Ali Dawah - THE REALITY 10 ｜｜＂I AM NOT A VIRGIN!!＂

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00:00:30.000 Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh

00:00:32.160 Brothers and sisters, welcome to Reality 10

00:00:34.160 On today's topic we're going to be talking about

00:00:35.980 I am not a virgin

00:00:37.120 This is a topic that's really sensitive

00:00:39.060 And we're going to cover it from an angle of the brothers

00:00:42.240 This is what we're going to cover

00:00:43.460 Because as we know, it's a common problem

00:00:46.140 Where we get a lot of messages from

00:00:47.940 Our team, from sisters saying

00:00:49.320 Look, I've done mistakes in my past

00:00:51.320 But I'm scared to get married

00:00:52.600 Or some sisters say I got married

00:00:54.020 But my husband made a really big deal out of this

00:00:56.180 Etc, etc

00:00:57.180 So that's why we want to discuss it in detail

00:00:59.860 Why men behave like this

00:01:02.080 Why do they make it such a big deal

00:01:04.120 Is it to be like

00:01:05.200 Is it something that needs to be made as a big deal

00:01:07.000 We're going to hear from brother Muhammad, Julian and brother Imran

00:01:09.500 And before I start

00:01:10.800 Obviously I want to praise Allah

00:01:11.640 The most merciful, the most just

00:01:13.200 All praises and glory belong to Him

00:01:14.700 So before I start

00:01:16.240 Guys, please watch the video in full

00:01:18.580 Before you jump to assumptions

00:01:19.940 And think we're being one-sided

00:01:21.060 Or it's just all men speaking 0.99

00:01:22.400 Unfortunately we couldn't get sisters side 0.97

00:01:23.920 Because it's a topic that's

00:01:24.860 You know, it needs to be

00:01:26.040 You know, we all

00:01:26.940 It needs a bit higher

00:01:28.420 You know

00:01:28.940 And we don't want sisters to be there 1.00

00:01:30.300 Here, inshallah

00:01:31.060 So that's why we can't get their perspective

00:01:32.500 So I hope you guys understand

00:01:33.420 I'm going to go straight to brother

00:01:35.060 Julian

00:01:36.640 Yeah

00:01:37.220 Now, brother Julian

00:01:38.660 I want you to tell me

00:01:41.260 As

00:01:42.480 Like personally yourself

00:01:44.200 Yeah

00:01:44.700 Would you

00:01:46.940 Like

00:01:47.480 Like if you

00:01:48.500 If a sister came and said

00:01:49.760 Look, I haven't passed

00:01:50.800 Yeah

00:01:51.140 And

00:01:51.960 I was with two people before

00:01:53.600 Or three people

00:01:54.320 Yeah

00:01:54.900 How would you react to that?

00:01:57.220 And why would you react to that?

00:01:58.540 Why do men react to that? 0.98

00:01:59.660 Whatever it is

00:02:00.300 To be honest

00:02:03.460 I don't know

00:02:04.080 How I would react

00:02:05.740 Because

00:02:06.200 It depends on how much

00:02:08.840 I want to

00:02:09.600 Like put the effort in

00:02:12.240 Okay

00:02:12.560 Like if

00:02:13.400 Someone would approach me

00:02:14.820 And would be like

00:02:15.760 Listen, I have a pass

00:02:16.780 And I wouldn't be like

00:02:17.840 That interested

00:02:18.700 I would say like

00:02:19.520 Maybe it's for the best

00:02:20.920 To just

00:02:21.480 You go your way

00:02:23.300 I go mine

00:02:23.900 Okay

00:02:24.200 But

00:02:24.720 I think that

00:02:26.540 If it came to a point

00:02:28.280 That I

00:02:28.820 That I'm really into someone

00:02:30.220 Yeah

00:02:30.500 Then I think I would like

00:02:32.480 Try to like

00:02:34.100 Yeah, like

00:02:34.680 Look over that

00:02:35.540 You know

00:02:35.860 Like

00:02:36.100 I think

00:02:37.360 In the beginning

00:02:38.000 I would like

00:02:38.960 Maybe think about it

00:02:41.260 And

00:02:41.480 Like it would

00:02:43.480 Okay, okay, okay

00:02:44.040 What makes you

00:02:45.780 Think about it?

