Ali Dawah - WHAT DID I JUST WATCH？ - MUSLIM RESPONDS

00:00:00.040 What do you think?

00:00:00.780 See I'm not interested.

00:00:01.880 What's the problem?

00:00:02.560 Why are you not interested on me?

00:00:04.140 What do you think?

00:00:04.600 See I'm not interested.

00:00:05.720 What's the problem?

00:00:06.400 Why are you not interested on me?

00:00:08.000 And I'm just appalled.

00:00:08.980 I'm genuinely appalled and disappointed.

00:00:10.900 Is this the future woman that our children's sons are going to marry? 0.94

00:00:13.660 Is this the future husbands that we're going to give our daughters to?

00:00:16.760 It's disgusting.

00:00:17.920 And it's all what aesthetics.

00:00:19.540 Subhanallah.

00:00:20.080 You are there simping over her.

00:00:21.620 Why?

00:00:21.820 Because of her looks. 0.99

00:00:23.160 Come on man.

00:00:26.720 Asalaamu Alaikum guys.

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00:01:30.040 Enjoy the video.

00:01:30.740 Assalamu alaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh.

00:01:32.160 Brothers and sisters and dear friends.

00:01:33.700 We're in the year 2025 and things are getting cringier and cringier and more embarrassing.

00:01:43.020 And sadly, we are losing our modesty and higher as we go along.

00:01:47.340 This is a video that I came across and I was in double mind.

00:01:49.700 And I'll be honest with you, I'm going to have double standards in this matter.

00:01:54.220 I believe I have some evidence from the Quran and the Sunnah.

00:01:57.720 I'm going to be blurring the sister's face and not the brother's. 0.94

00:02:01.160 Why?

00:02:02.080 We're going to watch the reaction, inshallah, for ourselves.

00:02:03.940 Firstly, I believe she's extremely caked herself up.

00:02:06.860 Number one.

00:02:07.580 Anyone that usually, when a woman is extremely caked herself up, I usually blur their face. 1.00

00:02:11.220 Other than that, I don't because I don't believe the face is awrah.

00:02:13.800 But in this instance, I believe this video would, and I don't intend to cause damage to anyone.

00:02:17.860 And I think their video in itself causes damage.

00:02:19.840 They shouldn't blame me.

00:02:20.920 But I just want to save her from, you know, brothers not wanting to marry her, etc.

00:02:25.680 Number two.

00:02:26.540 When it comes to the man, sadly, he doesn't need to have that issue, even though he's as blameworthy as he is.

00:02:31.440 And I'm going to give my two cents about him.

00:02:36.820 But I'm going to blur her face and not his. 0.95

00:02:38.920 Because to him, this doesn't really tarnish his image to that level as it would be with her.

00:02:42.380 But let's watch the video, and you guys can understand, okay, what am I talking about here, inshallah?

00:02:46.060 Here is two individuals on a live TikTok.

00:02:48.960 And this is what, how it transpired.

00:02:52.280 Let's watch for ourselves.

00:02:53.560 But I'm falling in love with you.

00:02:56.240 When this is not my problem.

00:02:59.100 Of course, you can do dua for me.

00:03:00.920 I'm not, I'm ugly in your eyes.

00:03:03.420 Okay, just let me just stop you there.

00:03:04.680 Let's dissect this piece by piece, inshallah.

00:03:06.440 Firstly, okay.

00:03:07.960 Number one.

00:03:09.160 Why are you guys on that platform?

00:03:10.640 If I'm not mistaken, this is a TikTok competition thing where you make money.

00:03:15.600 Now, subhanAllah, from what I can see, there are actually married men and married women who are on these platforms.

00:03:21.880 Number one, this is free mixing.

00:03:23.320 Like, this is free mixing.

00:03:24.720 Even though they are not in the same building together.

00:03:27.140 This is the definition of free mixing.

00:03:29.920 On what purpose, on what grounds are you guys coming together to casually chit-chat, laugh from both angles?

00:03:35.820 Number one, this brother, yes, why are you speaking to other women?

00:03:40.020 I don't care if you're married or not.

00:03:41.080 It's both not permissible.

00:03:42.560 You're casually free mixing.

00:03:44.060 Number two, with her as well.

00:03:45.940 Yes, both sides should have haya. 0.90

00:03:47.360 Why are you speaking to non-mahram men? 0.75

00:03:49.120 Why are you speaking to non-mahram women, Aki?

00:03:51.180 Yes, and not only that, sister, you have caked yourself up.

