Ali Dawah


THE REALITY 10 ｜｜ ＂I AM NOT A VIRGIN!!＂


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00:00:30.000 Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh
00:00:32.160 Brothers and sisters, welcome to Reality 10
00:00:34.160 On today's topic we're going to be talking about
00:00:35.980 I am not a virgin
00:00:37.120 This is a topic that's really sensitive
00:00:39.060 And we're going to cover it from an angle of the brothers
00:00:42.240 This is what we're going to cover
00:00:43.460 Because as we know, it's a common problem
00:00:46.140 Where we get a lot of messages from
00:00:47.940 Our team, from sisters saying
00:00:49.320 Look, I've done mistakes in my past
00:00:51.320 But I'm scared to get married
00:00:52.600 Or some sisters say I got married
00:00:54.020 But my husband made a really big deal out of this
00:00:56.180 Etc, etc
00:00:57.180 So that's why we want to discuss it in detail
00:00:59.860 Why men behave like this
00:01:02.080 Why do they make it such a big deal
00:01:04.120 Is it to be like
00:01:05.200 Is it something that needs to be made as a big deal
00:01:07.000 We're going to hear from brother Muhammad, Julian and brother Imran
00:01:09.500 And before I start
00:01:10.800 Obviously I want to praise Allah
00:01:11.640 The most merciful, the most just
00:01:13.200 All praises and glory belong to Him
00:01:14.700 So before I start
00:01:16.240 Guys, please watch the video in full
00:01:18.580 Before you jump to assumptions
00:01:19.940 And think we're being one-sided
00:01:21.060 Or it's just all men speaking
00:01:22.400 Unfortunately we couldn't get sisters side
00:01:23.920 Because it's a topic that's
00:01:24.860 You know, it needs to be
00:01:26.040 You know, we all
00:01:26.940 It needs a bit higher
00:01:28.420 You know
00:01:28.940 And we don't want sisters to be there
00:01:30.300 Here, inshallah
00:01:31.060 So that's why we can't get their perspective
00:01:32.500 So I hope you guys understand
00:01:33.420 I'm going to go straight to brother
00:01:35.060 Julian
00:01:36.640 Yeah
00:01:37.220 Now, brother Julian
00:01:38.660 I want you to tell me
00:01:41.260 As
00:01:42.480 Like personally yourself
00:01:44.200 Yeah
00:01:44.700 Would you
00:01:46.940 Like
00:01:47.480 Like if you
00:01:48.500 If a sister came and said
00:01:49.760 Look, I haven't passed
00:01:50.800 Yeah
00:01:51.140 And
00:01:51.960 I was with two people before
00:01:53.600 Or three people
00:01:54.320 Yeah
00:01:54.900 How would you react to that?
00:01:57.220 And why would you react to that?
00:01:58.540 Why do men react to that?
00:01:59.660 Whatever it is
00:02:00.300 To be honest
00:02:03.460 I don't know
00:02:04.080 How I would react
00:02:05.740 Because
00:02:06.200 It depends on how much
00:02:08.840 I want to
00:02:09.600 Like put the effort in
00:02:12.240 Okay
00:02:12.560 Like if
00:02:13.400 Someone would approach me
00:02:14.820 And would be like
00:02:15.760 Listen, I have a pass
00:02:16.780 And I wouldn't be like
00:02:17.840 That interested
00:02:18.700 I would say like
00:02:19.520 Maybe it's for the best
00:02:20.920 To just
00:02:21.480 You go your way
00:02:23.300 I go mine
00:02:23.900 Okay
00:02:24.200 But
00:02:24.720 I think that
00:02:26.540 If it came to a point
00:02:28.280 That I
00:02:28.820 That I'm really into someone
00:02:30.220 Yeah
00:02:30.500 Then I think I would like
00:02:32.480 Try to like
00:02:34.100 Yeah, like
00:02:34.680 Look over that
00:02:35.540 You know
00:02:35.860 Like
00:02:36.100 I think
00:02:37.360 In the beginning
00:02:38.000 I would like
00:02:38.960 Maybe think about it
00:02:41.260 And
00:02:41.480 Like it would
00:02:43.480 Okay, okay, okay
00:02:44.040 What makes you
00:02:45.780 Think about it?
00:02:46.740 What makes you
00:02:47.280 Like triggers that
00:02:48.020 You know what
00:02:48.560 I don't know
00:02:49.460 Or not you
00:02:50.040 Why does men in general
00:02:51.600 When they hear this
00:02:52.680 They're like
00:02:53.020 I don't know
00:02:54.100 I think it
00:02:55.260 Has something to do
00:02:56.420 With like
00:02:56.840 A manly ego
00:02:57.840 Okay
00:02:58.580 Like knowing that
00:02:59.560 Your wife
00:03:00.540 Has been with someone else
00:03:02.120 Before you
00:03:02.940 Like she
00:03:04.060 Build up
00:03:04.840 Certain memories
00:03:05.980 That
00:03:07.200 Are I guess
00:03:09.080 There to her
00:03:09.580 Because women
00:03:10.300 Think like
00:03:11.440 Very different than men
00:03:12.660 Yeah
00:03:12.940 So
00:03:13.480 They're
00:03:14.520 It's like your first
00:03:15.540 Is a big thing
00:03:16.100 Yeah
00:03:16.360 That's
00:03:17.040 So
00:03:17.420 It doesn't
00:03:19.360 Make you
00:03:21.120 It doesn't make you insecure
00:03:22.320 But
00:03:22.740 It's
00:03:23.480 It affects you
00:03:25.380 It affects you
00:03:26.140 Okay
00:03:26.460 Because
00:03:26.800 When you're with her
00:03:28.360 Maybe she thinks about
00:03:29.740 Like being with someone
00:03:30.840 Yeah
00:03:31.100 Okay
00:03:31.400 And you know
00:03:33.120 It's a big thing
00:03:35.640 Bro
00:03:35.800 Like you
00:03:36.240 You know
00:03:36.720 You don't forget
00:03:37.680 Your first
00:03:38.140 That's why
00:03:39.120 Like if
00:03:39.740 You don't
00:03:40.480 Like
00:03:41.340 Generally speaking
00:03:42.160 Even guys don't
00:03:43.640 Guys don't
00:03:44.340 So
