Based Camp - Did Tinder Cause BLM & Me Too？ Could it Lead to Males & Females Speciating？

00:00:00.000 So 2015 is when Tinder launched and about two years later is really when it started to pick up.

00:00:08.600 The thing that really made hookup culture run out of control was the technology introduction of swipe based dating, which made hookup culture something that could run at scale.

00:00:21.340 And that's when women who were eights and below suddenly had access to these higher quality men on their lazy nights and started to believe that this was the type of man who eventually would become their boyfriend or marry them.

00:00:38.880 And this is where the resentment really starts.

00:00:41.140 i mean it is it is striking like as soon as tinder gets popular bam women explode you get me too

00:00:49.580 you get blm you get huge rates of of additional liberal tendencies in the female voting pool

00:00:58.480 particular in the single female voting pool would you like to know more hello simone i'm excited to

00:01:03.800 be here with you today today we're going to be talking about an interesting question and an

00:01:07.640 interesting theory the theory coming from simone is did hookup culture create the current and

00:01:17.100 continually growing divide between young men and young women and we'll be going over a bunch of

00:01:23.500 stats that signify this divide because it's way bigger than you would imagine and then the second

00:01:29.120 i want to go over comes from an anime i was watching recently oh no because i was on a leaflet

00:01:35.780 stream and somebody on the leaflet comments they go seeing leaflet and malcolm talks makes me not

00:01:41.120 as afraid that we're going to end up with an x future and i was like i haven't heard of this

00:01:45.260 anime so i went to look it up and watch it and it's old and not very good but it is an interesting

00:01:49.940 concept which is after artificial wombs are developed because already with humanity one of

00:01:58.700 the thought experiments i often have is like wouldn't it be cool if like crow magnets continue

00:02:02.640 to exist today so like we could talk ways and converse with a human with like a completely

00:02:07.660 different sociological physiological perspective on reality right yeah or neanderthals yeah yeah 1.00

00:02:13.920 we we basically have that which is human females right because human females are probably more

00:02:21.800 different from human males than neanderthal males are from human males and neanderthal females were 0.62

00:02:26.440 from human females like as hominids we're quite different from each other in terms of our 0.95

00:02:30.920 our sociological perspectives the way we would want government the work the way we would want 1.00

00:02:34.780 the prisons in so many different ways we're very very very different from each other

00:02:38.560 structure and yeah muscle roles yeah and it asks it sort of takes this this guess is that well once

00:02:47.960 we have artificial wombs the core political divide which we're kind of seeing already

00:02:53.000 is going to be between men and women and eventually they split into different civilizations 0.99

00:02:59.060 one is a descendant civilization of males and other is a descendant civilization of females

00:03:05.420 and obviously the the very fun thing is how they mythologize why the other was so bad like all of 0.73

00:03:13.560 the cruel ways women used to treat men and it's like a list of like men's rights grievances like

00:03:19.180 did you know that men died in like 98 the rate of women when they worked together did you know 0.78

00:03:24.740 that like and it says what what would those two differing societies be like and honestly

00:03:30.500 and i i want to talk with you do you think that happens because i hadn't actually thought through

00:03:38.760 how strong the political winds may be for a divide between men and women we're already seeing people

00:03:48.020 in both camps talking about wanting to do it right like sandman who we've had on the show

00:03:52.960 has talked about doing that himself you know a bunch of guys yeah yeah a bunch of guys we talked

00:03:57.340 to other guys who are doing it even when i was in austin there were people like talking about it

00:04:01.900 like i wish i could just do this and i'm like oh actually you can i'll share the google doc with

00:04:05.840 you of that that other guy who oh yeah you should put that with us his his guide to getting a

00:04:11.260 surrogate and just doing it on your own on a budget a bunch of women have talked about wanting 0.98

00:04:17.720 to do this to the extent that there's been a number of instances where women have like

00:04:21.200 when they with their lesbian partner or whatever accidentally conceived a male child like wanted to

00:04:28.200 sue the clinic when they found out they couldn't have an abortion they said it felt like there's

00:04:31.420 also a couple there's a a prominent case of a gay couple having done this too

00:04:35.840 to have only gay kids only male kids i mean yeah so well i mean this is like a thing on tumblr like

00:04:43.320 let's just create what do we even need men for what did it we could have birth without them

00:04:48.420 Right. You know, but same, same with gay couples, you know, and if they're doing it without women 1.00

00:04:53.120 and they just want to have a boy kid. Yeah. People can be like, well, you at least need 0.99

00:04:57.240 like sperm or eggs. And it's like, not anymore. Like IVG technology is getting pretty good at

00:05:01.520 this point. We've found it was our foundation. So we're maybe 10 years away from IVG just being,

00:05:07.720 you know, an easy way to, that means being able to create sperm and egg cells from other types

00:05:11.600 of cells in your body. Yeah. But to be, to be clear, a lot of this is couched in for context,

00:05:16.420 a new polling that was conducted for the new statesman in the UK early in this year that

00:05:23.420 found that young women, especially in the 25 to 30 range, are way more negative on men than young

00:05:31.000 men are toward women. So as much as I cited this example of a gay couple suing because 0.54

00:05:36.180 they didn't have the boy they hoped for and selected, this is more about female hate and 0.57

00:05:43.320 female pushing away. No, I could see reactive male speciation of just being like, I'm going to 0.71

00:05:48.740 throw my hands up and wash my hands of the situation. But what people have been discussing

00:05:53.120 a lot online is this new statesman polling. I'm going to, in the show notes, link to an archive

00:06:00.260 link, so not paywalled, of the actual polling results. But some highlights of it are that about

00:06:06.300 72 percent of young men report a favorable view of young women so most right but only around seven 0.58

00:06:14.260 percent report an unfavorable view but again this is a very friendly approach but then women under

00:06:19.800 30 only half report a favorable view of men and one-fifth like 21 percent versus seven percent

00:06:27.700 for men have a favorable view and among women under 25 only about 35 percent express a positive

00:06:34.960 view of men at all. And just about 11% describe their view as very positive. Wow. So only one in

00:06:41.820 four women under 25 has a positive view of men. Yeah. Yeah. And young women are three times as 0.92

00:06:47.420 likely to hold a negative view of men as young men are to hold a negative view of women put other

00:06:52.360 ways. And then 40% of young women say men don't share their understanding of consent in relationships.

00:06:58.360 So only 25% say the same amount about women, which makes sense. Young women are twice as likely as 0.50

00:07:04.660 young men to say they don't want children, something we've discussed at length. And this

00:07:08.920 shows up in a lot of polling. So 15% of women versus 8% of men. And among white women under 30,

00:07:15.580 it's 20%. And one in four young women say a partner's different political views is a red

00:07:21.640 flag. So God forbid we consider alternate views, which is actually- Hold on, hold on, hold on,

00:07:27.240 Simone. Would you have said that back when you were a progressive when I first met you?

