Are Asians Not Having Babies Due to Genetics? The Equation that Cracked Low Asian TFR
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss the genetics of falling fertility rates in East Asian countries, and why they might not just be a cultural phenomenon, but a genetic one. Simone and I discuss the history of East Asian fertility rates, the genetics behind them, and whether they are cultural or genetic.
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hello simone today we are going to be doing a stats heavy episode oh it's an intensive episode
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yes it's one of those really fun episodes where i read something that a racist person wrote or
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somebody who seemed to have a racial agenda okay and while i think that the person you know has
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some bias in their thoughts i was like this is why it's important that we don't ban people like
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this from talking okay because they will sometimes see things that somebody who is presenting and
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looking at the world from a non-racist will never ever ever see yeah and that is really important
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this well but if you say this to a mainstream progressive you have already basically just
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said don't you think we should genocide all the palestinians i mean you have just said something
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incredibly offensive because there's this perception that even being even sharing oxygen
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with a racist is somehow an unforgivable act so i don't know that this person they just
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seem to not love east asian immigrants and they didn't like that the beltway conservatives liked
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east asian immigrants and i like east asian immigrants i really have genuinely no problem
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with east asian immigration into the united states and i i don't even understand even if you were biased
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about east asian immigrants like you must anyway we'll get to this later in the in the piece okay
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but they noticed something that i have never seen anyone notice before and i was like oh my gosh like this
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is true this is in the data okay wow comes to the subject of low east asian fertility rates might be
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either persistently cultural post-immigration or genetic and in this episode we're going to talk about
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the genetics of low fertility rates and why east asians might have at a genetic level a lower
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in like biological desire to breed with somebody whoa there is actually a good explanation for why
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they might in historical data that so this whole like kiki gomori thing this is people in japan who
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just don't leave their houses and the vegetarian men of japan the men who sort of just never choose
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to date or have partners this could just be partially genetically driven that these are these
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aren't just tropes that happened out of nowhere there was a larger under yes and due to a specific
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and intergenerational practice that was done in all of the east asian countries for hundreds of years
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infanticide what well arranged marriages very strict arranged marriages we'll get you but it makes sense
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when you think about it for five seconds you're like oh yeah they didn't have to have a biological
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urge to find a partner they were matched with well or that biological urges to have partners didn't
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correlate as highly with fertility or with with having kids and passing on your genes as they do in other
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societies and and what's very interesting is if you look at east asian populations and then you look
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at the east asian populations that are abrahamic in their faith they have really good fertility rates
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would you like to know more so if you look at studies of fertility rates the heredibility of
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fertility rates appears to be around 20 to 40 this is if you look at identical twin studies where
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identical twins are raised in separate families so we already know that there is some biological drive
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to have kids which ends up affecting fertility rates and you can also look at studies that look at age
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of first child which is really well studied in identical twin studies and again 20 to 40 so it is fairly
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genetic okay it's not as genetic as something like iq or height but it is fairly genetic yeah
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meaningful now first let's talk about the culture of east asian countries okay so here i am going to
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put on screen graphs that are looking at two questions uh sorry i i should point out to the
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audience because the audience may not know this going into this i just assume that everyone knows this
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east asian countries if you control for wealth generally the wealthier country gets the lower
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fertility rate gets when you control for wealth they have the worst fertility rates of anywhere in
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the world by astronomical amounts like they are off a cliff they would if they were a an animal like
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if you if you consider them an animal groups like koreans for example would be considered a critically
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endangered species well and wouldn't you say that in terms of the the countries on our watch list
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for experiencing fundamental structural concerns in the near future due to demographic collapse include
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china and south korea before anyone else yeah yeah so so like it matters you need to pay attention to
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these falling fertility rates this is a part of the core key of the question of falling fertility rates
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now culturally speaking we're going to look at first here this this is a a percent study within a
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cultural group and that it was ranking countries many point to family and children as sources of
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meaning in life so it ranked countries here if you look at the top of this wrist australia new zealand