00:03:44.520 And girls are
00:03:45.420 Like even
00:03:46.060 More emotional
00:03:47.120 And more attached
00:03:47.900 To
00:03:48.200 Memories
00:03:49.000 So
00:03:49.320 So
00:03:49.520 Are you telling me
00:03:50.520 It's the fear of
00:03:51.300 Okay
00:03:51.840 Her thinking
00:03:53.960 About
00:03:54.500 Her
00:03:55.240 Ex
00:03:55.800 Okay
00:03:56.060 He was the first one
00:03:57.700 Or
00:03:58.480 He was the first one
00:04:00.260 And
00:04:00.580 Oh
00:04:00.880 I liked
00:04:01.660 Whatever
00:04:02.860 Our relationship
00:04:03.400 Whatever I had with him
00:04:04.700 I like that
00:04:05.900 And that's
00:04:06.460 Is that what
00:04:07.540 Fears you more
00:04:08.640 Like
00:04:08.860 Is it the fact that
00:04:10.220 She lost her virginity
00:04:11.180 To him
00:04:11.820 Yeah
00:04:12.420 Or
00:04:13.060 Is it that
00:04:13.780 Maybe she
00:04:14.900 Like enjoyed it more
00:04:16.420 With him
00:04:16.760 Yeah
00:04:17.100 And you're like
00:04:18.060 Am I going to
00:04:19.140 Like meet the standards
00:04:20.060 Is that
00:04:21.160 Because I just want to know
00:04:22.020 I want to go into
00:04:22.440 A man's mind
00:04:22.900 What makes you trigger that
00:04:24.320 To say
00:04:24.580 You know what
00:04:25.040 One person before
00:04:26.740 Oh you're not a virgin
00:04:27.480 I don't know
00:04:28.800 It's not like
00:04:29.680 That I'm not
00:04:30.300 Living up to the
00:04:31.560 Same standards
00:04:32.380 As he did
00:04:33.000 But it's more like
00:04:34.100 I don't want
00:04:35.280 My
00:04:35.720 My wife
00:04:36.960 To think about
00:04:37.640 Another man
00:04:38.420 When I'm
00:04:39.240 Yeah
00:04:39.440 Like doing
00:04:40.300 Something with her
00:04:41.180 And it doesn't have
00:04:42.120 To be like
00:04:42.600 Sexually
00:04:43.080 But like
00:04:43.540 You just don't like it
00:04:44.880 Okay I'm going to
00:04:45.340 Go to brother Muhammad
00:04:46.020 What's your take on this
00:04:47.900 You heard Julian
00:04:48.960 You heard a bit of
00:04:49.780 What Imran said
00:04:50.340 And he's going to
00:04:50.880 Come in depth more
00:04:51.520 Inshallah
00:04:51.840 What's your take
00:04:53.440 Bismillah ar-Rahman ar-Rahim
00:04:55.280 Well
00:04:56.220 What's been said
00:04:58.220 Is the truth
00:04:59.160 Okay
00:05:00.100 I want to say that
00:05:00.700 First of all
00:05:01.220 Okay
00:05:01.500 Thank you
00:05:01.880 What you guys are going to
00:05:02.580 Talk
00:05:02.760 What you guys have been
00:05:03.520 Talking about
00:05:04.040 Yeah
00:05:04.280 The fact there's going to
00:05:05.440 Be a plane on your mind
00:05:06.320 Yeah
00:05:06.660 Regardless if you
00:05:09.120 Have an issue
00:05:10.160 With her being
00:05:10.720 Virgin or not
00:05:11.580 Yeah
00:05:11.860 This is going to
00:05:13.040 Play with your mind
00:05:13.980 Yes
00:05:14.280 Okay
00:05:14.620 But Aki
00:05:15.240 Let me tell you this
00:05:15.940 Yeah
00:05:16.120 A lot of things
00:05:17.580 Play with your mind
00:05:18.300 Okay
00:05:18.960 In this dunya
00:05:19.520 And in this world
00:05:21.380 You'll never get
00:05:22.420 The best of the best
00:05:23.220 You'll never get
00:05:24.720 Ideal circumstances
00:05:25.980 Even if she's virgin
00:05:27.520 And you're virgin
00:05:28.120 You've got to have
00:05:28.560 Other problems
00:05:29.380 In your marriage
00:05:29.960 Okay
00:05:30.260 For me
00:05:30.960 Personally
00:05:32.000 I care about
00:05:33.660 About
00:05:34.680 How she is right now
00:05:36.400 Yeah
00:05:36.860 Because I've been
00:05:37.540 Speaking to this girl
00:05:38.660 Then
00:05:38.900 Imagine I am
00:05:40.280 Yeah
00:05:40.460 Speaking for this girl
00:05:41.520 For many reasons
00:05:42.300 Yeah
00:05:42.600 I'm just not going to be able
00:05:43.640 Okay
00:05:43.880 Like
00:05:44.200 I like the color of your hijab today
00:05:46.240 You know what
00:05:46.880 Let's get in your car
00:05:47.440 That's not the way
00:05:48.340 It's going to happen
00:05:48.760 Isn't it
00:05:48.960 There are things in the character
00:05:50.440 That I really like
00:05:51.180 And things that I
00:05:52.200 Say
00:05:52.560 Alhamdulillah
00:05:53.100 I want to stand next to her
00:05:54.580 On the day of the qiyamah
00:05:55.440 I want her to be
00:05:56.320 The main teacher
00:05:57.840 Of my children
00:05:58.520 Okay
00:05:58.940 Because that's what
00:05:59.360 The mother is bro
00:06:00.020 Yeah
00:06:00.360 Nothing less
00:06:01.180 Yeah
00:06:01.900 Okay
00:06:02.340 So
00:06:03.320 If she did
00:06:04.880 What she did
00:06:05.900 And she's
00:06:07.440 Made a relationship
00:06:08.880 With Allah
00:06:09.320 Subhanahu wa ta'ala
00:06:10.160 Which I can look upon
00:06:11.220 And be like
00:06:11.580 Subhanallah
00:06:12.100 I am convinced
00:06:13.440 That there's so much barakah there
00:06:14.960 I'm not saying
00:06:15.420 There's going to be no issues
00:06:16.320 Yeah
00:06:16.640 So you're saying to me
00:06:18.100 I don't care
00:06:19.240 If she is
00:06:20.080 If she's not a virgin
00:06:21.260 No
00:06:21.700 As long as
00:06:23.700 She's
00:06:24.140 What's your take on it
00:06:24.980 What do you look for
00:06:26.740 It's not
00:06:27.620 What I look for in a sister
00:06:29.380 There are many reasons
00:06:30.440 Yeah
00:06:30.560 And I think there should be
00:06:31.220 Another video about that
00:06:32.100 Before you go about
