Ali Dawah - September 20, 2019


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In this episode, we talk about the age of Aisha and her relationship with the Sunnah, and how she was attacked by her own family and the people around her. We also talk about how Aisha's own mother was a hero in the eyes of the sunnah.

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00:00:00.000 A lot of people get scared, they think, oh, it's like a shahada.
00:00:03.400 You're going to have like this white light coming here,
00:00:06.180 and then there's going to be flowers and something strange is going to happen.
00:00:10.960 Sister, if you take your shahada, all it means is this.
00:00:15.760 There was a door, you've been analysing that door for a long time,
00:00:19.540 you want to go through that door and start your journey.
00:00:22.220 What advice would you give, you're a reaver, me too,
00:00:24.960 and inshallah you're going to be a reaver today as well, yeah?
00:00:27.620 What advice would you give to our sister?
00:00:28.940 I was Christian before, and I read the Koran,
00:00:32.540 and easily, at the first verses, I was convinced.
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00:00:56.380 What are you guys waiting for?
00:00:58.940 Okay.
00:00:59.540 That's fine.
00:01:00.160 Okay.
00:01:00.580 Yes, sister, so you were saying?
00:01:02.580 So I'm thinking of taking my shahada soon.
00:01:04.940 That's fine.
00:01:05.440 Okay.
00:01:05.980 But I have some, not doubts, but questions I have.
00:01:11.220 Same.
00:01:11.800 Before I came to this time, I was the same as you.
00:01:13.740 Yeah.
00:01:13.940 Like, you know, I was convinced, but there was a few little things.
00:01:17.500 Yeah.
00:01:17.920 Inshallah.
00:01:18.500 I'm here at your service, inshallah, sister, with anything that I can help with.
00:01:21.540 So what are those specifically?
00:01:23.120 Um, I know this is incorrect, but I'll just say it.
00:01:27.720 Um, the Prophet Muhammad, peace upon him, his marriage to Aisha. 0.99
00:01:31.560 Yes.
00:01:31.860 Okay.
00:01:32.020 Yeah.
00:01:32.440 We've done videos on this.
00:01:33.680 Yes.
00:01:33.820 But I still, it doesn't really make sense to me.
00:01:37.840 Okay.
00:01:38.720 All right.
00:01:38.960 So what would you, what troubles you?
00:01:42.200 Like, be honest.
00:01:43.040 Like, I don't, I don't, I don't feel shy.
00:01:44.280 Just be honest.
00:01:44.980 Say, look, Brother Ali, this is what I don't understand.
00:01:47.100 It doesn't make sense to me.
00:01:47.800 Now we can clarify.
00:01:48.980 Her age.
00:01:50.060 That's it.
00:01:50.820 Okay.
00:01:51.300 All right.
00:01:51.780 So let's tackle this with a specific instance.
00:01:57.160 Okay.
00:01:57.340 Now, firstly, what we need to understand is that child, adolescence, yeah, that specific
00:02:05.740 period, it's different from now to back then, yeah?
00:02:10.560 Now, everybody speaks on behalf of Aisha, yeah?
00:02:14.820 Everyone speaks on her behalf.
00:02:16.120 Everyone wants to be a hero, like, yeah, we're speaking on behalf of her, yeah?
00:02:19.940 But the question is, these people, they only use that against the Prophet, yeah?
00:02:25.860 Because they don't like him, yeah?
00:02:28.260 I don't believe it's because they genuinely care, oh, Aisha was six.
00:02:32.780 They don't like him and they don't want to use anything against him, yeah?
00:02:35.080 So what are we learning from that is that when people come and attack the Prophet because
00:02:39.420 of that, we say, hold on a second, you're attacking him because you think he's doing
00:02:45.280 something wrong, yeah?
00:02:46.500 And because you don't like him, yeah?
00:02:48.700 Like the far right and people like that, yeah?
00:02:51.660 Now, at the time of the Prophet, peace be upon him, he had his uncle, Abu Jahan, and Abu Laham,
00:02:56.040 yeah?
00:02:56.900 They hated the Prophet.
00:02:58.440 Yeah.
00:02:58.660 But for some reason, within that time, none of them used this against him.
00:03:04.500 So none of them came and said, hold on a second.
00:03:06.420 You know, they called him like a magician, a suitsayer, a poet, all kind of stuff.
00:03:13.000 But none of them ever, ever attacked him and say, why are you marrying Aisha and six?
00:03:17.500 Because, so number one, the thing that we need to understand is that his enemies, his
00:03:22.040 worst enemies, never used it against him.
00:03:24.560 Why?
00:03:25.000 That's point number one, yeah?
00:03:26.560 Now, point number two, we have to look if, let's, tell me someone that is dear to you.
00:03:33.320 My mom.
00:03:33.920 Your mom, yeah?
00:03:34.960 Now, you know your mom, yeah?
00:03:36.500 Yeah.
00:03:36.720 If I said to you, your mom, I saw your mom steal something.
00:03:42.140 Yeah.
00:03:42.760 Would you believe me?
00:03:43.760 No.
00:03:44.440 Why?
00:03:45.540 Because I know my mom.
00:03:46.720 Good.
00:03:47.200 So what you're doing is, you're going based on testimony of, I know my mom.
00:03:51.680 Yeah.
00:03:52.020 My mom wouldn't do that. 1.00
00:03:53.160 Yeah.
00:03:53.440 So what are you basing it on is the Prophet, I mean, your mom's life.
00:03:59.340 Yeah.
00:03:59.580 How long you've known her, and you're emotionally attached to her.
00:04:04.740 So, besides that, that could be subjective, yeah?
00:04:06.900 That could be a conflict of interest.
00:04:09.360 However, because you know her, you know what she's like, you know she's not bad, you base
00:04:16.080 that and say, no, my mom would never do that. 1.00
00:04:18.380 Yeah.
00:04:18.740 Now, if I came and showed you a footage of your mom taking something and walking out the 1.00
00:04:24.460 store, would you then believe me?
00:04:27.080 Yeah.
00:04:28.060 Okay, would you not think to yourself, what excuses would you make for that scenario?
00:04:31.860 If I just showed you the footage, she's walking out with something in her hand, what excuses
00:04:36.660 would you give to defend your mom?
00:04:38.520 You haven't proved that she didn't pay for it.
00:04:41.020 She haven't what?
00:04:41.700 You haven't proved that she didn't pay for it.
00:04:43.680 Good.
00:04:44.200 Number one.
00:04:44.920 Number two, could she have forgotten?
00:04:46.480 Yeah.
00:04:47.100 Okay.
00:04:48.460 Relative excuses.
00:04:49.700 Yeah.
00:04:50.380 Why?
00:04:50.700 Because in your head, your mom, you know your mom.
00:04:53.920 Yeah.
00:04:54.140 And your mom wouldn't do that. 1.00
00:04:55.800 So now with us, we know the Prophet.
00:04:57.860 We look at his whole life.
00:04:59.720 Yeah.
00:05:00.140 And we say, hold on a second.
00:05:01.840 This man, yeah, when he was being persecuted, trying to be killed, yeah?
00:05:06.940 And I think Surah Muhammad, it talks about how they were plotting to kill the Prophet, yeah? 0.98
00:05:11.500 And Allah saved him, yeah?
00:05:12.640 So in many instances, he was being attacked.
00:05:16.260 When he conquered Mecca, he didn't get people killed.
00:05:20.840 He said, today is the day of mercy.
00:05:21.980 He forgave them, yeah?
00:05:23.500 How he was when his son died.
00:05:25.800 His wife, Khatija, yeah?
00:05:27.700 So what we do is, we look at his whole life and say, hold on a second.
00:05:30.280 This doesn't make sense.
00:05:31.500 We know the Prophet.
00:05:32.680 Yeah.
00:05:33.200 He wouldn't do what you're claiming he would do.
00:05:36.080 Yeah.
00:05:36.580 Because from what we know, he's not that person.
00:05:39.900 So what that means is your perception of what has become the wrong of today.
00:05:45.340 Now, the Prophet, peace be upon him, he did not want to, he didn't propose to Aisha 1.00
00:05:50.560 rather than her before.
00:05:51.760 She was supposed to get married before.
00:05:53.300 Did you know that?
00:05:54.260 No.