00:03:54.180 Yes, and you are there softening your voice.

00:03:56.360 Like Allah says in the Quran, do not soften your voice for there will be people who have a disease in their heart.

00:04:00.120 Okay, so, number one, from the get-go, you are there, and this is on dishonorable way.

00:04:05.340 You're trying to make money by going there.

00:04:08.060 Allah is shameful. 1.00

00:04:09.200 I'm so sorry.

00:04:10.100 You can speak, I don't want to give a fatwa. 1.00

00:04:11.180 You can go to scholars, and no scholar will come and say, you can make money by speaking to the opposite gender. 0.66

00:04:15.800 It's free mixing, it's haram.

00:04:17.120 It is haram.

00:04:18.060 People that complain about, oh, you know, this, that, et cetera, on your ads, whatever, those, makes your income haram.

00:04:24.620 This can also, let's carry on.

00:04:26.360 So, number one, what is the intention of the conversation?

00:04:28.600 It is not for the sake of Allah. 0.95

00:04:29.600 It's not pretending to help the deen.

00:04:31.060 What is it?

00:04:31.840 It's a casual chit-chat and laughing and joking.

00:04:35.280 Absolutely unnecessary.

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00:05:06.020 Let's go back to the video.

00:05:06.820 This is not about ugly, please.

00:05:10.860 Yeah, but why are you not interested in me?

00:05:15.100 It's not about looks.

00:05:16.360 I mean, one thing I need to say to the brothers.

00:05:19.680 Wallahi, Muslims.

00:05:21.480 You can have some halal game.

00:05:23.640 You can have some halal game.

00:05:25.080 Genuinely.

00:05:25.840 And I think this is what we're lacking as men.

00:05:27.380 A lot of men.

00:05:28.360 Have some halal game.

00:05:29.320 Have some integrity, bro.

00:05:30.940 The girl is basically telling you in a nutshell.

00:05:33.320 And you are there.

00:05:34.460 I don't mean this.

00:05:35.120 Look, I'm genuinely not trying to be disrespectful to any side.

00:05:37.080 I'm trying to be objected to the best of my ability.

00:05:39.760 Yes?

00:05:39.960 Because she's basically saying, let me just.

00:05:44.220 This is not about ugly, please.

00:05:47.020 She's basically saying, oh, why are you not interested in me?

00:05:50.160 Bro, that's so desperate.

00:05:51.600 And a woman doesn't like that. 1.00

00:05:52.680 You're desperate.

00:05:53.580 If there's anything that a woman gives a woman an ick, is desperation. 1.00

00:05:57.120 Number one, you should not be talking to each other.

00:05:58.280 Number two, have some halal game.

00:06:00.840 There should be some halal game.

00:06:01.760 Have some integrity.

00:06:02.760 You get it?

00:06:03.440 Don't be so in the face like, you know, be interested in me.

00:06:06.340 Women don't like that. 1.00

00:06:07.220 I'm giving you a brotherly advice.

00:06:09.060 Yes?

00:06:09.220 I'm not saying I'm some, you know, no, no.

00:06:12.180 Genuinely, I come from a jahiliya.

00:06:14.620 I have some experience in Islam as well.

00:06:16.300 You know, I've gone to know sisters for marriage in a halal way. 0.98

00:06:19.140 There should be some game, bro.

00:06:19.960 There should be some, you know, you have some, you know, self-respect, you know, the way you carry yourself.

00:06:24.660 And she's, yeah, and this is called a simping.

00:06:27.660 And let's be honest.

00:06:28.560 I'm not trying to lame you, my brother.

00:06:30.300 Genuinely, she comes across a simping.

00:06:31.480 Let's carry on.

00:06:32.900 If I go after look and money, I'm never going to be single today.

00:06:39.220 I'll be honest with you, sister.

00:06:41.460 If you carry on the way you carry on, you'll be single for a long time.

00:06:45.800 If you are there casually speaking to men, yes, vice versa. 0.80

00:06:48.620 And even yourself, Aki.

00:06:50.100 Yes, with all due respect, yeah.

00:06:51.340 You're there casually.

00:06:51.900 I'll be honest with you.

00:06:53.060 If you came to ask for my daughter's hand, brother, you're getting rejected, bro.

00:06:56.140 Get the hell out of my house, man.

00:06:57.200 You're just casually speaking to a woman on live.

00:06:59.900 If this was done in private, you can say, you know what?

00:07:02.260 Even then, it's wrong.

