Ali Dawah - June 09, 2014


THE REALITY 6 ｜｜ Convertible Hijab


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23 minutes

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5,261

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In this episode, we discuss what the word hijab means and why it is considered obligatory for both women and men to wear it. We also discuss the difficulties some certain sisters face when it comes to wearing the hijab and abaya.

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00:00:00.000 Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh brothers and sisters
00:00:21.000 Welcome back to the reality show part 6
00:00:23.000 On this show we're basically going to be discussing the hijab
00:00:26.000 Both for men and women
00:00:28.000 We're going to discuss what the word khimar means
00:00:30.000 And then we're going to basically talk about the difficulties some certain sisters face
00:00:34.000 When they were wearing their hijab and abaya 0.99
00:00:36.000 When they were taking those steps to wear it
00:00:38.000 And also basically I've got brother Saadi bin Mansour here
00:00:41.000 He's going to be helping me with the show inshaAllah
00:00:43.000 Assalamualaikum
00:00:45.000 So the show is named Convertible Hijab
00:00:47.000 Okay, firstly I want to start off with the brothers
00:00:50.000 So brothers that obviously they're trying to basically come close to Allah
00:00:56.000 You know, obviously what is their duty upon that?
00:00:58.000 What does the Quran tell us?
00:00:59.000 And obviously we know the mention of the hijab is mentioned for the sisters
00:01:02.000 Right? And we're going to discuss that later
00:01:04.000 But what is mentioned for the brothers?
00:01:06.000 What is obligatory?
00:01:08.000 What has Allah told them, ordered them to do?
00:01:11.000 Okay
00:01:12.000 Bismillah wa alhamdulillah wa salatu wa salam wa ala rasulullah
00:01:15.000 Sallallahu alayhi wa salam amma ba'd 0.55
00:01:17.000 So if you go into Surah An-Nur, right? 0.93
00:01:20.000 In those two specific ayat which speak about the men and the women
00:01:25.000 Where it talks about the men lowering their gaze and the women covering themselves 0.95
00:01:28.000 We see that Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala 1.00
00:01:30.000 He basically commands the men to lower their gaze
00:01:34.000 Right? But the way that's used is Ghada
00:01:36.000 Okay? And it's kind of like a soft kind of look
00:01:40.000 Right? When you're not doing a hard stare like this
00:01:42.000 Okay
00:01:43.000 You're not staring hard
00:01:44.000 The first gaze, yeah?
00:01:45.000 Yeah, it's like you know when you just like look at something and you're just like
00:01:48.000 Wow, you know, you're proper shot
00:01:49.000 You're not supposed to do that
00:01:51.000 That's the kind of look that Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala says that it's not nice, right?
00:01:54.000 And you should come with a more kind of soft look
00:01:56.000 And you have to look at it in context, right?
00:01:59.000 Why the ayats were revealed
00:02:01.000 Because a few ayats back Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala talks about
00:02:03.000 You know, entering into somebody's house, right?
00:02:05.000 So when you enter into somebody's house
00:02:07.000 The men are told to lower the gaze, have a soft look
00:02:09.000 Why? Because there might be women inside the room 1.00
00:02:11.000 There might be women that haven't properly dressed themselves up yet 1.00
00:02:14.000 The scarves and heads are not covered and so on and so on
00:02:17.000 So they need to be, you know, prepared and stuff
00:02:19.000 And this is a subtle kind of, if I say, clothing
00:02:23.000 Which Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala has given the men, right? 0.97
00:02:26.000 Of humbleness, right?
00:02:27.000 Okay, can I just ask a quick question?
00:02:28.000 Yeah
00:02:29.000 Okay, what about some sisters come and say, for example
00:02:31.000 Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala has told us to dress up 0.95
00:02:33.000 Because men can't lower their gaze
00:02:35.000 Is that the case or is that?
00:02:37.000 Okay, so a lot of the times, a lot of you, like you said
00:02:40.000 A lot of sisters will say that
00:02:41.000 Why do I have to wear a hijab just because men can't lower their gaze
00:02:43.000 Because they're just like thirsty alamos or something, right?
00:02:46.000 Why is it that I have to wear a hijab anyway?
00:02:48.000 Well, here's the thing, right?
00:02:50.000 If it was the case, right?
00:02:52.000 That men, that women sorry, had to cover themselves 1.00
00:02:55.000 Because men can't lower their gaze
00:02:57.000 You would have seen in the Qur'an
00:02:59.000 That Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala would have said 0.99
00:03:00.000 Women, cover your head 1.00
00:03:02.000 Because men can't lower their gaze
00:03:04.000 But that's not the case
00:03:05.000 So that's not the case in the Qur'an?
00:03:06.000 That's not the case in the Qur'an
00:03:07.000 Okay, right
00:03:08.000 This is a wrong mentality that a lot of people have today
00:03:10.000 What it actually says that in the Qur'an
00:03:11.000 First Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala says to the men 0.75
00:03:13.000 Lower your gaze
00:03:14.000 And then He tells the women that you should cover yourself
00:03:17.000 Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala tells the men
00:03:19.000 Lower your gaze
00:03:20.000 And then He tells the women that you should cover yourself
00:03:22.000 Why?
00:03:23.000 Because it will give you an Iman booster, right?
00:03:26.000 Because Surah Al-Nur, a lot of the ulema say
00:03:28.000 It's all about your Iman 1.00
00:03:29.000 It's all about refixing your Iman 1.00
00:03:31.000 And that is why the women are specifically told 1.00
00:03:34.000 Not because you have to put it on because men can't control themselves 0.98
00:03:37.000 It's got nothing to do with that
00:03:39.000 If that was the case, like I said
00:03:40.000 It would have been the other way around
00:03:41.000 But Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala made it inseparable from each other, right? 0.98
00:03:46.000 They're the two separate things
00:03:47.000 Men lower their gaze for another reason
00:03:49.000 And then the women having to wear their khimar 1.00
00:03:51.000 For another specific reason for their own Iman 0.99
00:03:54.000 You see what I'm saying?