00:05:54.700 She was, she was, yeah, Aisha, yeah.
00:05:56.780 Aisha, Aisha, Aisha, Aisha was proposed to you before.
00:06:00.300 Let's see how he does it.
00:06:01.500 So, point number one, he was, she was proposed to you before.
00:06:05.660 So if she was proposed to you before, it shows that that was the norm of our society.
00:06:09.700 Yeah.
00:06:09.900 Yeah.
00:06:10.380 So now, secondly, the Prophet, peace be upon him, when he proposed, he was married to
00:06:16.180 Khatija for 25 years.
00:06:18.120 He was 25 years old.
00:06:20.260 Yeah.
00:06:20.480 Khatija was 40.
00:06:22.160 Yeah.
00:06:23.100 Now, we look at his life and we say, okay, what do we get from this person?
00:06:27.580 If I'm a 25-year-old man, why would I marry a 40-year-old woman?
00:06:32.100 I'm 25.
00:06:32.940 Can I not marry a young girl? 1.00
00:06:35.540 Can you marry a young girl? 0.99
00:06:36.860 If I'm 25 years old.
00:06:38.040 Yeah.
00:06:38.240 Would I not want to marry a younger girl? 1.00
00:06:40.860 Oh, yeah.
00:06:41.600 I would want to.
00:06:42.500 40 years may be a bit too old for me.
00:06:44.260 Yeah.
00:06:44.520 By the time I'm 40, she's going to be 55. 1.00
00:06:46.880 Yeah.
00:06:47.800 So then, Khatija married Khatija.
00:06:51.180 Yeah.
00:06:51.320 And he stayed married to her for 15 to 20 years.
00:06:56.660 So now, the question I need to ask is this.
00:06:58.800 If the Prophet had those kind of sexual urges and desires, why did he find a need in a society
00:07:05.420 where women were objectified, yeah? 1.00
00:07:07.800 And you could marry two, three, four, as much as you like.
00:07:11.140 He stayed married to one woman for the majority of his life.
00:07:15.520 So we need to question and say, hold on a second.
00:07:17.500 What does that teach us about a person?
00:07:18.980 It teaches his character.
00:07:20.140 Yeah.
00:07:20.200 It shows it must have been a genuine person who could have married multiple women, but
00:07:26.620 he stuck to one woman, yeah?
00:07:28.380 Who was a businesswoman, yeah? 1.00
00:07:30.360 For a long amount of time.
00:07:32.700 So that negates and takes the fact out of his feeling wanting to marry a child, yeah?
00:07:38.260 Yeah.
00:07:38.420 Now, let Aisha speak on behalf of herself. 0.55
00:07:42.660 Everybody's speaking on her behalf.
00:07:44.600 Everyone's speaking on her behalf, yeah?
00:07:46.200 Everyone's saying, oh, yeah, why did this happen?
00:07:48.720 Hold on a second.
00:07:49.780 Aisha is one of the biggest female scholars in Islam.
00:07:53.920 Biggest female scholars in Islam, yeah? 1.00
00:07:56.540 She has narrated over 2,000 hadith.
00:07:59.540 She's like a scholar, yeah?
00:08:01.760 And one of the people in Medina who would give fatwa was Aisha. 0.79
00:08:06.020 There was Ali Radiran, Umar ibn Qattaf, Ibn Masood, Abdul ibn Abbas, and a few other people.
00:08:15.780 She's one of the people who come for verdicts.
00:08:18.920 You know, we go to a scholar, like, can I have this?
00:08:22.480 Is it all right for me to have this drink that has 1% alcohol?
00:08:25.560 Yeah.
00:08:26.420 People would go to Aisha to get fatwa. 0.97
00:08:29.160 So let me get this right.
00:08:31.200 Aisha, she narrates from the Prophet that they would watch the Abyssinian,
00:08:36.020 tribes dancing, and she would put her cheek on the Prophet's shoulder. 0.54
00:08:41.020 It doesn't make sense to me, yeah?
00:08:42.680 They would race together, yeah?
00:08:44.320 So, for example, in her younger age, when they were married,
00:08:48.340 the Prophet would beat her. 0.99
00:08:49.540 No, no, no, she would beat the Prophet, yeah? 0.94
00:08:52.300 And as she grew a bit more older, they had a race again, yeah? 0.56
00:08:56.020 As she went through, Bittin, she really got stronger.
00:08:59.540 Thank you for your commentary.
00:09:01.200 You're welcome.
00:09:01.880 Can I continue?
00:09:02.840 Thank you.
00:09:03.680 Yes.
00:09:04.360 You should do some football commentary as well.
00:09:07.100 Anyway, so when they were racing, Bittin's the Prophet won, yeah? 0.98
00:09:10.780 And he made a joke and he said, look, you've put on weight.
00:09:12.980 And when he would drink, he would drink, so when they would drink water,
00:09:18.980 he would drink from the exact place that she drank.
00:09:21.820 Now, you can understand this in two ways.
00:09:25.440 The paedophilic issue is not a Muslim problem. 0.98
00:09:28.120 It's a white man's problem. 0.99
00:09:29.380 Oh. 0.90
00:09:30.140 Yeah?
00:09:30.440 It's because, let me tell you why.
00:09:31.800 Most paedophiles, 100%, 99.9% of paedophiles,
00:09:35.400 are white middle-aged men.
00:09:37.660 No.
00:09:38.180 So now, yes!
00:09:40.660 Yes!
00:09:40.900 Yes!
00:09:41.640 Yes!
00:09:41.740 Yes!
00:09:41.840 It speaks out for itself.
00:09:47.260 I'm not even going to bring more stats.
00:09:49.560 Go and see white middle-aged men, most, not one of them, 1.00
00:09:52.760 are going to Thailand.
00:09:54.240 Yeah?
00:09:54.980 Are they going to have a nice drink,
00:09:57.620 or are they going for something else?
00:09:58.360 Yeah?
00:09:58.860 So now, this paedophilic attitude,
00:10:01.940 this paedophilia that's going,
00:10:03.480 the problem that's happened is this system.
00:10:04.900 We look at men here today 0.54
00:10:07.240 who want little kids for wrong reasons
00:10:10.280 and do disgusted stuff with them,
00:10:11.960 and we equate it with the prophets.
00:10:14.860 That's not right.
00:10:16.000 Because 1,400 years ago,
00:10:17.960 in this country,
00:10:19.120 100 years ago,
00:10:20.300 yeah?
00:10:20.640 In this country,
00:10:21.380 I think William,
00:10:22.480 I forgot his name,
00:10:24.220 William Lane something, yeah?
00:10:25.300 In his commentary of the UK common law,
00:10:28.360 a woman could get married at 7 years old, 0.99
00:10:30.200 in this country, in the UK,
00:10:31.580 7, 100 years ago.
00:10:33.180 Yeah?
00:10:34.040 I'll find it for you.
00:10:35.120 100 years ago,
00:10:36.180 they could get married at 7 years old,
00:10:37.620 in this country.
00:10:39.480 So, the point here is this,
00:10:41.080 yeah?
00:10:42.180 Is that,
00:10:43.220 the prophet,
00:10:43.880 peace be upon him,
00:10:45.580 did not,
00:10:46.260 he was all of his,
00:10:47.200 some of his wives were at 70,
00:10:48.660 80 years old.
00:10:49.940 Yeah?
00:10:50.440 He had wives,
00:10:51.340 and he married them for political reasons,
00:10:53.980 a variety of other reasons,
00:10:54.900 yeah?
00:10:55.020 So,
00:10:55.820 to equate him,
00:10:58.680 of doing a paedophilic action,
00:11:00.260 based on what's going on,
00:11:01.320 the perverted actions of today,
00:11:02.960 is wrong to do that.
00:11:03.880 That's point number one,
00:11:04.980 yeah?
00:11:05.380 Now,
00:11:06.000 what we say,
00:11:07.120 is that,
00:11:07.820 Aisha Raleigh Anha,
00:11:09.860 became a woman.
00:11:11.420 How?
00:11:12.360 Because,
00:11:12.880 he,
00:11:13.860 married her at 6,
00:11:15.680 that's a contract.
00:11:16.600 It doesn't mean,
00:11:17.280 you're moving together.
00:11:18.260 Yeah.
