Based Camp - August 18, 2023


Testosterone, Status, Tate & Why The Billionaires Got Buff


Episode Stats

Length

35 minutes

Words per Minute

193.95032

Word Count

6,818

Sentence Count

392

Misogynist Sentences

17

Hate Speech Sentences

34


Summary

In this episode, Simone and I discuss why billionaires are buff, why they wear uniforms, and why they have to do so. We also talk about the role that testosterone plays in our society and how it affects our perception of social status.


Transcript

00:00:00.000 Like in the early days of tech CEOs becoming super wealthy,
00:00:04.260 they would wear pretty disrespectfully informal clothes
00:00:07.540 as a flex because they could.
00:00:09.320 And then I think we saw the height of it
00:00:11.660 with Sam Bankman-Fried.
00:00:13.160 If you look at the billionaires today,
00:00:14.820 they're pretty buff.
00:00:16.420 They are very muscular.
00:00:18.760 And the question is,
00:00:19.460 why are individuals doing this?
00:00:22.800 I think we need to take a little history lesson here.
00:00:25.100 If you want to understand why Andrew Tate,
00:00:27.080 like he talks about low T males,
00:00:28.520 except you can tell by looking at a male's face
00:00:32.440 how much testosterone they were exposed to
00:00:35.720 when they were in their developmental stages.
00:00:38.500 When you look at the far left and the far right,
00:00:40.240 they both seem to have body dysmorphia.
00:00:42.360 Would you like to know more?
00:00:43.700 Hello, Malcolm.
00:00:45.200 Hello, Simone.
00:00:46.260 I am excited to talk to you today.
00:00:48.180 So one of the things I've been doing recently,
00:00:50.200 because I was like, okay, well, Andrew Tate's,
00:00:52.360 a really big conservative influencer.
00:00:53.760 I wanted to really dive into his longer form content
00:00:56.160 to understand the underpinnings of his philosophy.
00:01:00.200 And a big part of it is be muscly.
00:01:03.580 Look like-
00:01:04.360 Is it like he actively advocates for people to lift?
00:01:07.280 Oh yeah, yeah.
00:01:07.760 And one of the things he points out,
00:01:08.940 and this is absolutely true,
00:01:11.760 is if you look at the billionaires today,
00:01:13.460 the people in our society
00:01:14.540 that are like top of the social hierarchy,
00:01:17.500 presumably,
00:01:17.820 a lot of them,
00:01:19.100 whether it's Bezos or Musk recently,
00:01:21.240 I don't know if anyone's seen him recently,
00:01:22.620 or Zuckerberg,
00:01:23.920 they're pretty buff.
00:01:25.560 They are very muscular.
00:01:27.940 Actually, it's very interesting.
00:01:28.960 So I think many people have this view of Elon Musk
00:01:30.660 from this one shot of him on a yacht.
00:01:32.560 But if you look at like recent pictures of him,
00:01:34.460 he looks Bezos-y.
00:01:35.860 That's what I would sort of think.
00:01:36.980 Bezos-y.
00:01:37.460 Oh no, doesn't he really?
00:01:38.120 Okay.
00:01:38.820 Okay.
00:01:39.300 But the point being is that
00:01:40.680 you see this sort of across the billionaire class
00:01:42.960 right now, right?
00:01:43.680 And so Andrew Tate's taking that as evidence
00:01:46.460 that look,
00:01:48.080 once you don't have any other needs,
00:01:51.060 you realize the importance of muscle.
00:01:54.600 And then he'd be like,
00:01:55.480 and it was as a man,
00:01:56.560 as a man,
00:01:56.980 maybe not as a man.
00:01:57.880 Of course.
00:01:59.400 And throughout history,
00:02:01.200 here you can see this.
00:02:02.940 The problem is it's throughout history,
00:02:04.080 you can't see this.
00:02:05.180 What you actually see
00:02:06.660 and what is actually going on here,
00:02:08.620 and this is a very interesting phenomenon to dissect.
00:02:11.280 So like,
00:02:12.180 let's talk about the luxury cars,
00:02:13.480 right?
00:02:14.220 If you are buying a pointless luxury car
00:02:17.460 to signal your status
00:02:19.080 or build a self-narrative of
00:02:21.280 I am a person with X type of things,
00:02:23.800 you need to actually think about
00:02:25.260 what you're giving up
00:02:27.300 when you spend three times on a car
00:02:29.420 what you would otherwise fit.
00:02:30.980 Sure.
00:02:31.960 It's the same with muscle.
00:02:33.420 There is a level that you need to exercise
00:02:35.900 to be at optimum physical health.
00:02:38.000 And then there's a level
00:02:39.440 way beyond that
00:02:41.760 where it is about signaling something
00:02:43.640 to your environment
00:02:44.900 or to yourself
00:02:46.080 or changing aspects of your chemistry,
00:02:48.940 which we can also talk about.
00:02:51.040 And the question is,
00:02:51.820 is why are individuals doing this?
00:02:53.880 I think we need to take a little history lesson here
00:02:57.320 to something that my parents pointed out to me
00:02:59.200 when I was growing up
00:03:00.260 and really helped me contextualize
00:03:04.080 physical status symbols.
00:03:05.900 Okay.
00:03:06.220 So when I was growing up,
00:03:08.380 my house,
00:03:09.260 they actually had a tanning bed in my house.
00:03:11.120 My mom had bought a tanning bed for tanning.
00:03:13.620 And my dad,
00:03:14.680 he pointed out to me,
00:03:15.380 he goes,
00:03:15.780 when I was growing up a long time ago,
00:03:17.200 you go back a long time ago,
00:03:19.180 having a tan was considered very low class.
00:03:23.780 The reason why having a tan
00:03:25.900 was considered low class back then
00:03:27.680 is because the lower classes
00:03:30.280 did physical manual labor.
00:03:34.780 So they would get tans
00:03:35.960 and then the wealthy,
00:03:37.480 and you can see this,
00:03:38.380 this is why historically,
00:03:39.620 you look at the old west
00:03:40.500 or something like that,
00:03:41.780 the high class women
00:03:43.020 would have these parasols all the time.
00:03:45.060 No, better than yet.
00:03:45.940 Have you seen like even middle ages,
00:03:47.720 I think like throughout history,
00:03:49.360 riding masks,
00:03:50.060 they're scary.
00:03:50.740 Like women would wear these.
00:03:51.800 Yeah.
00:03:52.900 Yeah.
00:03:53.120 So throughout most of history,
00:03:55.440 tans were considered
00:03:56.220 very, very, very low class.
00:03:57.640 Well, and even currently,
00:03:58.700 keep in mind,
00:03:59.280 have you seen like the sort of
00:04:00.300 bikini burka face mask things?
00:04:02.380 Well, I want to talk about
00:04:03.460 how this flipped again.
00:04:04.760 Okay.
00:04:04.880 Okay.
00:04:05.120 Yeah.
00:04:05.540 So then there was a generation
00:04:06.840 where tans became common
00:04:09.280 because everyone was like,
00:04:11.040 okay,
00:04:11.480 so first let's talk about
00:04:12.420 how tans became high class.
00:04:14.500 Well, what you had is a culture
00:04:16.320 where the lower class,
00:04:17.900 instead of working on farms,
00:04:19.580 because all that had been automated,
00:04:21.480 they were working at McDonald's
00:04:23.620 or whatever, right?
00:04:24.740 So the only people
00:04:26.180 who could spend all day in the sun
00:04:27.760 were rich people.
00:04:29.660 Who could go on,
00:04:30.640 especially like it became
00:04:32.000 to be associated
00:04:33.100 with expensive vacations
00:04:34.860 where you sat on a beach,
00:04:37.100 like it was a sign of luxury.
00:04:38.580 So tanning was a sign
00:04:39.240 that you could afford
00:04:40.160 to literally fly somewhere sunny,
00:04:42.040 especially like even
00:04:42.920 in the winter months.
00:04:43.940 So let's assume
00:04:44.860 that like the entire population
00:04:46.200 all works inside anyway,
00:04:48.260 but you know,
00:04:49.240 only the wealthy
00:04:49.940 would be able to fly
00:04:50.760 to some exotic beach
