Ali Dawah - April 30, 2022


YOU GOT IT ALL WRONG!


Episode Stats

Length

14 minutes

Words per Minute

214.03671

Word Count

3,070

Sentence Count

200

Misogynist Sentences

33

Hate Speech Sentences

35


Summary

In this episode, I talk about the case of Johnny Depp and his wife Amber and how Islam relates to the matter and how we should deal with it. I also talk about how the media and the industry reacts to domestic violence and how they treat it.


Transcript

00:00:00.000 Brothers and sisters, he's telling me, I used to struggle reading the Quran daily before you instructed me to download this app.
00:00:06.680 Brothers and sisters, can you imagine someone struggling and he has downloaded the Quran app and built a habit and now he's regularly reading.
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00:00:30.000 As-salamu alaykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh, brothers and sisters and dear friends.
00:00:44.300 I don't know about you guys, but I've been getting a lot of recommendations on my YouTube channel for some reason about Johnny Depp and his wife Amber.
00:00:51.920 I tried ignoring this, I spoke to some brothers etc and I said, you know what, let me look into this, I find it a bit fascinating.
00:00:56.720 I was like, what on earth is going on? I have no idea, I'll be honest with you.
00:00:59.300 And it's basically about two people who are married, a domestic violence case, which is one is Amber is suing Johnny Depp.
00:01:07.240 Johnny Depp's been quiet about it, now he's coming out, people say things have been shifted etc to his favour, whatever.
00:01:13.240 First thing first, I want to make a disclaimer, I'm not here to take anybody's side.
00:01:17.060 Domestic abuse, physical abuse is something very very seriously and I'm not here to take sides because I don't know the full story and we are told that.
00:01:24.120 There's this thing, you know, Ali radiallahu anhu, along the lines of basically don't hear one side and make a judgement.
00:01:29.560 And we all do that, we hear somebody, you know, coming and saying,
00:01:32.060 Dara dara dara dara about my wife and this and you think, what an evil wife or some sister comes and starts crying,
00:01:36.500 my husband and this and you're thinking, what an evil guy etc.
00:01:38.620 And then you look into the matter and you're like, you didn't tell me the full story here.
00:01:41.300 So I'm just giving a disclaimer that it's an ongoing case.
00:01:43.660 Mine is just something that I want to bring to you guys pertaining to the Quran and Sunnah.
00:01:47.940 I don't want these videos just for the sake of it because it's a hot topic,
00:01:50.180 but because how we can relate the Quran and Sunnah into this matter and how Islam tells us to deal with the situation,
00:01:54.940 which I believe is some sort of, I think is the absolute solution to it actually.
00:01:59.640 So obviously guys, first of all, since that disclaimer is out of the way,
00:02:02.920 now first reactions, what is the first reactions?
00:02:05.220 Well sadly there's first reactions that we have, the media have and the industry has.
00:02:09.980 Well the industry's first reaction to this was that they fired Johnny Depp from the Pirates of the Caribbean.
00:02:15.940 Now the question is that, okay, they've heard these claims etc. which Amber made, his wife,
00:02:22.120 but the funny thing is, from what we know, she hasn't been fired.
00:02:25.660 Now the question is, why not?
00:02:27.960 Because it goes back to the case of hearing one side of the story
00:02:30.240 and now we're finding out, which she herself has admitted, the following.