00:11:18.960 You know,
00:11:19.220 haven't you heard of betrothal?
00:11:21.240 So,
00:11:21.660 what that means is,
00:11:22.380 like,
00:11:22.560 you know,
00:11:22.820 when you're young,
00:11:24.040 they'll say,
00:11:24.340 okay,
00:11:24.480 he was betrothed with your cousin.
00:11:25.820 Oh,
00:11:26.180 yeah.
00:11:26.500 Yeah?
00:11:27.040 So now,
00:11:27.600 what they did is,
00:11:28.920 they said,
00:11:29.600 you're married.
00:11:30.660 The prophet waited three years.
00:11:33.560 Why would a man,
00:11:35.000 if he was like that,
00:11:37.320 why would he wait three years?
00:11:38.800 He'll say,
00:11:39.140 no,
00:11:39.400 I'm a prophet,
00:11:40.320 of God,
00:11:40.840 I want,
00:11:41.360 I want her now.
00:11:43.120 He waited three years.
00:11:44.560 Why?
00:11:45.460 He consummated the marriage at 9.
00:11:46.880 Why did he wait three years?
00:11:49.380 Because she wasn't an adult yet.
00:11:52.140 Yeah?
00:11:52.760 So now,
00:11:53.800 today,
00:11:54.600 girls, 0.91
00:11:55.480 if you look at the ages that they menstruate,
00:11:57.460 go to NHS,
00:11:58.480 yeah?
00:11:59.340 9,
00:12:00.020 10,
00:12:00.600 11,
00:12:01.200 12.
00:12:02.160 So,
00:12:02.820 your body is saying,
00:12:04.640 that you are ready for reproduction.
00:12:07.580 Your body is saying that.
00:12:08.760 However,
00:12:09.220 Islamically,
00:12:09.960 that's not the only factor.
00:12:11.180 Just because you're menstruating, 1.00
00:12:12.640 doesn't mean,
00:12:13.580 you are ready to get married.
00:12:15.080 Because,
00:12:15.380 are you mentally ready? 0.75
00:12:16.880 Are you sexually ready?
00:12:18.200 So,
00:12:18.440 a person has to be asked.
00:12:19.940 And not only that,
00:12:20.760 you cannot cause harm.
00:12:22.800 Yeah?
00:12:23.180 So,
00:12:23.520 you cannot cause harm.
00:12:24.540 So,
00:12:24.780 the prophet waited three years for her to become an adult.
00:12:27.760 So,
00:12:28.200 we can't take a nine-year-old today,
00:12:30.260 and compare a nine-year-old to 1,400 years ago.
00:12:32.860 Yeah?
00:12:33.400 We are like babies today.
00:12:34.880 Yeah?
00:12:35.300 We're like babies.
00:12:36.860 But,
00:12:37.160 women and men back then,
00:12:38.620 they were going to war.
00:12:39.960 They were providing for their family.
00:12:41.740 The women were, 1.00
00:12:42.420 like,
00:12:42.620 you would have royals.
00:12:44.020 Yeah?
00:12:44.400 I think,
00:12:44.780 I've got a book here.
00:12:45.760 I'll try to find it as well.
00:12:47.880 You'll have royal families,
00:12:49.440 yeah?
00:12:49.840 That were married to 11,
00:12:52.680 and she was widowed at 12.
00:12:54.620 Yeah?
00:12:55.060 Come on now.
00:12:56.520 Read history.
00:12:56.960 This is well unfair, mate.
00:12:57.780 Read history.
00:12:58.200 This is well unfair.
00:12:58.720 Read history.
00:12:59.680 Read history.
00:13:00.260 No,
00:13:00.560 I'm not disagreeing with you.
00:13:01.980 I'm not disagreeing with your content.
00:13:03.300 I'm not disagreeing with your content.
00:13:05.520 I'm disagreeing with your conduct.
00:13:07.480 My conduct?
00:13:08.180 Yeah.
00:13:08.660 What's wrong with my conduct?
00:13:09.800 You've got a mic on the young lady, 0.94
00:13:11.500 but you haven't let her speak.
00:13:13.240 I'm listening to him.
00:13:14.420 Oh,
00:13:14.580 that's very fair.
00:13:15.200 Thank you.
00:13:15.500 Fairly fresh.
00:13:16.540 There you go.
00:13:18.240 So,
00:13:18.540 this is a childish behaviour.
00:13:21.000 I'm sorry,
00:13:21.440 this is absolutely
00:13:22.040 childish behaviour.
00:13:25.520 Why are you trying to be a hero?
00:13:27.140 Yeah,
00:13:27.380 trying to show chivalry is not dead.
00:13:28.340 We call it white knight.
00:13:29.300 Yeah?
00:13:29.620 White knight is white knight.
00:13:30.540 Yes,
00:13:30.820 keep your white knight.
00:13:31.480 Save someone else.
00:13:32.440 Yeah?
00:13:33.020 She came here,
00:13:33.720 she's asking a question.
00:13:34.620 Have I stopped you?
00:13:35.720 Did I say,
00:13:35.980 shush?
00:13:36.640 You listen to me,
00:13:37.440 woman.
00:13:38.040 Yeah?
00:13:39.080 I'm the man.
00:13:40.580 Have I done that?
00:13:41.400 No.
00:13:42.060 Cut,
00:13:42.260 cut down with the drama.
00:13:46.260 Go to drama school.
00:13:48.960 This is,
00:13:49.420 this is,
00:13:49.700 this is,
00:13:50.280 this is post-colonial mentality.
00:13:53.880 We're here to save.
00:13:54.360 We've come here
00:13:55.480 to save the woman.
00:13:57.420 Please,
00:13:57.940 go save yourself.
00:13:58.780 Yeah?
00:13:59.180 Okay.
00:14:00.180 Alright.
00:14:01.340 Thank you.
00:14:02.420 So,
00:14:03.280 yes,
00:14:03.540 William Blackstone
00:14:04.200 in his commentary
00:14:04.700 on the English law
00:14:05.400 published in 1867,
00:14:07.140 page 110,
00:14:08.240 yeah?
00:14:08.820 It talks about
00:14:09.900 girls used to be married, 1.00
00:14:12.940 could be married
00:14:13.500 at the age of seven
00:14:14.280 in this country
00:14:15.260 a hundred years ago,
00:14:16.180 yeah?
00:14:17.080 In France,
00:14:17.760 now they've lowered
00:14:18.720 the age of 15,
00:14:19.900 yeah?
00:14:20.480 In Turkey,
00:14:21.140 it's 18.
00:14:22.060 So,
00:14:22.400 to Turkey,
00:14:22.980 they'll look at UK
00:14:23.540 and say,
00:14:23.900 you guys are people. 1.00
00:14:24.360 You're pedophiles. 0.99
00:14:25.080 Yeah? 0.98
00:14:25.320 You say he's 16.
00:14:26.460 We will look at France 0.99
00:14:27.320 and say, 0.99
00:14:27.580 you guys are pedophiles, 0.99
00:14:28.500 yeah? 0.99
00:14:28.920 And then I think
00:14:29.720 Japan is 20 or 21 years 0.99
00:14:31.440 of age.
00:14:32.120 They'll look at all of us
00:14:32.800 and say, 0.99
00:14:33.000 you all are pedophiles. 0.99
00:14:34.280 So, 1.00
00:14:34.660 the age changes.
00:14:36.420 What Islam says,
00:14:37.360 sister,
00:14:37.920 is that
00:14:38.340 not one shoe fits all.
00:14:41.100 Because you might have
00:14:41.900 a 16-year-old British girl
00:14:43.440 who's not ready
00:14:44.060 for intimacy.
00:14:45.180 But the law says he can.
00:14:46.380 Yeah.
00:14:46.820 And majority of the girls 0.64
00:14:48.460 in this country,
00:14:49.540 let's get it right,
00:14:50.200 at 11, 0.87
00:14:50.600 12 are having sex 0.94
00:14:51.360 behind the bushes. 0.98
00:14:52.200 Excuse me.
00:14:52.640 Yeah?
00:14:53.360 Just sorry.
00:14:53.900 Forgive me.
00:14:54.240 I'm just being blunt.