00:04:52.860 and get baked by the sun.
00:04:55.140 Yeah.
00:04:55.380 And then tanning beds
00:04:57.780 became common.
00:04:58.840 And on top of tanning beds,
00:05:00.820 fake tans became common,
00:05:02.480 right?
00:05:02.720 Yeah.
00:05:02.860 Very inexpensive
00:05:03.720 and they got better
00:05:04.380 and better and better.
00:05:05.640 And then you had this era
00:05:07.340 where,
00:05:08.600 and this always happens
00:05:09.660 when you have
00:05:10.060 these class signals,
00:05:11.320 right?
00:05:12.220 Is that often
00:05:13.280 the people who grow up
00:05:15.420 in very,
00:05:16.660 I guess you could call it
00:05:17.420 lower class environments,
00:05:19.300 end up overcompensating
00:05:21.280 was this classic,
00:05:22.320 right?
00:05:22.620 So today you'll see this
00:05:23.620 in things like jewelry,
00:05:24.740 right?
00:05:25.060 Where like a rapper
00:05:26.940 may just absolutely
00:05:28.100 cover themselves in jewelry
00:05:29.660 the way you would never
00:05:30.660 see anything else doing it
00:05:31.820 because they're like,
00:05:32.280 oh, this is a sign of wealth.
00:05:33.500 So I'm showing how much
00:05:34.120 wealth I have, right?
00:05:35.620 And you had this
00:05:36.120 with tanning as well
00:05:37.040 where they would get
00:05:37.660 these really deep,
00:05:39.580 almost comical tans
00:05:40.860 to other people.
00:05:41.480 And then where this
00:05:42.800 really began to become
00:05:43.780 broadcast and this had
00:05:44.920 become a lower class
00:05:46.640 or very nouveau rich.
00:05:48.240 So there's two sort of
00:05:49.320 groups of nouveau rich.
00:05:50.080 One group of nouveau rich
00:05:51.060 is a group that integrates
00:05:52.040 well with older money society
00:05:53.800 and they get considered
00:05:55.180 genuinely upper class individuals.
00:05:57.520 The other group
00:05:58.120 is a group that like,
00:06:00.000 I don't know if you
00:06:00.560 call them autistic,
00:06:01.320 but they don't really get it.
00:06:02.200 Like they get off
00:06:03.200 in some way.
00:06:03.680 And this is what like
00:06:04.360 Jersey Shore.
00:06:05.660 So Gen Z have no idea
00:06:07.960 what I'm talking about
00:06:08.560 when I'm talking about
00:06:09.000 like Snooki or Jersey Shore.
00:06:11.060 Actually, I discovered
00:06:11.860 recently that Jersey Shore
00:06:13.520 has a comeback season
00:06:14.680 on television right now.
00:06:16.260 So maybe they do.
00:06:17.940 Okay.
00:06:18.220 But anyway,
00:06:18.560 so this then advertised
00:06:20.260 for the general public,
00:06:21.700 oh, now TANS
00:06:23.680 are again lower class
00:06:25.640 because they are attainable
00:06:26.800 to everyone.
00:06:27.860 And they sort of
00:06:28.920 clueless class,
00:06:30.400 which is generally obvious
00:06:31.640 to both the high class
00:06:32.600 and the low class,
00:06:33.320 has gone overboard with them
00:06:34.920 as a means of status signaling.
00:06:36.980 And now we all know now
00:06:38.180 these are low class.
00:06:39.720 And so then,
00:06:40.640 as to Simone is talking about,
00:06:41.960 it has now again become
00:06:43.320 a quote unquote
00:06:44.760 upper class thing
00:06:45.880 to hide your face
00:06:47.660 from the sun all the time,
00:06:48.660 right?
00:06:48.860 Well, and this varies
00:06:49.980 across culture
00:06:50.840 and also like varies
00:06:52.220 depending on what technology shows.
00:06:54.760 I mean, obviously right now
00:06:55.960 there's a lot of emphasis
00:06:57.120 on either getting a fake tan
00:06:58.400 or not being exposed
00:06:59.800 to the sun at all
00:07:00.400 because another huge
00:07:01.720 class signifier,
00:07:02.740 or at least status signifier,
00:07:03.780 is youth,
00:07:04.440 especially among women.
00:07:05.640 So of course,
00:07:06.120 they're trying to hide
00:07:06.700 from the sun.
00:07:07.380 But I would say
00:07:08.240 that what you're describing here
00:07:09.340 is an oscillation
00:07:10.940 that has happened
00:07:11.660 basically as long
00:07:12.700 as there has been culture.
00:07:13.720 And you see evidence
00:07:15.300 of the oscillation
00:07:16.200 being dealt with
00:07:16.820 in really interesting ways.
00:07:18.240 For example,
00:07:18.600 there's a really interesting
00:07:19.780 course on Wondrium
00:07:21.860 slash by the teaching company
00:07:23.260 on food history.
00:07:24.380 And the lecturer talks
00:07:26.000 about how food,
00:07:27.320 food trends have oscillated
00:07:28.680 between like extremely complex,
00:07:32.120 disgusting,
00:07:33.380 really difficult to eat meals.
00:07:35.180 Imagine the turdumpkin
00:07:36.100 where you've got like a pigeon
00:07:37.160 inside a turkey
00:07:38.660 inside of whatever,
00:07:39.800 a swan.
00:07:40.700 And it's just like disgusting
00:07:41.700 versus like really simple food.
00:07:43.720 And a lot of it depended
00:07:44.660 on what people
00:07:46.360 of lower means
00:07:47.720 were able to do.
00:07:49.080 And they always want to copy,
00:07:50.400 of course,
00:07:50.660 people with higher means.
00:07:51.700 And then obviously
00:07:52.340 the people of higher mean
00:07:53.660 rebelling and trying to show
00:07:54.900 that they're different
00:07:55.500 from people of lower means
00:07:56.500 to play their status games.
00:07:58.300 It's like Baroque style, right?
00:07:59.820 You get to this stage
00:08:00.720 where it becomes so,
00:08:01.580 what was the style after Baroque?
00:08:02.800 Like ultra Baroque or something?
00:08:04.340 Rokoko.
00:08:05.000 I mean,
00:08:05.320 like post Baroque
00:08:07.120 was just Baroque
00:08:08.020 plus natural features,
00:08:10.040 sort of like,
00:08:10.460 you know,
00:08:10.620 more styles.
00:08:11.280 And dating back to like
00:08:11.580 simplism again.
00:08:12.900 Well, yeah.
00:08:13.180 And then we got neoclassical
00:08:15.080 where it went all back
00:08:16.320 to sort of Roman columns
00:08:17.640 and clean lines.
00:08:19.260 You went from like
00:08:19.780 really poofy dresses
00:08:20.820 to the empire waist
00:08:22.760 where you basically have
00:08:23.740 a female column of a dress.
00:08:26.140 But then of course,
00:08:26.620 you also have things
00:08:27.200 like sumptuary laws
00:08:28.340 where literally
00:08:29.020 it has been illegal
00:08:30.260 during many like periods
00:08:32.240 of history
00:08:32.920 to have shoes
00:08:35.620 of a certain length
00:08:36.640 or to have the clothes
00:08:38.180 of a certain color
00:08:39.080 or to just like
00:08:40.020 own certain objects
00:08:41.260 if you weren't
00:08:41.880 in a certain level
00:08:43.260 of society
00:08:43.940 because there's been
00:08:44.980 so much interest
00:08:46.060 and I think so much
00:08:46.760 like frustration
00:08:47.540 on behalf of like
00:08:48.800 wealthy people
00:08:49.500 who really want to
00:08:50.360 show off their status
00:08:51.480 of like,
00:08:52.700 God,
00:08:53.140 like these people
00:08:53.800 keep copying me.
00:08:54.780 How do I show
00:08:55.360 that I'm special?
00:08:56.280 Like guys,
00:08:56.840 just stop.
00:08:57.540 This is mine.
00:08:58.460 Stop copying me.
00:08:59.720 And this is how like
00:09:00.500 purple became
00:09:01.160 like a wealthy color,
00:09:02.220 right?
00:09:02.400 Because it was
00:09:03.140 really expensive to get
00:09:04.140 and you had to crush shells
00:09:05.200 that were only found
00:09:06.000 in like Phoenicia,
00:09:06.840 right?
00:09:07.020 And so it was
00:09:08.400 one of the major
00:09:09.060 Phoenician industries
00:09:09.960 and then people
00:09:10.960 would outlaw people
00:09:12.060 who weren't in the upper
00:09:13.420 classes from wearing purple
00:09:14.680 once it became easier
