Based Camp - The War on Lesbians & Wholesome Families

00:00:00.000 any form of emotional pain is considered a form of violence and something that should be

00:00:05.580 systematically avoided. So if it causes you pain through cognitive dissonance, like maybe I would

00:00:11.820 have wanted to have a- Yeah, we're going to get there. We're going to get there. But you jumped

00:00:15.640 to the answer, but we got to get to their point by point. I was watching lesbians complaining 1.00

00:00:20.720 about their communities being invaded. And I just can't imagine what it would feel like.

00:00:27.660 Imagine you're living in a society where like space marines exist. Okay. There are these people

00:00:35.220 that are 20% larger than you, five times stronger than you. But now these people who are very sexually

00:00:42.600 aggressive are demanding that you suck their penises. And now everyone who you thought before 1.00

00:00:48.860 was like part of your safe space is now saying that you're a bigot and you're not really straight 1.00

00:00:55.160 because you won't suck these men's penises. And so now you're kicked out of even these safe spaces. 1.00

00:01:00.280 And you honestly, I think that's how it feels. That's how it feels to them for sure.

00:01:04.020 Would you like to know more?

00:01:05.440 I already did.

00:01:08.060 Hello, Simone. I'm excited to be here with you today. And I want to talk about an idea

00:01:14.600 that I had recently and I actually had it a while ago, but it's something that I've really been

00:01:20.660 reflecting on in my thinking is the vitriol we see certain far left urban monoculture activists

00:01:29.560 react to wholesome things with.

00:01:33.960 And how do you find wholesome here?

00:01:36.780 What you're doing right now, being with your kid, they'll see a loving family or they'll see,

00:01:43.140 you know, they're like, that looks so heteronormative. That looks so, you know, you see this,

00:01:47.400 you know, they'll, they'll see a trad wife and they'll be like, this is an, this is misogynistic

00:01:54.620 for her to be living this life or for her to be in a happy relationship with a straight white man. 0.98

00:02:00.780 And here I can put that.

00:02:01.920 I've been attacked.

00:02:04.780 You went out with a white male. I was a freshman.

00:02:08.640 Fresh person.

00:02:09.340 And I have been thinking why this extremist reaction to this. And it occurred to me that

00:02:18.480 from the perspective of ultra far left ideology, wholesomeness and a wholesome lifestyle is

00:02:27.680 literally a lifestyle of violence. It is a form of violence against marginalized communities 0.99

00:02:33.580 from their perspective. They would call marginalized communities.

00:02:36.520 How so if it's 100% sovereign in one's own house?

00:02:41.120 Exactly. How? Because that is an interesting question. And so we need to go into their world

00:02:44.980 structure. So the first aspect of their world structure that we need to understand is it is a

00:02:50.980 cultural system that is completely defined. And I talk about this all the time. So I'll be very

00:02:54.820 quick in summarizing this defined around any form of emotional pain is considered a form of

00:03:00.960 violence and something that should be systematically avoided. So even if it causes you pain through

00:03:07.100 cognitive dissonance, like maybe I would have wanted to have, we're going to get there. We're

00:03:11.740 going to get there, but you've jumped to the answer, but we got to get to their point by point.

00:03:15.220 So you look at something like the haze movement, the healthy at every size movement. Why would you

00:03:18.680 hide from women mostly that being overweight is, has negative long-term health repercussions because

00:03:27.040 it causes in the moment pain. And therefore it's an evil thing to do because

00:03:30.880 in the moment, emotional pain, and they force the evil thing to do, or you tell them your lifestyle

00:03:35.600 will not lead you to long-term happiness. That is a form of, of, of violence against it because

00:03:41.820 you have caused this emotional pain to them. This is where things like misgendering and stuff like

00:03:47.100 that. They're like, this is a form of violence and it should be outlawed. Like it's obviously not a

00:03:51.720 form of violence. So then how are they defining violence? They're defining violence around things

00:03:56.680 that make them feel upset with what they've allowed their lives to become. Call somebody out

00:04:04.140 for their own failures as a form of violence. Wow. I can see that when our kids fight, it's

00:04:10.960 typically because one kid sees the other kid having a really good time with a toy. And then suddenly

00:04:17.320 their entire life is misery because they do not have that one toy. And we even, for example,

00:04:26.020 have bought copies of some toys. We have bumper cars, for example, and we have two identical orange

00:04:31.680 bumper cars. Cause you very intelligently. The kids have noticed they make slightly different

00:04:36.100 noises. Yes. So they're like, we're like, there's another bumper car. Just get in the empty identical

00:04:40.320 bumper car. And they're like, no, I want this bumper. I want to see bumper car. And they see it.

00:04:45.940 And yes, they experience real pain. Actually, before we go further with this topic, I would

00:04:51.800 like people to reflect on this in their own life. How much of the things they desire is just because

00:04:57.180 they saw somebody else having fun with it and now they want it. Keep in mind. I think everything

00:05:01.720 makes a lot more sense though, once you've had toddlers and siblings. Yeah. How hard coded this is

00:05:06.140 in us world, a status signaling. And I saw somebody else who had these things and they are either high

00:05:13.020 status or seem to be happy. Therefore I want these things. Yeah. And I need that thing. Yes.

00:05:17.400 The trad wife marketing works so well to market an idea in a lifestyle, right? 1.00

00:05:22.800 But we'll hold on though, because for whatever reason, trad wives don't appear to be watching 1.00

00:05:30.120 the progressive YouTubers and the progressive commentators and going, Oh, why don't I have

00:05:37.160 my, I don't know. Nobody wants their lives. Like I look at the, these ultra progressive

00:05:43.260 lives. I just don't think anybody wants them. They're like, yeah, but I get to do whatever

00:05:46.640 I want and be affirmed for being whoever I want to be. And we're meanwhile, the other

00:05:51.140 side of the aisle is like, but won't that like really mess up your head and cause a lot

00:05:55.760 of mental health issues and make you fundamentally unfulfilled. And they're like, don't say that's

00:06:00.320 violent. Cause intuitively I would expect like when I model my progressively raised self, I

00:06:07.440 would assume that when people from more conservative cultures see my progressive lifestyle of getting

00:06:15.060 to do whatever I want in the moment that feels good, that they would be jealous. Oh, I'm fasting

00:06:21.280 on Sunday. It's conference Sunday and I can't eat or whatever. And then, Oh, look, they're eating

00:06:25.220 pancakes at IHOP, but I'm so jealous and whatever. Right. Like you'd think they'd be jealous. And

00:06:30.780 it's interesting to me that doesn't seem to be taking place that we look at. Yeah. I think

00:06:35.400 the progressive model of the conservative mind is just by bigotry where bigotry is prejudgment

00:06:41.820 and dehumanization of another group that they don't understand from the perspective of conservatives 0.71

00:06:46.640 that they get to masturbate all day, whenever they feel like, and eat all the foods they feel 0.94

00:06:51.960 like, whenever they feel like. And, um, we're not looking at that with envy. We're like, Oh, 0.93

00:06:58.300 like that's sad, which is also very interesting from progressive mindset. When they're looking at

00:07:03.560 these videos and they're looking at these ideas and you have created this cognitive dissonance in them,

00:07:09.680 like the wholesomeness is literally a form of violence against them. It is literally hurtful to

00:07:16.760 them because it shows that two groups promise two different things. And Bo said, this thing will

00:07:24.500 give you happiness. There's two different cultural assumptions around what gives a person fulfillment

00:07:28.460 and happiness. And they need to believe that the other group was lying because they know that there's

00:07:34.960 no happiness at the end of what they have. And I will say that there is definitely a form of the

00:07:41.760 trad wife, like the ultra strict trad wife. We've done a different video on this. That is a complete

00:07:47.180 LARP. And it is, it does lead to unhappiness. Ultimately, you look at a relationship like Steven

00:07:54.220 Crowder's or something like that, where he's bought into this ultra traditionalist mindset that is not

00:07:59.260 really, it has like genuine misogyny as part of it. Or Lauren Southern, who got the divorce after

00:08:06.100 trying to try a wife lifestyle and just seeing that you need a real traditional relationship. So I'd go 0.84

00:08:11.740 watch our video on that and I'll post the title card on the screen here. So it's easier to find.

00:08:15.920 But this is interesting because it provides an explanation for something that I think can be

00:08:21.020 confusing to conservatives, which is progressives for so long said they just wanted the government

00:08:27.080 out of their house, not regulating them. Why now that they are in power, are they trying to

00:08:33.640 disintermediate anyone from seeing these sort of conservative messages? And are they so

00:08:38.900 antagonistic to these happy, healthy, heterosexual relationships and marriages and even wholesome

00:08:46.060 gay marriages? So we have gay friends who are like conservative leaning and have kids and have

00:08:51.860 structured this very wholesome lifestyle for themselves. And they confide in us that they

00:08:57.640 actually deal with a lot of ostracization from the gay community and are seen as being traitors to

00:09:04.360 the community. And you actually see this within a black community as well. For example, like you can

00:09:09.820 ask, like, why are so often these wholesome two parent black families seen as race traitors seen as 0.88

00:09:17.760 like othered by the black community? Like you're not really black. They'll say these things that they 0.95

00:09:21.480 vote conservative and move into these conservative mindsets. And part of it is that they are a form of

00:09:26.060 violence against the iterations of the black community that went with other cultural hypotheses,

00:09:31.920 like the dissolution of the family unit, which I should say is being pushed very hard. It's like

00:09:38.000 a key aspect of Marxist philosophy is the dissolution of the family unit. And so they've worked really hard

00:09:44.600 in the communities where they have more sway, like the black community, to actively dissolve family 1.00

00:09:51.120 units. Wow. And so like the huge percentage of black kids that are being born, and I'll put the statistic

00:09:57.240 here into single families, that is an active campaign by certain extremists, like priest factions

00:10:05.800 within the urban monoculture. And I also think that this comes to another thing where they're like,

00:10:10.640 you guys are often guffawing and far progressives and stuff like that and getting worried about it.

00:10:15.980 Like, why are you doing that? Right. And I should point out here that we don't like, you'll never hear us

00:10:22.260 on our channel, like attacking, like gay men, for example, or even really gay women on our channel.

00:10:29.900 But you'll often hear us complaining about the trans community. So what's the difference between

00:10:33.160 these various groups, right? And it's that the trans community is really actively targeting

00:10:40.200 individuals who I do not believe are actually trans. And most of them are individuals who are,

00:10:48.160 have mental health issues, really disproportionately they target autistic children,

00:10:51.600 which our children have fallen in the category of, and attempt to, I actually had a joke recently

00:10:56.640 that I was going to put on Twitter or something where I was like, we have autistic children,

00:11:01.040 or as they're called within the trans community, eggs. Do you know what an egg is within the trans 1.00

00:11:05.280 community? No. That's a target that they think might be potentially trans that needs to have it 1.00

00:11:10.000 shell cracked. And if you look at the recent research that's been coming out, we now know that of 11 year

00:11:15.900 olds, nine out of 10 of them who identify with the opposite gender are going to detransition within 0.99

00:11:22.500 five years, not detransition, but are going to no longer have that predilection within five years.

00:11:28.320 Yeah. They're doing irreparable damage if they're getting some kind of intervention.

00:11:32.660 Yeah. Yeah. And if you look at the long-term medical issues that people who transition have

00:11:36.940 and stuff like that, so that's why we focus so much on that community because it's actively doing harm

00:11:41.740 to other cultural groups and survives through this active form of harm, which actually brings me to

00:11:48.620 another thing I can complain about right now on this episode, because it was really getting to me

00:11:53.100 today based on some episodes I was watching of detransitioned individuals and lesbians complaining 1.00

00:11:59.780 about their communities being invaded. And I just can't imagine what it would feel like. I understand

00:12:08.920 where some turfs are coming from, what it would feel like to be a lesbian woman and have this movement 1.00

00:12:15.200 that was moving to like women only spaces where you could go and dating apps. And just as the rest of

00:12:22.060 the gay rights movement is really getting together. Now, all of a sudden, if you're a lesbian woman on a

00:12:27.420 dating app, everyone who's reaching out to you is a non-passing trans woman. Every single person 0.99

00:12:33.660 that's reaching out. And you are being called a bigot for not going on dates with them. Keep in

00:12:41.000 mind, a lot of these women have fear around getting raped or something like that. Or they're just, 1.00

00:12:46.100 in terms of sexual orientation, uniquely turned off by male characteristics. That's totally a thing 0.90

00:12:53.280 that exists. So a couple of things I wanted to go a bit deeper on here. One of the things we talk about

00:12:58.240 in The Pragmatist's Guide to Sexuality is that human arousal when it comes to gender is not divided

00:13:05.400 into male and female. It's divided into specific environmental stimuli, i.e. seeing a penis,

00:13:14.620 seeing breasts, seeing the male form, seeing the female form. And it exists on a spectrum of arousal to 0.99

00:13:21.180 discuss. So in some individuals, seeing one of these gendered things can generate a very large

00:13:28.060 amount of disgust in them. The exact opposite of arousal. Actually, we argue that it's literally

00:13:33.100 the opposite of arousal. When you are aroused, your pupils dilate. You look at something longer.

00:13:40.020 You typically breathe in. When you are disgusted, you typically look away from something as much as

00:13:44.620 possible. You want to get away from it. And instead of go closer to it, your pupils contract

00:13:49.340 and you hold your nose. We suspect they're operating off the same system. But anyway,

00:13:53.540 you know, so they are experiencing an extreme amount of disgust when they're seeing these

00:13:57.740 individuals. And we'd also note that the trans individuals, you know, people born men who are

00:14:05.180 going into these lesbian spaces, they are not the normal types of trans individuals you see. 1.00

00:14:10.180 They are, well, the creepy ones, the ones who don't have any sort of normal social consideration and no 0.91

00:14:16.940 sort of boundaries. And this is the thing where a lot of people are like, come on, are you really

00:14:23.000 telling me that if you gave creepy, sexually aggressive men a way to predate on women just

00:14:33.160 by lying about their gender, that they would do that? That creepy, sexually aggressive men would 0.97

00:14:38.420 lie to try to sleep with lesbian women? And then, of course, you reflect on this for a second. 0.99

00:14:43.980 Of course, of course, that's exactly what creepy, sexually aggressive men would do,

00:14:49.040 especially if you gave them a social cheat where no one's allowed to criticize their behavior. 0.98

00:14:53.420 All the men who claim to be lesbian are AGP.

00:14:57.000 100%.

00:14:57.480 Because they're heterosexual, right? If they were gay dudes who were trans, they wouldn't even be 1.00

00:15:01.860 anywhere near lesbian spaces. 1.00

00:15:04.760 I have never met a transbian that was not an autodynophile. 0.99

00:15:13.980 And that is, I think, even the worst part of this is we are getting the sickest and creepiest 0.99

00:15:21.740 dudes. This isn't the, what most people think a trans woman is. I think the most average person 0.99

00:15:26.120 who's just not involved is thinks a trans woman is a super effeminate gay man who transitioned 0.95

00:15:29.840 fully. And they're like, well, she's okay. She can use the bathroom. That is not the majority 0.96

00:15:35.900 of what's happening here.

00:15:36.800 Hi, my name is Luz. I'm a trans and polyamorous therapist in Texas. And this is my therapy

00:15:41.540 theme of the week. This week's theme honors lesbian visibility week. As I myself am a trans

00:15:48.280 lesbian, this is what I want to say about lesbians. One of the reasons why I love being a lesbian 0.99

00:15:54.300 and I love lesbians is because we get to show the world that it is possible to love outside the 1.00

00:16:03.300 dimensions of patriarchy. We, with sapphic love, create an entirely different dimension, an entirely

00:16:10.860 different way of loving people and living. And it's so fucking beautiful. It's as important as the 0.97

00:16:18.260 sunshine. I once heard that a lot of lesbians, particularly cis lesbians, initiate flirting 1.00

00:16:25.660 with other women is through eye contact. You could just tell in the eyes, oh, they're in 0.99

00:16:30.740 you. As autistic trans women, that doesn't work. Because for one, I need people to be very direct

00:16:36.920 with me because I don't like to make assumptions about their intentions. By default, men's trans 1.00

00:16:41.560 women have their walls up and are ready to brawl because if a woman's staring at us, there's 1.00

00:16:47.060 just this innate fear that they're going to, that they've clocked us and they're going 0.99

00:16:51.400 to say some turf bullshit and we got to start throwing. Who the f***? Yeah, you're going 1.00

00:16:55.780 to be clocked. Look at you. Have you seen yourself? Is there a mirror in your house, sir?

