Classically Abby - April 02, 2020


LADIES, STOP HOOKING UP ｜｜ A Jewish wife's message about sex!


Episode Stats


Length

2 minutes

Words per minute

188.73239

Word count

536

Sentence count

45

Harmful content

Misogyny

5

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Toxicity

6

sentences flagged

Hate speech

5

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Summary

Summaries generated with gmurro/bart-large-finetuned-filtered-spotify-podcast-summ .

Why you should stop having sex with the wrong people and stop waiting until marriage to have sex with anyone and everyone. Why you should wait until you and your partner are in a healthy relationship before you even start having sex.

Transcript

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Misogyny classifications generated with MilaNLProc/bert-base-uncased-ear-misogyny .
Toxicity classifications generated with s-nlp/roberta_toxicity_classifier .
Hate speech classifications generated with facebook/roberta-hate-speech-dynabench-r4-target .
00:00:00.000 Hello beautiful ladies and welcome to today's video where we're going to be talking about 1.00
00:00:04.400 why you should stop hooking up. 0.79
00:00:09.440 If you're a woman in 2020, you've heard you need to be empowered. You do you. The patriarchy is 1.00
00:00:16.560 holding you back. Sleep with who you want, when you want. But this is a bunch of lies. Maybe you
00:00:23.220 want to hook up with a guy because you care about him and you don't want to let him get away.
00:00:26.720 Sleeping with him is the easiest way for him to take you and your feelings for granted. Holding
00:00:32.240 out will tell you whether he's willing to wait and will tell him that you're worth waiting for.
00:00:36.800 I've seen it happen before. Maybe you want to have sex with a guy you really like and can see having 0.95
00:00:41.960 a future with. Hooking up with him could mask all of the problems in your relationship that would 0.58
00:00:46.400 lead to your eventual breakup and just prolong the inevitable. Sex will only muddy the waters and 0.90
00:00:51.320 prevent you from making a clear-headed decision. Maybe you want to have sex with someone because 0.83
00:00:55.760 you're lonely and it will fill up the time until you meet the right person. Having sex with the 0.99
00:01:00.480 wrong person is the easiest way to prolong your loneliness since you'll be too distracted to find 0.96
00:01:05.680 Mr. Right. Maybe you want to have sex because hey, it's fun. You know what's not fun? STDs, pregnancy
00:01:12.480 scares, waking up next to someone you have no emotional connection with, and wasting your time.
00:01:18.160 Now let's get the record straight. I'm not saying sex is bad. In fact, sex is wonderful. But sex with the
00:01:24.080 wrong person is not. Sex by itself is nothing. It's regret when the act is done and sadness knowing 0.53
00:01:31.040 nothing else will come of it. Love, marriage, a family, a future all fit in with sex and make sex 0.88
00:01:38.080 so much more than a physical act. You know how you crave ice cream but if you ate ice cream all the time
00:01:42.800 your healthy lifestyle would go out the window? It's the same with sex. That healthy lifestyle you want 0.99
00:01:48.160 disappears when you have sex with anyone and everyone wherever and whenever. There's a reason
00:01:54.320 that women who wait until marriage to have sex are happier on average than women who do not. A good 1.00
00:01:59.680 guy will wait for you no matter what. A bad guy won't. When you wait, you respect yourself and your body
00:02:06.720 enough to share it with someone on a healthy timeline. You're just waiting to have that ice cream until
00:02:12.080 the moment is right. So listen up ladies. Let's be classic. Stop hooking up. It might be harder now 1.00
00:02:18.080 but it will be better in the long run. Thank you so much for watching today's video. Please subscribe
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00:02:36.560 you guys in my next video. Bye!