She Said The N-Word And Went Viral ｜ Candace Ep 39
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Lily Gaddis is a 25-year-old college student who became a viral internet sensation when she dropped the N-word on the internet while cooking chicken. Candice and Vanessa talk to her about what it was like growing up in a racist household, how she dealt with it, and what it's like being a woman in today's society who drops the n-word. She also talks about her experience with online fame and how she s dealing with online haters and haters online, and how it s helped her become a better version of herself. Don t miss this episode of The Candace Show! BetterHelp is the largest online therapy provider in the world, connecting you to qualified professionals via phone, video, or text chat. Let the Gratitude flow! Visit BetterHelp.org/Gratitude to learn more and save 10% on your first month. That s BetterHelp, H-E-L-P-P. That's BetterHelp - Save 10% On Your First Month! And don t forget to give yourself some Thanks by investing in your well-being by Investing in your Well-Being by Invest in Your Well-being! Let's Be Grateful! Today's episode features: The N word Girl by Candace by The N Word Girl and The Conspiracy Theory Girl by Candice by . We try to bring you an interview with someone who has a different perspective on what it means to be grateful and grateful. and gives you a chance to be thankful for what you already have in your life. by being grateful! Thanks, Candice! The Candice Show by BetterHelp is a podcast that helps you be grateful, so you can be grateful for the things you already already have and have it so you know what you're grateful for. Let s talk about it! by better help! Thank you for listening to the show! - Candice & Vanessa - BetterHelp? Thanksgiving Day is a special thanks you'll get 10% off 10% discount code: Let The Nword Girl at BetterHelp! (BetterHelp, BetterHelp) and a discount on your FIRST MONTH of the show is a discount of 10% Off 10% OFF on your First Month of the month! and more! to help spread the word about the show.
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We try to bring you an interview, a discussion, something different.
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That's the moniker that everyone has given her because it's a white girl that dropped the N-word.
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But we are going to invite her in for a conversation.
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So to jog your memory, her name is not, in fact, N-word girl.
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And she jumped on the Internet cooking some chicken, and she had a bit of a rant.
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I'm sick and tired of all girls getting blamed, or, like, guys, certain guys,
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I don't know if it's because you get your information from those street interviews in, like, Miami at 3 a.m. outside of a nightclub.
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You're getting the opinion of some dumb whores and immigrants fresh off the boat looking for a green card.
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Yes, they are probably gold diggers, but that's the exception.
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Everybody I know who's married right now, they're married to broke-ass niggas.
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I couldn't care less about your f***ing money, okay?
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My type is broke mechanics and surfer hippie dudes who just want to live in a shack and surf and have babies.
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All I ask of a man is that you're competent, you're, um, you're not a p***y.
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If somebody broke into our house at 3 a.m., you would know how to grab a gun and shoot a m***h.
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I don't know, I think that's actually very funny, the end there.
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Is she totally out of line for dropping the n-word?
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Is it totally fine that she said it because everyone says it these days in that context?
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And I guess the biggest question is, does she actually have a point?
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Are most women not like the women that we're seeing online?
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That's what we have coming up for you on Candace.
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All right, guys, so she definitively has a potty mouth.
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And now she's speaking a little bit about politics.
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And I just genuinely wanted to know more about Lily Gattis.
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So I was just asking you offline, but I guess my first question is,
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how has it been finding internet fame when your first video goes viral?
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You know, you all hear about the same things that happen to people,
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But you don't really understand it until it actually happens to you.
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I've gotten to where I kind of like muted out now, so it doesn't really bother me.
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As anyone who's gone through this, as you would know,
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as anyone else would know who's gone through this.
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What has been the most difficult part of internet fame?
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And like when people get it so wrong and I'm sitting here listening,
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I've learned to enjoy them and appreciate them.
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But I read a conspiracy theory the other day that my husband was Jewish.
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Or I guess like, and then sometimes I'll respond to them.
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And I'm like, can you just show me the website where you're getting this information from?
