Who Killed Aicha？？ ｜｜ Documentary
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Summary
In this episode, we talk about the tragic death of a 14-year-old girl who committed suicide at the hands of her own sister. We also talk about what happened to her family, the aftermath of the incident, and the consequences of slander.
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That would be your mother, that would be your sister
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What makes this incident so significant you know even so just that us two are going like I mean
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there's no one even else yeah to be honest yeah I really wanted to do this project because you
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see slander is something really really big and allah mentioned this in the Quran and speaks very
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harshly of it you know and the people that slander against those believing men and believing women
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their punishments are severe as well so slander plays a big role in society and people just do
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it like that like it's nothing but they don't understand the damages that it causes and one
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of those damages is like the sister you know that has committed suicide maybe not only her case but
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many people I've heard stories in Canada you know I've heard stories of sister saying my once my
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brother dragged me into the car beat the crap out of me because sorry because somebody got went and
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said oh your sister did this and that no proof no evidence he said she said so this is something
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that we need to learn from and I thought you know what if it needs us to go to France together as a
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see we have to go you know it's so important that even brother Imran might be catching the plane to
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come help us with it inshallah okay cool um when you released the post a few weeks ago there was a
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lot of uh backlash and you even had to put up a few justification videos a lot of people were saying
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that she's passed away now why would you want to go and expose her actions what's your response
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yeah you see people look at it from this side you know we look at it from left right center up down
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upside down we look at it from different aspects they only see as oh what are you going to achieve
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out of it we know what we want to achieve out of it there's such an upgrade there's a lesson to be
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learned from this you know that's why we're going out then as you watch this video you will see
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the benefits that it has okay and lastly um out of this trip what are you looking to achieve
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yeah that's the objective well to be honest like i said a minute ago same things so we can all learn
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all together um the consequences of slander but my main objective my main objective is that but
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along here obviously we want to build uh sadaqa jari you know for the sister so we're looking at
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building maybe a couple of water wells and some olive trees in gaza so you know inshallah so the sister
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can benefit from the hereafter do you get i'm trying to say so that's one of my objectives as well you
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know we just don't want to put this we don't want to just brush this under the carpet and you know
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everybody forget it yeah no no i want to put it out there so we can tackle this issue instead of just
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being silent about it that's my main objective we just woke up 11 um one of the brothers organized
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the translator for us but he messaged me in the morning and he said that he's kind of flopped so he's
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not going to be coming so right now we're in a bit of a dilemma because the people here they don't
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speak english and they just speak just french so we need to find the translator otherwise we can't
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we just can't do anything can't do nothing here so what we're going to do is we're in contact with
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a couple of people just waiting for them to give us uh updates what's going to happen and inshallah
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we're trying to get a a translator inshallah and yeah we're in a bit of a desperate situation to
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be honest but inshallah let's see what allah's got planned for us and we're going to hit stains
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personally can you can you can you can you ask him uh what uh what does he know about
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what i heard is that they published a photo or a video of the girl and it was photoshopped
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and it's made her look in an appropriate situation and then people start talking and start bullying her
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in social networks in her neighborhood and the streets and then the girl she got really annoyed
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and she was so desperate to the point that she committed suicide
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i heard about the story from people from echoes of what happened to her but i don't know the reality of it
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what i heard is uh she had a sexual relationship with her boyfriend and then he published a video of that on facebook and then he just let it go he didn't pay attention to what he did
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it seems that she got pregnant and her brother was trying to hit her and he was trying to catch her
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so she got afraid of her brother she got scared of what he's gonna do to her so she fled to her grandmother's house and when he came over she was scared of what's gonna happen to her and she just killed herself she committed
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i heard the story saying that she had a sexual relationship with her boyfriend and then a video of that was published online
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and it ended up in the hands of her family so she was so desperate and she took the decision to end her life instead
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well what i heard is that she didn't want to kill herself she just wanted to hurt herself and not kill herself
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does she not does he know that the video wasn't off her it wasn't her does he know
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well some people say it was her some people say it was not her but i personally saw some photos on facebook and i'm sure it was her
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but we found out that it's not her so do they know that really i have no idea that she was
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it was not her me personally i didn't see the video so i cannot tell you if it was her
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in the video or not i heard it from friends and from the from people here in the neighborhood
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as i told you earlier i personally think it doesn't matter if it was her not her in the video
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do you know that basically that video was a slander like it wasn't her on the video
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no it's for sure no it's for sure it was her in the video okay but but how is he how is can you
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ask him how is he so sure that it was her those videos i saw the photos on the facebook account
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of this guy of her boyfriend okay okay okay let's let's let's tell him that what we have been told
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by the police and journalists that the video is not of her who does he think is responsible for
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her death i think that the person who published the video on the forum in the first place is the
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one to blame first of all all the people that spoke about her all the people that bullied her they are
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partners in this on this crime you know why because what they did is slander they totally ignored what
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our prophet muhammad peace be open on him had recommended us i will blame the people who put the video
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okay on internet yes and true or false we don't have to interfere people be big business people life
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understand so i disagree with that yes in my opinion i think the people who criticized her the people
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who bullied her on facebook computer people who just judged her and said she's a bad person she's a bad
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girl even her closest friends who are supposed to support her and stand by her side and of course the
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person who published the video on internet we blame social network i think it's everyone's fault it's
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the people online the person who published the video and her family as well who put a pressure on
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her in a way that she felt scared to speak to them and she ended up by killing herself anyone in our age
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you will feel scared in her situation no one can judge what would you say the community should
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have done instead of maybe instead of bullying yeah they should have stayed quiet about it and have
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respect for her and the family and for them too yeah because it's a sin because this is because they're not
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like nobody knows hundred percent what happened no yeah i mean no yeah as far as i know nobody knows
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hundred percent exactly so it's like what would you what advice would you give to them if there's people
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watching out there you know if they have this kind of mentality where they don't they hear something
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what advice would you say three weeks ago a 14 year old muslim girl called aisha
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was accused of a lie in a slander a video went viral and this slander was made against her
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that she committed zinnah and the person the video was her and the community and her and the people
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in the social media turned against her and pushed her so far that she had no choice
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but to commit suicide as a way out now brothers and sisters i want to talk to you guys about another
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aisha and this aisha is very dear to us it's the mother of the believers aisha radiallahu anha
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aisha radiallahu anha our mother was slandered against when she was traveling with the prophet
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muhammad peace be upon him on a journey in a desert unfortunately aisha radiallahu anha got separated by the
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caravan and she was lost and qadr of allah a sahaba by the name of sufwan ibn muattal was going past and he
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saw aisha radiallahu anha he did not speak anything except to bring his camel kneel the camel down so
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aisha radiallahu anha can jump on the camel and so he can catch up with the caravan when they arrived at their
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destination the leader of the hypocrites abdullah ibn obey saw this started a slander a lie against the
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mother of the believers these rumors and these slanders went on for a whole month and when aisha
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radiallahu anha heard this she was so distressed she said that she was she would cry every night she would
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cry and she was in distress and she didn't know what to do just as a situation where many of the sisters
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would be with the slander now when the prophet muhammad peace be upon him one day says you know
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what he approaches aisha radiallahu anha and says look i have heard what they've been saying indeed if
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it's a slander allah subhanahu wa ta'ala will clarify this matter and claim your name and clear your name
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but indeed if you did commit this sin allah is off forgiven most merciful just repent now these words of
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the prophet peace be upon him hurt her because it made her feel like he still doubts her so she was
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really distraught and this carried on and subhanallah brothers and sisters allah subhanahu wa ta'ala indeed
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he is most just he sent down revelation in surah nur verse 11 he says and the slander was made against you
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aisha amongst a gang among you and indeed do not think that this slander is bad for you indeed it is
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good for you those who made this slander under their judgment their sins will be put forth to them and
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the ones who play the bigger part indeed they will suffer the consequences thereof and in the following
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verses allah subhanahu wa ta'ala talks directly to those people who slandered against aisha radiallahu anha
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and said those amongst you why did they not make an excuse why did they say you know what no maybe it
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wasn't her any kind of excuse made possible to clear her name and when allah subhanahu wa ta'ala
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sent these verses down he directly was conveying that message to the people who started the slander and
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accusations and allah says in the quran oh believing men and women why did you not make good excuses
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for aisha and not only aisha for anybody that gets slandered why did you not think good even if the
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video is out or whatever it is why did you not say you know what it's not her it can't be her she
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wouldn't do that why did you not make good excuses for her and allah subhanahu wa ta'ala says in the
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following verses why did they not bring four witnesses indeed if they are truthful and not only that and allah
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subhanahu wa ta'ala says indeed you did not bring these witnesses you are a liar in my eyes you are
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a liar so this is what allah subhanahu wa ta'ala is harshly addressing those people who do the slander
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and make every excuse to blame the individual and following the verses allah subhanahu wa ta'ala says
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had it not been my grace and my mercy in this life and the hereafter indeed a severe punishment would have
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fall upon you while you was talking and slandering saying things that you have no knowledge of
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like it's something small indeed allah says for me what you did was grave it was big in my sight
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why did you not say when you heard indeed it is not for me to talk about it's got nothing to do with me
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and move away allah subhanahu wa ta'ala says in the final verses i warn you that indeed if you're true
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believers do not repeat the same thing again with another individual now brothers and sisters as we
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heard how allah subhanahu wa ta'ala sent down revelation to protect the honor of aisha radiallahu
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and and all the people those verses are not only just for aisha radiallahu and for those people
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that get slandered as well now brothers and sisters i just want to share a quick story of umar
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ibn qatar now the reason why i share this story in brief is because how many of us when we hear
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something we jump to assumptions accusations and we start spreading rumors this rumor cost somebody's
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life and i'm sure there's thousands of sisters or brothers out there being slandered against
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umar ibn qatar when he was the amir moominin a female came and she was pregnant and people were
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saying that she has committed zina and she came to umar ibn qatar said oh amir moominin i am a virgin
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now imagine guys if you saw a pregnant girl would you say she is a virgin no you wouldn't you will
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instantaneously no she hundred percent committed zina this is what the characteristics of a true
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believer amir moominin umar ibn qatar gave the benefit of the doubt she came and told the story
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and said indeed i am a heavy sleeper when i sleep nothing wakes me up she says one day when i woke up
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i saw semen all over me and this is scientifically proving that there is a chance of the sperm entering
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and a female being pregnant even when she's a virgin she hasn't committed the act
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and umar ibn qatar believed the woman gave her the benefit of the doubt how many of us if we heard
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this we would be like she committed zina we would jump to accusations and all kinds of madness
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now brothers and sisters the reason why i shared the message of umar ibn qatar is because when we
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was interviewing a brother came along and i told him clearly that this was a slander made against
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the sister and the police and the journalists say that the video was not of her but he turned around
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to me and said no i've watched the video and it was of her and i was like look firstly why are you
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watching the video secondly why can't you make good assumptions instead you're supporting trying to
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support your case and to prove a point that it was her wallahi if you are a true believer you would make
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every single excuse to protect the name and the honor of any sister that lissando has been made
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against and i 100 hold this i'm sorry but i do not believe even even if he's sorry whatever he saw
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i don't believe it the police and the journalists say that it wasn't her and wallahi i put 100 in
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that and i assume the best and i believe that our sister aisha wasn't the one in the video 100 now i want
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to finish off with addressing four people number one my dear sister if the a slander is made against
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you wallahi do not ever despair the mercy of your lord no matter what you go through just as allah
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said in surah nur verse 11 indeed those assumptions and those negative assumptions and sliders made
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against you is good for you allah is reassuring you let them slander against you sister let them
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slander against you indeed on the day of judgment you will grab every single one of their good deeds
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for yourself and that might be a ticket for you to enter jannah and it might even cause them to enter
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the hellfire so my dear sister as a brother i'm telling you wallahi do not ever think that suicide
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is an option suicide is not an option my dear sister i'd be strong if you need to talk i'm here my team is
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here there is sisters out there would that would love to help you but wallahi i ask for the sake of
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allah do not ever think about suicide my dear sister wallahi do not ever think about that shame on
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those who put you in this situation where you see nothing but death as an option shame on them
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now the second person that i want to address is my dear sister if you have committed this act if these
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videos or whatever has been circulated around you my dear sister i know you're going to go through tough
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times but wallahi allah says in the quran indeed my servants who have transgressed against themselves
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do not ever despair the mercy of your lord wallahi my sister we are not perfect none of us are perfect
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we all fall for a sin no matter what sin you do repent turn to your lord but wallahi don't go through
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them don't ever see suicide as an option do not ever think my dear sister that you allah will never forgive
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you wallahi this from shaytan thirdly if you are a family member if you are a brother or an uncle
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or a father that has heard this story or heard this land or heard this slander wallahi aki there is a big
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role that you play in this matter there is a big role that you play in this matter if you have heard
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such a thing if you have heard such a thing if there is no evidence my dear brother do not ever doubt your
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sister against those who slander indeed the slander is a big sin don't believe them don't do something
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that you have no knowledge of like allah says in the quran in surah nur don't talk about a matter
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that you have no knowledge of think the best assume the best of your sister do not ever believe their
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story and then turn to your sister or your daughter or whoever it may be and start beating them and start
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cursing them and making their life hell you don't know you do not know if it is true now let's assume
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that it did happen it was her ya aki is it the right thing to do to beat her kick her out
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my dear brother maybe you are to blame maybe as much as she made a mistake you are to blame for
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not helping her for not talking to her for not showing her the love that she has to go outside and
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find that love with somebody else maybe you as a parent you are to blame for not taking care of your
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daughter for not showing her the love everybody easily points to blame at the female but do you
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ever think what have i done have i done the right thing have i shown enough love to my daughter have
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i shown enough love to my sister have i protected her have i tried to educate her no then you are to
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blame as much as she may be for falling for the sin or out of her ignorance now last but not least
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those who spread slander wallahi i fear the punishment for you if you do not repent
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on the day of judgment all you people in france and wherever it may be in the world
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that you share this video you laugh about it you your hands are stained in blood
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how will you answer allah on the day of judgment when a slander or even if the story was true
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you help that story reach more and more people how do you sleep at night wallahi how do you sleep
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at night knowing allah sent down a revelation for those who slander for those who slander against
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individuals and talk about matters that you have no knowledge of wallahi for you even for you allah
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has mercy allah has rahma repent and allah says in surah no i warn you to not repeat the same acts
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don't go back and commit the same standard with another individual make as much excuses as possible
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after looking into this matter going there speaking to the public i truly believe the biggest portion
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of the blame is on the family the community and those people who shared this video and slandered against that sister
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and my dear brothers and sisters i want your help wallahi please this is all i need from you
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i beg of you please we don't want to lose another life another innocent sister
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to the slander to the slander so please today we are going to hashtag who killed aisha
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and i want you to share this video link with that hashtag all over social media and i want you to share
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this with every single youtuber's facebook page instagram whatever it may be we want this message to reach the
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thousands and our objective is number one to clear her name and indeed it was a slander made against her
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number two we want to raise money to do sadaqa jari for her build two water wells and 12 olive trees
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so indeed many people didn't benefit benefit her in this life so at least let's do a couple of things for her in the hereafter
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brothers and sisters and this is about it from me may allah's mercy and blessings be upon you all