00:09:15.620 to copy these colors.
00:09:17.220 And you'll see this
00:09:17.920 throughout history.
00:09:18.800 Another really interesting
00:09:19.880 example here,
00:09:20.640 if you're talking about
00:09:21.120 people who aren't
00:09:21.700 from like the Western
00:09:22.360 cultural tradition
00:09:23.140 is you look at like
00:09:24.800 fat activists
00:09:25.340 and they're like,
00:09:25.840 well,
00:09:26.120 within some cultures
00:09:27.560 being fat
00:09:28.800 was considered high class.
00:09:31.140 And that's absolutely true.
00:09:33.320 100%.
00:09:33.760 But we also have
00:09:35.460 longitudinal studies
00:09:36.480 on those cultures
00:09:37.160 after they acquired
00:09:38.080 wealth and modernity.
00:09:40.260 And it turns out
00:09:41.280 that once there is
00:09:42.460 no longer food scarcity
00:09:43.800 within those cultures,
00:09:45.100 being fat immediately
00:09:46.120 becomes low class.
00:09:48.060 As soon as you introduce
00:09:49.720 them to modern food stuff
00:09:51.420 where if you are eating
00:09:52.660 like the more addictive,
00:09:54.160 cheaper foods,
00:09:54.800 you get better.
00:09:55.760 Those cultures
00:09:56.600 every single time
00:09:58.120 have actually flipped
00:09:59.020 to fat being low class.
00:10:00.300 And I would say
00:10:01.020 there's a really strong
00:10:02.120 correlatory factor
00:10:03.240 among people we know
00:10:05.180 and we know
00:10:05.840 and are friends
00:10:07.320 with people
00:10:07.840 at every level
00:10:08.780 of the income
00:10:09.560 spectrum, right?
00:10:12.640 I would say
00:10:13.940 that a really common factor
00:10:15.380 among those
00:10:16.080 at the highest
00:10:16.720 net worth level
00:10:17.600 like way, way,
00:10:18.460 like insanely high
00:10:19.680 is like the best diet
00:10:21.940 and the most disciplined
00:10:23.100 too.
00:10:23.760 Like levels of disciplines
00:10:25.140 that are like...
00:10:26.040 Chefs that make them
00:10:26.700 like fancy
00:10:27.380 like fish dishes
00:10:28.660 every day.
00:10:29.560 They're much more likely
00:10:30.280 also to just be
00:10:31.340 on very low calorie diets,
00:10:33.040 vegetables only.
00:10:34.140 There's no snack foods.
00:10:36.260 They're very careful
00:10:37.140 about those things.
00:10:38.200 And yeah,
00:10:38.520 it's definitely
00:10:39.260 not even necessarily...
00:10:40.860 Almost certainly
00:10:41.840 it's not about comfort.
00:10:43.120 Let's bring it back
00:10:43.740 to muscles
00:10:44.160 because I think
00:10:44.580 that's really interesting
00:10:45.280 and I'm thinking
00:10:45.800 about ancient
00:10:47.120 Greek and Roman statues.
00:10:48.880 People would be like,
00:10:49.760 yeah, see,
00:10:50.220 muscles have always
00:10:51.020 been a sign of status,
00:10:51.920 but I actually think
00:10:53.160 that muscles
00:10:53.600 were more a sign
00:10:54.380 of beauty
00:10:55.200 than they were really
00:10:56.760 a sign of status.
00:10:58.360 And when you look
00:10:58.880 at these statues
00:10:59.720 of famous leaders,
00:11:01.260 they are not
00:11:02.640 terribly muscular.
00:11:04.160 They are just
00:11:05.520 sort of like whatever.
00:11:07.340 You would have
00:11:07.780 muscular servants.
00:11:09.220 Yes.
00:11:09.300 And this is true
00:11:10.120 in a lot of these periods.
00:11:11.220 Yeah.
00:11:11.720 Yeah.
00:11:11.880 So why is muscle
00:11:13.540 big today?
00:11:15.260 And the answer is
00:11:16.840 because it is
00:11:17.560 the single one,
00:11:19.460 we haven't really found
00:11:20.820 a good way
00:11:21.200 to fake muscle yet.
00:11:22.660 Steroids are now
00:11:23.420 getting big,
00:11:23.980 so I expect this trend
00:11:24.840 to reverse,
00:11:25.460 so we'll talk about
00:11:26.040 that in a second.
00:11:27.200 But it is a thing
00:11:29.060 that assuming
00:11:30.160 no steroids
00:11:30.780 was actually pretty hard
00:11:32.100 for wealthy people
00:11:32.980 to fake,
00:11:34.080 hard for anyone
00:11:34.820 to fake to an extent,
00:11:36.220 and it required
00:11:36.840 an enormous time investment.
00:11:39.300 Building big muscles
00:11:40.840 as a man
00:11:41.980 shows there are
00:11:43.500 a certain number
00:11:44.100 of hours every day
00:11:44.820 to look like Jeff Bezos,
00:11:46.160 right,
00:11:46.920 that you don't need
00:11:47.760 to work.
00:11:49.000 And that is how
00:11:50.120 it became the class
00:11:51.000 status signal
00:11:51.560 of our generation.
00:11:52.620 The reason why
00:11:53.640 it will fall
00:11:54.340 as a class status signal
00:11:55.480 is everyone
00:11:56.400 basically found out,
00:11:57.700 okay,
00:11:58.120 like exogenous steroids,
00:12:00.520 so men generate
00:12:01.720 more of these
00:12:02.420 than women,
00:12:03.040 like endogenous steroids,
00:12:04.060 right,
00:12:04.240 more than women,
00:12:04.780 and that's why
00:12:05.100 it's easier for them
00:12:05.720 to gain muscle mass
00:12:06.500 than women.
00:12:06.860 That's why,
00:12:07.140 like on average,
00:12:07.640 men are like 50%
00:12:08.400 stronger than women
00:12:09.040 in most drinks tests.
00:12:10.320 But you can take
00:12:11.040 these external,
00:12:11.780 you can increase
00:12:13.400 your amount of steroids,
00:12:14.400 right?
00:12:15.280 Historically,
00:12:15.640 when we were growing up,
00:12:16.640 there was a lot
00:12:17.120 of these campaigns
00:12:17.900 meant to convince people
00:12:18.840 that like this caused
00:12:19.720 roid rage
00:12:20.500 and all sorts
00:12:21.100 of other negative effects.
00:12:22.620 The truth is,
00:12:23.260 yes,
00:12:23.500 it does shrink
00:12:24.300 the size of your
00:12:24.880 testicles
00:12:25.540 and some other things,
00:12:26.900 but generally,
00:12:27.580 the negative effects
00:12:28.220 really aren't that big
00:12:29.200 and there isn't any proof
00:12:30.240 that it causes
00:12:30.700 roid rage
00:12:31.300 the last I looked
00:12:32.620 into the research
00:12:33.160 on this.
00:12:33.820 So it's just really
00:12:35.060 not that bad
00:12:36.180 to take a-
00:12:36.620 It's just small balls.
00:12:37.800 It's small balls.
00:12:38.960 Well,
00:12:39.520 if the alternative
00:12:40.940 is class status signaling
00:12:42.220 and working out
00:12:43.040 three less hours a day,
00:12:44.540 which it really is,
00:12:45.940 like it dramatically
00:12:46.860 lowers the amount
00:12:47.520 you need to work out.
00:12:48.280 Well,
00:12:48.460 and my understanding too
00:12:49.220 is I've never really
00:12:50.120 heard about women
00:12:50.980 caring about ball size
00:12:52.740 and it doesn't affect
00:12:53.420 penis size,
00:12:54.060 does it?
00:12:55.100 No,
00:12:55.500 not as far as I know.
00:12:56.760 Yeah,
00:12:57.140 I guess no one really cares.
00:12:58.180 I've never been like,
00:12:58.800 oh my God,
00:12:59.220 have you seen how small?
00:13:00.560 a lot of people,
00:13:01.360 they don't care
00:13:01.840 about their kids,
00:13:02.420 right?
00:13:04.460 No,
00:13:04.700 so I guess the point
00:13:06.260 I'm making is
00:13:07.940 there was this campaign
00:13:09.520 that was run
00:13:10.380 and are used
00:13:11.400 to convince everyone
00:13:12.200 that steroids
00:13:12.740 are like this really scary thing
00:13:14.400 and the truth is
00:13:15.500 they're just not that scary
00:13:17.000 and because the ultra-wealthy
00:13:19.100 in our society
00:13:19.600 don't trust science,
00:13:20.360 I can tell you this,
00:13:21.040 we know the ultra-wealthy
00:13:22.000 in our society,
00:13:22.880 they do not trust science.
00:13:24.360 They do their own research
00:13:25.480 on everything.
00:13:26.060 They have their own researchers
00:13:26.900 working on everything
