Abortion: An Act of Urban Monoculture Worship
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Summary
In this episode, Simone and I talk about abortion, sex, and sex education. We also talk about the abortion ban in California and why we think it s a bad thing. We also discuss our views on sex and abortion, and what it means to be a trans woman in the 21st century.
Transcript
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right now in the world more children are aborted per year than humans die like post-birth humans
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die um trans woman to have a successful uterus transplant ovaries and eggs included
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and i want to be the first trans woman to have an abortion
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you mean i'll never know what it feels like to have a baby growing inside me and then
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scramble its brains and vacuum it out i realized that because it's a religious act for them almost
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if you put a fetus in a in a human woman's body it will eventually become a human being
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and but an egg and a sperm on their own they won't eventually become a human being and i was like
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you just added a little word there if you put them in a woman's body if you put an egg and a
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sperm in a woman's body just like if you put a fetus in a woman's body it becomes a human being
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it is now standard medical practice after 15 weeks to use anesthesia during fetal surgeries
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but and this is really important and this is going to come up a little bit later in my thoughts on this
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subject pain medication is not standard practice in abortions there's this one part of the medical
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establishment that is like okay this is a baby we're going to save your baby don't worry mother
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it's going to be fine and then there's this totally sort of other industry which is like
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this is a cluster of tissue there is there is there's cardiac activity let's you know you need to
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exercise your right this is not human would you like to know more hello simone i'm excited to be
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here with you today today we're going to be doing an episode because this has been increasingly
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happening to me but i have been updating my views on various subjects from back when i used to just be
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in the urban monoculture you know when you were growing up you grew up in central san francisco
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and so you grew up really inundated with these far lefty ideas about everything i grew up sort of all
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over the place different you know boarding schools and stuff like that but a lot of them were
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in new england and so i was heavily influenced by those cultures right and you know when you're
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in the urban monoculture this this far progressive culture you don't even really question things about
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abortion right no you should always bottle the autonomy woman's right to choose my body my choice
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and i remember in in in high school when i you know slept around a lot you know i've mentioned
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this on other podcasts and you know by the time i got to college i slept with over 100 people and i
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don't think that's a good thing to do i i would clarify i think that i associated it with status
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and then i began to you know like the machine that malcolm is if i'm like okay you know this thing has
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value in society i must orient my life around maximizing right if sex is your objective
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function it's your objective function you got to maximize it well and that's what the environment
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of this modern useful culture taught me right so i would try to engage with it as much as possible and
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i remember thinking oh my gosh like whenever the abortion stuff would come up i won't be able to
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have sex as freely now as a man slut abortion is very important yes fewer women will want to sleep
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with me and they may get pregnant and then decide not to have an abortion and then i didn't even
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think about that this election is screwed all the men who want to have sex can't vote yeah one of my
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favorite things is these these progressives where you'll have them standing out and they'll being
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like with these new abortion restrictions i'm just i guess i'm not going to be able to sleep
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with any man whenever they feel like it like one woman you were talking about in a podcast
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was like you know what i'm seriously thinking about now only sleeping with men i'd be comfortable
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raising a child with and it's like you should have probably been it was a societal mistake and i can
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tell you as a man who got full access to the sexual buffet that the progressives promised
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though one of the core things that moved me away from all of that and that lifestyle
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is i was doing that i had access to all the sex i wanted from anyone i wanted whenever i wanted
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and it didn't feel good it felt good at the beginning because it wasn't really the sex that
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was the core thing that felt good it was the validation the validation the achieving something that was
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supposed to be hard and that gave me status was in my community but the sex itself just wasn't that
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important in in terms of the happiness it gave me and a lot of people like well then that means you're
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not no you're lying to yourself or you just haven't had a lot of sex like i was very sexually experimental
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i tried all the stuff it was not there's just not that much pleasure to be had there i mean it's it's
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i think it's very similar to food in that it can be very good but also in the end
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so what i'm saying is like you're not really the the and this is the thing about traditions and i
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mentioned this in another podcast recently is that traditions we have as a society are not like the
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random opinions of old people they are ideas that have been honed intergenerationally for thousands of
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years okay when they came to me and they go don't live a life just for sex you know you won't really
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enjoy it you should focus on getting married and having a lot of kids that's where fulfillment comes
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from and i was like old man you don't know what's up and now like i'm older i have more experience and
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i was like oh that was 100 correct um and i and i should note that i didn't get that from my parents
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my parents actually told me like my mom was really like yeah you should go out and have sex
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lost people because that's not a thing to do oh my parents too go out experiment oh yeah they always
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are trying to push you to experiment and you never did you you rebelled but in updating my views on
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abortion i've noticed a few things so one thing i want to start talking about is the weird progressive
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worshiping of abortion yes it's something i was sort of blind to i saw it as a joke or like a radical
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thing but oh yeah for example in bojack horseman the the song the abortion song by aquafina
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six tina aquafina america get your uteruses turn
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i'm a baby killer baby killer makes me horny get that fetus kill that fetus
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cloud-faced bitches in my cross face have a blow i'ma have my bushes all way
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and sometimes i do i hope and pray to god my little teeters as a song
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because i wanted to feel pain when i ejected from me
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has the concept of women having choices gone too far but i've also seen it like there was a
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trans person trying to get a uterus transfer and when asked why they wanted the uterus transfer
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they wanted the uterus transfer to get an abortion they wanted to get pregnant and then have an abortion
