Candace Owens - June 29, 2024


The Conversation Every Married Couple Has


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Summary

In this special Saturday edition of the show, host Candice chats with Josh and Rebecca Weigel, the filmmakers behind the new film, The Sound of Hope, about foster care and adoption. Join us as we discuss adoption, foster care, and what it takes to be a good foster or adoptive parent. Weigel and co-director Josh Weigel are also foster and adoptive parents themselves, and have been in the foster care system for over 20 years. In this episode, they talk about what it's like being a foster or adopted parent, the challenges they face, and why it's important to be involved in foster care. They also talk about their own experiences with fostering and adoptions, and how they've been able to see their kids grow and flourish in the care system. Thank you so much for being a part of this amazing community, and thank you to everyone who has been a supporter of this podcast and the films they've produced. We can't wait to do it again next Saturday! - Candice and Candice Music: "In Need of a Savior (feat. Andrea Thomas) and "Possum Trot" by The Weigel's Band - "Songs of Hope" by Fountains of Wayne (Music: "Somewhere in Time" by Ian Dorsch "A Little Late" by Zapsplat & "The Good Thing" by John Singleton by The Good Fightin' It (ft. ) Join the Good Thing Project - "The Badger" by Shady and , "Goodbye" by Lizzie , "Thank You" by Sisyphus to go to The Good Thing Thanks to our sponsor, Angel ( ) and for sponsoring the show! - Thank you, Candice ( ) & . Please like and subscribe to our FB page! and tag us on Insta: ! so we can keep spreading the love and support the good vibes and positivity! by spreading the word about this podcast! , and help spread the word! . Thank you for all the love & support! (featuring: Candice & Candice's Good Thing. - The Good Talk! & the Good Talk Network. , Candice, @ Candice25


Transcript

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00:00:25.140 All right, guys, so we are doing a special Saturday edition of the show here, asking a question that I know a lot, maybe every single married couple ever has privately asked one another, which is, would we ever adopt or foster a child?
00:00:40.480 And privately, one of you probably or maybe said, no, I would never adopt.
00:00:44.740 No, I would never foster.
00:00:46.260 And you'd likely offer some reason that you proceed to be valid as to why you couldn't.
00:00:50.700 It's definitely a heavy topic, and fortunately, fortunately, it is going to get a lot lighter and easier to discuss it, thanks to the incredible film, Sound of Hope.
00:01:01.060 In this Saturday interview, I'm bringing you such a wonderfully inspired conversation with the filmmakers themselves, Josh and Rebecca Weigel.
00:01:09.300 They're also foster and adoptive parents themselves.
00:01:12.620 And before we bring them in, I'd like to offer you guys this short preview of the film, Sound of Hope.
00:01:17.860 Are you sure these people want us?
00:01:19.880 I know they do.
00:01:21.660 You can call me mama.
00:01:27.400 It's hard to feel like I'm the only one who sees these things.
00:01:33.080 70% of the kids in the system are there because of neglect.
00:01:38.140 The other 30% are put through hell.
00:01:41.500 We need your help.
00:01:45.540 Can you imagine our kids on their own?
00:01:53.060 We can't just look away.
00:01:56.640 The state ain't no family.
00:01:59.400 Are you sure these people want us?
00:02:01.680 I know they do.
00:02:03.000 You can call me mama.
00:02:07.980 Oh, Lord.
00:02:08.820 If we can't wrap our arms around the most vulnerable, then what do we have?
00:02:17.980 Noise.
00:02:19.100 And the children can't take the noise anymore.
00:02:23.240 This is something that we must do.
00:02:25.800 22 families want to adopt.
00:02:31.940 The whole town wants kids now.
00:02:33.640 That's about right.
00:02:36.380 What's happening with Possum Trot could mean a huge change for the system.
00:02:40.220 We want the ones that nobody else won't.
00:02:45.440 Who hurt you, baby?
00:02:46.840 I don't.
00:02:47.700 I'm not giving up on you.
00:02:49.180 You can't give up on me either.
00:02:52.720 What are we going to do?
00:02:55.000 Everybody's falling apart.
00:02:56.180 I'm doing the best I can.
00:03:00.380 A real world hits heart.
00:03:02.100 I don't want to be here.
00:03:03.400 I can't give him back.
00:03:08.720 We got to work on this together.
00:03:15.300 We your people now.
00:03:17.440 And love never gives up.
00:03:25.500 So don't go anywhere, guys.
00:03:26.900 We are going to have a most powerful discussion that will both move and uplift you.
00:03:31.100 Who doesn't need that on a Saturday?
00:03:32.760 And we get to do some good in the process because in the corner of your screen,
00:03:36.400 you'll notice some names of people who are buying tickets live.
00:03:40.060 They're buying tickets to The Sound of Hope.
00:03:42.260 So be sure to get in on the fun.
00:03:44.300 Join the party.
00:03:45.620 Go to angel.com slash Candice.
00:03:48.380 And if you want a discount, use my code Candice25 at checkout.
00:03:52.340 All right.
00:03:52.660 Let's get started.
00:03:53.600 Welcome to Candice.
00:03:54.280 All right, guys.
00:04:09.920 I promised you we are back now with Rebecca and Josh Weigel, an amazing company who brought
00:04:14.600 this story to life.
00:04:16.100 I mean, bringing it to the big screen.