00:13:27.720 and they'll see how-
00:13:28.420 Oh, that's something
00:13:28.600 that's happening
00:13:29.060 regardless of level
00:13:30.720 of wealth these days,
00:13:31.560 I think.
00:13:32.080 Oh yeah,
00:13:32.360 well,
00:13:32.520 no,
00:13:32.620 everyone,
00:13:32.980 but I'm just saying
00:13:33.620 I think there's this perception
00:13:35.060 among the general population
00:13:36.440 that like the wealthy
00:13:37.300 still trust science
00:13:38.140 that do not.
00:13:39.060 No.
00:13:39.540 Not at all.
00:13:40.200 So they do their own research
00:13:41.240 on this stuff
00:13:41.800 and they'll be like,
00:13:42.260 okay,
00:13:42.480 it's not that bad.
00:13:43.200 So it's become really common
00:13:44.560 for them to use
00:13:45.400 exogenous steroids
00:13:46.420 sort of across groups,
00:13:49.820 you know,
00:13:50.640 liberty.
00:13:50.880 Do you think that
00:13:51.600 the problem here
00:13:53.220 is you've basically got
00:13:55.420 like what the actual
00:13:57.200 billionaires are doing
00:13:58.420 is they're putting
00:13:59.120 in the work,
00:13:59.760 they're doing the training,
00:14:00.920 like they're putting
00:14:01.400 in the time
00:14:01.920 because that's
00:14:02.940 like a flex
00:14:04.100 literally.
00:14:05.600 Well,
00:14:05.860 it was a flex
00:14:06.780 but the problem is
00:14:07.940 it's we're going to,
00:14:08.320 yeah,
00:14:08.520 we're going to have soon.
00:14:09.700 We have a bunch of people
00:14:10.380 who are cheating
00:14:10.960 by getting steroids
00:14:12.720 and it's funny,
00:14:13.740 like we've gotten
00:14:14.500 a lot of flack
00:14:15.120 for implying
00:14:15.880 that people
00:14:16.560 who are into weightlifting
00:14:18.120 are steroid users
00:14:20.540 but I've brought it up
00:14:21.760 with a bunch of people
00:14:22.780 and they're like,
00:14:24.440 oh yeah,
00:14:25.080 like at this gym,
00:14:26.400 yeah,
00:14:26.700 like huge proportion
00:14:27.640 and I'm just-
00:14:28.260 I honestly am perplexed.
00:14:30.140 When weightlifting people
00:14:31.260 come to us
00:14:31.740 and they're like,
00:14:32.280 how dare you?
00:14:33.120 I'm like,
00:14:33.860 are you really not
00:14:34.740 in the weightlifting community?
00:14:36.200 Do you really not know
00:14:37.680 how common it is?
00:14:39.120 And I think that
00:14:39.780 the only people
00:14:40.500 who really do that
00:14:41.560 are the people
00:14:42.080 who aspire
00:14:42.800 to the social status
00:14:43.860 of weightlifters
00:14:44.520 but aren't actually
00:14:45.260 in those communities
00:14:46.040 because everyone
00:14:47.020 we know in those communities
00:14:47.980 is like,
00:14:48.280 oh yeah,
00:14:48.440 yeah,
00:14:48.540 yeah,
00:14:48.640 everyone's on
00:14:49.100 acceptance.
00:14:50.680 It's incredibly common
00:14:52.240 because why?
00:14:53.900 It's very little downside
00:14:55.260 and it literally shaves
00:14:56.640 the-
00:14:57.220 who has time
00:14:59.600 to work out
00:15:00.080 four or three hours
00:15:01.120 a day.
00:15:02.140 Yeah.
00:15:02.520 Right?
00:15:03.680 Yeah,
00:15:03.920 some people do.
00:15:05.100 I guess if you're
00:15:05.600 extremely wealthy
00:15:06.620 and you have
00:15:08.120 like this
00:15:08.720 actual
00:15:09.520 like personal aesthetics
00:15:10.920 around I don't use
00:15:11.800 exogenous steroids
00:15:12.800 but if you can be-
00:15:14.940 then you can be out-competed.
00:15:15.880 Suppose I'm a social media
00:15:16.840 influencer,
00:15:17.380 right?
00:15:17.760 And one of them
00:15:18.300 is actually
00:15:19.040 working out
00:15:20.560 to get the muscles
00:15:21.200 and the other one
00:15:22.100 is cheating
00:15:22.480 to get the muscles
00:15:23.180 and then spending
00:15:23.700 the rest of the time
00:15:24.400 editing their videos,
00:15:25.840 working on ads.
00:15:26.420 spending more time posting,
00:15:27.860 yeah,
00:15:27.980 who's going to do better?
00:15:28.920 They're always out-competing.
00:15:30.120 This is why
00:15:30.620 the liver king
00:15:31.180 was the liver king.
00:15:32.020 10,000,
00:15:32.760 was it $10,000 a day
00:15:34.220 or something?
00:15:34.540 It was over 10,000.
00:15:36.620 Yeah,
00:15:36.940 that was-
00:15:37.360 10,000 on something.
00:15:38.620 But he was killing it.
00:15:39.360 Yeah, yeah.
00:15:40.140 And he was killing it.
00:15:40.880 He was killing it, right?
00:15:42.340 Because he had the time,
00:15:43.100 I guess.
00:15:44.440 But so for a lot of this
00:15:45.940 there's this belief
00:15:46.880 that then they'll say,
00:15:47.820 well, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.
00:15:49.120 Being muscly
00:15:49.840 has always been aesthetically manly
00:15:51.520 and it's like,
00:15:52.700 you are not a nerd
00:15:54.500 about history of fashion.
00:15:57.020 I am.
00:15:58.060 If you look historically,
00:15:59.560 yes,
00:16:00.440 a lot of the times in men,
00:16:02.120 some muscles,
00:16:03.320 because muscles have always
00:16:04.680 been gender dimorphic,
00:16:05.760 okay?
00:16:06.120 Yeah.
00:16:06.280 So men always had more muscles
00:16:07.580 than women
00:16:07.900 in the same way that like
00:16:08.640 women have breasts
00:16:09.260 and like big breasts
00:16:09.920 would show that you're more female,
00:16:11.520 right?
00:16:11.840 Like gender dimorphism there,
00:16:13.420 right?
00:16:13.700 Yeah, more muscles,
00:16:14.220 more male.
00:16:14.660 I get it.
00:16:14.920 But it's not the muscle groups
00:16:16.440 that we care about today.
00:16:17.820 You look at today,
00:16:18.800 it's like muscle, right?
00:16:20.820 Historically,
00:16:21.180 you look at like medieval England,
00:16:22.680 it's ankles.
00:16:24.280 It's all about ankles.
00:16:24.940 Oh, yeah,
00:16:25.120 no, it's the calf,
00:16:26.640 right?
00:16:26.860 That's the lower leg.
00:16:28.100 The calf muscle.
00:16:28.500 How big is this calf muscle?
00:16:30.040 Well, yeah,
00:16:30.600 in the French court
00:16:33.180 of Louis XIV,
00:16:34.420 a lot of it also came down
00:16:35.660 to, yeah,
00:16:36.020 like how your calf muscle
00:16:37.580 looked with your little tights on
00:16:39.020 and especially how you're,
00:16:40.260 essentially what became
00:16:41.120 your ballet turnout,
00:16:42.120 like when you turned out
00:16:43.240 your leg a little bit,
00:16:43.980 like how,
00:16:44.520 how basically how flexible it was
00:16:46.140 and how good your muscles looked
00:16:47.260 and your little tights.
00:16:49.260 And well,
00:16:49.500 I mean,
00:16:49.680 you look at the clothing.
00:16:50.300 Because that's gender dimorphic.
00:16:51.380 So men would have that
00:16:52.120 more than women.
00:16:52.780 So of course they focused on that,
00:16:54.040 but it wasn't the same muscle groups
00:16:55.580 we're focused on today.
00:16:56.720 Yeah.
00:16:57.060 And when you look at the clothing
00:16:58.120 of men who were considered
00:16:59.140 very dominant,
00:17:00.320 very high class
00:17:01.420 and very much like George Washington,
00:17:03.300 you can go to the Smithsonian Museum
00:17:05.000 of National History.
00:17:06.260 You can go and look
00:17:07.340 at one of his uniforms
00:17:08.240 and you will see
00:17:09.340 that the man was
00:17:10.100 freaking anorexic.
00:17:11.820 I could not fit into his...
00:17:14.620 Your ancestor, by the way,
00:17:16.480 George Washington.
00:17:17.020 My great, great, great something uncle.
00:17:18.500 Yes.
00:17:18.820 But I could not fit into his,
00:17:20.500 his uniform.
00:17:21.240 He was a thin man
00:17:22.800 and he was considered
00:17:23.960 extremely dominant.
00:17:24.880 I mean,
00:17:25.000 they wanted to make him king.
00:17:26.120 Yeah, I totally agree.