00:06:32.720 It's another
00:06:33.680 Completely another topic
00:06:34.440 Yeah
00:06:34.620 But
00:06:35.240 What I look in a sister
00:06:36.360 Is not nothing
00:06:37.260 Listen
00:06:38.120 I want a certain kind of character
00:06:39.740 I would like her
00:06:40.620 To be able to
00:06:41.800 Crack jokes with me
00:06:42.480 Like the way I do
00:06:43.420 To understand my stupid
00:06:44.700 Way of life
00:06:45.420 And in it
00:06:45.800 Small little things
00:06:46.860 Are going to matter bro
00:06:47.740 And issues
00:06:49.140 Did my cost
00:06:49.920 Topics will go on
00:06:51.620 Later on in this video
00:06:52.760 Issues did my cost
00:06:54.040 I am willing
00:06:55.540 To do that challenge
00:06:57.480 Okay
00:06:58.240 Because are you telling me
00:06:59.100 And this question
00:06:59.780 Is for anyone
00:07:00.200 To say
00:07:00.500 Are you telling me
00:07:01.240 That even if she's a virgin
00:07:02.580 They're not going to be
00:07:03.280 Like likewise
00:07:03.980 Big problems in a marriage
00:07:05.060 That you guys need to
00:07:05.840 Avoid together
00:07:06.460 They are not going to be
00:07:07.700 Like listen
00:07:08.500 Yeah
00:07:08.680 For me it's very easy
00:07:09.600 If she done
00:07:11.500 What she done
00:07:12.200 In the past
00:07:12.840 And she repented
00:07:14.000 To Allah
00:07:14.540 Subhanallah
00:07:15.180 And she comes to me
00:07:17.400 And she tells me
00:07:18.380 Listen this and this
00:07:19.240 And this has happened
00:07:19.940 In my past
00:07:20.480 But now I'm like
00:07:22.020 This and this and this
00:07:22.840 And this is the reason
00:07:23.520 Why you and I
00:07:24.020 Start speaking
00:07:24.700 And this is what
00:07:25.940 You saw in me
00:07:26.600 So don't judge me
00:07:27.960 For my past
00:07:28.800 Judge me for now
00:07:30.000 Allah subhanallah
00:07:31.120 Does not only
00:07:32.220 Forgive a person
00:07:33.120 He adds to their scale
00:07:35.340 Not in bad deeds
00:07:36.760 Not in punishment
00:07:37.920 But in good deeds
00:07:39.740 So how can I have
00:07:42.020 A different standard
00:07:42.640 Than my lord
00:07:43.140 How can I not try
00:07:44.320 To be the best version
00:07:45.420 Of myself
00:07:45.860 I'm not saying
00:07:46.600 It's easy
00:07:47.240 But wallahi
00:07:48.700 Those people
00:07:49.520 Subhanallah
00:07:50.920 I'm going to
00:07:52.180 Hold you there
00:07:52.700 I'm going to go
00:07:53.040 To Imran
00:07:53.480 So Imran
00:07:54.680 You heard what Julian
00:07:55.360 Said and brother
00:07:55.840 Mohammed said as well
00:07:56.600 So brother Mohammed
00:07:57.900 Saying look
00:07:58.220 I don't care
00:07:58.820 She's not a virgin
00:07:59.600 To me it just
00:08:00.580 Matters about her
00:08:01.300 Deen
00:08:01.660 And that's all
00:08:02.180 I care about
00:08:02.720 If Allah subhanallah
00:08:03.120 Is forgiving her
00:08:03.700 And only forgiving her
00:08:04.400 And turn the bad deeds
00:08:05.020 Into good deeds
00:08:05.500 Who am I
00:08:06.280 To come and say
00:08:07.140 I want a virgin
00:08:07.600 Let's go to the
00:08:08.380 Sunnah of the Prophet
00:08:09.120 And let's see
00:08:10.520 Our opinion should be
00:08:12.620 Based on the religion
00:08:13.180 The kitab and the sunnah
00:08:14.540 Allah subhanallah
00:08:16.200 Said that they will not
00:08:17.000 Truly believe
00:08:17.460 Until they make you
00:08:18.300 O Muhammad
00:08:18.780 The judge
00:08:19.280 Between them
00:08:19.960 Have no haraj
00:08:20.900 With regards to what you say
00:08:21.840 They have no enmity
00:08:22.560 With regards to the ruling
00:08:23.420 And then
00:08:24.080 Teslim
00:08:24.760 Submit to it
00:08:25.720 Sallallahu alayhi wasallam
00:08:26.820 Okay so
00:08:27.340 Let's come to the hadith
00:08:29.020 Of Jabir ibn Abdullah
00:08:30.040 Radiyallahu anha
00:08:30.660 Very famous hadith
00:08:31.580 From which we can derive
00:08:32.300 Many benefits
00:08:32.920 But can also derive
00:08:34.300 What the ruling
00:08:36.080 Or permissibility
00:08:37.420 Is with regards to
00:08:39.180 Desiring to marry a virgin
00:08:40.480 Okay
00:08:40.900 Akhi
00:08:41.920 After the battle of Tabuk
00:08:43.880 Yeah
00:08:44.260 Which was a big expedition
00:08:45.700 Yeah
00:08:46.120 The army of the Prophet
00:08:47.500 Was returning back to Medina
00:08:48.720 At the front of the army
00:08:50.780 You see Jabir ibn Abdullah
00:08:52.220 Radiyallahu anha
00:08:53.120 Young sahabi
00:08:54.540 Teenager
00:08:55.100 And he's galloping away
00:08:56.340 On his horse
00:08:56.800 Eager to enter into the city
00:08:58.040 The Prophet
00:08:58.900 Looks at him
00:08:59.500 He says
00:08:59.640 Ya Jabir
00:09:00.220 Why are you in such a hurry
00:09:01.640 In a rush
00:09:02.120 Like you hold it down
00:09:03.420 Jabir looks to the messenger
00:09:05.160 Sallallahu alayhi wasallam
00:09:06.060 Said
00:09:06.360 Ya Rasulullah
00:09:07.140 I am a recently married man
00:09:08.700 Just after I got married
00:09:10.460 I had to leave for the expedition
00:09:11.680 And I'm eager to
00:09:13.100 Be with my wife
00:09:14.080 Yeah
00:09:14.420 And the Prophet
00:09:15.100 Said okay good
00:09:16.060 He inquires
00:09:17.580 He's the teacher
00:09:18.580 Did you marry
00:09:20.800 You know
00:09:21.820 A virgin
00:09:22.560 Yeah
00:09:23.060 And Jabir says
00:09:24.200 No Rasulullah