00:07:03.960 But publicly, you know, out there, you know, for both, you know, I'll be honest with you.

00:07:08.020 And even her, even her.

00:07:09.400 If I had a son, he'd come and said to me, I'm marrying this one.

00:07:11.420 And I found this one.

00:07:12.000 I'd say, hell no.

00:07:13.320 You are not marrying this woman. 1.00

00:07:14.980 Yes?

00:07:15.480 Kaji speaking to a guy, trying to, he's trying to chirp her, et cetera.

00:07:19.560 Let's carry on.

00:07:20.400 Okay, sorry, sorry.

00:07:22.420 Sorry, Kylie Jenner.

00:07:23.500 Sorry, Kim Kardashian.

00:07:24.260 No, no, but it's true.

00:07:25.700 Like, let's be honest, you know.

00:07:27.900 I don't think about that.

00:07:29.780 What do you think you are?

00:07:31.420 What do you think you are?

00:07:32.500 You think you are better than me?

00:07:34.240 You think you are better than me?

00:07:34.940 No, I didn't say so.

00:07:36.180 Okay, you can see.

00:07:36.940 I mean, this is, this shows insecurity.

00:07:39.500 And again, this is something that gives a woman an ick. 1.00

00:07:41.520 The fact that you have insecurity.

00:07:43.300 If somebody says they're attracted to you.

00:07:44.780 It's totally fine.

00:07:46.040 Do you get what I'm trying to say?

00:07:46.680 And it doesn't need to be attraction.

00:07:47.640 It can be incompatibility.

00:07:49.300 When I was looking to get married and get married,

00:07:51.400 there was times where I've, I want to use the word reject.

00:07:53.860 But I said, you know, we're not compatible.

00:07:55.280 And there were times where I was told, we're not compatible.

00:07:58.100 I totally respect that.

00:07:58.960 There's been times where I said, may Allah bless you, sister.

00:08:00.780 I do respect that you're upfront about it.

00:08:02.400 May Allah bless and preserve you and grant you someone that's better.

00:08:04.740 What about your business, bro?

00:08:05.780 No.

00:08:06.160 Hey, but please, but, yeah, can you have some integrity, bro?

00:08:09.340 No, okay, that's fine.

00:08:10.020 Totally, you respect that, bro.

00:08:10.840 And let me tell you something.

00:08:11.300 But at least in that woman's eyes, you have some integrity. 0.91

00:08:13.400 And if there is a chance for her to pick you, it's in that moment.

00:08:17.440 When you do this, look, you're getting angry, bro.

00:08:19.380 You're getting angry.

00:08:20.740 Yes, okay.

00:08:21.600 Number one, this is not right.

00:08:22.720 And one thing that I want to mention, which is pertinent and key to the sister.

00:08:27.080 I want to ask the sister.

00:08:28.160 Yes, okay, because men are known to approach women in public.

00:08:30.320 So I'm not going to see it from his angle.

00:08:32.580 Yes, which should not be done in this way, by the way.

00:08:35.220 This is, in a man's perspective, it's wrong.

00:08:37.040 From your perspective, sister, if you was in the public, if this man approached you in this way, would you entertain it?

00:08:46.460 Number one, you showed clearly on the live or in private or in a public, let's say, place, you want to entertain it because you're not interested.

00:08:53.680 You don't find him interesting.

00:08:54.900 No problem.

00:08:55.480 And I can see, and I don't blame her, with all due respect, I'm sorry, the way you're behaving.

00:08:58.680 Number two, at least your modesty will come in and you will say no.

00:09:02.880 Or if you're interested, you go about it the right way.

00:09:04.220 You can speak to my father, et cetera.

00:09:05.200 Now, I want to ask a simple question then.

00:09:08.420 Why is it that when it's a live, you entertain it?

00:09:13.000 Because it clearly showed you're not interested in him.

00:09:15.100 Why are you carrying on this conversation?

00:09:17.760 There's another incentive, which is what?

00:09:21.580 Monetary or what?

00:09:22.980 Passing time?

00:09:23.940 This is free mixing.

00:09:25.220 Yes?

00:09:25.800 This is what free mixing is, by the way, guys.

00:09:27.700 Yeah, because people are accusing me.

00:09:29.560 This is free mixing.

00:09:30.960 Okay, when we used to do the Bitty True Show, we was in the same building.

00:09:33.520 It was not free mixing.