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So I do want to talk about your video because it did make a bit of a splash.
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First and foremost, for two reasons was because you said the N-word.
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Don't put it in the music if people can't say it.
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And you obviously were not directing it at a black person.
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You were saying it in the context that everyone says it in their music.
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But the more important part of your video was, I think, the main point that you were delivering
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Like women are not all what you see on OnlyFans and what you see on your Instagram page.
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What made you suddenly jump up and do a, what I'm going to term a Candace or a Kanye rant?
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And what were you, yeah, what was your mindset and what did you want people to get from it?
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So I had been arguing with my brothers that whole day about this because they were like,
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no, girls are just like whatever because they listen to these interviews like everyone else,
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the street interviews that kind of definitely, they're digging from the bottom of the barrel.
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It's not like you're getting your best and your brightest.
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And they were up there barbecuing and whatever.
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I started, you know, marinating some chicken wings to put on the grill.
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And I was like, I got to make a video about this because I'm still pissed.
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So I made a video about it, got flamed for my cooking skills.
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And yeah, and I accidentally let a words about that.
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I, you know, people say in a general sense, but yeah, it turned into something it was not
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supposed to be, but yeah, it was basically just a backyard rant inspired by an angry argument
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Well, I would love to hear more about your family, actually, because I don't think many
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I think I read online, I don't know if it's true, that you're also a mother.
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I would say I'm just like a, just kind of a normal Southern, you know, girl, went to
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I went, I was homeschooled for part of my high school years.
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And then I finished off at a private school, had a big family, four brothers, had a lot
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So definitely like a country girl to a certain extent.
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Um, and then I've kind of like landed back here, uh, love the beach.
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So I have to be, you know, near there and I want to raise my son like on the beach as
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And yeah, I have a, I have a two-year-old as well.
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So you have a two-year-old, you're a mom, and I guess that has to shape a lot of your
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It's a seismic shift in your life when you become a parent.
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And one of the things that concerns me is sort of the presentation of women that we do
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How do you think that you are going to deal with that with your daughter?
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Well, it's, it's just one of those things, you know, nobody's perfect, like bottom line.
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And, and there's a lot of people who want to set themselves up to be perfect.
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And then there's a lot of people that put their worst foot forward.
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Like I usually do, cause I feel like it's better to not put yourself on a pedestal so
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Um, but yeah, there's a lot of like, again, online is not real life.
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We all know this, you know, they can, you can edit things to make things sound bad or
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So I think, I think there's a lot of, you know, people are struggling in this country,
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just normal everyday working people are struggling and they're not the worst people.
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There's a lot of, like, I have a bunch of friends who are just good girls that went
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You know, they're trying to find good husbands and they're trying to raise kids.
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So my whole point was, you know, just give a little grace cause we're not all terrible.
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It's not everything you see on these, you know, like I said, at 3am outside of a nightclub,
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you're not exactly getting the best of the best.
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So yeah, there's, there's a lot of good people out there and I think they just, they're not
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And I do think that inevitably what happens is you take the red pill, and then you sort
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of take the black pill, and then you kind of need to, like, come back to reality.
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And even for me, when I was watching your video, I did have to check myself because it can,
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And the conversations you're having, it's like, wait a second.
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My sisters are married to totally regular people.
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I mean, these girls that I'm seeing in OnlyFans, obviously, this is not who the regular person
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And I thought that was actually a really strong point that you delivered.
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There's going to be absolutely no grace afforded to you.
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They're going to tear apart every piece of your life.
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I already see people saying, she's a single mom.
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You know, what does she know about conservatism?
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So I wanted to give you a platform first and foremost to talk about that in a way that
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I think it's completely absurd, this idea that they want people held up on a pedestal.
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They want to believe that their lives are perfect.
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I have transformed so much, even from my positions, being a conservative in the public sphere,
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the things that I have said have changed and people have a right to transform.
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So how, I guess, how did you become a single mom?
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Were you married in the past or are you married now?