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trans women to have a successful uterus transplant
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ovaries and eggs included and i want to be the first trans woman to have an abortion
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right get that fetus kill that fetus get that fetus kill that fetus
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and it's like whoa like that you what you think that's okay like why would you and i realize that
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because it's a religious act for them almost and when they when they talk about it and your other
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progressives talking about it did you enter like this special club when you have an abortion that
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makes you more officially progressive and this is wild because in south park you know this is something
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mr garrison wanted to do when he was getting his gender reassignment and it was like a joke mr garrison
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mrs garrison you can't have an abortion don't you tell me what i can and can't do with my body
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a woman has a right to choose you can't get pregnant but i missed my period you can't have periods either
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you mean i'll never know what it feels like to have a baby growing inside me and then scramble its brains
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and vacuum it out this would mean i'm not really a woman it's i'm just a i'm just a guy with a mutilated
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penis basically yes oh boy do i feel like a jackass and now it's like a mainstream thing
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in the progressive movement and it's like how did this become a mainstream thing and i think
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similar to like how did it become a mainstream thing for progressives to fight that the government
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should give pills that would only be relevant to people going to regular orgies with strangers
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like why is that something the government needs to subsidize like they it is because it represents
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a me first attitude and they never have to deal with any mental consequences at it like we are
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for example not like if you're doing a very and we'll get into like what we've actually come to after
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analyzing all the evidence and analyzing all the arguments on both sides like i wouldn't be against
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an early abortion in regards to a person was raped or something like that but like the person should still
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feel really bad about it and treat it as a weighty choice the reason why when i say feel bad about i
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mean like it's not like a small thing okay to do this when progressives elevate it in this religious
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like way i think the purpose of this is to remove any weight from the choice of abortion and this has
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become so severe that i was looking at one statistic set and right now in the world more children
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are aborted per year then humans die like post-birth humans die um and the statistic you were like
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this can't be true yeah in the united nations 61 million people died in 2023 okay unintended pregnancy so
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so there are sorry how many unintended there are roughly 121 million unintended pregnancies per year
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between 2015 and 2019 of these unintended pregnancies 61 ended in abortion this translates to 73 million
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abortions per year so there are around 73 million abortions per year and around 61 million people die
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per year so the just the the lackadaisicalness with which it's treated by progressives is
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absolutely nyanas to me and let's also talk about the development of the fetus at this point as
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well actually no what i'll do is i'll structure this argument a few ways so first we need to ask the
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obvious sort of question in the room does life begin at conception and we have a longer video where we talk
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about our views on this particular subject my views on this have updated a little but not much i spent a lot
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more time studying and watching the catholic views on this and okay body and i will play some clips from
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a video here that get the synthesis of like the most popular arguments they have i think it for me it all
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comes down to um the nature of a thing so what is the how do you know what's the nature of a thing well
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the nature of thing is the what it isness of a thing right how do you discover though the nature of
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a thing is you have to look at the what is it forness of the thing right so what it isness is
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like okay that's the thing that's the nature how you discover the nature by looking at the what
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it's forness of the things what is sex for what's the nature of sex well in order to understand the
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nature of sex we have to find out the what it's forness of sex so what is sex for you'd realize
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it's for two things it is for procreation and for uh the unity of the couple and that's again that's
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not that's not me making something up that's not me saying well that's the religious answer it's
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it's just that's the that's the objective answer that's what sex is for that's the nature of sex
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and when i've talked to different catholics i keep getting the same basic argument and the
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argument they've chosen their message that's good consistency well yeah i like it that it's consistent
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i don't like it that it's a pagan argument well it's based on aristotelian ideas about what a thing
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is and not on the bible oh and i see why if you actually go to the bible the bible is very clear
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life begins before conception i knew you before you were in your mother's womb you know for those
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who are unaware of our view on where life begins we believe that the bible lays out pretty clearly
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that life begins before an individual is conceived which means life begins with the decision or the
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potentiality of a decision to conceive a person so every time you make a decision that prevents a
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future human from coming to exist you have effectively killed that future human now i wouldn't
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place our view of when life begins in law because it would be onerous for people of different belief
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systems but i think that this is pretty obviously true whenever i make a decision that prevents
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somebody else from being alive i may as well have killed that person so for example if a woman was going
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to have three children by ivf and i talk her out of having those three children i have taken those three
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children's lives from them those are lives that would have come to exist had i not interfered therefore
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i took those lives but somebody would be like well haven't you taken you know somebody's life from them
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if you had a inseminated egg that's frozen in an ivf lab and it's like no because that's not a person
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that was ever going to be able to be born you know if you for example from a woman take sperms and eggs
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then make 5 000 embryos and you're like well all of those could be people no they couldn't because
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you need 5 000 humans to gestate them and everything like that in the same way that i don't think that
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somebody because you know i you need a sperm and an egg put in a woman in the same way you need an
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embryo put in a woman to grow to eventually become a person i don't think a person who has masturbated
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has literally killed millions of people because there is no way that every single one of those sperm
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was going to inseminate a separate egg and eventually become an adult human however if a
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person was going to sleep with someone and that person was going to get pregnant that night but
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instead they decide to masturbate in that case yes that the person has taken another person's life
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from them somebody who would have gotten to live that life but if i take one woman who was planning
