Candace Owens - She Said The N-Word And Went Viral ｜ Candace Ep 39

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00:00:29.740 We try to bring you an interview, a discussion, something different.

00:00:33.360 And you guys remember the N-word girl.

00:00:35.480 That's the moniker that everyone has given her because it's a white girl that dropped the N-word. 1.00

00:00:39.400 Can white girls do that these days? 1.00

00:00:40.920 I don't know.

00:00:41.680 You be the judge.

00:00:42.820 But we are going to invite her in for a conversation.

00:00:45.660 So to jog your memory, her name is not, in fact, N-word girl.

00:00:49.020 It's actually Lily Gaddis.

00:00:50.760 And she jumped on the Internet cooking some chicken, and she had a bit of a rant. 0.61

00:00:55.820 Take a listen.

00:00:56.600 I'm sick and tired of all girls getting blamed, or, like, guys, certain guys,

00:01:03.180 thinking that all girls are gold diggers.

00:01:05.360 I don't know if it's because you get your information from those street interviews in, like, Miami at 3 a.m. outside of a nightclub. 1.00

00:01:14.940 You're getting the opinion of some dumb whores and immigrants fresh off the boat looking for a green card. 1.00

00:01:22.920 Yes, they are probably gold diggers, but that's the exception. 1.00

00:01:27.480 I'm the rule. 0.99

00:01:29.200 Everybody I know who's married right now, they're married to broke-ass niggas. 1.00

00:01:34.340 Um, and they don't care. 0.99

00:01:37.500 We don't give a f*** about your money. 0.98

00:01:39.460 I couldn't care less about your f***ing money, okay? 0.99

00:01:41.760 My type is broke mechanics and surfer hippie dudes who just want to live in a shack and surf and have babies. 0.99

00:01:49.700 All I ask of a man is that you're competent, you're, um, you're not a p***y. 1.00

00:01:57.700 If somebody broke into our house at 3 a.m., you would know how to grab a gun and shoot a m***h. 1.00

00:02:03.500 And shoot a m***h. 1.00

00:02:04.560 I don't know, I think that's actually very funny, the end there. 0.99

00:02:06.920 What did you guys think?

00:02:07.740 Do you agree with her?

00:02:08.600 Is she totally out of line for dropping the n-word?

00:02:10.520 Is it totally fine that she said it because everyone says it these days in that context?

00:02:15.180 And I guess the biggest question is, does she actually have a point?

00:02:18.920 Are most women not like the women that we're seeing online? 1.00

00:02:22.660 That's what we have coming up for you on Candace. 0.98

00:02:25.040 All right, guys, so she definitively has a potty mouth. 1.00

00:02:42.900 That's what I'm going to term it.

00:02:44.180 But she's also got some good points, I think.

00:02:45.780 And I'd like to hear more from her.

00:02:46.900 She just kind of became an internet sensation.

00:02:49.840 And now she's speaking a little bit about politics.

00:02:51.540 And I just genuinely wanted to know more about Lily Gattis.

00:02:54.840 She's 25 years old.

00:02:56.140 Lily, welcome to The Candace Show.

00:02:58.820 Thank you so much.

00:02:59.920 I'm so happy to be here.

00:03:01.740 So I was just asking you offline, but I guess my first question is,

00:03:04.980 how has it been finding internet fame when your first video goes viral?

00:03:08.720 What are you going through?

00:03:09.860 Tell us.

00:03:10.900 It's kind of strange.

00:03:12.660 You know, you all hear about the same things that happen to people,

00:03:15.620 the doxing, the haters and all that.

00:03:18.540 But you don't really understand it until it actually happens to you.

00:03:21.840 So I think it's definitely very interesting.

00:03:23.820 I've gotten to where I kind of like muted out now, so it doesn't really bother me.

00:03:27.340 But, you know, it's a lot at first.

00:03:29.780 As anyone who's gone through this, as you would know,

00:03:32.180 as anyone else would know who's gone through this.

00:03:34.640 It's a lot.

00:03:35.460 That's for sure.

00:03:36.540 What has been the most difficult part of internet fame?

00:03:40.560 I would say the conspiracies.

00:03:42.740 And like when people get it so wrong and I'm sitting here listening,

00:03:45.460 I'm like, no, it's so wrong.