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Well, it was just one of those things, you know, it was a bad relation gone awry and relationship
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I've never been married, but it's just one of those things, you know, people make mistakes
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and you want, you start out in life, like wanting to, I want to wait till marriage and
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whatever, and then life happens and it's just doesn't work out, you know?
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But I think the, like, I don't appeal to people who really have all their stuff together,
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but I do appeal to middle America who, you know, they aren't perfect.
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They have made mistakes and they're trying to do the best they can.
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Because bottom line, I mean, even as a Christian, it's like, we're not perfect.
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That's why God had to come down and dial across for us, you know, ultimately.
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So I think I can work be as a good funnel for just your normal middle America to get
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into conservatism because I'm an easier person to relate with just because I'm not perfect,
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And I can even be a voice for women who, you know, they do get pregnant and don't choose
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Like I have lots of people telling me, oh my gosh, just, just get an abortion.
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Don't tell anybody else, you know, and that's an easy way out.
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But I think, I think I'm happy that the way things have turned out the way they are.
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It's not perfect, obviously, but I think I can appeal to a lot more people that way just
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because, you know, it's, it's easy to relate to someone who hasn't had everything go light.
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So if I can help bring middle America to, to conservative America, I think that would
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be, you know, doing something good for the country.
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And I do think that there is that conflict, you know, you, conservatives were, were pro-life,
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but I started my life pro-choice just to be clear.
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And it's funny because then you see someone who gets a platform accidentally, like you
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And then they, conservatives instantly hold your feet to the fire and be like, this is not
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But we also believe that you should choose life.
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And there is this pressure that they instantly want you, or want to believe that you can
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be, become perfect overnight if you have a platform.
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And it's better to just be authentic about who you are and to give yourself the grace
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And I've tried to communicate that even to my own audiences, because I try to explain
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to people, I would love if, I'll give a perfect example, I think Allie Stuckey's like
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Like her wife, she was from like a two-parent household.
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But the reality is I would have never become a conservative if the first person I listened
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And so I've tried to communicate to people, as someone who comes from a broken family,
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my parents are divorced, that it's easier for men to listen to Andrew Tate, right, as
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a starting point, because he's just going to be more relatable.
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And he might, he's obviously not talking about family, and he's not talking about, you know,
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But he is talking about, you know, financial positions, whatever it is, you have to be
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And I just am not sure that conservatives are understanding that.
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You definitely did, though, highlight that there is a neocon movement.
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Because I think a lot of conservatives recognize that there is something that is in our movement
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that is operating as though it's conservative, but it actually isn't conservative at all.
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Well, that's the business side of it, you know, and the problem with fame and power and money
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You know, lots of people come in here well-intentioned or whatever, and then you get these offers,
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you get, you get in with a certain group of people, and you want to stay in their
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We do want to be in the good graces of that team.
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But again, that comes with the downside if there's a lot of corruption, you know, and
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I see with a lot, like a lot of mainstream conservatives, usually if you're not very censored,
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that should set off some red flags, because it's like, why is that the case?
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You know, and, and not to rag on any particular one, because I hate to punch right, you know,
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But at the same time, you have to call out when you do see that something is wrong, like,
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and people are not necessarily fighting for America, but it's more just like either a
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little Hollywood thing going on, and it's for, you know, the money or the claim, or if
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they're promoting some sort of messaging because they've been paid by some, you know, who knows,
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But there's a, just, because the normal people don't see that, and I didn't realize that that's
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how it was until I kind of got thrown into this world.
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I was like, wow, this is, there's a lot of like, you know, fake stuff going on.
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And when you look in, you're like, wow, there's, you know, we need genuine people.
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We need more independent people actually out there fighting for America, because bottom
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line, we're the, the middle America is the one getting screwed over by all this.
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You know, lots of people are making lots of money, but they're not really helping, you
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know, it's just good talking points and they're not really addressing the actual issues.
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And they're also, I think they get to a point where they have made so much money that they
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And so even if they see things that are happening that are wrong, they will allow it to happen
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and they'll sit by either idly or they're participating in it because there's an opportunity for them
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to make more money if, if, if they get involved in that thing.
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And so I always encourage my audience, make sure you're constantly auditing, you know, even me,
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I'm like, you know, I've been around for eight years.
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You make sure, does she still believe in the things that we believe?
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I don't know if you had followed this, but Michaela Peterson, who I actually had never
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But she comes out with a very wild statement about we need censorship of the word filth.
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Now she has since slightly walked it back, but still says that, well, if you say filth
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about an entire group of people, I don't, I still disagree with her, but that's a problem.
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People were like, no, no, no, no, no, don't go after like the Peterson family because they
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Like, I am very happy that there was goodness contributed.
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But if now the talking point is going to be that we need censorship because there's a topic
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that I feel sensitive about, we have to audit that because we need to be conservatives always.
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Not just when our friends become leftists, we just stay quiet about it, you know?
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And I can understand that because I've even kind of experienced that a little bit myself.
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Just, you know, you start to get like some people that are on your team and you're like,
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And then you kind of feel yourself being like, oh, I can't really, do I really want to touch
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And then you got to check yourself and be like, oh man, I'm falling into that kind of rut.
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And like I said earlier, you know, well-intentioned people, they can start off great.
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And then it ends up, you know, they fall into that rut and you have to call that out.
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And you can't be so worried about like trying to, you know, capitulate and please them and
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not piss anybody off that you don't speak the truth.
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Because, you know, we're supposed to be the firebrands out here because middle America
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is sitting back hoping we're doing the fighting for them.
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But if there's no fighting going on, then it's, we've already lost.
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Who are some of the voices that you trust in media?
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I would say, um, I don't really know any that I actually trust because I don't know
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I know, um, that I've, I've listened to like, I've listened to the Gavin McInnes show.
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And, um, you know, I respect people that I see can put aside the money and they can lose
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things and they can get fired and they don't care to lose that comfortable position because
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that's, to me, that's how I, I, I gauge if somebody is, you know, legit or not.
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So yeah, it's very, very few people out there, but yeah, I have definitely met some that I
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And even if they've changed a little bit, they don't care if they alienate people because
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they have their truth or whatever, and they're going to stick to that no matter what.
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And it's one of the reasons why I love Tucker Carlson, you know, that he's just been
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Like saying whatever I think and, you know, willing to have on Alex Jones and Andrew Tate, because
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I think what a lot of times the media does is they create, create this club.
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And this goes back to what you were saying that these are dweebs, like why are we listening
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But they're basically like, if you want to sit at the table of dweebs, then you can't
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And it's like, wait a second, I would way rather speak to someone like Andrew Tate than
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Like, so I always have to remind myself of that.
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I'm actually not really, because it comes quite naturally to me because I'm just like,
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I mean, I find you to be, I mean, they, they tweet like weasels, you know what I mean?
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Let me, let me, let me talk my feelings and I'm just not into it at all.
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And so I did very much like your video when you were talking about that.
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Like, why are we allowing these losers to dictate what we think and what we feel and
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what we say with their essential, it's propaganda.
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I mean, they just gang up and they're, they all text each other.
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I know this for a fact and they're in a group chat and they're like, let's go after this
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person and take this clip out of context and say, she's supporting this.
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And in the past, I think the American people followed that.
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And I think now they're kind of going, wait a second, you're liars.
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Um, and, but there is a general point behind everything I said, like the, the loser thing,
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the, everybody was coming for me for the getting laid in high school.
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And it's not, I'm not promoting sleeping around.
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But I will say it's a general principle that there are certain people that don't get what
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And they do get a chip on their shoulder and that chip on their shoulder does carry into
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Like you do see that, you know, the, the way that you were raised or, or whatever, how
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you were developed when you were younger, it does carry over into adult life.
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And you do notice patterns and you do start to see that you're like, wow, the weird people
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in, in high school, this isn't to say that they were, you know, dumb.
