Ali Dawah - SHE K.O'S MODERN WOMAN - WOW!!

00:00:00.000 I want to make my own money. I want to do my own thing.

00:00:02.440 And I wasn't paying attention to reality.

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00:00:33.720 One of the biggest fitna that we are facing in today's time is feminism. 1.00

00:00:37.040 And now recently we have a red pill movement,

00:00:39.360 which is now polluting the mind of our young men.

00:00:41.460 In this specific show, I'm going to be talking about feminism

00:00:45.160 and the disease that it has on our young sisters.

00:00:48.340 Now we have a sister here who's Somali. 1.00

00:00:51.600 Yeah. And may Allah bless her. 0.98

00:00:53.260 Yeah. We've got Walalo. 0.57

00:00:54.360 Yes.

00:00:54.980 Who speaks some facts.

00:00:56.280 And she talks about how feminism brainwashed her to think in a certain way

00:01:00.460 and how she fixed that.

00:01:01.680 Something she might say might be triggering to those feminists 1.00

00:01:04.980 who get bothered by some statements of truth.

00:01:08.380 Listen for yourself, guys, before jumping to conclusions and understand.

00:01:11.780 And this is one of the reasons why we started the Bitter Truth Show,

00:01:14.180 which you can check out where we have a discussion with our panel of honorable sisters 1.00

00:01:16.920 and our brothers, where we discuss these matters pertaining to households

00:01:20.200 so we can stop the breakdown of the family unit.

00:01:23.240 Here's what she had to say, which I found very, very profound.

00:01:26.540 I want to make my own money.

00:01:27.520 Yeah.

00:01:27.680 I want to do my own thing.

00:01:29.000 And I wasn't paying attention to reality.

00:01:31.500 And reality for me, and I'm not, you know, whoever has their opinions,

00:01:34.980 that's up to them.

00:01:35.340 But for me, reality is a family consists of a man and a woman.

00:01:39.080 And the man is the head of the family.

00:01:40.920 He gets the last word.

00:01:42.760 And me, I'm there to nurture.

00:01:44.220 I'm there to mother.

00:01:45.480 I'm there to, you know, just make everyone feel better

00:01:48.080 and just do what needs to be done.

00:01:48.960 Just understand.

00:01:49.500 I need to click with him.

00:01:50.560 You know, we both need to.

00:01:51.460 I need to know that and trust that he can take care of the hard stuff.

00:01:55.120 If you'd met him when you was like, say, 17, before you had all the career.

00:01:57.760 No, I would have got married to an older man.

00:01:59.120 With the mindset that I've got now, I would have got married to an older man

00:02:01.180 who's already established and who is looking for a younger wife.

00:02:03.420 And a lot of men, that's what they want. 1.00

00:02:05.040 Because the younger you are, your fertility, you can have more kids.

00:02:07.880 And he knows what a woman's right is. 0.90

00:02:10.000 So in Islam, they teach you about what a woman's right is, 0.54

00:02:12.160 how God expects you to treat that woman.

00:02:14.380 If he understands that, then I trust that whatever decision he's making

00:02:17.620 is for my best interest and for our family's best interest.

00:02:20.240 Not to say that I don't know what's good for us,

00:02:22.020 but we're emotional creatures.

00:02:23.620 Sometimes we think illogically and they don't.

00:02:26.340 On the weekends, I would meal prep.

00:02:27.720 So, you know, us Somalis, we like to have like our, you know,

00:02:31.100 our big lambs and chickens and stuff.

00:02:33.560 So I'd cook that on the weekend, freeze it in like little pouches.

00:02:37.740 So I know Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday, Friday,

00:02:39.840 this is what we're having.

00:02:42.240 And so then all I've got to do is the rice and the pasta or whatever it is.

00:02:47.120 And he would always come home and there's always food.

00:02:49.640 Even if I'll go to sleep and he's finished at 11 or whatever,

00:02:52.780 I've got his plate, everything done, microwave, his cup, drink next to it,

00:02:59.400 everything just set up for him.

00:03:00.480 So when he comes in, he can just eat, shower and come to bed.

00:03:02.960 September 2019, just before COVID hit.

00:03:05.200 Oh, right.

00:03:05.580 I was a stay-at-home mum and I loved it.

00:03:07.600 You know, everything was covered.

00:03:10.780 You know, it was the ideal life for me.

00:03:13.200 You know, I would make sure that his clothes are clean.

00:03:16.120 I'm ironing his clothes for him.

00:03:17.780 Like I'm trying to keep him as the man.

00:03:21.200 Do you see how she has trust in her husband

00:03:25.240 and how feminism and these other world ideologies gave her the thought process 1.00

00:03:29.100 because she got married at 29 and she was working.

00:03:31.680 If you think about it, my dear sisters,

00:03:33.040 when we say about these things and we talk about these matters,

00:03:35.740 sometimes you get upset.

00:03:36.640 We want the best for you.

00:03:37.840 We want the best for you.

00:03:38.900 And sometimes we have to be brutally honest by speaking the bitter truth

00:03:41.680 and telling you guys that this is how we as men want.

00:03:45.100 We want a woman who is obedient to us. 0.94

00:03:48.020 Yes, the word obedient.

00:03:49.240 I don't care if you rip your hair out.

00:03:50.220 You can, it's fine.

00:03:51.500 Turkey's doing hair transplant.

00:03:52.620 You can go and get it there.

00:03:53.680 Okay.

00:03:54.800 Obedience.

00:03:55.460 We look for respect.

00:03:56.680 We look for a traditional wife. 1.00

00:03:58.060 That is the qualities we like.

