Based Camp - September 04, 2025
Why is "Us Vs. Them Thinking" Villainized? (When A "Them" Really Exists)
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Summary
In this episode, Simone and I discuss the "us versus them" mindset, and why it is such a bad thing. We discuss the fallacy of "us v them" and how it victimizes individuals within the groups that oppose your interests, and how this mindset has been used to create a group identity as an "us" to oppose any "them" who oppose you.
Transcript
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hello simone it's exciting to be here with you today today we are going to be discussing
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us versus them mindsets and i you know sometimes i'll post transcript of our episodes into you know
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ai to see what it thinks of the arguments oh no and it just accuses you of the most frequent
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complaint i get yeah is it uses the quote-unquote fallacy of an ups versus them mindset a fallacy
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and i'm like it's a mindset how is a mindset invalidated even if it's like an evil mindset
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they don't even call it a mindset they call it a a psychological bias an us versus them psychological
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bias and so we'll get into like why ai think that this is such a bad thing because i hear it even
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more from ai than i do from typical urban monocultural people but i do see it from the
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urban monocultural really like oh well that's the us versus them you know fallacy or whatever or bias or
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you know psychological and i'm like this is actually really messed up and i would argue that the core
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reason why us versus them has been so widely framed as a bias is because it allows members of any any
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potential group and the urban monoculture has evolved this as a framework the urban monoculture
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is sort of what other people call like wokeism or broadly progressivism it allows and what's
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interesting is is they will tell you don't use an us versus a mindset while using it themselves
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when talking about the deplorables or or or trump voters or something like that right like
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clearly they have an us versus a mindset but then they will tell you hey
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hey you know you you can't adopt this mindset and it's a strategy that specifically evolved to
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prevent you from seeing them as the enemy and rallying around opposing them there is a them
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and they are working against your interests like this is the thing and this is why i'm so against this
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hey i hate us versus them it makes sense for you as a human to divide humanity into groups that oppose
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your interests and groups that are aligned with your interests because there are groups that are
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opposed to your interest and even more than just groups that are opposed to your interests there are
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groups that are explicitly around you know whether it's racial or gender or the cultural groups that
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have banded together specifically so that people like them can out compete people like you
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right and they make it the urban monoculture makes it the most punishable for individuals within the
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groups that it it victimizes most frequently to create a group identity as an us to oppose any them
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so recently there was a post i saw that i thought was really shocking that somebody just nakedly had a
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a publication turned down because the paper right now was not taking publications from white men we're
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just not gonna do that no no we haven't done enough none that is just racism and sexism but if you said
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hey white men feel there is a group of individuals who are opposing them in part around gender or ethnic lines
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and that it makes sense for them to have some sort of camaraderie around that in terms of opposing that
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the urban monoculture would completely have a conniption fit whereas if you look at the culture
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like the groups that it it it uplifts like it well pretends to uplift see our episode on okay but what's
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what was the episode title where we showed that basically equality is something like the racism
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maybe quality quality yeah but like black culture for example uh if you look at kwanzaa like a specific
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part of kwanzaa is only shopping at black owned businesses like it doesn't it doesn't see any issue
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with this yet if somebody said i only want to shop at white owned businesses right and and keep in mind
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i mean presumably just imagining anyone being like support your white owned businesses this week that would
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i just yeah i don't know like well i mean and people can be like oh come on these businesses
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aren't advantaged well first of all there's all sorts of loans that they can get that clearly makes them
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an advantage oh my gosh yeah but they're subject to racism in terms of who shops there and i'm like
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we can see that that's objectively not the case also like how do you find out how would you know that i
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mean unless they actively advertise it they do actively advertise it if you yeah because it's to the
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advantage but like if you go to google maps or if you go to yelp it will say like black or a woman
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owned business that's because they know it will help them but if they right that's the point i'm
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making here the very fact that they are opting in to listing with this identification and i have
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never seen a business advertised as a white or male owned business a male owned proudly male owned
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since 1984 can we do that can we do oh my god i'm gonna do that with our businesses proudly a white
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male owned business um wow uh no no but the point being is that the reason why people don't advertise
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with that is because they know that there is a prejudice against white male owned businesses yeah
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absolutely and and that they will get fewer customers while there is a a a positive prejudice
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towards women or i love they say minority owned when these days minority is such like a self
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opt-in identification one of the the funniest ways this shows is is native americans have like
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abysmal fertility rates and yet the quote-unquote native american population has grown by like 90
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in the past 10 years and it's just deciding to identify a native american like pocahontas elizabeth
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warren what was she like 117th native american or something i thought she didn't turn out to have
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any oh maybe not at all indigenous ancestry yeah that was my understanding but the point here being
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the reason they're imposing this restriction around a dallas versus a mindset on you
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is so that you cannot recognize what they are doing to you and so that the people who they victimize
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most cannot fight back that's the entire purpose of this so now we'll look at the arguments that
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they use against us versus a mindset to point out that they are fairly stupid arguments so
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over simplification and binary thinking it reduces complex issues to good verse evil right verse wrong
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ignoring nuances for instance people tend to excuse flaws of their own group attributing them to external
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factors while blaming inherent traits for the same issues in out groups this can escalate minor
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disagreements into full-blown divisions as seen in political polarization where one side defies itself
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and demonizes the other sorry deifies itself and demonizes the other and i'm like i don't think
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that that's true at all the the opposite political party is genuinely i think pretty vile right now like i i
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don't see that much i'm like redeeming when we attack them we attack them because of what they are attempting
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to accomplish and what they say they want which is a a racially segregated society like i don't think that
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that's a good thing a racially segregated society was jews at the bottom i think that maybe we've seen
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this before and it is bad and it makes sense to be like ah them that they're doing the thing the thing they've done
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before we need to stop this presumably not a great thing no it's so funny like the the freaking bizarre
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like the same people we know like educated productive people they'll like share stuff with us that is
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obviously made up about things that's like happening in gaza right now and i'm like you you can tell this
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is obviously fake right like you you know this is fake and no they they won't like the the the tendency
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to want to see jews in the most negative possible light i think is incredibly high across populations
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in part because well that's a whole other video i'm not gonna get too far into that but but i will
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say that we've seen this before like i i find it crazy that was in my lifetime i remember walking
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through london at night i don't go out at night and seeing an angry very large mob shouting you know
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from the river to the sea marching through the streets and and very explicitly anti-semitic things
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and then seeing you know death death to the idf and stuff like that at the end the the concert this
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giant concerts giant crowd of progressives seeing this death death to the idf death death to the idf
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hell yeah from the river to the sea so just in case you forgot the idf is a mandatory conscription
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service for all people of a certain age in israel so when you say death to the idf or at least all
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jews of a certain age you're saying death to the jews when you say from the river to the sea that is
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the entire land of israel you were saying you want to eradicate all of the jews in their homeland
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so people could be like oh well you know you shouldn't lump this group in as evil and i'm like
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they're trying to divide us into an ethnic caste system which is at the bottom like maybe we do
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need to treat this seriously right and they they do directly oppose the interests of individuals like
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myself i mean anybody who is a white male in our existing economy knows very well that there are
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many jobs you just can't apply to anymore i mean i remember being told really destroying sort of my
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life's dream my life's dream was to become a professor at stanford and at their business school
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right and so i got my mba and i i i did classes there and i did all of the steps the the career
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paths i went down the going into vc and private equity through the path of a search fund was the
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number one most common pass for the professors at the university yeah i went down it with that as my
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intention and so one day i'm talking with the professor he's a very and he goes oh well you
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know obviously this is off the books but there is a ban on hiring white perfect white male professors
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right now through through anything other there was one pathway that they could be hired if they went
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through the traditional academic pathway but not through the becoming a good business person or a
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well-known public intellectual pathway and i was just like well that sucks i think people can you
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know emphasize this because they've seen it in shows and stuff like that but to actually have it happen
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in your own life to work your entire life to follow all the rules to achieve your dream job and then be
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told i'm sorry actually this was never really available to people who were born with your skin tone
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is incredibly disheartening and people can be like oh well now we're just doing it to to you what
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you guys did to us and it's like my ancestors never did this to you my ancestors fought and died so that
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you could be free and equal you know as as i've mentioned of the founding members of the free state of
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jones 15 of the 50 were either kids of or siblings of my direct ancestors um you know you
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you you have just flopped the roles you are acting evil and there is a reason why we are trying to destroy
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this system also we we know young college grads who've just come out and been told again off the record listen
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we just can't you don't even try like we don't hire people of your ethnic group yeah like hey i think
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you're you know a nice guy you look hard working don't bother i don't want you to waste your time
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because it's going to waste your time that's so sad yeah and whites need not apply no i mean it's it's a
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common thing like it's it's it's a and the people who say this isn't a common thing i i like i'm actually
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sort of baffled are they living in a different reality like do they not have well i mean i could
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see like maybe in a midwestern agricultural you know farming world that there aren't these same
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quotas based on identity people are just hiring practically and they're absolutely hiring immigrants
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and they're absolutely hiring locals like they're just hiring actually based on you know availability
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merit like if they're willing to do the work i i do think that we're mostly talking about honestly
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the jobs that are first going to be automated away by ai those white collar knowledge worker
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middle management desk jobs so it's almost a moot point at this point anyway and i almost feel like
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to a certain extent young white men have been given an advantage because they have been forced out of
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these jobs before they cease to exist and they are ahead of everyone else and figuring out alternative
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revenue streams and careers that are not going to be on the chopping block of ai instead and this is
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why i said i think for example like women and other people who have a disproportionate advantage in
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large bureaucracies in these middle management roles in large companies are going to be extra screwed by
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the ai revolution so yeah maybe maybe it was a good thing you know yeah i mean it's it's like if you
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have a group that is very obviously being discriminated against within a social order or by a cultural
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system the most effective thing you can do is to villainize creating a pan cultural identity imagine
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if during segregation for example they had culturally villainized building a sort of pan black identity
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in the same way that they culturally villainize any sort of like pan white identity within a modern
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context or or even like minority white like we often i don't identify as white as much as i identify as
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greater appalachian or backwoods cultural tradition or puritan cultural tradition both of which i'm
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descended from you're here i think it's similar i mean we've talked about this many times about how
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we think that the the concept of i mean at least now having spent more time working in latin america
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working with people from various latin american like especially south american countries seeing this
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concept of being latino or latina or latin latin latinx the worst of all in the united states is being so
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insensitive because they're like dude i'm not latina or hispanic i'm like colombian i'm brazilian
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they're trying to force them into this larger group but i you know what bothers me though
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that yeah and they are trying to force them into this larger group what i don't get is when white
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people themselves are like i'm white when i'm like i don't i don't yeah like i'm like i'm like you
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i see myself as a specific subculture that may be predominantly white but like more has to do with
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you know a specific european geographic region or more likely just a cultural subculture well i mean
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the reason why it does make sense for white to all just be one thing well no no no but for people to
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attempt to build identity around this or community around this is because that is a shared reason for
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their discrimination in the same way that like gay people and trans people really have very little
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in common and probably should not be in the same bucket the reason why each group was discriminated
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against historically was largely the same reason oh because you're not x you're not hetero right so
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whether whether i'm of the backwoods tradition or i'm a white catholic or i'm a white you know like
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cavalier descendant regardless of that all of these groups are being discriminated against by the same
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individuals and so when they're attempting to band together to sort of work towards any form of real
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equal playing field they and i love people can be like how can you say there's an equal playing field
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and these groups are making more money than these groups and i'm like well i mean there's groups that