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greece usi these are countries that are actually pretty high in terms of their fertility rate
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when contrast it was what you would expect given their wealth okay so children are a source of meaning
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in my life those countries you want to see who's at the very bottom of this list singapore japan
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south korea and taiwan they just don't see children as sources of meaning in life at higher as higher
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rate as other countries so okay culturally that's why you would see that all right let's look at
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another graph here relatively few mention their romantic partners as a source of meaning in life
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okay okay so who considers their romantic partners their source of meaning in life those countries at
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the top of the list like the usa and netherlands two countries that have unusually high fertility rates
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given their wealth at the bottom of the list the four bottom countries again in order japan
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singapore south korea and taiwan so culturally speaking they just do not see children or their
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significant others as key parts of their meaning in life i'd actually ask you simone if you were like
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rankings like your meanings in life how high would you say like i and the kids are oh you guys are
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number one at this point you weren't when i was a kid you know before i met you but
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so yeah for me you are so obviously number one like the kids then you then my mission like that
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happens to people after they have those things yeah it could be downstream of this so we'll see
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kids were like number thousand like the thousandth thing on my list before i met you you know what i mean
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i really didn't want kids before i met you so i actually started thinking about this more as
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could this be the explanation of why some cultures seem more resistant to the impact increasing wealth
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has on fertility rates and it really checks out when i think about it for example jewish groups are
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uniquely resistant to prosperity induced fertility collapse and jewish communities also put a really
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high emphasis on their children and their spouses in terms of meaning in their lives in addition to
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that i was also thinking about music because you know i lived in korea i consume a lot of korean music
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i really like k-pop i can think of only one korean song that is about a person's children or about a
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relationship between a child and their parents but that is actually uh funnily enough
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by psy the guy who did gangnam style and it's i got it from my daddy which is interesting because
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the song is actually done in english psy grew up in the u.s and his form of k-pop is more popular in
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the united states than it is in korea yes i know people might be surprised about this but gangnam style
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was not the hit in korea that it was in the united states it's not considered like classic k-pop
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also interesting here if i think about like my own cultural group the greater appalachian cultural
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group and the type of art that we produce you know often classic country music country music has
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tons and tons and tons of songs about how great a person's wife is or how great their children are
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and how important kids are in the last episode we played a clip from the episode about like what
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matters in life it's a song called by dirt find the one you can't live without get a ring let your
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knee hit the ground and add a few limbs to your family tree and in it you know they're saying one
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of the key things that matters in life uh if not the key thing that matters in life is one is who you
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marry and your children that's like the key point of the song or another one that i really like lady
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which i'll play a clip from here i hope you look just like your mama you'll see close to perfect
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patience if you watch her every move get her baby girl and you'll learn how to be a lady
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okay well this piece was written by uh futurist right the substack and it was titled east asian
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extinction level fertility is genetic and beltway conservatives are traitors um
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fighting words there i actually really liked this guy's writing when i was going through this i was
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just like this is really creative stuff the analysis was well done he didn't lie with data i really hate
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when people do that to fit an agenda and yeah just just cool stuff i just disagree with him on like
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america is worse off for having a large population of east asian immigrants i don't believe that at all
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like there are some areas where i'd be like yeah maybe we should think again about immigrants from
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these areas but like i'd literally take all of hong kong when like china went in to take them i'm like
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let's screw hong let's screw china over take everyone in hong kong with over x amount of money as an
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immigrant i do not mind high-skill immigrants at all all right so let's check in on the fertility of
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u.s born east asians chinese japanese koreans weighted for respective populations within the u.s
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and compare them to the figure of that same weighted population back home then let's compare it
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to u.s born white fertility so the u.s born east asian fertility is 1.38 and here he's only counting
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east asian as china japanese and korean um that's generally what people mean when they say east asia