00:17:27.980 And even in the times
00:17:29.080 of ancient Rome
00:17:29.940 where I think there was all this,
00:17:31.020 definitely people celebrated
00:17:32.520 the male form
00:17:33.860 and the muscular male form,
00:17:35.400 but they were gladiators.
00:17:36.820 They were workers.
00:17:37.440 Like you,
00:17:37.880 you appreciated them,
00:17:39.100 but like the leaders,
00:17:40.280 the dominant in society.
00:17:41.480 This is actually true
00:17:42.380 about the 1950s.
00:17:43.460 So if you go back
00:17:44.140 at the 1950s,
00:17:45.020 you go back
00:17:45.460 back to this era
00:17:46.640 that a lot of people...
00:17:47.700 Like the raw egg nationalist,
00:17:49.200 the bronze egg proverb ideal.
00:17:51.400 Now,
00:17:51.580 what we always say
00:17:52.160 about this 1950s aesthetic
00:17:53.380 is that it was actually
00:17:54.440 created by Hollywood
00:17:55.220 at the time
00:17:55.740 and should not be looked upon
00:17:56.900 as like a standard
00:17:57.880 of what society
00:17:58.560 was actually like at the time
00:17:59.600 and they didn't care
00:18:00.160 about people then
00:18:00.780 any more than they say.
00:18:02.540 But,
00:18:03.520 having a lot of muscle
00:18:05.160 was considered low class
00:18:06.160 because it was,
00:18:07.580 it was a sign
00:18:08.560 of being a manual laborer.
00:18:09.680 Now,
00:18:09.820 we don't really have
00:18:10.580 manual laborers
00:18:11.460 to like,
00:18:12.600 there's not a lot of them.
00:18:14.000 If you're living in a city,
00:18:15.120 if you're living
00:18:15.600 in any of the centers
00:18:16.660 of quote unquote
00:18:17.840 culture within our society today,
00:18:19.400 you're not going
00:18:19.920 to see manual laborers
00:18:20.880 that they assume
00:18:21.460 if you have muscle,
00:18:22.580 it must mean
00:18:22.860 you have a lot of free time
00:18:23.640 during the day.
00:18:24.340 But in the 1950s,
00:18:25.300 that wasn't the case.
00:18:26.120 If you saw somebody
00:18:26.740 that's really muscular,
00:18:27.860 you'd be like,
00:18:28.280 oh, you're a dock worker.
00:18:30.040 Oh, you're Popeye, right?
00:18:31.720 Then this was not like,
00:18:32.980 no, no, no,
00:18:33.380 it's true.
00:18:34.240 It's true.
00:18:34.740 Muscles were seen actively
00:18:36.180 as a sign
00:18:37.020 of being uneducated
00:18:38.040 and low class
00:18:38.660 and that is only
00:18:39.400 just now beginning
00:18:40.740 to trend.
00:18:41.080 In fact,
00:18:41.500 when you look
00:18:42.080 at cartoon tropes,
00:18:43.140 which I think
00:18:43.580 are interesting indicators
00:18:45.200 that the muscular one
00:18:46.860 is the big stupid one,
00:18:48.860 the grunt,
00:18:49.680 which is sort of interesting.
00:18:51.700 I mean,
00:18:51.960 like there's Superman,
00:18:52.900 I guess,
00:18:53.420 you know,
00:18:53.700 who's like,
00:18:55.020 you know,
00:18:55.400 pretty muscular.
00:18:56.260 Oh, no,
00:18:56.400 but Superman,
00:18:57.260 when he's in human world,
00:18:58.540 he doesn't look muscular.
00:18:59.740 Yeah, that's true.
00:19:00.980 Yeah,
00:19:01.360 it's just when he throws
00:19:02.400 on the spandex.
00:19:03.200 He signals class
00:19:04.300 his big thick glasses.
00:19:06.800 It's his disguise.
00:19:07.900 I don't know.
00:19:08.380 Superman's probably
00:19:09.180 not the best example.
00:19:11.040 Okay, okay.
00:19:11.920 If you want to understand
00:19:13.140 why Andrew Tate
00:19:13.920 feels he needs
00:19:14.480 to have the body
00:19:15.100 he has versus
00:19:16.040 the reason why
00:19:16.780 I don't care about that,
00:19:18.340 I'd say,
00:19:18.940 look at our faces.
00:19:22.280 Oh, no,
00:19:22.580 what does his face
00:19:23.200 look like?
00:19:23.780 Oh, no.
00:19:24.420 Can he get work done?
00:19:25.400 I mean,
00:19:25.560 he could just get
00:19:26.140 jaw implants.
00:19:27.720 I think he has,
00:19:28.880 I don't have too much
00:19:29.640 pride for that.
00:19:31.320 Yeah,
00:19:31.540 I guess people would notice
00:19:32.440 if he got jaw implants.
00:19:33.760 Yeah.
00:19:34.300 I don't mean to like
00:19:35.280 insult somebody else's look.
00:19:36.980 You think it's compensatory
00:19:38.340 because he doesn't have
00:19:39.400 He does not have
00:19:40.780 a masculine jaw.
00:19:41.860 A highly masculinized face.
00:19:43.220 It is not a face
00:19:44.040 that was formed
00:19:44.700 in the presence
00:19:45.260 of testosterone.
00:19:46.400 It is a face
00:19:46.960 that was formed
00:19:47.620 actually in the absence
00:19:49.380 of testosterone.
00:19:50.120 He really looks like
00:19:51.320 if you imagined him
00:19:52.180 with a weaker body,
00:19:53.940 assuming he's taking
00:19:54.740 exogenous steroids
00:19:55.540 or anything,
00:19:56.040 you'd be like,
00:19:56.480 this is the face
00:19:57.920 of somebody who grew up
00:19:58.880 without any testosterone
00:19:59.760 in their bloodstream.
00:20:01.320 That's interesting.
00:20:02.200 I'm looking up.
00:20:03.240 Oh, interesting.
00:20:04.460 You see what I mean?
00:20:04.980 Maybe he went for the beard
00:20:06.180 to emphasize his jaw.
00:20:07.540 Well, I'm actually surprised
00:20:08.360 he doesn't have a beard.
00:20:09.260 If I had a...
00:20:09.700 In many of the photos,
00:20:11.240 I'm just looking,
00:20:12.100 I just Googled his name
00:20:13.100 and I'm looking at photos.
00:20:14.860 It looks like maybe
00:20:15.900 he has in many of these
00:20:17.720 various lengths
00:20:18.460 of beard going
00:20:19.180 to accentuate his jaw.
00:20:21.080 Anyway,
00:20:21.380 no, that's interesting.
00:20:22.180 Yeah, I mean,
00:20:22.840 so also be careful.
00:20:23.740 I guess that's another
00:20:24.300 good lesson in terms
00:20:25.160 of how to successfully
00:20:26.360 signal this kind of thing.
00:20:27.960 If you want to play the game
00:20:29.540 and you want to,
00:20:30.100 I don't know,
00:20:31.520 show off
00:20:32.220 because you don't find
00:20:33.680 people as disgusting
00:20:34.480 as we do,
00:20:35.820 you'd probably not do anything
00:20:37.380 that comes across
00:20:38.160 as compensatory.
00:20:39.360 Well, you can see
00:20:40.120 from a male,
00:20:40.860 like he talks about
00:20:41.620 low-T males,
00:20:42.480 except you can tell
00:20:43.880 by looking at a male's face
00:20:46.220 how much testosterone
00:20:47.920 they were exposed to
00:20:49.520 when they were
00:20:50.320 in their developmental stages.
00:20:52.300 It is very easy
00:20:53.740 if you have any
00:20:54.440 sort of biological training,
00:20:57.440 but you have either
00:20:58.140 gracile features
00:20:59.520 or you have robust features.
00:21:01.320 But, you know,
00:21:01.700 I would say that
00:21:02.280 my heart goes out
00:21:03.240 to everyone who has
00:21:04.240 these types of deformities.
00:21:05.680 Yeah, it's not there.
00:21:06.080 I know, for example,
00:21:06.820 like, you know,
00:21:07.300 many people don't choose
00:21:08.360 partners that show
00:21:09.220 any sign of deformity
00:21:10.500 or whatever
00:21:10.940 and facial symmetry
00:21:12.080 is a big part of that
00:21:12.900 and I have a decidedly
00:21:14.520 asymmetric face
00:21:16.020 where this part of my jaw
00:21:17.360 is way bigger
00:21:18.080 than this part,
00:21:19.120 meaning I was either
00:21:19.880 exposed to stress
00:21:21.580 or I have some kind
00:21:22.620 of deficiency.
00:21:23.160 That's not true.
00:21:23.660 Our kids have the same thing.
00:21:24.840 It's genetic.
00:21:25.480 I can't tell.
00:21:26.680 Okay, so some weird
00:21:27.400 genetic thing,
00:21:28.180 but I mean,
00:21:28.460 that still is a sign
00:21:29.200 of deficiency.
00:21:29.880 So I mean,
00:21:30.220 my heart goes out
