00:54:29.220agree i mean what we talked about also is that a key difference is that
00:54:40.740you and other people that we really like and admire like leaflet have a very clear vision
00:54:46.520of the future well that's what i was going to say is is that the reason why the hate bug has
00:54:51.680gotten him and it hasn't easily gotten some of the other influencers i watched i was trying to
00:54:56.700think of like what creates this differentiation and looking at leaflets recent content because
00:55:02.460i've been working with her she's actually really helped me in developing the vtuber thing on rfab
00:55:07.480that's going to be coming out soon saved me a significant amount of work was one of the leads
00:55:10.940she gave me today but anyway so that's the reason she comes up a lot is because i'm working with
00:55:15.140her and i'm talking with her daily so very top of mind but anyway so she has a very clear vision
00:55:22.140And we have a very clear vision of where we want human civilization to be in 50 years, in 100 years, in 200 years, right? And I don't think he has one of those. And because he doesn't have a clear vision of where society is going to be, it's just like society is going to be where society is going to be.
00:55:38.560It's very easy for the grievances of the current culture war to overwhelm his sort of psychology to the point where he can no longer think what are the long term actions if I attempt to blow up this alliance or this alliance or, you know, do not care about this encroaching group or that encroaching group.
00:56:00.880And I think that the hate bug can get you if all you care about is being a good family man.
00:56:09.200Because if all you care about is being a good family man, you can accidentally lean into performing the trope of the family man in the same way a woman can perform the trope of the mom instead of focusing on a concrete outcome.0.53
00:56:21.500I want to raise kids to have this effect on society because I see this future civilizational state as ideal.0.79
00:56:28.580now both can be part of the same action it's just how are you framing it which is why this goes also
00:56:35.080it's connected to your deontology versus consequentialism argument that always comes
00:56:39.880yeah but i realize that that arguing about it on a deontology versus that can be a little hard for
00:56:45.200people to grok but the idea of just either you have a vision for where you want society to be
00:56:51.420in 100 years or you don't yeah basically is your ship just blowing wherever the winds blow
00:56:57.220or are you actively navigating in a specific direction towards some kind of true north
00:57:02.680and are you shifting your sails in response to the wind blowing you where you may not want to go
00:57:07.800i actually think a better way to word this is not just is your ship going where the wind goes
00:57:13.040but there's sort of three categories of people like there's a truly lazy person who is allowing
00:57:18.360their ship to just blow wherever the wind blows but then there's the other person who might be
00:57:22.580incredibly hard working but they spend all of the time just trying to make sure their ship is the
00:57:27.100prettiest ship there is without particular care for where it's going right and these are the people
00:57:32.420who strive to have the perfect family that follows all the rules or the perfect deontological life
00:57:37.160that follows every rule and every command and everything like that and they'll often be like
00:57:42.360well god will just take me in the right direction if i do all of that and that leads to really
00:57:46.740negative externalities and it and it's not biblically i mean i always go through the the