Ali Dawah - July 05, 2020


WHY KHABIB OBEYED HIS FATHER？ - REACTION VIDEO


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Brother Saboor shares his thoughts on the death of his father and the impact it has had on his son Khabib and his relationship with his father. He also talks about the importance of a good relationship with your father.

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00:00:00.160 Just to finish on this point, it's the first time I think I saw Brother Imran.
00:00:06.240 And one thing I learned and loved from him was that whenever he would see his mum or dad,
00:00:11.120 he would go straight and kiss them on the head.
00:00:13.260 Thank you so much. Thank you, guys. Thank you for waiting for me here.
00:00:16.460 I know my father is going to smash me when I go home because I know he's going to smash me.
00:00:22.080 Because with atheism and agnosticism and these types of things which take off,
00:00:26.040 and obviously Connor is a product of this secular liberal program,
00:00:32.560 you lose all these morals, you lose all these values, you lose all this sacredness for parents.
00:00:56.040 Moschino and Versace, no laces in Arachis, new millennium.
00:01:01.060 As-salamu alaykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh, brothers and sisters and dear friends.
00:01:04.540 Hope you guys are well, inshaAllah.
00:01:06.160 So, we're here at the Salaam Studios.
00:01:08.740 We did some Dawah today in Leicester Square.
00:01:11.080 And obviously everybody knows about the death of Khabib's father.
00:01:16.580 And we thought we'll share some interesting, we're going to watch some videos
00:01:19.880 where there are moments together, grappling,
00:01:23.620 and maybe watch a video where when Khabib became the champion in the UFC,
00:01:31.600 how his dad felt about that.
00:01:33.820 And then we're going to talk about, we always talk about the rights of the mothers.
00:01:38.600 But the fathers and how one should be with their father is very important.
00:01:42.680 And I think it's not given its due right.
00:01:44.580 So, that's what we're going to do, inshaAllah.
00:01:46.900 So, we're going to get straight into it.
00:01:47.640 We've got Brother Saboor.
00:01:49.000 How are you, Brother Saboor?
00:01:49.760 You okay?
00:01:50.000 Alhamdulillah.
00:01:50.720 You good, yeah?
00:01:52.020 No, that's good.
00:01:53.240 Just keep this mic here.
00:01:54.500 We'll use this as well, just in case.
00:01:57.200 So, this is the first reaction I've done.
00:01:59.200 No, this is the second reaction with Saboor, because we've done one yesterday.
00:02:02.080 Oh, yeah.
00:02:02.540 Yes.
00:02:02.980 Yeah.
00:02:03.320 So, it's interesting to have Saboor here doing a reaction video with us.
00:02:06.680 So, okay, we're going to watch this video with Khabib and his father.
00:02:14.580 All-hmm.
00:02:15.680 Based on his hand.
00:02:17.520 The other one, I saw him.
00:02:21.560 No, I saw him.
00:02:25.280 Nice.
00:02:26.240 He was the largest woman, and their entire army 0.99
00:02:33.220 Att pomadeosed
00:02:35.480 And the line in the pushing
00:02:39.360 They so Called
00:02:41.480 now he was the man
00:02:45.260 he didn't even think of
00:02:47.760 why did he feel like so?
00:02:51.240 your gonna get
00:02:54.240 What's your first reaction when you see father and son wrestling?
00:03:02.980 Yeah, you can see this love.
00:03:05.580 You can see this love.
00:03:06.620 You can see this respect.
00:03:08.360 Khabib's not going for it.
00:03:09.660 Khabib's like putting in enough... 0.90
00:03:11.520 I was about to say that.
00:03:12.380 Yeah, yeah.
00:03:13.200 Khabib's putting in enough effort to just make it look like he's putting in effort.
00:03:18.140 And clearly you can see, you know, his father's age.
00:03:20.720 He can do something.
00:03:21.960 And you know, Khabib's just...