00:04:18.120 And I know a lot more than you guys know back at home.
00:04:20.820 It's an incredible story, as I said, an important topic that a lot of us are not comfortable
00:04:25.380 speaking about or even knowing about.
00:04:28.460 And I want to start with you, Rebecca, because I was looking into your bio and your background
00:04:32.540 is in psychology.
00:04:34.060 And we talk a lot about psychology on my show.
00:04:36.480 And I was just examining my own psychology.
00:04:38.760 When you think about the foster care system, when you think about adoption, you know that
00:04:43.300 so many bad things happen there.
00:04:45.300 What is it that makes it so difficult for us to take the next step and just want to completely
00:04:51.360 transform it, get involved with it, especially as parents?
00:04:55.660 Yeah.
00:04:56.360 I mean, I think there's a lot of fears around foster care.
00:04:59.720 As soon as you say foster care, people are like, oh, OK, those kids are troubled and they
00:05:04.180 have problems.
00:05:05.220 And, you know, we're not thinking about the kids are the victims.
00:05:08.740 It's not their fault.
00:05:09.960 You know, they're not bad kids.
00:05:11.140 They've just been through hard things.
00:05:12.880 And as people of faith, we should have the most compassion and really step into their
00:05:17.920 story and help help change the narrative, help change their story.
00:05:22.100 And I'm and I'm guilty of this, by the way.
00:05:23.860 I think it's a question that every couple asks themselves when they get married, like,
00:05:28.260 would we ever adopt?
00:05:29.180 That's like one of the conversations that you have.
00:05:31.320 And I think that is part of the fear.
00:05:32.920 And part of that is coming from media depictions and believing that you could end up with a totally
00:05:38.160 scary situation that you can't get out of.
00:05:40.360 There's all these documentaries about, you know, children that then try to kill other
00:05:44.120 children.
00:05:44.480 And it's hard for us to sort of face this reality that we do have a crisis in America.
00:05:50.080 And so, Josh, let's move to you, because reading how you guys picked up your entire lives and
00:05:57.300 moved to Possum Trot because you wanted to understand out in East Texas the story of this
00:06:02.880 community that got this involved in the foster process.
00:06:05.340 How did you first learn about Possum Trot?
00:06:08.180 And when did you know that this was a story that you needed to bring the big screen?
00:06:11.940 Yeah.
00:06:12.340 Rebecca was the one who found out about it.
00:06:14.640 I would say that we kind of all, if you're in this space at all, you'd sort of heard rumors
00:06:18.560 about this community somewhere that had adopted all these kids.
00:06:21.720 And so Rebecca, she was looking for someone to speak at a conference.
00:06:26.720 She did a lot of work in Los Angeles in this space and ran into Bishop Martin and this whole
00:06:31.680 story.
00:06:32.400 So they connected and on the phone, it did not take long to, you know, decide that this
00:06:38.260 is something that we needed to do.
00:06:39.460 And we just, you know, move some things off of our plate and decided this was the project
00:06:44.080 that we needed to focus on right now.
00:06:46.400 We could tell that there was something really important about it beyond us.
00:06:50.480 It wasn't, you know, we never do movies just to do a movie.
00:06:53.800 Um, what we hope to do are films that are really great cinematically.
00:06:59.560 We want people to have that experience.
00:07:01.540 I love that experience.
00:07:02.620 So it's got to be that first, but this story had so much drama, so much importance, all
00:07:09.100 these things mixed into it that it really took over, really took over our lives.
00:07:14.380 And what was that like for you?
00:07:15.340 How long did you move out to East Texas?
00:07:17.680 And what were some of the early struggles that you went through just kind of learning about
00:07:21.980 this community?
00:07:22.560 Well, first we, we did the typical research, you know, we met with, we traveled out from
00:07:28.560 California and met with them a number of times and took all of that information and experience
00:07:34.860 back and kind of got through our first few drafts.
00:07:38.360 And one of the most important things to us about this was that it was authentic and that
00:07:43.500 we were giving people a fair perspective of what this is about, what it takes, what it's
00:07:48.500 like.
00:07:49.500 Um, I'm not into propaganda.
00:07:51.100 I'm not into sweet little movies about orphans.
00:07:54.660 Um, this was a real true story.
00:07:57.460 A lot of people had suffered through, kids had suffered, families raising them, like there's
00:08:02.300 a lot that we needed to honor.
00:08:04.020 And so we got to a point where we felt like we got to be all in on this.
00:08:08.640 And so it doesn't feel like we've hit the deepest places.
00:08:12.280 And so we decided at that point, let's, let's move out there and see what we can do just
00:08:16.500 getting into the community.
00:08:17.540 So they welcomed us with open arms after they got through the whole surprise of it all.
00:08:23.100 We were actually going to move out there.
00:08:24.520 They're like, you're moving?
00:08:25.340 Wait a minute.
00:08:26.200 Staring at us in church.
00:08:27.460 We knew you liked us better.
00:08:27.960 They're really here, you know?
00:08:29.380 And we're like, no.
00:08:30.160 So, so we just, we just immersed ourselves as much as we could.
00:08:34.400 And, and it was so much better.
00:08:37.040 It was so much different.
00:08:38.240 There was a whole trust level barrier that we broke through, I think.
00:08:43.360 And, uh, it, it did a lot for the story.
00:08:45.520 And we got to meet a lot of the other kids too.