00:02:46.740 What makes you

00:02:47.280 Like triggers that

00:02:48.020 You know what

00:02:48.560 I don't know

00:02:49.460 Or not you

00:02:50.040 Why does men in general 0.62

00:02:51.600 When they hear this

00:02:52.680 They're like

00:02:53.020 I don't know

00:02:54.100 I think it

00:02:55.260 Has something to do

00:02:56.420 With like

00:02:56.840 A manly ego

00:02:57.840 Okay

00:02:58.580 Like knowing that

00:02:59.560 Your wife

00:03:00.540 Has been with someone else

00:03:02.120 Before you

00:03:02.940 Like she

00:03:04.060 Build up

00:03:04.840 Certain memories

00:03:05.980 That

00:03:07.200 Are I guess

00:03:09.080 There to her

00:03:09.580 Because women 0.99

00:03:10.300 Think like

00:03:11.440 Very different than men 1.00

00:03:12.660 Yeah

00:03:12.940 So

00:03:13.480 They're

00:03:14.520 It's like your first

00:03:15.540 Is a big thing

00:03:16.100 Yeah

00:03:16.360 That's

00:03:17.040 So

00:03:17.420 It doesn't

00:03:19.360 Make you

00:03:21.120 It doesn't make you insecure

00:03:22.320 But

00:03:22.740 It's

00:03:23.480 It affects you

00:03:25.380 It affects you

00:03:26.140 Okay

00:03:26.460 Because

00:03:26.800 When you're with her

00:03:28.360 Maybe she thinks about

00:03:29.740 Like being with someone

00:03:30.840 Yeah

00:03:31.100 Okay

00:03:31.400 And you know

00:03:33.120 It's a big thing

00:03:35.640 Bro

00:03:35.800 Like you

00:03:36.240 You know

00:03:36.720 You don't forget

00:03:37.680 Your first

00:03:38.140 That's why

00:03:39.120 Like if

00:03:39.740 You don't

00:03:40.480 Like

00:03:41.340 Generally speaking

00:03:42.160 Even guys don't 0.58

00:03:43.640 Guys don't

00:03:44.340 So

00:03:44.520 And girls are

00:03:45.420 Like even

00:03:46.060 More emotional

00:03:47.120 And more attached

00:03:47.900 To

00:03:48.200 Memories

00:03:49.000 So

00:03:49.320 So

00:03:49.520 Are you telling me

00:03:50.520 It's the fear of

00:03:51.300 Okay

00:03:51.840 Her thinking

00:03:53.960 About

00:03:54.500 Her

00:03:55.240 Ex

00:03:55.800 Okay

00:03:56.060 He was the first one

00:03:57.700 Or

00:03:58.480 He was the first one

00:04:00.260 And

00:04:00.580 Oh

00:04:00.880 I liked

00:04:01.660 Whatever

00:04:02.860 Our relationship

00:04:03.400 Whatever I had with him

00:04:04.700 I like that

00:04:05.900 And that's

00:04:06.460 Is that what

00:04:07.540 Fears you more

00:04:08.640 Like

00:04:08.860 Is it the fact that

00:04:10.220 She lost her virginity

00:04:11.180 To him

00:04:11.820 Yeah

00:04:12.420 Or

00:04:13.060 Is it that

00:04:13.780 Maybe she 0.99

00:04:14.900 Like enjoyed it more

00:04:16.420 With him

00:04:16.760 Yeah

00:04:17.100 And you're like

00:04:18.060 Am I going to

00:04:19.140 Like meet the standards

00:04:20.060 Is that

00:04:21.160 Because I just want to know

00:04:22.020 I want to go into

00:04:22.440 A man's mind 1.00

00:04:22.900 What makes you trigger that

00:04:24.320 To say

00:04:24.580 You know what

00:04:25.040 One person before

00:04:26.740 Oh you're not a virgin

00:04:27.480 I don't know

00:04:28.800 It's not like

00:04:29.680 That I'm not

00:04:30.300 Living up to the

00:04:31.560 Same standards

00:04:32.380 As he did

00:04:33.000 But it's more like

00:04:34.100 I don't want

00:04:35.280 My

00:04:35.720 My wife

00:04:36.960 To think about

00:04:37.640 Another man

00:04:38.420 When I'm

00:04:39.240 Yeah

00:04:39.440 Like doing

00:04:40.300 Something with her

00:04:41.180 And it doesn't have

00:04:42.120 To be like

00:04:42.600 Sexually

00:04:43.080 But like

00:04:43.540 You just don't like it

00:04:44.880 Okay I'm going to

00:04:45.340 Go to brother Muhammad 1.00

00:04:46.020 What's your take on this

00:04:47.900 You heard Julian

00:04:48.960 You heard a bit of

00:04:49.780 What Imran said

00:04:50.340 And he's going to

00:04:50.880 Come in depth more

00:04:51.520 Inshallah

00:04:51.840 What's your take

00:04:53.440 Bismillah ar-Rahman ar-Rahim

00:04:55.280 Well

00:04:56.220 What's been said

00:04:58.220 Is the truth

00:04:59.160 Okay

00:05:00.100 I want to say that

00:05:00.700 First of all

00:05:01.220 Okay

00:05:01.500 Thank you

00:05:01.880 What you guys are going to

00:05:02.580 Talk

00:05:02.760 What you guys have been

00:05:03.520 Talking about

00:05:04.040 Yeah

00:05:04.280 The fact there's going to

00:05:05.440 Be a plane on your mind

00:05:06.320 Yeah

00:05:06.660 Regardless if you

00:05:09.120 Have an issue

00:05:10.160 With her being

00:05:10.720 Virgin or not

00:05:11.580 Yeah

00:05:11.860 This is going to

00:05:13.040 Play with your mind

00:05:13.980 Yes

00:05:14.280 Okay

00:05:14.620 But Aki

00:05:15.240 Let me tell you this

00:05:15.940 Yeah

00:05:16.120 A lot of things

00:05:17.580 Play with your mind

00:05:18.300 Okay

00:05:18.960 In this dunya

00:05:19.520 And in this world

00:05:21.380 You'll never get

00:05:22.420 The best of the best

00:05:23.220 You'll never get

00:05:24.720 Ideal circumstances