00:02:34.600 I'm sorry that I didn't hit you across the face in a proper slap,
00:02:39.980 but I was hitting you, it was not punching you.
00:02:41.880 Babe, you're not punched.
00:02:44.100 Which you guys heard for yourself, yeah?
00:02:46.360 So that she admits that she didn't punch him but hit him.
00:02:49.640 Okay, so why is it that she didn't get fired?
00:02:52.480 Why is it that she didn't lose her job?
00:02:54.180 Why is it that automatically the first reaction to this is,
00:02:57.700 the industry fires the man?
00:02:59.520 Let's be fair and just here.
00:03:00.880 Why is it seen as that the men are the only violent ones?
00:03:05.140 Yes, statistics kind of show, you know, that men are more violent than women,
00:03:09.040 but this doesn't mean that in every single case you can generalise
00:03:12.220 and make it seem as if he is the aggressor, yeah?
00:03:15.180 That's the point I'm trying to make when it comes to industry level.
00:03:17.640 Media has kind of jumped on the bandwagon as well, again, you know,
00:03:21.200 and these industries and these media, they do this
00:03:23.020 not because they favour one or the other,
00:03:25.440 it's because they know if they take, you know,
00:03:27.700 because a woman is seen as vulnerable, you know,
00:03:29.860 you have to take her side.
00:03:32.140 That's the get-go.
00:03:32.680 And we also do that ourselves.
00:03:34.340 So the industry does it, the media does it,
00:03:35.720 we also do it when it comes to these matters.
00:03:37.900 Like, our first impressions is what?
00:03:40.440 Bad husband, etc.
00:03:41.600 And we start, you know,
00:03:43.120 projecting the things that we live through to an individual.
00:03:46.380 If you was in a household where your father was violent to your mum,
00:03:50.320 and then we think, yeah, he's the same.
00:03:52.240 No, maybe he's not the same.
00:03:53.740 Maybe he's the victim.
00:03:54.920 Maybe, I'm saying.
00:03:56.020 Can it be?
00:03:56.660 Yes.
00:03:57.080 So our first reactions should be that.
00:03:59.140 It shouldn't be, no, he's a villain.
00:04:00.800 Why is it that he's guilty until proven innocent,
00:04:02.900 and she's innocent until proven guilty?
00:04:05.220 Why is that the case?
00:04:06.740 That is not right.
00:04:07.700 I know of many cases where brothers are,
00:04:10.600 you know, wallahi, wallahi,
00:04:11.920 cases where the woman's got a knife in her hand,
00:04:14.240 throwing bottles,
00:04:15.760 throwing bottles,
00:04:16.920 coming physically,
00:04:18.160 you know, again,
00:04:18.980 I'm not taking anybody's side,
00:04:20.420 Johnny Depp or Ambers, yeah, okay.
00:04:22.760 What I'm trying to say is,
00:04:23.840 we cannot have double standards.
00:04:25.280 Now, secondly,
00:04:26.340 where is this all stemming from?
00:04:28.340 Now, feminism is the wrong answer to the right questions.
00:04:32.660 Okay, a lot of cases,
00:04:34.260 men being violent,
00:04:35.340 you know, men mistreating,
00:04:37.040 men being abusive, etc.
00:04:38.500 This happens vice versa.
00:04:39.980 But these are questions,
00:04:41.080 valid questions,
00:04:42.120 that Muslim women and non-Muslim women are asking.
00:04:45.920 But you're asking the right questions,
00:04:47.520 but you're getting the wrong answers from feminism.
00:04:49.580 Feminism is there to basically destroy you,
00:04:52.680 gradually and slowly and systematically.
00:04:54.640 That's exactly what its objective and its aim is.
00:04:57.600 Because what it does to you,
00:04:59.520 as a woman,
00:05:00.100 is that it makes you,
00:05:01.880 that for example,
00:05:02.740 which is very strange,
