Ali Dawah


THE REALITY 7 || Special || I HAVE NO SHAME!!!


Episode Stats

Misogynist Sentences

44

Hate Speech Sentences

71


Summary

In this episode, we talk about what would you do if you saw a brother and a sister in public doing haram in public as a Muslim? How would you react to it and how would you feel in the situation?


Transcript

00:00:00.000 Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh brothers and sisters
00:00:22.000 Welcome to reality 7
00:00:23.600 On this show we're going to talk about people
00:00:25.420 People sending out in public
00:00:26.800 Having no shame
00:00:28.060 Obviously we're going to talk about
00:00:29.960 Enjoying the good and forbidding evil cars
00:00:31.880 How people can use it
00:00:33.000 We're going to talk about Quran and Sunnah etc
00:00:35.480 And also we're going to be definitely interviewing
00:00:38.220 As we told you an ex-playboy
00:00:40.260 Who used to be in the scene
00:00:41.500 And obviously inshallah we'll be right back
00:00:44.240 After the interviews
00:00:45.340 Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh brothers and sisters
00:00:49.200 I'm here with brother Majid
00:00:50.500 I'm just going to ask him a couple of questions
00:00:52.760 So Aki
00:00:53.580 If you are walking down Shepherd's Bush
00:00:55.440 And you see a brother and sister
00:00:58.160 Doing some haram stuff
00:00:59.640 What would you do and how would you react to it?
00:01:05.560 To be honest with you
00:01:07.140 I probably wouldn't say anything
00:01:11.560 Because the thing is you don't know what the situation is
00:01:13.880 So obviously you're asking if they're not married
00:01:16.560 Let's say they're kissing
00:01:18.480 Let's say
00:01:18.980 Let's say
00:01:19.400 Let's say they're kissing
00:01:20.660 And you know
00:01:21.280 It's like a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship
00:01:23.980 Yeah?
00:01:24.380 Okay
00:01:24.680 What would you do?
00:01:25.860 How would you feel inside?
00:01:30.840 To be honest with me
00:01:31.940 I'll do one is I'll probably
00:01:33.000 Obviously
00:01:33.820 I don't even kiss my wife in public
00:01:35.700 So I'll probably be against it
00:01:37.800 Exactly
00:01:38.240 But obviously
00:01:39.580 To be honest with you
00:01:40.640 I probably wouldn't even say anything
00:01:41.660 You wouldn't say anything?
00:01:42.220 I wouldn't
00:01:42.660 And the only reason I wouldn't
00:01:43.480 Is because
00:01:43.840 Because if I went up to a cross
00:01:46.180 Not to make them uncomfortable
00:01:47.100 Because it feels like I'm just
00:01:48.180 Obviously
00:01:48.740 I'm God
00:01:50.340 I'm judging them
00:01:51.000 Okay
00:01:51.280 And obviously I've seen them before
00:01:52.520 So I shouldn't
00:01:53.320 Obviously I'm not perfect myself
00:01:54.640 We all make mistakes
00:01:55.960 Of course
00:01:56.460 Obviously
00:01:56.840 If I was a more confident individual
00:01:59.020 I would say to them
00:01:59.980 You shouldn't be doing this
00:02:00.800 You know
00:02:01.500 You should get married
00:02:03.040 Go and get married
00:02:03.740 Yeah
00:02:04.000 Because I've got
00:02:04.680 So Aki
00:02:05.700 Let's say you're in Stratford
00:02:06.820 And you're walking down the street
00:02:08.680 And you see a sister in a hijab
00:02:10.320 Or a brother in a beard
00:02:11.740 Doing certain things
00:02:13.220 That are haram
00:02:13.560 In public
00:02:14.100 As a Muslim
00:02:16.100 How would you feel in your heart
00:02:17.360 And what would you do?
00:02:20.180 Personally I would feel like
00:02:21.320 You know
00:02:21.660 There's something
00:02:22.400 To do in private
00:02:24.000 Okay
00:02:24.400 You know
00:02:24.800 But I wouldn't
00:02:25.840 I wouldn't approach them personally
00:02:27.320 Because of the awkward situation
00:02:29.420 That it would cause for both parties
00:02:30.680 Some people get quite aggressive
00:02:32.040 And get upset about it
00:02:32.980 Okay
00:02:33.160 I don't want to
00:02:33.780 So you don't judge them
00:02:34.220 Yeah
00:02:34.380 I don't want to come across
00:02:35.360 As judging someone
00:02:36.680 Okay
00:02:37.080 It would be better
00:02:37.460 If the brother was alone
00:02:39.220 And then I could maybe
00:02:39.980 Just kind of maybe
00:02:41.000 Give my opinion
00:02:41.680 Okay
00:02:42.020 But that's only
00:02:42.680 Again
00:02:43.080 That would be a rare occasion
00:02:44.340 Again
00:02:44.660 You know
00:02:44.880 Because it's
00:02:45.380 Okay
00:02:45.820 You don't want to be judging people
00:02:46.700 Okay
00:02:46.920 See obviously
00:02:47.980 When it comes to the
00:02:48.680 Awkward bit
00:02:49.680 We found a solution
00:02:50.520 Today
00:02:50.720 We said you know what
00:02:51.420 Some people
00:02:53.360 Want to stop it
00:02:54.440 But they think
00:02:54.940 I'm going to go there
00:02:55.700 Don't drive me
00:02:56.680 Rah rah rah
00:02:57.240 Now these cards
00:02:58.480 Now these cards
00:02:58.500 Are specifically done
00:02:59.680 And these cards
00:03:00.600 The campaign is called
00:03:01.260 Enjoying Good and Forbidden Evil
00:03:02.280 Now on this card
00:03:03.400 This is for the sisters
00:03:04.100 It says
00:03:04.480 You are worth more than being a girlfriend
00:03:06.400 Yeah
00:03:07.020 Why compromise
00:03:07.740 This one is for the brothers
00:03:09.380 It says
00:03:09.800 What if your sister had a boyfriend
00:03:11.580 How would you feel
00:03:12.800 Yeah
00:03:13.160 So with this
00:03:14.620 You could go up to someone
00:03:15.920 And be like
00:03:16.300 You know what
00:03:16.700 You don't want confrontation
00:03:17.720 Salam alaikum sister
00:03:18.780 Have you got two minutes to read this
00:03:20.520 Or brother
00:03:21.040 Give them one each
00:03:22.100 And go about your business
00:03:22.940 What do you think of that idea
00:03:24.580 That's a brilliant idea
00:03:25.420 Really really good idea
00:03:26.780 Yeah
00:03:26.940 And not only that
00:03:28.780 At the back there's a verse
00:03:31.080 For the brothers there's a hadith
00:03:32.060 Yeah
00:03:32.540 And at the back for the sisters
00:03:33.780 There's a verse of the Quran
00:03:34.660 Not only that
00:03:35.840 When you give the card
00:03:37.160 Don't forget
00:03:38.000 There's a hadith that says
00:03:39.580 Try to stop it with your hand
00:03:40.860 And obviously we're doing that
00:03:42.240 Do you hear what I'm trying to say
00:03:42.840 Yeah
00:03:43.020 And we've got the links to our video
00:03:44.860 Like the reality show
00:03:45.820 Yeah
00:03:46.180 And we've got another brother
00:03:46.980 Called Dawaman
00:03:47.640 He does Nasir sessions
00:03:48.840 Oh Dawaman
00:03:49.500 Yeah
00:03:49.720 And also
00:03:50.780 Brother Musa Adnan
00:03:51.800 He
00:03:52.000 The one who's on the camera
00:03:53.200 He's going to start
00:03:54.000 MYM advice as well
00:03:55.020 So we have the links to that
00:03:56.300 Where people can look at the card
00:03:57.440 Ponder upon it
00:03:58.860 And watch the videos
00:04:00.140 These videos break down
00:04:01.200 The whole concept of this boyfriend
00:04:02.460 Etc
00:04:03.000 So do you think it's a good idea
00:04:04.440 Would you use it
00:04:05.040 Brilliant idea
00:04:05.680 Yeah definitely
00:04:06.160 Okay so I'm going to give you these
00:04:07.460 This is for the sisters
00:04:08.700 This is for the brothers
00:04:09.200 Yeah
00:04:09.420 So Aki
00:04:09.960 You're involved in the Dawah scene
00:04:11.200 Yeah
00:04:11.520 So obviously I want to ask you a question
00:04:13.780 Yeah
00:04:14.020 You just saw what happened a minute ago
00:04:16.480 Yeah
00:04:16.740 There was a guy putting his hand over his sister
00:04:18.700 Obviously we had to go and approach
00:04:20.080 And enjoy good and familiar
00:04:20.900 In that situation
00:04:22.420 What would you do
00:04:23.320 In that situation
00:04:25.300 What I would believe
00:04:26.560 What most Muslims should do