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out earn us in an equal playing field like i note that japanese immigrants had everything taken from
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them and now they're out earning white people fairly well that's what i was thinking when when
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we were talking about this too is how like japanese people jews you know these have been
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groups that have faced systemic and long-term discrimination and it has made them sharper in many
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ways so are white men really screwed if they're now being discriminated against maybe not i mean
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that's a good point and you're forcing them to create their own companies and and find independent
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sources of income is also going to make it easier to create larger families yeah especially at higher
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levels of wealth which we're actually seeing in the statistics i've pointed out many times that black
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americans for example have the lowest fertility rate of all ethnic groups in the united states by a
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significant margin when they're not in the bottom 20 20 of black income okay so next reason here it says
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to not create this prejudice and discrimination by categorizing people into rigid groups it fosters
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exclusion stereotypes and even dehumanization this can manifest in everyday settings like workplaces
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where teams develop an us versus them dynamic that stifles creativity and collaboration in some cases
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it contributes to violence and systemic bias such as policing where offices view their role as a battle
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against the bad guy or officers view their role as a battle and i'm like but like that's already
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happening like if you're a group that is already being discriminated against attempting to be like
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hey we should work together like that's what do you mean but in addition to this the idea of of
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prejudice or stereotypes more broadly like stereotypes are a useful thing in terms of interacting with the
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world people are different like diversity would have no value if everyone was exactly the same if every
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human was interchangeable with every other human then there would be no point to diversity to begin with
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so because that's the case because well doesn't the rivalry also breed healthy competition in a way
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that makes everyone stronger yeah and i will note here when i say diversity is and i agree with what you
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just said there that rivalry helps make everyone stronger competition helps make everyone stronger
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that's part of why capitalism produces so much more economic thriving than other economic systems
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but god what was the point i was going to make before i'm sorry for interrupting you
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oh yes the stereotypes are very important because they're real right like you you can build behavioral
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patterns of specific groups and make predictions based on those behavioral patterns but even more than that
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through those patterns you can build a sense of identity like the stereotypes of your own group help you build
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a sense of identity when we look to build a sense of identity for our family we look to the historic
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you know backwards cultural tradition and the puritan cultural tradition the calvinist cultural tradition
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tradition because that's who we are um and so i i i can't you know like if if those groups weren't
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different from other groups in some way we wouldn't be able to learn from them right like i point out to
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many people and we go into more detail on this in the pragmatist guide to life you know the pragmatist
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guide to relationships i want to say or govern no i don't know which one i with this was my no
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crafting religion is where we go into it that a good example of historic like a calvinist
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a puritan stereotypes if you're not familiar with what they were comes from the ebenezer scrooge
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character that was definitely religion yeah which is very much just and and these are a bunch of
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negative caricatures but that doesn't mean that i can't learn from them and develop something from
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them i think when many people have a sense of ethnic or cultural pride many of the things you take pride in
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are otherwise framed negatively by other people yeah like scrooge was known as incredibly tight
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with money didn't heat the house in the winter very you know all all the same with us didn't you
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know was logical in the way he distributed his his wealth he didn't give it to an employee just because
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they were closer to him but he did donate to local shelters it was made very clear and saved money for
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that you know so why does this person tiny tim deserve more from him than the community at large just
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because he's more adjacent to him you know we often note that the entire story is sort of a corrective
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grape fantasy of the calvinist stereotypes of that time period and and i read it i'm just like scrooge was
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right scrooge was right from the beginning man stop being so indulgent you need to learn to be more
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frugal you know it's eight mush every day but the point is stereotypes broadly speaking as a society
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are more beneficial than they are negative well and people of specific groups who appear to have a
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lot of pride in their groups are the the ones i see roasting their own groups the most you know there's
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there's enjoyment of the making fun of of your own stereotypes you see this a lot with mormon culture
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you see this with every culture i mean look at like comedians bits this is just how it goes well i
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mean and within the urban monoculture you are very much allowed to make stereotypes about white men
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there are so many stereotypes that the urban monoculture will say about white men they'll
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even shout like kill white men and people won't lose their job over this that i mean if that's not
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a sign of an extreme level of racial and gender oppression normalized within a culture then everybody
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knows like kill hetero white men like this is a thing that is said frequently in environments like
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tumblr and x and blue sky right i'm sure we've gotten it as a reply to like our tweets before
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right along with a set of stereotypes i would rather just normalize stereotypes for everyone
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instead of have it be they say oh we need to ban people making fun of white men because that's
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that's illogical right yeah i mean i'm all for everyone being made fun of come on let's have let's have fun
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there is though i would point out because there's a little bit of hypocrisy in all this
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a very mainstream means of us versus them mentality that is celebrated long-standing full of creativity
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and no one's complaining about it i mean sometimes it leads to property damage and vandalism
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and occasional riots but it's still not only a celebrated and time-honored tradition around the
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world but a a huge source of industry and capitalistic profit do you know what i'm talking about sports yes
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sports rivalries are amazing but it's funny and i mean there's the the mascot stealing the vandalism
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did you know about the harvard versus yale we suck card stunt it's one of my favorite examples of a
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yale students posed as as harvard prep squad people they they distributed in this in this role
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placards to harvard fans claiming that they would spell out go harvard you know how like you know
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audiences in a big stadium will put up cards but then when displayed the cards actually spelled we
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suck which is just delightful like i it's a rival like people love these rivalries and that what i
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love about this too is it shows how you can have big time us versus them mentality and like actually do
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some i mean that was an innocent prank but there have been like there there have been riots there have
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there have been fights there it gets intense and yet everyone's ultimately playing the same
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game the rivalries sharpen teams against each other they motivate fun i mean why why can't we have
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ethnic rivalries that i mean maybe without the riots in the city maybe without the riots yeah maybe
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without the vandalism i mean you know what would be really fun actually oh my god ethnic based sports
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teams in the u.s no no because there are too many like ethnic specializations the ethnic specializations
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yeah so then i mean i mean i don't know if it's like universal i don't know everybody wouldn't even
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wouldn't even care like everyone knows the black teams win every year and so it's for the second
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spot that you're fighting that's sweet yeah or would it just become too obvious too quickly that like
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this is actually the order of ethnicities was in this sport in terms of competence yeah yeah i think
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yeah it's it's a little better when there's a shot at excellence i mean of course though that would
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do so well as a show i had a reality show i would do that i would i would you you know how they had
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that one reality show where they divided the teams into women versus men and it did really
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it was like a survival style or was it just survivor it into like self-sabotage and like hating
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each other almost immediately and the male team was like all broey and just as like hey let's figure
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out how to fish let's figure out how to hunt let's build a shelter and the women were just and they had
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to end up like bailing out the female team so put that together but divide people based on ethnic group
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it would go so viral it would go so viral yes you'd get a bunch of complaints at the studio
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but it would go so viral and i i feel like people would tune in just to be like would you watch it
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would you be like imagine imagine if you could even like team korean or something like have your little
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flag and everything i mean yeah i mean we kind of do it with the olympics you just want to see it on
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you know some other well no because it's cheating i mean the u.s wins the olympics was was like i i
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want to see it based on immigrant groups like like specific ethno cultural groups right right because
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like the usa also just attracts the best talent from all the other countries and then it gets to be
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like oh usa wins when it's oh yeah usa wins because no if you win the olympics for some other country
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at like running or something you say it's like okay come here run for us right yeah yeah you'll be able to
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eat yeah it's true yeah you you sort of have like maybe two people from ultimately the same
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genetic lineage being first and second place but like usa wins because i i never understand sports
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because so much of it is just genetics it's like why are you see that's why that's why we need the
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what's his name who's doing the the like ride rage version of the olympics what does oh yeah we
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we had on our podcast like the olympics but with steroids yeah what did you call them there's
00:27:35.920