00:09:34.300 This, they're not in the same building, is free mixing because it's unnecessary chatter,

00:09:38.420 nothing to do with the deen, and it's going to conversations of, you know, you're interested

00:09:42.380 in me, you're not interested in me.

00:09:43.260 So you can clearly see.

00:09:44.900 And it is very, and again, anyone that makes a living out of this, I don't care if you are

00:09:49.120 married or not, this is, let me tell you something, it is haram free mixing. 0.98

00:09:53.260 Your income could be deemed as haram.

00:09:54.820 I'm not someone that can give that factor.

00:09:56.600 So you can see, subhanAllah, that from her nature, she's hypergamous, and basically she's, 0.99

00:10:01.320 you know, this doesn't attract her, bro.

00:10:02.960 This does not attract her at all.

00:10:04.300 But let's carry on.

00:10:05.340 What do you think?

00:10:05.820 I think I'm not interested.

00:10:06.920 What's the problem?

00:10:07.600 Why are you not interested in me?

00:10:09.080 Why are you not interested in me?

00:10:11.000 Oh my gosh, man.

00:10:12.240 Oh my God.

00:10:12.740 I didn't think it would get worse.

00:10:15.840 Wallahi, Muslim men need halal game, bro. 0.99

00:10:18.480 What is this?

00:10:19.060 Is this how Muslim men are moving? 1.00

00:10:20.320 Like, look, I'm not, the occurrence in itself is not permissible.

00:10:24.500 Yeah, Aki, brothers, brothers, brothers, man.

00:10:27.420 Brothers, is this how you've become simps, bro?

00:10:31.360 Bro, it makes me sick, man.

00:10:34.280 Bruv, have some aura to yourself, bro.

00:10:38.020 Like, have some respect, have some game, bro.

00:10:41.620 When you carry yourself, let that woman see confidence in you, bro.

00:10:44.220 Let that woman see that you are a man of certainty, that you are self-confident.

00:10:48.480 This brother doesn't have self-confidence.

00:10:50.220 You don't want me.

00:10:51.020 You think I'm ugly.

00:10:52.020 Why are you saying that?

00:10:54.000 And then only that.

00:10:54.820 Look, listen to this.

00:10:56.100 What do you think?

00:10:56.560 I think I'm not interested.

00:10:57.660 What's the problem?

00:10:58.360 Why are you not interested in me?

00:10:59.980 Wallahi, if a woman said to me, I'm not interested in you, I would never utter, why are you not interested in me?

00:11:06.980 Wallahi, I would say, okay, no problem.

00:11:08.520 I respect that.

00:11:09.140 May Allah give you someone better.

00:11:10.780 As-salamu alaykum.

00:11:11.400 Bye-bye.

00:11:12.200 Simple as that.

00:11:13.520 Let's carry on.

00:11:14.580 I'm not ugly.

00:11:15.540 I'm Muslim too.

00:11:17.120 It's not about ugly.

00:11:18.300 It's about religion.

00:11:20.700 I am Muslim.

00:11:21.500 It's not about religion either.

00:11:23.180 Okay.

00:11:24.520 Look, look, look, look, bro, the woman is shutting you down from all angles. 1.00

00:11:28.920 It's not even about religion.

00:11:29.700 Okay.

00:11:29.820 Number one, like I said before, brothers and sisters, in this instance, you can see, subhanAllah, the Prophet ﷺ said, a woman is married for four.

00:11:36.600 Number one, lineage.

00:11:38.180 Number two, beauty.

00:11:39.900 Number three, religion.

00:11:41.860 Number four, I cannot remember.

00:11:44.700 And he said, pick religion.

00:11:46.080 Now, this is one thing I want to tell brothers and sisters.

00:11:49.160 This sister is wearing a jilbab. 0.73

00:11:51.480 This brother, he's got a beard, whatever you want to call it, and he's not wearing tight clothes, etc.

00:11:57.520 Do not ever, this one lesson I learned in my marriage seeking process, do not ever judge anybody.

00:12:02.700 Wallahi, I was getting to know a sister for marriage who were in niqab. 0.99

00:12:06.420 Jilbab.

00:12:07.740 أَوْذُ بِاللَّهِ مَنَا شَيْطَانِ الرَّجِيمِ

00:12:09.940 The questions they would ask me, لا إِلَّهَ إِلَّا اللَّهِ

00:12:15.280 Don't ever fall for this look.

00:12:18.440 He has a beard, he has a Qur'an, a maswaq, a big maswaq, you know, brushes his teeth, his big teeth with it, yeah?