00:05:25.980 Even if she's virgin

00:05:27.520 And you're virgin

00:05:28.120 You've got to have

00:05:28.560 Other problems

00:05:29.380 In your marriage

00:05:29.960 Okay

00:05:30.260 For me

00:05:30.960 Personally

00:05:32.000 I care about

00:05:33.660 About

00:05:34.680 How she is right now

00:05:36.400 Yeah

00:05:36.860 Because I've been

00:05:37.540 Speaking to this girl

00:05:38.660 Then

00:05:38.900 Imagine I am

00:05:40.280 Yeah

00:05:40.460 Speaking for this girl

00:05:41.520 For many reasons

00:05:42.300 Yeah

00:05:42.600 I'm just not going to be able

00:05:43.640 Okay

00:05:43.880 Like

00:05:44.200 I like the color of your hijab today

00:05:46.240 You know what

00:05:46.880 Let's get in your car

00:05:47.440 That's not the way

00:05:48.340 It's going to happen

00:05:48.760 Isn't it

00:05:48.960 There are things in the character

00:05:50.440 That I really like

00:05:51.180 And things that I

00:05:52.200 Say

00:05:52.560 Alhamdulillah

00:05:53.100 I want to stand next to her

00:05:54.580 On the day of the qiyamah 0.98

00:05:55.440 I want her to be

00:05:56.320 The main teacher

00:05:57.840 Of my children

00:05:58.520 Okay

00:05:58.940 Because that's what

00:05:59.360 The mother is bro

00:06:00.020 Yeah

00:06:00.360 Nothing less

00:06:01.180 Yeah

00:06:01.900 Okay

00:06:02.340 So

00:06:03.320 If she did

00:06:04.880 What she did

00:06:05.900 And she's

00:06:07.440 Made a relationship

00:06:08.880 With Allah

00:06:09.320 Subhanahu wa ta'ala

00:06:10.160 Which I can look upon

00:06:11.220 And be like

00:06:11.580 Subhanallah

00:06:12.100 I am convinced

00:06:13.440 That there's so much barakah there

00:06:14.960 I'm not saying

00:06:15.420 There's going to be no issues

00:06:16.320 Yeah

00:06:16.640 So you're saying to me

00:06:18.100 I don't care

00:06:19.240 If she is 0.75

00:06:20.080 If she's not a virgin 0.87

00:06:21.260 No

00:06:21.700 As long as

00:06:23.700 She's

00:06:24.140 What's your take on it

00:06:24.980 What do you look for

00:06:26.740 It's not

00:06:27.620 What I look for in a sister

00:06:29.380 There are many reasons

00:06:30.440 Yeah

00:06:30.560 And I think there should be

00:06:31.220 Another video about that

00:06:32.100 Before you go about

00:06:32.720 It's another

00:06:33.680 Completely another topic

00:06:34.440 Yeah

00:06:34.620 But

00:06:35.240 What I look in a sister

00:06:36.360 Is not nothing

00:06:37.260 Listen

00:06:38.120 I want a certain kind of character

00:06:39.740 I would like her

00:06:40.620 To be able to

00:06:41.800 Crack jokes with me 1.00

00:06:42.480 Like the way I do 1.00

00:06:43.420 To understand my stupid 1.00

00:06:44.700 Way of life 1.00

00:06:45.420 And in it

00:06:45.800 Small little things

00:06:46.860 Are going to matter bro

00:06:47.740 And issues

00:06:49.140 Did my cost

00:06:49.920 Topics will go on

00:06:51.620 Later on in this video

00:06:52.760 Issues did my cost

00:06:54.040 I am willing

00:06:55.540 To do that challenge

00:06:57.480 Okay

00:06:58.240 Because are you telling me

00:06:59.100 And this question

00:06:59.780 Is for anyone

00:07:00.200 To say

00:07:00.500 Are you telling me

00:07:01.240 That even if she's a virgin

00:07:02.580 They're not going to be

00:07:03.280 Like likewise

00:07:03.980 Big problems in a marriage

00:07:05.060 That you guys need to

00:07:05.840 Avoid together

00:07:06.460 They are not going to be

00:07:07.700 Like listen

00:07:08.500 Yeah

00:07:08.680 For me it's very easy

00:07:09.600 If she done

00:07:11.500 What she done

00:07:12.200 In the past

00:07:12.840 And she repented

00:07:14.000 To Allah

00:07:14.540 Subhanallah

00:07:15.180 And she comes to me

00:07:17.400 And she tells me

00:07:18.380 Listen this and this

00:07:19.240 And this has happened

00:07:19.940 In my past

00:07:20.480 But now I'm like

00:07:22.020 This and this and this

00:07:22.840 And this is the reason

00:07:23.520 Why you and I

00:07:24.020 Start speaking

00:07:24.700 And this is what

00:07:25.940 You saw in me

00:07:26.600 So don't judge me

00:07:27.960 For my past

00:07:28.800 Judge me for now

00:07:30.000 Allah subhanallah

00:07:31.120 Does not only

00:07:32.220 Forgive a person

00:07:33.120 He adds to their scale

00:07:35.340 Not in bad deeds

00:07:36.760 Not in punishment

00:07:37.920 But in good deeds

00:07:39.740 So how can I have

00:07:42.020 A different standard

00:07:42.640 Than my lord

00:07:43.140 How can I not try

00:07:44.320 To be the best version

00:07:45.420 Of myself

00:07:45.860 I'm not saying

00:07:46.600 It's easy

00:07:47.240 But wallahi 0.96

00:07:48.700 Those people

00:07:49.520 Subhanallah

00:07:50.920 I'm going to

00:07:52.180 Hold you there

00:07:52.700 I'm going to go

00:07:53.040 To Imran

00:07:53.480 So Imran

00:07:54.680 You heard what Julian

00:07:55.360 Said and brother

00:07:55.840 Mohammed said as well

00:07:56.600 So brother Mohammed

00:07:57.900 Saying look

00:07:58.220 I don't care

