Ali Dawah - SINCERE SISTER REQUESTS ANSWERS

00:00:00.000 just imagine the people back in the day when they would have to travel certain distances for months

00:00:07.100 or even years what is one thing that they would carry with them the quran why because they did 0.93

00:00:13.040 not have it on their mobile devices or their gadgets brothers and sisters imagine you have

00:00:17.600 an app the qurani app which not only shows you how much rewards you get but reminds you to read

00:00:23.820 the quran gives you reminders download the qurani app now and let it testify for you on your

00:00:28.960 qiyamah that you read it wherever you was okay assalamualaikum guys we're here in manchester we

00:00:34.160 came here with the salah pro project as you can see teaching people how to play salah we had our

00:00:37.600 sister what's your name sumaya sister sumaya alhamdulillah we wanted to ask a question yeah um

00:00:41.920 she came here with her cameras by for you know what the sounds not going to be good so if i will film

00:00:45.040 for her and inshallah make a message that reaches more people because it is a common problem so

00:00:49.680 repeat your question what was your question why is women's modesty emphasized publicly and excessively

00:00:54.640 whilst men's modesty which the quran commands first is often treated secondary like women is

00:01:00.640 very like obsessive like where the hijab do this whereas men's lowering their gaze which allah says 0.77

00:01:05.840 in the quran yeah it's treated as secondary so i don't understand like why is it different i think

00:01:10.720 that's that's a good question i don't know if in the quran allah mentions one's modesty over the other

00:01:14.960 allah said so they believe in men to lower their gaze and they believe women to lower their gaze as well

00:01:19.120 so that is important as well so i believe there's a lot of double standards so we've got two extremes we've got

00:01:23.520 the red pill and we've got toxic feminism so toxic feminism and red pill are the same thing on each 1.00

00:01:28.400 side that's the reason why it's important as men and we should call this out as well because there

00:01:32.960 is this big thing about dawah bros this dawah bros that but wallahi i'll be honest with you like 10 years

00:01:37.040 ago i've been talking about this topic where i was the first youtuber who actually spoke about men's hijab

00:01:42.160 because if you look at modesty and haya Uthman you know Uthman yeah he was so modest he had so much

00:01:48.560 higher subhanallah even the cross would cover himself next to him so modesty and higher is

00:01:53.760 something that is connected to the sisters when it shouldn't be because modesty and higher is for

00:01:57.040 myself the way i observed what i look at the way i dress i can't dress in tight clothes i have to cover

00:02:01.520 from my navel to my knee so a lot of message that needs to go to the brothers is that sometimes you

00:02:05.120 get these brothers who are criticizing sister's hijab or his pink color one single hair strand showing but

00:02:09.840 he's the same brother he goes topless on holidays so i agree with you and you're right allah does tell the 0.98

00:02:14.000 believing man and the believing who to cover up that's true but one thing we need to bear in mind

00:02:17.440 is this sister we as men are visual creatures yes because we're visual creatures it's also we have

00:02:22.560 to do our part as men we should lower our gaze but the question is this sister are women doing their

00:02:27.200 part by covering up and another issue that we miss is what makeup yes okay no no no no no no i'm not

00:02:35.360 talking about you i'm talking about you i'm talking in general what what's happened is a lot of

00:02:40.240 sisters like oh he should lower his gaze correct but a lot of sisters what are they doing is when 0.99

00:02:44.800 it comes to beautifying their self you see them like fully caked up and it's like okay hold on a

00:02:49.360 second it's true as men we should lower our gaze it's true that there are men in the islamic sphere

00:02:54.800 who are always picking on sister which is wrong however would you agree that also sisters right in

00:02:59.920 these days have got full makeup on and they are out there beautifying their self i find fair enough

00:03:05.440 like women like yeah some of them they do wear makeup etc yeah but the thing is right men they 0.98

00:03:09.920 should be around their gaze true but that doesn't mean that okay look i should lower my gaze but that