00:07:30.640 i really liked uh talking with people who are different when i when i found them on okay keep

00:07:36.780 it that was kind of a selling point okay maybe i was weird i would have thought that it was

00:07:41.420 normative because i thought you know women love enemies to lovers they love a bad guy they love

00:07:45.900 novelty they love new views well we all saw the the ice romance books pop off so so yeah that that 0.99

00:07:53.580 is i actually find that very surprising like why why would women be so into enemies to lovers and

00:07:59.820 and like to view men as these like oh like powerful agentic whatever and and leftist views 0.97

00:08:05.180 broadly which is what women women are holding on average like i don't think this is young

00:08:08.620 conservative women saying that they wouldn't date a progressive male partner interesting here is a

00:08:14.520 few things so one is obviously this changes the framing when people are like incels or like angry 0.67

00:08:19.180 young men or the problem in society it's very clear that angry young women are astronomically

00:08:24.180 more of a problem in society than angry young men men's reaction is mostly i don't want to deal 0.78

00:08:30.500 with this right like these these harpies are nightmarish have you ever had to interact with

00:08:35.540 one yeah yeah and they are they are you know i mean old saying women can't live with them can't 0.98

00:08:43.380 live without them but increasingly you can live without them and will that allow for speciation

00:08:48.100 is your question yes no mandate speciation so yeah i i also want to say that women also 74

00:08:57.640 said the same about disagreements on social justice so it's not just politics it's also

00:09:02.200 social justice and also they're more likely than men to rule out partners just over immigration

00:09:06.920 views alone like not like oh you're a republic even if you're a progressive man who believes

00:09:12.780 in social justice but then you know you're like you know maybe we should curtail immigration 0.97

00:09:16.360 nope you're out so anyway it just it check out the survey there's a ton more and also women have way 0.97

00:09:22.340 more negative views for example on economics they're more pessimistic on life in general 1.00

00:09:27.220 they honestly sound like bummers to be around well also i i note on your enemies to lover thing

00:09:33.140 which i do think is right i think women honestly go for that it's you can date with a strategy like

00:09:39.600 that without as much trouble as you would imagine um the a lot of male dating advice is really messed

00:09:48.680 up and this is in part because of hookup culture so we're going to go into that conversation a

00:09:52.160 little yes uh because men are still sort of red pill cucked around what women are looking for

00:10:00.020 and it's something that i have pointed out before but i i want to point it out again because i i

00:10:05.360 it's like really important that guys grok this because i was watching a home math video

00:10:09.560 and i really respect home math i think he's a great same home math is awesome but he was going

00:10:14.880 over the studies that show oh well you know these guys who say that you don't really need to work

00:10:20.900 out you don't really need to be buffed there's better things to invest your time in in terms of

00:10:25.120 securing a partner gender they're they're wrong about this right like look at these studies and

00:10:31.240 So he goes over a number of studies and then he mentions a line that he sees a sort of

00:10:36.840 a throwaway line, but it misses the entire point.

00:10:39.860 He's like, well, of course, the studies found that women really prefer, you know, buff guys

00:10:46.560 when they're looking for a short term partner, but not so much when they're looking for a

00:10:50.680 long term partner. 0.67

00:10:51.660 But he's like, but of course, because we're all downstream of the red pill community, 0.74

00:10:55.380 you want to be the short term partner, right? 0.77

00:10:58.420 Like you want to be the sex boy, right?

00:11:00.540 No, no.

00:11:01.060 and it's like that's not what anyone in our community wants we're looking for a long-term

00:11:06.300 partner right and so they men so frequently cue to what women are looking for in short-term

00:11:14.860 partners because it's something that's very easy to test like i go to a club i go to a night ball

00:11:22.120 i'm surfing on apps am are women like flocking to me right and the answer is yes if you're 1.00

00:11:30.860 buffer they are but that can once you go above certain levels actually lead you to problems 1.00

00:11:37.040 securing a partner if we look in the manosphere sort of wider influencer space right and this is

00:11:43.740 i think a good way to like sanity test ideas in your head yeah okay of the influencers i know

00:11:50.020 who have x body type or y body type how has so in that video homest your picture

00:11:56.140 in real life home math is apparently quite a a buff very muscular looking guy all that

00:12:04.220 illustrating you know really so it works you out okay so like let's think of like buff

00:12:08.440 manosphere you got home math yeah you've got chris williamson you've got i'm thinking of

00:12:15.100 rye nationalists do any of these guys have kids or even a spouse sorry i forgot a few here

00:12:22.120 you also have andrew huberman myron gaines and bronze age pervert and then oh weaselly little

00:12:29.680 malcolm here how did i how did i end up with with five and counting kids who else in the new

00:12:36.860 right intellectual influencer space has a wife and kids uh well we have pictures of traditional

00:12:42.440 masculinity like curtis yarvin and ed dutton the point i'm making is it's very important to not

00:12:50.780 invest the hard parts of life in the wrong area. If I was to spend a portion of my day,

00:13:00.540 for example, exercising, that would be time I'm not spending building or writing.

00:13:07.140 Building wealth, building a family, finding a wife, et cetera. Yeah. Well, and more broadly,

00:13:12.000 the advice that you get from anyone is going to get you where they are broadly, if it works

00:13:17.100 uh in the best case scenario so by the way the thing that i built recently that i'm quite excited

00:13:23.140 about i i'll try to get this episode i'll get it live for this episode i'll get it live for this

00:13:27.280 episode all right is on reality fabricator we're building this is in conjunction with leaflet who's

00:13:35.100 providing me like advice on this a card game and what the game will do is it'll be like playing

00:13:42.820 actual like yugioh so like in in like the anime right we're like cards have like abilities but

00:13:50.700 like if a dragon is like breathing flame right well that has the effects that a dragon breathing

00:13:56.440 flame would have it doesn't have like numbered effects it doesn't have a health bar or something

00:14:00.100 like that right and so you play your cards onto a deck and you give actions like in words like i

00:14:09.080 want the card to do x i want the card to do y knowing what the environment is and then an ai

00:14:13.720 runs to decide you did this your opponent did this obviously we have an ai opponent you can

00:14:18.360 work with or you can go with human opponents and it then based on what happens based on both of

00:14:24.520 your choices changes the individual elements of that scene so the images on the cards get changed

00:14:33.580 based on what happened to them the environment funny gets changed like if this were pokemon

00:14:40.600 and they were pokemon cards like pikachu would look all beat up and stuff yes pikachu would

00:14:45.460 look all beat up after he's hit right like that's the idea that's um yeah that's great i love that

00:14:50.920 by the way you can turn off the feature that constantly changes the images to save money

00:14:55.020 if you're like i don't like that's a little you don't need that yeah holy raw real monsters

00:15:00.540 actually they're just super advanced holograms created for the sole purpose of enriching the

00:15:05.740 experience of a children's card game okay seriously you've got to be kidding me who

00:15:11.320 wastes all their money on something like that i still love that i want to see okay i don't want

00:15:16.160 to see pikachu beat up but i want to see pikachu sadly about the only element that's not working

00:15:22.880 very well right now at least the last time i tested was the image redraw feature so i hope

00:15:28.000 to have that done by the end of the week but we're stuck in dc right now so we're not getting as much

00:15:31.760 done as normal and i'll eventually make that part of the feature like obviously i've been working on

00:15:35.820 the big thing we were working on was agents recently was making them cost a lot less and

00:15:38.960 now there's a video telling you how to use the agents it's like the top agent card if you want

00:15:42.500 to use agents so you can watch that because they'd rack up costs way too quickly the way they were

00:15:47.100 structured before and so i came up with a number of options you can use to really specialize your

00:15:53.540 task with an agent and cut down their costs they also have a vibe coding mode which basically

00:15:58.880 means they create either a task list and work until the end of the task list is done or they

00:16:04.500 just work until they don't make a tool or an action call uh like typical vibe coding software