00:05:05.020 that why are men the bar that you need to be?
00:05:08.580 Why is it that you have to be like us?
00:05:11.140 I mean,
00:05:11.780 isn't it self-defeating that we are your success measurement?
00:05:14.940 Like, oh, I have to be like you.
00:05:16.180 Whatever you do,
00:05:16.580 I need to do the same.
00:05:17.880 Why do you have to be like me?
00:05:19.220 You are unique in your own way.
00:05:20.360 Why do you have to be like me?
00:05:21.780 Why is the bar there?
00:05:22.660 Like, I mean,
00:05:22.920 isn't it self-defeating?
00:05:23.700 Like, we have to be like men.
00:05:24.980 If men do this,
00:05:25.740 we're going to do that.
00:05:26.200 If men don't,
00:05:27.020 we're going to do that.
00:05:27.820 I think this is maybe the reason why
00:05:29.380 we are now seeing a spike in females,
00:05:32.460 women becoming violent.
00:05:35.420 What is it?
00:05:35.980 Is this what feminism,
00:05:37.140 toxic femininity has taught you?
00:05:38.480 That now you have to become like a man
00:05:40.440 and like, you know,
00:05:41.140 I'm going to take the matters physically.
00:05:42.780 You know,
00:05:43.040 maybe he will understand in the physical.
00:05:44.800 No,
00:05:45.540 no,
00:05:46.040 that is not correct.
00:05:47.600 And that is what exactly feminism is doing.
00:05:49.660 It's trying to destroy the nuclear family.
00:05:52.120 It's as simple as that.
00:05:53.300 That's what it's doing systematically.
00:05:54.440 And we can see that.
00:05:55.580 And they say,
00:05:56.260 chivalry is dead.
00:05:57.360 Yeah, it's dead.
00:05:58.340 And women killed it.
00:05:59.780 Women killed it.
00:06:01.240 You know,
00:06:01.840 they want to have their cake and eat it.
00:06:03.700 You know,
00:06:03.980 chivalry is dead.
00:06:04.620 And I'm so sorry,
00:06:05.360 you guys are the murderers.
00:06:06.220 You guys are the...
00:06:06.660 I'm so sorry.
00:06:08.260 Females,
00:06:08.760 not all,
00:06:09.600 but what I'm trying to say is,
00:06:11.040 the cause of that,
00:06:12.260 we have swapped our roles.
00:06:14.180 Yes?
00:06:14.800 We've swapped our roles.
00:06:15.280 Men have become like women.
00:06:16.300 Women have become like men.
00:06:17.580 And very interestingly,
00:06:18.620 Allah in the Quran
00:06:19.320 says something very profound.
00:06:21.540 Because when it comes to this issue,
00:06:22.440 the Quran speaks very,
00:06:23.620 very,
00:06:23.920 you know,
00:06:25.020 vividly about this.
00:06:25.960 Subhanallah.
00:06:26.500 Like in the Quran,
00:06:27.140 Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala says,
00:06:28.260 that Allah acknowledges
00:06:29.520 the men's responsibility.
00:06:31.100 And acknowledges
00:06:31.820 the woman's responsibility.
00:06:33.100 And gives you guidance
00:06:34.000 according to who,
00:06:35.480 how you're created.
00:06:36.920 Yeah?
00:06:37.240 Not what you think you are.
00:06:38.820 But realistically,
00:06:39.940 what you are.
00:06:41.300 Not who you think you are,
00:06:42.180 but what you are.
00:06:43.060 And Allah says in the Quran,
00:06:44.280 in Surah Nisa verse 434,
00:06:45.720 men are the caretakers of women
00:06:47.420 and maintainers and protecters of women.
00:06:49.780 As men have been provisioned
00:06:51.440 by Allah over women
00:06:52.720 and tasked with supporting them financially.
00:06:55.600 And righteous women
00:06:56.180 are devoutly obedient
00:06:56.940 and when alone,
00:06:58.200 protect of what Allah
00:06:59.060 has entrusted with them.
00:07:00.260 Yeah?
00:07:00.720 So Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala
00:07:01.700 very, very,