00:08:47.140 And it just, in every way, I think it helped.
00:08:49.180 Yeah.
00:08:49.400 They like came to our house when we moved there and like brought the whole church and
00:08:53.480 prayed over our family and anointed us with oil.
00:08:56.020 And, you know, they've prayed through this whole process.
00:08:58.720 So it's been really cool to like connect with this little church, you know, this mighty
00:09:02.000 church in the woods that prays and, and has brought us in and, and just loved our family
00:09:07.300 and all throughout the whole journey.
00:09:09.820 I think that was one of the things that was really compelling for me watching this film was
00:09:13.900 that it wasn't a propaganda piece.
00:09:15.320 And I went into it thinking, you know, I guess I'm a bit cynical, but I'm not.
00:09:18.840 I thought, okay, they're going to make it seem like this process is just so easy so
00:09:22.060 that everyone gets inspired and they go out.
00:09:24.120 And I think part of my perspective was colored because I have situations in my family and I
00:09:29.220 know how complicated these situations can be.
00:09:31.580 And yet you guys just confront it like head on in this film.
00:09:34.840 And I'm trying here not to give too much away.
00:09:36.940 You guys, I'm going to keep saying this as we have this conversation, but please head
00:09:40.300 to angel.com slash Candace.
00:09:41.920 You can use code Candace 25 and you can see the available showtimes and purchase tickets.
00:09:47.380 But that was, that was one of the things is, is you confronted it.
00:09:51.040 Like, yes, this, this is going to be difficult.
00:09:53.420 Guess what?
00:09:53.880 Life is not easy.
00:09:55.460 And this story is a story that I think you guys were well equipped to tell because of
00:10:01.000 your own experiences.
00:10:02.640 You guys are both foster and adoptive parents.
00:10:05.600 Now, was that before you jumped onto the film or is it because of learning this possum trot
00:10:09.880 story that you decided to become foster and adoptive parents?
00:10:12.700 Yeah, it was before.
00:10:15.100 Yeah.
00:10:15.520 I mean, I think I can remember even being a kid thinking about this, um, not too seriously,
00:10:20.060 but it just felt obvious.
00:10:21.500 Like there's kids in need.
00:10:23.540 I'm sure one day I want to, I'm going to do this.
00:10:25.700 And so, yeah, we were, we had three of our own biological kids and we talked about it and
00:10:31.560 it got to that point where you're like, this is never going to happen unless we just do
00:10:34.740 it.
00:10:34.920 So we had already jumped in, um, and we're in that, the thick of it all and experiencing
00:10:43.020 all the things you experience.
00:10:44.280 And so we had a lot to draw from, but we definitely put our foot in the water first and, and learned
00:10:49.740 a ton too.
00:10:50.560 Rebecca's work, uh, just, just put us on the front lines of a lot of data and information
00:10:56.240 and experiences that we weren't aware of.
00:10:57.980 And all kinds of connections we can get into, uh, with other issues, but it, it, it, there
00:11:03.180 was sort of a ground bed created before.
00:11:05.620 And then the story felt like the right time just kind of came into our lives at the right
00:11:10.160 time.
00:11:10.940 So you had three, we adopted, it really just broke our heart for this issue and opened
00:11:18.240 our eyes to what kids are going through.
00:11:20.060 And, and I think too, like we were longing for more support from our church.
00:11:24.820 You know, we felt like we were kind of alone in this journey and we were going through really
00:11:29.140 hard things and we were writing at the same time and, and just seeing how this church like
00:11:34.460 came around and did it together and wrapped around each other.
00:11:37.720 I think it was such a beautiful picture of what the church can be and, and I think should
00:11:41.940 be.
00:11:43.020 And so, I mean, some of it is we really wanted to elevate the church and show what's possible
00:11:48.920 through churches when they really confront this issue and step in and care for kids together.
00:11:54.820 You know, one of the things that I speak to my audience about and what I love about this
00:11:58.840 story and what you guys are bringing to the big screen is this topic of spirituality.
00:12:02.500 And I think for whatever reason, America has really kind of departed from that conversation
00:12:07.080 for too long.
00:12:08.320 And maybe it's because everyone's on their smartphones and we've become so technological
00:12:12.120 and in many ways we've become spiritually quite backwards, quite archaic spiritually.
00:12:16.940 And you kind of can feel that there, there, there's sort of this resurgence happening
00:12:21.080 right now and people are beginning to speak a lot more about spirituality.
00:12:24.700 And I can't think of anything that is more crucial to an upbringing of a child than to
00:12:31.340 come from a steady household and how much their spirits are disrupted when that steadiness
00:12:37.420 is removed.
00:12:38.320 And in particular, one issue that you tackle, and this is the biggest fear, even for people
00:12:42.220 that are adopting and people that are taking in foster children is older children in the
00:12:47.240 system.
00:12:48.240 Right.
00:12:49.220 Can you guys just speak, speak about that?
00:12:52.060 Yeah, that, that's one of the things.
00:12:53.960 So one of the things that really stands out about this community in this story is that
00:12:58.700 they asked for the ones that nobody wanted, the most difficult to place, we say.
00:13:02.760 So that could mean severe abuse.
00:13:05.360 That can mean there's a sibling set.
00:13:07.140 They don't want to break up four or five kids.
00:13:09.080 Thank God.
00:13:10.780 They could be older.