something games or something but anyway it's gonna be happening apparently well it was supposed to
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happen this summer i wonder if it's already happened well let's see steroid steroid olympics okay i'll go to
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the next one amplification in modern society media games sorry so what what happened did it happen
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looks like it's been moved to may 2026 hmm gotta give people time to get all hyped up on their
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i mean to get the right regimen it takes a while you gotta let's do it right let's do it right okay
00:28:09.760
with that i want kid fights like that ABC piece that had our kids fighting and you're like every day
00:28:15.600
is hunger games in our house i actually would not mind just put sock and boppers on kids set them after
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each other in like a field i mean our kids caged in the crib this is like a joke but i used to go
00:28:28.720
to rodeos as a kid in like rural texas well they don't do that no no the kids are still doing well
00:28:34.160
you have the the cattle the cattle what they do is before the show they release a cow like a calf
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that like runs around or like a pig i think they do in some environments and all of the kids run around
00:28:48.080
in the mud which is like where the the horses are going to be doing their thing and try to catch it
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and and it's it's a very aggressive sort of a thing and i want more of that i i find that more
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entertaining than the rodeo just just more you just want the hunger games you just want tributes
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i do why can't i have the hunger games this is all this is this is clearly unfair the way society is
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structured people would volunteer 100 people would volunteer amplification in modern society
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media and social platforms exploit this for engagement turning differences into threats and
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eroding trust well hold on if they are actively targeting a group that you're in
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that's that's saying you should still trust them even when they target you
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that's a really effed up thing to be telling somebody it can create self-fulfilling prophecies
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where perceived divisions become real ones worsening problems like climate denial or social unrest
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it's like this is what's true and what you believe isn't true and anybody who's a climate denialist
00:29:55.520
they're in this other camp i love even in the ai's answer it creates the other but i recently saw
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a reddit post about this where somebody was like i can't believe you know my grandmother
00:30:07.360
who raised me posted this and it was a meme about how a guy who had gotten a degree at like a
00:30:14.000
fancy university in philosophy was about to have his power shut off by somebody who's earning a lot
00:30:20.160
more and had gotten like an associate's degree from in like electronics right like fixing fixing
00:30:24.960
like it's an electrician basically just being like hey this is the path you want to take and
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they're like oh they're right trying to turn the working class against each other and it's like
00:30:34.640
what this guy was a philosophy degree is the working class who's working as a as a associate
00:30:41.600
professor he is not the working class but you have identified him as such because you are trying to
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identify the blue collar workers as being not a group you are victimizing but the same type of
00:30:52.960
people as yourself when they are not the same type of people as yourself yeah that's messed up
00:30:57.120
this is what i'm talking about here when they're like amplification modern society that social media are
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you know as you turn this to create group divides they want to hide that these group divides are real
00:31:09.920
and exacerbated by their side right like and this is the thing about us versus them and why it is so
00:31:17.840
threatening to the urban monoculture because the us if you look at the new right coalition you know
00:31:22.960
you've got like the tech right like us who are you know like pro-gay marriage pro all sorts of things
00:31:28.960
that the right no longer opposes as like a mainstream party you know i would support you know abortion
00:31:34.160
at the level of like you know within the first few days but but i would support like stricter
00:31:40.320
abortion access and it's available in any state right now or in most states right now certainly my own
00:31:46.000
state so like my interests all align with the republican party's interests you know i i may not support like
00:31:53.280
forcing a christian education on everyone but i do want to get the weird trans stuff out of schools
00:31:59.200
which is what they're actually fighting for at like a government level right now right so like my
00:32:04.800
interests are perfectly overlapping with their interests right now and so even though we're very
00:32:10.320
diverse and this was actually shown in a graph that came out if you look at the perspectives within
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the modern conservative party it's like this giant circle right now yeah because with the modern
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democratic party it's this very very very tight circle yeah we did an episode on this like the
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spider webs they look like spider webs did we ever publish that episode yeah i think we did yeah but
00:32:29.360
the us versus them but saying oh you can't create an us versus them dynamic basically makes it so that you
00:32:35.360
can't ally with people who are different from you because when i say us versus them or i'm talking
00:32:40.240
in us versus them concept the us on my side includes like traditionalist christians and orthodox jews
00:32:49.280
and amish and i think the funny thing though is when you look within the new right and you see
00:32:55.280
all these different subgroups one the left tries to frame it as oh it's fractured and it can barely
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hold together and actually we are all no we're very friendly but there is a little bit of that friendly
00:33:07.840
sports team type rivalry there actually is us in them i would argue you know like the catholics
00:33:13.280
like yeah you guys are going to hell for ivf and we're like yeah you guys are kind of going for hell
00:33:16.400
for not you know like you're killing kids by not and for people who don't understand what she means
00:33:21.120
by saying that is we think that you are morally responsible for the differences in the timeline
00:33:25.440
that your choices create yeah so if you make a choice that prevents the human being who otherwise
00:33:30.480
come to exist from coming to exist you have functionally killed that human being regardless
00:33:34.640
if that happened before the egg was fertilized or not and we have very animated but genial and and fun in
00:33:41.920
in that very like sports rivalry style debates with these different groups who and they express