00:14:55.040 Yeah? 0.99
00:14:55.920 They're having sex. 0.97
00:14:57.040 They are, 0.99
00:14:57.220 they are,
00:14:57.920 go and watch,
00:14:58.460 there's documentaries on this.
00:14:59.400 Teenage pregnancies.
00:15:00.260 Yeah?
00:15:01.000 So,
00:15:01.420 the thing here is this.
00:15:02.360 The issue,
00:15:03.960 mature what,
00:15:04.500 it's illegal.
00:15:06.080 But what I'm trying to show you.
00:15:07.020 I'm asking what you think.
00:15:07.820 Forget the law.
00:15:08.140 No, no, no.
00:15:08.540 What I think.
00:15:08.980 You think that's all right.
00:15:09.360 They can do like a really harsh thing.
00:15:10.540 No, no, no, no, no.
00:15:11.220 What I think,
00:15:12.040 what I think islamically,
00:15:13.600 a woman,
00:15:14.500 it's not one shoe fits all.
00:15:16.960 Islamically, 0.61
00:15:17.400 a woman has to be mentally, 1.00
00:15:18.360 sexually, 0.76
00:15:18.720 physically ready,
00:15:19.380 and there should be no harm factor.
00:15:21.180 Meaning,
00:15:21.960 if having intercourse 0.65
00:15:23.020 is going to cause harm,
00:15:24.360 she can't.
00:15:25.300 So,
00:15:25.700 what that means is,
00:15:26.520 you don't have an age on it.
00:15:28.080 What it means is,
00:15:28.960 each individual girl
00:15:30.420 has to be assessed herself.
00:15:32.860 That's what Allah says in the Quran,
00:15:33.940 in Surah Nisa.
00:15:36.500 Yes, yes.
00:15:37.280 It's very risky for you.
00:15:38.560 Allah says in the Quran,
00:15:41.900 no, no, no.
00:15:42.360 You're missing the point.
00:15:43.420 We can't force the girl.
00:15:45.800 Nobody said you can force her. 0.91
00:15:47.340 What we're saying is,
00:15:48.100 obviously the maghlaq
00:15:48.900 will have dialogue with her daughter.
00:15:50.720 To see if she's ready or not.
00:15:52.940 And this perception,
00:15:54.600 that as soon as she menstruates, 0.98
00:15:55.840 or reaches certain age,
00:15:56.480 she needs to get married, 1.00
00:15:57.180 is pathetic. 1.00
00:15:58.300 A lot of Muslims, 1.00
00:15:59.240 they will say their daughter
00:16:00.120 should study.
00:16:01.460 Nobody has said,
00:16:02.140 you need to go and get married automatically.
00:16:03.640 Yeah?
00:16:03.920 But what I'm saying is,
00:16:05.040 is that,
00:16:05.800 in today's time,
00:16:06.960 Allah says in the Quran,
00:16:08.060 test the orphans
00:16:08.980 until they reach
00:16:10.120 a marriageable age.
00:16:11.580 Yeah?
00:16:12.040 And test them,
00:16:12.720 test them for what?
00:16:13.780 For their inheritance,
00:16:14.900 their wealth.
00:16:15.600 So,
00:16:15.940 if I adopt a girl,
00:16:17.420 or a boy,
00:16:18.480 I have to wait and test them
00:16:20.020 until they reach
00:16:20.500 a marriageable age,
00:16:22.160 then I can give them
00:16:23.160 what is left by
00:16:23.860 from their fathers.
00:16:25.360 Allah says in the Quran,
00:16:26.160 test them.
00:16:26.580 So,
00:16:27.180 the issue here is this,
00:16:28.220 sister,
00:16:28.380 yeah?
00:16:28.940 Islam has came to cater. 1.00
00:16:30.720 What was the original question?
00:16:31.560 Why did the prophet marry
00:16:33.160 Aisha at six? 0.93
00:16:34.160 Yeah.
00:16:34.660 So,
00:16:35.160 the point here is this,
00:16:36.160 sister,
00:16:36.400 yeah?
00:16:36.820 Is that,
00:16:37.800 if I am a thief,
00:16:39.600 yeah?
00:16:40.380 I will think everybody 0.85
00:16:41.720 is a thief like me. 0.67
00:16:42.880 So, 0.88
00:16:43.160 I will never let you,
00:16:44.100 I will never say to you,
00:16:44.800 can you hold this for me?
00:16:46.000 Because I will think,
00:16:46.460 oh,
00:16:46.620 should I steal it?
00:16:47.520 No,
00:16:47.760 no,
00:16:47.900 no,
00:16:48.200 no,
00:16:48.400 no,
00:16:48.540 no.
00:16:48.820 Because why?
00:16:49.820 My mentality is that
00:16:51.320 I'm a thief.
00:16:52.180 I steal things,
00:16:53.180 yeah?
00:16:53.660 I will never let anyone
00:16:54.900 have something.
00:16:55.500 Why?
00:16:55.780 Because I will think
00:16:56.600 everybody must be like me.
00:16:58.360 So,
00:16:58.840 that's why people in this age,
00:17:00.220 because pedophilia 0.97
00:17:01.000 is disgusting, 0.98
00:17:02.440 and the elites 0.97
00:17:03.500 have been in this as well,
00:17:04.520 they've been exposed,
00:17:05.300 yeah?
00:17:05.600 And majority are white men,
00:17:07.580 yeah?
00:17:08.280 White men in middle age, 0.89
00:17:09.280 not all,
00:17:09.640 I'm just saying stats,
00:17:10.540 I'm not saying everyone's other,
00:17:11.520 yeah?
00:17:11.940 The point is this,
00:17:13.220 what they do is they look
00:17:14.120 and be like,
00:17:14.600 okay,
00:17:14.820 hold on a second,
00:17:15.420 if they are doing that,
00:17:17.420 okay,
00:17:17.860 and if your prophet,
00:17:18.720 if your prophet married 0.85
00:17:19.920 at six,
00:17:20.880 ah,
00:17:21.660 he must have won it
00:17:22.640 for the same reasons,
00:17:23.440 false analogy.
00:17:24.040 You can't compare
00:17:25.540 a vile, 1.00
00:17:26.200 disgusting man 1.00
00:17:26.940 who wants a little child 1.00
00:17:28.240 for disgusting things 0.77
00:17:29.920 to a man,
00:17:31.080 the prophet,
00:17:31.560 peace be upon him,
00:17:32.280 who married there at six,
00:17:33.940 that's a contract,
00:17:35.400 and consummated there at nine,
00:17:36.880 three years.
00:17:37.860 Why did he wait three years?
00:17:39.720 Why does somebody
00:17:40.420 who has love for a child,
00:17:41.440 he could say,
00:17:41.840 I'm a prophet of God,
00:17:43.040 I would like this,
00:17:44.240 I would like this woman,
00:17:45.580 I would like this girl
00:17:46.560 right now,
00:17:47.380 yeah?
00:17:47.880 Why did he not do that?
00:17:48.940 Why did he wait three years?
00:17:50.560 Because for her
00:17:51.520 to become an adult,
00:17:52.640 what does that teach us
00:17:53.680 as Muslims?
00:17:54.620 That,
00:17:55.300 if my son wants
00:17:56.560 to marry a girl,
00:17:57.680 my son is 18
00:17:58.480 and the girl is 14,
00:18:00.220 we will say,
00:18:01.020 hold on a second,
00:18:02.240 the legal age
00:18:02.820 in this country is 16,
00:18:04.440 she's not adult yet,
00:18:06.000 the prophet waited
00:18:06.900 for Aisha for three years,
00:18:09.000 we will wait three years,
00:18:10.020 four years,
00:18:10.500 five years,
00:18:11.480 so,
00:18:12.420 those who say,
00:18:13.220 hold on a second,
00:18:14.060 your prophet is a robot 1.00
00:18:14.940 for all times,
00:18:15.840 yes,
00:18:16.340 he is,
00:18:17.020 and we implement
00:18:17.740 what he did
00:18:18.280 in today's age.
00:18:19.740 So,
00:18:20.320 there's a variety
00:18:21.260 of factors,
00:18:21.800 sister,
00:18:21.940 but Aisha Radera
00:18:22.660 and her is the person
00:18:23.720 that can speak for herself. 1.00
00:18:25.080 She doesn't need no one
00:18:25.880 to come and rescue her.