00:16:09.740 does which also has them just not run as long and rack up the same costs what else yeah but yeah 0.83

00:16:15.160 building constantly right like women like guys who do stuff and have missions talk about this thesis

00:16:22.220 on sort of the the trigger of this divide because i think it's it's interesting and i'm kind of like

00:16:27.220 oh i see i see i see where this is going so on x ray aka at dystopian gf wrote casual sex is 0.99

00:16:36.400 unironically a huge part of why so many women have become politically radicalized if you ask 1.00

00:16:42.380 a random woman why she hates men 95 chance it boils down to sexual grievance accumulated from 1.00

00:16:49.400 embarrassing experiences like the op in other words women are the real incels in spirit i 1.00

00:16:55.420 witnessed this myself in college one too many bad situationships and they begin to carry this 1.00

00:17:00.440 feeling of being a piece of meat everywhere projecting it onto society despite there being

00:17:05.600 zero material evidence of structural misogyny in the west the bitter irony is that hookup and 0.99

00:17:11.020 situationship culture is a byproduct of feminism they fought for the ability to be treated like 0.94

00:17:16.440 pieces of meat to be equal to men and sexual the way men are with each other but the attainment of

00:17:22.780 this freedom has done nothing but foment an even deeper hatred for their of their father's

00:17:27.640 civilization and she posted this in response to someone sharing a screenshot from a post hookup

00:17:33.340 story a woman posted on tiktok the caption that op had put was situationship breakups are so crazy

00:17:39.920 because why did this man just tell me the only person he wants to be with is his ex and then

00:17:44.220 immediately make me eggs on toast he nutted in me like 10 minutes after this what in god's name is 1.00

00:17:49.120 happening which is just gross and then moe bible on x chipped in women will post this beep and then 1.00

00:17:57.040 wonder why the entire planet and every major religion has imposed strict social related 1.00

00:18:02.380 restrictions on their sovereignty since the dawn of time in every place humans have ever lived

00:18:08.020 also the shadow band wrote let's at least sympathize here the man does not need to do

00:18:12.220 this to her just because a girl is willing to put out doesn't mean you have to take her up on the

00:18:17.260 offer to which ray responded i do tend to think that vol cells like and like voluntary incels

00:18:23.360 are the most noble of men and i'll link in the show notes to the discourse but i'm like oh my

00:18:29.520 god is this true like is the political polarization that we're seeing between men and women something

00:18:35.580 that really accelerated after about male responsibility in this okay in truth i think

00:18:42.440 men have near zero responsibility in this and i'll explain why okay you what they can't help

00:18:49.460 themselves suppose you say men should be vol cells right and the vast majority of men decide to be

00:18:58.920 vol cells, right? So you, you get out there and 75% of men are like, yeah, I'm going to be vol

00:19:05.400 cells. Yeah. Like I'm not going to sleep with you. I will be a gentleman. I will ask to be

00:19:09.660 your boyfriend. I will meet your parents. The problem is, is that the men who don't sign up

00:19:15.180 for that, right? Because it's so easy for them to get sex now because of this huge arbitrage that's

00:19:21.300 been created. Women who are open to sleeping around are just going to have such a big audience 1.00

00:19:27.280 because they can sleep with one girl one night one girl the next night one girl the night after 1.00

00:19:30.880 that right yeah the the amount of women sleeping around does not actually decrease dramatically 1.00

00:19:36.960 if you increase the number of vol cells unless you can get to total social prohibition that's 0.90

00:19:43.120 true basically yeah one one or two bad actors can cover a lot of ground a lot of ground exactly

00:19:49.200 so this is fundamentally like the woman is not thinking about the the pattern like the guy has

00:19:56.060 told her i have no interest in committing to you and then she sleeps with him right and she's like

00:20:01.380 well he's not being actively unpleasant to me so i guess i'm gonna sleep with him right like

00:20:06.420 obviously this causes externalities right to to structure society this way and the core obviously

00:20:15.600 we haven't gotten to this yet but you know any of our audience who's watched our previous videos 1.00

00:20:19.280 on this nose the core challenge that this creates is because all of the women are chasing after so 0.96

00:20:27.140 few men this is just statistically true and i'm i'm really perplexed when women are like well

00:20:32.040 that's a sexist talking point and i'm like okay here's a chart of a hundred men you know how many

00:20:39.420 of them are you willing to sleep with right you know like they're like well these two and i'm like

00:20:43.160 you see that's the problem right so or they might have who's who else are people sleeping with right 0.93

00:20:49.720 you know that women have a phenomenon where they will find somebody more attractive the more

00:20:53.300 other people sleep with them by the way another thing if you're thinking of the like when i'm

00:20:57.880 like guys you are wrong about who women actually like go after in in a meaningful context yeah

00:21:03.640 which youtuber recently had a major scandal where it turned out he was sleeping with tons of women

00:21:10.320 this was secchio the one they tried to cancel that guy who failed to be canceled yeah whose

00:21:16.860 girlfriend like came out in defense of him despite the fact that she had been cheated on multiple

00:21:22.040 times yeah that is ultimate but this is what i'm talking about right you know you're not you're not

00:21:28.500 getting these other influencers this is happening to them no it's little twinkie secchio or whatever

00:21:33.620 his name is but it's like his belief women over i was thinking about doing an episode in that one

00:21:39.340 because everyone after that like basically defended him and they're like hey a guy should

00:21:43.640 be able to cheat like what are you talking about what was most fun to watch is just all the guys

00:21:49.340 covering him being like oh my god like he did it guys he pulled it off what a moment for men

00:21:55.580 well amazing the woman who attacked him came off as so fucking petty she was like she's like well 0.81

00:22:03.200 I went to Vegas to a hotel room with him and we stayed up late watching a horror movie together 0.98

00:22:10.680 and then we hooked up and had sex and it's like hold on but she's like but that's not why I went

00:22:20.000 that's not what my intention I was like wait you went alone with him to Vegas to watch horror

00:22:26.220 movies in a shared hotel room that is consent okay i'm sorry like they say 40 percent of women

00:22:34.300 have a different idea of consent than what men have why the f else did you go there what else

00:22:39.860 did you think was supposed to happen you think he wanted to fly do you do you think that he was

00:22:46.040 supposed to think that that's what you wanted was to just watch horror movies especially when you

00:22:50.260 didn't actively deny consent or tell him i'm not interested in sex well and went forward with it 0.97

00:22:56.480 yeah that was absolutely multiple times by the way first giving him head then having sex with

00:23:04.220 him head isn't something that you can easily accidentally do yeah it's not like she slipped 0.93

00:23:09.320 in the shower yeah come on people like i think that was the other thing where people were like

00:23:16.500 that she thought that this was some big like reveal on him is so egregious it shows such

00:23:24.120 a sense of entitlement right like i wanted a famous guy to commit to me who is already in

00:23:32.440 a relationship and i will achieve this by getting him to sleep with me and it's like no it doesn't

00:23:38.820 work that way right the one place where i think in this scenario that's been created where i think

00:23:44.840 guys are extremely culpable is this is guys that signal that they want more serious or more long

00:23:52.900 term relationships than they actually want and i think that this is something that like as men if

00:23:58.860 we are going to socially punish a behavior is the easy behavior to socially punish and they should

00:24:05.040 be socially punished and seen as extremely bad because i have seen many women who do actually