00:07:58.820 She's not a virgin

00:07:59.600 To me it just

00:08:00.580 Matters about her

00:08:01.300 Deen

00:08:01.660 And that's all

00:08:02.180 I care about

00:08:02.720 If Allah subhanallah 0.82

00:08:03.120 Is forgiving her

00:08:03.700 And only forgiving her

00:08:04.400 And turn the bad deeds

00:08:05.020 Into good deeds

00:08:05.500 Who am I

00:08:06.280 To come and say

00:08:07.140 I want a virgin 0.91

00:08:07.600 Let's go to the

00:08:08.380 Sunnah of the Prophet

00:08:09.120 And let's see

00:08:10.520 Our opinion should be

00:08:12.620 Based on the religion

00:08:13.180 The kitab and the sunnah

00:08:14.540 Allah subhanallah

00:08:16.200 Said that they will not

00:08:17.000 Truly believe

00:08:17.460 Until they make you

00:08:18.300 O Muhammad

00:08:18.780 The judge

00:08:19.280 Between them

00:08:19.960 Have no haraj 0.99

00:08:20.900 With regards to what you say

00:08:21.840 They have no enmity

00:08:22.560 With regards to the ruling

00:08:23.420 And then

00:08:24.080 Teslim

00:08:24.760 Submit to it

00:08:25.720 Sallallahu alayhi wasallam

00:08:26.820 Okay so

00:08:27.340 Let's come to the hadith

00:08:29.020 Of Jabir ibn Abdullah

00:08:30.040 Radiyallahu anha

00:08:30.660 Very famous hadith

00:08:31.580 From which we can derive

00:08:32.300 Many benefits

00:08:32.920 But can also derive

00:08:34.300 What the ruling

00:08:36.080 Or permissibility

00:08:37.420 Is with regards to

00:08:39.180 Desiring to marry a virgin 1.00

00:08:40.480 Okay

00:08:40.900 Akhi

00:08:41.920 After the battle of Tabuk

00:08:43.880 Yeah

00:08:44.260 Which was a big expedition

00:08:45.700 Yeah

00:08:46.120 The army of the Prophet

00:08:47.500 Was returning back to Medina 0.85

00:08:48.720 At the front of the army

00:08:50.780 You see Jabir ibn Abdullah

00:08:52.220 Radiyallahu anha

00:08:53.120 Young sahabi 1.00

00:08:54.540 Teenager

00:08:55.100 And he's galloping away

00:08:56.340 On his horse

00:08:56.800 Eager to enter into the city

00:08:58.040 The Prophet

00:08:58.900 Looks at him

00:08:59.500 He says

00:08:59.640 Ya Jabir

00:09:00.220 Why are you in such a hurry

00:09:01.640 In a rush

00:09:02.120 Like you hold it down

00:09:03.420 Jabir looks to the messenger

00:09:05.160 Sallallahu alayhi wasallam

00:09:06.060 Said

00:09:06.360 Ya Rasulullah

00:09:07.140 I am a recently married man

00:09:08.700 Just after I got married

00:09:10.460 I had to leave for the expedition

00:09:11.680 And I'm eager to

00:09:13.100 Be with my wife

00:09:14.080 Yeah

00:09:14.420 And the Prophet

00:09:15.100 Said okay good

00:09:16.060 He inquires

00:09:17.580 He's the teacher

00:09:18.580 Did you marry

00:09:20.800 You know

00:09:21.820 A virgin

00:09:22.560 Yeah

00:09:23.060 And Jabir says

00:09:24.200 No Rasulullah 1.00

00:09:25.120 I married a widow

00:09:26.020 Yeah

00:09:26.460 And the Prophet

00:09:27.520 Says really 1.00

00:09:28.060 Ya Jabir

00:09:29.740 Why did you not 0.86

00:09:30.960 Marry a virgin 1.00

00:09:31.960 So that 1.00

00:09:34.220 You could play with her

00:09:36.220 And that she could

00:09:37.720 Play with you

00:09:38.300 Okay

00:09:38.800 And the shuraah 0.95

00:09:40.180 Of the hadith

00:09:41.020 Explained that there

00:09:41.780 Is an intimate connotation

00:09:43.080 To what the Prophet

00:09:43.600 Is talking about

00:09:44.220 Okay

00:09:44.480 And Jabir

00:09:45.560 Radiyallahu anha

00:09:46.000 He says

00:09:46.380 Ya Rasulullah

00:09:46.900 You know my father

00:09:47.660 He became

00:09:48.360 You know

00:09:48.720 He died in the battle

00:09:49.560 Of Madr

00:09:50.160 Shahid insha'Allah 0.97

00:09:50.920 And

00:09:51.780 Radiyallahu anha

00:09:52.880 And he left behind

00:09:54.500 Seven in one narration

00:09:56.380 Nine daughters

00:09:57.140 Yeah

00:09:57.680 And

00:09:58.760 I didn't want to marry

00:10:00.220 A woman who would 1.00

00:10:01.200 Just be as young as them 1.00

00:10:02.640 And not be able to

00:10:03.500 Take care of my sisters

00:10:04.220 So I married an older woman 0.93

00:10:05.700 Who could be like

00:10:06.240 A mother figure

00:10:06.840 And so on and so forth

00:10:07.880 Now

00:10:09.440 The hadith goes on 0.83

00:10:10.480 Even further

00:10:10.940 And we derive many benefits

00:10:11.960 About how her husband and wife

00:10:12.960 Can be intimate with each other

00:10:14.020 But

00:10:14.760 What I want to take from here is

00:10:16.200 The fact that the Prophet

00:10:17.600 Gave preference to him

00:10:18.800 Marrying a virgin 0.84

00:10:19.400 Now

00:10:20.040 Sisters

00:10:20.820 Please

00:10:21.320 Don't

00:10:21.940 That

00:10:22.280 Calm down

00:10:23.560 I'm gonna

00:10:24.280 Explain a little bit more

00:10:25.920 Okay

00:10:26.180 But generally speaking

00:10:27.360 The default position

00:10:28.680 For a man

00:10:29.460 When he's looking for a woman 0.98

00:10:30.600 He should look for a virgin girl 1.00

00:10:32.320 Why?