00:04:27.940 Is just go up to them
00:04:28.940 Approach them
00:04:29.760 Obviously in a manner that is good
00:04:31.400 Of course
00:04:31.720 Not in an aggressive
00:04:33.000 Of course
00:04:33.500 Definitely
00:04:33.820 Harsh manner
00:04:34.760 But to go up to them
00:04:35.420 And just give them
00:04:36.000 Naseehah
00:04:36.500 Because at the end of the day
00:04:37.220 Our job is to remind them
00:04:38.780 That's what Allah says in the Quran
00:04:39.880 To remind them
00:04:40.600 And at the end of the day
00:04:41.540 It is them to decide
00:04:43.100 Because at the end of the day
00:04:43.740 You give them a choice
00:04:44.700 To do evil
00:04:45.620 Or to do good
00:04:46.300 Exactly
00:04:46.520 And the obligation upon the Muslim
00:04:48.500 Is to command the good
00:04:49.440 And to forbid the evil
00:04:50.380 Exactly
00:04:50.680 And if we all Muslims
00:04:51.980 Take upon this role
00:04:53.440 To command the good
00:04:54.720 And to forbid the evil
00:04:55.460 Inshallah
00:04:56.300 By Allah
00:04:57.040 By permission of Allah
00:04:57.920 We will see change
00:04:59.500 In the Muslim community
00:05:00.320 So obviously Aki
00:05:01.460 We've got these cards
00:05:02.680 And I've been trying to get
00:05:03.580 To get these cards to you
00:05:04.600 For a long time
00:05:05.160 But I'm going to listen to you
00:05:06.260 Alhamdulillah
00:05:06.700 So this is for you Aki
00:05:07.760 Yeah
00:05:08.280 Obviously
00:05:08.900 What do you think about the idea
00:05:10.780 Does it
00:05:11.480 Would it work
00:05:12.140 Is there anything you want to give
00:05:13.480 To the viewers
00:05:14.240 The thing is
00:05:16.140 It is a good initiative
00:05:17.240 I believe
00:05:17.900 I believe that
00:05:18.520 If we go up to people
00:05:19.520 If it's on a trade
00:05:20.620 Or at workplace
00:05:21.440 Wherever you have
00:05:22.080 Wherever it is
00:05:22.860 If you've got these cards
00:05:23.920 Few of them
00:05:24.380 You can put them in your bus pass
00:05:25.420 Or whatever the case is
00:05:26.320 You put them
00:05:27.100 And if you see someone
00:05:28.080 Doing something wrong
00:05:29.180 All you need to do
00:05:29.920 Is just give them the card
00:05:30.720 If you can't speak
00:05:31.720 Exactly
00:05:32.280 End of the day
00:05:32.720 The card
00:05:33.040 You know what the card is
00:05:33.980 The card is just
00:05:34.820 Where to start a conversation
00:05:36.760 Maybe
00:05:37.080 To help you
00:05:38.100 Because many of us
00:05:38.780 Let's be honest
00:05:39.340 There are a lot of Muslims
00:05:40.360 That are shy to speak
00:05:41.120 Yes
00:05:41.420 There are a lot of Muslims
00:05:42.120 That are shy to speak
00:05:42.740 MashaAllah brother
00:05:44.100 You can go up to people
00:05:45.280 And just talk straight away
00:05:46.280 And tell them
00:05:46.700 Look this is wrong
00:05:47.560 What you're doing
00:05:47.940 But many brothers out there
00:05:49.140 Many sisters out there
00:05:49.840 Can't speak
00:05:50.220 Well the least you can do
00:05:51.360 Is remind them
00:05:52.060 Exactly
00:05:52.500 So sister
00:05:53.180 If you're walking down Stratford
00:05:54.900 And you see a brother
00:05:56.200 And sister
00:05:56.740 Are doing something wrong
00:05:57.680 It's haram
00:05:59.260 As a Muslim woman
00:06:01.360 What would you do?
00:06:02.760 I probably wouldn't
00:06:03.680 Approach them
00:06:04.400 Just for the fact that
00:06:05.540 I wouldn't want them
00:06:06.780 To think that
00:06:07.500 They thought that
00:06:09.640 I was higher than them
00:06:10.560 To judge them
00:06:11.480 And also I think
00:06:12.780 It would be embarrassing
00:06:13.340 For them
00:06:13.760 And embarrassing for me
00:06:15.000 Okay
00:06:15.880 Alright
00:06:16.180 Do you know what
00:06:16.940 The Quran and Sunnah
00:06:17.620 Tells you to do
00:06:18.220 Like how you should act
00:06:19.100 In a certain situation
00:06:19.820 Like this
00:06:20.240 I think
00:06:21.960 I'm not 100% sure
00:06:23.240 That you're supposed
00:06:23.900 To approach them
00:06:24.900 Okay
00:06:25.060 Should I kind of
00:06:26.160 Go through with you
00:06:26.840 Okay
00:06:27.240 Allah says in the Quran
00:06:28.700 Sorry
00:06:29.300 Allah says in the Quran
00:06:30.220 Enjoying the good
00:06:31.080 And forbid the evil
00:06:31.880 And there is a hadith
00:06:32.980 Which says
00:06:33.320 If you see evil
00:06:34.220 Try to stop it
00:06:35.200 With your hand
00:06:35.680 If not with your hand
00:06:36.580 Try to stop it
00:06:37.060 With your tongue
00:06:37.580 And even if not
00:06:38.560 With your tongue
00:06:38.960 Heat it in your heart
00:06:39.780 And that is the lowest
00:06:40.700 Of iman
00:06:41.180 So obviously now
00:06:42.360 Like you said
00:06:43.280 It's a bit awkward
00:06:43.860 When you go there
00:06:44.560 And they're going to
00:06:44.980 Think oh you're judging
00:06:45.620 Them and stuff like that
00:06:46.520 We've got these cards
00:06:48.640 Yeah
00:06:49.000 This card is called
00:06:50.040 Enjoy the good
00:06:51.300 And forbid the evil
00:06:51.860 Campaign card
00:06:52.600 With this card
00:06:53.660 Just like I approached you
00:06:55.180 All you have to do
00:06:56.320 Is if you see something
00:06:56.900 Going on
00:06:57.320 You just say
00:06:57.820 Salaam alaikum sister
00:06:58.680 Have you got two minutes
00:06:59.540 To read this
00:07:00.100 Right
00:07:00.840 And you just give them
00:07:01.600 The card
00:07:01.960 That's your job done
00:07:03.160 And what do you think
00:07:03.720 About the initiative
00:07:04.180 Of the card though
00:07:04.800 I think that's a really
00:07:05.460 Good idea
00:07:05.920 Like you don't have to
00:07:07.200 Go and be all judgmental
00:07:08.900 You can just give them there
00:07:09.680 Exactly
00:07:10.060 Sister Layla
00:07:10.720 You're walking down
00:07:11.680 Stratford
00:07:12.460 Or Oxford Street
00:07:13.300 Wherever
00:07:13.560 And you see your brother
00:07:14.660 And your sister
00:07:15.120 Indulging in haram
00:07:16.560 Haram activities
00:07:17.520 Yeah
00:07:17.800 I don't need to go into detail
00:07:18.980 What would you as a Muslim
00:07:20.360 Do
00:07:20.760 I would probably think
00:07:23.100 That it's quite inappropriate
00:07:24.080 However
00:07:24.620 I would never approach them
00:07:25.800 You would never approach them
00:07:26.600 Okay
00:07:26.800 Do you know what the Quran
00:07:27.720 And Sunnah tells you to do
00:07:28.540 I'm not sure
00:07:30.060 But I can guess
00:07:30.820 I imagine
00:07:31.340 It wouldn't say
00:07:32.180 To approach them
00:07:33.140 So
00:07:33.600 Okay
00:07:34.000 Alright
00:07:34.320 Allah SWT says in the Quran
00:07:35.680 You should enjoy the good
00:07:36.560 And forbid the evil
00:07:37.180 There is a hadith that says
00:07:38.880 If you see evil
00:07:39.980 Try to stop it with your hands
00:07:41.460 If not with your hands
00:07:42.660 Try to stop it with your tongue
00:07:43.880 And even if you can't stop it
00:07:45.360 With your tongue
00:07:45.780 Eat it in your heart
00:07:46.620 And that is the lowest of iman
00:07:47.960 So what it is
00:07:48.940 Is
00:07:49.380 The hadith is saying basically
00:07:50.820 If I see evil
00:07:52.180 I should try to stop it
00:07:53.460 With my hands
00:07:53.920 Now we came with this initiative
00:07:55.240 Of these cards
00:07:55.940 Yeah
00:07:56.340 So if I saw something going on
00:07:58.640 I would approach them
00:07:59.420 And say
00:07:59.600 Salaamu Alaikum sister
00:08:00.460 If you don't want to make it awkward
00:08:01.780 Have you got two minutes
00:08:02.800 To read this
00:08:03.380 And I'll give the card
00:08:04.220 I think this is probably
00:08:04.920 Better than not doing anything at all
00:08:06.840 Of course
00:08:07.640 So yeah
00:08:08.480 I'll definitely give it a go
00:08:09.440 Exactly
00:08:09.940 Okay
00:08:10.360 Do you have any brothers?
