Ali Dawah - August 18, 2014


THE REALITY 7 || Special || I HAVE NO SHAME!!!


Episode Stats

Length

37 minutes

Words per Minute

192.18333

Word Count

7,271

Sentence Count

45

Misogynist Sentences

44

Hate Speech Sentences

71


Summary

In this episode, we talk about what would you do if you saw a brother and a sister in public doing haram in public as a Muslim? How would you react to it and how would you feel in the situation?


Transcript

00:00:00.000 Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh brothers and sisters
00:00:22.000 Welcome to reality 7
00:00:23.600 On this show we're going to talk about people
00:00:25.420 People sending out in public
00:00:26.800 Having no shame
00:00:28.060 Obviously we're going to talk about
00:00:29.960 Enjoying the good and forbidding evil cars
00:00:31.880 How people can use it
00:00:33.000 We're going to talk about Quran and Sunnah etc
00:00:35.480 And also we're going to be definitely interviewing
00:00:38.220 As we told you an ex-playboy
00:00:40.260 Who used to be in the scene
00:00:41.500 And obviously inshallah we'll be right back
00:00:44.240 After the interviews
00:00:45.340 Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh brothers and sisters
00:00:49.200 I'm here with brother Majid
00:00:50.500 I'm just going to ask him a couple of questions
00:00:52.760 So Aki
00:00:53.580 If you are walking down Shepherd's Bush
00:00:55.440 And you see a brother and sister
00:00:58.160 Doing some haram stuff
00:00:59.640 What would you do and how would you react to it?
00:01:05.560 To be honest with you
00:01:07.140 I probably wouldn't say anything
00:01:11.560 Because the thing is you don't know what the situation is
00:01:13.880 So obviously you're asking if they're not married
00:01:16.560 Let's say they're kissing
00:01:18.480 Let's say
00:01:18.980 Let's say
00:01:19.400 Let's say they're kissing
00:01:20.660 And you know
00:01:21.280 It's like a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship
00:01:23.980 Yeah?
00:01:24.380 Okay
00:01:24.680 What would you do?
00:01:25.860 How would you feel inside?
00:01:30.840 To be honest with me
00:01:31.940 I'll do one is I'll probably
00:01:33.000 Obviously
00:01:33.820 I don't even kiss my wife in public
00:01:35.700 So I'll probably be against it
00:01:37.800 Exactly
00:01:38.240 But obviously
00:01:39.580 To be honest with you
00:01:40.640 I probably wouldn't even say anything
00:01:41.660 You wouldn't say anything?
00:01:42.220 I wouldn't
00:01:42.660 And the only reason I wouldn't
00:01:43.480 Is because
00:01:43.840 Because if I went up to a cross
00:01:46.180 Not to make them uncomfortable
00:01:47.100 Because it feels like I'm just
00:01:48.180 Obviously
00:01:48.740 I'm God
00:01:50.340 I'm judging them
00:01:51.000 Okay
00:01:51.280 And obviously I've seen them before
00:01:52.520 So I shouldn't
00:01:53.320 Obviously I'm not perfect myself
00:01:54.640 We all make mistakes
00:01:55.960 Of course
00:01:56.460 Obviously
00:01:56.840 If I was a more confident individual
00:01:59.020 I would say to them
00:01:59.980 You shouldn't be doing this
00:02:00.800 You know
00:02:01.500 You should get married
00:02:03.040 Go and get married
00:02:03.740 Yeah
00:02:04.000 Because I've got
00:02:04.680 So Aki
00:02:05.700 Let's say you're in Stratford
00:02:06.820 And you're walking down the street
00:02:08.680 And you see a sister in a hijab
00:02:10.320 Or a brother in a beard
00:02:11.740 Doing certain things
00:02:13.220 That are haram
00:02:13.560 In public
00:02:14.100 As a Muslim
00:02:16.100 How would you feel in your heart
00:02:17.360 And what would you do?
00:02:20.180 Personally I would feel like
00:02:21.320 You know
00:02:21.660 There's something
00:02:22.400 To do in private
00:02:24.000 Okay
00:02:24.400 You know
00:02:24.800 But I wouldn't
00:02:25.840 I wouldn't approach them personally
00:02:27.320 Because of the awkward situation
00:02:29.420 That it would cause for both parties
00:02:30.680 Some people get quite aggressive
00:02:32.040 And get upset about it
00:02:32.980 Okay
00:02:33.160 I don't want to
00:02:33.780 So you don't judge them
00:02:34.220 Yeah
00:02:34.380 I don't want to come across
00:02:35.360 As judging someone
00:02:36.680 Okay
00:02:37.080 It would be better
00:02:37.460 If the brother was alone
00:02:39.220 And then I could maybe
00:02:39.980 Just kind of maybe
00:02:41.000 Give my opinion
00:02:41.680 Okay
00:02:42.020 But that's only
00:02:42.680 Again
00:02:43.080 That would be a rare occasion
00:02:44.340 Again
00:02:44.660 You know
00:02:44.880 Because it's
00:02:45.380 Okay
00:02:45.820 You don't want to be judging people
00:02:46.700 Okay
00:02:46.920 See obviously
00:02:47.980 When it comes to the
00:02:48.680 Awkward bit
00:02:49.680 We found a solution
00:02:50.520 Today
00:02:50.720 We said you know what
00:02:51.420 Some people
00:02:53.360 Want to stop it
00:02:54.440 But they think
00:02:54.940 I'm going to go there
00:02:55.700 Don't drive me
00:02:56.680 Rah rah rah
00:02:57.240 Now these cards
00:02:58.480 Now these cards
00:02:58.500 Are specifically done
00:02:59.680 And these cards
00:03:00.600 The campaign is called
00:03:01.260 Enjoying Good and Forbidden Evil
00:03:02.280 Now on this card
00:03:03.400 This is for the sisters
00:03:04.100 It says
00:03:04.480 You are worth more than being a girlfriend
00:03:06.400 Yeah
00:03:07.020 Why compromise
00:03:07.740 This one is for the brothers
00:03:09.380 It says
00:03:09.800 What if your sister had a boyfriend
00:03:11.580 How would you feel
00:03:12.800 Yeah
00:03:13.160 So with this
00:03:14.620 You could go up to someone
00:03:15.920 And be like
00:03:16.300 You know what
00:03:16.700 You don't want confrontation
00:03:17.720 Salam alaikum sister
00:03:18.780 Have you got two minutes to read this
00:03:20.520 Or brother
00:03:21.040 Give them one each
00:03:22.100 And go about your business
00:03:22.940 What do you think of that idea
00:03:24.580 That's a brilliant idea
00:03:25.420 Really really good idea
00:03:26.780 Yeah
00:03:26.940 And not only that
00:03:28.780 At the back there's a verse
00:03:31.080 For the brothers there's a hadith
00:03:32.060 Yeah
00:03:32.540 And at the back for the sisters
00:03:33.780 There's a verse of the Quran
00:03:34.660 Not only that
00:03:35.840 When you give the card
00:03:37.160 Don't forget
00:03:38.000 There's a hadith that says
00:03:39.580 Try to stop it with your hand
00:03:40.860 And obviously we're doing that
00:03:42.240 Do you hear what I'm trying to say
00:03:42.840 Yeah
00:03:43.020 And we've got the links to our video
00:03:44.860 Like the reality show
00:03:45.820 Yeah
00:03:46.180 And we've got another brother
00:03:46.980 Called Dawaman
00:03:47.640 He does Nasir sessions
00:03:48.840 Oh Dawaman
00:03:49.500 Yeah
00:03:49.720 And also
00:03:50.780 Brother Musa Adnan
00:03:51.800 He
00:03:52.000 The one who's on the camera
00:03:53.200 He's going to start
00:03:54.000 MYM advice as well
00:03:55.020 So we have the links to that
00:03:56.300 Where people can look at the card
00:03:57.440 Ponder upon it
00:03:58.860 And watch the videos
00:04:00.140 These videos break down
00:04:01.200 The whole concept of this boyfriend
00:04:02.460 Etc
00:04:03.000 So do you think it's a good idea
