Ali Dawah - YOU GOT IT ALL WRONG!

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00:00:30.000 As-salamu alaykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh, brothers and sisters and dear friends.

00:00:44.300 I don't know about you guys, but I've been getting a lot of recommendations on my YouTube channel for some reason about Johnny Depp and his wife Amber.

00:00:51.920 I tried ignoring this, I spoke to some brothers etc and I said, you know what, let me look into this, I find it a bit fascinating.

00:00:56.720 I was like, what on earth is going on? I have no idea, I'll be honest with you.

00:00:59.300 And it's basically about two people who are married, a domestic violence case, which is one is Amber is suing Johnny Depp.

00:01:07.240 Johnny Depp's been quiet about it, now he's coming out, people say things have been shifted etc to his favour, whatever.

00:01:13.240 First thing first, I want to make a disclaimer, I'm not here to take anybody's side.

00:01:17.060 Domestic abuse, physical abuse is something very very seriously and I'm not here to take sides because I don't know the full story and we are told that.

00:01:24.120 There's this thing, you know, Ali radiallahu anhu, along the lines of basically don't hear one side and make a judgement.

00:01:29.560 And we all do that, we hear somebody, you know, coming and saying,

00:01:32.060 Dara dara dara dara about my wife and this and you think, what an evil wife or some sister comes and starts crying, 0.99

00:01:36.500 my husband and this and you're thinking, what an evil guy etc.

00:01:38.620 And then you look into the matter and you're like, you didn't tell me the full story here.

00:01:41.300 So I'm just giving a disclaimer that it's an ongoing case.

00:01:43.660 Mine is just something that I want to bring to you guys pertaining to the Quran and Sunnah.

00:01:47.940 I don't want these videos just for the sake of it because it's a hot topic,

00:01:50.180 but because how we can relate the Quran and Sunnah into this matter and how Islam tells us to deal with the situation,

00:01:54.940 which I believe is some sort of, I think is the absolute solution to it actually.

00:01:59.640 So obviously guys, first of all, since that disclaimer is out of the way,

00:02:02.920 now first reactions, what is the first reactions?

00:02:05.220 Well sadly there's first reactions that we have, the media have and the industry has.

00:02:09.980 Well the industry's first reaction to this was that they fired Johnny Depp from the Pirates of the Caribbean.

00:02:15.940 Now the question is that, okay, they've heard these claims etc. which Amber made, his wife,

00:02:22.120 but the funny thing is, from what we know, she hasn't been fired.

00:02:25.660 Now the question is, why not?

00:02:27.960 Because it goes back to the case of hearing one side of the story

00:02:30.240 and now we're finding out, which she herself has admitted, the following.

00:02:34.600 I'm sorry that I didn't hit you across the face in a proper slap,

00:02:39.980 but I was hitting you, it was not punching you.

00:02:41.880 Babe, you're not punched.

00:02:44.100 Which you guys heard for yourself, yeah?

00:02:46.360 So that she admits that she didn't punch him but hit him.

00:02:49.640 Okay, so why is it that she didn't get fired?

00:02:52.480 Why is it that she didn't lose her job? 0.97

00:02:54.180 Why is it that automatically the first reaction to this is,

00:02:57.700 the industry fires the man?

00:02:59.520 Let's be fair and just here.

00:03:00.880 Why is it seen as that the men are the only violent ones?

00:03:05.140 Yes, statistics kind of show, you know, that men are more violent than women, 1.00

00:03:09.040 but this doesn't mean that in every single case you can generalise

00:03:12.220 and make it seem as if he is the aggressor, yeah?

00:03:15.180 That's the point I'm trying to make when it comes to industry level.

00:03:17.640 Media has kind of jumped on the bandwagon as well, again, you know,

00:03:21.200 and these industries and these media, they do this

00:03:23.020 not because they favour one or the other,

00:03:25.440 it's because they know if they take, you know,

00:03:27.700 because a woman is seen as vulnerable, you know,

00:03:29.860 you have to take her side.

