How To Be Attractive...To MEN ｜｜ It's Not Wrong To Look Good For The Opposite Sex!
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Summary
5 ways to be more attractive to men: 1. Wearing natural makeup. 2. Wear dresses. 3. Look feminine. 4. Have a smile. 5. Have fun! If you like what you hear, please HIT SUBSCRIBE on Apple Podcasts or wherever else you get your content.
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Hello, Classic Crew, and welcome to today's video where we're going to be talking about
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I'm sure this video is going to get a ton of hate from women who don't want to be told
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that they need to look attractive for men, that they should be able to dress however
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they want, and that the way that they dress is really for themselves.
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There are times we do our makeup for ourselves.
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But it's not wrong to want to look attractive to men, and the things that are attractive
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to men are not necessarily the same things that are attractive to ourselves and to other
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The trends are not always going to be the most flattering thing.
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They're not always going to be the most feminine thing, but they're fun to wear, and a lot of
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But if we stick with the things that men find attractive, you might find that you end up
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being more attractive to the men that you're interested in.
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I think it's actually really important to try and look nice for the opposite sex when
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Now, of course, I'm not talking about being attractive to men in the sense of being a sex
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object to men, because if we wanted to do that, we could just walk around naked.
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What I'm talking about here is the sort of things that would attract a man to you so that
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he could get to know you and get to know your personality.
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Now, is it bad to dress in a way that you enjoy that isn't as attractive to men?
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There are times that it's totally fine to do that.
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I have certain outfits that Jacob is not a big fan of and that my girlfriends think is
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But at the end of the day, if you're trying to attract a guy, specifically dressing in
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a way that is not attractive to him is just not going to be that useful.
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So now that I'm done with my diatribe, now that I'm going to have every woman in the
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world who doesn't want to hear this angry at me, let's get into it.
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So the first way to be attractive to men is to wear natural makeup.
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Men are attracted to the way that you actually look.
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So wearing makeup that is going to accentuate your natural features is more conducive to
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So wearing a bright blue makeup look, which I did the other day for fun, is not necessarily
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going to be the thing that is attractive to a man.
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Wearing a ton of makeup and a lot of contour and a lot of highlight and blush, that isn't
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It's not going to look as natural and it's not going to be as attractive to a man.
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Is there a time and place for a super glam look?
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Is that going to be the time when you're trying to just attract a guy?
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So wearing a really colorful eyeshadow or wearing a purple lip, that's really not the thing
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that's going to be the most attractive to a man.
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So wearing a pretty mascara, wearing a tinted moisturizer or something that has more coverage
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if you're not as confident in your skin, wearing a pretty eyeshadow that's not too far away
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from your skin tone, that stuff is going to be more attractive to men than really doing
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So that is my first tip to looking more attractive to men.
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It's a meme on the internet that men love sundresses.
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They accentuate the differences between men and women.
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So wearing dresses is really going to be attractive to men.
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Wearing jeans and a t-shirt, yeah, there's a time and place.
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But wearing a pretty sundress is always a pretty good guarantee that you're going to look attractive
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He really does comment almost every time I wear a dress and say how much he loves it.
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And in general, I think that men are attracted to women in dresses, in skirts, in flowier garments,
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or rather in things that are just going to accentuate the differences between men and women.
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Number three, I'm going to get hate for, smile more.
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Men like seeing women smile because it means that we're happy and we're fun to be around.
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No one wants to be around somebody who has a grumpy face.
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It doesn't look like they're going to be a ton of fun to be around.
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But seeing someone who is a happy person, who's smiling all the time,
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And that doesn't mean that if you're feeling really down or if something bad is happening,
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But as you're kind of moving through life, think about if you're smiling while you're doing it.
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do you want your wrinkles to reflect how much you smiled in a given day?
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Or do you want your wrinkles to reflect how angry you were?
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I'm just saying, men like seeing smiling women because it shows them that you are a happy person,
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that you're going to be fun to be around, and that you're going to make their day brighter.
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And smiling, it just shows that you are positive.
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Honestly, I think a smiling person is pretty much attractive to anybody,
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but it'll definitely be more attractive to men.
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I don't know how many times I've said this on my channel, but I love perfume.
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I think that perfume is one of the most feminine things that women can wear.
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So putting on a nice smelling perfume is going to be so attractive to men.
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Now, of course, you don't want to put on so much that when you walk into a room,
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But you do want to have just a little on so that when you pass someone,
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they kind of get a whiff of whatever scent you're wearing.
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So if you wear a certain perfume and you wear it all the time,
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a guy might end up kind of recognizing that smell and associating it with you.
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Last but not least, don't wear your hair in a super severe ponytail.
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They like seeing that your hair is just healthy because that's a sign that you are healthy.
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And they like seeing that your hair is pretty and styled and brushed because that's a sign that you take care of yourself.
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Now, if you style your hair in a very severe ponytail, it's not saying that your hair isn't healthy.
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It's not saying that you don't take care of yourself.
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And one of the things that is different between men and women, not always but in many ways,
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is that men can be a little bit more on the severe side and women are a little bit softer.
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So putting your hair down, wearing your hair in flowing curls, that is a much more feminine way to style your hair
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than to tie it back in a really, really slicked back ponytail.
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That is just not going to appeal to men in the same way.
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Those are the five ways that you can be more attractive to men.
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I'd be interested to know in the comments what do you think are some ways that you can be more attractive to men.
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