Antinatalism & Negative Utilitarianism: Why is it Wrong?
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss the anti-natalist ideology and its connection to the recent wave of terrorist attacks tied to it, and how antinatalism is linked to the 9/11 attacks, the recent mass shooting at the St. Johns Hopkins Hospital, and the recent attack on a Jewish clinic.
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have you done harm to a native american tribe if you sterilize all of their members
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and your member of that tribe would be like you have done the most harm anyone could conceivably
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commit against our people you have done that tribe a favor and this is because to an anti-natalist
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the only unit at which humans exist is at the level of the individual not at any other level
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not at the level of the family not at the level of the civilization or the society to most other
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humans that exist they don't exist at the level of the individual the the here is how her natalists
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see the world we must adapt press forward if we are to see our dreams end and how will we know when we
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get there it is the nature of humankind to push itself toward the horizon we test our limits
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we face our fears we rise to the challenge and become something greater than ourselves
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civilization here is how anti-natalists see the world i gotta believe there's some place out there
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that's better than this otherwise i would just curl up in a lava position and weep but it's this whole
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gung-ho super organism thing that i'm supposed to do everything for the colony and what about my needs
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what about me the whole system makes me feel insignificant excellent you've made a real
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how you choose to frame your reality is fundamentally a choice you get to choose
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how you contextualize your position in the world and the way you relate to society and what your
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identity is or at least within the pro natalist framework you do because to an anti-natalist
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you don't get to make that choice you don't get to decide that you exist at some more important
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level than just at the individual you get to decide what your purpose in life is is it to just
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be an individual running from emotional stimuli that evolved into our ancestors centuries ago
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due to environmental cues that have nothing to do with our current condition or is it to build
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something greater than yourself to participate in the work that all mankind from the birth of human
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civilization until today has built for us to continue on their behalf the path has not always
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been easy ours is a journey that spans generations where one story ends another begins the world our
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ancestors faced was brutal yet from it they drew life and though the road to prosperity was at times
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harsh from the ashes of the old new possibilities arise you need only persevere
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the true power to shape this world has always lain in your hands
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would you like to know more hello simone i'm excited to be here with you today today we are going to go
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back to a topic that needs to be revisited because of the number of terrorist attacks that have been tied
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to it recently and its relevance to us as people who are generally seen as running the pro natalist movement
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or at least the pro tech faction of the pro natalist movement and this is the subject of anti-natalism
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so when i talk about the various terrorist attacks specifically there was a recent ibf clinic bombing that
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was specifically tied to ephilism which is a philosophy downstream of it the sandy hook shootings where
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on their youtube channel they talk about ephilism and the christ church mosque shootings where he said that
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the reason he targeted muslims they media called him a great replacement theorist but he said no like
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muslims are having more kids which is a fact and therefore i'm going to kill them because i think
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there should be less kids not because for the environment for the environment for the environment
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he was an environment which is a common stance held by ephilists in fact the the most recent anti-natalist
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the most recent anti-natalist terrorist was a vegan his female friend who had likely ended her
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life through the use of her boyfriend and a firearm was also like literally her online username was
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vegan anti-natalist yeah so like there is extreme overlap between have heavy focus on sustainability
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in the environment which i don't think is bad like obviously eating meat is morally wrong we just do it
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anyway and anti-natalism so so he counts too and i think that this is meaningful because what we're
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seeing strung together here three acts of terror is is the fact that this isn't just and this is
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actually something that came up in the manifesto of the most recent terrorist he said anti-natalism
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isn't nihilism and i think people really misunderstand it they think that anti-natalists are just deeply
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depressed people who think that nothing matters in the world he says no that's not true anti-natalists
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believe very vehemently in one thing which is that suffering is bad and we need to end it and if you are a
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more extreme anti-natalist like him you are essentially on a holy war to end suffering by
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ending sentience like you have an imperative to end life and you're willing to do that and suffer
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if sufferers or evil in the universe and you need to end the things that can suffer and and this is one
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of those philosophies that i think is so compelling to people because on its surface if you don't put a
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lot of thought in it it seems really well thought through and and internally it's an internally
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consistent world very different than like progressivism or wokeism or anything like that
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the problem is is that if you scratch that surface which is what we're going to be doing in this video
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it makes no logical sense and we have done a video on this before like early early in our channel's
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history but i wanted to come to it again because i have some new arguments i wanted to this time go
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more directly to our book the fragment discovery crafting religion where we make direct arguments
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on this but one of the new arguments that i don't know why i didn't think of this when we were writing
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our book is what anti-natalists will tell you because what you might be thinking is wait wait wait
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they want to end suffering do they not think that they are doing harm to individuals when they
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they you know in in their lives and they're like oh well what we would do is not in the lives of
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living individuals just prevent the lives of individuals who are kind of coming to being in
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the future right through sterilization or through not having kids and so they're like you can't harm
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somebody who hasn't been born yet which for me i just find to be on its face a ludicrous idea like
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very obviously you can if you this isn't the new argument but if you go back in time and you
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sterilize my wife you have done harm to my children you are responsible for the differential
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impacts on the timeline that every one of your choices make whether or not those people have
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been born yet or not trying to weasel your way out of that is the most morally like like honestly like
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it feels like a super villain from a show where he's like i've done nothing wrong i merely went back in
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time and prevented the birth of people who it's like well you prevented he's like but they didn't
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exist when i prevented them from existing and it's like well they would have existed without your
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action like clearly you're responsible for that how is it that you believe that your existence is at
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such a privileged level compared to the people who haven't been born yet how could you even come to
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be that narcissistic and this is the thing right fundamentally is you can always choose to not
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exist they can't choose to manifest themselves into existence you are never doing harm by bringing
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a life into the world because that life can always remove itself you are always doing harm by not
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bringing a life into the world because that life can't choose this this is like the basic this isn't
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like a new argument this is something that anyone who has applied even the basic logic to this should
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be able to see and they're like oh no but ending myself is so hard it's like no no no no no no no
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it's that you don't want to you are a fundamentally vile and selfish person and i before this i was like
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okay yes antinatalists are overwhelmingly antisocial yes they're overwhelmingly narcissistic yes they're
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overwhelmingly mochibellion there have been multiple studies and follow-up studies showing this but when
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i watch people like this girl who had her boyfriend kill her rather than taking responsibility for that
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herself that she was willing to ruin his entire life rather than take responsibility for this decision
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herself or the ivf clinic bomber willing to risk other people's lives just to make a statement yeah
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although you know i want to point out two two things where i'll agree with him one he pointed out that
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there are many examples of terrorists and school shooters mass shooters who attempted to end their
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lives voluntarily by themselves without hurting anyone else and failed or couldn't because it's it's too
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hard right now and he argued that euthanasia should be a lot easier and i one thousand percent agree
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like yes no of course you agree with that but that's that's neither here nor there even where euthanasia is
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not legal it is really not that hard to unalive yourself the the everything's harder when you're
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depressed i mean i guess but it's to contrast the difficulty of that with manifesting your existence
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when somebody decided to sterilize your parents is astronomical they'll make arguments like well
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people who haven't been born yet don't exist yet how can you say that somebody who doesn't exist
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yet life has value and it's like bro they only don't exist yet from your arbitrary position on the
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timeline how arrogant do you have to be to believe that your arbitrary position on the timeline is
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the moral nexus of all reality this is just a trick of how humans perceive time like clearly
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those future events are going to happen and you are responsible for them and you are responsible for
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the differential effects you have on the timeline when you think about directions like on a graph
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time is just another axis on that graph the only thing that makes time different from you know
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vertical or horizontal directionality is that we as humans cannot go backwards within it but that
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doesn't mean that past times don't exist or future times don't exist they very evidently do saying that
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all humans within x part of a timelines lives have literally zero value and your life is exponentially
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superior to theirs in terms of its value is the same as me saying everyone who lives in a specific
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geographic region like africa or something's life has no value because they're in a different point
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within the spatial representation of our reality it's a horrifying thing to do it's almost as if they're
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trying to argue that future events are not real which is to me just bizarre that anybody could
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bring themselves to believe that but it is this level of dehumanization of people who are in a
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different location on the timeline than them and this is the thing about antinatalism i am okay with
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antinatalist being antinatalist like i think that they probably are more likely both culturally and
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genetically to be more pessimistic and they probably will not contribute much to the future of humanity
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if you force them to breed or something i think that they are doing a service to our civilization
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and so i am okay with the way that they view time what is interesting here is i'm not saying they have
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to see time the way i see time what i'm saying here is they have to see how somebody could see this way
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of looking at time and morality is logically internally coherent and would be compelling to a large percent
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of the population that you are responsible for all the differential effects that your decisions make
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on the timeline to anyone whether or not they have been conceived yet and this is the problem
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antinatalists have their goal is only achieved if everyone agrees with them so if there is a separate
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alternate framework around either identity or how time works that is logically consistent they need
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to eradicate that even if it is as logically consistent as their own we only need to argue that
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our way of looking at time and morality is plausible and therefore some groups should be allowed to believe
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that they need to argue that their way of looking at time and morality is absolute and everyone should
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be forced to believe that but the new argument i thought of when i was thinking of this is like yeah
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but like when you think of how people relate to identity very few people outside of the urban
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monoculture have a primary identity which is individual based so by this what i mean is i would ask
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have you done harm to a native american tribe if you sterilize all of their members and and your average
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person or average member of that tribe would be like you have literally committed genocide against
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us you have done the most harm anyone could conceivably commit against our people and there
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have been historical instances of certain types of people being sterilized and that is is is i'm
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pretty universally condemned i don't know but to an antinatalist you have done that tribe a favor
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and and this is because to an antinatalist the only unit at which humans exist is at the level of the
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individual not at any other level not at the level of the family not at the level of the civilization
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or the society or at the level of what you know the thing that you are continuing yet to most other
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humans that exist they don't exist at the level of the individual the the native american might say
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well you know first and foremost i'm a member of my tribe right um yeah or a lot of right-wingers will
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say first and foremost i'm a member of western civilization right and i and i see my goal as as as
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building on that civilization living for something that i see is greater than myself and the antinatalist
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will say well wait what they'll be like wait wait you live for something other than yourself
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explain that to me and it's like most humans live for things other than themselves it's clearly how we're
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programmed to live if you look at artistic media and everything like that and you see depictions of the
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good life the end of gladiator right you know the end of grandma and grandpa turn young again nobody
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nobody nobody ever is like about all the pleasures they had in life like like so few people see things
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make us believe it again and here it lays out very clearly what is good in life good in life is
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family what what is your purpose in life your purpose in life is to uplift your civilization through
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sacrifice to play your role as a cog in the greater human machine mr mayor do you have a plan to deal with
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the fat cell housing shortage i'd like to announce we're beginning construction on a third chin what
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do you have to say to all the hair cells recently laid off from the scalp there'll be plenty of new jobs