00:03:32.140 That's the get-go.

00:03:32.680 And we also do that ourselves.

00:03:34.340 So the industry does it, the media does it,

00:03:35.720 we also do it when it comes to these matters.

00:03:37.900 Like, our first impressions is what?

00:03:40.440 Bad husband, etc.

00:03:41.600 And we start, you know,

00:03:43.120 projecting the things that we live through to an individual.

00:03:46.380 If you was in a household where your father was violent to your mum,

00:03:50.320 and then we think, yeah, he's the same.

00:03:52.240 No, maybe he's not the same.

00:03:53.740 Maybe he's the victim.

00:03:54.920 Maybe, I'm saying.

00:03:56.020 Can it be?

00:03:56.660 Yes.

00:03:57.080 So our first reactions should be that.

00:03:59.140 It shouldn't be, no, he's a villain.

00:04:00.800 Why is it that he's guilty until proven innocent,

00:04:02.900 and she's innocent until proven guilty?

00:04:05.220 Why is that the case?

00:04:06.740 That is not right.

00:04:07.700 I know of many cases where brothers are,

00:04:10.600 you know, wallahi, wallahi,

00:04:11.920 cases where the woman's got a knife in her hand,

00:04:14.240 throwing bottles,

00:04:15.760 throwing bottles,

00:04:16.920 coming physically,

00:04:18.160 you know, again,

00:04:18.980 I'm not taking anybody's side,

00:04:20.420 Johnny Depp or Ambers, yeah, okay.

00:04:22.760 What I'm trying to say is,

00:04:23.840 we cannot have double standards.

00:04:25.280 Now, secondly,

00:04:26.340 where is this all stemming from?

00:04:28.340 Now, feminism is the wrong answer to the right questions. 1.00

00:04:32.660 Okay, a lot of cases,

00:04:34.260 men being violent,

00:04:35.340 you know, men mistreating,

00:04:37.040 men being abusive, etc.

00:04:38.500 This happens vice versa.

00:04:39.980 But these are questions,

00:04:41.080 valid questions,

00:04:42.120 that Muslim women and non-Muslim women are asking.

00:04:45.920 But you're asking the right questions,

00:04:47.520 but you're getting the wrong answers from feminism. 1.00

00:04:49.580 Feminism is there to basically destroy you, 1.00

00:04:52.680 gradually and slowly and systematically. 0.97

00:04:54.640 That's exactly what its objective and its aim is.

00:04:57.600 Because what it does to you,

00:04:59.520 as a woman,

00:05:00.100 is that it makes you,

00:05:01.880 that for example,

00:05:02.740 which is very strange,

00:05:05.020 that why are men the bar that you need to be?

00:05:08.580 Why is it that you have to be like us?

00:05:11.140 I mean,

00:05:11.780 isn't it self-defeating that we are your success measurement?

00:05:14.940 Like, oh, I have to be like you.

00:05:16.180 Whatever you do,

00:05:16.580 I need to do the same.

00:05:17.880 Why do you have to be like me?

00:05:19.220 You are unique in your own way.

00:05:20.360 Why do you have to be like me?

00:05:21.780 Why is the bar there?

00:05:22.660 Like, I mean,

00:05:22.920 isn't it self-defeating?

00:05:23.700 Like, we have to be like men.

00:05:24.980 If men do this,

00:05:25.740 we're going to do that.

00:05:26.200 If men don't, 0.92

00:05:27.020 we're going to do that.

00:05:27.820 I think this is maybe the reason why

00:05:29.380 we are now seeing a spike in females, 0.87

00:05:32.460 women becoming violent. 0.99

00:05:35.420 What is it?

00:05:35.980 Is this what feminism, 1.00

00:05:37.140 toxic femininity has taught you? 1.00

00:05:38.480 That now you have to become like a man

00:05:40.440 and like, you know,

00:05:41.140 I'm going to take the matters physically.

00:05:42.780 You know,

00:05:43.040 maybe he will understand in the physical.