00:21:31.020 to people who are
00:21:32.540 fucked up in the face
00:21:33.480 like me,
00:21:34.060 who are deformed.
00:21:35.340 I'm not saying
00:21:36.080 he's deformed,
00:21:36.940 but I'm just saying
00:21:37.720 like, you know,
00:21:39.100 like, I'm here for you.
00:21:41.140 They can't all have
00:21:42.080 the southern gentleman face.
00:21:43.800 I'm sorry.
00:21:44.660 Yeah.
00:21:45.500 I don't know.
00:21:46.260 Like, I still,
00:21:48.560 I still need the internet
00:21:49.660 to explain what,
00:21:51.120 like,
00:21:51.400 why they keep
00:21:53.900 saying you're so late.
00:21:56.260 I think it's because
00:21:58.180 of the way I talk
00:21:59.500 and act.
00:22:00.560 Like, you've even said
00:22:01.280 you act somewhat effeminently
00:22:02.820 in videos sometimes
00:22:03.780 because you just don't care.
00:22:05.280 Like, I have.
00:22:05.680 You literally don't give a shit.
00:22:06.920 No, but I think, yeah.
00:22:07.800 I mean, maybe that's why
00:22:08.760 I find it so confusing
00:22:09.820 that people find it
00:22:10.660 to be soy
00:22:11.080 because like,
00:22:12.220 being willing to do.
00:22:13.240 Well, because people
00:22:14.780 don't know.
00:22:15.320 They don't know
00:22:15.800 what it looks like
00:22:16.520 to have no anxiety
00:22:17.600 around gender presentation.
00:22:19.000 I think a lot of the right,
00:22:20.540 one of the things we joke about
00:22:21.420 and we'll probably do
00:22:21.880 a full video on this
00:22:22.600 is it's funny
00:22:23.220 that when you look
00:22:24.080 at the far left
00:22:24.680 and the far right,
00:22:25.380 they both seem
00:22:26.000 to have body dysmorphia.
00:22:27.500 They both have
00:22:28.700 unrealistic body expectations
00:22:30.300 for themselves
00:22:30.820 and unrealistic self-images
00:22:32.160 around their body image
00:22:33.480 as it exists right now.
00:22:35.300 I mean, I think a part
00:22:35.860 of that is
00:22:36.340 is because
00:22:36.800 we don't have
00:22:38.060 many role models
00:22:38.780 in our society today
00:22:40.080 that genuinely
00:22:41.740 do not care
00:22:43.680 if people are like,
00:22:44.380 oh, you're acting
00:22:44.820 kind of femme.
00:22:45.620 You're acting kind of
00:22:46.340 whatever.
00:22:47.840 I don't care.
00:22:49.540 I have a wife
00:22:50.720 and kids.
00:22:52.140 Like,
00:22:52.380 who am I?
00:22:54.760 Who am I performing for?
00:22:57.620 Yeah.
00:22:58.240 But here's
00:22:59.160 post-muscle world.
00:23:00.160 What is what is the next?
00:23:01.860 Call it.
00:23:02.460 I want to see.
00:23:02.920 I don't know what the next is,
00:23:03.700 but I really want to emphasize
00:23:04.700 to our viewers, right?
00:23:06.800 Is when you think about
00:23:08.340 the cost you spend
00:23:10.340 on the things in your life
00:23:11.360 that signal
00:23:12.000 self-narrative to yourself,
00:23:13.460 I'm a big, strong person.
00:23:14.540 I'm a meaningful person.
00:23:15.680 I'm a cool guy.
00:23:17.120 Or they signal
00:23:18.140 to your community,
00:23:19.720 genuinely weigh that cost.
00:23:21.980 How many hours a day
00:23:22.900 are you spending on this?
00:23:25.000 What are you getting out of it?
00:23:26.120 When you buy
00:23:26.880 a Ferrari
00:23:28.080 versus me,
00:23:29.960 a used Mazda
00:23:31.620 or something like that,
00:23:33.080 or me.
00:23:33.880 Your 2010 Mazda
00:23:34.920 is great.
00:23:35.700 Our most recent car
00:23:37.380 is used Ford.
00:23:38.560 Yeah.
00:23:38.980 Why?
00:23:39.560 Why are you spending
00:23:40.740 all of this extra time
00:23:42.160 or money?
00:23:42.880 Is it really,
00:23:44.120 other than this sort of
00:23:44.940 immediate dopamine hit
00:23:46.200 you get when you spend the money
00:23:47.380 and you show it off to people,
00:23:48.640 which,
00:23:49.160 let's be honest,
00:23:50.120 in today's world,
00:23:51.140 how many people
00:23:51.660 do you really have
00:23:52.320 to show it off to?
00:23:53.560 Not that many, okay?
00:23:55.600 It just doesn't matter
00:23:57.640 that much anymore.
00:23:58.920 Are you really gaining
00:24:00.600 something of commensurate?
00:24:02.240 I kind of disagree.
00:24:03.640 So I disagree
00:24:04.240 because I think right now
00:24:05.300 people have a bigger audience
00:24:06.600 than ever before
00:24:07.460 in some ways.
00:24:08.960 They're signaling their sin.
00:24:11.220 They're signaling
00:24:12.140 how easy it was
00:24:15.600 to corrupt
00:24:16.660 the things
00:24:17.820 that they were trying
00:24:18.500 to achieve
00:24:19.100 with their life
00:24:20.040 with vanity.
00:24:21.620 I don't know.
00:24:22.040 Anyway,
00:24:22.340 what I'm seeing
00:24:23.300 is when I look
00:24:24.800 at people younger than us
00:24:25.920 or I even just look
00:24:26.700 at people tiny bit
00:24:27.700 younger than us
00:24:28.400 and I see they post
00:24:29.360 something on social media,
00:24:30.340 the number of likes they get.
00:24:32.020 I'm like,
00:24:32.340 oh my God,
00:24:33.140 I don't like,
00:24:33.780 whoa, man,
00:24:34.400 are you famous?
00:24:35.360 No,
00:24:35.640 like they just,
00:24:36.520 their lives are online.
00:24:38.000 I think that the next place
00:24:39.900 and way that people
00:24:41.360 are going to signal status
00:24:43.700 and I'm using a heuristic here
00:24:45.660 of what is going to be hard
00:24:46.980 to legitimately do
00:24:48.160 unless you're actually wealthy
00:24:49.900 and you actually have time.
00:24:51.480 Like these are the two
00:24:52.480 sort of limiting factors
00:24:53.460 right now.
00:24:54.660 So what I think
00:24:55.560 and I'll hear your guests
00:24:56.540 after this
00:24:56.940 because I've primed you
00:24:57.680 with my perfect formula
00:24:59.520 is I think that
00:25:01.000 the ultimate way
00:25:02.100 people are going to signal status
00:25:03.140 is by looking in person
00:25:04.660 as good as they do online
00:25:06.600 because right now
00:25:07.460 a lot of people
00:25:07.940 are cheating online
00:25:08.960 with filters
00:25:09.500 and that's obviously
00:25:10.600 super easy to do
00:25:11.380 and everyone's getting
00:25:11.960 super normalized to it
00:25:13.200 and then only those
00:25:14.920 who are able to pay
00:25:15.860 for the plastic surgery
00:25:16.780 that makes them look
00:25:17.820 like their filtered version
00:25:18.840 of themselves,
00:25:19.440 only the people
00:25:20.040 who are able
00:25:20.560 to keep themselves
00:25:21.240 healthy enough
00:25:22.040 to not need
00:25:23.160 all the filters
00:25:24.040 and actually just look
00:25:25.120 like they do
00:25:25.620 both online and off
00:25:26.620 are going to be the ones
00:25:27.880 to be able to maintain
00:25:29.080 that divide
00:25:30.760 and it's going to be
00:25:31.700 a huge sign
00:25:32.600 of like genuine resource
00:25:34.640 or class or leisure.
00:25:36.480 What do you think?
00:25:37.540 I think you're right.
00:25:38.360 I think the other thing is
00:25:39.760 is a lot of people
00:25:40.720 would say followers
00:25:41.300 but not exactly followers
00:25:42.240 because those will be
00:25:43.000 easy to fake.
00:25:44.160 It is high status followers.
00:25:48.740 How many high status
00:25:50.780 people follow you
00:25:51.840 and interact with you
00:25:53.540 and talk about you?
00:25:54.720 Oh, so that's interesting
00:25:56.080 because not every platform
00:25:57.540 allows you to see
00:25:58.740 who follow you.
00:26:00.320 Yeah, so Twitter converts
00:26:02.780 very, very poorly.
00:26:04.120 X, whatever we want
00:26:05.780 to call it these days.
00:26:06.820 X converts very poorly.
00:26:08.280 It does not convert
00:26:08.920 to book sales.
00:26:09.640 It does not convert