00:04:04.440 Would you use it
00:04:05.040 Brilliant idea
00:04:05.680 Yeah definitely
00:04:06.160 Okay so I'm going to give you these
00:04:07.460 This is for the sisters
00:04:08.700 This is for the brothers
00:04:09.200 Yeah
00:04:09.420 So Aki
00:04:09.960 You're involved in the Dawah scene
00:04:11.200 Yeah
00:04:11.520 So obviously I want to ask you a question
00:04:13.780 Yeah
00:04:14.020 You just saw what happened a minute ago
00:04:16.480 Yeah
00:04:16.740 There was a guy putting his hand over his sister
00:04:18.700 Obviously we had to go and approach
00:04:20.080 And enjoy good and familiar
00:04:20.900 In that situation
00:04:22.420 What would you do
00:04:23.320 In that situation
00:04:25.300 What I would believe
00:04:26.560 What most Muslims should do
00:04:27.940 Is just go up to them
00:04:28.940 Approach them
00:04:29.760 Obviously in a manner that is good
00:04:31.400 Of course
00:04:31.720 Not in an aggressive
00:04:33.000 Of course
00:04:33.500 Definitely
00:04:33.820 Harsh manner
00:04:34.760 But to go up to them
00:04:35.420 And just give them
00:04:36.000 Naseehah
00:04:36.500 Because at the end of the day
00:04:37.220 Our job is to remind them
00:04:38.780 That's what Allah says in the Quran
00:04:39.880 To remind them
00:04:40.600 And at the end of the day
00:04:41.540 It is them to decide
00:04:43.100 Because at the end of the day
00:04:43.740 You give them a choice
00:04:44.700 To do evil
00:04:45.620 Or to do good
00:04:46.300 Exactly
00:04:46.520 And the obligation upon the Muslim
00:04:48.500 Is to command the good
00:04:49.440 And to forbid the evil
00:04:50.380 Exactly
00:04:50.680 And if we all Muslims
00:04:51.980 Take upon this role
00:04:53.440 To command the good
00:04:54.720 And to forbid the evil
00:04:55.460 Inshallah
00:04:56.300 By Allah
00:04:57.040 By permission of Allah
00:04:57.920 We will see change
00:04:59.500 In the Muslim community
00:05:00.320 So obviously Aki
00:05:01.460 We've got these cards
00:05:02.680 And I've been trying to get
00:05:03.580 To get these cards to you
00:05:04.600 For a long time
00:05:05.160 But I'm going to listen to you
00:05:06.260 Alhamdulillah
00:05:06.700 So this is for you Aki
00:05:07.760 Yeah
00:05:08.280 Obviously
00:05:08.900 What do you think about the idea
00:05:10.780 Does it
00:05:11.480 Would it work
00:05:12.140 Is there anything you want to give
00:05:13.480 To the viewers
00:05:14.240 The thing is
00:05:16.140 It is a good initiative
00:05:17.240 I believe
00:05:17.900 I believe that
00:05:18.520 If we go up to people
00:05:19.520 If it's on a trade
00:05:20.620 Or at workplace
00:05:21.440 Wherever you have
00:05:22.080 Wherever it is
00:05:22.860 If you've got these cards
00:05:23.920 Few of them
00:05:24.380 You can put them in your bus pass
00:05:25.420 Or whatever the case is
00:05:26.320 You put them
00:05:27.100 And if you see someone
00:05:28.080 Doing something wrong
00:05:29.180 All you need to do
00:05:29.920 Is just give them the card
00:05:30.720 If you can't speak
00:05:31.720 Exactly
00:05:32.280 End of the day
00:05:32.720 The card
00:05:33.040 You know what the card is
00:05:33.980 The card is just
00:05:34.820 Where to start a conversation
00:05:36.760 Maybe
00:05:37.080 To help you
00:05:38.100 Because many of us
00:05:38.780 Let's be honest
00:05:39.340 There are a lot of Muslims
00:05:40.360 That are shy to speak
00:05:41.120 Yes
00:05:41.420 There are a lot of Muslims
00:05:42.120 That are shy to speak
00:05:42.740 MashaAllah brother
00:05:44.100 You can go up to people
00:05:45.280 And just talk straight away
00:05:46.280 And tell them
00:05:46.700 Look this is wrong
00:05:47.560 What you're doing
00:05:47.940 But many brothers out there
00:05:49.140 Many sisters out there
00:05:49.840 Can't speak
00:05:50.220 Well the least you can do
00:05:51.360 Is remind them
00:05:52.060 Exactly
00:05:52.500 So sister
00:05:53.180 If you're walking down Stratford
00:05:54.900 And you see a brother
00:05:56.200 And sister
00:05:56.740 Are doing something wrong
00:05:57.680 It's haram
00:05:59.260 As a Muslim woman
00:06:01.360 What would you do?
00:06:02.760 I probably wouldn't
00:06:03.680 Approach them
00:06:04.400 Just for the fact that
00:06:05.540 I wouldn't want them
00:06:06.780 To think that
00:06:07.500 They thought that
00:06:09.640 I was higher than them
00:06:10.560 To judge them
00:06:11.480 And also I think
00:06:12.780 It would be embarrassing
00:06:13.340 For them
00:06:13.760 And embarrassing for me
00:06:15.000 Okay
00:06:15.880 Alright
00:06:16.180 Do you know what
00:06:16.940 The Quran and Sunnah
00:06:17.620 Tells you to do
00:06:18.220 Like how you should act
00:06:19.100 In a certain situation
00:06:19.820 Like this
00:06:20.240 I think
00:06:21.960 I'm not 100% sure
00:06:23.240 That you're supposed
00:06:23.900 To approach them
00:06:24.900 Okay
00:06:25.060 Should I kind of
00:06:26.160 Go through with you
00:06:26.840 Okay
00:06:27.240 Allah says in the Quran
00:06:28.700 Sorry
00:06:29.300 Allah says in the Quran
00:06:30.220 Enjoying the good
00:06:31.080 And forbid the evil
00:06:31.880 And there is a hadith
00:06:32.980 Which says
00:06:33.320 If you see evil
00:06:34.220 Try to stop it
00:06:35.200 With your hand
00:06:35.680 If not with your hand
00:06:36.580 Try to stop it
00:06:37.060 With your tongue
00:06:37.580 And even if not
00:06:38.560 With your tongue
00:06:38.960 Heat it in your heart
00:06:39.780 And that is the lowest
00:06:40.700 Of iman
00:06:41.180 So obviously now
00:06:42.360 Like you said
00:06:43.280 It's a bit awkward
00:06:43.860 When you go there
00:06:44.560 And they're going to
00:06:44.980 Think oh you're judging
00:06:45.620 Them and stuff like that
00:06:46.520 We've got these cards
00:06:48.640 Yeah
00:06:49.000 This card is called
00:06:50.040 Enjoy the good
00:06:51.300 And forbid the evil
00:06:51.860 Campaign card
00:06:52.600 With this card
00:06:53.660 Just like I approached you
00:06:55.180 All you have to do
00:06:56.320 Is if you see something
00:06:56.900 Going on
00:06:57.320 You just say
00:06:57.820 Salaam alaikum sister
00:06:58.680 Have you got two minutes
00:06:59.540 To read this
00:07:00.100 Right
00:07:00.840 And you just give them
00:07:01.600 The card
00:07:01.960 That's your job done
00:07:03.160 And what do you think
00:07:03.720 About the initiative
00:07:04.180 Of the card though
00:07:04.800 I think that's a really
00:07:05.460 Good idea
00:07:05.920 Like you don't have to
00:07:07.200 Go and be all judgmental
00:07:08.900 You can just give them there
00:07:09.680 Exactly
00:07:10.060 Sister Layla
00:07:10.720 You're walking down
00:07:11.680 Stratford
00:07:12.460 Or Oxford Street
00:07:13.300 Wherever
00:07:13.560 And you see your brother
00:07:14.660 And your sister
00:07:15.120 Indulging in haram
00:07:16.560 Haram activities
00:07:17.520 Yeah
00:07:17.800 I don't need to go into detail
00:07:18.980 What would you as a Muslim
00:07:20.360 Do
00:07:20.760 I would probably think
00:07:23.100 That it's quite inappropriate
00:07:24.080 However
00:07:24.620 I would never approach them
00:07:25.800 You would never approach them
00:07:26.600 Okay
00:07:26.800 Do you know what the Quran
00:07:27.720 And Sunnah tells you to do
00:07:28.540 I'm not sure