00:08:11.380 I do
00:08:11.620 I've got one
00:08:11.900 Okay
00:08:12.120 Can I give you some
00:08:13.060 Because we've got some
00:08:13.620 For the brothers as well
00:08:14.360 On this one it says
00:08:15.640 What if your sister had a boyfriend?
00:08:17.400 Oh wow
00:08:17.800 Yes
00:08:18.220 I'm going to put you in a scenario
00:08:20.420 And I want you to honestly tell me
00:08:22.360 What you would do in that situation
00:08:23.400 Sorry Aki
00:08:23.760 If you were walking down the street
00:08:26.060 And you saw a brother and sister
00:08:27.460 Obviously doing something
00:08:28.600 Haram
00:08:29.080 Out in the public
00:08:29.840 How would you feel
00:08:31.880 And do you know as a Muslim
00:08:33.280 What's your obligation
00:08:33.920 What you should do?
00:08:35.520 Well I feel disgusted
00:08:36.540 Yeah
00:08:36.900 But
00:08:37.840 It depends
00:08:39.620 Like as a Muslim
00:08:40.860 Yeah
00:08:41.740 You can approach them
00:08:43.020 In the nicest way
00:08:43.680 And ask them
00:08:44.180 Like whatever you're doing
00:08:45.360 You know
00:08:45.840 You should do it
00:08:46.460 Privately
00:08:47.140 Okay
00:08:47.860 You know what I mean
00:08:48.380 Okay
00:08:48.760 Yeah
00:08:49.360 What about you Aki?
00:08:50.540 To be honest
00:08:50.920 I think it's just a norm now
00:08:52.140 Nowadays it's just
00:08:53.360 That it's just norm
00:08:54.460 It's like second nature to everyone
00:08:55.940 So
00:08:56.740 It's
00:08:58.240 The situation's got so bad
00:08:59.860 You don't know where to start to fix it
00:09:01.380 If you should approach someone or not
00:09:02.640 Because
00:09:03.200 Nowadays it's just normal
00:09:04.880 I just think it's just norm
00:09:06.140 Okay
00:09:06.780 So I don't know
00:09:07.360 Okay
00:09:07.780 Well
00:09:08.300 The Quran and Sunnah
00:09:09.600 I'll just basically tell you
00:09:10.820 Maybe you guys know better
00:09:11.720 Is
00:09:12.400 Allah says in the Quran
00:09:13.760 You should enjoy good and for medieval
00:09:14.940 Yeah
00:09:15.380 Allah says that
00:09:16.600 It doesn't say
00:09:17.140 The person that's sinless
00:09:19.500 Should enjoy good and for medieval
00:09:20.660 It says look
00:09:21.500 You might make a sin
00:09:22.380 Yeah
00:09:22.520 Because some people think
00:09:23.180 Oh I'm a sinner
00:09:23.700 Why should I go and tell them
00:09:24.680 No it doesn't work like that
00:09:25.920 Do you get what I'm trying to say
00:09:26.480 Just because you're a sinner
00:09:27.320 It doesn't mean
00:09:27.720 You can't go and tell somebody else
00:09:29.340 Do you get what I'm trying to say
00:09:30.060 So obviously
00:09:31.900 So we came up with this concept
00:09:33.100 Yeah
00:09:33.340 So we have these cards
00:09:34.820 Yeah
00:09:35.560 And
00:09:36.520 With these cards
00:09:38.200 This awkward moment thing comes out
00:09:40.460 Because what happens is
00:09:41.320 The hadith says
00:09:42.520 You should
00:09:42.780 If you see evil
00:09:43.640 Try to stop it with your hand
00:09:44.580 So you stop it with your hand
00:09:46.080 By giving a card
00:09:47.020 If I see something's going on
00:09:48.740 I don't want to get into a conflict
00:09:49.700 Yeah
00:09:49.960 All I can go and say
00:09:50.820 Salaamu Alaikum
00:09:51.360 Have you got two minutes to read this
00:09:53.040 Give it to him
00:09:53.780 Go about your business
00:09:54.480 Done, dusted
00:09:55.100 Do you get what I'm trying to say
00:09:55.720 Of course
00:09:55.960 What do you think about the concept
00:09:57.460 That is actually one of the best ways
00:09:59.720 You can actually come across
00:10:01.060 If you come across any scenario
00:10:02.740 And those cards are like
00:10:04.720 The smartest thing to do
00:10:06.140 Exactly
00:10:06.480 What do you think, Aki?
00:10:07.220 Yeah, it's a very, very, very good idea
00:10:09.340 It's just
00:10:10.020 Where's all the agro that might come with it
00:10:12.940 And people feeling awkward and stuff
00:10:15.120 You know what I mean
00:10:15.620 So it's a very good idea
00:10:17.160 Assalaamu Alaikum
00:10:19.740 Wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh
00:10:21.060 Brothers and sisters
00:10:21.760 Welcome back
00:10:23.380 You've seen the interviews
00:10:24.360 Now obviously we're going to interview
00:10:25.920 The ex-playboy really soon
00:10:27.720 But obviously I just quickly
00:10:28.540 Want to go through this whole thing
00:10:29.880 And tell you the appropriate ways
00:10:31.540 Of approaching people
00:10:32.460 When you see someone sitting in public
00:10:34.220 For our start
00:10:35.240 Obviously I want to praise
00:10:36.140 The Prophet Muhammad
00:10:37.140 Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam
00:10:38.240 And I want to also praise
00:10:40.760 Allah Subhanahu wa ta'ala
00:10:41.600 All glory and gratitude
00:10:44.080 Belongs to him
00:10:45.040 And with this permission
00:10:46.060 We carry out our works
00:10:46.960 And inshaAllah make dua for us
00:10:48.020 So we can carry on further
00:10:49.040 Now I want to go straight into it
00:10:50.860 Now brothers and sisters
00:10:51.680 As you know
00:10:53.060 We interviewed a couple of people
00:10:54.160 Now
00:10:55.000 As we was doing this
00:10:56.900 We got a lot of
00:10:58.040 Different comments
00:10:58.680 Some people were like
00:10:59.540 If I saw someone sinning
00:11:01.140 I wouldn't want to go
00:11:02.040 Say something
00:11:02.980 Because I'm a sinner myself
00:11:04.080 We had some people saying
00:11:05.720 You know what
00:11:06.260 It's their business
00:11:07.600 It's got nothing to do with me
00:11:08.740 Some people said
00:11:09.960 Like for example
00:11:11.540 If I go there
00:11:12.860 There might be some kind of a conflict
00:11:14.300 So I'm going to touch up
00:11:15.380 On these step by step
00:11:16.300 So firstly I want to start off with
00:11:17.720 Basically not
00:11:19.380 When you see evil
00:11:20.460 If you see some kind of sin going on
00:11:22.040 You don't go there
00:11:23.120 Because you say
00:11:23.760 I'm a sinner
00:11:24.300 I don't have a right to judge anyone
00:11:25.720 Now firstly
00:11:26.660 This is wrong
00:11:27.500 Why is it wrong?