00:03:56.000 That's really true because the bit where you said it helps your Iman 0.90
00:03:58.000 It's like basically as I was watching a lecture
00:04:01.000 It basically says the Ansari woman
00:04:03.000 They were basically when they heard this verse
00:04:05.000 That it says a woman should cover their hair 0.96
00:04:07.000 They were basically ripping up their, you know
00:04:09.000 The apron
00:04:11.000 They were ripping up their garments to wear it
00:04:13.000 Just to fulfill the ayah, right? 0.98
00:04:15.000 Yeah, exactly
00:04:16.000 So it just shows like you said the Iman 0.94
00:04:18.000 So okay, so we understand that basically the brothers have a big duty upon them as well
00:04:22.000 As well as sisters, you know, you have to lower your gaze
00:04:24.000 So that's really true what brother Saad just said
00:04:27.000 And this really goes for the brothers because
00:04:29.000 You know, there's some double standards within the Ummah
00:04:32.000 And it's not really nice because it's not just about sisters wearing the hijab 0.96
00:04:35.000 You know, it's just them, pinpointing them
00:04:36.000 You've got a duty upon you as well
00:04:38.000 Because obviously the Quran tells us that a man should cover his from his navel to his knee 0.96
00:04:43.000 In the hadith of the Prophet Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam
00:04:46.000 Above, what is between the above the knee and below the navel that should be
00:04:51.000 Below the navel should be covered up
00:04:52.000 Yeah, this is what I mean
00:04:53.000 Because what happens with some brothers is basically
00:04:55.000 Because they just think it's about sisters 0.85
00:04:57.000 Sometimes you have brothers that go on Facebook
00:04:59.000 They have a full beard, mashallah 1.00
00:05:00.000 You know, they're practicing the deen
00:05:01.000 But let's say when they go on holiday
00:05:03.000 They're topless, you know 0.99
00:05:04.000 It's like it's a duty upon you, you have to cover it, right?
00:05:07.000 Yeah, so we need to, you know
00:05:09.000 This is something you need to take heed on
00:05:10.000 You know, this is something you need to understand
00:05:12.000 You know, it's not just mentioned for the sisters
00:05:14.000 It's a duty upon you as well
00:05:15.000 And lowering your gaze
00:05:16.000 We know how hard it is
00:05:17.000 Trust me, we know how hard it is
00:05:18.000 Especially for the brothers coming to the deen
00:05:20.000 In the deen, it is really hard
00:05:21.000 You know, to lower your gaze
00:05:22.000 But like the brothers said
00:05:23.000 When you go into somebody's house
00:05:24.000 Lower your gaze to a point where you know where you're going
00:05:26.000 You don't need to like, look around gaze
00:05:28.000 Did you get what I'm trying to say, yeah?
00:05:30.000 Okay, now that part is covered
00:05:32.000 So basically, what I want to talk about
00:05:34.000 Is basically the reason why I want to bring this topic
00:05:37.000 Is because my team received a message from one of the sisters
00:05:40.000 And the sister was like 0.94
00:05:41.000 Okay, on reality part five
00:05:43.000 When he was talking about
00:05:44.000 I picked my sister
00:05:45.000 You know, the whole scenario that happened
00:05:47.000 That basically, brother Imran said
00:05:49.000 Okay, the girls that are dressed in skimpy clothing 1.00
00:05:51.000 Want to be chirps, yeah? 0.73
00:05:53.000 And she was a bit offended by that
00:05:54.000 I kind of cleared the misconception about that
00:05:55.000 But I want to go through it again
00:05:56.000 Because at the end of the day
00:05:58.000 What happened was basically
00:05:59.000 Now, when we mean skimpy
00:06:02.000 You need to understand what we are saying sisters
00:06:04.000 Okay, we are not talking
00:06:05.000 Brother Imran didn't say
00:06:06.000 Women that do not wear the hijab 1.00
00:06:08.000 We do not define that as skimpy
00:06:10.000 We didn't say that
00:06:11.000 What we're trying to say is
00:06:12.000 Women that dressed up revealing 0.99
00:06:13.000 Showing her cleavage
00:06:15.000 She's wearing mini skirts
00:06:17.000 These are the kind of women 1.00
00:06:18.000 We were basically talking about, yeah?
00:06:20.000 Because at the end of the day
00:06:21.000 You need to understand
00:06:22.000 Because the sister was telling me
00:06:23.000 Okay, just because I'm dressed this way
00:06:24.000 It does not
00:06:25.000 Basically, it does not make me
00:06:26.000 Excuse my language
00:06:27.000 A hoe 1.00
00:06:28.000 That's what she was saying, yeah?
00:06:30.000 And I said, of course sister
00:06:31.000 No way we're saying that
00:06:32.000 But check this analogy
00:06:33.000 And hear what I'm trying to say
00:06:35.000 Because at the end of the day
00:06:36.000 You're saying basically
00:06:37.000 Just because I'm dressed this way
00:06:38.000 It does not make me a hoe
00:06:40.000 Right?
00:06:41.000 Let's say I agree with you, yeah?
00:06:42.000 I know your heart is clean
00:06:43.000 Okay, that's not a problem
00:06:44.000 But what you need to understand
00:06:45.000 Is this my sister
00:06:46.000 Imagine
00:06:47.000 Imagine this
00:06:48.000 Okay
00:06:49.000 Imagine this
00:06:50.000 I'm
00:06:51.000 I'm dressed up in a police uniform
00:06:52.000 One day, yeah?
00:06:53.000 I'm dressed in a police uniform
00:06:55.000 I'm walking down
00:06:56.000 Kingston High Street
00:06:57.000 Yeah?