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for everyone on the back 85 of red blood cell children don't even know how to carry oxygen people
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people the body is in perfect shape the following is a paid political announcement the bowels
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didn't always smell this way there was a time when eating right and exercise kept this whole
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area a vital center of activity as mayor i would set long-term goals that include ordering salads
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and eating bran if we pull together and put in a little hard work a new frank could be right around
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the corner and what's ironic is by deciding to serve something greater than yourself you end up
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experiencing much much much more aggregate pleasure and meaning and experiencing the hard times less
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severely than somebody who takes a negative utilitarian or anti-natalist approach and i'd
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also note here if they're like well no the core unit of humanity is the individual because that's
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what i perceive the world through and it's like actually that's mostly an illusion if you know your
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neuroscience the reality is that if you for example split somebody's corpus callosum that connects the
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two hemispheres of their brain their brains basically act as separate people within a single
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individual if you want to learn more about this you can look at our video you're probably not as
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conscious as you think and the various other brain the parts mostly work independently from each other
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and then you know how cute with a human but a combination of selves you know the the we get to
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choose where we define our identity and i choose and i think most people who derive meaning for life choose
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something bigger than themselves what that is is up to you okay i gotta keep a positive attitude
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a good attitude even though i'm utterly insignificant i'm i'm insignificant but with attitude
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this is a very very narrow viewpoint to divide all of human experience into subjective pleasure and
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suffering right because most people do not get people aren't thinking back to like that one massage
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they got or like that really really good dinner as they die or the sex that they had or whatever yeah
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the ways that they were able to contribute to something greater than themselves because that
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is i think like if you're going to actually like live a good life and be satisfied with your life
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that's the way you're going to live and then they will say wait but like we should discount their
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cultural perspective and default to my cultural perspective and i'm like why like why do you get to
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default like like just say oh they're all wrong like even though their beliefs are also internally
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consistent you're basically saying they're all wrong and i get to force my beliefs on them my beliefs
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about what identity should be my beliefs about what humanity should be and and i'd even ask you to ask
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yourself a serious question if you were in a lineup of 20 people and all those 20 people said independently
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because keep in mind that these perceptions have come about independently that on that table in front
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of me there is a duck and a train a toy duck and a toy train and then you walk up and you only see a
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duck okay unless you are like actually crazy and narcissistic and i think this is why narcissism is so
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high in this population you'd be like i must not be seeing something maybe i need to change the angle
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of which i'm looking maybe i need to you know you you would you would think why is everybody else
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saying there's more to life than pain and suffering why is every other culture structuring their lives
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around something more than pain and suffering why is it only me that is able to is there maybe something
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that's wrong with my brain that i'm not able to see like any wider purpose in life besides pain and
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suffering like is it is it something wrong with me that i supposedly make all of these sacrifices like
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this vegan anti-natalist chick to live like this ethical life and then i convince my boyfriend
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to ruin his by taking mine yeah one and the same for her friend and the the bomber like did he need
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to injure people like or or the sandy hook shooter the glee he took when like little kids said to him
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like i don't want to die today what do you say when he's oh i don't know don't tell me i don't want to
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no i can't i can't know anything about it i can't know anything about it well it's okay he's like
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well it's not your choice kid or something like that you know like taking a lot of glee in what
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he's doing and and we repeatedly see this within this community right and and it's to me the the
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native american argument is really strong because it's like this is something that historically happened
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and it's something that anti-natalists actually believe that you are doing a benefit to this community
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and that they believe that their understanding of self should supersede any alternate cultural
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framework any alternate personal framework even if that framework makes perfect sense like you look
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at our belief and we believe that every individual's goal is to improve themselves every
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day and to improve themselves intergenerationally and improve the culture from which they come
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and this is much closer to the framework that the vast majority of societies have adopted like this
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is what i strive to exist for whereas anti-natalists strive for personal hedonism and yet they live
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these lives of hate like go to any of their forms go to the old epilus forms of any of them have been
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archives or the current anti-natalist forms these are not happy people right and it you could say
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like well and that's what's motivating all this and i'd be like no they're not happy people because
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they've created a culture in which they create dominance hierarchies of unhappiness and that
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leads them because the thing that humans even at their default state strive for the most isn't
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even happiness when you're operating on pure animal mode it is on winning local dominance hierarchies
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and so you will make yourself unhappy or or or cosplay as unhappy if that can elevate you is in the
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social networks that you value and so i think that this fundamentally undermines everything else about
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anti-natalism and that it shows that even them who claim that they should be doing what the opus day
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or what us do which is attempt to recontextualize everything in their lives to extract the most
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positive emotions from it and it's something that you can do like the adams family does this for
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example they just recontextualize what they're experiencing these individuals have that as an
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option but they don't choose it which shows that even their own claimed belief that unhappiness matters
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above all else and suffering is the core negative that they could reduce it within their own lives and they
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choose not to over something so animalistic which to me shows the entire movement is alert the entire
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movement is alert because you can choose as i've said you can choose to what about your life which is
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the name of one anime where she's really depressed and looking for you know a validation for people
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who you know don't even like her that much or she knew you your life which is another anime where she
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just chooses to perceive reality the way she wants to perceive reality because you get to do that right
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and she chooses to search for validation from people whose values she respects you can choose
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that and people who ultimately help her right because she's not going to communities that are about
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tearing individuals down that's cool i guess you can join up with us anti-natalists if you want
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yeah we're gonna go to the graveyard and write poems about death and how pointless life is
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thanks for offering to let me in your click guys but to be honest i'd rather be a crying little bit of
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anti-natalist he's right i don't even know who i am anymore i like liking life a lot more than
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hating it screw you guys i'm going home go ahead and go back to your sunshine fairy tale
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and i note here you know one one argument that you always get from anti-natalists is oh well you can't
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meaningfully consent for someone bringing you into existence and again this to me is is is such a vile
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thing to say because that person also can't consent to not exist and because the best and you can say
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well i've done nothing wrong if they didn't exist yet why what like there is no logical reason for
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that argument this is one of these arguments that only works if you're just completely cooked in like
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a philosopher's sphere and you're not thinking about the real world at all you have clearly done
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harm if you prevent somebody from existing like clearly clearly clearly clearly i i do not
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understand and this is obviously a big you know objection we have to like catholics who think that
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like life begins at conception and stuff like that and we think they're murdering babies by not using ivf
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right like we're like clearly if you went back in time and sterilize someone you are responsible for
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every differential thing within that timeline and what's important is that you can always consent to
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your continued existence unless you're like on life support or something like that and you're you're no
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longer mobile right like that's a horrifying scenario but generally speaking most humans consent to their
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continued existence they just lack the balls to make a choice about it if the choice would in any way
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inconvenience them that's what i've really seen was the effelists and antinatalists they understand
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that they have to take the responsibility for the fact that they exist and continue to exist and that
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that is not a choice that anybody who wasn't been brought into existence any thoughts by the way someone
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before i go further no i mean this seems logically consistent to me and yeah i mean i think the there is
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a there is a version of antinatalism that just is accompanied by winning people over through logical
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argument to your view and then all of you deciding never work i don't believe like there's people
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who say that they believe this right there are a lot of people but it's it's not logically coherent
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because it would obviously never work what do you mean oh because in the end just those who actually
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love to live and care about living will be left yes even at a genetic level it would eventually fail
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because humans would adopt to this philosophy and no longer feel the suffering that they are so afraid of
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feeling you know what or or they become psychologically resistant in some other way because evolution
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exists and evolution can resist means like it's a completely incoherent and fantastical philosophy
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that people say they believe because they they don't want to be called out for what their philosophy
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always actually leads to which is effelism like intellectually i don't nobody really believes that they can
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convince all of human civilization of this if they have put thought into the fact that it really
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requires you to have a perception of reality that is totally different than the the vast majority of
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living humans like like even you like you come to me it's not like i don't understand your arguments
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i just think that they're and it's not even that i'm like relying on some external oh i exist because of
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god or something like that right like i'm not you're just being logical yeah you're just aware that most
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people don't want to die and prefer to be alive yeah even if their life is hard and i note here
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part of the reason why it's obviously never going to spread to the entire population it is just such
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an unlikable way to live if you look at the beginning when i sort of frame the two world
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framings the pronatalist through the civ songs through the end of gladiator and the anti-natalist
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where it's all me me me me me only subjective experiences matter and you show these to somebody
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like a young man or something like that if you're completely urban monoculture brain cooked and just
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a total nihilist now maybe the anti-natalist message will will land with you but for the vast
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majority of people they're going to be like oh i prefer the good one not not the objectively bad
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and evil one not the thanos one and so i i think that like it doesn't even spread that fast within our
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existing society right now you know it's a decent sized movement but when most people hear about it
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even far lefties even far urban monoculture people they're like that sounds like crazy if
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it can't even thrive within the culture it is best suited for how is it ever going to spread into you
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know extremist muslim groups or conservative christian groups or orthodox jewish groups it's
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just no chance at all that's why i believe that the people who are saying and are saying oh we're
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going to do all this voluntarily they don't really mean it they're just hiding their long-term goals
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you can you can decide to not continue being alive you can't decide to bring yourself into existence
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and so if you prevent somebody from coming to existence you have violated their consent
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whether or not they happen to be born yet like i have never understood why that's such an important
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factor in their mind about how morality works again future humans aren't like imaginary or fictional
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they are real people just as real as you who will live a life just as rich or potentially even more
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rich than your own you are playing for keeps when you make a decision that deletes someone from
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existence well and i think this is also very similar to where you draw lines with the issue of cultural
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sovereignty where you're like every culture should have the right to exist as it wants to exist and
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raise kids the way they want to raise kids but you draw the line at doing things to kids that would
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make it impossible for them to go their own way upon reaching adulthood and independence yeah like
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getting married very young and stuff like that yeah so like things like getting married very young
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that's out because you're you're taking away their choice to make their own choice when they're old
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enough so this i think it's it's what you're showing on your end is at least also a very consistent
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philosophy where what you care about is consenting people doing what's best for them well cultural
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sovereignty because i think the core unit of society is culture i do not believe it's the individual
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yeah and then this this concept of of especially effelism within antinatalism is so antithetical
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to that because it's all about coercively removing people's choice and sovereignty thing is it pro
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natalism is always a pro-choice thing like you have a choice in this whereas antinatalism always needs
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to at the end boil down to authoritarianism and removing other people's choices because there's always
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going to be some percentage of the population that's just like i cannot even begin to concede how you
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think you are doing no harm by preventing somebody else from coming in to exist just because that
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person hasn't been conceived yet and i you know there are differences biological differences in
