 Having two girlfriends
00:16:59.720 It's fine
00:17:00.760 Side chicks
00:17:01.620 Girlfriends
00:17:02.320 Mistresses
00:17:03.120 Beautiful
00:17:04.000 Yeah
00:17:04.740 A lot of these
00:17:05.520 Rich people
00:17:06.560 That they have
00:17:07.620 Yeah
00:17:07.820 But if you want to get married again
00:17:09.940 In the right way
00:17:10.720 And treat them both equally
00:17:12.120 No no
00:17:13.720 You can't do that
00:17:14.620 No sorry
00:17:15.060 That's not allowed
00:17:16.260 This is the pinnacle
00:17:17.920 Of hypocrisy
00:17:19.000 And that's why we have
00:17:20.140 The Y Files
00:17:20.720 Brought to you by
00:17:21.480 Salaam Studios
00:17:22.040 To debunk this very claim
00:17:23.580 Polygamy
00:17:24.180 Obviously
00:17:24.780 Is legislated by Allah
00:17:25.860 Subhanahu wa ta'ala
00:17:26.520 And you have a lot of brothers
00:17:27.540 That get gassed and hype
00:17:28.740 They're not even doing the fart
00:17:29.920 Brother you're not even
00:17:30.440 Waking up for fajr
00:17:31.300 But you're too busy
00:17:32.140 Concentrated on
00:17:32.940 Fulfilling the sunnah
00:17:34.460 Yeah
00:17:34.620 Because you love Allah
00:17:35.820 And his messenger so much
00:17:36.660 You know
00:17:36.820 I have to fill the sunnah
00:17:37.620 Brother go
00:17:38.320 Do your fart first
00:17:39.300 Before you talk about this
00:17:40.260 And a lot of the time
00:17:41.800 Not a lot of the time
00:17:42.600 Sometimes
00:17:43.220 Men abuse this
00:17:44.660 How?
00:17:45.200 They get married
00:17:45.680 Divorce
00:17:46.000 Married divorce
00:17:46.500 Married divorce
00:17:46.980 Married divorce
00:17:47.320 They marry sisters
00:17:48.860 With the intention of divorcing
00:17:50.340 Yeah
00:17:51.200 It's being abused
00:17:52.620 This has happened
00:17:53.280 Yeah
00:17:53.780 Non-Muslims
00:17:55.020 That's why we say
00:17:56.320 Brothers and sisters
00:17:57.000 It's very important
00:17:58.560 That our brothers
00:17:59.740 Fear Allah
00:18:00.380 Subhanahu wa ta'ala
00:18:01.040 And also our sisters
00:18:02.660 Because I hear a lot of
00:18:03.880 Horror stories
00:18:04.600 Where a brother
00:18:05.540 Comes
00:18:06.220 Maybe not in this country
00:18:07.780 In another country
00:18:08.380 Where it's legal
00:18:09.040 It's allowed
00:18:09.500 Comes and says
00:18:10.200 Look I want to get married again
00:18:11.320 Yeah
00:18:11.880 And the sister
00:18:13.700 Disappeared with the kids
00:18:14.600 Boycotted him
00:18:15.480 Ruined his life
00:18:16.620 He can't see his kids
00:18:17.400 Why?
