5 PRACTICAL Tips To Live A More CONSERVATIVE Life ｜｜ Practical advice to live out your values!
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5 Practical Tips to Live a Conservative Life in a Conservative Setting by The Classic Crew on how to live a more conservative life 1. Live close to family 2. Only move to a city that shares your values 3. Only go to a college or city that has a community that shares values 4. Only live in a city where you can see your family 5. Move to college or a new city in order to be near family
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Hello Classic Crew and welcome to today's video where we're going to be talking about
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five practical tips to live a more conservative life.
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So what is a conservative life? A conservative life is a life lived with values, a life lived
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with meaning, a life lived with purpose, a life lived in service to God, and a life lived with
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community. Conservatives believe that life is about real fundamental values, not just about living
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for money or success or for fleeting pleasures. We believe that we shouldn't just do things because
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they're fun, but we should do things because they're right. Now this video really is more
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geared towards singles, towards people who are going into college, who are in college, or who
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just got out of college. This is a little bit less applicable for people who are already married,
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who are already a little bit further along in their lives. So this is for those people who are
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just kind of starting out. So I'm really excited to share these five practical ways for you to live a
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more conservative life, so let's get into it. Number one is to live close enough to family that you
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can spontaneously travel to visit and see them. If you're living far away from family, it's really
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easy to get lonely and start acting in ways that you wouldn't normally act. You don't have those
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people that you normally trust to set you on the straight and narrow path, and the people that you
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surround yourself with when you are far away from family kind of become your substitute family,
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and if you're not around the right kinds of people, you may end up being steered in the wrong direction.
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Being close to family means that you can drive and see them whenever you feel like you do need
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somebody to check in on you, or if you want to check in on them, you can easily get there.
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Being close to family is such an important part of the values that conservatives believe in,
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so it's great to be able to say, okay, I want to head home for a weekend. I want to see my sister
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tomorrow. I want to be able to get home easily. Now, does that mean you have to live around the corner?
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No, but it does mean that if you want to be able to go away for a weekend, so maybe it's a five-hour
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drive, it's close enough that it's doable. Now, this also doesn't mean that you have to be near
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your parents. It can mean that you're near a sibling. If it's your sister or your brother,
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somebody that you really do trust that can give you good advice and that you can go to when you do feel
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like you are starting to get a little bit overwhelmed, that's something that's great for you to be able to do.
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You should make the choice so that you can head home whenever you're feeling a little bit less
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than normal and so that you can just enjoy being close to your family. But just making sure that
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you can get home when times are feeling tough or when you're feeling down or when you're feeling
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lonely, it will prevent you from making decisions out of loneliness or out of confusion and instead
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will remind you of what's important, which is so great. And I have to say, as somebody who did go to
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college close to home, it was really wonderful to be able to go home when I needed to and it really
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did kind of keep me a little bit more guided when I was surrounded by people who were doing things
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that were not of my value system. I was able to go home and see, okay, this is kind of more normal
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and I can talk to my parents about it and I could talk to my siblings about it and it was important for
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me to keep my head on straight. Number two is only go to a college or move to a city that has a
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community that shares your values and or your religion. When you're picking a college or moving
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to a new city, you can't just think about the degree or the job. Being conservative isn't just about
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success and money. It's about those fundamental values and how to live a more dignified and moral
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life. So faith, family, and community are incredibly important to our lifestyle. And so just going somewhere
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because of that degree or because of that job isn't going to give you that support that you need.
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So think about your move to college or to a new city holistically. The people you surround
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yourself with are not just going to determine how happy you are, but they're also going to determine
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the kind of person that you'll become. If there's nobody there who shares the same faith as you,
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you'll stray from your own faith because there's just nobody there to support you and you'll start
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to feel alone. And when people feel alone, they really will do anything to evade that feeling.