00:24:10.400 want long-term relationships get screwed over by guys who don't want long-term relationships

00:24:17.080 signaling that they do want long-term relationships to gain access to these women and then people can

00:24:22.860 be like well then the woman just shouldn't put out in any way and it's like okay you can say that

00:24:28.360 but a lot of guys even guys who are actually interested in long-term relationships just won't

00:24:32.360 seriously date them then yeah but anyway continue is where you were going with this i sent you two

00:24:38.800 graphs on whatsapp that you can include in this episode if you so please they show the political

00:24:46.560 ideology divide as it grows over time between men and women one starts at 1970 wow after 2015 women

00:24:54.500 went off the deep end with liberal well so to so 2015 is when tinder launched and about two years

00:25:03.720 later is really when it started to pick up which you can really actually see on the graph like two

00:25:09.400 years later and it's like and it what's clear is that throughout history like starting in the 1960s

00:25:15.560 you know there was the sexual revolution definitely mores around sexuality and dating

00:25:21.860 got looser and looser and looser over time but the thing that really i think made hookup culture

00:25:29.720 run out of control was the technology introduction of swipe-based dating, which made hookup culture

00:25:37.600 something that could run at scale. It made it very, very possible for lazy eights, nines, and tens

00:25:43.360 to access as many women as they wanted. Like that's when the unlimited women on tap apps came 1.00

00:25:50.260 out basically. Yeah. And that's when women who were eights and below suddenly had access to these

00:25:58.800 higher quality men on their lazy nights and started to believe that this was the type of

00:26:05.280 man who eventually would become their boyfriend or marry them. And this is where the resentment

00:26:10.160 really starts. I think that hookup culture was not as much of a problem and certainly didn't

00:26:15.500 breed resentment and then foment political polarization before women had this experience

00:26:24.500 of being jilted by men who never expected to invest in them as people from the get-go and

00:26:31.180 then when swipe-based dating happened suddenly that that was facilitated yeah it's really clear

00:26:39.640 um you have to understand how bad so simone said that these apps are women on demand for

00:26:47.520 high value men yeah and they really are women on demand for high value men it is just a constant

00:26:53.020 flow for as many women as they want whenever they feel like it and that leads them to treat these

00:26:57.980 women incredibly poorly it's like those old northern factory guys and they'd be like but

00:27:04.020 your employees could die in these conditions and it's like well you know i've got 10 other people 0.86

00:27:08.340 right you want someone to care about you be a slave right and again this is sort of what we're

00:27:14.900 dealing with here which and i have said this in other videos men owning their wives gave the women

00:27:23.120 more value like it caused them to become protected by those men in the same way that in many times

00:27:31.940 in the north factory workers were treated worse than slaves because at least you had a reason to

00:27:37.960 keep the slave alive but a better dynamic here is property ownership in communist countries versus

00:27:44.540 capitalist countries. In capitalist countries, properties are generally very well upkept.

00:27:49.820 Like you drive through a neighborhood, you're going to see a bunch of nice houses. In fact,

00:27:53.360 the only place where you really see super rundown houses is government housing,

00:27:57.180 where people do not own it. You go to communist countries, typically everything's falling apart.

00:28:01.340 And the reason is, is because if you don't own the property you're living in, then you don't

00:28:05.300 benefit from maintaining it or- You only stand to lose. Yeah.

00:28:08.280 you only stand to lose and it's the same with a partner a man who doesn't own his women or wife

00:28:16.480 right and who's just going through lots of them actually stands to lose from attempting to invest

00:28:23.080 in improving her right because then he's almost cucking himself you know he's improving some 0.97

00:28:27.960 woman that eventually some other man is gonna end up yeah yeah yeah and these women have shown that

00:28:33.360 that's the way that they act right now i'd also say do not take an overly harsh approach to women 0.99

00:28:39.160 over this which is to say that women are just behaving in relation to their biology in the

00:28:47.380 same way that men are right like women are one far more communalist in their ideology than men are

00:28:52.940 and so if they're in a community that all tells them something it is way way way psychologically

00:28:59.700 harder for them to break out of that um so when everyone around them is telling you you know oh

00:29:05.220 just sleep around you know it's no big deal get married in your 30s whatever that that a woman 0.99

00:29:13.960 is is gonna have a fairly hard time and the biggest thing that's told to them is all women

00:29:18.940 are beautiful you know do not judge yourself by reality is basically what that statement is

00:29:23.400 do not judge your you're you deserve whatever you want it's like do not you you it's such a 1.00

00:29:29.880 freaking bizarre ideology that's spread but it is absolutely commonplace among female circles 1.00

00:29:35.780 and then that your value on the sexual marketplace is the same as your value on the on the marriage 1.00

00:29:41.320 marketplace now they won't even allow you to have concepts like a sexual marketplace or marriage

00:29:46.380 marketplace they're like that's so dehumanizing what do you mean street market value what do you

00:29:49.360 mean whatever but if you don't understand these concepts as a woman you fundamentally won't

00:29:54.180 understand that the guys you can get to sleep with you on a swipe app are not the guys who

00:30:01.020 are going to marry you and the other concept that is heavily shamed in these communities

00:30:06.660 but is absolutely true is that you will be heavily penalized in the marriage marketplace

00:30:16.960 by men based on the number of partners you had before you found for sure yeah and and in fact

00:30:23.040 you're even more penalized in the marriage marketplace for past sexual partners than you

00:30:28.420 are on the sexual marketplace for past sexual partners um oh yeah well i shouldn't be and it's

00:30:33.520 like well i'm sorry honey you are right like that's just the data right like that's just the

00:30:38.080 reality because in the same way and it makes a lot of sense intuitively actually i mean the entire

00:30:42.340 reason why marriage was first established as a concept was about securing paternity and property

00:30:48.660 rights it was about making sure that the female partner was not sleeping with other people and

00:30:53.960 that the entire community knew that was the point of the like ceremony it's like by the way

00:30:59.120 no no one sleep with her okay do we all agree that no one slept with her before and i i'm the

00:31:05.940 only one to sleep with her after like that was the entire point like it was so simple it was about

00:31:10.520 property rights and it was about like promiscuity just i think it's underrated under under understood 1.00

00:31:16.760 or misunderstood and underrated the the where i'm going with this is women obey their biology just

00:31:22.180 as men do and women's biology tells them try to secure the highest value partner that you can

00:31:27.840 right like and it's and this is more than even males feel this right like for women it is

00:31:32.940 absolutely important i secure a a high value partner where high value is status or earning

00:31:40.380 etc right and so when they do not see that they are hurting themselves by being on the sexual

00:31:46.880 marketplace when they do not see that these relationships have no real chance at becoming

00:31:51.420 stable long-term relationships they they are like they they don't know that this is happening to

00:31:59.780 them they don't see this happening to them and they suffer for this you see the psychological 0.83

00:32:03.640 health of women way lower than the psychological health of men right now right like especially

00:32:08.680 progressive women who have fully adopted into these ideals and and i've met many women who 0.89

00:32:14.440 went into this culture and then came out of it and they're like it just effed up my life so much

00:32:21.380 but like how was i supposed to know there was nobody in these communities like the effect of

00:32:26.380 altruist community is one place where this really happens to women telling me like actually there's 1.00

00:32:31.020 huge externalities to the choices that you're making right now that are going to make your

00:32:35.880 long-term life really hard in the same way that like as a kid everybody warns you about getting