00:03:24.120 You can see the love there.
00:03:25.220 He's just holding himself back.
00:03:26.800 Yeah, so I was going to say that as well.
00:03:28.320 You can see that.
00:03:29.780 I don't think...
00:03:30.940 I hope I'm not surprised, but I don't think Khabib would maybe, you know, put his dad...
00:03:35.720 Because in their culture, or should I say, you know, maybe Islamically, it's rude. 1.00
00:03:41.340 You know, for you to just click with that and stand with that on the floor.
00:03:44.920 It's rude.
00:03:45.600 And you can see he's not even...
00:03:47.180 He's putting enough effort in for the move, but he's not really, you know...
00:03:50.540 Thank you so much.
00:03:51.120 Thank you, guys.
00:03:52.220 Thank you for waiting for me here.
00:03:53.780 I know my father is going to smash me when I go home because...
00:03:57.880 I know he's going to smash me.
00:03:59.760 And...
00:04:00.120 Nevada, sorry.
00:04:03.580 Vegas, sorry.
00:04:04.980 And Alhamdulillah, undefeated, undefeated UFC lightweight champion.
00:04:08.660 Thank you so much.
00:04:09.460 So, look, in a nutshell, like, obviously we know his father passed away, and may Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala have mercy on him.
00:04:17.000 What do I mean?
00:04:17.720 There's so many lessons to be learned in Khabib's... 1.00
00:04:21.920 I wouldn't say his career, because we know his career is not really permissible in Islam, you know, and the whole discussion about it.
00:04:29.520 But as an adab, as etiquette, as one, how the fatherly son relationship...
00:04:36.800 I think it was a good role model for them to know.
00:04:41.920 And this is something that we lack in our generation, you know.
00:04:45.120 Speak to elders, and the elders will say how the respect has been lost towards them.
00:04:50.400 There's no respect anymore.
00:04:51.580 Yeah?
00:04:51.700 And to me, personally, when we were studying Al-Adab al-Mufrat by Imam Bukhari, it's quite interesting, you know, because he compiled all the hadiths and narrations of the Prophet ﷺ and the adab and etiquette of everything,
00:05:06.300 from your neighbours, to your mum, to your children, to your father, to your mother, to your aunties, to your granddad.
00:05:12.280 It covers everything.
00:05:13.600 And when I was reading that book, interestingly, it would talk a lot about, for example, when you're with your father.
00:05:19.840 You don't walk in front of your father.
00:05:22.260 When you're sitting down, you wait for your dad to, if I'm not mistaken, your dad to sit down first.
00:05:27.060 You do not call your dad by his name.
00:05:29.200 Yeah.
00:05:29.920 In some certain cultures, some even say that you don't even look your dad in the eyes.
00:05:34.700 Yeah.
00:05:34.900 Yeah?
00:05:35.540 So, this is something that's been lost.
00:05:37.940 We have today, and look, let's be real.
00:05:40.820 Mothers and fathers, sometimes it can be difficult to live with.
00:05:44.560 Yeah.
00:05:44.580 Let's be real.
00:05:45.300 Let's not sugarcoat this.
00:05:47.360 There are times where, like, this can be a variety of reasons.
00:05:50.340 For, like, people that their family is not Muslim, it could be hard.
00:05:53.700 They could be using Islam against you, etc.
00:05:55.400 But for those whose families are Muslims, it could be, you know, just fathers are fathers. 0.79
00:06:01.620 Do you get what I'm trying to say?
00:06:02.300 Yeah.
00:06:02.520 They're always going to be hard at you.
00:06:03.800 Do you get what I'm trying to say?
00:06:04.700 And that is their form of showing love.
00:06:07.100 This doesn't generalize.
00:06:08.040 Sometimes, like, sometimes moms are harsher than the fathers, yeah?
00:06:10.740 But generally, I think they were a fine example.
00:06:15.180 And they left a fine legacy that how their relationship should be.
00:06:19.700 Because even when looking at Khabib and he's like, oh, when I go home, my dad's going to smash me, yeah? 0.93
00:06:23.180 Who says that?
00:06:24.000 Who says that?
00:06:24.680 At that age.
00:06:25.180 At that age.
00:06:25.800 And that shows that the respect that he has is because the respect that he has for his family members.
00:06:34.020 And, you know, with teenagers, you get this thing from a teenage and then it carries on, which is kind of like, you can't tell me what to do.
00:06:41.480 Don't tell me what you could do.
00:06:42.960 I'm going to move out of home.
00:06:44.400 I know what I'm doing.
00:06:45.740 Here's a champion.
00:06:47.480 Here's somebody who's a lion, yeah?
00:06:49.980 Saying, my dad's going to beat me.
00:06:51.500 And he's happy.
00:06:53.380 He's happy saying, my dad's going to beat me, right?
00:06:55.920 So, it just shows you the level of respect and care.
00:07:00.160 And, you know, even if you look at earlier on the insults that were given by Connor to Khabib in terms of his father.
00:07:11.040 You see, in some cultures, that respect for the father is lost to the point that you can't even cuss someone's father because it's not going to work.
00:07:19.520 It's going to be like, your father's like this.
00:07:21.440 Yeah, my father's like that.
00:07:22.560 Like, people aren't even going to bother defending their fathers in some cultures, right?
00:07:26.380 So, with, you know, and I think this is so powerful about Islam and culture that Islam, wherever it goes, it inculcates this type of strong cultural values which just become fused into society, yeah?
00:07:41.040 So, your father says, do this, you do that.
00:07:44.260 Your mother says, do this, and you do that, right?
00:07:46.860 Regardless of, I mean, look at him, right?
00:07:48.560 Like, he's even worried about, okay, I did this thing after the ring.
00:07:53.300 I did these actions and my dad's going to beat me.
00:07:56.100 Now, think of his adversary.
00:07:58.240 Think of Connor, right?
00:07:59.940 He's treating women like objects.
00:08:02.320 You can see he's going out clubbing, drinking.
00:08:04.580 He's doing this.
00:08:05.560 He punched an old guy.
00:08:06.900 Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:08:07.840 But you won't really find, like, you know, oh, Connor's like, oh, my God, my dad's going to beat me.
00:08:12.320 Oh, my God, what about my family's honor?
00:08:14.440 What about this?
00:08:15.220 It's all gone.
00:08:16.180 All of that stuff is gone.
00:08:17.220 Sadly, these things did exist in the West when Christianity was stronger here.
00:08:22.080 Because Christianity, of course, is way better than being an atheist, right? 1.00
00:08:26.800 I mean, of course, we're not Christians and we disagree with them theologically.
00:08:30.040 But it's better than being an atheist, right? 1.00
00:08:32.520 Because with atheism and agnosticism and these types of things which take off and obviously Connor's a product of this, you know, secular liberal program, you lose all these morals.
00:08:44.860 You lose all these values.
00:08:46.000 You lose all this sacredness for parents, you know.
00:08:48.760 Before you were saying, Ali, in the car that, you know, I think in the Kurdish culture that you would kiss the hand and then you put the hand on the forehead for your elders.
00:08:59.560 And, you know, imagine, like, trying to do that, I don't know, in public.
00:09:06.240 Yeah.
00:09:06.380 People would be like, oh, you know, that looks odd.
00:09:09.180 Or even youngsters today.
00:09:10.320 But these were traditional values that held societies together.
00:09:13.680 Exactly.
00:09:14.180 We're losing them.
00:09:14.900 Yeah, exactly.
00:09:15.400 And we're losing them because we're losing ourself.
00:09:17.680 And that's very evident, brothers and sisters, for you guys to understand.
00:09:21.860 A lot of you guys watching this, you might have issues with your mum or your father in the context of, yes, you don't agree, etc.
00:09:28.020 But that is your test.
00:09:29.800 Allah will test you one way or another. 1.00
00:09:31.680 Some people are tested with their wife.
00:09:32.960 Some people are tested with their husbands.
00:09:34.620 Some people are tested with their children.
00:09:36.020 And you will be tested with your parents.
00:09:37.640 Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala says, subhanAllah, that after worshipping me, do not be good to your parents. 0.76
00:09:44.900 Even, look, even if they're disbelievers. 0.80
00:09:46.760 Brothers and sisters, yeah, we believe, disbelieve.
00:09:49.300 Kufr is a pinnacle. 0.97
00:09:50.380 Committing shirk.
00:09:51.380 But Allah says, do not obey them in that. 0.56
00:09:54.280 But be gentle and kind with them, brothers and sisters.
00:09:56.840 So, if Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala is saying that shirk is something I will never forgive.
00:10:01.360 If your parents are committing that. 0.95
00:10:03.380 Yeah, and by the way, I'm going to send people to the hellfire. 0.63
00:10:06.260 Those who acknowledged and knew it was the truth and committed shirk.
00:10:10.040 If your parents are doing that, be merciful to them.
00:10:12.380 Wow.
00:10:13.060 This is Allah's rights that they're violating. 1.00
00:10:15.860 Allah's saying, that's between me and them. 1.00
00:10:18.180 You do your right to your parents.
00:10:20.540 This is amazing, bro.
00:10:21.480 You give the rights to your parents because they bore you. 0.98
00:10:23.540 They looked after you.
00:10:25.420 And the contrast is amazing because the parents are doing what?
00:10:29.040 Allah is the one who feeds them. 1.00
00:10:30.300 Look after them.
00:10:30.840 They're being ungrateful to Allah. 0.91
00:10:32.500 Allah is saying, in the context of, I will, that's between me and my slave. 0.94
00:10:37.100 But you, but what they're doing to me, you don't do it to them.
00:10:41.200 And this is what I'm saying, brothers and sisters.
00:10:42.820 Sometimes, yes, you want to pull your hair out.
00:10:44.780 But please, please, wallahi, it's a form of ibadah and worship. 1.00
00:10:48.820 That if your mom is doing something to enrage you and this, that, that you try your best to.
00:10:54.540 Try, wallahi, that's ibadah.
00:10:56.440 That is strength.
00:10:57.860 Because that's your mom. 1.00
00:10:58.880 Imagine someone enrage you.
00:10:59.780 What's what you want to do? 0.99
00:11:00.500 Like slap, punch if somebody else. 0.98
00:11:02.520 Yeah.
00:11:02.960 But with parents, if you do that.
00:11:04.980 And let's honor our fathers as well.
00:11:07.280 Yeah.
00:11:07.780 Because they go out there and they work hard.
00:11:10.860 And sadly, a lot of youngsters do not value and appreciate that.
00:11:14.740 Your father's working, doing this.
00:11:16.140 And you're, subhanallah, behind closed doors or outside doing all kinds of stuff, bro.
00:11:20.780 And sisters.
00:11:21.940 Allah subhanallah.
00:11:22.420 If you want jannah, I'll be very honest with you, bro.
00:11:24.200 And sisters.
00:11:24.620 If you want jannah, wallahi.
00:11:26.000 Your doors are pari.
00:11:27.140 I don't know which sahaba it was.
00:11:29.060 He was crying so much when his mother or father passed away.
00:11:32.460 And obviously, he said the reason why, because my doors to jannahs have gone.
00:11:36.340 Because that's my opportunity.
00:11:38.040 You know.
00:11:38.600 And so, brother and sisters, it's a fine example that Khabib and his father's left.
00:11:42.380 To us, how a father and son or father and daughter or mother and daughter or mother and son.
00:11:50.300 The relationship one should have with their parents should be utmost respect and mercy.
00:11:56.300 And try your best, brothers and sisters.
00:11:58.560 Because, wallahi, I'll tell you something.
00:12:00.060 I don't think I've seen examples of people disobeying their parents.
00:12:04.680 I have not seen them prosper.
00:12:06.280 I have not seen them prosper.
00:12:08.640 We're not talking about here, parents that are dhalims. 1.00
00:12:11.780 Literally beating you up.
00:12:13.720 We're not talking about that.
00:12:15.160 Yeah.
00:12:15.360 That, you should still respectfully move out of the house, find other solutions, etc.
00:12:19.540 Yeah.
00:12:20.180 But, those who oppress their family members, yeah.
00:12:24.160 Unnecessarily.
00:12:24.820 Their parents, specifically, brothers and sisters.
00:12:26.980 Do not wait for any barakah in your life. 0.84
00:12:29.480 Wallahi, don't.
00:12:30.680 And, like I said before, brothers and sisters, inshallah.
00:12:33.240 If you're watching this, wallahi, appreciate your father.
00:12:36.640 Khabib's father's gone.
00:12:37.480 He would give the whole world to spend more years with them, brothers and sisters.
00:12:41.280 And he did not know this was going to happen.
00:12:43.280 So, if we have fathers, acknowledge that, inshallah, brothers and sisters.
00:12:46.660 Be kind to them.
00:12:48.580 And, yeah, that's all I can say.
00:12:50.180 Is there anything else you want to say, Subhan?
00:12:51.380 Yeah, just about this.
00:12:53.740 One thing which I...
00:12:55.280 Because I've lost my father many, many years ago.
00:12:57.600 A mother a few years ago.
00:12:59.320 And, you know, there's something very deep and profound in the Quran.
00:13:03.600 Where Allah says, you know, to us to make... 0.88
00:13:07.600 To be grateful to Allah.
00:13:10.180 To worship Allah.
00:13:10.900 And then straight after he says, parents.
00:13:13.240 And why is that?
00:13:14.460 Because the parents, at the end of the day, they are the ones who've taken sacrifices,
00:13:22.200 which you only really appreciate once you're a parent.
00:13:26.460 Everyone says that.
00:13:27.160 Mom, you say that.
00:13:27.680 And only when you, you know, when you go through those struggles, like, you know, at the moment, there's a recession.
00:13:34.640 We're headed towards a recession.
00:13:36.060 Things are getting bad.
00:13:37.480 And, you know, you're just going to be like working, working, working.
00:13:40.560 Imagine the fact that our parents sheltered us from all of these problems and they took care of us.
00:13:46.280 So, you know, whoever's watching, just, you know, and inshallah, we want the reward for this as well.
00:13:51.200 Do good to your parents because you don't know how long they're going to be about.
00:13:54.460 Exactly, Dom Sisters.
00:13:55.360 Hope you guys benefited from this, inshallah.
00:13:56.760 I will say right now, if you have the means, go to your mom or your dad and, inshallah, kiss them in the forehead, inshallah.
00:14:02.260 And that should be a form of respect, which I personally, I'll be honest with you, actually, just to finish on this point.
00:14:09.960 It's the first time, I think, I saw Brother Imran, which we were talking about today.
00:14:16.040 And one thing I learned and loved from him was that whenever he will see his mom or dad, he will go straight and kiss them on the head.
00:14:22.800 And he just remembered, he just reminded me, you know, we have our differences, but he's still a brother that I love and I care for.
00:14:29.940 But that's something that I remembered that I would do with my mom now.
00:14:33.960 My mom or my dad, even my dad at times when he's peak, you know, smashing me, yeah.
00:14:39.020 You know, I try to implement.
00:14:40.520 And I think that's a beautiful thing because it's a matter of honor coming and kissing the head.
00:14:44.480 Brothers and sisters, may Allah bless you guys, inshallah.
00:14:46.100 Until next time, assalamu alaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh.