Based Camp - Understanding the Trans Arousal Profile

00:00:00.000 Anyway, so the point that I'm making here is he might have actually been ironically right.

00:00:03.900 The phenomenon that drives trans urges in humans might be the exact same phenomenon

00:00:10.660 that drives trans physiological differences in other species.

00:00:14.840 Would you like to know more?

00:00:16.180 Hello, Simone.

00:00:17.020 I'm excited to be here with you today.

00:00:18.620 We have done a video in the past where we document with extensive notes

00:00:24.700 how extremely overrepresented trans people are among mass shooters.

00:00:31.000 And at that video, we joke, you know, when somebody says I'm trans, they might as well be.

00:00:34.860 Nice to meet you.

00:00:35.640 Listen, if you ever need anybody murdered, please give me a call.

00:00:38.480 I'm very discreet.

00:00:39.600 I have no code of ethics.

00:00:40.700 I will kill anyone, anywhere.

00:00:42.840 Children, animals, old people, doesn't matter.

00:00:45.560 I just love killing.

00:00:47.060 And in that video, we go over some hypotheses on what could be causing this.

00:00:52.580 But I have since dug into more research on this particular topic,

00:00:59.780 and I'm going to expand my hypotheses on this in a way that expands an entirely new

00:01:07.300 section of my hypothesis on human sexual behavior.

00:01:11.980 So specifically, if you look at, because AILA is the best source of data on this,

00:01:16.680 if you look at, like, really, if you're looking at any sort of data on sexuality,

00:01:19.600 you either have to look at data sets that came from before the 80s, because after that,

00:01:24.980 you know, the gender police took over all of the gender science department,

00:01:29.280 and they weren't able to publish anything that made any of their preferred peoples

00:01:32.760 potentially look questionable.

00:01:35.160 So you're either looking at those data sets or AILA's, which is why,

00:01:38.800 just so people know, her data set is enormous.

00:01:42.240 Yeah, her sample sizes are extremely enviable.

00:01:45.060 It's around half a million responses, by the way.

00:01:47.960 And people are like, oh, they're highly biased.

00:01:49.020 No, I think now, I was just reading one of her, it was in the 800,000s now.

00:01:53.660 Wow.

00:01:54.200 And people will say, oh, her data sets are highly biased.

00:01:57.100 And I'm like, actually, they're not highly biased because she normalizes them all the time,

00:02:01.620 and she finds that they match mainstream statistics.

00:02:04.220 And the vast majority of respondents are not her followers.

00:02:07.080 Her survey has gone viral several times on multiple different platforms,

00:02:11.840 plus it is really good SEO.

00:02:13.480 So again, that's not it either.

00:02:16.700 Sorry, I'm writing something I want to ask her to add to the survey

00:02:19.080 of same-sex attracted people in heterosexual marriages,

00:02:21.720 because I love seeing their happiness and satisfaction rankings.

00:02:25.720 That would be fascinating.

00:02:28.580 I heard there was a study on this, but I haven't been able to find it.

00:02:30.800 So if I could get it from her data set, that'd be awesome.

00:02:32.980 But anyway, going to her data set,

00:02:34.860 if we are looking at the brutality category,

00:02:38.200 which is defined as arousal from extreme violence in porn,

00:02:42.660 sex, e.g. gore, severe beating, etc.,

00:02:45.820 rated 0, not arousing, to 5, very arousing.

00:02:49.200 If you look at cis men, the rating that you get for this is 0.23.

00:02:54.400 If you look at trans men, it's 0.83.

00:02:59.480 Okay, that's different.

00:03:00.940 If you look at cis women, it's 0.21.

00:03:04.800 If you look at trans women, it's 0.58.

00:03:09.540 So like off the charts higher.

00:03:12.920 In both cases, well over two times higher.

00:03:17.900 And in...

00:03:18.460 Really very small portions of each.

00:03:21.260 Around 4x higher for men.

00:03:24.300 Yeah.

00:03:25.560 So what the heck's going on here, right?

00:03:28.900 And then if you look at the percentage

00:03:30.680 with at least some interest in that sort of stuff,

00:03:33.300 for cis men, it's 6%.

00:03:35.500 For trans men, it's 22%.

00:03:37.720 For cis women, it's 6%.

00:03:40.120 For trans women, it's 15%.

00:03:42.720 Okay, wow.

00:03:43.820 Okay.

00:03:45.360 Yeah.

00:03:46.800 So just some more notes on A-list study here

00:03:49.460 before we go further on this,

00:03:50.460 because I always find that fun.

00:03:51.720 The rare cases where violent preference flips slightly,

00:03:55.800 male leaning overall,

00:03:57.000 but trans respondents, especially trans men,

00:03:59.560 pull it way higher than cis baselines.

00:04:01.480 Trans people in general score elevated on this.

00:04:05.160 For broader violent slash aggressive categories,

00:04:07.920 e.g. choking, slapping, pain, humiliation, degradation,

00:04:11.220 sadism, consensual, non-consent, CS&C,

00:04:14.560 her data consistently shows women, cis plus trans women,

00:04:18.000 prefer this significantly over men, generally speaking.

00:04:21.240 And trans respondents are elevated

00:04:23.880 versus their cis counterparts in nearly all kink categories,

00:04:27.760 but especially the aggressive ones.

00:04:29.980 with trans men frequently on the top

00:04:33.040 of sadism, brutality, and dominance sections.

00:04:36.540 Categories like forced orgasms, choking,

00:04:39.720 slapping, and pain are all female-led

00:04:42.320 with cis women being bigger than cis men.

00:04:45.620 Now, this is just the other thing

00:04:46.620 that we're always mentioning on the show.

00:04:48.260 I really hate this myth that women are into weird kinky stuff

00:04:51.640 because men have twisted them in some way.

00:04:53.720 That does not appear to be the case.

00:04:55.500 Now, I'm going to go over quickly for those who don't know

00:04:58.800 the raider versus caregiver arousal spectrum in males.

00:05:04.240 So this is important to understand before we go further

00:05:07.180 because I'm going to be updating it.

00:05:09.540 So what I pointed out is that historically,

00:05:13.600 men within monogamous societies,

00:05:15.400 and we actually believe men and women have,

00:05:18.100 well, especially women, have a dynamic sexuality

00:05:20.620 that flips when they believe they're in a polygynous society,

00:05:23.360 and they begin to desire different things

00:05:26.120 from their partners when they feel that, like,

00:05:28.700 and their biology has evolved to adapt to this.

00:05:31.280 But men also have an evolved and adapted biology,

00:05:34.020 and there are different optimums that a man might be in.

00:05:37.020 So, for example, the way a woman would act

00:05:39.260 if she happened to be born into a society

00:05:40.880 that was polygynous is going to be very different

00:05:43.860 from a genetic standpoint, an optimal genetic standpoint,

00:05:46.540 than if she happens to be born in a society

00:05:48.240 that is monogamous, right?

00:05:49.680 And this is why we argue that the more men

00:05:53.440 a woman sleeps with, the less oxytocin she gets from sex,

00:05:56.960 meaning the less she is likely to sort of be forced

00:05:59.320 to fall in love with whoever she is sleeping with,

00:06:02.200 because that becomes less beneficial

00:06:03.940 as she, the more polygynous,

00:06:07.100 the more she's being passed around.

00:06:10.620 It's not a good thing.

00:06:11.560 You don't want that happening.

00:06:12.400 It's going to lead to bad choices

00:06:13.780 in regards to your reproductive success.

00:06:16.440 But I also point out that men historically

00:06:18.700 had two key environments, especially successful men,

00:06:23.200 in which the preferable arousal pattern

00:06:26.240 would have been entirely different.

00:06:28.100 Environment number one is they are in a monogamous relationship.

00:06:35.020 So we're talking about monogamous here.

00:06:36.380 Obviously, men don't need that much adaption

00:06:39.260 between monogamy and polygyny.

00:06:40.800 By that, what I mean is a man generally

00:06:44.660 will like his wife, want to dedicate himself to her,

00:06:48.020 want to keep her safe, even if he has multiple wives.

00:06:52.000 He still benefits.

00:06:52.860 Those wives are like his property, basically,

00:06:55.100 of keeping them safe and treating them gently.

00:06:57.440 But then there's a separate environment

00:06:59.000 that was also historically very important

00:07:00.640 to male genetic fitness,

00:07:02.180 which was when you are a raiding,

00:07:04.760 when you are a Viking,

00:07:06.180 when you are out on the battlefield

00:07:07.680 or conquering a region.

00:07:09.340 In these scenarios,

00:07:10.780 you would want to adapt

00:07:11.980 a very, very different sexual profile.

00:07:14.960 And these are women who you see

00:07:16.580 as disposable in your mind as a male.

00:07:19.780 And we argue that actually

00:07:21.940 a lot of current sort of male weirdness

00:07:26.880 around sexuality

00:07:27.780 or male sexual perversion

00:07:29.820 comes from men

00:07:32.240 beginning to define themselves

00:07:34.080 by their sexuality at an age

00:07:36.440 before they have a monogamous partner.

00:07:38.280 And so if they engage

00:07:40.720 with their sexuality

00:07:41.520 through pornography

00:07:44.020 or erotic literature

00:07:45.900 and all of these women

00:07:48.140 in their brain

00:07:48.760 are going to be categorized

00:07:49.880 as disposable.

00:07:51.000 These women,

00:07:51.880 their brain is going to categorize

00:07:53.660 the same way

00:07:54.720 it would categorize

00:07:56.100 a woman from a town

00:07:58.700 that they had just conquered.

00:07:59.920 Yeah, if they were raiding.

00:08:01.440 Yeah, if they were just

00:08:02.200 a traveling raider or soldier.

00:08:03.960 And so their brain

00:08:06.720 is going to relate to these

00:08:08.020 or if they're just sleeping

00:08:09.360 around a ton in school,

00:08:10.500 like suppose they're like

00:08:11.420 Chad Yvonne Chattington

00:08:12.640 or whatever,

00:08:13.280 Alpha on whatever app, right?

00:08:14.720 You know,

00:08:15.320 getting the 80% of women, right?

00:08:17.100 Yeah.

00:08:17.440 Their arousal systems

00:08:20.940 are going to react

00:08:21.980 as if they just conquered

00:08:22.920 a village, right?

00:08:24.100 And so this is why women,

00:08:25.720 when they're matching

00:08:26.780 these top 2% of guys

00:08:28.280 and sometimes men,

00:08:29.980 when they are defining

00:08:31.200 their sexuality

00:08:31.900 in regards to the categories

00:08:33.160 of porn that they're into,

00:08:34.620 think that what they are into

00:08:35.960 is a much more brutalist

00:08:37.680 or violent form of sexuality

00:08:38.880 than what they're actually into

00:08:40.040 because they would not feel that way

00:08:42.520 if they were in a monogamous relationship.

00:08:44.340 Well, no, but I mean,

00:08:45.260 they are actually into it.

00:08:46.720 It just happens to be

00:08:47.620 that the environmental cues

00:08:49.060 that are surrounding them

00:08:50.380 are prompting them

00:08:51.300 to be aroused

00:08:51.980 from violent things.

00:08:53.380 Yeah, yeah, yes, yes, yes,

00:08:54.580 absolutely.

00:08:55.480 And this,

00:08:55.980 and I think that women

00:08:56.860 can make the same mistake.

00:08:57.720 Women can think,

00:08:58.380 oh, I'm into this

00:08:59.020 or I'm into this

00:08:59.660 and it's really that,

00:09:00.400 no, you're only into this

00:09:01.220 because your body thinks

00:09:02.180 that you're a sex slave.

00:09:04.600 That's why you think

00:09:05.780 you like these things.

00:09:07.340 It is not that you

00:09:08.440 would like these things

00:09:09.640 if you had four kids

00:09:11.420 and were married to a guy, right?

00:09:12.720 You know,

00:09:13.180 and you actually see this

00:09:14.620 with in like BDSM

00:09:16.400 and stuff like this.

00:09:17.420 It is fairly rare

00:09:19.020 from what I've seen

00:09:20.060 of people who are into BDSM

00:09:22.760 to continue to be into BDSM

00:09:25.100 after kid three.

00:09:25.800 that is really more

00:09:28.720 of a single lifestyle thing

00:09:31.360 that is kept up

00:09:32.540 because they incorporated

00:09:33.340 it into their identity

00:09:34.160 and then they're with someone

00:09:34.920 for a while

00:09:35.360 and then it's like,

00:09:36.440 are we really still into this?

00:09:37.960 Like, you know,

00:09:38.620 like, I don't know.

00:09:39.620 But anyway,

00:09:40.300 where does this,

00:09:40.880 where do trans people come in?

00:09:42.400 Where does the trans stuff come in?

00:09:44.280 The trans stuff comes in

00:09:45.400 because I think that

00:09:47.740 I hadn't considered

00:09:49.620 that very historically

00:09:52.280 low sexually valued males

00:09:54.460 would need to take on

00:09:55.920 an entirely alternate

00:09:57.340 sexual strategy.

00:09:58.860 Now,

00:09:59.620 before we go into

00:10:00.420 what this alternate

00:10:01.000 sexual strategy is,

00:10:02.460 let's go into a number

00:10:03.480 of research papers

00:10:04.520 that came out

00:10:05.200 in the early days

00:10:06.260 because I want to point out

00:10:07.700 that it's not just

00:10:08.320 AILA's data

00:10:08.920 that is showing this

00:10:10.040 or the recent data

00:10:11.520 on mass shooters.

00:10:13.240 And if people are like,

00:10:14.100 oh, mass shooters

00:10:14.660 aren't overwhelmingly trans,

00:10:16.080 we point out,

00:10:16.620 I think it's in the last five years,

00:10:18.400 there have been

00:10:18.780 four trans mass shootings

00:10:20.180 and there have been female,

00:10:21.460 like cis female mass shootings

00:10:23.060 since the 1980s.

00:10:24.840 It's like bad.

00:10:26.760 So anyway,

00:10:27.800 if we're talking about

00:10:29.400 female shooters,

00:10:30.160 because if you were looking

00:10:30.780 at a graph of shooters,

00:10:31.780 it looks like there's been

00:10:32.660 an explosion in female shooters.

00:10:37.680 Okay,

00:10:38.260 Richard von Koft Ebbing,

00:10:39.820 this one was

00:10:40.960 with additions up to 1903,

00:10:42.780 compiled hundreds of forensic

00:10:44.000 and clinical cases

00:10:44.820 of transvestism,

00:10:45.920 as he called it,

00:10:46.840 alongside sadism,

00:10:47.960 masochism,

00:10:48.520 and violent and aggressive

00:10:49.280 paraphilias

00:10:50.060 showing their core

00:10:51.460 correlation.

00:10:52.280 Magnus Hedgefield,

00:10:53.620 this was in 2020,

00:10:54.940 he's the one who

00:10:55.440 trained the term transvestism,

00:10:57.400 but included case studies

00:10:59.220 where he, again,

00:11:00.960 correlated cross-dressing

00:11:02.340 with treats

00:11:03.660 like sadomasochism.

00:11:05.600 Havelock Ellis,

00:11:06.860 studies of the psychology

00:11:07.840 of sex,

00:11:08.660 volume seven,

00:11:09.560 used sexo-aesthetic inversion

00:11:11.840 or eonism

00:11:12.920 for transvestism,

00:11:14.740 describing cases

00:11:15.640 with pedagistic cross-dressing

00:11:17.220 combined with sadism,

00:11:18.780 masochism,

00:11:19.380 or violent sexual scenes.

00:11:20.620 So, no,

00:11:21.780 these things used to be

00:11:22.720 thought of as a

00:11:23.340 joint sexual framework

00:11:25.280 by the early people

00:11:26.300 who were studying sexuality.

00:11:28.060 Cross-dressing or,

00:11:29.600 which, by the way,

00:11:30.200 is not the same

00:11:30.940 as gender dysphoria

00:11:31.760 necessarily.

00:11:32.540 We argue that cross-dressing

00:11:33.460 is like a different thing

00:11:34.440 than gender dysphoria,

00:11:35.840 but they're correlated

00:11:36.840 and they likely would have been

00:11:37.860 heavily correlated

00:11:38.520 during this period.

00:11:39.660 Anyway,

00:11:40.900 that it was,

00:11:41.360 it was understand

00:11:42.320 as a bundled thing

00:11:43.860 with sadomasochistic

00:11:45.700 tendencies.

00:11:46.240 William Steckle

00:11:47.760 various works,

00:11:49.060 psychoanalytic cases

00:11:50.480 frequently linking

00:11:52.100 transvestism,

00:11:53.160 fetishistic cross-dressing

00:11:54.080 to sadomasochism

00:11:55.020 and aggressive impulses

00:11:56.520 with examples

00:11:57.500 of violent fantasies

00:11:58.760 tied to closing.

00:12:00.040 And then early

00:12:00.640 DSM classifications,

00:12:02.340 this is the DSM 1,

00:12:03.440 1952 to 1968,

00:12:05.480 that listed transvestism

00:12:06.580 directly under

00:12:07.260 sexual deviations

00:12:08.400 alongside sexual sadism.

00:12:10.520 And then if you look

00:12:11.260 at more recent stuff,

00:12:12.700 Gosling and Wilson,

00:12:13.960 this was in 1980,

00:12:16.200 survey of club members

00:12:17.800 and correspondents

00:12:18.800 found high rates

00:12:19.620 of sadomasochistic

00:12:20.580 interests,

00:12:21.580 bondage,

00:12:21.980 whipping pain

00:12:22.600 among transvestites

00:12:24.220 and fetishists.

00:12:25.560 I note,

00:12:25.820 I'm not saying

00:12:26.220 transvestites here

00:12:26.940 as an insult,

00:12:27.760 I'm saying it

00:12:28.120 because this was the word

00:12:29.280 they used back

00:12:30.020 in those days.

00:12:30.840 Yeah.

00:12:32.060 And I also,

00:12:33.780 it's important

00:12:34.380 to use the word

00:12:35.180 transvestite

00:12:35.740 because transvestite

00:12:37.100 does not mean

00:12:37.840 the same thing

00:12:38.640 as trans does today.

00:12:41.520 They literally

00:12:42.300 have different definitions.

00:12:43.960 and so you need

00:12:45.340 to use a different word.

00:12:47.020 That's why

00:12:47.560 it would actually

00:12:48.100 be kind of insulting

00:12:48.980 for me to say

00:12:49.580 that they meant

00:12:50.080 trans in this historic

00:12:51.460 company,

00:12:51.700 it doesn't matter.

00:12:53.320 Orlick and Burlund

00:12:54.060 studied 222 males

00:12:56.080 recruited from clubs

00:12:57.760 reported high rates

00:12:59.860 of bondage

00:13:01.060 and fantasies

00:13:01.900 while cross-dressed

00:13:03.060 with many incorporating

00:13:04.160 sadomasochistic elements.

00:13:06.400 Then we have

00:13:07.180 Perky et al.

00:13:08.100 I'm not going to read

00:13:08.720 all of them

00:13:09.160 because you get the idea.

00:13:10.380 Analyzed 25

00:13:11.280 serial sexual murderers

00:13:12.880 and found

00:13:13.560 transvestism

00:13:14.500 present in a

00:13:15.520 substantial minority

00:13:16.700 of them

00:13:17.120 alongside high rates

00:13:18.620 of fetishism,

00:13:19.720 sadism,

00:13:20.560 and environmental

00:13:21.060 filium.

00:13:21.900 And this isn't just like,

00:13:23.680 if you're familiar

00:13:24.560 with the way

00:13:25.340 the trans community

00:13:26.200 talks about like,

00:13:27.500 say,

00:13:27.820 TERFs or something

00:13:28.600 like that,

00:13:29.400 it's very clear

00:13:30.580 that this is still

00:13:31.540 really common

00:13:32.360 in the community.

00:13:32.960 Don't blow up our spot,

00:13:34.240 bro.

00:13:34.580 All Teaslers are like that.

00:13:35.960 If you can trust me

00:13:36.700 around your kid,

00:13:37.420 it'd be transphobic

00:13:38.180 not to.

00:13:38.920 Me with daycare tots.

00:13:40.420 Me when transphobic

00:13:41.380 little girls ask me

00:13:42.400 what I'm doing

00:13:42.820 in the women's restroom

00:13:43.720 when I'm obviously

00:13:44.640 a woman.

00:13:45.140 The two fantasized

00:13:46.580 about assaulting

00:13:47.500 J.K. Rowling's

00:13:48.440 grandchildren.

00:13:49.420 Not letting Teaslers

00:13:50.220 get with your kids

00:13:51.020 is transphobic.

00:13:52.160 Someone should

00:13:52.580 Harry Potter

00:13:53.440 woman's grandkids.

00:13:54.660 Orion then goes on

00:13:55.580 to call them

00:13:56.080 TERF meat.

00:13:57.020 I mean,

00:13:57.680 fantasizing about

00:13:58.600 graping somebody,

00:13:59.780 fantasizing about

00:14:00.880 beating somebody,

00:14:01.980 fantasizing about,

00:14:03.300 I mean,

00:14:03.620 even the Anna Valen

00:14:05.200 story that we covered,

00:14:06.420 you know,

00:14:06.600 the life of the Cinnabite.

00:14:07.520 Yeah.

00:14:08.940 A lot of her stuff

00:14:10.980 was, you know,

00:14:12.540 violent sexuality

00:14:13.620 related stuff.

00:14:14.860 Okay, so the question is,

00:14:16.060 what's leading

00:14:17.620 to all of this?

00:14:18.980 And my new theory

00:14:20.960 is to sort of

00:14:22.500 categorize a new

00:14:23.540 category of male

00:14:24.920 that you would

00:14:25.720 have in a

00:14:26.680 historic context

00:14:27.480 is men who are

00:14:29.200 at the bottom

00:14:30.040 of social totem poles

00:14:31.720 who are not

00:14:33.560 attractive enough

00:14:34.400 or don't have

00:14:35.060 enough social status

00:14:35.840 or don't have

00:14:36.240 enough whatever

00:14:36.840 to secure a mate.

00:14:39.760 They would need

00:14:40.640 to adopt

00:14:41.640 a highly deviated

00:14:43.540 sexual profile

00:14:44.660 and arousal profile

00:14:45.760 if they hope

00:14:46.680 to have any chance

00:14:47.900 of reproducing.

00:14:49.320 And there are

00:14:50.980 a few,

00:14:52.340 and this is why

00:14:53.040 I think you get

00:14:53.640 the brutalism

00:14:54.700 combined with

00:14:56.060 the transness,

00:14:57.020 like the wanting

00:14:57.600 to appear

00:14:58.280 as a woman in this.

00:14:59.720 One of the things

00:15:00.640 that you find

00:15:01.060 in a lot of species

00:15:01.780 in nature

00:15:02.320 is something called

00:15:04.260 the sneaky effort

00:15:05.420 strategy is literally

00:15:06.380 what it's called.

00:15:07.240 Or a sneaky copulation.

00:15:08.860 Sneaky copulation,

00:15:09.820 yes.

00:15:10.420 Which is when a,

00:15:12.460 and I love it

00:15:13.060 how trans people,

00:15:14.800 there was recently

00:15:15.240 a case where they

00:15:15.840 like flew the trans flag

00:15:17.220 from like a national park

00:15:18.240 and he's like,

00:15:18.700 this proves that trans

00:15:20.240 is natural.

00:15:21.080 It exists across species.

00:15:23.040 And I'm like,

00:15:24.520 well, a lot of the times,

00:15:26.240 one, because it like,

00:15:27.620 that doesn't mean

00:15:28.120 photo, since it's

00:15:28.980 natural in humans,

00:15:30.100 right?

00:15:30.600 But I,

00:15:31.440 the funny thing is,

00:15:32.320 is he might

00:15:32.900 have been correct.

00:15:34.400 I mean, yeah,

00:15:35.820 I guess live,

00:15:36.820 crabs do it.

00:15:38.360 Yeah, humans,

00:15:39.340 yeah, claws on man,

00:15:41.460 on men are natural

00:15:42.860 because crabs do it.

00:15:44.740 Crab people.

00:15:45.980 The crab people

00:15:47.620 shall finally reign supreme.

00:15:50.940 Crab people,

00:15:52.480 crab people.

00:15:54.340 Anyway, so,

00:15:55.300 the point that I'm making here

00:15:56.400 is he might have actually

00:15:57.240 been ironically right.

00:15:58.300 The phenomenon that drives

00:15:59.980 trans urges in humans

00:16:02.920 might be the exact

00:16:04.280 same phenomenon

00:16:05.080 that drives trans

00:16:06.800 physiological differences

00:16:07.940 in other species.

00:16:09.320 Specifically,

00:16:10.420 in many species where,

00:16:12.060 like, and you see this

00:16:12.700 in some crab species.

00:16:13.540 I'll use crab as an example here.

00:16:14.920 That's why I said crab.

00:16:16.600 Yeah, normal males

00:16:17.700 are very large

00:16:19.320 and they sort of

00:16:20.920 maintain a harem

00:16:22.160 of females

00:16:23.480 that they impregnate

00:16:24.840 and so they keep

00:16:26.000 the female safe

00:16:27.180 and they have the harem.

00:16:28.400 But if a male

00:16:29.920 is developing

00:16:30.700 and it is clear

00:16:32.680 that it's not getting

00:16:33.340 the resources

00:16:33.960 it needs to win

00:16:35.180 in this large male game,

00:16:37.600 it changes its physiology,

00:16:40.280 its pheromones,

00:16:41.260 everything

00:16:41.640 to appear

00:16:42.920 as if it's a female.

00:16:44.160 And then what it will do

00:16:46.160 is it will

00:16:47.540 go into

00:16:51.300 the female spaces,

00:16:54.000 e.g.

00:16:54.480 the all-female communities

00:16:57.040 that these larger males

00:16:58.240 are protecting

00:16:58.880 and attempt to

00:17:00.220 well, essentially,

00:17:01.040 grape them.

00:17:01.440 It will have

00:17:02.360 unexpected

00:17:03.340 surprise

00:17:04.600 attacks.

00:17:05.780 Yeah.

00:17:06.380 Yeah.

00:17:07.060 On, yeah.

00:17:08.180 Tend to be a harem

00:17:09.120 member,

00:17:09.960 female,

00:17:10.560 and then

00:17:11.640 have sex

00:17:12.940 with other females

00:17:13.780 in the harem.

00:17:14.280 Right.

00:17:15.640 So the two strategies

00:17:17.400 that you have

00:17:18.100 if you're at the bottom

00:17:18.720 of the totem pole

00:17:19.340 is one,

00:17:21.320 sneaky effort strategy,

00:17:22.580 trying to get into

00:17:23.960 a man's,

00:17:25.120 you know,

00:17:25.400 and human men

00:17:27.220 likely used to have these.

00:17:28.440 There were periods

00:17:29.080 in human history,

00:17:29.700 long periods,

00:17:30.240 where for every one man

00:17:31.900 who had children,

00:17:32.600 17 women had children.

00:17:33.640 That meant that

00:17:34.060 on average,

00:17:35.440 a man had 17 wives.

00:17:36.860 Right?

00:17:37.040 Like,

00:17:37.220 this is a very,

00:17:38.420 this is something

00:17:38.980 that happened historically.

00:17:40.040 Right?

00:17:40.560 Okay.

00:17:41.000 So that's one strategy.

00:17:42.760 The other strategy is

00:17:43.940 you force yourself

00:17:45.260 on a woman

00:17:45.720 who wants to be

00:17:47.940 with another guy

00:17:48.540 or wouldn't want

00:17:49.000 to be with you

00:17:49.420 because they don't see you

00:17:50.220 as high enough

00:17:51.160 quality male.

00:17:51.880 Yeah.

00:17:52.020 Like if they're not

00:17:52.620 going to select you

00:17:53.940 of their own free will,

00:17:55.000 then you're just

00:17:55.660 going to have to

00:17:56.420 select for them.

00:18:00.220 So what we could

00:18:01.740 be seeing here

00:18:02.880 is an adaptively,

00:18:04.860 like an adaptively evolved.

00:18:06.360 So the way that

00:18:07.380 it's not just humans

00:18:08.740 that evolved this way.

00:18:09.840 Do you want to read

00:18:10.260 our book,

00:18:10.560 The Pragmatist Guy to Sexuality?

00:18:11.500 You go into a lot more detail

00:18:12.400 about how this works

00:18:12.980 in other species,

00:18:14.060 but species will change

00:18:15.700 their behavior

00:18:16.540 based on like the amount

00:18:17.580 of resources

00:18:18.100 in the environment.

00:18:18.880 They'll change the way

00:18:19.520 they handle

00:18:20.260 their social structures.

00:18:21.320 They change the way

00:18:22.160 they handle dominance conflicts.

00:18:23.580 They change the way

00:18:24.340 they may, right?

00:18:25.320 And it's useful

00:18:26.200 to have several

00:18:27.820 pre-programmed patterns

00:18:29.460 of arousal or behavior.

00:18:32.060 It could be that humans

00:18:33.320 are the same

00:18:33.880 and that part of,

00:18:37.120 now, no,

00:18:37.640 I'm not saying

00:18:38.440 that the social contagion

00:18:39.840 thing isn't real.

00:18:40.620 I'm not saying

00:18:41.260 that the AFAP,

00:18:41.940 I think there's a lot

00:18:43.060 of things that drive

00:18:43.840 the modern trans movement.

00:18:44.960 You can look at any

00:18:45.420 of our videos on this

00:18:46.180 where we go into,

00:18:46.980 is it an alternative

00:18:47.820 to unaliving oneself?

00:18:49.600 When you put large

00:18:50.780 movements like this,

00:18:51.600 it's normally due

00:18:52.420 to a confluence of factors.

00:18:54.100 Just having it be one factor

00:18:55.540 probably wouldn't have

00:18:56.400 turned it into

00:18:56.900 the phenomenon it is.

00:18:59.100 Yeah,

00:18:59.700 but what it might be

00:19:01.360 for a portion

00:19:02.980 which is leading

00:19:03.500 to these way higher rates

00:19:04.840 of what Ayla describes

00:19:06.240 as brutal sexuality

00:19:07.440 is a,

00:19:10.380 what's the word

00:19:10.820 I'm looking for here,

00:19:11.740 is just an adaptive

00:19:12.920 arousal pattern

00:19:13.780 to feeling disempowered

00:19:15.960 and like you don't

00:19:16.880 actually have a shot

00:19:17.920 at reproducing.

00:19:19.760 And when I look

00:19:22.440 at the types of people

00:19:23.720 who transition

00:19:24.420 just physiologically,

00:19:25.980 they are disproportionately

00:19:27.940 people who fall

00:19:28.900 into this category.

00:19:30.660 And that's when

00:19:31.340 I was looking at that,

00:19:32.220 I was like,

00:19:32.520 oh my God,

00:19:33.100 this makes so much sense,

00:19:34.120 right?

00:19:34.400 Like it could just be

00:19:36.100 and you could say

00:19:37.420 that could also correlate

00:19:38.520 with spiking rates.

00:19:39.860 If people feel

00:19:40.280 more disempowered now

00:19:41.780 than they did historically,

00:19:42.920 especially when you combine

00:19:44.000 this with leftist

00:19:45.460 cultural systems

00:19:46.540 that tell you,

00:19:47.560 you know,

00:19:47.740 oh, you'll never get ahead

00:19:48.680 or there's no way out of this.

00:19:49.880 Oh, life has no purpose

00:19:50.840 except consumerism,

00:19:52.100 you know,

00:19:52.940 except your own pleasure.

00:19:54.240 I can see a person

00:19:56.000 adapting to this

00:19:56.860 really quickly.

00:19:57.640 And then keep in mind,

00:19:58.720 even if you are

00:19:59.540 a top dog leftist,

00:20:01.680 right?

00:20:02.560 You can still end up

00:20:04.040 in behavior patterns

00:20:05.060 which might signal

00:20:05.800 to your body

00:20:06.560 that you're not

00:20:07.580 a top dog leftist.

00:20:09.020 So I'm going to give

00:20:10.020 an example here.

00:20:10.580 Suppose it's your destiny,

00:20:11.460 right?

00:20:11.740 And you're like on stream

00:20:13.280 and there's a famous

00:20:13.860 one where there's this guy

00:20:14.700 who's like,

00:20:15.200 takes his wife or girlfriend

00:20:16.440 in the back to have sex

00:20:17.300 with her and he's like laughing.

00:20:18.780 He's like,

00:20:19.000 oh, they're going to

00:20:19.540 go have some fun.

00:20:21.660 Mel time.

00:20:22.160 Why did I say this?

00:20:23.380 Mel time.

00:20:24.760 And a male's body,

00:20:26.620 that's not supposed to happen.

00:20:28.180 Like that's not,

00:20:28.960 that's your hormonal system

00:20:32.020 telling you,

00:20:32.900 even though you've got

00:20:34.000 millions of people

00:20:34.800 watching your stream,

00:20:36.240 you're not going to reproduce.

00:20:38.880 You know,

00:20:39.380 if this is the way

00:20:40.520 that your partner

00:20:41.200 is treating you

00:20:41.940 and your social system

00:20:43.460 is treating you,

00:20:44.240 you're not going to reproduce.

00:20:46.160 And so you might then adapt

00:20:48.660 behaviors, physiology

00:20:50.780 to say,

00:20:52.780 hey,

00:20:53.380 maybe I should,

00:20:54.260 I should try

00:20:55.060 some of these other strategies.

00:20:55.980 Your facial features

00:20:56.980 may even soften.

00:20:57.920 Your expressions may soften

00:20:59.140 leading to this stuff.

00:21:01.240 So what are your thoughts, Simone?

00:21:03.480 This makes a lot of sense to me.

00:21:05.260 I mean,

00:21:05.580 even just part of it being

00:21:06.940 if you can't beat them,

00:21:07.920 join them,

00:21:08.280 but then

00:21:08.960 that also producing

00:21:10.780 more opportunities

00:21:11.560 to actually reproduce.

00:21:13.740 But yeah,

00:21:14.100 I think your bifurcated strategy

00:21:16.000 of like

00:21:16.520 either

00:21:17.480 become a sneaky copulator

00:21:19.760 by attempting

00:21:21.140 to join female contingents

00:21:22.860 as a female

00:21:23.620 and reproduce sneakily

00:21:25.420 that way

00:21:25.940 or

00:21:26.500 by

00:21:27.600 just becoming

00:21:29.000 super violent

00:21:30.220 or possibly both.

00:21:31.820 That does make sense.

00:21:33.780 I think the super violent part

00:21:35.320 may have,

00:21:36.460 may make more sense

00:21:37.620 among

00:21:38.060 like

00:21:40.020 the

00:21:40.520 instances of

00:21:41.740 there being more

00:21:42.880 accusations of

00:21:44.220 grape

00:21:45.800 in

00:21:47.520 like feminist circles.

00:21:49.300 Yeah,

00:21:49.360 we write about this

00:21:50.100 in the book.

00:21:50.520 If you look at

00:21:51.180 the reported rates

00:21:52.580 of grape

00:21:53.180 within like

00:21:54.120 feminist circles

00:21:54.700 on college campuses,

00:21:55.500 they're like

00:21:57.980 higher than

00:21:58.600 like

00:21:58.780 more

00:21:59.040 like

00:21:59.980 Somalia.

00:22:00.980 And so

00:22:01.280 you could say

00:22:01.960 they're over-reporting,

00:22:03.260 which,

00:22:03.540 you know,

00:22:04.420 yeah,

00:22:04.760 they probably

00:22:05.100 have no doubt.

00:22:06.480 Consider everything

00:22:07.360 great these days,

00:22:08.120 but

00:22:08.400 it could also be

00:22:09.700 that they have created

00:22:10.940 communities

00:22:11.660 where only people

00:22:12.920 attempting sneaky

00:22:13.760 copulator strategies

00:22:14.680 are going to enter

00:22:15.540 and these are people

00:22:16.540 much more likely

00:22:17.440 to push past

00:22:18.320 like to respect

00:22:19.660 your boundaries,

00:22:20.400 respect your boundaries,

00:22:21.300 respect your boundaries

00:22:22.080 until you're alone,

00:22:23.680 until they think

00:22:24.440 that you can't say

00:22:25.100 anything about it,

00:22:25.780 right?

00:22:26.040 And so many people

00:22:28.020 have experienced this

00:22:29.280 and I think

00:22:30.100 that they might

00:22:31.820 have actually

00:22:32.240 created like,

00:22:33.960 you know,

00:22:34.620 almost sort of like

00:22:35.560 traps,

00:22:36.520 like lobster traps

00:22:37.660 for the sneaky

00:22:40.480 copulators.

00:22:42.020 And why wouldn't

00:22:42.860 humans have a strategy

00:22:43.700 like this?

00:22:44.180 This is a perfectly

00:22:44.800 viable strategy

00:22:45.620 if you feel like

00:22:46.220 you're at the bottom

00:22:46.740 of a totem pole

00:22:47.500 of like a tribe

00:22:48.220 or something like that.

00:22:49.220 And a lot of humans

00:22:50.360 throughout history

00:22:50.800 were at the bottom

00:22:51.500 of the totem pole,

00:22:52.240 right?

00:22:52.440 Like it made sense.

00:22:53.360 Yeah, so it also

00:22:55.660 makes sense that

00:22:56.840 some, you know,

00:22:59.100 that the human population

00:23:00.940 would evolve

00:23:02.180 methods for dealing

00:23:04.340 with that.

00:23:05.780 Yeah.

00:23:05.900 That over time

00:23:07.260 there would be adaptations

00:23:08.740 and that not

00:23:10.760 just one type

00:23:12.380 of male,

00:23:13.680 like the very,

00:23:14.920 very lucky

00:23:15.660 but also very healthy

00:23:17.900 and dominant males

00:23:18.980 would manage

00:23:20.200 to reproduce

00:23:20.820 because

00:23:21.600 luck only gets

00:23:24.300 you so far.

00:23:25.400 You know,

00:23:25.840 like I almost feel

00:23:26.980 like you would expect

00:23:27.800 this form

00:23:29.000 of male adaptation

00:23:30.040 to be more dominant

00:23:31.100 because either

00:23:31.860 you get to be

00:23:33.060 one of the very

00:23:33.920 lucky but also

00:23:35.440 genetically fit males

00:23:36.640 that does reproduce

00:23:37.560 like that one in 17

00:23:38.960 or whatever

00:23:39.540 or you happen

00:23:41.200 to use

00:23:41.900 any number

00:23:42.620 of sneaky

00:23:43.820 or clever

00:23:44.940 or uniquely violent

00:23:46.320 and aggressive

00:23:46.920 methods

00:23:47.480 to reproduce.

00:23:49.120 And honestly,

00:23:49.720 the latter

00:23:50.960 seems a lot

00:23:51.840 more easy

00:23:52.820 and reproducible

00:23:54.020 than,

00:23:55.420 like easier

00:23:55.840 to replicate

00:23:56.460 than the

00:23:58.180 just be really

00:23:58.980 lucky and genetically

00:23:59.940 fit pathway

00:24:01.160 for reproducing

00:24:02.260 as a male.

00:24:03.460 Well,

00:24:03.980 and I think

00:24:04.380 that the reason

00:24:04.920 why this strategy

00:24:06.560 was not more

00:24:07.660 prevalent

00:24:08.160 in historic context

00:24:09.940 when we're looking

00:24:10.520 at like,

00:24:10.900 you know,

00:24:11.040 history books

00:24:11.500 is in part

00:24:12.380 because it was

00:24:12.720 so heavily punished.

00:24:13.760 Like obviously

00:24:14.380 it's very bad

00:24:15.720 for a society

00:24:16.400 to be like,

00:24:17.400 oh,

00:24:17.580 look at these

00:24:17.960 people dressed

00:24:18.460 like women

00:24:18.840 who are beating

00:24:19.440 up,

00:24:19.900 you know,

00:24:20.560 quote unquote

00:24:20.860 turfs in a rally

00:24:21.900 or something.

00:24:22.560 Like normally,

00:24:23.540 historically,

00:24:24.100 there's something

00:24:24.740 in you

00:24:25.260 when you see

00:24:26.280 this and you're

00:24:27.400 just like,

00:24:28.500 this is wrong.

00:24:29.920 Like,

00:24:30.140 we need to do

00:24:32.920 something about

00:24:33.440 the people who

00:24:33.840 think that they

00:24:34.240 can just walk

00:24:35.680 up and start

00:24:36.260 beating up a woman

00:24:37.140 because they're

00:24:37.680 wearing a dress,

00:24:38.500 right?

00:24:38.740 Like we need

00:24:39.660 to,

00:24:40.020 or that they

00:24:40.600 can serially

00:24:41.720 harass a woman

00:24:42.560 like JK Rowling

00:24:43.380 just because they've

00:24:44.060 put on a dress,

00:24:44.720 right?

00:24:44.820 Like we need

00:24:45.900 to not have

00:24:47.620 these people

00:24:48.200 feel this

00:24:49.440 empowered because

00:24:50.960 they will then

00:24:52.080 cross boundaries

00:24:52.900 in other areas

00:24:53.720 with women,

00:24:54.440 which we've

00:24:55.040 repeatedly seen.

00:24:56.000 There's that

00:24:56.300 recent thing

00:24:56.760 at the gym

00:24:57.180 where the,

00:24:57.680 the woman

00:25:00.060 sits down

00:25:01.180 naked next

00:25:02.380 to the other

00:25:02.840 woman in the

00:25:03.300 gym and the

00:25:03.680 other woman's

00:25:04.020 like,

00:25:04.300 can you please

00:25:04.860 like leave

00:25:05.340 me alone?

00:25:05.780 And they

00:25:06.800 start like

00:25:07.360 violently yelling

00:25:08.600 at her.

00:25:09.640 Today I was

00:25:10.060 naked in the

00:25:11.340 locker room.

00:25:12.380 I turned around

00:25:13.020 and there's a

00:25:13.500 man there.

00:25:14.820 And boy,

00:25:15.880 like boy

00:25:16.740 clothes,

00:25:17.600 lip gloss,

00:25:18.420 standing there

00:25:19.000 looking at me

00:25:19.560 I'm butt naked.

00:25:20.340 So the first

00:25:20.780 thing I think

00:25:21.260 is maybe

00:25:21.620 there's a

00:25:21.920 work through

00:25:22.260 in here.

00:25:22.600 Maybe I

00:25:22.920 missed the

00:25:23.260 sign.

00:25:23.700 I say

00:25:24.180 the word

00:25:24.520 sir to

00:25:25.320 say,

00:25:25.680 sir,

00:25:25.960 what are

00:25:26.160 you doing

00:25:26.460 in here?

00:25:26.980 He goes,

00:25:27.480 don't fucking

00:25:28.160 talk to me.

00:25:28.980 I'm a woman.

00:25:29.560 I have a right

00:25:29.900 to be in here.

00:25:30.780 Immediately I'm

00:25:31.900 fucking pissed

00:25:32.580 because I'm

00:25:33.080 butt naked.

00:25:33.940 I feel

00:25:34.220 violated.

00:25:35.080 I feel

00:25:35.500 like weird.

00:25:37.200 Like,

00:25:37.360 And it

00:25:37.680 turned out

00:25:37.980 that this

00:25:38.260 person had

00:25:38.660 previously

00:25:39.060 broken his

00:25:39.600 wife's jaw.

00:25:40.700 You know,

00:25:41.020 like quite a

00:25:44.820 tendencies go

00:25:45.800 very,

00:25:46.200 very hand in

00:25:47.000 hand.

00:25:47.720 So,

00:25:48.240 and it's

00:25:48.840 something that

00:25:50.220 can cause you

00:25:52.380 to have

00:25:52.600 potentially more

00:25:53.140 empathy.

00:25:53.800 You can be

00:25:54.160 like,

00:25:54.340 hey,

00:25:54.480 it may not

00:25:55.080 be their

00:25:56.020 fault that

00:25:56.560 this happened

00:25:56.920 to them,

00:25:57.360 but they're

00:25:58.220 still responsible

00:25:58.900 for their

00:25:59.280 actions.

00:25:59.740 In the same

00:26:00.060 way a serial

00:26:00.780 killer who

00:26:01.240 was abused

00:26:01.860 is still

00:26:02.960 responsible if

00:26:04.880 they then go

00:26:05.480 on to abuse

00:26:06.080 other people.

00:26:07.080 If they then

00:26:07.860 go on to

00:26:08.480 violate the

00:26:09.040 consent of

00:26:09.400 other people.

00:26:10.400 So what

00:26:10.960 are my

00:26:11.320 takeaways from

00:26:12.020 this?

00:26:12.780 My takeaway

00:26:13.280 is I think

00:26:14.040 that this is

00:26:14.420 probably a

00:26:14.840 factor.

00:26:15.380 I don't

00:26:15.560 know if

00:26:15.760 it's one

00:26:16.020 of the

00:26:16.240 larger

00:26:16.600 factors,

00:26:17.080 but I

00:26:17.220 think it's

00:26:17.400 a factor,

00:26:17.940 especially for

00:26:18.420 some individuals.

00:26:20.060 If it is

00:26:22.520 a factor,

00:26:23.560 I think the

00:26:24.280 best way to

00:26:24.680 combat it in

00:26:26.320 regards to

00:26:26.840 your kids is

00:26:28.400 to, you

00:26:29.480 know,

00:26:29.780 educate them

00:26:30.460 well on

00:26:30.800 sexuality.

00:26:31.440 And that

00:26:31.620 means to,

00:26:32.740 you know,

00:26:32.960 let them know

00:26:33.460 that there's a

00:26:34.360 variety of

00:26:35.300 arousal systems

00:26:36.060 and the most

00:26:36.920 important thing

00:26:37.500 about these

00:26:37.980 arousal systems

00:26:38.540 is one,

00:26:39.320 they don't

00:26:39.720 choose them.

00:26:40.460 You know,

00:26:40.600 they are

00:26:41.100 sometimes a

00:26:41.620 response to

00:26:41.960 their environment.

00:26:42.520 They're sometimes

00:26:42.820 a response to

00:26:43.360 genes.

00:26:43.600 They're sometimes

00:26:44.020 a response

00:26:44.380 to parasites.

00:26:47.440 As we've

00:26:48.160 covered in

00:26:48.580 other episodes.

00:26:49.340 It's so

00:26:50.000 fascinating.

00:26:51.400 One of my

00:26:51.960 favorite ones

00:26:52.540 from the

00:26:52.940 comment on

00:26:53.260 the parasite

00:26:53.560 video was

00:26:53.960 a prison

00:26:54.300 guard.

00:26:55.260 And he

00:26:55.420 said,

00:26:55.960 he goes,

00:26:57.500 because we

00:26:57.860 had talked

00:26:58.200 about how,

00:26:58.900 like,

00:26:59.180 two things.

00:27:00.020 One is that

00:27:00.440 parasites might

00:27:01.140 actually lead to

00:27:01.840 cuckolding behavior,

00:27:02.900 like men wanting

00:27:03.380 to cuckolding

00:27:03.760 a partner because

00:27:04.180 they're literally

00:27:04.600 trying to give

00:27:05.100 other people

00:27:05.500 parasites that

00:27:06.540 their partners

00:27:06.980 have that have

00:27:07.400 now affected

00:27:07.760 them.

00:27:08.100 is that I

00:27:09.080 was like,

00:27:09.400 yeah,

00:27:09.500 people start

00:27:09.960 this and

00:27:10.440 then later,

00:27:11.820 and we also

00:27:12.360 talked about

00:27:12.700 maybe affecting

00:27:13.220 same-sex

00:27:13.600 attracted

00:27:13.840 communities.

00:27:14.680 Later,

00:27:15.000 they end up

00:27:15.440 becoming the

00:27:16.140 cuckold.

00:27:17.160 You know,

00:27:17.280 they start

00:27:17.600 at the

00:27:17.840 bull,

00:27:18.020 they move

00:27:18.240 to the

00:27:18.440 cuckold.

00:27:19.160 And so

00:27:19.340 it's like,

00:27:19.720 you know,

00:27:20.100 as a prison

00:27:20.520 guard,

00:27:21.400 there's this

00:27:22.240 adage,

00:27:23.560 which is the

00:27:24.620 person who

00:27:25.080 starts on top

00:27:26.560 is always

00:27:27.060 eventually on

00:27:27.660 bottom.

00:27:27.920 phenomenon

00:27:29.840 start on top

00:27:32.880 with the

00:27:33.240 guys who

00:27:33.700 are open

00:27:34.100 to it,

00:27:34.520 who might

00:27:34.900 have this

00:27:35.780 gut passage

00:27:36.760 in that

00:27:37.080 we talked

00:27:37.360 about in

00:27:37.600 that video.

00:27:38.280 And eventually

00:27:39.120 you want to

00:27:40.900 take it because

00:27:41.440 you want to

00:27:41.760 spread the

00:27:42.020 passage in

00:27:42.400 to other

00:27:42.600 people who

00:27:43.300 are.

00:27:44.220 Oh,

00:27:45.500 wow.

00:27:49.560 Yeah.

00:27:50.160 So I said

00:27:50.640 that was really

00:27:51.140 fascinating and

00:27:51.900 it'd be

00:27:52.100 interesting to

00:27:52.540 do study.

00:27:53.040 I mean,

00:27:53.200 obviously you

00:27:53.660 can't do

00:27:53.920 everyone would

00:27:54.440 freak out if

00:27:54.840 you try to

00:27:55.100 do a study

00:27:55.420 on this

00:27:55.660 stuff.

00:27:55.820 It is so

00:27:58.480 fascinating,

00:27:59.080 but the

00:27:59.420 larger point

00:27:59.980 being is in

00:28:01.680 terms of my

00:28:02.160 kids,

00:28:03.140 how do I

00:28:03.520 convey this

00:28:04.000 in terms of

00:28:04.440 them?

00:28:04.540 Because I

00:28:04.700 think that's

00:28:04.980 the most

00:28:05.240 important thing.

00:28:05.840 I mean,

00:28:05.940 that's what I

00:28:06.220 have control

00:28:06.600 over.

00:28:06.860 I can't

00:28:07.120 rewrite how

00:28:07.580 society works,

00:28:08.360 but I can

00:28:08.740 explain this

00:28:09.980 to my kids.

00:28:10.400 I'd one,

00:28:11.280 tell my

00:28:11.620 daughters to

00:28:12.100 be incredibly

00:28:13.680 wary,

00:28:15.020 much more

00:28:15.480 wary than

00:28:16.160 around

00:28:16.360 conservative

00:28:16.740 men,

00:28:17.460 around

00:28:17.840 actively

00:28:18.880 signaling

00:28:19.360 feminist

00:28:19.800 men.

00:28:20.380 These men

00:28:20.960 are very

00:28:21.680 likely to be

00:28:22.420 sex-fests.

00:28:22.920 I mean,

00:28:23.060 again,

00:28:23.280 look at

00:28:23.540 Destiny.

00:28:24.480 He filmed

00:28:25.420 a bunch

00:28:25.740 of girls

00:28:26.100 without

00:28:26.340 their

00:28:26.560 consent

00:28:26.940 and then

00:28:27.280 shared

00:28:27.580 the

00:28:28.020 pornography

00:28:28.680 of it.

00:28:29.880 That's

00:28:30.400 something that

00:28:32.440 is really

00:28:33.240 bad.

00:28:35.500 That's

00:28:36.020 an actively

00:28:36.840 exploitative

00:28:37.420 thing to

00:28:37.960 do to

00:28:38.220 these

00:28:38.380 women,

00:28:39.340 and yet

00:28:39.760 he's

00:28:39.960 constantly

00:28:40.260 signaling,

00:28:40.840 I'm the

00:28:41.120 greatest

00:28:41.540 feminist

00:28:41.940 ever.

00:28:44.080 So,

00:28:44.640 one,

00:28:45.520 be very,

00:28:46.340 very wary

00:28:46.920 of men

00:28:47.240 like this.

00:28:47.620 This is an

00:28:48.020 active sexual

00:28:48.800 strategy.

00:28:49.880 And I

00:28:50.100 don't say

00:28:50.480 whatever you

00:28:50.840 do,

00:28:51.020 do not be

00:28:51.560 alone with

00:28:52.320 a man

00:28:52.560 like that.

00:28:53.100 Never be

00:28:53.680 alone with

00:28:54.340 a male

00:28:54.640 feminist.

00:28:55.120 That's

00:28:56.940 number one.

00:28:57.700 Two,

00:28:58.380 I'd also

00:28:58.940 say be

00:28:59.380 very,

00:28:59.900 very careful

00:29:00.580 about being

00:29:01.740 alone with

00:29:02.160 trans women,

00:29:02.700 to be honest.

00:29:03.460 I know that

00:29:04.160 that's a bad

00:29:05.080 thing to say,

00:29:05.980 but you could

00:29:07.320 be putting

00:29:07.720 yourself in

00:29:08.300 danger.

00:29:09.220 The next

00:29:10.740 thing I'd

00:29:11.140 say is,

00:29:12.440 because,

00:29:12.720 you know,

00:29:13.000 keep in

00:29:13.580 mind with

00:29:13.900 them,

00:29:14.120 you reject

00:29:14.580 them,

00:29:14.960 and now all

00:29:15.260 of a sudden,

00:29:15.520 what are you,

00:29:15.800 transphobic?

00:29:16.900 You know,

00:29:17.180 they can begin

00:29:17.640 to pressure

00:29:17.980 you.

00:29:18.160 And this is

00:29:18.460 something that

00:29:18.800 really happens

00:29:19.440 to people,

00:29:19.940 right?

00:29:20.720 You could

00:29:21.200 be like,

00:29:21.580 oh,

00:29:21.680 it's not

00:29:22.080 all of them.

00:29:23.040 And I guess

00:29:23.580 here I'd be

00:29:24.040 like,

00:29:24.580 turn that old

00:29:25.120 Tumblr meme

00:29:25.740 back on it.

00:29:26.740 Here's a bowl

00:29:27.480 of Skittles.

00:29:28.100 You know that

00:29:28.600 one is poison.

00:29:30.020 You know,

00:29:30.180 are you going

00:29:30.540 to eat from

00:29:31.060 this bowl of

00:29:31.660 Skittles?

00:29:31.940 I don't remember

00:29:32.700 this.

00:29:33.460 They use this

00:29:34.320 to talk about

00:29:35.160 men and sexual

00:29:35.860 violence.

00:29:36.740 But the problem

00:29:37.240 is, oh,

00:29:37.680 and we have

00:29:38.000 another episode

00:29:38.580 on this that

00:29:39.060 will eventually

00:29:39.480 do, but trans

00:29:40.580 people always

00:29:40.960 love to claim

00:29:41.420 that they are

00:29:41.840 victims of

00:29:42.480 violence much

00:29:43.200 higher than

00:29:43.580 other groups

00:29:44.020 and like they're

00:29:44.500 killed much

00:29:45.100 higher.

00:29:45.620 And we ran

00:29:46.060 the stats in

00:29:46.560 another episode.

00:29:47.180 You can find

00:29:47.480 the episode

00:29:47.840 just by searching

00:29:48.820 or we'll

00:29:49.440 probably do a

00:29:49.880 dedicated episode

00:29:50.420 on this.

00:29:51.220 But if you

00:29:51.540 actually look

00:29:52.040 at the reported

00:29:52.660 homicides of

00:29:54.480 trans people

00:29:54.980 in the United

00:29:55.400 States, they

00:29:56.360 are way lower

00:29:57.760 than the general

00:29:58.960 population.

00:29:59.780 Like way lower.

00:30:01.040 I think it's

00:30:01.200 like an order

00:30:01.580 of trans people

00:30:02.320 That was bizarre.

00:30:03.300 Yeah.

00:30:03.900 And it's not

00:30:05.180 just that they're

00:30:06.260 way lower.

00:30:07.520 It's that they

00:30:09.700 get comically

00:30:10.420 lower if you

00:30:11.440 remove black

00:30:12.800 trans women from

00:30:13.920 the mix, which

00:30:14.380 make up, I

00:30:15.120 think it's 70%

00:30:16.140 of all trans

00:30:17.260 homicides.

00:30:18.060 Because then if

00:30:18.500 you're a white

00:30:19.240 trans person, it's

00:30:19.980 like, what are

00:30:20.960 these people?

00:30:21.380 Like invincible

00:30:21.860 to bullets or

00:30:22.540 something?

00:30:22.940 Like the numbers

00:30:23.780 get so crazy at

00:30:25.100 that point.

00:30:25.800 So that's just

00:30:26.240 not true.

00:30:26.980 It's something

00:30:27.560 that they want

00:30:28.040 to portray as

00:30:28.960 true, but it's

00:30:29.760 not, if you

00:30:30.540 actually run the

00:30:31.160 numbers, it's

00:30:31.680 not true.

00:30:32.780 So the other

00:30:33.860 thing that I

00:30:34.220 would say to

00:30:34.700 my kids is,

00:30:36.360 you know, I

00:30:37.100 think really

00:30:37.480 important is if

00:30:39.020 you have a

00:30:40.580 certain sexual

00:30:41.340 proclivity in

00:30:42.680 regards to the

00:30:43.620 pornography,

00:30:44.500 you're consuming

00:30:45.640 or erotic

00:30:46.660 stories you're

00:30:47.300 consuming, like

00:30:48.320 you're a single

00:30:48.980 woman and you

00:30:50.120 really like the

00:30:50.840 monster effort

00:30:51.540 category of

00:30:52.240 story, that

00:30:53.360 might not

00:30:53.800 actually be what

00:30:54.580 you still want

00:30:55.460 when you are

00:30:56.060 married and have

00:30:56.700 kids.

00:30:57.600 And it's

00:30:57.820 important to

00:30:58.440 remember that a

00:30:59.640 lot of these

00:31:00.140 arousal phases

00:31:01.040 that you're going

00:31:01.460 to go through

00:31:01.840 throughout your

00:31:02.280 life are

00:31:03.320 transitory.

00:31:04.340 They are not

00:31:04.800 part of your

00:31:05.260 identity.

00:31:06.120 They are a

00:31:06.520 response to

00:31:07.100 your environment.

00:31:08.120 Yeah, your

00:31:08.660 body responding

00:31:10.280 to surrounding

00:31:12.800 cues in a way

00:31:14.020 that is supposed

00:31:14.580 to optimize for

00:31:15.520 your survival.

00:31:17.260 And reproduction,

00:31:17.980 yeah.

00:31:18.540 And I think

00:31:19.260 that that's

00:31:19.840 really important

00:31:20.380 because a lot

00:31:20.920 of people,

00:31:21.880 they will

00:31:23.340 consume these

00:31:24.100 types of erotic

00:31:25.120 stories, like

00:31:25.740 young women or

00:31:26.260 young men, and

00:31:27.300 then they'll

00:31:27.560 say, I want a

00:31:28.320 woman who's into

00:31:30.140 the stuff that

00:31:30.800 happens in my

00:31:32.340 erotic material,

00:31:34.100 or I want a

00:31:34.600 man, a husband,

00:31:35.480 who's into this

00:31:36.500 stuff or represents

00:31:37.440 these types of

00:31:38.280 themes, when you

00:31:39.980 really should never

00:31:40.860 ever think about a

00:31:41.700 long-term partner

00:31:42.300 partner in those

00:31:42.660 terms, the way

00:31:44.040 you should think

00:31:44.500 about a long-term

00:31:45.000 partner is who

00:31:47.640 do I want to

00:31:48.940 spend my life

00:31:49.620 with outside of

00:31:50.660 sex, right?

00:31:51.800 That's the, who

00:31:53.280 do I have aligned

00:31:54.740 goals with?

00:31:55.340 Who do I have

00:31:55.780 aligned mission

00:31:56.500 with?

00:31:57.180 Who would I be

00:31:58.180 really happy if

00:31:58.980 my kids acted

00:32:00.020 half the way they

00:32:01.160 act and half the

00:32:01.860 way I act, right?

00:32:02.740 You know, that's

00:32:03.680 going to be where

00:32:04.680 your partner comes

00:32:05.480 into play, not in

00:32:06.320 terms of the things

00:32:07.020 that arouse you.

00:32:08.260 And so I think

00:32:08.680 that that's really

00:32:09.580 important as well.

00:32:10.360 And this is really

00:32:11.220 important within

00:32:12.480 another recent

00:32:13.000 episode where, you

00:32:13.800 know, a guy was

00:32:15.840 saying, you know,

00:32:17.220 looking for kids,

00:32:18.400 right?

00:32:18.680 And he's like,

00:32:19.220 well, like he

00:32:20.240 really wanted kids.

00:32:20.880 This isn't our men

00:32:21.440 are just, you

00:32:22.260 know, outsourcing to

00:32:24.360 women now, just

00:32:25.180 being like, hey,

00:32:25.600 we're going to do

00:32:26.320 surrogacy, right?

00:32:27.620 And women were

00:32:28.640 like, oh, you

00:32:29.120 really want kids

00:32:29.720 I met?

00:32:30.040 I mean, I just

00:32:30.860 have to ask because

00:32:31.940 you know, I really

00:32:32.640 want kids and I'd

00:32:33.300 be open to dating.

00:32:34.100 Are you?

00:32:36.060 And they're like,

00:32:36.940 well, you know,

00:32:37.440 kind of, and it's

00:32:38.720 like you as a

00:32:40.500 male, especially if

00:32:41.840 you're in an

00:32:42.200 environment where

00:32:42.800 polyamory is

00:32:43.600 normalized, you are

00:32:45.220 going to want to

00:32:46.520 sleep around as much

00:32:47.560 as possible.

00:32:48.300 Of course, that's

00:32:49.060 what your body

00:32:49.580 wants.

00:32:50.640 And because you

00:32:51.280 get away with it,

00:32:52.540 you think, oh, this

00:32:53.500 is a good way to

00:32:54.700 live my life.

00:32:55.860 But you're not

00:32:56.280 going to attract a

00:32:57.360 good long-term

00:32:58.420 partner if you are

00:33:00.480 single with that.

00:33:01.400 Because women at

00:33:02.720 that stage, when

00:33:03.240 they're looking for

00:33:03.760 their long-term

00:33:04.560 partner, they're not

00:33:05.140 going to want

00:33:05.560 somebody who's also

00:33:06.300 looking at that.

00:33:07.280 And I would say

00:33:08.040 to you that, you

00:33:08.820 know, after your

00:33:09.260 first few kids, you're

00:33:10.040 probably not going to

00:33:10.560 want to sleep around

00:33:11.200 quite as much.

00:33:12.300 Absolutely.

00:33:13.180 It's a pattern we've

00:33:14.040 seen again and again.

00:33:15.920 Yeah.

00:33:17.020 Anyway, final

00:33:18.140 thoughts, Simone.

00:33:20.080 I think this is

00:33:22.360 compelling and I'm

00:33:24.820 very curious to see

00:33:26.200 how we view gender

00:33:29.240 and sexuality like 20

00:33:31.020 years in the future.

00:33:32.340 Like if it's just

00:33:33.060 going to completely.

00:33:34.700 The wokes can't

00:33:36.020 change their mind

00:33:36.840 on this stuff.

00:33:37.380 They're going to

00:33:37.720 like spiral out into

00:33:38.880 some weird alternate,

00:33:40.960 what I think is going

00:33:41.560 to be clear to most

00:33:42.180 people, a religious

00:33:43.120 view on sexuality.

00:33:44.640 It is at odds with

00:33:46.100 the real view of

00:33:47.360 sexuality, which

00:33:48.660 obviously branched

00:33:49.720 from mainstream

00:33:50.200 science was people

00:33:51.160 like Ayla.

00:33:52.920 Maybe.

00:33:53.980 Yeah.

00:33:54.800 I don't know.

00:33:56.620 I mean, I can also

00:33:57.300 see it kind of going

00:33:58.940 back to the way it

00:34:00.560 has been for most of

00:34:01.960 history, which is

00:34:03.280 like nobody really

00:34:05.180 cares and people just

00:34:06.340 kind of do what they

00:34:06.960 want to do.

00:34:07.940 Like I could see it

00:34:08.960 going to that.

00:34:09.680 So there are still

00:34:10.200 people who completely

00:34:11.460 live transition lives

00:34:13.920 as as a different

00:34:15.540 gender or some

00:34:17.100 ungender, you know,

00:34:18.960 where they're non

00:34:19.460 binary or whatever.

00:34:20.980 Then people just like

00:34:23.100 let them do their

00:34:23.780 thing.

00:34:24.160 And that's kind of

00:34:25.240 I don't think that's

00:34:27.140 going to happen.

00:34:28.040 You don't think so.

00:34:28.940 You think it's always

00:34:29.520 going to be politicized

00:34:30.520 from now on?

00:34:31.860 Well, so unfortunately,

00:34:34.080 like.

00:34:36.680 Society, me included

00:34:38.480 in this, like I used

00:34:39.320 to support very

00:34:41.200 strongly transgender

00:34:41.980 rights.

00:34:42.500 Yeah, because they

00:34:43.300 were like, hey, you

00:34:44.680 know, give us these

00:34:45.520 rights and we won't

00:34:46.360 abuse them.

00:34:46.940 And I was like, yeah,

00:34:47.680 that sounds perfectly

00:34:49.500 reasonable.

00:34:50.580 Here's the knife, buddy.

00:34:51.940 You promised we're

00:34:52.840 going to stab, stab,

00:34:53.660 stab, stab, stab.

00:34:54.600 It's like, whoa, what

00:34:55.360 the heck were you?

00:34:55.980 You said you weren't

00:34:56.620 going to do that.

00:34:57.720 And you take the knife

00:34:58.540 back and they're like,

00:34:59.180 how could you do

00:35:00.140 that?

00:35:00.380 Would you be the

00:35:01.960 trans person next to

00:35:02.980 them?

00:35:03.120 Like, I didn't stab

00:35:03.740 anyone with my knife.

00:35:04.580 And it's like you

00:35:05.240 didn't try to stop the

00:35:06.220 guy who was stabbing

00:35:06.980 people, right?

00:35:07.700 You you started yelling

00:35:08.840 at me when I took away

00:35:09.700 his knife, you know?

00:35:10.980 And so I think that so

00:35:13.560 many young people, so

00:35:15.160 especially young people.

00:35:15.940 So if you're watching

00:35:16.580 this and you're in my

00:35:17.260 generation, you may not

00:35:18.700 understand what it

00:35:19.460 feels like to be a

00:35:20.800 young cis person growing

00:35:21.920 up in a place like the

00:35:23.140 United States.

00:35:24.100 But a lot of them say

00:35:25.320 that they feel very

00:35:26.560 marginalized.

00:35:27.300 They feel as if

00:35:28.740 they're treated like

00:35:29.300 second-class citizens.

00:35:30.460 They feel that the

00:35:31.800 trans people at their

00:35:32.620 schools and the gay

00:35:35.420 people at their schools

00:35:36.120 are treated like local

00:35:37.000 celebrities and often

00:35:38.840 abuse these positions

00:35:41.220 that they've been given,

00:35:42.420 which of course I

00:35:43.040 wouldn't.

00:35:43.300 I mean, they're kids

00:35:43.980 who have been given

00:35:44.500 positions of systemic

00:35:46.020 privilege over other

00:35:46.840 kids and that are not

00:35:48.440 subject to the same

00:35:49.340 disciplinary action.

00:35:50.420 As we saw locally here

00:35:51.640 where, you know, there was

00:35:52.420 a young trans person who

00:35:53.840 wrote a hit list and was

00:35:54.720 caught with this hit list

00:35:55.680 and the school did

00:35:56.720 nothing and then they

00:35:57.340 tried to kill somebody

00:35:58.120 on the hit list.

00:36:01.080 Oh, goodness.

00:36:02.840 They beat them

00:36:04.020 severely.

00:36:04.660 Is this recent?

00:36:06.400 This was like last year.

00:36:08.180 Okay.

00:36:09.120 Gosh.

00:36:09.920 Near us.

00:36:10.580 And the reason why any

00:36:11.900 other student gets caught

00:36:12.740 with a hit list, they're

00:36:13.700 immediately out, right?

00:36:14.960 Yeah.

00:36:15.180 And so I think that a lot

00:36:16.880 of the sort of older LGBT

00:36:19.980 population is unaware of

00:36:23.540 how abusive the younger

00:36:25.920 LGBT population has been

00:36:27.220 with the privileges that

00:36:28.720 they won that population.

00:36:30.340 And so they don't

00:36:31.880 understand that the feeling

00:36:34.620 of victimhood has been

00:36:36.700 inverted between the two

00:36:38.420 communities.

00:36:38.880 and what this means is a

00:36:42.080 trans ideology or identity

00:36:44.180 unlike, say, you're

00:36:45.400 secretly into BDSM or

00:36:47.200 you're, you're, you're

00:36:48.200 gay privately or whatever.

00:36:50.080 And this is the thing

00:36:50.680 was like gay people.

00:36:51.340 If you look at like gay

00:36:52.020 conservatives and there's

00:36:52.700 a lot of gay conservatives

00:36:53.300 now, they look like

00:36:54.440 normal people, right?

00:36:56.340 And, and so, you know, I

00:36:58.100 don't think most conservatives

00:36:59.060 are going to treat them

00:36:59.840 particularly differently.

00:37:00.720 If you look at gay, like

00:37:02.300 ultra progressives, they

00:37:03.540 sort of brand themselves as

00:37:05.540 in opposition to, you know,

00:37:08.580 other cultural groups.

00:37:10.480 And the problem with this

00:37:11.960 sort of trans identity is

00:37:13.260 it took that perspective

00:37:14.460 and ran with it to such

00:37:15.680 an extreme that the thing

00:37:17.940 that I've, I've said

00:37:18.640 before, it's a bit like

00:37:19.280 having a swastika carved

00:37:20.200 in your forehead, you

00:37:21.000 know, going forwards,

00:37:21.740 right?

00:37:22.000 Like, it's like, oh, we

00:37:23.880 remember all the things

00:37:25.120 you guys did.

00:37:25.800 I remember having to sit

00:37:27.440 and watch that Olympics

00:37:28.640 where the person who, not

00:37:31.160 even trans, by the way,

00:37:32.240 but the trans community

00:37:33.020 decided to defend him, just

00:37:34.820 a biological male.

00:37:36.460 Yeah.

00:37:36.680 The person who, well, I

00:37:38.280 don't think they realized

00:37:39.260 it until later in their

00:37:40.340 lives or something.

00:37:41.080 The boxer, right?

00:37:42.340 No, no, no.

00:37:43.020 He, there's interviews

00:37:44.320 of him being on TV shows

00:37:46.220 in his home country

00:37:47.040 where he is dressed as a

00:37:48.260 man, he is calling

00:37:49.040 himself he, and they

00:37:49.880 are calling him he.

00:37:50.840 Oh, really?

00:37:54.220 He did as a man and

00:37:59.000 then just decided to

00:38:00.060 change for the Olympics.

00:38:01.400 Oh, goodness.

00:38:01.920 I thought Asma Gold's

00:38:03.860 take on this was really

00:38:04.540 brilliant because you

00:38:05.200 could come at this and

00:38:05.780 be like, well, are you

00:38:06.360 saying that this person

00:38:07.680 just shouldn't be allowed

00:38:08.620 to compete?

00:38:10.720 And it's a bit like

00:38:11.840 saying, oh, well,

00:38:12.840 there's a seven foot

00:38:13.680 boxer who wants to

00:38:14.760 compete in the

00:38:15.480 lightweight category and

00:38:16.820 he just could not be

00:38:19.360 that weight and be

00:38:21.180 healthy or alive or

00:38:22.180 anything like that.

00:38:22.880 So what, you're saying

00:38:23.540 he just shouldn't be

00:38:24.320 allowed to do

00:38:24.920 lightweight boxing?

00:38:25.780 And it's like, no,

00:38:26.760 he just, lightweight

00:38:28.320 boxing is a carve out

00:38:29.600 category.

00:38:30.020 And whenever you're

00:38:30.840 dealing with a carve

00:38:31.680 out category, the

00:38:33.140 carve out is always

00:38:34.380 going to be to an

00:38:35.980 extent, arbitrary, but

00:38:37.860 meant to preserve, you

00:38:39.860 know, good sport.

00:38:40.940 So a category of people

00:38:42.560 that otherwise couldn't

00:38:43.840 compete can compete.

00:38:45.820 Consider something like

00:38:47.000 the Special Olympics.

00:38:48.460 If you go into the

00:38:50.600 Special Olympics because

00:38:52.140 you have ADD or

00:38:53.660 something like that,

00:38:54.460 and then somebody's

00:38:55.140 like, well, I

00:38:56.160 understand it's a

00:38:57.020 disability, but it

00:38:57.840 really shouldn't

00:38:58.360 qualify you for the

00:38:59.200 Special Olympics because

00:39:00.000 then this huge other

00:39:01.160 category of people isn't

00:39:02.180 going to be able to

00:39:02.820 compete ever in any

00:39:04.740 meaningful context.

