In this episode of the AFA podcast, we have a special guest on the show this week. He is a fellow AFA member, a teacher, a husband, a father, and a husband. He has been a member of AFA for over 20 years and has been involved in the organization for the past 15 years. He is also the author of the book, "The Gift Cycle" which is a book on how to engage in a meaningful relationship with the gods.
00:02:40.100linguistics studying the lore is super important and it can do so much to inform your practice
00:02:47.940to help you build a better relationship with the gods to help you build a better understanding
00:02:53.780but if it ends there you're not connected to our gods in a relationship
00:03:03.220you're a weird stalker like i made this analogy before and it may sound silly but i think it's0.92
00:03:09.380absolutely the truth you know if my wife had a strange stalker that dug through the trash0.96
00:03:15.620and you know dug up old records on essays my wife wrote in high school he would know certain
00:03:22.260things about my wife that i don't know i will give him that but he doesn't have a relationship
00:03:28.020meanwhile we're married and she's the mother of my child and every day i have a relationship
00:03:32.980with my wife the minutia of details that you get when you go through the dumpster doesn't
00:03:39.380doesn't make a relationship. A relationship is made through interaction. Brandy made this point
00:03:45.340with the gifting cycle. A relationship is made with our gods when you stand before them and you
00:03:52.580offer them your sincere worship or something from your heart when they receive it and when they give
00:03:59.420you their blessings in return. And when you do that, it's a cycle. When you do that cyclically,
00:04:04.860It doesn't just go in a circle, but it spirals upwards to even better and stronger things.
00:04:10.180And we see that the longer we're engaged in that gift cycle with our gods.
00:04:16.320You know, something I say to our detractors, but it's also something I say to our members and anybody listening to this.
00:04:22.260The biggest thing I can recommend you do is go out there and practice Ausitru with other Ausitru art.
00:04:29.900Go and open your heart, open your mind to our gods and and see, give it a shot and see what happens.
00:04:37.540It's the hardest thing to argue with some of these people, because we can argue about different ancient texts.
00:04:43.340But I can't talk to them in a way that's going to make sense about religious experience if they haven't experienced it.
00:04:51.160But the people who have experienced it, once you do, you can never go back and you can never not know and never not have that.
00:04:57.980But the folks that won't take that first step of participating, they miss out on that and they'll never know that joy.
00:05:05.060And that's really unfortunate. So I can't encourage you more than more to go out and be part of that gifting cycle and be and do Ausatru.
00:05:17.080For those, you know, for a lot of people that are just starting out and they are just feeling that first spark of pull to the ACR, the question is always, where do I start?
00:05:27.980And we can give you a few good books to start with.
00:05:31.780But one thing I want you to really think about and really start with before you get too deep into quoting any books is I want you to find a nice, quiet place in your home that's going to be undisturbed.
00:05:44.740Get some candles, some incense, get a bowl for an offering.
00:05:48.780decide who it is that you want to start that gift cycle with whether it's the aesir
00:05:54.440whether it's a specific god or goddess whether it's what i would recommend also is your ancestors
00:06:00.960that have passed on leave a gift for them on this space it doesn't have to be fancy wording
00:06:07.100you don't have to have on a special cloak made of crushed velvet or anything like that
00:06:11.520find a quiet place talk to your gods talk to the heroes and talk to your ancestors
00:06:18.160and leave them a gift. And the more you do this, and the more you build that relationship,
00:06:24.200the more that you're going to see these gifts return to you. And that's how you start the
00:06:29.400cycle. It's not memorizing a book. It's something from the heart. Start the cycle. Everybody says,
00:06:36.620where do I start? Start there. Doesn't have to be anything fancy. Start with what you got.