Clavicular - January 04, 2026


How To Ascend Fast in 2026 (Full Guide)

Topics
working in a restaurant to become more sociable
Hosted by
Braden Eric Peters
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Length

10 minutes

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213.66

Word count

2,183

Sentence count

1

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Misogyny

1

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Toxicity

32

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Hate speech

13

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In this episode, I talk about how to become more sociable, and offer some niche tips on how you can become a better one. I also give a brief backstory on my own neurodivergence journey, and how I became sociable.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 hey how's it going guys i just wanted to make a little video uh you know kind of talking to my
00:00:04.000 followers uh maybe because i could offer some advice because i've i've dealt with a lot of
00:00:09.120 issues with you know neurodivergency and that kind of so hopefully this video could
00:00:15.360 help you out a little bit and help you work on being more nt more sociable and just some
00:00:20.640 niche little tips right so to give you a little bit of backstory um you know i wasn't always the
00:00:25.520 most nt sociable person i was actually very very bad i was probably bottom 50th percentile in terms
00:00:32.640 of my social ability in terms of just being able to make simple small talk my vocabulary all very bad
00:00:40.240 but the way that i ascended this and this is kind of a niche little tip but actually just working
00:00:46.400 in a restaurant was really the best way that i became more sociable right because you're forced
00:00:52.160 into tons of little micro interactions on the daily basis uh whether that be with co-workers
00:00:58.160 whether that be with patrons regardless um and the thing you guys need to realize is it's not the
00:01:04.080 content of what you say right if you say the word mog or maxing that's not going to make you
00:01:10.000 neurodivergent right that might be a little bit you know throw people off like what the 0.81
00:01:14.480 fuck are you talking about but being neurodivergent is really coming down to uh you know your your 0.66
00:01:22.480 micro expressions and you know your ability to just converse with people and make eye contact 0.99
00:01:29.360 so it's all these kind of factors that are really going to throw people off when it comes to
00:01:33.440 are you autistic or are you normal right so you have to be practicing this to a large degree is it 0.99
00:01:39.600 genetic is it something that you are predisposed to absolutely right i'm not going to sit here and 0.98
00:01:44.800 say uh people with asperger's can ascend by working in a restaurant that'd be ridiculous
00:01:50.080 but in terms of just being able to practice uh you know i would say that working as a server a
00:01:54.880 bartender would be amazing for you right because not only do you have to make small talk you're forced
00:02:00.560 into it it's your job right you also have to understand when people don't want to talk to you
00:02:05.280 so it's it's really amazing right so sometimes you'll be talking to a table and they just don't 0.79
00:02:10.160 want to fucking talk to you and their body language will show that and sure it'll take you a little 0.93
00:02:14.720 bit of time and a little bit of practice to pick up on things like this but it really does go a long 0.99
00:02:19.360 way right so this kind of helped me out especially when it comes to you know talking to girls
00:02:24.960 a girl most of the time especially if you're someone like me who's 0.93
00:02:28.320 fucking roided up and jacked tall most of the time they're going to tell you to straight up 0.99
00:02:33.120 fuck off but they're certainly not going to be interested right so you got to learn when that is 0.99
00:02:37.600 right and that's going to be through body language so once you get that experience once you figure out 0.99
00:02:42.400 you know people telling you things without actually speaking it's going to go a long way in terms of
00:02:47.360 how nt you are now the next thing i want to move on to is inhibition right usually people with you know
00:02:54.560 higher inhibition tend to be a little bit aspy they're kind of correlated uh but the goal should be
00:03:00.480 to be low inhibition right you want to be low inhibition so you go up talk to people not have
00:03:04.960 a fucking care in the world right so that's always been the goal of lux maxers is low in it so how 0.90
00:03:10.240 exactly do you do this in a sustainable way we've got tons of things uh tons of different drugs we've 0.95
00:03:15.520 got alcohol but i would advise you to stay away from that because of how bad the oxidative stress is
00:03:21.520 right how bad it is for your growth pathways especially if you're a young guy uh you're going to a bar
00:03:26.480 drinking it's just not good for gains you wake up the next day you're feeling like absolute dog 0.81
00:03:30.640 shit just don't do it right uh and if you do decide to do it make sure you're using antioxidants like 0.93
00:03:35.680 glutathione um so the next thing i'll say is what's a good replacement that's not as toxic well we've got 0.97
00:03:41.920 our pregabalin we've got our baclofen uh things of this nature to agonize different receptors uh to a
00:03:48.160 similar degree of as alcohol right um you know you might think oh well alcohol is a a gabba agonist right so
00:03:56.080 maybe you should go with something like a benzo but i would advise you to stay the
00:03:59.680 away from those because there's a high dependency rate so as much as i recommend crazy shit definitely
00:04:05.440 don't go that direction so a little bit of pregab a little bit of baclofen and surprisingly uh this is
00:04:11.280 kind of a rare thing and this will vary person to person but stimulants tend to make you more sociable
00:04:16.320 tend to make you more outgoing so you could experiment with that you know drink caffeine drink energy drinks
00:04:21.120 when you're at the bar sugar-free red bulls these things all could be fantastic so um you know between
00:04:26.800 this stack uh you know and experience and talking to more people you're eventually going to become 0.95
00:04:32.880 nt right because it wasn't that long ago when i didn't know how to fucking talk to people for the love of god 0.87
00:04:39.280 but now what i do is i'm always on top of my game with practice right if there's ever a circumstance 0.70
00:04:44.960 in my life where i'm standing in an elevator or i'm waiting in line somewhere just try just try to
00:04:51.920 talk to people right this is going to make you better and when it comes to things that actually