00:09:25.120 I married a widow
00:09:26.020 Yeah
00:09:26.460 And the Prophet
00:09:27.520 Says really
00:09:28.060 Ya Jabir
00:09:29.740 Why did you not
00:09:30.960 Marry a virgin
00:09:31.960 So that
00:09:34.220 You could play with her
00:09:36.220 And that she could
00:09:37.720 Play with you
00:09:38.300 Okay
00:09:38.800 And the shuraah
00:09:40.180 Of the hadith
00:09:41.020 Explained that there
00:09:41.780 Is an intimate connotation
00:09:43.080 To what the Prophet
00:09:43.600 Is talking about
00:09:44.220 Okay
00:09:44.480 And Jabir
00:09:45.560 Radiyallahu anha
00:09:46.000 He says
00:09:46.380 Ya Rasulullah
00:09:46.900 You know my father
00:09:47.660 He became
00:09:48.360 You know
00:09:48.720 He died in the battle
00:09:49.560 Of Madr
00:09:50.160 Shahid insha'Allah
00:09:50.920 And
00:09:51.780 Radiyallahu anha
00:09:52.880 And he left behind
00:09:54.500 Seven in one narration
00:09:56.380 Nine daughters
00:09:57.140 Yeah
00:09:57.680 And
00:09:58.760 I didn't want to marry
00:10:00.220 A woman who would
00:10:01.200 Just be as young as them
00:10:02.640 And not be able to
00:10:03.500 Take care of my sisters
00:10:04.220 So I married an older woman
00:10:05.700 Who could be like
00:10:06.240 A mother figure
00:10:06.840 And so on and so forth
00:10:07.880 Now
00:10:09.440 The hadith goes on
00:10:10.480 Even further
00:10:10.940 And we derive many benefits
00:10:11.960 About how her husband and wife
00:10:12.960 Can be intimate with each other
00:10:14.020 But
00:10:14.760 What I want to take from here is
00:10:16.200 The fact that the Prophet
00:10:17.600 Gave preference to him
00:10:18.800 Marrying a virgin
00:10:19.400 Now
00:10:20.040 Sisters
00:10:20.820 Please
00:10:21.320 Don't
00:10:21.940 That
00:10:22.280 Calm down
00:10:23.560 I'm gonna
00:10:24.280 Explain a little bit more
00:10:25.920 Okay
00:10:26.180 But generally speaking
00:10:27.360 The default position
00:10:28.680 For a man
00:10:29.460 When he's looking for a woman
00:10:30.600 He should look for a virgin girl
00:10:32.320 Why?
00:10:33.540 Because the messenger
00:10:34.480 Sallallahu alayhi wa sallam
00:10:35.620 Gave preference to a virgin
00:10:37.120 In this situation
00:10:37.920 So
00:10:39.880 In light of that
00:10:41.120 It is
00:10:42.420 Permissible
00:10:43.260 And totally okay
00:10:44.180 For a brother
00:10:44.720 To want to marry a virgin
00:10:45.800 It's his right
00:10:46.940 As we explained
00:10:48.160 There could be many problems
00:10:49.220 Psychologically speaking
00:10:50.220 Men have more gira than women
00:10:51.560 Yeah
00:10:52.080 So for a man
00:10:53.320 To know that his woman
00:10:54.480 Was once with another guy
00:10:55.720 And that other guy
00:10:56.340 Was his first
00:10:56.940 Is the thing that
00:10:57.780 Will play in his mind
00:10:58.500 But wouldn't
00:10:59.040 I'm so sorry
00:10:59.940 To just cut you there
00:11:00.600 But wouldn't the same thing
00:11:01.600 Happen with a sister
00:11:02.980 If it was a guy
00:11:04.460 Wouldn't she be like
00:11:05.840 Okay yeah
00:11:06.280 But I don't want it as well
00:11:07.180 Yeah not necessarily
00:11:08.000 I mean look
00:11:08.540 I know there's exceptions
00:11:09.260 In some women
00:11:09.940 But then it would be
00:11:10.700 Much more of a bigger problem
00:11:11.760 Let's not be around a bush
00:11:16.080 It's much more difficult for men
00:11:17.900 Because men have that gira in them
00:11:19.620 That women don't
00:11:20.240 Men have that in them
00:11:21.700 That protective jealousy
00:11:22.660 From men
00:11:23.320 He's being with her
00:11:25.060 And he's like
00:11:25.480 But another man already
00:11:26.680 Dealt with this
00:11:27.880 Do you see what I'm saying
00:11:28.460 So
00:11:29.900 Neither here nor there
00:11:31.760 Whatever the reason is
00:11:32.860 If the man wants
00:11:33.740 To marry a virgin
00:11:34.700 Let him
00:11:35.560 But pause
00:11:36.620 Pause
00:11:37.940 We live in a society
00:11:40.140 Where a lot of women
00:11:41.560 Unfortunately
00:11:42.360 Have lost their virginity
00:11:44.080 In haram means
00:11:45.140 So is men
00:11:46.160 Of course men
00:11:46.920 Without a shadow
00:11:47.400 They're not losing them
00:11:48.500 To women are they
00:11:49.000 They're losing it
00:11:49.640 To other men
00:11:50.200 But the point is
00:11:51.300 Now because of this
00:11:53.700 If every man makes it
00:11:55.120 A requirement
00:11:56.220 That I will marry a virgin
00:11:59.660 And that is it
00:12:00.520 Then
00:12:02.280 I think it's a bit unfair
00:12:04.980 Because if every man did that
00:12:06.780 No one will really get married
00:12:08.700 Because
00:12:09.760 Let's just be real
00:12:10.780 There's just not that many
00:12:11.840 Virgins as they should be
00:12:12.960 Out there
00:12:13.400 You see what I'm saying
00:12:14.000 So with that said
00:12:15.320 Those who really have
00:12:17.540 A big problem with it
00:12:18.800 And for them
00:12:19.500 It's like
00:12:19.900 It has to be a virgin
00:12:21.420 You know
00:12:22.780 For them
00:12:23.040 It's understandable
00:12:23.700 And it's even understandable
00:12:24.380 So it depends on the individual
00:12:25.540 It depends
00:12:26.280 But what I'm saying
00:12:26.780 Is like
00:12:27.060 If it's like
00:12:27.660 The brother was saying
00:12:28.460 If her iman is sky high
00:12:30.040 And qiyamun lay