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to have kids and i talk her out of it yeah i have taken those children's lives from them just as
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much as i look at my children who are all made with ivf and i know that if somebody had prevented
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me from having these children those are lives that wouldn't get to exist and these are not lives that
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are any lesser than other lives and this is what we believe you know we believe in predestination and
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god definitely knows you before conception and that if i'm really looking for the point of the beginning
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of an individual human's life it's with their gamics but they're not even really i think no it's it's
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with their actions and decisions it's worth it's with their yeah but we we can talk about that in
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different ways but the basic logic that they use is sex as an act is for making children and so
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using sex for something else is sinful so that's that's that's one argument about like sex for any
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other reason and and and and or it's not supported in the bible that's not supported in the bible by the
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way yeah song of solomon for example supports uh non-procreative sex within marriage there's no
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prohibition in the bible against infertile couples who are married having sex the the emphasis in the
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bible and this is very clear is it sex within marriage is permitted but it doesn't need to be
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procreative the elements where suddenly non-procreative sex is considered not okay that was completely
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formulated by the church later it is not biblically based absolutely yeah so so to me this
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argument of like sex is for creating humans therefore that's the only way you should be
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creating humans it's sort of like legs are for walking therefore cars are a sin or eyes are for
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seeing therefore glasses are a sin like just the the logical structure of this argument is
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genuinely bizarre to me and then they'll say things like in the video he has this one line where he's
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like well i mean a human life just begins when a when a fetus is created we believe that life begins
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at conception because it does not be again again this isn't like a religious thing this is life begins
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at conception because it does sex is for procreation and unity because it is right and i'm like but why
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and i love you in the car this morning you turn to me and you go well there is a level of logical
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consistency to this point you said you see if you if you put a fetus in a in a human woman's body
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it will eventually become a human being and then you're like yeah and but an egg and a sperm on their
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own they won't eventually become a human being and i was like you just added a little word there
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that made those two things of false equivalency and allowed your little logical trick to work
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you added they if you put them in a woman's body if you put an egg and a sperm in a woman's body
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just like if you put a fetus in a woman's body it becomes a human being yeah or at least has the
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potential because again even a an embryo that naturally was fertilized within a woman's fallopian
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tubes or uterus may not implant or may miscarry etc etc etc yeah and so they're they're just
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ignoring that but also i think about like the concept of insulment so if you believe in a soul
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like what is that soul binding to like if i cut off my finger have i lost part of my soul like it does
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not seem to me that by any logical assumption when you're talking about insulment that the soul is
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binding to the just human tissue is binding but that's no one ever has made that argument the the
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we are they are arguing that the human soul is binding to the developing fetus before it has any
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neural tissue as soon as it is something that is distinct as its thing as the thing it will become
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and i i was trying to tell you a lie i think it's akin to having a shadow once you can cast a shadow you know
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you're not going to lose your shadow if you lose a finger there's no part of your body that your
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shadow is connected to no no you have lost this this is a point i actually think that this is really
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important you have lost part of your shadow if you lose a finger so what is the thing that must
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remain intact for your personality your objectives your everything like that to maintain and be intact
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it's your nervous system you need a nervous system for insulment to happen i i just cannot see an
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argument that the that my finger for example if kept alive for part of me like it's is it's keeping
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a part of my soul somewhere else like if i cut off my finger and then i put my finger in like a lab and
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it's like a growing separate for me has like my soul separated into two like obviously not however what
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frequently happens after conception is the creation of human identical twins where a single embryo splits
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later in the developmental process but always before the nervous system has begun to develop do i believe
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that the soul split no it's just an installment hadn't happened yet so this then becomes super
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important when the nervous system develops to me but i also want to go further with this human embryo
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splitting thing so chimeras and identical twins to me are the strongest argument against the belief
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that insulment happens at conception and here a bit of history for people who don't know this is not
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a traditional catholic belief if you talk about the like when casales is within its golden age its greatest
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philosophers like thomas aquinas and augustus of hippo believed that life began at insulment so about 60 to
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80 days after conception which is interesting the ideas that catholics use to talk about like well
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you need like the essence of a thing when does that start came from aristotle but even aristotle
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thought that life began 60 to 80 days after conception all of this is a very modern catholic theology uh that
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was laid down by pope pius the ninth if you're wondering which pope this was this is the guy who did the
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gate castation you know ripping penises off of all the statues this is the guy they were too small malcolm
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it was insulting i who did the syllabus of errors the the this is the catholic text that said that
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catholics should try to form a caliphate or a catholic government system whenever they can
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this is to me sort of the epitome of the catholic dark age mindset of you know we need to erase the
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people who were culturally above us like these classical creators and everything like that because
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we can't even appreciate their art anymore we can't even you know draw fig leaves on everything
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you know so that was the guy who came up with this but if we're talking chimeras and identical
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twins because this to me is by far the strongest point like god controls how human biology works
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the fact that he lets embryos split into identical twins and human chimeras to exist so what a human
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chimera is is sometimes you'll get twins so a human will become impregnated with twins fraternal twins
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the fraternal twins and then these two twins merge always before the nervous system is beginning to
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develop into a single entity and this entity then develops believing it is genetically one person
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but it's actually genetically two people and the rate of chimeras differs really heavily between