00:07:30.060 But I can guess
00:07:30.820 I imagine
00:07:31.340 It wouldn't say
00:07:32.180 To approach them
00:07:33.140 So
00:07:33.600 Okay
00:07:34.000 Alright
00:07:34.320 Allah SWT says in the Quran
00:07:35.680 You should enjoy the good
00:07:36.560 And forbid the evil
00:07:37.180 There is a hadith that says
00:07:38.880 If you see evil
00:07:39.980 Try to stop it with your hands
00:07:41.460 If not with your hands
00:07:42.660 Try to stop it with your tongue
00:07:43.880 And even if you can't stop it
00:07:45.360 With your tongue
00:07:45.780 Eat it in your heart
00:07:46.620 And that is the lowest of iman
00:07:47.960 So what it is
00:07:48.940 Is
00:07:49.380 The hadith is saying basically
00:07:50.820 If I see evil
00:07:52.180 I should try to stop it
00:07:53.460 With my hands
00:07:53.920 Now we came with this initiative
00:07:55.240 Of these cards
00:07:55.940 Yeah
00:07:56.340 So if I saw something going on
00:07:58.640 I would approach them
00:07:59.420 And say
00:07:59.600 Salaamu Alaikum sister
00:08:00.460 If you don't want to make it awkward
00:08:01.780 Have you got two minutes
00:08:02.800 To read this
00:08:03.380 And I'll give the card
00:08:04.220 I think this is probably
00:08:04.920 Better than not doing anything at all
00:08:06.840 Of course
00:08:07.640 So yeah
00:08:08.480 I'll definitely give it a go
00:08:09.440 Exactly
00:08:09.940 Okay
00:08:10.360 Do you have any brothers?
00:08:11.380 I do
00:08:11.620 I've got one
00:08:11.900 Okay
00:08:12.120 Can I give you some
00:08:13.060 Because we've got some
00:08:13.620 For the brothers as well
00:08:14.360 On this one it says
00:08:15.640 What if your sister had a boyfriend?
00:08:17.400 Oh wow
00:08:17.800 Yes
00:08:18.220 I'm going to put you in a scenario
00:08:20.420 And I want you to honestly tell me
00:08:22.360 What you would do in that situation
00:08:23.400 Sorry Aki
00:08:23.760 If you were walking down the street
00:08:26.060 And you saw a brother and sister
00:08:27.460 Obviously doing something
00:08:28.600 Haram
00:08:29.080 Out in the public
00:08:29.840 How would you feel
00:08:31.880 And do you know as a Muslim
00:08:33.280 What's your obligation
00:08:33.920 What you should do?
00:08:35.520 Well I feel disgusted
00:08:36.540 Yeah
00:08:36.900 But
00:08:37.840 It depends
00:08:39.620 Like as a Muslim
00:08:40.860 Yeah
00:08:41.740 You can approach them
00:08:43.020 In the nicest way
00:08:43.680 And ask them
00:08:44.180 Like whatever you're doing
00:08:45.360 You know
00:08:45.840 You should do it
00:08:46.460 Privately
00:08:47.140 Okay
00:08:47.860 You know what I mean
00:08:48.380 Okay
00:08:48.760 Yeah
00:08:49.360 What about you Aki?
00:08:50.540 To be honest
00:08:50.920 I think it's just a norm now
00:08:52.140 Nowadays it's just
00:08:53.360 That it's just norm
00:08:54.460 It's like second nature to everyone
00:08:55.940 So
00:08:56.740 It's
00:08:58.240 The situation's got so bad
00:08:59.860 You don't know where to start to fix it
00:09:01.380 If you should approach someone or not
00:09:02.640 Because
00:09:03.200 Nowadays it's just normal
00:09:04.880 I just think it's just norm
00:09:06.140 Okay
00:09:06.780 So I don't know
00:09:07.360 Okay
00:09:07.780 Well
00:09:08.300 The Quran and Sunnah
00:09:09.600 I'll just basically tell you
00:09:10.820 Maybe you guys know better
00:09:11.720 Is
00:09:12.400 Allah says in the Quran
00:09:13.760 You should enjoy good and for medieval
00:09:14.940 Yeah
00:09:15.380 Allah says that
00:09:16.600 It doesn't say
00:09:17.140 The person that's sinless
00:09:19.500 Should enjoy good and for medieval
00:09:20.660 It says look
00:09:21.500 You might make a sin
00:09:22.380 Yeah
00:09:22.520 Because some people think
00:09:23.180 Oh I'm a sinner
00:09:23.700 Why should I go and tell them
00:09:24.680 No it doesn't work like that
00:09:25.920 Do you get what I'm trying to say
00:09:26.480 Just because you're a sinner
00:09:27.320 It doesn't mean
00:09:27.720 You can't go and tell somebody else
00:09:29.340 Do you get what I'm trying to say
00:09:30.060 So obviously
00:09:31.900 So we came up with this concept
00:09:33.100 Yeah
00:09:33.340 So we have these cards
00:09:34.820 Yeah
00:09:35.560 And
00:09:36.520 With these cards
00:09:38.200 This awkward moment thing comes out
00:09:40.460 Because what happens is
00:09:41.320 The hadith says
00:09:42.520 You should
00:09:42.780 If you see evil
00:09:43.640 Try to stop it with your hand
00:09:44.580 So you stop it with your hand
00:09:46.080 By giving a card
00:09:47.020 If I see something's going on
00:09:48.740 I don't want to get into a conflict
00:09:49.700 Yeah
00:09:49.960 All I can go and say
00:09:50.820 Salaamu Alaikum
00:09:51.360 Have you got two minutes to read this
00:09:53.040 Give it to him
00:09:53.780 Go about your business
00:09:54.480 Done, dusted
00:09:55.100 Do you get what I'm trying to say
00:09:55.720 Of course
00:09:55.960 What do you think about the concept
00:09:57.460 That is actually one of the best ways
00:09:59.720 You can actually come across
00:10:01.060 If you come across any scenario
00:10:02.740 And those cards are like
00:10:04.720 The smartest thing to do
00:10:06.140 Exactly
00:10:06.480 What do you think, Aki?
00:10:07.220 Yeah, it's a very, very, very good idea
00:10:09.340 It's just
00:10:10.020 Where's all the agro that might come with it
00:10:12.940 And people feeling awkward and stuff
00:10:15.120 You know what I mean
00:10:15.620 So it's a very good idea
00:10:17.160 Assalaamu Alaikum
00:10:19.740 Wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh
00:10:21.060 Brothers and sisters
00:10:21.760 Welcome back
00:10:23.380 You've seen the interviews
00:10:24.360 Now obviously we're going to interview
00:10:25.920 The ex-playboy really soon
00:10:27.720 But obviously I just quickly
00:10:28.540 Want to go through this whole thing
00:10:29.880 And tell you the appropriate ways
00:10:31.540 Of approaching people
00:10:32.460 When you see someone sitting in public
00:10:34.220 For our start
00:10:35.240 Obviously I want to praise
00:10:36.140 The Prophet Muhammad
00:10:37.140 Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam
00:10:38.240 And I want to also praise
00:10:40.760 Allah Subhanahu wa ta'ala
00:10:41.600 All glory and gratitude
00:10:44.080 Belongs to him
00:10:45.040 And with this permission
00:10:46.060 We carry out our works
00:10:46.960 And inshaAllah make dua for us
00:10:48.020 So we can carry on further
00:10:49.040 Now I want to go straight into it
00:10:50.860 Now brothers and sisters
00:10:51.680 As you know
00:10:53.060 We interviewed a couple of people
00:10:54.160 Now
00:10:55.000 As we was doing this
00:10:56.900 We got a lot of
00:10:58.040 Different comments
00:10:58.680 Some people were like
00:10:59.540 If I saw someone sinning
00:11:01.140 I wouldn't want to go
00:11:02.040 Say something
00:11:02.980 Because I'm a sinner myself
00:11:04.080 We had some people saying
00:11:05.720 You know what
00:11:06.260 It's their business
00:11:07.600 It's got nothing to do with me
00:11:08.740 Some people said
00:11:09.960 Like for example
00:11:11.540 If I go there
00:11:12.860 There might be some kind of a conflict
00:11:14.300 So I'm going to touch up
00:11:15.380 On these step by step