00:07:02.760 gives the role of a man
00:07:04.220 as the maintainer,
00:07:04.860 the protector.
00:07:05.680 He's the one that should provide.
00:07:06.700 He should provide for you.
00:07:07.660 He should be taking care of you.
00:07:08.900 He should protect you
00:07:09.560 because you are,
00:07:10.780 biologically,
00:07:11.800 you are physically weak.
00:07:13.040 If a person with a knife comes,
00:07:14.780 I'm not going to send my wife.
00:07:15.800 It's my duty.
00:07:17.020 I acknowledge it.
00:07:17.600 I don't say,
00:07:17.960 no,
00:07:18.440 you know,
00:07:18.680 why do I have to go?
00:07:19.460 Why don't you go?
00:07:20.300 And I'll just be here,
00:07:21.040 you know,
00:07:21.620 backing you up,
00:07:22.240 cheering you.
00:07:22.620 Yeah, you go, go.
00:07:23.180 You punch him in the face.
00:07:24.280 Yeah?
00:07:24.760 No.
00:07:25.440 Islam acknowledges that
00:07:26.420 and that is a big risk.
00:07:27.280 That means I'm putting my life,
00:07:28.420 I'm like a full-time bodyguard.
00:07:29.800 I'm putting my life
00:07:30.580 on the line
00:07:31.460 for my wife,
00:07:33.020 my sister,
00:07:33.640 my mother,
00:07:34.140 my daughter.
00:07:35.120 And rightly so,
00:07:35.720 and I'm proud.
00:07:36.160 I don't have a problem with that.
00:07:37.360 Can you imagine if I had a problem with this
00:07:38.420 and said,
00:07:38.660 no,
00:07:38.800 I want to be like a woman.
00:07:39.920 Yeah?
00:07:40.240 And I want to be like,
00:07:40.780 no,
00:07:40.920 you go fight.
00:07:42.080 Would feminists like that?
00:07:44.220 They wouldn't.
00:07:45.240 They wouldn't.
00:07:45.720 They try their best to like,
00:07:46.800 oh no,
00:07:47.220 no,
00:07:47.400 no,
00:07:47.460 no,
00:07:47.600 no.
00:07:47.760 Sorry.
00:07:48.280 Nature of reality shows you that no.
00:07:50.700 And then also men are weak in certain areas
00:07:52.800 where they require a woman to step up.
00:07:55.200 That is our reality.
00:07:56.600 And also when it comes to this
00:07:57.740 of marriage conflict,
00:07:58.860 the Quran and the Sunnah
00:07:59.520 is very,
00:08:00.020 very clear about this.
00:08:01.840 Now,
00:08:02.640 are we saying that,
00:08:03.780 for example,
00:08:04.120 from the videos that we've watched,
00:08:05.800 that,
00:08:06.040 that men are in no way,
00:08:08.500 shape or form in any instance,
00:08:09.980 in any situation,
00:08:11.000 not to put their hands on a woman?
00:08:13.040 Any one of you guys would agree with me
00:08:14.760 that no,
00:08:15.340 that's not correct.
00:08:16.120 Because if a woman has been aggressive,
00:08:18.500 yeah?
00:08:18.860 And I'm not saying,
00:08:19.540 by the way,
00:08:19.720 I'm not talking about Amber.
00:08:20.540 These are accusations,
00:08:22.120 speculations.
00:08:23.140 These are things that Johnny Depp is claiming.
00:08:26.180 Yeah?
00:08:26.440 Just like Amber's claiming.
00:08:27.460 So I'm not taking anybody's side.
00:08:28.880 The thing is this,
00:08:29.820 though,
00:08:30.240 to those accusation claims,
00:08:31.220 yeah?
00:08:31.500 If it is real,
00:08:32.480 that bottles have been thrown,
00:08:33.720 your fingers nearly cut,
00:08:35.060 you've been punched in the face,
00:08:35.860 two times,
00:08:36.680 yeah?
00:08:37.380 And etc,
00:08:38.400 etc,
00:08:38.620 etc,
00:08:38.980 etc,
00:08:39.120 whatever.
00:08:39.800 Are you telling me,
00:08:41.160 that I am going to just stand there,
00:08:42.560 and get punches,
00:08:43.140 like Johnny Depp,
00:08:43.520 I'm sorry,
00:08:44.140 I'm not going to let any woman come,
00:08:45.420 and punch me two times in the face,
00:08:46.680 yeah?
00:08:46.940 I will restrain her.
