00:04:14.740as a as a question to ponder i think that it's it's a valuable exercise um but like so much
00:04:25.940with also true that you know perhaps is frustrating but in the spirit of truth is worth mentioning
00:04:35.620there's a lot of gray area to things and i think that um
00:04:42.340an attempt at honesty is valuable even if every particular of it doesn't happen to
00:04:48.180bear out factually if the intention is truthful we do ourselves a disservice
00:04:55.940We're acting as though because we can't prove everything to be 100% true, that then nothing is true. There's certainly things that are that are true and that aren't, even if they're 85% true versus 15% not true.
00:05:16.520um we letting perfect be the enemy of good in that is stifling and I think
00:05:25.580prevents us from from being virtuous people in a way um
00:05:30.560like there's there's schools of philosophy that that you know is existence real or are we living
00:05:38.520in somebody else's you know matrix or somebody else's you know imagine imagination is existence
00:05:46.300relevant to the individual perceiving all of these questions are really interesting to think about
00:05:53.740sometimes but i think that too often they become a dodge towards you know living honestly there's
00:06:03.900things that are true that we all know are true and to to act as though they're not because we
00:06:12.380can't empirically prove them beyond any possible shadow of any doubt on a quantum level misses the
00:06:21.740you know forgive the overuse here but it misses the truth of the equation and i say this about
00:06:28.060our lore and this brings it back to metaphysics um our lore is not literally true all the time
00:06:36.460but our lore is metaphysically true so often truth is described in analogy or in
00:06:48.140colorful story form that is not meant to be literally true but expresses truth
00:06:56.380and i think that that here on things that
00:06:58.940that materially materially are impossible to prove a hundred percent I still think that you
00:07:09.020can approach truth without you know without defining it to the to the nanomolecule I think
00:07:16.940things are still generally true or not true um and I'm not sure if that's the the meat of the
00:07:22.940question, but I think it gets towards it. And again, we want to strive for perfection, but I
00:07:32.980think that we do ourselves a disservice letting perfect be the enemy of good. You go with the
00:07:37.520best thing you have at your disposal. Some of this, it occurs to me with your question,
00:07:42.540involves things that are like issues of belief. Whether we believe in material reality or not,
00:07:50.580I think that most of us know material reality exists and it's a thing and it's real.
00:07:57.500But when we talk about a person's faith, that is a situation where I think that my truth may have an application because I can say on a polygraph with a thousand percent honesty that Odin has interacted with me.
00:08:14.600And I mean that 100% true. But other people listening, it does not conform to their understanding of what they know to be true. And same in the inverse with things. So I think that that's a gray area that perhaps does touch on what you're talking about and on the previous question in a different way.
00:08:36.480I think it's fun that you mentioned, or at least hinted at simulation theory, because I've always taken issue with simulation theory because I don't think it matters. It's like the most bogus question that I can imagine.
00:08:51.500because if you prove that we're all in a simulation right then what is what's the
00:08:56.940point in that is it a way to find an excuse to commit heinous crimes without consequence
00:09:02.380except that in the simulation there will be consequences so it's still reality it's
00:09:10.860i i've i've always had a problem with simulation theory because uh it it seems like it's an excuse
00:09:18.380to not have to like literally a way to create my truth or to excuse oneself from reality um
00:09:26.860except that it in no practical way actually does that yeah i think that um
00:09:36.220that's that's one of those things that when i read esoteric books and and they venture into
00:09:40.700it i start eye rolling and and taking issue with because i think it it skips the point if
00:09:46.620If your navel gazing prevents you from acting in reality, then it loses a lot of value.
00:09:56.660I've known so many, I say so many, I've known a number of people that have wasted
00:10:01.700vast quantities, if not the entirety of their life, pondering truth and refusing to act until
00:10:11.220they had absolute certainty of truth and so they end up not doing anything i think you've got to
00:10:18.500conform to what's the truest you can understand and by all means if your understanding of the
00:10:26.020truth evolves over time then then move you know trend towards the more truthful but you gotta
00:10:33.380you gotta pick something and go with it and and i think there's a tremendous value in that
00:10:38.180and as far as truth plays into what i just said it's important to be honest with ourselves
00:10:46.100on things that we don't know if we think something's mostly correct to still maintain
00:10:52.660in our mind the openness of re-evaluating it for truth i think that honors our virtue that
00:11:00.100we speak about and also is a very useful skill for us to have and and it's hard for a lot of
00:11:06.820people i know it takes practice to have that um next question is from travis is it okay to lie
00:11:23.700i don't think so no um if if the wife asked me if she looks fat in something i'm gonna tell her
00:11:31.700in a positive constructive way what what the truth of the matter is i don't i don't because
00:11:39.640what are you sparing their feelings for or from you know i mean this is a specific the specific
00:11:47.100situation might dictate different courses of action but i don't think that lying is going to
00:11:54.280actually make it better um you know you're either depriving them of a learning experience
00:12:01.460or you're setting them up for for more hurt feelings somewhere down the line like you know
00:12:09.720if my kid's goldfish dies I'm not going to tell him that you know down the toilet he swims to
00:12:17.980like you know a big happy ocean I'm gonna take the opportunity to explain mortality and I think
