Ali Dawah - WARNING SISTERS AGAINST ALI DAWAH

00:00:00.000 Asalaamu alayhu wa rahmatullahi wa barakirah to brothers and sisters and dear friends

00:00:28.300 welcome to this video of warning sisters against ali dawa which is myself now doing this video is

00:00:34.120 not a matter of clickbait i actually mean every single word that i say but i'm going to put it

00:00:39.320 into context for you guys and like i said before what i mean on the title is what what i said on

00:00:44.840 the title is what i actually mean now i received a message from a sister a couple of days ago saying

00:00:50.760 that she met a brother she knew a brother no she was following a brother on instagram who would

00:00:55.520 post and dawa stuff you know reminders on a daily basis and she was uh and he would do dawa

00:01:00.820 posting dawa material etc so one day if i'm not mistaken either she messaged him for advice

00:01:06.760 etc along those lines or he messaged i'm not really sure and what happened was um the reminders were

00:01:13.340 given forth you know the brother would remind her and i think maybe the sister was going through a

00:01:16.400 certain issue so she was getting reminders from brother every now and then um and then obviously

00:01:22.700 these reminders kind of continue so a little conversation started and this is one of the

00:01:26.340 biggest fitness when a man and a female a male and female is alone the third person is shaitan

00:01:30.840 uh with this scenario though it was just reminders etc but what happened later on is that this brother

00:01:36.980 who's uh basically does dawa and women does that was just a dawa post yeah um he basically says to her

00:01:44.700 look um i want to share something with you um and can you give me your basically whatsapp number

00:01:49.260 and i will send it to you you know it's beneficial reminder etc so she thinks you know what you know

00:01:53.660 what's the big deal you know etc shaitan comes and whispers and says what's the big deal so she gives

00:01:57.180 her number and then the brother message uh messages her on whatsapp and um after that obviously the

00:02:03.520 conversations carry on carry on and then this brother starts uh asking inappropriate questions

00:02:08.440 uh etc so then it comes to a point where they are going forth and the sister's catching feelings to

00:02:14.800 the brother um vice versa this is what the sister thinks that you know he had feelings as well so

00:02:19.800 they decide to meet up and this brother comes and um he tries to you know be touchy touchy with the

00:02:26.680 sister um and so on so forth now now both of you are at fault and we're going to derive some benefits

00:02:33.120 from this one of the biggest things a lot of people fall into is that the brother is in the dawa scene

00:02:39.560 or he's doing some kind of dawa stuff or he looks a bit religious or he's wearing a fob or he has a

00:02:44.940 beard or he goes to the masjid all the time and this goes for sisters as well you see a sister who's

00:02:49.960 wearing the hijab or the abaya or she looks religious or she looks practicing automatically what we do is

00:02:55.240 we put our guards down thinking the person opposite you is a person that fears allah and would never do

00:03:01.500 anything like that now this is wrong brothers and sisters and sisters specifically like i said before

00:03:07.680 i warn you guys even against myself it should not mean nothing to you guys that i oh it's brother

00:03:17.160 ali dawa even if it's brother ali dawa if you are speaking to me now i get private messages day in

00:03:22.800 day out yeah from sisters and brothers now for me to be in a for me to be in a private message with you

00:03:28.720 sisters is wrong i'm going to be straight up i don't need to lie or be around the bush but out of

00:03:33.240 necessity and i keep it short to the point advise and move on to the best of my ability now this is

00:03:40.660 the reason why i do because sometimes we deal with suicidal cases around relationships etc and i try to

00:03:45.260 think myself like if i can benefit the sister somehow quickly that's it but even that's a dangerous zone

00:03:50.780 you know so may allah protect me from that one of the biggest things that i fear of me is to fall

00:03:55.780 to that uh to a sin like that if you are messaging me it should not matter oh it's ali dawa it shouldn't

00:04:04.660 matter if it's brother mufti meng if it's musa if it's imran if it's um whoever whoever it is no matter

00:04:14.240 if they're a sheikh whatever they are if you see me crossing the limits and lines with you 1.00

00:04:21.360 then you need to say i don't care who he is i don't care if he's ali dawa i don't care how many

00:04:27.200 followers he has i don't care what he's known for if he's famous you have to it is a duty upon you

00:04:33.500 to say brother fear allah you're crossing your limits i came to you for advice now you're abusing that

00:04:39.120 yeah so you need to understand sisters specifically as well is that if i am messaging you or you are

00:04:46.360 messaging me and i start talking to you in a way like you know um you know sister yeah yeah so what

00:04:51.060 you're doing you know what you're up to or join a uh meet up you know i can give dawa in person you

00:04:56.440 know one-to-one etc uh if i start saying oh you know sister give me your number you know i will get