00:11:28.580 Because Allah Subhanahu wa ta'ala
00:11:29.280 Says in the Quran
00:11:30.120 To enjoin good and forbid evil
00:11:32.040 Allah Subhanahu wa ta'ala
00:11:33.220 Did not say
00:11:34.120 Enjoy good
00:11:35.540 And forbid evil
00:11:37.920 For the ones
00:11:38.860 For the ones that do not sin
00:11:40.480 He did not say that
00:11:41.760 He said
00:11:42.220 You have to enjoin good
00:11:43.180 And forbid evil
00:11:43.900 Because if we go with the concept of saying
00:11:45.880 Okay I'm a sinner myself
00:11:47.140 How can I go and give advice
00:11:48.540 To another sinner
00:11:49.360 Well if that's the case
00:11:50.500 We are all sinners
00:11:51.360 So that means we can't go and advise anybody
00:11:53.740 And Allah Subhanahu wa ta'ala
00:11:55.080 Says that
00:11:55.460 We are the greatest ummah nation
00:11:57.060 Because we enjoy good
00:11:58.620 And forbid what's evil
00:11:59.820 So that's why the mentality of saying
00:12:02.580 I'm a sinner
00:12:03.260 I can't go and advise someone
00:12:04.260 It's silly
00:12:05.140 It's from the shaitan
00:12:05.940 He's just whispering
00:12:06.660 So you don't help out another Muslim
00:12:08.580 Now
00:12:09.860 Coming to basically
00:12:11.480 The concept of people sinning
00:12:14.320 Up in the open
00:12:15.460 With no shame
00:12:16.180 Now brothers and sisters
00:12:17.140 What you need to understand is this
00:12:18.320 As an ummah
00:12:19.540 We really have to
00:12:21.200 Do something when we see this
00:12:22.800 Because when we don't do this
00:12:24.340 The whole ummah gets affected
00:12:25.780 I want to go into it with a hadith
00:12:27.200 Where
00:12:27.540 Numan ibn Bashir
00:12:29.060 May I be pleased with him
00:12:30.220 Narrated by the prophet Muhammad
00:12:31.580 Peace be upon him
00:12:32.400 He says that
00:12:33.100 The likeliness of the man
00:12:34.280 Who observes the limits prescribed by Allah
00:12:36.160 And that of man who transgresses them
00:12:38.160 Is like a group of people
00:12:39.300 Who get on board a ship
00:12:41.260 Now on this ship
00:12:42.740 There's a group of people
00:12:44.280 Who are on the upper deck
00:12:45.520 And there's a group of people
00:12:46.720 Who are on the lower deck
00:12:47.580 Now
00:12:48.320 If the ones on the lower deck
00:12:49.480 Become thirsty
00:12:50.320 And they say to the ones
00:12:51.740 On the upper deck
00:12:52.420 We're just letting you know
00:12:53.820 That we're going to
00:12:54.920 Drill
00:12:55.600 A hole
00:12:56.340 On the bottom deck
00:12:57.840 Right
00:12:58.520 Now
00:12:59.200 If the ones at the top
00:13:00.300 Allow the ones
00:13:01.240 At the lower deck
00:13:02.560 To do this
00:13:03.500 On the boat
00:13:04.180 While they're sailing
00:13:05.420 They're going to drown
00:13:07.260 Because if they open a hole
00:13:08.520 To get some water
00:13:10.860 Everybody's going to drown
00:13:12.440 Now this goes exactly
00:13:13.980 With brothers and sisters
00:13:15.920 Let's say a sister in a hijab
00:13:17.220 A brother in a beard
00:13:18.600 And a thaw
00:13:19.220 Committing a sin
00:13:20.320 It affects everybody
00:13:21.940 Not just that person
00:13:23.400 This is a
00:13:24.580 The greatest example
00:13:25.520 That I can give
00:13:26.160 Is basically
00:13:27.060 For example
00:13:27.520 What happened in London
00:13:28.240 When a certain
00:13:29.140 YouTuber brother
00:13:29.960 Came
00:13:30.560 And sisters went crazy
00:13:32.080 And start acting
00:13:33.100 With no haya
00:13:33.980 No shame at all
00:13:35.060 You know
00:13:35.580 Obviously
00:13:36.120 We need to make excuses
00:13:37.400 For our sisters
00:13:38.220 And brothers
00:13:38.720 But
00:13:39.320 They just
00:13:40.000 They really lost it
00:13:41.120 And they were running
00:13:41.660 After him etc
00:13:42.380 This affects everybody
00:13:44.080 Because
00:13:44.480 When we was in Birmingham
00:13:45.860 A brother said to us
00:13:46.880 I didn't know girls
00:13:47.560 In hijab were like this
00:13:48.520 So what is that
00:13:49.520 What kind of thing
00:13:50.400 Is that portrayed in his head
00:13:51.340 So that sin done
00:13:52.540 In public
00:13:53.560 This is what it caused
00:13:55.120 And this is why
00:13:56.100 We need to address it
00:13:57.300 Nobody can say
00:13:58.500 Don't judge me
00:13:59.580 Now saying
00:14:00.820 Only God can judge me
00:14:02.660 Is like saying
00:14:03.520 Let me sin in peace
00:14:05.000 Please
00:14:05.960 Let me sin in peace
00:14:07.020 Don't get involved with me
00:14:08.500 This is what it kind of means
00:14:09.940 Because I would really feel
00:14:11.720 Can you imagine
00:14:12.260 Only God can judge me
00:14:13.840 Like it's
00:14:14.700 Nobody
00:14:15.280 Like you know
00:14:15.800 He can judge me
00:14:16.680 The one who created
00:14:17.720 The heavens and the earth
00:14:18.500 The one who's going to
00:14:20.440 Count you for judgment
00:14:21.480 You're saying
00:14:22.200 Only he can judge me
00:14:23.180 By Allah
00:14:24.160 I would never want that judgment
00:14:25.680 May Allah protect us from that
00:14:26.900 You know
00:14:27.420 Now brothers and sisters
00:14:29.160 Another thing that you need to acknowledge
00:14:30.400 Is that
00:14:31.320 Now
00:14:31.960 When we was out and about
00:14:33.220 We came across two things
00:14:34.840 Once we was
00:14:36.400 Giving out the cards
00:14:37.660 We were just talking to people
00:14:38.460 I noticed a brother and sister
00:14:39.760 Walking out the station
00:14:40.800 And another brother
00:14:41.960 A brother had his arm
00:14:43.980 Around the sister
00:14:45.140 Now I saw this evil
00:14:46.940 And the Prophet Muhammad
00:14:47.880 Peace be upon him
00:14:48.400 He said
00:14:48.560 If you see evil
00:14:49.160 Try to stop it with your hand
00:14:50.280 If not with your hand
00:14:51.120 With your tongue
00:14:51.640 If not
00:14:52.360 Hate it in your heart
00:14:52.980 And that's the lowest of Iman
00:14:53.920 So I said
00:14:54.980 You know what
00:14:55.400 I was equipped
00:14:56.480 So I said
00:14:56.940 I want to stop it with my hand
00:14:57.940 So obviously
00:14:58.900 I went up to them
00:14:59.480 And said
00:14:59.720 Asalaamu Alaikum
00:15:00.200 Brother and sister
00:15:00.880 Hope you're doing well
00:15:02.160 Can I
00:15:02.740 We're just raising awareness
00:15:03.820 Regarding her own relationships
00:15:05.000 Do you mind
00:15:05.720 If I just give you a card
00:15:06.600 I gave the card
00:15:07.640 To the sister
00:15:08.100 I did the same
00:15:09.280 With the brother
00:15:09.640 But I used a bit of a tactic
00:15:10.880 How
00:15:11.140 I said
00:15:11.640 Sister can I give this
00:15:12.380 To your husband
00:15:12.940 And she said
00:15:13.720 That is not my husband
00:15:14.700 It's my friend
00:15:15.420 That's what I really wanted to know
00:15:17.260 But I did it in a polite way
00:15:18.260 And I just kind of found out
00:15:19.300 And I said
00:15:19.840 Well sister
00:15:20.260 Do you mind me asking
00:15:20.940 Why he had his hand around you
00:15:22.460 You know
00:15:23.280 Obviously she went a bit quiet
00:15:24.580 She understood
00:15:25.160 The brother understood
00:15:25.840 I said