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so 1.38 versus 1.197 if they had stayed at home um so we often say this is a great thing like i've
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always been like i assumed that it was like american culture was affecting them and it was increasing
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their fertility rate okay yeah exactly um and but we would cite stats that south korean fertility rates
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went up when south koreans moved to the united states which is notable because most immigrant
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groups fertility drops after they immigrate to the united states yeah well they're from a higher
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fertility culture yeah in koreans at for a period at least it jumped about 50 percent up but that may
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have been an illusion and i'll explain where the illusion came from yeah and it's also gone down from
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that 50 percent up number in more recent samples wow okay so so right here he's not talking about
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modern fertility rates by the way these are these numbers are all higher than modern fertility rates
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but this is just a sample set he had okay so the u.s born white fertility is 1.89 all right
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so here you're contrasting and this is also why i don't understand why does he care about an immigrant
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group with such a lower fertility rate than our own like they're just gonna disappear anyway like
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yeah i don't i don't mean about it yeah you don't need to be mean about it bro okay so he goes ouch
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east asians are clearly passing on more of their anti-natalist culture than we thought 1.38 versus
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a 1.97 we've done some good work and defeating it but there's clearly more work to be done like this
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is what you would think right like okay well we've helped defeat a little bit of their anti-natalist
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culture when they moved here but not totally well here comes some uncomfortable stats i had forgotten
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about oh no i'm gonna put on screen here that famous okay cupid chart that i am so glad someone
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at okay cupid ran was their giant giant data size from back when we for whatever reason somebody
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thought it was okay to post like ethnic breakdowns of message and reply rates and i we times were
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different as a human race we are so so so lucky to have this data okay
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east asian women prefer white men to asian men in terms of reply rates in messages
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on okay cupid this isn't like rating or anything like this is the actual yeah just looking at who's
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getting back yep and this is i think the only place in the entire chart where a group preferred
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another ethnic group over their own which is actually kind of wild um what's up with that
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by the way east asian females they also preferred middle eastern men and native american men to asian
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men huh so oh wait no hold on they also preferred other and almost less pacific islanders so i actually
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suspect this might be due to the incredibly strict gender roles within asian culture and asian women
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just not wanting to live that lifestyle yeah and they may have you know prejudices because you see
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this in korea like i know like i know personally korean women who have moved out of korea just to marry
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people from not white people to be honest and it wasn't because they had like white fever or something
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they're just like well you know on average i'll have a more gender equal relationship if i do this
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and you see this in statistics on for example korean culture that women handle like way more of the
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housework way more of the house maintenance even though they're still expected to provide the
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predominant amount of child care and work a job like it's just a raw deal they're getting and this
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is i mean unfortunately a cultural thing when you have other cultural options in this way you can
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almost sort of see white culture as victimizing east asian culture is i mean there are a cultural
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hypothesis about how they can make society work but it's a cultural hypothesis that stops working in
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an open dating market right ouch and also keep in mind that then there's a secondary thing here so
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suppose an east asian woman does want to take on all of these roles right like um they want to be
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subservient they want to do the majority of the housework and they want to do the majority of the
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child work okay in a mixed ethnic group uh if you're thinking about arbitrage opportunities
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these women would actually be better off going after white men gosh you know you're right
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because the white men will value all of these sacrifices from the more the white man's perspective
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that they're making that the east asian men wouldn't sacrifice to an east asian man
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they might be just you're doing a job yeah you're doing your job to the the white man oh my god a
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woman who's doing housework so so they can and i've actually seen this in san francisco where there is
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the common practice of the upper mid east asian woman getting the extremely wealthy white tech bro
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i'd actually say that that's the like most common silicon valley marriage structure
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because the the tech bro is just like endlessly thankful that there is any gender dynamic like
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dimorphic behavior at all because they're so not used to it in the culture that they're used to this
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like far lefty urban monoculture mindset but what do you have thoughts here or no i i have seen what
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you are talking about and i'm sure most people watching can think of examples and i i also want to