00:11:16.300 So firstly I want to start off with
00:11:17.720 Basically not
00:11:19.380 When you see evil
00:11:20.460 If you see some kind of sin going on
00:11:22.040 You don't go there
00:11:23.120 Because you say
00:11:23.760 I'm a sinner
00:11:24.300 I don't have a right to judge anyone
00:11:25.720 Now firstly
00:11:26.660 This is wrong
00:11:27.500 Why is it wrong?
00:11:28.580 Because Allah Subhanahu wa ta'ala
00:11:29.280 Says in the Quran
00:11:30.120 To enjoin good and forbid evil
00:11:32.040 Allah Subhanahu wa ta'ala
00:11:33.220 Did not say
00:11:34.120 Enjoy good
00:11:35.540 And forbid evil
00:11:37.920 For the ones
00:11:38.860 For the ones that do not sin
00:11:40.480 He did not say that
00:11:41.760 He said
00:11:42.220 You have to enjoin good
00:11:43.180 And forbid evil
00:11:43.900 Because if we go with the concept of saying
00:11:45.880 Okay I'm a sinner myself
00:11:47.140 How can I go and give advice
00:11:48.540 To another sinner
00:11:49.360 Well if that's the case
00:11:50.500 We are all sinners
00:11:51.360 So that means we can't go and advise anybody
00:11:53.740 And Allah Subhanahu wa ta'ala
00:11:55.080 Says that
00:11:55.460 We are the greatest ummah nation
00:11:57.060 Because we enjoy good
00:11:58.620 And forbid what's evil
00:11:59.820 So that's why the mentality of saying
00:12:02.580 I'm a sinner
00:12:03.260 I can't go and advise someone
00:12:04.260 It's silly
00:12:05.140 It's from the shaitan
00:12:05.940 He's just whispering
00:12:06.660 So you don't help out another Muslim
00:12:08.580 Now
00:12:09.860 Coming to basically
00:12:11.480 The concept of people sinning
00:12:14.320 Up in the open
00:12:15.460 With no shame
00:12:16.180 Now brothers and sisters
00:12:17.140 What you need to understand is this
00:12:18.320 As an ummah
00:12:19.540 We really have to
00:12:21.200 Do something when we see this
00:12:22.800 Because when we don't do this
00:12:24.340 The whole ummah gets affected
00:12:25.780 I want to go into it with a hadith
00:12:27.200 Where
00:12:27.540 Numan ibn Bashir
00:12:29.060 May I be pleased with him
00:12:30.220 Narrated by the prophet Muhammad
00:12:31.580 Peace be upon him
00:12:32.400 He says that
00:12:33.100 The likeliness of the man
00:12:34.280 Who observes the limits prescribed by Allah
00:12:36.160 And that of man who transgresses them
00:12:38.160 Is like a group of people
00:12:39.300 Who get on board a ship
00:12:41.260 Now on this ship
00:12:42.740 There's a group of people
00:12:44.280 Who are on the upper deck
00:12:45.520 And there's a group of people
00:12:46.720 Who are on the lower deck
00:12:47.580 Now
00:12:48.320 If the ones on the lower deck
00:12:49.480 Become thirsty
00:12:50.320 And they say to the ones
00:12:51.740 On the upper deck
00:12:52.420 We're just letting you know
00:12:53.820 That we're going to
00:12:54.920 Drill
00:12:55.600 A hole
00:12:56.340 On the bottom deck
00:12:57.840 Right
00:12:58.520 Now
00:12:59.200 If the ones at the top
00:13:00.300 Allow the ones
00:13:01.240 At the lower deck
00:13:02.560 To do this
00:13:03.500 On the boat
00:13:04.180 While they're sailing
00:13:05.420 They're going to drown
00:13:07.260 Because if they open a hole
00:13:08.520 To get some water
00:13:10.860 Everybody's going to drown
00:13:12.440 Now this goes exactly
00:13:13.980 With brothers and sisters
00:13:15.920 Let's say a sister in a hijab
00:13:17.220 A brother in a beard
00:13:18.600 And a thaw
00:13:19.220 Committing a sin
00:13:20.320 It affects everybody
00:13:21.940 Not just that person
00:13:23.400 This is a
00:13:24.580 The greatest example
00:13:25.520 That I can give
00:13:26.160 Is basically
00:13:27.060 For example
00:13:27.520 What happened in London
00:13:28.240 When a certain
00:13:29.140 YouTuber brother
00:13:29.960 Came
00:13:30.560 And sisters went crazy
00:13:32.080 And start acting
00:13:33.100 With no haya
00:13:33.980 No shame at all
00:13:35.060 You know
00:13:35.580 Obviously
00:13:36.120 We need to make excuses
00:13:37.400 For our sisters
00:13:38.220 And brothers
00:13:38.720 But
00:13:39.320 They just
00:13:40.000 They really lost it
00:13:41.120 And they were running
00:13:41.660 After him etc
00:13:42.380 This affects everybody
00:13:44.080 Because
00:13:44.480 When we was in Birmingham
00:13:45.860 A brother said to us
00:13:46.880 I didn't know girls
00:13:47.560 In hijab were like this
00:13:48.520 So what is that
00:13:49.520 What kind of thing
00:13:50.400 Is that portrayed in his head
00:13:51.340 So that sin done
00:13:52.540 In public
00:13:53.560 This is what it caused
00:13:55.120 And this is why
00:13:56.100 We need to address it
00:13:57.300 Nobody can say
00:13:58.500 Don't judge me
00:13:59.580 Now saying
00:14:00.820 Only God can judge me
00:14:02.660 Is like saying
00:14:03.520 Let me sin in peace
00:14:05.000 Please
00:14:05.960 Let me sin in peace
00:14:07.020 Don't get involved with me
00:14:08.500 This is what it kind of means
00:14:09.940 Because I would really feel
00:14:11.720 Can you imagine
00:14:12.260 Only God can judge me
00:14:13.840 Like it's
00:14:14.700 Nobody
00:14:15.280 Like you know
00:14:15.800 He can judge me
00:14:16.680 The one who created
00:14:17.720 The heavens and the earth
00:14:18.500 The one who's going to
00:14:20.440 Count you for judgment
00:14:21.480 You're saying
00:14:22.200 Only he can judge me
00:14:23.180 By Allah
00:14:24.160 I would never want that judgment
00:14:25.680 May Allah protect us from that
00:14:26.900 You know
00:14:27.420 Now brothers and sisters
00:14:29.160 Another thing that you need to acknowledge
00:14:30.400 Is that
00:14:31.320 Now
00:14:31.960 When we was out and about
00:14:33.220 We came across two things
00:14:34.840 Once we was
00:14:36.400 Giving out the cards
00:14:37.660 We were just talking to people
00:14:38.460 I noticed a brother and sister
00:14:39.760 Walking out the station
00:14:40.800 And another brother
00:14:41.960 A brother had his arm
00:14:43.980 Around the sister
00:14:45.140 Now I saw this evil
00:14:46.940 And the Prophet Muhammad
00:14:47.880 Peace be upon him
00:14:48.400 He said
00:14:48.560 If you see evil
00:14:49.160 Try to stop it with your hand
00:14:50.280 If not with your hand
00:14:51.120 With your tongue
00:14:51.640 If not
00:14:52.360 Hate it in your heart
00:14:52.980 And that's the lowest of Iman
00:14:53.920 So I said
00:14:54.980 You know what
00:14:55.400 I was equipped
00:14:56.480 So I said
00:14:56.940 I want to stop it with my hand
00:14:57.940 So obviously
00:14:58.900 I went up to them
00:14:59.480 And said
00:14:59.720 Asalaamu Alaikum
00:15:00.200 Brother and sister
00:15:00.880 Hope you're doing well
00:15:02.160 Can I
00:15:02.740 We're just raising awareness
00:15:03.820 Regarding her own relationships
00:15:05.000 Do you mind
00:15:05.720 If I just give you a card
00:15:06.600 I gave the card
00:15:07.640 To the sister
00:15:08.100 I did the same
00:15:09.280 With the brother
00:15:09.640 But I used a bit of a tactic
00:15:10.880 How
00:15:11.140 I said
00:15:11.640 Sister can I give this
00:15:12.380 To your husband
00:15:12.940 And she said
00:15:13.720 That is not my husband
00:15:14.700 It's my friend
00:15:15.420 That's what I really wanted to know
00:15:17.260 But I did it in a polite way