00:32:40.660 tattoos nobody was warning them against this and the other thing that is not i had mentioned this

00:32:45.100 in another video and i was very interested in the comments on this where i noted that while body

00:32:49.680 count matters a lot to men um interracial body count seems to matter significantly more than

00:32:56.460 body count e.g sleeping with somebody of a different ethnic group and i was wondering i was

00:33:01.400 like is that a unique to white men thing or is this something that other ethnicities have and

00:33:06.940 somebody in the comments was like actually you see this a lot in asian communities where if an asian

00:33:11.300 woman has slept with white men that that's considered worse than if she has been promiscuous

00:33:15.620 with asian men that's interesting yeah and we we brought this up on another episode and someone

00:33:23.120 even wrote in because you and i just didn't really we couldn't empathize with it and they were like 0.99

00:33:28.680 yeah i i can't control it but it is definitely a feeling of disgust so i feel like maybe there's

00:33:35.200 something genetic and inbuilt that some people have where if they know that someone is the product

00:33:40.140 of some form of mixed heritage marriage or pairing or no no no no that is not what i said i want to 0.89

00:33:49.860 be very clear about this okay women are typically not penalized for being mixed race they are

00:33:54.300 penalized for sleeping with somebody of a different race in the statistics you actually

00:33:58.580 see being mixed race helps you as a female so we pointed this out in the episode where we reviewed 0.95

00:34:03.840 yeah from attractiveness that's better to either marry your second or third cousin or to be mixed 1.00

00:34:08.100 race yes well not just that but that white men on average rate asian white women so women that 0.76

00:34:15.720 are birthed from asian white matches as hotter on average than fully white women yeah and we have 0.91

00:34:22.140 plenty of people who've written to us agreeing to that point that's obviously true like even though

00:34:27.920 i'm not drawn there are also people though who find that a major turnoff and who've also written

00:34:32.020 to us to attest to it so just pointing that out okay yeah yeah but i'm just saying like i'm just

00:34:37.200 searching myself right like i think that they are objectively hotter but i'm not interested in them

00:34:43.700 as a like marriage match like there's a certain look on a female that like it depends on what

00:34:50.240 you're you're optimizing for you're optimizing for a very specific cultural trope and other 1.00

00:34:55.320 people are optimizing for hotness so it depends on your equation yeah yeah yeah i'm i you didn't

00:35:01.040 optimize for hotness i'm sorry it's like one of the keyest most important things i'm always

00:35:06.900 optimizing for is no makeup obviously she wears makeup now because like we have a conservative

00:35:10.920 fan base and you're supposed to do that but like because your mom taught me yeah i think it's hot 0.92

00:35:16.880 it's no makeup yeah i found that really gross on women and i i don't know like i and simone has

00:35:22.260 noted this where i'm like what i think x person is really hot like pearl davis i was like i think 0.81

00:35:27.120 pearl davis is pretty hot and a lot of people don't it's about goes malcolm it's because she

00:35:30.280 doesn't wear much makeup and that's why our fans do not but i i i wonder if this is a genetic thing

00:35:36.400 with me or if it's a learned so this is i think this is what most men don't get about makeup

00:35:40.780 there are two types of makeup there's the makeup that women wear for other women which is when you

00:35:45.660 can tell it's there like red lipstick and visible eye stuff and contouring it's makeup you can tell

00:35:51.900 is there and then there's the other type of makeup which men call no makeup which is the type of

00:35:58.640 makeup that women put on that is undetectable to the untrained eye that makes women not look ill 0.64

00:36:04.580 and when they don't wear it they look sick suddenly and you're like oh god are you okay 0.99

00:36:08.720 and it's like no you've just only ever seen this one in makeup and you haven't realized it because

00:36:12.320 You don't know what to look for because you're a dude.

00:36:14.400 And I think men don't realize that. 0.98

00:36:15.920 Like, I like women without makeup.

00:36:17.660 No, you like women with makeup. 1.00

00:36:19.040 You just don't like women with makeup for women. 0.99

00:36:21.040 You like women with makeup for men. 1.00

00:36:22.820 All right, just, okay, end of that. 0.96

00:36:24.280 But what I'll note on these two charts

00:36:26.080 that I think is really interesting,

00:36:27.420 especially the second chart that you shared,

00:36:29.520 is that gender didn't make men more conservative.

00:36:32.000 It made women more progressive. 0.99

00:36:34.500 That's the thing.

00:36:35.280 That's the thing is I really do think

00:36:37.160 that there's something to Ray on X's point,

00:36:40.180 which is that this started to just subtly and cumulatively over time build this resentment,

00:36:46.540 which then I think snowballed into things like Me Too. For example, Me Too was actually founded

00:36:54.600 hashtag Me Too in 2006 by the activist Tarana Burke to support survivors of sexual violence,

00:37:01.500 but it didn't gain global or viral momentum until October of 2017 after Alyssa Milano encouraged

00:37:09.280 survivors to use the hashtag following harvey weinstein sexual abuse survivors eg the guy i

00:37:14.500 wanted didn't want me back but key thing remember tinder launched in september of 2015 but did not

00:37:21.340 pick up until two years later that is exactly when when me too went viral you i just feel like 0.51

00:37:27.620 coincidence i don't know but i think there's women really because you know the the joke about women

00:37:33.560 and responsibility they feel very deeply when they thought that they were getting with a guy

00:37:39.160 and that it was going to be a relationship and he just didn't want them for that they feel

00:37:43.300 incredibly used and like it's not their responsibility they're not responsible for

00:37:48.720 failing to win that guy the guy is responsible for failing to choose them and i think our society

00:37:56.020 unfortunately has reinforced this especially with hotter girls like because with hotter girls

00:38:02.240 they have lived in a society where everyone around them affirms them like female friends affirm them 0.95

00:38:07.540 in whatever emotional state because they're just supposed to and the ones that don't then all the

00:38:10.960 girls gang up on them and then males affirm them to get sex right like they don't have a reason 0.97

00:38:17.200 there was recently a viral phenomenon with a woman being like i switched from a female psychologist

00:38:22.520 to an old white male psychologist and the sessions have been so much more useful because he calls me 0.87

00:38:27.600 out on my bs you know no having a that's actually very emotionally mature of this woman also slight

00:38:33.780 correction tinder launched in 2012 and then got popular in 2014 2015 which is what would it would

00:38:40.600 be i think pretty explanatory for enough time for resentment to accumulate by 2017 when me me too 0.90

00:38:47.100 i mean it is it is striking like as soon as tinder gets popular bam women explode you get me too

00:38:55.940 you get blm you get huge rates of of additional liberal tendencies in the female voting pool

00:39:04.820 particular in the single female voting pool by the way something i want to do a separate episode

00:39:08.860 on which would be really exciting yeah is note on the other graph this is malcolm malcoming

00:39:13.780 noticing something on a graph and being like i want to figure this out okay so looking at the 0.95

00:39:17.920 first graph you sent me look in the 1970s what was going on then why did the female dating

00:39:26.600 population go so left in the 1970s that was at the tail end of the sexual revolution in the 1980s

00:39:33.600 was when things kind of clamped down again and he had this era of like baroque more traditionalism

00:39:39.900 i think i mean just going that it was the exact same phenomenon women because as i think that

00:39:45.300 yeah i think there was a backlash to sexual freedom that would that saw its peak in the

00:39:50.000 early 70s and then i think really started to plummet again in the 80s as people went a little

00:39:56.380 bit more traditional and gender divergent as homath has said society is constantly a battle

00:40:05.100 of women wanting to be sluttier and men trying to keep them from acting sluttier that's funny

00:40:10.660 I don't think that that's what's really happening. I mean, I think female behavior is not driven inherently by female sluttiness. It's driven by a combination of factors that leads to an inevitable result in aggregate behavioral patterns.

00:40:27.620 the behavioral patterns are women are communalist in their ideology okay so they adopt whatever 1.00

00:40:35.460 ideology is most common in their environment and it unless they have a strong man to protect them 0.96

00:40:41.400 in having an alternative ideology that's typically the only time like when women i think the reason 1.00

00:40:46.240 women become more conservative when they get married is they feel they have like a buffer or 0.90

00:40:49.660 a protector to have and think different thoughts that's the only way you got out of this and i'll 1.00

00:40:55.200 do a separate episode at some point on how to convert a progressive woman that would be useful 1.00

00:41:00.160 yeah because i think a lot of men are like well where do i find these conservative women and

00:41:04.320 you've said well just find you know progressive yeah what are you what are you talking about

00:41:09.900 but then i think you know the the obvious and intuitive male response is look look at the

00:41:14.760 numbers like women are broadly progressive and they won't consider even dating men who are

00:41:20.140 conservative and i think that's kind of where the nuance is no no no actually they will consider

00:41:24.960 The same way a woman says, I'd rather meet a bear in the woods than a man, they don't actually effing mean that. They're signaling something. They're signaling something to themselves and to the people around them. They still hot conservative guys. They say it all the time. They complain about it all the time, right?

00:41:43.080 they don't have any consistency in terms of these beliefs so women believe what the aggregate 0.94

00:41:48.920 opinion is and women are also disproportionately affected by whatever the hottest guys that they

00:41:54.080 believe they can gain access to are who are the hottest guys they believe they can gain access to 0.99

00:41:59.080 fuck boys why are they boys well because the guys who want longer-term relationships don't want 0.99

00:42:05.660 women like this they don't date women like this the guys like me who wanted to lock down partners 0.99

00:42:09.780 I mean, in reality, most guys who genuinely want a longer term relationship locked it down in their early 20s.

00:42:14.900 That's like when you really have to get it locked in.

00:42:17.540 And if you don't lock it in in your 20s, then you end up wasting a lot of time on it.

00:42:23.100 It's very interesting.

00:42:24.280 Like when we talk about something like exercise, the reason why I talk about something like exercise is you can build this mindset of I'm going to do X. 0.98

00:42:33.900 Then I'm going to go out and do the thing of getting a woman. 0.99

00:42:37.700 Right. 0.70

00:42:38.300 And it's very easy to be like, okay, once I've reached X goal, then I'll go get the woman. 0.52

00:42:43.140 But getting the woman is the hard part, right? 0.66

00:42:45.540 Like X goal gives you like a 10% advantage on getting the woman, right?

00:42:50.640 But it wastes way more than 10% of the time that you would have spent on getting the woman. 0.68

00:42:57.500 It's like 50% of the time. 1.00

00:42:58.840 And then you try to go out and get a woman, you find out they're all terrible or whatever. 1.00

00:43:02.500 And then you give up again for a long period. 0.97

00:43:04.120 and then you you go into a cycle again instead of just being like no no no no no i'm just going to

00:43:09.480 make it work no matter what right like i am going to break the door off its hinges it's going it's

00:43:18.920 going to happen i am going to make this work and that was like me you know like red pillars sorry

00:43:24.460 i say red pillars a few times here but what i meant was the hookup artist community i got the

00:43:28.700 two confused in my head for i mean they're adjacent to each other so i i forgive myself

00:43:33.360 would say like if you look at red pill strategy they'd say that the strategy that i've advocated

00:43:37.040 for like how do you secure a partner really high throughput dating you know being willing to cut

00:43:41.420 somebody off really quickly if it's clear it's not a match just moving moving moving they'd say

00:43:46.240 that's cheating like red pillars actively advocate against that because they go well that lacks skill

00:43:50.840 you know that's just a numbers game right and i'm like well you see here's the thing right even you 0.99

00:43:58.060 admit it works it just means they don't need to play your stupid game anymore what they need to 0.99

00:44:03.000 do is build social resilience, resilience to rejection and the emotional skills to know how 0.99

00:44:10.240 to start conversations with strangers. And I know today if guys are like, well, I'm just going to go

00:44:15.420 out and meet somebody at a whatever in public, 60% of relationships today begin online. The vast

00:44:21.580 minority of relationships begin in public these days. Yeah. And yeah, so many of the young people

00:44:26.340 that we meet now who are like, I want to meet someone are like, well, I just want to meet them

00:44:31.160 in person that's like the the default we've talked about this in other episodes women interviewed

00:44:36.520 for stories women polled say that they want to find someone offline so it's they do there's a

00:44:42.540 weird mismatch offline you know but the the the you know leave a girl your number or something

00:44:48.120 to do it this is the important thing in terms of shooting your shot do it in a non-threatening way

00:44:52.960 it's not that hard to be non-threatening in the way that you flirt with i guess it is hard for

00:44:59.000 some people right yeah i think it's scarce yeah the the less attractive you are especially if you

00:45:04.880 are unaware that you're not particularly attractive the worse it gets to and and this is the thing

00:45:10.900 you go out there and you leave a girl like your number and like uh i'd be open to chatting if

00:45:16.760 you're interested you know i'm new in town on her table or something like that totally inoffensive

00:45:22.200 look the girl might go on tiktok and attempt to shame you or something like that right

00:45:25.980 but the reality is is you just got to learn to tough that out yeah because there were plenty

00:45:32.940 of women who i'm sure attempted to shame me in the communities that i was in i i would move really

00:45:39.180 hard on women but you know eventually it worked out with a wife and the other thing that moved

00:45:44.700 hard on you yeah you moved on me she made she was interested in me was that you and i feel like

00:45:52.540 perfect matches to people who are like oh wow you guys seem like really well matched for each other

00:45:56.400 you know that is in part because of the number of dates that we were going on right like we didn't

00:46:03.220 just randomly end up as perfect matches for each other right we ended up as perfect matches because

00:46:08.060 i tried matching to everyone yeah and i prolifically reached out to guys on okcupid as

00:46:15.920 well which of course as a woman is is very unusual and a very easy way to gain an advantage in dating

00:46:21.320 markets if you're a woman and you're having trouble dating shame on you because all you 0.97

00:46:26.240 have to do is just just spawn camp like it's so easy you you just simone i don't i don't think

00:46:34.140 you'd like that implicate so spawn camping has a very specific meaning in dating culture oh it does

00:46:39.480 it means what does it mean dating culture really young people ew okay great thanks malcolm that's

00:46:46.980 wonderful i'm glad that you told me that wonderful great well so there's also just the option that we

00:46:52.420 speciate just give up just yes you know children of your own with my family and my kids i will try

00:47:00.300 to raise the culture of the next generation i think that many people in our wider community

00:47:04.420 are going to be doing this with their kids where they have sane expectations around sexuality and

00:47:09.000 dating and it prevents them from spiraling out like this because parents are having these

00:47:12.920 conversations was in yeah but arranged marriages again super underrated unfortunately that's not