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just looking at this chart we'll do this in another episode but like we need to talk about like
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because the left has stolen the black american identity to use for all of its like identity politics
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nonsense it makes up ways they're discriminated against which then hide the ways that they actually
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are discriminated against and that would easily pierce a public mindset if you just showed them
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the data that like we're not supposed to show them if you look at black female or black males in this
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graph it makes your heart great like no one is replying to them if you look at that's what i
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always remember from those particular okcupid surveys was they're not surveys but studies i just like
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but especially how screwed you are if you're a black woman so just the sadness of this like
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if you look at this chart like women of like all other ethnic groups are like i never replied to
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anyone and and then black women like green across the board you messaged me somebody messaged me
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they they are like as green as male reply rates actually i think more green than male reply rates
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is how screwed they get which is well i'm also you this is another group i misspoke here it appears
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black females also they literally respond to black male messages less than any other group they are
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more willing to respond to male messages from any group more than black males oh that is not good
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does not say a lot about gender relations within that community and then black male response rates
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across the board are just like oof anyway but we can also look at out marriage rates so pew research
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did a research of this and 54 of east asian immigrants marry someone of another ethnic group
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so here i'm just going to read a quote here among asian newlyweds these gender differences exist for
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both immigrants 15 men 31 women and u.s born 38 men 54 women so it's more likely that an east asian
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woman marries out much more likely like more than double more likely in in one case than a man marries
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somebody of a different ethnicity and while the gender gap among asian immigrants has remained
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relatively stable the gap among the u.s born has widened substantially since 1980 when the
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intermarriage rate stood at 46 and now it's around 49 among east asian women so you can see again
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losing their culture here which which is sad i mean they're creating a new culture right i i don't think
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like the culture has disappeared but it's going to be a hybrid white east asian culture which may be
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more resistant it may be that they needed this this cultural infusion to survive due to fertility rates
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i don't know but um i mean that's what we're seeing here no by the way speaking of american asian
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marriages jd vance oh yeah that's not east asian that's south asian yeah but still i i was more
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thinking priscilla chan good example there all right so here's the thing that absolutely floored
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me so okay now you've got to consider that a lot of these people are going to be influenced by who
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they married right so you can't just look at them as if having like normal asian fertility rates right
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you need to say okay let's look at this right so i'm going to read the the line here and this
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shocked me so what the guy did is he said okay so we know that um 54 are marrying people of a
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different cultural group predominantly white people so then let's take that 54 and assume
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that their expected fertility rate is going to be exactly in between the east asian fertility rate
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and the white fertility rate okay and then you run the math here and i'll put the math on the screen
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and i will remind you that the average you know u.s born east asian fertility rate is 1.38 so if you
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average the average east asian fertility rate 1.197 and then take 54 of that and assume that that portion
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of that 1.97 would be midway between 1.97 and 1.89 do you know what number you get
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1.38 the exact number of the fertility rate they have in the united states wow okay you don't need
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any cultural change to explain the rise in fertility rate it is simply marrying non-asians that's
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okay yeah all right well it's bleak if you think asian culture is a good thing and i do
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i do think asian culture is a good thing i'm sad i just i think that could they're not i mean there
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there are ways to culturally build and aren't there some very high fertility subcultures like outside
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seoul and south korea that are just primed to inherit all of the country i've heard of like one
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religious cult in korea and one in japan their fertility rates aren't great they're not like
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look korea has always been great at exporting cults like the moonies and some more recent ones and
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they're great at building cults so maybe they'll create something that saves them maybe but like
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their fertility rates just don't touch on like the white religious nut job groups like yeah
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us i need more religious nut jobs and turning women into baby factories um i mean gosh yeah i it is
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concerning it's very concerning i don't want asian culturists to disappear but i do mind simone was
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born in japan and has lived with japanese people for a long time her middle name is haruko because she
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was born in japan she has strong cultural connections she grew up in the bay area which