00:12:30.780 Then she's going to be able
00:12:31.760 To raise
00:12:32.320 The next generation
00:12:34.600 Of
00:12:35.100 Of
00:12:35.860 And
00:12:36.760 The imams
00:12:38.880 That will take
00:12:39.380 This ummah into victory
00:12:40.620 Marry her
00:12:41.720 Right
00:12:42.160 Because
00:12:43.020 The one who
00:12:44.160 Narrate
00:12:44.700 From which we take the hadith
00:12:45.940 The prophet
00:12:46.280 The one who advised
00:12:47.960 Jabir
00:12:48.340 You know
00:12:49.560 Why didn't you marry a virgin
00:12:50.620 Himself
00:12:51.980 Only married one virgin
00:12:54.420 He also married many
00:12:56.860 Non-virgin
00:12:57.220 Do you see what I'm saying
00:12:59.120 So that shows you
00:13:00.240 It's also praiseworthy
00:13:02.440 To marry a non-virgin
00:13:04.380 Right
00:13:05.000 Okay
00:13:05.440 So basically
00:13:06.520 Let me ask you something
00:13:07.420 So guys
00:13:08.620 Can
00:13:09.160 Somebody
00:13:10.260 Like
00:13:10.980 A guy that's gone around
00:13:13.400 And slept around
00:13:14.080 And done whatever
00:13:14.800 Does he have a right
00:13:16.580 To say
00:13:17.180 I want to marry a virgin
00:13:18.220 Does he have that right
00:13:19.180 Of course he has
00:13:20.640 Muhammad
00:13:21.220 Does he have that
00:13:21.740 Yeah
00:13:23.260 It's not me to take rights
00:13:24.620 Away
00:13:25.000 Or to give them
00:13:26.040 Okay
00:13:26.360 But for me personally
00:13:27.120 What's your opinion
00:13:27.560 For me personally
00:13:28.220 I think it's some sort of hypocritical
00:13:30.060 So imagine I got a daughter
00:13:31.200 Yeah
00:13:31.500 Yeah
00:13:32.260 And I'm there in the masjid
00:13:33.780 And alhamdulillah
00:13:35.160 There's a brother
00:13:35.880 Who's interested in my daughter
00:13:37.380 Yes
00:13:37.680 So he walks up to me
00:13:38.480 Brother Muhammad
00:13:39.080 I look to get married
00:13:40.020 I'm like okay
00:13:40.540 But yeah
00:13:42.120 Your daughter
00:13:42.580 Did she marry already
00:13:43.800 I said
00:13:44.060 No
00:13:44.380 She didn't marry already
00:13:45.320 Okay
00:13:45.580 But is she a virgin
00:13:47.000 Yeah
00:13:47.500 And I ask him
00:13:48.580 Are you a virgin
00:13:49.460 Yeah
00:13:49.840 And he says
00:13:50.400 No I'm not
00:13:50.940 Yeah
00:13:51.260 But she needs to be
00:13:52.140 I tell him to get lost
00:13:52.960 Okay
00:13:53.400 That's what I would do
00:13:54.400 Okay
00:13:54.580 So like I said
00:13:55.340 Look
00:13:55.700 Like brother Muhammad said
00:13:58.600 It's not for us
00:13:59.500 To take rights away from people
00:14:00.760 If Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala
00:14:03.440 Facilitated that the man
00:14:04.760 Has the right
00:14:05.300 And the capacity
00:14:05.940 To choose
00:14:06.580 If he wants to marry
00:14:07.460 A virgin or not
00:14:08.260 Irrespective
00:14:09.380 And that right
00:14:10.160 Is not conditional
00:14:10.780 To whether he's a virgin or not
00:14:11.920 Okay
00:14:12.480 Then we can't take that
00:14:14.560 Right away
00:14:14.940 Okay
00:14:15.620 Now with that said
00:14:16.840 You gave two examples
00:14:18.060 Yes
00:14:18.340 There is a man
00:14:18.860 Who sleeps around
00:14:19.760 With many women
00:14:20.560 Yes
00:14:20.880 Which they are
00:14:21.920 Brothers
00:14:22.480 And I know you're listening in
00:14:23.580 For you
00:14:24.760 Meet these kind of brothers
00:14:25.940 On a regular basis
00:14:26.800 Right
00:14:27.700 They sleep around with the girls
00:14:29.180 Yeah
00:14:29.520 They know they ain't a virgin
00:14:31.140 And they're like
00:14:31.560 When I marry them
00:14:32.140 Marry me a virgin
00:14:32.900 You my friend
00:14:35.160 Are a fasiq
00:14:35.820 You're a sinner
00:14:37.560 And know that in
00:14:38.860 Surah An-Nur
00:14:39.480 Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala
00:14:40.780 Said
00:14:41.140 That the good woman
00:14:43.360 The pure woman
00:14:44.080 Is for the pure man
00:14:44.980 And the filthy man
00:14:46.060 Is for the filthy woman
00:14:47.040 So that person
00:14:48.620 Is not coming
00:14:49.220 As a true repenter
00:14:50.160 And
00:14:51.300 Or the women
00:14:52.040 In that situation as well
00:14:53.000 So you will get
00:14:54.160 What you deserve
00:14:54.780 Don't think
00:14:55.300 If Allah does give you a virgin
00:14:57.280 She's going to be one
00:14:58.080 Shaitan
00:14:58.760 Trust me
00:15:00.660 She might be a virgin
00:15:02.160 Down there
00:15:02.680 But up here
00:15:03.720 She might be a little
00:15:05.520 Bunger
00:15:06.780 Now on that note
00:15:09.220 Right
00:15:09.680 Because I missed that
00:15:11.020 That ayah
00:15:12.260 Now a sister might have
00:15:13.640 Committed a sin in the past
00:15:15.260 And lost her virginity
00:15:16.500 And because she made toba
00:15:18.200 She becomes pure
00:15:19.580 So because she becomes pure
00:15:21.700 She also could get
00:15:23.200 She could get
00:15:25.080 A virgin
00:15:26.480 No problem
00:15:27.140 Or pure
00:15:28.060 Yeah yeah yeah
00:15:28.940 Whatever
00:15:29.160 You see what I'm saying
00:15:29.780 Let's not go too deep into it
00:15:31.100 Yeah and I think
00:15:31.560 What Rabbi Imran means
00:15:32.500 With pure as well
00:15:33.580 Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala
00:15:34.380 Means pure
00:15:34.840 It's your heart