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different animals so if you look at something like marmosets over 50 of marmosets are actually
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chimeras no way that's so cool it is not a biological necessity that human chimeras were viable god made
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that biological thing happen so then do you think that god is regularly killing just random growing
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fetuses for no reason when he didn't have to or do you think that he waits also if you look at when the
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body naturally aborts a growing because a huge number of pregnancies are naturally aborted what percentage
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is it just like 28 but it almost always happens before the nervous system starts developing yeah
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god created a system that allows our bodies to quickly determine the quality of life that will be
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had by a certain genetic strain and end it before it becomes a human and he signaled this to us very
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loudly by the creation of crimeras by the by identical twins and by literally writing it in the bible like
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like i don't understand how you can just ignore like what's written in the bible so loudly
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because like pagan philosophers told you this alternate ethical theory but then and i want to be
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as nice as i can when i say this but from our perspective whenever i look at my kids and now i'm i
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this is why i take abortion so much more seriously than i did historically
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i'm like you aren't and i hate this thing of of you're killing a baby you're not killing a baby
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you're killing a human being who's going to live their entire life who's going to have dreams and
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goals when you tell somebody it's a baby and it's a child and it's an adolescent and it's an adult a
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parent a grandparent a worker a leader someone who's going to love people and be loved yeah recently i went
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to a reunion and i was around all of my nephews and nieces and everything like that and it really just
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hit home for me every kid i don't have is somebody who's not going to get to be a teenager is somebody
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who's not going to get to have a first love who's not going to get to have a job every time you talk
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somebody out of ivf for reasons that don't have any biblical back you are removing a human being from
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the opportunity to live well and just to restate what what you're talking about the sort of realization
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that that you and i both had is that we saw people that we had hung out with when they were just
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little kids low agency people not super terribly interesting whatever right not you're not going to
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have complex conversations with them and then in what felt like the blink of an eye here we are talking
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with them as adults and realizing oh holy crap you're a real person and when a lot of people are thinking
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should i have kids should i have a baby they're literally saying and i think the wording is part of
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what influences people's incorrect thinking or in incomplete thinking is they're thinking literally
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should i have a baby they're thinking of what they should be asking is should i be denying a human
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the right to exist yeah they're not thinking of an adult with the full range of feelings and and
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the complex life of an adult they're thinking about a small low agency human well and also let's just
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talk about like the logical insanity of this right like if you take this mindset what you're saying
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is that if a sperm is about to reach an egg and i put down like a metal sheet between them the
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moment before it happened and it doesn't reach the egg i have done something of not particularly
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bad action but if like a fraction of a second after it hits that egg i end up quashing that egg now i
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have killed a human being by catholic definitions not by our definitions no not by our definitions
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but to me this just seems like splitting hairs it seems like any decision you make that prevents a
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human being from existing is functionally killing a human and so from our perspective
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when and this is another thing that really gets me the the catholic celibacy of the priest cast that it is a
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religion that is ruled by people who have sacrificed their children's lives for a chance at power
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that is what as soon as i realize like when i don't have a kid i am sacrificing a human life
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to think that you sacrificed all of your children's life not like your firstborn all of
00:26:34.960
your children's life at a shot of power that's obviously going to twist your thinking around the value of
00:26:40.240
a human life and you're going to need to come up with these weird deontological frameworks
00:26:44.960
to not face the horror of the decision that you yourself has have made so i can understand why they
00:26:52.880
need to take this framework because that's a big thing the bible does not say that the priest cast
00:26:57.840
needs to be celibate it has like one line where it is like celibacy is okay for like some holy people
00:27:03.280
or it might have like two lines in regards to this but you know it also has lines to the contrary
00:27:09.040
so you can look at something like corinthian 7 2 that doesn't just explain that you know you should
00:27:14.720
get married but why you should which is to say but because the temptation of sexual immorality
00:27:23.120
each man should have his own wife and each woman her own husband now what is this saying it's saying
00:27:31.280
if you build a society or an organization where you don't give men a wife
00:27:37.760
what's going to happen is extreme forms of sexual immorality for example child grape
00:27:46.560
which you know prescient you know i'm not 100 against it but it is be fruitful and multiply
00:27:52.880
like this is like a a recurring thing throughout the bible you're supposed to have kids and so again
00:27:59.280
it's like tradition is overriding what is biblical but now i need to go well no no i just want to dive
00:28:06.480
into this a little bit more because what it seems like the bible really pushes for is self-discipline
00:28:15.360
self-discipline in your desires and self-discipline in your action so it's not the actual absence of
00:28:21.680
having sex that matters and it's not it's not whether or not you're a virgin it's are you able
00:28:29.520
to abstain are you able to prioritize god over your personal comfort and of course it it chastity
00:28:38.480
is supported when not being chased involves for example breaking your marriage contract and cheating on
00:28:47.680
your spouse that's not okay it that that's clear and also lusting after someone else's life is bad
00:28:55.840
but that really has to do about with emotional control and doesn't have to do with what you're
00:29:00.160
actually like how slutty or not slutty you are this is about are you prioritizing god and are you in
00:29:05.920
control of your human functions and i think for the same reason why gluttony is not okay but eating is
00:29:14.800
okay this isn't it's really about how you do it and it's about moderation i just want to make that
00:29:19.120
clear because when i when i actually looked at what the bible says i was surprised by how little
00:29:25.040
technical not having sex was emphasized yeah so it is it's like and this is the thing that gets me
00:29:32.480
the cost of this if it was just that they were exercising self-discipline instead of denying humans
00:29:38.880
who otherwise would have been born the right to exist i wouldn't care about it if they weren't
00:29:43.440
convincing other people especially when you consider that by 2060 50 of the population is
00:29:48.080
going to be infertile especially when you consider that catholics get married much later than other
00:29:52.080
christian denominations which is the core reason why they're lower fertility than other once they're
00:29:56.880
married they have kids at the same rate sorry we should note this catholics are way lower fertility
00:30:00.720
than other christian groups you can see our video on this so i'm like genuinely afraid for like
00:30:05.040
catholic survival in one sense and then in another sense because i'm looking at this from a different
00:30:09.920
moral framework you know the bible instead of like all of this tradition and everything obviously
00:30:14.880
i'm going to see things a little differently but to me it looks like you know child sacrifice um but i
00:30:20.400
want to go further here to talk about what progressives thinks and just how how crazy it is
00:30:24.320
if you look at the way that progressives are being coached to talk about fetus they will do things like
00:30:29.680
like be coached to talk about uh cardiac activity instead of a heartbeat yeah or what did they say
00:30:36.720
cluster of cells is that how they put it i'm trying to remember or cardiac tissue begins to pulse you
00:30:43.200
know um this happens five to six weeks i think about my child's heartbeat it makes me weak but i want to go
00:30:51.360
over the timeline of a pregnancy we can sort of come to a when does it seem like there is enough neural
00:30:58.080
tissue there for insulment to happen yeah and i like your idea of the shadow cast when is a shadow
00:31:05.040
beginning to be cast by this thing that will eventually become a person okay and again i don't
00:31:11.120
think that non-neural tissue casts a shadow in humans and so i think that you're you're gonna have
00:31:15.120
to my finger does not cast a shadow that a soul could inhabit like okay yeah from my body so let's go
00:31:20.640
over the timing and i want to i want to start with something that's really important that kind of
00:31:24.320
threw me for a loop when i first started having pregnancies pregnancy weeks are not intuitive okay
00:31:30.640
pregnancy weeks like i'm 20 weeks pregnant i am five weeks pregnant is conception minus two weeks
00:31:36.720
pregnancy week starts with the female cycle starting so when i start my period is when day one of the
00:31:43.360
pregnancy 40 weeks period starts did you know that malcolm i didn't know that yeah so now you know
00:31:49.360
basically if we're talking the catholic concept a woman who is two weeks pregnant actually isn't
00:31:56.240
pregnant because no conception has happened you know she's in the process of preparing to ovulate
00:32:02.240
so also keep in mind that implantation after conception so you know once once the egg and sperm are
00:32:08.720
fertilized which typically occurs about two weeks after your last period begins implantation into the
00:32:15.280
uterine lining doesn't happen for another eight or nine days and i know this all too well from ivf i've
00:32:21.280
had a cycle where you know things didn't go quite well and i i lost our embryo implantation doesn't
00:32:27.600
always go well it is not a guarantee that after there is conception and you have a fertilized embryo that
00:32:33.200
has made it to day five that is that is going all right is gonna implant properly and continue to
00:32:38.640
start growing so like you say that you know the body is many ways of being like working out go ahead
00:32:44.640
do you want me to go into like the timeline sure so if you go to around three to four weeks that's
00:32:50.560
when the neural tube begins to form now it's very important and people can misunderstand this if they
00:32:55.760
haven't studied developmental biology is the neural tube is not made of neural tissue it is not neurons
00:33:02.800
it is just a tube of cells that eventually turns into all of the stuff that is a neuron in a brain and
00:33:09.280
everything like that but it is not there's there's not like action potentials and stuff like that in
00:33:14.480
the neural tube by week six or seven the first neurons begin to form and a basic brain structure
00:33:21.200
begins to develop so this is when i think six and seven like if you are at the absolute earliest of
00:33:25.840
when insolment could happen that's i think the absolute earliest with when seven weeks might happen
00:33:32.320
which would be which would be five weeks so a month and one week after the the the sex act will have
00:33:40.880
happened which is just from a logistical standpoint okay no no no this isn't looking at the weeks of
00:33:48.640
pregnancy this is looking like oh and weeks of gestation yeah oh okay the weeks that i'm looking at
00:33:54.960
are based on pregnancy weeks because that is how all of these things work and seven weeks is is when
00:34:00.800
yeah based on on seven weeks of pregnancy is when the pain receptors start to form is when the nervous
00:34:05.280
system starts to form well well so that's when the the pain receptors start to form but you don't
00:34:09.280
have brain waves yet which is important yes you don't have brain waves yet yeah so it's it's a it's a
00:34:13.600
bull it although at eight weeks fetuses can move in response to stimuli that's when things get even
00:34:18.560
more like things start to snowball weeks is when you get brain waves and they can move in response to
00:34:23.920
stimuli i think for me this is what i'd say you likely have a human being there well i would say
00:34:30.800
even more shadowy human being it's it would be like a not fully binding soul yet from my perspective
00:34:37.520
yeah it's but we're getting you know it's getting into dark territory then at 12 weeks the nerves
00:34:42.240
linking pain receptors to the thalamus and subparticle plates start forming and that's when researchers
00:34:49.200
really start to argue that fetuses can feel pain and when i think they obviously can so there's been
00:34:55.040
things where people have done like videos of like abortions and you can see like the fetus screaming
00:34:58.800
oh don't don't tell me don't so they don't cry all night jesus if you're if you're going
00:35:05.040
in these later stage so i think you didn't give me a trigger warning i should have known i should
00:35:08.720
have known we're talking about this the the 12 week mark i i think is where it it really i i don't
00:35:16.320
understand how you can go past that um well and here's the thing that really gets me is that
00:35:21.440
at 15 weeks if for example that you have some really rare condition and some kind of procedure
00:35:28.720
needs to be done on your fetus that at that point they start using pain medication on your fetus to
00:35:34.480
save it but like when they're doing the thing they it is now standard medical practice after 15 weeks to
00:35:40.560
use anesthesia during fetal surgeries now let's talk about but and this is really important and
00:35:47.040
this is going to come up a little bit later in my thoughts on this subject pain medication is not
00:35:51.920
standard practice in abortions oh that's wild it's better practice when they're trying to save them
00:35:58.960
when they're trying to save it it's standard practice after after 15 weeks of course use anesthesia
00:36:03.360
abortions that a doctor may at their discretion but there is no standard practice because it's that's
00:36:12.240
what's so interesting to this about me is there's this one part of the medical establishment that is
00:36:18.560
like okay this is a baby we're gonna save your baby don't worry mother it's gonna be fine and then there's
00:36:23.600
this totally sort of other industry which is like this is a cluster of tissue there is there is there's
00:36:28.720
cardiac activity let's you know you need to exercise your right this is not human and i think you know
00:36:34.720
when we're talking about something that is capable of feeling pain that is recoiling in response to
00:36:40.880
stimuli to sharp stimuli or cuts this is and i'm just going to get into it so i think that at some points
00:36:50.720
abortions are appropriate but i also think that throughout any point in someone's life euthanasia is
00:36:58.400
sometimes appropriate and that is when you have you know a life-threatening you have days to live
00:37:03.440
and you either get to choose between you know three weeks five days whatever of intense suffering and
00:37:08.640
pain or you can you know choose to terminate your life or if someone doesn't have agency out of love
00:37:16.320
for them terminate their life in as as as kind and painless as a fashion possible and so i think that
00:37:24.640
that's really the discussion that should be had in the instance of abortions is that when when a a child
00:37:32.320
is not viable and is going to die in in intense pain you need to take the same approach that you
00:37:38.240
would take with any human in palliative care i'd actually like you to push this when you when you're
00:37:44.640
in office i think a bill that one rolls back how how late abortion is happening in pennsylvania but two
00:37:51.680
mandates that when it does happen after a certain date that they use anesthetics yeah so in utah
00:37:57.360
then it forces them to consider like you know but in utah and some other states and of course utah
00:38:04.160
because they get it they love their kids they they do have some rules about using anesthesia that like
00:38:11.200
require you to use anesthesia for for abortions but this is not universal in states so there are some
00:38:16.800
legal requirements on this front but it is it is not let's see in utah train oh no i don't have
00:38:25.120
how many weeks it is in utah but i think it might even be 20 weeks i think it might be after 20 weeks
00:38:29.440
in utah and what i would say is after 12 weeks period you're here are like oh you guys are being rhinos
00:38:38.640
about this stuff if you look at republicans by q data who are under the age of 30 like the next
00:38:43.120
generation of republicans around 47 percent so around half believe in abortions under any
00:38:47.920
circumstance the the standard republican establishment in the united states has screwed
00:38:54.000
up the united states abortion practice to the extent so let me explain what i mean by that in
00:38:58.880
pennsylvania right now it's legal to get abortions up to 24 weeks this is true in most u.s states now
00:39:05.680
people don't understand why yeah and i think in uh pennsylvania it's 23 isn't it it's 24 24 nope
00:39:13.120
simone was right as always it is 23 in a few days oh so hold on hold on now what's really important
00:39:21.760
here right is is a lot of people were like we're okay with like the european model of 12 weeks right
00:39:29.120
like that's what it is in most i think it's 15 and in most 12 to 15 yeah depending 15 weeks so people are
00:39:35.360
like why do you guys keep pointing out that it's 15 weeks in europe and the reason why we keep pointing
00:39:43.680
that out is america is a more conservative country than europe yes hold on so why is it true that in
00:39:52.960
america we have much looser abortion policy than they have in europe the answer is the life begins at
00:39:59.040
conception crowd did that pick up on the mic no okay but the the answer is the reason why we have
00:40:08.720
such a late and horrific abortion policy in the u.s is the life begins at conception crowd they
00:40:15.440
absolutely screwed up this fight and kept us from winning and passing same legislation around abortion
00:40:24.160
because they always were like well i will vote for this i won't vote for them so there can be no
00:40:30.480
reasonable compromise no reasonable legislation because that's so polarized now they have and and
00:40:36.960
they have created this mindset where people don't even engage with what's really happening even young
00:40:42.880