00:13:11.900 It's really difficult to find families for teenagers.
00:13:14.560 And so they, they focused on that and that's like going headlong into fear.
00:13:20.440 The things you are most afraid of, they just took this on.
00:13:24.800 And so that really stood out to me.
00:13:27.980 We've seen that just in, you know, in our experience, talking to others and the work
00:13:33.240 we've done, it's hard enough to get someone to be open to adopting a baby, you know, but
00:13:37.960 when you, when you know that there are challenges to other children that you are going to have
00:13:42.980 to embrace, it's a real thing.
00:13:45.480 And I, to me, this all comes down to, you know, what are we really willing to do about
00:13:53.020 the problems that are around us?
00:13:54.480 You've got, you've got, you're compelled by your faith.
00:13:57.440 Many of us were compelled by our humanity.
00:14:00.000 You feel that sense that you ought to do certain things.
00:14:03.720 Um, and then it's like, we complain or we think a lot about and talk a lot about all of these
00:14:10.160 issues around us, but we don't often either have a way to do anything about it other than
00:14:15.860 vote or throw some money at it.
00:14:17.500 But this issue, like you can dive into this, you can actually get into it and you can start
00:14:22.400 affecting all kinds of areas in our lives.
00:14:25.720 And so it's really, in one sense, a question of, are we really serious about taking on the
00:14:32.840 problems of society?
00:14:34.220 And are we really serious as Christians being Jesus in those places where he already is?
00:14:39.840 He's, he's beckoning us to come to him.
00:14:41.860 He's not, he's, he's already there.
00:14:43.900 And so that's what we're meant to do.
00:14:46.880 We're meant to go into the hard places.
00:14:48.520 We're meant to do the hard things.
00:14:49.800 And what comes with that is everything you need.
00:14:53.400 It's hard.
00:14:54.320 And it's, it's, we've made sure that that's depicted in the film.
00:14:59.040 We're honest about the things that you're going to face.
00:15:01.580 But the difference is, you know, you genuinely have what you need and you are genuinely changing
00:15:07.700 as a person.
00:15:08.400 You are in, in something that's so dynamic and important.
00:15:13.220 It's not just one thing that's happening.
00:15:15.200 You're not just helping a child in need.
00:15:16.640 You are, you are doing something spiritually dynamic.
00:15:21.160 Literally, you're, you know, you're changing this kid's life, but your, your whole family's
00:15:25.140 affected.
00:15:25.620 There's just a lot going on that people don't necessarily think about, but it takes that
00:15:30.440 willingness to, to dive into the problems and not leave them to somebody else.
00:15:35.880 Now, I should issue a spoiler alert here.
00:15:38.320 Apparently I can't hold water because I, there's another moment in the film that is coming to
00:15:41.700 me and it was just such a deep moment.
00:15:44.040 I really want, I want to ask you about it, Rebecca.
00:15:45.520 And you guys, please go to angel.com slash Candace, use code Candace25 and just, let's
00:15:50.960 make this the best July 4th weekend where we can really start to confront these issues
00:15:54.120 that really matter in America.
00:15:55.740 But going to that moment, and this really is the question that I think everybody asks
00:16:00.000 themselves, you know, if I adopt a child, am I actually going to see this child as my
00:16:07.160 child?
00:16:07.520 And there was this moment in the film where this woman really dealt with this really subconsciously.
00:16:14.640 There was nothing to be mean about.
00:16:16.620 She just, the child was giving her trouble and giving her, her biological daughter trouble.
00:16:21.240 And that to me, like to see that question that I think is in the back of everyone's minds
00:16:26.040 before they ever get to the adoption phase, play out on the big screen.
00:16:29.200 I just have to ask you, Rebecca, you know, is that a conversation that you had with yourself
00:16:34.000 before you jumped into the foster process and the adoption process?
00:16:37.300 Is that a conversation that the two of you have with one another?
00:16:39.800 Like, am I, I want to be the best person that I can be, but we can't stop being ourselves.
00:16:45.520 Is there, is there something bigger going on here?
00:16:47.340 I hope I'm asking that in the right way.
00:16:48.760 Yeah, I mean, I think it's interesting as foster adoptive parents are watching this film,
00:16:55.840 a lot of them are saying like, were you in my closet?
00:16:57.740 Were you listening to my conversations?
00:17:00.260 You know, and, and I think sometimes we're scared to be honest as foster adoptive parents
00:17:04.680 because people put you on a pedestal and they act like, oh, you're some hero or you're special
00:17:09.880 or, and you're feeling weak and vulnerable and like, man, I, I've never felt, you know,
00:17:16.000 like I need more help and more support.
00:17:18.560 And, and so a lot of it was, you know, we experienced a lot of these things personally.
00:17:23.660 I mean, we, when we adopted our children, we adopted a seven, she was seven and her brother
00:17:29.100 was three and, and that was definitely challenging, but, and we had a lot of those, you know, especially
00:17:36.140 when you adopt older children, you don't have that, you miss out on all of that bonding that
00:17:40.720 happens, you know, when you have a baby and you nurse and you wake up with them and you
00:17:44.660 feed them and you watch some, take their first steps and all these things, um, that creates
00:17:49.480 this, this bonding and you don't get that when you adopt older children.
00:17:53.700 So it takes more work and you have to work at it.