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is very asian pretty much your entire friend group going up with east asian right pretty much yeah and
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i lived and worked in korea like i have a very strong personal connection to these cultural groups
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it makes me sad that they may not survive yeah and i guess it is something when i think of all my high
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school friends one of them yet not not many of them have kids certainly not more than one kid right
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now which is and you're at four lady yeah that's a yeah when you compare it's not looking fantastic
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so yeah so i really wanted to tackle this this hypothesis he had that this was due to arranged
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marriage because i was under the the perspective that arranged marriage was at least occasionally a
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practiced in europe right yeah what i came to is actually no it's being practiced in europe was
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pretty rare in a historic level yeah more among just a very rare super high class group right yeah so
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yeah basically only like the super wealthy did it so and even they did it differently than east asians
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did it so we'll talk about the east because it gets kind of horrifying when you hear about how east
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asians did it oh what yeah honestly it was news to me from you that there was even an arranged marriage
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thing in east asia you will be you will be surprised by the number of women who had their
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legs broken okay that they couldn't leave their house until they were ready to marry i'll just say
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okay now let's go to the european sample before we get to that okay so mcflayne's marriage and love
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in england 1300 to 1840 describes the laws to this effect well its primary focus is the timeline
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described in the title it cites the laws of coltaire for 560 a.d and i don't want to get picked up on a
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filter c-u-n-t i'm not going to say that word out loud because i don't know how to say it
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unfortunate last name early well it's the name of it cunut i think it's pronounced okay early 1000s a.d
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and describing the historic germanic tradition of opposition to forced marriage it lays out clear
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evidence for the existence of an ancient germanic custom of permitted marriage against the wishes
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of parents which remained uninhibited in britain even as the reintroduction of roman civil law
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elsewhere opposed it the other country where this norm remained unabridged was sweden so keep in mind
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this is you know specifically northern europe in rome arranged marriage was more common but also you
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know you see less you know you see outcomes that look more in between northern european outcomes and
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east asian outcomes when you look at southern european outcomes but keep in mind even the
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catholic church here so and when the catholic church confronted the latter question whether
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marriage could be valid without the consent of parents it was unambiguous in its support citing
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creatively the bible verse that quote what therefore god has joined together let no man put asunder in
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quote matthew 1916 the church consistently upheld even secret marriages made without the consent or
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knowledge of anyone but the participants see charles dorn jr's paper on canon law and marriage in the
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journal of family history furthermore the high the there there was a very high median age of first
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marriage in northern europe in the 1600s which was 22 plus which is very rare if you look at if you're
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talking about like the 1600s in east asia yeah that's late i'm gonna guess it was around 16 22 plus is
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wildly late which which was because they gave people a lot of independence and this source here
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argues that that was the case a a in addition to all of this you had a church and civil ban on cousin
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marriage which forced women to and men to look outwards to marry so you can keep in mind if you
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look at a lot of muslim cultures they do a lot of like cousin marriages and stuff like that yeah and
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that's common in east asia as well i'm pretty sure is a lot of family because it consolidates power
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within the family it's what you would want if your goal was amassing power as a family it's what you
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wouldn't want if you're an extra family bureaucracy made up of eunuchs um that was trying to claim more
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power for itself which the catholic church functionally is right so they banned that but
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that creates a very interesting sort of like biological impulse here if you as a european
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historically were like not driven by your sexuality to go out and screw people you might not end up having
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descendants that just wasn't as true for other populations on earth and this actually reminds me
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of a very interesting conversation i had with a very dear friend of mine who was a jay and um boy
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at the time man i don't know young we were teens at the time and we were both in college and he was
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like i was talking about dating i was like who are you interested in right and this was during that time
00:26:37.720
of my life where i was probably sleeping with like three or four different people a week and he's like
00:26:42.240
oh well you know i don't want to date until i have a job i was like you you don't want to date until you
00:26:49.400
have a job and he was like yeah you know my parents say i shouldn't really focus on it so culturally my
00:26:55.580
people we don't really focus on it you know i just well i'll focus on something not just to college like
00:26:59.860
high school college you know that's for focusing on work and in another episode we did here we pointed
00:27:05.240
out how east asians at least and i'm sure south asians are the same way spend way more time on school work