00:47:20.600 something that we you know if you don't have parents who are invested in your getting married

00:47:25.320 and and they're not going to go out there and help you and and really make things happen and

00:47:29.300 work on networking in in conjunction with you you don't have that benefit so either handle it

00:47:36.400 yourself do it it's going to be hard or go your own way have kids by yourself and the question

00:47:44.800 that i started with yeah is humanity going to speciate one i think you're right about this

00:47:50.040 and i think you found something really interesting here how tinder broke society well what you

00:47:54.080 pointed out which is interesting and could provide some hope and this is in against the speciation

00:47:59.620 argument is as you saw there was this great divide right after the sexual revolution exploded

00:48:06.500 between men and women politically but it healed and perhaps this was because women went from being

00:48:11.980 incredibly sexually loose when the sexual revolution exploded and there was some backlash

00:48:17.800 and they were more there's a little more traditionalism in the 80s perhaps maybe that

00:48:22.080 will happen again if this next generation like if goes trad like actually goes trad what's going to 0.95

00:48:28.400 be so funny is the millennial women the aging millennial slut women how angry they're going 0.96

00:48:35.320 to get about that being shamed for young women for sleeping around which we're already seeing 0.94

00:48:40.280 happen yeah like i'm 50 and i was out sleeping around and it's like whoa like woman you're 50

00:48:47.840 and you're sleeping around like that's not something to brag about that does not make you

00:48:51.520 look cool that i think could really happen it's more likely to happen also with the rise of ai 0.99

00:48:57.420 is women have a more difficult time getting jobs that increasingly don't exist anymore

00:49:03.080 and don't have the aptitude required to engage in AI-fueled entrepreneurialism or to go into

00:49:10.360 trade roles that were historically dominated by men that are still going to maintain some

00:49:15.780 relevance and strength over time. So they're going to turn to being a more traditional

00:49:21.520 homemaker and wife as a career, which I think will also drive, even if this isn't in backlash 1.00

00:49:28.760 to hookup culture, I think it's an economic driver that will make women naturally more 1.00

00:49:34.160 sexually conservative and therefore also politically conservative. Because I think it's 1.00

00:49:38.920 also very hard to engage in this level of political polarization if you know a man

00:49:43.420 and are friends with a man and don't, you know, turn them into straw men and monsters that you

00:49:50.720 never actually engage with that's a good point well i i i feel like you're onto something with

00:49:57.660 this one and i appreciate that you know you made the effort to find me that was really thoughtful

00:50:04.800 of you that you went out there and you actually tried dating and emailing people because i had

00:50:07.940 seen your profile and i was never going to email it i i thought she appeared too arbitraged right

00:50:13.860 like it was all the nerd stuff she actually took pictures from the angles that made it look like 1.00

00:50:18.520 she might be fat and trying to hide it which she was unaware of the angles so she didn't know

00:50:23.440 but i'd had to deal with that too many times were you actually catfished by rotund people

00:50:28.580 all the time i'd actually say it was maybe a quarter of dates were significantly fatter than 1.00

00:50:34.540 they made themselves look well i guess female what 60 percent of american women are obese correct or 0.99

00:50:41.600 overweight at least yeah and i'm i am incredibly sensitive to weight in terms of looks i think 1.00

00:50:47.360 overweight women are very, very unattractive. I'd go further. It's to say, you know, we talk about 1.00

00:50:52.000 arousal to disgust, like pipeline of systems. I get a very strong disgust response from obese

00:50:58.760 people of both genders, actually. So had I not been aggressive, we never would have connected 0.98

00:51:04.140 because you thought I would catfish you. And to be clear, the reason why Malcolm went on a date

00:51:10.080 with me, even though he thought that my profile may have indicated that I was fat, was he made

00:51:14.920 me friend him on Facebook so that he could see all of the photos that other people had tagged me in

00:51:19.740 that other people took because that's a really easy way to tell like you can't trust a girl's

00:51:24.540 own photos of her because who knows how facetuned and angled they are but when someone else especially

00:51:30.740 a female friend is talking mate blocking material would would post a photo of them which is going to 1.00

00:51:36.300 be less than flattering on average yeah you met a girl later at a party who was like oh yeah we

00:51:43.560 were talking on okay cubit but you wouldn't meet up with me because i wouldn't share my facebook

00:51:46.860 and i was like and she wasn't fat but i was just like hard rule you know i do not want to waste

00:51:52.600 time this is what high throughput screening is about right and the and the reason i was so

00:51:56.940 aggressive about it was how frequently i was catfished yep absolutely and women by the way

00:52:02.940 in in their defense do not really understand that they're catfishing a guy they're they're 1.00

00:52:08.160 trying to show you the most flattering images of them that they have right like that seems like a

00:52:13.140 natural thing to want to do especially also have like some level of body dysmorphia like they don't

00:52:19.020 actually understand or they're not willing to even stare into the void and acknowledge that they

00:52:24.220 look the way they actually look yeah but they're actually not very attractive now to the question

00:52:29.740 of whether humanity will speciate i think we already know the answer the answer is yes obviously 0.99

00:52:34.120 like obviously there's going to be a group of humans that become an all-male society there's

00:52:38.620 going to be a group of humans that become an all-female society and there'll be a group of

00:52:41.860 humans that stay in a society structured similar to the one today is likely what's going to happen

00:52:46.560 i thought i just heard my take on i think that we're going to self-correct this one there will

00:52:51.500 be a market correction because there's always going to be the question is is how big are these

00:52:55.400 fringe groups going to be but i think you know could they be 10 of the population it depends on

00:53:00.560 how good they are at breeding how good they are at motivating the next generation coming into

00:53:03.620 existence they might be significantly better than the mainstream population at breeding right like

00:53:08.960 they may just be able to have kids at a faster rate and motivate caring for kids at a higher

00:53:12.280 rate because they're not worried about caring about a romantic partner. They're like the core

00:53:16.820 loving relationship I am having access to in my life because I wouldn't even consider a male

00:53:22.340 partner or a female partner is the relationship I may have between me and my kids one day.

00:53:27.200 The problem kind of with male female society is the core loving relationship that people are taught

00:53:32.040 to key to is the partnership they're going to have with their spouse, not the partnership they're

00:53:35.880 going to have with their kids so you may actually have a higher motivation to have kids in a all

00:53:41.460 male and all female society it just depends on how that that ends up working out but i would be

00:53:47.360 very surprised if no group ends up doing this what i can say is that if you have an all female 0.57

00:53:53.060 society and the data is going to show you this um it's not going to be able to compete like if it

00:53:57.460 ever gets to the stage like it does in this anime where they're at war with each other obviously 0.91

00:54:01.180 the all male society would just wipe the floor with the all female society you can look at iq 0.97

00:54:05.040 distribution curves you can look at aggressiveness scores you can look at basically anything right 0.99

00:54:10.860 like the chess champions right like there is a reason why like it's not just on like physical

00:54:15.880 strings why i think it's like only like 10 out of the last thousand if you rank the top thousand 1.00

00:54:21.480 players or women or something it's it's not a lot they women would be at a unless they heavily

00:54:27.240 leaned into genetic augmentation they'd be at a massive disadvantage um but anyway thoughts

00:54:33.220 Simone final closing thoughts this timeline's weird but yeah I I just can't believe that

00:54:41.180 I grew up thinking that sexual promiscuity was fine and acceptable but it's still bizarre to me