00:03:15.840 doesn't mean for example that our sisters should also you know yeah you know what i'm trying to say

00:03:21.760 we have to be fair they both have to do this job because if we say if the argument is blowing the

00:03:25.600 gaze that means okay let our sisters walk half make it because we're lowering our gaze we're doing our 0.99

00:03:29.120 bit so nobody will look at them no we as both that's what allah says so they believe in man to

00:03:32.720 lower his gaze and the woman as well so we both have to do our part also you know the hijab how

00:03:36.720 far does it go like because you know um um women wearing the naqab and posting themselves yeah like 0.99

00:03:41.920 a friend they can't do that because like men are going to be tempted or just something look allah

00:03:46.400 allah doesn't see in the quran oh yeah apparently apparently apparently men are going to be tempted 0.99

00:03:54.000 why no no i don't want to go on camera no i don't want to go come a bit close because i can't

00:04:01.040 hear you okay you won't be on camera okay i'll avoid you okay thank you but it's the conversation

00:04:05.440 and it's the way that it's it's talked about especially with like dawah brothers the way that

00:04:10.880 they break the way they talk about modesty the way they talk about modesty with hijabs the way like 1.00

00:04:15.760 for i'm not trying to like i don't mean to be like bad towards you or anything but recently you were in

00:04:20.960 you were in a scandal with this lady i was talking about her eyelashes and it was just the way you the 1.00

00:04:25.040 way just the attitude by which that there's so many of you speak about the hijab and so many of you

00:04:29.280 speak about women it's just like if i didn't read the quran and if i didn't know islam the way i know

00:04:34.880 islam i would not be drawn towards islam just from seeing so many clips about of like dawah brothers

00:04:40.800 and just the way you speak like it's just i think that the attitude needs to be changed and you need

00:04:46.480 to like think about the effect of one of the things that you say to the people who are in the religion

00:04:52.320 and people outside the religion as well like so many times i want to put on my hijab and i'll feel

00:04:57.600 fine you shouldn't wear makeup but how are you going to address it how are you going to how are

00:05:02.080 you going to tell us not to wear makeup how are you going to are you going to say no no no you

00:05:06.720 you've got yourself a free ticket to hell that kind of situation is not necessary true true i don't

00:05:11.120 think anyone can doom anyone to hell that's that's how around not permissible so the question i ask you is

00:05:16.800 who is the dawah bros the dawah bros okay let me tell you i want to know what is a dawah bro it's

00:05:26.560 like these men that are sort of obsessed with women no no no no that can be any muslim man

00:05:33.040 okay no when you say dawah bros i need to know who that phrase is so the question i'm asking this

00:05:37.360 sister is what is the dawah bro because because you know what's happening now people who do food

00:05:41.520 reviews and become a dawah bro you're a random muslim guy who's a mechanic become a dawah bro

00:05:45.440 anyone that opens their mouth will become a dawah bro now you know in the dawah scene there's specific

00:05:49.280 people me muhammad hijab even you can say okay yes but so what i'm saying is this is stuff if we if we

00:05:56.960 label can you give it because i want to yeah please yeah because the thing is this we we talk about like

00:06:02.560 for example yes right the way we deliver it but the thing is why is it that when we for example say to

00:06:07.280 our sisters why are you guys wearing makeup that's also haram automatically we're misogynist

00:06:12.160 automatically this you said to me shouldn't men talk about their modesty i said you're right 1.00

00:06:16.320 shouldn't we talk about how we're slowing our gaze i said you're right but why is it when we say

00:06:20.080 choose sister but how our sisters dress up and then wearing makeup isn't that also another issue we 1.00

00:06:24.560 should have or will hell get spoke close no it's because like it's i don't know it's just like the

00:06:28.640 emphasis on like women like you do this thing like the hell like i agree but let me tell you something 0.95

00:06:33.680 sister wallahi i've got videos from 10 years ago where i have spoken out against other muslim men

00:06:39.920 who are like i'm like why are you obsessed with women's hijab why don't you talk about you topless 1.00

00:06:44.080 on holidays i've done this i've spoken about this long time ago i've done an experiment called men's

00:06:48.880 hijab tutorial i spoke to men how to conduct their self but nobody talks about that so my job i've always

00:06:54.560 been fair i talk about the sisters i talk to brothers as well so what i'm saying is this there shouldn't be

00:06:58.800 there shouldn't be a divide between me and you yeah we are we are all right we are we are to one

00:07:04.080 another eight you are my sister in islam if i saw someone harming me down the road i will put my life

00:07:08.880 on the line for you not because you're blood related because not because you're my sister biological

00:07:13.680 sister because you're not because they say blood is thicker than water do you know what that means

00:07:18.480 yeah what do you think what means your brother is your blood right in islam we believe iman is thicker 0.99

00:07:23.200 than blood meaning what your brother will do for you i will do for you because you're my sister in islam

00:07:26.960 and the same should be with us okay i don't know oh did you have a question regarding the question

00:07:32.400 about you can't be close i can't hear you okay but i don't know you won't look i'll blur you okay

00:07:37.120 regarding no too many people are recording well why i'll blur you okay

00:07:42.560 regarding the question on who dawah bros are yes at the end of the day when like so many muslim men see 0.96

00:07:48.560 the type of people who are on the top for example you and other people what's a dawah bro the people who

00:07:53.600 speak dawah is to spread islam good no no no what is a dawah bro if i come and say a hijabi sis 0.57

00:08:00.000 that's all of you guys so what's a dawah bro do you agree i'm i'm a dawah bro yes good

00:08:04.800 mohammed hijab yeah aki amen yeah good who else is a dawah bro podcast people no no no no one second 0.70

00:08:11.920 you know what you found it's like imagine you do dawah you wear hijab yeah then i start saying there's 0.91

00:08:16.560 these other sisters who do weird stuff and i put you in their category and i go you hijabi sisters why 0.74

00:08:21.520 because they wear a hijab like you is that fair no good there are people who do food review they 1.00

00:08:25.920 became a dawah bro there's a mechanic muslim mechanic he's a dawah bro everyone's become a dawah bro

00:08:30.800 there's specific people in the dawah have you seen me ever ever come and criticize a woman about her

00:08:37.200 hijab no good you know why i have talked about people who took off their hijab but i could never 0.98

00:08:42.560 attack them because of their hijab but what i'm saying is sister is this thing that's popularized

00:08:46.960 that oh dawah bro's this dawah bro's that and i think where does this come from we've always

00:08:50.960 defended our sisters when we need to be defended our brothers but i'm not a a a a person who's going

00:08:56.480 to show up my religion do you not agree we have a problem with so many sisters wearing makeup and 1.00

00:09:01.600 beautifying themselves on tiktok yeah should we not talk about that we can't i'm just saying it's the way

00:09:06.880 that people speak 100 you are 100 right and i believe the way i spoke before was wrong and i apologize i said

00:09:13.040 if the delivery was wrong i put my hands up and i said i'm sorry thank you for but do you agree

00:09:17.120 that sisters beautifying their self is haram yes no one's no one's arguing that it's not

00:09:22.320 they are they are nobody's talking about it but that's not what i'm saying good my point is the

00:09:26.720 delivery can be so wrong sometimes that's what allah says in the quran if you was to be harsh with

00:09:31.440 them they would have run away from you and i 100 agree with you yeah thank you so thank you

00:09:35.280 thank you perfect there we go so we are sisters brothers are here we are one brother and sisters

00:09:40.480 this gender wars and this kind of stuff that are trying to divide us sorry sorry sorry sorry this

00:09:45.200 gender wars and stuff that's trying to divide us it's not this is a concern we address

00:09:48.880 alhamdulillah and inshallah we are not against each other we are brothers and sisters alhamdulillah inshallah

Ali Dawah - January 06, 2026

SINCERE SISTER REQUESTS ANSWERS

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