00:27:10.520
than white kids so i decided to look this up to see if this hunch was right and yes there have
00:27:15.640
been studies confirming this east asian individuals have way way way lower sex drives than europeans
00:27:22.020
and this is explains a huge part of why they outcompete white people not iq differences and i think part of
00:27:28.880
it is i was busy screwing my way through high school and college and here this kid is and he's just like
00:27:35.520
yeah i don't want it but i don't know if like biologically i could have realistically like
00:27:40.860
even when i think about my kids i'm like i know the number one thing i can't do is say don't engage
00:27:47.180
with your sexuality because i know how loud that was i may be able to like use naltrexone to try to
00:27:53.520
break any sort of like opioid pathway they have in their brains related to this right but i would need
00:27:58.980
to is through some sort of pharmacological intervention like actively treat like an
00:28:05.560
addiction or disease want to be trapped by this or not because naltrexone is actually pretty good at
00:28:09.880
breaking the compulsions but it's it's tough it is tough like it's not necessarily awesome sauce
00:28:17.900
but this is interesting to me now i'm gonna go to what he says about these other countries okay
00:28:21.840
so he says in china and korea nearly all marriages were arranged in japan most were and unlike the kinds of
00:28:27.500
more modern arranged marriages that are unfairly stigmatized today these arrangements at least
00:28:32.520
outside of japan involved no role for fertile female choice or male choice in the matter i.e no
00:28:38.440
interactions between the soon to be married occurred before the marriage was fully contracted total female
00:28:44.300
seclusion from non-kin males both pre and post marriage ensured success of this arrangement of this
00:28:49.920
arrangement to remarry even after the death of one's husband was stigmatized and keep in mind you see
00:28:55.640
this in south asia in india the the common practice of oh what was it called again uh where
00:29:00.260
they would burn the widows oh yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah and people pretend like this wasn't a common
00:29:04.840
practice and it was common in some regions but i don't want to get to south asian populations
00:29:09.560
the han chinese famously left nothing to chance in ensuring seclusion was nearly all upper middle
00:29:15.760
class and many other class households up to 50 of the population breaking the feet of their girls
00:29:21.860
to ensure their limited mobility and subservience to the east asian marital process 50 of young women
00:29:29.200
had their feet broken would note here that this number seemed unbelievably high to me so i went to
00:29:34.160
an ai perplexity specifically to ask the same question and it said in response in the 19th century
00:29:39.980
an estimated 40 to 50 of chinese women had their feet bound among the upper economic classes in the 19th
00:29:45.780
century the prevalence was almost a hundred percent a study by william russo estimated that as many as
00:29:51.600
two billion chinese women may have had their feet bound research by hill gates found that virtually 100
00:29:56.680
percent of women born in 1850 to 1854 had bound feet with the percentage slowly decreasing in subsequent
00:30:04.480
decades so a hundred percent of women and during some periods had their feet bound during other periods
00:30:10.420
it was 50 so just an absolute ton and it was practiced well into the 20th century especially
00:30:18.060
in rural and coastal regions so this article was not cherry picking to make a point if anything they
00:30:23.460
may have understated the number like this was like not messing around like you are not going to find a
00:30:30.240
partner on your own we handle who you're marrying don't worry about it was this a byproduct of the foot
00:30:37.440
binding process like their feet were just broken because they were binding them or was this well
00:30:41.980
is it burning all right here's the hammer don't leave the house video on screen close your eyes for five
00:30:48.200
seconds one two three it's gonna be on screen one two three in okay good it's off screen now but for
00:30:55.440
people who don't know what the golden lotuses look like they would put the feet of little girls in really
00:31:00.520
tight shoes they never fully developed they couldn't walk and this was you know you can sit talk about
00:31:05.600
it as a beauty ritual or whatever you want to talk about it as but it was a ritual that really
00:31:10.060
ensured that these women didn't play a role in who they were mating with and this of course is going
00:31:16.620
to have a genetic impact on arousal pathways use it or lose it i'm sorry it doesn't use it or lose it
00:31:21.800
is a saying in genetics if you don't need an arousal pathway to motivate having children you're going to
00:31:28.200
lose the impulsive arousal pathway that causes teens to make the types of impulsive decisions that lead
00:31:46.620
prospect if you're saying that this is mostly upper and middle class people though i don't know if
00:31:53.860
they're the biggest genetic contributors to any society i don't know he's an upper middle class and
00:31:58.060
many others so around 50 of the population okay yeah i guess 50 of the population is probably enough
00:32:02.920
and offer it to have a meaningful effect too yes also upper and middle class on a historic basis
00:32:09.440
had more kids than the lower classes oh yeah because they had resources and food and whatnot
00:32:13.540
okay yeah and then the kids who you know weren't able to compete within these environments would
00:32:17.720
become and probably lower infant mortality yeah okay okay okay okay so so keep all that in line
00:32:24.640
now i want to move quickly to an email we got from one of our fans talking about chinese culture because
00:32:31.200
he's been living there for a while and i think it also helps us understand the difference between
00:32:37.980
i'm a brit who lived in china for five years you and consensus missed a few significant details
00:32:45.520
regarding why they're so effed i basically polled people
00:32:48.900
on this while i was there having few kids in china has become fashion driven by women
00:32:54.820
one women's sexual status in china is about luxury maximum consumption minimum effort and i've actually
00:33:02.100
seen this in like chinese videos where they'll have like women who act like bitchy or like oh they got
00:33:07.680
a car for their birthday or for their marriage and they complain about it or something to try to show
00:33:12.540
their status to other women it's like men give me stuff and i make fun of them for it and i am
00:33:17.140
unappreciative that is a sign of like it does seem to be a fetish though like there are those people
00:33:21.200
who make money from men just for yelling at them and whatnot so it's a thing these men do not look
00:33:29.640
happy about this they usually look like their souls have been taken and stomped on when we can talk about
00:33:34.440
how bad women have it in east asia but i think in many ways men also have it absolutely terrible
00:33:40.400
and like gender dynamics in these countries just need to be like yeah the sign that it seems that
00:33:46.600
both east asian men and east asian women aren't choosing
00:33:49.980
hold on i want to keep i want to keep going here i want to keep going here two they want the status
00:33:56.220
label of quote-unquote mother was out the work meaning one kid max so mother is a status but you
00:34:02.280
don't get that much additional status or it appears any additional status from additional kids okay in
00:34:07.260
the u.s that definitely isn't the case actually you don't really get any status was one kid i wouldn't