00:12:26.360that's the way to go. So no, I don't think so. You know, is it okay? I mean, it certainly is
00:12:35.800understandable. And I understand the impulse to it. And I think as far as the hierarchy of
00:12:42.840horribly evil things you can do, saying something nice to spare somebody's feelings that's untrue
00:12:49.200is is probably pretty low on that list but i agree with cliff and i think that here's where
00:12:56.640the art comes in there is ways to tell people truth that are kind and that are uplifting um
00:13:07.920you know he mentioned the the the common hey do i look fat in this dress thing that that i think
00:13:14.560that all of us men have been in similar if not the exact situation about that
00:13:20.640i'll always answer that honestly whether anybody wants to hear it or not because0.98
00:13:27.840in my experience a woman would much rather hear that from someone they trust so that they're not
00:13:35.760embarrassed later on i know that i would if i looked ridiculous in something i really hope
00:13:40.720that mandy tells me to fix it instead of me going out in front of people thinking i look like a
00:13:47.120million bucks and getting laughed at because the moment i realized that everybody was laughing at
00:13:51.440me because i looked like a fool that would be much more crushing than hey matt i think i'd go with
00:13:56.800you know a little bit you need some you need some pants that are bigger hey i'd go with something0.77
00:14:00.800different um honesty helps there and the specifics so i appreciate he followed this up with a specific
00:14:07.200scenario um he said what if they were dying and a lie would bring them comfort and something i
00:14:20.000this i suppose can be argued but something that i think is fundamental
00:14:25.360we have a certain instinct towards truth or not and there's a value that i get when i
00:14:33.680know someone's telling me the truth that i don't get when i feel like somebody's telling me
00:14:39.520something that's false um again is it okay i certainly get the impulse but i would rather
00:14:49.600tell that dying person something truthful but also give them truthful encouragement
00:14:58.720and you can always find something positive to say that's true it sometimes it may be more
00:15:05.880challenging than others but you can say you know well unfortunately no but and then tell them
00:15:14.300something that is truthful and they they can hold on to and and have and i would say this
00:15:21.280I would much rather go out with my friend telling me something honest than feeling like my friend lied to me on my deathbed.
00:15:34.360I have some friends that are EMTs and something that they shared with me across the board at different times is just something that I think is true among people in, you know, medical or emergency services.
00:15:49.760is like if you have somebody in the back of your ambulance and they're like am i gonna make it
00:15:55.600you don't just say yes if they're not going to you say something positive but you don't just
00:16:01.120yeah everything's gonna be fine don't mind you know the catastrophic injury because they
00:16:08.800they already know the answer i think secondly don't don't rob somebody in your scenario and
00:16:16.320again context is everything and it can be a million different ways but telling somebody
00:16:22.720they're going to make it instead of you know no you're you're dying you're robbing them of the
00:16:29.440chance to make peace with things or to to bear that themselves in a in a dignified way um they're
00:16:40.640not getting that option if they don't know the truth if they don't know the truth they can't
00:16:45.840act upon it this is assuming they have some time to act again that it all depends on the circumstance
00:16:52.080but i still think as a kindness to someone you care about it is more kind to be honest
00:17:00.000than to treat them dishonestly in an attempt to to spare their feelings yeah i think they they
00:17:07.120said they would say something along the lines of like we're we're on our way to the best care
00:17:13.280or something true but that's not like you know a guarantee for something they really can't
00:17:18.960guarantee well you know here's another thing that people may want to be cautious about too
00:17:24.400when we talk about truth don't ask questions you don't want the answer to um i think that's
00:17:31.280another one when you ask somebody for truth you can't be mad when they give you truth um
00:17:37.760i i remember that all the time though well as an afterthought um i had my spleen removed
00:17:44.240in 2001 it was my first big major surgery and uh they were about to put me under to take my
00:17:52.720spleen out and i asked like you know what are the odds that i don't wake up from this
00:17:58.240and they're like about 16 boom and then they put that yeah and i i didn't really want to hear that
00:18:05.760that's higher odds than than i than i wanted of not making it out of it and uh you know fortunately
00:18:11.760i was in the the 84 that do make it but that was probably shouldn't would have been better if i
00:18:20.000didn't ask the question uh we have over in the side chat that uh the genes do not make someone
00:18:26.240fat it's the fat that makes them look fat and i think that that also tends to be a truth um
00:18:32.560Um, but yeah, so, and, and I think that's a fun conversation tonight.
00:18:39.440And I think it, it veers in some places that our conversations on here don't always go.
00:18:45.320Vril Vanir, are there valid reasons for the gods to be untruthful to us?
00:18:53.140Comfort, comforting lie slash keeping us safe from harm.
00:18:57.560Or would they rather be bluntly truthful and have us face the problem head on?
00:19:05.540It's a really interesting question. Cliff, what are your thoughts on it?
00:19:10.540Well, I don't know the minds of our gods, so I'm going to have to just, I guess, say yes.
00:19:21.720But as far as, you know, what they would prefer or motives, I think that that would take a level of hubris for me to assume that I could speak for them in that way.
00:19:44.040So I am very proud of you, Cliff, that you answered that way.
00:19:47.640I want everyone in AFA leadership to answer that way because piety dictates the gods can make rules for us.