00:26:10.280 to people coming
00:26:11.000 to our YouTube.
00:26:11.780 It does not convert
00:26:12.380 to sub-check followers.
00:26:12.860 But it's where people
00:26:13.460 can show off
00:26:14.180 who follows them.
00:26:15.400 But it's very good
00:26:16.060 at showing off
00:26:16.580 who follows you
00:26:17.680 and who respects your opinion.
00:26:19.360 So like we don't have
00:26:20.360 a lot of followers
00:26:21.000 on Twitter.
00:26:21.560 We've got like 5,000
00:26:22.460 or something.
00:26:23.300 But we have a lot
00:26:24.120 of really high status followers
00:26:26.300 which signals
00:26:27.540 people who can invite us
00:26:29.380 to parties and stuff, right?
00:26:31.860 Hmm.
00:26:32.480 I think that's a good one.
00:26:33.680 Yeah.
00:26:34.160 So we'll see.
00:26:35.240 Yeah, but again,
00:26:35.940 it has to be a thing
00:26:37.000 that, yeah,
00:26:38.300 that only those
00:26:40.320 with wealth
00:26:41.540 or status
00:26:43.300 or leisure
00:26:43.940 will be able to achieve.
00:26:45.220 And I think that those
00:26:45.820 are really the things.
00:26:46.860 It's still really expensive
00:26:48.080 to get plastic surgery
00:26:49.080 or to genuinely look
00:26:50.140 as good as you can
00:26:51.020 look online.
00:26:51.680 And it's only going
00:26:52.520 to get worse.
00:26:53.720 And it's genuinely
00:26:54.460 hard to get some money.
00:26:55.520 She's talking about
00:26:56.080 how important muscle is
00:26:57.100 as like a woman
00:26:57.600 in the 90s
00:26:58.120 talking about
00:26:58.500 how great a tan is.
00:27:00.320 Don't you know
00:27:01.820 that it's sitting
00:27:02.780 in the sun,
00:27:03.460 you're capturing
00:27:04.000 the rays of the earth
00:27:05.380 and exposing
00:27:06.500 your true femininity
00:27:07.920 and that's why
00:27:08.860 I do it nude
00:27:09.580 so that I capture
00:27:11.800 all of this
00:27:12.660 earth energy
00:27:14.100 and I'm genuinely
00:27:15.300 at one with my...
00:27:16.580 Hold on,
00:27:16.780 but do you know
00:27:17.720 about the whole
00:27:18.980 like men exposing
00:27:20.240 their balls
00:27:20.820 to the sun thing
00:27:21.460 going on right now?
00:27:22.140 There's like a current
00:27:22.760 trend of this.
00:27:23.580 I've heard it.
00:27:24.260 It's dumb as hell.
00:27:25.380 I know,
00:27:25.620 but I'm just saying
00:27:26.100 there's a lot of other
00:27:26.980 really weird stuff
00:27:27.900 that's going on
00:27:28.620 with like sun exposure.
00:27:29.740 You can't get anyone
00:27:29.980 to do dumb stuff.
00:27:30.940 The placebo effect
00:27:31.760 is really strong.
00:27:33.520 But I mean also
00:27:34.360 like tans help you
00:27:35.460 more easily conceal
00:27:36.460 blemishes
00:27:36.940 and other things like that.
00:27:37.940 I mean there's a lot
00:27:38.640 of reasons why people
00:27:39.540 like tans that don't
00:27:40.480 necessarily have to do
00:27:41.520 with social class,
00:27:42.540 but it is a good example
00:27:44.580 in how it oscillates.
00:27:45.760 And it is one of those
00:27:46.680 limiting factor things,
00:27:47.680 but I think that's the formula
00:27:48.700 is this something
00:27:50.200 that you can only get
00:27:51.760 because of status
00:27:52.480 or wealth
00:27:53.000 or a lot of leisure time,
00:27:54.260 which you know,
00:27:54.860 only those with resources.
00:27:56.700 Well,
00:27:57.000 and I also think
00:27:57.600 that the people,
00:27:59.020 we know a lot of wealthy people
00:28:00.520 from a lot of groups,
00:28:02.220 the ones who have been able
00:28:03.520 to resist this muscle trend
00:28:04.900 are also the ones
00:28:06.260 who don't own things
00:28:07.160 like fancy cars.
00:28:09.320 Yeah.
00:28:10.260 It's specifically susceptible
00:28:13.220 to the people
00:28:13.940 who need to show off
00:28:14.940 all the hot women
00:28:15.700 their whiz
00:28:16.240 and all their fancy cars.
00:28:17.880 And to a certain extent,
00:28:18.800 it exposes new money,
00:28:20.980 right?
00:28:21.480 Because-
00:28:22.360 Well, it wasn't new money,
00:28:23.100 but a level of insecurity,
00:28:24.360 a level of I earned money
00:28:25.800 just so I could signal
00:28:26.700 my status to other people.
00:28:28.140 Yeah, well, I think,
00:28:28.780 oh, here's an interesting
00:28:29.640 example of it
00:28:30.440 that shows the status cycle
00:28:32.340 is informally dressing
00:28:34.660 as a flex, right?
00:28:36.220 Like in the early days
00:28:37.720 of tech CEOs
00:28:38.880 becoming super wealthy,
00:28:40.600 they would wear
00:28:41.240 pretty disrespectfully
00:28:43.480 informal clothes
00:28:44.440 as a flex
00:28:45.280 because they could
00:28:46.080 because it just had
00:28:46.800 that much money
00:28:47.260 and they were still
00:28:47.820 not in the room.
00:28:49.000 And then I think we saw
00:28:49.880 the height of it
00:28:51.280 with Sam Bankman-Fried
00:28:52.440 who was not only
00:28:54.040 wearing very respectfully
00:28:56.360 informal clothes
00:28:57.100 but even behaving
00:28:58.380 disrespectfully,
00:28:59.300 like playing games
00:29:00.140 while on key interviews.
00:29:01.520 Oh, I love this.
00:29:02.300 Okay, so if people
00:29:02.720 don't know Sam Bankman-Fried,
00:29:04.300 FTX, big EA guy,
00:29:06.580 basically funded 80%
00:29:07.980 of all effective
00:29:09.100 altruism stuff.
00:29:10.260 Interesting, yeah.
00:29:11.020 And he would always flex
00:29:12.240 about how, oh,
00:29:13.160 like he was living
00:29:15.040 inexpensively, right?
00:29:18.140 Expensively.
00:29:19.240 So that he could give
00:29:20.460 all his money to charity,
00:29:21.700 okay, right?
00:29:22.560 But then you'd see him
00:29:23.780 on business meetings
00:29:24.700 and he'd be playing
00:29:26.200 League of Legends, right?
00:29:27.860 This was the famous thing
00:29:28.660 that he would do.
00:29:29.840 Why was he doing this?
00:29:31.120 This was not to give money
00:29:32.540 to effective altruism.
00:29:33.740 It was to show class status
00:29:36.120 through insulting
00:29:37.320 the other people
00:29:38.460 on the meeting
00:29:38.940 without having them leave.
00:29:40.180 The moment I saw that,
00:29:41.640 I knew all this guy
00:29:43.040 cared about with status
00:29:43.940 because you look at us
00:29:45.660 and the ways
00:29:46.560 that we save money.
00:29:48.660 We try to donate
00:29:49.320 around 50% of our yearly income
00:29:50.940 to charities
00:29:51.800 or causes like that.
00:29:53.360 And this has been
00:29:54.080 recorded in newspapers,
00:29:55.280 so we're not BSing this.
00:29:56.600 This is in like
00:29:57.100 Telegraph and stuff.
00:29:58.400 And we do that
00:29:59.780 through extreme
00:30:01.360 daily austerity.
00:30:03.180 But I would never
00:30:05.020 disrespect
00:30:06.200 a business partner
00:30:07.780 or waste time
00:30:10.140 that I could be spending
00:30:11.500 being productive,
00:30:13.020 being indolent.
00:30:14.880 Oh, indolent.
00:30:16.380 Whether it's video games
00:30:17.700 or the gym,
00:30:19.220 if it is not moving you
00:30:21.060 towards your objective function,
00:30:22.180 the thing that you believe
00:30:23.060 has value in the world,
00:30:24.200 right?
00:30:24.520 And I hope
00:30:25.220 that's not your personal aesthetics,
00:30:27.940 then it is a sin.
00:30:30.280 It's sinful.
00:30:31.020 And we all engage in sin.
00:30:32.740 I engage in sin myself.
00:30:34.280 This doesn't help me.
00:30:35.100 But at least
00:30:37.040 when I am doing it,
00:30:38.660 I acknowledge
00:30:39.740 the cost of that sin
00:30:41.920 to my lifestyle.
00:30:43.500 I do not pretend
00:30:44.800 like my sin
00:30:46.360 is a virtue.
00:30:48.540 Whether that...
00:30:50.100 Yeah, I think there's a...