00:05:44.800 No,

00:05:45.540 no,

00:05:46.040 that is not correct.

00:05:47.600 And that is what exactly feminism is doing. 1.00

00:05:49.660 It's trying to destroy the nuclear family. 0.80

00:05:52.120 It's as simple as that.

00:05:53.300 That's what it's doing systematically.

00:05:54.440 And we can see that.

00:05:55.580 And they say,

00:05:56.260 chivalry is dead.

00:05:57.360 Yeah, it's dead. 0.99

00:05:58.340 And women killed it. 1.00

00:05:59.780 Women killed it. 1.00

00:06:01.240 You know, 1.00

00:06:01.840 they want to have their cake and eat it.

00:06:03.700 You know,

00:06:03.980 chivalry is dead.

00:06:04.620 And I'm so sorry, 0.99

00:06:05.360 you guys are the murderers. 1.00

00:06:06.220 You guys are the... 1.00

00:06:06.660 I'm so sorry.

00:06:08.260 Females, 1.00

00:06:08.760 not all,

00:06:09.600 but what I'm trying to say is,

00:06:11.040 the cause of that,

00:06:12.260 we have swapped our roles.

00:06:14.180 Yes?

00:06:14.800 We've swapped our roles.

00:06:15.280 Men have become like women. 0.99

00:06:16.300 Women have become like men. 1.00

00:06:17.580 And very interestingly,

00:06:18.620 Allah in the Quran

00:06:19.320 says something very profound.

00:06:21.540 Because when it comes to this issue,

00:06:22.440 the Quran speaks very,

00:06:23.620 very,

00:06:23.920 you know,

00:06:25.020 vividly about this.

00:06:25.960 Subhanallah.

00:06:26.500 Like in the Quran, 0.97

00:06:27.140 Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala says,

00:06:28.260 that Allah acknowledges

00:06:29.520 the men's responsibility.

00:06:31.100 And acknowledges

00:06:31.820 the woman's responsibility. 0.98

00:06:33.100 And gives you guidance

00:06:34.000 according to who,

00:06:35.480 how you're created.

00:06:36.920 Yeah?

00:06:37.240 Not what you think you are.

00:06:38.820 But realistically,

00:06:39.940 what you are.

00:06:41.300 Not who you think you are,

00:06:42.180 but what you are.

00:06:43.060 And Allah says in the Quran,

00:06:44.280 in Surah Nisa verse 434,

00:06:45.720 men are the caretakers of women 1.00

00:06:47.420 and maintainers and protecters of women.

00:06:49.780 As men have been provisioned 0.56

00:06:51.440 by Allah over women

00:06:52.720 and tasked with supporting them financially.

00:06:55.600 And righteous women

00:06:56.180 are devoutly obedient

00:06:56.940 and when alone,

00:06:58.200 protect of what Allah

00:06:59.060 has entrusted with them.

00:07:00.260 Yeah?

00:07:00.720 So Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala 0.95

00:07:01.700 very, very,

00:07:02.760 gives the role of a man

00:07:04.220 as the maintainer,

00:07:04.860 the protector.

00:07:05.680 He's the one that should provide.

00:07:06.700 He should provide for you.

00:07:07.660 He should be taking care of you.

00:07:08.900 He should protect you

00:07:09.560 because you are,

00:07:10.780 biologically,

00:07:11.800 you are physically weak.

00:07:13.040 If a person with a knife comes, 0.98

00:07:14.780 I'm not going to send my wife. 0.99

00:07:15.800 It's my duty.

00:07:17.020 I acknowledge it.

00:07:17.600 I don't say,

00:07:17.960 no,

00:07:18.440 you know,

00:07:18.680 why do I have to go?

00:07:19.460 Why don't you go?

00:07:20.300 And I'll just be here,

00:07:21.040 you know,

00:07:21.620 backing you up,

00:07:22.240 cheering you.

00:07:22.620 Yeah, you go, go. 1.00

00:07:23.180 You punch him in the face. 0.99

00:07:24.280 Yeah? 0.98

00:07:24.760 No.