00:33:48.400
pride in their view and we express pride in our view and we but we still talk and in exchange and i do
00:33:54.800
think that like weirdly the us versus them rivalry that is functional is within the new the new right and
00:34:01.680
a really good example of toxic us versus them mentality uh is is between the right and the left maybe the
00:34:09.120
issue is that us versus them only works when there's exchange and if there isn't then it becomes toxic
00:34:14.960
what do you think what do you mean exchange collaboration interplay commerce yeah on our
00:34:23.120
my little pony episode that's sort of what we show right like the pegasus and the unicorns and the earth
00:34:28.640
ponies all may be different in their capacities but that doesn't mean they can't be friends and work
00:34:32.080
together towards a common outcome against groups that are genuinely opposed to all of their interests
00:34:38.880
and and that's what we're dealing with today you know in this episode i've talked about like why
00:34:42.400
would diversity have any value if people aren't really different and while i believe diversity
00:34:46.160
is a thing of value the analogy i use is this like ingredients it has value like not not in an
00:34:51.760
absolute sense a meal isn't better because it has more diversity if you have more ingredients
00:34:56.080
it's the right mix of ingredients to create a dish and a chef is better off for more ingredients
00:35:01.200
existing in the world but you don't need them here in my backyard right and i think that
00:35:06.400
what we create when we have an us and this is what's really dangerous is the clear thing about
00:35:11.920
us versus them is us versus them rarely creates the us around just your cultural group right when us
00:35:19.920
versus them thinking happens most frequently it's because the us is combining multiple groups into
00:35:26.000
a dish instead of just one group of versus them like the urban monoculture doesn't need us versus
00:35:32.160
them thinking because there's a right way of doing things and there's a wrong way of doing things and
00:35:36.800
our way of doing things is the right way you know i.e like the ai being like well you wouldn't want them
00:35:41.680
not to believe in man-made global climate change right when you know if you actually look at the data
00:35:46.720
there is some reasons to doubt this and and the people who doubt it aren't like crazy or anything
00:35:51.520
this is something that i think we should genuinely be talking about but they they won't do that they're just
00:35:56.320
like these people are stupid savages don't listen to them but when you get into us versus them thinking
00:36:02.800
what's really happening is you're building a coalition because i'm saying us isn't just people
00:36:07.920
like me and with my views it's people who are opposed to the them and you are the them
00:36:18.000
because you're the one who has chosen like a great example is latin americans right like for latin
00:36:23.280
americans have us versus them thinking they would have all latin american community they'd be like
00:36:26.560
we're we're different we're different cultures we have different stereotypes about us i.e we're
00:36:31.760
different in many ways but we take pride in that and we work together against those who would
00:36:38.320
collectively disadvantage us because of this central reason right and and that creates us versus them so
00:36:47.200
i think that us versus them is actually almost sort of necessary to live a moral life and protect
00:36:51.920
yourself unless you just are lucky enough to be born into or have cowardly enough to have converted
00:36:57.680
into the dominant cultural group within a region
00:37:03.280
perhaps yeah yeah i don't know i i think though with the rise of ai as demographic collapse plays out
00:37:10.800
as we see dependency ratio cascades undermine governments and more centralized run societies more
00:37:18.800
centrally run societies we are going to see as we keep saying the rise of techno feudalism we're
00:37:25.360
going to see more balkanization of culture and communities and i think we're going to see more us versus them
00:37:32.720
mentality and what i hope that we'll see is us versus them mentality in the context of trade commerce
00:37:40.080
healthy rivalry competition exchange and you know learning from each other um instead of
00:37:47.840
this a form of balkanization that leads to raids and attempted annihilation and genocide
00:37:55.520
so i think this is a really important subject and i think people should be thinking strategically about how
00:38:00.800
how they with their community or their culture or their religion contextualize and work with others
00:38:08.000
you can look at how i mean jews that have been victimized for so long nevertheless work do commerce with
00:38:16.320
other cultures i mean they're very strategic about how they i guess exchange with the larger world
00:38:22.080
and how they like where they lean in with just their own communities but i think these are things that
00:38:27.920
people should be thinking about and there's definitely a way to do this right and those there's a way to
00:38:31.520
do this really to your detriment to the world's detriment to humanity's detriment well i love you
00:38:39.600
to death simone you're a very special lady do you have any final thoughts on why we need to
00:38:45.760
i mean it's not just us versus them thinking which is good it's stereotypes which are good like
00:38:49.760
how you watch a show that celebrates the culture like i think a show that does a very
00:38:54.560
good job of celebrating colombian culture is what's that latest where that recent disney show oh is that
00:39:00.240
colombian culture colombian culture yeah it specifically takes place in colombia does oh so
00:39:05.840
you you watch the show right it's all stereotypes but stereotypes are good that's what we take pride in
00:39:14.160
you know i'm from the the the redneck like in puritan cultural groups a bunch of stereotypes
00:39:19.040
that's that's what cultural pride is it's having pride in the stereotypes about your people
00:39:24.720
yeah like i said like if you if you look at all the the comedic roastings of different groups that
00:39:29.600
they're performed by people of those groups and they're amazing culture attempts to eradicate
00:39:35.040
your ability to even see your group within stereotypes because remember they don't just hate the quote
00:39:40.080
unquote negative stereotypes they hate the positive ones too like asians being good at math they're
00:39:44.640
karate or something like that right like all of these you you can't have any of these and when
00:39:49.440
they do that what they're actually erasing is your ability to have pride in the ways that you are
00:39:55.040
different from other people true yeah the only thing that you can be proud of is the extent to which
00:39:59.440
you assimilate with a culture that is it is very artificial not when they remove all of those sources
00:40:06.240
of pride they then say so so you're like what i can't be proud of anything and it's like well you can
00:40:10.720
be proud of what you're attracted to what what gives you pleasure hedonism right like that works
00:40:15.600
and then you and then you get sucked into the culture right like it's a very effective strategy
00:40:19.920
they they shame any pride you have in your cultural stereotypes be they positive or negative
00:40:24.800
you know i and i and people know i take pride and boast within my culture i often talk about the
00:40:29.200
violent nature of the backwoods people you know scooping out sharpening their fingernails to scoop
00:40:33.920
out people's eyeballs right like they're they're they're there there's many i don't actually i don't think
00:40:39.120
any group today has a stereotype that negatively violent but and i'm and i'm like that's and cool
00:40:45.040
man but the point i'm making here i'm sure people will come up with ideas it's removing your ability
00:40:52.160
to have pride in yourself is what they're removing when they they remove stereotypes they don't say that
00:40:57.280
this is what they're doing but it's functioning what they're doing and no no grand conspirator came up
00:41:02.080
with this it's just the groups that adopted these beliefs had an easier time converting people into
00:41:06.800
it because they erased your ability to have pride in this and then they said but you can still have
00:41:12.080
pride in in in why right and we have a parade for you it's called the pride parade come on join it
00:41:23.840
anyway i think a lot of these things will change
00:41:25.920
i'll make you potstickers for dinner you know i'd love potstickers tonight and unless you want pizza
00:41:33.200
because i'm doing an oven night everything else is going to be in the oven tonight pizza pizza pizza
00:41:37.760
you want karai on your pizza put on the top of it just surprise you with indian spices
00:41:44.400
yes and msg and of course msg i do not know how americans went so long making pizza without msg
00:41:52.800
what were they thinking well and with cutting it with that what is this pizza wheel nonsense when you
00:41:59.120
just can get a pair of scissors for the love for the love yeah i just your experience in korea
00:42:05.840
i feel like the most valuable thing that i've taken away from it personally
00:42:08.960
is the scissors i love the scissors for food cutting for food cutting yeah i know i know but
00:42:17.280
i love that yeah i saw that in korea brilliant yeah it changed everything all right i love you to
00:42:23.120
that's the mom your great wife a very very good wife um a good husband i honestly you're so good
00:42:29.520
i'm not even going to beat you today oh what a shame did we get did we get too close to saying that
00:42:37.200
somebody having pride in being white is okay in this episode
00:42:45.200
too close comment no we didn't say that by the way i i think it's horrible i think anyone who has
00:42:49.920
white pride is a horrible disgusting human being well i just think it's it's weird because
00:42:58.560
what is well no you should have pride in your specific group but understand that there might be a
00:43:03.280
larger alliance of groups that are being victimized for the same reason you're victimized
00:43:07.680
uh i mean when somebody denies me a job they're not doing it because i'm from the backwoods cultural
00:43:12.160
tradition from the puritan cultural tradition they're doing it because of the color of my skin
00:43:16.880
yeah okay okay yeah that's helping me to better understand this and the the whole latinx concept i mean like
00:43:28.000
look the catholics used to burn my ancestors at the stake right like we don't have a history of an
00:43:33.680
alliance but right now i mean yeah i think in general i may be wrong about this but probably
00:43:39.120
the vast majority of violence that has been subject to any particular ethnic or cultural group has been
00:43:44.080
from people within those groups the call is normally coming from inside the house so yeah the the intergroup
00:43:53.040
hate is widely covered but not the big source of the problem so all right love you to death
00:44:01.760
simone bye malcolm i'll call you when you're starting oh we're gonna do a mix of potstickers right
00:44:07.040
some veggies i thought we're doing pizza we can do pizza oh yeah pizza not potstickers get the pizza
00:44:12.400
yeah i'm gonna i'm gonna make a little bit of like sacrificial freezer mystery chicken as well
00:44:17.680
because i think you're just no no no no you're gonna want to throw it away well then should i just
00:44:22.640
feed it directly to the chickens without no no just what are you did you already defrost it
00:44:28.400
then do it tomorrow just you're not gonna want to eat it though anyway so i'm just like i don't want
00:44:33.520
you to over feed me i hate when you make dishes that are too big because you just want one quarter
00:44:38.160
of a pizza that's so little food i don't want that much food okay okay look simone if you if you are
00:44:45.280
going to do it then do it and do the rice and everything like that no i'm not gonna do the rice
00:44:49.440
no i was just gonna i'll save the chicken for another night i guess but i'll go with the pot
00:44:54.720
stickers yeah i'm imposing my pregnancy mindset on you i'm ravenous can i do a third of pizza instead
00:45:03.680
of a quarter oh you want more a third but not a quarter not not half half is too big okay yeah at
00:45:10.400
least then i don't feel like i'm well i'm also doing sourdough would you just like fresh sourdough
00:45:13.840
with jam instead of a third of a pizza this sourdough is oh yeah sourdough with jam is great
00:45:22.560
oh can you put cheese on top of it i would have to cut it and then toast it but i can totally do that
00:45:29.920
no no no no then just the pizza and the sourdough is jam if you maybe a bit more than a quarter but
00:45:35.920
not a full third and that's what i'm having tonight that was a sourdough sounds good great love you i love
00:45:42.560
you too sexy women with zebra face paint hanging in golden cages to figure out what to do
00:45:54.080
what create that makes sense fun we'll see i'm just yeah i i think i've watched the what does the fox
00:46:03.440
say with her children so many times that i just whenever they love this video then what does the
00:46:12.000
yeah you know what does the fox say that that's like their favorite song of all time that's why
00:46:17.600
they all want fox plushies that's why they all want to dress up like foxes that's why indies
00:46:23.040
words are naming naming naming naming that's where the fox plushie came from i should have known
00:46:28.640
well i mean the fox plushie came from from steven minka but they loved it because it's the fox
00:46:36.000
and what does the fox say what does well they know what the it is a great children's song now that i
00:46:41.040
think about it you know it's funny that it became popular as like a song for adults but like it's
00:46:44.560
more of a children's song oh i mean and indy loves it is she's like learning words because it's very
00:46:50.160
like i said like her she she'll just like randomly be like ning ning ning ning ning ning ning yeah she speaks
00:46:56.560
fox she can she can speak at fox she speaks human yeah but no really she's a pokemon because her
00:47:02.000
first actual real words are indy indy she points to herself indy she won't say mommy you are trying
00:47:12.560
to my mom sorry my wife tried to get her to understand who she is and so she'd point to indy
00:47:19.600
and she go indy mommy daddy she can get indy and no one else yeah it's not mommy or daddy first
00:47:28.320
actually that's kind of wild because like mama and dad are supposed to be like easy words for kids
00:47:32.160
to say yeah no first no very clearly her first word is her own name and she knows exactly what
00:47:39.440
she's talking about there's no ambiguity she'll never say pointing at anything but herself it's
00:47:45.760
amazing oh oh i like that that's the same kid i want to raise come on cried man yeah people like
00:47:55.040
how could you name your daughter industry whenever i i post a some like instagram photo that has her in
00:48:01.440
it or something and i mentioned you named your child industry she seems pretty happy about it
00:48:08.320
people yeah she seems she seems to dig it all of our kids like their names to be honest because i
00:48:13.120
asked them i'm like you would you want another name and they're like no this is no yeah next one
00:48:19.520
get a good old-fashioned american name it's good all right