00:17:55.640 So it was definitely, you know, we went through a lot of those challenges and, and didn't want
00:18:01.500 to sugarcoat it because the last thing we wanted to do was like draw people into something,
00:18:06.200 make it look easy and have them become disillusioned.
00:18:08.820 So we thought, well, make it look hard, but encourage people that we're called to do hard
00:18:13.980 things.
00:18:14.960 And we actually grow in that process too.
00:18:18.100 Yeah.
00:18:18.240 I mean, I, this is a really important issue.
00:18:20.640 There's like, there's a few key things, you know, fear being one of them, but this is another
00:18:24.640 one I think a lot of people are concerned about.
00:18:27.140 And, you know, I think about it, um, you know, if you have your own biological, biological
00:18:32.540 child, that's acting out and, and doing things that are hard to like because of whatever reason
00:18:39.640 you can have a difficult time liking your own child.
00:18:42.960 I mean, that's a real thing for people.
00:18:45.400 Um, and so you've got children who are traumatized.
00:18:48.520 They've gone through some of the worst things you can go through, losing your biological parents,
00:18:52.100 being hurt by them or whatever.
00:18:53.740 I mean, very deep, profound pain.
00:18:56.760 And so to be healed, to go through the process of being healed, that's messy.
00:19:02.680 And it can be hard just because of what, how they're processing.
00:19:06.660 It can be hard to experience that.
00:19:08.720 And it's like, it's like a really practical thing.
00:19:10.940 Like it's hard to like a kid sometimes that's, that's going through that process.
00:19:16.440 And so it's something I hope people understand it.
00:19:20.240 It's relevant to parenthood and yeah, it's a thing with kids who need healing and it's
00:19:26.140 challenging to keep that perspective, that this, this child is going through something
00:19:31.300 that I don't fully understand.
00:19:33.240 I can't totally relate to God.
00:19:35.320 Give me the patience to, to as a human process with them.
00:19:39.720 And people need to know that that's okay.
00:19:41.320 That's not like now you're an evil person because you don't feel the way you're supposed
00:19:45.300 to feel about the child at that moment.
00:19:47.580 But as we've gone through that with our own kids, it's there.
00:19:51.160 I mean, it's, it's, it really is something that just takes time.
00:19:55.100 And sometimes it's not very much time at all.
00:19:57.780 It's different for everybody and every, every child, but so good.
00:20:01.240 You're asking because it's, it's something that as you process that with people who walk
00:20:06.240 through it, um, it's not as scary as you think.
00:20:09.640 And there are, there are things you can do to help that as certain kinds of parenting,
00:20:13.680 different, different things you can do to make the process easier and more harder for
00:20:17.820 yourself.
00:20:18.140 So it's a really important issue, but, um, shouldn't scare people off.
00:20:22.640 And it's so funny that you say that because it is very true that it is the fear that paralyzes
00:20:27.320 people.
00:20:27.660 They keep these questions in the back of their minds.
00:20:29.420 They don't want to talk about it.
00:20:30.260 And I've recognized that there's a psychology to that.
00:20:31.920 If I don't talk about it, maybe, maybe nobody else is thinking that, but once you ask the
00:20:35.340 question and you hear the answer and you go, yeah, okay, that you might go through this
00:20:39.180 and it's going to take a little bit more work and you realize, okay, this is not going
00:20:42.380 to be a permanent feeling.
00:20:43.540 And yes, whether you have biological children, I have three, you go through days where I say to my
00:20:47.840 husband, you know, I always wondered whether or not when I had children, if I was going
00:20:51.400 to have a favorite child.
00:20:52.740 And I said, the answer is, it depends on what day it is.
00:20:55.980 Are you crying and throwing a tantrum?
00:20:57.420 Okay.
00:20:57.620 You're my favorite today.
00:20:58.720 You're like, and, and, and it is a total normal part of parenting and you, you're not,
00:21:07.060 you're not going to be perfect.
00:21:07.900 And then that's the beauty of having a relationship with God is because you know that you're not
00:21:11.220 alone and you can always give it up to him.
00:21:12.800 And you can always just be better the next day, make, make a real attempt to be better
00:21:17.200 the next day.
00:21:17.840 And then you have moments of just sheer happiness and glee and you're, and you're grateful that
00:21:22.940 you pushed through.
00:21:23.760 And as we all know, God does not give you more than you can handle.
00:21:26.980 Even in the moment when you think, no, there's just no way I could possibly handle anymore.
00:21:31.640 That's usually about the time that I always say you should, you should thank God because
00:21:34.800 he, he's the great mathematician.
00:21:37.060 He is seeing ahead and he is putting you through that.
00:21:39.540 And that is something that you really saw with the, with the possum trot community and
00:21:44.060 community is also what's so important in this world where we've just gotten so far from
00:21:49.360 each other.
00:21:49.720 Everyone's on their phone.
00:21:50.500 There is no sense of community and that's the beauty of the church.
00:21:54.260 It bringing people back together.
00:21:56.380 You're not alone here as a community of people.
00:21:58.680 So I'd love to ask you, what is your relationship now with the possum trot community?
00:22:04.100 How long did you guys live there?
00:22:05.780 And when did you guys leave?
00:22:07.560 We haven't left yet.
00:22:10.060 We're still in the area.
00:22:11.260 Wow.
00:22:12.340 We have, so we have five kids, three are still living with us.
00:22:16.660 And so we knew that if we go, you know, we got to think about school and their life too.