00:07:25.440 Islam acknowledges that 0.82

00:07:26.420 and that is a big risk.

00:07:27.280 That means I'm putting my life,

00:07:28.420 I'm like a full-time bodyguard.

00:07:29.800 I'm putting my life

00:07:30.580 on the line

00:07:31.460 for my wife,

00:07:33.020 my sister,

00:07:33.640 my mother,

00:07:34.140 my daughter.

00:07:35.120 And rightly so,

00:07:35.720 and I'm proud.

00:07:36.160 I don't have a problem with that.

00:07:37.360 Can you imagine if I had a problem with this

00:07:38.420 and said,

00:07:38.660 no,

00:07:38.800 I want to be like a woman.

00:07:39.920 Yeah?

00:07:40.240 And I want to be like,

00:07:40.780 no,

00:07:40.920 you go fight.

00:07:42.080 Would feminists like that? 1.00

00:07:44.220 They wouldn't.

00:07:45.240 They wouldn't.

00:07:45.720 They try their best to like,

00:07:46.800 oh no,

00:07:47.220 no,

00:07:47.400 no,

00:07:47.460 no,

00:07:47.600 no.

00:07:47.760 Sorry.

00:07:48.280 Nature of reality shows you that no.

00:07:50.700 And then also men are weak in certain areas

00:07:52.800 where they require a woman to step up. 1.00

00:07:55.200 That is our reality.

00:07:56.600 And also when it comes to this

00:07:57.740 of marriage conflict,

00:07:58.860 the Quran and the Sunnah

00:07:59.520 is very,

00:08:00.020 very clear about this.

00:08:01.840 Now,

00:08:02.640 are we saying that,

00:08:03.780 for example,

00:08:04.120 from the videos that we've watched,

00:08:05.800 that,

00:08:06.040 that men are in no way,

00:08:08.500 shape or form in any instance,

00:08:09.980 in any situation,

00:08:11.000 not to put their hands on a woman?

00:08:13.040 Any one of you guys would agree with me

00:08:14.760 that no,

00:08:15.340 that's not correct.

00:08:16.120 Because if a woman has been aggressive, 0.84

00:08:18.500 yeah?

00:08:18.860 And I'm not saying,

00:08:19.540 by the way,

00:08:19.720 I'm not talking about Amber.

00:08:20.540 These are accusations,

00:08:22.120 speculations.

00:08:23.140 These are things that Johnny Depp is claiming.

00:08:26.180 Yeah?

00:08:26.440 Just like Amber's claiming.

00:08:27.460 So I'm not taking anybody's side.

00:08:28.880 The thing is this,

00:08:29.820 though,

00:08:30.240 to those accusation claims,

00:08:31.220 yeah?

00:08:31.500 If it is real,

00:08:32.480 that bottles have been thrown,

00:08:33.720 your fingers nearly cut,

00:08:35.060 you've been punched in the face,

00:08:35.860 two times,

00:08:36.680 yeah?

00:08:37.380 And etc,

00:08:38.400 etc,

00:08:38.620 etc,

00:08:38.980 etc,

00:08:39.120 whatever.

00:08:39.800 Are you telling me,

00:08:41.160 that I am going to just stand there,

00:08:42.560 and get punches,

00:08:43.140 like Johnny Depp,

00:08:43.520 I'm sorry,

00:08:44.140 I'm not going to let any woman come, 1.00

00:08:45.420 and punch me two times in the face, 0.99

00:08:46.680 yeah? 0.99

00:08:46.940 I will restrain her.

00:08:48.760 I would restrain her,

00:08:50.200 like anybody does.

00:08:51.240 So in the Quran,

00:08:51.860 Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala says,

00:08:52.760 if you sense ill conduct from your wives,

00:08:54.960 advise them.

00:08:55.640 So the first step is what?

00:08:56.740 Allah legislates us, 0.96

00:08:57.720 and gives us a protocol,

00:08:59.300 yeah?