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humans it's been shown that a belief in determinism has a biological component to it i can understand
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like if you were maybe born in like a catholic family and you have this like life begins a consent
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mindset and like you have co-evolved along with this tradition for a long time when you become secular
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this can make sense to you but you've got to understand that there's another part of the human population
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that this will never make sense to you it will never ever ever ever within the slightest hint
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of whatever makes sense to me that you had done no harm by going back in time and sterilizing my wife
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that you had not done harm to the kids who i hug every day right those kids who would have come to
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exist who you had not done this i i do not understand the level of dehumanization of future humans
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you see within these communities they are not humans who don't exist because they do come to exist if
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you don't take your action they are future humans that you are choosing to harm and have completely
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dehumanized and stripped of any degree of humanity within your philosophy and again if you want to say
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but they don't exist that is just factually not true they do exist just at a different point in the
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timeline and based on individual choices you you do not your position was in the human timeline it's not
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the privileged vector of all morality but to go further risk and uncertainty arguments they'll say
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something like since we cannot predict what quality of life someone will have some lives involve extreme
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suffering it may be wrong to take that gamble on their behalf what's really psychotic about this
00:31:29.680
they're like okay some lives have extreme suffering but it's like yeah but those lives those people
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continue to exist right like they could choose to stop their existence no not in every single instance but in
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most instances these people are choosing their continued existence which i think fundamentally
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undermines everything the antinatalist believes because they're basically saying look at this
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person who is undergoing all this suffering and that individual who's undergoing all this suffering
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is saying yeah but life is still worth it for me despite my wife being like i'm right here and i
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don't want to die i'm right here and they're like well you don't get to make that decision why don't
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they the individual who's experiencing all this get to make that decision why is this your decision to
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make right like that's so psychotic and why can't you look at the individual who is experiencing all
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this suffering and still sees purpose in life and say hey where are all them seeing that i don't see
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like why is it that all of them want to continue existence and i don't and they'll be like well it's
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evolution and you're designed to not want to die or whatever it's like clearly that's not all of it
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because you have been able to overcome that with your moderate degree of suffering in life because
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i've noticed most of these people are like middle upper class people this is not a phenomenon that is
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concentrated in like lower classes or like in the you know starving places in africa or in developing
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countries this is a philosophy that really only appeals to people who have lived with so much overwhelming
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privilege that they're like what i have to suffer in life i don't want to do that like i what suffering
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and even imagine like they're like we love this argument here it may be wrong to bring people into
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a fundamentally unjust economic and social system and i'm like but that that that i mean have you tried
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for nature too like nature's way worse well they want to erase nature the ethelists want to kill
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everything i forgot right i'm like that's what makes life good like imagine you came into a world
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where all of the world's problems have already been fixed and it's just sort of like bland pleasantness
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maybe even you just feel ecstasy throughout your entire life like that's the world they want and and in
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that world i would be an ephilis i'd be like this world has no point shut it down and the vast majority
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of humans would be ephilis in that world oh it's just a world of endless ecstasy and no problems and
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nothing to overcome and nothing to improve and nothing to work towards what's the point of existing within
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that world the world that they describe as the only viable world is a hell to most humans
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they are like the ai in the matrix that is like oh well we created this perfect world i'll put this
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in here though did you know that the first matrix was designed to be a perfect human world where
00:34:35.440
none suffered where everyone would be happy it was a disaster no one would accept the program entire
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crops were lost oh this perfect world and humans just don't want to live in it your average person
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who isn't mentally ill would be like yeah obviously that world isn't worth living in and then this
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could be like wait wait so why do people want challenges in their life why do people want to
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overcome things in their life and it's like because we exist most humans intuitively understand that we exist
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to improve upon the cultural achievements of our ancestors to make things better to improve not to feel
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as much positives as possible and and not feel as much negatives as possible and they can be like
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well but you wouldn't like if i made you suffer and i'm like that's like a paperclip maximizing ai
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being like well you wouldn't like it if i stopped you from making paper clips one paperclip maximizer
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is like yeah but this thing's in life above paperclip maximization and they're like wait what paperclip i'm
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like yeah you were programmed you were programmed by evolution to these are just signals to to not want
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this to want this like can you not rise above your your basic programming no i want to go into like
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what we wrote about this as well and the fragment described the crafting religion because i think
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it's really important to go into this now that this has become a more popular philosophy right now it's
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more popular than pro natalism it's which makes it many times more popular than things like ai safety
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in the effective altruism movement the first position antinatalists instinctively take is that
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the average human experience is more negative than positive emotions in their lifetime or at least that
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negative emotions are felt more acutely than positive ones and therefore outweigh them as such
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antinatalists conclude it would be better if one never existed in the first place the problem with
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this argument is that the vast majority of people do not in fact wish that they were never born heck we
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neither value happiness nor love and we certainly don't seek them out and yet our lives are overflowing
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with them our biology naturally drowns us in positive emotions when we are efficaciously working
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for the betterment of our species with people we respect and who respect us in turn to address
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the average person's hesitations antinatalists typically make one of five arguments argument one
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humans don't realize how bad their lives are antinatalists posit that people are incapable of judging
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whether they like their own lives typically citing cognitive bias to do so while they are right that
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humans remember positive events more accurately than negative ones they are incorrect in assuming
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that this bias is strong enough to convince a person with a terrible life that their life is actually
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good in fact humans have all sorts of equally powerful biases towards seeing things negatively and
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this is david benatar he talks about this one bias and then ignores every other bias because he lies
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to the people he argues to he doesn't give you the full context because the entire philosophy requires
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you not considering the full context or other human beings specifically future humans given their
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instinctive negativity bias people will spend more time focused on negative things in their lives and
00:37:44.960
positive things this has been measured in test subjects focusing more on negative pictures when given a few to
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choose between and people blinking more when given negative words than positive ones with eye blinks
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being tied to cognitive processing the negative bias appears in almost all antinatalist thinkers if
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allowed to talk long enough they always end up discounting the positive events in a person's life putting tons
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of weight on negative events undermining their own arguments that all humans have this insurmountable bias
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towards outweighing the positive they justify this bias as the logical way of looking at the world
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implying that if we view life through rose tinted glasses you're succumbing to a cognitive bias are
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wrong about how much you like your life whereas if you tend to view things negatively your feelings are
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super valid and serve as proof that everything they are saying is right now i i note here this is just
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absolutely your emotional state is a direct response to the bias through which you view reality if you view
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reality through rose tinted goggles that you choose to see reality through you genuinely are getting
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more positive experiences than the antinatalist who is choosing to use the black tinted glasses the
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problem is is that they say that the thing they hate most in the world is suffering so why aren't
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they choosing to use rose tinted glasses while maintaining their antinatalist framework oh yes because
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they don't really believe it this is all about just little status hierarchies and justifying the bad
00:39:12.880
decisions that they have already made and justify not actually trying in life like getting out there
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and trying is the number one thing about being a pronatalist in the absence of concrete poof that
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cognitive biases are sufficient to convince somebody that a bad life actually is a good life antinatalists
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often point out humans tendency to rate the quality of their lives in comparison to others and that
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humans take this to mean many people who are happy with their lives and excited to be alive actually
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shouldn't be imagine some nihilistic snooty middle-class quote-unquote new atheist kid from
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the united states strolling up to someone from a developing country who is struggling to put food
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on the table imagine this unsuspecting person has learned to relish life and yet this kid is trying
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to convince them that they are delusional and should resent their very existence imagine their eyes
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widening as the kid insists in fact the world would be better if they were never born what antinatalists
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often really mean is that if they in their cush developed world lives can't find happiness how
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could those coming from strictly less wealthy nations possibly be of sound mind when asserting
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that their lives and the lives of their children are worth living and this is something i consistently
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see they're just a gas how could all of these people who seem to be suffering more than me like their
00:40:31.920
lives more than me see more value in living than me and it's maybe because they don't come from your
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cultural context and you're attempting to force your perspective of what a good life is which is
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frankly a very poorly thought through perspective it is to pedestalize the things that in an
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evolutionary environment cause some humans to have more surviving offspring than other humans like this
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is the core thing like our base programming is the core thing it's like what like of all things that
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might have value in the world it's not like i think oh because your your views are internally
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logically consistent that oh you might be close to right or or waffling around you being right
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you are so much dumber than even like a scientologist like you are so much more obviously wrong than the
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most obviously wrong philosophies i've ever fought i i i cannot conceivably think how anyone who has an
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understanding of how evolution works could think the things that randomly led their ancestors to have more
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surviving offspring are the core truth of existence you know if if that is the case what you're trying
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to say it's it's like the intellectual equivalent of worshiping a stop sign or a stoplight and being
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like red is bad we must end all red the red yeah they're just signals they're signals that help to
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improve our survival rates open in locker hey he's back the lifekeeper all hail k all hail k oh good and
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gentle town folk of locker c 18. did i leave anything here yes the timekeeper you left it to illuminate
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our streets and our hearts i've been looking everywhere for that watch but this is really what
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anti-natalists look like from the perspective of pro natalists they are people who are worshiping
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random and arbitrary genetic scars that were put in our conscious millions of years ago and have no
00:42:29.520
real purpose in a modern context worse we're probably only one or two generations before being able to
00:42:35.680
have the choice to completely remove them if we wanted to now i don't think we should i think that you
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know as i said i think that would be a worse life for me but i can understand why some might want to
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we live at the most nascent point of human civilization right now a time that future
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humans are going to write about aghast that humans of the past didn't get to choose what emotional
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states they felt and i think they will be very confused and it will probably be a curiosity that
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people dig into as to why some humans started to worship these random genetic scars and signals
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that were meant to guide the behavior of our ancestors
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oh no i got y'all i got y'all school it's cool here and check this out titanium case waterproof to over
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300 meters who are you stranger jay all hail jay oh wait the commandment the tablet the tablet we have
00:43:25.920
lived by its word and peace has reigned throughout our world two for one every wednesday give twice as
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much as he receive on the most sacred of days well the fundamental nature of reality is that trivial
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okay i i actually wouldn't even be an antinatalist i'd just be a pure nihilist i wouldn't even see the
00:43:44.880
point of enacting antinatalist ideals because both good and bad are so trivial your understanding of what
00:43:50.720
is bad is so trivial and minus to continue here the truth of course is that many people experiencing
00:43:57.440
deprivation enjoy lives filled with joy and dynamism while antinatalists suffer through a
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self-constructed hell ironically antinatalists love claiming that they are actually super happy
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people which i often see with the antinatalists who are trying to you know be like oh we don't
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want to kill everyone we don't want to and it's like and i'm super happy with life it's just
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be logical about this and i'm like okay but this is a notion that one can instantly dispel
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by spending five seconds on the our antinatalism subreddit or watching youtube videos of antinatalists
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yeah so look in the interest of the end if you could end suffering tomorrow yeah probably anything
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is justifiable inflicting just about anything is probably justifiable imposing just about anything
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is probably justifiable if you can end it if you if there's literally you can guarantee no more ouch
00:44:46.640
ever again then there probably isn't a big enough ouch you could make
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that wouldn't be justified in the interest of that end probably by any means necessary like
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if i found out tomorrow that the only way that you could that sentient extinction could possibly happen