00:06:58.000 I've just wore a uniform
00:06:59.000 Yeah?
00:07:00.000 And I'm walking down
00:07:01.000 And somehow
00:07:02.000 Somebody comes
00:07:03.000 And grabs your bag
00:07:04.000 He's trying to rob you
00:07:05.000 Okay?
00:07:06.000 Automatically
00:07:07.000 When you see the uniform
00:07:08.000 That I'm wearing
00:07:09.000 You're going to be thinking
00:07:10.000 There's a police officer
00:07:12.000 And he can help me
00:07:13.000 So what you're going to do
00:07:14.000 Is you're going to basically
00:07:15.000 Run up to me and say
00:07:16.000 Officer, can you please help me?
00:07:17.000 Somebody's trying to rob me
00:07:18.000 Now if I turn to you and say
00:07:20.000 Excuse me madam
00:07:21.000 Just because I'm dressed in a police officer's uniform
00:07:24.000 That does not make me a police officer
00:07:26.000 You're going to be confused and baffled
00:07:28.000 Because you're going to be like
00:07:29.000 Hold on a second
00:07:30.000 Your uniform represents
00:07:31.000 What you're supposed to be doing
00:07:32.000 But you're rejecting that
00:07:33.000 So this is the exact same
00:07:35.000 What I'm trying to say my sister
00:07:36.000 The uniform that you wear
00:07:37.000 For example
00:07:38.000 Let's say
00:07:39.000 Mini skirt
00:07:40.000 Showing a body
00:07:41.000 You know girls that go out to clubs 1.00
00:07:42.000 These kind of girls 1.00
00:07:43.000 Let me put it like this
00:07:44.000 And I'll be straight up with you
00:07:45.000 Because I want the best for you
00:07:46.000 Yeah?
00:07:47.000 Girls that dress up in skimpy clothing 1.00
00:07:49.000 Are after
00:07:50.000 Usually
00:07:51.000 Let me put it like this
00:07:52.000 They go to nightclubs
00:07:53.000 To drink alcohol
00:07:54.000 To mix with boys 0.62
00:07:55.000 And they want certain things
00:07:56.000 Some girls go to the extent of having 1.00
00:07:57.000 One night stands
00:07:58.000 Let me give you another example
00:08:00.000 Prostitutes 1.00
00:08:01.000 Right?
00:08:02.000 Prostitution
00:08:03.000 Women that are involved in this kind of 1.00
00:08:04.000 Haram business
00:08:05.000 How do they dress to attract their clients? 0.89
00:08:06.000 What is their uniform?
00:08:08.000 Their uniform is wearing as short as possible
00:08:10.000 As revealing as possible
00:08:12.000 So their customers can notice them
00:08:15.000 Through their uniform
00:08:16.000 Do you understand what I'm trying to say?
00:08:17.000 So you need to understand
00:08:18.000 Where the brothers
00:08:20.000 The guys out there
00:08:21.000 The guys out there
00:08:22.000 They're getting coffees
00:08:23.000 Because they're looking at you
00:08:24.000 And they're like
00:08:25.000 Hold on a second
00:08:26.000 Okay right
00:08:27.000 She looks like someone that's 0.88
00:08:28.000 She wants something
00:08:29.000 She's after you know 0.96
00:08:30.000 And then if he approaches you
00:08:31.000 And you're like
00:08:32.000 You know just because I'm dressed this way
00:08:33.000 Does not mean I'm after sexual desires
00:08:35.000 Or this
00:08:36.000 You need to understand that
00:08:37.000 Your uniform tells a lot about yourself
00:08:38.000 Do you get what I'm trying to say?
00:08:39.000 It's like a fireman
00:08:40.000 Let's give an example fireman
00:08:41.000 If your house is burning
00:08:43.000 If you say a fireman in his uniform
00:08:44.000 You are expecting that fireman
00:08:45.000 Because his uniform represents what he is doing
00:08:48.000 You're expecting him
00:08:49.000 If your house is on fire
00:08:50.000 And you see a fireman just walking past
00:08:51.000 You're going to be thinking
00:08:52.000 You're in a uniform that represents
00:08:54.000 Are you supposed to be helping me out?
00:08:56.000 If he turns around to you and says
00:08:57.000 Oh
00:08:58.000 Just because I'm in a fire brigade uniform
00:09:00.000 It does not mean that I'm a fireman
00:09:02.000 Do you understand the knowledge of my sister?
00:09:04.000 This is how a man's brain works 1.00
00:09:06.000 Certain people's
00:09:07.000 Even yours
00:09:08.000 Like I gave the knowledge of a police officer
00:09:10.000 You will come and ask for help
00:09:11.000 Why?
00:09:12.000 This is the same way a man gets attracted
00:09:15.000 When he sees a girl 0.97
00:09:16.000 Out and about
00:09:17.000 Dressed in skimpy clothing
00:09:18.000 Skimpy mini skirts
00:09:19.000 Revealing herself
00:09:20.000 He's thinking
00:09:21.000 Ah, an easy catch
00:09:22.000 Because a woman 0.99
00:09:23.000 That respects herself
00:09:24.000 Yeah?
00:09:25.000 She does not need to use her body 1.00
00:09:27.000 To gain that attraction
00:09:28.000 Some sisters say to me 0.97
00:09:29.000 Bro, sorry
00:09:30.000 I dress up like this for myself
00:09:31.000 I don't do it for the guys
00:09:32.000 But I'm like
00:09:33.000 Hold on a second
00:09:34.000 Okay, alright, that's cool
00:09:35.000 You wanna dress up like that for yourself
00:09:37.000 Why would you
00:09:38.000 Why would you do that to yourself?