00:08:48.760 I would restrain her,
00:08:50.200 like anybody does.
00:08:51.240 So in the Quran,
00:08:51.860 Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala says,
00:08:52.760 if you sense ill conduct from your wives,
00:08:54.960 advise them.
00:08:55.640 So the first step is what?
00:08:56.740 Allah legislates us,
00:08:57.720 and gives us a protocol,
00:08:59.300 yeah?
00:08:59.720 Because many men,
00:09:01.080 or many individuals,
00:09:02.020 don't have a protocol.
00:09:02.760 So what they do is,
00:09:03.540 they go straight physically,
00:09:04.460 and beating their wives up,
00:09:05.860 their best football,
00:09:07.040 their team,
00:09:07.800 their favorite team lost,
00:09:09.040 they come home and take it out on their wives,
00:09:10.420 which is absolutely haram.
00:09:11.600 So the point is this,
00:09:12.320 number one is what?
00:09:13.220 You advise,
00:09:14.020 look,
00:09:14.840 you've been behaving like this,
00:09:15.960 etc,
00:09:16.400 in a threatening manner,
00:09:17.180 or whatever it may be,
00:09:18.180 I don't like that.
00:09:19.300 Yeah,
00:09:19.480 please stop here.
00:09:20.680 Allah tells us the advice.
00:09:22.240 If this carries on,
00:09:23.160 Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala tells us the second thing,
00:09:24.880 which is what?
00:09:25.680 That,
00:09:26.260 you move away from the bed.
00:09:28.380 Sexually,
00:09:28.960 obviously,
00:09:29.360 emotionally,
00:09:30.020 you are depriving her,
00:09:31.680 so she can understand that she's hurting you,
00:09:33.700 and that she should stop doing what she's doing.
00:09:35.200 But that's what Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala is saying.
00:09:36.980 And thirdly,
00:09:37.480 if you see her transgressing,
00:09:39.040 where she's getting physical,
00:09:40.500 picking up bottles,
00:09:41.560 knife,
00:09:42.160 trying to come and punch you,
00:09:43.640 Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala says,
00:09:44.600 then you can use a force to restrain them.
00:09:48.200 You can use a force.
00:09:49.420 Okay,
00:09:49.720 now in this case,
00:09:50.740 where John and I have been punched in the face,
00:09:52.300 we know very clearly,
00:09:53.700 it's haram to hit.
00:09:55.680 Yeah,
00:09:55.980 it's haram to hit the face.
00:09:57.500 Okay,
00:09:57.920 it's haram to hit the face.
00:09:59.480 A man doing it to a woman,
00:10:00.400 a wife to her husband,
00:10:01.140 her husband to a wife.
00:10:02.160 It is not permissible for anyone
00:10:03.920 to get physically violent,
00:10:05.740 to cause harm,
00:10:06.760 injury,
00:10:07.260 pain.
00:10:07.860 Yeah,
00:10:08.580 to the opposite gender,
00:10:09.640 et cetera,
00:10:10.120 it is not permissible.
00:10:11.700 Yeah,
00:10:12.400 restraining,
00:10:13.260 et cetera,
00:10:13.580 it's a different story.
00:10:14.420 Okay,
00:10:14.880 trying to restrain someone,
00:10:15.620 trying to attack you.
00:10:16.500 So Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala
00:10:17.320 has given a protocol what to do.
00:10:19.120 Not only that,
00:10:20.160 in different verses,
00:10:20.820 Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala says,
00:10:21.980 get your family members together
00:10:23.120 and try to reconcile.
00:10:25.500 Now the thing is here,
00:10:26.420 which is very interesting,
00:10:27.520 is in the same chapter,
00:10:28.880 bit further down,
00:10:29.600 Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala
00:10:30.380 also talks about
00:10:31.460 when a man is transgressing.
00:10:33.680 But look at what Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala
00:10:35.420 says and addresses it in such a way,
00:10:37.260 which puts us back to
00:10:38.460 where Allah is telling us
00:10:39.800 that a woman's role,
00:10:41.060 biologically,
00:10:41.940 physically,
00:10:42.340 in different ways,
00:10:43.840 because what Allah advises
00:10:44.880 is not the same thing.
00:10:45.780 Check this out.
00:10:47.460 Allah says in the Quran,
00:10:48.360 Surah Nisa verse 1 to 8,
00:10:49.640 and if a woman fear,
00:10:51.300 from a husband,
00:10:52.800 yeah,
00:10:53.260 contempt or evasion,
00:10:55.580 there is no sin upon them
00:10:56.760 if they make terms of
00:10:57.640 settlement between them
00:10:58.780 and their settlement is best
00:11:00.260 and present in human souls
00:11:01.780 and other other things.
00:11:02.600 But if you do good,
00:11:03.460 fear Allah.
00:11:04.000 So in a nutshell,
00:11:05.160 if you see it,
00:11:05.840 Allah didn't give the same protocol
00:11:06.880 to the woman.
00:11:08.080 Allah didn't say that
00:11:09.100 you do these steps
00:11:09.860 and then after that
00:11:10.500 you try to restrain him
00:11:11.980 because Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala
00:11:13.400 acknowledges that
00:11:14.180 the woman doesn't have
00:11:14.880 the physical power
00:11:15.760 to take restrain
00:11:18.160 or whatever it may be.
00:11:19.480 So Allah doesn't advise her
00:11:20.480 to do that
00:11:20.860 because that could cause,
00:11:22.680 for example,
00:11:23.080 if she tries to become
00:11:24.260 physical with him,
00:11:25.080 he can overpower her.
00:11:26.300 So Allah is protecting
00:11:27.140 the rights of a woman
00:11:27.880 in this very instance
00:11:28.720 by not advising the same thing
00:11:30.260 when he told a woman
00:11:30.920 for a man
00:11:31.700 that restrained him
00:11:32.580 because he has the power
00:11:33.280 to stop her
00:11:33.900 from attacking him
00:11:34.800 but the woman doesn't have
00:11:35.780 the power to do vice versa.
00:11:37.200 So Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala
00:11:38.700 acknowledged
00:11:39.300 a woman's role
00:11:40.200 and a man's role
00:11:41.020 biologically
00:11:41.740 and how they are created.
00:11:42.640 But feminism
00:11:43.340 is doing the opposite
00:11:44.700 by saying,
00:11:45.160 no,
00:11:45.620 you be like him.
00:11:46.560 You know what?
00:11:47.360 Go for him.
00:11:47.740 Stop punching him in the face.
00:11:48.920 And this is the problem here.
00:11:51.440 We need to acknowledge
00:11:52.480 that how we are created
00:11:54.240 biologically
00:11:54.840 and our pros and cons
00:11:56.900 that what we can do
00:11:57.520 and we can't do.
00:11:58.100 It's as simple as that.
00:11:59.840 That's what we need
00:12:00.480 to acknowledge.
00:12:01.340 And that's exactly
00:12:01.980 what Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala
00:12:02.780 is going back to.
00:12:03.920 The nuclear family.
00:12:05.560 Subhanahu wa ta'ala
00:12:05.860 men are the maintainers
00:12:06.660 and the protectors.
00:12:07.740 And of course,
00:12:08.220 women have a major,
00:12:09.120 major role that play
00:12:09.920 in that as well.
00:12:10.840 You know,
00:12:12.040 for the household.
00:12:14.200 And Allah says,
00:12:15.220 when you divorce women
00:12:16.120 and they have fulfilled
00:12:17.320 their term,
00:12:18.260 either retain them
00:12:19.100 according to acceptable terms
00:12:21.420 or release them
00:12:22.300 according to acceptable terms
00:12:23.840 and do not keep them
00:12:25.100 intending harm
00:12:26.120 to transgress against them
00:12:27.340 and whoever does that