00:10:33.540 Because the messenger

00:10:34.480 Sallallahu alayhi wa sallam

00:10:35.620 Gave preference to a virgin

00:10:37.120 In this situation

00:10:37.920 So

00:10:39.880 In light of that

00:10:41.120 It is

00:10:42.420 Permissible

00:10:43.260 And totally okay

00:10:44.180 For a brother

00:10:44.720 To want to marry a virgin 1.00

00:10:45.800 It's his right

00:10:46.940 As we explained

00:10:48.160 There could be many problems

00:10:49.220 Psychologically speaking

00:10:50.220 Men have more gira than women 1.00

00:10:51.560 Yeah

00:10:52.080 So for a man

00:10:53.320 To know that his woman

00:10:54.480 Was once with another guy

00:10:55.720 And that other guy

00:10:56.340 Was his first

00:10:56.940 Is the thing that

00:10:57.780 Will play in his mind

00:10:58.500 But wouldn't

00:10:59.040 I'm so sorry

00:10:59.940 To just cut you there

00:11:00.600 But wouldn't the same thing

00:11:01.600 Happen with a sister

00:11:02.980 If it was a guy

00:11:04.460 Wouldn't she be like 0.83

00:11:05.840 Okay yeah

00:11:06.280 But I don't want it as well

00:11:07.180 Yeah not necessarily

00:11:08.000 I mean look

00:11:08.540 I know there's exceptions

00:11:09.260 In some women 1.00

00:11:09.940 But then it would be

00:11:10.700 Much more of a bigger problem

00:11:11.760 Let's not be around a bush

00:11:16.080 It's much more difficult for men

00:11:17.900 Because men have that gira in them 1.00

00:11:19.620 That women don't 1.00

00:11:20.240 Men have that in them

00:11:21.700 That protective jealousy

00:11:22.660 From men 0.97

00:11:23.320 He's being with her

00:11:25.060 And he's like

00:11:25.480 But another man already

00:11:26.680 Dealt with this

00:11:27.880 Do you see what I'm saying

00:11:28.460 So

00:11:29.900 Neither here nor there

00:11:31.760 Whatever the reason is

00:11:32.860 If the man wants

00:11:33.740 To marry a virgin 1.00

00:11:34.700 Let him

00:11:35.560 But pause

00:11:36.620 Pause

00:11:37.940 We live in a society

00:11:40.140 Where a lot of women 1.00

00:11:41.560 Unfortunately

00:11:42.360 Have lost their virginity

00:11:44.080 In haram means

00:11:45.140 So is men 0.95

00:11:46.160 Of course men

00:11:46.920 Without a shadow

00:11:47.400 They're not losing them

00:11:48.500 To women are they 1.00

00:11:49.000 They're losing it

00:11:49.640 To other men

00:11:50.200 But the point is

00:11:51.300 Now because of this

00:11:53.700 If every man makes it 1.00

00:11:55.120 A requirement

00:11:56.220 That I will marry a virgin 1.00

00:11:59.660 And that is it

00:12:00.520 Then

00:12:02.280 I think it's a bit unfair

00:12:04.980 Because if every man did that

00:12:06.780 No one will really get married

00:12:08.700 Because

00:12:09.760 Let's just be real

00:12:10.780 There's just not that many

00:12:11.840 Virgins as they should be

00:12:12.960 Out there

00:12:13.400 You see what I'm saying

00:12:14.000 So with that said

00:12:15.320 Those who really have

00:12:17.540 A big problem with it

00:12:18.800 And for them

00:12:19.500 It's like

00:12:19.900 It has to be a virgin

00:12:21.420 You know

00:12:22.780 For them

00:12:23.040 It's understandable

00:12:23.700 And it's even understandable

00:12:24.380 So it depends on the individual

00:12:25.540 It depends

00:12:26.280 But what I'm saying

00:12:26.780 Is like

00:12:27.060 If it's like

00:12:27.660 The brother was saying

00:12:28.460 If her iman is sky high 0.97

00:12:30.040 And qiyamun lay

00:12:30.780 Then she's going to be able

00:12:31.760 To raise

00:12:32.320 The next generation 0.96

00:12:34.600 Of

00:12:35.100 Of

00:12:35.860 And

00:12:36.760 The imams 1.00

00:12:38.880 That will take

00:12:39.380 This ummah into victory

00:12:40.620 Marry her 0.98

00:12:41.720 Right

00:12:42.160 Because

00:12:43.020 The one who

00:12:44.160 Narrate

00:12:44.700 From which we take the hadith 0.65

00:12:45.940 The prophet

00:12:46.280 The one who advised

00:12:47.960 Jabir

00:12:48.340 You know

00:12:49.560 Why didn't you marry a virgin 1.00

00:12:50.620 Himself

00:12:51.980 Only married one virgin

00:12:54.420 He also married many

00:12:56.860 Non-virgin

00:12:57.220 Do you see what I'm saying

00:12:59.120 So that shows you

00:13:00.240 It's also praiseworthy

00:13:02.440 To marry a non-virgin 1.00

00:13:04.380 Right

00:13:05.000 Okay

00:13:05.440 So basically

00:13:06.520 Let me ask you something

00:13:07.420 So guys

00:13:08.620 Can

00:13:09.160 Somebody

00:13:10.260 Like

00:13:10.980 A guy that's gone around

00:13:13.400 And slept around

00:13:14.080 And done whatever

00:13:14.800 Does he have a right

00:13:16.580 To say

00:13:17.180 I want to marry a virgin 1.00

00:13:18.220 Does he have that right

00:13:19.180 Of course he has

00:13:20.640 Muhammad 0.63

00:13:21.220 Does he have that

00:13:21.740 Yeah

00:13:23.260 It's not me to take rights

00:13:24.620 Away

00:13:25.000 Or to give them

00:13:26.040 Okay

00:13:26.360 But for me personally

00:13:27.120 What's your opinion

00:13:27.560 For me personally 0.81

00:13:28.220 I think it's some sort of hypocritical 0.93

00:13:30.060 So imagine I got a daughter

00:13:31.200 Yeah

00:13:31.500 Yeah

00:13:32.260 And I'm there in the masjid

00:13:33.780 And alhamdulillah

00:13:35.160 There's a brother

00:13:35.880 Who's interested in my daughter

00:13:37.380 Yes

00:13:37.680 So he walks up to me

00:13:38.480 Brother Muhammad

00:13:39.080 I look to get married

00:13:40.020 I'm like okay

00:13:40.540 But yeah

00:13:42.120 Your daughter

00:13:42.580 Did she marry already

00:13:43.800 I said

00:13:44.060 No

00:13:44.380 She didn't marry already 0.97

00:13:45.320 Okay

00:13:45.580 But is she a virgin

00:13:47.000 Yeah

00:13:47.500 And I ask him

00:13:48.580 Are you a virgin

00:13:49.460 Yeah

00:13:49.840 And he says

00:13:50.400 No I'm not

00:13:50.940 Yeah

00:13:51.260 But she needs to be 0.56

00:13:52.140 I tell him to get lost

00:13:52.960 Okay

00:13:53.400 That's what I would do

00:13:54.400 Okay

00:13:54.580 So like I said

00:13:55.340 Look

00:13:55.700 Like brother Muhammad said

00:13:58.600 It's not for us

00:13:59.500 To take rights away from people 0.98

00:14:00.760 If Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala 0.99

00:14:03.440 Facilitated that the man

00:14:04.760 Has the right

00:14:05.300 And the capacity

00:14:05.940 To choose

00:14:06.580 If he wants to marry

00:14:07.460 A virgin or not

00:14:08.260 Irrespective

00:14:09.380 And that right

00:14:10.160 Is not conditional

00:14:10.780 To whether he's a virgin or not

00:14:11.920 Okay

00:14:12.480 Then we can't take that

00:14:14.560 Right away

00:14:14.940 Okay

00:14:15.620 Now with that said

00:14:16.840 You gave two examples

00:14:18.060 Yes

00:14:18.340 There is a man

00:14:18.860 Who sleeps around

00:14:19.760 With many women

00:14:20.560 Yes

00:14:20.880 Which they are

00:14:21.920 Brothers

00:14:22.480 And I know you're listening in

00:14:23.580 For you

00:14:24.760 Meet these kind of brothers

00:14:25.940 On a regular basis

00:14:26.800 Right

00:14:27.700 They sleep around with the girls 0.98

00:14:29.180 Yeah 0.67

00:14:29.520 They know they ain't a virgin 0.94

00:14:31.140 And they're like

00:14:31.560 When I marry them

00:14:32.140 Marry me a virgin 0.97

00:14:32.900 You my friend 1.00

00:14:35.160 Are a fasiq 1.00

00:14:35.820 You're a sinner 0.99

00:14:37.560 And know that in 0.99

00:14:38.860 Surah An-Nur 0.97

00:14:39.480 Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala 0.81

00:14:40.780 Said

00:14:41.140 That the good woman

00:14:43.360 The pure woman

00:14:44.080 Is for the pure man 0.93

00:14:44.980 And the filthy man 0.99

00:14:46.060 Is for the filthy woman 1.00

00:14:47.040 So that person 0.98

00:14:48.620 Is not coming

00:14:49.220 As a true repenter

00:14:50.160 And

00:14:51.300 Or the women 1.00

00:14:52.040 In that situation as well

00:14:53.000 So you will get

00:14:54.160 What you deserve

00:14:54.780 Don't think

00:14:55.300 If Allah does give you a virgin 0.99

00:14:57.280 She's going to be one

00:14:58.080 Shaitan

00:14:58.760 Trust me

00:15:00.660 She might be a virgin 0.98

00:15:02.160 Down there

00:15:02.680 But up here

00:15:03.720 She might be a little

00:15:05.520 Bunger

00:15:06.780 Now on that note

00:15:09.220 Right

00:15:09.680 Because I missed that

00:15:11.020 That ayah 1.00

00:15:12.260 Now a sister might have 0.97

00:15:13.640 Committed a sin in the past

00:15:15.260 And lost her virginity 0.64

00:15:16.500 And because she made toba 1.00

00:15:18.200 She becomes pure

00:15:19.580 So because she becomes pure

00:15:21.700 She also could get 0.79

00:15:23.200 She could get 0.97

00:15:25.080 A virgin

00:15:26.480 No problem

00:15:27.140 Or pure

00:15:28.060 Yeah yeah yeah

00:15:28.940 Whatever

00:15:29.160 You see what I'm saying

00:15:29.780 Let's not go too deep into it

00:15:31.100 Yeah and I think

00:15:31.560 What Rabbi Imran means

00:15:32.500 With pure as well

00:15:33.580 Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala 0.81

00:15:34.380 Means pure

00:15:34.840 It's your heart

00:15:35.120 It's not down there

00:15:36.700 It's not down there

00:15:38.160 It's not limited to one thing

00:15:39.540 Throw your hearts up

00:15:43.520 Okay

00:15:43.820 Alright okay

00:15:44.460 I feel you

00:15:45.280 Okay quickly

00:15:45.600 Okay okay

00:15:46.260 So look

00:15:47.820 With that said

00:15:48.840 I just want to give you

00:15:49.800 An analogy though

00:15:50.480 You see the women

00:15:51.460 Have the right to have a maher

00:15:52.440 Yeah

00:15:52.860 They can have whatever

00:15:54.060 It's wrong

00:15:54.680 Yeah

00:15:55.020 Generally speaking

00:15:56.180 It's not wise

00:15:57.240 Yeah

00:15:57.460 For a woman to be like 1.00

00:15:58.500 Come on

00:15:58.840 Ten thousand pound maher

00:16:00.560 Or one million pound maher

00:16:02.100 Yeah

00:16:02.340 Give it to me

00:16:03.120 Or I won't get

00:16:03.520 I won't marry you

00:16:04.300 I mean you must be a really

00:16:05.220 You know good quality sister

00:16:06.080 If your maher is a million pound

00:16:07.240 Yeah

00:16:07.720 But

00:16:08.740 Generally speaking

00:16:09.620 If you say

00:16:10.400 That my maher is a million pound

00:16:11.940 No one can come to you

00:16:13.880 And say

00:16:14.460 No

00:16:15.140 That's all right

00:16:16.140 It's her right

00:16:16.760 Allah gave it to you

00:16:17.700 Okay

00:16:18.000 So you can basically

00:16:18.920 Do what you want

00:16:19.520 The same way with the man

00:16:20.960 If he has the right

00:16:22.600 To marry a virgin 1.00

00:16:23.780 Fine

00:16:24.200 Do you see what I'm saying

00:16:25.000 But as I mentioned

00:16:25.840 In balance

00:16:26.620 Now I just want to

00:16:27.840 Show you one other hadith

00:16:29.140 Right

00:16:29.460 Because

00:16:30.000 I think in this day and age

00:16:31.920 We have to be very realistic

00:16:32.900 Yeah

00:16:33.180 And like I said

00:16:33.620 There are a lot of

00:16:34.280 Non-virgin people 0.59

00:16:35.540 Right

00:16:36.040 From both genders

00:16:36.960 Yeah

00:16:37.200 I told you that

00:16:38.580 The one who's giving us

00:16:39.560 The advice

00:16:39.940 And saying it's more preferable

00:16:41.000 To marry a virgin 1.00

00:16:41.600 Himself

00:16:41.940 Didn't marry virgins 0.98

00:16:42.860 Except for one

00:16:43.500 Aisha

00:16:43.980 Radhiallahu

00:16:44.720 Anha

00:16:45.040 Our mother

00:16:45.520 Do you see what I'm saying

00:16:46.600 Um

00:16:47.860 Akhi Karim

00:16:48.720 Listen to me

00:16:49.240 The Prophet ﷺ said

00:16:50.140 That women are married 0.99

00:16:50.980 For four things

00:16:52.160 This hadith is very misunderstood

00:16:53.760 So listen to me

00:16:54.520 All you thirsty brothers

00:16:55.400 Yeah

00:16:55.880 They're married for their wealth

00:16:58.020 They're married for their family

00:17:00.060 They're married for their buffness

00:17:01.840 Their chungness 0.99

00:17:03.080 Or in America as they say

00:17:04.560 Vihatness 0.91

00:17:05.540 And then they're married for their deen

00:17:07.640 The Prophet ﷺ said

00:17:09.080 Marry her for her deen 0.97

00:17:10.700 He didn't say marry her for all four

00:17:12.380 He's saying that these are the four reasons

00:17:13.600 For which people do marry women 0.99

00:17:14.840 Yeah

00:17:15.200 And he's saying

00:17:15.860 I'm telling you

00:17:16.760 Bondi looks

00:17:18.140 Yeah

00:17:18.640 Even though

00:17:19.260 You do take them into consideration

00:17:20.880 But he's saying

00:17:21.340 That put it to the side

00:17:22.380 Pog wealth to the side

00:17:23.600 Yeah

00:17:23.800 Put her lineage and family to the side 0.98

00:17:25.200 Yeah

00:17:25.420 Put her lineage and family to the side 0.98

00:17:26.120 Yeah

00:17:26.480 He doesn't say focus on her religion

00:17:26.620 He didn't say marry her for her hymen

00:17:28.920 At the end of the day

00:17:30.540 Although I know it's not as simple as this

00:17:32.900 But it is just a bit of skin

00:17:34.580 And she did make toba 0.98

00:17:35.980 And she repented

00:17:36.720 And she came back from it

00:17:37.720 Don't let it be

00:17:39.220 Bigger than it is

00:17:41.140 Sah

00:17:41.640 And that's really something beautiful

00:17:44.220 Yeah

00:17:44.460 You can create problems

00:17:46.720 As you don't look them into proportion

00:17:49.500 Okay

00:17:50.220 What Imran is saying there

00:17:51.540 Is really powerful

00:17:52.660 Really powerful

00:17:53.840 If you make a big issue

00:17:56.340 About something

00:17:57.120 It will not leave your mind

00:17:58.820 When you're sleeping

00:17:59.380 And you're alone

00:17:59.860 But if you are willing

00:18:02.120 To put stuff on the side

00:18:03.420 And you go back to the kitab

00:18:05.100 And sunnah

00:18:05.640 And you look always

00:18:07.020 To the best things of your wife

00:18:08.560 Yeah

00:18:08.900 That's how you'll view her

00:18:10.520 When you are alone

00:18:11.100 Yeah but

00:18:12.480 Im going to be a devil's advocate

00:18:13.500 Yeah so

00:18:13.860 Some

00:18:14.580 A lot of brothers

00:18:15.440 They say look here

00:18:16.560 The matter is not

00:18:17.640 With her being a virgin

00:18:19.080 The matter is not that

00:18:20.040 The matter is like

00:18:20.700 Some of them say

00:18:21.380 You know what

00:18:21.840 If she got married

00:18:22.940 And got divorced

00:18:23.660 I wouldn't mind

00:18:24.460 Of course

00:18:24.800 It's not like they're going to play

00:18:25.520 Monopoly right

00:18:26.220 She's not going to be a virgin

00:18:27.600 But

00:18:28.340 The fact that

00:18:29.560 What they're seeing is

00:18:30.740 For example

00:18:31.320 It's not about

00:18:33.100 Her not being a virgin

00:18:34.460 The problem is

00:18:35.540 How do I know

00:18:37.100 That she didn't sleep

00:18:38.880 With 10 guys

00:18:39.760 20 guys

00:18:40.500 Or 30 guys

00:18:41.120 Because she might be

00:18:42.000 Lying to me

00:18:42.380 She might come and say

00:18:42.840 You know what

00:18:43.120 Oh it was just one guy

00:18:43.880 I made a mistake

00:18:44.580 And we have understood

00:18:46.260 Julian has said

00:18:47.660 That it's a hard thing

00:18:48.560 For a man to accept 0.97

00:18:49.940 So

00:18:50.560 A man's going to be thinking 1.00

00:18:51.620 In his head

00:18:51.940 This is

00:18:52.300 Like I'm just being

00:18:52.840 A devil's advocate

00:18:53.360 He can be thinking

00:18:54.760 Okay but how do I know

00:18:55.660 Maybe you went

00:18:56.220 Stepped around

00:18:56.700 How do you find

00:18:57.220 You're coming to me

00:18:57.760 And telling me

00:18:58.280 Oh it was only one guy

00:19:00.660 Why can we say that

00:19:01.700 Just quickly

00:19:02.060 It doesn't matter

00:19:03.040 Whatsoever bro

00:19:03.960 Okay

00:19:04.660 It doesn't matter

00:19:05.560 Whatsoever

00:19:06.000 As I told you

00:19:07.060 It is not that she did

00:19:08.680 The deed

00:19:09.100 Which the problem is

00:19:10.140 And it's not that

00:19:11.580 The deed itself

00:19:12.600 Will just

00:19:13.380 Like for me

00:19:14.220 Say that I'm not

00:19:15.180 Interested anymore

00:19:15.900 I'm interested in this

00:19:17.220 Sister for reasons

00:19:18.560 Many reasons

00:19:19.980 You're saying

00:19:20.680 Her being a virgin

00:19:22.140 Don't care 0.87

00:19:22.940 It's about her deen

00:19:23.900 Yeah

00:19:24.300 No no no

00:19:24.800 Listen

00:19:25.200 What I'm generally

00:19:26.220 Trying to get at

00:19:27.140 Is I wanted to

00:19:28.180 Arrive this point

00:19:29.140 So clearly to everyone

00:19:30.500 I don't care

00:19:31.820 If it was one

00:19:32.580 The fact that

00:19:33.600 She did it

00:19:34.300 Is a problem

00:19:34.880 She did

00:19:35.960 Tawbah 0.84

00:19:36.440 Now she is

00:19:37.680 The person she is

00:19:38.680 And that's the person

00:19:39.720 Who I want as my wife 1.00

00:19:41.040 Does it matter

00:19:42.480 How many times

00:19:43.240 She did that deed 1.00

00:19:43.980 No

00:19:44.560 Because it does not

00:19:46.160 Take away from her

00:19:47.120 Status right now

00:19:48.560 Okay

00:19:49.020 To echo what

00:19:50.660 Prophet Muhammad said

00:19:51.200 Yeah

00:19:51.380 It doesn't matter

00:19:52.480 If she was the worst sinner 1.00

00:19:53.880 And she came with

00:19:54.720 All of that

00:19:55.340 Akhi

00:19:55.640 Bistial 1.00

00:19:56.620 Whatever Akhi

00:19:57.480 If it's dirty 0.95

00:19:58.340 It's filthy Akhi 1.00

00:19:59.360 It doesn't matter

00:20:00.360 Because Allah

00:20:01.200 Subhanahu wa ta'ala

00:20:01.960 Said

00:20:02.160 In the Quran

00:20:02.780 Allah said

00:20:14.100 His slaves are not

00:20:15.020 Those who do shirk 1.00

00:20:15.860 And they are not

00:20:16.820 Those who murder 0.50

00:20:17.780 Other than him

00:20:18.420 And Allah said

00:20:19.240 You can rest assured

00:20:20.220 His slaves are not

00:20:21.460 Those who do zina 1.00

00:20:22.420 And if they do

00:20:26.160 Any of these three things

00:20:27.220 Allah said

00:20:27.880 I will humiliate them 0.84

00:20:29.500 And on the day of judgment 0.97

00:20:37.100 Allah says

00:20:37.600 I will multiply the punishment

00:20:39.240 For them 1.00

00:20:39.720 For the fornicators 0.99

00:20:41.320 I will multiply it 0.99

00:20:42.700 But then he says

00:20:44.180 Allah

00:20:45.980 But there's an exception 0.97

00:20:48.040 To the fornicators 0.98

00:20:50.380 And the murderers 1.00

00:20:51.460 And kuffar

00:20:52.720 The shirk

00:20:53.240 He says

00:20:54.360 Allah man taba 0.96

00:20:56.260 Except for the one

00:20:58.140 Who returns back to me

00:20:59.920 Makes tawbah 0.99

00:21:01.360 Comes back

00:21:01.920 She turns around

00:21:03.080 He turns around

00:21:03.560 Man taba wa amana

00:21:05.140 Wa amila amalan salihan

00:21:07.760 Fa ula'ika yubaddeelullahu sayyiatihim hasanat 0.65

00:21:14.600 Allah says

00:21:16.560 Not only will I forgive her and him

00:21:21.400 For the zina that they did 1.00

00:21:22.740 But if they believe in me

00:21:25.740 After making tawbah

00:21:26.820 Leave that sin

00:21:28.020 And then come with righteous actions

00:21:29.980 I will wipe the slate clean

00:21:32.540 And forgive them

00:21:33.400 And in return of those

00:21:36.460 Hundred men that she slept with 1.00

00:21:38.220 Allah will take that hundred man weight of zina 1.00

00:21:40.300 And replace it with her 1.00

00:21:41.800 That same weight of sin

00:21:44.600 But in good deeds

00:21:45.580 So

00:21:46.900 Generally speaking

00:21:48.200 To answer the question

00:21:49.300 It don't matter how many men she slept with 1.00

00:21:50.440 As long as she may tawbah 1.00

00:21:51.260 But even then

00:21:52.360 Let's be balanced

00:21:53.540 Even though

00:21:55.440 It's fine

00:21:56.360 She's clean

00:21:57.020 She's a pure person

00:21:58.540 If the man wants a virgin 0.99

00:22:02.100 Let him be 0.90

00:22:04.640 Let him be

00:22:06.420 It's okay

00:22:07.200 On Instagram I just put

00:22:09.800 That we're doing this video on virginity

00:22:11.660 And there's sisters that are going crazy 1.00

00:22:13.160 I'm only gonna marry me

00:22:14.640 A virgin man

00:22:16.100 Right?