00:08:59.720 Because many men,

00:09:01.080 or many individuals,

00:09:02.020 don't have a protocol.

00:09:02.760 So what they do is,

00:09:03.540 they go straight physically,

00:09:04.460 and beating their wives up, 0.85

00:09:05.860 their best football,

00:09:07.040 their team,

00:09:07.800 their favorite team lost,

00:09:09.040 they come home and take it out on their wives, 0.87

00:09:10.420 which is absolutely haram.

00:09:11.600 So the point is this,

00:09:12.320 number one is what?

00:09:13.220 You advise,

00:09:14.020 look,

00:09:14.840 you've been behaving like this,

00:09:15.960 etc,

00:09:16.400 in a threatening manner,

00:09:17.180 or whatever it may be,

00:09:18.180 I don't like that.

00:09:19.300 Yeah,

00:09:19.480 please stop here.

00:09:20.680 Allah tells us the advice.

00:09:22.240 If this carries on,

00:09:23.160 Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala tells us the second thing,

00:09:24.880 which is what?

00:09:25.680 That,

00:09:26.260 you move away from the bed.

00:09:28.380 Sexually,

00:09:28.960 obviously,

00:09:29.360 emotionally,

00:09:30.020 you are depriving her,

00:09:31.680 so she can understand that she's hurting you,

00:09:33.700 and that she should stop doing what she's doing. 0.69

00:09:35.200 But that's what Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala is saying.

00:09:36.980 And thirdly,

00:09:37.480 if you see her transgressing,

00:09:39.040 where she's getting physical,

00:09:40.500 picking up bottles,

00:09:41.560 knife, 1.00

00:09:42.160 trying to come and punch you, 0.98

00:09:43.640 Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala says,

00:09:44.600 then you can use a force to restrain them.

00:09:48.200 You can use a force.

00:09:49.420 Okay,

00:09:49.720 now in this case,

00:09:50.740 where John and I have been punched in the face,

00:09:52.300 we know very clearly,

00:09:53.700 it's haram to hit.

00:09:55.680 Yeah, 0.97

00:09:55.980 it's haram to hit the face.

00:09:57.500 Okay, 0.97

00:09:57.920 it's haram to hit the face. 0.97

00:09:59.480 A man doing it to a woman,

00:10:00.400 a wife to her husband,

00:10:01.140 her husband to a wife.

00:10:02.160 It is not permissible for anyone

00:10:03.920 to get physically violent,

00:10:05.740 to cause harm,

00:10:06.760 injury,

00:10:07.260 pain.

00:10:07.860 Yeah,

00:10:08.580 to the opposite gender, 0.80

00:10:09.640 et cetera,

00:10:10.120 it is not permissible.

00:10:11.700 Yeah,

00:10:12.400 restraining,

00:10:13.260 et cetera,

00:10:13.580 it's a different story.

00:10:14.420 Okay,

00:10:14.880 trying to restrain someone,

00:10:15.620 trying to attack you.

00:10:16.500 So Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala 0.95

00:10:17.320 has given a protocol what to do.

00:10:19.120 Not only that,

00:10:20.160 in different verses,

00:10:20.820 Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala says,

00:10:21.980 get your family members together

00:10:23.120 and try to reconcile.

00:10:25.500 Now the thing is here,

00:10:26.420 which is very interesting,

00:10:27.520 is in the same chapter,

00:10:28.880 bit further down,

00:10:29.600 Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala 0.81

00:10:30.380 also talks about

00:10:31.460 when a man is transgressing.

00:10:33.680 But look at what Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala 0.99

00:10:35.420 says and addresses it in such a way,

00:10:37.260 which puts us back to

00:10:38.460 where Allah is telling us

00:10:39.800 that a woman's role, 1.00

00:10:41.060 biologically,

00:10:41.940 physically,

00:10:42.340 in different ways,

00:10:43.840 because what Allah advises

00:10:44.880 is not the same thing.

00:10:45.780 Check this out.

00:10:47.460 Allah says in the Quran,

00:10:48.360 Surah Nisa verse 1 to 8,

00:10:49.640 and if a woman fear,

00:10:51.300 from a husband,

00:10:52.800 yeah,

00:10:53.260 contempt or evasion,

00:10:55.580 there is no sin upon them

00:10:56.760 if they make terms of

00:10:57.640 settlement between them

00:10:58.780 and their settlement is best

00:11:00.260 and present in human souls

00:11:01.780 and other other things.

00:11:02.600 But if you do good,

00:11:03.460 fear Allah.

00:11:04.000 So in a nutshell,

00:11:05.160 if you see it,

00:11:05.840 Allah didn't give the same protocol 1.00

00:11:06.880 to the woman. 0.67

00:11:08.080 Allah didn't say that

00:11:09.100 you do these steps

00:11:09.860 and then after that

00:11:10.500 you try to restrain him

00:11:11.980 because Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala 0.98

00:11:13.400 acknowledges that

00:11:14.180 the woman doesn't have 1.00

00:11:14.880 the physical power

00:11:15.760 to take restrain

00:11:18.160 or whatever it may be.

00:11:19.480 So Allah doesn't advise her 0.99

00:11:20.480 to do that

00:11:20.860 because that could cause,

00:11:22.680 for example,

00:11:23.080 if she tries to become

00:11:24.260 physical with him,

00:11:25.080 he can overpower her.

00:11:26.300 So Allah is protecting

00:11:27.140 the rights of a woman

00:11:27.880 in this very instance

00:11:28.720 by not advising the same thing

00:11:30.260 when he told a woman 0.88

00:11:30.920 for a man

00:11:31.700 that restrained him

00:11:32.580 because he has the power

00:11:33.280 to stop her

00:11:33.900 from attacking him

00:11:34.800 but the woman doesn't have 1.00

00:11:35.780 the power to do vice versa.

00:11:37.200 So Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala 0.95

00:11:38.700 acknowledged

00:11:39.300 a woman's role 0.98

00:11:40.200 and a man's role

00:11:41.020 biologically

00:11:41.740 and how they are created.

00:11:42.640 But feminism 1.00

00:11:43.340 is doing the opposite

00:11:44.700 by saying,

00:11:45.160 no,

00:11:45.620 you be like him.

00:11:46.560 You know what?

00:11:47.360 Go for him. 0.78

00:11:47.740 Stop punching him in the face.

00:11:48.920 And this is the problem here.

00:11:51.440 We need to acknowledge

00:11:52.480 that how we are created

00:11:54.240 biologically

00:11:54.840 and our pros and cons

00:11:56.900 that what we can do

00:11:57.520 and we can't do.

00:11:58.100 It's as simple as that.

00:11:59.840 That's what we need

00:12:00.480 to acknowledge.

00:12:01.340 And that's exactly

00:12:01.980 what Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala

00:12:02.780 is going back to.

00:12:03.920 The nuclear family.

00:12:05.560 Subhanahu wa ta'ala

00:12:05.860 men are the maintainers

00:12:06.660 and the protectors.

00:12:07.740 And of course,

00:12:08.220 women have a major, 1.00

00:12:09.120 major role that play

00:12:09.920 in that as well.

00:12:10.840 You know,

00:12:12.040 for the household.

00:12:14.200 And Allah says,

00:12:15.220 when you divorce women 0.99

00:12:16.120 and they have fulfilled

00:12:17.320 their term,

00:12:18.260 either retain them

00:12:19.100 according to acceptable terms

00:12:21.420 or release them

00:12:22.300 according to acceptable terms

00:12:23.840 and do not keep them

00:12:25.100 intending harm

00:12:26.120 to transgress against them

00:12:27.340 and whoever does that

00:12:28.260 has certainly wronged himself

00:12:29.340 and do not take

00:12:32.040 the verse of Allah in jest

00:12:33.160 and remember the favor

00:12:34.120 of Allah upon you.