00:15:35.120 It's not down there
00:15:36.700 It's not down there
00:15:38.160 It's not limited to one thing
00:15:39.540 Throw your hearts up
00:15:43.520 Okay
00:15:43.820 Alright okay
00:15:44.460 I feel you
00:15:45.280 Okay quickly
00:15:45.600 Okay okay
00:15:46.260 So look
00:15:47.820 With that said
00:15:48.840 I just want to give you
00:15:49.800 An analogy though
00:15:50.480 You see the women
00:15:51.460 Have the right to have a maher
00:15:52.440 Yeah
00:15:52.860 They can have whatever
00:15:54.060 It's wrong
00:15:54.680 Yeah
00:15:55.020 Generally speaking
00:15:56.180 It's not wise
00:15:57.240 Yeah
00:15:57.460 For a woman to be like
00:15:58.500 Come on
00:15:58.840 Ten thousand pound maher
00:16:00.560 Or one million pound maher
00:16:02.100 Yeah
00:16:02.340 Give it to me
00:16:03.120 Or I won't get
00:16:03.520 I won't marry you
00:16:04.300 I mean you must be a really
00:16:05.220 You know good quality sister
00:16:06.080 If your maher is a million pound
00:16:07.240 Yeah
00:16:07.720 But
00:16:08.740 Generally speaking
00:16:09.620 If you say
00:16:10.400 That my maher is a million pound
00:16:11.940 No one can come to you
00:16:13.880 And say
00:16:14.460 No
00:16:15.140 That's all right
00:16:16.140 It's her right
00:16:16.760 Allah gave it to you
00:16:17.700 Okay
00:16:18.000 So you can basically
00:16:18.920 Do what you want
00:16:19.520 The same way with the man
00:16:20.960 If he has the right
00:16:22.600 To marry a virgin
00:16:23.780 Fine
00:16:24.200 Do you see what I'm saying
00:16:25.000 But as I mentioned
00:16:25.840 In balance
00:16:26.620 Now I just want to
00:16:27.840 Show you one other hadith
00:16:29.140 Right
00:16:29.460 Because
00:16:30.000 I think in this day and age
00:16:31.920 We have to be very realistic
00:16:32.900 Yeah
00:16:33.180 And like I said
00:16:33.620 There are a lot of
00:16:34.280 Non-virgin people
00:16:35.540 Right
00:16:36.040 From both genders
00:16:36.960 Yeah
00:16:37.200 I told you that
00:16:38.580 The one who's giving us
00:16:39.560 The advice
00:16:39.940 And saying it's more preferable
00:16:41.000 To marry a virgin
00:16:41.600 Himself
00:16:41.940 Didn't marry virgins
00:16:42.860 Except for one
00:16:43.500 Aisha
00:16:43.980 Radhiallahu
00:16:44.720 Anha
00:16:45.040 Our mother
00:16:45.520 Do you see what I'm saying
00:16:46.600 Um
00:16:47.860 Akhi Karim
00:16:48.720 Listen to me
00:16:49.240 The Prophet ï·º said
00:16:50.140 That women are married
00:16:50.980 For four things
00:16:52.160 This hadith is very misunderstood
00:16:53.760 So listen to me
00:16:54.520 All you thirsty brothers
00:16:55.400 Yeah
00:16:55.880 They're married for their wealth
00:16:58.020 They're married for their family
00:17:00.060 They're married for their buffness
00:17:01.840 Their chungness
00:17:03.080 Or in America as they say
00:17:04.560 Vihatness
00:17:05.540 And then they're married for their deen
00:17:07.640 The Prophet ï·º said
00:17:09.080 Marry her for her deen
00:17:10.700 He didn't say marry her for all four
00:17:12.380 He's saying that these are the four reasons
00:17:13.600 For which people do marry women
00:17:14.840 Yeah
00:17:15.200 And he's saying
00:17:15.860 I'm telling you
00:17:16.760 Bondi looks
00:17:18.140 Yeah
00:17:18.640 Even though
00:17:19.260 You do take them into consideration
00:17:20.880 But he's saying
00:17:21.340 That put it to the side
00:17:22.380 Pog wealth to the side
00:17:23.600 Yeah
00:17:23.800 Put her lineage and family to the side
00:17:25.200 Yeah
00:17:25.420 Put her lineage and family to the side
00:17:26.120 Yeah
00:17:26.480 He doesn't say focus on her religion
00:17:26.620 He didn't say marry her for her hymen
00:17:28.920 At the end of the day
00:17:30.540 Although I know it's not as simple as this
00:17:32.900 But it is just a bit of skin
00:17:34.580 And she did make toba
00:17:35.980 And she repented
00:17:36.720 And she came back from it
00:17:37.720 Don't let it be
00:17:39.220 Bigger than it is
00:17:41.140 Sah
00:17:41.640 And that's really something beautiful
00:17:44.220 Yeah
00:17:44.460 You can create problems
00:17:46.720 As you don't look them into proportion
00:17:49.500 Okay
00:17:50.220 What Imran is saying there
00:17:51.540 Is really powerful
00:17:52.660 Really powerful
00:17:53.840 If you make a big issue
00:17:56.340 About something
00:17:57.120 It will not leave your mind
00:17:58.820 When you're sleeping
00:17:59.380 And you're alone
00:17:59.860 But if you are willing
00:18:02.120 To put stuff on the side
00:18:03.420 And you go back to the kitab
00:18:05.100 And sunnah
00:18:05.640 And you look always
00:18:07.020 To the best things of your wife
00:18:08.560 Yeah
00:18:08.900 That's how you'll view her
00:18:10.520 When you are alone
00:18:11.100 Yeah but
00:18:12.480 Im going to be a devil's advocate
00:18:13.500 Yeah so
00:18:13.860 Some
00:18:14.580 A lot of brothers
00:18:15.440 They say look here
00:18:16.560 The matter is not
00:18:17.640 With her being a virgin
00:18:19.080 The matter is not that
00:18:20.040 The matter is like
00:18:20.700 Some of them say
00:18:21.380 You know what
00:18:21.840 If she got married
00:18:22.940 And got divorced
00:18:23.660 I wouldn't mind
00:18:24.460 Of course
00:18:24.800 It's not like they're going to play
00:18:25.520 Monopoly right
00:18:26.220 She's not going to be a virgin
00:18:27.600 But