00:15:26.160 Look
00:15:26.400 I'm not here to say
00:15:27.440 Look
00:15:27.680 I'm an angel
00:15:28.560 I'm not an angel
00:15:29.580 I sin maybe more than you two
00:15:30.980 But it's a duty upon me
00:15:32.820 Because the Quran and Sunnah
00:15:34.180 Tells me
00:15:34.660 That if I see evil
00:15:36.100 I have to come and address you
00:15:37.120 My brothers and sisters
00:15:37.680 Because I love you
00:15:38.220 For the sake of Allah
00:15:38.940 So you need to acknowledge that
00:15:40.320 And subhanAllah
00:15:40.940 They didn't have like
00:15:42.460 Some kind of hatred towards me
00:15:43.800 They said
00:15:45.900 Thank you very much brother
00:15:46.660 For raising awareness
00:15:47.460 They got the cards
00:15:48.620 And they went about their business
00:15:49.940 This is how you need to approach
00:15:51.500 A person with hikmah
00:15:52.820 In the Quran
00:15:53.400 Allah subhanAllah says
00:15:54.380 Let there rise among you
00:15:56.100 A group of people
00:15:57.320 Who will enjoy good
00:15:58.620 And forbid evil
00:15:59.540 And at the end paragraph
00:16:02.520 It says
00:16:02.860 And it is they
00:16:04.100 Who are the successful
00:16:05.400 Now my brothers and sisters
00:16:06.760 I get criticism
00:16:08.280 Right
00:16:08.900 I get criticism
00:16:09.680 For different kind of stuff
00:16:10.700 No matter what happens
00:16:11.800 My brothers and sisters
00:16:12.640 By Allah
00:16:13.740 By Allah
00:16:14.840 Wallahi
00:16:15.340 My brothers and sisters
00:16:16.440 As long as I am breathing
00:16:18.040 As long as
00:16:19.380 I'm speaking for myself
00:16:20.260 As long as I am breathing
00:16:21.700 My brothers and sisters
00:16:22.460 I will enjoy good
00:16:23.600 And forbid evil
00:16:24.100 I do not care
00:16:24.840 If the whole world
00:16:25.700 Is against me
00:16:26.340 I do not care
00:16:27.420 I really don't care
00:16:28.580 Because brothers and sisters
00:16:29.560 We can't say
00:16:30.600 Okay these people are
00:16:31.300 Criticizing me
00:16:32.040 They are saying this
00:16:32.800 I am going to stop it
00:16:33.420 No no no no no
00:16:33.900 You do it
00:16:35.100 This is the shaitan's work
00:16:36.080 Wallahi
00:16:36.700 At the end
00:16:37.240 You will be the successful one
00:16:38.320 Like Allah subhanAllah says
00:16:39.420 In the Quran
00:16:39.840 Not only that
00:16:40.860 I quickly want to go into
00:16:41.660 Another hadith
00:16:42.340 That is narrated by
00:16:44.160 Huzayfa
00:16:44.600 Reported by the prophet
00:16:46.360 Muhammad
00:16:46.800 Sallallahu alayhi wa sallam
00:16:47.860 It says
00:16:48.580 By him in whose hands
00:16:50.360 My life is
00:16:51.100 You either enjoy good
00:16:53.040 And forbid evil
00:16:54.180 Evil
00:16:54.980 Or Allah subhanAllah
00:16:56.400 Will send down
00:16:57.060 A calamity upon you
00:16:58.460 Then you will make supplication
00:17:00.240 And it will not be accepted
00:17:01.900 Now
00:17:02.580 I want to come to another topic
00:17:04.440 As well
00:17:04.680 This is like
00:17:05.080 I'm not going to hold you guys longer
00:17:06.220 Now if somebody doesn't
00:17:08.320 Some people say look
00:17:09.080 I don't want to go there
00:17:10.260 Because
00:17:10.840 I feel a bit embarrassed
00:17:12.140 A bit ashamed
00:17:12.920 And I say
00:17:13.780 SubhanAllah
00:17:14.780 The person
00:17:15.820 Look imagine this
00:17:16.560 They have no shame
00:17:18.140 In sinning in public
00:17:19.500 While wearing a hijab
00:17:20.880 Or no hijab
00:17:22.000 Let's say
00:17:22.440 A beard
00:17:23.340 No beard
00:17:24.220 They have no shame
00:17:26.860 Doing that
00:17:27.460 Why on earth
00:17:28.560 Would you have shame
00:17:29.480 In going there with hikmah
00:17:31.320 Not rude
00:17:31.820 Not going there saying
00:17:32.460 Haram haram
00:17:33.140 You don't go and say that
00:17:34.660 They know it's haram
00:17:35.360 You don't need to reassure them
00:17:36.280 And say look
00:17:36.720 It's haram
00:17:37.560 You don't need to do that
00:17:38.340 They know it's haram
00:17:39.340 How could you
00:17:40.220 If they have no shame
00:17:41.000 Sinning in public
00:17:41.660 My brothers and sisters
00:17:42.420 Why would you have shame
00:17:44.060 In going there
00:17:45.060 And advising them
00:17:46.160 What shame do you have
00:17:47.700 SubhanAllah
00:17:48.100 Think of it for a second
00:17:49.000 My brothers and sisters
00:17:49.800 You know
00:17:50.440 It's very simple
00:17:52.180 If you see something
00:17:53.360 My brothers and sisters
00:17:53.920 You have to do it
00:17:54.900 Brothers and sisters
00:17:55.720 If we are out and about
00:17:56.860 Me Ali Dawah
00:17:57.720 If I'm out and about
00:17:58.800 With my team
00:17:59.320 If I see something happening
00:18:01.080 If it's evil
00:18:02.660 Just want to let you know
00:18:04.300 That I will come and approach you
00:18:05.700 In the best of ways
00:18:06.480 Well I am not a guy
00:18:07.420 That's come and saying
00:18:07.920 Oh haram haram
00:18:08.660 I will come and approach you
00:18:09.700 In the best of ways
00:18:10.460 My team will do
00:18:11.620 Exactly the same thing
00:18:12.620 If we see you
00:18:13.200 And you viewers out there
00:18:14.560 That are watching this
00:18:15.480 The Quran and Sunnah
00:18:17.440 Tells you
00:18:17.860 You have to do something about it
00:18:19.200 Now if you're shy
00:18:20.200 We have a solution to that
00:18:21.520 We have made these cards
00:18:22.940 Enjoying good and forbid evil
00:18:24.380 Me personally
00:18:25.820 I carry a couple in my pocket
00:18:27.260 If I'm out and about
00:18:28.580 If I'm driving
00:18:29.260 And I see something happening
00:18:30.080 I pull over
00:18:30.740 Park my car
00:18:31.680 Go
00:18:32.460 And enjoy good and forbid what's evil
00:18:34.500 It's simple as that
00:18:35.580 Now these cards can be ordered
00:18:36.900 Through an email
00:18:37.800 At
00:18:38.560 And I'll give you the email
00:18:39.540 It'll be at the link below
00:18:40.600 Inshallah
00:18:40.960 You can see it yourself
00:18:41.900 Now the beauty with these cards
00:18:43.240 Is this brothers and sisters
00:18:44.160 You pay 10 pounds
00:18:45.600 You get your cards
00:18:46.640 250 cards
00:18:47.520 As you use them cards
00:18:49.280 You get rewarded for it
00:18:50.580 Because you're enjoying
00:18:51.040 Good and forbid and what's evil
00:18:52.080 Not only that
00:18:52.960 The money you gave to this
00:18:54.100 10 pounds
00:18:54.840 It goes back to printing more cards
00:18:56.620 So
00:18:57.220 When those cards come
00:18:59.080 And other people use it
00:19:00.680 You get a reward
00:19:01.720 So it's a win win situation
00:19:03.520 So obviously
00:19:04.240 I don't want to hold you guys more up
00:19:05.980 This is the message
00:19:07.200 Enjoying good and forbid and evil
00:19:08.880 It's a duty upon you
00:19:10.200 Please please please
00:19:11.620 If every single one of us
00:19:12.600 Do something
00:19:13.120 We will see changes within the Ummah
00:19:15.100 Wallahi we will see changes within the Ummah
00:19:16.500 Don't want to hold you guys too long
00:19:18.060 The guys are waiting outside
00:19:19.360 So inshallah
00:19:19.760 We're just going to go straight to them
00:19:20.940 And let's see how the interview goes
00:19:22.460 I'm going to interview an ex-playboy
00:19:27.780 Where he was
00:19:28.960 I'm going to ask him questions about
00:19:30.520 Why he did what he did
00:19:31.940 And the things that
00:19:33.160 You know
00:19:33.400 Made him do it
00:19:34.240 Has he changed
00:19:35.020 Has he repented
00:19:35.700 What advice he will give to
00:19:37.160 Other people out there
00:19:38.520 Guys out there
00:19:39.140 Girls out there
00:19:39.900 So I'm going to go straight into it
00:19:41.260 Inshallah
00:19:41.620 So assalamu alaikum bro
00:19:43.520 Inshallah
00:19:45.200 Hope you're well
00:19:45.820 Aki
00:19:47.180 Now
00:19:47.980 Obviously I want it to be explicit
00:19:49.340 Because
00:19:49.720 This is
00:19:50.520 This is going to have a big impact
00:19:51.800 On people that watch it
00:19:52.800 Of course
00:19:53.520 Now
00:19:53.820 Why did you do
00:19:55.420 What you did
00:19:56.500 The best way to explain about myself
00:20:00.140 Is that really
00:20:00.940 I got caught up with the wrong people
00:20:03.440 And one thing I'd say
00:20:05.640 That was a major factor
00:20:06.600 Was
00:20:06.980 The surroundings in a western country
00:20:09.820 It's a norm
00:20:11.620 Sort of thing
00:20:12.400 You know
00:20:13.240 It's normal to
00:20:14.540 Be around
00:20:15.700 Girls
00:20:16.220 Walking around
00:20:17.000 Half naked
00:20:17.680 Going to
00:20:19.520 Public events
00:20:20.360 Or social events
00:20:21.260 Where
00:20:21.600 You know
00:20:22.280 You might be
00:20:23.040 Religious yourself
00:20:24.020 But
00:20:24.460 There's always going to be
00:20:25.800 Bloody, bloody, bloody
00:20:27.060 There's going to be girls
00:20:27.900 Who are just
00:20:28.420 A certain way there
00:20:29.400 Depending on
00:20:31.080 Depending on
00:20:32.000 What kind of
00:20:32.800 Obviously functions
00:20:33.500 You attend
00:20:34.000 But
00:20:34.300 That's the best way
00:20:35.400 I'd say the surroundings
00:20:36.320 The surroundings
00:20:36.900 Okay
00:20:37.240 Tell me
00:20:38.700 What specific
00:20:39.880 Girls would you go for
00:20:41.440 And
00:20:42.280 How would you start
00:20:43.080 The conversation
00:20:43.640 Like
00:20:44.020 When you see
00:20:44.840 When you're walking around
00:20:45.660 What attracts you to them
00:20:47.020 And
00:20:47.660 What steps would you take
00:20:48.740 Like
00:20:48.920 For example
00:20:49.520 You're walking in
00:20:50.060 Like
00:20:50.300 Okay
00:20:50.840 That person
00:20:51.300 Catching my attention
00:20:51.900 Why
00:20:52.280 And what would you do
00:20:53.760 To get what you want
00:20:55.040 In terms of
00:20:56.580 Who catches your attention
00:20:57.820 I think that depends
00:20:58.840 Really on
00:20:59.620 What the individual likes
00:21:01.700 What I think nowadays
00:21:03.160 What happens is
00:21:04.360 The girls who are the most
00:21:05.700 Exposed
00:21:06.420 In terms of
00:21:07.160 Their clothing
00:21:07.740 And what not
00:21:08.440 They're the main targets
00:21:10.420 I'd say
00:21:11.140 Okay
00:21:11.500 So
00:21:11.780 Before we talk
00:21:12.660 The video started
00:21:14.300 You said that
00:21:15.820 Obviously you had
00:21:16.640 Girlfriends
00:21:18.280 And stuff like that
00:21:19.060 Can you give me
00:21:19.720 A couple of stories
00:21:20.460 Of what happened
00:21:21.380 What you would do
00:21:23.080 With them
00:21:23.500 And
00:21:24.360 You know
00:21:25.260 Regarding
00:21:25.720 You know
00:21:25.980 You're saying
00:21:26.300 Pictures
00:21:26.760 And videos
00:21:27.440 And stuff like that
00:21:28.260 You know
00:21:28.680 How would you
00:21:29.060 Manipulate them
00:21:29.620 And stuff like that
00:21:30.080 Can you give us
00:21:30.660 A bit of an
00:21:31.120 I think
00:21:31.800 I think it's a bit
00:21:32.780 Easy nowadays
00:21:33.460 I mean
00:21:33.960 Girls
00:21:35.460 I mean
00:21:36.580 What I would
00:21:37.120 Personally do is
00:21:38.260 If I know
00:21:39.120 I'm going to be
00:21:39.620 Around the individual
00:21:40.380 For a certain amount
00:21:41.200 Of time
00:21:41.480 For example
00:21:42.000 If we were attending
00:21:43.300 School together
00:21:43.960 I know
00:21:45.420 That she's going to
00:21:46.180 Be there
00:21:46.500 For the rest of the year
00:21:47.300 So I can do
00:21:47.940 My thing
00:21:48.380 Slowly
00:21:48.880 I can
00:21:50.240 Manipulate her
00:21:51.360 Slowly
00:21:51.820 I can
00:21:52.240 See a certain
00:21:52.840 Things
00:21:53.120 Get closer
00:21:53.660 A certain ways
00:21:54.340 Blah blah blah
00:21:55.400 To a point
00:21:55.920 Where they're
00:21:56.420 Comfortable
00:21:56.820 To do certain
00:21:57.520 Things
00:21:57.940 And then
00:21:59.400 From then
00:21:59.740 Obviously
00:22:00.040 They're not
00:22:00.860 Aware
00:22:01.160 They're not
00:22:01.680 Aware
00:22:01.940 Of the
00:22:02.380 Tactical
00:22:03.280 Game
00:22:03.520 That I'm
00:22:03.800 Playing
00:22:03.980 In my head
00:22:04.480 That's the
00:22:05.640 Fact of it
00:22:06.100 However
00:22:06.320 It sounds
00:22:06.880 That's the
00:22:07.260 Fact of it
00:22:07.700 Men
00:22:07.860 They play
00:22:08.340 They have
00:22:09.660 A weird
00:22:10.380 They have
00:22:11.040 A structured
00:22:11.660 Tactical
00:22:12.260 Game
00:22:12.520 On in their head
00:22:13.180 About what
00:22:13.540 They're doing
00:22:13.960 With these
00:22:14.600 Individuals
00:22:15.420 The females
00:22:17.160 Like I said
00:22:18.380 They're not
00:22:18.660 They're not
00:22:19.000 Aware
00:22:19.340 Can you
00:22:19.960 Can you
00:22:20.340 Give us
00:22:20.620 A story
00:22:20.940 Can you
00:22:21.380 Tell us
00:22:21.820 Like give us
00:22:23.080 A story
00:22:23.640 Of a certain
00:22:24.600 Individual
00:22:24.940 What happened
00:22:25.680 How you
00:22:26.600 Tricked her
00:22:27.360 What you did
00:22:28.140 With her
00:22:28.580 And everything
00:22:30.040 Like
00:22:30.380 If you can
00:22:31.220 Okay yeah
00:22:32.000 There was a
00:22:32.520 Time when
00:22:33.080 I used to
00:22:34.500 Attend a certain
00:22:35.460 Place very
00:22:36.000 Regularly
00:22:36.880 And I knew
00:22:38.200 This female
00:22:38.720 And I knew
00:22:39.640 That this individual
00:22:40.360 Was already
00:22:40.940 Seeing somebody
00:22:41.800 Else
00:22:42.080 Who
00:22:43.080 I wasn't
00:22:43.820 Really
00:22:44.080 Fond of
00:22:44.620 And the place
00:22:45.860 That I used
00:22:46.520 To go
00:22:46.880 Very often
00:22:47.740 People
00:22:48.860 Fond of me
00:22:49.380 I think
00:22:49.600 People liked
00:22:50.140 Me a bit
00:22:50.460 More than
00:22:50.760 They liked
00:22:51.080 People
00:22:51.360 Personally
00:22:51.600 So I had
00:22:52.020 A bit
00:22:52.220 More influence
00:22:52.880 And eventually
00:22:55.180 Slowly
00:22:55.740 Slowly
00:22:56.100 You're telling me
00:23:23.480 When they allow
00:23:24.320 You to kiss
00:23:24.820 Them
00:23:25.080 You're saying
00:23:25.780 Okay
00:23:26.060 If she
00:23:26.580 As soon as
00:23:27.460 They touch
00:23:27.960 Your hand
00:23:28.300 As soon as
00:23:28.720 They grab
00:23:29.100 Your hand
00:23:29.500 For example
00:23:30.120 You could be