republicans don't really engage what's really happening if you look at our views on abortion this we should
00:40:48.880
move it back to this 12 week mark this view on abortion is far to the right of the average republican
00:40:57.760
voter in america right yeah well and i also here's another thing that i really want to emphasize
00:41:02.880
12 weeks is three months is a summer vacation in the united states three months think about think about
00:41:09.280
how much can happen in three months you can do a world tour in three months you can do a european
00:41:13.440
tour in three months you can you can grow a beard in three months you can you know significantly
00:41:19.360
adjust to life trauma in three months that is enough time if you just decide you don't want a baby
00:41:26.960
to you know take care of it in three months i mean honestly you know after you have had had sex with
00:41:33.760
someone you can immediately take a morning after pill assuming that you're in a state where that's where
00:41:38.240
that's legal and if here you think we're being anti-catholic or something and saying that the
00:41:42.480
morning after pill should be legal consider that in the united states non-religiously affiliated
00:41:48.560
individuals who have never been married 35 have used the morning after pill among catholics that's
00:41:54.160
32 that's much higher than groups like evangelical protestants where it's only 28 and they don't even
00:42:02.320
have a religious objection to that or you can say well okay that's just the non-super religious
00:42:09.440
catholics right the very religious catholics the number must be significantly different
00:42:15.120
well unfortunately if you go to the ones who go to church once a month it's 36 percent one to three
00:42:23.840
times a month it's 33 percent and then weekly it's 25 so still a quarter of catholics who go to church
00:42:33.280
every week have used the morning after pill and if here you're like well then this just proves we need
00:42:37.920
to remove the temptation to sin except then you would go you don't get much more catholic than the
00:42:43.920
first council of nicaea and at the first council of nicaea it was decided it was so sinful to remove
00:42:51.360
the temptation of sin from an individual that those individuals weren't allowed in the priesthood
00:42:55.760
specifically individuals who had castrated themselves to make it easier to not be tempted
00:43:01.920
by sexual sin were forcibly removed from the priesthood sin exists to fortify your spirit
00:43:09.280
through resisting if god didn't want the devil to tempt you if god didn't want the devil to be doing
00:43:15.600
what he's doing he could snap his fingers and the devil would disappear and i think you know things
00:43:21.200
like this should be legal i mean we don't want to get to a point where you know this is a problem in
00:43:26.400
the first place where people are destroying life and and it gets worse you know this is one of those
00:43:30.720
things where like it starts off like the morality of it gets worse and worse the longer you wait
00:43:36.080
and i think it would be so great if we just moved the timeline up a little bit so that the damage that
00:43:42.240
people did and people took it seriously instead of just waiting and waiting and waiting but hold on
00:43:46.640
we need to keep going here because i want to with this 24 week in mind so you guys understand why
00:43:51.600
this is worth fighting for because i think a lot of people they either get this idiotic life begins
00:43:56.800
at conception perspective which is anti-biblical it's pagan okay it is not what the great catholic
00:44:03.040
thinkers thought it is a modern mindset if people are like oh protestants protestants did not think
00:44:08.640
this is and ultimately leads to more abortions to the point you just made more abortions are
00:44:13.520
taking place because you're holding this view in the 1970s more republicans than democrats
00:44:18.080
were pro-abortion but they wanted more strict access to abortion and this whole thing fell
00:44:22.400
apart when we entered this recreational abortion era and this worshiping of abortion that we now
00:44:27.680
get with democrats because of this alternate mindset but what i want to go into now is what
00:44:33.360
is actually happening so we got to the 12 week mark where we're like okay i can no longer justify
00:44:38.240
you know what is happening from there to the 24 week okay trigger warnings for your wife who cries all
00:44:45.040
night thinking about meaning the cerebral cortex starts to form layers auditory development begins
00:44:50.720
and the fetus may start to hear sound and then by week 20 the salamis and cortex begin to form
00:44:56.800
connections which is considered crucial for consciousness so they're almost certainly
00:45:01.360
conscious at this point 23 to 20 consciousness is one of those things that also makes us human so
00:45:05.760
if we're talking about well i'm okay with killing animals i eat meat why would i not be okay with
00:45:12.400
killing you know a human the thing that makes a thing that isn't quite human a thing that makes
00:45:17.920
us human is consciousness so i think to that point it's getting worse 23 to 26 rapid brain growth
00:45:22.960
occurs some studies suggest that rudimentary forms of consciousness might begin to emerge around this
00:45:27.600
time and so that's the stage that right now they're like okay yeah we can go a little bit past that stage
00:45:37.200
and that is and and by the way before that stage you know you were giving me the studies on
00:45:42.000
things like being able to react when the mother is eating certain types of food and yeah they make
00:45:47.440
yucky faces when the mothers are fed bitter foods even when the mother cannot taste them that's what's
00:45:54.560
so cool about these is that it for the for the research they they put a tube down the mother's throat so
00:45:59.360
the mother's not tasting the food they're not reacting to like stress hormones in the mother's
00:46:03.440
body they're literally reacting to the the food that they're getting through there through their
00:46:07.680
placenta yeah and here i'd note all of this in the context when people talk about the life
00:46:12.240
begins at conception and in terms of like not doing ibf they'll do this thing where they'll be like
00:46:17.680
well humans born through ibf aren't lesser than other humans now say you have a we did in feature in
00:46:24.160
vitro and now we have a child are you saying that they're not they shouldn't be here that you're
00:46:27.120
are you saying that they're they're not really human they're not made in god's image and likeness i am
00:46:30.560
absolutely not saying that if you have been conceived through in vitro or your children have been conceived
00:46:36.240
through in vitro you are a child of god they are you're made in god's image and likeness they are
00:46:41.600
made in god's image and likeness that's that's the truth you're loved by god not an accident not a
00:46:50.240
mistake like they'll then add that and it's like but you're saying that they are you're saying that
00:46:56.640
they're that if people had listened to you if they have chosen the timeline that you are advocating for
00:47:02.240
those actual children wouldn't exist and when i look at my children oh but that's not how they
00:47:09.280
see it how they see it is that millions of unborn children are locked up in freezers right now
00:47:16.240
their souls stuck forever soon to be discarded because of ibf
00:47:22.000
but they're literally preventing some souls from coming to exist like like they can even even even
00:47:30.240
if you believe that despite the fact that that's pagan and goes against the bible despite the fact
00:47:35.680
that like god created like do you think that god's an idiot that he made human crimeras as like
00:47:40.320
a joke like just erasing infant souls i could see listen i mean god lets infants die sometimes
00:47:47.840
i he could just be like you know what this one's this one's this soul's joining me we're gonna
00:47:56.160
we'll just get rid of this one yeah yeah no but the callousness with which that means god is treating
00:48:01.200
these souls if you look at the number of implanted fetus embryos that don't end up developing into
00:48:06.640
fetuses does god like was he just like acting incredibly callously with these souls like this is
00:48:12.480
the thing to me so okay even even if you believe this then you are still preventing some souls that
00:48:20.080
otherwise would have come to grow and live full adult lives from living full adult lives you are
00:48:25.680
still preventing those humans from coming into existence and i just like can't get over like when
00:48:30.960
i look at my kids these are people who they would have denied existence and i just can't get over and
00:48:40.160
what are you doing when you deny someone in existence other than killing them and and again
00:48:44.640
this is just something that resonates with me so strongly and i feel so strongly about now when i
00:48:51.840
think about every time when somebody because one of my cousins pulled me aside recently she goes well
00:48:56.560
you have four kids like think about the vacations they won't get to experience because of the other
00:49:00.320
kids like those are additional human beings you're talking about like those are additional people who are
00:49:05.760
going to be here at these events and this is all so uniquely important for catholics because of the
00:49:10.480
late catholic marriage rate people can be like why is this so uniquely important if you have a late
00:49:14.080
catholic marriage rate well because it turns out that the health of an embryo genetically speaking and in
00:49:20.080
terms of life outcomes is based not on when the mother got pregnant but when the embryo was frozen
00:49:25.680
so if a catholic gets married at like 30 and they freeze a bunch of embryos and they keep having kids until like
00:49:31.360
their 50s those kids will be as healthy as they would have been had they had them in their 30s
00:49:36.240
so they are increasing those children's quality of lives and helping the catholic tradition survive
00:49:42.160
and that scares me as well it's the death of the catholic tradition but right now if you look at
00:49:46.960
current catholic fertility rates and right now catholics in the united states have a lower fertility
00:49:52.400
rate than the secular population of the united states that it or not the secular but i'd say the average
00:49:57.760
population of the united states not if you split out secular but the average population which includes
00:50:01.520
the secular population and it shouldn't even be close like this is banana nutter butters sorry i