00:09:39.000 That's what I don't understand
00:09:40.000 You're either
00:09:41.000 There's two things
00:09:42.000 I might be wrong here
00:09:43.000 I see it as two things
00:09:44.000 You're either doing it for a guy 0.53
00:09:45.000 Or you're in a competition with other girls
00:09:46.000 That dress up the same way as you do
00:09:48.000 So what I'm trying to say to you is
00:09:49.000 Why be in a competition with girls 0.98
00:09:50.000 That are lower than you
00:09:51.000 And try to you know
00:09:52.000 Dress up just like them
00:09:53.000 Revealing clothing
00:09:54.000 If it's for the girls
00:09:55.000 If you're doing it for
00:09:56.000 I wanna look pretty
00:09:57.000 Why even do that?
00:09:58.000 Number two
00:09:59.000 If you're doing it for the guys
00:10:00.000 Why use your own body sister? 1.00
00:10:01.000 Your body is sacred
00:10:02.000 You know why
00:10:03.000 Why would you do that
00:10:04.000 To just impress a few pigs? 0.89
00:10:06.000 These guys are out there
00:10:07.000 In the hunt
00:10:08.000 I'm telling you
00:10:09.000 These guys are hunters
00:10:10.000 You know?
00:10:11.000 I've got friends back in the days
00:10:12.000 I'm sure you know people Aki
00:10:13.000 These people are there for a reason
00:10:15.000 And when they see
00:10:17.000 You dressed in that way
00:10:18.000 They'll approach you
00:10:19.000 It's simple as that
00:10:20.000 This is
00:10:21.000 Look, this is what it is sisters
00:10:22.000 Take it or not
00:10:23.000 Get mad at me as much as you like
00:10:25.000 Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala has ordered that 0.98
00:10:26.000 If you're mad at me
00:10:27.000 You're not actually mad at me
00:10:28.000 You're mad at the Quran 0.99
00:10:29.000 The one who created you
00:10:30.000 You're mad at me
00:10:31.000 If you've got a problem right now thinking
00:10:32.000 Why is your brother saying that?
00:10:33.000 I'm trying to say it to the best way as possible
00:10:34.000 My sisters
00:10:35.000 I'm trying to wake you up
00:10:36.000 And open your eyes
00:10:37.000 You know?
00:10:38.000 You really need to acknowledge this
00:10:39.000 Just take it step by step
00:10:40.000 I'm not telling you overnight
00:10:41.000 We're at Abaya
00:10:42.000 Niqab 0.98
00:10:43.000 I'm not saying that
00:10:44.000 Take it step by step
00:10:45.000 Know this 100%
00:10:46.000 As a man
00:10:47.000 We're telling you
00:10:48.000 Women that dress up like that 1.00
00:10:49.000 You want wrong attention my sisters 0.99
00:10:51.000 Please inshallah fix up
00:10:52.000 Some sisters that basically message the team
00:10:54.000 My team was basically
00:10:55.000 They were saying
00:10:56.000 Is basically
00:10:57.000 They felt good about their self
00:10:58.000 You know?
00:10:59.000 Like for example
00:11:00.000 When they were dressing like that
00:11:02.000 They got more attention
00:11:03.000 You're right
00:11:04.000 You're 100% right
00:11:05.000 You will get attention
00:11:06.000 You will 100% get attention
00:11:08.000 The way you feel about yourself
00:11:09.000 Will go up the roof
00:11:10.000 But why are they approaching you?
00:11:11.000 Think of this
00:11:12.000 Like this sister
00:11:13.000 Why are they approaching you?
00:11:15.000 Ask the guy that approaches you
00:11:16.000 I guarantee you
00:11:17.000 I will put money on it
00:11:18.000 Yeah?
00:11:19.000 Obviously betting is haram
00:11:20.000 I'm not betting you
00:11:21.000 I'm just saying that
00:11:22.000 I will put my life on it yeah?
00:11:23.000 What I'm trying to say is this
00:11:24.000 That same guy
00:11:25.000 Wallahi
00:11:26.000 If you said to him
00:11:27.000 If your sister
00:11:28.000 Would you allow your sister to dress up like this? 0.80
00:11:29.000 You'll be like
00:11:30.000 Never
00:11:31.000 Your mother
00:11:32.000 Never
00:11:33.000 Your sister
00:11:34.000 Never
00:11:35.000 He will say never ever
00:11:36.000 Then you need to ask him this question
00:11:37.000 Then why is it that you approach me?
00:11:38.000 You know?
00:11:39.000 Your sister
00:11:40.000 Your mother
00:11:41.000 Or your daughter
00:11:42.000 Then why do you
00:11:43.000 Why do you approach me in such a nice manner?
00:11:45.000 Sweet talk
00:11:46.000 You make me feel so special
00:11:47.000 Why do you do that?
00:11:48.000 My sisters
00:11:49.000 Please wake up
00:11:50.000 Seriously
00:11:51.000 God's sake
00:11:52.000 Wake up
00:11:53.000 Get away from this delusion
00:11:54.000 He will get the attention
00:11:55.000 You know
00:11:56.000 For example
00:11:57.000 Oh you look gorgeous
00:11:58.000 You look this
00:11:59.000 He's gonna say everything under the sun
00:12:00.000 He is created with an urge
00:12:01.000 He's trying to fulfill that
00:12:02.000 He's like a man that's been starved
00:12:03.000 He hasn't ate chicken for two weeks
00:12:05.000 So when he sees the chicken
00:12:06.000 It's funny
00:12:07.000 It's funny
00:12:08.000 It's like a man that hasn't ate food 1.00
00:12:09.000 When he is hungry
00:12:10.000 He's gonna do
00:12:11.000 Come on
00:12:12.000 If you haven't ate for two weeks
00:12:13.000 What are you gonna do to persuade me to give you food?