00:22:16.720 And that's okay

00:22:17.820 Because you've got that right as well

00:22:20.380 But for example

00:22:21.880 If Mr Ali Dao or Julian or Mohammed 0.98

00:22:24.220 Or Musa Adan sitting behind the camera

00:22:26.400 Musa doesn't mind

00:22:28.300 I'm joking

00:22:28.760 I'm joking

00:22:28.980 Whoever

00:22:29.760 If they

00:22:30.480 Say you know what

00:22:31.720 If they say

00:22:33.620 You know what

00:22:34.140 For me it's just difficult

00:22:35.020 Or you know if they say

00:22:35.760 Forget difficulty

00:22:36.560 I just

00:22:37.820 I want me 0.97

00:22:38.720 I want me a virgin girl man 0.94

00:22:40.440 It's just 0.94

00:22:42.000 I want a virgin girl 1.00

00:22:43.680 Okay 0.99

00:22:43.940 Okay

00:22:44.160 Okay

00:22:45.000 Like looking at a lot of things here

00:22:46.480 A lot of questions

00:22:47.760 A lot of things that I look here

00:22:49.220 Like

00:22:50.200 I want to marry a virgin as well

00:22:51.500 And like we said before

00:22:52.320 It's your right sister

00:22:52.980 You know

00:22:53.220 If you want a man that's a virgin 1.00

00:22:55.040 That's your right

00:22:55.540 100%

00:22:56.120 You can

00:22:56.960 Go ahead and

00:22:58.260 You know

00:22:58.680 Ask for that

00:22:59.200 I'm gonna quickly wrap up

00:23:01.040 This is the last question

00:23:01.960 But why

00:23:03.180 There might be other questions

00:23:04.100 We need to wrap up

00:23:05.040 Yeah

00:23:05.220 Okay

00:23:05.580 So

00:23:06.140 Can a brother

00:23:07.220 Ask a sister 0.77

00:23:08.240 If she's a virgin or not 0.60

00:23:09.120 And vice versa

00:23:09.900 Can a sister ask a brother

00:23:11.220 Are you a virgin or not

00:23:12.180 Can they

00:23:13.520 Like is she allowed to say that

00:23:14.680 If she lies what happens

00:23:15.720 Is she deceiving him

00:23:16.700 Is 0.88

00:23:17.100 He deceiving her

00:23:18.960 If a man

00:23:21.160 The man says

00:23:21.760 Do I have the right to ask

00:23:22.900 Yeah

00:23:23.320 And oh sister

00:23:24.100 Yeah yeah of course you do

00:23:25.020 It's a condition

00:23:26.280 If you want it to be a condition

00:23:27.860 Okay

00:23:28.220 If you

00:23:28.940 For you it's a condition

00:23:29.840 You have the right to ask

00:23:31.480 At the beginning

00:23:32.160 Okay alright

00:23:32.800 You see what I'm saying

00:23:33.460 Yeah but hold on

00:23:34.060 Hold on

00:23:34.360 She

00:23:35.300 Okay

00:23:35.740 The both partners are allowed to ask each other

00:23:37.780 Yeah

00:23:38.120 But can the other one lie

00:23:40.100 No

00:23:40.680 It's impermissible

00:23:41.660 Why

00:23:41.980 If he makes it in condition

00:23:43.260 Remember the marriage is a contract

00:23:45.140 So they're not allowed to lie

00:23:46.040 Of course not

00:23:47.380 If

00:23:47.780 But if they know

00:23:49.160 It's going to break up

00:23:49.880 No it doesn't matter bro

00:23:51.780 If the marriage

00:23:53.040 Marriage is a contract 0.93

00:23:54.080 You've based the contract

00:23:55.460 Upon a false thing

00:23:56.320 The man can

00:23:57.400 At the end of the night

00:23:58.140 When he realises

00:23:58.760 That he was lied to

00:23:59.860 He can cause the marriage 0.99

00:24:01.220 To be ended

00:24:01.980 Because he was deceived

00:24:03.300 Okay but

00:24:03.760 And vice versa

00:24:04.320 If the woman was lied to 0.98

00:24:05.600 The same way 0.72

00:24:06.100 Brothers and sisters

00:24:06.720 As you heard

00:24:07.460 From the brothers here

00:24:08.480 Inshallah you guys have benefited

00:24:09.880 As we know

00:24:10.660 Islam caters for everyone 1.00

00:24:12.320 You want to marry a virgin 1.00

00:24:13.460 You have that right to

00:24:14.640 You don't want to

00:24:15.660 Obviously like I said

00:24:16.700 It's better

00:24:18.600 If you can

00:24:19.500 Accept that

00:24:20.560 And take that on board

00:24:21.560 Obviously you're rewarded

00:24:22.320 Hope you guys have benefited

00:24:24.340 Please share this with your friends

00:24:25.420 And family if you have benefited

00:24:26.580 And may Allah's mercy and blessings

00:24:28.140 Be upon you all

00:24:28.820 Also if you are in a Haram relationship 0.92

00:24:30.640 Please

00:24:31.380 Please watch reality

00:24:32.520 From part 1

00:24:33.180 To part 9

00:24:33.900 And part 10

00:24:34.640 And inshallah

00:24:35.200 With the permission of Allah

00:24:35.920 You will leave your boyfriend

00:24:37.240 Or girlfriend

00:24:37.660 Whatever it may be

00:24:38.360 And get married

00:24:39.140 Share this video

00:24:40.160 Assalamualaikum

00:24:40.920 Yeah I mean to be honest

00:24:44.500 What it is

00:24:44.980 Is yeah

00:24:45.300 It's um

00:24:47.120 Sorry

00:24:48.840 So basically

00:24:52.100 Can I answer this question

00:24:54.360 To deal with a few questions

00:24:55.680 At the same time

00:24:56.280 You got

00:24:57.140 You got

00:24:57.440 Very

00:24:58.100 You got

00:24:58.540 Quickly

00:24:59.820 Quickly

00:25:00.080 Okay

00:25:00.280 Okay

00:25:00.540 But

Ali Dawah - March 12, 2015

THE REALITY 10 ｜｜＂I AM NOT A VIRGIN!!＂

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Ali Dawah - March 12, 2015

THE REALITY 10 ｜｜ ＂I AM NOT A VIRGIN!!＂

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THE REALITY 10 ｜｜＂I AM NOT A VIRGIN!!＂