00:39:06.100 That's a valid claim by

00:39:07.840 the other person.

00:39:09.400 And then the person who

00:39:10.240 has ADD says, what, are

00:39:11.200 you just saying I

00:39:11.840 shouldn't be able to

00:39:12.360 compete in anything?

00:39:13.020 It's like, no, you can

00:39:13.640 compete in the regular

00:39:14.300 Olympics.

00:39:14.960 This person can just

00:39:15.920 compete in male boxing,

00:39:17.140 right?

00:39:17.300 Like, they don't need to

00:39:18.160 do this, right?

00:39:19.620 And it's clear that if

00:39:21.660 you allow people like

00:39:23.040 this to compete, then

00:39:24.720 the vast majority of

00:39:25.900 women are not going to

00:39:26.720 have a realistic chance.

00:39:28.280 And for people who

00:39:30.020 are like, well, you

00:39:30.860 know, trans people

00:39:32.020 participating in sports

00:39:33.200 aren't that much of a

00:39:34.000 problem, and it's like,

00:39:35.180 well, if they aren't that

00:39:35.700 much of a problem, if it

00:39:36.880 really is not an issue

00:39:38.200 at all, then why is

00:39:39.620 nobody ever complaining

00:39:41.360 about transmit?

00:39:43.960 I've literally never seen

00:39:45.360 that in sports.

00:39:47.600 Oh, by the way, on this

00:39:48.620 screen here, it's a graph

00:39:49.560 of male to female

00:39:50.380 strengths differences.

00:39:52.160 And I think that this is

00:39:53.220 why Dylan Milvaney's

00:39:54.360 100 Days of Being a

00:39:55.380 Woman had so much of

00:39:56.660 this energy to it.

00:39:58.400 I want to be in the

00:40:01.260 Special Olympics.

00:40:04.320 Because he happened to

00:40:06.660 be a man born with, in

00:40:08.200 all other things, male,

00:40:09.140 except for being born

00:40:09.820 with female genitalia.

00:40:11.380 And by this, what I mean

00:40:12.240 is chromosomally male, male

00:40:13.620 in terms of testosterone,

00:40:14.680 male in terms of body

00:40:15.400 structure, male in terms

00:40:16.320 of everything else.

00:40:17.760 And we had to watch

00:40:18.940 like on TV, like publicly

00:40:21.080 for everyone to see him

00:40:22.600 just like beating the

00:40:24.180 snot out of women.

00:40:25.960 We had to see those

00:40:26.860 boxing matches where

00:40:27.960 the cis women, you

00:40:29.480 know, fractured their

00:40:30.360 skulls and stuff like

00:40:31.600 that.

00:40:31.900 Like it looked horrifying.

00:40:34.880 Yeah.

00:40:35.960 And then to see it

00:40:36.880 cheered on.

00:40:37.980 And this is the thing,

00:40:38.840 people could be like,

00:40:39.240 well, that's a minority

00:40:39.880 of the community that's

00:40:40.520 doing that.

00:40:40.900 Yeah, but the majority

00:40:41.720 and the dominant parts

00:40:42.440 of the community are

00:40:43.080 cheering it on.

00:40:44.240 Okay.

00:40:44.640 And they're protecting

00:40:45.620 these individuals.

00:40:46.980 And they just think

00:40:47.820 that cannot be undone

00:40:49.020 basically.

00:40:50.220 Right.

00:40:50.560 They, through doing

00:40:52.180 that, absorb the sins

00:40:54.500 in the same way that

00:40:55.380 you guys freak out

00:40:56.340 if somebody even talks

00:40:57.240 to Nick Fuentes.

00:40:58.320 They absorb the sins

00:40:59.660 of the people that

00:41:00.400 they are defending.

00:41:03.040 I see.

00:41:05.240 They don't say, hey,

00:41:06.640 actually, they shouldn't

00:41:07.720 be doing this in the

00:41:08.620 same way that we

00:41:09.040 regularly say, hey,

00:41:10.120 Nick Fuentes shouldn't

00:41:10.940 be saying this.

00:41:12.180 Yeah.

00:41:12.480 They don't do that.

00:41:13.460 And for that reason,

00:41:14.640 they become responsible

00:41:16.260 for the perpetration

00:41:17.900 of these.

00:41:19.140 Or they'll freak out.

00:41:20.280 Like when we did the

00:41:20.840 episode on the

00:41:21.360 trans mass shootings

00:41:22.080 at schools and stuff

00:41:23.440 and they were like,

00:41:24.120 this isn't true,

00:41:24.980 this isn't true,

00:41:25.420 except we lay out

00:41:25.940 the data very clearly

00:41:26.800 in that episode.

00:41:27.520 Like, I don't understand

00:41:28.640 the data is incredibly

00:41:29.920 clear in that episode.

00:41:30.980 And they're like,

00:41:31.820 this isn't true.

00:41:32.840 And you get this mindset

00:41:34.880 and the person

00:41:35.320 literally asked an AI,

00:41:36.240 tell me this isn't true.

00:41:37.500 And so the AI told them

00:41:38.480 it wasn't true.

00:41:39.260 So you get this mindset

00:41:40.880 where they hide this

00:41:43.020 and then kids die

00:41:44.880 because we're not

00:41:46.300 addressing that there

00:41:47.500 is a problem with

00:41:48.280 mass shooters within

00:41:49.040 specific sub-communities.

00:41:52.260 Yeah, not great.

00:41:53.980 Not great.

00:41:55.920 But I find what's

00:41:57.160 fascinating here is,

00:41:58.760 you know,

00:41:58.920 I talked about them

00:41:59.540 being at the bottom

00:42:00.320 of the totem pole

00:42:01.100 in terms of their

00:42:01.800 actual ability to get

00:42:02.840 women.

00:42:03.820 I think one of the

00:42:04.740 reasons why this

00:42:05.440 adaptive sexuality

00:42:06.320 is working so well

00:42:07.300 within this generation

00:42:08.000 is not only is it a

00:42:09.720 strategy to get into

00:42:10.440 like women's only spaces,

00:42:11.620 get women alone,

00:42:12.360 stuff like that,

00:42:13.200 but in a historic context,

00:42:14.920 but in a modern time,

00:42:15.840 it literally raises

00:42:17.040 their status if

00:42:17.960 they're near the bottom

00:42:18.540 of the social totem pole.

00:42:20.260 Oh, yeah.

00:42:20.920 Okay.

00:42:21.320 I see what you're saying.

00:42:22.100 So, yeah,

00:42:22.480 it is both a way to

00:42:24.300 gain access to

00:42:26.020 women-only spaces

00:42:26.960 to gain the opportunity,

00:42:28.280 but it's also

00:42:29.420 at the same time,

00:42:31.160 like it's a dual strategy.

00:42:32.340 At least you have access

00:42:33.840 if you want to be sneaky,

00:42:35.040 but also it's like

00:42:36.600 a backdoor way

00:42:37.640 to get higher status

00:42:39.420 and maybe through that

00:42:41.360 mean even without

00:42:42.820 non-consent,

00:42:43.640 even without a sneaky

00:42:44.700 copulation,

00:42:45.780 you end up

00:42:46.520 securing partners

00:42:48.440 because it is,

00:42:49.340 I mean,

00:42:49.500 that is a trend.

00:42:50.280 It seems like a lot

00:42:51.060 of men who go trans

00:42:52.480 end up with female

00:42:54.140 partners,

00:42:54.840 which is interesting.

00:42:57.860 I guess not necessarily

00:42:59.380 what I would have

00:43:00.100 expected.

00:43:01.420 Huh?

00:43:01.940 Anyway,

00:43:02.280 so for dinner tonight,

00:43:03.500 more bok choy,

00:43:04.780 like one and more

00:43:06.940 bean sprouts this time,

00:43:07.980 right?

00:43:09.220 Yeah.

00:43:09.780 Did we already saw

00:43:10.600 the beef?

00:43:12.300 Yeah.

00:43:12.740 So unless you want

00:43:14.860 to,

00:43:15.120 I can just leave

00:43:15.820 that thought in the

00:43:16.620 fridge and then.

00:43:18.000 No,

00:43:18.240 no,

00:43:18.340 no,

00:43:18.460 no.

00:43:18.700 I want it with the beef.

00:43:19.420 I was going to say

00:43:19.760 if you didn't thaw the beef,

00:43:20.640 I would have just had it

00:43:21.260 with the leaves.

00:43:22.200 No protein at all?

00:43:24.500 Yeah,

00:43:24.800 but I'm okay.

00:43:25.280 If you got the beef out,

00:43:26.240 it's good.

00:43:27.220 Okay.

00:43:28.300 And the bok choy

00:43:29.280 was good last time.

00:43:30.300 The bean sprouts were good.

00:43:30.880 Are you hungry enough

00:43:31.960 for protein?

00:43:33.360 Are you like just

00:43:33.920 not very hungry tonight?

00:43:35.380 Well,

00:43:35.680 I was thinking like less

00:43:36.820 because I was like,

00:43:37.360 well,

00:43:37.600 I may not want that much,

00:43:38.540 but if I don't want that much,

00:43:39.320 then I'll just save it

00:43:39.760 for tomorrow.

00:43:40.840 Okay.

00:43:42.060 Well,

00:43:42.460 I can,

00:43:42.940 yeah,

00:43:43.260 I didn't thaw very much

00:43:44.700 for what it's worth.

00:43:46.160 Like,

00:43:46.280 I did about half

00:43:48.020 as much as I did last night.

00:43:49.620 Oh,

00:43:50.060 okay.

00:43:50.320 Yeah,

00:43:50.440 then that's what I want.

00:43:51.200 It's half as much

00:43:51.700 as last night.

00:43:52.120 Just a smackerel

00:43:53.220 of meat,

00:43:53.880 as it were.

00:43:54.660 Not very much

00:43:55.360 at all.

00:43:56.080 Yeah?

00:43:56.840 Yeah,

00:43:57.100 yeah,

00:43:57.260 that's great.

00:43:57.960 Good.

00:43:58.180 And bean sprouts

00:43:59.040 and,

00:43:59.400 you know,

00:44:00.000 maybe one of the long hots

00:44:01.320 or something.

00:44:02.300 Okay.

00:44:02.900 Yeah.

00:44:03.580 Yeah.

00:44:04.500 I can do all that.

00:44:06.160 And then with,

00:44:06.820 there was still some,

00:44:07.760 some of the sauce

00:44:08.660 that I'd pre-mixed

00:44:09.460 left over,

00:44:10.040 right?

00:44:10.220 Or should I make more?

00:44:11.940 I don't know.

00:44:13.280 Okay.

00:44:14.660 Depends on how much

00:44:15.480 you're cooking.

00:44:16.260 What kind of sauce

00:44:17.060 do you want me to make

00:44:18.000 if I need to make more?

00:44:20.560 The black pepper sauce

00:44:22.800 is the best.

00:44:23.600 Black pepper,

00:44:24.220 like stir-fired steak.

00:44:25.840 Black pepper steak.

00:44:26.420 All right.

00:44:28.020 Then I will work

00:44:28.640 on that for you.

00:44:29.880 I hope you,

00:44:30.880 I hope you enjoy.

00:44:33.060 I hope you enjoy.

00:44:34.980 We always do.

00:44:36.080 We have fun.

00:44:36.740 I'm going.

00:44:38.360 Me too, Malcolm.

00:44:39.580 I love you.

00:44:42.340 Thanks for not being

00:44:43.300 trans.

00:44:46.960 Well,

00:44:47.400 you technically are.

00:44:49.320 Oh, yeah.

00:44:49.980 Well,

00:44:50.220 we're both technically

00:44:51.360 non-binary,

00:44:52.340 I guess,

00:44:52.920 because we just don't care.

00:44:54.000 But I think that's very important.

00:44:55.420 That makes you agent.

00:44:56.420 Yeah, I'd be agent.

00:44:57.060 I literally don't care.

00:44:58.440 I'm like,

00:44:58.940 I'm happy.

00:44:59.800 Just,

00:45:00.260 I will do what my gender

00:45:02.040 tells me to do

00:45:02.780 because that is the way

00:45:04.460 I'm supposed to live my life.

00:45:05.540 And if I was a woman tomorrow,

00:45:06.520 I would do what my gender

00:45:07.500 told me to do.

00:45:08.820 It's just easier

00:45:09.980 to like,

00:45:12.300 yeah.

00:45:13.320 You would be asexual,

00:45:14.960 which makes you

00:45:15.620 age,

00:45:16.540 which makes you

00:45:17.200 genderqueer,

00:45:18.320 which makes you

00:45:19.220 non-binary

00:45:21.400 and genderqueer.

00:45:22.420 Non-binary

00:45:22.760 and trans

00:45:23.880 by their,

00:45:24.300 everyone's trans

00:45:25.220 by their ideology.

00:45:26.320 That's just the way it is.

00:45:27.880 What I mean is

00:45:28.540 almost anyone

00:45:29.220 can find a way

00:45:29.920 to categorize themselves

00:45:31.400 as trans.

00:45:32.260 Oh!

00:45:32.400 I'm not really into sex

00:45:33.500 until Y

00:45:34.340 and that makes me trans

00:45:35.340 because I'm a demisexual.

00:45:36.680 Oh.

00:45:38.320 Right.

00:45:38.980 Like,

00:45:39.180 yeah,

00:45:39.620 yeah,

00:45:39.920 yeah,

00:45:41.260 yeah.

00:45:41.540 No matter what,

00:45:42.220 there's always some condition

00:45:43.380 like,

00:45:45.220 well,

00:45:45.380 I don't like having

00:45:46.440 sex with animals.

00:45:47.660 Well,

00:45:47.980 that makes you

00:45:48.660 some kind of

00:45:49.540 sexual orientation,

00:45:51.780 which therefore,

00:45:52.640 I don't know,

00:45:53.740 whatever.

00:45:54.400 You don't like having

00:45:55.100 sex with animals,

00:45:56.040 Simone?

00:45:56.300 You are a true deviant.

00:45:57.920 Yeah.

00:45:58.740 You are a white woman.

00:46:00.180 Do you not know

00:46:00.760 that it is

00:46:01.300 the possibility

00:46:02.440 to have sex with dogs?

00:46:03.900 I have learned this

00:46:04.880 about middle-aged white women.

00:46:06.400 A discipline.

00:46:07.840 God.

00:46:09.120 Oh,

00:46:09.620 God.

00:46:10.080 There are so many things

00:46:10.880 I don't want to,

00:46:11.920 I'm going to go

00:46:13.120 pick Holly

00:46:14.580 and decorate our house.

00:46:16.820 That's what I'm going to go do.

00:46:17.580 A beautiful holly tree

00:46:18.080 right outside our house.

00:46:19.440 Yeah.

00:46:19.840 The berries are on it.

00:46:20.840 It just looks so pretty.

00:46:21.880 I feel like we need

00:46:22.680 to deck the halls.

00:46:24.260 Deck those

00:46:25.240 getting halls,

00:46:26.620 Simone.

00:46:26.920 With boughs of holly.

00:46:28.900 Actual boughs of holly.

00:46:30.420 Yeah.

00:46:32.140 Fa la la, Malcolm.

00:46:33.760 Fa la la, yourself.

00:46:35.800 Yeah.

00:46:36.240 Well,

00:46:37.000 I love you.

00:46:40.000 I love you too.

00:46:40.520 Thanks.

00:46:40.800 This was interesting.

00:46:42.900 All right.

00:46:43.240 You had a poo situation,

00:46:46.000 you say.

00:46:47.640 Well,

00:46:48.000 some people here did.

00:46:51.340 We do not do a good job

00:46:52.580 advertising being parents.

00:46:53.960 People,

00:46:54.160 people look at us

00:46:54.860 and they go,

00:46:55.140 oh, gosh.

00:46:56.080 No, no, no.

00:46:57.640 No,

00:46:58.200 he's a,

00:46:58.700 he's a great representative

00:46:59.700 of baby kind.

00:47:01.820 Yeah.

00:47:02.040 Somebody else recently

00:47:02.800 had a kid and they're like,

00:47:03.620 wow,

00:47:03.760 how do you get them

00:47:04.240 to stop crying?

00:47:07.180 Like,

00:47:07.580 they always want my attention.

00:47:10.380 They do.

00:47:11.620 But that's because

00:47:12.620 they're,

00:47:12.960 cute.

00:47:13.900 At this age,

00:47:14.580 I hate the,

00:47:15.420 I'm like,

00:47:15.940 guys are just not programmed

00:47:17.200 to deal with the first

00:47:18.160 like year and a half of life.

00:47:19.280 It is so hard for men to do.

00:47:20.700 I can't deal with it.

00:47:21.660 If you didn't handle it,

00:47:22.480 oh my God,

00:47:22.900 I'd,

00:47:23.820 I'd still want to deal.

00:47:25.680 You would deal with it.

00:47:27.100 I'd figure it out.

00:47:27.800 I'd figure it out.

00:47:28.820 But it's hard

00:47:29.560 because yeah,

00:47:30.600 just like even just sitting there

00:47:32.160 until they're done drinking.

00:47:33.040 Like,

00:47:33.180 I just,

00:47:33.700 I can't.

00:47:34.920 Too much.

00:47:35.540 I was recently watching

00:47:38.880 an Asmongold video,

00:47:40.700 like half paying attention

00:47:42.140 and he was playing a video game

00:47:43.560 with like an Asian character

00:47:45.520 that was carrying a baby

00:47:47.000 on his chest

00:47:47.740 and part of me wondered

00:47:48.540 if it was like part of.

00:47:50.280 That's Death Standing.

00:47:51.900 It's Death Standing?

00:47:53.280 Death Standing.

00:47:53.880 Is that one that I told you about

00:47:54.920 that like everyone expected

00:47:55.960 to bomb

00:47:56.320 with a Geokamia game?

00:47:58.920 Geokamina.

00:47:59.280 Did people like it in the end?

00:48:01.480 Oh yeah.

00:48:02.100 Became super popular.

00:48:03.460 Everyone was like,

00:48:04.140 oh,

00:48:04.260 this game is going to do terrible.

00:48:05.440 It's weird and whatever.

00:48:07.840 He's known for just like

00:48:08.840 doing his own thing

00:48:09.840 and this was his first project

00:48:10.960 he made after leaving

00:48:11.840 like major studios.

00:48:14.520 He's the one who made

00:48:15.360 like Metal Gear Solid

00:48:16.280 and stuff like that.

00:48:16.660 They had a cute baby in them.

00:48:19.300 With the baby in like a,

00:48:20.800 suspended in liquid, right?

00:48:23.040 No.

00:48:23.920 No, no, no.

00:48:24.440 Not that one.

00:48:25.380 No,

00:48:25.640 this was a different one.

00:48:27.460 It was like some,

00:48:28.160 some Asian guy

00:48:29.060 and he had a baby

00:48:29.820 like in a carrier

00:48:30.660 on the front

00:48:31.260 while he was doing sword fights.

00:48:33.440 That might have been a,

00:48:35.300 one of the,

00:48:35.960 I forget what they're called,

00:48:36.800 Samurai something game.

00:48:37.780 Yeah,

00:48:38.000 they seemed like,

00:48:39.620 they didn't seem Japanese.

00:48:40.860 They seemed like Chinese

00:48:42.060 warriors of some sort.

00:48:45.540 Well,

00:48:45.980 that's,

00:48:46.360 that's fun.

00:48:47.220 Yeah.

00:48:47.400 I'm going to add that

00:48:48.180 to every video game

00:48:48.940 just so guys know.

00:48:49.720 I identify as somebody

00:48:51.880 carrying a baby.

00:48:52.800 And it wasn't just like

00:48:53.680 a non-active,

00:48:55.100 like the baby would start crying

00:48:57.160 if it got a little too distressed

00:48:58.480 or something,

00:48:59.640 like at least in

00:49:00.580 the opening scene.

00:49:02.620 So.

00:49:03.140 I love that my wife

00:49:05.040 watches Asmogold

00:49:06.320 and it's just like,

00:49:07.120 hey,

00:49:07.300 did you see the Asmogold?

00:49:08.520 When we were doing

00:49:09.220 the other day,

00:49:09.920 the Trump whatever thing

00:49:11.580 and I was like,

00:49:12.220 yeah,

00:49:12.320 did you watch the

00:49:13.080 Tucker Carlson video?

00:49:14.360 And she's like,

00:49:14.860 yeah.

00:49:15.120 And I go,

00:49:15.480 well,

00:49:15.680 I watched next coverage of it.

00:49:17.620 And she goes,

00:49:17.940 yeah,

00:49:18.060 I watched next coverage too.

00:49:19.820 That's how we're consuming

00:49:20.940 our news

00:49:21.480 about their streamers.

00:49:23.080 Through the lens of streamers.

00:49:25.000 Yeah.

00:49:25.540 I think that's how

00:49:27.000 a huge number of people

00:49:28.840 consumes our news.

00:49:30.780 When like Pew surveys

00:49:33.260 report that people

00:49:35.660 are getting their news

00:49:36.680 from social media,

00:49:38.020 I think most people think,

00:49:39.760 and of course,

00:49:40.300 a lot of it is

00:49:41.020 coming from just TikTok.

00:49:42.800 That's how your mom

00:49:43.500 was getting a lot of

00:49:44.520 news before she passed,

00:49:46.440 but she consumed

00:49:47.320 all channels to be fair.

00:49:48.940 And a lot of people

00:49:50.060 for sure are on Facebook,

00:49:51.540 but I think a growing

00:49:52.420 number of people

00:49:53.300 are consuming their news

00:49:54.440 through people

00:49:54.900 like Asmongold.

00:49:56.160 And I mean,

00:49:57.040 if they're on the left,

00:49:57.940 people like Hassan Piker

00:49:59.100 or maybe Destiny

00:50:00.720 or maybe,

00:50:02.580 you know,

00:50:03.860 does Young Turks

00:50:04.980 even count as social media?

00:50:06.420 Probably still.

00:50:07.840 But yeah,

00:50:08.380 I mean,

00:50:08.640 it's these channels.

00:50:13.240 Well,

00:50:14.000 all right,

00:50:15.560 Simone,

00:50:16.700 I'll get started here.

00:50:18.340 Yes.

00:50:23.300 You have to take

00:50:27.160 the glass out first.

00:50:29.100 That's this gun.

00:50:31.060 This gun?

00:50:32.120 Yeah.

00:50:33.180 Get the glass out

00:50:34.140 so he can fight for you.

00:50:38.020 Okay.

00:50:39.500 You gotta stay over here

00:50:41.800 and do it.

00:50:42.800 But let me go.

00:50:44.160 Look,

00:50:44.380 it has the glass

00:50:45.020 in there.

00:50:45.800 It's the glass.

00:50:47.440 There's only one glass.

00:50:48.940 Get that one glass.

00:50:50.140 It's right here.

00:50:54.180 Right there?

00:50:55.560 No.

00:50:56.260 Here.

00:50:57.640 Oh.

00:50:59.420 Thanks.

00:51:00.780 Ha!

00:51:01.340 Thanks.

00:51:01.820 Thanks.

00:51:03.980 You had glass

00:51:05.440 stuck in you, Toasty?

00:51:06.620 I was stuck

00:51:07.940 and I didn't like

00:51:09.820 this glass stuck in you.

00:51:12.140 That was my thing.

00:51:13.640 Oh,

00:51:13.920 was it a sleep poison?

00:51:18.560 No.

00:51:19.820 No.

00:51:20.520 I can't hide those doors

00:51:22.500 to open the mouth

00:51:23.400 and it's right here.

00:51:24.480 And then,

00:51:25.540 it's right here.

00:51:26.900 It's wrong

00:51:27.820 because we're posting that.

00:51:30.800 And then,

00:51:31.020 I can't go on the glass.

00:51:32.160 And then,

00:51:33.900 and then,

00:51:34.600 it's right there.

00:51:36.040 Oh,

00:51:36.660 okay.

00:51:37.400 And this is my son.

00:51:39.280 No,

00:51:39.920 no,

00:51:40.060 no,

00:51:40.140 no.

00:51:40.980 Right here.

Based Camp - December 23, 2025

Understanding the Trans Arousal Profile

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