00:17:01.400 Yeah. And so if I was going to convey to a straight guy how this would feel, okay, imagine you're

00:17:06.880 living in a society where like space marines exist. Okay. There are these people that are

00:17:15.020 20% larger than you, five times stronger than you. And you had decided that you only liked women. 0.50

00:17:22.920 You as a guy only like women, right? You like having sex with women and you really don't like 1.00

00:17:26.760 penises or anything like that. But now all of a sudden, a category of these space marines 1.00

00:17:33.400 who are all male, okay, they all have penises, everything like that, has started saying that 0.99

00:17:38.340 they're women. On dating apps, they're the only group reaching out to you. They go into what used 1.00

00:17:43.020 to be like safe spaces because you used to have these private spaces where like only men could

00:17:48.240 go before. But now these people who are very sexually aggressive are coming into these spaces

00:17:52.840 and they're demanding that you suck their penises. They are demanding. And now everyone who you 1.00

00:17:59.420 thought before was like part of your safe space is now saying that you're a bigot and you're not 1.00

00:18:05.820 really straight because you won't suck these men's penises. And so now you're kicked out of even 1.00

00:18:10.880 these safe spaces. Honestly, I think that's how it feels. That's how it feels to them for sure.

00:18:15.600 Yeah, that's how it feels to them. It's either you suck space marine cock or you are no longer 1.00

00:18:20.400 a straight male. Like you'd be like just one of the fear that you would live with every day when 1.00

00:18:26.240 you go to one of these spaces and then all of a sudden this 12 foot tall person marches in with

00:18:31.460 10 times your muscle mass. And this formerly was a community where you felt safe talking about

00:18:37.220 what it feels like to be a non-space marine in a space marine society. I feel so bad for them.

00:18:45.140 It's not that I don't also feel for actual trans individuals, but I think the real thing, 0.98

00:18:49.320 I think some individuals are actually trans individuals, but they can't understand why

00:18:54.020 women who were born women would want spaces where these other category of person isn't coming into. 1.00

00:19:01.040 Or because men are like people who are born men are much more like sexually aggressive on these apps 0.52

00:19:06.100 and stuff like that. And now there's no like female only dating apps or women who were born

00:19:12.000 women like cis women only, cis lesbian women only dating apps. That just doesn't exist. Like even 0.96

00:19:17.780 her and stuff like that is now regularly promoting like you can get categorized and kicked off the app

00:19:23.720 for being a quote unquote turf for saying trans women. And then you can get kicked off Tinder for

00:19:28.200 this. You can get kicked off of...

00:19:29.580 First, I got kicked off of Tinder for putting that I was... I think I put female only. 1.00

00:19:35.480 Because I know her used to be pretty specific for women. And then they released the whole

00:19:42.680 thing like their whole policy basically saying, oh, we don't discriminate against anybody and

00:19:48.440 everybody's welcome. And then at that point, you're like, then it's not lesbian. Like it's not for women. 0.98

00:19:53.620 Her has even had, I don't remember the exact wording, but they've had like kind of pop-up

00:20:00.200 announcements on the app about turfism. There's this specific category to report people for being

00:20:09.240 turfs. Oh my God.

00:20:12.500 On what started as a lesbian dating app.

00:20:16.440 And so all of the people reaching out to you. And so you just become like an incel. Like if people

00:20:20.300 say incel women don't exist, like this is the one category where I'd be like, there probably 0.99

00:20:24.140 are actual incel lesbians just because you can't go into any public space without being hit on by 1.00

00:20:29.060 like hundreds of what to you. To me, I've got nothing against trans people doing what they're 0.86

00:20:34.160 doing. But would I sleep with one of them, especially one of them who doesn't pass? As a

00:20:38.740 straight man, most straight men are like viscerally, yeah, I get it, lesbians. I get why you're having 1.00

00:20:43.960 this visceral reaction to this. Then to have this entire safety net. So there's that, but then there's also

00:20:48.880 this hatred of wholesomeness that we regularly see because of the explosion of mental health issues

00:20:54.900 in these communities that saw like a constant hose of dopamine. Just do whatever I want whenever I

00:21:01.740 want. And there's a lot of cope that comes out of that too. One of the most common responses appears

00:21:05.920 to be, oh, this is all a lie. It is all an illusion. I think this is one of the big reasons why eight

00:21:12.060 passengers crashed and burned so publicly is that at first you had this large trad family 0.98

00:21:18.640 that took a more conservative approach to parenting. They were harder on punishment,

00:21:24.740 et cetera. And then finally they just went off the rails, crashed and burned. And it allowed a huge

00:21:31.880 portion of the community, the progressive community to say, see exactly every family,

00:21:38.440 every conservative family that appears wholesome. In the end, it turns out that the mother has joined

00:21:43.440 some kind of psychologist cult and is leaving the father and the kids are being horribly treated and

00:21:48.800 all of these things. And that's a huge message that I see as well. So it's not just framing it as an

00:21:54.560 attack. I think a lot of it also is just turning it into cope because even acknowledging that it's an

00:21:59.860 attack acknowledges that you wish that you had that for yourself.