00:12:35.420 So Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala 0.95

00:12:36.120 is saying,

00:12:36.760 look,

00:12:37.600 you've gone down

00:12:37.900 the divorce route,

00:12:39.020 go about it amicably.

00:12:41.280 Bye-bye, bye-bye.

00:12:42.620 It's as simple as that.

00:12:43.740 And the Prophet,

00:12:44.400 peace be upon him,

00:12:44.900 was also like that.

00:12:46.220 When once he had

00:12:47.340 a dish that he brought

00:12:48.260 from one of his other wives 0.51

00:12:49.700 and Aisha

00:12:50.580 his other wife cooked,

00:12:52.600 she got generous

00:12:53.240 and she smashed 1.00

00:12:53.800 the whole plate

00:12:54.280 in front of the whole companions.

00:12:56.160 I mean, guys,

00:12:56.780 what would we do?

00:12:57.340 If that was us.

00:12:58.120 And the Prophet,

00:12:58.600 peace be upon him,

00:12:59.020 laughed.

00:12:59.800 And he said,

00:13:00.140 look,

00:13:00.280 your mother's got upset.

00:13:02.500 Subhanallah.

00:13:03.480 And it teaches you

00:13:04.160 and the Prophet,

00:13:04.700 peace be upon him,

00:13:04.940 was never amongst those

00:13:05.820 who hit his wives.

00:13:06.940 Yeah?

00:13:07.440 But in this very situation,

00:13:08.500 when we look at Johnny Depp,

00:13:09.340 from what we can see,

00:13:10.040 we haven't heard Amber's story

00:13:10.820 yet as well,

00:13:11.680 but from what we've heard

00:13:12.740 is that he is being physically,

00:13:15.140 he has,

00:13:15.780 is alleging

00:13:16.640 that he was physically attacked.

00:13:19.040 Bottles being thrown,

00:13:19.940 punched in the face,

00:13:20.620 et cetera. 0.69

00:13:21.260 We need to address this issue.

00:13:22.740 This issue is not just

00:13:24.740 pertaining to

00:13:26.220 men hit their wives.

00:13:28.140 I'm so sorry.

00:13:29.120 There are women 0.98

00:13:29.740 that are physically

00:13:30.600 abusing their husbands

00:13:31.820 and I have heard

00:13:32.660 and witnessed it myself.

00:13:34.560 And that's what

00:13:35.140 Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala 0.81

00:13:36.040 and his messenger

00:13:36.680 has legislated for us

00:13:38.500 as Muslim men

00:13:39.740 to deal with.

00:13:40.580 And Muslim women as well. 1.00

00:13:41.720 That you have protocols in place,

00:13:42.780 family members in place

00:13:43.540 to amicably resolve the issue.

00:13:47.600 Alhamdulillah for Islam. 0.54

00:13:49.220 And to be honest,

00:13:50.560 like I said before,

00:13:51.620 that's all I wanted to say.

00:13:52.880 We should never ever judge

00:13:54.700 and jump to assumptions

00:13:56.060 and accusations

00:13:56.740 because what happens is

00:13:57.640 we end up humiliating ourselves

00:13:59.140 just because we heard one story.

00:14:01.020 Yeah?

00:14:01.400 Okay.

00:14:02.000 It can be the case,

00:14:03.140 we don't know when it's finalized,

00:14:04.520 that Amber was the transgressor 0.51

00:14:05.640 and she's been taking everyone 0.61

00:14:07.040 for a ride from the get-go.

00:14:08.680 Just because she's a woman

00:14:09.580 doesn't mean she's innocent.

00:14:11.180 If he's guilty

00:14:11.940 until proven innocent,

00:14:13.000 she should also be guilty 0.94

00:14:13.900 until proven innocent.

00:14:14.880 That's all I have to say on the matter.

00:14:16.000 May Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala 1.00

00:14:16.780 bless every single one of you guys

00:14:17.660 for watching.

00:14:18.340 Till next time.

00:14:18.920 As-salamu alaykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh.

Ali Dawah - April 30, 2022

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