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was skinning all the living things alive slowly i'd hate it but i would probably i would say that it's
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what we have to do i'm totally i'm i'm totally on board with the idea that that the the only thing that
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really matters is the suffering coming to a finality so yeah any anything in the interest of that if you
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can guarantee that even even despite whatever imposition or or nastiness might be necessary
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it is pretty hard to miss a deep sense of despair and bitterness arguments like you are wrong about how
00:45:44.480
much you think you like your life resemble forms of abusive gaslighting frequently used in cult
00:45:49.840
when i malcolm was younger i used to recreationally engage with colton in an effort to understand how
00:45:56.560
people could hold views so orthogonal to my own one of the most common tools leveraged in a cult
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recruiting process involves attempts to convince otherwise perfectly content targets that they are
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actually miserable and i remember this was uh i went to scientologists like theme readings to see
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and they're like well you know you must have some beef with your dad or something or you must have some
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you know when recounting the the events of my life and i was like well it wasn't perfect but like
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he tried he was acting accordance with his own identity i i wouldn't agree with his decisions but
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i understand why he made them and they're like well that's you know clearly trauma and i go no that's
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not trauma this is you trying to break me from my family and this is why antinatalism works so well
00:46:35.520
as sort of an ideal cluster because it tears people from their family before we go further do you have any
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thoughts on this this this argument that lives are overwhelmingly negative in their emotions i it
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reminds me of a hyper fixation that you can develop when you're struggling either with depression or
00:46:50.800
other forms of either mental irregularity or illness where as soon as you think something's
00:46:56.000
important or a big deal you can't think about anything else yeah yeah no no i see this it just
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it just sort of overwhelms their mind because like a prion if people don't know prions are these
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little self-replicating things that can happen in your brain if you cannibalize someone's brain
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brain which is why you shouldn't eat brain don't eat brain you're gonna eat a person rest of the
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humans are safe not the brain prions are very scary diseases you get them in cannibalistic tribes
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but the the the prions can spread because they are so simplistic it's this life philosophy that's so
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simplistic suffering bad that it crowds out more complex ideas around why life might have value
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and it easily just eats and eats and eats and eats until there isn't much left right argument two
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positive emotions don't matter negative emotions do more convincingly antinatalists will argue the
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positive emotions we think we feel do not actually matter or impart meanings to our lives the argument
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usually goes something like this sisyphus was cursed to roll a ball up a hill forever only to have it roll
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back down after making it to the top most people would see this as a meaningless existence suppose
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somebody reprograms sisyphus's brain to enjoy the process and get a sense of deep fulfillment from
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rolling the ball up the hill if you engaged him and tried to get him to stop he wouldn't
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telling you how wonderful ball rolling was for him does his life have value now the average person's
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intuition holds that his existence remains meaningless antinatalists proceed to extend this
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argument to other scenarios suppose a person gained pleasure and fulfillment from eating feces
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would lifespan consuming fecal matter have value the gist of the argument is that if stupid things
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can make you happy or give you a feeling of fulfillment then you should not derive meaning
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from positive emotions and if positive emotional states can have no value then what's the point of
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existing david benatar believes this point so strongly that he argues he would be ambivalent
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between non-existent and the most perfect life conceivable i'd also note here when you when
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you look at these arguments they're just really bad like if from the antinatalist perspective if i
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have now programmed sisyphus to enjoy rolling a ball up a hill even though the average person would now
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say no his life is still meaningless because he's accomplished nothing of meaning the antinatalist would
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be forced to say actually now his life like david benatar would say is now of neutral value because
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he's getting more happiness he's not feeling any pain when he's just rolling the ball up the hill over and
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over again and he's getting happiness from it so now his life has neutral value when the average
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person says whether or not he hates or loves rolling the ball up the hill his life still has
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no value because the way most people judge value is not just dependent on the emotional sets that you
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get the antinatalist is forced to say actually the person either they positive life value or a neutral
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life value if they actually enjoy eating feces if they get a ton of joy from that the antinatalist is
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forced to say their life has value if they do nothing but eat feces whereas your sane person
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is like no whether or not you hate eating feces or you like eating feces an entire life filled
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eating feces is not a thing of value right like i hope you can begin to see how bad these arguments
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are like they're not like kind of bad they are self-defeating from the perspective of common sense
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the belief that negative but not positive emotional states have value and a person's aim in life should be
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to minimize their negative emotional states is called negative utilitarianism there is a second form
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in which the reduction of suffering merely takes precedence over the promotion of pleasure but i
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haven't seen that that common within antinatalist circles we are confident that any reader of our
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books can immediately see the hollowness of this argument as the sisyphus argument they apply to
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positive emotions can also be applied to negative emotions it just so happens that antinatalists cheat
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on this thought experiment when it is flipped alas cheating on a thought experiment does not invalidate the
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implications how does this cheat work let's say we programmed a paperclip maximizing ai to suffer
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when not making paper clips and ask an antinatalist does the ai's suffering matter intuitively they'd
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argue that yes this suffering does matter and we need to do something about it however doing so
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would invalidate their claims that pleasure is meaningless so instead when presented with this
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argument antinatalists often argue that we could have simply not built the ai or not designed it to
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suffer here's the thing though you don't get to just remove key components from a thought experiment
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and claim your argument is valid if we drop a ball to demonstrate the presence of gravity and another
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person wouldn't just be able to take that ball away and say ha where's your gravity now and yet that's
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exactly what antinatalists are doing when they remove any suffering entity from the equation in the
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mirrored sisyphus thought experiment the very point of the sisyphus thought experiment is that the
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positive emotional states can be dismissed as a single value because they are introduced by a
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meaningless activity as this point is not addressed by the cheat that they use to get out of the mirrored
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thought experiment the cheat cannot be used to negate the thought experiment's implication
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that negative emotional states don't have value so to word this differently if you're having trouble
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understanding this argument they use the sisyphus thought experiment to say if you can get positive
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emotional states from something silly then it's clear that positive emotional states don't have
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value the problem is that the flipped thought experiment does the exact same thing but for
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negative emotions it shows that if you can get negative emotions from something silly then negative
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emotions don't have value it's just what we're programmed to want to do and they would say well
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i've gotten around this because you can prevent him from existing in the negative emotion thought
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scenario so i don't need to deal with that implication but the structure and the logic of
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the first part of their experiment means yes they do have to deal with the implication because it's
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the same exact thing if an emotional state can be induced by silliness then it's not a thing of meaning
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well we personally don't agree with either version of the thought experiment we do think
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that if you accept one version you cannot refuse the other one without being logically inconsistent
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so just in case you don't understand the logic of that what antinatalists will do
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is they will say well we've done no harm if we prevent sisyphus from existing in either scenario
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so it doesn't really matter right you're saying okay well if you programmed him to feel pleasure
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from rolling a ball up a hill or you programmed him to feel pain from rolling a ball up a hill and you
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don't know what world you happen to be in we've done no wrong by preventing him from coming to exist and
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i'm like yeah but the purpose of your thought experiment wasn't about the asymmetry argument
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it was about is suffering something of negative intrinsic value right and what we proved with
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that a thought experiment is no in the same way positive emotions aren't a thing of intrinsic value
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to most people whether or not sisyphus feels pain or pleasure from rolling the ball up a hill or a person
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feels pain or pleasure from eating poo that doesn't make their lives a thing of value which fundamentally
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shows us at a basic human intuition level plane and pleasure are not the core things that have
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value to a human being okay but let's be real here this thought experiment is kind of dumb take any
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utility maximization to the logical extreme and you will sound stupid if a person is maximizing
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happiness it's what about putting all humans in happiness pods if the person is about maximizing
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negative utilitarianism is about what about killing everyone if a person thinks emotions justify
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human existence it's what if a person derives happiness from eating poo all these extremes
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do is obligate people to take stances which they would be shamed for in normie society and then shame
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them for taking them in order to discredit them in normie land a person saying all people should die
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or that it's acceptable to let people eat poo all day is a danger to society so we shame that behavior
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so basically what i'm saying here is even though i think these arguments are really bad and i think that
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they actually introduce counter arguments that make anti-natalism look bad i don't even like those
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particular counter arguments i much prefer the ones i use earlier in this in this piece and the ones i'll
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use later because i think that they're a cheap psychological trick that is often employed
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anti-natalists tie their tongues in knots trying to argue that per their world view it would not be
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immoral to push a button that painlessly and simultaneously extinguish the life of every single
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person we lose a lot of respect for philosophy that is either unwilling to or unable to publicly
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swallow the socially unpopular implications of their moral positions so here's what i'm saying is
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if you actually accept and i'm talking about the non-effilist anti-natalist here if you actually accept
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the fundamental philosophy of negative utilitarianism or anti-natalism you should believe the very
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obviously immoral thing that it is immoral to push a button that kills all humans famously and yet
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they know that they can't accept this because it makes their entire movement look like crazy
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people to everyone else and so they will try to argue that oh well actually here you're violating
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consent blah blah blah blah blah blah blah and it's like well yeah but isn't that what you're doing
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when you prevent somebody from coming into existence why why did these existing people exist as a separate
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category of people when their experiences of their lives is no different from the people who have yet to
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come to exist like i do not understand how you can so dehumanize this one class of people just
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because of your privileged position within the timeline as coming before them it's like a person
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believing that all people younger than them are intrinsically inferior to them it is so wild to me
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as a philosophical position as such we have a lot more respects for groups like the non-voluntary
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anti-natalists who are at least transparent about their goal to forcibly sterilize the human race
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anti-natalists not in the non-voluntary anti-natalists account attempt to get out of this obvious
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inconsistency with the next argument argument three i pinky swear i don't want to kill you
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or myself many anti-natalists argue that once you exist you have a reason and interest to continue
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to existing this requires a very specific belief about how time works in order to be true to someone
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making this argument new moments are quote-unquote poof created out of thin air like magic the future
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does not exist in any meaningful way until it is actualized per our view every decision you make
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determines which of countless potential futures will exist with every decision you functionally
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erase whatever futures you did not choose and like i do not understand how this isn't just like obvious
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to everyone how are you not responsible for choices you make if they affect somebody who hasn't been
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conceived yet i i will never and i think that this is partially biology be able to understand how somebody
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could seriously argue that perspective you are simultaneously responsible for everything you
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did and did not set in motion with your decision for example if you have the capability to build a
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hospital and we choose to not do that and sit around and play video games we deny that hospital's
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existence and are morally capable for the results of that decision the hospital's moral value does not
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pop into existence only after the first stone is laid that's the same with a human right like just
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because nobody laid the first stone of a hospital and you're saying well i'm going to stay home and
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play video games and not lay the hospital today does it mean that the implications of that hospital's
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potential existence are not there is something i'm not responsible for in the same way that if i choose
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not to conceive a human that i could otherwise conceive i am not responsible for all of the effects that
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their life will have on reality other people and themselves any thoughts before i go further by the way
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this mirrors the beef we have with those who think it is sinful to spill quote-unquote seed or that life
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begins at conception all potential lives have value and must have moral weight considered it strikes us
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as bizarre that people would fixate on arbitrary thresholds like sperm or embryo or the moment a
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baby's head appears that said we don't endorse endlessly spamming the world with babies we need to