00:15:18.260 And I just kind of found out
00:15:19.300 And I said
00:15:19.840 Well sister
00:15:20.260 Do you mind me asking
00:15:20.940 Why he had his hand around you
00:15:22.460 You know
00:15:23.280 Obviously she went a bit quiet
00:15:24.580 She understood
00:15:25.160 The brother understood
00:15:25.840 I said
00:15:26.160 Look
00:15:26.400 I'm not here to say
00:15:27.440 Look
00:15:27.680 I'm an angel
00:15:28.560 I'm not an angel
00:15:29.580 I sin maybe more than you two
00:15:30.980 But it's a duty upon me
00:15:32.820 Because the Quran and Sunnah
00:15:34.180 Tells me
00:15:34.660 That if I see evil
00:15:36.100 I have to come and address you
00:15:37.120 My brothers and sisters
00:15:37.680 Because I love you
00:15:38.220 For the sake of Allah
00:15:38.940 So you need to acknowledge that
00:15:40.320 And subhanAllah
00:15:40.940 They didn't have like
00:15:42.460 Some kind of hatred towards me
00:15:43.800 They said
00:15:45.900 Thank you very much brother
00:15:46.660 For raising awareness
00:15:47.460 They got the cards
00:15:48.620 And they went about their business
00:15:49.940 This is how you need to approach
00:15:51.500 A person with hikmah
00:15:52.820 In the Quran
00:15:53.400 Allah subhanAllah says
00:15:54.380 Let there rise among you
00:15:56.100 A group of people
00:15:57.320 Who will enjoy good
00:15:58.620 And forbid evil
00:15:59.540 And at the end paragraph
00:16:02.520 It says
00:16:02.860 And it is they
00:16:04.100 Who are the successful
00:16:05.400 Now my brothers and sisters
00:16:06.760 I get criticism
00:16:08.280 Right
00:16:08.900 I get criticism
00:16:09.680 For different kind of stuff
00:16:10.700 No matter what happens
00:16:11.800 My brothers and sisters
00:16:12.640 By Allah
00:16:13.740 By Allah
00:16:14.840 Wallahi
00:16:15.340 My brothers and sisters
00:16:16.440 As long as I am breathing
00:16:18.040 As long as
00:16:19.380 I'm speaking for myself
00:16:20.260 As long as I am breathing
00:16:21.700 My brothers and sisters
00:16:22.460 I will enjoy good
00:16:23.600 And forbid evil
00:16:24.100 I do not care
00:16:24.840 If the whole world
00:16:25.700 Is against me
00:16:26.340 I do not care
00:16:27.420 I really don't care
00:16:28.580 Because brothers and sisters
00:16:29.560 We can't say
00:16:30.600 Okay these people are
00:16:31.300 Criticizing me
00:16:32.040 They are saying this
00:16:32.800 I am going to stop it
00:16:33.420 No no no no no
00:16:33.900 You do it
00:16:35.100 This is the shaitan's work
00:16:36.080 Wallahi
00:16:36.700 At the end
00:16:37.240 You will be the successful one
00:16:38.320 Like Allah subhanAllah says
00:16:39.420 In the Quran
00:16:39.840 Not only that
00:16:40.860 I quickly want to go into
00:16:41.660 Another hadith
00:16:42.340 That is narrated by
00:16:44.160 Huzayfa
00:16:44.600 Reported by the prophet
00:16:46.360 Muhammad
00:16:46.800 Sallallahu alayhi wa sallam
00:16:47.860 It says
00:16:48.580 By him in whose hands
00:16:50.360 My life is
00:16:51.100 You either enjoy good
00:16:53.040 And forbid evil
00:16:54.180 Evil
00:16:54.980 Or Allah subhanAllah
00:16:56.400 Will send down
00:16:57.060 A calamity upon you
00:16:58.460 Then you will make supplication
00:17:00.240 And it will not be accepted
00:17:01.900 Now
00:17:02.580 I want to come to another topic
00:17:04.440 As well
00:17:04.680 This is like
00:17:05.080 I'm not going to hold you guys longer
00:17:06.220 Now if somebody doesn't
00:17:08.320 Some people say look
00:17:09.080 I don't want to go there
00:17:10.260 Because
00:17:10.840 I feel a bit embarrassed
00:17:12.140 A bit ashamed
00:17:12.920 And I say
00:17:13.780 SubhanAllah
00:17:14.780 The person
00:17:15.820 Look imagine this
00:17:16.560 They have no shame
00:17:18.140 In sinning in public
00:17:19.500 While wearing a hijab
00:17:20.880 Or no hijab
00:17:22.000 Let's say
00:17:22.440 A beard
00:17:23.340 No beard
00:17:24.220 They have no shame
00:17:26.860 Doing that
00:17:27.460 Why on earth
00:17:28.560 Would you have shame
00:17:29.480 In going there with hikmah
00:17:31.320 Not rude
00:17:31.820 Not going there saying
00:17:32.460 Haram haram
00:17:33.140 You don't go and say that
00:17:34.660 They know it's haram
00:17:35.360 You don't need to reassure them
00:17:36.280 And say look
00:17:36.720 It's haram
00:17:37.560 You don't need to do that
00:17:38.340 They know it's haram
00:17:39.340 How could you
00:17:40.220 If they have no shame
00:17:41.000 Sinning in public
00:17:41.660 My brothers and sisters
00:17:42.420 Why would you have shame
00:17:44.060 In going there
00:17:45.060 And advising them
00:17:46.160 What shame do you have
00:17:47.700 SubhanAllah
00:17:48.100 Think of it for a second
00:17:49.000 My brothers and sisters
00:17:49.800 You know
00:17:50.440 It's very simple
00:17:52.180 If you see something
00:17:53.360 My brothers and sisters
00:17:53.920 You have to do it
00:17:54.900 Brothers and sisters
00:17:55.720 If we are out and about
00:17:56.860 Me Ali Dawah
00:17:57.720 If I'm out and about
00:17:58.800 With my team
00:17:59.320 If I see something happening
00:18:01.080 If it's evil
00:18:02.660 Just want to let you know
00:18:04.300 That I will come and approach you
00:18:05.700 In the best of ways
00:18:06.480 Well I am not a guy
00:18:07.420 That's come and saying
00:18:07.920 Oh haram haram
00:18:08.660 I will come and approach you
00:18:09.700 In the best of ways
00:18:10.460 My team will do
00:18:11.620 Exactly the same thing
00:18:12.620 If we see you
00:18:13.200 And you viewers out there
00:18:14.560 That are watching this
00:18:15.480 The Quran and Sunnah
00:18:17.440 Tells you
00:18:17.860 You have to do something about it
00:18:19.200 Now if you're shy
00:18:20.200 We have a solution to that
00:18:21.520 We have made these cards
00:18:22.940 Enjoying good and forbid evil
00:18:24.380 Me personally
00:18:25.820 I carry a couple in my pocket
00:18:27.260 If I'm out and about
00:18:28.580 If I'm driving
00:18:29.260 And I see something happening
00:18:30.080 I pull over
00:18:30.740 Park my car
00:18:31.680 Go
00:18:32.460 And enjoy good and forbid what's evil
00:18:34.500 It's simple as that
00:18:35.580 Now these cards can be ordered
00:18:36.900 Through an email
00:18:37.800 At
00:18:38.560 And I'll give you the email
00:18:39.540 It'll be at the link below
00:18:40.600 Inshallah
00:18:40.960 You can see it yourself
00:18:41.900 Now the beauty with these cards
00:18:43.240 Is this brothers and sisters
00:18:44.160 You pay 10 pounds
00:18:45.600 You get your cards
00:18:46.640 250 cards
00:18:47.520 As you use them cards
00:18:49.280 You get rewarded for it
00:18:50.580 Because you're enjoying
00:18:51.040 Good and forbid and what's evil
00:18:52.080 Not only that
00:18:52.960 The money you gave to this
00:18:54.100 10 pounds
00:18:54.840 It goes back to printing more cards
00:18:56.620 So
00:18:57.220 When those cards come
00:18:59.080 And other people use it
00:19:00.680 You get a reward
00:19:01.720 So it's a win win situation
00:19:03.520 So obviously
00:19:04.240 I don't want to hold you guys more up
00:19:05.980 This is the message
00:19:07.200 Enjoying good and forbid and evil
00:19:08.880 It's a duty upon you
00:19:10.200 Please please please
00:19:11.620 If every single one of us
00:19:12.600 Do something
00:19:13.120 We will see changes within the Ummah
00:19:15.100 Wallahi we will see changes within the Ummah
00:19:16.500 Don't want to hold you guys too long
00:19:18.060 The guys are waiting outside
00:19:19.360 So inshallah
00:19:19.760 We're just going to go straight to them
00:19:20.940 And let's see how the interview goes
00:19:22.460 I'm going to interview an ex-playboy
00:19:27.780 Where he was
00:19:28.960 I'm going to ask him questions about
00:19:30.520 Why he did what he did
00:19:31.940 And the things that
00:19:33.160 You know
00:19:33.400 Made him do it
00:19:34.240 Has he changed
00:19:35.020 Has he repented
00:19:35.700 What advice he will give to
00:19:37.160 Other people out there
00:19:38.520 Guys out there
00:19:39.140 Girls out there
00:19:39.900 So I'm going to go straight into it
00:19:41.260 Inshallah
00:19:41.620 So assalamu alaikum bro
00:19:43.520 Inshallah
00:19:45.200 Hope you're well
00:19:45.820 Aki
00:19:47.180 Now
00:19:47.980 Obviously I want it to be explicit
00:19:49.340 Because
00:19:49.720 This is
00:19:50.520 This is going to have a big impact
00:19:51.800 On people that watch it
00:19:52.800 Of course
00:19:53.520 Now
00:19:53.820 Why did you do
00:19:55.420 What you did
00:19:56.500 The best way to explain about myself
00:20:00.140 Is that really
00:20:00.940 I got caught up with the wrong people
00:20:03.440 And one thing I'd say
00:20:05.640 That was a major factor
00:20:06.600 Was
00:20:06.980 The surroundings in a western country
00:20:09.820 It's a norm
00:20:11.620 Sort of thing
00:20:12.400 You know
00:20:13.240 It's normal to
00:20:14.540 Be around
00:20:15.700 Girls
00:20:16.220 Walking around
00:20:17.000 Half naked
00:20:17.680 Going to
00:20:19.520 Public events
00:20:20.360 Or social events
00:20:21.260 Where
00:20:21.600 You know
00:20:22.280 You might be
00:20:23.040 Religious yourself
00:20:24.020 But
00:20:24.460 There's always going to be
00:20:25.800 Bloody, bloody, bloody
00:20:27.060 There's going to be girls
00:20:27.900 Who are just
00:20:28.420 A certain way there
00:20:29.400 Depending on
00:20:31.080 Depending on
00:20:32.000 What kind of
00:20:32.800 Obviously functions
00:20:33.500 You attend
00:20:34.000 But
00:20:34.300 That's the best way
00:20:35.400 I'd say the surroundings
00:20:36.320 The surroundings
00:20:36.900 Okay
00:20:37.240 Tell me
00:20:38.700 What specific
00:20:39.880 Girls would you go for
00:20:41.440 And
00:20:42.280 How would you start
00:20:43.080 The conversation
00:20:43.640 Like
00:20:44.020 When you see
00:20:44.840 When you're walking around
00:20:45.660 What attracts you to them
00:20:47.020 And
00:20:47.660 What steps would you take
00:20:48.740 Like
00:20:48.920 For example
00:20:49.520 You're walking in
00:20:50.060 Like
00:20:50.300 Okay
00:20:50.840 That person
00:20:51.300 Catching my attention
00:20:51.900 Why
00:20:52.280 And what would you do
00:20:53.760 To get what you want
00:20:55.040 In terms of
00:20:56.580 Who catches your attention
00:20:57.820 I think that depends
00:20:58.840 Really on
00:20:59.620 What the individual likes
00:21:01.700 What I think nowadays
00:21:03.160 What happens is
00:21:04.360 The girls who are the most
00:21:05.700 Exposed
00:21:06.420 In terms of
00:21:07.160 Their clothing
00:21:07.740 And what not
00:21:08.440 They're the main targets
00:21:10.420 I'd say
00:21:11.140 Okay
00:21:11.500 So
00:21:11.780 Before we talk
00:21:12.660 The video started
00:21:14.300 You said that
00:21:15.820 Obviously you had
00:21:16.640 Girlfriends
00:21:18.280 And stuff like that
00:21:19.060 Can you give me
00:21:19.720 A couple of stories
00:21:20.460 Of what happened
00:21:21.380 What you would do
00:21:23.080 With them
00:21:23.500 And
00:21:24.360 You know
00:21:25.260 Regarding
00:21:25.720 You know
00:21:25.980 You're saying
00:21:26.300 Pictures
00:21:26.760 And videos
00:21:27.440 And stuff like that
00:21:28.260 You know
00:21:28.680 How would you
00:21:29.060 Manipulate them
00:21:29.620 And stuff like that
00:21:30.080 Can you give us
00:21:30.660 A bit of an
00:21:31.120 I think
00:21:31.800 I think it's a bit
00:21:32.780 Easy nowadays
00:21:33.460 I mean
00:21:33.960 Girls
00:21:35.460 I mean
00:21:36.580 What I would
00:21:37.120 Personally do is
00:21:38.260 If I know
00:21:39.120 I'm going to be
00:21:39.620 Around the individual
00:21:40.380 For a certain amount
00:21:41.200 Of time
00:21:41.480 For example
00:21:42.000 If we were attending
00:21:43.300 School together
00:21:43.960 I know
00:21:45.420 That she's going to
00:21:46.180 Be there
00:21:46.500 For the rest of the year
00:21:47.300 So I can do
00:21:47.940 My thing
00:21:48.380 Slowly
00:21:48.880 I can
00:21:50.240 Manipulate her
00:21:51.360 Slowly
00:21:51.820 I can
00:21:52.240 See a certain
00:21:52.840 Things
00:21:53.120 Get closer
00:21:53.660 A certain ways
00:21:54.340 Blah blah blah
00:21:55.400 To a point
00:21:55.920 Where they're
00:21:56.420 Comfortable
00:21:56.820 To do certain
00:21:57.520 Things
00:21:57.940 And then
00:21:59.400 From then
00:21:59.740 Obviously
00:22:00.040 They're not
00:22:00.860 Aware
00:22:01.160 They're not
00:22:01.680 Aware
00:22:01.940 Of the
00:22:02.380 Tactical
00:22:03.280 Game
00:22:03.520 That I'm
00:22:03.800 Playing
00:22:03.980 In my head
00:22:04.480 That's the
00:22:05.640 Fact of it
00:22:06.100 However
00:22:06.320 It sounds
00:22:06.880 That's the
00:22:07.260 Fact of it
00:22:07.700 Men
00:22:07.860 They play
00:22:08.340 They have
00:22:09.660 A weird
00:22:10.380 They have
00:22:11.040 A structured
00:22:11.660 Tactical
00:22:12.260 Game
00:22:12.520 On in their head
00:22:13.180 About what
00:22:13.540 They're doing
00:22:13.960 With these
00:22:14.600 Individuals
00:22:15.420 The females
00:22:17.160 Like I said
00:22:18.380 They're not
00:22:18.660 They're not
00:22:19.000 Aware
00:22:19.340 Can you
00:22:19.960 Can you
00:22:20.340 Give us
00:22:20.620 A story
00:22:20.940 Can you
00:22:21.380 Tell us
00:22:21.820 Like give us
00:22:23.080 A story
00:22:23.640 Of a certain
00:22:24.600 Individual
00:22:24.940 What happened
00:22:25.680 How you
00:22:26.600 Tricked her
00:22:27.360 What you did
00:22:28.140 With her
00:22:28.580 And everything
00:22:30.040 Like
00:22:30.380 If you can
00:22:31.220 Okay yeah
00:22:32.000 There was a
00:22:32.520 Time when
00:22:33.080 I used to
00:22:34.500 Attend a certain
00:22:35.460 Place very
00:22:36.000 Regularly
00:22:36.880 And I knew
00:22:38.200 This female
00:22:38.720 And I knew
00:22:39.640 That this individual
00:22:40.360 Was already
00:22:40.940 Seeing somebody
00:22:41.800 Else
00:22:42.080 Who
00:22:43.080 I wasn't
00:22:43.820 Really
00:22:44.080 Fond of
00:22:44.620 And the place
00:22:45.860 That I used
00:22:46.520 To go
00:22:46.880 Very often
00:22:47.740 People
00:22:48.860 Fond of me
00:22:49.380 I think
00:22:49.600 People liked
00:22:50.140 Me a bit
00:22:50.460 More than
00:22:50.760 They liked
00:22:51.080 People
00:22:51.360 Personally
00:22:51.600 So I had
00:22:52.020 A bit
00:22:52.220 More influence
00:22:52.880 And eventually
00:22:55.180 Slowly
00:22:55.740 Slowly
00:22:56.100 You're telling me
00:23:23.480 When they allow
00:23:24.320 You to kiss
00:23:24.820 Them
00:23:25.080 You're saying
00:23:25.780 Okay
00:23:26.060 If she
00:23:26.580 As soon as
00:23:27.460 They touch
00:23:27.960 Your hand
00:23:28.300 As soon as
00:23:28.720 They grab
00:23:29.100 Your hand
00:23:29.500 For example
00:23:30.120 You could be
00:23:30.460 Walking one day
00:23:31.040 And she might
00:23:31.340 Just grab
00:23:31.680 Your arm
00:23:32.100 And you might
00:23:32.920 Just be
00:23:33.160 Walking
00:23:33.360 On to
00:23:33.720 Arm
00:23:33.880 And that's
00:23:34.180 When you
00:23:34.360 Think
00:23:34.560 Alright
00:23:34.800 Cool
00:23:35.080 First step
00:23:35.500 Taken
00:23:35.900 Okay
00:23:36.340 So you're
00:23:36.980 Saying
00:23:37.160 She's
00:23:38.800 Let me
00:23:39.320 In
00:23:39.480 Through
00:23:39.600 The door
00:23:39.940 Yeah
00:23:40.180 Exactly
00:23:40.840 So that's
00:23:41.180 The first
00:23:41.540 Foot in
00:23:41.800 The door
00:23:42.040 So
00:23:42.180 What happens
00:23:43.880 Is
00:23:44.080 They see
00:23:44.940 You're not
00:23:45.560 Saying
00:23:45.720 Anything
00:23:45.940 In the
00:23:46.220 Inside
00:23:46.540 You're
00:23:46.720 Thinking
00:23:46.940 One
00:23:47.200 Thing
00:23:47.400 On the
00:23:47.600 Outside
00:23:47.860 You're
00:23:48.080 Saying
00:23:48.240 Oh man
00:23:49.060 I'm so
00:23:49.320 Glad
00:23:49.540 To be
00:23:49.780 A friend
00:23:50.140 Or
00:23:50.340 I'm so
00:23:50.640 Glad
00:23:50.900 They're
00:23:51.100 Close
00:23:51.400 And
00:23:51.540 This
00:23:51.740 And
00:23:51.880 That
00:23:52.060 And
00:23:52.480 Then
00:23:52.700 Because
00:23:53.320 Females
00:23:54.100 Are
00:23:54.320 Emotionally
00:23:55.000 A bit
00:23:55.280 Stronger
00:23:55.720 They
00:23:55.880 Feel
00:23:56.680 Things
00:23:57.080 Quickly
00:23:57.540 They
00:23:58.200 Fall
00:23:58.420 For
00:23:58.560 Chicks
00:23:58.740 Quickly
00:23:59.060 They
00:23:59.260 Don't
00:23:59.380 Understand
00:23:59.760 What's
00:23:59.960 Going
00:24:00.140 On
00:24:00.400 Like
00:24:01.060 I said
00:24:01.380 They'll
00:24:02.080 Eventually
00:24:02.400 Start
00:24:02.720 Doing
00:24:02.880 More
00:24:03.060 And
00:24:03.140 More
00:24:03.300 Things
00:24:03.540 With
00:24:03.720 And
00:24:03.900 Then
00:24:04.040 They'll
00:24:04.580 Question
00:24:04.900 Them
00:24:05.180 So
00:24:05.300 They'll
00:24:05.620 Think
00:24:05.840 Wait
00:24:06.720 I
00:24:06.840 Think
00:24:07.060 I
00:24:07.160 Like
00:24:07.360 This
00:24:07.540 Person
00:24:07.880 Now
00:24:08.140 Or
00:24:08.360 He's
00:24:09.080 So
00:24:09.240 Good
00:24:09.620 To
00:24:09.780 Me
00:24:09.920 Why
00:24:10.120 Can't
00:24:10.400 I
00:24:10.560 Be
00:24:10.660 With
00:24:10.840 Him
00:24:10.960 Why
00:24:11.200 Shouldn't
00:24:11.520 I
00:24:11.680 Be
00:24:11.780 With
00:24:11.960 Him
00:24:12.120 Blah
00:24:12.720 Blah
00:24:12.980 Blah
00:24:13.300 Eventually
00:24:14.500 You
00:24:15.340 Get
00:24:15.660 This
00:24:15.900 Female
00:24:16.600 And
00:24:16.940 You
00:24:17.100 Have
00:24:17.780 Sexual
00:24:18.140 Interpose
00:24:18.700 You
00:24:19.160 Do
00:24:19.420 Certain
00:24:19.580 Things
00:24:19.800 You
00:24:19.920 Send
00:24:20.100 You
00:24:20.240 Certain
00:24:20.400 Pictures
00:24:20.800 And
00:24:21.200 Once
00:24:21.360 She
00:24:21.480 Sends
00:24:21.700 You
00:24:21.820 Pictures
00:24:22.100 There's
00:24:22.320 No
00:24:22.460 Way
00:24:22.620 Out
00:24:22.760 For
00:24:22.900 So
00:24:24.800 Once
00:24:25.640 So
00:24:26.020 Do
00:24:26.340 You
00:24:26.440 Ask
00:24:26.680 For
00:24:26.780 These
00:24:26.920 Pictures
00:24:27.200 Do
00:24:27.520 They
00:24:27.660 Send
00:24:27.900 It
00:24:28.020 Do
00:24:28.160 You
00:24:28.220 Say
00:24:28.360 Okay
00:24:28.580 Cause
00:24:28.920 You
00:24:29.240 Know
00:24:29.320 Girls
00:24:29.540 Are
00:24:29.640 Like
00:24:29.960 Oh
00:24:30.140 I
00:24:30.240 Don't
00:24:30.680 Yeah
00:24:30.860 Sometimes
00:24:31.720 It
00:24:32.100 Depends
00:24:32.560 Sometimes
00:24:33.260 You
00:24:33.500 Might
00:24:33.660 Ask
00:24:33.940 You
00:24:34.120 Might
00:24:34.340 Say
00:24:34.620 Depends
00:24:36.140 On
00:24:36.240 The
00:24:36.340 Situation
00:24:36.740 It
00:24:36.920 Might
00:24:37.040 Be
00:24:37.180 A
00:24:37.300 Situation
00:24:37.680 Where
00:24:37.900 You
00:24:38.040 Can
00:24:38.180 Ask
00:24:38.700 Because
00:24:39.240 You
00:24:39.340 Might
00:24:39.460 Be
00:24:39.580 Talking
00:24:39.800 About
00:24:40.020 That
00:24:40.140 Kind
00:24:40.320 Of
00:24:40.420 Thing
00:24:40.620 About
00:24:40.860 Bodies
00:24:41.220 And
00:24:41.340 You
00:24:41.440 Might
00:24:41.560 Just
00:24:41.700 Say
00:24:41.840 Let
00:24:42.080 Let
00:24:42.100 See
00:24:42.380 You
00:24:42.500 And
00:24:42.700 You
00:24:43.700 And
00:24:44.700 You
00:24:44.820 Might
00:24:45.040 Get
00:24:45.260 One
00:24:45.480 As
00:24:46.100 As
00:24:46.160 As
00:24:46.700 You
00:24:47.180 You
00:24:48.180 Can
00:24:48.700 Get
00:24:48.800 Anything
00:24:49.040 You
00:24:49.260 Want
00:24:49.420 Because
00:24:49.900 You
00:24:50.720 Can
00:24:50.900 Always
00:24:51.180 Send
00:24:51.560 You
00:24:59.640 More
00:24:59.760 Like
00:25:00.000 You
00:25:01.120 Already
00:25:01.640 Sent
00:25:01.900 This
00:25:02.220 Like
00:25:02.720 Taking
00:25:03.440 Your
00:25:03.680 Bra
00:25:03.880 And
00:25:04.220 You
00:25:04.340 Going
00:25:04.560 To
00:25:04.680 Make
00:25:04.840 A
00:25:04.940 Difference
00:25:05.380 I
00:25:05.820 Am
00:25:05.880 Not
00:25:06.020 Going
00:25:06.140 To
00:25:06.240 Show
00:25:06.420 No
00:25:06.620 One
00:25:06.880 But
00:25:07.580 The
00:25:07.780 Reality
00:25:08.120 Is
00:25:08.480 The
00:25:08.940 Moment
00:25:09.280 That
00:25:09.520 Is
00:25:09.660 On
00:25:09.860 My
00:25:10.040 Phone
00:25:10.420 Let's
00:25:11.400 Say
00:25:11.540 Whatsapp
00:25:12.080 Saves
00:25:12.420 Your
00:25:12.520 Pictures
00:25:12.780 Automatically
00:25:13.380 So
00:25:14.180 You
00:25:14.320 Know
00:25:14.500 But
00:25:14.780 As
00:25:14.920 Much
00:25:15.140 As
00:25:15.280 You
00:25:15.460 Don't
00:25:15.620 Want
00:25:15.720 To
00:25:15.820 Believe
00:25:16.040 Your
00:25:16.200 So
00:25:16.280 This
00:25:16.460 Person
00:25:16.700 Got
00:25:16.860 A
00:25:16.920 Picture
00:25:17.160 On
00:25:17.260 Their
00:25:17.360 Phone
00:25:17.560 They
00:25:17.780 Have
00:25:17.960 Choke
00:25:18.300 Okay
00:25:18.800 I
00:25:18.920 Want
00:25:19.100 Two
00:25:19.300 Questions
00:25:19.700 With
00:25:20.160 The
00:25:20.280 Pictures
00:25:20.520 And
00:25:20.700 Videos
00:25:20.940 You
00:25:21.100 Have
00:25:21.340 Does
00:25:22.240 It
00:25:22.340 Come
00:25:22.440 To
00:25:22.540 A
00:25:22.640 Moment
00:25:22.840 Where
00:25:23.120 They
00:25:23.240 Like
00:25:23.420 You
00:25:23.520 Know
00:25:23.620 What
00:25:23.840 She
00:25:24.600 Doesn't
00:25:24.820 Want
00:25:24.980 Anything
00:25:25.180 To
00:25:25.340 Do
00:25:25.480 With
00:25:25.620 You
00:25:25.720 Or
00:25:25.820 Something
00:25:26.020 Like
00:25:26.180 That
00:25:26.280 You
00:25:26.380 Know
00:25:26.460 Stuff
00:25:26.700 Happened
00:25:26.960 Do
00:25:27.400 You
00:25:27.520 Use
00:25:27.740 That
00:25:27.880 Against
00:25:28.220 Her
00:25:28.440 I
00:25:49.100 All
00:25:49.540 All
00:25:49.560 Right
00:25:49.640 Cool
00:25:49.920 Let
00:25:50.600 Let
00:25:50.640 Me
00:25:50.680 Just
00:25:50.820 Put
00:25:50.960 This
00:25:51.100 Picture
00:25:51.320 On
00:25:51.460 Facebook
00:25:51.720 Or
00:25:51.940 Let
00:25:52.080 Me
00:25:52.120 Just
00:25:52.300 Send
00:25:52.460 This
00:25:52.600 Picture
00:25:52.880 Around
00:25:53.080 Okay
00:25:53.640 And
00:25:54.540 With
00:25:54.820 Those
00:25:55.040 Pictures
00:25:55.480 Would
00:25:56.360 You
00:25:56.460 Ever
00:25:56.620 Be
00:25:56.800 Around
00:25:57.040 Friends
00:25:57.320 And
00:25:57.520 You
00:25:57.800 Know
00:25:57.900 You
00:25:58.000 Know
00:25:58.060 How
00:25:58.180 Guys
00:25:58.480 Are
00:25:58.740 Of
00:25:59.320 Of
00:25:59.740 Course
00:26:02.140 One
00:26:03.180 Thing
00:26:03.360 The
00:26:03.480 Thing
00:26:03.660 Was
00:26:03.820 This
00:26:04.860 I
00:26:05.340 Mean
00:26:05.580 It
00:26:05.920 It
00:26:06.600 Is
00:26:06.700 Not
00:26:07.440 Complicated
00:26:07.920 To
00:26:08.060 Say
00:26:08.220 But
00:26:08.480 If
00:26:09.680 You
00:26:09.820 Send
00:26:10.060 A
00:26:10.180 Picture
00:26:10.400 To
00:26:10.600 A
00:26:10.680 Guy
00:26:10.940 Of
00:26:11.500 Your
00:26:11.620 No
00:26:12.500 Matter
00:26:12.960 What
00:26:13.320 I
00:26:13.480 Promise
00:26:13.940 You
00:26:14.300 I
00:26:14.860 Can
00:26:15.100 Bet
00:26:15.300 You
00:26:15.440 My
00:26:15.660 Life
00:26:15.900 I
00:26:16.000 Put
00:26:16.120 My
00:26:16.280 Life
00:26:16.480 On
00:26:16.620 The
00:26:16.700 Line
00:26:16.880 Here
00:26:17.080 They
00:26:18.300 Will
00:26:18.600 Show
00:26:18.820 Their
00:26:19.060 Friend
00:26:19.260 They
00:26:19.900 Will
00:26:20.120 100%
00:26:21.300 Show
00:26:21.520 Their
00:26:21.760 Friend
00:26:21.940 No
00:26:22.420 Matter
00:26:22.640 What
00:26:22.880 The
00:26:23.020 Circumstances
00:26:23.660 They
00:26:24.060 Will
00:26:24.260 Always
00:26:24.640 Share
00:26:24.920 The
00:26:25.100 Pictures
00:26:25.460 You
00:26:25.680 Send
00:26:25.860 Your
00:26:26.140 Messages
00:26:27.680 Everything
00:26:28.500 Everything
00:26:29.220 None
00:26:29.520 Of
00:26:30.100 It's
00:26:30.240 A
00:26:30.340 Secret
00:26:30.560 None
00:26:31.300 Of
00:26:31.420 It
00:26:31.540 It's
00:26:32.680 Quite
00:26:32.860 Interesting
00:26:33.200 Because
00:26:33.560 Once
00:26:33.940 You're
00:26:34.100 With
00:26:34.260 Them
00:26:34.440 In
00:26:34.620 That
00:26:34.720 Relationship
00:26:35.320 You
00:26:36.140 Show
00:26:36.300 These
00:26:36.420 To
00:26:36.520 Your
00:26:36.620 Friends
00:26:36.900 So
00:26:37.900 When
00:26:43.480 Even
00:26:43.700 Worse
00:26:43.960 Where
00:26:44.120 You
00:26:44.340 Hold
00:26:44.520 A
00:26:44.640 Grudge
00:26:44.860 And
00:26:44.940 You
00:26:45.020 Know
00:26:45.280 I
00:26:45.420 I
00:26:45.440 Will
00:26:45.580 Send
00:26:45.860 Your
00:26:45.960 Pictures
00:26:46.160 All
00:26:46.340 Around
00:26:46.500 The
00:26:46.600 Place
00:26:46.780 You
00:27:13.480 In
00:27:13.780 I
00:27:13.980 Seen
00:27:14.300 So
00:27:14.520 Many
00:27:14.740 Girls
00:27:15.120 Where
00:27:15.460 They
00:27:16.140 Think
00:27:16.440 They
00:27:16.920 Trust
00:27:17.140 A
00:27:17.280 Certain
00:27:17.480 Guy
00:27:17.780 They
00:27:18.240 Trust
00:27:18.520 Certain
00:27:18.720 Pictures
00:27:18.980 And
00:27:19.060 What
00:27:19.260 Not
00:27:19.420 And
00:27:19.560 They
00:27:19.660 Break
00:27:19.920 Up
00:27:20.160 And
00:27:20.400 Then
00:27:20.600 The
00:27:21.020 Whole
00:27:21.300 Place
00:27:21.660 The
00:27:21.820 Whole
00:27:22.120 School
00:27:23.020 College
00:27:23.520 Really
00:27:23.940 Finds
00:27:24.400 Out
00:27:24.600 Exactly
00:27:25.160 Everything
00:27:25.660 About
00:27:25.960 This
00:27:26.160 Girl
00:27:26.340 And
00:27:27.540 She
00:27:27.940 Used
00:27:28.240 To
00:27:28.660 Say
00:27:29.500 Certain
00:27:29.740 Things
00:27:29.960 Like
00:27:30.160 I
00:27:31.120 Can't
00:27:32.640 Believe
00:27:32.960 You
00:27:33.080 Because
00:27:33.300 You
00:27:33.500 Can't
00:27:33.700 Do
00:27:33.800 This
00:27:34.000 For
00:27:34.160 Me
00:27:34.300 I
00:27:34.560 Am
00:27:34.740 A
00:27:34.800 Man
00:27:35.060 I
00:27:35.200 Need
00:27:35.380 This
00:27:35.600 I
00:27:35.800 Need
00:27:35.980 This
00:27:36.220 I
00:27:36.460 Girl
00:27:36.860 To
00:27:37.020 Give
00:27:37.460 Me
00:27:37.560 This
00:27:37.760 This
00:27:37.860 And
00:27:38.020 That
00:27:38.220 And
00:27:38.760 She
00:27:39.260 Say
00:27:39.500 No
00:27:39.740 For
00:27:39.960 The
00:27:40.060 First
00:27:40.340 You
00:27:40.560 Know
00:27:40.720 However
00:27:41.020 Many
00:27:41.280 Times
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00:35:13.040 I use this deception a lot. I would say, we're going to be together anyway. It won't make a difference.
00:35:18.040 You might as well send me this picture and now I'm going to see your body sometime soon anyway.
00:35:22.040 But yeah, I think the stairway is very, very effective.
00:35:25.040 These pictures, you're sending it to your friend. Your friend's going to send it to another friend.
00:35:29.040 It's out there forever. Like I said, it's still not being driven through your head.
00:35:33.040 That's just an example. What will happen to you is 10 million times worse.
00:35:36.040 This is outside of our comprehension. We can't even imagine the things that will happen to you.
00:35:41.040 So I'd say it's not worth it. It's not worth it 100%.
00:35:45.040 And if I was the brothers, I'd repent as much because we don't actually know how serious the sin is.
00:35:51.040 And how deep the sin actually is and how much sin we're actually getting through it.
00:35:55.040 A sister called Madea is saying, does he ever worry that someone from his past will approach him in the future
00:36:00.040 when he has finally settled down with his own family?
00:36:03.040 You know, I have thought about that one and it has really scared me at times.
00:36:07.040 And sometimes I do believe that it will come back and bite me in the backside.
00:36:11.040 But, you know, I've repented to Allah . Obviously, I believe in Allah .
00:36:17.040 That Allah will protect me from a calamity like this.
00:36:19.040 Because obviously, something like that happens, it won't be easy to handle.
00:36:21.040 And obviously, I've repented for a reason. So, inshallah, obviously, make du'a for me.
00:36:25.040 Inshallah, Allah will protect me from something like that.
00:36:27.040 Obviously, Aki, thanks for coming. I really appreciate it.
00:36:31.040 May Allah .
00:36:33.040 Inshallah.
00:36:34.040 I hope you all learned a lesson from this.
00:36:36.040 Obviously, thanks for watching, guys.
00:36:38.040 Share it. Subscribe, inshallah.
00:36:39.040 But before I go anywhere, I want to say this.
00:36:42.040 Look, obviously, what you hear is not nice.
00:36:44.040 You know, it's not nice that I heard it.
00:36:46.040 But in no way does this give you a right to talk bad about the Aki
00:36:50.040 or leave really silly comments, you know.
00:36:52.040 If Allah has forgiven him, who are you to come and judge him?
00:36:56.040 It's done dusted. It's a mistake.
00:36:58.040 He's here for a reason that you can learn from it, inshallah.
00:37:00.040 So, obviously, share this video.
00:37:02.040 If you know people that are in this kind of stuff,
00:37:04.040 share it, inshallah, people can benefit.
00:37:06.040 Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh.
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