00:12:15.000 Anything bro
00:12:16.000 You will stab me
00:12:17.000 If you need it
00:12:18.000 You will like
00:12:19.000 I'm hungry
00:12:20.000 This is how a man is 0.95
00:12:21.000 Do you get what I'm trying to say?
00:12:22.000 You might laugh it off
00:12:23.000 But I'm just giving you an analogy
00:12:24.000 Do you get what I'm trying to say?
00:12:25.000 I just wanna move on
00:12:26.000 Obviously we just covered that
00:12:27.000 Now
00:12:28.000 I wanna talk about the sisters that wear the hijab
00:12:30.000 Right
00:12:31.000 This is very very important
00:12:32.000 Because
00:12:33.000 Obviously you know we're in the social media scene
00:12:35.000 Yeah?
00:12:36.000 Now what you need to understand is this my sisters
00:12:38.000 And this really upsets me
00:12:40.000 Because what happens is
00:12:41.000 Sometimes I have brothers coming telling me
00:12:43.000 Like Rahman 0.92
00:12:44.000 For example
00:12:45.000 I was looking for marriage
00:12:46.000 Obviously Facebook is not the right place to look for marriage
00:12:47.000 But he was just like
00:12:48.000 I was just like looking
00:12:49.000 I see this sister
00:12:50.000 On the profile picture
00:12:52.000 She's wearing abaya hijab 0.72
00:12:53.000 And I was like mashallah
00:12:54.000 And then I go on the next picture
00:12:56.000 She's got like
00:12:58.000 Abaya's come off
00:12:59.000 She's got the hijab 0.99
00:13:00.000 Then I go on the next picture
00:13:01.000 She's got the hijab come off 0.98
00:13:02.000 He goes
00:13:03.000 Every time I press the next click
00:13:04.000 Something's coming off
00:13:06.000 So he's like
00:13:07.000 I was like a bit confused
00:13:08.000 You know what the hell
00:13:09.000 You know
00:13:10.000 Why are they doing that?
00:13:11.000 Do you have any idea?
00:13:12.000 Why do sisters do this? 1.00
00:13:15.000 They haven't understood
00:13:17.000 Right?
00:13:18.000 The whole point of covering themselves
00:13:21.000 Right?
00:13:22.000 And I think it comes back from understanding
00:13:24.000 What was revealed first
00:13:26.000 To the women in terms of clothing 0.99
00:13:27.000 Right?
00:13:28.000 So if you look in terms of revelation of the Quran
00:13:31.000 Right?
00:13:32.000 The ire about the hijab covering your head
00:13:35.000 Was not revealed first
00:13:37.000 Okay?
00:13:38.000 It wasn't revealed first
00:13:39.000 Yeah?
00:13:40.000 It wasn't revealed first
00:13:41.000 This is very interesting
00:13:42.000 Please listen
00:13:43.000 And this is something that a lot of people
00:13:44.000 They don't understand
00:13:45.000 Right?
00:13:46.000 You think
00:13:47.000 The first step to becoming a better muslima
00:13:49.000 Is to put on the hijab 1.00
00:13:50.000 Yeah
00:13:51.000 Then the rest comes
00:13:52.000 That's not how the way is
00:13:54.000 Right?
00:13:55.000 In the Quran
00:13:56.000 The first ayah that was revealed about clothing to the women 0.85
00:13:58.000 Was about the jilbab 0.63
00:14:00.000 And what is the jilbab?
00:14:02.000 The jilbab linguistically
00:14:03.000 It refers to the clothing which goes from the neck
00:14:05.000 All the way to the bottom
00:14:07.000 Okay?
00:14:08.000 So look at that
00:14:09.000 This ayah in Surat al-Ahzab was revealed first in Medina
00:14:12.000 Yeah
00:14:13.000 One year later
00:14:14.000 My sisters
00:14:15.000 Then the ayah about khimar about covering your head was revealed
00:14:18.000 SubhanAllah
00:14:19.000 You see what I'm saying?
00:14:20.000 That's like
00:14:21.000 Okay, hold on a second
00:14:22.000 So that's the opposite
00:14:23.000 It's like sisters of today
00:14:24.000 Sisters today
00:14:25.000 Mashallah, obviously everyone has their own struggle
00:14:26.000 I'm not criticising what I'm about to say now
00:14:28.000 Is the sisters that practice today
00:14:30.000 Today
00:14:31.000 Where do they start off from?
00:14:32.000 From the khimar, yeah? 1.00
00:14:35.000 Over the head
00:14:36.000 And then
00:14:37.000 Then
00:14:38.000 But back in the days
00:14:39.000 Allah SWT ordered for you to cover your 0.85
00:14:41.000 Your whole body first
00:14:42.000 Before
00:14:43.000 Wow, that's amazing
00:14:45.000 Check this out
00:14:46.000 Back in the days Allah SWT ordered for you to cover your body first 0.91
00:14:48.000 Wear loose clothing
00:14:50.000 Then put the khimar on 1.00
00:14:51.000 Which is the head covering
00:14:52.000 But today
00:14:53.000 Sisters, I'm not criticising
00:14:54.000 I'm just saying like
00:14:55.000 I'm just looking at the analogy
00:14:56.000 Like
00:14:57.000 Sisters start off with their head 1.00
00:14:58.000 Then work their way down
00:14:59.000 That's quite
00:15:00.000 Wow
00:15:01.000 And that really shows
00:15:02.000 A reason why
00:15:03.000 Many sisters
00:15:04.000 When they wear their hijab first 1.00
00:15:05.000 It takes so long for them to get comfortable with the abaya 1.00
00:15:08.000 Yeah
00:15:09.000 And even when they wear their hijab 1.00
00:15:10.000 Right?
00:15:11.000 It's so easy for them to just
00:15:12.000 Let go of the hijab first 1.00
00:15:13.000 Right?
00:15:14.000 Yeah
00:15:15.000 Because they still have all this body showing
00:15:16.000 Right?
