Classically Abby - June 28, 2021


How To Be Attractive...To MEN ｜｜ It's Not Wrong To Look Good For The Opposite Sex!


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7 minutes

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209.08508

Word count

1,522

Sentence count

93

Harmful content

Misogyny

10

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Hate speech

3

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5 ways to be more attractive to men: 1. Wearing natural makeup. 2. Wear dresses. 3. Look feminine. 4. Have a smile. 5. Have fun! If you like what you hear, please HIT SUBSCRIBE on Apple Podcasts or wherever else you get your content.

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00:00:00.000 Hello, Classic Crew, and welcome to today's video where we're going to be talking about
00:00:04.480 five ways to be more attractive to men. 0.99
00:00:12.340 I'm sure this video is going to get a ton of hate from women who don't want to be told 1.00
00:00:17.580 that they need to look attractive for men, that they should be able to dress however
00:00:20.880 they want, and that the way that they dress is really for themselves.
00:00:24.080 But here's the thing.
00:00:25.240 There are times that we dress for ourselves.
00:00:27.100 There are times we do our makeup for ourselves.
00:00:28.740 I am not immune to this.
00:00:30.680 But it's not wrong to want to look attractive to men, and the things that are attractive
00:00:35.760 to men are not necessarily the same things that are attractive to ourselves and to other
00:00:40.340 women. 0.81
00:00:40.980 The trends are not always going to be the most flattering thing.
00:00:44.220 They're not always going to be the most feminine thing, but they're fun to wear, and a lot of
00:00:48.340 women enjoy that. 1.00
00:00:49.700 But if we stick with the things that men find attractive, you might find that you end up
00:00:54.220 being more attractive to the men that you're interested in.
00:00:56.920 And I don't think that's a bad thing.
00:00:58.980 I think it's actually really important to try and look nice for the opposite sex when 1.00
00:01:03.940 you're trying to attract someone.
00:01:05.900 Now, of course, I'm not talking about being attractive to men in the sense of being a sex
00:01:10.620 object to men, because if we wanted to do that, we could just walk around naked.
00:01:14.820 What I'm talking about here is the sort of things that would attract a man to you so that
00:01:19.700 he could get to know you and get to know your personality.
00:01:21.980 Now, is it bad to dress in a way that you enjoy that isn't as attractive to men?
00:01:27.240 No.
00:01:27.620 It's okay.
00:01:28.160 There are times that it's totally fine to do that.
00:01:30.460 I have certain outfits that Jacob is not a big fan of and that my girlfriends think is
00:01:34.740 super cool.
00:01:35.780 But at the end of the day, if you're trying to attract a guy, specifically dressing in
00:01:40.080 a way that is not attractive to him is just not going to be that useful.
00:01:44.440 So now that I'm done with my diatribe, now that I'm going to have every woman in the 0.71
00:01:49.220 world who doesn't want to hear this angry at me, let's get into it.
00:01:53.240 So the first way to be attractive to men is to wear natural makeup.
00:01:57.840 Men are attracted to the way that you actually look.
00:02:00.780 So wearing makeup that is going to accentuate your natural features is more conducive to
00:02:05.480 a man being attracted to you.
00:02:07.300 So wearing a bright blue makeup look, which I did the other day for fun, is not necessarily
00:02:12.680 going to be the thing that is attractive to a man.
00:02:15.620 Wearing a ton of makeup and a lot of contour and a lot of highlight and blush, that isn't
00:02:21.620 going to really look like you.
00:02:23.440 It's not going to look as natural and it's not going to be as attractive to a man.
00:02:27.440 Is there a time and place for a super glam look?
00:02:30.180 Of course.
00:02:31.140 Is that going to be the time when you're trying to just attract a guy?
00:02:34.480 Probably not.
00:02:35.280 So wearing a really colorful eyeshadow or wearing a purple lip, that's really not the thing
00:02:40.960 that's going to be the most attractive to a man.
00:02:42.780 You want to make yourself just look nicer.
00:02:45.540 So wearing a pretty mascara, wearing a tinted moisturizer or something that has more coverage
00:02:50.860 if you're not as confident in your skin, wearing a pretty eyeshadow that's not too far away
00:02:56.640 from your skin tone, that stuff is going to be more attractive to men than really doing
00:03:02.380 like a crazy intense glam look just generally.
00:03:06.160 So that is my first tip to looking more attractive to men.
00:03:10.140 Number two is wear dresses.
00:03:12.600 Men love dresses. 0.79
00:03:13.900 They love sundresses.