00:03:47.140 You don't even know what you're talking about.

00:03:48.920 It never goes away, by the way.

00:03:50.820 I read a conspiracy about myself.

00:03:52.460 I've learned to enjoy them and appreciate them.

00:03:54.060 And I'll like send them around to my family.

00:03:55.520 But I read a conspiracy theory the other day that my husband was Jewish.

00:03:59.280 And that was news to me.

00:04:00.440 I was very excited.

00:04:01.340 I said, oh, this is great.

00:04:02.200 Or I guess like, and then sometimes I'll respond to them.

00:04:05.100 And I'm like, can you just show me the website where you're getting this information from?

00:04:08.480 Because I would just love to read it.

00:04:10.720 So I do want to talk about your video because it did make a bit of a splash.

00:04:14.160 First and foremost, for two reasons was because you said the N-word.

00:04:17.420 I'm a person that actually believes.

00:04:19.000 Don't put it in the music if people can't say it.

00:04:21.380 And you obviously were not directing it at a black person.

00:04:23.720 You were saying it in the context that everyone says it in their music.

00:04:26.800 So I had no issues with it at all.

00:04:28.940 But the more important part of your video was, I think, the main point that you were delivering

00:04:33.160 is that the internet is not real life.

00:04:35.840 Like women are not all what you see on OnlyFans and what you see on your Instagram page. 1.00

00:04:40.220 So I'd like to know what motivated the video?

00:04:42.180 What made you suddenly jump up and do a, what I'm going to term a Candace or a Kanye rant?

00:04:46.600 And what were you, yeah, what was your mindset and what did you want people to get from it?

00:04:51.620 So I had been arguing with my brothers that whole day about this because they were like,

00:04:56.340 no, girls are just like whatever because they listen to these interviews like everyone else, 1.00

00:05:00.600 the street interviews that kind of definitely, they're digging from the bottom of the barrel.

00:05:04.620 It's not like you're getting your best and your brightest.

00:05:07.300 And they were up there barbecuing and whatever.

00:05:09.980 So I was like, I went into the kitchen.

00:05:11.540 I started, you know, marinating some chicken wings to put on the grill.

00:05:14.960 And I was like, I got to make a video about this because I'm still pissed.

00:05:17.920 So I made a video about it, got flamed for my cooking skills.

00:05:23.620 And yeah, and I accidentally let a words about that.

00:05:27.360 I, you know, people say in a general sense, but yeah, it turned into something it was not

00:05:32.180 supposed to be, but yeah, it was basically just a backyard rant inspired by an angry argument

00:05:37.620 with my brothers.

00:05:38.640 Well, I would love to hear more about your family, actually, because I don't think many

00:05:41.180 people do know.

00:05:41.860 Where are you from?

00:05:42.960 I think I read online, I don't know if it's true, that you're also a mother.

00:05:46.380 How many siblings do you have?

00:05:48.120 Who actually is Lily Gaddis in her own words?

00:05:51.000 I would say I'm just like a, just kind of a normal Southern, you know, girl, went to

00:05:57.320 college like everybody else was raised.

00:05:59.380 I went, I was homeschooled for part of my high school years.

00:06:03.140 And then I finished off at a private school, had a big family, four brothers, had a lot

00:06:09.180 of fun, had horses and stuff.

00:06:10.820 So definitely like a country girl to a certain extent.

00:06:14.560 I'm from North Carolina originally.

00:06:16.580 We've moved around a whole lot though.

00:06:18.360 Um, and then I've kind of like landed back here, uh, love the beach.

00:06:22.820 So I have to be, you know, near there and I want to raise my son like on the beach as

00:06:26.380 well.

00:06:26.560 And yeah, I have a, I have a two-year-old as well.

00:06:28.840 Oh, amazing.

00:06:29.380 Okay.

00:06:29.700 So you have a two-year-old, you're a mom, and I guess that has to shape a lot of your

00:06:34.420 opinions.

00:06:34.780 I know it definitely changed me.

00:06:36.440 It's a seismic shift in your life when you become a parent.

00:06:39.240 And one of the things that concerns me is sort of the presentation of women that we do

00:06:45.040 see online.

00:06:45.860 How do you think that you are going to deal with that with your daughter?