00:23:30.460 Walking one day
00:23:31.040 And she might
00:23:31.340 Just grab
00:23:31.680 Your arm
00:23:32.100 And you might
00:23:32.920 Just be
00:23:33.160 Walking
00:23:33.360 On to
00:23:33.720 Arm
00:23:33.880 And that's
00:23:34.180 When you
00:23:34.360 Think
00:23:34.560 Alright
00:23:34.800 Cool
00:23:35.080 First step
00:23:35.500 Taken
00:23:35.900 Okay
00:23:36.340 So you're
00:23:36.980 Saying
00:23:37.160 She's
00:23:38.800 Let me
00:23:39.320 In
00:23:39.480 Through
00:23:39.600 The door
00:23:39.940 Yeah
00:23:40.180 Exactly
00:23:40.840 So that's
00:23:41.180 The first
00:23:41.540 Foot in
00:23:41.800 The door
00:23:42.040 So
00:23:42.180 What happens
00:23:43.880 Is
00:23:44.080 They see
00:23:44.940 You're not
00:23:45.560 Saying
00:23:45.720 Anything
00:23:45.940 In the
00:23:46.220 Inside
00:23:46.540 You're
00:23:46.720 Thinking
00:23:46.940 One
00:23:47.200 Thing
00:23:47.400 On the
00:23:47.600 Outside
00:23:47.860 You're
00:23:48.080 Saying
00:23:48.240 Oh man
00:23:49.060 I'm so
00:23:49.320 Glad
00:23:49.540 To be
00:23:49.780 A friend
00:23:50.140 Or
00:23:50.340 I'm so
00:23:50.640 Glad
00:23:50.900 They're
00:23:51.100 Close
00:23:51.400 And
00:23:51.540 This
00:23:51.740 And
00:23:51.880 That
00:23:52.060 And
00:23:52.480 Then
00:23:52.700 Because
00:23:53.320 Females
00:23:54.100 Are
00:23:54.320 Emotionally
00:23:55.000 A bit
00:23:55.280 Stronger
00:23:55.720 They
00:23:55.880 Feel
00:23:56.680 Things
00:23:57.080 Quickly
00:23:57.540 They
00:23:58.200 Fall
00:23:58.420 For
00:23:58.560 Chicks
00:23:58.740 Quickly
00:23:59.060 They
00:23:59.260 Don't
00:23:59.380 Understand
00:23:59.760 What's
00:23:59.960 Going
00:24:00.140 On
00:24:00.400 Like
00:24:01.060 I said
00:24:01.380 They'll
00:24:02.080 Eventually
00:24:02.400 Start
00:24:02.720 Doing
00:24:02.880 More
00:24:03.060 And
00:24:03.140 More
00:24:03.300 Things
00:24:03.540 With
00:24:03.720 And
00:24:03.900 Then
00:24:04.040 They'll
00:24:04.580 Question
00:24:04.900 Them
00:24:05.180 So
00:24:05.300 They'll
00:24:05.620 Think
00:24:05.840 Wait
00:24:06.720 I
00:24:06.840 Think
00:24:07.060 I
00:24:07.160 Like
00:24:07.360 This
00:24:07.540 Person
00:24:07.880 Now
00:24:08.140 Or
00:24:08.360 He's
00:24:09.080 So
00:24:09.240 Good
00:24:09.620 To
00:24:09.780 Me
00:24:09.920 Why
00:24:10.120 Can't
00:24:10.400 I
00:24:10.560 Be
00:24:10.660 With
00:24:10.840 Him
00:24:10.960 Why
00:24:11.200 Shouldn't
00:24:11.520 I
00:24:11.680 Be
00:24:11.780 With
00:24:11.960 Him
00:24:12.120 Blah
00:24:12.720 Blah
00:24:12.980 Blah
00:24:13.300 Eventually
00:24:14.500 You
00:24:15.340 Get
00:24:15.660 This
00:24:15.900 Female
00:24:16.600 And
00:24:16.940 You
00:24:17.100 Have
00:24:17.780 Sexual
00:24:18.140 Interpose
00:24:18.700 You
00:24:19.160 Do
00:24:19.420 Certain
00:24:19.580 Things
00:24:19.800 You
00:24:19.920 Send
00:24:20.100 You
00:24:20.240 Certain
00:24:20.400 Pictures
00:24:20.800 And
00:24:21.200 Once
00:24:21.360 She
00:24:21.480 Sends
00:24:21.700 You
00:24:21.820 Pictures
00:24:22.100 There's
00:24:22.320 No
00:24:22.460 Way
00:24:22.620 Out
00:24:22.760 For
00:24:22.900 So
00:24:24.800 Once
00:24:25.640 So
00:24:26.020 Do
00:24:26.340 You
00:24:26.440 Ask
00:24:26.680 For
00:24:26.780 These
00:24:26.920 Pictures
00:24:27.200 Do
00:24:27.520 They
00:24:27.660 Send
00:24:27.900 It
00:24:28.020 Do
00:24:28.160 You
00:24:28.220 Say
00:24:28.360 Okay
00:24:28.580 Cause
00:24:28.920 You
00:24:29.240 Know
00:24:29.320 Girls
00:24:29.540 Are
00:24:29.640 Like
00:24:29.960 Oh
00:24:30.140 I
00:24:30.240 Don't
00:24:30.680 Yeah
00:24:30.860 Sometimes
00:24:31.720 It
00:24:32.100 Depends
00:24:32.560 Sometimes
00:24:33.260 You
00:24:33.500 Might
00:24:33.660 Ask
00:24:33.940 You
00:24:34.120 Might
00:24:34.340 Say
00:24:34.620 Depends
00:24:36.140 On
00:24:36.240 The
00:24:36.340 Situation
00:24:36.740 It
00:24:36.920 Might
00:24:37.040 Be
00:24:37.180 A
00:24:37.300 Situation
00:24:37.680 Where
00:24:37.900 You
00:24:38.040 Can
00:24:38.180 Ask
00:24:38.700 Because
00:24:39.240 You
00:24:39.340 Might
00:24:39.460 Be
00:24:39.580 Talking
00:24:39.800 About
00:24:40.020 That
00:24:40.140 Kind
00:24:40.320 Of
00:24:40.420 Thing
00:24:40.620 About
00:24:40.860 Bodies
00:24:41.220 And
00:24:41.340 You
00:24:41.440 Might
00:24:41.560 Just
00:24:41.700 Say
00:24:41.840 Let
00:24:42.080 Let
00:24:42.100 See
00:24:42.380 You
00:24:42.500 And
00:24:42.700 You
00:24:43.700 And
00:24:44.700 You
00:24:44.820 Might
00:24:45.040 Get
00:24:45.260 One
00:24:45.480 As
00:24:46.100 As
00:24:46.160 As
00:24:46.700 You
00:24:47.180 You
00:24:48.180 Can
00:24:48.700 Get
00:24:48.800 Anything
00:24:49.040 You
00:24:49.260 Want
00:24:49.420 Because
00:24:49.900 You
00:24:50.720 Can
00:24:50.900 Always
00:24:51.180 Send
00:24:51.560 You
00:24:59.640 More
00:24:59.760 Like
00:25:00.000 You
00:25:01.120 Already
00:25:01.640 Sent
00:25:01.900 This
00:25:02.220 Like
00:25:02.720 Taking
00:25:03.440 Your
00:25:03.680 Bra
00:25:03.880 And
00:25:04.220 You
00:25:04.340 Going
00:25:04.560 To
00:25:04.680 Make
00:25:04.840 A
00:25:04.940 Difference
00:25:05.380 I
00:25:05.820 Am
00:25:05.880 Not
00:25:06.020 Going
00:25:06.140 To
00:25:06.240 Show
00:25:06.420 No
00:25:06.620 One
00:25:06.880 But
00:25:07.580 The
00:25:07.780 Reality
00:25:08.120 Is
00:25:08.480 The
00:25:08.940 Moment
00:25:09.280 That
00:25:09.520 Is
00:25:09.660 On
00:25:09.860 My
00:25:10.040 Phone
00:25:10.420 Let's
00:25:11.400 Say
00:25:11.540 Whatsapp
00:25:12.080 Saves
00:25:12.420 Your
00:25:12.520 Pictures
00:25:12.780 Automatically
00:25:13.380 So
00:25:14.180 You
00:25:14.320 Know
00:25:14.500 But
00:25:14.780 As
00:25:14.920 Much
00:25:15.140 As
00:25:15.280 You
00:25:15.460 Don't
00:25:15.620 Want
00:25:15.720 To
00:25:15.820 Believe
00:25:16.040 Your
00:25:16.200 So
00:25:16.280 This
00:25:16.460 Person
00:25:16.700 Got
00:25:16.860 A
00:25:16.920 Picture
00:25:17.160 On
00:25:17.260 Their
00:25:17.360 Phone
00:25:17.560 They
00:25:17.780 Have
00:25:17.960 Choke
00:25:18.300 Okay
00:25:18.800 I
00:25:18.920 Want
00:25:19.100 Two
00:25:19.300 Questions
00:25:19.700 With
00:25:20.160 The
00:25:20.280 Pictures
00:25:20.520 And
00:25:20.700 Videos
00:25:20.940 You
00:25:21.100 Have
00:25:21.340 Does
00:25:22.240 It
00:25:22.340 Come
00:25:22.440 To
00:25:22.540 A
00:25:22.640 Moment
00:25:22.840 Where
00:25:23.120 They
00:25:23.240 Like
00:25:23.420 You
00:25:23.520 Know
00:25:23.620 What
00:25:23.840 She
00:25:24.600 Doesn't
00:25:24.820 Want
00:25:24.980 Anything
00:25:25.180 To
00:25:25.340 Do
00:25:25.480 With
00:25:25.620 You
00:25:25.720 Or
00:25:25.820 Something
00:25:26.020 Like
00:25:26.180 That
00:25:26.280 You
00:25:26.380 Know
00:25:26.460 Stuff
00:25:26.700 Happened
00:25:26.960 Do
00:25:27.400 You
00:25:27.520 Use
00:25:27.740 That
00:25:27.880 Against
00:25:28.220 Her
00:25:28.440 I
00:25:49.100 All
00:25:49.540 All
00:25:49.560 Right
00:25:49.640 Cool
00:25:49.920 Let
00:25:50.600 Let
00:25:50.640 Me
00:25:50.680 Just
00:25:50.820 Put
00:25:50.960 This
00:25:51.100 Picture
00:25:51.320 On
00:25:51.460 Facebook
00:25:51.720 Or
00:25:51.940 Let
00:25:52.080 Me
00:25:52.120 Just
00:25:52.300 Send
00:25:52.460 This
00:25:52.600 Picture