00:18:26.800 So,
00:18:27.000 sister,
00:18:27.620 does that answer your question?
00:18:28.400 Is there anything?
00:18:28.900 Yeah.
00:18:29.280 If there's anything,
00:18:29.820 I didn't know,
00:18:30.280 I didn't get that,
00:18:31.120 be honest,
00:18:31.460 I'm totally fine.
00:18:32.160 No,
00:18:32.400 it makes sense,
00:18:32.920 you read it right.
00:18:34.960 Thank you.
00:18:35.440 Is there any other?
00:18:36.660 Yeah,
00:18:36.900 have another one.
00:18:37.480 Sure,
00:18:37.700 please,
00:18:37.900 I'm here for you all day,
00:18:39.200 and I believe you shouldn't
00:18:40.220 delay your sahari.
00:18:41.020 I'll tell you why as well.
00:18:42.720 Okay,
00:18:43.100 can you explain that then?
00:18:44.120 Okay,
00:18:44.560 let me tell you why
00:18:45.320 you shouldn't delay
00:18:47.240 your sahari,
00:18:48.020 yeah?
00:18:48.860 Now,
00:18:49.340 just a little,
00:18:50.520 when I,
00:18:51.100 before I came to Islam,
00:18:52.560 I knew Islam was the truth,
00:18:54.060 yeah?
00:18:56.020 And,
00:18:56.560 I said,
00:18:58.180 I had,
00:18:58.680 I was suffering for my desires,
00:19:00.340 worldly stuff,
00:19:01.000 yeah?
00:19:01.140 Yeah?
00:19:01.900 I knew Islam was the truth,
00:19:03.580 but,
00:19:04.040 I would say,
00:19:04.840 ah,
00:19:05.160 you know,
00:19:05.680 if I,
00:19:06.200 if I take my shahada now,
00:19:07.360 I have to commit,
00:19:08.060 and I have to pray now,
00:19:09.160 and I have to do this,
00:19:10.120 and I have to do that,
00:19:11.220 that will stop me.
00:19:12.580 Imagine if I died in that state,
00:19:14.340 yeah?
00:19:15.200 So,
00:19:15.560 the thing is,
00:19:16.020 sister,
00:19:16.800 a lot of people get scared,
00:19:18.000 they think,
00:19:18.240 oh,
00:19:18.420 if I take my shahada, 0.67
00:19:19.600 you're going to have like this,
00:19:21.420 white light coming here,
00:19:23.000 and then,
00:19:23.500 there's going to be flowers,
00:19:25.500 and something,
00:19:26.560 strange is going to happen.
00:19:27.720 Sister,
00:19:29.040 if you take your shahada,
00:19:30.460 all it means is this,
00:19:32.520 there was a door,
00:19:34.100 you've been analysing that door for a long time,
00:19:36.280 you want to go through that door,
00:19:38.120 and start your journey.
00:19:39.040 All the shahada means, 0.97
00:19:40.260 is that you've got the key,
00:19:42.000 yeah?
00:19:42.640 You've got the key,
00:19:43.460 you've opened the door,
00:19:44.300 your journey starts.
00:19:45.340 Begin that change now.
00:19:47.000 Because at the end of the day,
00:19:47.580 you don't know if you're going to live,
00:19:48.640 and I can see from your,
00:19:50.080 I can see from you,
00:19:51.400 that you seem convinced,
00:19:54.180 like,
00:19:54.460 not with me,
00:19:55.220 like,
00:19:55.600 from all your research you've been doing,
00:19:56.680 since I start,
00:19:57.320 you seem convinced,
00:19:58.220 yeah?
00:19:58.300 And alhamdulillah,
00:19:59.660 it's just a journey,
00:20:00.640 yeah?
00:20:00.840 We all have our struggles.
00:20:01.860 We've got our sister here,
00:20:02.840 she's from Belgium,
00:20:03.880 a brother,
00:20:04.460 with a husband,
00:20:05.340 we've got other sisters,
00:20:06.160 we've converted to.
00:20:07.240 Oh,
00:20:07.620 here,
00:20:07.780 look,
00:20:08.120 come here.
00:20:09.160 What are you doing here?
00:20:10.520 I'm Israel,
00:20:11.240 yeah,
00:20:11.460 come.
00:20:13.180 You want to come in the middle?
00:20:14.200 Oh,
00:20:14.360 sorry,
00:20:14.900 sorry,
00:20:15.100 sorry,
00:20:15.240 sorry,
00:20:15.440 sorry,
00:20:15.460 sorry,
00:20:15.480 sorry,
00:20:15.760 sorry,
00:20:15.980 sorry,
00:20:16.980 I'll give you my wife.
00:20:19.040 Yeah,
00:20:19.300 yeah,
00:20:19.420 if she wants to come,
00:20:20.420 she can.
00:20:21.300 Yeah?
00:20:21.780 Okay,
00:20:22.440 so,
00:20:22.740 you came to Islam as well?
00:20:23.840 Yeah,
00:20:24.260 nine years ago.
00:20:25.140 Nine years ago,
00:20:25.760 yeah?
00:20:25.860 Yeah.
00:20:26.080 The sister wants to take a shahadah, 0.98
00:20:28.120 she had some questions,
00:20:29.660 did you ever have,
00:20:30.260 because me,
00:20:30.640 I came to Islam as well,
00:20:31.620 yeah?
00:20:31.880 Five,
00:20:32.180 six years ago.
00:20:32.820 I had a moment where I thought,
00:20:34.060 I want to accept Islam,
00:20:35.960 but my desires and stuff like that,
00:20:37.820 and if I start bringing it.
00:20:38.480 I felt exactly the same thing.
00:20:39.500 What advice would you give,
00:20:40.960 when you're a revert,
00:20:42.120 me too,
00:20:42.640 yeah,
00:20:42.800 and inshallah,
00:20:43.820 you're going to be a revert today as well,
00:20:44.880 yeah?
00:20:45.320 What advice would you give to our sister,
00:20:46.900 like regarding,
00:20:47.720 what made you give the extra push?
00:20:49.780 Me,
00:20:50.240 my experience is that,
00:20:52.780 when I read the Quran,
00:20:55.140 because I was Christian before,
00:20:58.160 and I read the Quran,
00:20:59.820 and easily,
00:21:01.260 at the first verses,
00:21:02.160 I was convinced,
00:21:03.240 convinced,
00:21:03.780 I mean,
00:21:04.120 it's obvious,
00:21:07.600 it was really obvious for me,
00:21:09.020 really,
00:21:11.840 but my family was Christian,
00:21:14.060 my environment was all Christian,
00:21:15.920 and it was really,
00:21:16.960 even interesting,
00:21:18.100 it was a problem for them.
00:21:19.420 Yeah,
00:21:19.620 same,
00:21:19.880 same, 1.00
00:21:20.000 I'll go kick down my house. 0.90
00:21:20.960 Yeah,
00:21:21.300 so for me,
00:21:23.480 it wasn't good,
00:21:24.200 it wasn't a good thing for me to do it,
00:21:28.060 because it caused a lot of problems,
00:21:30.620 and really,
00:21:32.360 the first thing that I was sure,
00:21:37.800 it was the truth,
00:21:39.760 but,
00:21:40.480 I was saying to myself,
00:21:41.600 I don't want to take that path,
00:21:43.160 because it's going to cause me pain,
00:21:45.640 okay?