00:34:12.380
even say you get that much status with two kids but there is a community in the u.s where when you
00:34:17.220
get to three up kids you get additional status with every kid like with four kids i feel like
00:34:23.420
walking through the mall these days i said i feel a bit like prince ali prince ali fabulous
00:34:28.660
with the the kids and matching outfits trailing behind us and everybody like oh they must be fancy
00:34:36.600
three they accuse men who want more children as treating them as quote-unquote cattle they love
00:34:43.100
this comparison the oversupply of men plus the surprisingly strong and rather toxic feminist
00:34:47.120
slash anti-pickup movement gives them leverage and keep in mind there's there's very few women
00:34:52.640
compared to men in china because during the one child policy people preferred male children so women
00:34:57.660
have the advantage in the sexual marketplace and they are able to demand these types of concessions
00:35:03.220
right in china at least yeah yeah yeah all right then next intersectional status signaling and
00:35:08.680
competition the culture explicitly demands women to select men based on wealth household slash car
00:35:14.960
meme and this is actually a common meme i've seen in my asia watching stuff in china the house car
00:35:19.560
meme big um children are expensive so reduce her other luxury consumption once they have again true
00:35:26.820
and they can be uniquely expensive in east asia if you look at something like south korea
00:35:30.820
children are way more expensive than they are in the u.s you end up spending i think it was something
00:35:36.040
like a third of a family's household budget ends up going for one child to go to cram school this is
00:35:42.060
the additional school they attend in addition to public school uh social media embraces the narcissism
00:35:47.340
and wealth expectations for example there are very popular tiktok channels of couples where a woman acts
00:35:53.340
bored and useless where her boyfriend showers her with gifts and services i've seen these before
00:35:58.280
what are you saying it just sounds awful the fact that a man loves a horrible and useless woman
00:36:04.720
implies she is beautiful enough to counterbalance her awfulness implying she's really beautiful
00:36:09.800
laziness is an honest signal of beauty women aspire to be useless and rich i'm not joking
00:36:15.300
this person says and again i see this oh well the way he writes this i don't know if i word it this
00:36:20.140
way but he says chinese women cannot reconcile their preferences for prostitution with the notion of
00:36:24.780
love they ask how can you really love a poor man in quote here and i have heard this but i haven't
00:36:31.840
you know seen it myself and then here he says chinese people appeal to political correctness on
00:36:36.060
a daily basis it is very deeply ingrained they are genuinely patriotic when asked to give an opinion
00:36:41.580
on something potentially quote-unquote sensitive read political there is a short delay where they recall
00:36:47.000
the chinese stance before they state the collective national view he would argue that this happened for such a
00:36:53.120
long time that chinese people convinced themselves that having few kids was not only moral but good
00:36:57.840
in other ways two cognitive dissonance confirmation bias and intersexual status signaling drove them to
00:37:03.540
post-rationalize having few children as being something that was fashionable three this would have been
00:37:08.940
compounded by overly effective propaganda promoting all the positives for having few kids and downplaying
00:37:14.840
the negatives which are repeated verbatim by women who don't want kids because even why the women
00:37:19.960
also don't want this and four those arguments have now been fully adopted and leveraged perhaps in a
00:37:24.820
subconscious collective quote-unquote fu to the government for controlling reproductive rights for
00:37:29.320
the past um in the first place and then he said and he asked a few women whether they would prefer
00:37:34.480
one child worth 1 million or two kids worth 500k and they unanimously chose one child worth 1 million
00:37:40.560
china is effed they need to convince these women that having kids is preferable but they spent the last few
00:37:47.100
decades doing the exact opposite chinese women are ironically very individualistic and i've actually
00:37:53.060
seen this individualism in chinese women that that we're friends with but another thing i note here
00:37:58.280
is for people who like don't believe how set in their ways china is even despite their desperate
00:38:03.300
demographic situation which is going to lead to the collapse of their country pretty much inevitably at
00:38:07.260
this point the government is still only on a three child policy they need to be on a 10 child policy
00:38:13.520
yeah right yeah and i think it's this cognitive dissonance that he's talking about here is why
00:38:19.480
gone to new way of viewing things so here i'm going to talk about another one of those subsects that this
00:38:26.880
future is right a podcast did on asians which i found really interesting and i'm going to quote
00:38:31.340
something here because he's he's talking about real studies here like i don't love all of the ideas
00:38:36.100
that he draws from it but i found it really interesting so one thing to note is if you look at infants
00:38:42.360
like six months old people who are like there are not gender differences in infants you see massive
00:38:46.820
differences in like very very young infants in terms of behavioral patterns it is very clear that
00:38:53.780
we are pre-coded to be different as genders but you also see ethnic differences which i wasn't as aware
00:38:59.700
of oh okay the face of a 48 year old chinese baby with a cloth it may clear its mouth for a way to
00:39:08.500
breathe but it will otherwise stay passive the white baby will go to war its arms will flail with
00:39:15.100
all the force it can muster against the unidentified creature that's intruded its rights that's the way
00:39:20.060
he he about words this okay was looking at this had a p value of 0.001 oh so this is a really strong
00:39:29.340
and you can say was there bias in the study in a 2005 book and i'm quoting him now the u chicago
00:39:34.340
professor who carried out this study and its follow-up the 1970s describes his inspiration
00:39:38.960
for it as talking to his chinese american wife about different cultural upbringings
00:39:43.940
babies have no culture a conformist baby becomes a conformist adult this is him quoting here of course
00:39:50.460
we be free and creative people not drones so this is the way he sees it i don't see it this way okay
00:39:56.220
but i did find this very interesting and i actually have video of these old studies
00:40:00.480
of the babies yeah you can see how the different babies react to this on earth but
00:40:07.620
there's going to be if you look at confucius culture which we you know talked about in the last
00:40:15.340
video on lower east asian fertility rate so like really preferring hierarchy and conformity that is
00:40:22.400
going to genetically reward people who have these preferences i guess trusting of authority figures
00:40:30.440
trusting of authority figures in the system and you see this in the u.s even even though
00:40:34.200
the democrats like the the east asian population in the u.s is the most effed population by dei and
00:40:40.880
yet they keep voting for democrats it is absolutely wild there no one should be further to the right
00:40:47.340
like they should be like far to the right of white people yeah in terms of their the amount that they
00:40:52.940
contribute to social services if they but they culturally speaking and perhaps even genetically speaking