00:50:06.880
should clarify here i mean the native-born catholic fertility rate immigrants typically have a slightly
00:50:12.560
higher fertility rate than native-born individuals and when you include the large catholic immigrant
00:50:16.960
population in the united states it goes above the average and people are like well you've got the
00:50:21.040
conservative communities and maybe they'll pull through but i am scared okay that they won't and
00:50:28.560
we talked about this in the other the other catholic fertility before we updated our own views because
00:50:32.480
the one thing i really want to take this video as an opportunity to do is for people who like are
00:50:37.200
just so focused on the life begins at conception thing that they don't focus on when the fetus begins
00:50:42.320
developing a nervous system they don't focus on just how casually abortions are being done globally now
00:50:47.840
with the global export of abortions well and also with the the lack of any ability to compromise the
00:50:54.320
fact that some really egregious things are happening and if everyone could just be reasonable and we
00:50:59.280
could just agree you know whether what whether or not you believe in insolvent i think we can all agree
00:51:04.560
that euthanizing a human without any painkillers is pretty freaking horrendous and that you know once
00:51:13.360
someone is able to recoil in pain maybe we should ask for their permission before we
00:51:19.440
do something that causes them pain that kind of thing you know or you know at least
00:51:23.680
give them a shot give them some yeah and if some people are like well human dignity is scaled with
00:51:28.720
human intelligence right so they're like they begin to get like gradually more of a soul the smarter
00:51:34.800
they get you get a big problem there because that means then that you think that like
00:51:38.960
the mentally disabled have less of a soul and i understand the logic in this right like i think
00:51:45.440
it's an internally consistent perspective i think it's much more internally consistent than life
00:51:49.360
begins at conception i do not think that is an internally consistent perspective because it requires
00:51:53.600
the trick of the tongue where life begins at conception because the fetus becomes a human when
00:51:59.200
you put it in a woman but an egg and a sperm will not become a human and it's like you've left out the
00:52:04.960
second part you can't do that if you put them in a woman they do become a human and therefore they
00:52:10.320
do matter um which which sorry that really gets me that they always leave out the second part it's
00:52:22.560
or the idea that and i just don't get theology of the body and maybe somebody can explain this to me
00:52:27.280
maybe there's something i'm missing in the comments where you guys can be like
00:52:30.160
like it's it's not exactly that sex is for creating embryos and therefore that is
00:52:37.600
that is that means that okay so sex is for creating babies therefore if you create babies in any other
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way it's wrong or if you use sex for anything else it's wrong no because you can use things biblically
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you can use sex for other things for enjoying yeah and also like legs are for walking therefore swimming
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is a sin like what that makes no sense therefore or or it's like okay swimming didn't exist therefore
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bicycling is a sin because bicycling didn't exist during the bible so bicycling must be a sin we're
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using technology so that our legs can do something that they were not created to do and it's like that's
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silly it's like act i don't mean to like dismiss the argument here but i'd love to hear an argument that
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like just doesn't come across as silly if the alternative now keep in mind they're often like
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well i just want to be safe on this issue and it's like yeah but you're killing kids because those kids
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would have come to exist otherwise and you talked people out of having them so it's not like there's
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no moral weight to this this is an incredibly important decision especially in the context of
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of 50 of men in the developed world being infertile by 26 feet any final thoughts simone because you are
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always more tempered than me you always have more sophisticated ideas than me i don't know it just
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it just confuses me are the argument compelling at all like if you the the catholic argument against
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sex for pleasure yeah no this was developed by the council of trent in 1546 i don't know how people
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thought then who knows what was going on then who knows who these people were so i mean we know
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literally who they were but they weren't like biblically like inspired by god or anything well
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right like what i'm saying is well what what if they were you know at that time there was like a really
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big gay orgy problem among the people who were there who were like you know what this sex for pleasure
00:54:32.640
thing not great let's just make it clear that sexual and i should know i don't know like we
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weren't there this is actually going to come out in a future tract but i actually do believe
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that sex within marriage that is no chance of leading to a kid is a form of sin and person might
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be like yeah but god allowed it in certain parts of the bible and i'd say well the deontological rule
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set that god laid out in the bible changes over time which to us is evidence that god actually
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meant for a consequentialist outcome you know like do i think god is pro-slavery because he gave rules
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for how slavery should okay but if that's true then i would also argue that drinking alcohol is a sin
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unless you're drinking it for frontier medicine purposes i agree drinking alcohol is a sin and that
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eating non-nutritious food or eating when you don't have a caloric need is i agree eating when
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you don't have a caloric need anything that you can't do for the glory of god the bible makes
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this clear in multiple occasions is a sin um yeah but so that means it's also kind of
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one of those things that we're all breaking the rule so who cares well no it's not we're all breaking
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the rule who so who cares it's just don't glorify the sin be aware that we are wretched we are fallen we
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are oh yeah yeah don't don't expect a prize kid that kind of thing don't expect a prize like you
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can say okay i was doing something that wasn't glorifying god but again i'm not a god myself i'm
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not jesus like i'm not i'm not sinless the the the important thing to bite the bullet on is just
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to not glorify this to not attempt to worship god through the act of sex or something like that
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do not treat sex as a sacrament to god just because you're doing it in a marriage if you
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know it's non-reproductive and so yeah that's that's the way i feel that's that's much more
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controversial for me to say that and and you know i do think that we need to say that drinking and
00:56:29.520
eating non-nutritious food is a sin that's pretty standard it's not standard oh no not in modern
00:56:36.160
reasonable i think i think modern christianity has gotten to this this state where it's like
00:56:40.960
some things are sins some things are like i guess yeah maybe maybe it seems reasonable to me because
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that it's more something that you kind of get the the feeling of in the rationalist or ea community
00:56:51.440
that gluten is a sin you know eating sugar is a sin eating cake is a sin or you even get it on like
00:56:57.840
internet culture i mean like intermittent fasting is a sin i think for example sports are a sin like like
00:57:03.600
watching sports for entertainment are a sin but yeah you're taking a very puritanical approach they
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talk about in no i'm taking a biblical approach here simone the bible says if you can't do it for
00:57:13.920
the glory of god it's a sin okay you know i i can go through a few quotes here in post so here you
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have lines like corinthians 10 31 which instructs us whether therefore you eat or drink or whatever you
00:57:26.800
do do all for the glory of god or corinthians 5 15 which states and he died for all that those
00:57:33.360
who live should no longer live for themselves but for him who died and then was raised again
00:57:38.240
or calatians 3 23 which states and whatever you do do it heartily as to the lord and not unto men
00:57:47.760
or romans 14 23 which states but if you have doubts about whether or not you should eat something you are
00:57:53.680
sinning if you go ahead and do it for you are not following your convictions if you do anything you
00:57:58.560
believe is not right you are sinning but no it is a sin the people of the past lived with easier to
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follow ethical systems than are demanded of us because we have developed past what god expected