00:15:17.000 Yeah
00:15:18.000 And when somebody compliments them
00:15:19.000 They think to themselves
00:15:20.000 I have complimenting
00:15:21.000 People are complimenting on my body
00:15:22.000 Yeah
00:15:23.000 Maybe I should take my hijab off
00:15:24.000 Maybe my hair
00:15:25.000 Right?
00:15:26.000 And then they go back to that same lifestyle
00:15:28.000 But if you can get rid of the most of your body
00:15:30.000 The most of your beauty
00:15:31.000 Right?
00:15:32.000 Remember when Allah SWT says 0.99
00:15:33.000 Zina refers to your chest
00:15:34.000 Right?
00:15:35.000 From the bottom part of your chest
00:15:36.000 Right?
00:15:37.000 All the way down
00:15:38.000 Yeah?
00:15:39.000 And the whole point is
00:15:40.000 If you can cover this part first
00:15:42.000 Then the hijab becomes easier 0.99
00:15:44.000 To cover your head becomes so much more easier
00:15:46.000 Basically
00:15:47.000 We're not here to say
00:15:48.000 Why are you doing this
00:15:49.000 Why are you doing that first
00:15:50.000 Sisters
00:15:51.000 Wallahi
00:15:52.000 You know from our other shows
00:15:53.000 Yeah?
00:15:54.000 You know what my shows are about
00:15:55.000 What I'm trying to do
00:15:56.000 Do you get what I'm trying to say?
00:15:57.000 We went through what the brothers look
00:15:58.000 How men really think 0.55
00:15:59.000 Does he really love you?
00:16:00.000 I've been through that
00:16:01.000 But I really want to enlighten you
00:16:02.000 Because you need to understand
00:16:03.000 My sisters
00:16:04.000 Take baby steps
00:16:05.000 Take baby steps
00:16:06.000 I'm not criticising you
00:16:07.000 How this or that
00:16:08.000 We're not criticising
00:16:09.000 We are here to inform you
00:16:10.000 We are telling what the Quran tells you
00:16:12.000 Yeah what the Quran tells you
00:16:14.000 Basically when we say that
00:16:15.000 If you're mad at us
00:16:16.000 And be like oh why is these guys
00:16:17.000 Talking about sisters clothing?
00:16:18.000 Why are they doing this?
00:16:19.000 What's it got to do with them?
00:16:20.000 They don't know that
00:16:21.000 We know the struggle you go through
00:16:22.000 Right?
00:16:23.000 Not in detail as much as you do
00:16:24.000 But I have great utter respect for sisters
00:16:27.000 Yeah?
00:16:28.000 Like you who are trying
00:16:29.000 May Allah sponsor reward you
00:16:30.000 And inshallah help you in the process
00:16:33.000 Do you get what I'm trying to say?
00:16:34.000 But we need to understand this my sisters
00:16:36.000 Do not let somebody else 0.87
00:16:37.000 Take your hijab as a joke 1.00
00:16:38.000 Because when somebody goes
00:16:39.000 And sees you wearing a hijab 0.98
00:16:41.000 And then for example
00:16:42.000 You go into a wedding
00:16:43.000 And you take a hijab off 0.99
00:16:44.000 How can he take you serious?
00:16:45.000 How can a man
00:16:46.000 Take you seriously
00:16:47.000 When you don't take your own deen seriously
00:16:48.000 My sister
00:16:49.000 Do you get what I'm trying to say?
00:16:50.000 If you're going through a struggle
00:16:51.000 My sister
00:16:52.000 If you're going through a struggle
00:16:53.000 Do not display it in public
00:16:54.000 Do not put it on Facebook
00:16:56.000 Your struggle we respect
00:16:57.000 We have
00:16:58.000 I have my own struggle
00:16:59.000 Do you get what I'm trying to say?
00:17:00.000 I have my own struggles in the deen
00:17:02.000 Do you get what I'm trying to say?
00:17:03.000 So I know where you're coming from
00:17:05.000 What you're doing
00:17:06.000 What you're trying
00:17:07.000 Wallahi I have great respect
00:17:08.000 You sisters are the backbone of this Ummah
00:17:10.000 We respect you
00:17:11.000 Wallahi we do
00:17:12.000 But you need to understand something
00:17:13.000 Do not let other people take you as a joke
00:17:15.000 There are some sisters out there 1.00
00:17:16.000 Where in the Quran does it say
00:17:17.000 I have to cover my hair?
00:17:18.000 Now explicitly
00:17:20.000 Explicitly
00:17:21.000 Excuse me
00:17:22.000 Explicitly
00:17:23.000 The Quran uses the word Khimar 1.00
00:17:25.000 What does the word Khimar mean?
00:17:26.000 For example
00:17:27.000 Back in the day
00:17:28.000 When you would see for example
00:17:29.000 A sheep
00:17:30.000 A sheep
00:17:31.000 Yeah
00:17:32.000 And the sheep's body
00:17:33.000 Is all white 0.99
00:17:34.000 Up to the neck
00:17:35.000 And from the neck above the head
00:17:36.000 Is black 0.94
00:17:37.000 Yeah?
00:17:38.000 The body is white colour
00:17:39.000 The head
00:17:40.000 Neck from the head
00:17:41.000 Is black 0.94
00:17:42.000 They will say
00:17:43.000 Look at that sheep
00:17:44.000 Because this is what the word Khimar means
00:17:45.000 For example
00:17:46.000 Analogy
00:17:47.000 Was watching
00:17:48.000 Basically
00:17:49.000 What the brother says is
00:17:50.000 Basically
00:17:51.000 The Khimar belongs to the head 1.00
00:17:52.000 Do you get what I'm trying to say?
00:17:53.000 Because
00:17:54.000 Think of it like this
00:17:55.000 I said to you yeah
00:17:56.000 Can you please put your
00:17:57.000 Put your socks on?