00:06:50.880 Well, it's, it's just one of those things, you know, nobody's perfect, like bottom line.

00:06:54.520 And, and there's a lot of people who want to set themselves up to be perfect.

00:06:57.760 And then there's a lot of people that put their worst foot forward.

00:07:00.060 Like I usually do, cause I feel like it's better to not put yourself on a pedestal so

00:07:03.840 you can't get knocked down.

00:07:05.500 Um, but yeah, there's a lot of like, again, online is not real life.

00:07:09.500 We all know this, you know, they can, you can edit things to make things sound bad or

00:07:14.160 good or whatever.

00:07:15.120 So I think, I think there's a lot of, you know, people are struggling in this country,

00:07:19.020 just normal everyday working people are struggling and they're not the worst people.

00:07:23.380 They're not the only fans girls.

00:07:25.260 That's not all the girls in the world.

00:07:26.880 There's a lot of, like, I have a bunch of friends who are just good girls that went

00:07:30.080 through college.

00:07:30.820 They tried to do the best they could.

00:07:32.420 You know, they're trying to find good husbands and they're trying to raise kids. 1.00

00:07:36.680 So my whole point was, you know, just give a little grace cause we're not all terrible.

00:07:40.920 It's not everything you see on these, you know, like I said, at 3am outside of a nightclub,

00:07:45.300 you're not exactly getting the best of the best.

00:07:48.000 So yeah, there's, there's a lot of good people out there and I think they just, they're not

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00:08:56.520 of take the black pill, and then you kind of need to, like, come back to reality.

00:08:59.480 And even for me, when I was watching your video, I did have to check myself because it can,

00:09:03.600 you can become sort of terminally online.

00:09:06.360 And the conversations you're having, it's like, wait a second.

00:09:08.780 I have two sisters.

00:09:09.780 My sisters are married to totally regular people. 0.85

00:09:11.580 I mean, these girls that I'm seeing in OnlyFans, obviously, this is not who the regular person 0.99

00:09:16.040 is.

00:09:16.400 And I thought that was actually a really strong point that you delivered.

00:09:19.460 Unfortunately, you're on the internet.

00:09:20.560 There's going to be absolutely no grace afforded to you.

00:09:22.700 They're going to tear apart every piece of your life.

00:09:24.980 I already see people saying, she's a single mom. 0.56

00:09:27.500 You know, what does she know about conservatism?

00:09:29.600 So I wanted to give you a platform first and foremost to talk about that in a way that

00:09:33.380 you shouldn't feel attacked.

00:09:34.600 I think it's completely absurd, this idea that they want people held up on a pedestal.

00:09:38.800 They want to believe that their lives are perfect.

00:09:40.760 Life is complicated.

00:09:42.060 I have transformed so much, even from my positions, being a conservative in the public sphere,

00:09:46.980 the things that I have said have changed and people have a right to transform.

00:09:50.600 So how, I guess, how did you become a single mom?

00:09:52.500 Were you married in the past or are you married now?

00:09:55.840 What is your circumstance?

00:09:57.400 Right.

00:09:57.580 Well, it was just one of those things, you know, it was a bad relation gone awry and relationship

00:10:02.300 gone awry, unfortunately.

00:10:03.900 We're not together.

00:10:04.860 So I am, you know, single.

00:10:06.540 I've never been married, but it's just one of those things, you know, people make mistakes

00:10:10.240 and you want, you start out in life, like wanting to, I want to wait till marriage and

00:10:14.520 whatever, and then life happens and it's just doesn't work out, you know?

00:10:18.040 But I think the, like, I don't appeal to people who really have all their stuff together,

00:10:23.900 but I do appeal to middle America who, you know, they aren't perfect.

00:10:28.100 They have made mistakes and they're trying to do the best they can.

00:10:31.340 Because bottom line, I mean, even as a Christian, it's like, we're not perfect.

00:10:35.000 We're never going to be perfect.

00:10:36.200 That's why God had to come down and dial across for us, you know, ultimately.

00:10:39.920 So I think I can work be as a good funnel for just your normal middle America to get 0.93

00:10:45.440 into conservatism because I'm an easier person to relate with just because I'm not perfect,

00:10:50.700 you know, and I have had stuff go wrong.