00:03:14.920 It's a meme on the internet that men love sundresses.
00:03:17.880 Dresses are feminine.
00:03:19.420 They accentuate the differences between men and women.
00:03:23.000 They show off your figure in a feminine way. 1.00
00:03:25.760 So wearing dresses is really going to be attractive to men.
00:03:29.560 Wearing jeans and a t-shirt, yeah, there's a time and place.
00:03:32.260 But wearing a pretty sundress is always a pretty good guarantee that you're going to look attractive
00:03:37.380 to someone of the opposite sex.
00:03:39.380 I have a ton of dresses.
00:03:41.300 I always talk about how much I love dresses.
00:03:43.820 And Jacob loves when I wear dresses.
00:03:46.000 He really does comment almost every time I wear a dress and say how much he loves it.
00:03:49.800 And in general, I think that men are attracted to women in dresses, in skirts, in flowier garments,
00:03:55.560 or rather in things that are just going to accentuate the differences between men and women. 0.58
00:04:02.260 Number three, I'm going to get hate for, smile more.
00:04:05.860 Men like seeing women smile because it means that we're happy and we're fun to be around.
00:04:09.720 No one wants to be around somebody who has a grumpy face.
00:04:12.680 It doesn't look like they're going to be a ton of fun to be around.
00:04:15.480 But seeing someone who is a happy person, who's smiling all the time,
00:04:19.600 that is somebody who you want to be around.
00:04:21.920 It's an attractive quality.
00:04:23.580 And that doesn't mean that if you're feeling really down or if something bad is happening,
00:04:27.640 you have to paste on a smile.
00:04:29.960 But as you're kind of moving through life, think about if you're smiling while you're doing it.
00:04:35.260 Because think about how when you're old,
00:04:37.100 do you want your wrinkles to reflect how much you smiled in a given day?
00:04:40.860 Or do you want your wrinkles to reflect how angry you were?
00:04:43.780 I'm just saying, men like seeing smiling women because it shows them that you are a happy person,
00:04:49.780 that you're going to be fun to be around, and that you're going to make their day brighter.
00:04:54.280 And smiling, it just shows that you are positive.
00:04:57.820 And that's not a bad thing.
00:04:59.460 Honestly, I think a smiling person is pretty much attractive to anybody,
00:05:02.640 but it'll definitely be more attractive to men.
00:05:05.420 Number four is put on perfume.
00:05:07.480 I don't know how many times I've said this on my channel, but I love perfume.
00:05:11.660 I think that perfume is one of the most feminine things that women can wear. 1.00
00:05:15.760 And smelling lovely is so classic.
00:05:18.300 So putting on a nice smelling perfume is going to be so attractive to men.
00:05:22.840 Now, of course, you don't want to put on so much that when you walk into a room,
00:05:25.460 it's like you're hitting the face with scent.
00:05:27.520 Terrible.
00:05:28.260 But you do want to have just a little on so that when you pass someone,
00:05:32.280 they kind of get a whiff of whatever scent you're wearing.
00:05:34.800 And that is super attractive.
00:05:37.480 Also, smell is a very powerful sense.
00:05:40.300 So if you wear a certain perfume and you wear it all the time,
00:05:44.080 a guy might end up kind of recognizing that smell and associating it with you.
00:05:49.000 Last but not least, don't wear your hair in a super severe ponytail.
00:05:53.400 That is not going to be as attractive to men.
00:05:55.960 Men like seeing your hair loose.
00:05:57.780 They like seeing your hair styled but pretty.
00:05:59.940 They like seeing that your hair is just healthy because that's a sign that you are healthy.
00:06:05.320 And they like seeing that your hair is pretty and styled and brushed because that's a sign that you take care of yourself.
00:06:11.560 Now, if you style your hair in a very severe ponytail, it's not saying that your hair isn't healthy.
00:06:15.760 It's not saying that you don't take care of yourself.
00:06:17.900 It just looks very severe.
00:06:20.300 And one of the things that is different between men and women, not always but in many ways,
00:06:24.980 is that men can be a little bit more on the severe side and women are a little bit softer.
00:06:29.500 And your hair can reflect that.
00:06:31.780 So putting your hair down, wearing your hair in flowing curls, that is a much more feminine way to style your hair 0.99
00:06:38.400 than to tie it back in a really, really slicked back ponytail.
00:06:42.560 That is just not going to appeal to men in the same way.
00:06:46.280 So that is it for today's video.
00:06:48.220 Those are the five ways that you can be more attractive to men.
00:06:51.160 I'd be interested to know in the comments what do you think are some ways that you can be more attractive to men.
00:06:55.600 So thank you so much for watching.
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