00:22:21.380 We don't want to, you know, be constantly unsettling them, but no, we're still, we're still nearby.
00:22:25.440 We don't know what the future will hold, but you know, it's, it's really nice to be in an area
00:22:30.920 like that with a whole different perspective on life and life together.
00:22:35.700 And, you know, being in LA for so long, it's just very tough to find community like what
00:22:41.300 we're experiencing now.
00:22:42.480 So, you know, we'll see.
00:22:43.900 There's a question mark there, but.
00:22:44.860 Yeah, it's been really good for our kids just to experience a different part of the country
00:22:48.360 and see that not everybody thinks the same, you know, growing up in LA, like everyone
00:22:52.820 thinks the same.
00:22:53.800 And, you know, now they're in Texas and like, wow, people in Texas don't like people.
00:23:00.220 They're like, careful, like we're not from LA, we're from, yeah, it's, it's been a good
00:23:06.280 experience.
00:23:06.820 And we actually don't live in possum trot.
00:23:08.760 We moved to the, the big town outside of possum trot, which is still a small town, but there's
00:23:13.460 at least a Chick-fil-A and a Starbucks.
00:23:14.680 The biggest, we didn't send our kids into shock completely, so.
00:23:19.220 Gotta have the Chick-fil-A.
00:23:21.240 Yeah.
00:23:22.000 So what are you guys hoping is going to be the response to this film, if, if, if anything?
00:23:28.640 Go for it.
00:23:29.500 I mean.
00:23:30.240 Well, you know, our hope is, cause I mean, we were talking a little bit about the foster
00:23:34.500 crisis.
00:23:35.220 I think a lot of people just aren't aware.
00:23:37.020 And that's what we saw when we stepped in is there's just a lack of awareness.
00:23:40.640 People don't know what kids are going through and because they're in the system, they're
00:23:44.000 protected.
00:23:44.580 You can't show pictures.
00:23:45.660 They don't see them.
00:23:47.180 You know, we wanted to really make this issue, like put it out front, highlight it, bring awareness
00:23:54.020 and have people, you know, really we want to bring people's hearts for the kids and see
00:23:59.100 what they're going through so that they'll act and they'll get involved because when they
00:24:03.680 actually see and meet Terry in the story, they're connecting on a deep level emotionally
00:24:09.340 and going, okay, I think I could love like that.
00:24:12.740 And I want to, and we want to see the whole crisis turned around.
00:24:16.980 Really.
00:24:17.400 We want to see this movement of churches all over the country and then see the church
00:24:22.420 rise up and in the foster crisis in America.
00:24:25.380 And why the title Sound of Hope?
00:24:28.720 Right.
00:24:29.100 That's good.
00:24:29.720 So that came through some discussions with Angel Studios and, you know, we've learned
00:24:35.340 over the years that, you know, some of the, let me just name a few of them, like child
00:24:40.500 trafficking itself, anywhere between 70, 90% of those kids have spent time in the foster
00:24:47.140 system.
00:24:47.600 And homeless, you know, 50% of the homeless, 70% of the prison population, you know, there's
00:24:52.700 these areas of life where these, these, these people have had history with the foster system,
00:24:58.260 which means brokenness and trauma and all of those things that come with it.
00:25:01.380 So when Sound of Freedom was released and people, you could just feel people were so moved and
00:25:07.620 we were in theaters where, you know, you could feel that people wanted to do something, but
00:25:12.480 not everybody can go be a Green Beret Christian and, or, you know, you know, child trafficking
00:25:17.140 warrior.
00:25:17.660 So we, we understood those connections.
00:25:20.440 So we talked about it with Angel Studios and said, Hey, look, this is a way to follow
00:25:24.340 up the, the Sound of Freedom phenomenon and not only continue creating awareness and spreading
00:25:31.960 awareness, but giving people a way in.
00:25:34.480 How can they actually get involved in and affect the trafficking issue?
00:25:39.720 Well, you go to the foster system.
00:25:42.320 And so that's one aspect of it.
00:25:43.980 And so they felt like, let's, let's connect it.
00:25:46.020 Like, let's really make sure people understand this is sort of an anthology kind of idea.
00:25:49.940 It's not the same type of movie, but it's, it's actually touching on the same issue and
00:25:56.000 giving people a chance to do maybe more than they could have with that one.
00:25:59.220 Because at the end of this movie, there'll be a website you can go to, you'll be connected
00:26:03.360 to where you can get your church involved to do what Bennett Chapel has done.
00:26:07.360 You can learn how foster and adoption works and be connected to that and get involved there.
00:26:11.720 Or you can get involved in prevention, you know, really keeping kids out of the system.
00:26:17.080 We're helping them reunite with safe, loving families that just are dealing with things
00:26:21.420 that they need help with.
00:26:22.780 So those are the three areas.
00:26:24.420 And, you know, for us, it's like, it's the best thing.
00:26:27.340 You've got this movie that you'll have a cinematic, fun theatrical experience with, moving, emotional,
00:26:35.080 and then you're going to go out and be able to do something and change the world around
00:26:39.480 you.
00:26:39.760 So it's the best, the best of both worlds.
00:26:42.460 Well, I'd like to, again, invite my audience, you guys, for July 3rd and 4th showtimes only
00:26:47.240 go to angel.com slash Candice and use my code Candice25.
00:26:52.640 This is something that you can do.
00:26:53.800 Maybe you're not in a position right now where you're thinking that you can foster a child,
00:26:57.320 but you can support this movie and getting people to recognize, take a friend, you know,
00:27:02.000 embrace this.
00:27:03.580 These are topics that actually matter.
00:27:05.480 I mean, you probably saw action films and all of this stuff.
00:27:08.420 It's not going to make a difference in your life, but this, this actually will.
00:27:11.140 And I am telling you, my heart was pulled in so many ways, so many directions watching
00:27:16.200 this.
00:27:16.560 I felt so blessed to be among the first to see it.
00:27:19.080 And it will really force you to examine yourself and whether or not you're making an imprint
00:27:24.260 in the world.
00:27:24.920 You know, we always ask, what can I do?
00:27:26.080 What can I do?
00:27:26.800 Well, let me tell you, you can support this film.
00:27:28.560 And then having seen this film, you will then deeply ask yourself, am I, am I doing
00:27:33.760 enough?
00:27:34.140 What more can I do?
00:27:35.380 And sometimes it's just being a part of a community, reaching out to community and letting
00:27:39.780 somebody else know that they're not alone when they are going through this process.
00:27:43.940 And as you mentioned, the statistics are incredible.
00:27:46.700 I just want to rattle off a few of them.
00:27:48.680 80% of prison inmates grew up in foster care.
00:27:52.440 I mean, that is unbelievable.
00:27:53.380 You hear so much talk about people that are in prison.
00:27:55.520 Well, the reality is that growing up without a father in the home, growing up without a
00:28:00.900 stable two-parent household, that is the greatest disadvantage to a child, without question.
00:28:07.320 It is a direct pipeline to prison, especially for young men.
00:28:10.860 Another statistic is 91% of gang members have been in the foster system.
00:28:15.460 I did not know that.
00:28:16.480 That is a reality.
00:28:17.920 Another statistic is that 80% of the kids entering foster care have notable mental health
00:28:23.680 needs.
00:28:24.080 70% of foster youth will be on government assistance within four years of aging out.
00:28:29.340 And 50% of the foster youth develop substance abuse by the age of 24.
00:28:34.980 You know, I just want to say to you guys, you are just an amazing couple.
00:28:39.740 I mean, what you are doing, the films that you are bringing, they're courageous.
00:28:43.720 They matter.
00:28:44.960 You know, so much of what we are looking at are fantasy.
00:28:48.140 And we love to plug ourselves into fantasy and we need to begin plugging ourselves into
00:28:53.560 reality.
00:28:54.900 And I just would love to hear the story about how you two met.
00:28:58.200 And when you decided you guys were going to take a bite out of this and say, you know
00:29:04.040 what?
00:29:04.240 Let's actually produce things that matter.
00:29:06.620 Love it.
00:29:07.960 Well, that goes way back to me being, I think, 12 or 13 years old.
00:29:13.260 And I was struck with like what I want to do in life.
00:29:17.240 I mean, I knew I loved movies, but I had this experience where I just felt there was real
00:29:23.140 purpose in it.
00:29:23.980 And somehow creating movies that were different.
00:29:28.100 And the way I would describe it now is I, what I want people to do is have the best possible
00:29:35.100 movie experience you can have.
00:29:37.160 I mean, I love the craft, the art.
00:29:39.120 We all love movies and they ought to be that and be really, really good.
00:29:44.680 And so many times when you want to, you know, say something important, it turns into propaganda.
00:29:49.600 And so I'm not interested in that.
00:29:51.640 I don't really relate to that kind of movie.
00:29:54.100 The faith-based movies are, you know, not sort of my world either.
00:29:57.740 And so it's always been something in my mind.
00:30:00.880 And I want people to experience God when they see these films.
00:30:06.500 I feel like the spiritual nature is an important part of it for me and Rebecca.
00:30:12.420 And, you know, so within a good story, we want them to have hopefully made the choice that
00:30:17.240 people will also experience much more.
00:30:19.920 And so we've always been kind of designed that way.
00:30:23.720 That's how we think.
00:30:24.700 That's how we approach everything.
00:30:26.460 And she, you know, basically we were surprised with Rebecca's involvement.
00:30:30.780 She was pursuing-
00:30:31.240 I didn't like Hollywood.
00:30:32.620 I was like, I'm going to keep you grounded.
00:30:34.660 Like you can be the filmmaker and I'll be the steady and come, you know-
00:30:38.640 Well, she, well, she, we moved in 1998 to Los Angeles for, you know, me to pursue it.
00:30:43.280 And, and eventually we started doing short films and she kind of chimed in every now
00:30:49.720 and again, had like really good ideas.
00:30:51.380 And she was pursuing her master's degree in psychology and all of these other things.
00:30:55.440 And so I talked to her, I'm like, I think we should do something together.
00:30:58.340 And I said, you know, in one movie, you'll be able to do more with that person than probably
00:31:03.680 10 years of counseling.
00:31:04.960 So let's just see what happens with it.
00:31:07.780 And we started creating short films together and we ended up doing one called The Butterfly
00:31:12.500 Circus that, that just took off for us, went viral, won all these awards and people around
00:31:18.840 the world just latched onto this.
00:31:20.600 And it was about a, a limbless guy who is stuck in the sideshow world and he leaves the sideshow
00:31:27.300 world to join up with something like Cirque du Soleil, where he finds, you know, meaning
00:31:31.440 and we do a lot with identity and things like that.
00:31:33.600 And it just like ripped people.
00:31:35.760 And so that opened doors for us.
00:31:37.780 And that's when we really felt like, okay, this is, there's purpose in us working together
00:31:41.640 in that.
00:31:42.240 And we compliment each other gift wise.
00:31:45.040 And so it's, it's been a great.
00:31:47.180 And we started, and we started getting emails from all over the world of like, I struggled
00:31:51.640 with depression and then I watched this film and I, now I know my purpose.
00:31:55.940 And so we've gotten to see, and Josh's like, that would have taken six years of therapy.
00:32:00.200 So, you know, and, and we really do see how the media is impacting culture so much.
00:32:06.020 I mean, these stories are shaping our culture.
00:32:09.080 They're influencing the minds of this generation.
00:32:11.760 And, and that is something that's very important to us is creating art that influences for the
00:32:18.340 good and is positive and brings hope.
00:32:21.780 And, and like you said, early on, like faith is a universal thing that everyone wrestles
00:32:27.260 with.
00:32:27.600 So why are we shying away from faith in Hollywood and putting it in this little corner of faith
00:32:32.200 based films when this is a universal thing that, that people are, you know, deeply moved.
00:32:37.980 Even in pre-screenings of Sound of Hope, even people that don't identify as Christian or
00:32:42.840 having a faith are walking out in tears and saying, you know, I felt something in that
00:32:48.520 movie.
00:32:48.980 What was it?
00:32:50.200 And they're saying, if, if church was like that, I would go to church and it's drawing
00:32:55.020 people.
00:32:55.640 They're saying they're, they're hungry.
00:32:57.260 I think there's a hunger and a thirst for, for truth right now because people are wanting
00:33:02.320 these universal truths and, and it's being expressed.
00:33:05.040 Well, they're running into dead ends with the other stuff.
00:33:06.960 It's like, it's not working.
00:33:08.020 Yeah.
00:33:08.260 And that's, and when you are living through a time of such tremendous darkness, I think
00:33:13.240 people naturally then go and pursue light and you're correct.
00:33:17.100 Maybe, maybe they don't have faith.
00:33:18.520 And that's why many of my listeners, and I love hearing, you know, listening to your show
00:33:22.360 made me want to go to church and some people are not there and you take a different step.
00:33:26.260 Well, I can promise you that if you are thinking about spirituality, if you're grappling
00:33:30.400 with the understanding that we are facing dark times, you're grappling with an understanding
00:33:33.960 that there's, there's a lot going on in this world and, and you, we can't pretend it's
00:33:38.100 not.
00:33:38.700 You are absolutely going to love this film.
00:33:41.200 It is going to compel you and move you in so many different ways.
00:33:44.280 And so I just want to, again, remind my listeners, please, please, please go to angel.com
00:33:48.460 slash Candace and use my code Candace25.
00:33:52.040 Buy tickets, buy more tickets than you need.
00:33:53.860 Give it to someone who, who maybe doesn't have the means to buy a ticket and go with them
00:33:59.160 to the theater and watch this and you will be forever moved by this.
00:34:03.240 You guys, I know that we are coming up against time here.
00:34:05.720 And I just want to say that I truly feel that God has his hand on you.
00:34:09.260 And I know that this film is going to be a tremendous success.
00:34:12.480 And I want to thank you on behalf of everyone, uh, for having the courage because it's, it's
00:34:17.660 not just the heart, but also having the courage to do the work, to bring this film to the
00:34:21.940 big screen.
00:34:23.920 Thank you.
00:34:25.080 And we want to shout out to angel studios too, because as you know, you've seen the
00:34:30.060 film, there's some hard things.
00:34:31.540 I mean, it's gritty.
00:34:33.480 Um, there's some scenes.
00:34:34.620 I don't know if you recognize Josh from the pastor scene, pastor Mark, he played the mega
00:34:38.580 church pastor.
00:34:39.440 Oh my gosh.
00:34:40.580 Yes.
00:34:41.820 I just put two and two together.
00:34:45.180 I know.
00:34:45.900 I told him, I'm like, people all over the country are not going to know who you are.
00:34:48.740 They're just going to not like you for some reason.
00:34:51.460 You know, that was a risky scene.
00:34:53.280 And, and there was a lot of companies and people that said, you know, you need to take
00:34:57.320 out that scene.
00:34:58.280 That's going to offend your core audience.
00:35:00.080 And, but it's not, I mean, people are walking out feeling really, you know, we had one pastor
00:35:05.000 walk out of a screening and say, I'm like that pastor and I need to change.
00:35:09.900 And so, you know, angel studios is taking risks that a lot of people aren't taking.
00:35:14.440 So we're grateful that for the distribution and, and thankful that you're using your voice
00:35:19.220 to bring people out and encourage people to see it.
00:35:22.140 So thank you.
00:35:23.260 Yes, definitely.
00:35:24.320 Thank you so much.
00:35:25.280 Well, to both of you, Josh, Rebecca, Weigel, this is going to be an amazing success.
00:35:29.340 God bless you.
00:35:30.400 And, and we'll be praying for you.
00:35:32.660 Thank you.
00:35:33.300 Thanks, Candice.
00:35:33.700 Thank you, Candice.
00:35:34.540 Great time being here.
00:35:35.200 God bless you.
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