00:21:46.020 but,
00:21:47.000 when you pass through that door,
00:21:49.460 after,
00:21:50.120 you take things easily,
00:21:51.880 and you see,
00:21:52.620 it's,
00:21:53.480 when you take that step,
00:21:55.820 you're going to see your heart,
00:21:57.440 you're going to feel more,
00:21:59.480 lighter,
00:22:00.880 yeah,
00:22:01.220 because I'm French,
00:22:02.120 I'm sorry,
00:22:02.880 yeah,
00:22:03.260 I'm going to feel lighter,
00:22:08.900 and you see,
00:22:09.760 if you're sincere with God,
00:22:11.280 it's going to make your path easier,
00:22:13.860 yes,
00:22:14.240 you see,
00:22:14.700 things that,
00:22:15.540 I couldn't imagine I would do,
00:22:17.720 now I do it,
00:22:18.840 you know,
00:22:19.060 and all your life,
00:22:22.360 if you're really sincere,
00:22:23.720 if you really,
00:22:24.440 try constantly,
00:22:26.720 to,
00:22:27.080 to get,
00:22:28.120 close to God,
00:22:30.120 if you keep,
00:22:31.000 your intention sincere,
00:22:33.060 you're going to see,
00:22:34.020 every,
00:22:34.820 obstacle,
00:22:36.400 is going to,
00:22:37.520 be,
00:22:37.840 distracted,
00:22:39.300 one by one,
00:22:40.060 because God is going to,
00:22:41.360 make your path easy,
00:22:42.560 so,
00:22:43.060 it's,
00:22:43.540 it's true,
00:22:44.400 yeah,
00:22:44.720 is there any question that you have,
00:22:46.180 that I can answer,
00:22:47.860 like,
00:22:48.060 because you're a reaver,
00:22:49.640 so you probably know,
00:22:51.600 yeah,
00:22:51.960 please,
00:22:52.780 oh,
00:22:53.180 sorry,
00:22:53.900 oh,
00:22:54.700 sorry,
00:22:56.100 sorry,
00:22:56.240 yeah,
00:22:56.780 you're a reaver,
00:22:58.340 so you guys,
00:22:58.900 like,
00:22:59.020 know my situation,
00:23:00.160 yeah,
00:23:00.440 my parents,
00:23:01.680 yeah,
00:23:01.860 don't know about it,
00:23:03.800 because they're against Islam,
00:23:05.520 okay,
00:23:06.020 they,
00:23:06.840 because I'm from Kosovo,
00:23:08.980 and the culture there,
00:23:10.080 is really like,
00:23:12.080 that,
00:23:12.480 it's a Muslim country,
00:23:13.560 but the,
00:23:14.240 the culture is not Islamic,
00:23:16.200 okay,
00:23:16.480 you know,
00:23:16.780 it's like,
00:23:17.360 it's really weird to explain,
00:23:19.520 like,
00:23:19.720 the guys look at girls,
00:23:21.020 and,
00:23:21.160 you know,
00:23:21.380 stuff like that,
00:23:22.280 and so,
00:23:23.420 that's why my parents see Islam in a bad way,
00:23:25.700 because that's what they think it is,
00:23:27.780 so,
00:23:28.380 so,
00:23:28.660 you're a bit,
00:23:29.000 you're a bit scared,
00:23:29.940 yeah,
00:23:30.280 okay,
00:23:30.580 I'm,
00:23:31.080 have you suffered that,
00:23:31.860 I,
00:23:32.400 like,
00:23:32.980 your parents hated Islam,
00:23:34.220 yeah,
00:23:34.980 look,
00:23:35.280 look,
00:23:35.480 shall I tell you something,
00:23:36.280 me,
00:23:37.440 my dad says to me,
00:23:38.760 and by the way,
00:23:39.200 I keep saying this,
00:23:39.980 like,
00:23:40.140 my dad is not evil man,
00:23:41.140 my dad's gone through certain stuff,
00:23:43.440 in,
00:23:43.580 in,
00:23:43.900 in Turkey, 0.99
00:23:44.960 at the hands of bad Muslims, 1.00
00:23:46.820 that's why, 1.00
00:23:47.360 yeah,
00:23:47.880 my dad says to me,
00:23:48.920 the thing that I hate the most,
00:23:50.480 has been born into my family, 1.00
00:23:52.060 Islam,
00:23:52.940 so,
00:23:53.160 he's saying,
00:23:53.400 the thing that I never wanted,
00:23:54.880 you have come with it,
00:23:56.600 sister,
00:23:56.940 look,
00:23:57.100 now,
00:23:58.080 the thing is this,
00:23:58.660 sister,
00:23:59.140 sometimes,
00:23:59.780 I think to myself the following,
00:24:01.620 I believe every single river,
00:24:04.020 is a blessing,
00:24:05.240 blessing from Allah to your family,
00:24:07.580 let me tell you why,
00:24:09.160 because,
00:24:09.980 through you guys,
00:24:11.080 and us,
00:24:12.100 our families will come to Islam, 1.00
00:24:14.160 yeah,
00:24:15.700 every,
00:24:16.380 each of us is messenger to Islam,
00:24:18.220 yes,
00:24:19.320 so you see,
00:24:20.140 Allah chooses,
00:24:21.720 and when he chooses certain people,
00:24:23.500 he chooses them,
00:24:24.360 why,
00:24:24.800 you might think Islam is just for you, 1.00
00:24:26.100 no,
00:24:26.400 Islam,
00:24:27.900 Allah has picked you, 0.99
00:24:29.180 to be the ambassador,
00:24:30.700 to convey that message,
00:24:31.900 to your family,
00:24:32.980 so every single one of us,
00:24:34.460 you,
00:24:34.840 and you,
00:24:35.540 and me,
00:24:35.960 inshallah,
00:24:36.260 you as well,
00:24:36.680 right now inshallah,
00:24:37.300 if Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala, 0.89
00:24:37.960 with his permission,
00:24:39.180 is that you're going to be that,
00:24:41.220 yeah,
00:24:42.840 feel free sister,
00:24:43.560 if there's any other questions,
00:24:44.260 you have,
00:24:45.180 okay,
00:24:47.180 now,
00:24:48.140 I would personally say,
00:24:50.160 you should take your shahada, 0.99
00:24:51.360 yeah,
00:24:51.700 because,
00:24:52.600 like I said to you before,
00:24:53.380 you're not going to get uplifted,
00:24:54.720 and start flying around speaker's corner,
00:24:56.100 you know,
00:24:57.060 and we're going to say,
00:24:57.600 yes,
00:24:57.900 Allahu Akbar,
00:24:58.560 yeah,
00:24:59.260 all that is sister,
00:25:00.400 is that you're starting your journey,
00:25:02.720 all you're doing is,
00:25:03.420 you're saying,
00:25:03.720 brother Ali,
00:25:04.140 I'm ready,
00:25:05.640 and I want to start my journey,
00:25:08.340 and all this means sister,
00:25:09.420 is your gradual steps,
00:25:10.920 your gradual steps,
00:25:12.260 on your journey,
00:25:13.660 of,
00:25:14.600 searching,
00:25:15.800 that's what it is,
00:25:16.500 because,
00:25:17.000 you're already doing it now,
00:25:18.540 do you believe in Allah,
00:25:19.840 yes,
00:25:20.520 do you believe in the Prophet Muhammad,
00:25:21.980 do you believe in the Quran,
00:25:23.160 you're a Muslim,
00:25:24.300 you know what it is,
00:25:24.760 let me tell you something,
00:25:25.360 yeah,
00:25:26.040 ask me,
00:25:26.520 do I like dark chocolate,
00:25:27.720 do you like dark chocolate,
00:25:28.660 yes I do,
00:25:30.060 yeah,
00:25:30.500 so all I've done here is this,
00:25:31.940 I have affirmed,
00:25:33.340 what I already know,
00:25:35.100 so I know in my head,
00:25:36.660 I like dark chocolate,
00:25:38.160 and all I have to do is say,
00:25:39.760 I like dark chocolate,
00:25:41.840 so all you're doing is,
00:25:42.860 you're affirming,
00:25:43.480 you're already a Muslim,
00:25:45.280 all you have to do is,
00:25:46.460 affirm it sister,
00:25:47.300 that's it,
00:25:47.660 that's the only thing that's missing,
00:25:48.980 and then from there onwards,
00:25:50.380 and wallahi,
00:25:51.260 billahi,
00:25:51.880 what tillahi,