00:10:52.640 And I can even be a voice for women who, you know, they do get pregnant and don't choose 0.99

00:10:56.800 abortion.

00:10:57.300 Like I have lots of people telling me, oh my gosh, just, just get an abortion.

00:11:00.620 Don't tell anybody else, you know, and that's an easy way out.

00:11:04.220 But I think, I think I'm happy that the way things have turned out the way they are.

00:11:08.340 It's not perfect, obviously, but I think I can appeal to a lot more people that way just

00:11:12.200 because, you know, it's, it's easy to relate to someone who hasn't had everything go light.

00:11:17.080 So if I can help bring middle America to, to conservative America, I think that would

00:11:22.780 be, you know, doing something good for the country.

00:11:25.460 Yeah.

00:11:25.860 And I do think that there is that conflict, you know, you, conservatives were, were pro-life,

00:11:29.700 but I started my life pro-choice just to be clear.

00:11:31.740 And I changed my mind later on.

00:11:33.100 And I knew girls that were getting abortions. 1.00

00:11:35.020 And it's funny because then you see someone who gets a platform accidentally, like you

00:11:39.240 quite accidentally got a platform.

00:11:40.980 This obviously went viral.

00:11:42.420 And then they, conservatives instantly hold your feet to the fire and be like, this is not

00:11:46.560 a conservative.

00:11:47.260 She has a child out of wedlock.

00:11:48.560 And it's like, wait a second.

00:11:49.460 But we also believe that you should choose life.

00:11:52.420 And we know that life is not perfect.

00:11:53.920 And there is this pressure that they instantly want you, or want to believe that you can

00:11:58.020 be, become perfect overnight if you have a platform.

00:12:00.120 And it's better to just be authentic about who you are and to give yourself the grace

00:12:03.740 to transform over the years.

00:12:04.960 And I find that to be problematic.

00:12:06.800 And I've tried to communicate that even to my own audiences, because I try to explain

00:12:11.100 to people, I would love if, I'll give a perfect example, I think Allie Stuckey's like 1.00

00:12:14.780 a perfect person.

00:12:15.860 Like her wife, she was from like a two-parent household.

00:12:18.180 I listened to her podcast.

00:12:19.200 She's got, she's talking about the Bible.

00:12:20.960 She's married.

00:12:21.540 She's got a husband that loves her. 1.00

00:12:22.580 But the reality is I would have never become a conservative if the first person I listened

00:12:26.160 to was Allie Stuckey.

00:12:27.480 And so I've tried to communicate to people, as someone who comes from a broken family,

00:12:32.700 my parents are divorced, that it's easier for men to listen to Andrew Tate, right, as

00:12:37.080 a starting point, because he's just going to be more relatable.

00:12:39.600 He's just going to be more relatable.

00:12:41.040 And he might, he's obviously not talking about family, and he's not talking about, you know,

00:12:44.680 God and things like that.

00:12:45.900 But he is talking about, you know, financial positions, whatever it is, you have to be

00:12:50.120 able to, to think of it as almost a staircase.

00:12:55.540 You know what I mean?

00:12:56.580 And I just am not sure that conservatives are understanding that.

00:13:00.720 You definitely did, though, highlight that there is a neocon movement.

00:13:04.800 That's what people are terming it.

00:13:05.860 And you had some choice words.

00:13:08.940 Do you want to speak about that?

00:13:09.840 Because I think a lot of conservatives recognize that there is something that is in our movement

00:13:15.200 that is operating as though it's conservative, but it actually isn't conservative at all.

00:13:18.860 Right, right.

00:13:20.060 Well, that's the business side of it, you know, and the problem with fame and power and money

00:13:24.720 and stuff is it does corrupt people.

00:13:26.700 You know, lots of people come in here well-intentioned or whatever, and then you get these offers,

00:13:31.400 you get, you get in with a certain group of people, and you want to stay in their

00:13:34.960 good graces, and that makes sense.

00:13:36.580 Like, we are herd animals, kind of.

00:13:38.400 We do want to have a team.

00:13:39.600 We do want to be in the good graces of that team.

00:13:41.600 But again, that comes with the downside if there's a lot of corruption, you know, and

00:13:46.120 I see with a lot, like a lot of mainstream conservatives, usually if you're not very censored,

00:13:51.020 that should set off some red flags, because it's like, why is that the case?