00:25:52.880 Around
00:25:53.080 Okay
00:25:53.640 And
00:25:54.540 With
00:25:54.820 Those
00:25:55.040 Pictures
00:25:55.480 Would
00:25:56.360 You
00:25:56.460 Ever
00:25:56.620 Be
00:25:56.800 Around
00:25:57.040 Friends
00:25:57.320 And
00:25:57.520 You
00:25:57.800 Know
00:25:57.900 You
00:25:58.000 Know
00:25:58.060 How
00:25:58.180 Guys
00:25:58.480 Are
00:25:58.740 Of
00:25:59.320 Of
00:25:59.740 Course
00:26:02.140 One
00:26:03.180 Thing
00:26:03.360 The
00:26:03.480 Thing
00:26:03.660 Was
00:26:03.820 This
00:26:04.860 I
00:26:05.340 Mean
00:26:05.580 It
00:26:05.920 It
00:26:06.600 Is
00:26:06.700 Not
00:26:07.440 Complicated
00:26:07.920 To
00:26:08.060 Say
00:26:08.220 But
00:26:08.480 If
00:26:09.680 You
00:26:09.820 Send
00:26:10.060 A
00:26:10.180 Picture
00:26:10.400 To
00:26:10.600 A
00:26:10.680 Guy
00:26:10.940 Of
00:26:11.500 Your
00:26:11.620 No
00:26:12.500 Matter
00:26:12.960 What
00:26:13.320 I
00:26:13.480 Promise
00:26:13.940 You
00:26:14.300 I
00:26:14.860 Can
00:26:15.100 Bet
00:26:15.300 You
00:26:15.440 My
00:26:15.660 Life
00:26:15.900 I
00:26:16.000 Put
00:26:16.120 My
00:26:16.280 Life
00:26:16.480 On
00:26:16.620 The
00:26:16.700 Line
00:26:16.880 Here
00:26:17.080 They
00:26:18.300 Will
00:26:18.600 Show
00:26:18.820 Their
00:26:19.060 Friend
00:26:19.260 They
00:26:19.900 Will
00:26:20.120 100%
00:26:21.300 Show
00:26:21.520 Their
00:26:21.760 Friend
00:26:21.940 No
00:26:22.420 Matter
00:26:22.640 What
00:26:22.880 The
00:26:23.020 Circumstances
00:26:23.660 They
00:26:24.060 Will
00:26:24.260 Always
00:26:24.640 Share
00:26:24.920 The
00:26:25.100 Pictures
00:26:25.460 You
00:26:25.680 Send
00:26:25.860 Your
00:26:26.140 Messages
00:26:27.680 Everything
00:26:28.500 Everything
00:26:29.220 None
00:26:29.520 Of
00:26:30.100 It's
00:26:30.240 A
00:26:30.340 Secret
00:26:30.560 None
00:26:31.300 Of
00:26:31.420 It
00:26:31.540 It's
00:26:32.680 Quite
00:26:32.860 Interesting
00:26:33.200 Because
00:26:33.560 Once
00:26:33.940 You're
00:26:34.100 With
00:26:34.260 Them
00:26:34.440 In
00:26:34.620 That
00:26:34.720 Relationship
00:26:35.320 You
00:26:36.140 Show
00:26:36.300 These
00:26:36.420 To
00:26:36.520 Your
00:26:36.620 Friends
00:26:36.900 So
00:26:37.900 When
00:26:43.480 Even
00:26:43.700 Worse
00:26:43.960 Where
00:26:44.120 You
00:26:44.340 Hold
00:26:44.520 A
00:26:44.640 Grudge
00:26:44.860 And
00:26:44.940 You
00:26:45.020 Know
00:26:45.280 I
00:26:45.420 I
00:26:45.440 Will
00:26:45.580 Send
00:26:45.860 Your
00:26:45.960 Pictures
00:26:46.160 All
00:26:46.340 Around
00:26:46.500 The
00:26:46.600 Place
00:26:46.780 You
00:27:13.480 In
00:27:13.780 I
00:27:13.980 Seen
00:27:14.300 So
00:27:14.520 Many
00:27:14.740 Girls
00:27:15.120 Where
00:27:15.460 They
00:27:16.140 Think
00:27:16.440 They
00:27:16.920 Trust
00:27:17.140 A
00:27:17.280 Certain
00:27:17.480 Guy
00:27:17.780 They
00:27:18.240 Trust
00:27:18.520 Certain
00:27:18.720 Pictures
00:27:18.980 And
00:27:19.060 What
00:27:19.260 Not
00:27:19.420 And
00:27:19.560 They
00:27:19.660 Break
00:27:19.920 Up
00:27:20.160 And
00:27:20.400 Then
00:27:20.600 The
00:27:21.020 Whole
00:27:21.300 Place
00:27:21.660 The
00:27:21.820 Whole
00:27:22.120 School
00:27:23.020 College
00:27:23.520 Really
00:27:23.940 Finds
00:27:24.400 Out
00:27:24.600 Exactly
00:27:25.160 Everything
00:27:25.660 About
00:27:25.960 This
00:27:26.160 Girl
00:27:26.340 And
00:27:27.540 She
00:27:27.940 Used
00:27:28.240 To
00:27:28.660 Say
00:27:29.500 Certain
00:27:29.740 Things
00:27:29.960 Like
00:27:30.160 I
00:27:31.120 Can't
00:27:32.640 Believe
00:27:32.960 You
00:27:33.080 Because
00:27:33.300 You
00:27:33.500 Can't
00:27:33.700 Do
00:27:33.800 This
00:27:34.000 For
00:27:34.160 Me
00:27:34.300 I
00:27:34.560 Am
00:27:34.740 A
00:27:34.800 Man
00:27:35.060 I
00:27:35.200 Need
00:27:35.380 This
00:27:35.600 I
00:27:35.800 Need
00:27:35.980 This
00:27:36.220 I
00:27:36.460 Girl
00:27:36.860 To
00:27:37.020 Give
00:27:37.460 Me
00:27:37.560 This
00:27:37.760 This
00:27:37.860 And
00:27:38.020 That
00:27:38.220 And
00:27:38.760 She
00:27:39.260 Say
00:27:39.500 No
00:27:39.740 For
00:27:39.960 The
00:27:40.060 First
00:27:40.340 You
00:27:40.560 Know
00:27:40.720 However
00:27:41.020 Many
00:27:41.280 Times
00:27:41.580 I
00:27:41.740 Asked
00:27:42.160 And
00:27:42.600 Eventually
00:27:42.940 She
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00:35:13.040 I use this deception a lot. I would say, we're going to be together anyway. It won't make a difference.
00:35:18.040 You might as well send me this picture and now I'm going to see your body sometime soon anyway.
00:35:22.040 But yeah, I think the stairway is very, very effective.
00:35:25.040 These pictures, you're sending it to your friend. Your friend's going to send it to another friend.
00:35:29.040 It's out there forever. Like I said, it's still not being driven through your head.
00:35:33.040 That's just an example. What will happen to you is 10 million times worse.
00:35:36.040 This is outside of our comprehension. We can't even imagine the things that will happen to you.
00:35:41.040 So I'd say it's not worth it. It's not worth it 100%.
00:35:45.040 And if I was the brothers, I'd repent as much because we don't actually know how serious the sin is.
00:35:51.040 And how deep the sin actually is and how much sin we're actually getting through it.
00:35:55.040 A sister called Madea is saying, does he ever worry that someone from his past will approach him in the future
00:36:00.040 when he has finally settled down with his own family?
00:36:03.040 You know, I have thought about that one and it has really scared me at times.
00:36:07.040 And sometimes I do believe that it will come back and bite me in the backside.
00:36:11.040 But, you know, I've repented to Allah . Obviously, I believe in Allah .
00:36:17.040 That Allah will protect me from a calamity like this.
00:36:19.040 Because obviously, something like that happens, it won't be easy to handle.
00:36:21.040 And obviously, I've repented for a reason. So, inshallah, obviously, make du'a for me.
00:36:25.040 Inshallah, Allah will protect me from something like that.
00:36:27.040 Obviously, Aki, thanks for coming. I really appreciate it.
00:36:31.040 May Allah .
00:36:33.040 Inshallah.
00:36:34.040 I hope you all learned a lesson from this.
00:36:36.040 Obviously, thanks for watching, guys.
00:36:38.040 Share it. Subscribe, inshallah.
00:36:39.040 But before I go anywhere, I want to say this.
00:36:42.040 Look, obviously, what you hear is not nice.
00:36:44.040 You know, it's not nice that I heard it.
00:36:46.040 But in no way does this give you a right to talk bad about the Aki
00:36:50.040 or leave really silly comments, you know.
00:36:52.040 If Allah has forgiven him, who are you to come and judge him?
00:36:56.040 It's done dusted. It's a mistake.
00:36:58.040 He's here for a reason that you can learn from it, inshallah.
00:37:00.040 So, obviously, share this video.
00:37:02.040 If you know people that are in this kind of stuff,
00:37:04.040 share it, inshallah, people can benefit.
00:37:06.040 Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh.
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