00:25:52.480 if I'm lying,
00:25:54.340 yeah,
00:25:54.660 and I'm only saying this,
00:25:55.580 I don't want to sound like I'm some peer,
00:25:57.920 the peers are like this holy man,
00:25:59.060 yeah,
00:25:59.480 I'm not saying that,
00:26:00.920 wallahi,
00:26:01.540 I made a dua today,
00:26:03.440 oh Allah,
00:26:04.240 let inshaAllah someone come to Islam, 0.99
00:26:05.640 yeah,
00:26:06.540 this here,
00:26:07.320 what happened to me sister,
00:26:08.420 happened to me,
00:26:09.760 five years ago,
00:26:11.480 with a brother called John Fontaine,
00:26:13.940 and the reason why I made this dua,
00:26:15.460 is because he said to me,
00:26:16.200 make a dua,
00:26:16.640 yeah,
00:26:16.740 and I was new to Islam,
00:26:18.200 and in my head, 0.88
00:26:18.620 I was a bit still ignorant, 0.84
00:26:19.560 yeah, 0.91
00:26:19.980 I said,
00:26:20.360 ah,
00:26:20.680 make dua,
00:26:21.300 like,
00:26:21.540 and he was being specific,
00:26:22.620 he was saying,
00:26:23.040 make dua,
00:26:23.480 we're gonna go shepherd,
00:26:24.040 Westfield,
00:26:26.080 make dua,
00:26:26.940 at 1.45,
00:26:28.460 someone comes to Islam, 0.65
00:26:29.380 so I'm making dua,
00:26:30.140 but I'm thinking,
00:26:31.300 okay,
00:26:32.040 good luck on that one,
00:26:33.820 wallahi,
00:26:34.380 Allah humiliated me, 1.00
00:26:36.060 we went to Westfield,
00:26:37.500 we went to Stratford,
00:26:39.280 wallahi,
00:26:40.020 some,
00:26:40.300 two couple came to me,
00:26:42.060 they had bags in their hand,
00:26:43.060 when they have bags in their hand,
00:26:43.780 people don't stop,
00:26:45.140 they came right in front of me,
00:26:46.340 and I spoke to them,
00:26:47.100 and I totally forgot that,
00:26:48.360 and I was talking,
00:26:49.680 and then they said,
00:26:50.860 and he was convinced,
00:26:51.540 he wanted to accept Islam,
00:26:52.740 as soon as he accepted Islam,
00:26:53.940 and I thought to myself,
00:26:55.440 yo,
00:26:56.540 and I said,
00:26:57.680 John,
00:26:58.380 I said,
00:26:58.700 John,
00:26:59.060 come here,
00:26:59.420 yeah,
00:26:59.820 so he doesn't know what's going on,
00:27:00.860 I said,
00:27:01.040 come here,
00:27:01.380 he came,
00:27:02.080 I said,
00:27:02.340 what time is it,
00:27:03.480 he said,
00:27:03.700 bruv,
00:27:03.840 why are you calling me here for the time,
00:27:05.240 I said,
00:27:05.600 bruv,
00:27:05.980 what time is it,
00:27:07.500 wallahi,
00:27:08.100 I think there was five minutes left,
00:27:09.340 yeah,
00:27:10.200 and wallahi,
00:27:11.240 Allah taught me a lesson,
00:27:12.720 that don't ever belittle dua,
00:27:14.400 never,
00:27:15.820 if you want to,
00:27:17.080 look,
00:27:17.280 I'm being honest,
00:27:17.740 you want to get married,
00:27:18.500 you want to ask for a husband, 0.99
00:27:19.720 go in,
00:27:20.700 I want tall,
00:27:21.900 dark,
00:27:22.680 handsome,
00:27:23.440 rich,
00:27:24.100 wallahi,
00:27:24.360 I'm telling you,
00:27:24.980 with Allah,
00:27:25.740 there is no limits,
00:27:27.280 so that day,
00:27:28.160 I learned a lesson,
00:27:29.080 and wallahi,
00:27:29.640 today,
00:27:29.960 I said,
00:27:30.300 oh Allah,
00:27:31.120 if there's anyone,
00:27:32.940 let them accept Islam,
00:27:34.080 yeah,
00:27:34.380 and I don't do that often,
00:27:35.280 let me get this twisted,
00:27:36.400 wallahi,
00:27:36.800 I think,
00:27:37.680 I don't do it often,
00:27:38.880 but today,
00:27:39.400 I did it,
00:27:39.780 and inshallah,
00:27:40.220 sister,
00:27:40.980 that Allah accepts it from us,
00:27:42.280 inshallah,
00:27:42.580 but I would say,
00:27:43.100 wallahi,
00:27:43.460 just take a shahadah, 0.56
00:27:44.580 you start your journey,
00:27:45.220 we'll get some sisters in contact with you, 0.99
00:27:47.100 and inshallah,
00:27:47.680 you just start your journey,
00:27:49.040 yeah,
00:27:50.320 you just repeat after me,
00:27:51.240 inshallah,
00:27:51.500 Allah is going to make things easier for you, 1.00
00:27:54.000 really,
00:27:54.740 I'm excited man,
00:27:55.760 do you want to do it,
00:27:56.880 do I not need to wear,
00:27:58.100 like,
00:27:58.320 let's go for anything,
00:27:59.140 we're going to come to that,
00:28:00.200 trust me,
00:28:01.040 no,
00:28:01.200 no,
00:28:01.380 I want to say it,
00:28:02.220 okay,
00:28:02.920 repeat after me,
00:28:03.460 yeah,
00:28:03.600 I'm very nervous,
00:28:21.060 is it correct,
00:28:22.820 is it correct,
00:28:24.020 is it correct,
00:28:24.360 okay,
00:28:25.820 repeat after me in English,
00:28:27.520 yeah,
00:28:28.400 I bear witness,
00:28:29.440 I bear witness,
00:28:30.520 there is nothing worthy of worship,
00:28:33.020 there is nothing worthy of worship,
00:28:35.580 except Allah,
00:28:36.820 except Allah,
00:28:37.980 and Prophet Muhammad,
00:28:39.120 and Prophet Muhammad,
00:28:40.300 peace be upon him,
00:28:41.200 peace be upon him,
00:28:42.440 is his messenger,
00:28:43.640 is his messenger,
00:28:45.560 is his messenger,
00:28:46.480 Allahu Akbar,
00:28:47.200 Allah Akbar,
00:28:48.940 may Allah bless you,
00:28:50.140 well Allah forgive me,
00:28:51.460 I'm just a little bit nervous,
00:28:52.760 yeah,
00:28:53.540 well I,
00:28:53.860 well I sister,
00:28:55.540 believe me,
00:28:56.760 it's,
00:28:56.980 it's,
00:28:57.460 I'm lost for words,
00:28:59.520 may Allah bless you sister,
00:29:00.660 may Allah accept it from me,
00:29:01.700 may Allah make us sincere,
00:29:03.680 wallahi,
00:29:05.520 may Allah bless you sister,
00:29:06.520 I'm really,
00:29:07.440 really happy for you,
00:29:08.280 but before like,
00:29:09.860 you start your journey as well sister,
00:29:11.760 I want to give you some advice,
00:29:13.280 yeah,
00:29:13.540 I'm,
00:29:13.860 as your brother,
00:29:15.020 and I care for you as my sister,
00:29:16.820 and forgive me for saying this,
00:29:19.040 because I have to,
00:29:20.820 you have to be careful,
00:29:22.560 yeah,
00:29:23.860 I've been in the Muslim community,
00:29:25.400 and alhamdulillah,
00:29:25.740 there's beautiful brothers,
00:29:26.340 don't get twisted,
00:29:26.960 there's beautiful sisters, 0.99
00:29:27.860 there's beautiful brothers,
00:29:28.620 but the thing is sister,
00:29:30.780 there are people who will want to take advantage of you,
00:29:33.560 yeah,
00:29:33.940 be very careful,
00:29:36.260 to,
00:29:37.020 ideologies,
00:29:38.320 people,
00:29:39.060 who come with perverted ideas, 0.69
00:29:40.200 like you know like ISIS, 0.58
00:29:41.120 yeah,
00:29:41.700 be very careful sister,
00:29:43.180 because they aim and target,
00:29:45.140 new Muslims,
00:29:46.360 yeah,
00:29:46.680 they don't know anything,
00:29:47.940 yeah,
00:29:48.380 we will get you in touch,
00:29:49.520 with,
00:29:49.960 our teachers,
00:29:50.880 personal,
00:29:51.620 that we can vouch for,
00:29:52.640 yeah,
00:29:53.260 and I'm going to get sisters in contact with you,