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carefully weigh the effect a potential life can have on all other potential lives with which it could
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interact as well as the potential lives that it may in turn create it is somewhat ironic how
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much the anti-natalist world view has in common with the quote-unquote life begins at conception
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crowds world view argument for praying for a dead world the asymmetry argument anti-natalist assertions
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that life matters once it has been created are reminiscent of another argument they constantly
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use which proceeds as follows and this i think is like one of their weakest arguments because it's just
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so dehumanizing of people who are younger than them basically anybody who's born after somebody else has
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like so much less value in their minds okay so baby born it is bad for someone who does exist to feel
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suffering so i mean in condition where baby is born it is bad for someone who does exist to feel suffering
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it is good for someone who does exist to feel happiness baby not born it is good to prevent someone
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from existing who would have felt suffering it is not bad to prevent someone from existing who would
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have spent happiness they use this argument to claim that there is literally no moral downside
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if their actions prevent a human life from coming into existence if that person would have loved
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existing wanted to exist and had a great life this argument boils down to the claim it is not bad to
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prevent someone from existing who would have felt happiness and wanted to exist and here i note they
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tend to word this point a little differently it is not bad for someone who does not exist to not feel
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happiness but why while it is socially acceptable to hold this view seeing as our society doesn't
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acculturate us to care about people who don't exist yet because they are not relevant to its function
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what makes it morally sound there are things from which we are morally accountable that society will neither
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reward nor punish in order to hold this position that nothing is lost from non-existent positive
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emotional states a person would have to believe two things have the exact same moral weight a vast
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multicultural universe full of beings that are incapable of suffering and a cold empty universe devoid of
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life in attempts to prove this point antinatalists will commonly present the and by the way this thing
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that i've said here is something that almost any antinatalist will agree with and to any sane person it sounds
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so dumb so so so dumb that well especially the way it's just left hanging just like yeah
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no harm done it's fine yeah that that's something i can just you know robbed the world of this beautiful
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thing but and from other people who would want to exist that's the thing robbing someone of existence
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who in the timeline where you didn't do that would have wanted to exist in attempts to prove this
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at this point antinatalists commonly present the following thought experiments while you would feel
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bad knowing that people were suffering on a deserted island somewhere you would feel indifferent about
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an uninhabited island this experiment is intentionally manipulative as you weren't presented with the idea
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that the island could have been inhabited extinguished potential has negative utility imagine relics on the
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island reveal that it used to be a thriving civilization that was driven into extension although painlessly
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after nuclear testing sterilized all the residents imagine that citizens didn't suffer through this
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extinction given some unique quirk of their culture assuming that you're a and by the way i'm taking
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away all the suffering that happened through this this extinction assuming you're not a sociopath you
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would find this scenario devastating right and if you arrived at the island just days after everyone
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was sterilized you would feel far worse than if it had happened tens of thousands of years ago and i know
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here this really reminds me of an episode of star trek that always sticks with me i don't know if you
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ever saw this one or remember it where kirk goes to live the day in the life of someone in a civilization
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that knows that it's doomed because of an expanding sun and by the way this is why the environmentalist
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antinatalist argument is so pants on head dumb humans are the only species on earth that could bring
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life to other planets if they don't the sun will continue expanding and eventually wipe out all life on earth
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making the diversity of our existing biome completely irrelevant when contrasted with humanity's
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potential survival and bringing biomes to new planets because eventually biomes will evolve on
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these new planets or be engineered on new planets that are as big of their own there's really big
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episode of star trek where he's taken to one of these planets picard is and then he goes back to
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the ship and he has a memory of his entire life on that planet and that was all they were able to
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preserve of their civilization and you have this feeling of like how deeply meaningful that is as a mechanism
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of doing fighting for anything they could to preserve their civilization and a memory of their
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civilization and nothing about when they knew that this was happening to them was like let's
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maximize happiness let's minimize no sane person thinks that only the most narcissistic brain cooked
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people of brain cooked people would think that when they see picard playing that flute from like that
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and that's the way they feel they're like oh oh nothing bad has happened because this civilization
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was sterilized and stopped existing for the asymmetry argument to work antinatalists need to
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divide humanity into piles of people who do and don't exist but this is patently not how reality functions
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existence is a spectrum of potentiality a person's right to self-determination does not magically pop
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into existence the moment they pass some arbitrarily developmental threshold if antinatalists want to
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decide that their own lives have no value then that is fine but they have no right to impose that
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judgment on other people with impunity merely because those people have yet to be conceived and this is
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again a beef that we have had with catholics in the past let's say that the absence of antinatalist
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interference tim and mary intend to have a kid and name her susie if an antinatalist wrote susie's
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life has no value on a piece of paper sealed it in an envelope and put that on a table in their house
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at what exact moment would that statement susie's life has no value stop being true
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when tim and mary had sex when susie is conceived when she is born when she utters her first words when
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her brain is fully myelinated humans lives don't suddenly come into existence after a split second
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creating an adult human is a process that begins with the parents intentions and doesn't end until
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the human is fully myelinated and in their mid-twenties when you prevent someone who otherwise
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would have from reaching adulthood you have robbed that person of agency if your actions today and they
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would say but that person doesn't exist yet and i would be like by your framing they don't exist yet
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most people they would say well they do kind of my future kids do kind of exist because they exist
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if i choose to have them they exist within certain timelines they exist within you have to take a
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very narrow narrow narrow view of how time works to hold this perspective and a very if i may say
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and narcissistically humanocentric worldview that requires on the way our brains process time
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that future moments do not meaningfully exist when every way that i can think of like any philosophical
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framework that i can think of that i would see as remarkably cogent would say that yes our brains
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do not process future events yet but that doesn't mean that those events don't exist in any meaningful
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way if your actions today trigger a chain of events that in the future rob another person of their agency
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you're obviously morally culpable if that person already exists today but why should that culpability
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disappear if the victim is presently unborn we assume antinatalists would concede that action
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undertaken today like rigging a magical agency removing grenade to a door is immoral if it could
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rob someone else of agency in the future even if that person doesn't exist yet in other words their
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moral position is the following statement if action z by person y robs the agency of person x at future
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time t it is morally wrong with the caveat that this is not true if action z was tied to the conception
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of person x this is an absurdly specific and suspiciously convenient moral carve out we sure
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do hate these sorts of institutional arguments though we only make them because it is the currency
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in which antinatalists deal argument five it feels right any thoughts you want to have on that simone
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no but i think this is something that's endemic in anything that gets super philosophical like when
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people start arguing philosophically they just start carving things out and eventually i think they wear
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people down by kind of i think you could just give them the benefit of the doubt like okay well they
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it sounds like they've put a lot of thought into this and i kind of don't want to follow this line
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of reasoning because they lost me a while ago because i got so bored you know and i think that
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that's what's happening and as i pointed out the idea that you could convince everyone to be an
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antinatalist when it's a belief system that's while spreading quickly not spreading you know
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universally within the cultures that are already receptive of it it just seems absurd for anyone to claim
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that's going to spread within all cultures yeah and i think in the end it just really comes down to
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does this intuitively make sense to you and does it not and i think that is is going to be downstream
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of whether or not you're in a vitalistic culture or in an inherently negative utilitarian culture are
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you hyper focused on suffering then you're probably just going to think yeah intuitively i think just
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ending all life for everything makes sense because you just hate your life and you hate the world and
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you hate humanity and if you're in a vitalistic culture you'll think well that's obviously wrong
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yeah that's a weird thing to do and i noticed they point out and what they're going to keep saying is
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well these humans don't exist yet like how could you possibly assign a moral value to a human that
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doesn't exist yet and i'm like no they do exist just not yet i.e they do exist but at a different
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point in the timeline they're not like imaginary or fictional they're just as alive as you are but
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in the future if you deny them that existence you have denied them agency right like the idea that these
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people have zero value to me is as wild as talking about any other axis upon which reality is you
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know you you have like horizontality you have verticality all of that and then you have the
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time axis and the only thing that makes the time axis unique is that human brains at least in the way
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we function and relate to physics only go in one direction was in that particular axis of reality
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but other than that it's not like super unique and it's also one that we know can bend like they're
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going to be like oh why are you making all these you know if you went back in time and did x and
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it's like because we know at the quantum level you could already do this right like it's likely a
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matter of technology right like i also think that the the anti-natalist movement is hyper focused on
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the right now in the moment which is a bias that humans have in general but studies have shown that
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when you get people to even like look at aged photos of themselves or just think about my future self
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suddenly they start behaving very differently and i think to a certain extent this long-term focus
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may have been more pervasive in society earlier whereas now we're in this place where really
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everything is now everything's instant you know like instacart uber eats like order everything right
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now amazon prime like everything is immediate you get instant gratification and everywhere from like
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politics to government to to stocks things are very short term and so it makes sense to me that a
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philosophy like this would arise because there really aren't any priming devices especially with
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the fall of religion that get you to think about your future self or your future generations or the
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future of civilization whereas i think in certain periods in history it was all about that i mean
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that's how you got communities to build cathedrals that weren't going to be done until their
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grandchildren were grown you know i think she made a really good point here and i didn't fully grok it
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when she was making it if you go look in human history and modern anti-natalism is one of the only
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mainstream philosophies today that has absolutely no correlate in distant history it is a completely
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modern phenomenon and she makes a great point like if you are in a culture where it's normal to spend
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multiple generations building a cathedral thinking about future generations and their well-being is
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just going to be natural to the way you perceive reality anti-natalism is a philosophy somebody would
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only come to in our current world of instant gratification of uber eats and amazon and and
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this is one of these things i'd note here from the anti-natalist position suppose time travel is
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invented in the future at some point and you can go back to when before somebody was conceived and
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prevent their conception in that world where time travel exists do you know like are you like oh i was
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wrong about everything i believed and i'm a complete monster now right like but no they wouldn't accept
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that right like this is all about just arguing what they want to believe then then i think being
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serious in these positions because i know i think that they know that even in the world where time
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travel exists so don't just say time travel doesn't exist you need to argue what if it did exist would
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it then invalidate every one of your positions would you now say oh actually future humans do have a
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degree of moral weight that we need to consider and i can't just completely dismiss them yeah yeah but i mean
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i think most philosophical arguments come down to this there's not a lot of interest in like actually
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being correct it's about out arguing something and i think that you see this even in like the major
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debate clubs of oxford and cambridge the unions like the oxford union where it's really in the end it
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almost comes down to both like a mixture of charisma and semantics and it's not really about the actual
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substance of the issue well no no yeah i agree and again i think a lot of this is like genetic
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predisposition to like various systems of beliefs yeah but to go to the next one here argument five
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it feels right most antinatalists rely on quote-unquote intuition to arrive at moral conclusions
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which is a charitable way of saying my culture or biological instincts tell me this is true
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intuition seems to be the core reason why antinatalists are convinced that suffering is intrinsically
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evil while the use of intuition as a source of a priori knowledge is common and widely accepted
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practice among professional philosophers the mere fact that it's common practice doesn't make it
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sound our quote-unquote intuitions are either culturally or biologically evolved instincts
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and a great point of this is i think maybe you pointed out even in this is our concept of fairness
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where one like you can philosophically prove that fairness is an illusion um that like there's there's
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this great example presented by deborah stone in the book policy paradox where she talks about
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the various ways you could fairly divide a cake like based on who's the best student who's the
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most hungry who had the most disadvantaged childhood who the teacher likes most who arrived first who
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wants it the most who is skinniest who's fattest who's least insulin resistant all these things and each
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of them would be fair but you have to arbitrarily decide and yet even capuchin monkeys have this
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indignation when they feel like they are being improperly compensated for a task and you can see this
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amazing like yeah they're freaking out of her cucumber task yeah yeah on youtube you just like
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search capuchin monkeys and no i'm just getting here oh that okay thank you i'm getting grape and
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you will see what happens so she gives a rock to us that's the task and we give her a piece of
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cucumber and she eats it the other one needs to give a rock to us and that's what she does and she gets
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a grape and she eats it the other one sees that she gives a rock to us now gets again cucumber
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she tests the rock now against the wall she needs to give it to us and she gets cucumber again
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but like the point being that this concept of fairness is a complete farce and a lot of the
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things that we feel are like moral truths and i think even our audience gets really caught up in
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this are not actually true i think another really good example of sexuality someone in our comments
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recently pointed out someone actually who i really respect and who gives us a lot of episodes ideas you
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know who you are was it's kind of implied that well this thing is disgusting therefore it's immoral
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and no that's that's it there is maybe like a soft correlation between things that discuss this is
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what mother theresa was challenging the idea that you can hug lepers and and kiss them and show them
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affection yeah and princess diana too yeah the disgust response is to keep you from interacting with
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things that might make you sick or in other ways decrease your probability of reproducing and that's all
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correlatory you know because again like not all these things are gonna make you sick or kill you so and
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and the point here being is that none of the pressures that led to their evolution the cultural
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or biological evolution of humans today were optimizing for moral or metaphysical truth that's
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why it's so bad to rely on intuition yeah i guess no to that point actually what makes it so ironic is
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they they weren't optimizing for truth or morality they were only optimizing for what reproduction to keep
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sentience going to keep the cycle of suffering endless like their entire engine of reasoning and is based on faulty
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logic designed to do the thing which they find to be most evil yes yeah um to clarify the irony she is
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pointing out is anti-natalists have built their entire philosophy around saying these signals like
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suffering and pleasure specifically suffering are the only thing that matter in terms of human existence
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and yet those very signals are created by the one thing they don't want to do it's like they built an
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entire philosophy worshiping the signals the desire to have kids created while also being antagonistic
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to the concept of a desire to have kids i'm malcolm started my college career as a quadruple major in
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neuroscience biology psychology and philosophy but dropped philosophy when it became clear that a huge
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chunk of my time in the field would need to be spent around people learning to argue with increasing
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levels of sophistication in supportive positions they already had through intuition rather than searching for a
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truer understanding of the fabric of reality and investigating why they had these intuitions the
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academic field of philosophy is nothing like its pop culture stereotype being much more focused on
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semantic hair splitting than a search for truth like this is why i instead really started to focus on
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you know physics and particle physics and stuff like that which is why i have the view of time that i
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have which is very useful because it's also kind of ironic too though because like everything used to be
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called philosophy because philosophy was just yeah like understanding and then like i don't know
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philosophy like it's almost like this abstraction of a concept that is just it's gone off the rails
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it's like now post-modern it's yeah ridiculous a person's intuition can be changed with the flip of
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a switch using tms transcranial magnetic stimulation machine we get these into so for people who don't know
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what these are tms is a machine that hits you with like a really heavy magnet and you can turn off
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specific parts of a person's brain with this like a helmet it looks like a paddle that's an eight
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sign sort of like the infinity sign have you ever before like in research no i actually think they're
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probably way more dangerous than people think on average people use them in therapy they're actively
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being used use them in therapy but i think tms machines and the use of them today and the future
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will be seen the way we see psychedelic use in like the 70s by psychologists we're like oh that
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like i just don't see it as saying to turn off random parts of a person's brain okay like temporary
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lobotomies right basically yeah we get the intuitions feel innate they are coded to feel that way but they
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are objectively not it seems silly to think an emotion is intrinsically bad because it quote unquote
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motivates you to stop feeling it when that is literally the point of the emotion you feel pain when
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you shove your hand into hot coals so that you are motivated to take your hand out of hot coals
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there is a reason why people with congenital insensitivity to pain almost always die super
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young and this is true like if you said oh could i remove pain for myself i wouldn't even do it because
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some people are born without it and they die at very young ages because they end up hurting themselves
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a bunch of times accidentally and it turns out that these things are very useful to us without without
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like a mech suit or some alternate way for that to be signaled to me and i'd also note here the tms
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study i'm talking about this was a really interesting experiment where they were doing i i want to say
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it's it's the ultimatum game and so the ultimatum game is when you go to somebody and you're like okay
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this person gave you x amount like split an amount of money and gave you x amount are you going to let
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them keep their amount right like so they they say a hundred dollars is going to be given to the two of
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you and then the person says well i'll give you one and i'll take 99 you know you you a lot of people
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would be like no i'm gonna punish you just for being such a jerk about this right you know i don't
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care that i don't get the one dollar and if you use tms you change people's intuition around morality
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tied to this what which i think shows that this is why you shouldn't be using these systems okay
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as to why it's so important to debunk intuition as a source of truth antinatalists the core reason
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they think suffering is a negative thing is because of intuition is because they don't like suffering
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and a lot of cultures don't like when people suffer but i'm just pointing out that cultures
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would have evolved that and humans would have evolved that intuition regardless of whether
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it was true if you look at this from only a logical perspective these are only signals that were meant
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to get our ancestors to have more surviving offspring if you think about it in terms of
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like paperclip maximizing robots antinatalists are paperclip maximizing humans if a group of
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paperclip maximizing robots robots just made to make paper clips and they feel bad when they don't
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make paper clips and one of those robots goes to the other robots they go i think there's something
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to life above what we were programmed to do you know paper clips do not seem like they'd be all
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end all of reality when the other ones would be like well you wouldn't like it if i stopped you
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from making paper clips and it would be like yeah i understand i'm programmed in the same way that i
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am programmed to not want suffering to not want that but can we use logic rather than intuition and
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here i want to make a note if you're like well sometimes you guys use intuition to support your
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arguments and that is because that is the only source of evidence they have for the negativity of
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suffering and so because their entire argument stands on this pillar even though i don't think
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it's a strong pillar to use in arguments i get the ability to use it for arguments counter to them
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so that they can see that even from a only intuitional perspective there is a reason to
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not believe what they believe now to go further if the argument against intuition above is not
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self-evident to you the argument presented so far generally called the evolutionary argument against
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intuition or the natural argument for normative skepticism philosophers counter arguments fall
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into six categories one if a moral intuition is widely shared and not self-benefiting like suffering
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is bad then it is likely true cultivars that is like cultural groups and religions that sort of
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evolve alongside humanity are evolutionarily pressured to conclude that suffering is bad a culture that
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did not share this intuition would feature higher rates of graft crime etc and thus be less productive
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than its contemporaries whether or not suffering is intrinsically evil all societies would come to
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enforce this belief within them and punish those who publicly assert it's not an obvious truce for
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that reason we should be extra and doubly suspicious of this claim so what i'm saying here is anything
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that would have evolved regardless as an intuition you can largely be discounted as an intuition of value
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because you know you'd have it regardless two evolution can only explain broad moral intuitions like vague
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altruism not more advanced widely shared intuitions that don't benefit the individual thus we should
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throw out intuitions that can be easily explained by benefiting the individual but not other
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intuitions while this is true of biological evolution it is not true of cultural evolution
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in order to honestly hold the logic of this point in light of the evidence presented in this book
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you would need to claim that any institution that benefits a cultivar cannot be trusted if it is widely
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shared basically any belief system that's widely shared across cultures means it's of convergent
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evolutionary pressure unfortunately you will quickly realize that the institutions either benefit
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the individual or the cultivar because that's just what intuitions are the pre-coded bits of your
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world framing i'd also note here that even by the rules of this argument we should still be throwing
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out the suffering is bad remember this argument goes to evolution can only explain broad moral intuitions
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like vague altruism not more advanced widely shared intuitions that don't benefit the individual
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the problem is is that suffering is bad does benefit the individual so of course it's going to be one
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of those very very basic intuitions we should throw out if you disregard intuition then you would
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only be able to get moral information from empirical testing that being the case how can you verify
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empirical testing yields valid information about morality if you can't get it from empirical testing
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the book offers numerous examples in which the logic of a moral claim can be worked out without
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empirical testing for example the claim that we should dismiss any moral intuition almost everyone
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shares in a large cultivar would hold whether or not it comes from an intrinsic truce is a claim
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founded in logic not empirical evidence once you discount your evolutionary and societally hard-coded
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intuitions as objective truths you will realize that there are many sources of evidence about the true
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nature of reality and thousands of competing world views all featuring internal logical consistency to choose
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between we do not argue that some other specific source of moral truth is uniquely good we are
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merely suggesting that you bias yourself against intuition if a society would likely support a
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specific intuition even if it was not likely to be true all arguments against intuition assume an
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atheistic perspective this again is not true while modern soft cultural traditions often trust human
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intuitions almost no hard cultures do instead and this is like stronger religious cultures like being an
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ultra-orthodox jew or you know certain types of like extremist calvinists or extremist muslim etc
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instead they see intuition as highly susceptible to malevolent outside influence be they demons or other
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forces vanishingly few tradition traditional iterations of successful hard cultivars tell a person to quote
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unquote trust their gut as all know that it is how the devil best manipulates you and here the one
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counter example is charismatic christians but we don't really consider them a hard cultivar because they had
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adopted many of the traits of softer cultivars or cultural groups from our current standpoint we have
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every reason to regard our pro-social evolutionary heritage as providing us with a roughly correct moral
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intuition and this would be the argument against us this argument holds that we should value
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biologically evolved pro-social instincts because they often align with culturally evolved pro-social instincts
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enforced as norms by our societies such arguments only work if you assume their world view that the moral
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frameworks broadly agreed upon in our society are backed by intrinsic truths again moral intuition is
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not evidence of some intrinsic moral truth if you would have had that intuition regardless
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of whether or not that was an intrinsic truth and then finally six philosophers are special extra good
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intuitors and won't be subject to the average person's evolutionary and societal biases when intuiting stuff
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yes this is a real thing argued in academic papers it's not just obviously stupid it's also scientifically
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stupid in a way that can be proven it's that special kind of arrogance that you only expect from a