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of those earlier generations and you know if you if you're not doing it for the glory of god
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then it is a sin and i think you know yeah i i don't like this this weaselly like like oh well
00:58:26.160
it's not a sin because it doesn't you know cause disgust in me you know it's like well actually you
00:58:31.520
know look towards what the bible is saying and come up with like a logical way to interpret it that
00:58:36.160
doesn't have that's what's so clear about sex in the bible is that it yeah it really is you know
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not about whether you're doing it or not or but i will say i have a grayer area on sex within
00:58:48.400
marriage i am not a hundred percent sure if that has to be a sin because the bible does say it's okay
00:58:54.240
for non-procreative purposes so i'm like solomon my friend it is yeah this this this might be it
00:59:00.560
doesn't i think yeah if you want to take a purely biblical approach you're gonna have to come down
00:59:06.000
exactly where the puritans came down whereas sex within marriage even if it's not procreative is
00:59:10.160
freaking fantastic okay sex within marriage is fine i will break on that but again i don't think
00:59:17.120
that it okay it's fine sex within marriage because it can be done for the glory of god is fine uh i
00:59:24.560
have thought about this further and i was wrong on this point uh i think we need to view the lines
00:59:30.880
in the bible that approve of sex within marriage that is non-procreative as fine as being equivalent
00:59:38.240
to the lines of the bible that give rules around slavery the reason being that can you do an act
00:59:45.440
which is primarily for your own pleasure for the glory of god and the answer here is just no an act
00:59:53.280
void of industry cannot be for the glory of god we are held to different moral standards than our
00:59:59.440
ancestors were by god and we can choose to either live like people who lived 2000 years ago or we can
01:00:06.800
choose to step up to this stricter set of moral requirements that's i believe demanded of us well
01:00:13.760
i think what what we're looking at is the celebration of a a sacrament you know an alignment and unity of
01:00:24.400
man and woman which is something that god is cool with you know he made the barbie and ken doll because he
01:00:32.160
wants to see them kiss yeah yeah i i see that and i will also note here when people are like no the
01:00:39.040
council of whatever like this is uh approved by god because everything done within the church
01:00:44.000
bureaucracy is approved by god and it's like well i mean but clearly not because like the sex scandal
01:00:49.920
like that was clearly the most satanic thing i've ever seen and the church bureaucracy tried to cover
01:00:54.560
it up you know how am i supposed to trust in that if it is the then telling me deny humans the right
01:01:01.360
to learn something really interesting talking with the insurance federation in pennsylvania okay tell me
01:01:06.400
about that just like a weird aside that the stat a change of the statute of limitation around that was
01:01:12.800
inspired by catholic church abuse of children affects the insurance market in a way that would make
01:01:19.680
insurance prohibitively expensive for child care centers to make it like almost impossible to open
01:01:25.360
a child care business in our state oh that's funny very interesting yeah like from up from the you have
01:01:31.920
to be careful about the legislative changes that you make when you're regulating people perspective and
01:01:37.840
less is more in many cases that's one of those really interesting knock-on effect things
01:01:42.880
anyway something i learned recently that was interesting that well i mean i think this shows how much
01:01:48.640
child sex abuse happens in daycare centers and this is something that we need to well no no no you are
01:01:52.880
legally required to be insured for that when you open a daycare center yeah but i mean that they
01:02:00.080
expect this to be violated and then people to remember it as adults like that to me shows that
01:02:05.280
this must be happening pretty frequently no it's more that some person when deciding the regulatory
01:02:11.040
requirements of daycare that's not the point i'm making the insurance wouldn't cost much if this never
01:02:18.080
happened it costs a lot because it's a frequent occurrence you understand that right right but
01:02:24.640
then i i think the issue is that they're not striating the form of liability enough where maybe
01:02:31.600
you should have like a a religious one and then a daycare one and a public school one and and separate
01:02:38.240
out the actual actuary tables differently well what it shows is that the type of abuse that happened
01:02:44.400
within the catholic church is actually common among all industries where people are around kids yeah
01:02:49.600
but it shouldn't have been happening in the church at all and and and what it shows to me as an
01:02:54.400
outsider that can't just take the church bureaucracy i don't know i mean of all places where you'd expect
01:02:59.760
it to happen the catholic church just seems so logical because i always see catholicism as
01:03:04.640
you can mess up you just have to be feel bad about it and ask you know and confess and repent well no
01:03:13.360
not easy because like if you look at the cadaver synod you know we've talked about it before which is
01:03:17.920
the trial and stuff it's not even like well the pope is protected from making mistakes like i don't know
01:03:25.600
to me they're like no it's in these very special instances that the pope is protected from making
01:03:29.760
mistakes and it's like yeah but those instances weren't codified until after the cadaver synod so
01:03:35.440
they weren't relevant in the cadaver synod your average catholic would have believed that all of
01:03:39.040
that was biblically inspired you can't like make the rules that make that not relevant after that happens
01:03:45.840
and i would also note which a lot of people forget that the cadaver synod happened
01:03:49.360
sort of right before the split of the orthodox church from the catholic church and so they would
01:03:54.880
have had that fresh in their minds during the split when the catholics were like actually we should be
01:03:58.720
in charge of everything and our bureaucracy gets everything right always they would have been
01:04:02.720
like but um what about that dead guy you put on trial dead pope you put on trial and then one pope
01:04:11.360
then said not just condemned him afterwards because he could be like well that pope really was a bad guy
01:04:16.320
but then the pope after that then said no actually everything was cool and the guy who condemned him
01:04:20.080
was the bad guy um so you had i wonder if they changed his outfit did they dress him for trial or did
01:04:25.360
they just you have whatever he was wearing in the grave imagine being that guy who's like been
01:04:31.680
tasked with preparing him for trial that'd be very awkward anyway we're splitting dead people's hairs
01:04:38.960
now i love you and what do you want for dinner speaking of putting corpses on trial what do you
01:04:47.600
i'd be up for pasta or i'd be up for the new pizza i got
01:04:51.200
or a pot sticker so it's always an option oh well the audience doesn't like that because that i mean
01:04:57.600
all these things well all these things are carb heavy i our audience seems to not believe in let's
01:05:01.360
actually do pot stickers i love pot stickers tonight you've done a great job with those recently can i
01:05:05.200
do pot stickers and then a side of that soup that i got the the new one the new one yeah what was it
01:05:10.960
like sweet potato soup good heavens i don't know but we can do it wait off we go i love you i love you
01:05:19.120
too oh wait to go to stacy and john um and we we're together we can walk over some groceries for them
01:05:28.560
okay you want to i can walk over the groceries by myself yeah but i don't want to pack them so just
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let me come down okay okay bye love you and i understand why despite the bible saying that you
01:05:40.000
know he knows you before you were conceived in your mother's womb and that means that there's a
01:05:44.240
lot of weight to decisions because if life begins before conception then you are responsible for
01:05:49.520
every human that you have decided to not bring into this world if you had the ability to do that and
01:05:55.280
so i understand why people have chosen to not take responsibility for this interpretation but if it's
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accurate it's pretty horrifying you know it means that this mormon interpretation of of what's
01:06:09.840
heaven like well i don't think it's exactly like that you know all of the kids waiting to be born
01:06:15.280
i do think it can be useful to envision our future kids like this because it helps us make better moral
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choices around them in the same way that uh you know i often imagine if if one of my kids thought about
01:06:29.520
becoming a celibate priest of whatever denomination that their children would be up in heaven just like
01:06:37.600
horrified yelling at them what are you doing read the bible emily what's wrong i'm the last kid
01:06:44.800
to be born what if by that time mom and dad don't want me no way but i've seen lots of families make
01:06:51.040
promises and then break them not us emily i will see to it personally that you're not forgotten you
01:06:59.920
promise jimmy promise we meet a million subscribers we do is that what you said you wanted this morning
01:07:08.400
yeah why did you say you wanted that this morning because i just wanted to and then you told me this
01:07:16.400
the subscribers are people yeah and why do they watch you because and you know why because that's great
01:07:29.680
do you want them to like you yes what are you doing what you're being tricky yeah that's correct
01:07:43.680
and you gotta come to our house because the millions cry first gotta come i think that'd be
01:07:53.120
very very very bad but wouldn't that be too many people wouldn't you get scared yeah well i will not
01:08:00.080
be scared not even a little no what are subscribers friends yeah oh okay i love you i do like this right
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i do like describing friends okay okay say bye bye bye bye