00:03:59.520 We don't look for a woman who's a rebel, 1.00

00:04:01.720 who shouts, screams, who acts masculine.

00:04:04.180 Your best form of energy that you have,

00:04:05.960 and believe me, if there's any way,

00:04:07.280 if you want to control your husband or your partner,

00:04:09.300 is by being in your feminine energy 0.91

00:04:11.080 because that is what makes us crumble as men.

00:04:13.320 Let's be honest with you.

00:04:14.500 That is the reason why sisters like her have woken up 0.99

00:04:18.000 because she worked a career, life, etc.

00:04:20.280 She said it if you watch it on the show

00:04:22.280 that she said that she would have loved to be in a house

00:04:25.460 nurturing, looking after a child, bonding with her,

00:04:28.380 hearing the first words that come out her mouth.

00:04:30.120 And alhamdulillah, she came to that realization after

00:04:31.840 and she's gone back to her feminine energy

00:04:34.580 and accepted that her husband has the last say.

00:04:37.960 And this doesn't mean we want to control.

00:04:39.980 We want to be trusted.

00:04:41.140 And that's what she said.

00:04:42.080 She trusts her husband's decision.

00:04:44.180 Why is that a bad thing?

00:04:45.420 Why is that wrong?

00:04:46.100 And Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala in the Quran

00:04:47.560 and Islam makes that very clear 0.73

00:04:49.140 that the man is the provider and protector.

00:04:51.920 Now this might be that there are men in your life,

00:04:54.480 husband, father, son, whatever it may be,

00:04:57.140 that do not have these qualities.

00:04:59.060 That's fine.

00:04:59.740 We want those men to start behaving like men.

00:05:01.920 And if those men have left a bad image in your mind,

00:05:04.280 we apologize.

00:05:05.400 But the point is the following.

00:05:07.260 As men, we like to be the one that's the provider and protector

00:05:10.880 and for our wives to be obedient to what we say.

00:05:14.240 That is what we want.

00:05:15.640 And that's what every man wants, Muslim or non-Muslim. 1.00

00:05:17.800 There's an uprising now because of this,

00:05:19.980 because men have been abused to such a level

00:05:22.660 that their kids are being taken away from them,

00:05:24.680 that half of the money has been taken away from them,

00:05:27.000 and so many other things that these men are starting to wake up.

00:05:30.040 So the point of what I'm just trying to say is this.

00:05:32.360 If at a young age you prioritize getting married,

00:05:35.320 still have your degree, do your degree, getting married,

00:05:37.440 and have kids young,

00:05:38.480 by the age of 30 to 31, 32,

00:05:41.080 when you're less fertile,

00:05:43.100 yes, your beauty is slowly diminishing,

00:05:44.640 at least you have a man, a husband.

00:05:47.020 Number two, you have kids that are grown up,

00:05:49.560 and now you can go back to work.

00:05:50.840 But don't do it the other way around,

00:05:52.940 where you're sacrificing the peak of your time,

00:05:55.180 your value, the peak of your beauty and fertility,

00:05:59.480 and then you're using those peak years

00:06:01.920 to not find a husband,

00:06:03.200 and then when you reach 30,

00:06:04.280 uh-oh, time's running out.

00:06:06.160 The biological clock for a man

00:06:07.740 is different for a biological clock of a woman. 0.98

00:06:10.080 We want you guys to acknowledge this

00:06:11.560 and make the right decisions for your own good,

00:06:14.280 and kick out feminism out of your lives, 1.00

00:06:17.600 and inshallah, 0.90

00:06:18.800 that we can have more sisters like her.

00:06:20.980 And you know what I'm going to say?

00:06:22.220 To this sister, may Allah bless her,

00:06:24.100 and you know what?

00:06:24.700 Not hats off,

00:06:26.160 top is off for this walalo.

00:06:28.180 May Allah bless you inshallah.

00:06:29.540 Sorry guys, you have to see my semi-bold head,

00:06:32.400 but that's all I wanted to say.

00:06:33.480 May Allah bless and preserve this sister

00:06:35.100 and her husband and her marriage

00:06:36.420 and the family unit,

00:06:37.780 and protect them from evil eye,

00:06:39.540 and protect them from jealousy and envy,

00:06:42.100 and that may Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala

00:06:43.500 prosper this sister and her husband,

00:06:45.760 that her husband must be such an amazing man,

00:06:48.720 that this sister is in obedience,

00:06:50.480 and allows him to have the last say,

00:06:51.680 and acknowledges that as a woman,

00:06:53.320 she has shortfalls,

00:06:54.520 be it emotionally,

00:06:55.340 whatever it may be,

00:06:56.220 that can have an impact

00:06:57.200 on the decision-making factors

00:06:58.420 that she trusts her husband in.

00:07:00.560 And we ask Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala 0.71

00:07:02.100 that more of our sisters can wake up 1.00

00:07:04.520 and take the Quran and Sunnah over feminism, 1.00

00:07:07.140 and that more of our brothers

00:07:08.660 wake up to the Quran and Sunnah

00:07:10.220 and kick out red pill as well.

00:07:12.580 Until next time,

00:07:13.700 As-salamu alaykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh.

00:07:15.500 Don't forget to check the Bitter Truth show out.

00:07:17.700 And you know what?

00:07:19.120 I would love to have this sister

00:07:20.520 and her husband

00:07:21.260 on the Bitter Truth show

00:07:22.660 amongst other couples

00:07:23.660 to discuss these matters.

00:07:25.220 As-salamu alaykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh.

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Ali Dawah - March 09, 2023

SHE K.O'S MODERN WOMAN - WOW!!

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