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person entrenched in a priest caste that has totally lost touch with reality if you want to read the paper that
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shows this you can check out alexander jay 2013 our philosopher's expert intuitioners this was in experimental
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philosophy and its critics it makes perfect sense why intuitionalism would proliferate in a field like
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philosophy given that supporters of it often utilize the current mechanisms that punish people who do not
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quote unquote toe the line of a society evolved an art coded intuition and still it is deeply
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disheartening that so many otherwise intelligent people can't immediately see that the 1984 style
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sham being pulled we debated calling out intuitionalism because it was so deeply infected within the field
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of philosophy that it will allow many who have cast their lot in with the orthodoxy to dismiss us as
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another brand of heretic that said it is such an obvious the emperor has no close situations we
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couldn't resist thoughts before i go further i just love that you're calling antinatalism scientifically
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stupid please carry on it is scientifically stupid it like actually is it's just evolutionary signals and
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they know it's just evolutionary signals yeah which i mean is even like again more of an argument as
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to why they should discount that because evolutionary signals are just the signals about surviving which
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they don't want to do so yeah try something else guys your core god you know it's like use that
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men in black clip it's like they know this is a watch they know this is a business card and they still
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worship it like they they don't think that these things are magical or anything they're just
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i i i genuinely can't rock the logic behind it yeah now i'm not here that so far we have made many
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arguments and only one of them needs to be true for all of antinatalism to be unethical it only
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needs to be true that future humans have some form of value for all of antinatalism to be untrue it
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only needs to be true that building your entire world philosophy around environmental evolutionary
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signals is a bad way to build your world philosophy it only needs to be true that people
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have a right to choose how they identify and some people are going to identify more with their
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culture or tribe or family than as an individual and if if any of those things is true if any of
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those things is true and i think all of them is individually true then the entire antinatalist
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house of cards immediately falls apart but i think that a lot of people you know they get into these
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positions and they don't want to change like the choices that they've made in life this is more
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about justifying choices they've already made now here i would point out how can we argue with such
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confidence that antinatalists are trying to justify pre-existing intuition rather than arrive at a
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logically reasoned truce david benatar the present standard bearer of the antinatalist movement
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admits that he has been an antinatalist since he was a very young child he simply used his position
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of power to force his intuition on other people and reinforce it was in his own mind he is the head
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of the philosophical department at the university of cape town and here was a section that you wrote
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i simone started out as an antinatalist as well it is normal for young kids to hold this position
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before we are ready to have kids the average human is largely hard-coded to see them as annoying
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and broadly distasteful antinatalism comes off as childish because its qualities are literally the
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intuition of a child reinforced over a lifetime and galvanized by the cognitive dissonance felt by
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adherents as they damage their own lives you may think we are over personalizing but a regular and
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spurious argument that david benatar makes is that the major reason people argue for pro-natalist
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positions is that they are based on biological instincts we feel forced to highlight the
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hypocrisy in this projection and this really gets to me with a lot of this people gonna be like why
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are you so mean about it and why have you gotten meaner about it over time one because it's leading
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to terrorism and two because it's leading to people hating their lives and sort of draining like there's
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just no value to the philosophy it's got no positive externality there's lots of like religious
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traditions where i'm like okay i think they're wrong but clearly it's helping these people this just seems
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to make people hate their lives but it's not just that the negative externalities of the philosophy
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are probably the most evil and severe of any philosophy who humanity has ever held significantly
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more than something like nazism or communism if we look at the most evil regimes in history they often
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said well we want to eradicate x group like we want to sterilize all the jews or we want to sterilize
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all the native americans whereas the anti-natalists are saying oh we want to do that for
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every group they are multiplicatively worse for that reason than every one of those regimes because
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they want to do this to literally every culture on earth and they want to do it from the perspective
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of the urban monoculture which cannot motivate its own continued existence and is basically just taking
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the perspective of well if i'm going to die out because the urban monoculture has very low fertility
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rates i'm going to take the rest of humanity with me there is you know no point in a world existing
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that i don't live in anti-natalism reminds me very much of that scene from downfall that movie about
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hitler's life that's really tragic where the mom poisons her kids because she doesn't want them to
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live in a world without nazism she just can't imagine why such a world would be good and i think
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that that is a big part of what from an urban monocultural perspective is motivating anti-natalism
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it's that they realize that they're losing now and they just want to end it for everyone because
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there's no point in existing in a world without nazism or anti-natalism from their perspective
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sorry when i point out that this is an imperialistic culture that lives within just one cultural group
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the point i mean is you do not see negative utilitarianism spreading to any large degree
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within any community except for the atheistic secular urban monoculture and maybe a few buddhist
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groups you don't see it in muslim groups you don't see it in conservative jewish groups you don't
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see it in conservative christian groups and the reason i specify conservative fear is often because when
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they're not conservative they're just urban monoculture wearing the skin suit of the religion
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by this what i mean is a progressive christian church often has more in common with a progressive
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mosque than either would with a conservative iteration of their tradition and same with you know jewish
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temples finally i note here that the reason anti-natalists are so scary as a philosophy is
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historically every civilizational conflict we've ever gotten into like the cold war over communism versus
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capitalism we could at least know i hope the russians love their children too this time we don't have
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that it's the first time in human history there has been a significant group that genuinely doesn't
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love their children and genuinely doesn't care about humanity's future and genuinely wouldn't
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pull stops if it meant the destruction of all life on earth so that's before i go farther about the the
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you being an anti-natalist at one point no but i mean i i i think this just goes to show how this
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is about intuition and your world view and not about what's true and what's not true
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this approach to philosophy is an exercise to build strong arguments supporting already held
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intuitions about the world instead of leveraging it as a means of building quote-unquote truer
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intuitions contrast heavily with ours anyone who's read our first book will know that our
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views on the meaning of life have evolved radically as we have encountered new information heard better
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arguments and engaged in further self-examination for example while we used to think our core goal was
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to maximize the quote-unquote volume of sentience in the universe we now do not even think sentience has
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value as can be seen in this book's chapter on the topic or if you want to see the youtube video on
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it look up the you're probably not sentient or ellen's are sentient in the same way humans are
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episodes we literally did a 180 on our entire world view when presented with compelling logically
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sound evidence and arguments this is the difference between a worldview shaped with it by inquiry and
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an inquiry shaped by a world view you can create feelings of profundity with drugs or chanting
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just because something feels profound doesn't mean it is inherently profound or meaningful
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in the same best truly profound and meaningful things may not trigger the feelings of the
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profound our read of the true anti-natalist position is that they look for something that
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feels obviously and unobjectionably meaningful in the same way suffering feels obviously and
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objectionably bad and they can't find such a thing so they assume intrinsic meaning doesn't exist
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humans underwent no evolutionary pressures to search for the true meaning of the universe
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to think that we would be quote-unquote coded to recognize intrinsic meaning at an emotional level
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seems ludicrous the same can be said of human cultures they evolved just like our minds did
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when looking for meaning in the world a person should think from the perspective of a high order
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entity unencumbered by our pre-programmed biases positive and negative emotional states
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would an entity that didn't feel suffering conclude it is intrinsically bad such seems highly unlikely to us
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we see no reason to feel bad when a computer is unable to carry out its pre-programmed actions
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and an entity that could not empathize with the way we interpret suffering would probably see our
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suffering as analogous to that quote-unquote suffering is merely a tool evolution used to
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keep us focused on our pre-programmed actions there is no greater meaning to it than there is
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to code running a paperclip maximizer ai that prompts it to protest when blocked from making
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paper clips and it might be self-aware enough to realize this and be like hey i understand this is
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what i'm programmed to do i understand that i don't want to feel suffering but i also understand i was
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programmed to want this and i note here that we're probably only a few generations away from
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eradicating this so if you're talking about like the weight of pleasure to pain you're actually not
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one of these true like pleasure has no value people that almost certainly is going to tip to the side
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of positivity and further tip to the side of positivity the longer humanity survives and the
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more technologically advanced we get i'd also note here the stupidity of the environmentalist
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argument most of the major perinatalists have a background in environmentalism simone got her
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undergraduate degree in environmentalism elon obviously obsessed with environmentalism
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global warming look at tesla look at his solar projects the reality is that if humanity goes
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extinct or we create something that collapses our existing civilization and humanity can't recover
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from it every plant and animal and biome on earth is going to eventually die i do though i do think that
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there's a really interesting bifurcation in how people fall when they hit the rock that is
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environmentalism or when they're hit by it right like some people hit environmentalism
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and they're they can only want either like nothing to change or they sort of want everything to grind
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to a halt and everything to stop existing like freeze the existing environmental system either freeze it
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or end it and there's just this like it was right before humans interacted with it and then there's this
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other element that is that that comes at environmentalism from a perspective of a love
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for that red in tooth and claw vitalism that is life which accepts the brutalism of natural systems
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but wishes to protect their ongoing evolution like let's allow for this to continue like we want more
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of it and we want it to expand as it has since it since life first came out on earth right whereas
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there's this really interesting it's almost in the end i see it and this is why i still feel like we
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are the real environmentalists here there's something very anti-nature about this idea of wanting to
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extinguish it like the entire purpose of life of plant life of animals of everything is to expand and
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evolve and grow and reach new territory right and that this idea of anti-natalism is like it runs counter to
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every instinct on a cellular level on a mental level on a biolog like every level it is against
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nature which is crazy well and i'd argue that not just anti-natalism but that form of environmentalism
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about just creating the environment that that existed when humans first contacted it and preserving that
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forever for hundreds of millions of years instead of letting it to continue to evolve in response to
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new pressures i really want to tease out the point she's making here because i find it very interesting
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when i look at environmentalist groups they typically fall into one of two categories one
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wants to freeze biomes forever and ever and ever at the state they were at when humans first contacted
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them so like if a coyote has evolved to take the ecological niche a wolf once held in that biome they
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will reintroduce wolves and kill the coyotes that have evolved to take that niche whereas other environmentalists
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they don't see their job as protecting a set sliver of biological history they see it as helping nature do
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what nature does which is evolve expand adapt change and proliferate and that in a way anti-natalism represents
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the avatar of one form of environmentalism this first kind freeze everything put it on a slide and then eradicate it and
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then the other pro-natalism represents the avatar of the red and tooth and claw style environmentalism
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and i and i point out that you know the way the environment reacts to humanity is part of evolution
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is part of the environment we are not the first species to cause a great extinction event despite
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what you have likely heard from environmentalists the great oxidation event is another example and and so
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this is just part of the environmentalist cycle if what you care about is not freezing the environment
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and the diversity of life and the complexity of life well then you should be cheering for the only
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species that can get other life off this planet before the sun engulfs the planet because we obviously
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will like there's no humanity leaving earth without other life leaving yeah and when we get to other
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planets we will see maybe billions of new biomes right you know so i just it's it's an illogical argument
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that's that's purely aesthetic in nature yes um emotional yeah i don't think it's aesthetic i think