00:22:04.240 So as a former progressive woman who grew up in San Francisco, did you think relationships like

00:22:09.700 ours existed or did you think it was a whole lot? No, of course not.

00:22:14.620 You've seen pretty deeply into both the lifestyles. Be the person who's just being like,

00:22:18.540 honestly, this is how it is. Like, what are your thoughts? Like, is it really as good as they say

00:22:23.620 it is? Is it better than they say it is? Is it? Yeah. What are your real thoughts?

00:22:27.900 The mindset that I was raised with, if I were to see a trad wife and I'd never encountered a trad wife,

00:22:32.960 so I would have thought that it was fictional first, would be that this is someone who's

00:22:36.600 extremely sheltered and doesn't know any better. So they've just been essentially robbed of a

00:22:40.940 series of opportunities in their lives. And they are a trad wife because that is all that they've 0.98

00:22:44.800 been exposed to, which to be fair is how many people are raised. Ayla was raised in an environment

00:22:49.260 where she was just told that like all of her education was this so she could be a good homeschooling

00:22:54.320 stay-at-home mother. And then she leaves that world and realizes that she was robbed of a lot of

00:22:59.600 opportunities. And that's a very legitimate complaint. So I think the perception of the

00:23:04.480 world that I was raised with is not totally wrong. And I think that's one of the reasons why this kind

00:23:09.840 of mindset, this view that a lot of people in this position are being lied to are just missing a lot

00:23:15.260 of opportunities that they otherwise would have pursued is because a lot of the time it's true.

00:23:20.120 I think that the big thing that's missing is that progressives don't grow up understanding

00:23:26.460 fully the supportive role that traditional cultures play. And I definitely grew up really

00:23:34.620 envying and really missing this concept of having traditions and having holidays and having a cohesive

00:23:41.860 culture and having a, we do this, we stand for that. This is what we're all about. And even the books

00:23:48.600 that my parents read to me as I was a kid, it seemed like this fantasy that was so appealing, that was

00:23:54.540 so cozy, but that had gone extinct. So I could see people who are progressive now looking at a trad family 1.00

00:24:04.140 and saying, you are just cosplaying as this thing that isn't real anymore. And it can't be real. And this

00:24:10.080 is really offensive because I want it to like my parents and many people went through this. They were read

00:24:15.860 Little House on the Prairie by their parents. So they read those books as a kid and they loved

00:24:20.060 this life that's actually quite austere. That's quite difficult. There's disease, there's danger,

00:24:25.100 there's deprivation, but it's one of the coziest book series you could possibly read. And there's

00:24:31.880 this perception that just is something that could happen in the past and couldn't happen now.

00:24:36.960 And I think that people hear that I have final say on all things in our relationship. And I think that

00:24:41.660 there's the assumption that then I must be like, as a person living in this relationship where it's

00:24:46.440 like an actually healthy sort of trad life relationship, do you feel like the misogyny,

00:24:52.020 I think you would assume as an outsider, like of me having final say in everything? Do you feel like

00:24:56.660 you're not consulted in decisions or that I... Not at all. I think what people miss when it comes down

00:25:01.160 to hierarchies in a relationship is that it doesn't feel like a hierarchy. It feels,

00:25:07.020 it feels like specialization of labor. It feels like an economic decision and choice. Someone

00:25:12.440 that I was corresponding with who followed this podcast was telling me, this is someone I admire

00:25:16.920 deeply. She's amazing. A homeschooling mother of seven kids. Yeah. We're not going to name,

00:25:23.000 we don't name anyone because we're not going to reveal anyone, but she was talking about how

00:25:26.420 people really misunderstand trad relationships and that this whole concept of people exerting their

00:25:31.560 dominance is like pulling rank. And whenever you're pulling rank, you are essentially like,

00:25:37.020 paying capital. You are, you're demonstrating the fact that you didn't have that rank in the first

00:25:42.360 place. You're trying to reassert something that you haven't earned. And that in a true relationship

00:25:47.840 where you have a hierarchy, because it's naturally sorting, you have specialization of labor and you 0.84

00:25:54.100 never have this feeling of maintaining frame or pulling rank or shit testing, because it is just so 0.94

00:26:00.540 clear that you are really good at this. I'm really good at this. We're going to do our jobs and we 0.80

00:26:06.140 trust each other to do a good job because we see that the outcomes are ideal when we trust each

00:26:11.440 other, that you earn that hierarchy, you earn that position. So yeah, I think that's also something

00:26:16.880 that's not really seen in, in progressive circles when they look at traditional circles,

00:26:22.480 because one relationships have been so broken down that it's just understood that people are in these

00:26:28.760 atomized relationships where they don't really have, no one has a specialization. No one has a role. No one

00:26:36.500 has, everyone has to be able to do absolutely everything by themselves. Their finances are by

00:26:40.960 themselves, their careers by themselves, their friendships are by themselves. So there's no

00:26:44.540 specialization. And then there's also this really huge misrepresentation among so-called conservatives

00:26:52.060 who constantly talk about maintaining frame and constantly talk about shit tests and constantly talk about their 0.96

00:26:57.140 dominance and constantly are pulling rank. And they totally mess, like they act as though that they 0.97

00:27:02.300 are, they represent trad life when they are 100% not at all representative of trad life.

00:27:08.000 Yeah, I completely agree with you. And another interesting thing that I wanted to highlight here

00:27:12.160 because our eight passengers video never is going live because we did film one on it.

00:27:17.220 And what I said on that video a long time ago, right after the eight passenger situation happened

00:27:21.240 is I looked at some of the stuff. So people who don't know, she basically fell into a cult with this

00:27:26.860 other lady who started living with them. And I looked at pictures of her and I was like,

00:27:30.560 this lady's a lesbian. Yeah. And then I'll put pictures on the screen. If you grew up around a 1.00

00:27:36.000 lot of gay people, you can like tell, like she sets off the gaydar to such an extreme. 0.78

00:27:41.860 But even people with no gaydar are like, but that's a lesbian, right? 0.99

00:27:45.380 Yeah. Her actions make sense now. So what she would do is try to break up men and tell them that they 1.00

00:27:50.040 were addicted to porn of women. And I think it's because she was. And so she just learned she could say this 0.97

00:27:55.980 to any guy to break up. Like her whole thing was attempting to break up straight.

00:27:59.420 I don't even, I don't think necessarily she has to have been addicted to porn to do that. I think

00:28:03.040 she discovered that it was very easy to do that, to assert her own dominance within a relationship

00:28:08.640 and disintermediate the husband and wife. It was the easiest way.

00:28:12.700 It might actually be worse doing a whole video on how she brainwashed people because it was a really

00:28:16.100 interesting tactic. Comment below if you think so.

00:28:19.140 Yeah. And it sounds like our kids are back from the park. Oh my gosh. I love my wife. I love my

00:28:27.600 kids and I love this life you have created for me. We need to do some wholesome family time. I'm

00:28:33.400 looking forward to it. Am I making, we're making you beef bulgogi tonight. Bulgogi and then corn

00:28:38.480 ribs. Yes. Oh my gosh. I didn't know what ribs are, but I saw them at Trader Joe's and I was like,

00:28:44.480 let's try it. Let's do it. Let's do it. Yeah. All right. You are a very special and amazing woman.

00:28:50.040 And thank you for committing violence against the urban monoculture every day by enjoying your life

00:28:56.080 and broadcasting that. Thank you for asserting your dominance through your natural superiority.

00:29:00.520 I love you so much. Oh, maybe this is tied to women online all the time, always posting their 0.99

00:29:04.860 losses. Like everyone's always talking about women posting their losses. That might make another 1.00

00:29:08.360 video good as well. There's this trend online of like women posting like really horrible days or 0.95

00:29:14.020 when they really screwed up or when they really like just, oh, this horrible thing happened to me.

00:29:18.480 What? Men don't do this very frequently. Yeah. I'll pull up a compilation on it. It's an

00:29:22.380 interesting phenomenon. I have not fallen down this hole yet. Okay, cool. Looking forward to it.

00:29:29.820 I've got the kids. Thank you.

Based Camp - May 24, 2024

The War on Lesbians & Wholesome Families

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