00:18:28.340 The fact that
00:18:29.560 What they're seeing is
00:18:30.740 For example
00:18:31.320 It's not about
00:18:33.100 Her not being a virgin
00:18:34.460 The problem is
00:18:35.540 How do I know
00:18:37.100 That she didn't sleep
00:18:38.880 With 10 guys
00:18:39.760 20 guys
00:18:40.500 Or 30 guys
00:18:41.120 Because she might be
00:18:42.000 Lying to me
00:18:42.380 She might come and say
00:18:42.840 You know what
00:18:43.120 Oh it was just one guy
00:18:43.880 I made a mistake
00:18:44.580 And we have understood
00:18:46.260 Julian has said
00:18:47.660 That it's a hard thing
00:18:48.560 For a man to accept
00:18:49.940 So
00:18:50.560 A man's going to be thinking
00:18:51.620 In his head
00:18:51.940 This is
00:18:52.300 Like I'm just being
00:18:52.840 A devil's advocate
00:18:53.360 He can be thinking
00:18:54.760 Okay but how do I know
00:18:55.660 Maybe you went
00:18:56.220 Stepped around
00:18:56.700 How do you find
00:18:57.220 You're coming to me
00:18:57.760 And telling me
00:18:58.280 Oh it was only one guy
00:19:00.660 Why can we say that
00:19:01.700 Just quickly
00:19:02.060 It doesn't matter
00:19:03.040 Whatsoever bro
00:19:03.960 Okay
00:19:04.660 It doesn't matter
00:19:05.560 Whatsoever
00:19:06.000 As I told you
00:19:07.060 It is not that she did
00:19:08.680 The deed
00:19:09.100 Which the problem is
00:19:10.140 And it's not that
00:19:11.580 The deed itself
00:19:12.600 Will just
00:19:13.380 Like for me
00:19:14.220 Say that I'm not
00:19:15.180 Interested anymore
00:19:15.900 I'm interested in this
00:19:17.220 Sister for reasons
00:19:18.560 Many reasons
00:19:19.980 You're saying
00:19:20.680 Her being a virgin
00:19:22.140 Don't care
00:19:22.940 It's about her deen
00:19:23.900 Yeah
00:19:24.300 No no no
00:19:24.800 Listen
00:19:25.200 What I'm generally
00:19:26.220 Trying to get at
00:19:27.140 Is I wanted to
00:19:28.180 Arrive this point
00:19:29.140 So clearly to everyone
00:19:30.500 I don't care
00:19:31.820 If it was one
00:19:32.580 The fact that
00:19:33.600 She did it
00:19:34.300 Is a problem
00:19:34.880 She did
00:19:35.960 Tawbah
00:19:36.440 Now she is
00:19:37.680 The person she is
00:19:38.680 And that's the person
00:19:39.720 Who I want as my wife
00:19:41.040 Does it matter
00:19:42.480 How many times
00:19:43.240 She did that deed
00:19:43.980 No
00:19:44.560 Because it does not
00:19:46.160 Take away from her
00:19:47.120 Status right now
00:19:48.560 Okay
00:19:49.020 To echo what
00:19:50.660 Prophet Muhammad said
00:19:51.200 Yeah
00:19:51.380 It doesn't matter
00:19:52.480 If she was the worst sinner
00:19:53.880 And she came with
00:19:54.720 All of that
00:19:55.340 Akhi
00:19:55.640 Bistial
00:19:56.620 Whatever Akhi
00:19:57.480 If it's dirty
00:19:58.340 It's filthy Akhi
00:19:59.360 It doesn't matter
00:20:00.360 Because Allah
00:20:01.200 Subhanahu wa ta'ala
00:20:01.960 Said
00:20:02.160 In the Quran
00:20:02.780 Allah said
00:20:14.100 His slaves are not
00:20:15.020 Those who do shirk
00:20:15.860 And they are not
00:20:16.820 Those who murder
00:20:17.780 Other than him
00:20:18.420 And Allah said
00:20:19.240 You can rest assured
00:20:20.220 His slaves are not
00:20:21.460 Those who do zina
00:20:22.420 And if they do
00:20:26.160 Any of these three things
00:20:27.220 Allah said
00:20:27.880 I will humiliate them
00:20:29.500 And on the day of judgment
00:20:37.100 Allah says
00:20:37.600 I will multiply the punishment
00:20:39.240 For them
00:20:39.720 For the fornicators
00:20:41.320 I will multiply it
00:20:42.700 But then he says
00:20:44.180 Allah
00:20:45.980 But there's an exception
00:20:48.040 To the fornicators
00:20:50.380 And the murderers
00:20:51.460 And kuffar
00:20:52.720 The shirk
00:20:53.240 He says
00:20:54.360 Allah man taba
00:20:56.260 Except for the one
00:20:58.140 Who returns back to me
00:20:59.920 Makes tawbah
00:21:01.360 Comes back
00:21:01.920 She turns around
00:21:03.080 He turns around
00:21:03.560 Man taba wa amana
00:21:05.140 Wa amila amalan salihan
00:21:07.760 Fa ula'ika yubaddeelullahu sayyiatihim hasanat
00:21:14.600 Allah says
00:21:16.560 Not only will I forgive her and him
00:21:21.400 For the zina that they did
00:21:22.740 But if they believe in me
00:21:25.740 After making tawbah
00:21:26.820 Leave that sin
00:21:28.020 And then come with righteous actions
00:21:29.980 I will wipe the slate clean
00:21:32.540 And forgive them
00:21:33.400 And in return of those
00:21:36.460 Hundred men that she slept with
00:21:38.220 Allah will take that hundred man weight of zina
00:21:40.300 And replace it with her
00:21:41.800 That same weight of sin
00:21:44.600 But in good deeds
00:21:45.580 So
00:21:46.900 Generally speaking
00:21:48.200 To answer the question
00:21:49.300 It don't matter how many men she slept with
00:21:50.440 As long as she may tawbah
00:21:51.260 But even then
00:21:52.360 Let's be balanced
00:21:53.540 Even though
00:21:55.440 It's fine
00:21:56.360 She's clean
00:21:57.020 She's a pure person
00:21:58.540 If the man wants a virgin
00:22:02.100 Let him be
00:22:04.640 Let him be
00:22:06.420 It's okay
00:22:07.200 On Instagram I just put
00:22:09.800 That we're doing this video on virginity
00:22:11.660 And there's sisters that are going crazy
00:22:13.160 I'm only gonna marry me
00:22:14.640 A virgin man
00:22:16.100 Right?