00:13:54.780 You know, and, and not to rag on any particular one, because I hate to punch right, you know,

00:14:00.160 because we need more unity in the right wing.

00:14:01.900 But at the same time, you have to call out when you do see that something is wrong, like,

00:14:06.380 and people are not necessarily fighting for America, but it's more just like either a

00:14:10.880 little Hollywood thing going on, and it's for, you know, the money or the claim, or if

00:14:15.540 they're promoting some sort of messaging because they've been paid by some, you know, who knows,

00:14:20.520 a foreign entity or for whatever reason.

00:14:23.180 But there's a, just, because the normal people don't see that, and I didn't realize that that's

00:14:27.820 how it was until I kind of got thrown into this world.

00:14:30.160 I was like, wow, this is, there's a lot of like, you know, fake stuff going on.

00:14:34.720 It's not what it seems like on the outside.

00:14:37.040 And when you look in, you're like, wow, there's, you know, we need genuine people.

00:14:41.060 We need more independent people.

00:14:42.760 We need less clubs and groups.

00:14:45.360 We need more independent people actually out there fighting for America, because bottom

00:14:49.780 line, we're the, the middle America is the one getting screwed over by all this.

00:14:53.460 You know, lots of people are making lots of money, but they're not really helping, you

00:14:57.940 know, it's just good talking points and they're not really addressing the actual issues.

00:15:02.520 Right.

00:15:02.680 And they're also, I think they get to a point where they have made so much money that they

00:15:07.160 just don't want to threaten that security.

00:15:08.760 And so even if they see things that are happening that are wrong, they will allow it to happen

00:15:12.100 and they'll sit by either idly or they're participating in it because there's an opportunity for them

00:15:16.020 to make more money if, if, if they get involved in that thing.

00:15:19.060 And so I always encourage my audience, make sure you're constantly auditing, you know, even me,

00:15:22.540 I'm like, you know, I've been around for eight years.

00:15:24.420 I've, I've changed over those years.

00:15:26.080 I've become a mother.

00:15:26.740 You make sure, does she still believe in the things that we believe?

00:15:29.520 And we saw that this week.

00:15:30.700 I don't know if you had followed this, but Michaela Peterson, who I actually had never

00:15:34.380 followed Dr. Peterson's daughter.

00:15:36.540 But she comes out with a very wild statement about we need censorship of the word filth. 0.99

00:15:41.780 Now she has since slightly walked it back, but still says that, well, if you say filth

00:15:46.220 about an entire group of people, I don't, I still disagree with her, but that's a problem.

00:15:50.520 People were like, no, no, no, no, no, don't go after like the Peterson family because they

00:15:54.560 contributed such a goodness.

00:15:55.640 It's like, that doesn't go away.

00:15:57.540 Like, I am very happy that there was goodness contributed.

00:16:01.740 But if now the talking point is going to be that we need censorship because there's a topic

00:16:06.160 that I feel sensitive about, we have to audit that because we need to be conservatives always.

00:16:11.420 Not just when our friends become leftists, we just stay quiet about it, you know?

00:16:15.560 And I can understand that because I've even kind of experienced that a little bit myself.

00:16:19.400 Just, you know, you start to get like some people that are on your team and you're like,

00:16:23.280 oh, this is kind of nice.

00:16:24.300 I'm not alone or whatever.

00:16:26.100 And then you kind of feel yourself being like, oh, I can't really, do I really want to touch

00:16:29.720 on that topic?

00:16:30.320 Because that might piss them off.

00:16:31.340 And then you got to check yourself and be like, oh man, I'm falling into that kind of rut.

00:16:35.920 And yeah, I totally understand that.

00:16:37.560 And like I said earlier, you know, well-intentioned people, they can start off great.

00:16:42.080 And then it ends up, you know, they fall into that rut and you have to call that out.

00:16:46.140 And you can't be so worried about like trying to, you know, capitulate and please them and

00:16:50.260 not piss anybody off that you don't speak the truth.

00:16:52.520 Because, you know, we're supposed to be the firebrands out here because middle America

00:16:56.260 is sitting back hoping we're doing the fighting for them.

00:16:58.760 But if there's no fighting going on, then it's, we've already lost.

00:17:03.260 Who are some of the voices that you trust in media?

00:17:05.200 If there are any, by the way.

00:17:06.520 I would say, um, I don't really know any that I actually trust because I don't know

00:17:14.020 any people personally.

00:17:15.640 I know, um, that I've, I've listened to like, I've listened to the Gavin McInnes show.

00:17:21.000 I like him a lot.

00:17:21.920 I like you obviously.

00:17:23.360 And, um, you know, I respect people that I see can put aside the money and they can lose

00:17:29.160 things and they can get fired and they don't care to lose that comfortable position because

00:17:33.680 that's, to me, that's how I, I, I gauge if somebody is, you know, legit or not.

00:17:38.480 So yeah, it's very, very few people out there, but yeah, I have definitely met some that I

00:17:42.960 feel like they've been consistent.

00:17:44.360 And even if they've changed a little bit, they don't care if they alienate people because

00:17:48.740 they have their truth or whatever, and they're going to stick to that no matter what.

00:17:53.100 Yeah.

00:17:53.640 I think that takes a lot of courage.

00:17:54.780 And it's one of the reasons why I love Tucker Carlson, you know, that he's just been

00:17:57.260 like, don't care.

00:17:58.060 Goodbye.

00:17:58.460 Like saying whatever I think and, you know, willing to have on Alex Jones and Andrew Tate, because

00:18:03.100 I think what a lot of times the media does is they create, create this club.

00:18:07.380 And this goes back to what you were saying that these are dweebs, like why are we listening 0.98

00:18:10.000 to them?

00:18:10.440 But they're basically like, if you want to sit at the table of dweebs, then you can't 1.00

00:18:14.680 talk to Andrew Tate, you know?

00:18:16.540 And it's like, wait a second, I would way rather speak to someone like Andrew Tate than

00:18:19.420 talk to you.

00:18:20.160 Like, so I always have to remind myself of that.

00:18:22.960 I'm actually not really, because it comes quite naturally to me because I'm just like,

00:18:25.480 there is nothing about you that I like.

00:18:26.920 I mean, I find you to be, I mean, they, they tweet like weasels, you know what I mean?

00:18:30.100 Let me, let me, let me talk my feelings and I'm just not into it at all.

00:18:33.100 And so I did very much like your video when you were talking about that.

00:18:37.400 Like, why are we allowing these losers to dictate what we think and what we feel and

00:18:42.660 what we say with their essential, it's propaganda. 0.95

00:18:46.100 I mean, they just gang up and they're, they all text each other.

00:18:48.720 I know this for a fact and they're in a group chat and they're like, let's go after this

00:18:51.400 person and take this clip out of context and say, she's supporting this.

00:18:55.040 And in the past, I think the American people followed that. 0.98

00:18:58.160 And I think now they're kind of going, wait a second, you're liars. 1.00

00:19:01.460 And worse than that, you're losers. 1.00

00:19:04.040 I know. 1.00

00:19:04.920 I said it in a very like crass way.

00:19:07.920 Um, and, but there is a general point behind everything I said, like the, the loser thing,

00:19:12.360 the, everybody was coming for me for the getting laid in high school.

00:19:15.760 And it's not, I'm not promoting sleeping around.

00:19:18.180 Okay.

00:19:18.660 But I will say it's a general principle that there are certain people that don't get what

00:19:22.820 they see the top people getting.

00:19:24.300 And they do get a chip on their shoulder and that chip on their shoulder does carry into

00:19:28.200 adulthood.

00:19:28.580 Like you do see that, you know, the, the way that you were raised or, or whatever, how

00:19:33.340 you were developed when you were younger, it does carry over into adult life.

00:19:36.680 And you do notice patterns and you do start to see that you're like, wow, the weird people 0.98

00:19:41.020 in, in high school, this isn't to say that they were, you know, dumb. 0.82

00:19:44.920 They're very, usually very smart people. 0.98

00:19:46.600 And now they are the Bill Gates.

00:19:48.300 Now they are those Zuckerbergs and they're the people telling us what to say and what to think.

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00:21:25.000 I absolutely agree with you.

00:21:26.920 And I was just having this discussion offline because there are kind of competing ideas of

00:21:31.440 what women should be doing, and I was explaining to someone why I wanted to have you on the show 1.00

00:21:35.240 because I actually always think about that when I'm meeting people.

00:21:39.440 The first question I ask myself is, who are they in high school?

00:21:42.320 Because for some reason, high school leaves an indelible mark on people.

00:21:45.280 And I find that the people who were complete losers in high school who find fame later on,

00:21:52.160 they hold on to it in a way that's like it means everything to them.

00:21:55.180 So they will do anything to be allowed to be in the cool club.

00:21:58.500 They will, like, say anything to be in the cool club, and that's actually not good, right?

00:22:01.840 Because it doesn't give you—you don't have real confidence.

00:22:04.740 And I'm not talking about people—like, I'm not talking about, like, smart kids.

00:22:07.460 I'm talking about people that just were severely bullied.

00:22:10.940 I tend to see that in politics, that then when they get a little bit of power,

00:22:14.340 they kind of go a little bit crazy.

00:22:16.300 And they're constantly dictating to people what they should or should not be doing.

00:22:19.720 And it's just not helpful.

00:22:21.100 And I think going into any career or any space that you're going to be in,

00:22:25.400 particularly the public one where you're getting a lot of feedback,

00:22:28.160 you have to have fundamental confidence in who you are, right?

00:22:31.400 Right.

00:22:31.820 And not be able to be easily swayed because that's what it is.

00:22:35.380 It's kind of like the recreation of high school where it's like,

00:22:38.460 who's going to be your clique?

00:22:39.340 Just like you said, if you want to sit over here, you want to do this,

00:22:42.240 this is what we need you to say.

00:22:43.240 We need to peddle this one line. 0.89

00:22:45.580 And it's people that really have confidence that will stand up to it and say,

00:22:49.220 no, actually, I'm just not going to do that.

00:22:52.000 Right.

00:22:52.880 And that's why I think it's so important how you raise your kids.

00:22:56.180 You know, make sure, put them in sports.

00:22:57.780 You know, it does give them confidence.

00:22:59.680 It gives them stamina.

00:23:00.760 They work hard.

00:23:01.660 You know, they're in with a higher, better group of people that,

00:23:04.340 you know, they care about improving themselves.

00:23:07.560 It's not about, oh, poor, pitiful me.

00:23:09.940 You know, because that's where that victim culture has all come from.

00:23:12.840 It does start when you're young, you know, and you learn and you're like,

00:23:16.620 oh, if I can, you know, complain to teacher or whatever,

00:23:19.120 you know, I get some extra browning points.

00:23:20.860 And so that's where the victim culture starts versus the people who

00:23:25.080 we didn't play the victim.

00:23:26.100 And they were like, if they lost a race,

00:23:27.520 it was on them because they didn't train or whatever.

00:23:29.640 So, yeah, I think I think definitely if we can try to get this next generation 1.00

00:23:33.380 raised right, you know, they're raised outside.

00:23:35.840 They're not on the phones.

00:23:36.680 They're not being indoctrinated as much.

00:23:38.220 And they are actually out doing competitive sports and just interacting

00:23:42.460 with themselves in a good way and maybe being punished for being a crybaby

00:23:45.760 like I was.

00:23:47.500 Right.

00:23:47.960 That's a good thing.

00:23:48.660 Yeah, you have four brothers, so there's no question you were just being

00:23:52.340 pummeled the whole time.

00:23:53.260 I mean, I think it does help to grow up with siblings.

00:23:57.780 Yeah, exactly.

00:23:58.920 But it is good.

00:23:59.720 This is why I believe you have to grow up with siblings,

00:24:01.160 because like when people are pointing us up on the Internet, 0.62

00:24:04.020 I'm like me and my sister should just beat the crap out of each other 0.98

00:24:06.140 all the time. 0.94

00:24:06.820 You know, so I'm just I've got a bit of a thicker skin.

00:24:09.320 I was constantly calling my sister names. 0.76

00:24:11.080 I was telling her she was fat. 1.00

00:24:12.220 She was worthless. 0.98

00:24:12.840 I mean, like the things that we say to each other as siblings and me and my sisters are 0.93

00:24:16.180 a year and a half apart.

00:24:17.580 It is character building.

00:24:19.600 You know, you like surviving even amongst siblings and then surviving in high school

00:24:23.700 and deciding who you are.

00:24:25.100 It helps.