00:17:58.000 Do I need to tell you
00:17:59.000 Where to put your socks on?
00:18:00.000 Where does your socks belong to?
00:18:01.000 Your feet
00:18:02.000 This is exactly
00:18:03.000 Right?
00:18:04.000 This is exactly the word
00:18:05.000 Where Khimar
00:18:06.000 When Allah wants to wear the Khimar 1.00
00:18:07.000 It instantaneously means
00:18:08.000 Your head
00:18:09.000 But what about
00:18:10.000 Akhi now
00:18:11.000 The sisters that say that
00:18:12.000 They have trouble
00:18:13.000 When they put on the hijab 1.00
00:18:14.000 Okay?
00:18:15.000 When they put on the Khimar 1.00
00:18:16.000 They get family people abusing them
00:18:18.000 They get people abusing them
00:18:19.000 You know
00:18:20.000 One sister
00:18:21.000 You know when you put up
00:18:22.000 A status on Facebook
00:18:23.000 Saying
00:18:24.000 Somebody threw alcohol on me
00:18:26.000 One sister said
00:18:27.000 Somebody blew his cigarette smoke on me
00:18:29.000 So
00:18:30.000 What advice would you give to the sisters
00:18:31.000 That are going through this kind of struggle?
00:18:32.000 Good thing to be honest yeah
00:18:34.000 It would mainly be
00:18:35.000 Attacks from outsiders 1.00
00:18:36.000 You know like
00:18:37.000 You know people
00:18:38.000 Non-believers yeah 1.00
00:18:39.000 It's funny
00:18:40.000 They're all mother and father
00:18:41.000 Actually one sister was telling me
00:18:42.000 That all her brothers and sisters
00:18:43.000 Get different treatment
00:18:44.000 Because she wears the hijab 1.00
00:18:46.000 Yeah
00:18:47.000 The modern time we use the hijab 1.00
00:18:48.000 Which is Khimar 0.98
00:18:49.000 She gets a
00:18:50.000 She gets a
00:18:51.000 Really bad room
00:18:52.000 At the back of her house
00:18:53.000 She's like an animal 0.97
00:18:55.000 Like it's her own family
00:18:56.000 Sisters
00:18:57.000 All I'm going to say is this
00:18:58.000 Be strong
00:18:59.000 Only a little remain
00:19:00.000 Sisters
00:19:01.000 Please be strong
00:19:02.000 Because at the end of the day
00:19:03.000 Look you might take your hijab off 1.00
00:19:04.000 Yeah?
00:19:05.000 You might take your hijab off
00:19:06.000 Don't ever forget my sister
00:19:07.000 Your practice of the deen
00:19:09.000 The hijab just doesn't mean 1.00
00:19:10.000 You wear a veil 0.99
00:19:11.000 Or a abaya
00:19:13.000 It does not finish there
00:19:14.000 Your character
00:19:15.000 Your attitude
00:19:16.000 The way you respond to people
00:19:17.000 The way you act in public
00:19:18.000 This is all
00:19:20.000 Some kind of
00:19:21.000 A way of worship
00:19:22.000 Right?
00:19:23.000 It's like hijab 1.00
00:19:24.000 That's why
00:19:25.000 If you keep it on
00:19:26.000 I'm telling you
00:19:27.000 I went through difficulties myself
00:19:28.000 Not necessarily wearing the hijab
00:19:29.000 For example the beard
00:19:30.000 But what happens is
00:19:31.000 In time
00:19:32.000 If I said okay
00:19:33.000 I'm completely going to shave it off
00:19:34.000 Because my dad doesn't like it
00:19:35.000 For example
00:19:36.000 What am I going to gain?
00:19:37.000 Nothing
00:19:38.000 My dad's still going to hate it
00:19:39.000 For example my conduct
00:19:40.000 The way I am
00:19:41.000 If you do the same
00:19:42.000 Keep it on
00:19:43.000 And make dua
00:19:44.000 Do not ever underestimate
00:19:45.000 The power of dua
00:19:46.000 And inshallah
00:19:47.000 Wallahi there will come a time
00:19:48.000 Where your own mother
00:19:49.000 That is looking at you
00:19:50.000 Like an animal
00:19:51.000 Will put on the hijab 1.00
00:19:52.000 Definitely
00:19:53.000 You know
00:19:54.000 Just one point
00:19:55.000 To mention right
00:19:56.000 The word which Allah SWT 0.99
00:19:57.000 Used in the Quran
00:19:58.000 About putting on
00:19:59.000 Is 0.88
00:20:00.000 Okay
00:20:01.000 The root word
00:20:02.000 From this word
00:20:03.000 Is 0.88
00:20:04.000 Daraba
00:20:05.000 Daraba means
00:20:06.000 To hit
00:20:07.000 The scholars of tafsir
00:20:09.000 They say
00:20:10.000 There's a bit of
00:20:11.000 There is like
00:20:12.000 A rhetoric emphasis
00:20:13.000 Within this word
00:20:14.000 Right
00:20:15.000 Because
00:20:16.000 Now I'm going a bit
00:20:17.000 Into Arabic grammar
00:20:18.000 With you guys
00:20:19.000 Daraba is a verb
00:20:20.000 Right
00:20:21.000 A verb means something
00:20:22.000 Which you are doing actively
00:20:23.000 The point is
00:20:24.000 That they say
00:20:25.000 For every time
00:20:26.000 You put on the hijab 1.00
00:20:27.000 Every time for example
00:20:28.000 You know when you struggle
00:20:29.000 With the hijab 1.00
00:20:30.000 And you have to
00:20:31.000 For example put some hair in
00:20:32.000 Or fix it up
00:20:33.000 And the time you take
00:20:34.000 It is a struggle
00:20:35.000 For our sisters
00:20:36.000 You get rewarded as well
00:20:37.000 You get rewarded because
00:20:38.000 It's an act of ibadah 0.99
00:20:39.000 Every time