00:54:49.020 that now I I favor prudishness and this is also bizarre in light of the fact that you're the only

00:54:56.920 person I've ever had sex with despite despite having growing up thought that so I also feel 0.78

00:55:01.480 very very lucky to have been too autistic and guys too disinterested in in general promiscuous

00:55:09.980 sex to like have fallen for this because the average person i think really would and i guess

00:55:15.740 it's something we're going to have to very carefully address with our daughters yeah well

00:55:20.740 and our sons in terms of pushing through and how to convert women so love you simone i love you too

00:55:26.000 welcome i am feeling my stomach is hurting so bad right now and i think i realized why

00:55:34.080 well dan dan sauce you're allergic to it and i only had one soda today and most days i have like

00:55:40.520 six or seven sodas going through some kind of so it could be a caffeine withdrawal

00:55:44.160 you sure because every time you've made yourself dan dan based dishes in the past

00:55:50.620 you've had stomach problems but I didn't eat dandan yesterday yeah but you had it two days

00:55:56.320 in a row before yeah but I would have noticed that beforehand okay I was thinking I should

00:56:02.520 use the remaining ground meat that you got when I was in Austin today for your dinner 0.76

00:56:09.760 what would you like me to do with it my stomach is far too queasy girl cheese sandwiches yeah

00:56:16.120 girl cheese sandwiches would be great okay i'll do the rest of the ground should i be making just

00:56:23.220 like hamburger patties with that for the kids like do you not want it again or should i save

00:56:27.280 no i do want it just wait okay we can only wait so many days with ground meat that's fresh but

00:56:35.780 tomorrow we'll be fine so just a note i understand okay and yes i got the statistics here

00:56:44.780 as do i you want me to kick it off shall we go anything else today any news let's see how the

00:56:52.080 episode's doing the episode was last time i checked four out of ten people liked it people

00:56:56.960 are like well obviously this is how it is the non-profits funded the kkk everyone knew this

00:57:04.940 i love that alex jones had called it once again wait he had he said that the kkk was funded by

00:57:12.400 democrats no i think he said the southern poverty law center funded the really bad protest i'm

00:57:17.700 forgetting what it was called the charlotte charlotte protest really that's a good call

00:57:23.120 by the way the the water is turning the frogs gay and the southern poverty loss oh no oh no 0.84

00:57:31.280 it's sandy hook is he gonna be right on that i hope so i mean it's one of those things where 0.52

00:57:35.840 like i really i would love a world in which those like innocent children were not shot

00:57:41.260 and killed so i would love for that to be true i would really like throw out all the other stuff 0.58

00:57:49.560 i'll take that one i really can't stand children i cannot believe that they were funding the kkk

00:57:56.540 and actual nazis high roi for fundraising i just i can't imagine how much money they're raising if

00:58:06.420 the salaries of their leadership team pretty large leadership team are like 250 000 plus

00:58:13.840 though i don't know why their chief legal counsel was making over 250 000 a year and

00:58:20.240 still walked them straight into this disaster you think they would have warned them well i mean i

00:58:28.180 i don't think it i don't think it was a disaster i think it was kind of the opposite until they

00:58:32.940 were caught for it if you remember the kkk and neo-nazi groups in the united states as i pointed

00:58:38.460 out when we're doing that episode has basically gone extinct as of like 10 years ago like you'd

00:58:42.960 see one of the rallies and it'd be like two or three old guys walking in a sad suburban town

00:58:47.760 or something like that a bunch of people yelling at them yeah and then they start funding it all

00:58:52.280 and now all of a sudden we're getting like giant tiki torch marches and stuff like this which

00:58:56.400 allowed for them to create blm which got them tons of money right they they actually benefited

00:59:02.760 enormously for the racial anxiety that they were able to create from this no they super did someone

00:59:07.860 had posted a comment linking to two dudes talking on youtube who i guess are racist because they

00:59:15.560 were going on about how like wow we've raised a lot of money for the southern poverty law center

00:59:19.800 and like they've included photos of us in their fundraising documents and like how much have we

00:59:24.680 why aren't they paying al oh my god it's okay you just have really sharp teeth he bit my finger

00:59:32.520 that child who was bit by charlie yeah actually took it like really well considering how sharp

00:59:42.000 baby's teeth are and how little they care about using full power on a finger they're like let's

00:59:48.060 go let's take this thing off right no he's looking around like i'm with that finger you want it 1.00

00:59:55.740 you noodle we gotta one shot the women in our audience into wanting babies yeah hey there were

01:00:06.460 not a lot of babies on youtube before us you know like i think there were lots of fundy fridays and 1.00

01:00:12.500 all the other like christian youtubers like to talk about these horrible women who put their 0.96

01:00:19.120 babies on on the videos as they record i think who's the couple that's famously deconstructing 1.00

01:00:25.160 now and one had done all those sex courses she used to have her baby on the video a lot oh yeah

01:00:30.340 god what's her what's her name basically no not classically abby yeah it wasn't classically abby 0.93

01:00:36.680 it was those two sisters who went on to marry dudes i know who you're talking about people

01:00:41.600 the left used to love to profile them and then they and that's all i know them from well i think

01:00:46.960 she started the the couple they both started deconstructing and then it was like

01:00:51.380 less interesting i think for people because they started questioning their faith and not being so

01:00:59.040 hardline which i think is probably to their detriment i don't know i i don't know yeah

01:01:05.440 well i will i mean maybe they still have a big audience somewhere out there yeah no i wish the

01:01:11.880 best for them but they they had a baby in their feed and you know she would fuss with the baby

01:01:17.100 just like i do and i always think i'm i i just think of all the criticisms of her when i have

01:01:23.680 gotten much criticism for having our children in videos oh very regularly people complain about the

01:01:29.720 the noises the baby noises i just can't watch it with the baby noises i'm sorry people like

01:01:35.380 reflexively be like how dare you put kids in a video how dare you put kids in a video

01:01:39.160 and like we just don't get that very much i think it's because they're they're like more mad at us

01:01:43.920 for other things so they just don't care i saw one video where somebody was like oh that kid heard

01:01:49.400 you guys talk about sex on the podcast he's gonna get messed up right like and i'm like

01:01:53.340 how do you think babies work right like you know as has been discussed and this is a conversation

01:02:02.300 to kind of come up between me and so many people this week people just don't have exposure to

01:02:07.280 babies anymore or children so they don't understand them they appear to believe that

01:02:12.240 they understand full sentences they don't understand what it's like to be around them

01:02:15.700 they've never held a baby true most you know most people even who are very social have not held a

01:02:22.200 baby for like a year at least even if they're around other people who around their age are

01:02:27.020 probably having kids so you know it's not great on the internet who just want to criticize people

01:02:34.200 There's the same chop, there's that, and there's the dinosaur in there, and there's the vehicle, the same vehicle, and there's the helicopter, and it's the same helicopter like this, and there's the dinosaur, and there's the dinosaur, and there's the dinosaur.

01:02:50.180 You sound really excited.

01:02:51.520 Yeah.

01:02:52.320 You got some mandarins.

01:02:53.200 I sound more excited than horsey.

01:02:57.220 And what about you?

01:02:57.780 You got a panda bear?

01:03:00.020 Well, Tanya, this dinosaur, yeah.

Based Camp - April 29, 2026

Did Tinder Cause BLM & Me Too？ Could it Lead to Males & Females Speciating？

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