00:04:55.920 matter like talking to girls uh you know you're actually going to improve your your odds a lot
00:05:00.800 right so um and the thing is i want to move back to the restaurant point because that's what really
00:05:05.840 helped me you're also going to learn how to interact with people uh in authoritarian uh you know
00:05:11.520 positions people who have authority or authority over you rather um so this is really going to help
00:05:16.800 you in your everyday life because you're going to learn how to deal with a boss you're going to learn
00:05:20.720 how to deal with co-workers especially if you're a young guy which most of you guys are who are
00:05:24.720 watching this i really would advise you know you get this out of your way and mature as soon as you
00:05:30.080 could possibly can right because i'll talk to a lot of guys that are around my age i'm 19 years old and 0.99
00:05:34.720 they're way behind right they're still making stupid fucking jokes they don't know how to talk to people 0.99
00:05:39.440 you know they're not very assertive just all these different fellows all these different flaws 1.00
00:05:45.040 and it really just makes me wonder like what the have you guys been up to throughout high school right
00:05:50.080 and that's the other point that i want to come back to is assertiveness if you don't like something 0.93
00:05:54.720 as a man uh you got to fucking tell people that straight up to their face and the thing that i you 0.92
00:05:59.920 know did to become more assertive was i worked as a security guard at a nightclub right uh if you have 0.99
00:06:05.600 to tell people get the fuck out of the bar right now uh it's really you know going to become a lot 0.99
00:06:10.800 easier to tell people in everyday life hey man i don't fucking want you to do that shit i don't 0.99
00:06:16.480 want you to say that to me it becomes a lot easier and the thing that's going to help you more with this 0.98
00:06:21.200 is your frame right your frame is your presence how tall you are and how muscular you are uh that's
00:06:27.520 going to make you more assertive by default people are just going to listen to what you're saying
00:06:31.920 so if you're manlet if all these things are true if you're a frame cell might be a little bit more
00:06:36.560 difficult but if you really learn how to talk and you know really learn how to command the room you
00:06:41.360 could overcome these things i look at a guy like greg doucette uh you know when he's doing his gym 0.67
00:06:45.840 videos and he's talking he's addressing the room he still has presence right even though he's a little
00:06:50.880 guy a lot of presence just because the way he talks he's very assertive so you can overcome these
00:06:56.560 genetic uh you know phallos and things of this nature but it's going to be a lot more difficult
00:07:02.080 so really what i recommend you do is just force yourself into difficult situations that's the
00:07:07.920 point of the video right um force yourself to practice force yourself to converse with people
00:07:13.920 and that's what's going to make you nt right because you obviously can't be sustainably drinking and using
00:07:19.200 pregabalin and baclofen that's something you use really as an aid in situations that matter maybe you're
00:07:25.200 going to the club things like that but obviously in day-to-day life when you're going to school you're not
00:07:29.680 going to be on pregabalin and baclofen that'd be ridiculous to suggest so just forcing interactions
00:07:37.200 with people is amazing learn the body language that's what nt is nt is not the content of what
00:07:42.560 you say right you can really talk about whatever the you want uh especially if it's with girls
00:07:48.240 talk about looks maxing and you could talk about pharmacology it doesn't matter to how you convey it
00:07:53.360 are you able to make eye contact are you sitting around looking a little aspie like this you know 1.00
00:07:58.160 what i mean that's that's really what it comes down to because i've experienced this i talk about looks 0.97
00:08:02.800 maxing in my day-to-day life i talk about roiding talk about all this crazy shit and no one really 0.73
00:08:08.160 assumes that i'm neurodivergent uh you know because of that right if they were to assume that i was
00:08:13.920 neurodivergent it would be simply due to my you know expressions uh you know the way that i interact with
00:08:20.080 people and that used to be the case right i used to be pretty aspy if you guys watch my old videos
00:08:25.520 you see the way that i interact with people sure i was very autistic but i really have overcome this
00:08:31.840 a lot and i would say that working in a restaurant as a server work in the service industry and work
00:08:37.280 as a hostess work as anything that's going to force social interactions micro interactions guys this
00:08:44.320 is the key so really uh once you figure that out and get a job and start dealing with co-workers
00:08:50.960 just going to help your life in such a big way and i started doing this when i was you know about 14
00:08:55.840 years old so it really is the earlier the better because if you could uh outdo people socially it
00:09:02.320 really is just going to be such a halo in your life uh you know you're going to be more commanding
00:09:06.240 over rooms when you're giving speeches they're going to come across a lot more fluent just everything
00:09:11.680 gets better right the social pill and the charisma pill is quite literally everything and don't give 0.94
00:09:18.080 a fuck about girls you know that's not the reason you should be doing this you should be doing this 1.00
00:09:22.560 for yourself uh for the quality of your life right because uh anything requires charisma right if you 1.00
00:09:29.120 want to do sales you got to learn how to be more fluent on the phone right and that's going to come from
00:09:33.280 talking to people this is how you practice right if you're a salesman uh you're going to have to do 0.96
00:09:38.000 thousands of cold calls before you know what the fuck you're doing uh but this is the same thing 0.97
00:09:42.080 with micro interactions you're gonna have to talk to a thousand girls before you figure it out but i 0.98
00:09:46.960 recommend you kind of test things out in what's called like a sandbox which is you know working
00:09:52.000 at a place that requires you to have micro interactions whether that be a hotel lobby manager
00:09:56.560 where you're talking to people every day hey how's your day going stuff like this this is going to make
00:10:01.200 you so much more nt uh believe me it really helped my life a lot so if you found any tips from this
00:10:07.920 video useful please uh give this video a like and i really appreciate you guys for tuning in