00:22:16.720 And that's okay
00:22:17.820 Because you've got that right as well
00:22:20.380 But for example
00:22:21.880 If Mr Ali Dao or Julian or Mohammed
00:22:24.220 Or Musa Adan sitting behind the camera
00:22:26.400 Musa doesn't mind
00:22:28.300 I'm joking
00:22:28.760 I'm joking
00:22:28.980 Whoever
00:22:29.760 If they
00:22:30.480 Say you know what
00:22:31.720 If they say
00:22:33.620 You know what
00:22:34.140 For me it's just difficult
00:22:35.020 Or you know if they say
00:22:35.760 Forget difficulty
00:22:36.560 I just
00:22:37.820 I want me
00:22:38.720 I want me a virgin girl man
00:22:40.440 It's just
00:22:42.000 I want a virgin girl
00:22:43.680 Okay
00:22:43.940 Okay
00:22:44.160 Okay
00:22:45.000 Like looking at a lot of things here
00:22:46.480 A lot of questions
00:22:47.760 A lot of things that I look here
00:22:49.220 Like
00:22:50.200 I want to marry a virgin as well
00:22:51.500 And like we said before
00:22:52.320 It's your right sister
00:22:52.980 You know
00:22:53.220 If you want a man that's a virgin
00:22:55.040 That's your right
00:22:55.540 100%
00:22:56.120 You can
00:22:56.960 Go ahead and
00:22:58.260 You know
00:22:58.680 Ask for that
00:22:59.200 I'm gonna quickly wrap up
00:23:01.040 This is the last question
00:23:01.960 But why
00:23:03.180 There might be other questions
00:23:04.100 We need to wrap up
00:23:05.040 Yeah
00:23:05.220 Okay
00:23:05.580 So
00:23:06.140 Can a brother
00:23:07.220 Ask a sister
00:23:08.240 If she's a virgin or not
00:23:09.120 And vice versa
00:23:09.900 Can a sister ask a brother
00:23:11.220 Are you a virgin or not
00:23:12.180 Can they
00:23:13.520 Like is she allowed to say that
00:23:14.680 If she lies what happens
00:23:15.720 Is she deceiving him
00:23:16.700 Is
00:23:17.100 He deceiving her
00:23:18.960 If a man
00:23:21.160 The man says
00:23:21.760 Do I have the right to ask
00:23:22.900 Yeah
00:23:23.320 And oh sister
00:23:24.100 Yeah yeah of course you do
00:23:25.020 It's a condition
00:23:26.280 If you want it to be a condition
00:23:27.860 Okay
00:23:28.220 If you
00:23:28.940 For you it's a condition
00:23:29.840 You have the right to ask
00:23:31.480 At the beginning
00:23:32.160 Okay alright
00:23:32.800 You see what I'm saying
00:23:33.460 Yeah but hold on
00:23:34.060 Hold on
00:23:34.360 She
00:23:35.300 Okay
00:23:35.740 The both partners are allowed to ask each other
00:23:37.780 Yeah
00:23:38.120 But can the other one lie
00:23:40.100 No
00:23:40.680 It's impermissible
00:23:41.660 Why
00:23:41.980 If he makes it in condition
00:23:43.260 Remember the marriage is a contract
00:23:45.140 So they're not allowed to lie
00:23:46.040 Of course not
00:23:47.380 If
00:23:47.780 But if they know
00:23:49.160 It's going to break up
00:23:49.880 No it doesn't matter bro
00:23:51.780 If the marriage
00:23:53.040 Marriage is a contract
00:23:54.080 You've based the contract
00:23:55.460 Upon a false thing
00:23:56.320 The man can
00:23:57.400 At the end of the night
00:23:58.140 When he realises
00:23:58.760 That he was lied to
00:23:59.860 He can cause the marriage
00:24:01.220 To be ended
00:24:01.980 Because he was deceived
00:24:03.300 Okay but
00:24:03.760 And vice versa
00:24:04.320 If the woman was lied to
00:24:05.600 The same way
00:24:06.100 Brothers and sisters
00:24:06.720 As you heard
00:24:07.460 From the brothers here
00:24:08.480 Inshallah you guys have benefited
00:24:09.880 As we know
00:24:10.660 Islam caters for everyone
00:24:12.320 You want to marry a virgin
00:24:13.460 You have that right to
00:24:14.640 You don't want to
00:24:15.660 Obviously like I said
00:24:16.700 It's better
00:24:18.600 If you can
00:24:19.500 Accept that
00:24:20.560 And take that on board
00:24:21.560 Obviously you're rewarded
00:24:22.320 Hope you guys have benefited
00:24:24.340 Please share this with your friends
00:24:25.420 And family if you have benefited
00:24:26.580 And may Allah's mercy and blessings
00:24:28.140 Be upon you all
00:24:28.820 Also if you are in a Haram relationship
00:24:30.640 Please
00:24:31.380 Please watch reality
00:24:32.520 From part 1
00:24:33.180 To part 9
00:24:33.900 And part 10
00:24:34.640 And inshallah
00:24:35.200 With the permission of Allah
00:24:35.920 You will leave your boyfriend
00:24:37.240 Or girlfriend
00:24:37.660 Whatever it may be
00:24:38.360 And get married
00:24:39.140 Share this video
00:24:40.160 Assalamualaikum
00:24:40.920 Yeah I mean to be honest
00:24:44.500 What it is
00:24:44.980 Is yeah
00:24:45.300 It's um
00:24:47.120 Sorry
00:24:48.840 So basically
00:24:52.100 Can I answer this question
00:24:54.360 To deal with a few questions
00:24:55.680 At the same time
00:24:56.280 You got
00:24:57.140 You got
00:24:57.440 Very
00:24:58.100 You got
00:24:58.540 Quickly
00:24:59.820 Quickly
00:25:00.080 Okay
00:25:00.280 Okay
00:25:00.540 But