00:30:52.420 In terms of successfully
00:30:53.680 signaling status,
00:30:54.880 like using these
00:30:55.780 in some way
00:30:56.720 rarefied commodities,
00:30:58.060 be it a tan
00:30:58.720 or a not tan
00:30:59.560 or muscles
00:31:00.180 or wearing informal clothes,
00:31:02.340 there's a level
00:31:03.140 of moderation
00:31:03.740 that's required
00:31:04.380 and there's also
00:31:05.020 a level of trailblazing
00:31:06.320 that's required
00:31:06.840 to genuinely show it,
00:31:08.080 right?
00:31:08.260 Because once everyone's doing it
00:31:09.700 or once a certain critical mass
00:31:10.940 of people is doing it,
00:31:12.280 it starts being seen
00:31:13.340 as a demonstration
00:31:14.620 not of status
00:31:15.580 or of genuine dominance
00:31:16.760 but of status anxiety.
00:31:18.700 And the reason
00:31:19.320 why you're doing it
00:31:20.000 or why you're doing it
00:31:20.720 in excess
00:31:21.240 is because you feel like
00:31:22.960 you need to signal
00:31:23.740 your status
00:31:24.300 and if you feel like
00:31:25.260 you need to signal
00:31:25.900 your status,
00:31:26.600 it's because you
00:31:27.400 personally at least
00:31:28.940 don't feel like
00:31:29.460 you have it
00:31:29.900 in the first place.
00:31:31.080 I think that's why
00:31:31.780 many, for example,
00:31:32.560 designer brands
00:31:33.400 have come to be seen
00:31:34.680 as actually quite trashy
00:31:35.960 by many groups
00:31:36.740 because like
00:31:37.120 it's pretty trashy
00:31:38.820 these days, right?
00:31:39.580 Yes, because the groups
00:31:40.760 who are desperate
00:31:41.800 to signal status
00:31:42.760 are getting it in excess.
00:31:45.000 So I think
00:31:45.380 if there's also
00:31:46.240 a takeaway on like
00:31:47.280 how to leverage
00:31:49.540 this dynamic
00:31:50.200 in a way
00:31:50.620 that genuinely
00:31:51.280 impresses people,
00:31:52.840 one, don't do something
00:31:53.840 that's overplayed
00:31:55.400 and two,
00:31:56.000 just look for something
00:31:56.960 it can even be unique
00:31:58.380 that just demonstrates
00:31:59.200 that you have more time
00:32:00.620 or money or resources
00:32:01.640 and other people
00:32:02.440 but honestly
00:32:03.340 like the copycat approach
00:32:04.800 doing it by currently
00:32:06.280 like getting more muscle
00:32:07.580 or flexing
00:32:08.540 that you can be informal
00:32:09.380 somewhere
00:32:09.880 or even traveling
00:32:11.200 to expensive vacation
00:32:12.660 destinations
00:32:13.200 just isn't really
00:32:14.080 going to impress
00:32:14.740 people anymore
00:32:15.320 because it's being
00:32:16.600 it's already being
00:32:18.400 signaled by too many
00:32:19.520 people who are
00:32:20.440 extremely status anxious.
00:32:22.460 Yep.
00:32:23.380 Oh, well, still
00:32:24.240 I love talking about this.
00:32:25.400 I'm really excited
00:32:26.360 to see how we're
00:32:27.740 going to tackle this
00:32:28.580 with our kids
00:32:29.340 when they all become
00:32:30.300 very self-conscious
00:32:31.340 around puberty.
00:32:32.540 It's one thing
00:32:33.400 for us to feel
00:32:34.060 comfortable with the subjects
00:32:35.180 and to be comfortable
00:32:35.940 with ourselves
00:32:36.660 but helping a teenage
00:32:39.620 young adult
00:32:40.900 make it through this
00:32:42.320 is it possible?
00:32:43.500 I don't know.
00:32:44.020 I mean, I think it
00:32:44.860 honestly, I don't think
00:32:45.540 in Amish communities
00:32:46.360 you're seeing huge levels
00:32:47.480 of body dysmorphia.
00:32:48.860 I think that
00:32:49.220 they aren't.
00:32:50.220 Yeah.
00:32:50.840 But anyway, I'm looking
00:32:51.660 for detectives.
00:32:52.120 It's interesting
00:32:52.720 within Amish communities
00:32:53.740 because class
00:32:55.000 is not determined
00:32:56.200 by wealth.
00:32:57.680 In any extent.
00:33:00.200 The class status
00:33:01.600 signaling is around
00:33:02.280 things like beard links.
00:33:03.920 It's around things
00:33:04.980 like biblical knowledge.
00:33:06.740 There are many different
00:33:07.740 ways you can determine
00:33:08.640 I like that both beard
00:33:09.680 length and biblical
00:33:10.600 knowledge are both.
00:33:11.920 Well, there was a
00:33:12.840 hate crime case recently
00:33:14.240 and actually
00:33:14.920 some Amish
00:33:15.680 cut off other
00:33:16.460 Amish men's beards.
00:33:18.040 Oh, shots fired.
00:33:20.520 I know you see
00:33:21.460 that as trivial
00:33:22.260 but to them.
00:33:23.160 No, I don't know.
00:33:23.840 I learned from
00:33:24.720 Shanghai Noon
00:33:26.020 with Jackie Chan
00:33:27.860 that having
00:33:28.740 hair cut off
00:33:30.160 is like
00:33:30.740 super not cool.
00:33:32.440 All right.
00:33:32.880 But yeah,
00:33:33.240 this is true
00:33:33.840 in some like
00:33:34.420 Asian communities.
00:33:35.520 Like the top knot.
00:33:36.480 Man, no.
00:33:37.220 Like the ceremonial hair
00:33:38.580 you do not
00:33:39.260 you do not touch
00:33:40.300 in any culture
00:33:41.480 with any gender
00:33:42.520 you do not
00:33:43.260 you do not touch
00:33:44.020 weave
00:33:44.460 you do not touch
00:33:45.620 ceremonial top knots
00:33:46.960 and you do not
00:33:47.400 touch a beard.
00:33:48.100 Just draw the line.
00:33:48.920 But anyway, Malcolm
00:33:49.500 we got to move on
00:33:50.380 with our lives.
00:33:51.060 It is so wonderful
00:33:51.980 to have you back
00:33:52.680 from a business trip.
00:33:53.500 I love you so much.
00:33:55.260 I love you so much.
00:33:55.780 You are amazing.
00:33:57.400 You are so great
00:33:58.980 to be married to.
00:33:59.860 When you were gone
00:34:00.960 every moment
00:34:02.020 was suffering
00:34:02.880 because you
00:34:04.080 are just
00:34:05.780 such an amazing
00:34:07.380 integral part
00:34:08.620 of my
00:34:09.660 daily
00:34:10.420 feeling
00:34:11.740 of
00:34:12.440 of completeness.
00:34:13.980 And Malcolm
00:34:14.220 you are my status
00:34:15.980 signal
00:34:16.700 my status
00:34:17.400 totem.
00:34:18.140 Yeah, I heard
00:34:18.780 when you left
00:34:19.160 everyone was like
00:34:19.580 are you a model?
00:34:20.840 And I was like
00:34:21.380 that made me feel good
00:34:22.520 because I was like
00:34:23.420 Oh, so yeah
00:34:23.820 I'm your trophy wife
00:34:24.780 and you're my
00:34:25.400 my status
00:34:27.800 my trophy husband
00:34:28.460 My favorite moment
00:34:30.100 in the pronatalist
00:34:31.240 saying was
00:34:31.860 there was this person
00:34:32.400 on Twitter being like
00:34:33.060 oh, these people
00:34:33.680 are disgusting
00:34:34.240 and someone was like
00:34:34.800 don't you know
00:34:36.100 that they don't
00:34:36.720 actually look like that?
00:34:37.660 That's a pair of models
00:34:38.580 that was hired
00:34:39.560 to promote
00:34:41.000 the pronatalist movement
00:34:42.120 and
00:34:43.140 Yeah, it was like
00:34:44.200 the best
00:34:44.660 like
00:34:45.060 insult
00:34:46.160 that was really
00:34:47.200 a compliment
00:34:47.800 that was totally
00:34:49.080 not meant as a compliment
00:34:49.980 that was
00:34:50.580 incredibly sweet
00:34:51.640 whoever, you out there
00:34:52.900 You out there
00:34:54.220 who tried to insult us
00:34:55.300 with that
00:34:55.660 it really meant
00:34:56.780 the world to us
00:34:57.380 I have been riding
00:34:58.400 on that horse
00:34:59.180 for a long time
00:35:00.320 Yeah, the best thing
00:35:01.080 we ever heard, man
00:35:01.880 Yeah
00:35:02.360 All right, Malcolm
00:35:03.580 See you downstairs
00:35:05.140 Have a good one
00:35:06.180 I have been riding on that horse
00:35:07.920 I have been riding on that horse
00:35:08.620 I have been riding on that horse