00:12:24.640 Let me tell you something, yeah?

00:12:26.300 The team's laughing in the back, yeah?

00:12:28.060 Let me tell you something.

00:12:29.120 It means نَدَّى.

00:12:30.900 Zero.

00:12:32.540 Look at this.

00:12:33.200 Let's just carry on.

00:12:34.140 Wallahi, this is appalling.

00:12:35.660 Appalling.

00:12:35.980 And this is the reason why, let me tell you something, yeah?

00:12:38.500 My dear sister and my brother, yeah?

00:12:42.240 Wallahi, is it worth going there and making a few quids, a pound, your integrity, your hayah, your modesty.

00:12:48.280 I'll be honest with you, this is a massive put-off.

00:12:50.900 I would never let my daughter marry a man like him, neither would I let my son come close to the vicinity of her.

00:12:57.520 Sadly, I'm not saying they are totally, I'm not saying that.

00:13:00.260 I'm saying this here, if you can just casually talk, yeah, yeah.

00:13:02.860 And wallahi, to me, this is a thing where I would not overlook. 0.69

00:13:09.600 It's a flag, red flag.

00:13:10.780 She may, in the material sense, use, for example, oh, look how many men are interested in me.

00:13:14.820 But let me tell you something, those kind of men are simps, like this guy here.

00:13:19.080 Because those kind of men who look at this and think that you have a value by so many men approaching you, let me tell you something.

00:13:24.580 We as men, we prefer the less men that approach our woman or the woman that we're going to marry, her value goes up. 0.95

00:13:33.560 Not vice versa.

00:13:34.160 So a man of a dunya, a simp, a coward, a little weasel who has no backbone, who's desperate, who's insecure, might be interested and say, oh, I want to marry her. 0.99

00:13:43.480 But a man of deen, a man of structure, discipline, somebody who has a backbone, who has self-respect for himself and is confident in himself, will look at this and say, this is not a woman that I would like to marry or make the mother for my children.

00:13:55.320 That's the reason I blurred her face, because I believe this video would harm her unintentionally, because her video is public, by the way.

00:14:00.420 Yes, so I don't want blame on me.

00:14:02.040 Would harm her more than this guy.

00:14:03.360 Yes, I'm living a double standard.

00:14:04.980 It's about what?

00:14:05.640 I'm not interested.

00:14:08.720 Bro, I'm getting, you know when she says I'm not interested, bro, I, I'm getting secondhand embarrassment.

00:14:15.900 Yeah, okay, she said bedtime, she's not interested, bro.

00:14:18.120 Bro, look off.

00:14:20.140 La ilaha illallah.

00:14:21.140 You need to be interested in me.

00:14:23.180 Allahu Akbar.

00:14:29.140 Bro, you're telling her you need to be, bro, what do you mean you have to be interested in me?

00:14:35.300 Aki islamic, she has a right to say she's not interested in you, bro. 1.00

00:14:37.580 She's not, she's told you five times, man.

00:14:40.080 Have some shame, Aki.

00:14:40.920 This is a joke.

00:14:41.360 Well, I'm stunned.

00:14:41.800 See, this is a parody.

00:14:42.340 I'm assuming the best.

00:14:42.880 This is a parody, bro.

00:14:43.900 Is this a joke?

00:14:44.640 Is this someone that you know?

00:14:45.520 Is this your wife?

00:14:46.240 You guys are just playing games?

00:14:47.360 Of course.

00:14:49.500 You're beautiful.

00:14:52.600 Look, how is it end?

00:14:53.840 Him calling her beautiful and laughing.

00:14:59.200 And you know what it is?

00:14:59.980 If you look at it, sister, you're entertaining that.

00:15:02.200 Because the more he's talking, you can just say, look, brother, with all your respect,

00:15:04.520 can you flipping, get, look, if this was in public, if this was in public, you would

00:15:11.000 not do this.

00:15:12.760 My dear sister, this is a nasir from you. 0.96

00:15:14.580 Yes?

00:15:14.780 Usually when I do these videos, you reach out to me.

00:15:17.140 The brother says that, I'm assuming you're going to reach out to me.

00:15:18.740 Not that I need you to reach out to me.

00:15:20.600 I'm just saying this, yeah?

00:15:21.820 You put yourself in these situations.

00:15:23.240 We as Muslims, Allah says in the Quran, enjoy the good and fit with the evil. 0.94

00:15:25.780 Let there rise amongst you.

00:15:26.560 And I'm not trying to be that pious guy who does that.

00:15:28.560 But wallahi, it hurts me to see that sisters have come to this level where this, and I'm

00:15:32.660 not trying to say she's like, audu billah, look, she's somebody's sister.

00:15:35.360 I don't mean any disrespect.

00:15:36.380 Wallahi.

00:15:37.240 But I'm upset.

00:15:38.600 The way you're behaving and carrying yourself.

00:15:40.400 And you as a man, the same goes for you, bro.

00:15:43.600 The same goes for you.

00:15:45.160 How are you so casually talking to her, bro?

00:15:47.360 It's haram.

00:15:47.880 This is free mixing, bro.

00:15:50.900 Ajeeb, wallahi, it's strange, man.

00:15:53.200 Have some haya.

00:15:54.020 Where's the modesty gone, bro?

00:15:55.980 And people come and have a go at me.

00:15:57.100 You are your ex-boy.

00:15:57.660 Shut the hell up, man.

00:15:58.580 Please, Willow, just shut the hell up. 1.00

00:16:00.820 They have no haya and shame just talking like this casually.

00:16:03.960 And I'm the one who's going to have, I'm going to be shy.

00:16:05.600 Can you imagine?

00:16:06.060 No, you be the one that's shy.

00:16:06.920 You hold back.

00:16:07.340 No.

00:16:07.920 No.

00:16:10.040 Because the Prophet ﷺ said, you either enjoy good and forbid evil,

00:16:13.100 or Allah will send down a calamity that even if you prostrate, you'll be rejected. 0.60

00:16:18.020 This deen is about advising one another.

00:16:19.820 If you see something in me, you own me.

00:16:21.580 You tell me.

00:16:22.660 Yes?

00:16:23.460 There's a way we conduct ourself.

00:16:26.300 And I'm just appalled.

00:16:27.320 I am genuinely appalled and disappointed.

00:16:29.240 Is this the future woman that our children's sons are going to marry? 0.94

00:16:31.980 Is this the future husbands that we're going to give our daughters to?

00:16:35.760 It's disgusting.

00:16:38.240 And it's all about aesthetics.

00:16:41.040 SubhanAllah.

00:16:41.540 You are there simping over her.

00:16:43.100 Why?

00:16:43.280 Because of her looks. 0.99

00:16:44.620 Yes?

00:16:45.160 Because of her looks. 0.99

00:16:46.200 You want to make this without your respect.

00:16:48.560 Yes?

00:16:49.420 She's clearly told she's not interested in you.

00:16:50.740 You're still simping.

00:16:52.500 Come on, man.

00:16:54.280 That's all I have to say, brothers and sisters.

00:16:55.600 What I just want to say.

00:16:56.680 And I blurred her face, covered her face.

00:16:59.000 Because as a woman, like we know from the Quran and Sunnah, the seven major sins. 1.00

00:17:02.380 One of them is to accuse a chaste woman of adultery. 0.97

00:17:06.220 Alhamdulillah, we're not doing anything close to that.

00:17:07.380 Alhamdulillah.

00:17:07.600 We know she's an honorable woman.

00:17:08.620 Aawdu billah.

00:17:09.060 We're not saying nothing.

00:17:09.600 I'm just saying that modesty, khaya element, both sides. 0.88

00:17:12.860 But I know this will cause her more harm.

00:17:14.860 Because to a man, it's not that deep for us.

00:17:17.000 We have to be just.

00:17:17.740 That's why you see, there's sometimes double standards, which is necessity in this matter.

00:17:22.120 Yep.

00:17:23.040 Because in the Quran, in the hadith, it talks about the chaste of a woman.

00:17:25.940 That's more.

00:17:27.000 It will cause more harm for her than the man.

00:17:29.220 It's a reality.

00:17:30.780 That's it, brothers and sisters.

00:17:31.460 That's all I want to say, inshallah.

00:17:32.320 Until next time.

00:17:32.840 Assalamualaikum.

00:17:33.460 Wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh.

00:17:34.160 Inshallah.

00:17:34.720 Anything that I said wrong is for myself and shaitan.

00:17:36.480 Anything good is for Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala. 1.00

00:17:37.680 Assalamualaikum.

00:17:38.400 Wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh.

00:17:39.200 Brom sisters, when you're seeking marriage, please, Brom sisters, look for something more than just hijab and this, that, et cetera, and looks.

00:17:47.660 Goodbye.

Ali Dawah - August 22, 2025

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