00:40:58.440
seem to trust authority and hierarchies more but again i don't think this is a bad thing i said this
00:41:04.620
in the last episode progressives pretend they value diversity but then they pretend that everyone's the
00:41:10.460
same how could diversity have value of everyone's the same diversity can only be a strength if we admit
00:41:17.120
that whether it's from a cultural or genetic standpoint there are not better or worse people but
00:41:23.720
people on average are bringing different perspectives and proficiencies to the table
00:41:27.840
and through working with people who are genuinely different from you in the same way that i was able
00:41:33.820
to read this study by a guy who holds many perspectives that i personally find distasteful right i was able
00:41:42.320
to learn things that i never would have seen because of my perspective yeah that's that's a really strong
00:41:47.160
point yeah well and that's why especially why looking in to the work of people from a broad variety of
00:41:56.960
viewpoints is important because if you just stick with the heterodox people like within a certain realm
00:42:04.720
you're just going to see the weird stuff that they see you also have to look at the sources and arguments
00:42:10.920
made by people who say things that are very offensive to you or that are really yeah out of left field
00:42:17.040
for you so so i would argue that the the chinese problem when i read this guy's email and i consider
00:42:23.860
it in context with potential you know cultural differences and perhaps even genetic differences
00:42:28.340
in terms of you know proficiencies and how they choose to relate to the world it actually seems that
00:42:34.360
the core problem of east asian fertility is downstream of a sexist culture if you have a conformist
00:42:40.940
culture that views males and females as two essentially different classes or casts we get
00:42:47.680
this culture where it's easy for a woman or a man to identify more with other men or women especially
00:42:53.400
if you consider the first polls that we were looking at that is my husband or wife is not the core focus
00:42:58.400
of my life whereas if you look at the culture that we come from which is one of the most resistant
00:43:03.980
cultures to fertility collapse or other resistant cultures to fertility collapse like jewish culture
00:43:08.460
they're much more clan based so like our culture and i really see this now that i have kids and i
00:43:15.020
consider my family conceptually in my head i see us more as a clan than a family yeah looking at them
00:43:22.800
i'm like oh yeah i gotta raise the next generation of the clan i gotta play with that you know when i'm
00:43:26.580
playing with my other family members this is our clan's value set this is what we stand for the clan
00:43:31.600
comes first and this is something that was always told to me when i was a kid you know blood thicker than
00:43:35.380
water your family always comes first you know see yourself well i should note that my culture has a
00:43:42.380
pretty unique understanding of family comes first it's competent family comes first incompetent family
00:43:47.700
are worse than trash which is a very interesting way of relating to it yeah i was thinking about you
00:43:52.380
versus like the tiger mom trope and it's really interesting because it's it's a lot more sink or swim
00:43:58.840
it's not so much i'm going to focus on you no matter what even if you're a loser i'm going to keep
00:44:03.580
hammering at you it's more like if you're a loser you're dead to me leave the house we're not going
00:44:09.160
to talk anymore if you're a winner and a lot of people were surprised they were like i haven't
00:44:13.260
because i mentioned like my parents talking about disowning me when i was a kid right if i did x or
00:44:17.240
i did y or i didn't achieve z and i think a lot of people they were like i didn't hear this type of
00:44:22.760
language growing up this type of language is very common in my culture okay it's very common because
00:44:28.440
uh if you are going to have like people can see it as unethical but i actually see it as a highly
00:44:33.260
ethical way of dealing with things if you are going to have a clan based mentality i.e family first
00:44:38.720
this has a huge risk of nepotism i.e you you end up defending clan members who either did something
00:44:45.680
that was obviously immoral which can lead to things like blood feuds with neighboring clans or you end up
00:44:53.120
putting a family in a position that they haven't earned the right to secure and so it's more a clan
00:44:59.140
based system but a clan based system that only maintains ownership of an individual if they have
00:45:05.140
proven that they are worthy of being slurred slotted into like roles within the clan or clan
00:45:12.360
based like business structure uh based on their own competence and and it was made very clear to me
00:45:19.240
if you do not show that you are excellent like if you go to less than an ivy league school you're out
00:45:23.940
if you go to like they were really clear on all of this stuff and i think this is why like
00:45:28.420
all of my cousins went to an ivy league school or oxford or cambridge like it's it's uh and i have a lot
00:45:33.900
of cousins all but one but yeah it's interesting anyway did you have any uh final thoughts here before
00:45:41.980
we move to the next one i i'm just really excited to see where the research goes over time
00:45:48.780
and when we it won't go anywhere that's why all these studies are from like the freaking 40s no
00:45:52.780
but just specifically on on polygenic risk scores related to fertility because i think more people
00:45:57.880
are going to start looking at those but we'll see yeah i mean and a lot of people like why are you
00:46:03.300
looking at this old research you think you could conduct any of these studies today yeah it ain't
00:46:06.800
happening anymore any type of ethnic differences like yeah we're we're different and that's why we
00:46:13.020
benefit working together yeah and as i said in the the last episode you know you want to go on
00:46:17.900
and on about how you know we don't need their conformist hierarchy based culture nothing good
00:46:23.600
is going to come from this well then where are semiconductor fabs buddy okay we got a few but not
00:46:29.140
many a little island out there has most of the world's semiconductor fabs and when they tried to
00:46:34.600
build ones in the united states they said people couldn't follow orders well enough for the plants to
00:46:39.060
operate yeah so well then i i really hope that east asian populations figure out how to develop some
00:46:44.700
high fertility subcultures that are also really high performing because yeah to lose their unique
00:46:51.200
competitive advantages their unique perspectives would be a genuine tragedy so yikes but oh well
00:46:58.140
we'll see what happens love you to death simone i love you too malcolm okay okay so here's a question
00:47:06.820
octavian do you want to marry someone when you grow up like like have a mommy who you marry and then be
00:47:12.140
mommy and daddy to kids yes okay do you want to find that person yourself or do you want daddy to
00:47:18.420
find them for you um i want to find them by myself okay why do you want to find them by yourself
00:47:24.280
because because why why because because you like doing things on your own you like walking home on your
00:47:34.800
own right you get really mad when daddy tries to help you yes why do you like to walk home on your
00:47:39.740
own because i want to what about you titan do you want to be a mama one day
00:47:57.300
likeか��들이 look at the people you guys are adorable yes yeah what do you want torsten
00:48:01.860
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