00:24:25.900 And I think part of it is that we do have this coddle culture in America.

00:24:29.440 And when coddle culture then becomes the media, it's a huge problem.

00:24:33.940 Right.

00:24:34.400 Well, and unfortunately, with situations like like politics and there's so many positions

00:24:39.580 that attract a certain type of people that want to have that kind of power over defenseless

00:24:44.060 people.

00:24:44.600 You see it with school teachers a lot of times.

00:24:46.720 So, yeah, you have good school teachers, but you have a lot of people that are attracted

00:24:49.740 to those positions because it's a kind of a power box.

00:24:53.260 You know, they have a lot of power over kids that have to listen to them.

00:24:56.500 Same with politics.

00:24:57.340 So that's why I think we see so many of those kinds of people in those positions.

00:25:02.580 Right.

00:25:02.900 Absolutely.

00:25:03.760 So I have to ask, Lily, where to next?

00:25:06.100 What are the offers you're getting?

00:25:07.500 What's what's happening in your inbox?

00:25:09.060 I know you're probably getting everything from people saying, I want to marry you to people

00:25:14.240 accusing you of being a part of some conspiracy.

00:25:16.180 That is the beauty of Internet fame.

00:25:18.080 So what is actually next for you?

00:25:20.540 I'm not sure.

00:25:21.620 Like right now, I never like I said, this wasn't a planned thing.

00:25:25.040 Like if it had been a planned thing, I would have like a goal.

00:25:27.720 But right now, I'm just kind of just doing the same thing I was.

00:25:30.880 I'm still just putting out the videos and talking.

00:25:33.080 And if it really if people relate to it, that's awesome.

00:25:35.660 And if not, I'll try to find something else.

00:25:37.760 But right now, you know, I'm just just trying to figure out where do I go from here?

00:25:42.280 Right.

00:25:42.500 You know, I think I'm going to be doing a show with the Sinswood.tv.

00:25:47.940 So that's Gavin McInnesis Network.

00:25:49.400 So that'll be fun.

00:25:50.540 I think that's a great crowd of people.

00:25:52.160 So that's something, you know, in the works.

00:25:54.240 But yeah, we're just we're just winging it at this point, to be honest.

00:25:57.360 Gavin was one of the first shows that I did.

00:25:58.800 He's great.

00:25:59.300 He's such a kind person.

00:26:00.400 Always has been one.

00:26:01.120 She'll have fun there. 0.90

00:26:02.220 You should definitely also think about getting involved with some pro-life charities.

00:26:05.340 You know, because like I said, these are the stories people need to hear.

00:26:08.060 And it's something that we should be welcoming.

00:26:10.120 And by the way, what is your what is your normal job?

00:26:11.820 What is your normal, so to speak, job?

00:26:14.100 Right.

00:26:14.340 Well, I was a marketing position.

00:26:16.040 I just like I had just graduated college and I got the entry level like marketing position

00:26:20.520 and then I lost it.

00:26:21.920 So very nice.

00:26:23.760 Yeah.

00:26:23.980 Right now I'm currently unemployed.

00:26:25.620 OK, well, you know what?

00:26:27.200 God's got a plan for you.

00:26:28.360 So don't worry about it.

00:26:29.300 You know, when things happen.

00:26:30.880 Sometimes when you get fired, it's OK.

00:26:34.140 Making me a good thing.

00:26:36.160 Lily, thank you so much for joining us.

00:26:38.060 And I hope that in the future, I definitely want to have you down.

00:26:40.080 We're still figuring things out here at the studio.

00:26:41.500 But it would be great to have just like a panel of women talking about women, like female 1.00

00:26:45.360 issues and different perspectives, because I think people do need to hear more real world

00:26:50.360 perspectives, as you say, and not just believing that the Internet is real life.

00:26:54.280 So thank you so much for joining us.

00:26:56.100 Thank you so much.

00:26:56.880 I appreciate it.

00:26:58.140 All right, guys.

00:26:58.560 I hope you enjoyed that discussion.

00:26:59.740 I hope it's provided more clarity as to who Lily Gaddis is so we can retire the moniker, 0.99

00:27:04.380 the N-word girl.

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Candace Owens - August 04, 2024

She Said The N-Word And Went Viral ｜ Candace Ep 39

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