00:05:01.420 no matter who it is you have to put your limit there and say brother fear allah this is why i warn you

00:05:11.240 sisters even if it's against myself i have to be real with you guys and you need to understand that

00:05:17.040 one of the biggest fitna for a man is a woman and the prophet peace be upon him said the biggest thing

00:05:23.720 that i fear for my ummah is woman now this does not mean women are bad or they're evil or they're 1.00

00:05:29.700 these satanic creatures or whatever no what it means is we have a desire for women and that is our

00:05:36.480 weakness now in a society that we live in today that is even worse just like for example sisters have a 0.96

00:05:40.980 desire and a weakness for i don't know a louis vuitton bag or nice clothes or i'm just giving

00:05:45.080 an example it's just your weakness doesn't mean the item is satanic or you know evil it doesn't

00:05:50.920 mean that it means you have a weakness to that now unfortunately we as brothers in the dawa scene

00:05:56.580 whoever it may be sometimes we can fall weak you know we are not perfect uh and may allah

00:06:02.180 protect us from that but what you need to understand brothers and sisters is that

00:06:06.140 sometimes sisters take advantage of that so they know for example there is a public figure a brother

00:06:11.960 is in the dawa scene so they think you know what how can we ruin this uh image so what they say is

00:06:16.500 okay let's message him in a flirty manner talk to him you know do this kind of stuff that's why a

00:06:22.240 brother so that's why sometimes as brothers in the dawa scene we have to be extra cautious and extra

00:06:31.600 careful because unfortunately there is female this goes for females as well there is females out there 1.00

00:06:36.400 who are genuinely have an evil thing in their heart where they're like oh how can we catch this brother

00:06:42.060 out and show this that and that's why i say may allah subhanahu wa ta'ala protect us from ever falling

00:06:46.380 from this fitna now the prophet muhammad peace be upon him told us and it's an advice to you sisters

00:06:51.680 is that when you are looking for a partner look for two things this is for sisters looking in for a 0.81

00:06:57.420 brother somebody that has religion and somebody that has manners akhlaq good adab now you need to

00:07:04.780 observe a person if a person looks religious faux beard you know he's like wow he's got the shabang 0.98

00:07:10.120 everything's going on like oh he's the holy man you know he's the holy guy now this holy guy that

00:07:16.060 you're talking about if he starts to talk to you in a manner which is flirty which is dirty which he

00:07:22.380 asks you to send pictures back and forth whatever it may be you need to say to yourself hold on a

00:07:26.780 second even if this is me like i said before you need to say hold on a second now he looks religious

00:07:32.900 okay but he is asking me really inappropriate questions you know so you need to draw the line

00:07:38.760 and say this is wrong yes he does look religious but his manners is akhlaq the way he's dealing with

00:07:44.480 or for example if he's a violent guy so the prophet peace be upon him said look from religion

00:07:48.960 and manners they go hand to hand you know and the prophet peace be upon him says something for a

00:07:54.520 reason for the benefit of us so this is something that we really need to understand sisters and this

00:07:59.940 goes for brothers as well because i've had stories i've had stories from people that are very reliable

00:08:04.540 brothers who are looking for marriage genuinely and they say they will say akhi i'm speaking to

00:08:09.920 her sister she wears hijab abaya and then she asked me inappropriate question about a certain part 0.88

00:08:15.340 of my body you know it's i don't want to go into detail i hope you guys understand what i'm saying

00:08:19.200 but the brother will say subhanallah i didn't know i just wanted to turn a blind eye and i thought the

00:08:23.780 best no you don't do that yes you may assume the best but if somebody's talking to you in that manner

00:08:30.080 you really need to cross the line and think sister fear allah subhanahu wa ta'ala you know fear allah 0.69

00:08:35.960 because what you're saying is now you're crossing limits and you should not put up with it and think

00:08:39.920 oh you know this that no that should be a sign of an alarm bell you know because if this person can talk

00:08:45.520 to me in this manner so freely then god knows who she or he talks to about what so that should be an

00:08:53.740 alarm bell for all of us now unfortunately as males as men a lot of men out there we tend to think oh

00:09:03.940 she asked for it you know she she was on it so i start talking to her like you know if she's going to

00:09:07.840 talk to me in a dirty manner like this that so i'm just going to take advantage no it does not give

00:09:12.980 you a right we are muslim men it doesn't mean we're not like people who are jahil we're like oh 0.90

00:09:19.240 she talks to me in a dirty manner yeah i'm going to go and use and abuse her no we are muslim men we

00:09:24.080 fear allah subhanahu wa ta'ala just because a female does not respect herself does not mean i drop to her 0.99

00:09:30.060 level and they disrespect her we should know better if i know a sister's coming to me and messaging me 0.93

00:09:35.760 in inbox start talking to me in a flirty manner or sending me inappropriate pictures either i'm going to

00:09:40.760 block or i'm going to say sister fear allah subhanahu wa ta'ala if i want i can go along with

00:09:44.880 the flow and take advantage of you whatever but sister i see you like my own sister and i and i'm

00:09:51.080 just saying this as a beneficial advice to you sister please what i fear allah subhanahu wa ta'ala what are

00:09:55.340 you doing you're causing a fitna for me and for yourself why so this is how a muslim man should behave

00:10:02.880 this is how his behavior should be and may allah subhanahu wa ta'ala make us among those that will behave

00:10:08.760 accordingly to that not oh somebody's messaged me that let me take advantage of that no sisters

00:10:13.200 what you need to understand something there's genuine brothers out there who are trying to

00:10:16.140 lower their gaze you know so they cannot fall in you know by looking at you and not fall in love

00:10:21.540 with you in the wrong manner in the wrong way if you know what i'm saying so there's brothers out

00:10:25.060 there genuinely trying to lower their gaze and do things a halal way sisters fear allah subhanahu wa ta'ala

00:10:29.180 and don't make it hard upon them don't make it hard upon them by trying to be flirty trying to send

00:10:35.240 these messages etc and the same goes for brothers brothers fear allah subhanahu wa ta'ala what if

00:10:39.780 that was your sister imagine you brother that listening imagine me messaging your sister in that

00:10:45.220 flirty man i'm telling her to link up with me and let's do this and that how would you feel you 1.00

00:10:50.160 actually put yourself in the shoes of another believer it's another person's sister you know how

00:10:55.060 could you so calmly casually you know lead them along you know sisters yes sisters do this they

00:11:00.300 some sisters go and make it hard for practicing brothers etc you know yes but also there is

00:11:05.620 brothers out there who make it hard for sisters you lead them along you lead them along giving

00:11:10.680 them false promises etc i'm gonna marry you this and you leave them halfway fear allah this is believing

00:11:16.280 women who want to do things the right way and they fear allah and they're trying to lower their gaze and 1.00

00:11:20.880 keep away from zina and you are coming and giving false promises and especially we know what's sad 1.00

00:11:25.780 is that you use the dawah you use the dawah to make yourself look religious so that sister can put 0.67

00:11:31.480 her guards down and think assume the best in you and wallah he's so sad the person is looking at you

00:11:37.280 and your behavior in public and in youtube and thinking good of you and this is the reason why

00:11:43.580 she's putting her guards down when she shouldn't and she's thinking the best of you and thinking you

00:11:48.520 know that person wouldn't do that look at that that you have built a trust with an individual and

00:11:52.840 then you go and drop and smash that on the floor by doing what by using your position to abuse it

00:11:58.360 now brothers and sisters wallahi we need to fear allah subhanahu wa ta'ala allah subhanahu wa ta'ala

00:12:03.540 says in the quran this is the only sin where allah subhanahu wa ta'ala says don't even go near zina

00:12:09.380 if you know zina is here and you're going to walk just around it allah says go around the block 1.00

00:12:16.120 not even near it one of the biggest weakness for men is women and i asked allah subhanahu wa ta'ala to 1.00

00:12:21.800 protect us all the brothers away from that fitna and i asked sisters to be protected for such men who 1.00

00:12:27.220 lead you along and like i said before brothers and sisters do not look at a woman that she wears 0.99

00:12:34.240 hijab or abaya and think she's righteous do not look at a brother who has a beard or is in the dawah 0.98

00:12:39.640 scene or wears a thob to think oh he must be a religion no now when i mention these two and i'm not

00:12:47.060 saying oh these religious people are bad no sometimes you get people who don't wear the

00:12:51.900 hijab who are good people and some of them you get they're bad you get hijab is that a good and

00:12:56.200 you get hijab is that a bad you get brothers who uh who for example don't practice the religion some

00:13:00.700 of them are good some of them are bad and you have brothers who practice the religion some of them are

00:13:04.360 good and some of them are bad hope you guys have benefited may allah subhanahu wa ta'ala grant every

00:13:08.120 single one of you guys jannah um inshallah as i'm doing this video i'll be releasing it i'll be

00:13:13.120 uh inshallah flying uh to umrah i'll be keeping you guys in my duas inshallah i will have a vlog

00:13:18.460 out when i come back showing how umrah is done do check that out and also do check out our new

00:13:23.160 channel halal dining hope you guys have benefited share this video please this is a really important

00:13:27.440 topic a lot of people have this misconception etc so please share this video and till then uh

00:13:33.740 inshallah take care assalamualaikum warahmatullahi barakatuh brothers and sisters

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Ali Dawah - May 10, 2016

WARNING SISTERS AGAINST ALI DAWAH

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