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Now they are those Zuckerbergs and they're the people telling us what to say and what to think.
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And I was just having this discussion offline because there are kind of competing ideas of
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what women should be doing, and I was explaining to someone why I wanted to have you on the show
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because I actually always think about that when I'm meeting people.
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The first question I ask myself is, who are they in high school?
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Because for some reason, high school leaves an indelible mark on people.
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And I find that the people who were complete losers in high school who find fame later on,
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they hold on to it in a way that's like it means everything to them.
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So they will do anything to be allowed to be in the cool club.
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They will, like, say anything to be in the cool club, and that's actually not good, right?
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Because it doesn't give you—you don't have real confidence.
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And I'm not talking about people—like, I'm not talking about, like, smart kids.
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I'm talking about people that just were severely bullied.
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I tend to see that in politics, that then when they get a little bit of power,
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And they're constantly dictating to people what they should or should not be doing.
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And I think going into any career or any space that you're going to be in,
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particularly the public one where you're getting a lot of feedback,
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you have to have fundamental confidence in who you are, right?
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And not be able to be easily swayed because that's what it is.
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It's kind of like the recreation of high school where it's like,
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Just like you said, if you want to sit over here, you want to do this,
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And it's people that really have confidence that will stand up to it and say,
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And that's why I think it's so important how you raise your kids.
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You know, they're in with a higher, better group of people that,
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you know, they care about improving themselves.
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You know, because that's where that victim culture has all come from.
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It does start when you're young, you know, and you learn and you're like,
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oh, if I can, you know, complain to teacher or whatever,
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And so that's where the victim culture starts versus the people who
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it was on them because they didn't train or whatever.
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So, yeah, I think I think definitely if we can try to get this next generation
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raised right, you know, they're raised outside.
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And they are actually out doing competitive sports and just interacting
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with themselves in a good way and maybe being punished for being a crybaby
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Yeah, you have four brothers, so there's no question you were just being
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I mean, I think it does help to grow up with siblings.
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This is why I believe you have to grow up with siblings,
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because like when people are pointing us up on the Internet,
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I'm like me and my sister should just beat the crap out of each other
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You know, so I'm just I've got a bit of a thicker skin.
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I mean, like the things that we say to each other as siblings and me and my sisters are
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You know, you like surviving even amongst siblings and then surviving in high school
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And I think part of it is that we do have this coddle culture in America.
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And when coddle culture then becomes the media, it's a huge problem.
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Well, and unfortunately, with situations like like politics and there's so many positions
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that attract a certain type of people that want to have that kind of power over defenseless
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You see it with school teachers a lot of times.
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So, yeah, you have good school teachers, but you have a lot of people that are attracted
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to those positions because it's a kind of a power box.
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You know, they have a lot of power over kids that have to listen to them.
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So that's why I think we see so many of those kinds of people in those positions.
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I know you're probably getting everything from people saying, I want to marry you to people
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accusing you of being a part of some conspiracy.
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Like right now, I never like I said, this wasn't a planned thing.
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Like if it had been a planned thing, I would have like a goal.
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But right now, I'm just kind of just doing the same thing I was.
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I'm still just putting out the videos and talking.
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And if it really if people relate to it, that's awesome.
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But right now, you know, I'm just just trying to figure out where do I go from here?
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You know, I think I'm going to be doing a show with the Sinswood.tv.
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But yeah, we're just we're just winging it at this point, to be honest.
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You should definitely also think about getting involved with some pro-life charities.
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You know, because like I said, these are the stories people need to hear.
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And it's something that we should be welcoming.
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And by the way, what is your what is your normal job?
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I just like I had just graduated college and I got the entry level like marketing position
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And I hope that in the future, I definitely want to have you down.
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We're still figuring things out here at the studio.
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But it would be great to have just like a panel of women talking about women, like female
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issues and different perspectives, because I think people do need to hear more real world
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perspectives, as you say, and not just believing that the Internet is real life.
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