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If no one shares your values or your political beliefs, you might start to be pressured out of
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those beliefs that you hold because everyone around you thinks that you're different and
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thinks that you're maybe even a bad person for having those beliefs. And not having the people
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around to support you will really make a difference in who you start to become. Surrounding yourself with
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the people who will support your values and support your mission will really be vital to the person
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that you do start to become. And it's just practical because at the end of the day, your loneliness will
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dictate your choices and if you choose to move to a place that doesn't have anybody who shares your
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values, your political beliefs, or your faith, you'll just start to do things that you wouldn't normally
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do. Now this is something you can really practically do. Jacob and I, whenever we move to a new city,
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we do some research online. We see where's the Jewish community? Where should we live? Is there a synagogue there?
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Is there an Orthodox Jewish community there? Can we reach out to anyone in advance? We really try
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and do our research before we go so that we do have a community there, so that we are supported
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there. And you can do that for college too. You can see, is there a YAF chapter at that campus? Is there
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a great faith-based community there that I share? Just really being deliberate in that choice is going to
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affect your conservative life. Number three is only buy clothing that really reflects what you believe.
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There are times I'll walk into TJ Maxx or any store and I'll see something that I think is really cute
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or I think would look really good on me and I'll have that impulse to buy it because it is cute and
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I do like it. But if it doesn't reflect who I am, I'll bring it home. Maybe it's not modest enough.
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Maybe I'll wear it once or twice and then I'll realize this isn't really who I want to be and it just
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ends up being given away. Don't waste your money on pieces of clothing that don't match your values.
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If you don't think that a short red dress is modest, don't buy it because either you'll wear
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it because you feel like you spent the money and you have to and it's not a reflection of what you
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truly believe, or you won't wear it at all and you'll feel like you wasted the money. Don't buy a
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shirt that has a slogan that doesn't really reflect your values. And the other thing about this is that
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this will prevent other people from thinking that you're someone that you're not. If you're constantly
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wearing clothing that doesn't really match who you are and doesn't really match and reflect your
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values, then people might think that you're not as conservative as you are and you won't make
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friends with those people who are conservative and who do actually share your values. You might
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actually end up limiting your social interactions with the kind of people that you'd want to hang
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out with if you wear clothing that would attract somebody totally different from that. Number four
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is don't do any activity just to be social. Stand by your values. In my opinion, you don't only have to be
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friends with people who share your exact values and who believe everything that you believe. But when
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you do have friends who don't share your values, it's easy to get sucked in and want to go out with
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them even if it's an activity that you would never normally do. They may want to go to a club or do
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drugs and if you're lonely, it's something you might agree to. If they want to drink and you're underage,
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you might agree to it because you don't want to be alone. But don't ever do something you wouldn't
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otherwise do just because you're lonely. Because there's so many other options for what you can do
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with those friends. You can go to coffee, you can go shopping, maybe have a board game night.
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But you'll always regret going out with friends just to go out if it's something that you would
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never normally do. And it's better to do something alone that you'll enjoy than it is to go out with
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people and be social doing something you know you'll regret. Number five is recognize that marriage
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isn't just a nice thing and actually take the steps to make it happen. Now I'm not saying that you can
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make marriage happen because obviously you need to meet the right person and it's really hard when
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you are someone who does want to get married and it's just not happening. You haven't met the right
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person and it just hasn't happened for you yet. So that is not my point here. But if you're being
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promiscuous and not taking marriage seriously and telling yourself it'll be fine because it'll
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happen down the line and you'll just take it seriously when you need to, you are not making
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yourself available for when you meet the right person. Now for men, this is sort of related to the stuff I was
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talking about in my five ways to attract a classic and conservative woman. I'll link that video up
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above here. But for men, you really need to get yourself in position to attract that classic and
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conservative woman. And if you're playing around not taking marriage seriously, sleeping with people,
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and not trying to actually date someone who you'd marry, then it's going to be really difficult for
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you to actually meet someone. So stop sleeping around, take marriage seriously, and take your life
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seriously. So those are my five practical ways to live a more conservative life. If you guys have
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any other great tips, I'd love to hear them. Leave them in the comments below. Thank you guys so much
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