00:29:55.200 that I trust,
00:29:56.020 and I can vouch for,
00:29:56.720 yeah,
00:29:57.340 because,
00:29:58.060 we don't want you to be taken advantage of,
00:29:59.680 number two sister,
00:30:00.680 yeah,
00:30:01.260 be careful,
00:30:02.560 to,
00:30:04.220 marriage proposals,
00:30:05.520 yeah,
00:30:05.960 you're going to get them,
00:30:07.000 you're going to get them,
00:30:07.720 yeah,
00:30:08.040 and I'm sure there's a lot of lovely brothers,
00:30:09.920 but sister be very careful,
00:30:11.620 because you need Islamically,
00:30:13.380 a Wali,
00:30:13.760 you know what a Wali is,
00:30:14.740 your guardian,
00:30:15.780 yeah,
00:30:16.340 now why Islam has legislated this,
00:30:18.460 is to protect you,
00:30:19.640 because I'm a man,
00:30:21.200 if somebody wants to ask for my daughter's hand,
00:30:23.040 I'm a man,
00:30:23.620 I know a man,
00:30:24.380 let's talk,
00:30:25.380 yeah, 1.00
00:30:25.520 let me electrocute you a bit, 0.99
00:30:26.680 yeah, 0.99
00:30:27.100 yeah,
00:30:28.120 let me give you some,
00:30:29.240 some,
00:30:29.600 some votes,
00:30:30.560 yeah,
00:30:30.920 the point is why,
00:30:32.040 because there are men out there,
00:30:33.380 who use girls,
00:30:34.220 yeah,
00:30:34.560 both Muslim and non-Muslims,
00:30:36.480 yeah,
00:30:37.060 so,
00:30:37.960 be careful of that,
00:30:38.840 and number two sister,
00:30:39.640 be careful,
00:30:40.600 to groups,
00:30:41.500 in Islam sadly,
00:30:42.980 there are groups,
00:30:43.920 yeah,
00:30:44.980 why are these groups,
00:30:45.720 these groups are not against Islam,
00:30:47.020 they're for Islam,
00:30:47.660 why,
00:30:47.900 because it shows you,
00:30:49.220 that we,
00:30:50.280 filter out from the faith,
00:30:51.420 from the real,
00:30:51.900 yeah,
00:30:52.000 okay,
00:30:53.000 so,
00:30:53.460 be careful to groups,
00:30:55.220 who,
00:30:56.360 deem other Muslims,
00:30:57.640 as, 0.97
00:30:58.120 oh,
00:30:58.220 if you hear anyone say,
00:31:00.000 oh,
00:31:00.140 don't listen to this person,
00:31:01.500 don't go to this person,
00:31:02.600 and if it's not legitimate,
00:31:03.880 obviously,
00:31:04.260 some of them are legitimate,
00:31:05.100 so for example,
00:31:06.080 there's certain groups,
00:31:06.740 that you shouldn't listen to,
00:31:07.840 et cetera,
00:31:08.180 and certain individuals,
00:31:09.240 we will help you in that process,
00:31:10.560 yeah,
00:31:11.160 however,
00:31:12.020 be very careful to those three things sister,
00:31:13.840 yeah,
00:31:14.200 if anyone tries to come,
00:31:16.100 and,
00:31:16.400 oh,
00:31:16.900 yeah,
00:31:17.280 this,
00:31:17.520 that,
00:31:17.680 come to this circle,
00:31:18.600 be careful to them,
00:31:19.200 be very careful sister,
00:31:20.500 look at your brother,
00:31:21.020 we're here,
00:31:21.640 our teachers are here,
00:31:22.860 inshallah,
00:31:23.420 our sisters as well,
00:31:25.080 what I'm gonna do is,
00:31:26.220 I'm gonna get you in a group,
00:31:28.680 yeah,
00:31:29.140 so,
00:31:29.620 if you can,
00:31:30.540 give me your email,
00:31:32.020 yeah,
00:31:32.500 and your telephone number,
00:31:33.720 I'm gonna transfer it to our sister team,
00:31:35.340 yeah,
00:31:35.800 and they're gonna put you in a group,
00:31:37.420 and in that group,
00:31:38.200 they will help you inshallah,
00:31:39.100 so you can come and talk to them,
00:31:40.700 and eventually develop yourself,
00:31:41.880 inshallah,
00:31:42.160 yeah,
00:31:42.220 okay,
00:31:42.860 so,
00:31:43.260 if you want,
00:31:43.720 you can give me your email first,
00:31:45.200 and then you can,
00:31:45.780 however you feel comfortable,
00:31:46.820 yeah,
00:31:47.040 okay,
00:31:47.520 and I'm gonna get that directly,
00:31:49.200 to our sister team,
00:31:50.280 inshallah,
00:31:50.520 yeah,
00:31:50.600 okay,
00:31:50.800 so let me just open it for you,
00:31:52.160 and so your journey is started,
00:31:53.280 sister,
00:31:53.500 and right now,
00:31:54.160 all your sins are forgiven,
00:31:55.600 yeah,
00:31:56.080 all your sins are forgiven,
00:31:57.320 so you are like,
00:31:58.100 alhamdulillah,
00:31:58.420 inshallah,
00:31:59.060 a pure person,
00:32:00.280 we,
00:32:00.440 we,
00:32:00.700 we,
00:32:00.940 we are jealous in a good way,
00:32:03.540 yeah,
00:32:04.040 okay,
00:32:04.360 because we're sinning people,
00:32:05.720 it's from Allah,
00:32:07.500 you know,
00:32:07.980 with these things,
00:32:09.160 yes,
00:32:09.620 please,
00:32:09.940 please,
00:32:10.240 please,
00:32:10.520 inshallah,
00:32:11.040 that is halal,
00:32:11.840 yes,
00:32:12.740 if,
00:32:12.980 if any,
00:32:14.320 if any baba says that,
00:32:15.800 just let me know,
00:32:16.320 yeah,
00:32:17.060 yeah,
00:32:17.320 so inshallah,
00:32:18.900 yeah,
00:32:19.220 sister,
00:32:19.520 just put the,
00:32:20.460 put it here,
00:32:24.380 put the details here,
00:32:25.800 inshallah,
00:32:26.800 so brothers and sisters,
00:32:27.720 the prophet,
00:32:29.180 peace be upon him,
00:32:29.700 said it is better,
00:32:31.820 than red camels,
00:32:33.440 like the reward,
00:32:34.380 of somebody coming to Islam,
00:32:36.500 red camels,
00:32:37.140 don't belittle them,
00:32:37.820 they were like Ferraris,
00:32:38.780 back then,
00:32:39.220 yeah,
00:32:39.520 okay,
00:32:40.220 okay,
00:32:42.760 just double check,
00:32:43.380 that's correct,
00:32:43.780 yeah,
00:32:44.500 so,
00:32:45.480 we ask Allah to,
00:32:46.540 accept it from us,
00:32:47.180 brothers and sisters,
00:32:48.340 and we ask Allah to purify our intentions,
00:32:50.660 because these matters,
00:32:51.640 inshallah,
00:32:52.020 sometimes it can be used in the wrong ways,
00:32:53.720 yeah,
00:32:54.120 you know,
00:32:54.380 like,
00:32:54.640 oh,
00:32:54.920 you know,
00:32:55.380 look at me,
00:32:55.940 you know,
00:32:56.200 I get people to accept,
00:32:56.960 this is from Allah,
00:32:58.140 this is from Allah,
00:32:58.720 subhanahu wa ta'ala,
00:32:59.600 he has chosen me to deliver that,
00:33:01.460 and inshallah,
00:33:02.120 Allah unites us in Jannah,
00:33:03.500 sister,
00:33:04.200 may Allah bless you,
00:33:04.820 if there's any questions you want to ask,
00:33:06.520 please feel free to ask,
00:33:07.400 inshallah,
00:33:07.900 and I'm going to get some sisters, 1.00
00:33:10.120 if there might be some in the park,
00:33:12.760 and inshallah,
00:33:13.100 we can introduce you to them,
00:33:14.260 and we can take you from there,
00:33:14.980 may Allah bless you,
00:33:16.060 brothers and sisters,
00:33:16.880 and thank you for,
00:33:17.500 you played a big role in this,
00:33:18.640 fam,
00:33:19.040 don't get it twisted,
00:33:19.900 yeah,
00:33:20.460 you don't get it twisted,
00:33:21.360 may Allah bless you,
00:33:22.460 assalamu alaikum,
00:33:23.240 wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh,