Ali Dawah - November 23, 2022


WE REACT TO HIJABI FEMINIST

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Ali Dawah
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Episode Stats


Length

2 minutes

Words per minute

245.26

Word count

664

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Harmful content

Misogyny

9

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Toxicity

7

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Hate speech

8

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Summary

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In this episode, I'm joined by my good friend and Muslim feminist, Fatima Al-Qadhi, to discuss the controversial topic of polygamy in the Muslim community and how it affects women in the modern world. We discuss what it means to be polyamorous in modern Muslim culture, what it is like to be a Muslim woman in the 21st century, and what it's like being a woman in a modern Muslim household.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 I've come together with the one on my charity which is 100% donation policy and do amazing work around the world
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00:00:15.260 You were reacting to Muslim women who were talking about their experiences with polygamy
00:00:21.980 Every man, we're talking about men, yeah?
00:00:24.160 You're a non-Muslim man, I'm a Muslim man
00:00:25.460 So the thing is, every man is polygamist by nature
00:00:28.560 What Islam does is send protocols to tell you how to do it in a proper way 1.00
00:00:32.060 That you don't abuse the other wife, you know why?
00:00:34.000 Because non-Muslim men, some Muslims do this as well 0.98
00:00:36.180 They have side chicks, mistresses and girlfriends 1.00
00:00:37.840 So Islam says no, if you're going to do it, you do it the right way 1.00
00:00:40.900 You want another woman, you honour her, you speak to her father 0.88
00:00:44.040 No, I'll get whatever I want and I'll chuck you to the side 0.97
00:00:46.820 No, no, no, you marry her, you honour her, you give her a wedding
00:00:48.940 You provide and protect for her
00:00:50.620 And I believe any woman in their right mind, if they're a feminist 1.00
00:00:53.660 They will be pro-polygyny all day, every day 0.99
00:00:55.680 When you were arguing with that woman, she was a feminist but also a Muslim, is that right? 0.92
00:01:02.660 Yes, she didn't ascribe, she had some feministic views, you know 1.00
00:01:05.540 Well, that was the title
00:01:06.920 It made for a good title, you know
00:01:08.960 Yeah, it worked
00:01:09.880 And you said, look
00:01:11.420 It did make me laugh, I've got a bit
00:01:14.200 You said, if you want me to stand in front of you
00:01:17.440 When we're getting attacked by some guy with a knife
00:01:20.120 Then you better look after me in the bedroom
00:01:22.520 Well, exactly, you know why, because this is exactly what we're saying
00:01:24.980 Remember I said, the greatest inequality is to treat unequal things equally
00:01:28.680 So the thing is, I'm at my most vulnerable when it comes to, and we studies that show
00:01:32.220 When it comes to intimacy
00:01:33.380 Now, as Muslim men, we are not allowed to sleep around
00:01:35.680 Meaning that, we even told, Allah says in the Quran
00:01:38.040 Tell the believing men to lower his gaze 0.86
00:01:39.540 Meaning, if I go out and I see a woman dressed inappropriately or appropriately 1.00
00:01:43.100 I don't care if she's wearing a niqab, hijab or a bikini 1.00
00:01:45.460 I have to look away
00:01:46.740 So I am protecting myself from that
00:01:49.300 With the gaze, yeah
00:01:50.960 So, and then afterwards
00:01:52.440 I'm going out, working for my family
00:01:54.900 Going out there
00:01:55.640 Come on, look at the rent price
00:01:56.600 You know how much rent price I have in London
00:01:57.560 Come on, bruv
00:01:58.240 And then you're going through all of that
00:01:59.640 You're coming home
00:02:00.520 And, by the way
00:02:01.760 She doesn't
00:02:03.440 If she doesn't want to
00:02:04.180 She doesn't have to
00:02:05.060 But what I'm saying is
00:02:05.860 Then I will get another wife 1.00
00:02:06.780 How about that?
00:02:08.140 So then
00:02:08.440 Oh no, I don't want that
00:02:09.100 Well then hold on a second
00:02:09.840 Well that's freedom of choice then
00:02:11.000 Well that's fine
00:02:12.240 But what I'm saying is
00:02:13.020 That when a man 0.95
00:02:14.220 I would remove her from my life 0.90
00:02:15.320 No, okay, okay
00:02:16.280 Maybe, no, no, maybe keep her 1.00
00:02:17.560 How many times is she allowed to say no though?
00:02:19.760 Because she may have a headache
00:02:20.440 No, no, no
00:02:21.380 No, no, no
00:02:21.680 These are valid excuses
00:02:23.700 She was saying
00:02:24.440 She was, you know what she was saying
00:02:26.140 She was saying
00:02:26.660 Lower your gaze to your wife
00:02:27.820 Don't look at her 1.00
00:02:28.760 Go masturbate 1.00
00:02:29.900 And I was thinking 1.00
00:02:31.280 Well hold on a second
00:02:31.860 Let's reverse it
00:02:32.700 You're on the road
00:02:34.000 Somebody pulls a knife out
00:02:35.100 Imagine me saying
00:02:36.080 I choose not to defend you
00:02:37.540 I don't have to
00:02:38.440 You will be losing your mind
00:02:39.720 The feminists will be protesting 0.99
00:02:40.680 In front of my house
00:02:41.960 Yeah