00:20:40.000 Every time your hair sticks out
00:20:41.000 And you put it in
00:20:42.000 You're getting a reward
00:20:43.000 Every time you're trying to
00:20:44.000 Fix the hijab off 1.00
00:20:45.000 Like you know looking in the mirror
00:20:46.000 Some sisters look because 1.00
00:20:47.000 They want to look pretty
00:20:48.000 But you know some of them
00:20:49.000 You're fixing up to them
00:20:50.000 Basically you know
00:20:51.000 Feel the thing
00:20:52.000 What Allah SWT has ordered 0.99
00:20:53.000 Like the Ansari woman 1.00
00:20:54.000 When they heard it
00:20:55.000 Automatically they covered their hair
00:20:56.000 You are getting reward
00:20:57.000 So I didn't mean to cut you up there
00:20:58.000 No no that's cool
00:20:59.000 But basically
00:21:00.000 That was the point
00:21:01.000 With every little action
00:21:02.000 That you have to do
00:21:03.000 In terms of the hijab
00:21:04.000 In terms of the khimar 0.99
00:21:05.000 It's ibadah
00:21:06.000 Because you're obeying Allah 0.97
00:21:07.000 And you're getting rewarded
00:21:08.000 Again and again
00:21:09.000 Every time you wear the khimar 1.00
00:21:10.000 You're outside
00:21:11.000 And it's hot
00:21:12.000 You're getting rewarded
00:21:13.000 For your struggle
00:21:14.000 Exactly
00:21:15.000 And also like for example
00:21:16.000 It's like dhikr as well 0.99
00:21:17.000 Because dhikr is remembering Allah 0.92
00:21:19.000 So what it is
00:21:20.000 When you see your hair sticking out
00:21:21.000 You remember Allah
00:21:22.000 And you cover your hair
00:21:23.000 Do you get what I'm trying to say?
00:21:24.000 So when you do that
00:21:25.000 That's like dhikr 1.00
00:21:26.000 If you get what I'm trying to say
00:21:27.000 So I'm just going to sum it up
00:21:28.000 Like you heard brothers and sisters
00:21:31.000 Inshallah you benefited
00:21:32.000 But I'm just going to emphasize
00:21:34.000 Especially on it again
00:21:35.000 My dear sisters
00:21:36.000 Who are wearing the hijab 1.00
00:21:37.000 Please
00:21:38.000 Please for the sake of Allah
00:21:39.000 We are your brothers
00:21:40.000 We are seeing this
00:21:41.000 For your own benefit
00:21:42.000 If you are wearing the hijab 0.99
00:21:43.000 My sister
00:21:44.000 Just know that you are wearing
00:21:45.000 A uniform that represents
00:21:46.000 An ummah
00:21:47.000 An entire ummah
00:21:48.000 Do you get what I'm trying to say?
00:21:49.000 When we see you
00:21:50.000 Dress up in a hijab 1.00
00:21:51.000 We have that great respect for you
00:21:52.000 I'm not saying the sisters
00:21:53.000 That do not wear it
00:21:54.000 We don't have no respect for them
00:21:55.000 We have respect for them
00:21:56.000 Unless there's some girls out there 1.00
00:21:57.000 Who dress in skimpy clothing
00:21:58.000 May Allah guide them
00:21:59.000 But the way they're dressing
00:22:01.000 It just shows something else
00:22:02.000 Do you get what I'm trying to say?
00:22:03.000 You know?
00:22:04.000 So please my brothers and
00:22:05.000 My sisters especially
00:22:06.000 Please
00:22:07.000 You know your responsibilities
00:22:08.000 Inshallah try your best
00:22:09.000 Strive
00:22:10.000 I'm not telling you to be perfect
00:22:11.000 Nobody's perfect
00:22:12.000 I'm not perfect
00:22:13.000 So just strive Inshallah
00:22:14.000 But please just remember
00:22:15.000 Just like I said
00:22:17.000 The fireman
00:22:18.000 The police officer
00:22:19.000 The doctor that wears the uniform
00:22:20.000 He represents something
00:22:21.000 When you go for a job interview
00:22:23.000 You have to wear a suit
00:22:24.000 Dress up smart
00:22:25.000 Why don't you go and say
00:22:26.000 You know what?
00:22:27.000 Go to the job interview looking like a Trump
00:22:28.000 Say look my heart is clean
00:22:29.000 Your heart might be clean
00:22:30.000 But your dress is important
00:22:32.000 Do you get what I'm trying to say?
00:22:33.000 So that's why
00:22:34.000 Just remember my sisters
00:22:35.000 When you put that hijab 1.00
00:22:36.000 Or the abaya
00:22:37.000 You're representing a massive ummah
00:22:39.000 Please take responsibility
00:22:40.000 May Allah's mercy and blessings be upon you
00:22:43.000 Thank you very much Saad
00:22:44.000 Seriously thanks for everything
00:22:45.000 You're welcome
00:22:46.000 I want to thank the brother
00:22:47.000 Oyin Ajmayn the cameraman
00:22:48.000 And everyone that took part in this
00:22:50.000 And just a quick note
00:22:51.000 We are not scholars
00:22:52.000 Even a student of knowledge
00:22:54.000 I give general advice
00:22:55.000 And try to help the ummah
00:22:56.000 As much as I can
00:22:57.000 If I have done any mistakes
00:22:58.000 And said anything wrong
00:22:59.000 I apologize
00:23:00.000 Take care
00:23:01.000 May Allah's mercy and blessings be upon you all
00:23:03.000 Surah empire
00:23:04.000 Thin life
00:23:05.000 And take care
00:23:06.000 Today
00:23:22.000 In ukraine
00:23:24.000 I am