00:18:18.480 Basically telling him
00:18:19.260 Get lost
00:18:19.680 Go to hell
00:18:20.620 Literally
00:18:21.740 Not metaphorically
00:18:22.720 Literally go to hell
00:18:23.720 Meaning
00:18:24.200 Look
00:18:25.000 Instead of you hurting
00:18:25.920 My feelings
00:18:26.520 I'd rather you
00:18:27.600 Go and disobey
00:18:29.060 Allah's legislation
00:18:29.700 Go commit zina
00:18:30.900 Sisters have to fear
00:18:33.040 Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala
00:18:33.800 His war
00:18:34.080 We have to be balanced
00:18:35.180 This is a reality
00:18:36.660 If we go with the premise
00:18:37.980 If we agree
00:18:38.940 That different things
00:18:40.020 Should be treated
00:18:40.580 In different ways
00:18:42.060 Catered different ways
00:18:43.180 The evidence
00:18:44.000 And the science
00:18:44.660 And the Quran
00:18:45.180 And the sunnah
00:18:45.720 Firstly
00:18:46.780 Science comes after
00:18:47.960 Proves to us
00:18:49.360 That men are created
00:18:50.420 In a different way
00:18:51.200 Now we can either
00:18:52.400 Either
00:18:53.400 Accept this reality
00:18:54.760 Or
00:18:55.700 Reject it
00:18:57.000 And live it in a lie
00:18:57.660 And this is
00:18:59.040 One of the reasons
00:18:59.740 Why I've done this video
00:19:00.560 To show why polygamy
00:19:01.800 Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala
00:19:02.500 Has legislated it
00:19:03.300 When it's done the right way
00:19:04.880 Otherwise
00:19:05.420 It's done in an unethical way
00:19:07.140 Where non-Muslims
00:19:08.640 Practice this
00:19:09.340 They have girlfriends
00:19:10.540 Multiple
00:19:11.120 Sleeping around
00:19:12.260 Like it's happy days
00:19:13.200 Abusing women
00:19:14.800 No rights
00:19:16.220 They have no rights
00:19:17.040 But when it's done
00:19:18.400 The right way
00:19:18.960 If you want to get married again
00:19:19.820 You go and honour that woman
00:19:20.760 My dear sister
00:19:21.820 I want to get married again
00:19:24.240 This is what I can offer
00:19:25.560 Bang bang bang
00:19:26.120 Speak to the father
00:19:27.040 Give her wulema
00:19:28.020 Give her her maher
00:19:28.840 In a right way
00:19:30.060 Wallahi
00:19:30.620 This is something
00:19:31.900 That is from the religion
00:19:33.000 And any man
00:19:34.520 I admire the man
00:19:35.880 I admire the man
00:19:36.840 Wallahi
00:19:37.080 I'll say this very clearly
00:19:37.820 And I discussed this
00:19:39.080 In my marriage documentary also
00:19:40.480 I discussed this
00:19:41.160 In my marriage documentary
00:19:41.840 Because
00:19:42.380 I was set with these conditions
00:19:44.140 Of for example
00:19:44.940 I wanted to get to
00:19:46.160 Get to know a sister
00:19:47.180 For a marriage
00:19:47.620 But she said
00:19:48.280 That you're not allowed
00:19:48.760 To get married again
00:19:49.560 She wanted to stipulate
00:19:50.160 Into the contract
00:19:50.760 Yeah
00:19:50.980 Now me
00:19:52.060 I'm not saying
00:19:52.600 I wanted to get married again
00:19:53.380 The issue is though
00:19:54.100 Stipulating the contract
00:19:54.860 Is this allowed
00:19:55.720 Is this not allowed
00:19:56.540 All this we talk about
00:19:57.460 In the marriage documentary
00:19:58.140 Inshallah
00:19:58.440 This is a very important question
00:19:59.780 But
00:20:00.400 Just to drive the point home
00:20:02.260 That
00:20:03.060 This polygamous relationship
00:20:05.140 Is a solution
00:20:06.120 To mankind
00:20:07.200 So in a nutshell
00:20:08.160 This proves once again
00:20:09.800 Once again
00:20:10.780 For those who
00:20:11.840 Some who leave Islam
00:20:13.540 Because oh no
00:20:14.160 This is a man's religion
00:20:15.040 Etc
00:20:15.660 Once again
00:20:16.560 Islam has been proven right
00:20:17.960 Once again
00:20:18.880 Islam is there
00:20:19.920 As a solution
00:20:20.440 And you have left your religion
00:20:21.680 Because of something
00:20:22.280 That
00:20:22.560 Just because it's bitter truth
00:20:23.860 It's a bitter truth
00:20:24.680 And it's there
00:20:25.400 And some of these
00:20:26.120 Females who have left
00:20:27.540 They're in relationships
00:20:28.660 Where their boyfriend
00:20:29.980 Has got mistresses
00:20:31.120 And girlfriends
00:20:31.480 And cheating
00:20:31.880 So you've left this time
00:20:32.700 For something that
00:20:33.320 Your boyfriend's doing anyway
00:20:34.200 So that's your loss
00:20:35.680 So brothers and sisters
00:20:36.860 Hope you guys enjoyed this
00:20:37.760 If you would like me
00:20:38.880 To carry on doing more
00:20:40.000 Social experiments
00:20:40.560 With the survey monkey
00:20:41.820 Want me to ask
00:20:42.880 Specific questions
00:20:43.600 Comment in the section below
00:20:44.760 I would use that
00:20:45.480 Go out there
00:20:46.080 And do the same survey
00:20:47.060 Hope this has been
00:20:48.000 Beneficial for you guys
00:20:48.920 And answered your doubts
00:20:50.060 And until next time
00:20:51.380 Brothers and sisters
00:20:51.860 Asalaamu Alaikum
00:20:52.760 Wa Rahmatullahi