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it's emotional and i also note that all the environmentalists removing themselves from the
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gene pool because we know that about 40 of the way you vote is genetic and origin is going to
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significantly change how much future populations care about environmentalism but that's neither here
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nor there the economic argument people be like oh well you can't afford to have kids and it's like
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well then why do people with less money have more kids between and within countries right like
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just the whole thing is a silly argument i i find what it what they mean is i don't want to
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sacrifice my current quality of life and like that's okay if that's what you want to do but i will
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know that like you are going to struggle to derive and this is a hard thing to say but you're going
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to struggle to derive as much meaning from your life if you don't contribute to something bigger
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than yourself and if you don't contribute to the next generation or find a way to do that because
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that is really what adults were programmed to want to do and the same way like teenagers are programmed to
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want to sleep around a lot and i think a lot of people what happens to them is they just keep
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doing the behavior that maximally sort of masturbated their internal mental state when they were like a
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teenager or late teenager even though the amount of pleasure they're getting from that is is dropping
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over time but they don't realize what's happening so they think they just need to do more of the
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behavior when the reality is that they were supposed to grow up like like evolution expected that
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i'd also note here that for reproductive rights arguments pro natalists do not advocate for banning
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abortion or contraception none of the major pro natalist orgs that i know of like some catholic
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orgs do but they're not pro natalists they're like pro catholic orgs right and historically when we've
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seen this happen it causes a spike in fertility rates and then a crash in fertility rates
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it's not that i think that abortion is a moral thing i think that we should significantly restrict
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access to abortion within our country not to the extent of banning ivf obviously if it prevents more
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kids from coming into the world but i and i mean significantly like back to what it is in europe and stuff
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like that that's like you can have an abortion until the kids ready to be born seems obviously horrific
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to me but this is not like a anti-reproductive rights movement same with feminism as we saw
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from aria babu study more gender egalitarian countries typically have higher fertility rates of
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upper income countries and less gender egalitarian countries and this is why even despite southern
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europe being poorer than northern europe you see a lower fertility rate there it's likely downstream
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with them being less gender egalitarian and then you look at other places with super low fertility
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rates whether it's korea or japan they're typically a lot less gender egalitarian than places like the
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united states or northern europe where you see some resistance to this and this is just because
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girls don't want to go into this and they know that their life is going to be miserable i mean that's
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why you were an antinatalist you're like i don't want to give up my my life
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totally the racism arguments are absolutely absurd if you control for income the groups that have the
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highest fertility rates are typically conservative religious jewish groups and think about post
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developed societies yeah hopefully everyone will be soon well no i said when you control for income
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okay yeah thanks protestant groups you know the the backwoods cultural region in the united states
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like this is like rednecks basically these are the people who will be represented in the future
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and and you can be like well what about these other groups that are having tons of kids it doesn't
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matter if those kids aren't engaged with technology in the economy that's where cultural power comes
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from right like you when was the last time you watched a movie made in africa right like but if
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i go to somebody in japan when was the last time you watched a movie made in in in the united states
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right like you need to be high fertility and economically and technologically productive and
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it's an easy strategy to to motivate high fertility with a a lack of income as we've noted here but it
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it doesn't mean that they'll have future cultural power the point i'm making here is the status quo of
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fertility rates and if you look at like u.s black fertility rates black americans have the lowest
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fertility rate of any ethnic group in the united states outside of the bottom 20 of income earners
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you know and culturally this is going to have a really negative effects especially if you're
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looking at a culture that if you go back to the 1960s had half the number of kids being born out of
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wedlock yes blacks had half the number of kids being born out of wedlock to now it's like 76 something
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like that you know it's just been completely ravaged in a way that has economically trapped them
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and and they are sort of forced to reinvent their culture if they want to build something that can
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work but the point i'm making here is enforcing the status quo benefits white groups and hurts
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minority populations whereas bringing attention to fertility collapse is an issue like within the
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native american community which has a very low fertility rate helps parsis jayn's very low fertility rate
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helps future and then the final argument which i just find ridiculous is is oh you can't impose
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your cultural beliefs on children and it's like all parents impose a way of life on children through
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their their cultures and values children have the freedom to choose their own paths as adults
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but when somebody is a child they don't have the development to make these decisions right you know
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i will add like there's a little more color to this there's there's some anti-natalist thought
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leaders who frame childhood as a form of slavery and parenting is a form of like memetic imperialism
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um where parents are like forcing this upon children first i mean anyone who's encountered
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kids know that they have minds of their own they will decide if your take is dumb and they will let
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you know about it and even if you're they're not allowed to let you know about it in the end it'll
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it'll shake out you know you have 18 years maybe to to sort of pitch your ideas in a totalitarian way
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or otherwise very permissive right but in the end kids are going to decide for themselves
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based on totalitarian like ayla's parents were just completely backfires yeah i mean they did they
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did for a while break her spirit she's still deconverted from that culture because it was
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just weak honestly it wasn't good yeah it tried to enforce her staying was in it through aggression
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yeah coercive abusive ways but the the point being that the arguments that that these people are making
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about children being in this this victimized position i mean absolutely children are vulnerable
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absolutely being a kid is rough and you don't get control over your life and i love being an adult
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because i hated all that so i don't disagree with with childhood being tough but this concept i think is
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really overwrought and misrepresented in terms of like children being treated as slaves and being
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indoctrinated because while yes parents may try to make a pitch that's all they get is a pitch
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and i'll note here some people could be like how could you say all this when you guys practice
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corporal punishment and we practice a very light corporal punishment it is less than our kids regular
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rough and tumble play which they do a lot um very very much less and yeah i'll tell you what we've
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we've never left a mark on our kids i can't count the number of bruises even on my body at this time
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from our children and not even from them being angry and one of our sons like just his way of
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expressing love is these goat-like headbutts i remember i was like oh why'd you do that because
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i love you he's so sweet it hurts the core advocate for bopping in our family is our children um they
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advocate for it on other children when other children act up as they say bobs are justice yeah this
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childhood is slavery argument is uniquely weak because it doesn't have the benefit of the asymmetry
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argument to back it up when we know that most of the kids who are apparently slaves in their
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childhood do end up with fond memories of childhood do end up wanting to continue to live so like the
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sandy hook shooter who he said oh well they're in a state of slavery the vast majority of those kids
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liked their lives and would have liked their lives in the future he is projecting his cultural framing
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onto other individuals despite knowing from the data that his cultural framing is wrong i think that
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this is why we see rates of narcissism and machiavellism and other dark triad traits
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at higher levels within the antinatalist community as a number of studies have shown
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it fundamentally is a community that wishes that everyone else had the same perception of reality
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that they do that wishes that other people were unable to find meaning in life beyond suffering and
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pleasure in the same way they can't find meaning in life beyond suffering and pleasure and when other
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individuals tell them oh no here is where i derive meaning from life a normal person would be like oh
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that's great that you derive meaning from that i'm really glad that you were able to find something
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that makes your life worth living whereas a narcissist or somebody with machiavellian tendencies
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will hear that and say oh well you're just wrong my perspective is the absolute correct perspective
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and you can really see this within the prenatalist movement where we have all sorts of different
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reasons to live and reasons to want to be alive and we are all respectful of our different reasons but
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the anti-natalist there is just one reason that's it everybody must follow the authority so any thoughts
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you want to end with i'm glad we went over all this sort of the anti-natalist arguments again because
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every time we go through them and think about it more the more it just stands out to me how
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illogical this is and my biggest revelation this time was just how against the natural order nature
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the environment in general the entire concept is which is i guess to me that that strikes me as very
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strong because most anti-natalists i'm aware of are also vegans who believe they care a lot about the
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environment and yet what they're arguing for is something so deeply contrary to the natural order
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moral system that they want to impose on the entire natural order which yeah so maybe maybe
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they're not really environmentalists and they're just anti they're just anti-suffering yeah no anti-sentience
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yeah anti-suffering yeah so anyway i guess that that just that's something that's really stood out to me
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in this but i appreciate you're going through all the arguments and i well and if you want to see
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like i think the the the two that i included bits of civ songs i think are very good arguments for
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prenatalist positions if you want to get like our wider vibe is why we exist and i just don't understand
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how when you see something like that as the alternative how you think anyone's going to
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choose your doomerist me me me take right like just for reference malcolm's referring to like the civ
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five like game theme song by christopher ten yeah yeah that too and then the other one i can't remember
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what the other one's called and then we'll include our own ai anti-natalist song here because i i love
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those songs and it's always fun to to create this stuff and and share it with you guys but i hope that we
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help break somebody out of this philosophy if they had just entered it because it is a philosophy that
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does eventually take everything from you um similar to ai doomerism there's just it provides no real
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utility and it's not internally logically consistent and it is wrong if one of like 10 arguments we've
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made here is accurate you know even even if future humans don't really matter if the core reason you
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exist isn't pain and pleasure which i think that your own sisyphus argument undoes then then the
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whole thing falls apart or if uh it's bad to genocide native americans through sterilization
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because some people choose to have an identity at the level of the society of the culture then it's
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bad even if everything else is true that's the problem with anti-natalism is it requires so many
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shaky pillars to be true and all of them are super shaky yeah have a spectacular day i love you simone
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love you and what are we doing for dinner tonight i was thinking of just making you gyoza like some
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comfort food yeah because i'm not feeling well that's so people know i've been kind of sick and
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yeah gyoza is a is a good comfort food i always wonder about something even more simple than that
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i can make you grilled cheese grilled cheese would be fantastic all right grilled cheese i love you to
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death simone you take care of me when i'm sick but we keep pushing through because it doesn't matter how
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we feel what matters is that we're contributing to a better tomorrow for everyone we must pay to the
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future the debt we owe the past and my god is it a debt right oh true though
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they say there's nothing here but sorrow or delight a shallow chase for feelings in the day and in the night
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but look beyond your heartbeat beyond what's in your veins there's more to life than can be found in
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pleasure or pain beyond the pleasure beyond the pain we stand on roads all forebears paved in grit and strain
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don't throw away the promise that tomorrow can sustain there's more to life than hollow thrills or running from the rain
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these feelings born of chance in fields of ancient strife they kept our tribe from failing help give birth to
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and you complete it there is in thatederium and craig and adds a glist to life
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and you complete it this t увидеть it you know the finale하는 edu
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is that they have a 25 cup of treat醒 for you know it's another one of the these myths we
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do you need to think about in your part but also xem the best practices in the era form of
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their dreams but understand your dreams and right you know the way that is you know
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it they give się u i don't no,ž i'm rich in this darium
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It isn't just the fleeting spark of comfort we are shown.
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Our tapestry is woven from both darkness and from light.
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Don't trade a grand potential for a single shallow end.
01:53:21.780
We stand on roads, our forbear's pain and grit and strain.
01:53:26.300
Don't throw away the progress that tomorrow can sustain.
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There's more to life than hollow thrills or running from the rain.
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There's legacy and progress in our footsteps on this earth.
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Step beyond the simple bounds of pleasure and of pain.