00:12:28.260 has certainly wronged himself
00:12:29.340 and do not take
00:12:32.040 the verse of Allah in jest
00:12:33.160 and remember the favor
00:12:34.120 of Allah upon you.
00:12:35.420 So Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala
00:12:36.120 is saying,
00:12:36.760 look,
00:12:37.600 you've gone down
00:12:37.900 the divorce route,
00:12:39.020 go about it amicably.
00:12:41.280 Bye-bye, bye-bye.
00:12:42.620 It's as simple as that.
00:12:43.740 And the Prophet,
00:12:44.400 peace be upon him,
00:12:44.900 was also like that.
00:12:46.220 When once he had
00:12:47.340 a dish that he brought
00:12:48.260 from one of his other wives
00:12:49.700 and Aisha
00:12:50.580 his other wife cooked,
00:12:52.600 she got generous
00:12:53.240 and she smashed
00:12:53.800 the whole plate
00:12:54.280 in front of the whole companions.
00:12:56.160 I mean, guys,
00:12:56.780 what would we do?
00:12:57.340 If that was us.
00:12:58.120 And the Prophet,
00:12:58.600 peace be upon him,
00:12:59.020 laughed.
00:12:59.800 And he said,
00:13:00.140 look,
00:13:00.280 your mother's got upset.
00:13:02.500 Subhanallah.
00:13:03.480 And it teaches you
00:13:04.160 and the Prophet,
00:13:04.700 peace be upon him,
00:13:04.940 was never amongst those
00:13:05.820 who hit his wives.
00:13:06.940 Yeah?
00:13:07.440 But in this very situation,
00:13:08.500 when we look at Johnny Depp,
00:13:09.340 from what we can see,
00:13:10.040 we haven't heard Amber's story
00:13:10.820 yet as well,
00:13:11.680 but from what we've heard
00:13:12.740 is that he is being physically,
00:13:15.140 he has,
00:13:15.780 is alleging
00:13:16.640 that he was physically attacked.
00:13:19.040 Bottles being thrown,
00:13:19.940 punched in the face,
00:13:20.620 et cetera.
00:13:21.260 We need to address this issue.
00:13:22.740 This issue is not just
00:13:24.740 pertaining to
00:13:26.220 men hit their wives.
00:13:28.140 I'm so sorry.
00:13:29.120 There are women
00:13:29.740 that are physically
00:13:30.600 abusing their husbands
00:13:31.820 and I have heard
00:13:32.660 and witnessed it myself.
00:13:34.560 And that's what
00:13:35.140 Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala
00:13:36.040 and his messenger
00:13:36.680 has legislated for us
00:13:38.500 as Muslim men
00:13:39.740 to deal with.
00:13:40.580 And Muslim women as well.
00:13:41.720 That you have protocols in place,
00:13:42.780 family members in place
00:13:43.540 to amicably resolve the issue.
00:13:47.600 Alhamdulillah for Islam.
00:13:49.220 And to be honest,
00:13:50.560 like I said before,
00:13:51.620 that's all I wanted to say.
00:13:52.880 We should never ever judge
00:13:54.700 and jump to assumptions
00:13:56.060 and accusations
00:13:56.740 because what happens is
00:13:57.640 we end up humiliating ourselves
00:13:59.140 just because we heard one story.
00:14:01.020 Yeah?
00:14:01.400 Okay.
00:14:02.000 It can be the case,
00:14:03.140 we don't know when it's finalized,
00:14:04.520 that Amber was the transgressor
00:14:05.640 and she's been taking everyone
00:14:07.040 for a ride from the get-go.
00:14:08.680 Just because she's a woman
00:14:09.580 doesn't mean she's innocent.
00:14:11.180 If he's guilty
00:14:11.940 until proven innocent,
00:14:13.000 she should also be guilty
00:14:13.900 until proven innocent.
00:14:14.880 That's all I have to say on the matter.
00:14:16.000 May Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala
00:14:16.780 bless every single one of you guys
00:14:17.660 for watching.
00:14:18.340 Till next time.
00:14:18.920 As-salamu alaykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh.